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Throwaway for my own mental health. So... Not so long story not so short. I (16M) have developed a somewhat crush on a girl (15/16idk) from my school. We've gotten really close in the past month or two and talk nearly every day. She has said herself and I have noticed myself as well tah she doesn't really talk to other people (especially guys) but we have sometimes really long conversations about everything. HOWEVER I'm really confused if she likes me in that way, you know. She mostly chooses to sit next to me everywhere even over her female friends wich I find somehow confusing. I have heard her say like "can I sit next to him" etc. She has by an accident or not said that she likes me but we have always just laughed it off. I believe she has a boyfriend (I know, I'm a stalker) but she has also said a lot of pretty bad things about him (him being a real asshole for example) so im suspecting they are having a crossroad in their realitonship. So how should I continue? Like normally, maybe try to ask more about her boyfriend, anything?
Thak you if you red this far, I know this is long. Any feedback would be greatly appriciated. If you've been in this situation, please help me. Any feedback is appreciated, I just needed to get this off my chest.
-Peace | Crushes |
Recently I posted about a girl that rejected me and made my depression come back for about 3 weeks, but that aside I’ve noticed smt weird over the past week, that being her staring at me, now that could be out of concern cause she knows I struggle with depression but it doesn’t really feel like it…
I don’t know how to react to that or how to feel about it since after she rejected me we didn’t really talk or text.
+ I haven’t really been able to move on since my anti depression medication keeps me from doing so(should probably get other stuff since that’s not smt normal) | Crushes |
Today we didn't talk that much but we did have some good conversation and I made some moves.i was in 2 period with her and she decided to sit next to me so I started the topic then we got to the topic of what she doing this weekend and she said she wasn't doing nothing so I decided to invite her to go to the mall to look around and maybe get a few things and she said yea she would like to. So I'm going to ask her again today if she would like to just to get a sure answer just for comfort but idk if this is touch or I'm going to fast plz give me feed back I would like to hear what's your thoughts | Crushes |
He hasn't told anyone except me, what should i do? | Crushes |
m a 18f lesbian, first year in college. last sunday i met a cool non-binary person in the dorm kitchen and they complimented my water bottle stickers and my hair. we chatted for a bit(i was gonna go back to my dorm but they kept talking like they wanted the convo to continue, but that might be because they’re very nice). then i anonymously posted on an app that i thought they were pretty cool, and they responded they thought i was pretty cool too( with :) too). then the next day they followed me on insta (we have our instagram handles taped to our dorm doors as first years). i accepted and requested them but they took three days to accept mine after we briefly saw each other last night. and then tonight we saw each other in the hall, we looked at each other and said hey(they were with a friend). i did like talking to them, im not sure it’s a crush because i haven’t spoken to them enough, but i want to, especially if they also enjoy talking to me. plz tell me what i should do, how i can intitate something, if i should dm them. i typically only see them when they’re with a friend, so it’s kind of intimidating. any advice is welcome :) | Crushes |
We share one class in college, that is dead silent, and extremely boring. So I can’t really talk to her in class or about the class. The only time I would be able to is as were walking out of class. How do I start talking to her? | Crushes |
I'm 18 and my crush is 24 but I'm confessing today and I'm doing it in person. I understand the age gap but I've been friends with him for a little over a year and I feel confident that our maturity is around the same (He obviously has more years so he's gonna be slightly more mature). I'm expecting him to reject me but I'm mainly doing this to get over him so I can move on. Just looking for advice on what to say so I can stay friends with him when he rejects me 😅?
Also any words of encouragement is nice too if you don't have advice to give lol | Crushes |
I have a hard crush on a girl f19 .she didn't knew me until I decided to introduced myself (was nervous and she noticed) so what should i do next? | Crushes |
man i kept falling for him
i kept falling for everything | Crushes |
I have a crush on this girl and she's like a friend of my friends. She well acquainted with them but i get nervous around her and feel jealous about their bonds. And all my insecurities just keep coming at me giving me inferiority complex. Plz help. 😫 | Crushes |
man whytf am i crying
Ik it's not his fault, i mean his life his choice he can do whatever the fuck he wants to
But I'm a clown
I was dumb
Fucking dumb
I mean wt the fuck
No man when my friend actually told me about this i cried for hours
Locked myself in the washroom cz i couldn't pretend i was happy when i was fucking broken asf inside
my friend was sooo good she took me out to eat fooodddd😭 man i love her sm
she's actually helping me get over him
but fuck here i am crying again
Fuck fuck fuck
I hate everything
I fucking hate everything
I wish we never met
Never ever
I wish he disappeared from my life or i wish i could run away from everything
He fucking doesn't know how much he's actually made me cry | Crushes |
For five years. Five years. Since we were 16. I’ve been allowing this. At 16, I could understand the bs. But now we’re in our twenties. I have to move on.
You get me like no one else. You listen. You know just what to say. You make me feel gorgeous. You tell me you love me and that you think I am beautiful.
But then if you love me so much, why? Why have you never asked me to be your girlfriend. Why has it always been us, sneaking around, and having these heart felt talks only for you to ignore me for weeks.
It’s not fair. You love bomb me. You send me paragraphs and letters and then you’re gone for three days or weeks. Getting drunk or high. Acting like you didn’t just tell me you’ve loved me for years.
You take advantage of my vulnerability. You knew my pain. You know why it hurts me. But still, you leave me without warning every time. And I’m so fucking stupid because I let you. And then I let you back in.
I think it’s time for me to close our door. To end our chapter and to move on.
This past time, really fucking sucked. I had cut you off because I was hurt. (We had a fight and I poured my heart out to him and he said “you expect me to read that shit?”). Then he shows up on my inbox a month later. Confessing that he missed me. That he loves me. That I’m special no matter what. That he has so much love for me.
Like an idiot, I forgive you. I think that maybe we can work on it.
But then, the next day he was gone. And the day after that he was too. And the day after that was all the same.
Why do you do this? Why do you love bomb me and then leave me. Every fucking time.
I hate myself for this. I hate that I let you make me hate myself. I hate that I have such low self esteem. I hate the way you make me feel after you love bomb me. And most of all, I’m just tired.
I’m stupid.
I’m done.
I have nothing left in me to give. | Crushes |
Got crush on this girl for 6 years I think, back in elementary first day of school grade 6 I see her and damn she's so beautiful and fast forward I'm grade 11 now and she's grade 11 too still have crush on her. This girl is such a simple girl no lot of friends, no drinking, smoking, didn't like social media that much, religious, dress long skirt but fashionable, only post about bible qoute, sunsets and memes. She's smart and know her priorities. And yeah everything I'm looking for a girl she all got it. We chat sometimes like once in 1 month you know not tryna annoy her with text but yeah she reply fast not cold and make topics. I'm planning to ask this girl out in college third year maybe you know academic first. But yeah I'm just sharing what I feel 💯👍 | Crushes |
My dad to me to one of his work cocktail paries, i had to put on a suit. I posted one of the photos on insta and she liked it then replied "bg" which in french means "hottie" last time she called me that was... 2-3 months ago. | Crushes |
hi! i'm F22 and i couldn't help but have this huge crush on this man at work but the thing is no matter how much i tried to talk to him i cant do it i'm so anxious. he was super nice & welcoming to me when i first started my internship so im thinking i want to make him a bracelet as a thank u cause he always wears them, do u encourage me to do it and thats where i can start? he doesn't talk to me rn | Crushes |
I hate myself and my inability to become close with a girl without catching feelings sooner or later. And yet at the same time, I often think I have a chance, like I will be together with her. But then you learn she doesn't have any crushes and thus isn't into you, and it completely breaks you. | Crushes |
Hey everyone! I had made a post a few days ago regarding my upcoming homecoming dance (which at this point is tomorrow, the 1st of October) I have a crush that I could say is a friend where we work at, we work at a Panera Bread together. We talk a lot and joke about everything and I just feel very comfortable around her. But for this homecoming dance she already has a date to go to it with BUT she said she’s only going with him to make him feel better as she does not share the same feelings for the guy. She also stated that she isn’t looking for a relationship right at this moment (I was being subtle with my questions) so it was disappointing hearing that but she isn’t taken, so that’s good.
