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So, in the past 2 or so months I've noticed this girl in my classroom has been, you know looking at me a lot, and thanks to her friends that are in no way discreet at all, I've realized that she may like me. The thing is, I like her too, and well, she's shy and I'm quite scared of going to her and asking her bc I believe she could tell me that I was wrong or something, and well I am just freaking out about this. I do not want to lose the chance with this girl, just cuz I'm a coward, what should I do? | Crushes |
Hi everyone,
I really like this guy but I'm not sure he likes me. I want to get to know him better but I am a fairly dry texter. We have some friends in common, we sometimes see eachother at parties and we even went to prom together but I am still scared to text him. How do I start a conversation and how do I keep the conversation entertaining? | Crushes |
Funny to say that last week i sent her a confession text at 1 am but deleted it immediately and I don’t think she saw it. But since the day i did that, I always hear her bsf asking her “did you talk to her yet?” Whenever she’s with me. Not once. Not twice. THREE DAMN TIMES. And she always says “no, not yet” and that been fucking my mind. Nothing changed between us but idk if it’s me overthinking or she really stopped teasing me as much as she did before. There’s a hint of awkwardness from her, i mean, i’m not that awkward w her but when I think about it just bothers me and ajauejhruruueuwi i really dk what to do or say. She started being less charming than she was before and idk if it’s just me me or is it actually true. Anyway, this is so random but today at physics she was glancing at me and i noticed her smiling when she looked away and that just jsjeieididjej even if it’s not for me i just like being delusional🥹🥹. | Crushes |
For the record, we're both girls. 30 and 31. We met at a slumber party once in about 6th grade. Then again on Tinder back in 2020. We vibed hard-core right away through messaging. Nobody's ever really came onto one another. We're both water signs. There's so many times I've almost told her how beautiful I think she is, inside and out but don't want to ruin our friendship if she doesn't feel the same way. Stuck between that just saying "fuck it, I could die tomorrow and she'll never know how I felt about her" I've had other relationships over the years but my feelings for her have never went away. I think its scary because if she does feel the same way, it'd be something serious since we're both already close. She's amazing and makes me feel amazing and relaxed when I'm around her and I'd absolutely hate to lose what we have by possibly making things awkward. | Crushes |
we spoke, i asked him if he liked anyone. He said he did. And showed me someone who is the exact opposite of me, i just want to curl up and die. Im tryna cheer him up cause yk he thinks he has no chance but in my eyes he is the most gorgeous man to ever step on the earth. | Crushes |
So this is going to be not so fun but worth while reflection. Semi Long.
A few months ago I posted about my crush and in comments I described further and even organised a confession on new years. Unfortunately, my love was ultimately rejected. I expected it but it didn't stop the pain, my feelings being mutual but due to certain personal complications; they were not interested in a romantic relationship despite having similar feelings. I spent most of my January trying to move on.
I wasn't going to chase after a defeated feeling but I found myself going in spirals due to someone new in my life walking in and immediately having sexual relations with them. I was admittedly hit with a feeling of jealously and to make things worst they came to me about their connection. I tried to move on and push down my jealousy, even hanging around this new person and getting to like them.
What officially killed my feelings however was after spending two nights around this guy, I went to see my crush who was with my good friend who immediately asked me if me and him had a thing together. I was really disgusted and appalled by it. Not because it was him but because I'm strictly attracted to females. Having my crush ask me such a question when they knew my sexuality, known me for a year now; it really rubbed me the wrong way.
They explained they just felt jealous seeing me with him. That really hurt to hear, that they thought low of me enough to think I would pursue their new interest.
It's over, there's no feelings anymore. I could never love someone who rejects me because of certain boundaries just to break them for a total stranger. It's disappointing but I'll manage.
On the brighter side, I believe I've found my newest crush. I just hope things don't result like this awful one. | Crushes |
I’m in my first year at university, where I met my best friend. It wasn’t until a few months passed that I met her cousin who she’s rly close with. He’s a year ahead and also goes to our uni, but we never had any classes together.
first time we met in a social setting we instantly started talking. I remember thinking he was a cool guy, and then I didn’t see him for another month. Suddenly our class schedules change, we end up having a free period together w his cousin (my friend) and some other people we know, and he also happened to start taking a class that I had taken previously. During this free time slot, we’d meet up at some spot, us and a few others we know. The two of us ended up spending these frees together. There were always other people, but him and I were really doing our own thing most of the time. We’d talk about random stuff, I’d help him with this class we had in common. Time flew with him, and it was as if we were the only two in that moment. As I got to know him, I really gained a lot of respect for him. He matches my values, we have the same opinions on things that matter, he makes me laugh my ass off, and I think he’s sweet. I definitely started developing feeling for him at some point, but I never admitted it to myself, and it’s NEVER come up with my best friend. I have suspicions she may have been “studying” us at times when we’d be spending time together, like she’d be watching us and I could tell she was thinking, but it’s NEVR come up, not even jokingly. I’ve been aware of how I’ve felt for some time now, but literally just yesterday I realized I had to allow myself to admit it. I don’t know how he feels. I’ve felt at times like maybe he does, but other time idk. But it’s worth mentioning he’s different from most guys, in that he doesn’t really show his feelings the way other guys do I feel like at least from knowing him. He’s also transferring to another uni next year. Idk what to do. I’ve realized that the way I like him is different from all the other guys I’ve liked. He’s the only one I’ve gotten to really know and appreciate as a person.
The real kicker is, he’s not just some guy I go to uni with who will be going somewhere else anyway so “why not just go for it cause u got nothing to lose anyway.” His cousin is one of the most real, solid friends I’ve ever had and I completely foresee us being long term friends, like we even have plans to live together at some point. which means I’d always know him at the very least. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh life isn’t fair lol. | Crushes |
There’s this guy I always see on the train and he’s really cute. I follow him on insta and we like the same things and have a lot in common. I really want to talk to him but what can I say without it being weird? | Crushes |
so the title explains the worst part of this. essentially I really like my coworker but after facebook stalking him, I have discovered he definitely is with a girl and has been for 6+ years. he has never ever mentioned her at work (and our team is very close/open about a lot of our lives and relationships, everyone's in a different stage) or in our 1-on-1 conversations and the way we act at work and how he speaks to me is hard for me and I feel a lot of guilt. some context about me: I am 20+ female and I have never actually dated someone seriously and I get infatuated quite quickly and deeply.
some moments to share: he always will try to give me handshakes at moments and hold my hand for a bit longer; we've become a bit of a duo on our team, any time a task needs to be done and I volunteer to do it, he'll join me or vice versa, we sit together at every opportunity, etc.; he'll make jokes where he says things like if I fall he'll take care of me or that he volunteers to help because he wants to be/walk with me; we text occasionally and he says I am his favorite coworker and he likes the way I am (his emoji usage is very affectionate vibes lol); we share a LOT of eye contact and we'll both smile or start laughing; we walk to our cars together and he'll tell me that my outfit looks really good or my hair/accessories but that he doesn't want to say it in front of anyone else.
please I just need some honesty/clarity if he is just overly friendly with me and what I should do because the more I get to know about him in our conversations and his personality, it's consuming my mind a lot that it's likely just really one-sided :( | Crushes |
Her mother was my pe teacher a couple of years ago and her aunt is my dentist. Opinions? | Crushes |
Just for context, Im 16 and am currently residing in the United States. So I first met my crush, I'll call her K as to protect her privacy, in a class both of us were taking. I'll admit, I don't think my family would've approved of her anyway, because both of our ethical backgrounds had beef with each other, and still do. But eventually, I befriended her, and we began talking.
As the school year went by, it became clear that she had some sort of interest in me, or so I thought. It went from the usual waving to her glancing at me in the hallways, and at some points smiling and laughing when both of us engaged in eye contact. The only issue was that I am a huge introvert, so I didn't have the balls to ask her out.
Eventually, once the next school year hit, the cycle continued. She would glance at me in the hallways, at one point I even saw her smile as she sat down after glancing over at me. So I decided to muster up the courage, and finally confessed. The reaction wasn't too surprising, but it was still a sad one. She confessed that she wasn't looking for a relationship at the moment, and I took that as a rejection. After apologizing for making her feel awkward, I decided to stop contacting her after that, because I wanted to respect her personal space.
Seems that after the confession, she kinda just stopped glancing at me, or smiling at me in the hallways. However, on the occasions we're in class together, she and I make eye contact, albeit for a split second or two. Two weeks ago, I wore glasses to class because I was too lazy to put on contacts. The next day, she comes to class with glasses on too, something that is really shocking because she almost never wore glasses to school. She always wore contacts
It hurts, I'll admit, to see her on my Instagram feed at times. I still have a crush on her, and I was sad to hear that she didn't reciprocate those feelings. But then again, it was her life. I shouldn't be the person to interfere and force her into a relationship. Besides, I'm sure that later in life she'll find her soulmate and live out a happy life with him, and I'll support it 100%. | Crushes |
I was thinking to maybe sneak it in their bag, but should I maybe just give it to them? | Crushes |
(For context, we're in high school. I've never really dated anyone, so I have no experience whatsoever.)
We'll call him E. (m17). He has dirty blond hair, and he's pretty tall. He's interesting (I (f16) can't figure him out though. I feel like there's always those people you just can't figure out fully.), kind of popular, funny, and I think I like him. I've interacted with him some, but only really at school (I currently have a class with him) and sort of in passing when I go where he works. (There's small stories there, but no real need for them here.) Maybe a week or two ago, I was standing just outside one of his classes (not stalking, I swear), talking to a teacher with a few people before school started, and he was sort of staring out the classroom door from his desk, and I think it might have been at me. I think I see him looking at me every so often, like in class or when I pass him in the hall or something, but I don't know if it's really me he's looking at, or if he's trying to.
