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This guy i became good friends with (who apparent has a big crush on me) talks about kpop idols he finds hot, and even randomly messaged me about a ‘really hot girl’ who kept ‘distracting him because she was too hot’ at the restaurant he works at. He told me before he thinks i’m cute and i’m really pretty, but why would he randomly tell me about other girls? How should i treat this guy when he does this? Honestly i find it really weird and i don’t know how i’m meant to respond.
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I've seen a ton of "AMA about my crush" so I'm one upping it, AMA about my girlfriend. She was my crush at one point so it counts.
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Dm me some ideas pls I’m shy btw and have liked him for more than a year. And plan to confess in a note but with more than just a simple ‘I like you’
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Hello! Everyone! I just need a different kind of perspective towards my situation that’s been frustrating me to death! 😅 I’ve met this person since the beginning of august. we were just supporting each other through a hard time and…surprisingly we both ended up having a crush towards each other. At first I was being a bit hesitant and he was more forward, flirtatious, loving, caring. he’d write me everyday and super mega frequent! (even when he worked, he’d write me a lot) he’d give me way to much attention. and once I finally decided to fully give myself to him. he started to change or in other words…his been pulling away. I’ve been so overly caring, loving, thoughtful, putting him first in everything. whenever his down. I’d always be there to support him and listen to all of his problems. and yet…I’ve been feeling that it hasn’t been enough. he stopped giving me the same type of attention and affection. it’s almost like he got what he wanted and now perhaps doesn’t have the need to try hard anymore? He takes forever to communicate almost everyday..it makes me feel really alone. I know there’s busy days but… his busy all the time now. I barely know what’s going on in his life. I’m tired of giving when his barely available to give it back to me. he has been changing….it makes me feel like his totally indifferent to wether spend time with me or not. I don’t know what changed! and the worst part is that he always tells me that “Everything’s fine, his feelings hasn’t changed and I’m worrying over nothing” but…everytime that I let my guard-down. his actions always proof me the opposite.. it literally feels like he has lost the interest and only continues to interact with me because his used to it. I don’t know what to do about these feelings! I feel like I’m already in way to deep on it! I like him waaaay to much right now to turn it off! and now his treating me like this!! …if he wants nothing anymore & “Likes” me less now…I rather that he tells me upfront!! instead of making me go through this hell of uncertainty and mix signals. like…Yea..it’ll hurt me like hell but…I’ll get my answer! How can I make him understand this situation? or better yet…what are my options?? I just wanna remain close & want us to talk again like we used to because…his behaviour and distance is pushing me away and closing me up and I don’t wanna turn out that way!! 💔💔💔💔😞
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I have a crush on this girl from casual work. I asked for her Instagram and after like a week we started talking So far I (m18) initiated the first convo And the second- (about 5 days later) She (f17) initiated the third - (20 or so days later) And I initiated the 4th (7 days later) Should I let her do the next one or should I just do it? They have all been great convos with equal participation, emojis, exclamation marks and laughs. What are you opinions ( im thinking of asking her out in 3 weeks after my exams....should I text her before this to keep her interested?)
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Ok this is so cheesy but I have such a crush on a girl in my class! The thing is I can’t really talk to people, I’m in a position where I can talk to her a lot. but I can barely make a conversation! And I feel like I actually have a chance, I am really not trying to brag. But I think I’m conventionally attracted and I have a cool personality! (I hope.) But what I’m really worried about is if she’s into girls. I mean she looks the part but I’m really not sure. And I don’t want to be known as the girl who likes girls at school. So should I go for it and if I do what should I do?
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I previously posted about this guy I’m interested in. I’ve told some friends and family about it and they think he seems interested. But I still don’t agree. I mentioned we talk on Snapchat everyday, but there have been a few occasions he has left me on delivered for 15-20 hours. Which I know people can be busy bc I’m also a busy person. But even when I’m left on delivered for 1-3 hours sometimes I see he’s active. Me personally I don’t play games like that, I will not leave someone on delivered just because I feel like it. So why do people do that? Why leave someone on delivered for any amount of time if you’re using said app regularly?
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Pretty informal workplace. I am 25M and she is 21+ not sure of exact age but she just got hired a few weeks ago and I am very attracted to her for many reasons. I haven’t had a crush like this in a long time. I talk to her when I can and it hasn’t been awkward at all so far which is a great sign! Main question: I got her Snapchat a week ago but haven’t really had the time to message her, and we talk at work anyway when we can. I’m planning on asking her to a haunted house in a casual way just me and her. I think that’d be fun and we already kinda talked about them a few days ago. Would it be strange and out of the blue for my first message on snap to be just inviting her to hang out (date)? Or am I overthinking it. I can’t ask in person because a lot of people around and we get off at different times.
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I met a pretty girl and we don’t talk a lot except say hi and exchange friendly smiles when we see each other through the hallways. I give her snacks and she accepts it. I wanna tell her I like her but we haven’t talked enough and I don’t know much about her. I think I saw her sneaking a glance at me while she was at the front of the class reciting stuff on the board and took a video of me while I was nearly sleeping during class. It could just be my imagination though because I really want her to like me. I think my feelings for her are too obvious since I stare at her where she’s at the back of the class while I’m in the front. I’m worried she’ll think I’m a creep or too awkward and only puts up with me because she pities me or something.
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I have liked her for 7 years. Please help me.
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also pls consider that we waited in a drive thru line at 12 am for over an hour following the concert and the drive back was also about 30 mins [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/xzdm40)
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So, he (21M) and I (21F) go to the same university and met in class and ended up in the same lab group at the beginning of the semester with a friend of mine. We became pretty close from studying together. A few weeks ago, I pulled a double all-nighter and was practically falling asleep in lab. I asked if I could put my head on his shoulder as we were working and he said that "it used to happen all the time in hs" and that he was cool with it. So throughout lab, I alternated b/t my head on his and my friend's shoulder as we worked. That weekend, I invited them to come over and watch anime together and he and I ended up cuddling together while watching anime. We were on the floor and I was sitting with my legs folded while he was on a pillow of mine. His head was right next to my thigh and he literally had his body against mine while his entire arm was lying across my legs. After that, he started being really physical and would put his head on my shoulder or constantly lean up against me. One time we were studying and he put his arm across the back of the couch we were sitting on while leaning against me. Another time, he put head on my shoulder so close to my neck I could feel him breathe. Another time, he put his arm around my shoulders for a split second when we were sitting together. We've had some really great conversations too and he's really mature and just relatable. Like I never get tired talking to him. Normally I would think he definitely likes me, but this past week, I noticed that when we studied together, he leaned up against my friend too and put his head on her shoulder. She has a bf and we both know that so I don't know if he's just naturally really affectionate or oblivious. Today, when I went over to his place to drop off donuts he gave me hug before I left. So I don't know whether he likes me or whether he thinks this level of touch is normal. I really like him and tbh, this is a first experience for me. I genuinely thought I was aro/ace before this but I've really fallen for him and don't want to mess anything up by coming on too strong. He's literally the sweetest guy I've ever met. tldr: The guy I like cuddles with me constantly, but I noticed him doing it with one of my friends too so I don't know whether he likes me too or not.
