selftext
stringlengths 1
40k
| subreddit
stringclasses 2
values |
|---|---|
im (30f) gonna ask out my crush (30?m) tonight (if i can get him away from his friends, who are literally always around). im literally so nervous i can barely eat. it’s so silly.
i don’t think he’s interested, so im going in expecting a rejection. just wanted to get it off my chest because im so nervous.
UPDATE: hi all! he was super nice about it, at first he seemed like he was considering it but then was like im pretty busy. so we just had a normal conversation after and i gave him my number and said just in case he ever wants to. and that was that. | Crushes |
I have literally no clue how to write a paragraph. I tried b4 but I found it cringe as hell | Crushes |
As I said in my previous post I am currently dating my crush but in class I struggle to concentrate as all I can think about is her beautiful face every single day when I see her and every single day I go into school I can’t I feel a rush of warmth and love and feelings of love feelings that I’m currently going through I just incredible | Crushes |
Hello everyone I recently joined a new school I am in sixth grade and at first lunch I sat with this girl and ever since the first day we have been talking and at the beginning of this week I was on a phone call with her friend and she told me that she had a crush on me the girl that I sat next to at lunch I was so hyped as last time I had a girlfriend was two years agoI eventually asked if you wanted to go out on a date and she said yes and we’re going out tomorrow I am so nervous I have no idea how it has been four weeks since the beginning of school and I already have a girlfriend but I’ll tell you all how it goes until Saturday | Crushes |
in ela today people were "rating" each other as a joke, i hate rating people but i asked the girl who started it to rate me for fun. this started based on appearance and she gave me a 10, a guy gave me an 8, my bff gave me a 15 (XD). crush and i both don't wanna start drama so we don't rate people on looks.
then it comes to personality. i asked my crush (bc why not? we're friends and i was feeling brave) and Y'ALL HE GAVE ME A 10 ("you're nice!")
AND THENNNN (bff = e, annoying guy = s, crush = c)
s: what am i for intelligence? (he's actually rlly smart, but annoying)
e: 3
me: how about me?
s: if i'm a 3, you're a 2.7
c: nah, she's way smarter than me. at least an 8.
sorry it's a bit long but AAJSKLAKJD | Crushes |
When I see my crush(hannah) in November she wants to book a hotel room for me and my other friend and she said she'd stay with us. Me and my other friend I'll call G are going on a sort of Vacay together. Universal studios and then to the state where my crush bsf lives. Ever since she got a bf tho I just can't bear to think of seeing her and him together. She's still my bsf though and I feel bad.
Is it weird though if we stay in the hotel room together? Seperate beds ofc, I'm respectful while G and hannah sleep together. She knows I like her, she's liked me so I just don't think it's a really good idea. Ik she's not unfaithful and I'm not a prick but eitherway I still think it's wrong from her BFs pov.
And no he isn't staying with us either because she feels she doesn't know him well enough yet, they've been dating for a few weeks I believe. I think he's hanging out with us in the day and then going home. Is it even right for me to hangout, I don't want her to feel like she's hurting me when she does anything with him and stuff. I'm just lost rn | Crushes |
okay, we talked about school today at the taekwondo practice, he thanked me for the birthday gift i gave him yesterday and said he didn't expect it, and finally said that im a good opponent while we were fighting! hfenicnerjiociwtjicskdp im so happyyyyyyyyyy!
Anyway, if anyone wants to chat, im up! | Crushes |
For those who remember their school days… how does someone react when they see their crush in the hallway..?
i have a scenario that i need help identifying
1. shy boy notices girl in hall and looks at her, she looks back at him and locks eyes with him, his eyes are still on her and his face frozen, she is smiling but it begins to grow more from one end to another (almost like a laugh or a grin) and they pass eachother.
what does this mean?? does she know something?? does she think he’s cute? and why was his face frozen when she was smiling at him? does she think he likes her? | Crushes |
So I'm in class me and my crush talked as usual bit we dod this activity where we had to go around the room and so some guy says yo come here and she's right next to us and asks If I'm taking her to homecoming right in front of her now I peered away from it as I didn't want to create a scene and said I got no one to go with you know excuses but I'm kind of thinking this might start us getting shiped witch is great but idk the guy is popular though it might spread like wildfire | Crushes |
I didn't even had my first kiss yet , i am almost 19 , virginity sucks so bad . I craving for being physical touch so bad geez. All my friend around me had everything, why is it just me who sucks . Guess i am very much horny but why ??? Geez these fucking harmones , i can't even relate to friends when they talk about these stuff . Fuck this shit. I am annoyed much.
P s : oh cum on , just don't give me yoga , meditation shit. | Crushes |
Someone tell me he's real
I can't believe he's for real😭
Like it was just us walking out of the library today and my dad was waiting for me to pick me up and he actually asked me what wud my dad do if he sees me with a guy
I said my dad wud kill me
And he actually said you walk front and he was walking behind me😭 whytf is he so understanding, mature and caring
I can't
I can't believe he's for real
Do people like him exist
I can't believe how can anyone actually not fall in love w him 😭 | Crushes |
Someone tell me he's real
I can't believe he's for real😭
Like it was just us walking out of the library today and my dad was waiting for me to pick me up and he actually asked me what wud my dad do if he sees me with a guy
I said my dad wud kill me
And he actually said you walk front and he was walking behind me😭 whytf is he so understanding, mature and caring
I can't
I can't believe he's for real
Do people like him exist
I can't believe how can anyone actually not fall in love w him 😭 | Crushes |
Hi, I'm Giulio, 14 yo from Italy (sorry for broken English, if you would write in the comments my errors I will correct them). So, onto the story, I have a crush on this girl, i'd say an 8.5/10 (tbh I would rate me a 5.5/10) and she's my best friend since when I was 12 yo. This year we had the chance to sit next to each other and we were always talking, helping each other and just being really close to each other (she friendzoned me 2 times now, even after we kissed each other, first time for the girl and me). Then in the second class, I forgot to bring the English book so, my teacher jokingly said that I was in love so I was falling behind. So all my class say that me and this girl are dating, and she continues for the next hour to talk about this and maxing examples to the point that I start crying for all this embarassment. I just left the class group chat and blocked the girl. What do I do now? | Crushes |
I've told him I like him, but he won't say if he does or doesn't back. He said "thanks for finally telling me!" That's it. We hung out yesterday for about 4 5 hours just talking but like idk. What's a subtle move to make next | Crushes |
hmmmmm......it was sooooo goooooooddddd
I wish we were more than just friends
It was just us , walking from the library outside, late night 10:30pm, it was really cooollll, i was eating sweets and he asked me how m going back home, i took few mins to actually finish eating it and then i drank water, he drank water from my bottle ( ik this is ntg great or might sound cringe but i like every single interaction we have and i remember every single thing, every little thing means a lot to me )
We jumped across the fence, he asked me what my dad would say if he sees me w a guy ( cz my dad was waiting in the car ) i said my dad would kill me
I asked him how he knew that
He said isnt that same for all girls?