I liked him a while ago, stopped for a while, and now I do again. I don't really know how to talk to people in general, so it frustrates me when people say "Oh, just get to know him!" But how *do I* do this? How to I get to know him?
tl;dr: There's this kind of popular guy I'm interested in, but I don't know how to talk to him, or anyone. How do I get to know him? | Crushes |
Kinda depressing thoughts ahead so read at your own risk. It's not a story, just thoughts.
It's been 13 days since I have seen him. It's been more than a month since I talked to him. It felt like I was able to see him just for a couple of seconds daily in the last days. The worst part is, I have no idea if I'll ever talk to him or not.
I was just about to move on, just about to accept the fact that love is not made for me. But then, he suddenly confessed indirectly, and showed me signs that were quiet obvious. Suddenly, he decided to give me hope, that after a long list of crushes that didn't work out, maybe I was going to get my first-ever boyfriend, but then again, he suddenly decides to act like we don't even know each other. And I hate myself because I don't have the guts to talk to him. Besides, I don't even have a topic to talk about, I mean, why in the world would I just suddenly pop up to talk to him, it's not like we were friends or smth?
The new session is about to start, and however I knew that I shouldn't keep any hope or expectations, I really couldn't help it. Damn, I hoped that maybe this time, it'll turn out in my favour. In our school, sections are shuffled every year, and there are 4 sections, which mean 1/4th chances of him being alloted in the same section as mine. And based on my familiar bad luck, I don't know, things usually don't turn out in my favour. Also, I just checked in the group of my batch of one of our private tuitions, and his name wasn't there. Then, I just talked to my second private tuitions teacher and it turns out he had separated the batches of girls and boys. Great, no meeting in tuitions now.
Since luck isn't on my side in the tuitions, there's a high possibility he won't be alloted in the same section as mine. Plus, this was going to be my last year in this school. So, we're done ig? All those dreams I dreamt of him are gone. All those attempts I made to be near him but all of them got cancelled under certain circumstances gave me a sign that really, love isn't meant for me? I know that chances of things turning out in my favour are very less, but I cannot help but be disappointed.
PS. Sorry for my bad grammar, english isn't my first language. Thank you for reading. | Crushes |
I mean we're good friends. I can talk with anyone without being awkward including her. We're good friends I have nothing to worry about. I can talk about most random things.
But sometimes it's just that I see the notification and suddenly I have this tight feeling in my chest. Like the one you feel when you're waiting for an important exam or an interview. I just can't make myself respond right away.
If you know what I'm talking about I hope you can describe the feeling better. Why is that? How can I overcome that? I already got over the fear of texting her and then this strikes. What do I do? | Crushes |
I’m in my first year at university, where I met my best friend. It wasn’t until a few months passed that I met her twin who also goes there, but we never had any classes together. Y be first time we met in a social setting we instantly started talking. I remember thinking he was a cool guy, and then I didn’t see him for another month. Suddenly our class schedules change, we end up having a free period together w his sister (my friend) and some other people we know, and he also happened to start taking a class that I had taken previously. During this free time slot, we’d meet up at some spot, us and a few others we know. The two of us ended up spending these frees together. There were always other people, but him and I were really doing our own thing most of the time. We’d talk about random stuff, I’d help him with this class we had in common. Time flew with him, and it was as if we were the only two in that moment. As I got to know him, I really gained a lot of respect for him. He matches my values, we have the same opinions on things that matter, he makes me laugh my ass off, and I think he’s sweet. I definitely started developing feeling for him at some point, but I never admitted it to myself, and it’s NEVER come up with my best friend. I have suspicions she may have been “studying” us at times when we’d be spending time together, like she’d be watching us and I could tell she was thinking, but it’s NEVR come up, not even jokingly. I’ve been aware of how I’ve felt for some time now, but literally just yesterday I realized I had to allow myself to admit it. I don’t know how he feels. I’ve felt at times like maybe he does, but other time idk. But it’s worth mentioning he’s different from most guys, in that he doesn’t really show his feelings the way other guys do I feel like at least from knowing him. He’s also transferring to another school next year. Not anywhere that far, but another school. Idk what to do. I’ve realized that the way I like him is different from all the other guys I’ve liked. He’s the only one I’ve gotten to really know and appreciate as a person.
The real kicker is, he’s not just some guy I go to uni with who will be going somewhere else anyway so “why not just go for it cause u got nothing to lose anyway.” His sister is one of the most real, solid friends I’ve ever had and I completely foresee us being long term friends, like we even have plans to live together at some point. which means I’d always know him at the very least. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fml I guess lol. | Crushes |
So I (14m) asked out my crush (14f) last Friday. On Monday a friend of hers handed me a note and it told me that she didn't think we would work amd we should stay friends. But, I still really like her and don't know what to do? | Crushes |
So I made this throwaway account so that if the small chance happens that she sees this post it won't be traceable back to me lol.
But yesterday we had dance night, but it isn't official or anything it's just practice for when we will do it at the end of the school year. And I swear to god she looked so stunning in her dress, I was dancing with someone else but I couldn't stop looking at her periodically. She didn't dance with anyone but still came to the event dressed up. Probably to not look out from others because only 3 people plus her didn't dance. She probably doesn't feel comfortable dancing because I know she is extremely shy and kinda insecure but I just can't stop thinking about how good she looked. She kinda looked sad to me but that may have just been my head. Sorry for the long post, I had to vent a bit. | Crushes |
Towards the end of November/early December, I (16m) realized that this girl(16f) (who I had been in the same class with for two years and was going to spend another two years with) started looking at me from afar in class. I reciprocated the gaze, which was sometimes prolonged. Before that moment, we hardly ever talked, but one of those days she got up and asked me a completely random and disconnected question. This left me stunned and from that moment on, the situation between us two only got better. We didn't write to each other on social media, I would occasionally send her something and she reacted positively. I found out that we have a lot in common in terms of musical tastes, etc... However, the situation has evolved negatively.
Let me preface this by saying that no one had ever shown such an interest in me before, I was happy and took advantage of it to ask her out. She told me she would feel embarrassed and that we would instead meet at the home of a mutual friend over the weekend. My response was positive, I told her it was okay. The fact is that from that moment on (about 3 weeks ago) she started completely ignoring me in class and it made me feel pretty bad. Only one day everything was as before, but then the thing vanished, it was a special day, I don't know.
This week, that friend I mentioned before had their birthday and next week she'll have hers. I bought a gift for both of them and I want to give it to them next weekend. I also want to write a small letter to her in which I might clarify my position and apologize if I have caused her any discomfort. What do you think?
(She organized a small party at her house with only 5/6 people, she obviously did not invite me because of what i wrote before probably)
TL;DR: I noticed a girl in my class showing interest in me, and we started talking more and sharing common interests. I asked her out, but she said she would feel embarrassed and suggested we meet at a mutual friend's house instead. After that, she started completely ignoring me in class, except for one day when things were normal. I bought her and our mutual friend gifts for their birthdays, and I want to give her a letter apologizing if I caused her any discomfort and clarifying my position. I'm seeking advice on how to deal with the situation.
So, is she embarassed about the question i asked her and acting like this for that mistake of mine? Maybe she wasn't expecting that. Can i fix this with a small gift and a letter with some explanations? She is a bit shy but not so much. Hope you can help me. This is making me so bad. | Crushes |
Ever since my crush rejected me I have been feeling really down. Not even my hobby’s is working. I have been drink sodas and eating unhealthy snacks just to feel good again, anyway I can fix this? | Crushes |
They were cold, I tossed them my jacket, and then when I looked up from our thesis, and jfccc ~
Then there was another time they borrowed my blazer for smth and then they brought it back to me by walking to school in it - I could not talk for, like, 5 seconds when they walked up to me XD
*goes to take a cold shower like a sim* | Crushes |
So uhm me and this boy used to talk everyday then he suddenly just stopped, i started developing small feelings for him so dumb me kept chatting him everyday and sometimes he would leave it in seen.. I just kinda showed him this side of me that i would only show to my close friends. So now he showed sm positive signs even his friend told me he likes me (idk as a joke or not-). So i found that one of my friends also liked him so me and my friend talked about it but i said i wasnt sure and i feel like she told him my feelings for him because he just doesnt talk to me anymore and we also kind of fought before all this and stuff. WHAT DO I DO? | Crushes |
I’m embarrassed and don’t want them to know I viewed his profile, but it doesn’t necessarily mean I like them right? I see them at work and it’s hard to read what they’re thinking, but it’s better to keep romance out of the workplace? | Crushes |
WE HELD HANDS WHILE SLEEPING HFJSHDSH!!!!!!!!!
BASCIALLY WE BOTH SLEPT OVER AT ANOTHER FRIENDS HOUSE AND HAD TO SHARE THE COUCH AND WE HELD HANDS WHILE WATCHING A MOVIE AND FELL ASLEEP!!!!!
MY WRITING IS BARELY COHERENT LOL
>!i feel so guilty!< | Crushes |
(Sorry for bad formatting, and this is very long)
So I(16f) have known my crush(17) for about half a year now, and we’re pretty close friends we both agree. They might actually be my best friend but they are very extroverted so they’re close with a lot of others too.
And the problem is I think I’m actually in love with them. Crush isn’t even the proper word here! People always give the tip to get over a crush you should get to know them more as a person, so you’ll learn all their flaws and all that. But in this case it’s only made me love them more. I just really want to spend my entire life with them. I’m not very focused on the physical aspects of a relationship?