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Makes fun of me in a joking way Walks me to my class when we talk between passing period Walks around with me and jokes with me when we see each other in the hallways Does this thing where he gets really close to my face and stares at me until I look away. Likes to make fun of me bc I laugh a lot when I talk to him and says stuff like “let’s see if you can make it through this sentence without laughing” When he walks past me in the hallway he pushes my hat down in a joking way Nods and smiles at me when he sees me One story though- when someone thanks him for doing something he likes to say “I live to serve” or something like that. It’s like his catchphrase. Someone thanked me for doing something and I said, “I live to serve.” He looked at me and was like, “hey, that’s my line!” I said, “it’s my line now!” And he got super close to me (like nearly touching noses) and just stared at me. I get flustered really easily but it’s like a game he plays a lot and I didn’t want to look away. So I stared back at him and he said “don’t laugh” and I said “I won’t.” And then he said, “what if we kissed?” And so ofc I looked away and did like a nervous laugh. (This was on the last day of school last year btw). Thoughts?
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So, my crush usually everyday looks at me every day and we make eye contact a lot, does anyone think they like me? Edit: I forgot to say I sit behind and they turn back to look at me all the time.
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So what would be the best way to message her brother to get her to add me on snapchat so she can see my confession? And keep in mind that her brother doesn't like me. I haven't spoken to him but when I tried to get her snap the first time I tried to confess he completely rejected me getting the snap. But recently I've found out that he has an Instagram and I can message him through that, hence why I'm asking you guys for guidance. Any help is appreciated
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My crush has left me on delivered before for about a day and a half, maybe two days, And 5 hours ago he texted me back. I want to reply back but I don’t want to seem so clingy/desperate or something, I’m thinking about leaving him for about a day and a half as well but I don’t know if that’s reasonable or not
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I don’t know how many of you all seen my previous post as I made it quite a while ago saying how things were going good. Turns out she said she only sees me as a brother and I kind of don’t know how to react but I painfully played it off everyday like I’m okay with it and i don’t know what to do, maybe move on or just wait til something happens between me and her i don’t know. Just searching for advice on what to do next.
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Ok so for some context i am 15m. I understand that it won't matter now as a freshman but i still really like this girl. Everything about her, and i cant stop thinking about her. I've known her for years and we've become really close and we hangout pretty regularly inside and outside of school. My biggest problem is that I may be in the friendzone already and she just doesn't want to date anyone right now anyways. I just don't know what to do. Please help me.
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So for context I’m 16 rn and kind of in between crushes, but I still come to this sub just to see what other people are saying, so I thought I’d add something. So back in 7th grade I had a pretty significant crush on this girl, like for a while. I didn’t see it at the time, because I was a certified idiot, but she definitely liked me back. She texted me one time bc she was scared to go in an Uber and she wanted me to comfort her, and she tried to FaceTime me to “show me her cats” or some weird thing like that. I ruined it because I was so awkward and ended up getting friendzoned by her. Twice. Also I forgot to mention she actually told me she had a crush on me after I told her my feelings, and i still managed to f it up. Fast forward to 10th grade, I had a crush on another girl. I thought for sure she wouldn’t or couldn’t like me back, idk why. After looking back on it this past summer I wanted to punch myself. I was such an idiot. I think she liked me too! I’m so mad. Now I’m almost wishing I would develop a crush on someone so I can get another chance.
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So my crush is this adorable and amazingly sweet boy whose a year older than me, Im completely in love with him at this point because on thursday he flirted with me over text for almost 2 hours. But he hasnt messaged me back since, I know hes really busy with work and stressed out, and that hes having some family issues but I just wanna make sure hes doing okay and that Im here for if he needs someone to talk to that cares about him. Does anyone have advice for anything I could do to maybe get a response? I asked a mutual friend and they said that hes not the best at responding to texts which is reassuring but I just feel bad seeing our text feed just being me asking how hes doing and when he is free. So any advice?
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We went to homecoming together and it was the best night of my entire life. We slow danced together and he was smiling so much. His smiling is so pretty too. We also danced together during non slow songs. He ended up walking me home and putting his jacket around me. I honestly hope we might have a second date. I like him so much, sadly I got too scared to tell him but that’s ok I still had an amazing night. Edit: I just remembered how someone was playfully punching me and he said “ hey don’t touch my girl” literally omg he called me his girl. I’m in love.
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I (18M) like one of my close friends (18F), she found out from another friend and doesn’t feel the same (she doesn’t know that I know that she knows) but we’ve been closer than ever since then. So I’m happy hanging out with her more as friends, but sad/confused because she does t feel the same lolZ it’s a weird situation to be in
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As we were talking on the phone she sent me a photo of a cuddling position and said she wanted to cuddle me like that. She wanted to have her arms wrapped around my waist and her head resting on my shoulder- I just started to squeal like a girl 😅 She thought it was cute. We are dating :)
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Like I saw him close up for the first time and he was total bleak like he has been washing up all his emotions for an eternity But what my crush told me of her parents suggests otherwise so I don't even know if the guy I saw is his father or just a guy to pick him up. I'm thoroughly confused lol
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Boy meets girl, boy chases girl, boy is sooo close to having girl, then boy ghosts girl.. Girl moves on... Enter jealousy...homecoming dance, and attempts to.make girl jealous...(though boy is the one jealous and staring) Someone bring the popcorn!
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Okay y'all please suspend judgement for this one because I know I'm a bad person My (24) fiance (D, 43) passed away a month ago. We were in love, i felt like he was my soulmate, we were together for five years. He was an amazing person and I loved him more than life itself. Honestly most days I wanna die. We used to be drug addicts. Long story. There was a couple we met in active addiction. The guy's (B, 30) wife (J, mid-late 20s?) was a prostitute and I could tell there were some problems with them with that but it was whatever. B and I had some attraction to each other but we never acted on it because we were in relationships. But we could feel like it, like if we were in a room together (especially if we were alone) the energy in the room was different. In truth to avoid being alone with him because I didn't want to have any issues because I knew I was attracted to him. And I really can't describe the attraction, but it was like electric, it was heavy. We admitted it to each other one time, but we both agreed that we would never be able to act on it due to the circumstances. Fast forward, a few years later. He hit me up a few days ago. D had passed away. I find out B is in prison now and J was with fucking with another guy, and J and B were pretty much separated. B and I start talking. It feels like it did before, electric, heavy, except this time there's no guilt from relationships. But we're miles away. It's only been a few days but I've started putting money on B's phone account, paying back a debt he has gotten while there, I'm planning on paying for a food package for him. The problem (if you wanna call it that) is most of our talk is sexual. And I'm grieving for D so there's that. And I feel like maybe I'm transferring the feelings I had for D onto B? And he hasn't called in a few hours (and we have been talking A LOT the last few days). I sent him nudes earlier. And I'm worried that maybe he just wants sex, and he's horny because he's in prison. And maybe now that I've sent nudes he's done? But that wouldn't make sense because I still have money so if he was after money then he'd be missing out? Idk and I know I'm overreacting because it's only been a few hours but he was supposed to call RIGHT BACK and he didn't. And I'm drunk now so there's that. And I've been crying and I feel crazy because it's a mix of grief for D and worrying about all this with B and nobody is even going to fucking read this and I feel like I fucked up by starting something this soon after D died and maybe I can't handle this emotionally. And I was crying a little before I started drinking but now I'm crying a lot because I'm drunk and emotionally and idk what to do. I'm worried he's not going to contact me again and maybe I'm crazy. Idk if I wanted to vent or wanted advise, but I'm open to advise if y'all wanted to give it to me. If y'all have any questions let me know. Either way, I'm sorry for the craziness. That's it. Thanks bye.
