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I am going to send her a message and tell her I appreciate her but I also want to include some kind of hint that I like her.
This is my prototype message:
I wanted to tell you that I really appreciate you being my friend because I know a lot of times I may not show my appreciation. I really do love every interaction we have. I’ve really enjoyed this year together so far and I look forward to the next one with you as well. :)
By year I mean school year
What do you guys think and do you have any ideas for how I can hint that I like her? | Crushes |
Every single time I try to ak my crush out, her friend gets in the way. It has gotten to the point where she said that my crush isn't allowed to hang out with me with out specifying a single reason (I immediately knew she was lying because I hadn't done anything remotely creepy either). After me and my crush hung out, I asked her if she wanted to hang out another time, and she said "sure :)". Her other friend (who is actually willing for me to hang out with her) also hung out with us, so it is possible to ask if her if her and my crush want to hang out another time, but there is still the probability that my crush will tell her friend, and that her friend will continue to get in my face about asking my crush out.
I would really like to hang out with my crush again, but with her friend who gets in my face about asking her out in the way, I have no idea what to do. Does anyone have any potential advice? | Crushes |
I (28f) have been happily doing me— or I was until I started gravitating towards this guy in my office. It’s a big place so I don’t see him often, but over the past few months it’s grown from casual conversation to talking 24/7 (but still via Slack).
I don’t text often but I cannot get enough of him— he’s so witty, interesting, and can dish it back so well. The conversations seem well balanced, easy.. really checks all the boxes. I want to go out with him (or at least text) but he makes me weirdly shy! I’ve been letting it play out slowly and just enjoying the ride but Id love more than a slack message.
Instead of getting closer, suddenly he’s drier than the breadcrumb texts I’m getting! It seemed mutual and fun… Did I miss my shot? TIA!
TLDR: I have a playful work crush that I can’t shut up about. Corporate Cinderella magically turned back into a random coworker at the stroke of midnight. Any advice? | Crushes |
Me and her have been friends for a while now, and we often times play video games and talk often late at night too. She often tells me that she is into white guys(i’m white)
And also often asks to hangout with me. I have a feeling that she may have feelings for me, but at the same time i might be overthinking it like i usually do. Me being the shy and nervous wreck i am, i am too afraid to tell her my feelings because i feel like that could ruin our friendship if she doesn’t feel the same way. Idk what im supposed to think or do, so someone plz tell me😂 | Crushes |
For context my crush has had a boyfriend for 4 months now but recently she’s been complaining about her boyfriend. She has had one of our mutual friend comfort her 2 times in one day because her relationship is one sided and a long distant one at that.
For context she met him online and asked him to be her boyfriend. Her boyfriend lives over 3 thousand miles away and she’s fine with that but recently she’s been complaining about how she feels the relationship is one sided.
She has taken to her story multiple times and posted things about checking who he follows and who follows him on the daily at night due to how she feels that it is inevitable that he will find another girl and leave her. I haven’t said anything to her regarding that and I feel like I should keep it that way, butI feel as though I should at least say something. Even if I did say something I wouldn’t know exactly what to say. Any ideas on what I should do? | Crushes |
I wish I was making this up. So I graduated high school and came to our mutual event that was open to everyone to see and stayed as far away from him as possible until the end where we all had to gather in the room. Apparently, he told someone else, “why is she here” when he saw that I was there and the person who told me that told me to move on and that he’s already a soulless person when it comes to romantic relationships. Worst of all, my crush might get together with someone there who treated me like I was inferior and secretly disliked me. She even said hi to me at the event and couldn’t help but feel uneasy. I know for sure I have to move on. | Crushes |
I've had a crush on him for over a year, and I see him as more of a friend than a lover now. I'm just gonna move on. | Crushes |
Things were going great, we texted every single day and she was the only supportive person I knew, and then I probably got too clingy and now shes been ignoring me and when she does text (very little) shes super dry. Idk if she hates me now, or shes just busy or what :( | Crushes |
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We're the same age, I've known her for a good amount of time, but I never felt anything towards her, but one day it all changed and I don't really know why. She said hi to me and that's all it took. One greeting. The next time I saw her that day I was blushing and couldn't keep my eyes off of her. For the rest of the day, I just wanted to be alone for some reason, and during that I was thinking about her the whole time. For the rest of that month (which was June btw) I kept thinking about her, I even had a dream about her, we held hands and she did that cute giggle she does in real life, I've even seen her in a few other of my dreams, but they weren't mainly about her. I haven't seen her during summer so I managed to take my mind off of her but that didn't last long, and I keep thinking about her. I don't really know what this it at this point, it's more than any other crush I've had. | Crushes |
When crushing on a friend, what do you do? Tell them how you feel or try to push those feelings away? | Crushes |
So I (21M) know this (22F) for almost a year know, we got closer 4 o 5 months ago, and I have a crush on her for 3 months already, right now she's working abroad. I was thinking about confessing my feelings once she's back. We have been talking for almost 3 months in a row. We used to talk a lot per day and I love it she was really king and nice with ne, she make me feel so loved(and still talking) but I feel like she's absent since a few days, she says she has lot of work and that's true, but I don't know I'm confused, a week ago she told me about a guy she met in Omegle 2 years ago, she said was going to meet him and I thought that was cool. They saw each other a few times and I thought it was cool cause she had a friend while she was there but.
Yesterday she told me that she moved to his city and today she started posting a few pics at Instagram, all cool except for the last photo she posted it was a photo of the walking through the field while they were holding hands. I was drinking with my friends when I saw that.
That shit broke me a little I had to stop drinking immediately. I think they're dating. Tomorrow I'll know if that's true.
What should I do guys?? | Crushes |
Okay this is kinda dumb but basically there’s this guy at work. He works for a cleaning company and I see him every Friday and Saturday. I’ve always found him attractive and like not trying to sound overconfident but I’ve always caught him staring at me. He always looks at me every time he sees me but whenever I look at him he looks away. Today, however, when he was looking at me and I looked back at him he didn’t look away and so I smiled at him and he smiled back. And omg he looked so handsome when he smiled like this sounds so cringy but my heart started beating sooo fast I got so shy all of a sudden Idek y. I have never felt this way over a smile before like Idek this guys name we haven’t even talked to each other before. After that I felt like there was a tension of some sort whenever we made eye contact. Maybe I’m just being overdramatic bruh I need some answers!! What does this mean 😂 | Crushes |
I have had a crush on a classmate of mine since February when our country allowed highschools to return to in-person classes. I confessed on the last day before Easter Break and was left in the friend zone, but we still talked like normal afterwards (or at least I hope I was acting normal). Normally when I'd get rejected I'd give up and just let the lingering feelings burn out mostly before moving on, but a month and a half later an extroverted friend of mine found out (he is also friends with the girl I confessed to) and he encouraged me to not give up, saying I didn't even shoot a shot to begin with because I only confessed and didn't ask her to be my girlfriend. A week after a few botched attempts at being a wingman (instead of giving me hope it felt more like I was being dragged through the mud and stepped on), I told him I was considering giving up for good but I wasn't sure if I should. He told me that I could either give up or start pursuing other girls at the same time.
To be honest the thought has crossed my mind but I always brushed it aside as being insincere. I'm honestly wondering if I should just completely move on or continue to pursue her while pursuing other girls, so I decided to see what everyone's opinion on these kinds of situations as well as look for advice.