i told him that my parents know him
He was surprised and asked how ,( umm .. i can't really explain the reason here rn but u can read my previous post for context, so i had one day paid for his academic stuff when i actually didn't have money lol, i paid for him so that I'll get a reason to talk to him everyday and m too awkward to talk to him and this actually worked, he paid for my lunch and coffee for a week )
So i told him that my parents know him cz i paid for this thing and i told him that i didn't have money that day but i still wanted to help him ( that's my way of expressing love 😭.....m bad at talking or flirting )
He said i shouldn't have done that then
I wish I could talk more but we had already reached
And we parted ways
We said goodbye to each other
He wasn't feeling good today, he wasn't him, he's fucking stressed bcz of exams and i feel soooo bad fr him
I wanna see him happy 🥺😭 | Crushes |
He's sweet he's kind he's funny he's smart he's applied he's humble he's nerdy he's cute he's charmingly annoying (if that makes sense)
HE IS THE MOST PERFECT THING TO EXIST ON EARTH!!!!!
Like, AAAAAAAAAAA.
Just wtf.
Sorry but like he'a so adorable and a few friends have made some random "comments" about us and I've always kind of brusehd it off as a joke and such but, I, like, just-
Idk I just wanna kiss him and hug him and play video games with him and sjwgdiajdyaoheisjaehisjahsushaAAA.
Fuck I love him way too much. Wtf. AAAAAAAA.
And sorry for so many upper case As, but I'm fangirling so bad and can't actually scream irl.
Dang it he's just perfect.
Sorry for the gush | Crushes |
I have a huge crush on a girl in my school. We are in same grade but in different classes. She listens to rap songs like Carti, 21, Tyler, etc.
But I listen to EDM and indie songs. I know that we have both different music tastes but I have a fear that she would reject me.
I heard that she reject a guy for having bad music taste and his personality
We used to talk every time during breaks and but fear to confess..... | Crushes |
We have been talking more and more these last few months (I still don’t have his number :( unfortunately so not over spring break.
BUT
He is just really nice to talk to and is an interesting person! We go back to school Monday after spring break and it will just be nice to talk to my other friends and him again. Even if I weren’t attracted to him, or knew we had no chance, I’d still like to be friends!
These past few weeks I‘ve had it worse than usual. It might be because it’s been nearly a full year of non-stop liking him.
I can appreciate the feeling of liking someone but I also despise it, if you know what I mean? | Crushes |
The title says it all, is there any specific actions boys do when they like girls? I was always curious about this | Crushes |
He had a crush on me when I was in a toxic relationship and of course I didn't like him back but I always kept him in the back of my mind just because he was a mutual friend and he seemed sweet. I also needed to heal. I found out he asked about me all of the time and wanted to talk to me, and never did because he respected my relationship.
Now that i'm out of my relationship he's in a relationship and now that I'm healed, i'm ready and can't stop thinking of him. I hope this doesn't sound selfish. I would think maybe it's wrong timing. I wish him the best. I just needed to vent. I realize it's totally inappropriate and need to get over this. I can't help how I feel but I need to know how to get over him. HELP. | Crushes |
I'm friends with my crush on Instagram and Facebook, she's liked a few of my posts. Her snap is in her Insta bio, and she's also in my quick add list. Would it be weird/creepy to add her out of the blue?
Also if you have the time, I'd like to hear your reasoning in the comments.
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/12ga8p9) | Crushes |
idek how i got myself into this predicament a second time but my crush has liked me 100% for a while and we don’t talk (we’re not even friends) and i either have social anxiety or am just really bad at it
(i have friends but i often feel awkward while socializing and i don’t know what to say most of the time so let alone to people i’ve never even talk to…idk how i have friends)
my last resort is to ask a mutual friend for advice | Crushes |
I worked at his school site over a couple of weeks. every time we saw each other it felt like a series of awkward smiles, laughs, and hellos.
We’re both of the nerdy flavor & spice; TTRPGs is what we talked about one day.
He definitely keeps to himself as do I, but I can be very much obliviously cute and a bit of an adorable hot mess.
He doesn’t talk much to many people and if he does it can either come off as cheesy or to others as rude, but when we talked he was always kind and considerate to me ☺️.
I wanted to talk to him more and more everyday but I have a tendency to want to engage and not pick up on cues of their interest to stay engaged. I also have a tendency to switch through topics in a conversations (lots of “no segue” 😅), and that has discomforted some people, but generally my friends & coworkers love that about me 😜.
I did notice that whenever we did each other around the school he would turn his body towards me; for example: every time i came into his classroom, he’d always turn in my direction walk towards me, say “hello again”, then pull a u-turn back to his desk or another place in the classroom.
then one day it was after-school at the 🚌 pick-up line at the front door of the school. he was staffing the area with a few other adults but wasn’t necessarily talking to anyone, or near large groups of students. I saw him with his back slightly turned to me, then i think he saw me because he turned around and faced me with his back to the buses, facing me and the front school entrance (no kids or adults walking or standing behind me). I was so nervous of a pending conversation, so I pulled out my work phone and stared at it while I walked by him. I felt his stare. Immediately, I turned the corner and was inundated with students waiting for their bus while I was trying to make my way to my car. I didn’t look back but I so wanted to! Maybe that should have been the time to talk to him???