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So I've known this girl for over 10 years (friends) c. Kindergarten. When we went to high school, we both went our separate ways, the catch being that I went to an all-boys school and she to an all-girls school. Just recently I've caught feelings for her that I never knew existed. She came to one of our football games and we “talked.” it was one of those small awkward talks you have with people you haven't seen in years: “how have you been, how’s school,” etc (stuff you don't want to hear from someone you think you have feelings for🤮). Anyways, after our “talk” I felt defeated. I didn't know if I had missed an opportunity or presented myself as awkward by not carrying the conversation (we were both equally awkward to each other btw). That night, I couldn't stop thinking about our “talk” and her in general. I was not only ashamed but I'm honestly confused. Because we don't go to school together anymore and aren't close enough to know too much about each other, for all I know she has a boyfriend. I want to show her I have interest, but I have no clue how/if I even should. I can't get her out of my mind and I have no clue if its real or if I'm just lonely and seeking affection. Either way, it FEELS real. I genuinely enjoyed seeing her, but I have no idea what to do. 🙁
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(M14) I really don’t want to start with “so there’s this girl” because it feels generic. I’ve liked her for a year now. We’ve been friends for just under a year. She’s known my feelings this entire time. Since last year, I’ve gone from little chance because I just met her, to no chance because of another guy, to some chance since she’s known my interest, to a hella huge chance after several late night FaceTime calls we both enjoyed and REALLY started talking, to no chance again because another guy dated her (no classes together :/ ), and back to some chance because they only dated 3 weeks. Imma call my crush Emily. Her best friend I’ll call Claire. While Emily dated the second guy, I wasn’t necessarily “crushing” on Claire that conveniently was Emily’s best friend, I more like felt something different about her. People think I like Claire. I see why, but it just isn’t true that I have actual interest in her. The fact that Emily is single now even more disproves that rumor. I feel like a simp for the fact that I almost developed a crush on Claire while Emily was taken and now that she’s single I threw the Claire idea away. I think there’s a shot with Emily, but the fact that she’s known my interest for a year and through two other relationships, AND the fact that we didn’t start dating during the FaceTime call phase makes me doubt it. What should my next move be in general? When I ask “next move” I don’t mean next step towards getting Emily. Simply next move in the general situation. If you see a path to Emily, what’s the next move? If not… what’s the next move? I’m open to your honest thoughts. Calling back to the paragraph about the fluctuation in my chances, I’m asking for advice because I don’t want to end up in a paradox of a guy getting with her in the middle of great progress and then back to a very mid position. I feel like that will happen if I don’t do something different.
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i’m SUUUUUPER shy when it comes to talking to him so any tips on how to start?
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Starting from when I was 12-13 I was kinda insecure abt my leg hair. Idk why I mean suddenly I just didn’t like it.when I was 8 I eas sk proud of my leg hair though💀 I mean now I’ve just shaving my arms and legs like most other girls in my school. It just feels better ig but it’s annoying since it grows back so fast
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We follow each other on Instagram. I see a lot of people struggle to do this, but honestly, it was so easy for me. The moment I saw her account recommended (a day or so after she signed up), I followed her and she followed back. Anyways, I just wanted to vent about watching Insta Reels and seeing some about "perfect relationships" and unrealistic standards for partners/crushes and seeing that she liked a lot of them. I know it's just in my head, but each time I see a new one, my heart ever so subtly drops. Anyways, I've been crushing on her for 4 years now without talking to her substantially, and I've still got no idea how to do it. Beyond asking for advice rn because my situation is so specific and can't be completely explained over reddit in order to receive accurate advice. The one I hear most is "just start talking to her in the hallway", but the thing is, I'm almost dead certain she knows about my crushing on her because of an embarrassing event 2-3 years ago. About 6 months ago, I DMed her randomly cause I was feeling impulsive and while it went really well and she seemed into talking for the most part, the convo just stopped after a few back-and-forth messages. (i'm being riskily specific here so I truly hope she or her friends never see this) Another element of my uncertainty is that while she's on Instagram regularly, she rarely views my semi-regular stories (ik, ik, I'm that guy that regularly checks views). She does see and like all of my posts pretty soon after me posting them, though. Ik insta stories are nothing, but if she were regularly posting, I'd be viewing them INSTANTLY. K, rant over. If you ask questions, I'll try to answer some.
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What else can I say, I’m just dumb. I always said I was “just friends” with this guy and so did he, but I started to develop feelings for him and that just sucks Not only that though for a month now he’s been coming to me with girl shit bc that’s what he would do, I would come to him with boy shit and he’d come to me with girl shit And well that’s led to a relationship. I’m happy for him, they both look really happy. I’ve just been an idiot about it, I should have said something when I realised I felt something but I didn’t. The most heartwrenching part was when they came up to see me(and the rest of his friends(we all live in a house)) and had to stay because they were drinking. I went downstairs at like 4am to get water and the both of them were cuddling all cute n shit watching donnie darko It should have been me Nah but fr happy for bro Take a look at the username
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This boy goes and says “I like one of the people in the gc” and so I play the number game with him in dms to get him to say who and now all of a sudden he doesn’t have a crush. Yk you obviously do so just say who it is. This wasn’t on Reddit so don’t ask for his u/
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My crush who also likes me doesn't know that i will move to another place and might never see her again. I might have 2-3 months with her, maybe more. I thought about it and cant think anything properly. Its just too much. Plz help. Edit: even tho only 2 ppl cared, i told her.