(Btw, if I were to pursue other girls it goes without saying that I'd refocus on only one girl if things got serious. Just thought I should mention it.) | Crushes |
So here's the thing, I'm (20f) a university student and have a crush on a (20m) guy (he's also a student with the same major) that used to tutor a group of students (including me) when he's free (he's a really nice guy). I've had a crush on him over the last 6 months, purley for the fact that he's the nicest dude I've ever met, he helped me through alot of questions whenever asked, he also told me that if I needed anything he'd explain it to me alone in the library and told me when he was free (he didn't offer it to anyone else though), I never took the offer, and I never initiated convos with him, like... EVER (except on fb messenger), so we basically never talked in real life, if I had a certain question I'd only ask him through fb messenger. The tutoring stopped 4 months ago, well about 7 weeks ago my friend wanted to see what he looked like, we were walking past him where he was sitting with his friends and I explained to her what he was wearing so she can take a look at him, mind you I wasn't looking at him at ALL, I was just speaking and she was straight up staring at him, literally tilting her head 180 degrees for a good 10 seconds, he OBVIOUSLY noticed and was kinda confused, she told me he was looking.
After that he started skipping the same class we had, and I saw him after that class getting something to drink, he just kept staring while I was sitting with my friend and that went on for about 30 minutes, he skipped 3 times (the staring never stopped) and my professor was the type to take absence, we had a test/quiz and he showed up at the end of the class just to take it, the professor still wrote him an absence, we made eye contact the second he went in the class and I was sorta startled and in disbelief because it's was kinda obvious that he knew and i thought it was a bitchy move, he noticed it.
Before the final exam, multiple students were asking questions on the group chat and I asked for past years questions, he replied and was like "hey if you find any yourself please send them over" with this emoji 🙆🏻 (like wtf?) And after we finished the test, I asked about a certain question, he straight up left the group chat the moment I asked it, ever since then he's been walking around like he owns the campus, he's not the most gorgeous looking guy btw, he seemed always insecure to me but I boosted his confidence so much and I hate myself for it, he still stares and I recently found out he's in the same class as me (he knows I'm taking this class during this semester because I told him) he's apparently retaking it, I know he's a massive walking red flag and I hate myself for even liking him, but I don't know if he likes me back.
Edit: I know for a fact that he knows I like him, I just want to know if it's mutual.
Edit2: I've been avoiding him non-stop the past couple of days, we're in the same class but I stopped looking at him, and when we do make eye contact i just look away and accidentally act annoyed like I'm sick of his presence (idk how I keep doing that it just happens okay) I can tell that he's not that confident anymore, he's visually nervous every time he encounters me now. | Crushes |
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Hey everyone. First of all, please don't judge. I had a test day for work on Thursday. And the daughter of the boss helped me that day. She's just one year younger than me, and omg. She's the prettiest girl I've ever seen. The downside? She has a boyfriend. AND I obviously wanna work there, so this can't be a thing for multiple reasons. I just can't get her out of my mind. Has anyone any tips on how to overcome this? Or maybe some songs that talk about this kind of thing? Would greatly appreciate it. | Crushes |
for background, im i just started 7th grade and i alr like someone(name is marilliza) in math class we got partners to write the problems and solutions to math and of course i got paired up with her. so it was going fine until she started just writing one of the problems down and i had no idea what she was writing. of course, in the teachers random person generator thing, i got picked. my mind went completely blank and i forgot about everything that we were doing. i technically embarrassed myself in front of the whole class, but it hurt more because she was my parter. i dont know if i even have a chance with her anymore as this was her first impression of me. | Crushes |
O.k so I will start from the beginning, I'm a really conservative person (18 female) and I never really texted with the other sex ever in my life especially not someone I liked, only in group chats or for school homework but that's it and this guy was the first I've ever texted for other reasons and for so long AND someone I've liked so yeah, there was a guy with whom I went to school with, we were in the same class for only one year (9th grade and we both were 14) and that was the same year we met for the first time. So back then we actually were kinda friends bc he was from the same culture and religion as I was and we had two more people of the same background as we.
But like we did not really talk very much with each other but I kinda think he liked me a little bit back then bc he would always call for me even tho he was sat at the very back and I at the very front and like through the whole classroom he would call for me just to ask me "how r u?" Lmao thinking back it was kinda funny. We talked occasionally about some stuff and yeah had conversations.
However, after that year we went to different schools and yeah kinda never talked to each other, but like 3 months after the new school year we started chatting on snapchat and it was kinda weird bc we would like chat for 1 or 2 weeks straight and then stop for 3 months and one of us would initiate the first text and it would go on like that, chat for 2 weeks and then pause for 3 months. And that went on for 3 years.
The thing is we always talked about our favorite TV shows, how r u's and little stuff like that. He is a considerate and nice person and he always treated me with respect and that was something I liked about him a lot bc a lot of men from my culture font really talk to women out of respect to them but it was like they would not talk to womwn from the same culture but talked to other women you know? So i always hated it bc I couldn't even be friends with them bc of culture, they just ignored me. That's another reason I've never talked to men or befriended them.
But this year it was kinda different bc I honestly really wanted to like start to have good contact with him and like develope a good friendship, I liked him for those past years too like I kinda had a smal little crush on him but never realized it until recently.
So yeah I tried snapping him daily and at first it was always me who snaped/ texted first, and it was funny too bc sometimes i would open and answer his snap after 30 min and he would the exact same and then when I answer after 4 min he would answer exactly after 4 min too, but after I texting first for 4 times I stopped and after a day he texted first so It was kinda a good flow between us, but he sometimes explained that he hat a lot if tests coming and he dat to study and that was understandable bc they would have that trip to another country and still the they had to finish all tests. But then I think I was too much like snapping all the time bc I felt like I HAD to answer and continue the conversation and if I don't we will lose connection.
Basically at some point he didn't text me for two weeks and I didn't want to text first bc I felt like I do it too much but I noticed he wouldn't text me first if I didn't so it went on like that, I would text first, we would snap for a couple of days and some time he didn't even try to answer he just opened the snap or read the text and would not answer and then I was left on read for a week.
Ofcourse there was a time when he texted or snapped and I would not answer for hours or days too but i don't think it affected him like it did me.
We snapped during school hours too and I junda felt weir when he snapped his friends face or random girls that would sit beside him, ofcourse it was not that I was jealous or something. It was that he did it kinda with some intention I dunno, I think they would read everything we wrote during class too. Like one time he snapped me a girl that was beside him and wrote "she wants you to send a pic without a filter or ur mask" and like ofc I snaped with him with no make up, filter or mask but it was weird and I just like pushed it aside jokingly.
He is really religious and culture based too so he wouldn't like do stuff with random girls but I cant say that for sure bc a person can change during 3 years a lot and I'm not there and yeah I'm no one to assume.
So last month he was going on a school trip to another country and would stay there for a week and I didn't text him during that time but after that he didn't even try to initiate anything and for a month we didn't text or have any contact even tho he would watch my snap story's and I his. I didn't want to text first bc i felt annoyed being always the first one to do so.
I eventually decided that he probably didn't want to have anything to do with me and so I let it be. After two months I deleted all my social media because of personal reasons but my snap is still there i only like deleted all my friends including him.
I did have excitement while texting him and it would always brighten my mood if he answered and my mood would go down if he wouldn't answer for a long time. but I never like wanted to accept it that I had a crush on him and we were friends only and texted like so. After all that I really never thought about him and maeby just pushed those feelings back until I stopped thinking abt him.
I have bad experience with relationship and never had one bc of those. Every one in my family is in a bad toxic and abusive marriage or relationship including my parents and maeby that is why never let someone be that close to me bc I don't want to experience the same stuff, that's what I decided to like die alone with cats lmao 💀.
The thing is that I woke up today from a dream about him, it was kinda like I was in some class talking to some ppl I've never seen and dint remember and then he came in and I was shocked and he said he texted me but I never answered and he never stopped texting hoping I would answer him some day and after he said that I woke up, with IMMENSE heart ache that I've never had before like I've never had heartache in general.
