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Yeah nice feeling thinking about it
Edit: today is also her birthday | Crushes |
So as you can see from the title, I have been on here before and I told you my story. So let’s recap, It’s march and my family are going to Cuba for a vacation because like most of us Covid stop us🙄 But anyway we arrived at the resort and it’s SO hot there I get changed to my swim trunks and go for a swim and that’s when I see her, brown hair pretty and everything you would want like a good personality. So my parents arrived at the pool and start talking to her parents and me and her never really got to know each other until the 3rd day there I asked her if she would like to go the the water park because my brother was asking me to take him there, so she’s there and we got to know each other and on the last day she gave me a bracelet and I haven’t taken it of since.
So maybe a month after I couldn’t get her out of my head so I built up the courage to ask her the big question, Does she like me??? So maybe 2 minutes after she responded and it turned out she just got out of a relationship and wasn’t looking for anyone soon. So I was kinda upset but I can’t force someone to like me so I excepted it and moved on
So Today as I’m writing this in school I was thinking about her and just her in general and I get home and I’m on TikTok and she texts me because she was camping and I commented on on of her stories on Snapchat and she was talking how nice it was and how she was feeding animals but when I thought it was all over she asked if I still like her so I said YES and she as talking how she was scared to ask because what she said in April that she didn’t like me she thought I lost feelings for her but now it’s me and her and I wish I could find who gave me advice nd how to deal with things but I can’t find the person but if you’re reading this thank you SO much. | Crushes |
I don’t have any crushes and I know I don’t have any and I know I will never get any | Crushes |
I just wanted to let it all out! I have a crush on this guy I met last year, he is amazing! But it gets awkward sometimes, but hey! I'm glad I get to speak to him and see him. It's an awesome feeling, butterflies and all. I don't even care if he doesn't feel the same because I know that we have a friendship, and I'm glad we even have that. | Crushes |
This is a throw away account I just made because I don't want my friend seeing this. But the guy I like, I'll call X is my friend. I went to his house the other day and we were in his bed. I didn't think much of it. When we watched a movie I kissed or nibbled his neck a few times. Now to my surprise after the movie when our mutual friend left he bit my neck. Like multiple times. He teases me a lot, and likes to mess with my ears because they're also sensitive. Another thing he likes to do is pull out faces closer.
I don't know if it's Nsfw or not, but it's close enough im just keeping it safe Ig. I like him a lot and can't stop thinking about it. | Crushes |
So in my class there is someone that sits behind me and they are so interesting in my mind. They have a family tjat orginate in another country and they have such a cute accent and are wholesome as hell. When I am around them, I feel good inside and when we would go to another campus for a lesson, we would talk along the way and have such good conversations. Like we have been shipped by a one or two people but we were both slightly embarassed but not mad. When we have conversations we both agree so much and when we don't we have a calm argument that uses facts to support our points and it feels like we connect.
This is a weird post because idk if I like them and usually its a do they like me post. So anyone have any thoughts. | Crushes |
My crush is a girl i see every thursday on the bus and i want to talk to her, i could ask her name but after that what? I thought about asking her where is she going, but at least to me sounds a little intrusive, what do you think? Is a good question or is just out of place? What else can i ask and how can i keep the conversation going?
Please give me ideas. | Crushes |
i confessed to my classmate about three weeks ago (hes M16, and im F16). He didn't reject me but he told me that he has a lot of things going on in his life right now. We've texted a few times for a few hours, and we have exchanged a lot of moments in school. My friends noticed that hes always looking at me and smiling. He's been invited by my school recently to an event, where he can take someone with him. Should i bring it up? My friend told him to take someone with him, and i was there and i think that he got the hint that i want to go with him so he started smiling shyly. The only problem is that he isnt the one to text first. He is very off of his phone tho so i dont know if i should continue texting. I dont know what to do to like.. help develop or see if anything is possible between us because he told me a lot of things. Should i continue texting him? | Crushes |
TLDR: How do you know if a really introverted guy is still interested in you? Advice on liking a really shy coworker
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**In depth:**
I like this guy at work, he's veryyy shy and cute. A lot of girls at work like him and always try to talk to him to become friends but he always shoots them down nicely and goes back to work. I'm the only girl (that I know of lol) that he's close to at work. A couple of weeks before, he asked me out and we went out for breakfast and I thought it went really well! We had a lot of fun and we had a lot of big and little things in common (but we still had our likable differences too, there was nothing abt him so far that I didn't like) But now things have changed a bit. At first, we had a lot of shifts together or shifts that would overlap a bit so we could see each other a lot before one of us left or take our breaks together/visit each other in our departments. Now he's working a lot of earlier shifts and I barely see him. We have each other's phone # but he's not that good of a texter tbh. When we first started texting, he texted a little bit so we could have tiny conversations here and there. But now we never text and I don't blame him bc there are so many other things to do than text, we're busy 20-year-olds and texting doesn't define a relationship or connection. But I barely see him right now and I was kind of hoping he would want to talk a bit more or invite me out again :/ And idek if he's talking to someone new at work bc we don't work together rn. I want to explore the possibilities of us being together some more but idek if he wants to do it too and I don't want to be the person who keeps reaching out first over the phone. Idk if it's bc he's super introverted, not really into tech, or maybe just not into me? :( The last guy I liked lasted for 4 years and I've been out of the game for so long. Pls help lol | Crushes |
okay so this guy we’ll call him john and i have been awkwardly kind of flirting with each other for the past like 8 months. we’re both 16 and in high school for context. he’s the socially awkward type, as am i, so you can imagine that there’s been a little bit of difficulty but it’s been fine. recently i’ve added him on snapchat and for about two days he randomly was talking to me a lot and pretty obviously trying to flirt. however for the past two days he’s left me on delivered for really long periods of time like 7 hours but he’s still using snapchat with other people. he doesn’t talk to me in school a lot because we don’t run in the same circles but i’ve noticed he always looks at me like a lot, he’ll go longer ways to class so that he walks behind me, and he’ll talk about something louder if he knows i’m interested in it like a tv show we were talking about or the english class that we’re in together. i don’t understand why he just looks at me and doesn’t talk to me. i’m getting a lot of mixed signals and i don’t know whether to just let go of this crush. also i’m very new to this relationship thing so any advice would be gladly appreciated. | Crushes |
I don't think that this would normally be a problem, but they're currently in a relationship and I'm not sure what to do with myself. I caught feelings a couple months ago, and I was waiting it out in hopes that they'd go away but they haven't.
Obviously I don't want to say anything to them; it seems selfish to tell them that I like them just to get something off my chest if it'll potentially make things awkward between us, or even worse between them and their SO, but at the same time it's getting harder and harder to deal with.
