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He and i have been friends my freshman year of high school and im in college now. Since im starting college soon that mean ive been busy with preparing for my classes, studying and planning yada yada. Busy college stuff. we are just friends but sometimes i think he has a slight crush on me. He and i went to six flags a few years back and i noticed in every picture i took with him he was leaning in so close to me. Think of the "green line effect". i leaned in too but this dude LEAANNEEDD. After our amusement park trip he planned a trip to a golf course and it was amazing i might add. He was really sweet and funny lol. We went and got ice cream after and when it was time to leave he hugged me, again thats that is what friends do so im gonna let that bit slide.
He asked me if i wanna go to a fair with him the other day and i had to turn him down cuz i had to get my college supplies and textbooks for class that starts in a few days...and yes i felt so bad. Just today he asked me if i wanna to another fair with him, im a amusement park kind of girl but fairs are really cool too. I told him that i am down to go with him and i just noticed how may times he asked to do things with me. I do find him attractive and may develop a crush on him but ive been focused on alot of other things and not my feelings i have for ppl at the moment.
A few months ago he and his FAIMLY was going on a road trip and he invited me to hang with him and his family. omg. sooo uhhh does he like me? I personally have no clue. | Crushes |
So a while back I had a big crush on this girl, and apparently she liked me at the same time. Absolute fail on my behalf 😂 | Crushes |
It’s the third day of school :3 | Crushes |
Never thought I would come to Reddit for advice but I am in desperate need. Today was my first day of school. I go to a 6-12 school and this is my 4th year attending, I’m a freshman. Ever since I saw this boy in 8th grade, I just KNEW I had to so something about him but I was scared to because he was around so many popular girls. Over this past summer, I’ve been thinking about him and hoping that I would have classes with him, and I do. We have biology together and to top it off, since my last name starts with C and his with D, the seating chart was put into alphabetical order and we sit less than a foot apart. There are only 5 girls in my bio class including me, and the popular group from last year kind of died and dwindled away, and most of them went off to different high schools. We talked a lot in class today and turns out we have a lot in common, despite the fact that I am madly in love with him, I don’t know much about him since I didn’t get a chance to talk to him last year. we talked about sports, volleyball in particular, and turns out he’s trying out to be a middle blocker next season, I’m a middle blocker too, my season starts tomorrow. I also mentioned that my friend is a setter and when I left school, she texted me that he asked her about our volleyball team. So now everything is in my favor. What do I do now? You have to help me, there’s so many fugly boys at my school and he’s the only one who’s my type. He checks all the boxes, he’s 6’2, blonde, blue eyes, everything omg, I NEED TO SHOOT MY SHOT THIS YEAR. | Crushes |
So during the past school year there was a girl I was pretty into but never actually sure enough if she liked me to ask her out or anything. We had sat next to each other in a class and talked almost the entire time to the point the teacher literally said to stop taking multiple times. Way too much of the stuff I said to her she laughed at even if I didn’t think it was funny and she got red a lot especially when we had to hold hands for something that the teacher was demonstrating, then she kept bringing it up through the school year as if it was a big deal. Eventually though after me not doing anything I just started trying to get over her. By now I thought I had but something made me realize I’m not. It’s something stupid that means nothing but it helped me realize that I am not over her like I thought i was. I’m on vacation as I am a lot, which everyone knows, but long story short rain happened so we drove 2 hours to Disney World because we were bored (which we already go to multiple times a year and that’s a well known thing at my school for some reason). Anyways I decided to post about it and I like barely have anyone that follows me and barely anyone even noticed my post but she was one of the first people who liked it and that small little thing made me realize that I do still care about her, because it felt weird when I saw the notification. I know it isn’t much, but it just helped me realize. And honestly, now that I feel that way again, it’s starting to make me want to improve myself more than I already have been focused on, and it’s making me feel better in life. I used to think that it was just a distraction but now it feels like better motivation to work on myself.
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Tl;dr small thing made me realize I still like crush who I was crazy for during the school year, now I have better motivation in life and want to improve myself even more. | Crushes |
I’m a 14 year olds and I have a crush on this guy, we're not very close and live in a whole other country, but we have talked but not very consistently. I wanna start talking to him again since it's been a while but the thing is I have no idea what to talk about or how I can even keep in touch considering the
different times zones.
I understand this may be a hard thing to answer but if you have an idea of what I can do please let me know. | Crushes |
1.) I ignored her cuz of social anxiety and shyness
2.) She still breaks out into a smile when she see's me, its a knee jerk reaction. She still gets some kind of pleasure when she see's me.
3.) like 3 weeks ago, we normally take the same train from work, she knew this. Normally she would follow me like walk behind me and in front of me to try to get me to notice her. This time she went to a different train away from me. But, the craziest thing happened next.
So, she gets on the train and I intentionally miss my train to see where she goes. She went to a different train but I can see her. The first thing she does when she gets on the new platform is to check where I am. I been watching her to when she turned and saw me looking she got shocked. I saw her feel this jolt. And bam, the train comes in between us. It was something straight from a movie. It felt like art. Anyways, how can I get her back? | Crushes |
So we don’t have any classes together but we have the same lunch every day so that’s a good place for conversation. For 3 days in a row now I’ve sat next to her at lunch but my brain stops working and I can’t think of a single thing to say. I think today she might have been about to tell I wanted to talk to her cause she just randomly said hi to me during lunch and then later near the end of lunch asked how my day was. She’s almost always busy after school so I can’t really text her that much and it feels like I’m blowing my one chance to actually talk to her. If anyone could share methods for starting good conversations I would greatly appreciate it. | Crushes |
Lately whenever I text her she either responds immediately or never responds which is why I’m confused. When we first started texting a few months ago she said that if she doesn’t respond it’s because she is just busy or can’t use her phone which makes me feel slightly better, but I mean you probably have to see the text at some point. Also she’s a really nice person and I don’t think she would ignore me, but I’m worried she might not have me high enough in her priorities to check to see if I texted her. Is this a valid concern or am I overthinking things? | Crushes |
Anyways, I was impulsive and basically sent a message telling my crush I like them 2 days ago. Now today was their birthday and I told them happy bday in which they responded “Hey, thanks”
Like do I ask them about it or should I leave it alone…
I don’t know what to do😢😔 | Crushes |
off to college he goes. got him his favorite candy and some cookies. i’m gonna miss him. :( | Crushes |
just out of curiosity lets say they both like each other and know it, after a certain amount of dates how long will it take for the guy to ask the girl | Crushes |
Today was my first time seeing my crush in months. A lot has happened since then and I’ve had lots of personal growth that I’m super proud of but that’s for another time. Basically if you read my old posts things got worse and worse and a couple months ago good news was few and far between. In the time since then I haven’t seen her and I decided not to worry and that everything would work out the way it was supposed to. Then I saw her. I saw her and I realized how much I like her. I also realized how our relationship as friends was basically ruined because of a stupid rumor. We are strangers now just like we were 3 years ago. | Crushes |
**TL;DR**: I’ve been crushing on this sweet boy for about half a year now, and now that I’m seeing him back in school (we have the same class), I can’t stop thinking about him. I have his Instagram and we’ve texted before but very very little, and the last two times I’ve been left on read. I’m scared to go up to him and talk as we are both very shy. What should I do?