Anyways, I probably should get over them for reasons that I’ll be mentioning later. The problem is that I absolutely do not want to. I don’t really have a good reason but it’s very difficult. I’ll also explain that later.
First thing, biggest reason, is that they have a partner. And they’ve been together for about 5 years? It seems pretty committed, but they don’t meet very often since they don’t go to the same school. And they’re both not the best at texting “good morning”from what I’ve seen? But my crush has started texting me good morning texts for some reason. I can’t express it through text very well but I’m very happy about it! Back to the partner though. I feel weird about liking someone in a relationship, especially since I’m very close with them. We’re a bit weirder than most friends, I think. It’s mostly because I’m a bit too dependent on them (It’s something I’m working on), so they try to help me because I’ve been struggling with my mental health. It’s getting better though.
We do hold hands regularly, and our hugs last longer than normal ones. I could name other things too, but the point is that we’re pretty physically close. I feel guilty though, since I know if it were my partner who did these things with someone else I would definitely not be happy about it. And I don’t think the partner knows about it either. But my crush is a very affectionate person, not only with me. Even though they don’t do it to this level with anyone else.
I’ve never met the partner by the way, but we’re friends on social media. I actually wish they would break up, but I don’t want it to hurt my crush. There’s a probability of it happening though due to reasons I can’t name. But even if they were to break up, they wouldn’t see me that way. It’s very confusing, because to an outsider it could sometimes seem like they like me, but when you know the context, you know that’s it’s just friendly affection.
Technically I know that they don’t like me in that way, and that’s probably not going to change partner or not, but I can’t help still holding out hope.
I’m not sure what to do. I can’t confess, at least not now. That would obviously fail. Maybe I could in the future, and I’m willing to wait, but that would probably ruin the friendship and they would feel awkward around me. And they’re my closest friend, I really don’t want to lose them.
Sorry that this is so long, and the tone is kinda weird. I’m terrified of them finding this
I’m probably gonna post more about this | Crushes |
So this guy (I used to suspected he liked me and I liked him) always ignores me. Literally talks to everyone near/close to me but never directly at me. Anyways, I’ve noticed that although he ignores me, he always texts for help (homework,tests,etc) why?? | Crushes |
I don’t know if someone would read all of this, but i still I really wanted to post this somewhere so if you do, enjoy :)
(I study in an only-girls school) There is this girl. She is tall and has black short hair. She draws amazing and is equally good at sports. She has a fucking awesome sarcastic and dark humor. She is somewhat mysterious and cold with people. She is really smart and has the best style ever. She doesn’t fall in love frequently but a lot of people fall for her.
I started liking her almost exactly one year ago. Before of that, we had quite few interactions. We had some conversations during online classes, and when face-to-face started we had one pair work in art class. Then, nothing. I just remember that one day (many months had passed) I noticed her staring at me at lunch. I just ignored it and decided it was nothing.
Months after I just started noticing her more. How pretty she was, how funny she was, her awesome style. Some days later I texted my best friend and we ended up talking about her staring at me, she was messing with me and started saying she liked me, but I denied it every time as I stated that she was really fucking “emo” (she just likes black stuff lmao) and not my type.
During that time, every class in the school started preparing choreographies for one of the school’s annual presentations. In one of our practices, our teacher decided to include a pretty random “we don’t talk about Bruno” dance, and for that she needed five girls to where black hoodies and to pretend to be Bruno… yeah. To keep it short, I noticed how crazy I was for her when I considered participating as one of the Brunos if it meant using her hoodie (she didn’t wanted to be one, so she was giving hers for another girl to use it).
Now, I must say that I get really nervous when I like someone. She was really chill and tried being nice to me and joked with me for some time, but she stopped as I kept being really cold with her and barely answering. That escalated at the point that everything is REALLY awkward between us. We barely talk and when we do, we don’t look at each other. She is the only person in my class I can’t have a conversation with and we both know it.
At that point I would have started to think she hated me if it wasn’t for some facts.
1. She follows only a total of 4 people of our class on instagram. Two of her best friends, plus me and my best friend.
2. She voted for me for student council while one of her best friends was also postulating.
3. I caught her 2 times taking me photos, one was a selfie (to make it less obvious) but she had the flash on lmao. The other one was with the phone of another friend of hers, I wouldn’t have noticed if her friend hadn’t called me out while messing with her.
4. One day I randomly started joking with my best friend that I was going to change schools again, she heard it and her face of genuinely worrying was something I didn’t expected.
And the most important of all. I don’t know really when it started, but we have our little “stare” game. Basically last year we just started staring at each other randomly. I could turn my head and she was watching me walk, she could turn her head and I was watching her sitting. It eventually became more and more frequent and I swear to god we are both aware of this. It was amazing. I swear it was just amazing. Yeah we barely had any conversations, but that starings where weirdly special, at least for me.
Then summer happened. Then I started loosing interest for her. Then I thought I got over her. Then I asked out my best friend. Then months happened.
These stare game became only a memory of one of my favorite things of last year. That was until maybe one month ago. I was sitting in the library floor, waiting for my mom to pick me up from school, I looked up and I find her staring at me. After half a year, and it wasn’t just amazing to have that again, it was weird because I thought we both had ignored it until that day. It started happening more and more frequently. Last week was just excessively, stare after stare after stare and I loved it.
I know I have a girlfriend. She knows it two. In fact, my girlfriend is now one of her best friends (idk how that happened). The thing is my girlfriend is moving to another city in three months. I do love her a lot, but after all that happened today I just think that maybe not romantically. I can’t break up with her as I’m afraid she would end up harming herself (again) or even worse. We both agreed we would not have a long distance relationship so the best for me is to just wait and see what happens. Wish me luck, and actually thank you for taking the time to read this .—. | Crushes |
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I met this guy from school and we hit it off rlly well. I have been talking to him everyday since about a few weeks ago. It’s gotten to the point where we probably know each other more than our friends. We text every night and we even wish each other goodnight. But it person we are like strangers. He has this joke and he sneaks into some of my classes but I never get to actually talk to him and I can never go up to him around his friends cause we don’t rlly like each other. I really like him but I don’t know how to get some alone time with him and he has barely any free time after school. How do I get him to hang out with me in person? | Crushes |
I know she likes me. But her mood changes like the moon. One day she is super friendly and next day she is in strange mood I cant even decide if she is upset or not. This s not the prob though.
I become completely speechless when Im around her. I can feel she is waiting for me to start a convo but im like overthinking and doing nothing.
Somedays I sit by her( bus) and try to tell something. End up saying most stupid thing u can say to crush. Then she may pick the phone and call a friend. ( not a good sign right?)
She is shy around me (nit others) and dosnt say a word. So im the one who has to start a convo. But I really dont know how I can get her to talking. Yes im stupid when it comes to talking to strangers and building relationships.
We dont know a bit about our personal things like names etc. I just dont feel comfortable asking those basic info. And I know she is going to keep mouth shut.
What can I say to her to instantly reply (nicely). Or may be start talking with me.
Confessing without knowing anything about her is more awkwrd right?
Can u pls help me to overcome this | Crushes |
It's been a long time, it started more or less in 2nd grade, around 2016, I met my first great love, she was a blonde girl, skinny and had a very extroverted personality which matched with mine at the time, but in the next year I had to change schools, I was afraid of losing everything, so I didn't say goodbye to anyone there, and i got to a class with completely different people, my personality changed completely, i was very afraid of people in general and would frequently try to avoid that place.
I eventually convinced myself to go, and for another full year I faced a brash, unfair teacher who would punish the entire class for an individual student's mistake, the problem was in how often this happened, but in that time I couldn't fit in, except for a childhood friend with whom I did everything, She was a girl, 1 year older than me (I'm a grade upfront) And all the other boys would push me into it so often that I found it necessary to settle down and for the next 4 years I would see it as taboo, something I should have.
4 years pass
Love isn't something that get me into tears anymore
Now friends that hit puberty before me want to have a girlfriend
In this context, one of them liked a very closed girl,. so I tried to help him get along with her, it didn't work. Some Friends try to play a prank on me and say the girl likes me. i believe in them. I make friends with the girl. I start dating her after 2 weeks, in that period of time, I had a lot of fun, I discovered that she liked to write poems, I helped her during some bouts of depression, I was overprotective for fear of her getting hurt, may 28. My birthday. She breaks up with me, straight up melancholy, we remain friends, all of a sudden she stops talking to me, starts being rude, convinces me that nothing she did was real. She starts acting narcissistic, I stop talking to her, I spend the rest of the year sad.
9th grade starts
I fall in love again
The girl probably still loves her ex
I think hard about giving up on love
What do I do? | Crushes |
This girl that I have a crush on merely stares at me for 3 seconds and looks away when I turn around. She hates getting tickled but when I tickle her, she laughs it off. Both her and I help each other on lessons we don't understand in school, her friends joke her and I being together and we greatly bond with each other. Have no bloody idea what I'm going through right now and want to know if she likes me or not. | Crushes |
Mine announced me she was in a relationship while we were sleeping together ? ( in some way it was okay for her💀)
One Ex told me she was bisexual the day of the break, don't really know why but I thought it was funny. | Crushes |
A quick wednesday recap: we had gym and since it was snowing and we couldnt do anything that was planned, the teachers let us do whatever we wanted. So my crush and 2 of our friends decided to walk through the school knocking on doors. One teacher came out and almost saw us lmao 😭. We then went upstairs after we heard something, we were all laughing and she hugged me from behind.