What I know is that she hangs out with people who are in football and others sports type activities in our school, which I’m not a part of, I do art which barely gets recognized by our school. I’m kind of at a loss at the moment and could use some advice.
I wanted to try to go to the homecoming football game with her possibly, but I have to work that day and can’t make it.
Any helpful suggestions? I’m not great with these things by myself :) | Crushes |
The day before yesterday we had an after-school field trip. There weren’t many of us. (Maybe 15 max?) It was my friend, another friend, and my Crushes friend. On the ride there we were talking about crushes and stuff and I was like “yeah your crush is… terrible” to my friend cos his crush is an absolute POS. But that’s not important. So afterward my friend was like, “well yours isn’t any better, he’s straight!” in a joking way and I was like, “we don’t know that!” and then my friend turned to my Crushes friend (he was sitting in front of us) and was like, “You know *crush name*, right? Is he gay?” and his friend was like, “No? I’ve known him since pre-school” And my friend was like “see!” And to say that I wanted to sob right then and there on the bus is… an understatement. I didn’t hear exactly what my Crushes friend said because I was burying my head in my arms cos it was embarrassing, but I don’t see why my friend would lie while I’m right there. I’m just to tired of receiving signs that I interpret as romantic attraction or even slight interest, only to be later on told that the guy I like is straight and couldn’t possibly like me. I’m so tired of it. | Crushes |
i've been scrolling on this sub for a while, and i keep seeing people addressing letters and poems to their crushes.
the comments are always (every single time) filled with people saying "god, i wish this were me" or "i wish my crush would write this for me" or "if somebody wrote me a poem i'd MELT"
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and i just want to say:
if you feel that way, why not write them yourself?
just do it!!
no matter what your crush thinks about you specifically, i know they'll be *beyond* flattered that you took time out of your day to write them a poem/letter. | Crushes |
Ok so essentially, I have a lot of crushes. One of them was on a guy at my work, I liked him for 3 months, got rejected, moved on. Or so I thought. It's been a month since that happened and I developed a small crush on a different guy I work with. I work in a Mexican restaurant as a server, I'm trying to learn more Spanish and the people I work with are trying to learn more English. A sweet older guy I work with who's like a grandpa to me was teasing me about liking my first crush, (who was sitting right across from me 0_0), and I said "No, es pasado." Then my crush said "No es pasado. Es futura." And smiled at me. And stared at me for like ten seconds. Later, a different coworker was telling me to have my second crush do something for work and was like "go tell your boyfriend" and I said "no temgo un novio!" My first crush said "Me!" And I turned bright red and he and the other coworker started laughing. Later, the coworker started saying "he likes you-" or something but my first crush cut him off and was like "Shh! Hush!" I'm hella confused rn. I can't tell if he likes me or if he's just joking, and if so I don't appreciate him playing with my feelings. Is it possible he started liking me after I "moved on," or is he just joking with me? | Crushes |
Someone please help! There has been this girl I've been crushing on for some time. We were friends for like 2 years, and then I told her that I had feelings for her. She said she didn't want to date anyone at the moment because she was way too focused on her future, which I completely understood. I was ok with being just friends, but I just can't bear one thing.
My best friend seems to get a much better amount of attention from her and it's driving me crazy. I am trying to move on from her, and I feel like I am managing to, but I hate that my jealousy is getting the best of me.
She probably just wanted to let me down gently, which is already pretty stupid. Even if it hurt for her to say: "Sorry, I don't like you that way. I see you as a friend. I like your best friend instead." At least she would have been honest with me.
Someone please help me move on. It's ok that she might wanna date him, but she could have at least been honest with me. It's ok if they get into a relationship, I just want to stop feeling jealous about them.
How do I do that? How do I stop feeling jealous of them two? | Crushes |
Please he’s so adorable. We were hanging out in the lobby with a a few of our teammates, and it’s almost like 2am or something. Per usual, he found his seat next to me, shoulder to shoulder, not a little space between us.
But on with the title, once a couple people left, he snuggled up laying on the rest of the couch that was open, and rests his head on me. NOW I THOUGHT THE FIRST TIME HE DID THAT HE WAS JUST TIRED, but this was def intentional. He was fully awake. He did this a couple times too, since he likes to just “fall asleep” when the conversation dies down. Both times he leaned over on me.
He did this another time when we went to my car. It’s almost 3am and he was hungry to I was like ok let’s go to this one place that’s always open. He was super stoked. Once we get into my car, he leans over and rests his head on me from the passenger seat. AAHWAGGGGH I just don’t know what to say he’s adorable.
I realized he’s become more comfortable around me and it makes me happy. Now that we know more about eachother we can make jokes and tease eachother too ehehe. We’ve been hanging out more just us, and he really likes to come with me to the ceramics hall to hang out. There’s absolutely NO WAY that he doesn’t like me back at this point. NO WAYYY.
Anyway that’s my little story for today. | Crushes |
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So there is this guy thats in all of my classes and I sit next to him in geography and he keeps stealing my pens, I came in late to class today and my friend said he was staring at me we’re kind of friends but what do I do?
! ⚠️Update⚠️!
Ok so my friend liked him and asked him out and he rejected her so what should I do? He said to my friend that he likes some one but not our friend someone he sits next to.
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We take the same taekwondo classes, and we are in the same science and art classes.
I'm nervous. | Crushes |
It''s a pretty long story but I'll try and make it as short as possible. OK me and my friends were having a chat and then one of then said they never seen someone with big a** and big t*ts. I mentioned a girl, let's just call her (L).
I knew L because we dated for a few days last year then I broke up with her and I don't think I was ready for a relationship. Anyways, (L) got told by one of my friends about what I said and she started talking to me on snapchat. I talked back and we started talking more and more. She said we needed to hang out so I invited her over mine and she accepted. After school we walked to my house together and it was honestly really nice. It took us an hour to get there by foot and I unlocked my front door because nobody was home. She got changed out of her school clothes in the bathroom and then we went to watch some Netflix. We put on naked Attraction for a tiny bit but then we changed the show. She called her dad and talked about some tickets on sale she needed for a band. She hung up and we decided to turn off Netflix and go to my room. I got changed as well and then she said she was cold but didn't want to go under the sheets (I was under them). She then gave in and went under the sheets and at some point or another we just cuddled together. We stopped cuddling at one point and then I asked her to cuddle 'for warmth' in which (L) agreed. We watched some YouTube for a bit and then my brother fetched us for dinner. That dinner conversation between me,my brother, (L) and my mum felt like an ETERNITY. But I decided to go upstairs and she did as well after finishing the dinner. We cuddled a bit more and then continued watching true crime. I asked her if my hands were cold and she felt them and said yes. She then pushed her hands closer to mine and then we just started holding hands while cuddling. A bit later I asked to kiss her (peck on the cheek) and she said she was alright with that. After a bit we just stated into eachothers eyes and then cuddled for a bit. Then we decided to make out. I never made out with anyone before so I had no idea what to expect. She was really good at kissing, like insanely good. After we were done kissing she said she didn't wanna do it again after like that but eventually we just decided to make out a couple more times. We cuddled and shit and her dad came to pick her up from my house. We said our goodbyes and she left.