So ofc ihve had a hand full guys firing my 18 years that I've had a crush on but it was never so personal.
So after this whole rant I would appreciate it if someone could give me some advice about my desicions and if I rushed too fast in cutting him off with no explanation, and most importantly how can I like get rid of this crush?
I'm a open person so if that dream has some spiritual meaning I would want to know that too.
I hope yall are healthy and happy :) | Crushes |
I’m mostly nervous that she’ll think i’m ugly because she hasn’t seen me irl in ages and tbh online I only send her photos of myself where I think I look good. I don’t edit the photos or anything, I just always make sure they’re in good lighting and i don’t look ugly lol. But when she sees me irl what if she thinks i’m ugly or a catfish? Should i start slowly send her photos of myself where i look uglier until our date, to lower her standards? | Crushes |
If u want, ofc, but yeh, take this as a place to gush if u will :3
Also daaang, you look amazing today my dude! >:3 | Crushes |
He is a fan of ren and stimpy. I don’t know what to think. | Crushes |
This is it, I have confessed to her, the message is out and now the waiting game starts, hopefully the outcome will be in my favour, the signs are clearly there but I still feel like my entire body could just un-alive itself from the nerves, wish me luck guys and I’ll keep you updated | Crushes |
Me (19) and my crush (22) are talking through texts for some weeks now, and today he sent me this text: "Hard to be you …at least on my side its easy to be fool. We do not tolerate genius like u on this lands." (no emoji, no nothing). Was he sarcastic or not? I'm confused about what he meant by that. He also called me "dummy" once, because i pulled out an all nighter and in the morning he said "go to sleep dummy". He's nice in general, but I feel like he thinks I'm stupid or smth. He's really smart, likes math and science, is a big anime fan, a gamer, really good with words (he enjoys puns), etc. He's kinda a nerd. Me on the other hand, I'm not good with math or science but i'm good with words and puns, i can sing well (he heard me a few times and complimented me), and im funny and quirky. We're both Aquarius, but very different. He's an ambivert while I'm an introvert. He's calm, and calculated while I'm chaotic and too emotional. He's like ice while I'm the fire.
Things to mention about our online interactions:
-he's usually very polite
-occasionally mean but playfully
-he makes me laugh a lot
-he initiates the conversations
-he double texts if I leave him on read
-almost always says GN (he didn't say today after that text tho)
-writes me in the morning
-replies relatively fast when he's not at work (but smth even then replies pretty quick)
-uses a lot of emojies
-laughs at my jokes
I'm honestly very confused about that text, giving the fact we get along pretty well 🤷🏻♀️ | Crushes |
Yesterday, she opened up to me and said she's feeling down and has been for a while. Not sure what happened, but she hasn't told me. Today, I asked her how she's feeling, but she didn't give me any concrete answers, she just told me to stop. Not sure what this means. Any advice? | Crushes |
Question: How long do your crushes last? My longest crush was 3 months. 3 MONTHS! I honestly get amazed when people tell me they've liked a specific someone for months or even years! I don't know how you guys do it lmao. | Crushes |
Okay so we have this family come over every year, and like its a family of 5 mom dad and 3 boys older,middle,younger so the younger child is the same age as me, and when they first came I always used to talk to him we were like bestfriends we talked a lot. But that change when 2 years came by and we both got shy well he’s a bit shyer then me, but anyways I always see him looking at me i don’t know if it’s just a coincidence because I look at the same time and he’s directly looking at me, I literally just look up and we make straight ass eye contact. I be talking with my sister and corner of my eye I see him glance over here. We all hanged out and I was the first one to get in the back seat and he didn’t want to sit in the middle I’m assuming because he’s shy to sit next to girl i don’t think he’s good with girls. So I saw what he was trying to do his brother made him go in the middle after all. And so a love song came on and like the lyrics were like your beautiful something like that don’t really remember, I saw his head turn to my direction were I was sitting but I’m pretty sure I’m overthinking that part and probably everything I told my mom about it💀 she said he thinks I’m pretty?!! | Crushes |
I have a crush on a 31 M and I am 27 F. I met him volunteering for the company he works in. The first day we met I could tell he liked and was attracted to me. We locked eyes a lot and we talked often. I like him because he's sweet but is it normal for a guy to be so obviously attracted to you? Sometimes I do catch him looking at my body or just checking me out from afar. He thinks I don't notice but it's totally obvious. Is this behavior concerning or completely normal? | Crushes |
I’ve been talking a lot more with my crush, and recently he’s been expressing feelings for me. However, I’m really confused as to how he means them. I really like him but I’m scared that he only sees me platonically. We’ve been ending conversations with ‘Love you’ ‘<3’ and such, and it’s really stupid but I worry that he doesn’t mean them. A few days ago I sent him a message about something, to which he responded ‘God I love you’, he’s also told me he wouldn’t mind me being his first kiss. I think it’s pretty clear he likes me back, no matter what I think, so what should I do now? It’s probably a stupid question, but should I just take the dive and properly confess, should I wait for him to say anything, or should i just wait till we meet up (we’re currently in different countries, him till the end of summer) to talk to him about it? | Crushes |
We both wanna go out of our houses, however i know i'm not her crush at the moment, her crush on the other hand is ignoring her. Should I shoot my shot? | Crushes |
I am starting to get lost, whenever we hangout I am convinced she likes me she initiates conversations with me, laughs at all my jokes, maintains strong eye contact even when i am quite, caught her multiple times staring at me even when someone else was talking, and always sits facing me. She also gives all her attention whenever I am talking, but she does interact with me on social media she does like or react to my instagram stotries neither to my snaps she also does say anything whenever i send something on the group chat. Well yesterday she did but today she didn't.
Am i thinking too much into it and she likes me or am i delusional. | Crushes |
I got fucking friend zoned she has crush on someone else apparently..
Im gonna go fucking cry now | Crushes |
I had a long crush on this guy for like years. I moved on few years ago. But why do I feel happy when he messages me and sad when he doesn't. WHY. WHY THE F AM I FEELING THIS. I DON'T WANT TO FEEL THIS. Fu*k him!! Why does he make me feel this way. I don't even like him now. Istg my heart's playing with me. I don't want to be with him. I don't like him but this feeling I just hate it hate it hate it soo much. | Crushes |
So in high school when I was 16, quite a lot of girls had a crush on. (I am not like super attractive but many desire me because of my personality and high reputation).
My question is that now I am 19 and will be starting college soon. Should I expect similar amount of women attention? Because I heard like teenage is like peak of such type of attraction. | Crushes |
have a crush on this cute coworker who is SO incredibly kind and always treats other people so nicely too. he always initiates conversations with me which i love because i’m incredibly shy and cannot fucking carry a conversation to save my life. and the thing is, the more he talks to me and stuff the more i like him but i AM SO AWKWARD WHEN IM INTERACTING.
yesterday instead of saying good morning or hello, my stupid mouth combined the two and said “good hello” and i was so mortified at his confused look that i just ran away to do my work and didnt look his way my entire shift. today he greeted me and asked me how i was and i just stumbled over my words, gave him an awkward thumbs up, and then talked about something completely different. sometimes when he catches up to me to talk about my next shift or how my summer’s going i stumble over my words and every funny or cool thing i want to say flies out of my mind and the only responses i can give are noncommittal or lousy boring ones that just end the conversation.
feeling this way is SO ANNOYING. what the hell. i’m a naturally shy and awkward person but having a crush just makes it worse and every time i come home i replay every little convo and interaction and contemplate walking into traffic because of how embarrassed i am of every little thing. how am i supposed to cope 😩😩😩 | Crushes |
[TLDR] we barely talk and I can't tell if he even wants to be friends. I don't know how I should start a conversation with him or how to do so. I can't tell if he'd even want me to talk to him.