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Just dm me. Thanks :)
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so my crush is my nextdoor neighbor, so i’m bringing his family muffins and giving him a note that has my number on it tomorrow guys wish me luck
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Going to homecoming tonight (17M senior) is gonna be embarrassing for myself and I’m hoping I’ll see my crush there but I know its stupid to hope for this but hope I can catch her alone because if she’s with her friends or something I’ll be way too scared and intimidated to talk to her and stuff (I’ve barely talked to her all school year) and when I have low confidence I tend to stutter which will kill any chance I have and I hope I’ll find my friends there I don’t want to be this loser sitting on the bleachers I’m scared
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my crush and I are hanging out next week, we are going to grab a drink and take a walk. IM SO NERVOUS (and excited). I am really nervous that it will be awkward even though we have lunch together regularly during school and its never boring or uncomfortable. Im sorta talking to the void right now- im just super excited to do something with him. It isnt a date? Unless it is just not officially?? It sure feels like one but i cant get my hopes up, if he ends up not liking me I’ll regret getting excited about the notion. I cant tell when is a good time to ask him on an actual date or if this counts. AHHHH wish me luck!
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I have met this girl in school 2 years ago , when i had a crush on her and i telled her . she just said she liked me like a friend but she keeps talking with me like nothing happened, couple of months later we had a really special conversation . She suddenly keeps saying that I'm a good person , that I'm special and she also said she wanted to be the last person i speak to that night. I was really surprised but the next day she was normal again like nothing happened, and we had a lot of this kind of conversations. One day she flirts and another she ignores me . Today I was sitting next to her and I felt like she wanted to be touchy with me , she puts herself very close to me that our arms touch. She's a really strange person but i refuse to believe that all of this is nothing.
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I have a crush, ofc. But I have trouble; I don't want to be with my crush. I find myself looking at them, wishing I could talk to them, but I, myself, don't want that. I can see myself talking to them, but don't want to. I just want this feeling to go away. Sometimes I'm doing something random, and when I look up, my eyes automatically find them. Like today they had they're shirt off, and it was just really hard not to stare. It is really frustrating.
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was just scanning my old message history with my crush i think he asked me out and i just brushed him off. time to stress over something that happened a long time ago!
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Let's me start of by saying I'm asexuall and greyromantic. Now I'm a lot more people know what asexuality is than greyromantic is, so greyromantic is when you're in the gray area between aromantic and Allo, but really easily explained, it's when you can feel romantic but extremely rarely or infrequently. Obviously it differs how rarely, but for me, my whole life I have only had romantic feelings for one person, who we shall call my crush. I don't really remember when it started, but it was probably sometime late last year. And me it was so wired, cuz you know it was my first ever crush, and it was kinda funny because obviously she was first and only crush, but at first I actually didn't think I had a crush on her for some reason. Like she is the the only person who has given me butterflies, only persen who has made me smile by just thinking about them, but for some reason in the start just refused to accept u had s crush on her. But that was then, but oh my god do i still like her, when I tell you I crumble by her just looking at me, i mean it. But the thing is I suffer from this thing called "serious self doubt". And because of this i just don't think I have a chance in the world with her. Or i just don't know, right now I honestly don't know what our relationship is. Are we friends, just two people who know eachother. The thing is, we do know eachother, we talk every once in a while, but we don't really know eachother well, by that we don't really know anything about eachother. But the thing is, i obviously want to get to know her better. And i do think we're close enough where it wouldn't be weird if I started hanging around her and her friends, but and and this is a big but, my social skills are actually so bad it's honestly scary. I just don't know how to start talking to her or start hanging out with her and her friends. And the scariest part is i honestly don't know if they'd like that, I have no idea what they actually think about me. And one of the reason's i wouldn't be surprised if they kinda didn't like me are my friend's. My friend group and my crush's friend group are actually complete opposite. And honestly I would rather be apart of hers then mine, but again my social skills are in fact lakking. But yeah I feel her group just fits me more, and really wanna be a part of it, but they probably don't know that, because they probably think I'm like all my friends. But I'm not. And if we got to know eachother I'd hope she would realise that, and then I might actually have s chance. But one of my friends ( not a part of the friend group ) thinks I have a chance now, and trying so hard to make me go for it. But the thing is he doesn't know I'm greyromantic, so he doesn't know she's my only crush, and might be for the rest of my life. And that's really holding me back from going for it, cuz if I go for it, and then fuck it up, what do then, wait for my next crush, that might never happen. I just feel like she is my only chance of getting a gf, but then again I also think I have no chance with her, what the fuck do I do.
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So last week I (17M) realized I was crushing really hard on a friend (17F). Within that week we FaceTimed twice where she was doing tarot card readings. She did a love reading on me which described my next partner. The cards gave a somewhat accurate description of her, especially when it said that my next partner had the same zodiac sign as her. These calls lasted pretty late and divulged into her talking/reminiscing about her previous endeavours with other guys. So do I still have a chance?
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I've been friends with this person for a while now and recently found out that we both had a crush on eachother before becoming friends. I still have feelings for them and I'm not sure if they do also. I would really like to tell them, but they are one of my closest friends at the moment and I don't want to ruin our friendship if they don't feel the same. Should I tell them how I truly feel about them or just keep it inside to maintain our friendship? Edit: I TOLD THEM AND THEY SAID THAT THEY LIKE ME TOO YAYAYAAYAYA THANK YOU
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I confessed to her a month ago and she confessed too! But ever since then she’s been quieter then normal, and i have started EVERY text conversation since then. A week ago I decided to stop texting first and she hasn’t texted since. In general I just haven’t enjoyed the past month for a couple reasons and I feel like I wanna end it, but I’m not sure how and what would be a nice way to do it, or even if I should at all. Any advice?
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so I (F16) recently started my second job at a craft store, where 99% of the people working there are queer in one way or another (like me) and when I first started, on my first day, my coworker (F17) came up to me and introduced herself. she wanted to know my age and was so happy when she learned we were both in high school cause she wasn’t the youngest anymore. she asks me all sorts of get to know you questions and comes and stands next to me for no reason sometimes, and whenever I look up at her she is always already looking back. I find her looking at me often. she gives me compliments a lot and smiled at me. she was gone for a week or two cause she got really sick but she came back today and my shifts are better with her. she dresses kinda queer and has dyed red hair (not orange, like blood red) and like I said the people who tend to work at the craft store are as my mom calls it, “alternative, but in a good way” people i wanna make her a present to show i like her in like a gay way, but I don’t know what to get. what can I get her or do to know I’m like gay?? also my coworker at my other job has had a crush on me for a long time and I like him back a lot so idk what I should do about like anything at this point so any advice is appreciated!