At breaktime today I hung out with her and a couple of our mutual friends. We didn't really talk to eachother she was mainly talking to them. At lunchtime, I was talking to my friends and noticed her coming my direction with her friend and I kinda just stared at them? She went the other way to another door and yanked her friend back with her. So I have no idea what to do because she also ghosted me on snapchat after school. Need some advice, thanks! | Crushes |
Long story short, something quite special is happening to me... I seem to have a crush on two girls at the same time at college.
From what I've seen they are best friends since they are always stuck together no matter what time of the day, and that is part of what I find cute about them.
I don't really want to go out with them. I rather want to become their friend and hang out with them. The more I write, the more I feel like an odd guy but I told you it's a unusual situation that comes to me.
How can I handle this situation ? | Crushes |
P.S I have also talked to her in dm’s twice or thrice but it was always me who texted first. | Crushes |
(sorry for my bad english)
(kinda long)
(high school im a girl and he's a guy, same age (16-17) and the timeline is like maybe a year for context)
i had a HUGE crush on this boy for years.
always catching him looking at me, sometimes tried to walk or sit beside me (also running bc we were both in the track team), one time asking to sit beside me on the bus, always started the conversation first and acting kinda shy, kind off finding a way to touch me like a high five or touching my shoulders, one time he called me "beautiful (my name)"
told me to get into the class he was in, told me to stand beside him in the classroom photo, asked me who i was going to prom with (we didn't have one bc covid)
laughed at every joke i made, always stealing little things from me like my bracelet, water bottle and key ring, we talked about marvel (we both are marvel fans), gave me a forehead kiss on the first day of school, remembered little things about me that other people had told him or he saw on social media and me being confused bc i didn't know how he had found out about that lol
but we never texted, not a single 1-1 convo, only on groupchats a couple times. and never asked me out or anything like that.
and that's why i never made a move or tried to flirt with him bc i was convinced he didn't like me that much, not even as a friend.
he was kind off one of the popular guys in school (a lot of girls also had a crush on him) and he had a lot of girl-friends (who where closer to him) in school and from other schools so i thought maybe he treats them all the same and im just another one idk
ps: on the asking personal question thing. one time he asked me if i had a house in a beach (won't say the name) i think bc i went there with my friends on new years eve.
- and i said: no?! why did u think i had a house there? i think he started to get nervouse and said: uuhh idk maybe somebody told me or i dreamed about u having a house there? i found that kinda weird.
- also one time he told my friend that i took german classes and i said: how do you know i take german clases? and he said: i saw it on ur friends ig story!!.
that's what i meant when i said he knew or remembered things and idk how he had found out about them.
another ps: when covid started we didn't have social media interactions (like i said, we never texted or dmed each other). one day we had a group project and he was in my group. when we were writing in the google docs he wrote "hello (my name) :)" and that's it i don't remember much lol
another one: this was like almost a year before covid started (me and my crush were just starting to have small convos), my friends gave me a funny nickname only they used then my crush heard of it and asked me if i liked the nickname and if he could u it and i said yes hehe. one day we had like a fun fair in school with me hanich games and stuff and i was walking with my friends, he saw me and yelled my nickname like 3 times, i turned around waved a hello and continued walking (id didn't want to go talk to him bc he was with his friends and i was shy hehe). idk if this was before or after the funfair but one time he told me to pick up a nickname for me only he would use (he gave me optionsi never picked one i don't remember why but now u regret it lol) this was like 10 months before the other stuff above)
btw the last time i saw him was on 2020 and i haven't talked to him ever since (i don't know if he had me in his phone contacts but we had so many whatsapp groups together so he could get it from there, anyway)
his friend (who actually had a crush on me bc people told me) sent me a friend request on bereal and i accepted. two days later, my crush is on his bereal photo. i look on suggestions to see if my crush appears to add him bc maybe we have friends in common but i don't see him. i leave my phone for like 10 minutes and my crush sends me a friend request (conclusion: i think maybe he either asked his friend for my username or he had me saved in his contacts im not sure) i accepted the request ofc and now i see pics of him everyday and i miss him so much <\3 | Crushes |
So like I said I have a crush on a boy in my class. I first started kinda liking him when we had to work together for a task that required us to work in pairs. When I realized that I had to work with him I thought “oh no not that one” but after we worked together I thought that he was a quiet nice guy. So where I’m from we have a 30 min break after the first two lessons and one day our teache was sick so we had to go to different classes in our school (I’m going to a private school and we only have classes of 5 to 12 students and every class has only one teacher) and during that break I talked to a fried of mine and my brother and suddenly he started talking to me. The next day our teacher was healthy again and for the rest of the week he still talked to me during those breaks. Slowly I started developing a crush on him. One day We we’re talking during class and I mentioned how my brother always asked me if I was a lesbian when I say that a girl is pretty and he asked me if I was one and I said no. Then I asked him if he was gay and he said yes….. I think you guys know were this is going. I was heartbroken and tried not to cry then and there ( I luckily didn’t). Now I don’t know what to do though he is gay and I can’t change that and I don’t want to ruin our friendship so how do I get over him without completely cutting him out of my life? | Crushes |
so basically i like this girl. never really noticed her until she first talked to me.
she started a simple conversation with me and then somehow our conversation ended with talking about how cool captain levi is. its been about 3-4 months since that day. we sure are growing closer. talking to her has actually been one of the main reasons that i've been able to cope up with my already high anxiety.
i wish i had the courage to stare at those beautiful eyes of hers. i wish i could hug her or at least hold her hand as easily as she holds mine and the way she smiles at me when she sees me. gosh. i've never really fallen in love before. but if this isn't love, i don't even know what is.
thank you, for taking your time going through my vent or whatever tf this is. sorry if i sound awkward or the words don't align. english isn't actually my first language ^_^. | Crushes |
Okay, so around 4 years ago, we were close friends. I moved away and then last year I moved back and we attend the same sixth form.
For the past year we've smiled and waved as we passed eachother in the hallway. But I've somehow developed a crush on him.