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Oh the wonders of a crush. Ever since I’ve seen my crush in school, I can’t stop thinking about him. I try to keep my mouth shut around friends so I don’t annoy them, but usually something comes out about him. I feel like I should so something, but I have no idea where to start. Honestly, I probably should get over him, as he’s likely not interested, but this is my first serious crush and the first person I’ve ever met in my 17 years of life that really matches my interests (and is adorable af)
With talking in person, it’s possible but very difficult. We have math class together, and though we’re in the same group, he sits a few desks away from me— not talking distance. We will likely be in the same study group (yes we’re nerdy), but that won’t start for awhile. In this group, he knows everybody but me because they’re all in band together. I would feel uncomfortable going up to him alone and talking to him, but thankfully we have a friend in common. She’s trying to wingwoman this year and get us together, but she’s as lost as I am as in where to start
With texting, I probably shouldn’t. This is where his flaws come into play. I’ve texted him before, specially apologizing for something minor I did (ran into him while dancing a prom), and he responded quite quickly. He was super sweet about it. Problem is, I waited 24 hours to respond because I was nervous, and he never responded back to that. A month later, I texted him again expressing appreciation for something he posted, and I never got a response. He’s not too active on social media, but that fact he never responded shows he’s probably not interested. I probably should refrain from texting
So, anyway, what should I do? Talk to him? How? Get over him? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you!
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Basically, weve met in a camp and i really liked her, im 16M and she is 15F, so ive confessed to her after a week, and she said that she likes me too and weve been together for a month , then she sent me a text saying that she didnt actually like me , she said that she was confused about her feelings and that she kept lying to me and herself, she apologized and after a couple of days i found out that she was already dating another guy while lying to me, we are still talking up to this day, i still like her but i dont know if i should give up or no, she said that she just didnt feel the sparkle, i was trying my hardest to keep her since her personality, looks and everything are tiera higher than mine , i dont see her almost at all now since we live pretty far away from eachother but im still hoping that in the future ill be able to move closer to her, maybe im trying to hard, maybe im too desperate, but the reason of it is that she is the first girl that ive actually liked, despite me being 16, until ive met her i didnt see anyone as my type and i couldnt find anyone with a personality id like, she was the first girl ive confessed to and now i dont know what to do. | Crushes |
Hey guys, now Idk if this will motivate you or make u call me out for my ignorance but whatever. I just wanted to ask those who have crushes on their best friend or childhood friend and are scared to confess in fear of ruining the relationship : why are you scared? Do you know how fortunate you are? Many people have unrequited crushes on others just cuz they don’t have the guts or reason to approach a person they barely might know. You have their attention and their trust so then why r u scared? Me for example, I have had a ton of crushes and only 1 was on a friend. Also, they are YOUR CLOSEST FRIEND so they shouldn’t end any relationship. If they do, they are not a good friend at all. Alr peace | Crushes |
*Over Text*
Me: You doing anything for your birthday? I mean I’m sure you are, but if you aren’t would you maybe wanna go get ice cream?
Her: I'm not, but my sisters dog bit me and now I just feel like staying home
Does that sound genuine or should I accept it as rejection? I know some girls will make up excuses to not hurt the others feelings, but I can’t tell if that’s an excuse or a genuine reason. To me it seems genuine only because if it were an excuse I’d personally have just said I was doing something on my birthday and was busy. But she confirmed she wasn’t doing anything, and followed up with not being able to go still due to an Injury. I know I sound like I’m reaching for an answer other than rejection, but truthfully her answer just has me curious on if I am reaching or not. It’s silly, but what do y’all think? | Crushes |
Well, we walked to school together. We don't have each others phone number.
We thrown popcorn at each other in my new English class. He asked me for my snapchat (I dont have snap)
I dont know my feelings yet, but is this just me overthinking.
His family are super Christian, but I don't think he is. He's nice, smart, he's kind. I think I would be overwhelmed to date, if I was to date him. It would slow. I get nervous in new situations, I've never been in before
Should I ask him if he likes me? Or should I sit down and wait? | Crushes |
I'm a very shy boy so I'm building up the courage to just have a conversation with her since we both like horror movies, im wanting to see if we have anything else in common. Wish me luck!
Edit: it went well! We might be meeting up to watch a movie! | Crushes |
We had our past and we have our present.
When we kissed I did not know how to feel, it being awkward afterwards showed both of us that it will not work out.
Now, 2 years later we still look at each other. I want to look at you the whole time. I miss you when I do stuff with our friends without you. But I know you do not feel the same way anymore.
And I know you loved me, I know I told you I do not know how to feel. I know that you gave up and that you are still attracted to me.
However I do not know what to feel.
I told you that I have never been in love and that I do not know if I will ever be.
But now I know that I lied to myself and to you. When we talked 2 weeks ago I could have said what I know. I could have said that I know that my feelings changed over the years. I know that I like you more than others. I know that we are the most similar and different. I know that we could be good together.
But still, there is so much I don’t know. So I did not say anything. | Crushes |
So I have a crush on a girl for like 6 months now. But sometimes I feel that she won't like me back and reject me. There's another girl who I know likes me ao I'm confused whether I should go for my crush or the girl that likes me. | Crushes |
Ouch. It hurt.
My crush(F) of a few month and one of my best friend(M) are now in couple.
She terribly loves him, I still remember how she looked at him and stare at his eyes at our last party.
He seems to loves her less than she loves him, which tends to drive me crazy when you know what a beautiful person she is.
I'd admit I'm a bit jalous but i'm sincerely happy for both of them. | Crushes |
She may not like me back, but she didn't react weirdly, and she even reassured me that when I do get a gf she will be super lucky to have found me because she still thinks I'm a great guy, so essentially I was friendzoned in a good way which is actually what I wanted
I think that was all I needed to hear to finally move on, I feel so much better now | Crushes |
I have this girl who I think likes me, and I want to be relatively sure that they like me before I post a fully fledged about them. Any subtle signs that someone likes you that usually go unnoticed? (I know I can just look it up, but it's all the same signs they give that everyone knows about) | Crushes |
My crush is giving me mixed signals. He teases so much to the point of getting a reaction out of me. We laugh and joke around a lot at work, and few people kind of pick up something is there between us. On the other hand, he always brings up guys who potentially show an interest in me but says it in a manner like, "oooo I think he likes you!" And smiles. If he liked me, wouldn't it bother him and he wouldn't push me to date other guys?
I do remember this one time he asked me out of the blue if I was seeing anyone. It was more subtle but still, a bit of a weird question when you are first getting to know someone.
My first instinct is I think we just get along well and enjoy each other's company, but can't help but feel like something's there. The laughter, banter, the smiling and jokes, eye contact... 😳 | Crushes |
Either their looks or personality or how you feel etc.
It would be interesting to see how everyone describes their crushes!! | Crushes |
i met this girl on tinder and we talked on the phone and we are suppose to hang out on wednesday but now she left me on read. this does mean we aren't going to hang out right? should i text her to see? but i'm thinking let it be. | Crushes |
I'll start. I told him I liked him and he thought I was joking. I haven't had the heart to tell him otherwise. | Crushes |
this might be long, I just need another person's speculation and opinon
I've been friends/bestfriends with this boy for around 3-4 months (I'm a female and we're both above 13) I am under the impression he likes me because of these reasons, a few days ago he started cuddling with me when I sat down, sitting beside me, putting on a yt video and putting his arm around me and his head on my shoulder, he does this everywhere now. to give you further insight even one of our friends commented on it like 'you guys look like a couple' which we both just smiled too
he would also grab my hand and hold it, tracing it with his thumb and gripping it, he did this everywhere too.
he has talked about future plans for us, doing stuff together when we're older and stuff like that, and overall being very close to me
idk if this is natural for friends but he always takes my hats, gives me his hats, takes my bracelets, rings and gloves, taking pictures of wearing them
I am very confused at the moment but I don't think there's any platonic explanation for all of this, if anyone can help me with this please do! | Crushes |
So i have a crush shes replied to my story twice and ive dmed her once we met once like 8 months ago. The dms took place like the last 2 weeks. I want to follow her on vsco because she doesnt post on insta at all and i dont know if its weird to follow out of the blue. And if i do follow is it weird to dm her about her posts on vsco? Again only dmed three times and they were only 1 topic and not really flirty at all. HELP | Crushes |
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Sooooo there is this guy and we became quite good friends over the past six months, and I don't have a lot of friends so that means a lot to me. Somehow I developed a crush on him (because he's not only sweet but like super hot) and he's way out of my league PLUS he has like a soulmate, he isn't in a relation with her, but I see the way they look at each other (she is also a friend of mine) and while they decided now s not the time for them, i stopped my crush (as a good friend, because I have few and don't want to ruin that). I even once told him I was afraid of losing them (didn't dare to say just him haha) and he said I would never.