Anyway, huge possibility I won’t see him again this school year, but I’m kind of hopeful. Did I miss an opportunity or was I just making it up in my head? 🥹
ah P.S we’re both not young adults…. you might consider us straight up adults but not adult-adults😂 | Crushes |
I can't talk to anyone I know. But there is so much in my head about him. Could anyone message me so I can talk about him please?🙏 | Crushes |
I hate his face when he's worried about me
I hate that look
I hate his blonde hair
I hate his blue eyes
I hate that he's so tall
I hate how amazing his hugs are
I hate how much I crave his touch
I hate how much I love being held by him
I hate his corny jokes
I hate how amazing he smells like burnt Carmel and bitter flowers
I hate his voice
I hate that I never know if he hates me or likes me or loves me
I hate that he's touchy then distant
I hate that he cares
I hate that he makes me feel safe
I hate that I love him but I'm also so happy he's in my life | Crushes |
I feel kinda down and confused right now.There's this guy I like who's constantly smiling at me and going out of his way to talk to me and constantly laughs at my jokes and copies my body language.We have the same mannerisms and mirror each other constantly.He tries to make me laugh by doing this weird singing voice thing and just stupid stuff.When we do hang out he's always smiling and yesterday I thought he was bored while we were hanging out but according to my friends he was smiling when I turned my back to him. He did smile at me a couple times but he smiles with all his friends.He used to snap me 24/7 and send full face pictures but now he just kinda sends me half face pictures once a day.He keeps up streaks though,like one time I accidentally ended our streak and he didn’t give me a hard time about it even though it was a long one.He just started it again.One time he bought me lunch cause he was concerned I didn’t have any and kept insisting till I let him and walked around a stadium to get me it,and another time he let me vent about my mom looking through something personal and making fun of it and how she was controlling everyone and he said that was fucked up of her and he has mom issues too and was terrified of her and he understood what it was like. Except this one time I asked for help cause no one else was answering and I thought my mom was going crazy and he didn't respond he just sent me back a picture of his tv.I think he might’ve been saying he was with his parents.The next day he kinda hovered around me and spoke to me very softly and lightly touched me a couple times.He almost looked guilty.I don’t know I wish I had never told him I was just happy someone finally cared for me and I craved more of that attention.He also sometimes shows he cares in little ways like I did bad on my solo once and he lied and said he did bad too cause I cried.When I walked out of the room I was in he looked at me with these pity sad eyes and I stood next him while waiting for my solo sheet back and he said nothing he just stood near me.One time he protected me from a guy who was bothering me by letting me move spots with him. Every time we stand or sit near each other he stands close enough to where we're touching. But when we actually touch he flinch's away from me.Like when I hand him something his hand sometimes avoids mine.But he follows after me in group settings and just kinda watches me. Like this one time my blood sugar dropped cause I'm a type 1 diabetic,he spent the entire time I was low almost hovering around me and watching me but not coming up to me and only stopping when I was okay.We have a ton in common but there's this other girl he used to have a crush on that he's friends with that he talks to and smiles with that he talks to and smiles around but she rejected him and he claims he's over her.He's just so hot and cold.Like somedays he’s super talkative and nice and somedays he’s cold and dry.Maybe he's just being nice to me?I can't tell because of how I grew up.I have a really hard time telling the difference between crush and kindness.I don't know if I should let go or not.I confessed my feelings for him once and he rejected me then acted really angry and sad towards everyone for a couple days.Then he initiated conversation again.He is the one who mostly initiates it.Idk what to think.Am I being crazy and delusional? Like should I leave him alone.I can't tell if he likes me or not cause of his hot and coldness.He's very introverted and needs alone time from time to time.Oh and another thing, he ADMITTED to stalking my snap maps TWICE and literally goes on Snapchat just to watch my stories cause I looked at his snap score when he watch's them and it never goes up.ldk man I might be delusional but I'm really confused about this whole situation.Maybe I’m being a freak I just need to know.Everyone I’ve talked to about it says he likes me and his cousin said he’s not allowed to have a gf till college and he’s scared of what his mom might do to her or how she would treat her or how that would even work.I don’t know if I’m being crazy and I should leave this guy alone or not.What do you think?Be 100% honest please. | Crushes |
Help me I’m waiting for a response | Crushes |
I (14 F) have a massive crush on a guy in my grade. We've known eachother for two years and we had conversations for 2 months. However, 3 months ago I found out through his friend that he doesn't like me and supposedly likes another girl. In the normal circumstance I'd just brush this off and eventually lose feelings for him. But he continues to softly smile and stare at me throughout all my classes with him. I need someones advice on what i should do :)
**if u see this please comment your opinion I really need help** | Crushes |
Sorry for the length... I had this huge crush on a girl for like a year, we had great times together, having lunch, talking to each other, etc. When the holidays came, she invited me to a Christmas party at one her friend's; I'm not a very sociable guy and I don't generally enjoy going out, but I thought "this is my chance to finally tell her something", so I got my shit together and went to the party anyway. At the party she got super drunk: fell on the front yard, make out with some guy and started to undress, among other things I can recall. So there am I, stupid me though "this is my night", and actually was one the ugliest's nights of my life. Of course I didn't wanna hear anything about her and fell awful for almost a week, but like two days later after the party she texted me and apologize about everything. Then everything continued like it used to be, but that situation crushed my confidence and she still does that little things that confuse me: holding my hand, hugging me, etc. So I really can use some advice. Thank's for reading : ).
TLDR: Crush got super drunk at a party and do stupid stuff that crushed my confidence, now I'm confused because she still treat's me like anything happened. | Crushes |
I’m just saying words and it’s not going to make any sense so please bare with me.
They’re so sweet and funny!! We hung out at my apartment and I swear he acts differently when it’s just the two of us!! We were having fun and being goofy for a few hours with my roommate and our other friend. They went to bed, and he and I stayed up until 3am. I swear he was acting differently! As soon as our other friend left he started using a cutesy talk and talking softer. And we just gamed together and it was so nice.
And then the next day we all went to the movies together and when we got back to my apartment, our friend left and he and I were sitting next to each other and our shoulders were touching and it was kinda sweet. We just sat next to each other doing our own thing and it was honestly so nice and what I needed. I can’t tell him how I feel about him but I’m okay with that, as long as I can have these sweet moments with him that’s all I really need | Crushes |
I hate how he will never love me and how his friends make fun of me. i love his silky hair and the way he laugh. how he treats his friends i love. i love how free he is how fluent and airy he is. he just seems so perfect so outer-worldly. and i’m nothing like him and weird and impulsive. I wish i could be as beautiful as him. he’s just everything. he remind me of the song la lecon particuliere. Bittersweet and beautiful | Crushes |
I'm so bad at handling social media, and I don't know if I should listen to my friends | Crushes |
so i work in a coffee shop and since someone at my workplace left there’s sometimes different ppl who come to cover for the closing shift w me. there’s a guy who’s covered w me a couple of times now.
when i first met him i couldn’t bring myself to make eye contact cos i was shy but now i make eye contact w him all the time and he smiles at me and i really like working w him. he’s like very chill and has this like vibe of confidence but not in an arrogant way. i feel so sad for the days that go by and i don’t see him as crazy as that sounds. like all i think at the moment in my spare time or like in bed is scenarios of us or things that have already happened.
also im pretty sure he’s at least somewhat interested in me too. he’s really nice to me and gives me extra breaks, he does cute things like he’ll open the door for me and then let me walk past first or like reassure me that i’m doing a good job. he asks me personal questions and tells me to ask him for help if i ever need it and he’ll help me if i ask or if i say something he’ll ask what i said if he was doing something else. like my heart fcking stopped cos we went to the dishwasher and he went to get some stuff out and then replaced the tray for a different one even when i said it was fine and then basically said he knew that i like it that way/ using the other tray. it doesn’t sound cute over writing but i’m telling u i was like wtf just happened. he’s reached for something and then been like ‘oh i was just flexing my height’ and there was this customer who said she loved him (?) and he was like ‘oh she must be overly nice or something’ and i said as a joke like ‘oh she’s nice huh?’ and he said he didn’t mean it like that. plus he respects my boundaries because i feel kinda weird about physical touch and i say sry when i walk past and he’s started doing the same and idk if he’s mirororing me?
i ended up getting his number under the pretext of telling him the feedback for our closing shift. first he accidentally sent his location 2 mins after i sent my number and when i texted him about the work feedback at almost 10pm he replied instantly. but we literally just talked about work and then he left me on read. then i text him again about something work related but i left him on delivered cos i felt awkward idk. like i don’t think i’m the only one interested but i don’t wanna come off as desperate.
but genuinely all i want is to be put on shift w him and talk or whatever or know if he likes me. and now it’s too late to text i’m. like how do ppl cope not talking to someone for so long? like i want something to happen between us but i don’t wanna keep making the first move it’s kinda a pride thing. is he just waiting for me to feel comfortable idk ? | Crushes |
I asked my hallway crush of 5 months for his snap then we talked for a bit on text ( hes lowkey dry but wtv ) he’s sweet tho.