The last thing I want to do is cut them out of my life, since they're a really good friend and I enjoy spending time with them, but so far my feelings have shown no signs of going away; if anything they've only grown more. I was hoping someone here could give me some advice on what to do, cause I'm feeling really lost right now. | Crushes |
Last night I had this really strange dream, and in it I was dating my ex-crush from a long time ago, even though I KNOW I am over her and she's dating someone else. We 100% keep the relationship platonic. We are practically best friends. I have no intent of dating her and vice versa. Am I not fully moved on from this stupid crush yet or is it just my brain trying to play tricks on me? | Crushes |
so you know how they say that "the worst they can say is no"? well I think I found out what it is. Confessed and she hasn't responded. nothing. Would've liked at least a "no" or something not this "I'm not gonna respond" bs, and honestly I'm really surprised she did this. I guess this is it. Whatever. I'm pretty pissed rn that I spent all this time stressing over her for nothing. But hey, I tried. At least I know she's not worth my time now anyways.
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Also yes I'm the one dude that was pretty active on here that had an F1 related name let's just say. So if you remember my old account and me, what's up sorry to disappoint you all. | Crushes |
So im not sure if i like this girl cause i dont really know what love feels like but the closest feeling i get is that i wanna talk with her all the time and i want her attention. But like im in a group chat basically with said crush and whenever she gives attention to other people i feel left out basically cause she dont really talk to me and loves to spam others to get their attention and likes to cling to others but not me. " Like im right here, i want sone attention too hey. "
Stupid bullshit people getting loads of love and attention pisses me off cause they get too much until that shit feels normal for them. I'd be lucky to get a convo that i didnt start with her and thats rarely. She only talks to me its cause everyone else is asleep so im picked for last always. Fml????
Any tips for getting noticed more or looking cooler for people would be appreciated | Crushes |
So there’s this girl I’ve had a crush on since April. Never spoke to her or anything. No contact with her at all. Now I’m planning on giving her a letter asking her to be friends before school ends and putting my number in it. Should I do it and what do I write in the letter like compliments or something. Fyi She’s way out of my league yet I have hope. Thanks! | Crushes |
Hey guys, need a bit of help. So from the beginning I've had a crush on this girl and most probably she has been my longest crush, like from the 2nd grade. Last year she texted me and probably it's was one of the best thing that has ever happened to me till now. We also went to see a movie, just the two of us. We vibe perfectly. But lately, we've been really busy with work and it's mostly from my side but I always have time for her. But I dunno what going on, on her side. In the month of May we've talked extremely less, and rn it's been a week since there have an exchange of texts between us. Should I text her? Or wait. It sometimes do feel that I put a lot of effort, but we both loved the time we spent with each other. And taking in consideration that she's my one and only crush going way back in time. | Crushes |
I’m probably 2 :’( | Crushes |
So… I NEVER EVER CONFESSED TO A PERSON EVER. I did that today… it was so awkward y’all. I told him that I had feelings for him and all that and if he wants to hang out after school tmr THAT TOOK A LOT OUT OF ME BTW. He responded saying how he needs to see because he has to take care of his sister and dad. Idk if he was happy or not tbh and that’s what scares me. I literally left home early because I didn’t want to see him in class. In a perfect world I hope he texts me telling me he can go but we don’t live in that so I really don’t know. Im starting to think confessing wasn’t the best choice. Im really petrified rn also another stress I have is that I might get a phone call later today telling me if I got hired for this job or not. I just called to see if she made a decision. She said she hasn’t and is thinking, I regret calling and she probs thinks I’m annoying now. Im just so confused idk what to say. Please give me some advice!!! | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on this girl since the school year began. It’s kinda my first true crush I guess. She’s super sweet and nice and I’ve just been too scared to make a move. Today, she confessed to me! Nothing else to say, I just wanted to share my success :) | Crushes |
ik you have Reddit but I’ll take my chances when I say I don’t think you would care or think twice it you saw this. I’m sorry for not being there with you when they passed. I’ve seen you literally at your lowest, you were a cute baby and mentally at your lowest. I’ve seen how you were so immature when we met and how you started to open up through the years. I saw you relapsed with they passed, shutting yourself out. I’ve seen you with Covid and I’ve seen you mature within the last year really and literally rise to be ngl really popular and athletic. we aren’t that close anymore but I still care about you. you got Covid and I freaked out. but your personality has matured but hasnt changed. you don’t care about me. i don’t think you ever will. | Crushes |
we take lessons from the same teacher and we used to be apart of the same group for an extracurricular activity we did together. Today was like a get together at our teachers house were we played around and stuff. He’s the oldest and I’m two years younger than him. He’s relatively a quieter person and I’m the only one he actually knows out of my teachers students. Gosh- he basically ignored me the entire time and didn’t look at me or whatnot. We would occasionally (very lightly) text abt stuff related to common things but I haven’t spoken to him in a long time (digitally).
