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I have a crush at school and we don’t have any classes together and to make things worse I barely see her in the hallways because of it. And when I do see her there’s nothing I can do about it because it’s not like I can actually talk to her.
What should I do? | Crushes |
I met her not that long ago but as soon as I saw her I thought she was beautiful, then when we started talking we got along so well!
We see the world in the same way, like and dislike the same kinds of people, have similar lifestyles everything seems great. And the more I look at her the more gorgeous she becomes her eyes are amazing.
But ohhhh no she has to have a long term boyfriend already so I've just got to get over it. But we have mutual friends and I see her all the time so I can't avoid her and tbh I don't want to. | Crushes |
For awhile now I’ve liked this guy, he said he was confused on what he wants right now so we agreed on just being friends. At first I thought it was just his way of saying he doesn’t like me because now he doesn’t really look at me that much, unless he does it when I’m not looking. He’s very touchy when he’s around me but he also is with other girls, just not as much as he is with me. He brought up how I’m talking with my guy friend in 4th period today and he always tells me to stop flirting when I’m just simply talking to a guy in class even though sometimes he can go a whole day without talking to me but everyday at the end of the day, he knows exactly when I walk out those doors and he watches to make sure, today he didn’t see me because I came out the back door and he started looking around the hall because he didn’t see me lol. Now I’m just confused, maybe he does like me and he genuinely just doesn’t know what he wants, and all he needs is me just being at school to have comfort. What do you guys think? | Crushes |
I need some insight on what she’s feeling
Good signals:
-we are friends and have sat next to each other in class multiple times. We’ve had several flirty moments there.
-we can FaceTime for hours on end. We’ve even pulled an all nighter before.
-she’s always engaged in conversation. If she has to go afk on call, she’ll say “don’t leave. I’ll be back.” She is turned towards me in her seat in class. We can talk about all sorts of shit.
-our friends joke about us being together
-her best friend sometimes asks me “when are you asking her out?”
You might think I’m in a great situation, but let’s get into the bad signals:
-She’s known how I feel for a year now. She had a bf when she found out so ofc I couldn’t do anything. But if she truly likes me, I feel like she’d bring it up by now?
-my best friend once tried to fish out how she feels about me, but couldn’t get anything out of her. Her best friend wouldn’t budge either. I doubt it’s that she embarrassed or nervous about liking me because she knows I like her and would take her.
-one of my other close friends jokes with her about dating me. According to him, she replies with “Nope shut up” and sometimes blushes. If thats supposed to reveal that she says no, then I don’t get why her best friend is so curious about when I’m asking her out. | Crushes |
Okay hi !!
I have a crush. no surprise here.
Let’s get to the point, he’s a little bit older and is really nice!
We’re both teenagers. I’m 14f almost 15, he’s 16m. We get along well. Small disclaimer, we haven’t known eachother for long to be honest. But I felt a real click today and this is where I am now.
I guess I want tips or advice? I’m a minor form of emo (no like srs, MCR is Life and that shi) and so is he ! :)
I’m not asking for how to make him fall in love with me, but I atleast want to be good friends with him. Any tips? | Crushes |
This guy who ive been talking to and wants to hook up with me asked me do i have a car? I told him i do and he wanted to see the car which idk why he cared so much about it so i just shrugged it off and he asked me again to see the car and he starts teasing me. I sent him a pic of the car and we just have a convo about cars after that and he was sharing his scary moments when he drove his car for the first time or two. this guy is just so ironically funny. During our convo i fell asleep on him for 3 hours and the later that night i was woken up to a notification from him.
Later that morning at 1am he messaged me "You ever done a late night drive?" I would tell him i would be out with my family after trips at 1 but he asked me have i ever been out ALONE at 1. "Just by yourself?" i liked it whenn he often asked me questions and i was interested to see where this was going. I told him no but i really want to and i asked him why does he ask? He says "Lol since you have a car, you can just go out and just drive lol" He asked me "You ever went out at this time?" as in 1 o clock in the morning. why would i be out at 1am? Most places are closed at that time. I wasnt sure where this convo was going but i jokingly asked him "you woke me up for this?" I like talking to him so i didnt see a bother but i was wondering if he was trying to plan something with me. He told me to go out and drive right now. But he did not say where to. Tbh i thought this was gonna go into the direction of him telling me to drive to his house but nope. In the past we had a similar convo just like this and he asked if i ever snuck out? I never did so he told me to do it and told me to go to his house. But this time he never mentioned having me come to his house.
I changed the topic and he told me to go out and drive like right now and do a late night drive, maybe im overthinking this and he just wanted me to go out and drive but why? I joked with him saying to pay for the gas and he told me "i mean go out by youself" i wasnt even asking him in the slightest to ride with me and he just assumed that. I was very confused by this so i told hm "you tell me to go out but nowhere to go?" He had to have bene beating around the bush because it felt like the endgame o this chat was going nowhere. Like did he want me to go somewhere specific? because he just messages me at 1 and tells me to just start driving out of the blue. I dont really have anywhere to go at 1am. I really wanted him to say for me to drive to his house but he didnt.
He told me the places i could drive at 1 am alone is a parking lot or the mountains. What? LMFAOOOO im not mad but im just so confused. He threw me off completely. Can someone else help me out here? What the hell was he trynna say?
My town doesnt have mountains, we have mountains OF forest which at 1am it would be way to dark to even see whats lurking, plus how would i drive a big ass car up a mountain? And why a parking lot? I was thinking this guy was gonna ask me to pick him up and drive to an empty parking lot at 1 to get it on😏 but i guess he chickened out? But he made it clear he wont be in the car with me....so...now what? Driving alone in a parking lot...at 1 am. Hmmmm.
EDIT: I forgot to add that i know him, this probably changes the entire dynamic of this post. he lives 8 mins away from me, i met him in real life face to face so i know what he looks like. I known him for 3 years. dont think that part that matters though. I cant help the thoughts and thought he might tell me to go to a place ALONE and hed be "happen" to be there too. Like a set up? | Crushes |
Sooo my dumbass waited to long to confess and now i think she is in love with her female best friend
:( or i'm just paranoid as sh*t)
Any advise? | Crushes |
My crush doesn't seem to show must interest in me. I told her I liked her drawings and she just said thank you. A few days later I asked her how long she was doing them for, hoping it would lead into a conversation, but she just said she wasn't sure. So I asked if it was something she was interested in, and she said "a little bit" and just kind of walked off. Any way I can keep the conversation going? She is definitely very introverted and quiet from what I've seen. So is she just shy or something? I sometimes feel like she is staring at me though. | Crushes |
I messaged her asking her if she wanted to watch a movie with me sometime and she left me on open. I feel bad idk why but I feel like I’ve betrayed trust? I’m really scared that I made her uncomfortable so I folded and said it was meant for someone else | Crushes |
This is my first office job so I get headaches due to eye strain from staring at a computer all day. I recently bought some blue light filtering glasses to help this (I don’t wear glasses normally)
I thought they looked silly on my (like chemistry goggles).
Anyway she said they looked good on me so I’m never taking them off now. | Crushes |
I feel like I can't be friends with a pretty girl, is this normal for everyone? is there a way to change from this? cause' I feel like a lot of people are just friends with someone they would find attractive. I need advice. | Crushes |
I have two hot coworkers at the pho place I work at it and I love them both. How can I decide who is hotter? | Crushes |
i reflected a lot n now ik i made it fucking obvious lmfao
even my friend told me i made it obvious 😭
So he knows
He ignored me all day today
So ignored him too
Ignoring him was so fucking hard
Like really difficult when we hangout in same friend group so hard so hard so hard😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
We've had some eye contacts when we were ignoring each other i mean like i saw him look at me
but he was trying to ignore me toooo hard wtf
Then he finally called me by my second name lol
Yesterday he did the same and i laughed
Today i called him by his second name lol
Then again ignoring gamee he's rude to me nowadays
VERY MEAN VERY VERY MEAN
he literally pushed my hand away when he was moving chair then he fuckin messed up my hair
I was pissed so i looked back at him and then was like oh sorry it was a mistake
LIKE BITCH WTF!?
( i did the same to him yesterday lol, i threw water at him twice lmfao he was pissed )
i was pissed so i said even i know how to make mistakes | Crushes |
We work together and he has no idea I have a crush on him. I didn’t think I’d be here in my 30s crushing over some guy. I’ve been single for a while but he gives me butterflies. Every time I see him I get excited. He’s too cute and shy. Too bad he’s not in to me…at least I don’t think he is. | Crushes |
As you can tell by the title, didn't go well for me last night.
I ended up texting her and confessing, but she doesn't feel the same.
The good thing is we're still great friends, even though it might be awkward hanging out for a couple of weeks. | Crushes |
i dont know if he did that just out of boredom but until recently he’s never missed to reply my igs story or whatever ive posted and after that one event we worked on tgt he always waiting for me to go back home after school cus our home is just like 1km apart n im lowkey been watching him and i noticed that he is close to any girl in school but i swear he is not that type of fuck boy or anything i just dont know if he texted me just like he texted any other girl… | Crushes |
Okay, so this is moving really fast but,
Last week I met this guy and we hit it off and became friends. He’s really not my type, I find him physically icky but he’s really nice so we’re friends. Last night he invited me for dinner so I could hang and meet his best friend. His friend is so cute and funny and we had such a great time. I instantly starting crushing on him, but he has a girlfriend.
When I got home my friend confessed his crush and politely rejected him but now things are a bit awkward between us, but I still wanna be friends cause he’s nice and and I want to stay close to my crush. | Crushes |
I like multiple boys right now -In french, I can say that I have an artichoke heart, which means I develop crushes easily- Each one of them are sweet but acting kind of, indifferent?
I don't know, i got a shy personality when i crush on someone and i fear i'm just not myself enough so that's the only reason they would not, like me? Haha so weird to type that.
Anyway, i don't know what to do. I like them. They are nice people. But we seem to have no connection. And i sensed some shiness in the other too, so i was pretty sure i got a chance. I'm aware i don't know much about them and i need to became friends with them first. But i just can't break through.