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Hi!! I want to talk about what I wanna do with my crush, and I wanna hear about what you guys want to do too!! I guess these are like, cute date ideas n stuff. I’m thinking about telling him I like him or something soon, so now it’s brought up a ton of ideas of what I could do with him if we become a thing!!! (And I’m thinking about this stuff because I’m pretty damn sure he likes me back, soooo…) I had this really cute idea of walking around downtown where I’m from, since during the holidays they put up lights on every building and it looks so cuuute!!! I’ve walked with friends but walking downtown while it’s snowing and all the Christmas lights up and Christmas music playing… ah… it’s my dream date. Cutest thing in the world. Another idea I had was going to this outdoor ice skating place…? I can’t remember what it’s called but it’s in Detroit and I’ve been there once before!!! Except the only problem is that he can’t skate…. Literally my first interaction with him was dragging him off the ice because he didn’t know how. Honestly though, if I had to hold his hand the whole time, I’d be totally fine. I also want to go see a movie with him. He’s said a few times that he loves the movie theaters and I think going there would be so fun??? Maybe to see a scary movie???? Maybe???? I really liked cuddling with him and watching Encanto and maybe we could do that again one day but I NEED TO CONFESS FIRST JUST TO GET IT OFF MY SHOULDERS ITS SO OBVIOUS BUT I JUST NEED TO SAY IT BECAUSE ITS KILLINGG MEEEE But yeah those are just a few ideaaaas ahahehehe
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A while back I admitted to my crush that I had feelings for her. She wanted to be friends and for a month she ignored me in class. Last week she started talking to me as if she likes me again and gave me signs that she does, but in class today, nothing. I don't know what to do because when I tried talking to her today she was very dry. I still really like her but I'm getting very mixed signals which makes me sad because I don't know if this will ever work out :(
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im Legit curious, I wants best for them. I wil love them as friends forev. Still though, what should I do?
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Me and my girlfriend were on call talking about cooking and how good I was at cooking. And she texted me, “You would make a great husband for somebody one day-“ Immediately after that she got super embarrassed and flustered and couldn’t handle it. She hung up the call but I called her back and she picked up. I heard her being embarrassed. God I love this girl- :)
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1st of September 2022 - A week before college- okay just need to clear a few things up for context. I live in the uk. uk college isn’t the same as american college. in uk college you can do courses in things like hairdressing, plumbing,nursing etc… from ages 16 and upwards after leaving secondary school. this will make sense later. So… back to the story… A week before college started me and my friend went to mcdonald’s. I saw one of the workers walk past and thought he was weirdly attractive and told her about it. I made eye contact with him twice and caught him staring at me from the car park outside (he was delivering food to a parked car and i was sat by the window) i didn’t think too much of it. my friend told me to go talk to him or something but i didn’t. i left, completely forgot about him and never expected to see him again. first day of college. i go into a classroom and sit down. the mcdonald’s worker is sat in the seat directly facing me. this might seem like just a coincidence. but here are a few things to take into consideration… - both of us live appx 7 miles away from our college. both of us could have chosen a college closer to us. as it is insanely inconvenient for us to get there. we both have to get a bus that only comes once there and back and if we miss it we have to get the train which isn’t frequent at all (the only direct transport) and walk for half an hour from the train station to our college. - there are 6 classes that are running our course (engineering btw) he could’ve been in one of the other classes. - the day that i saw him i remember seeing the time and it was 11:22 and my mate told me to make a wish. so yep… anyways i have now developed a crush on him so…. also i went into his work to double check it was him on one of the days i knew he’d most likely to be in (i knew he worked there but he didn’t know that i knew that he worked there because he never told anyone and he didn’t recognise me he just told me he thinks he’s met me before) anyways me and the same mate from earlier went into his work and he was in!!! and he was also working on when they call your food out. i ended up with my heart beating so fast and hiding behind the order machines. when i finally ordered i went over and he saw me and smiled at me and put his thumbs up (which is kind of an inside joke) gave my mate her order (i was so jealous) and also apparently he was staring right at me as we left. it was so weird because we used to be complete strangers… but now he actually acknowledges me? mad. still trying to wrap my head around how that even happened. anyways that’s about it!! if anyone one wants updates or anything or would like to here more lmk because i have lots of stories about this i’d love to share! okay that’s it :)
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Around 7 weeks ago I got injured and I'm wearing crutches since I can't walk properly for a long amount of time. Today, me and him did a math Olympiad (unfortunately we did it in separate classrooms), and it was time to leave. I got really upset when I saw he left before me but then it turned out he was at the other side of the street waiting for the bus. I went to hug him and say "hi" and "bye" and a woman pointed out to me "you're going to trip on your shoelaces". I can still get up and down a bit despite the crutches, so I said I'd do it myself, but he did it for me anyways. I know this seems like basic politeness to all of you, but if you got the view of your crush tying your shoelaces for you, you wouldn't care how logical the situation was either
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Thats what it is, yesterday I told her what I felt and she answered "I like you too, but I don't want anything serious, can we be friends with benefits?". What would you guys do? It's your crush, and you can be with her, but also she isn't only for you... :(.
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I'm 24 , I haven't been in a relationship in 2 years. I have a guy friend who I met at work . We hangout a lot , like go out almost every week. We have kissed a couple of times. I never shared about feelings with him. Yesterday he told me that he feels like I have some feelings for him and he doesn't feel the same for me.I just wanted some advice on how to get over a crush or atleast how to cope with this.
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I haven't been here in about 3 or so years. And I came back here, after making an alt for something else and thought I could check it out. So last time I was here, I would post about a girl and I got lots of great advice and thought it would interesting to say where I am with her now. Me and this girl are at very good point, for about a year nearly me and her have been saying "I love you" to each other and that sort of stuff. I used to make posts about me asking questions but now looking back I just was oblivious. So, you may not care, but thank you to this subreddit, looking from the point I am at now. This subreddit is the reason for my said (possible) success. (If you count that as a success)
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So i’ve been with this girl since last year and it was going well until it started getting toxic i’m not going too in depth but things aren’t going well. Recently, i met this girl at this uni and the way i feel about her is something else and i’m pretty sure she likes me bck but i don’t know what to do
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I post quite a few times in this subreddit (like 90% of my posts are on this) Mostly because one of my friends said "those internet people aren't always helpful" and I post way often about little things, but this is basically how it is going with her. I think the most she thinks about me is eh, fine I geuss. Because when I confessed, she said she doesn't want to date anyone. So yeah, I know everything she does doesn't mean she likes me, like before the summer I always get dopomean every time she Glances at me, but the very rare times she does now, I don't think about it too much. I just pass it off as "she is probably just looking around" or 'Eh, she said she doesn't want to date." I still overthink about tiny things, like should I go up to her and give her a stucker, or something like that? The first time we talk was when I did that and she really, really liked it. Another thing I think about from time to time, is why did she seem like she kinda liked me before the summer and now she probably doesn't notice me? She used to do things like: ask to be my partner bery exitedly, look at me, and be very happy and excited to see me, but now she barly looks at me, and when I say something to her she says a few words, very normaly. I think maybe it was because she naturally lost any interest she could have had, or maybe it was because I didn't dance with her when I asked her out and she said maybe? I want to talk to her, but I never have anything to say, or too nervous. Every time I look at her I want to soooo badly, give her a big hug, kiss her, hold hands stuff like that. Sometimes I think to just give up, but I never seriously think that, I know I probably couldn't do that, she is just too cute. That's basically how I am with crushing on her. I'm just going to wait, maybe talk to her when I have the chance. I will only post an update when the next, or next next dance comes, to say what she said.