The last time we met up it was with our group where the other two in our group pretty obv have a thjng for each other so it would always be them two together and my crush and I together. He even patted my hair last time and it was perfect because I’m shorter then him at a nice height, idk how to phrase it. we even sat on the time side of a booth when eating out with our group. And today happens and yeah… | Crushes |
This is long, so bear with me. Okay, so this isn't a crush, instead a boyfriend who I'm hopelessly in love with. I posted about him before. And I love every damn thing about him. I accept every flaw. And as of writing this, tomorrow will be our 3 months. Well, school had just ended Friday. And we had made summer plans. But he failed a few classes resulting in summer school which his mother was not too happy about. So, he got grounded and had his phone taken away. We were talking about it on the second to last day on the school bus which we both get on because we're practically neighbors. He said he can't even remember the last time he got grounded. And when he gets his phone taken away, it's really only for a week and his mom is not the snooping type. Though that short amount of time is not guaranteed this time around. Today is one week exactly that he got his phone taken away. And where do I even start? I don't even know what to do now that I can't even contact him. First of all, he's the only person I care enough to hang out with outside of school because he is the only person who cared enough to get to know me and actually engage in my life. I had one other person who also did this, but sometimes he's too serious and most times pessimistic. So, I focus on my lover. Now, I can wait patiently. I have no problem doing that. But the problem is I have no idea when the next time I will see or talk to him is. It's the not knowing part that's killing me. And it pains me he's not in my life right now. Especially when every little thing reminds me of him. Even rain. So, our last interaction was on Friday, I cried into his shoulder. He told me to stay strong for him, also that he would be there for me in the summer but just not right now. He also told me the first thing he would do when he got his phone back is text me to let me know. So, I kept my distance but also cried about the fact that I wouldn't see him for a long time. Who knows how long? Fast forward to Sunday, I sent him a pic of my cat on a skateboard and said here's something to admire when you get your phone back. Monday night, I sent a pic of the drawing I sketched out which was of the pic we took of him kissing my cheek. And I practically said the same thing. I was prepared to text him no more. Though I weirdly had a good feeling about Tuesday and Thursday. fast forward to Tuesday morning, I went on messenger. I saw he was active 20 minutes ago. I was shocked and suddenly hopeful. So, I sent one last message saying hope summer is treating you well. The text delivered and was read. But no response. But I presumed he was busy due to summer school. So, I thought to myself to give him some time. Well, 30 minutes turned to an hour, turned to 2, turned to 3, eventually to 24 hours. At 3 hours though, I shot him a text saying, did you get your phone back? But then I realized that could've been his mom on though he said she wasn't the snoopy type. This made me freak out as there were some admittedly concerning texts that if she backtracked into the convo and saw, it would make any normal mom demand her son to stop seeing the girl which in this case is me. So, I shot a longer text saying if this is his mom, here's a formal apology. I care for your son; I would do anything to make him happy. Have a good day. Luckily, because it was messenger, I scrolled back up to unsend my side of the texts that way if she didn't see it before, she wouldn't now. But who's to say it was her? It could have been him sneaking a quick peak while she was busy. Or something like that. But also 2 hours in, his phone turned back off. I know this because I called, and it took me straight to voicemail. And also, my texts weren't delivering, just sending. This got my hopes up. And I hope his mom didn't see that convo because that could possibly mean break up which would break me. And Tuesday's events sent me into a spiral. I sent him a love letter over school email which I know he wouldn't check, I had decided to write him a song, post poems that don't mention his name, spray his hoodies with axe body spray, practice skating so I can impress him next time we hang out. I'm really hoping for the best here and that he'll get back to me soon, and that we can continue to be together. Today, I just called him twice to try to create the perfect voicemail which I could not. I deleted both texts from yesterday. And sent two last messages. A happy 3 months in advance, plus see you when you get your phone back. And I'm going to keep it at that. I'm not obsessive, I'm just clingy and want to get my point across that I care deeply which hasn't really worked except for the messages from Monday and Sunday. I know I'm too attached. But I'm going to leave it at this. But I also think about him often because now that school is out and I have nothing to do, my brain naturally goes to him. Plus, my doubts. Partially the fault of classmates. A friend tried to convince me that he checks out other girls. Another friend tried to convince me that he may not love me but is only with me for attention, affection, and gifts. Also, my main doubt is now that we're going to be apart for some time, perhaps he'll slowly lose feelings for me. I'm scared, I've lost too many partners over summer break though we both agreed it wouldn't go down like that. I'm just troubled man. But I still have a weirdly good feeling for tomorrow regarding him. | Crushes |
I have a crush on this guy I know, we are friends... at least I’d like to think so. We play video games together, hangout with friends, help each other with homework ( usually him doing all the helpful) and we talked about our crush’s before too. He said that he has a crush on a girl. And that girl is my close friend, but he doesn’t know that I know that. My friend is not interested in him at all. Keep in mind she doesn’t know I like him. He asked her out to grad, she said no. I’m not sure if I should keep my distance and just stay friends with him, or if I should take my chance and ask him. Even lie and say to go as friends. Not sure. Also he liked her for 5 years I liked him for 3 And it seems that they will not have a future together . What should I do pls help:)
Edit: should I tell him I like him or stay friends. Also I might be reading into this. But I might have some sort of interest in me?? Not sure | Crushes |
He always leave me sended for about 10 hours. In that time he has been online several times and his snapscore goes up. At the first I thought he likes me bc he always said good night etc.. Im gonna tell him about my feelings and if things fall apart I dont know what to do. | Crushes |
# there is a older guy on my bus that i like me and him have never really talked and i dont know if he likes me he stares at me somedays and then not the others but when he sees me with my guy friends he most of the time stares at me and them and i keep going back and forth wheather he likes me or not
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Hey all, I [18M] recently started a new job, and pretty quickly developed a crush on one of my coworkers. I work as a barista in a chain coffee shop, and one of my coworkers [19F] is so absolutely my type, and to go with it, she’s been super friendly and we seem to get on really well. As far as I can tell, she has no idea how attractive I find her, despite my low key efforts to throw some flirty comments into our conversations while the store is quiet.
What do I do about this? Any advice? | Crushes |
Bruh ok so I have to confess to him but I dont really know how lol. I've told him before that I used to like him bit now I need to tell him that I still do like him cuz I kinda promised somebody I would and I would feel very bad about myself if I didnt keep that promise
I'm planning to do it on friday when I have a certain class but knowing myself I'm probably gonna fuck it up and not do it
I dont even really know what to say. Last time I was just walking outside with him and then just went like "I used to like you yknow" and uh he actually knew 💀
I think he actually knows I still do like him so its gonna be kinda embarrassing to tell him AGAIN 😭
Soooooo anybody got any ideas on what to say cuz I'm just thinkin something like "hey I still like you yknow haha" or "Yknow I still like you right" 🤡
I'm just wondering if it wouldnt be a good idea to say that second one. Ik hes good at reading emotions and I'm almost 100% sure he knows. So idk if that's like an ok thing to say cuz ik not everyone can tell when someone likes em but in this case he can so idk if that changes anything :/
Edit: Just came up with something. Could also just say "I like you" in a different language (specifically tagalog, we're both filipino) and if he knows what that means, okay cool, but if he doesnt well then I guess maybe that'll save me some embarrassment and if he really wanted to then he could just put that shit into google translate | Crushes |
I invited him over for a sleepover with some of my other friends, we’re gonna swim in the pool and watch movies and have a sleepover and I’m so excited because we’ve never really hung out before!!! Now I just gotta see who can come, just sent the invite a couple hours ago :D | Crushes |