Anyways yesterday I invited him out, I said we could go to the movies or walk around in a park and he said “we could do both” . I’m so nervous bc we never talk @ school, never did except for when I asked for his snap☠️
He said he wanted to get to know me better and he rathers calling someone or seeing them in person than text so thats why I offered we hang out but im so scared ive never been out one on one with a guy im freaking out bruu😭 and I’m scared he’ll be dry. | Crushes |
It's fairly common for me to say "I like your hair" or necklace or bracelet or whatever she decided to do that day. But one day we were arguing (not really, we were both having fun and laughing) about it and she said I should just compliment her more.
I have no idea what to say that isn't weird. Funny part is one of our other coworkers witnessed the whole conversation, and she was all "Here, let me show you how it's done," walked up to her and said something about she's the light of the room and her day is better upon seeing her, she's absolutely gorgeous in every way and whatnot.
One who said to compliment her more then looked at me with a cocky smile and was all "She just one-upped you so hard. You've got to beat her somehow"
Bro I'm not saying that that's fuckin weird | Crushes |
<3 very fun | Crushes |
I want to know your thoughts. I have written about my "gym crush" here, but I do believe I have two crushes. Both are harmless and I won’t do anything about either one, just wanna know what you guys think! | Crushes |
So I like this girl that I met a year ago and have become good friends with. We have a good relationship, we talk during school and have fun. She makes fun of me in a nice way but she says she does that to all guys. I don't know what to do though because she's also one of my sister's best friends. I don't know what to do and I just need to talk about it. Advice would help. | Crushes |
im so happy like ahh, only worry is that i hope she doesn’t think i have like expectations about kissing when i flrit after this, should i make it clear that im willing to go as slow as possible next time i joke about kissing | Crushes |
Hi! I'm a high school guy, and I need a community I can talk to about this. I am normally quite social, being able to talk with lots of different people, even girls I am not interested in. However, I cannot talk to my crushes (There are about 3-4, I don't know which to pursue yet) and it pains me since I want some love in a world full of hate.
Also, due to the fact that I have had these feelings for quite awhile, my emotions are bottled up like fireflies, and I just need to let them go. I have never dated before, and have been on the crush train for many years. One crush I think liked me but I missed all the signs and I moved away, and then I have also gotten rejected twice.
My brain sees dating and love as this far-away fantasy land, although with just some effort I could get there. I take things way too seriously sometimes, and I have lots of insecurities such as my dental hygiene, height, and looks. I don't think I am ugly, but I think the girls that I like look way too good for me.
I am also very bad at receiving hints. As I mentioned before, I think my first crush liked me but I missed it and moved. I also believe another girl liked me in late 2021, but another girl kept me occupied with crushing and I missed a great opportunity for a kind and sweet girl. Meanwhile, every other girl that I crush on, I always find ways to justify in my head that they like me, until I find out they are already taken. It feels like every girl I crush on is taken, I live in a rural area.
Ever since the last rejection in late 2021, I haven't really had the courage to get back into the dating ring. I want to talk with my crushes and possibly get a date, but first I need to let go of the pressure in my head and gain some confidence. We can have a convo in the comments, give some encouragement or tips, idc, I just needed to vent on this fine Saturday. | Crushes |
Whenever I'm finished singing it and finalizing the lyrics should I post it on here? Would y'all listen? | Crushes |
When she smiles, I smile with her. When she frowns, I frown with her.
When she laughs, I laugh with her. When she cries, I cry with her.
This is all true, this is all very "been there, done that", because we've seen it in action. And no matter what she goes through, my soul will correspond to her emotions.
Early today, I sent her a text message praising how lovable, respectful, and just overall beautiful, inside and out she is, in a rather witty context at that, and she found it so funny. Seeing her respond with laughter and happiness to what I'm saying to her is what really warrants me having the same feeling.
She is the most beautiful person I've ever met, and while we are not officially in a relationship, I'm hanging onto hope. Even if we never end up together romantically, I will cherish the moments we are able to have platonically because just having her as a friend is what truly makes me happy.
I'd like to make her the happiest person alive. By doing so, I'd automatically be extending it to making *myself* the happiest person alive right along with her, and that's the true beauty of it all. | Crushes |
Here's the deal, you ask me a question about her, I answer truthfully, then I ask you a question about your crush. We can continue going back and forth if you request. I really just want to talk about her. | Crushes |
Ok, first of all, I apologize for any spelling mistakes I could make, English is not my native tongue.
So, last year I met a group of people who have become my best friends, the problem is that I instantly fell in love with one of them. She is absolutely gorgeous, I love everything about her and she is the kindest person I have ever met. I won’t deny that I may have idolized her, but it’s simply the first time I’ve ever fallen in love and she is really wonderful.
The problem is that she doesn’t feel the same, two of my friends ended up together and that motivated me to express my feelings. I just called her and said “I love you” (yeah, that was a bad idea, but she was meeting another guy and I was just so fucking scared to ask for a date, my bad).
The fact is that they ended up going out, but they only lasted a month, during that time I tried to manage it as well as possible, but once they broke up I instantly fell in love again. I know that I should get over it and that I will surely meet more people, but it hurts a lot when she talks about other guys or when I am unable to stop thinking about her.
I just wanted to show how I feel, have a nice day and thank you for your time. | Crushes |
Just looking for some advice on what to do. I have these feelings and need to talk about them and understand what I can do. | Crushes |
me: yo who do you like
her: their name starts with u and ends with u
but my name starts with r and ends with y 😭😭😭 | Crushes |
I find it difficult to talk to people in general but I’ve made it my mission to talk to more people and develop more social skills. I’m already a very awkward and shy person but that just amplifies when I have a crush.
I’m crushing on this dude at work. We’ve talked a couple times but now it’s getting kinda awkward as I actually started to crush and let my fantasies take over. I just want to be able to talk to him and possibly be his friend.
But MAN, every time an opportunity suddenly and unexpectedly shows I get hit with anxiety my mind goes blank. I don’t want it to get too awkward but I really don’t have experience in this. | Crushes |
Is she toying with my emotions? Every time I see her, she smiles and I often catch her glance at me. Then other times she doesn’t even acknowledge me. A downside is that I kinda like one of her best friends but not that much but thinks me and my friends are annoying and weird and I think another one of her friends likes ME. I don’t even know what the hell’s happening man 💀 | Crushes |
Last July my ex broke up with me after being together for 4 years. This was obvs very hard to deal with and I got a lot of support and advice from my close friends, especially from my boy best friend. We’ve known eachother for almost 7 years now, I never had any romantic feelings for him but we do share a close bond.