Before that we were quite close, we teased each other and just straight up told each other we cared and that we had an amazing time. We gave each other compliments like kinda flirty behaviour, but I've seen him do this on more girls who are also 'just friends'
BUT there was this party and we got way to drunk and he kissed me. And I vaguely remember him saying he likes me but my black outs kinda make sure I don't know as a friend or like really like. We had a conversation after that party to ask if we were okay with what happened. (we both were ok).
So my question now is: does he like me, because he's kind of a player so a kiss might not mean that much to him, but also why kiss a friend if you don't like her at least a bit like that? | Crushes |
So there is this boy who says that he‘s shy (that’s why I start most of the conversations) but he still sends me emoji’s with hearts and always answers. I know him from rl but I also matched him on a dating app where he said that he’s searching for a relationship. Right now he doesn’t respond immediately (which is at least partly because he is in an other country and doesn’t have much internet there) but there was a time where we communicated for one hour straight. After some hinting he also suggested that we should watch a movie together (we‘ll do that in about a week)
How would you say are his feelings for me.
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i hated so much of what i went through with this. in no way am i over her but i finally made the decision to cut her off. having strong feelings is all new to me so it really just felt like a breakup. we then got into an argument because for whatever reason, she doesn’t think it’s a good idea for us to stop talking. she never said that exactly but when i brought it up to her she got super defensive. she didn’t make it easy too she was making it seem like i had a huge urge to do it when it reality it was one of the hardest things for me to do. i liked her for about a year now and i spent the second half of it just trying to suppress my feelings as much as i could. i always had this feeling in the back of my head that she knew what she was doing. when i first asked her out, she told me she has mixed feelings toward me because she isn’t ready for a relationship. now me being the dumbass that i am decided “why not stick around and wait”. fast forward to now when i told her that i liked her but we had to stop talking, she kept acting like i was asking her out and she gave me the same bs response she did a year ago. truthfully i wasn’t even asking her out, i only told her about my feelings so i could have a valid reason to stop talking to her. she tried to argue that she DID have feelings for me but i didn’t believe her for several justified reasons. then she just felt attacked and that i was ‘making her out to be the bad guy’ which was weird because i never even said anything mean or hurtful knowing she’s very sensitive, i just told her the reasons i don’t believe she ever even liked me. either way though in her story i’m the bad guy. she doesn’t seem to really care anymore though, she’s still caught up with a dude who rejected her about a month ago. there is such a vicious cycle on one sided relationships it’s crazy.
my reason for saying all of this is because i know somewhere in this world, likely in this subreddit, that there is someone getting played bad by their crush. as baffling as it might be, some people only keep you around because of the attention you give them. please don’t be me, quit while you’re still ahead. if they like you back then that’s awesome. but if you question their feelings toward you, don’t wait around for an answer. make the bold decision to move on from them. anyway that’s about it, thanks for reading. | Crushes |
Can I have an F in the chat? | Crushes |
If you don't know how to play for some reason, basically one person says "truth or dare" then the other person answers, with either "truth" or "dare" and then the other person gives you a truth or a dare depending on which you picked!
Let's keep it focused on our crushes, and anyone can answer anyone's comment! I'll put out a comment and you comment "Truth or dare" too!
Edit: I'm gonna be gone until noon PST soon so uhhhhh I guess I will have notifications when I come back from camp!
Edit 2: AHHH 49 NOTIFICATIONS IN 3 HOURS??M I also got like 15 more while replying. Y'all there's a lot of comments, and like 50 took me around half an hour but if I haven't replied, don't worry, I'll get to yours!
Edit 3: I gotta go to bed, cya tomorrow, I'll probably stop replying sometime tomorrow, but feel free to reply to others' comments | Crushes |
This is not going to be long but she posts things about me on her snap story and I feel so happy, this is one of my best relationships yet! 😊 | Crushes |
it gets me all depressed and i hate myself for having them because i just fall in love with people who would never like me back. gushing is fun but i just don’t like to have crushes. especially since it’ll never work out anyway. i’ve developed a crush too recently and i am disliking the experience (also, because the crushes or on my friends i couldn’t just stop talking to them because that’s horrible behaviour. but it still hurts whenever i even message them. also i always tell myself i’d never get crushes, it showed me signs of weakness simply because i promised i’d never cry over anyone who i “fell in love” with. but it already happened and i don’t know why i even bother) | Crushes |
This is a really long post, so sorry in advance.
I (18F) have known this guy (18M) for a few months now and we've been talking for almost a month. We're both very awkward and passionate theatre actors/nerds, and we were in a community production together. We only started talking after the show was over, but I still noticed him during the production. Since then, we have hung out four times.
The first time, we played Magic: The Gathering at his house until we went to Dairy Queen and saw Thor 4. The second time, I met his dog and we played Magic again, and I met his parents. The third time was his graduation party where I met his friends (a majority of which are girls in theatre) as we played volleyball, badminton, and Mario Party, and we all got along really well. The last time, we went to Five Guys, Walmart, and a local ice cream shop. He is now working at a theatre internship about 150 miles away, and I will be going to college about 300 miles away.
I know that I absolutely adore him. He's funny, sweet, kind, good-looking (in my opinion), and adorable. He and his family live less than twenty minutes from me, and my father is very good friends with his father and family. Since we both want to be in theatre, we would probably both end up around the same area. All of this is to say that, in my mind, it could work.
Now is the matter of whether or not he feels the same. Sometimes I think he likes me while other times I think he hates me. He often starts/restarts conversation over text, and has told me that he likes talking to me and that I'm fun. He wants to spend time with me (literally the other night he asked me if I wanted to have a Star Wars marathon with him sometime; spoiler alert: Star Wars is really long, even if you just count the main series of episodes). He remembers things that I told him. He makes sure that I'm eating and getting sleep. He once told me out of the blue, "Cuddles sound really good right now" (I wouldn't say that unless I was really close friends with someone or if I liked them). We've talked about past relationships, what we want out of relationships/life, etc. But, he doesn't want a long-distance relationship. There are often awkward silences when we hang out. When we're texting/snapping, he'll just say "yeah" or "okay." After hangouts, he generally goes silent for a while, sometimes for over a day.
I should probably mention that I am an extreme overthinker so maybe I'm just thinking way too into these things. Either way, I'm super into him. I don't want to tell him for fear of losing a great friend, but I do want to tell him because we could be great together. I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, and I'm going to college and I'll meet plenty of guys there. But this guy reflects my morals, my interests, my desires. Even as I type this, he sends me texts and I get butterflies.