I literally don't know how. And I really need to get out of the friendzone. Help | Crushes |
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Me and my crush have a mutual friend and me and that mutual friend are going to the movies this weekend to see the new jurassic park movie and I think either tomorrow or Friday I’m going to tell her that I have a crush on him and maybe see if she can invite him to go with us :D | Crushes |
Okay so I told him I liked him. He said he felt the same way.. AND AFTER THAT WE HUGGED | Crushes |
for context me (15 F) had a thing with one of my friends (15 F) when we were both 13. We had always liked each other and during quarantine I decided to confess my feelings to him and we sort of dated for a bit. we broke up after a month or so and then got back together in the summer (it was easier because we lived close to each other) but we kept arguing about random stuff so we just called it quits. This was summer of 2020 and even though a lot has changed since then, I still feel like i’m not totally over him, and even though he has totally moved on with his life, I still feel stuck. There are some periods when I am fine and don’t think about him at all, but then something happens and it starts all over again. For example yesterday we were on a school trip and we were in separate groups but before leaving he like tapped me on the head from behind to say hi. I immediately melted and have been thinking about this since yesterday. A girl in my group was stunned and asked “who is that?” I said he was a friend and she said “oh yeah, he’s friend with my ‘friend’”. this friend she has recently confessed to her that he likes her and that shook me up a bit because what if that meant something that i just didn’t realize? what if she was hinting at something? and then she said “he’s just a friend?” I laughed and said that we had had something a while ago but didn’t go into details because it’s complicated. she looked at me surprised and said: “i’ll literally spend the whole ride back thinking about you two” and that messed with my head SO BAD because i desperately wish he liked me but the rational part of my brain says that it’s really not possible because there is no chance of that happening. So now I’m a mess because I’m torn between all these things and i wish that no one had said anything so that i wouldn’t be feeling these things. And lately I’ve been getting so many weird signs but i just keep thinking that it’s not possible. I know all this is ridiculous and stupid and pathetic but is there a way so that i can actually get over him? I’ve tried everything in the past two years but nothing seems to be working. I don’t want to waste my teenage years over a guy i know for a fact i can’t have. | Crushes |
I’ve noticed that she looks directly at me for a secound and i just dunno how to aproch her from there | Crushes |
I was planning to tell her my feelings tmr but something happened today that just hit me in the chest. im crying right now. she seems to like my friend. | Crushes |
Today at school one of my friends asked me out lucky they gave me time to think and there really nice but I already have a crush on someone and no one knows so I feel bad but I won't date them because I feel bad because it could be toxic for both ends and I want a nice way to say no but also help them if they become sad because of it and I said it's 50 50 on yes and no and of I say no I will make sure we're still friends and it's not awkward and I don't know what to really do tho because this is the first time this has happened and I have a alot of proof my crush likes me so I don't really know what to do | Crushes |
I got a new job in July of 2021. I met guy at my work who I got along with really well. I had a boyfriend at the time so I my eyes weren’t on him or anyone else. Long story short, we broke up. Months later I started to realize how attractive my coworker actually is. He is very funny, hard working and overall just a cool guy. Every time we work together I get so excited inside and I find myself smiling like an idiot the whole time. Recently I went to work with my hair styled a certain way and he called it cute twice. I want to ask him to hangout outside of work, but I don’t know if I am getting my hopes up or not. I don’t know what to do. | Crushes |
Hi! So my last day of school is this Friday and I wanted to confess to my crush before we won’t see each for for 2.5 months. Our relationship is kind of on and off but that’s mainly on me for not being able to properly display my feelings. I don’t want it to be weird and just all of a sudden. We don’t have any classes so it would have to be in the hallway during passing time. How should I do it? Please help me lol thanks | Crushes |
The school year is almost ending and I'd like to say that we've actually grown quite close but only in person. He's pretty reclusive on social media so its quite hard to text him so I'm planning on asking him out in person. We both have a class together and our exam is coming up soon so would it be a good idea to ask to study together? And would it be a smart idea to confess or subtly hint that I like him? So many thoughts 😫 | Crushes |
We was about to meet today but of course he didnt came.. :( | Crushes |
I like this girl in my class but we’ve never talked and have no mutual friends and don’t sit next to each other and she’s really shy and quiet,
How can I start talking to her without coming across weird, she’s been doing things that make me think tat she likes me too.
School done for this year so what should I do if I see her this summer and what can I do next year if I’m in her class | Crushes |
Only 2 of them know, because I barely talk about girls with the rest of them (at least not in a serious, non-sexual way) | Crushes |
I’m normally very good at flirting but it feels like i’ve used all my tricks on this guy, i need more new things to try out!!
he likes cutesy stuff, i think one of the best reciprocated ones was when i had a hersheys kiss & asked “do you wanna kiss?” and went from there, so more cute stuff along those lines or just any advice would be awesome:) | Crushes |
I see,,
You're dating someone,, or maybe you're engaged now..
Hurts so bad..
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but I'm happy for you.
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Don't worry, I'll keep staying out of your way.
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I'll be leaving soon anyway.
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I never really stood a chance. | Crushes |
Title says it all.
Context: When I asked for her number, she was typing it into my phone, but someone called me, so I forgot to save it to my phone. I got her number from a friend, who made sure she was okay giving the number out again.
My first text is below (brackets are edits to hide information, not part of the actual text)
"Hi \[name\], it’s \[my name\]. (\[Friend's name\] gave me your number, sorry for the confusion \[earlier\] haha) How are you doing?"
It's been 3 days and she hasn't responded yet (it's not even on read). What should I do?
Note: I don't want to just assume she's not interested and move on because I have this same problem with good friends of mine who are just not that responsible with texting or are just too busy to respond in a timely manner. Those friends weren't trying to ghost me; they're just naturally like that with texting, so she might be the same way. | Crushes |
We have met at my last work place last year and have been great co-workers until I quit my job two months ago. We are still very good friends and I have feelings for more. Tomorrow she comes over after work. I told her to talk about something very important and gonna confess my crush on her. I am happy to finally do it but im also very nervous about it.
All I can think about is her and how i gonna do it. | Crushes |
i really like this boy who teases some people but has always been okay to me. I used to sit next to him in a class from a seating plan but we got moved a while ago. I had a study session after school and his tutoring was half way through. He was outside on his phone and i could see him so i went outside and talked to him for a bit and we had a really good conversation, he for some reason told me a lot about his family and about some of their issues at the moment, and i listened. during the halfterm (a week) we started texting on insta and he texted a lot, same as me and sent photos that hed taken of where he was, etc. then when school started he just didnt reply to anything so i sorta stopped texting and he texted 'sorry i didnt reply sometimes i cant think of an answer' and he replied to two of my messages then went offline again. On insta whenever i sent him a picture of something its been opened but he just leaves me on read. Please please please can someone help?? :( | Crushes |
So... a few weeks ago my crush rejected me. And i guess i kinda alr accepted it coz i took it really well. I kept overthinking and am so awkward around him initially for the past 2 weeks and i jus dont know wud to say to him.
Recently, i was surprised he started to come out of his "shell" and get more int in wuds going on in my life when i talk to our mutual friends. Yesterday, he even initiated to ask me more things like how to solve the sch questions etc which... he hasnt done ever since our confrontation about my feelings for him.