I really didn’t want to resort to this, but honestly my predicament is plaguing my mind and I think I’d appreciate an outside perspective. I’m using a throwaway because I don’t use reddit and also paranoia lol
So, unfortunately the guy I like and I don’t really talk. We went to highschool together (and like, literally just graduated), so we knew of each other for a while. I honestly always thought he was cute, and any time we talked was enjoyable. We started actually talking one on one late last year, but it was never frequent and often was about school, but then lead into other stuff. We have voice chatted and played games, but that never happened much sadly (we'd end up talking for a while even after we decided to turn off the games though!). It always went positively, I think. But I don't know what he thought tbh, because he'd usually say the typical "that was fun, we should do it again" which I assume is just the normal friendly thing to say? He used to message me first for these things, and I acknowledge it is kind of my fault since I don’t message him often either. I’m really scared to, I fear even minimal rejection tbh. I already struggle to text even my best friends first, so this is much worse. But anyways, we haven’t spoken now for like a month. The last time we did, both over a call and in text, I embarrassed myself greatly… which is not helping my current nerves. I also don't have school as an excuse anymore, so I can't lead with that.
However, I really want to reach out to say hi and try to start talking regularly, even though we never did. I have no idea what he thinks of me, though. I’m really scared that he used to want to talk to me, and he ended up not liking my personality or something. I have no idea how to navigate this.
Also, it wasn't unusual for us to go weeks/months without talking before, so it's not like I'm being ignored or this is anything new.
Is there any way I can tell if he even wants to be friends? Should I ask him if he wants to play something? Should I just say hi? Or should I give up lmao. Thank you to anyone who read this and to anyone who has any advice, I’m so stuck and it’s been bothering me more and more lately. Sorry this was lowkey a vent too idk what to do. | Crushes |
I feel a lot of people overlook the flaws your crush has and see them as perfect people: so when they mess up sometimes ppl get real pissed. You guys mind sharing some?
Edit: I realized hate was a strong word: so just swap it with ‘dislike’ | Crushes |
he is quickly becoming the most important
person in my life, and he knows, ive told him. I cant get the image of his face contorting to absolute glee when i told him that out of my
head. he quite literally lit up.
he’s my favourite face, my favourite voice, my
favourite good morning. he just is my favourite
person on this earth. hes so stubborn and i tell
him daily, i think he thinks it annoys me, but i let
him think that because its better than telling him
i think its cute- because then it would never stop.
he texts me goodnight directly before putting his
phone down for the rest of the night and the
first thing he does every morning is read my
“special morning message", as he calls them
and leaves a good morning for me to wake up to. his goodnight texts are always significantly longer than any thing else because he rambles to avoid sleeping. he reminds me every night that he hopes he can dream of me and always tells me to sleep well.
every morning he says good morning twice, once at the beginning of the message and once at the end- I dont know if he realizes he does that one but; i love it and i hope it never stops.
he hates his hair long but postponed his haircut because he knows i think it looks good when its
messy. he goes to bed early but since we started talking he pushed his bedtime back 30-45 minutes, so we could talk longer. any longer than that i have to beg him to go to sleep or else he will be tired in the morning and he hates coffee and energy drinks.
he knows between calls miss his face, so he sends me selfies. if something happens during his day that he wants to tell me about because he thinks ill enjoy it, he starts with “Oh, you'll like this. So…”.
he knows i hate the heat and promised if i come visit him i could have unrestricted access to the thermostat. he sneaks away to the office when hes at work to text me and his coworkers tease
him because, according to him- i make him
so flustered that they can tell when im the one he’s texting.
he hates hanging up the phone and on our last call, made me do It. I hate it too, we are gonna take turns from now on.
he thinks stranger things is boring but is trying his best to finish it because he knows its my favourite.
he knows if i randomly disappear for an hour or more, im napping. his favourite pizza toppings are green olives and extra cheese. and we are absolutely, utterly and completely horrible at watching movies together. every time we try we end up just talking for hours instead.
and he likes now clear I am about my feelings. he says guessing is never fun and i never leave him guessing.
oh! and we have an ongoing competition going
on to see when i will fall asleep before him. its
hard now since he’s two hours ahead of me.
and we both agreed not to have high expectation for our first kiss because, knowing us the first one will be terrible.
the distance between us is hard, but l̶o̶v̶i̶n̶g̶ liking him is easy, and so its simple. | Crushes |
It wasn't as a date but maybe it was implied as it was just us two, idk. What do we think?
So he was kinda dry at the start and looking at his phone a bit but he warmed up yk.
We were chatting and he was teasing me for everything under the sun, me being short, not matching his stride etc.
Then in the cinema he made fun of my hand size so we conpared hand sizes and he laughed at me again.
We kept bickering over the hand rest between us and he kept pushing me off so i just either put my arm on top of hir or leaned against his arm. At the end i pushed his arm off and threw myself over the armrest and he tried to lift me off sorta but my head was kinda neat his shoulder and he pressed his head beside mine to push me off and we were both just giggling. But he kept his head there for a few countable moments yk.
Aso when i was tryna move his arm off it, i grabbed his hand and then he accused me of tryna hold his hand in a joking way. | Crushes |
ok i think u wont read my backstory so u can skip this part:
so like last year this guy liked me and confessed but i was freaking timid and couldn’t confess when i liked him too so yea and i still regret it and have lingering feelings for him even though he’s moved on
OK U CAN START READING FROM HERE
anyway now he likes my friend but the problem is that she’s really unreasonable and neither my friends nor i can stand it yet he doesn’t know about this side of her. worst part is that even though he likes her, she doesn’t really like him the same way back yet she accepted his confession. so like yes i do have lingering feelings for him (for those that didn’t read i used to like him) and i want the best for him, i honestly dont think she’s worth it. hes a really nice guy and he doesn’t deserve this. i want him to move on to someone else, even if it’s not me. but this sounds kinda selfish of me cos he has genuine feeling for her so idk what to do | Crushes |
Or should i bring up Instagram next time i talk to her, then ask her for her account? | Crushes |
So for context we don't talk but today when i was standing waiting for my friend she walked past me and said "hiii *my name*" i felt like I'd faint then and there, the way she says my name oh dear lord my knees feel weak. Then she again saw me and waved at me and smiled, and god her smile, i felt things. Oh god she, filled in my mind damnit.
I don't want to be a delusional but yeppp | Crushes |
Ok so idk if i should have done this but I did this because I can't talk to my crush due to some reasons
So recently i came to know that my crush uses Snapchat and came to know about the handle and i decided to message her but i didnt want to reveal my name so that is why I made an alt account and added her as my friend and she accepted it
So she asked me who was this, i told her to try to guess and she said "well on the basis of your English , your definitely <HER FRIEND NAME>.
Then this countinued for 5 mins and then i just told her that i have crush on you and she thought I was her friend so she went like "i also have crush on you" and then i just told her that i am not her friend i actually have crush on you and logged out of that account
The next day i came to know that she is discussing about this with her friends and nothing really happened except discussions between them so once again after 2 days i created one more alt and messaged her and this time she did said that she will complain to teacher (prob as a warning) i don't think she felt creeped out, i just said that don't complain, if you don't like me to message you then just tell me
She didn't say anything she just said that "pls tell your name i wont tell this to anyone" and EVEN SAID THAT "if you tell your name then i will be your gf" but I thought that this is prob a bait so i just didn't tell her my name and logged out
I know whatever i did was too childish and i didnt meant to harass her, i don't think she felt harassed or creeped out
(Btw we were close friends but due to some reasons we have stopped talking with each other since 3 years)
So i just wanna know yall's perspective whether i should have done this, what she might be feeling and what should I do
Thanks! | Crushes |
So i havent talked to her in 3 years and ive been crushing on her ever since. We werent really close i just remember having a few cute moments with her. She doesnt accept new message requests on instagram so i asked one of her friends to tell her and she sent me a message request asking who i am. What do i do?!!!!