Does he like me? Should I say anything? Could this work out? | Crushes |
So I finally managed to text her, asking if she wanted to see a movie with me. That was last night. Now it's mid-morning, and she hasn't responded. I don't know if she simply hasn't been on her phone or whatever, but I'm still feeling rather anxious. | Crushes |
Im a 14/yo female and i dont have a crush on anyone (im actually bi) and im just confused about this and i havent noticed anyone having a crush on me or actually looking forward to confessing their feelings...
all i noticed is that some boys are staring at me for too long and girls are mostly just smirking but i dont know how to feel about it.
So may somebody wise tell me? | Crushes |
semi throwaway account because I use it to browse reddit
So I (f early twenties) met this guy at a house party (m early twenties/same age) and we were chatting a lot and got along really well. I could tell he was interested in me and he kept kind of holding my hand and even added himself on my phone without me prompting him. I thought he was cute but I was leaving to go out later that night and he was on the fence if he should come with me. I know I could have convinced him but since I had just met him I thought better not.
Anyways so from that night on we Snapchatted everyday and I would say we both aren’t the best type of text people where the convo is overly interesting but we did talk quite a bit and he would say things like “I want to cuddle you right now”, “you have the biggest smile” “you’re so cute” - stuff like that which literally made me melt (context: I don’t really fall for guys that easily and I’m at a stage in my life where I don’t actively seek a bf/haven’t had a bf).
Anyways we would talk mostly late at night since that’s when we were both up and most available. We were having a chat one night and I fell asleep so I didn’t open his message that said Goodnight until the morning. When I opened it I said “Good morning” and he left me on opened. I was confused and thought it was random so I left it for the whole day and then the next day I was out and saw something he was telling me about. So I sent him a snap of it and he replied and we chatted that night. He was saying cute things about cuddling/smiling and then the SAME THING HAPPENED. I fell asleep, he sent a goodnight message, I opened it in the morning and replied with Good morning, he left it on opened !!!!! I was so confused because I really liked him and that doesn’t happen often to me. I honestly thought something was wrong with me and I couldn’t justify my feelings because I never feel like that. Also, we had 17 day streak so we had been talking consistently for quite a bit since the party.
THEN, 3-4 days later he likes one of my semi recent Instagram posts. Not recent enough that it would have been in his feed. Did he want me to notice him and message him? Did I not give off the I like you vibe? Does he not like me? What does that mean?
I spoke to some friends and they said not to message him again or to ask him why he liked my post. I didn’t message him again and I didn’t ask him about the post. Another friend said he is either wanting attention/playing games, he isn’t interested or he thinks you’re not interested.
Extra context:
I had invited him out during our taking period on Snapchat to the same place I had gone the night I met him (because he said he wants to go) but he wasn’t free that night.
I checked his snap score after he left me on read (ik ik) and it hardly went up. Maybe by 4 maximum a day which is nothing.
It’s been a few weeks and I occasionally think about it. A part of me wants to see him again and a part of me doesn’t care anymore. We are both invited to a party this weekend that I can’t attend. I messaged him about it and said I was sad I couldn’t come because I was looking forward to seeing him. He said we should catchup very soon. I said yes and I’d love to come to kick ons if they are happening . He said he will definitely keep me updated. We had a brief convo and it ended. He opened my messages on Snapchat instantly - what does this mean? Does he like me?
TLDR: was talking to this guy consistently who left me on read and then liked an old Instagram post | Crushes |
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she on my mind 25/8 and during badminton competition today i wore her bracelet she made for me and everyone teased us and said i got a 'gf' buff lol help i feel so giddy rn | Crushes |
Is this a hint or a sign | Crushes |
So I’m talking to a girl that I really like we hit it off and it’s going great she’s open about everything and it started as being friends because she already liked a guy but then the guy was really toxic and she ended up blocking him. This was my opertunity I told her how much I like her on call and she sent a huge paragraph about me and what she likes about me. We talked every day and fell asleep on calls it was great but one day she told me that she dated a guy for 2 weeks for a dare and idk something fucked with me about that and one night I was on call with her and her friend and it was super laggy I cut out all the time and so did she and I overheard what I thought was her saying record him and I called her out on it and she swears she didn’t but I know I didn’t just hear it. She got mad so I just said fine my fault and moved on but now I’m starting to think I’m a joke or a dare? Apart from that she’s said she loves me but started laughing after with her friend and we agreed to meet up and go to the movies it’s all perfect apart from that and I don’t wanna bring it up again and push her away what do I do? | Crushes |
she said to me that she wouldnt mind dating me but also doesnt want to lose our friendship so we have no choice but to stay as close friends . She also said that she doesn’t want to date anybody right now because there’s a end of year test coming and shes going through some family problem right now . so i’m planning to confess to her at the end of the year , do you think this is a great idea? | Crushes |
Hello, I M18 met a girl F18 on beginning of june, we were on party of mutual friend and we were drunk, but she wasn't really drunk she was almost sober. I asked for her number she gave it to me, and than I asked her if she wanna go on a drink with me some day and she said yes. Than next day I just didn't want to text her or call her because I was drunk previous day when I got her number and thought that she was drunk too, but ok. She works in one of my dads beach bars, and I'm pretty a lot there and in last week she laughs at my jokes a lot, she tease me a bit also and she asked me if I want to hang out next day at that beach bar because she had a day off, but I couldn't because I already had other plans. Few days ago I asked her out and she said hmm we will see, I don't like that answer because I know that in almost every case that means no, but ok. And two days ago I was partying again and been a bit drunk and gain confidence to ask her to go on a concert that fruday with me. She said yeah, if I don't go to Barcelona we can go for a weekend, I was a bit confused why she said yes to a concert but not to go out with me. Than I asked her yesterday if we are still agreed on to go on a concert and she said yes. Can anybody give me any suggestion on what to do with that girl, should I go with her on that concert on friday, should I try flirting with her...?
Regards | Crushes |
Let's start from the beginning....i like her since 6(i am in 9th). She started talking with me over text first(September 17 2021). (During covid so no irl) we talked a lot and she always doubled text but i did the same. I confessed to her like in march 2022. Her reply was shocking mostly. Then i asked her if she has feeling for me she said "idk" and continued as usual. We slowly started hi hello in irl. And she also confirm if i like her about a month ago over text. And i asked again during that she said "idk" .(she kinda flirts a lot but not in a sexual way). Fast-forward today he like pulled my bag and started talking to me.
Q and A time
1) does she likes me?
2)what should I do now..continue or leave her? | Crushes |
8 signs your crush really likes you
https://youtu.be/la0hEHT-TG0 | Crushes |
So he's basically new to my workteam and it was an instant crush, saw him and my brain went "WOAH", he's the first guy I'm attracted to since my very first big heartbreak. I'm enjoying this, never thought I'd be attracted by someone else and this guy is awesome, we have the same taste in music, same hobbies and the list goes on and on and on. BUT, I'm really shy and since he's new I don't want to make him uncomfortable, I'm just crushing really hard and can't think of someone else right now.
Thank you for reading me. | Crushes |
I like him, but I know it wont work. We're best friends, and I want these feelings to go away. Anytime I see him my heart skips a beat, and I'm sick of it. I just want to see him as a friend again, and I want this crush to really go away. Anytime he talks to anyone, I just get jealous and start overthinking that he might replace me. I swear I'm going to go crazy I want these feelings to stop now. The thing is, I don't know how they'll stop. I don't even have any confidence in myself, and I have low self-esteem. I just want to get over these feelings, and love myself before I love anybody else. Does anyone have any advice? | Crushes |
So basically. There’s this guy and he is the cutest guy I’ve ever seen. But the thing is, I’ve never really had a conversation with him before. I recently developed feelings for him. I see him everyday second period and I don’t know how to approach him. Should I ask for his number? He’s pretty introverted so I don’t want to be creepy or scare him off. I don’t have social media btw. And he sits at a different spot in the room from where I sit. | Crushes |
I drew his favorite vtuber for him and he made it his pfp!! I’m so happy this is legit the best compliment ever!! | Crushes |
I’m so dumb.