I just want to say... for those who didnt manage to get yr crush, its okay. If u want to cut off contact, thats fine too. But in your next one, build the friendship with them and get to know them :) step out of yr comfort zone ! Even if things dont work out, u may gain a close or even a best friend :) good luck all u lovely humans🥰 | Crushes |
Well imma cry in my bed comtenplating my forever loneliness | Crushes |
If two people aren't allowed to "officially" go on dates because of being too young and don't see each other irl often (not much physical affection) and their main form of communication is messaging online, what's the difference between being friends and a couple? ofc other than flirting or use of pet names (which I prefer a first name basis) | Crushes |
This is just like the weezer song | Crushes |
My original deadline to confess is on Friday. I've since said fuck the deadline, and instead I'm just gonna tell her next opportunity I get. I really want to tell her in person, but I'm simply not sure if I'm gonna get a chance to hang out with her 1 on 1 anytime soon. Over text doesn't really feel like the bet idea, but it's an alright last resort, plus beggars can't be choosers. What do you think?
[View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/v7xozi) | Crushes |
Hello! I'm Zac, so let me tell you about my situation that I have currently. So I have a huge crush, I like her for a long time now, probably like 4 years now. Her name is Chloe and I really like because she is pretty and she has a very hopeful personality I guess you can say. I like her so much that I will always think of her everyday and even when I am asleep! (my dream) So yes, this proves that I really really like her :)
Now for the situation I have, there is 2 problems right now, I'll explain one by one. The first problem is that, we are actually not that close. Now I know you may ask me "why do I like her when we are not even "friends" close" but umm that's not the point, the point is that we are not that close and I wanna confess to her for the second time (you'll see what I mean by that). So I wanna make our relationship to a very close one.
Now for the second problem is that, I actually confessed before lol. See when I was 11 I sent her a love letter during a break at the class. Well let's just say that was a stupid thing to do since we both are not very close and that pretty much damage our relationship. So the thing is that I don't know how to like fix this cause as of now I am 14 and I have a more mature thinking and I wanna ask her out but this situation just bothers me and it's kinda like a force field for me to not ask her out. I don't know how to ask her out for the second time when I did it at the first time.
**(Note: She kinda rejected me saying I thought of you as a friend lol)**
**Now to sum it up, basically my goal here is to:**
* How to get a close relationship with her
* How to confess to her for the second time
If you want more information, I am happy to answer you. Thank you :) | Crushes |
Title. I just think he's great with his roboesque personality and honestly he looks great lol | Crushes |
You thought you could escape me? N e v e r.
There is someone new and we are a year and 4 months apart >:)))
HEHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH EXPECT RANTS FROM ME.
(crush is still teensy weensy buuuut) | Crushes |
Like the title says, it’s my first time going on a date with someone, and I’m not exactly sure how to prepare. Should I dress up somewhat good? Or just casual? And should I plan a lot of things or just go with the flow and see where the wind takes us? I’m 18F. | Crushes |
I don’t wanna be annoying by talking throughout the movie, but idk if it is awkward to be silent | Crushes |
HI WTF IM SCREAMING RN ME AND THIS GUY I LIKE ARE CURRENTLY PLANNING TO GO TO THE MALL ALONE IS THIS A DATE HOLY SHIT HOLY SHIT
EITHER HE'S REALLY FKING DUMB (which is a possibility) OR HE'S ACTING OBLIVIOUS ON PURPOSE BC HE LIKES ME OR HE ACTUALLY JUST VIEWS ME AS A CLOSE FRIEND
EITHER WAY IM TAKING THIS HOME AS A W | Crushes |
I wonder how it must feel to be requited | Crushes |
So crush workplace works in different department have seen her at work and gym smiles at her and say hi that it everytime. I need a conversation starter!! | Crushes |
I’ve had a crush on my best friend for a little over a year now. Initially when we met, he was in a relationship. He recently broke up with her as a result of the relationship turning extremely toxic and destroying him mentally. Unfortunately, him and I will be attending different schools this upcoming semester. I feel like I need to tell him NOW, but I also want to let him heal and process everything. I want him to reach a better mental state, and if I’m being honest I could work on myself too. My crush is overly flirtatious…a man whore, if you will. He told me he loved me, and I said it back. But, that’s the problem he’s like that with EVERYONE, therefore I can’t seem to decipher wether his feeling are real or not. After his breakup, he’s been making out and sleeping with other people. I understand that this is probably his coping mechanism, so I’m not as upset about this as I probably should be. Should I tell him??? Or should I just move on? Does he even like me? | Crushes |
I've known mine for a while, said I liked her and she said she kinda liked me back | Crushes |
We were standing at her desk and when I leaned over to read the sheet she just... leaned too and rested her head on my shoulder? Kept it there too until I moved, her face downwards and resting against my jumper. Not even looking at the sheet either. I freaked out internally but just answered the question then moved back to my desk.
We’re both pretty tired and stressed because of exams. I know I’m overreacting but it was a sweet moment I guess... better than elbowing her in the face again lol. | Crushes |
I miss him, so I wanna talk to him rather than bombard him with texts. He's grounded and got his phone take away for who knows how long. The not knowing part is killing me and I'm trying to cope. | Crushes |
I don't know if I will see him again so I must be honest and direct, I plan to tell him that he is really good at boxing (activity that we share) and that its a shame that he’s absent almost always since I would like to see him more. the problem is, I dont want to sound weird.. our first interaction was him greeting me and bumping fists. thats all. I dont even know if he did that bc he is just friendly or if he wants to be my friend. I dont want him to think that I was looking at him a bit to much neither, god im so awkward. | Crushes |
I just sent [this](https://open.spotify.com/track/4cluDES4hQEUhmXj6TXkSo?si=bB-0zIo_QMGIydJi-t70Sg&utm_source=copy-link) song to my crush. I'll update you when she responds. | Crushes |
So, he not only looks really good, but he is also super talented. He can cook, play guitar, skateboard, has amazing sense of humor, and draw. He’s super out of my league, but I can’t stop crushing lol | Crushes |
So I was stalking my crush on WhatsApp (we're friends)., like normal people.
Well, „normal” people maybe go and tell their crush
>Look babe. I like you. As in, I really, really do like you. We, in my mind, have already 92 babies, 70 cats, 30 dogs, 666 houses, 345 cars and your mom isn't the witch I thought she was. OK the last one no😂
But me, the saint sweet and lazy (saint no) Amy, what did I think?
Let's go stalk him.
And while Amy was in her stalking mode, she hit the call button.
I realized only after like 5 seconds because my braind doesn't seemed that it captured the screen.
**Calling Albert**...**OH NO NO NO** I thought, pressing like 3 times the end button.
What happened?