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So I’m 15 and haven’t even spoken to this girl before but she’s in a few of my classes and is just so so pretty. She’s really quiet, but wow. I don’t want it to be obsessive but sometimes my heart skips a beat when I see her and kinda sinks into my chest for a moment. Is this a good sign I am crushing on her? Sometimes I can’t take my eyes of her and I occasionally stare (not great I know but sometimes I literally can’t help it, my eyes just are glued to her). Anyone else relate?
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I'm so confused because this guy is super chatty with everyone and jokes around with them, and he used to be like that with me. Lately though if we're alone in the back or something he hardly talks to me. He'll still make a few jokes if I do something, but he's not as chatty with me as everyone else. But I have caught him looking at me, and when I catch him, he looks away.
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There’s this girl I went to ask out because we have a good connection and bond but we barely talk to each other and are in pretty different friend groups. Should I try dming her for a conversation? Idrk what to do. We haven’t talked in a while either. But I kinda want to act on it just it’s difficult.
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Man I'm just saying, that's crazy. I've been to an american car meet today and being the car enthusiast I am, I had to take a picture of every car on the block. Purely for fun, I posted all of them on my instagram story. 42 pictures. I check instagram an hour later, what do I see? Someone hearted my story. I didn't even know you could do that. I clicked to see who did it. And it was *her*. Liked all 42 pics. Damn. I mean, *damn*. I dunno if this means anything, but it feels like something.
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So I’m a freshman at university and since I saw this guy who’s sophomore according to my investigations;) I just can’t get him out of my head. I followed him on insta and he followed me back. SINCE I AM SO STUPID I replied to his story some kind of nonsense and his response was dry af. I have no idea what to do or how to get to know him PLEASE HELP
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When I (M16) text her (F16) she take hours to answer and when we meet in highschool she ignores me or juste smile at me from far but never talks to me. I really started talking w/ her about 1 year ago. But when we finish school at the same time I walk with her to her place and we talk while we are walking (abt 3 min). When we talk she is very smiley and laughs to all my jokes (Idk if she is just being polite or I am really funny). I just need to know if she is interested in me or should I move on..
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Hey all, I'm looking for some advice on what I should do with my college crush (F19). I'm a M19 and currently taking a particular course in college once a week for the past 4 weeks and I have like 3 more weeks remaining. So, the crush I have is a shy person who hardly talks, just like me, however, she always smiles at me, and only me whenever she enters the class. The only interaction we have is when we exit the class and I open the door for her. I've tried so hard to find her profile online like Instagram, but no luck. I've been thinking about how I can talk to her but I feel shy whenever I'm around her. So, I'm thinking to write a handwritten note about how I feel and that I want to get to know her a bit more, etc. I'm wondering if anyone has ever done the same, and if you did how did it go? I'm considering writing a note because I feel that she might like it and I know that if I don't do this then this crush might just leave my sight before I know it. Thank you and please give me feedback.
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Hi 14(F) here I need advice on how to talk to my crush 14(M).I have him in one of my classes and same lunch period yet I can’t find the courage to talk to him. I’ve caught him staring at me from time to time but idk if it’s because he’s staring at me,someone else or it’s a coincidence. Like yesterday during class when we were reading everyone was laughing,yet he would stare at me every time I laughed. I’ve also seen him around school a bunch of times coincidentally and we somehow manage to make eye contact. I want to get closer to him and get to know him better but idk how since I’m kind of shy and introverted pls help.
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Okay so I've liked this boy for quite a while, I stopped liking him over the summer because I didn't see him but as soon as we went back to school I instantly got a crush on him again because he's just amazing. Problem is I don't really know if he likes me back, i am well-known by my friends for being shockingly oblivious when it comes to stuff like this (like to an extreme, I wish I was being dramatic) so yeah I could kind of use a second opinion. Reasons why he might like me: • people constantly say we have chemistry (like not just one person, pretty much everyone we hang out with (a group of about 10 people) and even some people we don't hang out with) and neither me nor him denies it • his twin sister literally thought we were dating, I don't really have a lot to say about this one lmao • he blushed at something I said yesterday, as in his face turned fully pink (which was cute as hell but still) • he lets me tell him loads about the stuff I like (I do the same for him ofc) • I've seen him looking in my direction a few times before and like smiling • when he laughs he looks at me (I've heard that that's like a psychology thing that indicates someone likes you but idk if that's true) Reasons why he might not like me: • we are really close, like he's probably one of my best friends currently, so all this could easily be platonic • He is generally just a really nice person, like he is easily the kindest person that I know and even though it seems slightly different with me it could just be that he's like this with everyone. Those are the main reasons I can think of but there's probably more. I don't even know if I'd do anything about even if he did like me back because hes one of my best friends and i dont want to risk losing him, I'm probably going to end up quietly simping until I move on. Honestly I don't think he likes me back but as I mentioned I am probably one of the most oblivious people on the planet, so yeah a second opinion would be nice.
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Okay its already 2AM here in my country and I can't sleep. I don't know I'm probably crazy, there's this pain that fades and then keeps going back. I feel hurt atleast thats what I'm going through right now. I can't believe I will post in here just to share my experience with the person I like. I like her after for like 2 weeks I met her in person (our first meet and interaction is online call and chats) She's a nice girl, probably a really talkie one but she's actually a good girl deep inside, well mannered than me. You know she has some kind of flaws that made me think "What do I like about that girl? What did I saw from her?" But you know guys it just hard cause I really don't have a choice just to accept that we can't be together because of so many reasons... Like this is sucks, really sucks hahahah In the end, we just friend and it still hurts me today My mind is mess, still hurt and I can't sleep its so annoying. This is why I shared my experience cause I think it will help me to voice out. I can't tell my parents at all and my other friends of mine Cause i feel like they will not interested Guys I'm freaking tired just so tired right now I hate this!