I havent spoken to him for years now. How do I approach him?! Im also incredibly socially awkward so that makes everything kinda hard.... | Crushes |
It’s actually pretty embarrassing to say that. Also a little but embarrassing that I’ve never kissed anyone before either. That said, I don’t care if it’s really bad the first time, I just want it to be her. I want her to have my first kiss. I don’t even want to necessarily “make out” with her, but I want to kiss her in such a way that it’s like all these feelings of love that I’ve had to hide away can finally flow from my heart into hers. Slowly, softly, sweetly, and as if there’s no one else in the world. | Crushes |
I’m super shy and recently I’ve had a massive fat crush on this guy. He’s a year younger than me but he’s super cute. He looked at me twice today but it’s for a split second. He’s really popular and I kind of have one friend that barely hangs out with me. He’s friends with a bunch of dicks though. Do I keep looking at him? Help I want to get close with him but it’s impossible. I have no friends and he’s popular. I know his snap however I have to search it up to add him and when u do add someone by search it comes up with added by search. HELPPP | Crushes |
yea let's just fucking get out of the washroom with a smiley face but this shit sucks | Crushes |
man i can't believe this shit
she never really cared about him when he was fucking depressed
she never cared about him when he was at his worst wtf man
i can't believe this shit
she just likes him cz he's hot?like wtf
Idk man .i can't see him, talk to him,listen to his voice, pretend being friends w him for next THREE YEARS
FUCKING THREE YEARS
IT SUCKS
IT HURTS
IM FUCKING HURTING MYSELF
I WISH I NEVER MET HIM
HOW CAN SOMEONE MAKE U FEEL SOOOO HAPPPPPY AND SOOOOO SHITTTY AT THE SAME TIME
I FUCKING HATE THE FACT THAT I EVEN KNOW HIM BUT THOSE TIMES I CAN'T FORGET THOSE
THE WAY HE MADE ME FEEL
IDK MANNN
HOW CAN I STILL BE INTO HIM | Crushes |
I ignored him all day today
I'm so fucking done hurting my own feelings
He kept acting and i kept falling fr it
I HATE MYSELF SO MUCH FOR EVEN LIKING HIM
I'M DISGUSTED.HE FUCKING LIED TO ME YESTERDAY THAT HE FUCKING DIDN'T KISS ANYONE AND NOW I GOT TO KNOW HE MADE OUT YESTERDAY
MAN THIS SHIT HURTS ASF
I CANT PRETEND TO BE NORMAL IN THE CLASSROOM SO IVE FUCKING LOCKED MYSELF IN THE WASHROOM AND CRYING
I CANT PRETEND
I HATE HIM SM
i hate myself not him
myb he thought i was that easy girl and kept hitting on me?idk man wtf
I was soooo ito him and and m still into him
Howtf am i still not over him
This really hurts a lot | Crushes |
Hey, I'm a M16 in high school and something just happened and I don't know what to do. So there's this girl F16 I like and I'm not the bravest of souls so I've just been friends with her for years now. Our school had an event where our parents come in the evening to meet and greet our teachers and I was there because I was in a club that stayed late. The girl I liked was also there because she was in a music club that would be performing that night to entertain the guest. So fast forward a bit, her group is now up on the stage and they did pretty good. After we left and I got home I start texting her to just complement her on how well she performed tonight and how badass I think electric guitars are. Then some how the topic goes elsewhere and she's asking me who do I like. I told her if she tells me hers first I'll tell her mine so she does and turns out its me! I was really surprised and then I told her I also like her and at this point I just get off of discord because I'm too embarrassed.
What do you guys think I should do about this at school today?
Should be in a relationship with her? | Crushes |
So I don’t really watch anime (planning to watch but not bothered, but I have been reading a bit of manga(not part of the story)), but my crush does.
About a month ago I heard about this anime called ‘killing stalking’ and these two characters in the story named Sangwoo and Yoon bum. I had no idea what the plot was about or what the characters played. My crush posted a TikTok a few days ago and he looked pretty similar to Sangwoo, so my dumbass thought if I mentioned that to him he’ll think we have something in common. Just today I found out that killing stalking is about and I’m freaking out, I don’t know if my crush has seen it or not but I’m worried he has because he’ll think I just called him a gay guy 😫 | Crushes |
had a crush on this girl for a while, had a chance to talk to her yesterday, and we got on so well. i enjoyed being around her so much until one of my friends decided to tell her that i like her, and that after he told her, she gave me a disgusted look, and that my friend told me that she has an online boyfriend. so damn sad rn, someone help cheer me up and gimme some advice | Crushes |
So update on M- I’ve been chatting with them on and off for like a month now and I’ve gotten as far as changing the theme of our chat to a color they chose (I use different themes for people I talk to often) and we‘ve bonded over some video games and all that fun stuff.
Despite all that progress, one of my friends pointed out that they don’t really initiate the conversations even though they keep it going-just wondering if that’s normal for some people? Cuz I naturally initiate convos with most of the people I talk to so it’s not too weird for me.
Might just be them not knowing what to talk about as well, since we‘re between acquaintances and friends and don’t see each other much (like 3-4 times a year at best). | Crushes |
Okay so I have a crush on someone I work with (same department), the more we make small talk and the more I work with them, the more I feel warm and fuzzy in my heart. I'd be surprised if my face hasn't gone tomato mode around them! I've been wanting to hang out with them outside of work, but I don't make a move because 1) I'm in an open relationship as is and idk how they would feel about seeing someone in that position should the feelings be mutual, 2) I still feel like I don't know them well enough, and 3) I'm honestly too scared to. Even though we've been working in the same area for quite a bit now, they're rather quiet and I'm honestly not the greatest with social interactions.
I'm not really asking for advice or anything like that, this is just more of a small venting post. Thank you for reading through it! :) | Crushes |
I think I’m falling for him. I KNOW I’m falling for him. I did not think I would be falling for anyone anytime soon because I only got out of a year long harmful relationship about two and a half months ago. It left me with a lot of fears, trust issues, etc. and the idea of letting anyone close again or getting into a relationship with anyone scared me. There were other guys who flirted with me or tried to pursue something since being single. But the other guys only hit on me and flirted with be because of my looks, and this guy, (let’s call him Z) commented on my looks just to say I was very pretty at first. he also had this genuine quality to his personality. I never got the sense from him that he just wanted me for my body or wanted pictures of me. And there was no mistaking the feeling/vibe I got on our first day hanging out. With all my long term relationships I always caught an interest and connection with that person from our initial first hangout. I was instantly drawn to him. And he has been so great to me. Treats me like a true princess. Making sure I’m eating & drinking throughout the day, plays video games with me, watches movies and shows with me, tells me I’m beautiful throughout the day. Maybe a lot of that seems like basic things but I was deprived of those things for a year and one of my big love languages is quality time. It makes me happy knowing Z is happy and knowing he wants to spend all that time with me just as much as I do with him. I found someone who knows how to make me feel better when I’m struggling, and who is gentle and kind and he is always reassuring me and I am so lucky to have someone who cares so much. He’s always on my mind. I’m sure my friends are annoyed with how much I talk about him. But he just makes me so incredibly happy. I feel safe for the first time in a long time. Having something constant in my life. Having someone who I can lean on for additional support when needed and who can lean on me. And in such a short amount of time I have felt more truly appreciated for who I am as a person than I have in a long long time. I just want to make him feel the same way. I want to give him all the love and care and affection I can. It’s all in the little things. It’s the fact that he felt like he had to apologize for keeping me up so late bc he loves spending time with me. It’s the fact that he tells me I’m beautiful throughout the day. It’s the fact that he likes it when my neurodivergent self start info dumping about some random animal or how when I worry I’m being annoying he tells me he likes it when I talk about my interests. I love it when he’s all sleepy before bed and he says “night night.” I love it when he supports me when we play valorant and tells me I’m doing good everytime I get a kill even though I’m bad at the game and like silver 2 and he’s peak immortal 2 and always top frags. I love his eyes and his beautiful long bottom eyelashes. I love the way his yawns sound. I love his adorable smile and his chuckle and his real laugh. We all have a real laugh. The one we use when we laugh really hard. I like his, it’s cute. I love that he sleeps on the phone with me. I love that he is a cat person. I love all the cute posts he sends me on instagram and tiktok and you best believe I look at and watch every single one. Everytime I think about him my heartbeat gets faster and when I talk about him to friends I always have a smile on my face. It’s only been about 3 weeks of us talking. I originally first met him in July. we have a mutual friend and are both in that friends discord server. I said something along the lines of “send me pictures of your pets” and he was the only one to do it. He showed me his pretty cat and I sent him photos of my pets back. It was a sweet interaction I think. We are long distance, both in US but over 1,000 miles between us. And I plan on flying out in November to meet him. I think it’s important for us to hangout in person so we can make sure we still connect just as much as we do online. And I think after that visit I’ll know if I’m still just falling FOR him or falling in LOVE with him. | Crushes |
So it's only been like 4 days since I've started liking him, but we've known each other from work since February. 4 days ago my coworker invited like 6 of us to hang out, but two people dropped so it was the coworker who invited us, his gf, my crush now, and me. So naturally we got to spend more time together, as we talked I became more interested in him. We shared food, drinks, he even took a picture of me, and we were going along. Especially on the way back home, we were able to sit in the back together, and I spoke how I never dated anyone before and he asked if I was interested. I said yes, especially before moving out of the country. That night I texted him how I enjoyed today, and hopefully we could all hang out together again. Literally the next day, I saw his response, it began similar and then he wrote "Maybe we can do something just the two of us" that made me so excited... that he took interest in me. But that same day, my coworker asked if I wanted to hangout with them again, along with two other girls from our job. We went bowling, and he was talking to the other girl a lot, they at next to each other and he had his arms out behind the people either side of the people next to him... I got really jealous. Then we decided to go to the beach, and we sat in the back of a pick up truck, and I was sitting next to him. But one of the guys asked him to move over next to that girl so his girlfriend can sit... I was so frustrated, and he did the arm thing again, but this time I think the girl had her head on his arm... thankfully it was dark so he couldn't tell my expressions, but they were talking themselves and stuff... And yet he replies to my snapchat stories and even asked for my ig... the next day... I see the red flags... but... I literally can't sleep because of this... | Crushes |
It's funny how the world works.