Well he called me back **AT THE MINUTE** and I was still freaking out (spoiler, I still do) and I couldn't answer because I'm an overthinker and was still scared.
And he wrote „are you ok?”
And I don't know what excuse to give him😢.
**NO** shut up! Isn't like I can tell him hey I was stalking and called. **Nononono!**
And now, here I am, after some minutes, with the cheeks still like tomatoes.
**I'm screwed baby.** | Crushes |
Okay, first post on here.
So, I've been crushing on this girl from my friend group for a while. She's a really close friend of mine and I really don't want to mess up our friendship. But recently, I think she's been dropping hints?
It all started when she started hugging me. Either when she sees me in the morning or just randomly sometimes. She's usually not a very touchy person (At least, that I know of) so this stands out to me.
Then she also sometimes just grabs my arm instinctively when she feels dizzy. This could mean anything and I may just be overthinking, but she holds on longer than I think she's dizzy for.
And then yesterday, we were just hanging out in class, waiting for our substitute teacher and she randomly wanted to see my hand. She was holding it, asking about the burn scars on it and she just held it. The sub eventually came in and said we could just hang out some more at our tables, which prompted her to hold it again. **For the entire hour of class.** She let go a couple of times to text someone but went back to holding my hand immediately after. She also briefly held it today so it wasn't a one time thing.
Our other friends have pointed out that we look like a couple but she just explains it away by saying that I'm gay, so it's fine. (I came out as bisexual to her and the others a while ago but she jokes that I'm not actually bi and am only into men)
I'm incredibly confused as to if she likes me or not and I don't want to ruin our friendship by confessing. | Crushes |
There’s a girl I’ve liked for a while now, I’m almost positive she likes me back. We haven’t talked a ton, but whenever we did, it went really well. Today was the last day of school, I went to school today and the past few days hoping to talk to her and maybe get her number, but she hasn’t been here. So now it’s summer break and I have no way of talking to her. I don’t have any social medias. I know one friend who could have her number, but it feels really weird asking them for it and then just texting my crush after we haven’t even talked a ton in person. There’s no guarantee that they have the number either. Is it just best to wait until august when school starts up again? Or should I do something else? | Crushes |
Few days ago i posted on this subreddit to tell u that ill ask my crush out on tuesday now i got the answer at wednesday. We have agreed to go to mcdonalds and a walk but we havemt agreed the day yet. | Crushes |
For context, I’m now 32 and have had several successes since then as far as getting in relationships.
When I was about 10, in elementary school, I had the biggest crush on this boy named Shane. I was also incredibly shy, and usually just hung out in the, “I’m gonna obsess about this but never do anything about it” category. I decided to get bold and actually wrote a letter to my crush (from a secret admirer of course😂) and put it in his locker…
Or so I thought. Our classrooms were right next to each other’s and I heard their class coming back and tons of commotion outside the room. Turns out, I accidentally put the note in his best friends locker, so the entire fifth grade ended up hearing about this letter. Luckily, no one ever knew it was me, but wow do I remember sweating bullets.
Sometimes, you just gotta break out of your bubble and truly shoot your shot out there. Rejection may happen, but acceptance can too. Good luck out there. | Crushes |
Soo basically I have this crush on a girl, we know each other since Seventh Grade but only now we’ve become friends.
We usually tease and joke a lot and I sometimes become a little flirty but she kinda enjoys or at least she doesn’t mind. I also think that she becomes more open and enthusiastic when talking to me versus when to talking in a group or with other people (she is the shy type but she becomes more extrovert and enthusiastic when talking to me alone). I also asked her out and she said that after the exams we could go out.
The problem is texting, we sometimes text in Snapchat usually after I send a flirty text or just some cute TikTok and she always initiate the conversation, but when it’s me starting the conversation we talk for a bit and then she doesn’t see the messages anymore.
I also know that one of her friends (who is also my friend) also like her but when talking to our mutual friends (I told them that I asked her out) they told me I got more of a chance than him and that I should continue going after her.
They also told them she thinks that he is a little childish and from their personal opinions they also think he tries to hard (they’re “good” friends but they usually argue but they also text more)
the question here is: is she into me or should I just quit cuz honestly I’m getting tired of this
\[Edit\] I’m a boy | Crushes |
Well f*ck i liked to be friend wirh her even if i wanted more | Crushes |
Having crush is fine but asking her or text her is whole new level for me. Need a huge from you guys how to take it up a notch? | Crushes |
So far having a crush has left me being crushed and heartbroken. From now on I'm going to try and keep from even having one on another girl. I think I'll try and let the girl chase me this time | Crushes |
I have a big fat crush on this man but the difference from my past crushes is that my past crushes made me feel
-like i need to always look pretty with them
-need to look cool with them
-be a different person to them
-uncomfy/anxious with them
BUT THEN....
My current crush makes me feel so uncomfortable I could let him see my face with not even a single drop of makeup I even get to share clothes with him ....Idk if this is because he's someone quite close to me or not
But I noticed my past crushes are because of their looks but this time he looks perfect but I didn't like him because of his looks. | Crushes |
This man is my crush but none of my past crushes has made me feel this way. I don't know what made me like him but I love everything about him as if he's perfect.I love his cute smile and I love the fact he prioritizes his studies and is a smart honor student.I love his personality, he's someone I relate to way too much and is very fun to hang out with.I love how he styles but even tho he just wears a simple plain shirt it's enough to make my heart flutter I DONT EVEN KNOW ANYMOREEE.Alot of people like him but there's something that makes me feel like I'm the only one who feels this way to him😔...I think if I end up with this man I'm going to have this same feeling or even more of this feeling until we die and even if he sends alot of mixed signals I still can't lose feelings for him oh my god | Crushes |
I was listening to this song, i felt my heart speed up as i thought about you, your face, your presence. I shouldn't be having my heart react like that when it comes to you. We aren't together, it's unfair that i still long for you, i don't know about your whereabouts, we lost contact, blocked each other from every social media platforms, whatsapp. But we didn't unfollow each other on Spotify, you didn't delete our Spotify playlists.
I hate to admit but i truly miss you, and if i could trade anything for you. But it's not okay to want you back, my sanity I'd disrespect it, i can't lose myself to find you back again my love. I feel better alot today without talking to you. But i still do feel empty, i long for you alot i hate to admit that i miss you.
I couldn't take how distant we both had gotten, there was a wall between us and you failed to notice it.
If we are ever meant i hope you'd find me, and it's okay if it doesn't happens but as you said you'd chase me like always tch i should get out of my bubble and continue my work.