Update: she just texted me that why didnt i just text her bc her contact info is on her page. Im so smart lol | Crushes |
Heyo, you already know this is about you. Anyway… my turn now!!
I was getting pretty lonely before you. A bit ago, I started messaging people on Reddit, hoping to at least make a new friend (though a part of me definitely hoped for more). It was… weird. And awkward. Making a friend online seemed like a lot more effort than I had initially thought, and after some bland conversations and forever-goodbyes, I pretty much gave up. I always hear that relationships take work. The thing is, I’m lazy.
Then came you. I had just posted about not being followed back by my irl crush when you dmed me. I didn’t even like her that much, but it was nice to have someone to look forward to seeing in class every other day. It was nice having someone to gush about. But with every other crush I’ve had, her and I “just weren’t meant to be.” At least, that’s what I tell myself when things don’t work out.
But with you, things are *different.* it’s just… easy. And it feels right. It hasn’t even been that long and we’re already basically simps for each other. And neither of us expected it.
We have similar goals, values, interests… and somehow, despite meeting online, we live a drive-able distance from one another. That’s so highly unlikely it’s not even funny.
I always look forward to talking to you. It’s honestly hard *not* to talk to you. Or about you. Seems like every little thing reminds me of you, these days.
I look forward to playing more games with you, making even more dumb jokes, and having more deep conversations in the dead of night. It’s hard to believe we met, let alone that we’ve gotten this close this fast.
So basically I’m stupefied. I’ve been waiting for a girl to simply drop from the sky and it seems you’ve done just that. Thank you, but uhhh, get out of my head lol
oh yeah, and I can’t wait to drive over soon C: | Crushes |
I'm hesitating, feels like I want to but at the same time I'm not. Might get embarrassed. I need you're help, guys! | Crushes |
So I'm again , if you're reading my story for the first time here's the summary.
My crush and I have been talking like about 6months, later last month I confessed, She said - "I don't have a little bit of feelings for you"
Whenever I asked her whether she has bf , she always denies .
XXXXXX BACK TO PRESENT XXXXX
So today she was absent in college , and just an hour ago in the evening she uploaded a story with a boy and the caption was "finally we met 💘".
I confirmed from her friends that he was indeed her boyfriend and her friends said that they didn't even know about her bf.
You know I was excited about her from the start but now I feel like everything is falling apart.
Thanks all for reading. | Crushes |
For months I have been looking through this sub, seeing all the people posting their successes and thinking to myself 'That's never going to happen to me'. It is likely a lot of you reading this will be thinking this right now, but there is hope.
I am 18(M), and have never been in a relationship untill now. I finally had the courage to tell her I like her, and it turns out she has been crushing on me for months. She is so perfect for me, and I am so happy. | Crushes |
I talked to my crush for the first time last night via text and we were talking and we went to bed and texted each other goodnight, (I’m a freshman in high school btw) Do I text here good morning or is it to early? | Crushes |
yes, i have a crush on this girl on this girl for almost 2 years now. so it all started when she sat right next to me (i didnt had my glass paired for me until just 2 months ago), we were just writing down some notes given by the teacher that day, when i realise i literally cant even see the white (i was literally sitting in the first row, bruh), so i decided to move my chair to sit next to her again but on the opposite side, it was a really normal thing to do because some of the teacher's hand writing being too small.
anyways, until one day, one of my friend asked me if i have a crush on this girl, well obviously i denied, since i still didnt have any feelings for her yet. it was at a point that almost everybody in our class were "shipping" for us, even the teacher too!
i started questioning myself if i DO have a crush on this girl, i was thinking like why are everybody shipping for us, like is it something i did to her that is different from every other girls?
after enough of "questioning myself if i have a crush on her". i finally admitted that i do actually have a crush on her.
it was just only 2 months ago that i felt that she has maybe a little crush on me too, i noticed that we started making a lot of eye contact, and we both also act very different around me and between her friends, etc. like im almost 80% sure that she has a tiny bit of crush on me too.
i wanted to make the first move. i didnt have enough courage to ask her in person, so ive decided to ask her online (i didnt), look, im a shy guy, i am not good at texting, at least not in chinese (im asian btw), i almost never texted girls unless its urgent. i literally dont know what to do, give some suggestions?
sorry for the bad grammer, english is not exactly my first language | Crushes |
I was looking for a place to vent, so here I am. Hi!
I have a secret crush on a man who's the project leader in our group. I'm a woman, btw. There's this other woman that he obviously finds attractive, she used to be in the project team, she's been missing for a while but she'll be coming back eventually. I call her lil miss insta-thot. When she was here he would kinda flirt with her in this annoying overconfident way and I dread the moment she'll be back. He's also given a few compliments to another team member about her appearance, dressing, etc but in a completely friendly way. So, I thought I would dress up a little bit the other day to see his reaction. I wore a dress and he's never seen me in one before, so I thought why not? Well, I got nothing. I tried not to look at his face because I was too scared he'd realise I dressed like that for him but I couldn't help looking very quickly. He just looked to the side and moved his lips around, sort of. Maybe blinked? Idk. He made no comments about my appearance.
I know this is completely stupid but I'm devastated and I've been crying on and off. The irony is that two other women complimented me (well, the dress) and I'm practically sure there's another guy who likes me but I don't care about him. The one I like is just always so straightforward and overconfident and you know, I'm a woman, I'm sensitive about that stuff. lol
I'm feeling very hurt and dejected right now. To anyone who read this, thank you. | Crushes |
ok this is just gna be a vent cos i cant stop thinking abt him and i rly wanna talk abt him. but if you got any advice or what not pls tell me.
there's this guy in my class who's rly introverted, but i found him q cool at first. so i just hung out w him and his friends and talk to them sometimes, and it's damn fun, their energy is so wholesome. i really like being around them, especially him. after a while, the thought that i may like him came across my mind, especially since i realise that whenever im sad or bored, i just think of him or talk to him and i feel better already. and i also just really like talking to and about him, but the problem is i dont know much about him and i really wanna get to know him better, but he isn't much of a talker so it's a bit awkward. like i'm also introverted lol so ya. i wanna text him more and stuff but it's a bit awkward also.