Seeing him in my dreams after a painful series of sobs just makes me love him even more.
He brings me peace.
His gentle demeanor, both in real life and in my dreams, it's just what I needed.
In my dreams, he apparently kept all of the jelly candies that i'd put under his table in a little bag, not wanting to finish it because it meant something to him.
The dream then shifted to a game-like segment where we were quite literally in some kind of game, I was about to succeed when his friends went and took the lead, and in the game, I died.
Not like--literally dying-- but you know some games where you can revive characters? Yeah that was how it worked.
He however, decided to avenge me by pulling some moves on his friends and taking the lead. He then uses some sort of item to revive me.
He says in the dream "You're too lovely, come back."
I know he said some other things as well, but I can't remember it too clearly.
I don't know, I haven't had a dream about him in awhile, but the fact that I dreamt of him today after being so utterly torn by some matters in my life just makes me want to believe that he's the one for me.
He eases the pain, makes me happy, and seeing him happy makes me happy.
The world is a place full of hurt.
But i'm willing to withstand another day of such if it means that I may still have him in my life. | Crushes |
Out of curiosity | Crushes |
I was right
He was a real fuckboy
I shouldn't have fallen for his fucking tricks | Crushes |
man m fucking over him cz he made out with a classmate last night and m fucking disgusted
Like m disgusted at him man wtf
I won't even let him touch me again not even a fucking handshake like m fucking DONEhe was being fucking touchy w me
He knew i was into him and he knows it
I feel like a fucking clown like what the fuck
I fucking hate him like hellllll
Like i hate him
All this while he knew i was into him and ik he was being nice to me but he didn't have to be that fucking nice
Like wtffffff
I was fucking emotionally attached to this piece of shit?
Like wtf
Mannnn i fucking wasted my two months on this shit and i fucking failed my two exams bcz of this guy
I'm done
I'mma never text him
I'mma never talk to him
I'mma stop helping and being kind to him
I'mma stop every thing i did fr him
I fucking tried to make him happy everytime he was depressed
Like wtf
I kept falling for this fuckboy
Man my online friend fucking warned me not to waste my time on this fuckboy manwtf
But ik fr sure that no one is ever gonna like him the way i ever did
the girl he made out with doesn't even care about himwtf | Crushes |
to all neutral/masc lesbians (i don’t just mean looks i mean a slightly tomboy/masculine energy/personality), im a fem, soft and girly and all.
if we were (in a relationship ofc) cuddling, but especially if you were upset, how would you feel if i put your head on my chest to comfort you? like just storing your hair with you reusing on my chest. or like, if i was trying to get you to fall asleep?
i ask because i used to do that with my not masc ex girlfriend and we both adored it, but i might be gonna date a masc girl and i just wanna know ahead of time if masc girls tend to hate this? or is it just really a case by case thing?
thank you :) | Crushes |
okay so I always catch my crush looking at me and apparently according to my friend, he looks at me in like a soft loving way and even her mom said the same thing. then today, I had an after school lab and he was helping out and was like following... me. like I had to go to another room to get some meter sticks and instead of waiting with his friends, he waited for me in the hall and walked back when he saw me walking back. now personally, that's something I would do if I had a crush on someone, like follow them but not all the way. idk. I'm either oblivious or I'm overthinking... | Crushes |
Me, 15 and his dude named "Chase" have known each other since august. Me and him both hangout with guy thats also 15, let's call him "Cooper". Last Sunday I went to hangout at a skate park with my other friend who isn't apart of this story and while I was waiting for the train home with Chase because we take the same train, chase was flirting with me, and he was on the train. I made a joke about him kissing me, and he said not in front of everyone. So we get off the train and as i'm about to walk home I ask him if he's kiss me, I wasn't clear enough and ended up with him skating off with his homeboy. So fast forward to last night Im on the phone with Cooper and I tell him how I want chase, we add him to the call. He says he's down for anything with me. Later that night I ask him if he would wanna start talking and he said he'll think about it. He says no today because he's not ready for a relationship and tries to wingman Cooper. I call cooper tonight and find out Cooper wanted me back in July which is why (he also thought he would get bored of me and play me, i'm not a boring person). I want Chase though. What do I do? | Crushes |
Does anyone get a strong intuition about their crush that they like you back and has it ever come true? | Crushes |
so i have this guy in my 5th period right before lunch, hes really cool and cute but he sits at a different table than me and u just dont know how to talk to him. ive bareley talked to him in the past and the distance from him makes is harder too. he doesnt have any friends in the class or out of it wich makes it harder to engage in conversation because if he had any friends that i knew i could reach him thru there but he doesnt. So if i could please ask for any tips or advice on how to approach him wether its after class or before or even during please reply i need help asap lol. | Crushes |
When talking to my crush should our conversation flow super easily? When we talk in person it is pretty good but sometimes can die out and same goes after a bit over text. What should I do? Does this mean anything? | Crushes |
Hello guys this is my first time posting here on Reddit, in fact first time actually scrolling thought it actually but I just wanted to tell yo guys my story so that someone can learn from my mistakes. I 19 (m) was deeply in love with my best friend from high school all 4 years of school. It all started when we met freshmen year when I met her (19) f in school, I instantly fell for her on the spot. Through the years I helped her with her relationship problems, family issues, and just every day life situation not only because of my feelings towards her but also because of how much I admired and appreciated as a friend. I also talked to other girls and even had a thing with a close friend of her for some time but I always new I wanted her. I was happy seeing smile even if it meant that she was with someone else, to the point that I myself convinced her ex back then to go back with her because I knew that would of made her happy. Anyways, life and COVID happen and we got drifted a little apart but we were still friends. I would still try my best to make sure she was happy:) When college came we didn’t really talk so that was when I decided to confess her that I liked her back then but not mention that I still had feelings at that time. I confessed and and she did was cry, that was honestly the last thing I imagined was going happen but she just cried and listen as I vented about why I did certain things and acted certain ways which explained again that I liked her. After than we have just talked once or twice but it is just awkward. There are a lot of lessons to take from here like for example I should have just confessed my feelings away and also to not waste time and go after for what you really want, but I can honestly say that not being honest with yourself is the worst thing you could do to yourself. We go to the same college but I haven’t even seen here recently. I miss our friendship more than anyone can imagine since we both knew everything about each other and she was the only person I never got bored of and could talk forever. My cowardliness and doubt cause me to ruin my friendship with the person I cared about the most in this world. | Crushes |
This is for people who want to talk about their crushes. You can answer questions that are applicable to you.