I push myself so much to do the first move, talk to them, join them somewhere, make time for conversation.. but they don't do that ! It seem they value their time and it leaves me feeling like an idiot, wasting mine trying to get their attention. And i just can't act like an attention demanding person for too long, it damages my pride.
So, what is this case, uh? Move-on kind of one? Be-honest type of one? Please, give me your opinion on this.
EDIT: and you know what? It's not even a matter of I want a relationship, just a touch and a little fun would be great. But i seem to have no confidence nor imagination to approach these situations. | Crushes |
We were waiting for our teacher infront of the Computer room. She came to one of my friends and asked her as a joke "Do you wanna get sick"? (My crush has a tiny cold) She said "yes" and my crush gave her the biggest warmest hug i've seen in a long time and my heart melted once again. | Crushes |
he walked me to the train and it was raining and he held the umbrella for me the whole way. we didnt get a a chance to exchange numbers. ill see him saturday but would it be crazy to email the key student in my class for the guys email to thank him for the umbrella walk lol? too crazy? or just wait till saturday.
im f/29 | Crushes |
If you haven't seen part 1, you may want to go and see that first in my posts but it's up to you, just if you want to catch up you should read them in order. Please don't judge me in the comments, this is just my life and I wanted to share that so if you don't like it just ignore it please, thank you!
10th of March, Friday 2023
So... Today at recess I was walking to the table near the basketball court and as we were walking down I see Mr Grierson for the first time near the basketball court watching the back area, I was totally shocked because he's normally in the main quad with the year 7's to year 10's but for a change he was watching the back area with the field and seats that people hang out with their older friends because we can't hang out with people in our area with other years, which I cannot hang out at the main quad because the year 11's are near the back area, we are only allowed there for the canteen or to talk to talk to teachers about school work... one of the teachers must of been away! Anyway, Austin said "Hey sir, let's play basketball" and he looked up at us walking down and said "yeah, maybe" with really big smile. Austin kept calling him down when we were down at the basketball court shooting hoops so, Mr Grierson finally came down.. Mr Grierson is a real push over/ really easy to convince!! Anyway, he had a game half way through the game he took of his vest (teacher wear a vest so you know who are the teachers and who are the students even though we wear school uniforms), then he finished the game with Austin and Austinn won in the end this time by a point! Which was a shame but.. oh well! Mr Grierson said "Here Helena" as he threw the ball to me but he said my name the other way.. like the other student that use to be in his class.. ugh! Anyway, Then he said "I'll win next time!" And I said "Good try!" Then he said "Yeah I'll try next time!" Lke he wasn't trying at all, lol! Then he walked back to his room as the bell rang! In class (Business Studies) with Mr Grierson, Renee said "I forgot to charge my laptop last night so I didn't bring it!" he said "lucky Helena has a computer" to Renee, but he said my name the wrong way AGAIN!! Then he marked the role and he said my name the right way... he must of had a lot on his mind or something.. he normally doesn't get my name wrong that much.. anyway, Then he said "Goodjob" after our lesson but he was looking at Renee this time.. hopefully he was talking to me too... or at least meant me too! | Crushes |
recently, i’ve found myself thinking a lot about a friend of mine with whom i had an argument last year. we started talking again after we rekindled in january and i’ve told her that i’m afraid i’ll get too attached if we talk a lot. i told her not to stop messaging me but i made sure she knew i wouldn’t always answer instantly in order not to get my heart broken the same way it did with my ex. she said she didn’t mind and would give me the time and space i need but since that day, we talk less and less and i miss talking to her. was it a great decision from me ?? what should i do ?? i don’t want to be a burden nor do i want to catch feelings and get rejected. | Crushes |
If you haven't seen part 1, you may want to go and see that first in my posts but it's up to you, just if you want to catch up you should read them in order. Please don't judge me in the comments, this is just my life and I wanted to share that so if you don't like it just ignore it please, thank you!
9th of March, Thursday 2023
So... Today, I didn't have a class with Mr Grierson but first period I had AG (Agriculture) and I stood outside waiting for our teacher to arrive, then I saw Mr Grierson walk down to his class diagonal to ours like every 2 weeks and as he was walking up the stairs, I was looking him up and down of course, from the back of his beautiful brownish blonde hair to his lovely curved back to his perky butt to his muscular legs to his surfer joggers! Then as I looked back up to his face, he started looking over at my class waiting outside of our classroom... I'm just glad they were all outside.. normally they go into the classroom before the teachers gets there, if they hadn't of been there I would of felt awkward just looking at him like that by myself! It felt like he was looking at me specifically even though my whole class was outside. I was looking back at him of course with one hand on my hip.. looking confident for a change.. it was by accident actually.. anytime I'm perving at someone I always put my hand on my hip.. it's like a habit now! Then he walked into the classroom. After first period, because I had double AG, I saw Mr Grierson walk out of the classroom through the big windows in the AG room. Then when my classmates and I was walking to English after maths (4th period), Renee said she saw Strawberry (our code name/word for Mr Grierson), apparently he was looking at us as he came up the stairs when we were on a different level of concrete as him. Unfortunately I didn't see him because she told me to late to look but he saw both of us I'm pretty sure so that's good! He's so adorable and gorgeous! Hopefully he VS Austin tomorrow at basketball because Austin wasn't there today! | Crushes |
Okay so idk where to start but basically we were friends first and then kinda became best friends (he calls me that too). We went/go out some times and we always had fun, especially him, he always told me after how much he enjoyed our "walks" and such yk. But since like a month, we both kinda started flirting and I already had a bit of feelings for him before and now I actually think I love him alot. Just 2 days ago, we were out again and we were sitting on like a bench (idk how to explain it) and we then cuddled a bit and he kept looking at me and wanted to hold eyecontact (he told me) but I was mostly too shy. Anyways he wanted to kiss me a few times and was super close and we both were happy that day. He then brought me home and we hugged goodbye and yeah it was basically a very good day, the day after (yesterday)he had a Competition for his Sport which is a few hours away and last the whole day, so he was obviously busy but a bit dry too. Then today morning he is telling me about a new girl that he met there, that also lives in OUR city and whose little sister goes to his association, he told me how she got his number, which is rare because he usually only gives his insta or snap and how him and that girl had eyecontact and how she sat near him and how they even have touched. What does that mean? How can he act like we are a couple and hold my hand, try kissing me, cuddling but then meeting someone new and being like that? He is also taking more time than usual to answer my text (he normally took max. 30mins and was then telling me what he was busy with, but suddenly he is all dry and cant even take our jokes.). What is wrong with him? Or is it my fault? What do I do | Crushes |
I(16m) live a couple houses away from a girl(15f) who I’ve been hanging out with a lot recently, she’s the first person that makes me feel blissfully happy anytime she’s around. She usually calls me and asks if I want to hang out which I do pretty much every time. Earlier in the week we were walking around our neighborhood for hours in the rain and she asked me to pick her up and carry her to her house to get her dog. I did it and I just have to say I have never felt more relaxed/happy than when she tightened her grip around my chest and laid her head on mine. She left to go out of town with family on Friday and is supposed to be home later today, I can’t really explain how excited I am because we don’t really have a way to talk to each other unless it’s in school or her house phone so all of it’s just building up making me more and more excited for her to be home.
Sorry for the long post I just wanted to vent. I hope everything goes well with everyone and good luck. | Crushes |
I thought she only used me to get better grades and I totally believed that and kinda hated her, but going to school today and unconsciously looking for her even tho i knew i wouldn’t talk to her made me realize that i’m not over her yet. I haven’t talked to her for three school days now, I didn’t even want to look at her but idk at this point, I caught her staring at me several times today, she even kept her eyes on me as i was leaving the class. she was asking the girls about something today and she hesitated to ask me but she did, i gave her the cold shoulder and refused, she then sat for moments with us after that then left, when we were playing i was joking with the girls and laughing, she was quiet and looking at me and taking her eyes off when i notice her. She’s a loud person who only wants to have fun but today she was kinda unusual and idk if it’s because of something or me. I wanna ask her what’s wrong with her like she did when i was down but it feels wrong since i’ve been avoiding her. HELP. | Crushes |
Okay so idk where to start but basically we were friends first and then kinda became best friends (he calls me that too). We went/go out some times and we always had fun, especially him, he always told me after how much he enjoyed our "walks" and such yk. But since like a month, we both kinda started flirting and I already had a bit of feelings for him before and now I actually think I love him alot. Just 2 days ago, we were out again and we were sitting on like a bench (idk how to explain it) and we then cuddled a bit and he kept looking at me and wanted to hold eyecontact (he told me) but I was mostly too shy. Anyways he wanted to kiss me a few times and was super close and we both were happy that day. He then brought me home and we hugged goodbye and yeah it was basically a very good day, the day after (yesterday)he had a Competition for his Sport which is a few hours away and last the whole day, so he was obviously busy but a bit dry too. Then today morning he is telling me about a new girl that he met there, that also lives in OUR city and whose little sister goes to his association, he told me how she got his number, which is rare because he usually only gives his insta or snap and how him and that girl had eyecontact and how she sat near him and how they even have touched. What does that mean? How can he act like we are a couple and hold my hand, try kissing me, cuddling but then meeting someone new and being like that? He is also taking more time than usual to answer my text (he normally took max. 30mins and was then telling me what he was busy with, but suddenly he is all dry and cant even take our jokes.). What is wrong with him? Or is it my fault? What do I do | Crushes |
Like would you like it in a person or by texting? Would you like to get a hand written love later?
Getting confessed In public places or less crowded?
What is the best way that you will love to be get confessed in?
Is it gonna sound weird or something that if your best guy friend confessed you? Can it affect your friendship with him if you're not feeling the same way?
Is it better way to just say that–hey, umm.. I just wanted to let you know that I've liked you since I met you, and the reason that I'm telling you now is so I can finally move on and take this heavy feeling off my chest. And also, don't feel any obligation to reply. And again, I just wanted to get this out of my chest. Wish you a happy wonderful life. –written by someone online. Is this better way to confess without letting it affect your friendship? | Crushes |
That was literally the weirdest and best night of my life.