I always turned to him for support when I was having a hard time, but now I think I developed an unhealthy attachment to him. Last week his long term girlfriend cheated on him, so I was kinda glad I could return the favor of supporting him through a hard time. I think I am confusing this feeling of mutual support with love, I can’t stop thinking about how well we would fit with eachother.
I don’t want to be delusional and ruin a precious friendship, any advice? | Crushes |
If you do feel like it's a big deal and do it anyway please tell me how. I'm confident honestly but I think I'm still a little scared of asking people out still for some reason it's just so scary and nerve wracking, the idea of being that venerable to them when you could get rejected which honestly isn't worse than the idea of other people knowing about it who you aren't close with. It's so weird because I recognize ultimately that it's not really a big deal in the grand scheme of things for me or probably anyone else but at the same time it is a big deal in the moment because it seems so risky and painful and I'm ussaly not certain enough to know if it's worth it. I've still never asked anyone out and I really want to just to get over it but I found out my crush wasn't interested (indirectly) and I respect that so now all I can do is wait for my feelings to fade and find someone else for a shot. Please has anyone else ever felt like this and how did you beat it. | Crushes |
Few weeks before we always blink and wave each other when our eyes meet at class but now she just stare and shakes his head . It's so painful to not knowing why and since I am to shy to ask Only thing I do is making theories in my head and it deviating me | Crushes |
This is a girl from my college, she's 18 and I'm 20. We didn't ever spoke to each other before but I got the courage to confess to her this morning and...she's not interested.
I've been waiting all year for this moment but it was quick and very disappointing. I feel like life is unfair but this is how it works.
I hope it goes better for all of you. And for those who do not have the courage, I feel you because I am a pretty shy person myself but just do it without thinking too much or you may regret it once it is too late.
To anyone reading this, have a great day ! | Crushes |
So from my previous posts here you can guess he isn't the nicest person, and even though i hold a grudge against him; and hates his guts sometimes. I can't help but like him alot at the same time. And i was never attracted to anyone that much . | Crushes |
Idk why like i legit get the butterflies in my stomach when I think of her as if she’s real. 😭 | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on 1 girl in highschool for a year now, but I’m in a relationship with a different girl that I like, yet i still have some type of crush still left for her. I find this pretty weird and concerning to some extent. | Crushes |
So I have a crush on one of my best friends, and that wouldn't be too much of a problem, but they're in a relationship with my other best friend...who I also think I have a crush on. What do I do from here? It's been like this for at least a year. | Crushes |
I’m a shy person and I just freeze up or pretend nothing happened. How should I respond if this happens again? I don’t want it seem like I don’t care or something😭 | Crushes |
I hate his beautiful face.
I hate his messy hair.
I hate his little earings.
I hate his charming personality.
I hate his cute voice.
I hate his adorable freckles.
I hate we see eachother all the time.
I hate his kindness.
I hate how he comforts me.
I hate how he listens to me.
I hate how he trusts me.
I hate how he'll never love me.
I hate that I love him. | Crushes |
Ok so I've been texting this guy around 4 months now. We used to message each other a lot and I liked him a few years ago but ever since I had a boyfriend I didn't speak to him for a year until I broke up with my ex. We've had these moments where we both think of the same thing and we made a lot of inside jokes, even our own way of saying goodnight. He also complimented on my performance and been liking most of my Instagram stories recently compared to before (I think he just finds them entertaining or just scrolling) He's also done favours for me such as school work, where he would give me notes and questions on tests that I've haven't done yet. When it comes to messaging, I'm usually the one who messages first although he messages aswell. Most of the time the conversation lasts longer than an hour, he usually expands it. We would ask each other questions to not let the conversation die. The conversations would usually end in a "goodnight". He's also not dry like he was 2 years ago. When we met up in the holidays for once, most of the time we smiled at each other and I had fun. He also pushed me on a swing without me asking? If that counts 💀 Tbh I think he sees me as a good friend just as much as I do. | Crushes |
I have a friend which I’ve known for almost my whole life. We live on the same street. We basically share the same friend group and we were classmates in elementary school, so naturally we spent a lot of time together. Me and her were always more close together than I was to other girls in our friend group/class.
We both were always helping each other and always working together on some of important stuff in school. In our school we had like chairman and vice-chairman of each classes. In our class we were those two.
In the 9th grade our school closed and we were in quarantine. At first it was great, but then I started to miss my friends and eventually her. Even then we were still going out, but it was much less then before. In that time I started to feel something for her. When we got back to school, I enjoyed spending time with her so much. It was honestly the best time and we were having so much fun. At the end of school I wanted to ask her out, but I couldn’t. I was and still am scared.
Then, there was a time where I felt like I don’t need a gf, but again after some time it hit me back. These kind of periods went on for almost 2 years. But from the start of this year I can’t stop thinking about being with her. From our old friend group she is basically the only one I still talk to often. Sometimes we go home on the same bus and those are the best things. I really love talking to her because we always have something to talk about. This last time when I went home with her, we were talking in front of my house for almost 40 minutes and I even walked with her to her home. I can’t tell if she likes me too because even when we go home by the bus, she sits next to her friend rather then me and I then I sit next to her other friend. She really is a lovely person, but I don’t know how to tell her I like her. I’m so afraid that I might lose this friendship.
Please, I would really appreciate your help! | Crushes |
im kinda joking to see what ya got out of curiosity but also not and will totally do so if i find anything slick lol.
context: we never really talk, have few classes together. me=15m she 15f is great but i cant manage to approach her cuz of.. social limitations ig? like, its unviable to just walk up to her if that makes sense. Shes always bundled up in her lil group of friends and never sits alone soo idk what to do help | Crushes |
I (19M) have been hanging out with a guy for a few months. We’ve only really seen each other in group settings, but we tend to be on the exact same wavelength. It’s almost spooky how alike we think. I like him so much my stomach hurts.
I want to tell him that I like him. But he’s bi and never dated a man before. I think he’s really hesitant to date a man. Idk how to tell him without risking our friendship.