1. Describe your crush in one word
2. How did you know you had a crush on them?
3. Do you know each other in person?
4. How often do you speak to your crush?
5. What do you find attractive about them?
6. Do you think they like you back?
7. Which song/album would you dedicate to your crush?
8. What is your dream date with your crush?
9. What is something you notice about your crush that others might not.
10. Do you see a future with them? | Crushes |
i found my perfect type on Tiktok i followed him on Instagram and i started stalking him everyday watching and re-watching his stories. He has over 400 followers one day i opened the app and found out he actually followed me and he saw my story. Some of yall can find me silly but please try to understand i'm that nerdy girl with awkward social skills and who is been rejecting every guy( btw i'm 17) . I have never dated someone and i don't know what to do, if i should wait or do the first move. | Crushes |
I've liked her since September. I really like her, I don't think I've met anyone else who I have more in common with. I asked her to prom, and even though she thought I was asking her as a friend she said no. I don't know how she's still so oblivious that I like her. Anyways my friend and I were talking and she told me that she was talking to her the other day, and she mentioned that she likes this guy I hate. He always pisses me off so much. Anytime he sees any guy talking to a girl 1 on 1, he feels the need to go join the conversation and kick the guy out. It's fucked, I can't fucking stand the guy and she fucking likes him of all people. | Crushes |
this part is not necessary to read:
so last school year me (14f) and my crush (14m) were good friends until one of my friends told him i liked him. me and my friend lets call hannah were on call when i confessed that i liked crush. she all of a sudden left call and joined in will my other male friend and told him. omg so embarrassing. then left again for awhile. me and male friend started talking and gossiping when my crush suddenly joined call. uh oh. he started interrogating me for the next 17 minutes until hannah found out that i knew she told. then hannah joined in the call and said it was all a prank. me and other friend chimed in and went along. and u know what he said? " oh THANK goodness, cus no offense u would be the last person i would date" ouch. then it was a week later we were in school again. HANNAH TOLD HIM AGAIN. his response was that another variation of the first response. and from then on he keeps on teasing me 😭😭😭😭
any way that was all irrelevant lol
and now i fell for a new guy. i first officially met him a week ago. we were all meeting up for a summer reunion since school ended and my friend told me to tag along. it was all normal but the whole time i felt i needed to be near him the whole time. flash forward to yesterday it was my birthday event (birthdays today) and i invited 5-6 friends to be there. we were at a rollerskating rink, although i didn't know how to skate, he didn't either. nothing really happened but a few moments to remember, i asked him to buy me one of those toys that u get when u insert 25¢ and when he gave it to me our hands touched for a few seconds too long. another one was, the group was having a conversation about this one creep who had a crush on my friend last year and all of a sudden he told me that this rink was famous for people making out while not breaking eye contact. then he broke it by shouting to another guy friends name (indicating that he wanted to make out with him). another instance, he and other friend were sitting in a food booth and i skated past them holding up a L hand sign and then i find my self in a back and forth L sign battle with him for the rest of the time there.
i have an over imagination so i just came here to ask for advice,
p.s. all of my crush have talked to me dirty then in a few weeks got themselves a gf every time
what do i do | Crushes |
He’s older than me by a bit but I’ve got the biggest crush! How can I know if he likes me back?? Any advice would help | Crushes |
About a week ago, my crush was at my place and we were talking, laughing, and whatnot. I leave to use the restroom. I come back to her using tinder (FML). She gets a match.
Her match sends her the obi-wan "hello there" gif and she just replies with "hii". At this point I snatch her phone out of her hand screaming "no, don't!" And I reply in her name with the general grievous "general kenobi" gif. The guy was so happy "she" replied with the right gif.
They went on a date that went, in her words, amazing, earlier today.
Please, someone, just shoot me... | Crushes |
So I am 22f and he is 20m we’ve been hooking up for 6 years now since we were teenagers. For some reason I crave him so bad. He is an extremely horrible person who has only brought pain to my life, he ghosts me for months at a time after we hook up and if something happens after we hookup and we get in a fight he calls me disgusting names fat whale ugly disgusting etc, bums money off me whenever he can and has put me in some seriously horrible situations and every time I am so upset about it and convince myself that when I get over it I won’t go back to him. The most recent things that happened are he met me when he had covid even tho my mother died from it and he knew that and never told me, he left me in his friends house when he knew I had no way home and said he would stay, straight away after we had sex and laughed in my face and said to his friend ‘do you want a go of her?’And made me have a threesome with his friend even though I didn’t want to another night.. I said no many times but he told his friend to come in and I just felt like pressured or something(It was consensual but it just felt forced or something idk??? Everytime im over him and I actually stop obsessing over him he comes into my life it’s like he can read my mind it’s so weird and then I go back to him and I’m back in the same cycle.. but when I say obsess over him idk it’s not actually him it’s like what I have of him in my head which is not the true him I don’t think I really like him but I can’t stop thinking about him. I obviously amnt good enough for him because he has never said anything nice to me like compliment me just call me fat ugly etc but I have many guys who think I am
Beautiful and sexy who want to get to know me but I have no interest at all. I only want to have sex with him for someone who lacks a lot of emotion only anger he is such a passionate lover,there is a confection there that feels so intense and real. But as soon as he cums its like he gets such bad PNC and is disgusted by me??? Iknow he hates me it’s so obvious but he tells me he does like me it’s why he always comes back but I know
I shouldn’t believe it but part of me wants to. Why can’t I get over him when I know he is no good for me?! | Crushes |
Ya boi's in a relationship, so he's going to made a solid attempt not to flirt with his crush. | Crushes |
Every interaction I have with my crush I convince myself it’s because they like me and it makes me get my hopes up even though I know it isn’t likely to be because they like me back… | Crushes |
me and my friend, lets call her hannah, are trying to figure out how we can find out if my crush, we can call her rachel, feels the same
for context me and rachel have been good friends for about 3 years now and recently i've noticed i look at her "differently"
hannah is friends with rachel and could probably get something outta her so we've come up with hannah asking rachel if she "likes" anyone
however, i feel like thats too obvious and more could be done, any & all advice is appreciated! | Crushes |
He has a gf. His gf is/was my bsf of 3 years. It’s gotten a little complicated over these past few months since I’ve started to believe my feelings for him a tad bit more. Our friendship has been ruined bc of my feelings for him, and yk it’s not even her it’s just me. I’ve been distancing. Stopped talking to her. Stopped seeing her irl. Just stopped putting effort in general. But tonight, tonight I might speak to her. About us. About me and him. About all these stupid stupid feelings I have.