I had so so much fun I was non-stop laughing but the part when my bsf tried to make out with me infront of all my other friends was so fuking weird.
It was weird for both of us I literally said in that moment "I'm gonna forget all of this tomorrow and we will never talk about this" he wasn't drinking anything, but after that happened he talked about how drunk he is and bla bla even tho he was sober asf.
I was drunk but I remember everything. Not perfectly but I remember what happened. He wanted to cuddle with meao badly and than tried to kiss my neck and all over my face. I made it clear I didn't want to BC I was so confused in that moment and didn't know what to do and what he was doing. I was drunk.
I enjoyed being around the people there but him trying to kiss me and make out in front of my other friends was so embarrassing.
I wanna kms this is so embarrassing. Okay but NGL it's more embarrassing for him. I literally was just trying to cuddle. MANNNN I'm confused. The rest of the night I was overthinking and so lost with everything.
I don't know if I even like him (crush). But now I'm curious, does he like me...? Or was he just taking advantage of me bc I was drunk and he wanted to make out with someone? I need help. I feel like I'm going crazy. Just tell me what do y'all think. Doesn't matter what just someone talk with me please.
I don't wanna mess this friendship up. He's my best friend, we talk about everything and are super close. I think I have a crush on him but I'm not sure. Does he like me? Or is that normal for guys...? | Crushes |
The senior didn't know who i was, but we were texting for a couple of days. I knew via text that he likes me. He invited me for coffee. I hoped that he would lose interest over me if he meets me. I have no interest over him. We met and now he says that he likes me 100/10. I still don't like him back. How can I tell off without hurting their feelings and without losing their friendship bcoz they can help me career wise? | Crushes |
Jose
Jose, Jose, Jose,
The most beautiful stranger.
I beg the butterflies,
I beg my lucky stars,
I’ll see you again.
Jose, Jose, Jose,
If we are to stay strangers forever,
I’d mourn a lover’s death. | Crushes |
Asked out my crush a few days back. Got rejected. Felt a lot for hurt, something which I still feel. What should I do? How can I move on even though I have to see her face everyday since we work in the same place? | Crushes |
So am a girl, And I like this one senior of mine, he send me a request on snap once which i accepted, Now we have never talked face to face like a proper conversation, but I see him everyday because of the same bus, I pretty sure he have tried to start a conversation with me before, but I get really really shy and awkward. And I think he has noticed that, we only ones had a proper conversation on snap. But that was the only time. Since then we are exchanging snaps. No texting what so ever...
What should i do? Message him, try to talk or just leave it...
Please give some advice. | Crushes |
This guy that I work with is my age, but he got promoted to shift lead. I consider myself a fairly attractive woman, but am I the best looking? No. I wear makeup almost everyday to work, but we have to wear masks, so half my face is covered. This coworker asked me one day if work had been busy earlier that morning. I told him it wasn't. He said "really? So you were just standing around looking pretty the whole time?" He said this to me while there were two other coworkers nearby (one of them is another shift lead, and his best friend)
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/133jbd3) | Crushes |
it’s always “i love how they feel about me” or “i want them to feel this way about me”
but do you ever notice how you feel for someone and think “that’s really beautiful”, regardless of how they feel about you?
it’s like your own feelings for them are just so beautiful that it’s almost enough | Crushes |
I liked him since the first week he started working at Starbucks. He’s my supervisor and he’s really sweet and I couldn’t help but admire him from afar and his socialization skills. The way he makes connections with customers based on the littlest details blows my mind. That’s something he’s good at that I’m not haha.
At first when I first met him, I thought he was a goof ball but later that interest became a big crush. I had a crush on him since October, the day he joined. I’ve been keeping it all to myself and I never planned to tell him as I was going to just let it be and respect his boundaries.
Well I wasn’t expecting him to put his 2 weeks in soon and I decided to tell him. He’s leaving to working over the summer in his college campus. I gave him a gift that I made before he dropped me home. He hugged me and on my god i was so happy. I told him over the phone and I don’t know what the answer will be and I don’t know if I want to know or how I’m going to see him again. I do have his number however.
Since he’s leaving I might also leave my job. It’s giving me anxiety. We are always closing together and he’s always been there to help me and be patient with me even though I drive him nuts sometimes because of my lack of attention and I would feel so bad.
That’s all I have on my chest. I hope you all root for me. 💗 | Crushes |
Yes, I(22M) like my best friend(22F), we've been friends for more than a year now, we've shared moments unimaginably deep. We were like a couple, everyone thought there was something between us, they weren't wrong, there was, but I was never courageous enough to speak my mind due to the possibility of ruining what we had. People laughed at us when we hung out together, she asked me why do they do that, I always knew why, it was because I'm not a good looking person and she's just the most beautiful and innocent girl, I'm also obese so that is the reason people kept laughing at us.She was in deep problems when I met her, she was depressed, ready to give up ,we worked through the problems, and eventually got out of them. I trusted(still do) her enough that I felt safe sharing my emotions and problems with her and she listened. All my life I've worn a disguise to hide my feelings, but she saw through it, as if it wasn't there. My heart was as solid as stone but she somehow made it soft and made me feel again, gave me hope in myself. I believed we could conquer every challenge thrown at us. But then as always, I ruined it. It was a spur of the moment thing, I snooped through her chats, saw another guy calling her "babe" and as always I freaked out. I've always asked her if she was in a relationship and she's always answered in the negative. I left so many of my toxic friends to be with her so naturally I felt compelled to tell her how I felt, I made up a story that, I have a friend and I recently found out about her boyfriend and I'm freaking out and I don't know why, and as always, she saw through my disguise as if it wasn't there. The first day she was very supportive, keep in mind that she knew that I had made up that story, she helped calm me down, gave me some advice. The next day she told me that we needed to talk, she confronted me about what I had done and I know it was a hideous thing to snoop into her chats. I apologized to her and we talked for a good hour or so about what I had done and what will happen in the future. She knows how much of an over thinker I am and kept on telling me not to overthink. She said "Go with the flow" and that she needed space and time to process this, she is an incredibly private person and I betrayed her trust by doing such a lowly act.
We decided not to tell any of our other friend about this and act normal in front of them. But then, one day about 2 later I made a video of her just for fun, I used to do this before and she never expressed her discomfort, she said that I shouldn't do make video of her out of the blue. I then asked her why all of a sudden was she uncomfortable with it, she just said that before she didn't want any strain in our friendship and now she knows that she has to speak out. We then argued the whole night because I just said that communication is key, she did communicate. The crux of it was that, she never considered me her best friend, because she only has 2 best friends and I was just a really good friend of hers, I told her that I don't want to loose her ,ever. She said that she couldn't promise me that. Then I communicated some of the things that hurt me and she did explain why they happened. Now at the end I asked her if she and that guy had something in between them and that's then she really burst, she said who are you to ask me such a question, he's a great friend of mine and a well maintained and mannered guy, Well, I've been always of the view that I should communicate what bugging me, and I did that, and it backfired, she said she lost her previous best friend because of this guy and they stopped talking to her all of a sudden and didn't ask her what they were, and she respected them because of that. I just couldn't leave her all of a sudden, it would have been another betrayal.
What hurt me the most was when we were arguing and she was angry, she said that I should keep my feelings inside and people aren't dustbins that I'll just throw everything at them. I didn't understand this at the moment but when I did, it broke me to the core. I had written a 6 page apology letter for her, but after this conversation I don't know if I'm going to give it to her.
I've been crying at odd times since this happened, in the university as well, in front of close friends. I put so much effort in our friendship and she still does this, why? Its the first thought when I wake up and the last one when I go to bed, I've been overthinking uncontrollably and don't know where this is going, Last night my mum told me to get her a gift, I broke down inside, how could I tell her what happened. I'm also a very hypersensitive person and this situation is taking up so much of my thinking. For the first time in my life I'm missing classes because of someone, I can't work properly.
But when we meet, its all good, she acts normal, as if nothing happened, laughs, cracks jokes on me. Inside both of us know what is happening but we decided to act as if nothing happened.
I like her, yes, I don't know how I'm going to go about without her support. There's another thing, I know she won't survive in the university without me for even a week, she's too much dependent on me, I've seen her at her bad times, I cannot just leave her, her mother would be devastated, she's a cancer survivor. Her family has helped me innumerable number of time, when I was failure in life, it was her cousin that sparked my interest in my current field, he's still my one of my best friends to this day.
I just felt I needed to say all of this somewhere. I just hope this is a test and we can go back to being "us" and maybe someday I can tell her how I feel about her.
Now I feel a bit underappreciated, I haven't texted her in a while now, we still talk but in groups not privately. But she's there in my dreams, I think about her all day. My heart just sinks when I think about the other guy. I don't know what to do anymore. | Crushes |
I got rejected by this Ukrainian girl | Crushes |
Ive had a serious one year relationship in the past and would like to think i’m fairly experienced but this same problem always comes up. I don’t know how to go up and start a conversation with a girl that i’ve never talked to. We follow each other on social media, not that that means anything but should I just text her first? I know people always say you should do this kind of stuff in person but I really just don’t know what to say if i would to do it in person and I have social anxiety. | Crushes |
I am in 8th grade going into 9th and there's this girl I like and I have her number but I'm too nervous to tell her that I like her because I don't wanna ruin the friendship. What do I do. | Crushes |
1st. one girl (let’s call her Keyra) accused me of liking her in 6th grade.Her friends would come to me and tell me that i like her when i never knew she existed. Now 11th grade i see her again, she is apparently friends with this other girl (i’ll call her Cana) who also acted creeped out by me in 8th grade basically in that grade she moved her desk away from me and she thought i had a crush on her cuz i acted shy but I got social anixety. so back to 11th grade I was in line to get my photo taken.