I don’t know whether to leave things how they are or tell him. | Crushes |
Alright so i’m in high school i take forensic science and i sit next to this guy (let’s call him kevin). we became friends by talking about a mutual friend that we share and we just get along rlly well. i don’t like him, i’ve tried to imagine what it would be like to date him because everyone in class is shipping us (he’s so oblivious he doesn’t notice) but i can’t see it happening. there have been a few instances where i’ve gotten mixed signals. one was when i walked into class and he hyped up my outfit but in a very extreme way to the point where my teacher raised her eyebrow and said “yo what’s up with kevin complimenting your fit like that?” and i just shrugged my shoulders because i really had no idea. another instance was that he missed school for a week because he was really sick so i texted him to ask if he was ok and sent him all the stuff he missed. but then when he came back to school he was teasing me and stuff saying “did you miss me?” and acting all weird about it. there’s also a zaxbys next to my school and he goes there every day and brings food to class. i’m pescatarian so i don’t eat chicken so i would ask for a fry. but now he gets big meals every day and brings them to class and says that all the fries are for me and he’ll rate the chicken. keep in mind i never asked him to do that he just stated doing it on his own. then the other instance is that we walk together after class everyday since we’re going in the same direction and he walks me all the way to my class even though the bell rings and he’s late to his next class. and while we’re walking or just in class we tease each other mutually but he teases all his friends like that. so idk if he likes me, does he? | Crushes |
So I (15 M) met a girl around November 2022 and since then she has been my crush. But lastly I’ve been feeling that our conversations die down and that let me to get a crush on other person. The thing is she (new person) asked me for help to talk to a dude so I know I don’t like her and that made me question who I really had a crush on and the thing is that girl 1 goes to my school but I’m too shy to talk to her in person and I asked her out once but the thing is that she has depression and she has mood changes so she explained that and we never went out. So I don’t know if I should take the chance with girl 1 or just surrender on both | Crushes |
Me and my friend both liked her and when I asked her to just be honest and I won’t take it personally it’s fine, she sent this: “obviously like whatever put friendship will be ruined and so will u and *****’s and like i don’t even think i’m ready for anything. imma stay alone purr”. after ghosting me for 3 days. Then like a week later she’s on FaceTime with him for 3 hours. And she forgot my birthday. I’m nauseous lmao. I liked her first too. We really just clicked but I guess they clicked more. Guess i’m not the one. | Crushes |
I have a male friend who buys flowers for his gf with almost every given occasion. I know for a fact that he doesn't enjoy it, he just wants to keep the appearences. What about you guys? I personally dont really care about them. (F, 30). | Crushes |
I'm a high schooler. I'm trying to get over this guy. We're in separate classes but he roams around the corridors during recess. I could literally hear his voice today. I'm suffering with all this getting over him. And I won't confess him because I know it won't work. There's a bit of enmity between us. What should I do? | Crushes |
I don’t even matter. He most likely doesn’t even know that I even exist. This is the worst pain I’ve ever felt. | Crushes |
I am literally so confused between these 2 things: Love and lust.
How can one determine or discriminate it?
Never know either she's flirting or being friendly? I don't know whether I'm in love or in vast lust?
It's tooooo long to type entire thing about my story here but can anyone explain me these two words... | Crushes |
So my best friend [F15] and I [M18] met because I had a huge crush on her older sister[F17], and in my attempt to get closer with my crush I met her sister. We got along really well and she's one of the best friends I've ever had. Now I've told her everything at this point, it's been a while since it happened. And she never seemed outright uncomfortable about it, but I don't know, I feel like if someone told me they like my sister, I'd be pretty uncomfortable. But it's been about a year, I've been over F17 for a while, but lately I've been starting to like her again, and I want to ask her out soon. The thing is I've pretty much been keeping this to myself since my main friend who I tell this kind of thing to is in a relationship now and she doesn't have time for any of her friends anymore. I want to tell her about it,maybe ask for some advice,and even though she knew i liked her at one point, I still feel a little weird going up to her and saying "hey, I like your sister".
So what would be the best way to go about that? And how would you feel in the same situation? | Crushes |
I'm not even sure how things are going, I've noticed we're getting closer and closer, but I don't know if it means anything. But last night I had her and a bunch of other people to my house, and one of them brought a bong. I wasn't planning on getting high, but I did. I got way higher than I thought I would. We still hung out and walked and sat next to eachother for most of the time, but I felt like I was doing and saying things way more stupid than they should've been and I feel like I made an ass of myself. Sure she's seen me high more times than she'd probably like to admit in the past, but I've been trying to do better, especially around her. I don't even hardly hit my vape when I'm around her anymore just because it feels wrong. She's like the sweetest most innocent person I know, and it clashes with who I am so much and it makes me even wonder if I could ever get something stared with her Becuase I liked her a lot over a year ago, got over her, and here I am again just as into her. There's just something about her that I don't want to let go of and I'm scared I'm gonna fuck it up. | Crushes |
For context see my previous post,.
Soooo a few days ago i was chatting with my crush, and while we were talking it came up that he reads a serie of books called "heartstopper", i jokingly said "how can you blame me for thinking you're gay" ( before anyone freaks out, he's a male, I'm male and bi, I was just joking, no I don't hate those book I'm indifferent) then he said " I never said I wasn't" however he failed to elaborate further.
I'm confused seriously, what does it mean? | Crushes |
I think I win.
So, this crush is dead in the water, it was dead in the water from the beginning and you'll understand why in a minute.
So, to put it simply. She is my cousins cousin. She's the daughter of my blood uncles brother in law. She's the cousin of my cousin from the otherside of their family. The side I am unrelated too.
She's literally one of the coolest girls I have ever met. But as you can probably see, it's not a simple relationship because it's now to a point where it's weird. We and our families basically call each other cousins anyways even though we aren't related which of course, has made me lose interest but knowing we aren't related has made me latch on to like, I dunno like, 5%. She lives in another country anyway so I am over her really, its just when I do see her it's like, wow, you're so cool. | Crushes |
She sent a picture of herself in a black dress she bought while we were talking and asked me what do I think about it. She bought it for a party which we are going to together. I NEARLY CHOKED SHE LOOKS SO GORGEOUS. | Crushes |
I just need someone's outside opinion because I don't know what to think or feel :/ | Crushes |
So I have this weird thing that I don’t talk a lot with guys physically. BUT I’ve noticed lately that I talk longer+almost never interrupted conversations with girls.. but I think of it as a flaw, but my friend says that it’s because I’m more interested in their talks than guys talks. I’m a guy and the friend here is a girl btw | Crushes |
We went out 2 days ago to watch a movie tgt. After that we texted and it spilled into the next day. Because I went to sleep and they only replied to me after. So I replied back in the morning and they answered my text but it was like a conversation ender so I just left them on seen. After that they didn't text me at all and so I didn't text them as well. But today I texted them and they didn't reply. (Asked them if they wanted to play a mobile game with me like we usually do on the weekends)
I'm scared and I don't want to keep texting them because it'll seem clingy which they don't rlly like. I see them on Monday but right now I don't really know what to do about it. Should I just continue ignoring them like they are to me until they reply? | Crushes |
Your crush gets married, you are invited. What do you do?