i also dreamt of him last night, it was a sex dream and it was like damn hot, but it was so fucking embarrassing agh wtf. like before this i just saw him as cute and wholesome but now im like super embarrassed abt it and ive been thinking of him as hot and imagining him shirtless and i js wna dig myself into a hole lmao
you see, i'm a man. but i'm biologically female, like i don't rly mind presenting as a girl or being in the role of one, but it feels wrong when ppl treat me or call me a girl. i also sometimes get dysphoria when i see other guys cos it's like, i really want to be like them. i feel the worst when i think of gay relationships because, i'm gay and i feel excluded that i'm not biologically male and stuff. but i'm not born as a dude, and transitioning isn't gna bring me back my childhood so whatever i guess. but i just want to meet another man who understands me and treats me like one. ya i know it's tough to find someone like that but i'm trying uh
my problem is, im pretty sure my guy over here is straight and like idk man. maybe i should just give up early so that i dont get heartbroken, but lately ive been thinking of him more and more and its js killing me. i want him to be mine and i want to be his so badd. shld i just tell him abt who i am first, or should i just tell him about it later after i know him better aghhhh
should i also tell his friend about how i feel? i feel like his friend is someone who i can really trust, but at the same time it feels scary cos they're both really close. yet if i tell his friend, maybe he can help me out? i dono man
ya thx for reading my long ass vent lmao i actually got assignments that arent done but im too lazy to like do them so ye buddy dreaming abt crush tiem | Crushes |
- He sits beside me (idk if I should count this one but)
- were both into anime
- he smiles a lot when I talk to him (the same goes for me)
- leans towards me a lot
- he intrested in my talks I mean he- just asks me to repeat my words or so and speaks out his mind
- I recommendated an anime to him he watched the trailer later the next day or so I was talking about one character who's hella meme material my man's the next day when he asked me about the plot - says he read the comment section and he makes positive comments like it's funny asf
- we were talking about one anime movie and you see in my country there was a lot of censorship I talked about how useless it was like you can even make out what was behind the censorship if you really have a brain?(dirty brain) he blushed and the same goes for me also I covered up my face with the hand he does the same we laughed like maniacs
- he touches his hair and neck a lot while talking to me
- he's makes the first moves by asking did you watched the show I recommended and stuff
- I noticed this rare shit that happened to us when we talking about anime and stuff his friends (2 of them) giggled and looked at us which caught my attention I mean this happened for like 1or 2 time so idk if he's into me | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on this girl for three years and we’re inseparable. There hasn’t been a single day since we met where we don’t talk from dawn till 2 am so I thought I should ask her out this next valentines but out of nowhere today she told me that she would love to date me if is was a girl and I don’t know what to do anymore. | Crushes |
So there's this girl who i like who my friends say that her body language is shy around me. If she replies late and sometimes dry, then she probably is not interested so why would she be shy all of a sudden after that? | Crushes |
Its so sweet when everyone here is smitten over this one person and I love it!!!
Edit: Im going to reply to every comment
Edit 2: Im not gonna reply to comments anymore lol, im on vaca and ran out of cellular data so yall probably wont be getting replies in a bit | Crushes |
I'm a guy, 13 years old. I had a crush on this girl that I later learned had a crush on me. Sounds like the perfect time to confess right? Unfortunately I'm a coward due to my last relationship (gonna leave that story behind) and never asked her out. On the last day of school we had been hanging out a ton, and our teacher put on a movie and we sat side by side watching it. When she was about to leave I made a last-ditch effort and asked for her number, but she didn't have a phone. Did I mess up? I honestly have been needing to get this off my chest, it's been leaving my brain circling. If it helps to mention, one of my friends REALLY doesn't like this girl, and it's part of the reason I wussed out for most the year. | Crushes |
Not me but just a thought experiment. Let's say you have a huge crush on someone, and you tell your best friend all about him. They listen and agree with you, but a while later, they date your crush. How would you feel? Would you unfriend them and tell everyone that they're an asshole?
Now imagine that you have a crush on someone. Your friend tells you they have a crush on the same person, and so as not to upset them, you stay quiet because you think you couldnt get with said crush anyways. Let's say your crush confesses to you. Would you accept? And if you do, what if your friend forever hates you?
Most people say theyd hate the friend in the first scenario, but choose to accept in the second. What are your thoughts? Care to show other scenarios or examples? | Crushes |
So, my coworkers (including my crush) and I went out for some dinner and walked around town. Then, everybody left and me and my crush were just in her car. We talked about so many things life, relationships, what would be the best way to go about slashing tires. When we were talking, certain songs would play and I would favorite that song on her touchscreen radio. She noticed and was like, "I always forget to favorite these songs." And I was all like "That's why you have me." Then she thanked me. We ended up talking in her car until 1 in the morning. I'm glad that my crush and I are becoming good friends. I'm kinda on cloud 9
:) | Crushes |
I just had a lot to say. The text wasn’t even that important it was just me rambling about something we talked about the other day. But now I sent it and realized what if he thinks I’m weird since im pretty much sent him a whole essay?? The text is only about a paragraph long but I’m wondering what if he thinks I’m weird for sending a long text message??? The text is about as long as this post is. Ugh I’m cringing so hard right now and he hasn’t responded to me yet. | Crushes |
idk wtfs up
like all of a sudden one morning i see him and i can look into his eyes without blushing or smiling
and idk
i dont get butterflies when i look at him like wtf
and even when he looks at me or even his voice?
like i don't feel the same shit i used to feel before u know?
and m so comfortable around him now
i mean my heart used to race when his face was so fucking close to mine or even he touched me in any way but now we're kinda touchy in a platonic way obv and i feel NOTHING 😭😭
HOW DID I GET OVER HIM THIS QUICK AND I FEEL SO HAPPY ABOUT IT
AND I DON'T GET JEALOUS OR FEEL SAD WHEN I SEE HIM W HER????
and m sooooo sooooo fucking comfortable w him like woaaaahhhssbbs
i can be myself without being anxious or wtvr and ig m not that physically attracted to him anymore ig idk wtvr but i hope i won't start catching feelings for him once again we get too comfortable w each other cz this has happened before and i don't want it to happen again fr
but what is this can someone explain!? | Crushes |
Throughout the entire evening my crush was mostly sitting with her friends but I was a bit further away kicking a ball with most of the class. The entire time I was doing that my crush was looking straight at me almost every time I turned to her and she would look away every time. It felt great and I just wanted to share it | Crushes |
Hello everyone !
I (22F) have been friend with a girl (same age as me) for more than a year, we worked and lived together for 1 month in 2021. This month was great in every aspect. Even though I developed a crush on her, I attempted nothing, because we were a whole group and I didn't want to make her uncomfortable while we were sharing a room.
She is bi and she knows I'm bi, too, so this isn't an issue.
The thing is, after coming back from this month of work, we were in the same school, same city but we so each other considerably less. I tried keeping in touch via messages, but she always answers very late (I mean : a lot of time after she receives it), and sometimes she doesn't answer at all. Meanwhile, I see on social media that she is with her friends, and she posts things so she uses her phone.
This seems bad for my crush and our friendship, but I am very confused because when she answers my messages she is super enthusiastic, she asks when we can see each other, and when we do see each other we get along very well and spend a nice time together. Even though we get along very well, I have still attempted nothing and I think I am in the friendzone.
I am going to see her in a few days, for a day. What do you think I should do ? Act as usual, attempt nothing and just spend a good day with her ? Confess my feelings ? Try seducing her ? If I seduce her, how ? Should I ask her why she acts like that via messages ? I am completely lost with that girl.
Thanks in advance for your help ! | Crushes |
He's such a shy boi and doesn't talk much in class though he still actively participates and is friends with the genius in school. I'm way worse than him as I don't even have friends lol. But how do I befriend him when he doesn't even move an inch even when it's free time? | Crushes |
I saw my crush for like 3 hours yesterday and. He talked to me pretty normally but I noticed some stuff
I felt like he looked at me even when he was talking to other people and when he was messing around with his guitar he was looking at me the whole time and smiling weirdly
And when it was just the two of us it was pretty awkward and neither of us spoke but he spoke normally when we were in a group. And I feel like he laughs at what I say x10 more than at what others say. So opinions ? His parents think he likes me and most people I know do too but I’m just nervous as hell 😀 | Crushes |
I went into my work crush's office to say goodbye on my last day of work. I was surprised when he told me that he got something for me. He then pulled a gift bag out of his briefcase and handed it to me. It was a bottle of chardonnay (about $50). Also, I was wearing a nice dress for my last day and he said "you look pretty." | Crushes |
It's so funny going over posts on here and some people are like 'My crush kissed me and said he loves me, what does that mean?' and while its cute and maybe they're nervous about it, I'm over here like my crush looked at me for two seconds is there a chance he likes me?? Lmao | Crushes |
We both established that the age that we are gonna date is 16 (not us together, as in seeing other people). I gave her my hoodie and she told some of our friends, I talked with them about dating stuff and they said that one day I’ll get on, and one of them even said that I should ask her out. I talked to her recently and she said that one day i’ll get girlfriend and i’m starting to see a pattern. | Crushes |
I’m inexperienced, I even just discovered what courting was a month ago and I’m 16 | Crushes |
I feel really dumb… I kind of like a person, and they said they’re aroace, they almost never fall in love— I’m totally cool with that. I don’t like to push.