They were not in line and decide to get behind me. When i had to take my photo Keyra was staring at me and i got nervous and i would look glance back at her, after i glanced back at her like the 3rd time She looked away and touched her hair. I started feeling shaky and nervous. The next day i think those 2 told there guy friend to sit in my spot so i had to sit somewhere else. Cana said “i feel bad for him” then chuckled. after that when i knock on the door to class they pretend they didn’t see me and don’t open it for me but they open it for others also they said they hated my friends. Another time they were talking about there crushes and saying there names but coindentally i was shaking my leg and cana said “aww he is shaking” like bro i ain’t shaking cuz of you.
2. This other girl thought i was shaking (i got anixety which causes me to shake) cuz of her and she gave me a angry look but one time i legit looked up and she quickly looked away Another time i had to work with her and she gave me a angry side eye stare. She’s got a boyfriend btw
3. Another girl who has a boyfriend accused me of looking at her when i was just staring at the teacher She told the whole clas i had a crush on her when i didn’t and she even told her boyfriend She would constantly act creeped out by me and give me death stares and try to get with her boyfriend everytime i was near. I tried my best to avoid her and not look at any direction of hers cuz everytime i do she assumes i’m looking at her | Crushes |
This guy is absolutely unbelievable. During summer (8 months ago) we were on vacation and cuddled and held eachother as friends. then gohsted me until a month back I finally broke down and asked what the hell happened on the vacation and he admitted he liked me back then then. after that he kept hugging me and one time when I was crying and everyone was hugging me he came over hugged me then moved behind me and held me with his arms around the top of my chest. (very respectful and careful where his hands were don't worry he's not a creep he's a nice dude) then during our school's show I ran into a guy who assulted me. I ran crying and broke down having a panic attack and he ran offstage and ran to me and shoved people away from me and held me, promising I was safe and whispering sweet things to me. he's nice and sweet when we're together but he never calls anymore he's been stressed lately but he calls other people. I keep inviting him to stuff but he never shows. but than again he's busy and ive asked around and he was not with anyone so his story seems solid about him being busy. (I'm not a stalker I promise it's just he has a history of lying when he dosent want to hang out) in school our group meets at his locker. I've started distancing myself but he always makes a point to say hi. I told him I liked him a few months back but he got all distant and said he did not feel the same so I eventually told him I said that to prove he gets distant when people like him, which he dose so he bought it. I'm so confused and I'm kinda over the games. it's been like this for a year and a half. but they will be times he is sweet and sincere and it makes me stay. If anyone has any advice i would appreciate it very much. | Crushes |
We texted for about an hour last night. The only reason we stopped was because it was late and iI was tired.
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Got it’s the best feeling ever I forgot how good it felt, I said things and did things that made her laugh and my god her laugh is adorable and I’m really glad I was able be funny enough and that she likes my sense of humor just felt the need to share | Crushes |
Title is just so people know when this post was made.
So, title says it. What are some *clear* signs a girl likes you. I want to empathize clear because yes we guys can be pretty clueless or the signs literally just aren't clear at all. Also, I'm a pretty shy person so I personally think it adds on to the cluelessness.
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I'd prefer for the most obvious signs a girl likes you. Also, I've read a lot of these types of posts but a lot of the answers seem to be pretty repetitive, so maybe if you could answer with something you'd consider "unique", if that's the right word.
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This post I'd say is mainly dedicated to shy guys who have crushes but literally can't tell if a girl likes them. | Crushes |
She asked me if I liked anyone, and the conversation eventually led to her telling me she like some guy named Lucas. He exists. She would text me everyday walk with me to 4 classes. Called me attractive multiple times. Liked all of my stories. The “who do you like” conversation went on for hours. | Crushes |
He’s an old friend and I was at the same party he was at last night, and haven’t seen him for a couple of months (last time I saw him was the first time I’ve seen him since 2017, and we have been reconnected). Once I walked in he was standing there, said hey and winked at me. To keep long story short we were around each other the whole time, and asked if I had a boyfriend when I was messaging my guy bsf. Then we got talking about relationships and how he wants to date people after hs.
I didn’t get a chance to say goodbye to him as he left in a rush. I was thinking of sending him a message today but not sure if I should.
Thoughts? | Crushes |
I have a crush on a girl I've met quite recently and didn't see that much that I met through a friend of my friend
Thus being said, recently after I went to a bar to see the friend I mention earlier, she was their (along with many other friends of my boy) and everything went ok even if I didn't talk to her much. We ended up the night going to my flat (her my roomie and two other people that I know more or less) and the end of the night went nice and everyone got home
But my roomate basically said that I didn't saw the hints and that she was clearly into me and I really think he is mistaken but I kind of want to believe him
He said she kept looking at me (but like okay we're five in a room talking and stuff) and asking me useless questions about me and my stuff a lot which means (says he) that she wanted to talk more and she's into me + she kept Mysteriously whispering to her friend a lot while looking at me (but I stayed with him all night so it could be him also)
I'm 90% certains he is mistaken but the more I think about it the more I want to believe | Crushes |
So I started talking to this girl from my Uni for about 2 weeks now. It’s been going really well, she asks a bunch of questions about me and I do the same and the conversation flows and never ends. The only problem is that she only replies in the night at like 22:00-00:00.
I did find out that she half swipes my texts on snap. For those that don’t know what half swipe is, it’s when they can see your message without them opening it. A trick I guess you can call it
I’ve heard that only replying at night is a red flag and other say it’s not
Should I continue pursuing this or just leave? | Crushes |
Help I'm shitting myself what should I say😭 | Crushes |
(shy guys invited to answer especially) What are some signs that a shy, quiet introverted guy likes you? | Crushes |
I've (17F) never been on a date and never had a boyfriend! Why am I still single? All my crushes have never liked me back and no one has ever had a crush on me.. if they have they have either lied about it or did something wrong like believe a rumour over my word and hated me for it. I don't get it.. I try to talk to people but they never end up liking me more than a friend... Please help!! Maybe someone could give me some tips... maybe I may be doing something wrong... | Crushes |
We are both students, and my crush has a tough internship he’s in right now. We used to message frequently, but he’s been saying that he’s extremely busy and leaves me on read for hours or days and replies way later than I feel is the appropriate amount of time. We sometimes see each other on campus, but he only gives me a quick greeting before setting off. He also used to be consistent with coming to visit me at my job where I’m a barista, but nowadays, he doesn’t unless we set up an exact time to meet. Am I bothering him and he’s just too nice to say he’s not interested? Could this be a “if he wanted to he would have” reality check for me? | Crushes |
So I’ve got this crush, who’s really hot and cold. On the one hand, we started snapping a lot back in the winter, and we were always playful around one another. On the other, we don’t really talk a lot in person, and I find that I never know what to say around him. He’s a really friendly person, so idk if he’s just got a crush on me and is dropping hints or I’m just delulu and that’s how he treats everyone. Help? | Crushes |
So I 19(F) have started talking to this guy 19(M), and I’ve known him all throughout high school, we hung out in the same friend group and I even dated one of his friends. How it started was he started liking my Instagram stories, and so I finally decided to slide into the DMs. He responded a day later and the conversation was pretty good and lasted a good two days! He reciprocated, kept the flow going, and genuinely seemed interested in what I had to say. I eventually stopped talking because the convo naturally came to a halt. I waited a week, reached out again and the convo was pretty ok, I ultimately stopped replying again. Well I created a second Instagram account, he was the first person to request to follow it and when I posted my first story he replied to it, and thus a convo started again, he seemed more at ease and matched my goofy energy.
Here’s the catch, I’ve tried to flirt with him, calling him funny and I even at one point basically called him good looking. But he just kinda brushed passed all the compliments and flirts. I honestly don’t know if he’s just trying to be friendly or he’s interested but awkward. Any advice ? What are your thoughts ? | Crushes |
ok so lemme explain, i'm religious, like a a buddhist, so i believe in spirituality and stuff so i believe that all dreams have meanings (unless it's about you as a panda riding a washing machine cuz...)
ok so in the dream, i was in a restaurant with an old friend of mine, like sorta those thai fancy ones you see in pattaya and stuff. there i saw my crush with mutual friend of mine and another guy. i dont remember much but i just went up to their table, explaining how there's this fan-meeting for Siyoon's birthday (context, Siyoon is a kpop idol from the group Billlie) and it happens that we share the same bday and i made an excuse how we needed to bring a partner so i asked if he wanted to go as a bday present for me and he pointed to a drunk girl who was laying on the table saying "i have a girlfriend, she's like a *wife* to me."
then the dream ends with me yelling and cursing at them. idk what it means, or what this dream even is. what do you guys think? | Crushes |
I 22F have a friend 23M who always likes to poke fun at me. He would always annoy me like whenever I would ask if I could see his notebook he would say no to me with a smirk or smile but yes to my other friends, he would pull my backpack, step on my shoe, poke my laptop screen or have close contact like he would have his elbow touching my elbow when we’re sitting next to each other, he would sit so close that our thighs are touching, or he would tap my thigh with his thigh, always give me low fives, braiding and playing with my hair, poke my calve or thigh, he also played with my palm, put his elbow on my knee, rubbed lotion on my hand. However, he’s such a bad texter, like he wouldn’t keep the conversation going. I am so confused. I like him too but I keep on thinking that he’s just friendly because I don’t wanna get hurt again. | Crushes |
so for some context, everyone in this story is bi, and we all know it about each other. So a while ago, my friend introduced me to another friend who was pretty cute, we hit it off and then i started crushing on him a little, but a lot more later because of his actions, if that makes sense? so he started doing things he doesn’t do with anyone else, like flirting in another language, think, “are you an ocean because i’m drowning in your eyes,” and things like that. He also gets like really close if i’m leaning against a wall and makes eye contact while we talk and he’s like a few inches from my face. if i ever look down, like out of sadness, he gently moves my chin up and steps close so i’m looking into his eyes, is he flirting or am i overthinking this? | Crushes |
My crush and I are good friends (besties?) in school. We're really close, and we care about each other a lot. Lately, my crush seems to always want to spend time with me. He even wants to see me smile, and cares a lot about my wellbeing whenever I'm sad. He would reassure me and tell me that everything is okay and also worries, a lot. There was this one time when I got a small injury and he got really worried.