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/12fi8c6) | Crushes |
basically, i am so confident that she won't like me back, that i told them they're getting $2 each if she SOMEHOW does. this is gonna be the easiest bet of my life, the odds are in my favor. planning to confess at the end of the month | Crushes |
my crush has done lots of things that I consider a lil flirtatious, i want to list some and see if you think so too.
she bought us matching bracelets that connect when they are close and when she gave it to me she made sure that I didn’t open them in front of her. whenever I sit next to her on the bus she ALWAYS puts her head on my shoulder. recently she started putting her arm around me and pulling me closer on deep turns to make sure I don’t fall. I sent her a video of this couple kissing at an aquarium and her response was “we should go to an aquarium” . one time I hit her really hard and gave her a side hug to apologize and she dropped her things while we were in the middle of the hallway to give me a full hug.
AM I CRAZY LET ME KNOW | Crushes |
Hey, you might remember me, I'm the guy who got rejected by his crush in the nicest way possible.
You might want to read these two posts I made of the rejection itself and the day after for context (but it's not necessary I think):
* [https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/12cador/i\_got\_rejected\_but\_probably\_in\_the\_best\_way/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/12cador/i_got_rejected_but_probably_in_the_best_way/)
* [https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/12cxvjh/the\_day\_after\_my\_rejection\_left\_me\_feeling\_very/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/12cxvjh/the_day_after_my_rejection_left_me_feeling_very/)
In the latter post I mentioned that I would have five days off school due to easter. Today is the third day off, so I've had some time to process my feelings. And tbh, they really confuse me at the moment.
Because I don't seem to be that sad about the rejection itself (anymore)? Sure it was disappointing at first, but now I don't know how I feel about it. I think this might have something to do with the way she rejected me.
The thing I'm sad about is that we're seniors and school is ending in a few months. She's probably going to a different university. I talked about this with our mutual friend and she told me exactly where my crush is going (thanks for the spoiler, I intended to keep that question for a convo between us :/ ). Her university of choice is 1-2 hours away from where I'm going. I just know that I'm going to miss her so badly and I don't want to lose her :(. She just means so much to me. I'm thinking that I want to spend as much time with her as I still can before school ends, I'm even thinking of hanging out with her as friends before it's too late (even though I literally just asked her out).
I'm also still getting emotional about the way she rejected me. She is just way too sweet 😭. Above all she is so understanding and supportive, and she doesn't want to sacrifice our friendship. Even when I asked her if she had time to talk because I wanted to ask her out, she made sure that I felt safe with her. I just want to do the same for her. I want her to know I'll always be there for her, whether it's for personal issues or for help with studying for our final exams.
&#x200B;
So that was a bit of a vent about my feelings after the rejection I guess. But can anyone help me figure out what the heck is going on? Why am I more sad about potentially losing her, and more emotional about her sweetness, than about the rejection itself? | Crushes |
So about a week ago I asked out my crush because we had been flirting with each other for about 2 months. She actually has a boyfriend and I found out when I asked her out. She rejected me since she’s in a relationship and we both said sorry. I saw her again today which was the first time we’ve seen each other since she rejected me and we both acted like nothing happened. I didn’t really try to start conversation or make jokes because I’m moving on, but she is still being flirty and extra nice to me. Is she just seeking attention? I don’t understand girls | Crushes |
Crush on Resident
I just started as an OR nurse and despite the masks and scrub caps, I’ve developed a crush on a (i hope single)
resident with a cute personality when I’ve been scrubbed in with them.
Just wanted whatever advice you guys have on if making a move is a good idea. Like do they even notice cute coworkers with all the other stuff they gotta worry about. | Crushes |
We may just be friends and I'm okay with that... I thought about it for a while and well it is what it is. I'm still thankful to have him in my life. I vaule our conversations and just being able to be myself. So at the end of the day I didn't lose anything. I still have him just in a different way. And that honestly okay.
In the words of Selena
"I know you have a new love
However I wish you the best
If you didn’t find happiness with me
Maybe, someone else will give it to you" 🤍 | Crushes |
Honestly, I’m just posting this because I feel like I need to rant, and not in a bad way either. I don’t expect anyone to respond to this. However I hope you can relate to this.… recently I just went through a tough breakup due to them going to college and I could not handle a long distance relationship; let alone my abandonment issues (but that’s on me). Anyways after 6 months of the breakup I finally got over my ex. I just discovered that an old crush of mine is now single. And my feelings are out of control. I used to have a crush on this girl back in high school, however I never confessed my feelings to them because I was a really shy guy back then, and even to this day I still am. What sucks is I haven’t talked to this person in like almost four years. I would like to reconnect our friendship and possibly move towards a relationship somewhere in the future. But I don’t know how to start that conversation. This woman is just…oh my gosh! She’s drop dead gorgeous. Super hilarious. And a cool person. This chica got me swooning over here. She makes me want to write poems about her. She gets my heart vibrating. It’s just insane to feel this way. You know the feeling right? We have all been there. This may sound super corny but you know how your parents tell you not to look at the sun directly because it’ll burn your eyes. Well for me every time I look at her; she burns my heart with passion. I haven’t felt like this since I was a kid. I know people will probably say ‘get over it’ or ‘feelings don’t matter’ something silly like that but the thing is I love feeling like this. It makes me feel young. Yes I am young (23 years old) but I really love it. I love romance films (yes sometimes the cheesy ones too) I love romance in general and I’m a guy. I don’t want people to assume that I’m coming on here asking for advice on how to get in her pants. No! I’m trying to give this woman the world. I’m trying to be her Aragorn and have her as my Arwen, her Romeo to my Juliet, her Jay Gatsby to my Daisy Buchanan it goes on but do you get what I’m trying to say? I will say, even somewhere in the future if I told her how I feel, and she rejects me I would totally be okay with it. Of course I would be hurt by it. Why wouldn’t I be? It’s natural to feel that way that’s what makes us human. Though I would probably feel better because I wouldn’t have to worry about my feelings and just move on with my life. This woman is just amazing to me. I don’t know I just felt like I needed to type this to share my thoughts. Sorry if I wasted your time; hopefully you all have a lovely day. | Crushes |
So my crush and I were just casually on the phone and talking about another friend of ours that just got rejected. So we got to talking about crushes. She said she wants to ask her crush out and I responded me too. After that she was really surprised and sounded happier. She instantly tried to find out who it is. I stayed relatively vague. I asked her about her crush. She said after a short pause that’s someone from her school. And im not on her school. She wrote me sometimes later asking another time who it is. I think I’m just gonna write that it’s someone that doesn’t has the same feelings.
I’m just confused she showed many signs that she likes me. She always wants to sit besides me. She more than once laid her head on my shoulder and said it was comfortable. She said that things weren’t the same if I’m not there. I’m really confused | Crushes |
I've been thinking about him way more than usual I even imagined some things! I imagined giving him a little kiss, or holding his hand, or leaning against his chest. I can't stop thinking about him, he's just so cute and sweet and handsome and UGHHHH. This wait is torcher. I feel like there's something wrong with me I never thought of him this much before | Crushes |
So I noticed my crush one time saw me looking at them and I turned my head away like a normal person. The weird part was he stared for 1 minute and didn’t turn away. He did this again in another class where I was talking to my friend and he was there just stating at us not breaking away. Why is he doing this. Is this normal do I not understand. I barely know anything about love to be honest. | Crushes |
Dm | Crushes |
There’s this guy I really like. I’ve known home for 5 years but only started catching feelings now. I only get to see him once every two weeks because he’s in a club that I’m in after school and other than that we don’t have any class together or other clubs. We always stay after and talk to each other unless his close friends who are in another club next door start talking to him.