I just remembered some stuff I guess. He’s not even my current crush, but I miss him. And now I’ve remembered some clear signs that I missed.
When I was visiting his cottage, I only focused on the main stuff that happened, but I didn’t focus on the small cute stuff.
In the car, he showed me a few songs and told me to pick one. I chose one and he was like ‘I knew you’d pick it!’ I was like ‘how?’ And he was like ‘I saw your tiktok saying how you loved this song!’ And now that I think about it, that was so sweet.
And he wanted me to go fishing with him, I declined because I hated it the first time we went and he begged me to go with him. I hate that I didn’t.
I really wish I had picked up on this stuff before school started because once it started he was a jerk. Now he hates me, but the summer was nice. | Crushes |
I was going downstairs. He was coming upstairs. His hair is definitely long now, and he had put it up messily with a claw clip with a strand just falling across his face.
I basically turned into a puddle and flowed down the rest of the stairs. | Crushes |
I’ve felt this way since after break, and I really want to text her about it. Should I do it or leave it alone? | Crushes |
23F and 25M We used to work together, but I quit last year and since last week I chatted him up, long hours of texting then calling, it was blissful. I told him I’d get in touch some more.
He doesn’t use social media so it was hard to stay in touch tho we met often when friends met up and such.
When we used to work together he showed interest in me, definitely as a friend but more or not I didn’t really caught on. He was touchy that’s for sure, he showed interest in what I like and we had *a lot* in common, poetry, art, films, we’re like normal friends, nicknames, inside jokes, he says thing that could be platonic, “I care about you” “I have affections for you” he’d ask me where I was sometimes. But he was always friendly to everyone, he’s an introvert however.
I think he knows I like him, I gush literally in front of him when he laughs at my jokes, hold the door or smth, but he never said anything clear about it.
He never texted me first, ok once about work but we didn’t text a lot when I was working there he did left me on read once too. He still doesn’t text me first now but it’s only been a week, left me on read Tuesday, I texted Friday if everything’s alright we had small talks for a period, I told him to text me or call sometimes when he’s free, says he’ll let me know if he gets some time, my self esteem degrading each time I text first.
Another thing that concerns me is how he texts, it’s in goddamn paragraphs, it’d take him a minute or two to ease into smaller texts but it’s been coming quick lately so maybe that’s a good sign.
I’m thinking to ask him out perhaps next week for a movie at this small cinema, I’ll be as clear as I can be over the phone “I like you, you know I like you, I think I’d like to get to know you more if you know what I mean, are you doing anything this weekend?” Seems good enough? But in an overall sense, is he into me?
TL;Dr: reconnecting with old friend, shows interest and is touchy but doesn’t text first, is he into me? | Crushes |
I texted my crush a few days ago, because we have a dance coming up very soon. At the same time, I was also texting him about plans for next weekend. Anyway, we were talking, and he originally said that he couldn’t make it for our plans next weekend because of work, but then texted me later saying that he would be able to make it. Right before he told me he could make it, I asked him if he’d be interested in going to the dance with me. His response was along the lines of, “Lol, I don’t lie dressing up, probably not”. Was I rejected? Is he oblivious I was asking him to go with me romantically? | Crushes |
i dunno what that means but it sounds kinda cool | Crushes |
She called me her family, but a few minutes before that she told me to call her tits hot, I don’t think family tells someone to call their tits hot, no? We are both trans (she’s a trans woman & I’m trans masc) so the conversation of us wanting surgery always comes up, but when she was talking about her tits I said “I don’t wanna be disrespectful so I’m not going say it” & she was like “Say it, you think my tits are hot?” & I’m like 100% sure she knows I’m attracted to her & she has said she likes me in the past. | Crushes |
As a warning this is probably going to be a bit long, but if you do read it all, THANK YOU!! i need to tell someone so bad but all my friends know him.
Theres this guy(16M) ive known for like 3 years, lets call him Mike. I(15M) Always hated Mike, was taller, had more friends, and was more attractive than me. He was my friends brother too which made me see him more which was just irritating. Around 4 months ago my friend was trying to grab something out of my hands, i kinda slapped her, VERY GENTLY AND FRIENDLY, the type of slap youd give someone if they were taking something from you yk? He was at the bus stop with us and when i looked over he gave me the scariest death stare ever. He was always pretty scary looking, not in a mean way but i mean he was like 6 foot with super dark and sharp eyes. He was probably joking since it was obvious it didnt hurt at all and he knows were friends but for some reason i wanted him to like me and that obviously wasnt a good impression since we barely talked before this, if at all. I was worrying about the way someone i hated thought of me which was really weird for me. Soon, about 3-5 times every week i would give her gifts only in front of him to make him think i was super nice. I did this for a few weeks but then i started to give her stuff that she doesnt like, that i knew jose would like so i would give it to her and then she would give it to him. After a bit i realized this just made him think his sister was nicer which was not the plan so i started to give him gifts after school 1 on 1 which was WAY TOO BOLD OF ME, but it is what it is. I would still talk about how much i hate him and i think i really didnt like him but i didnt really know why i gave him all the gifts. But then recently like a week ago i had a super weird dream that i remember super clearly. Basically i was at a beach resort and i was there with Mike, We didnt hangout much but i remember him texting me a lot without seeming obsessive and without being dry and i remember him sleeping on a couch near me. Its pretty random but the little amount of the dream i remember he was so supportive, nice, and funny, which are (kinda) traits he has in real life. Something must have clicked because overnight, i fell, and fell HARD. Im not trying to seem obsessive at all but i have 5 classes with him and its hard to pay attention in any of them, I catch him looking at me quite a bit and he doesnt even look away when we make eye contact which for some reason gives me the most 'butterflies' ive ever gotten omg. I like looking at all his cute mannerisms or the conversations he has with his friends. I joked about liking him with another group of friends way before the gifts or anything 100% as a joke but its not even a joke anymore and idk how to feel but right now i feel amazing. I feel a little crazy and obsessed but i cant stand weekends because i cant ever see him and it makes me miserable. Im over 99% sure hes straight but all the stuff he does, platonic or not makes me feel amazing, He asked me to look over his work in Language Arts today and it was hard not to stutter or mis-say anything. We may not talk at all but some eye contact and helping him with work is fine enough. | Crushes |
So during math class I overheard that his friend has a crush on me which is really..interesting? I don't know how I feel about that.
But my crush's other friends are acting really weird. At lunch my crush was pointing at me and then him and his friends just stared into my soul and then continued eating lunch.
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So theres this kid in my grade (im in highschool) ill call him Q, and he is in most of my classes, and yea i guess i have a crush on him, but i fr cant tell if he does to. i mean im good at realizing it either but whatever. basically everyday we talk, and in basically all of our classes together he ends up walking over to my desk and talking to me even tho he fr sits across the room ) and in the one class he cant walk up to me and talk to me, he just kinda side eye stares at me. Also he has been doing this thing a lot were he will like wave me over to him and whisper abt something funny that happened He also does that stupid thing where he just jokingly makes fun of me all day
But he also has a friend, ( a girl), who he does the same too, but i think he messes with me more? they just kinda chill from what ive seen
but uhhhh yea, if there is any insight i get get on this it would rily help, tyy | Crushes |
I’ve talked to him a couple times, about class, I want to start talking to him more and become friends. I have no idea how to do this though. I don’t want to ask a question about the class we share again because I’ve already done that and I don’t want it to be constantly asking a question about class when I just need a little clarification. I want to get to know him better, but we barley talk and I feel like that would be creepy. Any suggestions on other topics I could talk to him about? | Crushes |
okay ! so back when i used to wrk as a cashier in a grocery store, there used to be this guy i wrked with and i…
never spoke too him.