I hate it when I like him. I hate it so, so much when he makes my heart flutter. When he makes me smile uncontrollably. I hate it when I feel so happy I go silent and I flood with serotonin. He called me pretty today and yet when I think of all these stupid compliments, I want to cry. I get that irritating feeling of my nose tingling and that idiotic overwhelming drowsiness of wanted to scrunch up in a ball and sob. I’ve tried my best to be a good friend, gosh I really, really have. But I think now is enough. | Crushes |
She dm'd me on snapchat 2 days ago and conversation kinda dried out.
We also have each others IG.
If yes, what should i say
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I saw someone do this and figured I’d like to try since I love talking abt him :D | Crushes |
I never had a crush on a fat guy before, or a guy that looks older on the face. | Crushes |
Just ask me anything, i can probably anwser | Crushes |
He is the only person I need. He’s my everything. Honestly. With others there’s always a chance of me getting hurt, or betrayed. But with him? Zero chance. I love him. He’s all I think about. He’s extremely controlling, it’s honestly perfect. He’s really all I need. He treats me so well. I really do love him. The second I’m able to shoot my shot, I’m going to. He’ll never be able to leave me, I won’t fucking allow it. He’s my best friend. | Crushes |
I went on a trip with my family to a south american country.
My family and I were in a hotel and I was expecting to see dozens of canadian, american and european tourists (I was hoping there would be girls hahahaha and even though I can appreciate beauty in all the ethnicities, I am more into a caucasian type of girl). However I couldn't see any, it was all south american (there's nothing wrong with them, I speak spanish too so I made lots of friends there) people and no one was around my age.
So I went to the beach and I saw a group of 5 girls and 1 boy around my age playing volleyball. I joined them. Then, two of the girls left and we went for a swim and we started talking. Two of the girls were 18, the other was 17 and the guy was 18. My two (younger) sisters joined us and we went to the pool. We hung out there for the rest of the day. We played chicken. One the 18yos was my partner and we won every single game! We then ate dinner and went back to the pool and played chicken again (we won (again)). Two hours later we went to some kind of club and that guy taught us how to dance salsa. I danced with that girl for a really long time. It was quite late so my sisters went to bed.
At around 1am, we decided to go to the beach and we sat on one of those big beds anyone. The girl I was getting close to had the worst spot because she couldn't lay back on anything so I told her she could lay back on me and so she did. A random guy we met at the club and the 17yo girl left so it was only the girl I was getting close to,the other 18 yo, the guy who taught us and me. She took my hand and held it for 20 mins and since she was holding a deck of cards with the other I took it from her and took that hand with my free hand. We stayed there for a while but I had a curfew so I had to leave...
Little did I know, she was leaving on the next day! We all hung out the next morning, we played chicken (again) and won (again...). We then went to the lobby to wait for their bus and she was looking at me in a way that I can not describe.
I was like, daaamn. It really looked like she liked me ngl hahahaha but sadly she had to go and that was it...
We talked on instagram and there she confessed that she was actually 16 and that she had lied about her age so that no one would feel bad about drinking with her.
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TL;DR I was on holidays, met a girl. I liked her and she liked me but she was leaving on the next day. | Crushes |
We're both 25 this year, so equally old.
In 2016/2017 we went to music school together, where we first got to know each other. I kid you not when I say she's the sweetest, cutest, kindest, most grounded, most gorgeus girl to ever exist. She is literally an angel. She's also a musical artist and is super talented. We're friends and have now known each other for about 5-6 years. I've had a crush on her ever since those days...
I've done things for her like buying her a bottle of wine at her birthday, helped her out with music, etc
Today I traveled to the city she temporarily lives in, as she's part of an outside play this summer. I went to see it, and met her after it was over to tell her how proud I am of her and how insanely talented she is (all of which is true). She said she appreciated so much that I showed up. We had a quick chat before she said she had to change. She wished me a good summer, to tell my family she said "hi", and we split parts.
I currently sit at a hotel room and my body is just aching. Every time I meet her I fall more and more for her, and I dont know what to do. It's driving me nuts. I've had lots of crushes before but they come and go. This one doesn't. I think I'm at least showing that I care for her, by traveling all the way here to see her, and other stuff, so I'm not 100% out of the picture heh..She's such an amazing person, I tell you. But, since it's been so long, I'm really REALLY afraid of taking the step to actuall ask her out, because
a) I have a feeling she doesnt feel the same, and think of me only as a friend, and
b) We have several common friends from the music school. I dont want to get a bad reputation or anything...
c) What if she takes it badly and it becomes either awkward or she gets angry, something which ends up with us not being friends anymore?
I suddenly felt after tonight that I can't hold it in much longer. I feel it physically aching in my body :/ What the heck do I do? Sorry for the long message.. | Crushes |
🥰 | Crushes |
So like a few months ago I posted something about this guy I had a major crush on. So since then we’ve hung out a few times. We now are FWB,and it’s been sooooo good. Like 1.he’s an amazing kisser, and 2.he’s a lot more romantic than I thought he was. We were in the middle of making out a couple weeks ago when he actually stopped,pulled away,and told me that I was beautiful. LIKE WHAT MIND GAMES IS HE TRYING TO PLAY ON ME??? In the moment it really made me melt tbh. Never in my life have I had a guy say something like that to me and mean it. He just really feels like the best person for me. I hope things progress but at the same time I love the dynamic we have. | Crushes |
Well, I did it. I have a girlfriend for the first time in my life. We want to tell our friends but we don't know how to do so. Does anyone have any advice on how to do so. For context, we have been really close friends for a long time and have a decently large friend group (around 15 people) | Crushes |
I wanna talk about him. | Crushes |
He is so cute. I want to eat him to keep him safe. He is my best friend. :3 /NSX | Crushes |
I want to talk abt her | Crushes |
So I decided to add a post more for chatting, and any question is welcome and as the title says, ask me about the girl I like | Crushes |
I think it's odd and it can be awkward if you don't know who they are. | Crushes |
He is my everything I love him so fucking much. | Crushes |
Just got out of a very long relationship, I'm 20.
Very attractive cashier shows interest in me, lots of interest. But there's a catch, she's already got a boyfriend.
Not sure what to do, she shows up to work flirty and we lock eyes every time we see each other. I feel like she has the same feelings as me, just confused as to what to do; my instincts tell me to just be patient and maybe it'll work out.
Another part of me thinks I need to take a leap of faith...
Thoughts?
Thank you for reading and dedicating your time to my problems, any advice is appreciated. | Crushes |
I kind of developed an embarassing crush. It's the vet of my cat. There are three embarassing parts.
First of all I'm 19 and he's probably like in his late 30's or early 40's
Second of all he has a wife. I know that because she also works there.
And lastly they have a child that they bring to work.
I like him so much. He is so funny, so smoothe, so caring. I also like his wife she is so cute and soft. They both treat me so good and I feel so welcomed every time I go there.
I know I'll never have a chance with him. But I make up so weired fake scenarios before going to sleep and it's getting more and more. But I don't want to have them cause they're such a cute little family.
My best friend usually supports me with my crushes. I've always had crushes on older people and she always supported me with that. But with that one she clearly thinks it's weired.