And yesterday, his parents weren’t coming to get him until a hour and a halfish after the club ending. So I stayed after for a bit, 30-45 despite having tests the next day, and we talked the whole time and I met two of his friends who were also cool. But my mom called me once, to see if I was okay, she worries lol. And then another time to tell me to get her groceries. I have a car, he doesn’t.
Then he turned to me and asked ‘Do you have to go?’ And he seemed maybe…upset. Even though he had his two friends keeping him Company But I stayed for a little bit more then went home.
He makes me laugh, giggle, and smile so much. The whole time we talk were both laughing. And I just love his personality. He’s so smart, down to earth, and honest. Like he cut his hair from last time and I was joking and said ‘oh haha it looked better before’ which it did, he looked so cute grown out. Then he said “either way I’m a 10/10” and then came over to talk to me. I love that I can joke with him like that. And I love talking with him because I genuinely feel like I learn new things with him. | Crushes |
literal pain and agony. unimaginable feelings of regret.
We started messaging again, but im putting in a lot more effort to get the convo going, but im terrified that i seem weird and pushy, as its been a year since he ‘liked’ me according to my friend, and he probably has gotten over me (she told me that he assumed i didnt like him so he tried getting over me ://)
I ended up asking for movie recs and then told him i would get back to him once i watched some and let him know what i thought of them. I just feel like im doing too much since last night was the first time in months since we messaged, or idk im just overthinking it | Crushes |
i have a massive crush on this girl at school but i have no idea how to start talking to her without it seeming completely random. i used to have a class with her but now i dont because of a new semester and i have her snapchat but i havent talked to her in a long time so it would be super random. we have a lot in common like we listen to the same bands and we both play guitar, and we used to make eye contact in class a lot on accident and still do when we see eachother in the hallway if that has anything to do with anything. shes always with a bunch of her friends so talking to her in person would probably suck. im friends with one of her friends so maybe i could use that to my advantage? | Crushes |
Do other people enjoy having a crush on someone? Though it can kinda be overwhelming sometimes, I find it very exhilarating. | Crushes |
We’re both in our 20s, I’m a part-time intern at the company that comes in a couple times a week while being in college and he’s a recent grad in a rotational program through the company. He just started his rotation at my location recently and he is soooo cute :,) I got a different internship far away that I am going to be at over the summer when I don’t have school, so I am leaving this job.
You guys I don’t know what to do! He is cute and nice and we have shared interests. I wish I had more time to get to know him, but if I’m going to act I have to act fast. I’m worried about how bad this timing is and think maybe I should just give him my number and keep in touch over summer and if I actually like him maybe make a move when I come back.
I’m also really inexperienced in relationships generally, so I don’t know what to do. Like how do I even go about giving him my number and what do I say if he texts me? He just gives me butterflies and I’ve had really bad luck with rejection or finding out my crushes had girlfriends in the past, and I’m really hoping something can just work out for me for once. I appreciate any advice. | Crushes |
This isn't even a joke- His friends and people that straight didn't even know us said that he totally liked me, so I confessed whe he tried to mention that I totally liked him, and at first he kindly said that he only liked me as a friend, and when he registered I didn't start crying he fucking sang F R I E N D S by marshmellow wtf like cmon we LEGIT CUDDLED AND PLAYFIGHTED IN THE SCHOOL FIELD AND HE LET ME PUSH HIM TO THE GROUND AND TICKLE HIM LIKE I DONT THINK FRIENDS DO THAT, I HAVENT EVEN KNOWN HIM FOR A YEAR YET-
I've come to the connclusion he has been brainwashed by overall "Women Bad, wife annoying" Sense of humour.
&#x200B;
Ik the spelling in this is ass but idc | Crushes |
Out of nowhere the girl I was interested in for a few months just started liking me. We’re flirting and stuff and I’m just confused cuz I was really sure that I was in the friendzone. I feel pretty happy, but also im still one of those guys who in the back of their mind it feels like it’s just a prank, y’know? But I feel lucky | Crushes |
I am on ******* watch. It’s so strange how its was never going to be me, but i thought it was. She probably never liked me and I was just the annoying best friend of her actual crush. Life is comical. | Crushes |
I am not going to be spilling to much detail as I would like to keep some things private. There was this girl who I’ll call Sam (that is not her real name). I always thought Sam was cute and I had developed a crush on her, but I thought she was to cool for me and i just felt insecure abt it. Months go by and a friend of mine tells me she has feelings for me and I was shocked. But I was afraid of saying anything maybe he was playing tricks on me. Weeks go by and the girl and I start to become closer. But because i Didn’t want her to know that I liked her I told her I liked someone else. And then soon after rumors started being spread abt me. I started to avoid her because she was the only one who knew abt those things. I then developed feelings for a boy who Ill call Mat. I liked him but when I realized that Sam and him started dating I got jealous. But I wasn’t jealous that someone liked him I was jealous because why was he dating her he didn’t even know her like I did he didn’t deserve her. I wasn’t supportive of their relationship but since I still cared for Sam and ofc cared for him I acted like everything was fine. Well soon after I started to talk to Sam again and turns out the rumors weren’t abt me but about another person and turns out that person also liked the same old person who I liked at the time. And Sam even gave me proof. We started talking again and then she told me her and Mat broke up. He was so cold towards her I was infuriated. But soon we told each how we “used” to like each other and laughed abt it. I still Like her. And I know she likes me. But would it be wrong for me to betray my friend Mat like that even though he didn’t really like her?
I now this might be confusing but I wouldn’t want any one of them to find this and sorry for the spelling of anything is wrong | Crushes |
So last month I met and developed feelings for this person I met from a fan community. We talked a bit on a forum but then got in contact and couldn't stop talking to each other.
I got feelings within a week of meeting her and just buried them, thinking I was falling too fast for someone I've only known for a few weeks but then they came out to me saying they felt the exact same way. Having feelings and everything, saying that I made everything better simply by talking to her.
I haven't dated in years and the first few days were really scary, I was worried about being unready but I know I've made the right decision now. I'm so excited for what comes next | Crushes |
My boss who I'm friends with told me that my coworker found out i searched him up and that he didn't like it.. (found out today
my boss knows him personally and told me he quit his job a couple days ago (found out today. )
The last time I saw was the week before he was trying to make chit chat with me I thought he was cute
Tried to give me his number I said no we don't know each enough.
After that I would kinda avoid him cause i was nervous
That seem to be awkward tension when I bump into him last week | Crushes |
Subsets and Splits
No community queries yet
The top public SQL queries from the community will appear here once available.