As it seems you don't even care about me now. You're better off without me. Each time I'm wondering how are you doing without me as you always said you cannot live without me. Maybe you can.
All i ever wish for you to be okay, happy and safe my love. I miss you dearly but i miss myself too. I'd like to love myself before starting over. Thing aren't better without you, it's worsening, i am barely doing fine. But I'd try to not give up.
With that being said, goodbye my love it's time to let you go. Time to erase our memories and it's time to start over.
Thank you my first love, i know you've reddit as well. If you ever come across this, i wish you nothing but happiness.
I FUCKIN LOVE YOU. Let's never see eachother, I'm letting you go.
Bye my one.
Yours truly. | Crushes |
Hi, I (15f) have a crush on one of my friends (15f). We are both are girls and we've been friends since grade 6. The thing is that she's straight. But everytime we talk (online or ftf) she's super nice and makes me wonder if she likes me back. We often flirt with each other as a joke but the more we do that more I fall for her. I don't have any personal experiences when it comes to this since she's my first girl crush. So, should I confess my feelings to her or no?
Thank you for your time! | Crushes |
Omg so I have this huge crush on my classmate. She's very pretty, loves cats as much as I do and has a good sense of humor. HOWEVER, we never spoke to each other except if we're teamed up in a group project in school. And then she suddenly sent me a cat tiktok and says "I wish we can be friends irl but I'm too shy to make the first move" HELLO???? YOU ACTUALLY MADE THE FISRT MOVE | Crushes |
I’ve known this girl for not too long (maybe a month) and I started having feelings really quickly and don’t know if I should confess or wait it out, I also feel like she has feelings for me but I feel like she’s just treating me like anyone else | Crushes |
There is this guy I’ve been in grad school with for around a year and we have been in the same group for projects before plus share some friends in common, so I’ve had his number for a while. Is it weird to add him on snap from contacts? He just seems really nice and I want to get to know him better but I don’t want to be weird. I’ve asked a few friends and gotten mixed responses. | Crushes |
so me n my crush have no classes together we dont do sports together none of that only time i see him is for a mili second in da halls and at football games and all the times i see him hes always occupied with friends n extremly distracted so how do i get him or find him alone?? ( i do talk to him at games sometimes but its just small chat n he goes back to his friends whichs is totally okay just want to get kno him 1 on 1 yk?) | Crushes |
Hello:> I was just wondering, why would a guy use a fake account to talk to you? Like, I was minding my business when all of a sudden, I see someone add me on Snapchat by username. Curious, I added them back and almost immediately the stranger starts a chat with “hi”. As we chat, I begin growing weary as he asks a lot of questions concerning me and my life as though it was an interrogation of some sort. Growing weary, I copy the username into Instagram in hopes of in converting this person’s identity and, lo and behold, turns out to be someone I follow on my main Instagram page. So I ask the guy if his name is the latter, and he cautiously responds with yes. Then I mention how we follow each other on Instagram and he “acts” stunned. I leave the chat for 2-5 minutes to go grab some water, come back to my phone and open the chat only for it to disappear. Thinking I got blocked, I used my sister’s Snapchat account to search up the name and it was nowhere to be found!
My question i guess is, why would guys use a secondary account in order to talk to you? (And I mean secondary because he told me that he was using his IPad snap account-) | Crushes |
Then i remember stories of people’s high school social life ruined just by confessing | Crushes |
really short post, how f\*cked up is f\*cked up....I found a girl that was attractive and started to crush on her bc she reminded me of another crush....turns out shes her little sister. | Crushes |
For context, I asked him to go running with me at night because it was something we were both interested in (not as a date, I just asked casually over text and he agreed).
This was three weeks ago.
So it was supposed to happen a Saturday, but cuz of work he pushed it to a Monday, and on Monday he said he was sick (he did seem sick though). So I said next weekend then, but then seven days later he thought next weekend meant the weekend after this, and already made plans.
However, each time he pushed it back he seemed apologetic, and made an effort to reschedule it, and he does seem like he's into me so I'm just so confused.
Objectively, am I just not getting the hint? I mean three times is a lot right? | Crushes |
I got sexualy assaulted today and I'm not going into detail about what happened but I reflected and I realized the guy who did is probably jealous of me and my crush it all started with a seating change where he go placed infront of us and started to get his friends to bug me when I'm taking to her because we were flirting a lot and his friend who's a female has hit on me quite a bit so I think he got jealous and did what he did | Crushes |
(I'm finnish so please forgive if there are any grammar mistakes)
I have a crush on on one of my friends. She is tall, beautiful, clever and creative. And of course really nice and friendly. We both are introverted but the conversations with her have been the most meaningful ones. I think of her every single day and many times.
Couple of my friends know that i have a crush but they don't know who it is. She doesn't know that herself and I've been thinking a long time that i could at least tell her about me having crush. I don't know how to bring it up casually because i don't wanna do it in school or when we hang out with the group and i'm pretty awkward with 1 on 1 situations, so i need help with that.(1)
I've decided that she is gonna be first one who knows. I just think she deserves that.
Sometimes i feel anxious about the whole thing. I question myself if i really like her (is this normal?)(2). Also i have questions like; what does she think of me, does she like me, what's her sexuality, how would she react, how would my friends react an much more.
The fact that my friends know makes me feel pressured.(3) I've told that I'm not ready to tell who is it yet but i feel like they expect me to do that pretty quickly. They know that I'm questioning my sexuality so they don't even know the gender. I've promised that one day i will tell them.
I feel like this is really chaotic but you can ask more details. I numbered the things i needed help with but other advice is welcome too. | Crushes |
Edit: TLDR: I have a crush at work who engages me more than I engage her, want to text her but dont know how to start.
So I have a crush at work (I'm 16M and she is 16F) and we are really bonding I think. The problem is, that I see her once, maybe twice or even 0 times a week. On top of that, the days she works, she has school until late so when she starts, I am done.
To explain our current "status", every time I'm already at work and she comes in, she will walk around to say hi to me. All the time. Never skipped it. She always laughs when talking to me and when we can, we bike home together since she lives in the same neighborhood as I do. We also have each other added on social media.