Friday: So friday we had history and crush (whom i talked about in my last post ik this subreddit), who im sure of that she likes me, sat in front of me, face to face. We were listening to an audio about the lesson; i was watching the screen and i could feel someone looking at me, it was her. She was staring at me for a whole 6 minutes while we were listening to it. I felt so nervous. We then had chemistry, we both forgot our laptops and had to go get one from school, i went like 3 minutes after she went class, and she was still on her way. She saw me and held the door open for me and smiled. We then waited for them to give us the laptops but there were 0 left so we had to go to the other side of the school to get them. We didnt say anything to each other the entire time, it was so awkward and i kinda regret not starting a convo. I felt like she wanted to talk too. So we, awkwardly, walked back to class. We then had french and watched our favorite show. Then after lunch break, our teacher wasnt at school so we went to the cafeteria, she sat in front of me again, face to face. I was eating some candy with my friend and decided to share some with her too. She was so thankful. Then we basically laughed at some tiktoks and just talked throughout the whole hour. It was great.
Im still too scared to ask her out. | Crushes |
so back in october me n this girl a talked a lot for like 1 week then i ghosted her cus of smth dumb (yes ik im bad). fast forward 6 months im talking to a new girl now n we both like each other but deep down i still have feelings for a. we arent friends or anything now n she likes someone else but shes getting more friendly lately n that might hinder my progress. if anyone has tips id relly appreciate them rn | Crushes |
So I just want utlr opinion on this
So I like a guy from 2018 and it is almost 5 years now .I meet him in when I was is high school and he was my classmate and it is so happened that till now he is my classmate. Now I'm in final year of my college and till now he is my classmate. Last year I confess my feelings to him and he told me that he respect my feelings but he can just be my good friend.
Till now I have feelings for him, my friends are fed of me, they clearly told me to be away from him.
This is my last year with him tbh this is my last month with and after this I will never see him and this creates alot of anxiety within me. Idk why I still like him , I want to forget about him but I just can’t and as this my last month with him I feel like crying...
My one side love is coming to end and I'm not able to do anything
I have to say my last goodbye in few weeks and idk how I'm going to do that...... | Crushes |
HELP!!!!! I (20) am only 3 weeks into college and i’ve already developed a crush on my tutor. I don’t know their age but i’m assuming they’re in their late 20s?? I need advice to stop this feeling because it’s definitely going to affect my presentation grades 😭 the other day i couldn’t even look at them in the eyes! it only took me 4 sessions to develop feelings for this person and I feel so silly | Crushes |
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Last year at school she was friends with my ex (who I was dating at the time) then the week we broke up, SHE STARTED PLAYING WITH MY HAIR BEHIND ME WHEN I WAS GOING TO MY LOCKER. I turned around to see her smiling looking down and blushing. At that moment I started blushing too and was just like, “ok, that just happened”
Progress one year, she’s now in my English and History classes and sometimes says things to me. (Nothing relating to relationship or romance, just normal peer stuff.) I haven’t really said anything much to her, but yesterday she did something that was really appreciated. I was staring down, for two reasons.
1. I was feeling a little down.
2. She was 5 feet in front of me and I wanted to avoid eye contact.
Then, she turned around looked at me, and asked if I was OK, to I said yes to. I’m not sure how things will go now, I just need some luck or something | Crushes |
Thank you for coming into my life, thank you for your brother for talking to me when ever I played basketball by myself, I remember like it was yesterday, I remember seeing you and your brother talking, at first I thought you and him were a couple, at that time I had a crush on someone else, but still when I saw you I felt sad because I fought your we're so beautiful and knew you probably won't go near me
thank you for having a good brother as my friend even though it went from small talk to a friendship, I don't ever have a day thinking about you, you are always on my mind, I always sit by myself at lunch and don't have much friends that actually play with me or talk but at PE it's different, that's the only part of school that I like, seeing you and your brother play with me, before I hated school because I didn't have any friends, even though we don't talk to each other I still I am so happy when ever I see you
I remember I sat with your brother and he was talking about how he hated the noise when waiting for the buses, he said he wanted to go outside at the car riders without getting in trouble, but your smart brain told him that when my bus came they could pretend that it was there bus and sneak in, this week I came with y'all and it has been the best thing ever, one of the days this week I rem sitting down and your brother talking to his friend and you sat next to me, at the moment I felt like crying because no one has ever done that before, I had a dream of you that night, that was the first time I felt happy at school since kindergarten
I don't think you love me but still thank your for being my first friend that is a girl I don't know if we're friends or not but still thanks to you and your brother I look forward to going to school everyday now, I still can't believe you and your brother change everything, first it was just me playing basketball by myself then you and your brother taking turns shooting, then your brother's friend played a game were you have to throw a ball at a person but if they miss it you have to step 2 times back, you could also throw it at anyone you want... I threw it at you
I went from crying myself to sleep because I had no friends to crying about the fact that I miss seeing you at school, I had a dream about you, it was perfect, you and me were laughing and holding hands, I love the way you smile, today I saw you at lunch, I was thinking so much about you that I didn't even eat, I know you probably like someone else and that breaks my hearts but that's your decision not mine
I don't expect you to love me back but every day I feel lonely and sad, I want to hug someone, not even my family hugs me a lot, I just want to be loved again, I fake smile and laugh everyday just wishing for school to end so I can sleep and escape life
I want to give you and your brother something for making me happy, I will never forget you, I loved a girl for 8 years but never told her that, I will always love you, as of now I'm crying typing this just because I know you will never see this, I've only had a crush on 2 people now, I wish you will notice me more or just say hello to me so I feel like I'm not lonely... | Crushes |
Okokok so I have a huuuge crush on this one guy, turns out my friend has a crush on **his** best friend !! Ngl it's kinda cliche tho hahaha !! But during science we were doing a windmill project and today we tested... My crush (J) and my friends crush (A) were partners for this project, I sit next to (A) in class and I felt soooooo bad for them because their windmill wouldn't even spin (even when testing it before hand) !! Istg tho my crush is so fucking stupid but so admirable AAAAAAAA !!! I wanted to help them SO BADLY but bcs my crush is in that group (and bcs I have social anxiety lololol) I didn't go up to them.... BUT.... they are going to be working on it in a working period, in which I'm in that period, so I told (A) that if he and (J) wanted any help I would be there !!! I hope they do ask for help so I can talk to (J) tho... ehe. Yeah but thats alll :3 | Crushes |
He looked happy today:) | Crushes |
idk i just wanna say him that he's just so damn perfect even when he's not
That's it
PERIOD!!!!
I WISH HE'LL GET THAT SMILE BACK ON HIS FACE | Crushes |
I can actually do anything to make him feel better and bring that smile back to his face
His fucking stressed and depressed due to exams
I just feel bad ,,,,i wanna be there fr him | Crushes |
Today one of those moments happened like a legit slo mo scene halskjkldfs | Crushes |
Guys m telling this again and again
This guy is not real
He's sooooo freaking caring and considerate
I can't believe this guy is for realllllllllllllllsnanwjwiqiw
Ummmm how can he be real
Dont tell me this is a dreaaaaaammmmm
HE'S A DREAM | Crushes |
Theres this boy. hes so fucking perfect, his hair, his ears, his face,a nd his smile. everytime i see that smile i just want to kiss him. the problem is, that i dont know if he likes me. he holds my face sometimes, he smiles and laughs at my jokes and responds quick, but boys that pretty wouldnt be fucking with a nerd like me unless its a joke. im nerdy, have a blonde rats nest for hair, and have glasses that make my eyes look freakisly big. Does he like me? or is he just another fuckboy. | Crushes |
I keep thinking about him. I'm just scared to make a move or anything because this all just seems too unpredictable. It's not like he's the hottest looking guy either he's just really charming and just says the simple things that I don't hear often. plus the confusing signals he gives me sometimes jqjdjkskd. but as much as I'm scared of making a move, I'm also scared of something actually happening. like he's not the type of guy any of my friends would expect me to like. he's not that cute, studious, shy guy. he's the athletic, football, likes to work out, and super smart type of guy. I haven't told any of my friends I like him though. I usually don't talk about my crushes with my friends because I don't want word to get out and hear people gossiping. Maybe I'll try to hang out with him this weekend? maybe like ask him to go study together? I don't know if there's a chance of him liking me either though. Because he gives me these signals sometimes but then starts talking to me about a bunch of girls like what is that supposed to meannnn??? | Crushes |
This is technically a vent but if anyone has any insight I would really appreciate it.
So I (19F) met some new friends at my uni. One being my crush (19M). We have a lot of classes together and talk on the daily. We have a lot of the same interests and have really nice conversations. Sometimes I kinda of get flirty vibes from him but I can’t tell.
The problem is I can’t act on any of my feelings because he has a girlfriend (20F). And I liked her at first and we became friends and we confided in each other. She would ask me for relationship advice and what not.
One day she confided in me that she felt like he was just ignoring her and invalidating her. And he is nothing like that with me so I was a little worried that maybe he wasn’t who I though he was. As I keep reading she says ‘and no offense to you but I feel like he is more there for you and everyone else. I heard that y’all talk all the time.’ This really upset me because although I do like him, I have never and will never act on any romantic impulse. I’m not a home wrecker. I kept my feelings out of the situation and gave her genuine advice on just trying get him to talk to her and blah blah. Ever since then she hasn’t confided in me since. And I’ve just grown away from her. Now I only see her if she is with him. We’ve all gone to a couple of on campus events together and almost every-time she ends up being upset or wanting to leave early. I have social anxiety and what not and I understand that there is only so much that a person can take.