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I'm in high school and there's this guy I met in my class and I used to watch him from afar while I didn't have many friends. After being put in the same groups for assignments a couple of times, we've started naturally talking to each other more. He made a joke one time and when I laughed, he smiled and continued trying to be goofy. Once we were watching a movie in class and he and I sat together. We whispered back and forth a couple of times and were laughing together about whatever was happening during the film. At the end of the movie and the lights came back on, the teacher said for everyone to get our phones back from the front. Our rule in that class is to put our phones in numbered slots so we don't get distracted with them. My crush asked me, "which slot did you put your phone in?" I told him I put mine in 5 and he said he'd get it for me. I thought it was a nice thing of him to do but I didn't think too much of it. However after he gave me my phone, he said, "wait, can I borrow your phone really quickly? I just need to do something." I still didn't think much of what he was saying so I automatically said, "sure what do you need?" He responded with, "Your number." It really caught me off guard. We have a mutual friend who were working with in class and she gad this green marker. She decided to scribble a smiley face on my hand. I thought it was funny and she let me use it to draw a smiley face on her too. I then told me crush, "Let me draw something for you." He immediately held out his arm and I scribbled a tiny flower on his hand. Our mutual friend laughed, "Hey, I asked to draw on you too but you said no. How come she (me) gets to do it?" My crush didn't answer her but the moment stuck with me till this day. Lastly, I had a small rubber toy purple cat. (It was given to me by the staff of my huge apartment complex on our Resident's Appreciation Party. They were handing out prizes and there was a big buffet for the neighbors.) I noticed that the cat was a combination of things my crush likes - he loves cats and his favorite color is purple. I decided I'd give it to him when I saw him again. I explained to him, "when I saw it, I just knew it was a mix of your favorite things." He said, "I'm glad it made you think of me. Thank you." Do you think he likes me too?
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I put my friend in contact with my crush. I regret it. My crush wasn’t even pressuring my friend to say anything, it’s almost as if they did it for fun. He never said whether he liked me back or not, but I know he doesn’t want a relationship. Now it’s gonna be awkward. I’m so mad at my friend. After they found out how mad I was, they said they shouldn’t have told me. ME. No, not shouldn’t have told my crush I like him, but shouldn’t have told me that they told him.
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Previously I told about my crush (also my coworker that gonna transfer to another office) I asked him if we can have pictures together and he smiled and said yes. Since both of us accidentally having red black attire on that day. I felt satisfied finally having our pictures together. Today, I saw his old images on his social media account. I found that he didn't smile alot on those images. I compared with our images. He smiled widely. I never see thought that mine was the widest smile that I saw till this day.
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I like this guy, hes really nice and shy. not to outgoing. Ive been trying to be his friend for a while now and ive told a few friends that I like him. Today one of my friends told be straight and simple that he told her to tell me he didnt like me. the way she said felt off like she was lieing...what do i do?
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I just found out that there's a rumor she sucked someone's dick and it makes me sick to my stomach to hear. If it makes more since we're in 8th grade in a Catholic school so that's why it hurts so much especially since I've liked her since last year...
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i've (16F) recently gotten into a situationship with this guy (17M). he's a senior, one grade above me, and we have a mutual friend which is how i got to know him. the mutual friend told me a couple days before i got into this situationship that she'd heard his body count was quite high. i also asked him about it and he said honestly that his body count was indeed pretty high. he said that he'd racked up most of them in a period of time during quarantine, and then almost all of the rest when he had just gotten out of a long-term relationship about a year ago and was emotionally in chaos. he always calls it a bad decision and when i talked about this to him he was very understanding and said that he regrets a lot of it but that he can't change the body count thing now since it's already happened. he also mentioned without me asking that in the past, most of his relationships had not lasted very long, and i don't know what to think about that either. he seems like a good person, though he's a bit eccentric. also, i hadn't known him for very long before we got into a situationship, which was a little weird to me, but when i asked him about it he said that he saw no point in waiting because if he'd waited then i might have stopped liking him and that it turned into a good thing anyways. he's told me that his intention with me isn't to just hook up, because he said if it was he would have brought it up by now, which he hasn't. he's been nothing but caring and respectful; he always listens to me, asks about what i want and regularly asks for my opinions and thoughts, and from what i hear about him from other people he seems like a genuinely good person. apparently he's also quite anti-social and doesn't hang out with people much, but he's started hanging out with my friend group occasionally because of our mutual friend. can anyone offer some thoughts or advice? i'm relatively new to the dating scene (i've been in two relationships and have had a couple of situations, but none of them lasted very long either) so i don't really know what to do. thanks
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I have a guy friend. I treat him like a friend, and I talk to him a lot. I feel like I’m leading him on though, cause every time I talk to him, he blushes. For me, I’m always really talkative to guy friends and just boys j don’t like at all, but I’m REALKY shy to my crush.am I also kinda leash guy crush on too? Does my crush think I like my friend? Cause sometimes when I talk w my guy friend my crush looks kinda sad, like jealous or smth.(maybe I’m overthinking,but he’s acts different when I talk to other guys). My guy friend prob doesn’t like me (I hope) but if he does, but should I do? Cause I don’t wanna just be like, “I don’t like u” and friendzkne him cause he’s a good friend and I don’t want to lose a friend Also, for guys, what does it mean when a girl talks to you and just friendly? Does u think it means she likes you?
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Update: I didn’t get to tell him today because i felt so nervous and another guy kept flirting with me so yeah. Encourage me: PLEASE give me any helpful tips & encourage me to do it. I’m gonna try to do it tomorrow since its a short day for me.
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If you’ve asked someone out, where did you ask then out? Hallway? A classroom? If you haven’t, or you’re about to ask someone out, where are you asking them out?
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When my crush sees me in the hall, she calls my name in a whisper-like tone. Small to where it’s kinda hard to hear, but enough to where I can hear her and know that it’s her. For some damn reason I really like that… Now I need to know if she’s taken
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Me and my friend decided to skip our last class together to go walk around town abit and when we walked past my crushes school(we go to different schools) I joked about going and talking to him. We walked past a part and when we got about 5 minutes away from the park I started talking to him on snap and I asked him if he wanted some of my drink(were good friends and I wanted to be nice), he said he wasn't at school and he was at the park we just past. Me and my friend started walking back to go talk to him and he started walking back towards his school. ( me and my friend were on the road next to his school and the park is about 5 minutes away from the park). We met him in a back ally and me and him were messing around with our knives and making inside jokes about it, no we didn't actually hurt each other its just a joke we have. We went separate ways but ended up meeting up again pretty much where me and my friend were before. We all went and sat near a tree behind his school and just chilled there for around 45 minutes and talked to each other about some random shit until my sister in-law picked me and him up.(hes a family friends kid as well so he was helping my brother in-law with a job). So in total I got to hang out with him for around 2 and a half hours today😊.
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I just love him so much. Everything about him. His smile, his laugh, the way he says my name. hes so kind and loving, funny and smart. How hes able to just look at me and brighten my day. Id hate to be poetic but hes the light in the dark, the break in the rain, and the feeling you get just after holding your breath when you finally exhale. If we dont get together I'll be fine with that as long as he knows how much i genuinely cherish him.
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So idk if its normal to feel this way but i dont like having crushes.Idk when i have one (which is rare) i feel like they are more like an hyperfixation and i feel sometimes horrible about myself i want to change for this person but the things is if he was to actually like me I woudnt want to be with him.I guess im asking if its normal to mixe up platonic and romantic feelings for someone?