We also flirt sometimes but we're mostly joking. Like sometimes he'd ask me questions like "Do you miss me?/j" or "Aww my knee hurts :(, you're supposed to care 😭." He even sent me poetic rizz videos for fun.
But he also mentions about another girl that is also his crush a few times. He doesn't really talk about this girl anymore and isn't sure if he still have feelings for her or not. Last night he just told me that he was slightly upset about how his crush responded to his message, but he said that he'll try not to mind it. But if he does like me, why would he tell me about this crush?
[/j = /joke, rizz (flirting) = the ability to get gfs/bfs]
Does he like me romantically or do best friends treat each other like that? Or is it possible that he likes 2 people at the same time? | Crushes |
i guess this doesnt really relate to crushes but i've always wanted to know the different perspectives and reasonings behind peoples opinions. like should an 18 yr old date a 24 yr old? or can a 20 yr old date a 30 yr old? | Crushes |
I'd like to just chat about a really fun night I had on Friday. I went out drinking with my crush and her friends. I got completely shitfaced. Like, I went home at 3 AM because I couldn't stand up anymore. I had a lot of fun though, And we chatted a lot, The most attention my crush has ever given me. She even took a picture with me too. It felt good. Long story short. I went home and to bed. Woke up with the worst hangover I've ever had. Felt ill all day up until about 8PM, When I finally felt ok. I talked to her, And she told me she carried on drinking until 6 AM. I shit you not. She had drunk more than me. When I couldn't stand up anymore. And she carried on drinking for another 3 hours after that. And by the time I couldn't stand up anymore, I'd already earlier in the night, Threw up in the toilet, Just to carry on drinking. I REALLY wanted to stay out with her. But I couldn't stay out with her and couldn't stand up without falling over, And even I knew that I physically could not drink anymore. Yet she drank more than me and went until 6 AM. And said she felt fine when she woke up. What are her liver and guts made of? That's practically inhuman to drink so much and still be able to even function. | Crushes |
Basically this guy I met twice has/had a crush on me pretty much liked me first he told my friend he really liked me and liked talking to me (we were texting) but was iffy cause of our ages (it’s not bad and everyone around him told him it wasn’t) anyways I ended up liking him too classic!
it’s been a month since I last seen him he’s in a band so I went to his gig that’s how we met a second time. But it’s been a month of texting and snapping and I seened him for a week cause it was just picture snapping and then I reached out again and the first day we were back texting back and forth and now it’s sort of died but it’s odd because he won’t let the conversation die out I usually kill it not intentionally and he manages to bring it back up by changing the subject but at weird hours he’ll basically text at 1pm then delivered til 8 then delivered again then change the subject by 12 so that it’s like 3 texts a day without the convo ending I take it he’s lost interest but why not let the conversation die then. | Crushes |
So I kinda was staring at my crush then later saw her friend constantly looking at me then my crush gave off or so I thought signs that she liked me back I said hi she looked at me and ignored I've heard that she could possibly be playing hard to get what do I do? | Crushes |
But she doesn’t like any of my posts or stories
She views my stories almost instantly
Girls- do you act like this with ur crush??? | Crushes |
So I(21f) have a crush on my coworker(29m) and although one of my other coworkers(22f) told me she thinks he has a crush on me I just can’t bring myself to confess to him. I hype myself up to do it and when I actually see him I get too scared.
I was thinking that maybe I should just confess by text but it seems impersonal and we don’t really text each other much so it would be awkward.
I also thought about texting him that I have something to tell him next time we see each other so I can’t back out when the day comes but then again I won’t see him for a while.
I don’t know what to do anyone has any advice?
Sorry for any mistake english is not my first language! | Crushes |
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I was talking to this guy and I sent him a sexy photo of my self to start a convo and he told me it was hot. It’s not like it’s anything new cuz we send eachother sexy photos time to time. Anyways, he apologized for replying late to me and I told him it was okay. He texted back again apologizing again to me telling me his phone is at 1 percent and he’s laying on a couch. I felt uneasy by that cuz I wanted to ask him if he was okay as he constantly apologized to me. He never apologized so much like that before. Two times ina row at least.
So I asked him why was he telling me and he told me so I won’t think he’s ignoring me if his phone dies. That makes sense so I thanked him for the heads up. I liked that he was considerate of that because I tend to overthink at times so he let me in the know that he isn’t ignoring me if his phone dies.
Then I asked him if he was alone? And he told me he wasn’t so I dismissed my follow up. He asked me what was up anyways. So I told him wanted to hear his voice as I find his voice to be very hot and attractive. He sent me voice messages before so it's not like it should be weird. We send all types of things. He simply apologized again and I felt slightly embarrassed by the let down because I felt stupid for asking for it. But it kinda felt like I was getting "told off" in a way?
We start having a convo about our interests and as the convo dies down I told him that I think he's so hot. I like flirting with him if you couldn’t tell. I like giving him compliments and making him feel good, creating tha flirtatious atmosphere is exciting for me.
He adds sweating emojis in his text and thanks me for the compliment then tells me I’m hot as well. Because of him sweating nervous emojis I felt like he felt uncomfortable from the compliment so I shut it down and basically told him I was messing with him cuz I wanted to see how he’d react, shifting away that I uttered my attraction to him. I panicked! He replied back 4 hours later, soundly distasful towards me. I felt like he ignored or wiggles his way out from that entire thing. Complete and utter vibe shift. I felt like he wasn’t enjoying the flirting but flirted back. I just complimented him the other day and he seemed perfectly okay with it. I told him if he didn’t like the flirting he could just tell me and he told me that he didn’t want to “deal with the bad vibes” wtaf?
What did I do? I tried to explain myself but he blocked me | Crushes |
I know that this is gonna sound like such a tween thing to type, but I need to get this off my chest. Also sorry if this is hard to read, my grammar sucks.
I’ve only known the guy I like, who I’ll call L, since my first yr8 Japanese class in December, and I’ve liked him ever since. He’s smart, funny and to be honest kinda cute, but whenever I’m around him I either say or do something stupid that ruins my chances of being with him little by little.
My friend keeps on trying to convince me that L does like me, but I don’t believe her at all.
Please help me, I’m the most socially awkward, possibly autistic, emotional 13 y/o I think there has ever been in the 21st century and I have no idea what to say to him. And I swear, if I see anybody in the comments saying ’just talk to him’, I can’t! I’ll end up screwing up everything and making him hate me even more than he probably does.
\- Sincerely, ATheatreEnthusiast | Crushes |
So I 31M who has had a crush on 32F I knew from church and we both worked at the same community college for a year. We’ve gone to the same church for over 5 years. We weren’t friends or hung around the same group of people. But we knew of each other based on information from other people. At one point we had a rift between one another but that has seemed to have died down over the last 6 months due to me not interacting with her.
I still had feelings for her and I was very much interested in her. But it was just an awkward situation because I was trying to show her good intentions and I’m not the person I was being painted as. Over the past two months she was with a guy I suspected was the guy she was at least talking to. And I told myself if that is him then ok…. No big deal. Well that day has come and my feelings are pretty much hitting me harder than I thought.
I knew her being interested in would be a long shot to in the very beginning but I had some hope. Today I feel sick to my stomach finding out this news. | Crushes |
First, if you haven't read [this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/11lmd2u/i_told_him_and_it_didnt_go_the_best/), then go read it.
So, we have all our classes together and I sit next to him in 4/5 classes. In one class, we don't sit next to each other, but we sit near each and talk all the time. We play fight all the time. After me and my "friends" stopped being friends he hung out with them a lot. My ex-friend (lets call her B) has a giant crush on my crush (let's call him c). When me and B were friends she never wanted to hang out with C. After we stopped being friends, she always hung out with him. Even after school. She started talking badly about me to him and my other friends. B told my friend that C told her that he was just pretending to be my friend so he could get the answers during class. I talked to C and he denied it. I kinda believe him. All this happened before spring break. When we got back from break, we talked all day. He wouldn't leave me alone even if I walked away. His guy friends keep shipping us. He has been texting me a lot and ignoring B. She has got angry about this but C doesn't care. He asked me a few days ago if I liked him (he didn't believe me the first time). I told him I didn't and all he said was k. I felt bad about lying about it but rn he is one of my only friends at school and if it became awkward between us, I would still have to sit next to him in 4 classes. Yesterday I got angry at him for something stupid ( I wasn't having a good day) And I started to ignore him. Even then he would keep coming up to me and try to talk to me. After he realized I was mad at him, he tried to make me happy and unmad. He asked my friends how to make me happy. After a little bit, I stopped being angry at him, and started talking to me again. After school, he wanted to hang out but I said I couldn't but he kept texting me all last night. Then today he texted me almost all day.
Do you guys think he likes me or am I delusional? | Crushes |
So I’m in love with her, I’ve known her for about 2 years and I would say we’re pretty close. The first time we saw each other I said to her she’s really beutiful to my friend and then as time went on I grew closer to her and as summer rolls around I started to miss her and every little thing will remind me of her every song every single thing. The thing is it’s I don’t know if the feelings are mutual she would say things like “I’m the only girl you should be dating” whenever I say another girls name but I don’t know if it’s delusional me or whether she said it as a joke. Here’s the question, I’ve only got a month left with her before we go our separate ways for uni etc and I know the chances of us meeting are going to get smaller and smaller so I was going to tell her on the last day but I don’t know if she even finds me attractive but she genuinely is amazing but should I and if so how should I tell her? | Crushes |
TL;DR: I have an unwanted crush and I just want to stop feeling this way.
I (NB15) have an unwanted crush on soemone in my school year. I barely interact with him, but we have a few classes together, and have sat next to each other before, but never had in-depth conversations. My friends know of the situation, and are overall very supportive in everything, except that in this case they don't like him at all, and for very valid reasons, such as being a bigot and an overall a-hole. After hearing their opinions on him, my opinion became divided: I never wanted this crush, and my rational side is on the edge of hating him; on the other hand, my irrational side still likes him for no reason. I have accepted that I have a crush on him, and tried to get over him during the Easter holidays. I was on a good path to exorcise my mind from this crush, but a few days ago my emotions returned.