Today there was a game night and we all went. My crush was trying to show us how to play a game and she just couldn’t understand it. And I just said ‘It’s okay let’s just play and see. Explaining something doesn’t always work.’
As we played she still couldn’t really get it and we kept trying to help her but she just shut down and started being rude. She just kept saying ‘I don’t want to play’ and ‘this is stupid’ and eventually stormed out. It aggravated me enough that I rolled my eyes and I think my crush saw. I feel guilty because I know that’s rude, but she just puts a bad taste in my mouth. He went after her and they didn’t come back for 15 minutes.
She only ever seems to act like this if anyone tags along with them.
So now I’m starting to think that maybe my crush isn’t a shitty boyfriend and it’s actually the girlfriend being overly clingy and dependent. And I’m not the only one who thinks this, my friends get bad vibes from her too. I don’t want to not like her, but she just seems off. Am I the problem? | Crushes |
AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHOM TO ASK OUT FOR IT. Like, fr, I personally speak with many different girls throughout my everyday, but THEY'RE ALL TAKEN OR IDK THEM WELL ENOUGH TO ASK THEM OUT. Some of them may not even go and I want to go but not alone :')
Ughhhhhh I will keep on trying until I do! | Crushes |
There’s this guy who I became friends with back in 7th grade. It was an interesting meeting because it started with our pep rally. He was sitting behind me with his bsf, and I was with mine. I had a huge fucking migraine at the time, and ofc he was the one screaming at the top of his lungs. Ig I was just really cranky because I kept yelling back at him. We kept going back and forth until the event finally ended.
That was it until we kept seeing each other in the hallway. Then we realised we had some of the same friends. I ended up feeling a little bad so I tried to befriend him. I mean, all I did was go “YOU.“ and he pointed at me saying it back. Eventually, it got to the point where we would hang out while waiting to be picked up. Told him sorry and we had some chill conversations.
I don’t gain crushes easily, so it actually took me a couple of months before I had a thing for him. Even then, I didn’t do shit. I was not in a good place mentally and I knew that, though I did almost confess once. That year we became best friends fast. When I was gonna say something, my friend told me she liked him. Told her to go for it. They did end up dating btw, but it had a toxic start and end. Before he asked her out, some shit happened at the school dance, and there I was holding him cause he was sobbing at the end of the night. So was the other girl, but she had her friends take her somewhere to distract her. (He asked her out officially the next week.)That was kind of a turning point in our friendship. I have been one of the few people who has ever seen him cry, or even comforted him. The same goes for him.
8th grade was weird in my eyes at least. We were super close, but I was also drifting simultaneously. I was hyper-aware of my crush, and it didn’t help the guy showed his affection through gifts and physical touch. (it wasn’t just me. he still does this, albeit less than he used to) the number of times we hugged or kind of cuddled or something had me more determined to move on. That was until I found out about his mental state one night, and if any of you found our messages after this moment, you would be yelling at me. It was borderline essays. From vents, to reassurances, to “good night, sweet dreams”. At some point, we started sending “love you” messages to each other with hearts and everything. In our defense, we were pre-teens in difficult situations in our lives, and so we found comfort in each other. Also I was just super insecure. I was this immigrant who just moved and was still trying to figure out who I was.
Ever since his first gf, he was always dating someone (i have teased him for years saying he's a ladies' man. at one point, it was essentially the entire grade of girls who liked him lmfao.) In his defense, not only is he an attractive guy, he's a walking green flag, one of the most respectful and caring guys I know.
9th and 10th grade was difficult, in the sense that I was finally getting some action of my own, (took these mfs long enough) and he was back with his ex (the first girl). We got distanced, new friend groups, and new personalities. I was a shy person when I met him, he was super bubbly and social. We had a sudden switch that year. I was becoming friends with everyone, and he was comfy with the people he knew. Still bubbly and social, but preferred to be in his own circle. We would occasionally talk, essays and all, but not as much as we used to. All his gfs have never had an issue with me because they understood how affectionate he was to everyone. Also, he is the most loyal mf I have ever met. Like I said, a walking green flag. I was busy making friends and talking to guys. And then COVID hit. At the time, I was getting close to this one guy, but that fell through since everyone isolated themselves (socially too).
The summer/ start of 10th grade was kinda interesting tho. I made a couple of amazing discord friends (still close with them to this day. best online friend group ever), and one of the girls kept telling me my bsf was into me. I denied it cause I was still slightly insecure. We ended up making a bet, and so I texted him, and asked him if he liked me. GUESS WHO KEPT TRYING TO CHANGE THE CONVO. I was distracted for a bit until I finally got him to admit it. He had liked me since 7th grade too, w o w. Never asked me out because he was scared our friendship would be ruined. I told him my end, and we just realized how stupid we both were. But guess what we also did not do? Ask each other out. I knew I was still afraid of ruining what we had, but I also was in denial. My biggest mistake was saying that I moved on. Guess who never said their crush ended?
During 10th grade, I had a FWB relationship with this guy I knew. Only other respectful guy I was close to at the time. He was super respectful, and a great friend. I ended it because I got harassed for a week at school, and I just couldn't stomach anything with any guy. I still have reservations to this day. I completely shut out every guy I knew. Could not talk, or speak, to any dude. It was that bad. I opened up to S (fwb) after a bit, and he was super sweet about it, kinda helped me open up again. My bsf was different. I told him, but he was virtual so he couldn't do much other than a text pity party. That is still the weirdest conversation I have had with him. It was super detached and just did not feel normal. We got super distanced again after that. We were in the same friend group that year though, and still hung out in person during the summer. I was healing and getting back to the flirty/friendly self I was.
Side thing, we went to a pool party and y o, the man was f i t. ong. I would have been simping hardcore, but I was getting used to wearing a bikini for the first time in my life. My girl bsf got me through it tho. It was a memorable party. I did feel hot af tho, yay me. Anyways, i have pictures of the party, and yep, the guy is hot. Looks like Flynn Ryder. Sharp ass jawline, fluffy hair, fit, and tall. And he is a flirty, affectionate, caring guy?? Gives the best hugs ever, easy to be around, and funny dude. I was so dumb bruh-
Also, guess who was finally single then? yeah, and guess who couldn't stop calling me pretty, sweet, and talented, that entire summer? He was even more attentive than normal. Oh and, his mother was rooting for us. Told his family about me. He admitted to it one night. ffs, if it were any other time, I would've jumped at the chance, but of course, it was when I was still uncomfy with guys. He moved schools that summer, and that was it. A couple of girls had a thing for him during his first couple of weeks, pfft I remember the texts. Told him to go for it, again, and the next week, he was with someone.
11th grade was a huge turning point in my life. I was mentally stable, my depression was gone, I was confident, could talk to guys, and was back to my normal self. He had been stable for at least a year too. Great points in our lives. Have not dated anyone though. I was close to doing so around three times that year. 1 was a red flag, 1 was better off as friends, and the last guy was graduating, so we ended it. I would say I am an attractive person, not in a narcissistic way, but in an "I know who I am," way. I have talked to many guys, made so many new friends, joined a ton of stuff, etc. I was content and happy (still am). After a whole couple of months of barely talking (the essays ended that summer. I still miss it) I got him to open up, and boom, his gf was toxic. Manipulative and isolating, even his mother was not a fan. They broke up two days after he told me (Apparently, only me and his mother knew.) Then two days later, he told me he went on a date, just as I was working up the courage (and timing, cause I mean, the guy just broke up) to do something about my crush. A couple of weeks later, they're dating, and they still are. She's an absolute sweetheart btw. The only stable relationship he has ever had. I am really happy for them, but I am also filled with regrets.
Anyways, now it is my last year of high school, reflecting on our friendship, and what could have been. I have to move on anyways and just get over it. We are still frfiends, just not like it used to be. Recently, I have been hesitant to call him my best friend. We are just good friends. This just kinda sucks, and I've been in a mood for a while. In a way, it feels like all those years with the person who has been with me through thick and thin, is fading away. I had so many opportunities, but I just let my anxiety take over. Ik I have college, and all that, but it just sucks.