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It seems like such an impossible task😭 now obviously I know it’s not gonna happen out of no where just by hoping that we will someday. But what are the general steps to take. We’re only school friends, as in we are friends and talk to each other, but only during school and after school events/extracurriculars we’re both in, but not outside of school at all/in any form. I do have her contact and she has mine as well because we are In group chats FOR the extracurriculars we’re both in. We also follow each other on snap and Instagram, but once again don’t interact other than the basic viewing each others stories liking posts etc.. the boring stuff. I haven’t had a crush on her for that long, but how do I go about this?
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i wanna ask him for his snap but every time im about to ask him i either get interrupted or chicken out, or i just dont know how to bring it up
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I've got this STEM course, there's this girl, she's either really tactfully clever or she's not very bright. Her and I are always the last ones to leave but I stay late because I have to talk with my professor for another class. Not only does it seem suspicious that she always seems to be the last one with me but during class I think she legit waits for me to do the demo so that she can do it with me. She seems pretty chill and laughs at my jokes. Here's the thing though, I'm like the kind of guy that only wins people over by personality. I never really attract people this quickly (if that's the case) by physical appearance alone 99% of the time, they'd have to be into my body type and, trust me on this, it's super rare. Anyways, I hate when this sort of thing happens, when I read into peoples actions from class because I don't want to make an assumption and end up making things awkward. I think since we're both the last ones usually, I might just ask her if she's got anyone to study with for the lecture portion and let her know where/when I study on campus. I wonder if she'd show.
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Your crush could be scrolling through all the r/crushes posts and see your post. I know I would DIE if mine saw what I’ve been saying because he would know immediately it was me 😱
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I was talking to a guy for only like 2 weeks, but he’s recently lost interest and it just ended really unexpectedly. I’m not gonna lie, I did a lot of things wrong which is making me deal with this very badly, but I can’t help but feel so.. ugly ??? Like I don’t consider myself ugly, but every time I look in the mirror I can’t help but feel like I’m not pretty anymore. It’s like I lost my self love because of a failed talking stage that only lasted 2 weeks, and I just don’t know how to get past this.
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I just want to be near her it's one of those nights where you wish the day never ended especially with how little I got to talk to her it really sucks I'm going to see her tomorrow but time feels like it will never pass hopefully the teacher gives us independent work so we can talk it was only one day but it's hard I hope some miracle happens where we can have another class together but that's only a hope
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we were on a type of "hike" at school today with other classes and i did drop my phone and didn't even notice, till she made her way to where i was (which was far as fuck btw) to give it back to me. kinda creepy she knew it was exatcly my phone since we almost never talk, and she did saw on the ground and immediately recognized as mine tho. the only "sad" is that i didn't get to thank her. not because i couldn't, it was simply because i didn't want to if i'm being honest.
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Ok so I had a crush on her before I found out she was in a relationship around exactly a month ago when she started telling people, so I stopped trying to pursue anything out of respect for the relationship but I did regret not doing anything about it. But Im guessing it wasn’t a serious relationship because it lasted only part of summer and a few weeks of school, and she also never claimed him as her boyfriend but simply told people how they were dating. I over heard from a conversation between her and a friend(yes I know I was eavesdropping😒) a few days ago how after a couple dates they stopped dating because things just didn’t work out, and she didn’t really sound sad which is also another reason to believe it wasn’t too serious of a thing they had. I don’t know when exactly they stopped but it had to be within the last month obviously since I found out about this this past week, and learned they were dating a month ago. The other thing is we have each others socials and phone numbers(because of extracurriculars we’re both in) and both consider each other friends but we don’t talk at all outside of school. I also haven’t noticed any obvious signs of flirting from her, although we have had a couple tease-y/flirty moments within the last week and she did compliment my hair when we were talking about haircuts but nothing that significant. How do I go about this?
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We had a longer weekend because of the holiday. I got a lot of work at home done, which is nice, but I miss him. I wonder if he misses me too :( He texted me (which he never really does), which was great… but i’m scared he was just being friendly. As I mentioned before, he’s a really sweet guy and i’m scared he’s just being nice to me because he’s nice. Sometimes I feel like these feelings are mutual, but other times, I feel like a creep. 😔
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So this girl in my theater group and I have been friends for about a year (not terribly close or anything and she’s also two grades younger(I’m 17 and she’s 16)). I didn’t really feel anything towards her. Anyways like two weeks ago during our rehearsals for the play she came up and just hugged me for no reason, and ever since then she doesn’t keep away from me. She doesn’t respond to my snaps that quickly but at school she wanted to be in the same group project with me in the one actual class we have together and she’ll also say she loves me and like playfully shove me and stuff. I’ve kinda started to like her back too, but I’ve never been in a relationship before or have asked out a girl and I have no idea what to do. I’m two years older too and that might be a little weird ig and I also can’t drive and live pretty far away from school. Help or advice would be greatly appreciated!
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When I was in 8th grade I had developed a crush on someone I sat next to in history near the beginning of the school year. We were having our seats changed eventually and I was devastated because I wouldn't be sitting next to him anymore. But by my luck, our new seats were right next to each other. But thinking back to this, it was probably because I was obvious and the teacher sat us next to each other for his own amusement lol
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I like a guy, but I have another guy friend. For me, I’m really talkative w guys I don’t like at all, but I’m super shy to the guy I like. My guy friend, I notice he blushes when I talk to him, I’m not sure. But I don’t want to think I like him and I don’t want to just go,” I don’t like you” to him. Because I’m not sure if he does, and I feel bad friendzoning. I always talk to him cause he’s my friend, I treat him like a friend. But for guys, when a girl always talks to you, do u think she likes you?
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So I like to sleep dressed up like a hobo, it’s just very comfy. Anyways, I just woke up and I was heading downstairs and I just see this mans on the coach staring at me and then he just says “aww looks like someone had just woken up”, I was really embarrassed cause he saw me look like a hot mess and the fact that it’s so obvious that I woke up late. I basically ran back upstairs and like made myself look presentable but when I came back down him and his dad already left :/.
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Speak
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Seriously, he smells so good, if I could share the scent of his perfume I would because it is so SOOOOOO good
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Whenever I walk past him in the classroom he almost always says hi, he caught me looking at him in math and I started to blush, AND when I was walking into the classroom coming back from the bathroom he stared at me the whole time I was walking to my seat with this big smile and his cheeks were kind of red. (Probably cuz I was red as a tomato) AND my friend confessed to him for me in Spanish!!!! He was confused. WHAT DO I DO????
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So im a highschool senior and i’ve got a crush on this girl who recently got a boyfriend. Now i don’t know what to do because i want to talk to her as i haven’t messaged her or anything yet, but if i talk to her i don’t want her to tell her boyfriend, and she’s obviously gonna tell him. But the guy isn’t a good boyfriend tho, there was a concert here recently and the guy was one of the most unloyal person there. Hugging and getting so close to other random girls. I have no idea on what to do right now, please help guys :(
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pretty much what the title says
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Any situation where we could talk wouldn’t be “natural”, and would seem very deliberate on my part. Should I just ask her out directly?
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