Fortunately, I don't think he knows (yet) and I never want to confess as I am not looming for a relationship, however I keep accidentally glancing at him and we made eyecontact due to this several times this week and if he finds out...
I always turn from him if I notice I am looking at him. I will also try to stop my crushing behaviour, such as talking about him with one (specific) friend.
I am really uncomfortable with this whole thing, and I just want to be over him. I read somewhere that I should write down the positive future I could have without him, and I think I will try that
How did you get over your crush?
Any other advice is really appreciated!
Thanks in advance! | Crushes |
So I live a couple houses down from this girl that I have liked for a while now. Recently we have been hanging out a lot (just me and her) and I have loved it she doesn’t have a phone so and I don’t have Instagram so we used to communicate through our mutual friend and just in real life. My buddy gave her my number and she calls me from her (sort of) house phone to go to the park. The past week has been amazing and we road together to school on Friday. So everything is going phenomenal but I’m distraught or nervous because she is out of town all weekend, I can’t stop thinking and getting really nervous for no reason. It’s such a weird feeling going from being around my favorite person everyday to having to just wait to see her again.
I know this might seem stupid to others but I just needed to vent, I hope everything goes well for everyone. | Crushes |
So I think I am crushing a girl in our school. When we met we got on with each other well and had some good time. We are now texting. We ask eachother questions, confide in eachother and joke around.
The thing is I got heartbroken so many times I don't think I can handle it once more. I feel like she is great (despite having negatives) but she feels too good for me. Now I am afraid of liking her because I think she will reject me like everyone else. And when she is one of the only people you can openly talk to, it is hard.
What should I do? What do you think about this? | Crushes |
So I’ve been having a crush on one of my friends for a while now but I’m not too sure if it is reciprocated? Little context: we are uni students (2nd year and next year will be our last year) and our friend group is relatively small. The guy I have a crush on (let’s call him K) and I have been texting each other quite alot. Sometimes I tell one of my other friend (let’s call her F) about some stuffs me and K talked about and she always seems kinda shocked in a way since whenever F texts K, K takes forever to answer. The thing is that even though K does answer me back, he still does take some time (which is understandable since we are all super busy). I’ve been trying to drop some hints here and there by initiating physical touch (e.g. poking or tapping to get his attention) and trying to sit next to him, etc. I truly don’t know if he noticed any of it or he is just ignoring all of my signs (or he could be super oblivious or I’m not clear enough with my hints lol). I’m super shy and introverted and can barely handle eye contact ㅠㅠ. I don’t know what I should do? I don’t want to ruin the friendship we have nor do I want things to be awkward between us after. And as I mentionned, next year will technically be our last year together and I don’t want to regret not confessing to him but I’m also scared to be rejected. Plus, I’m way too timid to make an actual first move. From what I know, he is currently single and had an ex but I was too scared to ask him more infos about it. I also realized he looks in my direction alot of times but I just thought it was a natural thing to do since we are friends. (PS-Sorry for any mistakes I’m super tired as I just finished my last exam of the semester and my neurons are currently non-existent💀). Please feel free to ask more questions to get a better perspective, I might have forgotten few infos here and there! | Crushes |
A creep autistic stalker girl follows me around and takes pictures of me and I tell her to stop and she doesn’t. She hunches her back and stares at me and faces her whole body at me while shaking her legs and snapping pictures and I’ll call her out and she’ll just start gargling and nervously laughing and bouncing her legs super fast. She probably has hundreds of photos of me and never stops following me in lines and taking pictures even after I tell her to stop and for the teacher to separate her from me. | Crushes |
Okay, so I was going to give her some food as a little pick-me-up becuase she had a hard week. Missed my chance on Thrusday, but I tutored her yesterday, so she said it was fine to drop it off at her apartment before we walk to tutoring. There were a bunch of snacks I know she likes: fruit, nuts, candy, a Monster, etc. She was surprised and said I really didn't have to, though it was true she was having a hard week. She said I was sweet and thanked me profusely.
We left her apartment and continued to talk. She plans to move out over the summer, so we talked about logistics of that. Then she immediately went to a dream she had about me where dream-me told her I'd be getting back with my ex, which she naturally found confusing and disliked. We joked about how preposterous that would be and continued.
Then we got to talking about some of her friends. One of which is a relatively new friend and he apparently asked her out. She'll be turning him down, she said, but what's more interesting is what she said relating to it. She said that he called her "The most beautiful and intelligent woman he knows." Which she described as being very general and perhaps short-sighted. She clearly is humble with how good of a person she is, but she has a point. She doesn't want to be just championed, she also said before that she isn't something to win, like a prize.
I think my biggest takeaways is she's very comfortable talking with me about these things, which has happened before. We tend to delve into deep conversations when given the chance. It's kinda how we got off to a good start. She doesn't care for small talk. "How's your day? How's the studying going?" And she is a bit particular with how she wants someone to approach her and try to get exclusive with her. She also seems to take issue with the wanting "something physical" as an obligation after a date. Standard thing, which fortunately, is something we both can agree on.
This is probably a rambling mess, but I just really appreciate this young lady and I really want to discern whether I should make a move (and how) in the best way possible. She is particular, but it's honestly one of her best qualities. I can give more examples if asked. Anyways, more to follow since we plan on having dinner and a movie later next week. | Crushes |
SUCCESS GUYS 😭😭😭 I ASKED HER OUT WITH A LEAF BY THE ROADSIDE WITH OUT FRIENDS AND SHE SAID OKAY HAHAAHAHAH | Crushes |
So until now all we've talked about was assignments or essays or exams and so on. But this is our first time doing it face to face and I'm really nervous and I really want to impress her. Any suggestions? | Crushes |
Hi all, this is my first post here so lets go.
Yesterday in class we played a game called guess the person. The game is simple we choose a person (P1) to ask questions then he/she leaves then we choose an another person (P2) and the person outside the room comes in and asks questions.
I was the P2 in this scenario. My classmate started to ask questions and about a minute later he chose my crush and said whats his/her favorite color?
My crush smiled and said don’t ask to me in a good tone. What does this means? Ty | Crushes |
finally meeting after a long period of time tmr. how do i make him fall for me. quick. | Crushes |
I have severe social anxiety and coming up to someone to talk to them is difficult for me. For the past few weeks I noticed this guy would often look over at me and have his body facing towards me, any place he’ll be sitting whether if it’s behind he manages to have his body facing me. Whenever he’s around me he tenses up and gets nervous. There’s a lot of indications that he likes me and I personally want to get to know him, the thing is though, he’s a very extroverted and popular guy while I’m very reserved. He definitely seems approachable but with his characteristics I find it difficult. I’m not sure how I can approach him nor does it seem like he doesn’t know how to approach me either.
I’m considering airdropping him a little note as we both have an iPhone, im not sure what to write nor if I’m sure if I’ll would do it anonymously. I’m just scared that I’m being delusional and he’ll laugh and show it to his friends (though he doesn’t look like the guy to do that). Should I try this out? Should I do it anonymously or with my name? | Crushes |
**I’m gonna ask out my crush, how should I do it???** | Crushes |
tldr : I was 18, in community college and this guy approached me in class to work with him on an assignment. He clearly liked me but I messed up cause of high school emotional abuse. Then he ended up ignoring me hard.
[I'm 23 now]
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This is gonna be a long rant. Sorry.
Okay, so this story happened in 2018 but I still haven't moved on.
I just want to preface this that as long as I can remember I always wanted to find love. I don't know why. Always wanted to find the one I would spend the rest of my life with. I've always been a hopeless romantic too. When I was in middle school/high school, my friends started getting into relationships while I was left behind.
I never had guys interested in me (if they did they never told me, though years later in university I had some people reach out to me to hang out).
15-16 is the age when you're developing your understanding of yourself and growing your self confidence. I was never skinny throughout high school, but I wasn't morbidly obese either. I just wasn't skinny with blonde straight hair and blue eyes like my closest friend, who got all the boys attention. I always wore tomboyish clothes because I was uncomfortable showing my body and such.
Not to mention that my own friends often made fun of me for not having a boyfriend. They would joke that I will maybe get a boyfriend when I'll be 30-40 (emphasis on maybe). Knowing that my parents were high school sweethearts, paired with bad self esteem issues and the fact that all I ever wanted was to find love, that really affected how I saw myself.
I thought for a long time that there was something wrong with me, which I associated with my weight. I just wasn't most guys' cup of tea. I also accepted that I was going to be fat forever.
My first year of college I tried to make the first move and talk to guys. I even introduced myself to a guy in one of my classes who ended up ignoring me soon after. Tried to follow some other guys on social media I thought were cute in my grade but they usually denied. I just accepted that I was the problem.
Cue to the summer of 2018, I was 18. I cut contact with my toxic high school friends. I decided to work on myself and fall in love with myself. I stopped caring about guys and hoping they would like me. I just couldn't be bothered anymore.
I lost weight that summer, cleared my skin, improved my hair health and my natural curly hair (I never knew there was a way to take care of curly hair so for a long time my hair was frizzy). I also bought some newer girly clothes. I was really happy with myself, might I say I was glowing.
For the first time in my life I didn't care about guys or getting a boyfriend. I had no crushes on anyone. I was just really content with myself.
Fast forward to fall semester of 2018:
Second year of community college, I have this psych 101 class. I don't know anyone there so I don't really talk to anyone. I thought one girl in class was cute (I'm bi). She reminded me of the singer Aurora. Somehow we ended up talking briefly, became acquainted. But she had a bf (which I was disappointed about).
Eventually, later in the semester the prof gave us an exam prep sheet to work on in class before the mid term. People could work in pairs. But I didn't know anyone, the blonde girl ended up working with other people she knew. I usually work alone, so I went to grab the sheet. When I came back to my seat, I came face to face with this guy who's smiling. He asked me if I would like to work with him.
I said yes, why not. Now here's where the problem started: I didn't know what to think. For one, this guy was a football player. He had football player buddies in class that he could've worked with. Did he want to work with me because he was interested in me? In hindsight, obviously!! But my 18 yr old self was confused. Imposter syndrome forced my brain to think otherwise. That he wasn't actually interested.