So you could be wondering why I still have these feelings if I know… I think maybe they like me too? But it’s insanely hard to tell what’s platonic and what isn’t. If anyone could just help me clarify, that’d be superb.
> They tell me they wait for me to wake up so we can talk, like specifically that’s the reason they check in.
> Also one time we both had the same dream where we were texting each other because we did it for so long, it was the last thing we thought about before bed.
> They also keep complimenting me… saying I’m very interesting to them aand cute. Shocking amount of cute talk
Is this just what nice people do? God I feel insanely dumb maybe they’re super nice. I am not sure, and I wanna ask- but then I’d probably be told I got the wrong idea. I just wanna ask Reddit first? If any of this sounds crazy, I get it, I feel crazy. I don’t like being so unsure of myself. | Crushes |
i’ve never really gotten crushes and i lowkey think i’m on the aroace spectrum, but i love her so much but idk if it’s platonic or romantic | Crushes |
Not gonna lie anytime I have initiated anything with a girl in my lifetime it was not successful. The girls I've successfully been with have all initiated with me. But anyways im going for my crush's number tomorrow and honestly would like to ask her out shortly after getting her number too. I feel like anytime I've just went on and on texting a girl everyday for months it just gets drawn out and boring and her feelings for you fade away I just feel like you gotta get to the point. But anyways how long do yall think is appropriate to wait before asking a girl out on a date? I have had 3 or so girls that the exact second I revealed any feelings it was a straight ghosting or rejection. But im not necessarily going to reveal feelings im just going to simply ask on a date. These are the things I would say after a little bit of casual talk beforehand but not too much. "If you ever have time do you want to go out with me sometime?" Or the other thing I'm thinking is "let me know if you want to hang out somewhere one day" I never know if the date asking is ever too much for a girl or whatever. Idk I think I just tried with the wrong kind if girls in the past. Mostly sorority girls and that type who are generally really shallow. But this girl seems different. Like it almost feels like she's my girlfriend right now. She really seems like she likes me. I honestly just want to straight up ask her if she wants a boyfriend but I already know that's too much and gotta just ask her on a date first | Crushes |
I'm having a crush on someone right now, and it's been like more than 2 months.
I was wondering what is the difference between having a crush and liking someone because my friend told me that I might already like him and it's kinda freaking me out so I want to see other perspectives on the difference between crush and like. | Crushes |
Please tell me excuse to text my crush without sending desperate keep in mind im on winter break so I haven’t seen him for a while !! | Crushes |
Her(f26) and me (m30) have been chatting for quite some weeks now. Ive known her through my sister for a long time, but never took a shot and talk to her. I always saw her being way out of my league.
Ive let her know a couple times that i cared about her, where she had some family emergency. That if she needed to i would be here.
This week the had some trouble with her cat and i told her that if i could i would come by and comfort her. Which she told me was really sweet and nice of me.
She has been really interested and supportive about my project at work, and its soo cute to see her trying to understand it.
We have been talking everyday. Early in the morning untill one of us goes to bed. Due to my insecurity, there are days where I will think that she isnt interested in me and im chasing a fairytale.
Then on days like today, I feel more reassured and believe I do have a shot with her. Today she send me a 'Goodmorning 😊' text at 7.30am and it warmed my heart and im spending the biggest smile ^^.
I am pretty unfamiliar with dates/relationships so Im doing what i think is best. I have asked her if she had some time in the coming weeks to do something fun together. She really loved that and is gonna look when she has time off from work. The way we talk every day for hours between our work hours, I believe if she wasnt interested and noticed my moves to her (im as subtle as a elephant in a grocery store) she would have cut the conversation off after a few weeks.
This is not a post to seek attention, confirmation or a check if she likes me. I feel im heading into the right way, and im gonna do anything in my power to actually get my first date of my life with her, the cutest and funniest person in the world 🥰 | Crushes |
So I was walking back from work yesterday and I started talking to this girl who lives like 5 houses away from me. I saw a Mac milker album in the one window of a house and I asked if it was hers.
She said nahh it was her neighbors, she gave off artist vibes so I asked if she was, she said yes and offered to show me her art.
We went up to her room, just chilled and smoked. I went mute cause I got too high so I was just listening to her the entire time.
Was she just being friendly? Was she letting me know I could get it? I just don't know man. | Crushes |
This is all kind of hard to explain but I’ve liked this girl (let’s just call her R rn) since March and we both like each other. The problem is that there’s this other girl (we’ll call her A) that’s just my friend, but I’m suspicious of her liking me and I just don’t like her like that. I recently found A’s secret TikTok account and I confronted her so she blocked me on that account. What she didn’t know is that I had another account that I just don’t really use so me being curious decided to see what it could possibly be about. It seems to me that most of them are about me. Earlier she asked if we could FaceTime and I said no because I didn’t really want to. Later on, I opened TikTok and checked her “secret” account. It was a video of her crying and saying something about “me realizing he probably doesn’t like me back”. What makes it more suspicious is that the other day we were in a group of friends and I brought up R a little bit, she seemed to go quiet after I mentioned her, but it wasn’t only that but every time I mention R (which is not very often) A goes quiet. For the most part I’ve just been ignoring it but it’s become really hard to just ignore it if she’s literally crying over it and it just doesn’t feel right to ignore.
Like I said this was really hard to explain and I really really don’t know what to do. Please someone help, if you want more information it’s probably best to DM me but I’ll try my best to give more information in the comments. | Crushes |
I feel like most of the "crushes" I have are infatuations - a short-term obsession that I can't really call *true love*. I'm always unsure if I'm just in love with the **idea of dating** them, or **actually interested** in knowing more about them and not getting easily tired of interacting. Every crush I had in my life ended like this, so stepping up to get into a relationship feels difficult. I feel like I'll easily get bored, lose interest, and even hate the person I would have died talking to after a while. it's so weird and strange, honesty I'm judging myself for being like this lmao
Does anyone else feel like this? | Crushes |
So i noticed my crushes friend writing on a note, my crush told her my name and told her "l love you" and "I can give you everything" which I'm guessing was for her to write down.I also noticed her friend in another class taking a picture of me and then typing something she might have been texting my crush. I have no idea what to do should I just wait or should I do something about it? | Crushes |
What do I get her for Christmas? | Crushes |
So I guess for some backstory, Ive known Crush A since the beginning of the school year, basically just barely met him 4 months ago but I have gotten to know him alot better. But, with Crush B, I've known him since middle school. I have only recently began to develop feelings for Crush B after years of just seeing him nothing as a friend, not wanting anything more than that with him.
My problem is that I can't seem to figure out who to ask out, who to choose basically. I like both for separate things such as fashion, personality, how much we have in common and such.
I'm confused and I haven't had any experience with liking two people at the same time. I don't know what to do. | Crushes |
This happened a while ago but I was in the hallway walking to class and she happened to be infront of me. one of her friends picked her up and huged her yes picked her up she's tiny. I look up to see what's going on and she's just completely lost staring at Me | Crushes |
Did you experience it too, that you don't know if you really have a crush or not.