Learn from my mistakes and just make your move. True friendships don't end, even after confessions. | Crushes |
Ok, I'm rlly sorry if my grammar is wrong but this is a throwaway account. Ok so the way it started was 2 years ago. I had this one person in all of my classes 1st semester. They seemed nice but I didn't really know them. I will name this person O. O at that time was dating someone, named K. K and O were in a very lovey dovey relationship and met eachother in an extra curricular activity. K and 0 are both very populat and have a lot of friends. I at this time was new to the school since I just came back from being virtual. (Covid). I had no friends and didn't rlly know who to talk to. So entire 1st semester goes along with me being rlly sad and lonely. 2nd semester comes around and now I am friends with all of K's friends. K and all of her friends are the same race as me. We form a very small minority in our school and we liked to stick toghether and have people who could understand our struggles. Now here is where the drama starts. I am on a robotics team and am kinda a nerd O and K are also nerdsish and would love to join the robotics team. Now I knew O, since O was in all my classes. I didn't know K as much, I just heard about her through gossip from our mutual friends. O and I start to form a rlly good friendship and we become somewhat besties. (The thing is he is friends with almost every girl so either he got tons of bitxhes or is gay/bi/pan {i support as im pan myself} so idfk of we r besties or he is like superfriendly to everyone or what) so obviously when I have to recommend someone for the robotics team I choose to vote for O. (Now idk how o and k broke up for sure but I think this is how) K and O then get into a huge argument and then stop being a couple. All of K's (and mine) friends (except me and one girl) despise of O. I never really like choosing sides in an argument, especially when I don't know the entire story, so I decided to try to be friends with both of them. Now for the entire summer we didn't talk untill we had a school event that forced us to be toghether. (A mentoring program) O, K, and I all are like friends, (but k avoids o and o avoids k) and so all of our mutual friends are hanging out, taking, and I just honestly had a really fun time hanging out with them. I think this is when I start to have a teeny crush on O since meeting him just made my heart flutter. But I knew I couldn't break girl code and tried to stay mutual. Untill k texted me after the event saying
"I think o likes you, but be careful he is a rlly big asshole. He hates music, was rlly controlling, and was only rlly nice during the lovey phase, after that's gone it will be a one sided relationship. U can have him all to yourself but once something happens I'll just say I told you so" now honestly I thought it was rlly sweet that k would take her time to tell me this, but then it made me wonder. Would I be breaking girl.code if I dated.O after she told me this. Anyway, robotics season now started and G(a mutual friend who staid neutral with me) O and I all do robotics toghether. We have a lot of fun. Now we I said O is a popular kid so almost every boy in robotics rlly likes him and starts to be friends with him. G and I like to tease that one of the boys in robotics has a crush on him. So them in order to prove that O is not gay and does not like a boy he plays smash or pass with them. (G and I weren't there when they were doing this he told us to prove that he wasn't gay.) Then eventually mine and G's name came up. O told me that he said pass to me. Which honestly was fine since it made me realize that maybe he didn't have a crush on me and it might be easier for us to just stay friends. That was untill G and I questioned what he said for G. O evaded the question and just left robotics. I questioned him and said that I wouldn't tell G what he said. He then told me that he smashed G. This honestly made me feel better, but I remembered that G considered herself to be asexual.and said she wouldn't break the girl code. So I warned O abt this. When I told O he said that he didn't really have a cush on her and it was more like a one night stand type of thing. I thought that maybe I could help ease is mind and see if he liked G or not. So I sent him these physiological tricks.
1
They copy what you do when they see it.
Ex: when u shake your leg they see it and shake their leg
2
They can't make proper eye contact. It makes their heart flutter and no one can keep up with that emotion for too long but if they keep it when your not 'looking' at them they like u
3
Always in ur personal space. This usually applies to people with a love language of touch
4
If someone lifts their eyebrows while looking at you they might like u. It's called a flash. A small rush of dopamine (happy hormone)
5
If they have dilated pupils while looking at u they might like u
6
They do small slight touches (once again for people with a physical love language)
7
When they sit the direction of their feet is facing u
8
They would like to know abt ur personal life
O's response to this was, "you just described yourself "
I was shook, I didn't know if I liked him or not. Maybe I did, but if so then what abt K? I avoided this topic and said "no I don't have a cush on you" then started to spam e into our chat.
What do I do. I need help. O seems like a rlly nice guy but idrk. Help pls | Crushes |
Ik this sounds cringe
Fucking cringe
But the thing is this is how i feel and i can't help how I'm feeling
I just can't😭
Idk why I'm feeling ths
I've never really believed in this but now i do
The best thing that has happened here , so far in my life is him it's just him
I fucking hated my life so fucking much and this guy makes everything better
He doesn't know how grateful I am to have him and how he has actually changed my life
I forgot what smiling and being happy was
But now everytime I'm around him, i can't stop smiling
I just i just hwjqiqjdbsbajiaoaaisnbbahahqhqhab
I can't describe this | Crushes |
I fall in love very easily and can get too attached to them. But the second they show interest in me back, all the feelings of love goes away and I move on to the next person. I know I sound like an asshole but I can’t help it.
Recently, I met a very attractive guy and immediately he showed a lot of interest in me. He is definitely my type and I would have a crush on him if I didn’t know him. All my friends really like him, and they all want us to be together. But for some reason, I just don’t feel anything towards him. I feel so bad and guilty every time this happens. It feels like I’m using him. I hate this side of me, and I don’t know how to fix it. I want to change, and I really want to be in a relationship with someone. Please give me advice on how to change this. | Crushes |
so basically i (15m) have a crush on a girl (15f), i have for some time now, and i really wanna tell her how i feel, but i just dont know when or how to. we share three classes in school, both run cross country, and we go to the same church. one part of me is telling me that i gotta just go for it, while the other part of me is telling me that i need to wait for the right time, which i kinda agree with. question is, how do i do it? if you need me to tell you anything else, i'll be willing to. | Crushes |
So I am a girl and I have a crush on a girl (We are both bisexual) I really feel like she likes me back but there are so many things that prove why it’s true and why it’s false so let me explain.
Last year in school she would always try to be my partner in everything. PE, classes, projects, etc. Not sure if this is because we’re just really good friends? One big thing that really happened was when my school hosted a after school dance she was basically my partner during it. For example, a duet dance was about to start and my other friend kept begging me to dance with her but my crush wanted me to stay with her. Does that mean anything?
What really sucks though is that when I text her about like school related things she responds right away but when I text her of things like how are you doing and stuff she just ghosts me. Like she didn’t text me for weeks. Is it really because she’s busy? She would normally respond back after being busy so…
We always like to make jokes with each other such as romantic jokes. Like she would signal jokes like “I like you” and stuff. Not sure if that’s a sign or normal? I also remember when my friends were making fun of us making ship names and while I denied she just kept laughing and didn’t say anything bad about it at all.
Now that was last year and now this is a new year of school. Luckily I’m in 4 classes with her so I see her a lot still which is great but the thing is that we aren’t that close anymore kinda. Since I’m not with her most of the time she has a new friend that’s a girl which was basically like me last year, my crush always wanting to be the girls partner and stuff so I don’t know what to do. I’ve been trying to spend more time with my crush lately which has worked a lot. Any tips?
4 days ago she asked me to walk to science with her and that class is very far away from the class we leave from and she knows that so I wonder why she asked me. The next day I didn’t think she would want me to walk with her so I left class to talk with my friends and seeing my crush walk away I thought she didn’t wanna walk with me again. But instead she walked all the way back to see me again. Today I walked with her but after that she just left the next day instead of waiting so I don’t know.
In my math class I always sit with her and my other friend which has been great. I always make her laugh and we always joke around. I help her with her work and she also helps me so it’s a win win for both of us. I also always sit with her at lunch and she also tries to sit with me at lunch too.
In all, she really is confusing. She does many things that a crush would do such as trying to be with me whenever she can and talk to me but also some other things. I’m not sure if she likes me or not though. Any thoughts? | Crushes |
Hmmmmm
So I've been reading our texts and literally laughing, smiling and blushing like an idio
Everytime i feel sad or low
I read his text telling me to not stop laughing and keep laughing always
Makes me sooooo gooooooood
He gives me butterflies in the stomach i can't tell you what this feeling is
It's just sooooooooooaoak gooooooood | Crushes |
- in response to me trying to justify something I did.
YOU CANT JUST SAY THATTTTTTTYYYTYDTDGEHDHHFJSKSJCJTNWBDBFREEDOVKAA | Crushes |
I’ve never crushed harder in my life.
It’s funny how crushes work, you know?
You see them at first. Maybe they’re somewhat good looking but you don’t think much of it.
But then they say or do something that catches your eye. It gives you that feeling.
After sleeping on it, bam, you realize have a massive crush on them.
At first I don’t think I remember thinking my crush was attractive. Now? It’s tough to think realistically on the prettiest girl in school lol.
It’s just something about her that subconsciously makes me think she’s prettier than she is. She is definitely at worst a 6, but dang she’s a 10 to me.
Do you not experience that? Is your crush realistically as attractive as you think? Weird what crushing can do to our opinions lol.
Approaching a crush is by far the scariest thing a middle schooler can do. Well, I at least speak for the guys.
Dang I remember last year in 7th grade my best friend made a group chat with me, my crush, and him. That’s how my crush and I know each other.
Oh yeah, I have been crushing on her for over a year.
It feels like no matter how confident I am, your best friend will have to lend a hand sooner or later.
I’ve heard people talk about how they hate having crushes.
How can you blame them? Crushes are a type of obsession, and rejection stings really bad. Stressful.
I don’t think I’m obsessed with my crush anyway. I just say I have a crush on her, because by definition a crush is an obsession at its roots.
Do you have a chance with your crush?
Just think about it. I mean if you’re still pre-high school like me, it’s hard to say you can for sure say no.
Oh you’re in middle school? You have no chance?
People change. It’s a part of growing up. I’m not telling you that in high school you will have a great shot.
I’m telling you that you have a shot that you will be better set up for success.
High school huh. Never been there lol. I wonder how different it is as an 8th grader.
Statistically there’s more odds of a successful relationship starting in college.
That’s not to say dating any time before then doesn’t hurt. I mean, you need the experience!
I have family that’s been together since high school. It ain’t impossible.
Be honest, with every crush you’ve had, you’ve thought about how long you’d last.
I refuse to say what my friends and I call the “M word.” It stands for the highest point you can go in a relationship. It usually involves a kneel and a question. Plus a ceremony.
Get the idea? Good.
We don’t say it when we talk about our crushes. We speculate all the time about what would happen if we all got our crushes. That usually involves at least a thought of the M word.
Have you ever thought about that with your crush? From what I see at school, the M word has crossed our mind with crushes at least once.
Why don’t we say it? That’s a significant thing. Especially when connecting it to your crush.
I honestly am not sure if I have a chance with my crush. Mixed signals suck!
Man if only she’d make up her mind! Just give me a chance!