Anyway, we actually ended up working pretty well in the team and finished early. We also worked together on another exam prep and exchanged words for the end of the term exam.
I remember thinking that he wasn't normally what I would go for. If I saw him in a crowd I probably wouldn't have given him a second thought. But he was very nice. I mostly enjoyed his soft voice and blue eyes. But I also had biases about football players. My friend wasn't treated well by a couple of them in the team. Plus they had a reputation of being f boys. So I didn't know what you think about him. I later learned from my friend that out of all the guys in the team, he and another guy (who was in my program) were the nicest players.
Anyway, the semester advanced and we chatted a few times, mostly working together on those exam preps. One time we walked together to the sports complex and I don't remember what we were talking about, but he ended up asking me if I was going to the homecoming of the university on campus (the community college shares a campus with a larger uni). And I said no. For one, I'm not into football. For two, that wasn't my uni. Why would I go to their homecoming?
Then he asked me: "you don't really go out much?" And I said no. Meaning this guy was going out and looking for me in the crowd hoping I'd be there!! I was such a stupid 18 yr old. I tried to think back to the day we first met. The day prior, I remember exactly how I looked and how I was dressed. I remember passing through the lobby because my dad was picking me up. Football players often hung out in the lobby but I didn't make eye contact with any of them. Anyway I went outside and saw a piece of trash on the ground and picked it up and put it in the trash. I have often wondered if he saw that through the window!
Anyway, eventually I had to ask him a question about the class and I DMd him on Facebook Messenger without adding him as friend.
The only reason I didn't do that is because when I was in high school, I often didn't get guys to accept me back/follow back and it was seen as desperate. Really stupid, I know.
Eventually, I learned from my friend that he hooked up with one of her friends. Who coincidently looked a little like me. But after that, he started to ignore me. And I mean like taking the long way in class to avoid walking by my row to get to the back. In the hallways, he would avoid me too.
I never really understood why until years later. But it's been years and I still think about it. I even requested to follow him on Instagram. It took him months to accept my request, but he did and also followed me back? I thought maybe I could have another chance.
I wrote him a DM apology because things were awkward and that if I did something to offend him I was sorry but he never answered back. Then I added him on snap cause he was in my recommended list and he accepted. But we haven't talked in like 5 years. I've always liked his posts but he never liked mine. He sometimes looks at my stories. I even liked the photos he posted with his gf (now ex).
I just feel bad because he probably thought I wasn't interested, but if he would've asked me to do anything else other than homecoming, like having lunch together or something I would've been more than happy. It was just an unfortunate event after unfortunate event.
I still think about him often because he was the first guy to ever approach me irl. He seemed genuinely interested and I never understood "why me". I'm sad thinking about what could've been if I wasn't a dumbass. I only wished he would've allowed me the chance to explain why I acted the way I did. It was never him that was the problem, it was me dealing with emotional abuse from high school.
If you read this far, thank you. Sorry it was long.
And if by some miracle he ever sees this, I'm sorry for not showing interest clearer. I was young and inexperienced. I still struggle with committing to dating these days. You're someone who left a core mark on me and I'll always remember you. | Crushes |
how should i address my crush? | Crushes |
I'm an autistic highschool senior who's been crushing on someone who probably doesn't notice my existence. And I can't blame her for that. We shared an art glass for about two years and I never made an approach at conversing with her. Despite the fact that she's the first girl in my school I've had a strong enough interest in to consider doing what I've done, you'll see what I mean as this post goes. It's a long one.
I'm not gonna say my crush's name, for obvious reasons, but I'll describe how this little "mess" with her got started just to give some real context. Keep in mind that I'm not blaming her for anything unpleasant I've dealt with resulting from my...attraction.
At first, I just noticed her because she was much prettier than most girls in my school. Actually, "pretty" is kind of selling her short. Imagine her as a younger, hotter version of Victoria Pedretti, I guess. Not only that, but she dressed and acted a fair deal more modestly than what I was used to seeing. I mean, she clearly dressed to impress on certain occasions. She'd sometimes wear stuff that showed of her legs, usually dark leggings and knee-length skirts and form-fitting sweaters and T-shirts. Had some nice black boots too. She somehow found the nicest balance between classy and sexy, of that makes any real sense. That's the start.
Then I noticed her attitude. My school has no shortage of guys or girls that go out of their way to be excessive, loud, disrespectful, or dramatic. Typically just for their own amusement or pettiness. Making it much harder than it should be to focus on work. My crush, however, hasn't been known for doing so. She's always appeared reserved, humble and...chilled. Just minding her business, having light conversations with her friends while handling her art pieces. That was an attractive quality to me, strangely enough.
Then there was her artwork itself. I'm actually kind of jealous of her skills with detail. She's much better and drawing/painting than me. I can't usually make anything go smoothly aside from abstract artwork that's loosely based on church window patterns. She, on the other hand, was drawing realistic people, landscapes, buildings and much more. She even entered various contests our school has joined and has one medals, which had me even more impressed. I guess I've got a little thing for artsy chicks, lol. So there's that.
Lastly, there's just a charm about how she interacted with others. Her attitude was much the same as her style. Reserved but alluring. Sadly, we didn't have many direct encounters, mostly for reasons I've already pointed out by now. But on the rare occasions we did speak, she seemed pretty sweet. I'd hold doors for her, she'd smile, thank me and leave. We'd be presenting our work in art class and she'd say kind words about my stuff, despite me usually finding awful myself. She's one of the few people in the school to get my first name right without having to be reminded(Most of the others either forget how to say my name, or say it wrong on purpose to annoy me. Students and trachers.) There are other weak examples like those, none of them meaning too much objectively, but they were still somehow memorable for a weirdo loner like me. Mind you, I'm not actually taking any general niceness as an indicator that she likes me back. That wouldn't be smart on my part. Especially since I let my feelings go unaddressed for months on end, which hasn't changed much this year.
But also because of our senior prom. Wasn't an awful experience for me. The music was good, the food was good, I had some brief chats with the few classmates I'm actually cool with, stuff like that. But it wasn't what I'd call great either. I was planning to try talking with my crush for real that night, to the surprise of my family.(Especially my stepsister, who I asked to help grease the wheels of conversation for me.) But she was there with someone else already. That wasn't fun to see. Even though I can't say I expected my flirting attempts to work anyway. She's pretty far from my league. But I've been wrong before and I thought was worth trying until I saw her date, who I'm assuming is her boyfriend.
So yeah, that was that. Whatever plans I might've had for getting her to like me are shot. But my most recent interaction with her, taking place yesterday, is more important to my point. Even though she's taken, and I have no plans of pursuing her with that rearing it's head, I still felt like getting this off my chest. The method I chose for doing so is kinda pathetic.
I wrote her a note on either Tuesday or Monday, I forget which one because of how busy our testing week was, in which I confess my interest. We don't share any of the same class periods anymore, so I decide to pass her the note on her way home with the lie of another student asking me to show her. Which I apologized for in the first two sentences(Also for my sloppy writing). It's not as in-depth as my account here. But it's telling her I've been into her since last year and never tried anything because I'm awful with people. It also tells her my plans for prom night and how I gave up upon seeing her date. And makes the same point about her being out of my league, but still worth trying for. I express my opinion of her being very pretty and my like of her art style. Most importantly, I wrote the actual purpose of the letter down with anything else. I'm not hoping for the note to somehow make her like me back. I just hope she believes me when I say as much in the letter. I'll have to wait until the weekend is over to know if she even cares. Either way though, this move has pretty much solidified my status, at least to myself...as an absolute pansy. | Crushes |
I’m “dating” this girl and since things are kind of weird between us rn, I’m not sure if this is a good idea. We are texting, but it takes her quite a long time to respond. Is texting “how was your week” a bad/creepy idea? | Crushes |
Long story short - I met this girl at a party, I really like her and I can tell that the chemistry was there (when we met, but also when we were texting). Last week, we had our first date and tbh, it didn’t go so well (she didn’t really seem to enjoy it).
It took her a long time to respond to my messages before the date (I know she liked me back then), but now it takes her like triple that time. Her replies are maybe a bit drier, but she still replies and I would say she tries to put some jokes into her messages as well. I honestly can’t tell whether she’s just being polite or if there is a slight chance that she might still like me…
Anyways, our conversation is “stretchy” (due to her long respond time), but I am trying to continue in some topics from our date. Can I continue in doing that? Is texting her “How was your day/week” a good idea? Should I stop? Please help 🙏 | Crushes |
So basically I've (f/15) been inlove with a guy (m/16) from my school Bus for almost 2 years and it's been really annoying.
[I go to a highschool that goes up tp year 13, and he goes to a school right next to mine, that goes up to year 10]
When I first started crushing on him, he had a girlfriend, so I did not make a move at all, but I was also really short too.
When they broke up I started to let his friend/ my classmate cut in line at the Bus stop, which is how I started to talk to him. I now always let him cute line but not so much my classmate..
But we never really talked much other than "hey, how ya doing/ hows school".
Recently tho, meaning last week, he started talking to me about other stuff on the Bus too (we somehow always sit across from each other) and on thursday we bots had the last lesson cancelled and took one Bus earlier home.
The Bus was almost empty, but he offered me the seat right next to him and started to show me his gallery and pics of his dog and him(adorable btw).
We also had some convos about family etc.
Anyway we also texted on the Bus the other day (while setting across from eachother, it was like 2 meters inbetween us) and it was really funny convo and we also had a starring battle(?) for like 3 mins, where we just looked at each other.
my heart literally died and I just had to smile the whole time.
Also I just posted a story like 8 minutes ago and I was thinking about tagging him in it, but I didn't because a few moments after I posted he immediately liked it..