I don't know how to forget him, but I also don't want to forget him :( | Crushes |
I love when he’s controlling of me. I don’t need any other friends. I shouldn’t be talking to anyone else besides him. He’s my everything. <3 I don’t need anyone else. | Crushes |
Should I send him a long cheesy ass corny paragraph!
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I was doing so well!!! I was holding back and making sure to put a respectable amount of distance between us ( we used to hang out every weekend and would always sit next to each other whenever possible). I backed out on plans for today for some space and have stopped saying “hi” first. I’ve even started noticing some of his flaws (nothing major)
I thought I was doing well SO WHY DID I DREAM OF US KISSING LAST NIGHT !???
😭 it was such a nice dream from what I can remember he told me to do something, I didn’t do it- I refused.I tried to kiss him BUT HE MOVED HIS FACE and so I only caught the corner of his mouth(😳 I swear I can literally feel his beard/ scruff on my lips.)
I was MAD. And he was annoyed and suddenly he scooped me up bridal style and pulled me up close and tight and I caressed his face and BOOM HE KISSED ME …. And then I woke up : /
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I have work with him for the past 3 or 4 year, and the first two years i never pay attention to him. But now, i feel that we have a good chemistry, we talk a lot, we are always smiling and saying jokes. Also he tells me about his life and all the goals that he set up for his future. But i know that we work together, and im kind of a supervisor. I dont want to create a wierd environment so i really dont know what to do. Should i say something? | Crushes |
i'm bored and i also don't want to annoy my friends because they now know everything about him😭 | Crushes |
So I had confessed to my crush, let's call him dylan- indirectly like day before yesterday. The person who got it all in action was our mutual best friend (lets call him Connor) who after I told I liked Dylan went to tell him and he didn't believe it, so since I had a opportunity I wrote a note and gave it to Connor who gave it to Dylan. After that whole thing Connor tells me that he plans on asking me out, just after a while to seem mature. Me and Dylan have been friends for a while so not wanting him to feel pressured I tell him twice, once on a note once in chat thay he shouldn't feel pressured to date me and I'll be friends with him regardless (unless he wants to not be friends and not talk) and he told me okay just give him some time. Obviously with the sincerity when he said that I knew it couldn't have been wanting to seem mature or anything so now I feel just a biiiiit stuck on his answer
Ps: if he rejects and wants to be friends I will do my best to swallow it down and act the same and if we do end up dating I suppose it won't make much of a difference because the main reason I fell for him was because we already acted like a couple and also because he has that kind of personality where he cares for people, can see right through me and isn't ignorant.
Yes, I am guilty of making a new account just to talk about this though it's only because there are high chances of someone from my school seeing this and they will IMMEDIATELY know who Dylan and Connor are if they see my name 👍 | Crushes |
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I want to talk about her. | Crushes |
A bit of some info: Things have been going good so far and now it's ry a question of if he likes or not. It seems like he's interested idk abt like though. Like for example, I complimented him n he didn't do anyt back but he is really really shy. Like when we talk we don't even hold eye contact lmao. He sucks at texting, a few months ago I texted him he left on read n replied a week later I think he was shy. It feels like I have to most the advances and it really makes me wonder if he's interested . But so far I think it's going good we talked a bit yesterday n he wanted to inv to walk with him it really look like it ( I said no bcs at that time I was busy which was stupid shd hv went)
See the thing is, I'm also really shy we haven't in like 4wks but everytime he passes me he looks down n walks faster. I want to talk to him more ,get to know him but how? He followed me on insta i want to add him to my cfl but it will look desperate or shd I just add him? That's all for now. | Crushes |
I asked her what her reaction would be if I asked her out, and I said for her to be honest. She then said: “First I’d panic, then calm myself down, say ‘you can take me out sometime’ and then say yes”.
I was very happy after that as I’ve liked her for a while 😂😅 | Crushes |
First of all, congratulations to my friend who finally met his bf after over a year, im so proud and happy for them both and am really hoping that they get to meet more often-
And i wont celebrate too early but i just sent some messages to my crush saying ‘anyway i love you a lot <3’ hoping he returns the feeling but im more than happy to give him more time if he needs.
My friends say that he most likely loves me back after telling each other we missed each other and sending a lot of hearts so im pretty confident; still preparing for the unexpected tho | Crushes |
Like, let's say a girl leaves you on read twice in a row (twice in 7 days)? Why would a girl still follow you if she leaves you on read/ghosts you?
In my case, I don't post anything (no posts, no stories). We were online friends and we've decided to follow each other on our social media accounts. So she literally only follows me to keep in touch (since I don't post anything).
So why is she still following me (if she's left me on read twice)?? | Crushes |
The whole story is long and convoluted but the basics I need sorted are about three weeks ago she admitted she liked me and o was so unprepared I responded with “really” it’s been a three weeks and we haven’t mentioned it, and now I’m worrying that it was either a friendly admittance not a romantic one, or that my reaction and sup sequent silence on the subject ruined my chance. Working up the courage too ask about it but I don’t know what to say, thinking something along the lines of “hey you know that thing you said to me about three weeks ago now, I just wanted to say I’m sorry for my response, it probably wasn’t the best to that statement” and then see where that goes | Crushes |
This is gonna come off as juvenile but I need advice on someone I like;
We’ve been friends for a good five years now, and I’ve liked him for around two and I know that he had similar feelings a year or so ago.
The problem is that we don’t really talk, anymore, and I don’t wanna come off ad clingy or overbearing if I’m the one who’s constantly reaching out.
So what should I do? | Crushes |
Okay I'll get straight to the point. I live in the States and have this girl (F18) who I (M18) have had a crush on for a long time. We dated when we were in Junior High (I know this is young), we broke up in middle school and now we're very close but officially as a friend (in highschool). It should be noted that since the breakup, the girl had 2 more relationship with other guys. We meet each other with some other friends once a week or at least once in two weeks. It's sometimes myself who initiates hangouts but it's sometimes her. When having hangouts with other people, I always pick her up from home and drop her back at night (it's an hour drive) and I know she is single for sure. She quite frequently asks me about my standards showing pictures of girls and asking if she is pretty. We talk about topics related to dating and one night, when we were passing a street with restaurants while going home in a car, she spontaneously offered me to have dinner, but just the both of us. We don't hold hands or anything but there is light contact like her holding on to me or hugging when she's shocked or scared. We also frequently chat online sometimes disclosing secrets or being nostalgic about our past together many years ago. One night, when we had dinner with other friends, we randomly conversed about the girl's friend (who is a girl) and who would be the guy good enough for the girl to introduce her friend to. She chose me as the best guy. However, she once said that I am her bestfriend. I don't know whether she said this because she meant it or because she knew we were close and she wanted to hide her feelings. Anyways, she also once offered me to go on a 2-day trip with her and another couple; so 4 people where 2 are the couple and the other 2, us. She did mention that she wasn't trying to hook me up or anything just in case I thought weirdly of it (I would sleep with the guy in the other couple).
Oh also should be noted that when I bumped into her in a birthday part (this was before we got really close and she was dating another guy) once said I'll only be dating in college because I want to focus on academics in HS. She thinks I'm super focused on academics and don't want to be distracted from it and this is true, but if I can be with her, I'm down for it right now. + I'm not the type of person that shows that I like someone. When people knew I had feelings for another girl, they were completely shocked.
Based on these info (I can provide more details if needed), does she have feelings for me? I really hope that she does but I just need an honest opinion to evaluate the possibilities. I would really appreciate anything realistic and plausible. | Crushes |
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