I may also just imagine it, because everyone else mistreats me and she treats me much better, in comparison to others. I am also pretty lonely and really want a gf.
So i often ask myself if i really love her or my brain just tries to improve the chances of having someone to get loved by with making me think i have feelings.
I believe that, because i really quickly have crushes, mostly as soon as someone treats me good or I get along with someone good. It also doesn't feel exactly like other times, when i really loved someone. But that's maybe because love can feel different for different people.
It's difficult to describe, but if you had it you'll probably know what i mean.
I'm male and 17,72 years old btw. | Crushes |
Y’all, my crush and I have had small conversations every now and then, but today was the first time we had a long, nice conversation where we get to know each other.
I’m really shy about it and the thing we started to talk about was these weird grapes that tasted like cotton candy.
I asked him if he had Instagram and gave me his, and then followed me.
We also talked about what we want to do when we’re older and what colleges we applied/got into.
I am super into him, but I’m not 100% sure about where he stands and I am already planning on confessing at graduation, but idk what would happen if I confessed before.
We make eye contact every now and then, but I feel like it’s because he thinks I’m probably nuts. | Crushes |
I'm giving her a bouquet w/ a confession letter on the side. Hopes are she gets home, reads it, and texts me about it. Im just scared she's gonna ghost me or not read it but I think that's just me being paranoid tbh. I could really use some motivation rn! Ty <3 | Crushes |
I haven't had a crush on anybody in a while. Nobody in my school is cute! | Crushes |
I feel like I have a crush on someone/I feel like someone has a crush on me in my class or something but I'm not sure,can you guys help me? | Crushes |
Hii guys it has been weeks since my previous best friend talked to me. ( she was being distant) and i also confessed my feelings to her) I’m so hurt and sad and not because she rejected me idc about a romantic relationship with her i just miss her as my friend. I know i should move on and i will find someone i will click with eventually however. I cant stop about the days she would kiss me on the forehead or hold my hand.. or days that we would look into each other eyes it makes me go crazy. I have been thinking about her all day 24/7 she is on my mind and i know she is not even thinking about me but idk how to let go. Even blocking her and deleting her from all social media is still not helping😭 yea im still being delusional right? Lol i also have no one to talk about it because they do not know yet i am also into girls🫠 its crazy that i still have hope because she told me even if we would fight or i would not want to be friends with her she would try to be around me lol but can i blame her even though she said she still wanted to be friends she ignoring me so hard its crazy i never felt shit like this before | Crushes |
Ok so, I AM NOT A LIGHT PERSON.
Me and the guy I like was messing around. Out of nowhere he carries me like a sack of potatoes. LIKE DANG! THATS 🔥 | Crushes |
I’ve failed every time and honestly it seems helpless. Right now I’m talking to a girl but I don’t think she’s that interested cause she only answered me when I said hey and after I asked how are you and she didn’t answer but this was like our first time texting when not seeing each other around so I think she must be busy. | Crushes |
I think I messed up with my crush they left me on sent for about 5 days in the middle of a conversation and I heard about a week ago they thought I was weird from someone is thier anyway I can fix this or is it a lost cause | Crushes |
Im 95% sure that was a situation-ship/that I was lead on considering after we hung out, the energy was never the same and let me tell you, it sucks to know lmao | Crushes |
For context I am a virgin and have no sexual history at all.
Let's say there's someone you like who you think of all the time and want to be around. You constantly get nervous around them and want to impress them. However, you can't imagine kissing them or doing anything super intimate (but you enjoy general physical contact with them).
I've felt this way around several people now, even at 18 I cannot imagine being sexual with anyone. How would you describe my feelings? | Crushes |
I have posted about my crush before but still haven’t told her. I really want to tell her because it feels like she likes me too but I’m to scared to lose our friendship. She is the coolest person I know and ngl the hottest. We always hang out and talk almost everyday, and we mess with each other a lot. I wear hoodies all of the time and she always pulls my strings but usually she adjusts them for me by getting really close and pulling them through my hood while I just stand there awkwardly trying to lean forward for her to get around my head easier. I always unzip her book bag and we usually just laugh but when other people do it she gets annoyed. She recently got her hair done and I’ve been telling her she could be a model which she denied because she didn’t think it looked that good. We always pinky promise things that we mean, and I tried to pinky promise that she looked amazing she wouldn’t do it saying it was a promise I can’t keep. I was texting with her the other night and told her “as someone who cares a lot about you you need to be more confident, that I can promise %100” she replied with “pinky promise?” And I said of course. Basically things are going really well but I just don’t want to lose our friendship if it does go wrong, I really like her and care for her and she is the last person I want to drift apart from. If anyone has an idea please share it and other than that I hope everyone has a merry Christmas and good luck. | Crushes |
I had the perfect opportunity to ask her. She was dropping tater tots in the fryer in the prep area that's kinda isolated at the back of the restaurant in a corner. And it was just me and her back there. Was only like 2 minutes of time to talk to her but that's enough time to get her number but I got really nervous and so i just asked her if she was getting off of work soon and she said she was supposed to be but got sucked into more work. Then both me and her were in a rush to get somewhere from there but I don't get many of those moments where it's enough time to ask her. I really would not like to get too nervous to ask her in those moments too!! I feel like exercise before work would help but I'm non stop at work so I don't have time to exercise lol. I don't know why I get so nervous because I know she likes me and I know she'll give it to me and I know I could make her my girlfriend. Maybe the only thing that could hinder that is me moving but even then I feel like it would still work out between us and ill even move back when I have the money. She told me she really doesn't want me to move and wants me to stay so bad but I don't have an option so. But I will see her Saturday morning and I am going to ask her. Also she's training for server next week which is super clutch because then I have all the time in the world to talk to her but I don't want to wait till next week I want to get her number Saturday and maybe even ask her out by next week too lol if she's responsive after she gives me her number. | Crushes |
So i work at a hotel as security she works as a bartender at the restaurant, first thing to happen was she introduced her self to me, later on she touched/grabbed my forarms after that me my friend were talking she was walking to go dropped something off and i was in her way so i tried politely to move and we kept going in the same direction eventually she walk by.
(my friend jokingly commented she probably thinks your a idiot) about 5min pass me and my friend still talk they were about to leave she forgets something so I politely move out her way and gave enough room walk by she playfully walk towards me even though she knew she had room. Then last week the restaurant had just closed she walk by me complimented my new hair cut and went to drop something off then went to talk with the front desk guy they talk she told him bye(his name) and walk away as she walk by me she said ‘bye baby’. But im pretty sure she knows my name cause my friend at the bar(her friend too) says my name anytime i talk with him to say whats but she typically around so she hears him.
What is she trying tell me? Cause i cant tell if shes hinting she likes me and wants me make move? or she just flirting and really friendly? | Crushes |
I gave this girl I really liked a gift and then she said that she LOVED it and gave her number omfggggg
I gotta thank y’all so much for giving me the confidence to do this 💕💕💕 | Crushes |
I never told him. And I never plan on telling him. I just plan on keeping this secret forever. But right now after every single interaction that we have I am paranoid that he somehow can sense that I like him or something. I’m not sure if I’m just overthinking but I just keep thinking what if he somehow knows and it terrifies me because he can never know how I feel | Crushes |
I have a crush on this girl I barely know, and apart from a few conversations here and there we don’t talk, we have many mutual friends that know her well however I personally want to engage in a conversation with her to get to know her personally and not from the words of my friends but I found myself nervous about approaching her and engaging in that conversation is there anyway I can actually get the courage to talk to her if so please let me know thank you | Crushes |
Main idea is that I'm a introverted person who is having a hard time trying to confess I like a girl who's extroverted. And I need tips on how I could confess to her. Any ideas guys? | Crushes |
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