I don't know maybe im delulu
HE JUST POSTED BREAL BYE | Crushes |
I recently got out of a really traumatizing relationship, he ignored and didn’t prioritize me over his ex gf and would talk to her which made me uncomfortable however he justified it because we were all friends. We break up she stops talking to me and they end up hooking up. There’s a lot more but that’s the gist
Anyways… I mention that because sometimes I feel like I’m not ready to be romantic with someone now because it’s scary! It’s hard to think of being vulnerable with anyone after how awful it went last time. However, I’ve been talking to this boy I met on a dating app for about a month. It’s been completely friendly which I like because it’s no pressure at all. The first time we hung out I was with my friend and he met up with us and we went to his friends party and then bar hopping. Throughout that night we were drunk in the bar holding hands laughing and dancing together. We even stood so close our noses were touching for a couple of minutes. The next time he took the train to me and we drove for 2-3 hrs to a place I’ve always wanted to go, then hung out at my house so he could meet my cats and then I took him back. He met my best friend and her boyfriend then walked around with me while I waited for my train until 2 am. He also met another friend when I was on his campus and we wended up walking around for another hour. Sometimes I cant think of why he wouldn’t like me, we have great conversation, so much in common, we like the same music and we always put each other on to new songs. We talk everyday, sometimes he takes long to respond sometimes we talk rapidly. However nothing has happened between us, he mentioned that he uses dating app to troll and be funny and that I broke through that. He also got out of a relationship not as recently as me but recently. Are we just friends or is this just a slow progression of a bond between us. | Crushes |
I don’t wanna ask him outright on a date as I I honestly don’t think he’s into me, probably, I don’t know. I really like him but because of personal issues we both rarely sit next to each other in classes. We had a very serious talk two days ago about his past and stuff and I am a little worried about him as he admitted to being suicidal in the past. Would it be weird to ask to hang out with him?? And would it be weird if it’s just the two of us?? WOULD IT BE WEIRDER TO ASK TO HANG OUT HIS PLACE?? I DONT WANNA BANG I UNIRONICALLY JUST WANNA WATCH MOVIES AND PLAY VIDEO GAMES WITH HIM SINCE HE’S INTO NERDY STUFF IG
I don’t know how to word most of my responses to him half the time and talking to him in person makes me so nervous and I feel really guilty for everything he’s been through I JUST WANT HIM TO BE HAPPY | Crushes |
Hi! So I’ve been having a crush on one of my friends for a while now but I’m not too sure if it is reciprocated? Little context: we are uni students (2nd year and next year will be our last year) and our friend group is relatively small. The guy I have a crush on (let’s call him K) and I have been texting each other quite alot. Sometimes I tell one of my other friend (let’s call her F) about some stuffs me and K talked about and she always seems kinda shocked in a way since whenever F texts K, K takes forever to answer. The thing is that even though K does answer me back, he still does take some time (which is understandable since we are all super busy). I’ve been trying to drop some hints here and there by initiating physical touch (e.g. poking or tapping to get his attention) and trying to sit next to him, etc. I truly don’t know if he noticed any of it or he is just ignoring all of my signs (or he could be super oblivious or I’m not clear enough with my hints lol). I’m super shy and introverted and can barely handle eye contact ㅠㅠ. I don’t know what I should do? I don’t want to ruin the friendship we have nor do I want things to be awkward between us after. And as I mentionned, next year will technically be our last year together and I don’t want to regret not confessing to him but I’m also scared to be rejected. Plus, I’m way too timid to make an actual first move. From what I know, he is currently single and had an ex but I was too scared to ask him more infos about it. I also realized he looks in my direction alot of times but I just thought it was a natural thing to do since we are friends. (PS-Sorry for any mistakes I’m super tired as I just finished my last exam of the semester and my neurons are currently non-existent💀). Please feel free to ask more questions to get a better perspective, I might have forgotten few infos here and there! | Crushes |
A guy rejected me a few months ago because of another girl. Now he's acting oddly friendly (approaching me, smiling, making eye contact, just generally paying attention to me). How would a guy act around a girl after rejecting her?
21F/21M | Crushes |
Okay so I (16M) recently asked out my crush (16F) to go out this weekend and she gladly agreed, and we are planning to go for a coffee either today or tomorrow, but as it is my first ever date like literally I would just like some heads up, I know about the obvious don’t only talk about yourself and that but is there some secret tips you guys have? | Crushes |
so basically i had a crush on a girl for a while and she told me that she's going to uni in september, which i kind of tried to ignore at first, last night i finally asked her out on a date and she said she likes me a lot but she doesn't want a relationship so that she can focus on exams and the fact that shes moving away in a few months
it sucks because i really like her a lot and i could definitely see us being together if life stuff like this didnt get in the way but at least i tried
that is all | Crushes |
If you haven't seen part 1, you may want to go and see that first in my posts but it's up to you, just if you want to catch up you should read them in order. Please don't judge me in the comments, this is just my life and I wanted to share that so if you don't like it just ignore it please, thank you!
8th of March, Wednesday 2023
So... Today, I had to have a breathe test to see if I had a type of bacteria in my stomach so, I was late ti school and of course, out of all days and all classes the only day I had business studies for first period was today! So, I got my books and ran to class as quick as I could, I politely knocked on the side of the door and Mr Grierson turned around and starts to walk over to me as I enter and step over a charger cable that one of my classmates are using to charge their laptop and he smiled as I gave him my late note, he said "Thank you" as I gave him it and I smiled then took a seat in my normal seat that I sit in the room AG03, we have a 2 week rotation on our timetable so we have a class in AG03 once every week. As I was walking to my seat, Dylan yelled out "wagged!" And Mr Grierson chuckles as I roll my eyes at Dylan! Dylan asked "why are you late?" And I said "I had to have a breathe test" Dylan then said " oh so your high on drugs and wasted!" I just shook my head and smiled then Mr Grierson said "Did you?" And raised his eyebrows. Then I just said "yeah".. "To see what's in my stomach" and then he said "Oh, so you weren't in a car?" And I said "No" and shook my head and he said "oh okay" and continued on with the class lesson. Dylan is such a tease but.. I'm glad he said that because I wouldn't of talked to Mr Grierson that lesson! He always tends to look me straight into my eyes when I'm talking to him which he doesn't with Renee, with her he looks at his laptop when she talks to him, I mean he looks her in the eyes as she talks half of the time but the other half he looks down at his laptop! Anyway, class ended and I took a deep breath because I was a mess this morning, I couldn't swallow this pill she needed me to take and I was even crying because I was scared I'd be late and I had to take the pill quickly! It was really stressing me out and giving me more of a belly ache.. the reason I went for the tests... I took a blood test a couple of days ago but this time I needed to take a breathe test... anyway, finally I swallowed it.. at lunch we went to Mr Grierson to see if he could play basketball but once again he was on duty (to keep an eye on the quad again) and he couldn't play which he was talking to kids to get then to do something because they were naughty. Anyway, after that I got my money for a ticket for the social (School fun event that the school captains organised) and went to the quad with Austin. Krystal and keria was running it (handing out tickets), I gave krystal the money and she wrote down my name while I was leaning on the desk with my schoolbag on my back and my butt sticking out and Mr Grierson was about 5 or 6 meters back against one of those metal pale hollow poles, just looking in my direction... to be honest probably staring at my butt.. Anyway, I hugged krystal and keria and walking back with Austin past Mr Grierson as he started to walk over to one of the undercover areas (Year 10 area) and Austin said "Friday we are playing!" Mr Grierson just smiled and said "one day Austin, one day" and we both walked off. Mr Grierson was so gorgeous today... like always!! 😋😜 | Crushes |
we used to only hold hands occasionally, mostly when he wanted to make sure i wouldn’t run away, or when he wanted to comfort me. but now we’ve been holding hands almost every day? i know that holding hands isn’t very big of a deal, but it’s just so often? he doesn’t do this with anyone else, no matter if they’re a girl or guy. though he has said im the one closest to him, so that makes a bit of sense. and also he lingers?? (i mean i do too but) when we have to let go it’s really slowly until only our fingers are touching, and then letting go. ive been more brave lately and asked to hold his hand more, and he has never denied me or seemed uncomfortable. he asked why i wanted to so much though, and i just responded it makes me feel safe. so i know for sure he doesn’t have a problem with it. now i just wanna know if this is a weird thing for friends to do? | Crushes |
Any tips on how to stop?
Or, any tips on how to search for hints in his texts that would indicate he is hopelessly in love with me and simply hiding his feelings under the guise of sending me the solution to a question that I asked him for in the first place?? | Crushes |
im just really happy because in school yesterday we were goofing around and he gave me a piggy-back ride, and he just let me stay on his back for some reason? he continued to work and i was still hanging off his back lol. he also said i was really light but i think he’s just strong :] after a while he had to sit down, but he said i could sit behind him on the same chair!! also i had my arms around him my brain is going hfkhfjskhf and our friend said that we were really cute!!! | Crushes |
If you haven't seen part 1, you may want to go and see that first in my posts but it's up to you, just if you want to catch up you should read them in order. Please don't judge me in the comments, this is just my life and I wanted to share that so if you don't like it just ignore it please, thank you!
7th of March, Tuesday 2023
So... well, today was a disappointment!! Firstly, at lunch I wanted Mr Grierson to VS Asutin again but he was too busy on lunch duty and on top of that he didn't even look at me when Austin was asking him out on the quad near the square garden which Mr Grierson was eating a sandwich with grain bread... not sure what was on it but I'm sure it was something healthy! Then I chickened out about telling him a joke I got of instagram.
Me: "Would you rather eat a baby goat or the matter baby?"
Him: "What's the matter baby?"
Me: "Nothing, thanks for asking!"
Which is a very good joke to me but... I don't know him that well so I'm not sure how he would react to it.. so he could get angry about it instead of laugh... not too sure.. and in the study period (5th period) which I had Mr Grierson today, he called out my name just normally and didn't even look at me as I said here! Like I was Renee.. didn't look at me through the entire period either.. only when I said to Matt "should I do it?" As in the joke and the bell went a minute before saying that.. he looked at me as I looked at him him then I said "no, no, no" as I fast walked out of the classroom! He looked at me like to say "Are you going to go?" Or "what do you want?" Not like a friendly "hi" kinda look... pretty depressing today.. I'm pretty sure he was still sad.. hopefully he's happier tomorrow! | Crushes |
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