I’m gonna bet you’ve thought that exact quote to yourself before.
I feel ya.
My mindset has always been that if you’re friends with her, what reason is there to believe the door is completely shut?
Just give it time man.
She’s probably still skeptical about how she feels about you if you’re friends.
You’re strangers to each other? Nice, you can’t relate to the mixed signals. You’re at a fresh start, and that’s good!
My crush and I have been friends for a while, and I’m still waiting for the perfect opportunity to take the next step.
How long have you been waiting?
It sucks, we all want our crush now.
I’m just as sad about my situation as you are about yours. I get it.
Have you ever been told that they’re out of your league?
I have.
It used to make me feel down, but it doesn’t get it me anymore.
The idea that there are “leagues” is totally subjective. Everyone’s personal idea of who is in what league is different.
At the same time, it’s important to know your place.
Hey, that’s a better way to say it!
Although it means something different.
You need to be sure what you want. Do you want an athletic partner? A smart one? Romantic one?
That’s the real way to define “leagues.”
Unlike leagues based on looks, this is objective. Nobody’s personality is subjective.
If you are crushing on what you don’t want, get back in your place.
You ever developed a big crush on someone and learn that they have a partner?
That hurts.
If you’re reading this I’m assuming you’re a teen. There’s a good chance every couple breaks up eventually.
That’s how teens are. We’re young and stupid.
Just take a step back. If they break up, great! If they don’t, so be it.
That’s why it’s always important to always be open to other people while you wait them out.
Are you waiting? I am.
It’s been about two weeks and based on who she’s with, I can confidently say no way they last past Halloween.
I’m open to other people. There’s this one girl that’s been mad flirty with me. Would I date her? Who knows. I can’t give a straight answer for the long term.
We’ll see what happens with my crush and her boyfriend come Halloween. I’m sure they won’t last.
Haven’t talked to her in a while. I’m just nervous she’ll hesitate to talk because of her relationship.
I wonder what would happen to my crush and I’s relationship if we started dating.
What would happen with you?
Would anything change at all?
I’d say for me that the only thing that’ll change is the rate in which we talk. We’ve flirted and acted playful in the past.
I’m running out of things to say, and I’m about to go to bed.
Dang man, if they break up, I hope she finally makes up her mind about me.
My best friend keeps telling me that she just doesn’t want to admit her feelings lol.
It’s been a long day today, imma head out. Good luck with your crush. I wish all the best to y’all. :) | Crushes |
Everything feels like a dream
Everything is sooooo goooooood
I wanna replay yesterday | Crushes |
Ahhhhhhhhhh you know when you flirt with someone for an extended period of time and it feels like it’s going really well and you open up to each other about deep shit only for them to hit you with the “oh yeah I have a date on Saturday” And he was so excited too and I’m really happy for him but god dammit why can’t that be me? 😭 | Crushes |
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edit: the full message was i love you my little munchkin when i said gn, she clarified the next day the i love you part was a joke but she still calls me her munchkin | Crushes |
Describe who the perfect person for you is, and if you think your crush/SO is perfect for you at the moment, describe them :) | Crushes |
This one day we didn't talk, he didn't even look at me even when we were sitting right infront of each other and i actually cried and felt like shit.
Next day he actually hugged me when i was at my low and immediately my mood changed and i was on cloud nine
Everything felt better
This is getting out of hand , i hate and love how my mood depends on his | Crushes |
I hate how everytime we talk , we either have to part ways or there's someone else and aoir convo remains soooo incomplete
I feel like shit
I just wanna talk to him for hours
Listen to him for hours
I will never get bored | Crushes |
If you haven't seen yet I am everywhere on this subreddit. Ask me for any advice and you shall receive to a certain extent bc im going through crush problems of my own so im not really a professional but i am the closest one you will find ! | Crushes |
Today she caught me staring at her and she smiled and waved, I immediately looked away embarrased.
I haven't seen her talk to many people besides her small friend group and me, and when she talks to other people she usually is unsure of their name, but she knows what my name is immediately.
Does she like me or am I just overthinking this all? | Crushes |
I’ve known this girl for 2 years and we went out to dinner one night because we have the same class. I asked to her to lunch a few days later and she said she ate but we could make the dinners a regular. We r part of the same friend group and I can’t tell. | Crushes |
Damnnnnn i just can't do this
I seriously miss him a lot rn | Crushes |
Accidentally hit his balls w a frisbee, he kind of leaned over for a minutes but then acted normal w me later. I should I apologized then but instead, I just quietly said “sorry.” It was so quiet he prob didn’t hear it and now he probably thinks I don’t care but I do I just idk why I didn’t apologize. So I’m planning to go to him tomorrow to actually apologize, but how do I approach him? We don’t really talk at school, we have no classes together, and the only thing we have together is cross country which is not until next week. The only time I see him tomorrow is when he’s surrounded by his friends (lunch/orchestra and the end of the school day) should I run up to him when he goes home? Idk | Crushes |
my crush (14m) is adorable and also perfect for me so here's a description of him being my perfect guy
super funny, good singer and actor, can dance????, really nice, taller than me (not that important but it's a plus), LIKES MUSICALS?!?!?!, supports me, literally adorable like wtf, likes reading (i love reading- this doesn't seem like a big deal but some guys i know hate it), gives me book recs, hangs out w me bc he wants to, when his friends are jerks he sides with me
but idk if he likes me so yeah. really hope he does bc ugh | Crushes |
So, my crush and I have one class together. This means, we see each other 2-3 times a week. When we do go in this class, me and her usually just sit and chat for the entire hour and a half.
This week, I seen her Tuesday and Thursday (today). I'm in a small after school club thing for gaming and had told her about it last week. On Tuesday, we talked about it randomly and she asked when my next meeting was, to which I told her on Thursday. She responded by jokingly saying she should sneak in.
Cut to today (Thursday, day of the meeting) and after some talking, I eventually brought up that I would be staying after school until 5pm. She responded, again, that she's also staying after school and should sneak in. She never did (she was in an rotc thing, so they're super strict) but, I can't help but get the feeling that maybe this means something?
Does this mean anything or am I stupid? | Crushes |
I’ve never wanted to hug someone until now. I don’t even like hugs. But that’s all I want from him. He’s my height, so it’d be nice and comfortable and I could just pull him close. I’ve felt so dreamy lately. It’s all I’ve thought about these past 3 days, almost out of nowhere. I was unsure whether I still had feelings for him, but I guess it took time for them to resurface. Because I’ve never wanted to just press my face against someone else’s and just melt into them so badly. We have no classes together.. My parents won’t let me go see him at his place.. and I feel like Juliet lol.
But I’m pretty sure he doesn’t like me back.. | Crushes |
Ok so I have a crush on this girl, but I recently found out that she has a boyfriend (I think????? I've never heard anyone say it but I'm like 99% sure). But she also showed evidence that she liked me but now im not so sure??? But now her friend asked me if I liked her, and I said only as a friend cause i didnt want to seem like a weird person that was trying to go after someone who was already in a relationship. But now, idk if i messed up or not people are so confusing 😭😭😭😭😭😭 | Crushes |
I have feelings for this girl and have for a while now I don’t know what word to use though as it feels stronger than a crush. | Crushes |
he doesntlove me in that way i want advice were really close friends and i feel like i love him but were classmates we sit in a-z order so im always next to him if this doesnt go well i have no friends i lost my bestfriends due to one of thembody shaming me im 100 pounds 20 pounds under wieght for my height btw no i have a minor ed anyway i want to ask him out but is it worth iy im 90 percent sure he doesntlove me i cant breath please help | Crushes |
Im going to talk to her tomorrow. Yeah I know, how pathetic lol. Not even a confession. | Crushes |
she normally sends me wall pics or face pics yk i send whatever she sends cause ion really gaf
outta no where middle or class she sends me a pic without her face showing her chest & thighs
kinda sus
i sent a wall pic cause ion like he rand she didn’t respond. i’ve been on opened for 8 hours | Crushes |
I’ve had not too good experiences with men throughout my high school-college years. A lot of the guys I’ve ever talked to have only ever really wanted to use me for s3x, and it really makes it hard to tell if people now actually like me, or just wanna get in to my pants. When school first started for me about a month ago, I met a guy in one of my classes and we immediately started talking.
At first, we did end up hooking up, which was okay since it was consensual on both ends. Thing was, this didn’t feel like any old hookup. We got iced coffee before and talked at the beach, then back to my place. He was super sweet and caring the whole time. A few weeks later though, I ended up catching feelings. We were constantly hanging out after our classes together, without even doing anything sexual. I don’t know if I can call it dates or not though.
I ended up telling him I had feelings for him and he basically said, “I was thinking the same thing! I just don’t know how I can hangout everyday if we were to date since I have work all the time,” which then I told him dating isn’t about that and that it’s okay to have time for yourself. He agreed with me and we agreed on starting things over a bit and taking it slow.
It’s been two weeks since this conversation and I’m starting to like him more and more, and just wish I could call him mine. I don’t know what to tell him. He makes me super happy and I love being around him. He’s a genuine guy too. | Crushes |
while we where waiting to get picked up, she and her friend where doing some stuff, then they ran up to me or smth and her friend starting like jokingly grabbing and crap on to her or smth then she said *my name* ahhh help me she’s assaulting me | Crushes |
Basically I've been questioning whether or not I had a crush on this girl for 4 years. I've trying to figure out if I had feelings for her or not but I still don't know. I've been trying to find certainty for a very long time but still nothing. I'm scared if I were to ask out my supposed crush, I'll find out that I'm lying or something else irrational. I'd like to also mention that I've never been in a relationship before, so I don't even know how it'll all work out. Anyone else has this issue? | Crushes |
there is a boy in school who would always stare at me. In the hallways and when I’d walk around the classroom. Yes I’d look at him, but my friends would tell me that he would look over at me. He’s a quiet kid with no friends. And at first I didn’t have any friends at first, so I thought we could be friends. One day in the hallway he got closer to me and purposely ran into me. I tried to talk to him about it the next day when we had class together. But he was awkward and acted like he didn’t know what I was talking about.