(yes i may be weird for liking someone who i never spoke to, but you know what? i’m embracing that part of me ! >_<)
but,,, i always thought he was cute, and i rly did want to talk to him, but my social anxiety got in the way of that so i never had the chance too, which i regret bc i wuld always catch him looking at me, which obviously meant he had some kind of interest in me.
and this may seem creepy, on the schedule sheet out names were on the same page, so i was able to find out what his last name was, so i looked him up and found his ig and twitter and wow !! we had so mch in common i feel like even if he didn’t like me bck, we wuld of been good friends ! so i missed out on a possible friendship too :(
idk i just wish i was such a coward when it comes to relationships/dating. i guess that’s jst something i need to wrk on ! ^^ | Crushes |
My friend started working at this job few months ago and he just noticed this woman actions towards him. She does not work with him directly but she kinda do things differently.
Like every time she comes to his department for work she would glance at him especially when he is not looking.
One day my friend put his head on the table, she turned around before she left and asked him "are you okay?"
My friend was having a bad day but he just responded as a joke "I was just laughing, I am having so much fun here"
She stared at his eyes for a minute other people noticed them, then she turned around and left.
She also sometimes when she finishes work early she would stick around at the front desk and watch my friend whenever he passes by.
One day my friend was at the front desk looking for a paper. She stood up and handed it to him and stood there for a minute looking into his eyes. My friend thanked her.
She kinda pulled away for few days. When she called the department once she was acting shy.
One day they both almost bumped into each other while going to the restroom, they kinda stared at each other eyes. My friend apologized to her. She said its okay.
The thing is she only works there like 4 days a month so not much chance to see her. He just started to notice her.
People seem to notice whats going on but they do not say anything.
The work place culture is so open to people dating from work. They kinda support it too.
Is it possible that she is interested? what should he do the next time he sees her? | Crushes |
hi. so i dont usually get on reddit and ask for advice but im pretty desperate for some kind words😼👍
LETS START AT THE BEGINNING!
when i was a wee little girl, i met my brothers friend; lets call him Phil. Phil was always very nice to me but to be honest i avoided him a lot because i was younger than him and i knew that i would develop a crush if i subjected myself to his cool-ness lul. But now im an adult and recently my brother and phil reconnected. This, naturally, caused all my suppressed interest to resurface. So after lots of contemplation and pep talks, I decided to request to follow on instagram. It was 11 pm at night so i didnt expect him to accept me at that instant, so i tried to forget about it and return to check the next day. the next day rolls around and… boom! nada! nothing! the big ol “requested” was still there 🧍 but then my brother tells me Phil texted him (through instagram) which tells me… he was ON INSTAGRAM, but chose to ignore my request. I got so embarrassed and immediately went to REVOKE MY SHOT. but now i feel like maybe i should’ve waited longer? Im not sure what to do now. i want to try and actually DO something about this crush, but i dunno. . . BTW my brother is okay with this! he thinks Phil is a nice guy, plus he says that im exactly Phil’s “type” (whatever that means) anyways, if anyone has any advice, please feel free to leave your input! thanks for sticking around and reading all of this :) | Crushes |
Im going crazy thinking about her so i needed to vent and ask for your advice
So i have this friend who i see every day of school and sometimes on weekends who is always nice to me and now that she has gotten more comfortable around me talks to me about everything including sexual stuff (its actualy suprising how she can slip a sexual inuendo, fact or joke in to almost any convo) and is affectionate (i cant tell if thats just what she is like or she is flirting). She has told me that she needs to find me a girlfrisnd that will apriciate me because: "those lame bitches wouldnt apriciate me", she told me i look cute with glasses, calls me cute pet names (idk if it is a joke or some flirty thing) and has these moments where she pulls me close or grabs my coat. We went to the movies about a week or two ago with one more friend and the whole movie we were leaning towards each other and brushing shoulders. We were talking the whole movie and she rested her head on my shoulder but quickly raised it twice and made comments about how sleepy she was (idk if she was actualy sleapy and her head fell or she went for a move but backed out) near the end of the movie she asked me if im sure im not gay because of a bit i did acting gay that her best friend managed to see and asked her about. I told her i sure im straight but after that she backed away and even apologised for bumping my hand (even tho she was leaning on my arm and shoulder the whole movie). After that movie things went back to normal but i couldnt stop thinking about that night. I dont know if im imaganing it but it seems like she is for a bit more flirty than before but more distant at the same time. When we see each other i have a feeling we click better (and she even told me something disturbing and emabarsing from her life what felt realy personal instead of brushing it of as personal stuff) but she takes realy long to see and/or reply to my messages over social media. I am just confused if she likes me, i dont want to ask her because i have only 3 people i can truly call friends and she is one of them and i really dont want to loose her.
TLDR: there is this girl that keeps sending me really mixed signals and i would really like to date her but she is one of my 3 true friends and dont want to ruin that. | Crushes |
Hes in my head constantly, I wanna be with him all the time but I can't and I feel depressed when I think he's doing stuff without me | Crushes |
i see him on sunday, just the two of us :) | Crushes |
I’ve got adrenaline in my bones rn! I was so embarrassed idec if he texts hahah. But he took it from my hand! Even if he doesn’t text, I’m super proud of myself that I gave it to him! And if he doesn’t text, then I’ll know if he likes me or not | Crushes |
He has no clue how I really feel about him. We are good friends. I’m not even sure if he’s into guys or not. But most likely not. I’m not even sure if he wants to even be my friend anymore. I just wish I could tell him but I know it could just make things worse and I could permanently ruin our friendship. I’m starting to wish I never even met him because of how he makes me feel. I never loved someone this much in my life I just want to move on. But why can’t I? I do everything I can to stay distracted and busy and I can’t even go one minute without him popping into my brain/ what is wrong with me??? | Crushes |
So there's this girl (F15) in my (M16) economy class who i had noticed kept glancing at me. She's very cute and i slowly also started glancing at her more and more. And, that was basically it for a few weeks, we both had very different friend groups so we didn't really do anything about it. Then, out of the blue, she follows me on Instagram. I followed her back and we started dming. We had like an hour long conv (if you want some context for a timeline, the conv just ended like 10 minutes ago as she said she was going to sleep), and we share the exact same texting style. Like exactly the same its crazy. We also both speak quite a bit of languages. We also both have Mediterranean roots kind of. Her parents had lived in Italy for a period of time which is how she learned Italian, and i have lived in Spain for like 6 years. During this conv i really noticed just how much im falling for her and how desperate i was for the conv to not die out. (She too is a great conv carrier). Anyways i know this isnt alot but like im definitely falling for herrrr | Crushes |
HE LITERALLY LOOKS LIKE A WES ANDERSON MOVIE! He is so sweet and respectful. He is on my mind 24/7 even my friend is sick of me cuz I talk about him so much. I feel like we are the same person we share the same music taste and movie taste. His smile makes me laugh everytime also his sense of humor 😭. Whenever we would talk its like his eyes melt in mine he leans in and actually listens. Everytime I see him it feels like Im about to get a nosebleed but in a good way ig? He reminds me of a golden retriever and his glasses are SO CUTE! I want to buy him a rose from school its anonymous for Valentines day but Im to shy. And his friend speculates that I like him. | Crushes |
One some days we have a lot of eyecontact and talk. Then on the next he wont even look or talk to me. One time me and my friend decided to go to the supermarket and my crush and his friendgroup already planned on going. My friend and I were riding our bike and he ignored us like we werent even in the store. Yesterday we were waiting for the teacher and my friend took my phone and scrolled through tiktok. He was looking over her shoulder trying to see what was on my fyp. Also does it mean anything when he watches shows and movies you recommend ? Because last year we barely talked and I texted him about movies and stuff. | Crushes |
i recently started to get to know a guy better, we have many mutual friends and have known of each other for years, but lately we have been talking everyday. i know that he likes me, and i feel like he knows i like him, but im worried he only likes me because he left a relationship about 2 months ago, and he is just lonely and bored.