So basically I want to have more contact with her. I haven't texted her ever, and even though we are talking a lot physically, I'm somehow scared to do it over text. Like I want to much from her, even though she most of the time comes to me. I want to know what to text her about without it being a dry conversation. I also want to ask her to hang out in the weekends, and even though I think she would say yes, I'm too scared to do it. | Crushes |
I'm trying to become her friend, and it is kinda working, we talk a bit in the classes we have together so I think it has been working, but these last couple days I have done everything wrong. Yesterday as she walked into the class we have together she was staring at me. Not like in a "I like you" kinda way (that I interpreted at least) but more of a fun way. I jokingly asked "why are you staring at me" and I didn't think I had an annoyed tone as I wasn't annoyed, but I guess she did because she said sorry in a sad kinda annoyed tone. Then today we had a different class together and we had a sub teacher. The sub went up to her and asked if she knows where the attendance office is to submit the attendance (because subs don't have computers) she hesitated so I said "i do" but the sub cut me off as I was about to say "if she doesn't" and she just gave me the paper so that made me feel bad, I'm not sure if she was annoyed at that one, but I felt bad. I felt like one of those guys that just "doesn't trust women because they arent as good as men" or smth (I'm not one of those people) so I really felt bad. Then after the class I was talking to her and I completely mis heard her and I said smth that made sense with what I heard but not what she actually said (if that makes sense) and she explained in annoyed, maybe even kinda angry tone. I just said sorry and she turned into her class without saying goodbye. Not like she has to but that made me feel like I did smth wrong.
I really hope I didn't fuck things up between us. I mean we're not "a thing" by any means but I really like her and would love to be her friend. I just feel so stupid ughhh
Also side rant but do you ever wonder if your crush sees your posts? I mean this one is pretty descriptive so I'm writing this like "oh god if she reads this she's gonna know I'm talking exactly about her" 😭 | Crushes |
So I am from FL and we just had a hurricane. Would it be weird to reach out to this guy i like, whom I’ve never really spoke to before to see how he is doing? | Crushes |
I (17M) have a huge crush on this girl (17F) at my highschool. We have been friends for two months and she is so funny and beautiful. I just love to spend time with heti and she likes to spend time with me. In example she asked if i wanted to go golf together some time. She allways asks for me to eat lunch with her and her friends. I changed my math teacher because i didn't like the other teacher and because now i was on the same course as she is. The first time we went to the course, i sat next to her and the teacher said to me "know i understand why you wanted to change to this math group" reffering to me and the girl being more than friends. We both realized what the teacher ment and just started laughing. I was laughing but inside i just wanted to tell her everything but i can't. She has a bf that is also at our highschool and i have to say he is better looking than me. I'm also kind of friends with his bf even though he's one of the popular guys and i'm not. I don't wan't to ruin their relationship or our friendship over telling her about my feelings but i just think about her all the time and i really think she could be the one. A part of me wants them to break up and me to be the first one comforting her but the other part just want's her to be happy. I also wonder if she thinks i'm just a good friend. I just wanted to get this off my cheast and tell sombody even though it's some random guys on Reddit. Sorry for my english i'm not a native speaker:) | Crushes |
I (15M) have never spoken to my crush (15F) before and while she is in a couple of my classes, we don’t really sit close together. | Crushes |
He was smiling at me all week. He came up to me unexpectedly. I stayed there for like a minute as he got closer. I didn't believe anything would happen, so I just thought he wanted to grab something from behind me. I walked away. When he sat down, he looked at me like he was thinking about something.
Now, I came up to him and he told me to leave him alone. Like that's it. Like I did something unforgivable. I wish he would give me a chance to apologize and explain. I don't know what to do, but I need advice. I at least need advice to stop crying about it. | Crushes |
So I was standing at my locker today with my crush because he always comes over to talk to me, and he literally asked me to homecoming. I’m literally crying because I’m so happy. I literally couldn’t make eye contact after he asked because of how nervous I was, and I also said maybe because I was panicking. I’m going to text him and tell him yes though. I’m literally so happy right now | Crushes |
So I added this girl on snap like 26 hours ago. She hasn't accepted it yet and I'm worried that she thinks it's weird that I added her. We talk in school sometimes, and I didn't think it would be weird to add her, considering that other girls have added me who I don't even talk to at all. Most times when I've added other people they've accepted it by now, but she hasn't. She uses her phone a lot so it seems weird that she hasn't accepted it yet. Did I come across as weird? Do you think she's going to add me back or since she hasn't yet do you think she wont?
Not to sound like everybody nowadays, but I do have anxiety and I overthink a lot. I also have adhd (both have been diagnosed a while ago) and I'm on meds for anxiety. I don't want it to be awkward in school tomorrow and for her to see it as a flirty thing.
Also she added my friend (a person who she never talked to) like a couple months ago. I just feel like it's weird that she didn't accept my request but she adds somewhat random people. Do you think maybe she deleted it? I never see people post any streaks with her or anything. ***Also she followed me on tiktok a while ago (she did it first) and I followed her back.***
I just don't get the pattern of events (I forget if it was before or after we talked to each other for the first time)
\-She follows me on TikTok
\-I follow her back
\-We talk in school (and she laughs at a lot of my jokes and stuff)
\-I add her on snap
\-A day later she still hasn't accepted it
Surely she can't think that every guy who adds her on snap has a crush on her right? Or, is it possible, in the slightest way, that she might, possibly, have a crush on me and that she has been too nervous to accept it? Or do you think that isn't really a chance.
Tl;DR: I added my crush on snapchat 26 hours ago and she hasn't added me back yet (even though she uses her phone a lot). Do you think she will? Should I give it more time before stressing out about it?
If you have any questions please ask. Also I added her from a story saying happy birthday (mention). Sorry I typed for so long, I just wanted to give enough info and context.
Any responses are appreciated. | Crushes |
My friend needs help getting into a relationship with a boy from our school and I need advice for her | Crushes |
Near the beginning of the year this new guy came in. He would always catch me staring at him and I would always catch him staring at me. I grew to like him but I knew from the start that it wouldn’t work out. Eventually I told him how I feel because he would always sit at the lunch table waiting for me to tell him and how do I know that? Because ever since I told him he doesn’t sit next to me anymore. He sits at the same table still but with his friends now. We talked for a little before he told me but he was always so dry, I asked him why. He said he just broke up with his girlfriend before I told him how I feel so I gave him some time. We started talking again after and he actually seemed like he wanted to talk to me. At school he got a lot more playful and touchy which I didn’t mind obviously and he would flirt over text every once awhile. After a few days he went right back to being dry but with mixed signals this time. I got fed up with it so I asked him if he likes me or not. He said he doesn’t know and that he’s confused on what he wants right now. I say ok and I told him I will give him time. I check up on him sometimes and at school we don’t talk but he’s still playful when he gets the opportunity. But when I check on him he’s just very dry. My point is here is that I never listen when I know something isn’t going to work out and it always happens every time I find someone I like. What’s even worse is that I can’t tell if he really does just need time and I’m feeling heartbroken for a relationship that was never there because I’m just overthinking like usual or I’m just an idiot and genuinely pathetic for having still hope. | Crushes |
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