So one day in the halls he started to follow me and my friend to the bathroom. So me and my friend walked past the bathroom and he kept following us. Then, he walked faster and walks right next to me. His arm and shoulder were literally rubbing against mine. So I tap him on the shoulder and ask where he’s going. We actually ended up walking and talking to class together. The whole time we were walking with our sides rubbing against each other. He was smiling and blushing when we talked. And 2 people said he looked really happy to be with me. The girl who I was originally walking with said he was surprised and looked happy when I tapped him on the shoulder.
But now when he sees me he just looks at me and walks past me. I said hey to him once to see why he didn’t say hi in the halls , but he said hey back in an annoyed tone. Even today when I had to turn around to listen to the teacher talk, he turned red and looked away.
I thought he liked me. And I honestly like him. Idk I thought we clicked when we finally had a conversation with each other. But I guess he didn’t feel the same way. One time though in the hallway, I didn’t have enough time to wave at him since I was doing something. Is that what set him off? Am I getting played? Was he never truly interested? Should I move on? Why is he acting like this?
I told my teammates about him. Now I wish I never did. | Crushes |
Okay so I’m in a new school bc I got kicked out of my old one and there’s this guy who won’t stop staring at me. Like he’s staring directly into my eyes, at first I thought he was day dreaming until he kept doing it like every 30 seconds.
He’s rlly cute but idk what to do back, like I just sit there and give him an awkward smile. He always tries to talk to me but I’m quiet in school so I don’t know how to strike up a conversation uno?
Any tips/ suggestions I can have to maybe start a convo or like what to do when he stares would be amazing thankyouuuu x | Crushes |
im gonna do it tomorrow since everyone is doing it at my school 😭. wish me luck im realllly anxious | Crushes |
I’m 14 (F) and he’s (M) no clue how old he is cuz I’ve never talked to him. At my school all the black kids kinda just stay in a group with each other and don’t really branch out. Don’t know why that’s just how it is. Only issue: my crush is in that group. It’s not like I can just walk up to him; that would be weird. Ive been insecure about my race and who I am because I keep telling myself “he’s not gonna like a white girl from the suburbs” and I’m probably right about that. There’s nothing cool about me. However, there is one way I could talk to him. I have history with him and my teacher breaks us up into group every class. Two flaws to this plan: 1. I’d need to end up in the same group as him and 2. He doesn’t do his work so there would be no opportunity for me to talk to him. Plus what would I even say to him in the group? I tried to find him on social media but I’ve had no luck. What should I do to talk to him? | Crushes |
Ok so im a sophomore in high school and I have science class with this girl that is really sweet and kindhearted. The desks are in pairs so everyone has a partner they can do labs and stuff with. Well believe it or not, the teacher had me sit next to her. At first we did assignments like normal but after a bit, we were making each other smile and laugh. Sometimes she seemed a bit nervous and we also make random eye contact. One random thing is that one time we were doing a lab and our hands touched which isn't much but it was cute, okay? Anyways, earlier this week I walked into the class and saw the teacher put a new seating chart on screen. Aw crap. We had to go straight to our new seats, which sucks because I would have said something to her. Now we have different partners. I barely see her in the halls and when I do, she is with her friends. No idea how to approach her because I dont really see her without her friends. | Crushes |
(Btw i just created this account I don’t really know how to do stuff but I need help thanks) We weee at cross country practice, and we threw a frisbee around. Btw I suck at throwing frisbees and long story short, I hit my crushes balls with a frisbee
OK I SUOUDK have immediately ran up to him and asked if he was ok and that I’m so sorry but I didn’t I just said sorry REALLY QUIETLY AND I FEEL SO BAD WHY DIDNT I JUST HE PROBABLY THINKS I DONT CARE I DO CARE BUT )I’m kinda shy) ITS NOT EZCUSE sorry so then he acted normal w me later but I could tell he was in pain. What should I do | Crushes |
She probably has a higher chance, they’ve known each other forever.
(If ur up to date on my posts, this is abt Z)
But I mean I have a chance, he’s bi. | Crushes |
Okay so here it is, the last 9 months I’ve had a crush, we are acquaintances. We know each other’s name and like some small little things about each other but that is about it
Anyways…. The only time I really ever get to see him is when he comes in to my job while I am working
I am trying to get the courage up to ask him to hangout but it always seems like there is so many other customers / bosses/ crazy work stuff going on so it doesn’t feel right to just come out when it’s not a good time
I found his social media, everything is private, and I’ve been debating if I should add him
Would he think it’s weird that I literally searched and searched the internet until i found him???
I have a feeling he likes me back or at least would be interested in getting to know me more but I’m just not sure what is the best way to move forward | Crushes |
I have this crush called jane(its not her real name) jane is a nicely built 8th grader in my class we talk alot but now she is getting away abit but occasionally she comes extremly close during camp she said she "im sceared can i sleep in your camproom
But she also strays away i wanna ask her ouy how can i ask her out hoe do i compliment | Crushes |
I had the PERFECT chance to ask him out. My friend wasn’t here so I sat at his desk next to my crush for half the class, I could have talked to him. And then when class was over I rushed behind him but had second thoughts and was too scared. I’m still literally shaking even though this happened like 8 hours ago and I wanted to cry right there in the middle of class. Now I have to wait 5 days to even see him again and I absolutely hate everything. God damn it Im so stupid. | Crushes |
How do I compliment a girls eyes. The girl I like has blue eyes | Crushes |
She knows my mom because my mom is a bus aid and this girl was on my moms bus at one point but thing is that this girl who we will call Rae had been really nice to me in class which I was kinda surprised about because I’m a just some nervous metalhead who likes Motley Crue and Metallica and she is this popular girl who has family issues and has a attitude,well I had got home and I had told my mom about her and she said she knew her and I said I wanted to be friends with her so me and her ended up becoming friends and she is super cute and over time I started to develop feelings for her but her dad is kinda abusive and makes her go to bed at like 7 at night but I would really like your thoughts on how I’m doing things so far | Crushes |
We are going to play tennis tomorrow with other people and I am starting to feel nervous. 1) I have not played tennis in years so rip, 2) My friends were suppose to come with me but they all bailed, and 3) I had an anxiety attack yesterday because he liked a picture of a beautiful girl that goes to our church and now I am feeling too ugly to even look at him. Worst is that my therapist is not available tomorrow so I have no one to vent these feelings out but here. Send help please 😭 | Crushes |
Well for context, she's shy and so am I. I want to make the first move but it's a little bit difficult since I'm shy. I want to get to know her more which is why I want to talk with her in the first place. A while ago, I've been thanking this anonymous message thingy cause I've easily talked with her without revealing my identity. We're classmates and we're in the same room for 7 hours each day but doesn't know each other. Is there any way I can talk with her physically? | Crushes |
So she saw my phone while I was looking through my pictures. She saw one of me and my old crush/friend with slightly romantic lyrics as a caption and asked me who she was. I didn’t want to lie, so I just shrugged and said “A girl I used to like”. She said “Oh. Girls are weird.” I changed the topic because I didn’t want to talk about her.
Before that happened, she would text me every day and almost spam me with pictures of herself. In person, she would always grab my hands/arms, lightly punch me, or do things to get me to touch her. I would always catch her staring at me or she would look for me.
Now it seems like she has pulled away a little bit. She doesn’t text me nearly as much as she did. She’s been flooding her social media with pictures of her and her boyfriend(yeah… I know) when she never really did before. The last I’d heard she wanted a break from him. She seems super awkward around me when she’s normally very confident. She gets tongue tied and walks away. She doesn’t touch me as much as she did before. She kind of hides behind our other friends when they’re around.
She did randomly give me a gift the other day which surprised me. But I also wasn’t feeling well so maybe she was just trying to make me feel better.
I also took a selfie in a certain location on campus just to be goofy and a couple of hours later, she posted a selfie in the same location. It felt like she was copying me and if you put the pictures together it probably looks like we are posing together. But it could just as well be a coincidence.
Is she backing off because she’s working on thing with her boyfriend now? Did she like me and I messed up?
I’m obviously not making any moves if she’s taken, but I still want to be friends. Is there a way to make it less awkward? | Crushes |
I have a crush on a girl two years younger than I am and people think that I’m a monster.. | Crushes |
I'm just so in love it's sad. Like shes just so perfect and i love her so much but knowing ive got no chance is just depressing. Like yk when you like someone that much that you just cant stop thinking about them, like when someone or something mentions anything about love, liking someone, crushes, their special person and they just pop into ur head and all you can think about is them. Like its just crazy how often you can think about one person each day. Anyone else feel like this often? | Crushes |
Today she caught me staring at her (in my defense, I was zoned out) AND SHE WAVED AND SMILED
I immediately put a mask on and looked away. I PANICKED AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO SI SBUNISNUSBUSUBS
I THINK SHE KNOWS, I THINK SHE KNOWS, I THINK SHE KNOWS
AAAAA
DOES SHE LIKE ME? DOES SHE KNOW? AAAAAA | Crushes |
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