sometimes he will tell me how appreciative he is that i listen to him, and take interest in what he has to say because he’s been feeling really lonely and bored….but im not sure if that’s the only reason he likes me, and if its not, should i still step away ?
he does make an effort to get to know me, and he is trying to hang out with me more when he can. i cant even explain how much i feel he cares about me, and how interested he seems in me, but i can’t help but to hold on to the possibility that his feelings for me might not be coming from a genuine place. maybe im just insecure…idk. | Crushes |
(Warning, I'm getting a little dramatic because its like 11 PM and I'm in bed and can't sleep)
As the title says, I'm confessing to my crush tomorrow. I've liked her for a few weeks but known her for some time before that, and I feel like we both deserve to know if we should be in a relationship. I really don't care too much about what she says. I'm positive she likes me back and is willing to at least try being with me, but on the other hand ahemay have a reason we can't be together. If she says no, I can continue with my life without that extra weight on my shoulders and focus on other stuff I need, so it doesn't matter too much. I guess I won't ever know if I stay in my bubbleand never try to find out the truth abtout how she feels about me.
Anyways, I'm done. I'll look forward to your words of encouragement. | Crushes |
so I have crush on this guy that works at a shop that’s close to me i don’t know why I have a crush on him since I know nothing about him but my heart flutters every time I see him and I literally struggle to talk every time I talk to him. I don’t even know anything about him I just know his shift hours & I see him every weekend and sometimes I would stop by just to see him. I’m not sure if I should confess or just move or on, in my country it’s not normal to date before marriage at all so I really don’t know what to do. | Crushes |
If my crush somehow were to find my Reddit account, he’d know instantly that I have a crush on him, and him specifically. | Crushes |
So like there’s this guy in my class and I kinda keep gravitating towards him. But only in school outside of school I’m in my own world. So I thought I had a crush on him but my friend told me that were just really similar and that we could be friends. And yeah I do feel like we could be friends and now I realize how similar we really are we’re both one of the top of our class (not to brag) we walk the same talk the same got the same type of humor he’s basically the male version of me but just more athletic and outgoing . So I’m kinda confused do I just wanna be friends, do i have a crush or is it something else? | Crushes |
I’m sorry, this is gonna be a long post, LMAO
So my (F15) crush (M16) literally always makes me happy and giggly inside when ever I see or text him. We’ve known each other since the start of Sophomore year. I live in the suburbs, and he lives 30 minutes away in the country. I never was like into country boys before, but when I met him, that changed.
The way he dresses is so cute to me. The dark blue jeans and cowboy boots is so CUTE! He also has a really cool beautiful mullet. It’s not a long one, he said he thinks those lion weird. Goes down to his shoulders and that’s it.
That southern accent and drawl with his deep voice is so fluttering. I love hearing him speak, I adore his voice.
He’s also a really big guy. He’s 6’4 and I thin 285 pounds. He’s not really fat, he’s got a stomach, but it’s toned and he’s got big muscles in his shoulders, arms, and leg. Plus, I love bellies. I feel like cuddling with a bigger person is so warm and cozy. Muscles are my biggest physical attraction. He plays football at our school, and he just recently got an offer already from a college in Arkansas.
His sense of humor is amazing. I love a guy who can make me genuinely laugh, or else I get… Zzzzzzz. One time in our 3rd period, we finished an assignment we working on, and he took my paper and said he will turn it in for me, then a mutual friend across him asked if he would take his paper too, and he said “No… you got two legs…”. It was the most commonly used dad joke, but if the situation we were in made it funny, LOL.
Anyways, I want to ask him out for Valentine’s Day… BUT IM SO SHY!!!!! I feel like when I’m gonna try to ask him out, imma head his voice and then just start having a heart attack and die. But I also don’t want to miss my chance. IDK if he likes me back either. He’s the most respectful, sweet, hardworking 16 year old I’ve me. My ex treated me like shit, and so do a lot of guys at school. Most guys just view me as an object. | Crushes |
so this is kind weird, airing out my business and what not but im just really confused and i dont really have anyone to talk about it to.
So theres this kid in my grade ( im in highschool ) ill call him Q, and he is in most of my classes, and yea i guess i have a crush on him, but i fr cant tell if he does to. i mean im good at realizing it either but whatever. basically everyday we talk, and in basically all of our classes together he ends up walking over to my desk and talking to me ( even tho he fr sits across the room ) and in the one class he cant walk up to me and talk to me, he just kinda side eye stares at me. Also he has been doing this thing a lot were he will like wave me over to him and whisper abt something funny that happened
He also does that stupid thing where he just jokingly makes fun of me all day
But he also has a friend, ( a girl ), who he does the same too, but i think he messes with me more? they just kinda chill from what ive seen
but uhhhh yea, if there is any insight i get get on this it would rlly help, tyy | Crushes |
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I have been crushing for this guy at my work for all the time I’ve been working there which is 4 months now, but we don’t really talk, and I’m very shy around him. About a week ago I was messing around and I sent risky snaps to him while I was drunk with the text “I wanna be choked” to him, and he agreed to do it. I was shocked, but so excited to meet him up which was around 2 AM on a Saturday. He just came back from a bar, so he was quite drunk. He picked me up, and we drove off somewhere where no one could see us. We spoke a bit in the car and then we had sex. After we had done it, I asked him if he would do this again with me and he said yes, occasionally. I was so happy after we had done it, I am so extremely attracted to him. I felt like I had fallen in love after we did it, I felt so lucky and couldn’t stop thinking about it for days. I know that he wouldn’t date me or anyone, he has told me that before we went and did it, he doesn’t want anything serious. And the next time we saw each other at work he kept locking eyes with me and being friendly towards me and I thought he might’ve liked me. But after a few days, we had a chat about what happened on Saturday, he told me that it would not be happening again. He said that he can’t do that with coworkers, at first he said “idk” then he said he doesn’t want to and he’s not feeling it. I asked him if he enjoyed it he said of course. I don’t understand why he wouldn’t want to do it again if he enjoyed it, it makes me so frustrated and then I got really drunk again and confessed my feelings towards him and I think I scared him off and now it feels so awkward seeing him at work and I feel like I’m in pain every time I see him, because I want him so bad, I don’t understand why he would do it with me then decide not to anymore. How do I convince him? | Crushes |
I've fallen in love with girls for years, so I'm kind of clueless as to how to identify whether or not a boy likes you.
The girls I've had a crush on generally started by asking 'innocent' questions ("so, are relationships something you're going for right now ?", "has anyone caught your eye lately ?", etc.) : Would boys do that ? I mean, everyone's different but is that something most boys do ?
Also, if you, like, tell him there's something you like and suddenly he becomes a fan of it (but tries to make you believe he was always a fan of it), that definitely means he likes you right ?
Or, say, you make a joke and it's not even that funny but he laughs out loud and overreacts and acts as if that was the best joke he's ever heard, is he trying to gain my attention or is he just really stupid 😕 ?
Like I said, clueless. | Crushes |
So I have this crush on a senior in my Uni. I even cooked for him and his friends one day, but he hasn't thanked him yet.
So anyways I was taking a nap yesterday and I woke up at 7 or 8 pm ..I am not sure about the timing. So in my dream I was eating ice-cream and when I woke up, I wanted to taste ice cream. It was very cold outside, and the nearest store is at a 10-15 minutes walk.
So I called all my friends to know whether they are out, so that they can buy me an ice-cream when they are on their way back. But unfortunately everyone was inside their room and told me that they don't want to go out in the cold.
So my last option was to call my crush, but since I wasn't that close with him, I thought texting would be a much better option, even though I knew that he is not someone who checks the text on time ...
I texted him at 8pm . I was anxiously waiting for his reply. Honestly I wanted to recall/unsend my text, but I decided against it. I wanted to try my luck. 12 am came, and I thought that maybe he saw my text ,but didn't felt the need to reply.
I was sad , but I was okay with it..
Anyways he texted me back at 1 am , telling me that he was outside the whole time and I could have called him earlier. So I replied that I thought he was busy. And I also told him that the reason I texted him was because I wanted ice cream and I also told him about the dream that I had and I also told him that if this happens again, I will call.him for sure..
After a 30 minutes or so, he responded with a laughing emoji😂😂 and I also send the same and I again told him that I will call him the next time for sure..
(I send that to test my luck) ... anyways he hasn't responded..so I think it's the end of that convo..but I am okay.. | Crushes |
Ok so basically now I’m gonna tell you a long story about how it all started so if you don’t want to read then the title already said it all.
Well it all started when I suddenly noticed him looking at me from time to time. I was kinda scared at first because he could just sit with his friends near the classroom and observe me talking to my friends.
I just started thinking about him, I was like “hm why does he look at me like that” etc in my thoughts and as you know thinking about someone for a long time makes you fall in love with that person :/
Actually maybe a week ago he stopped doing this I mean I no longer catch those looks from him how it was before. Some things also changed, for example his friends started to look at me more (idk maybe they’re checking if I’m looking at crush or something else idk srsly), that one guy (also his friend) became more friendly towards me (can it be connected to my crush?) uknow.
I feel like when I get to know the reason of his behaviour I will no longer be interested in him, but that’s okay since I fell in love with him only because of his strange actions.
So if anybody can tell something about this — feel free to write your opinion in comments
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Hey. So back in november i did something really stupid. i asked out a girl way out of my leagye. we'd never hung out outside of school even by common friends and stuff. anyway she friendzoned me, but i think im killing the friendship bcz i cant even talk to her bcz im so scared. im mostly silent around her, and she talks a lot more with other guts. i wanna be her friend again. what do i do? | Crushes |
Maybe I'm delusional, since we're pretty much strangers but I feel like my crush started caring about his appearance more because of me. I just don't know, whether he does it because he wants to scare me off or because he wants to impress me. The first time that I saw him was at the end of September. He had a frizzy beard, which looked like it's been there for a couple of months and he used to have messy hair, which I know made him look really unattractive for other girls. At the beginning of December, he noticed (at least I'm REALLY sure) that I liked him and a week later, his beard was suddenly gone. He also has been shaving it since then. Like 2 weeks ago, he started looking at me from a distance, without me having to look at him first and today I noticed, that he suddenly has a hair cut, which is considered to be more "attractive". I always try to look as good as possible when I know I'm going to see him, so maybe he tries to do the same, but I'm really not sure. | Crushes |
After almost half a year going by without really having a crush (which was very relieving) I'm back here. I'm now crushing on a girl... who I don't even know (she's a year below me). Also we have never talked before except for that one very brief group conversation a about two months ago. I do have a lot to do with people from her year before but it doesn't change anything about the fact I don't have a single thing to do with her, yet my brain is doing this to me... Besides, in a few months I'll be taking my finals and moving away for university anyway | Crushes |
she ghosted me for 2 days but today i caught her looking at me several times. should i try talking to her again?
what we have talked before: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/10kww7f/my\_crush\_is\_ghosting\_me\_after\_talking\_to\_her/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/10kww7f/my_crush_is_ghosting_me_after_talking_to_her/) | Crushes |
yesterday i was sooo lonely i seached ''360 hugging'' on youtube and i clicked at 360 anime cuddling video(i am not into anime) and just cried like she was saying good things like ''i love you'' and i said in my mind ''oh shit man this is a robot saying this to me,i hoped to said this words to me by a real human , not a robot'' then i cried. please help me to solve this mental problem plz | Crushes |
I'm a transferee and for a few months now and is still inlove with someone,a part of me still likes her despite confessing to her and still has no response to it,but a part of me wants to remove those feelings and move on,I genuinely want to talk to her but because of the confession it's hard to make a conversation without making it hard,I shouldve bottled those feelings longer before talking to her,I envy her friends to be honest and I wished I could've been one of those friends.This is rlly one of the biggest Ls I have taken so far in life and it shows. | Crushes |
He always gives me such mixed signals. One day he’s super friendly and nice to me and the next he’s acting weird around me with zero explanation. I’m not sure if he can somehow tell that I like him or not. I was planning on never telling him but now it seems like he already knows anyway. Also my other friend told me that she doesn’t think my crush likes people and would rather be alone. This really hurt me because I thought that since I can’t have a romantic relationship with him that I can still have a platonic one with him. But now since my friend says that she thinks that he doesn’t like being around people is making me realize that I can’t even be friends with him anymore. I keep thinking I’m annoying him or something every time I talk to him. This is literally destroying me mentally and I don’t know what to do. It’s such a hopeless situation. To make everything worse he’s my coworker so I have to see him pretty often as well. I’m just so screwed beyond belief. | Crushes |
when I know he’s around I’m not as loud or myself and focus on looking pretty and I feel I have a huge rbf lmao , I don’t wanna be like this but idk how to stop it bcos when I’m in class I just get so into myself ?? social anxiety is not helping >.> | Crushes |
i got 2 tickets to a bowling alley not long ago, so i decided to invite her
she said "Keep your tickets for you don't worry"
i replied that if i invited her, i didn't to keep the tickets for me, and if she didn't want to go, it'd be okay
she didn't reply and moved on to another subject
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do i have my answer guys | Crushes |
I didn't even know she plays bass, my dad plays bass so my fascination for it is quite big, just when i thought i couldn't like her any more she pulls up that thing
Damn... | Crushes |
I was holding my chapstick in my hand. She grabbed my hand with both of hers, then smelled my chapstick and said that she really likes the smell of it.
Ahhhh, she's soo cutee | Crushes |
Just need to get it out my system.
I have never gotten male attention as much as I do now that I’ve moved to a new country and I love it, who wouldn’t?
When I walk into the same room as my crush stops whatever he’s doing and just stares he also finds a reason to come over to my side of the room.
Oh gosh I love it!!!
We don’t see each other regularly but one time he hadn’t seen me in weeks and he just stopped and stare as I was walking down the hallway. Like he couldn’t believe his eyes.
last week I saw the sexiness and as soon as he heard my voice behind him he turned around with such swiftness. I was trying to ignore him but it didn’t work.
I want him so badly, the sexual tension is getting to be too much at this point.
Just needed to share :) | Crushes |
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