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Yeah.
8op
I guess I can call my sisters okay
0id
You said you can call call your sister or your husband and say they weren't available as we've kind of move up, like to the plan.
3gc
I can call my best friend. Yeah, even though like we haven't talked in a long time, I could call her anytime. It's like, No Time passes.
3gc
Don't know
0id
Okay, okay.
4crq
Yes, sure.
8op
Last thing I want to talk to you about before we have our first session is I want to Well, I want to thank you for coming into that. Right. And I know that I know that these intakes are relatively dry. I mean, you're talking I'm writing when I'm taking down information. It's very helpful for me, though, for your treatment later on. But I realize it's not the traditional understanding most clients have counseling.
0id
Yeah, right
7ack
Just supplying data to the counselor all the time, right? We'll get to the I guess you could say quote unquote, real sessions when we start next time. But I want to thank you for being patient through this process. It really will help us to get more valuable you to get more value out of those sessions.
0id
All right.
7ack
And I want to encourage you, I know that from what you said in the intake, that you're feeling down, if like you're relating well to your coworkers, it's it appears that you're disappointing yourself and how you're relating to your children and your husband. Like, not a good mom, not a good spouse. All all these thoughts are understandable in the context of being down or maybe depressed, right? If that's what's going on, it sounds like that is what could be going on.
0id
Ok
7ack
Umm No, I don't think so.
9on
If you should have any questions to rise, I know for me, I always think of the best questions after I leave. You know, if I'm in an environment where I'm supposed to ask questions, and somebody says that, it's always when I get my car that I remember them. Yeah. So if that happens to you, feel free to give me a call and leave a message. And I'll be happy to get back to you with an answer as soon as I can. So I look forward to seeing you next week then.
0id
Okay, good.
7ack
Thanks again
3gc
Thank you.
3gc
Alright, so I'm gonna be asking you some questions about your social situation and what you do in your leisure time.
0id
Okay.
7ack
How do you currently spend your day?
1irq
Um, well, right now, and before I came in I guess I go to work in the morning and then I come home at about 430 and take care of the kids. Get them from aftercare and then we'll have dinner, I'll make dinner and help them with their homework, My husband and I watch a TV show or something and then go to bed.
0id
That's a fairly typical day for you.
4crq
Yeah.
6cd
What do you do for fun?
1irq
Well, lately not a lot. I mean, I used to love reading, movies. I love to make jewelry but not in a while.
0id
Why don't you think you enjoy those things? Now as much as you did?
1irq
Ah, I don't have as much energy as I used to. I come home from work. I'm drained, just dealing from dealing with that whole situation. And then getting the kids and homework and it's like, can be a nightmare. I mean, they have good grades, and they generally just get right into it. Sometimes it's a struggle. And frankly, I've been kind of down on myself lately because I just want to come home from work and get into bed. And I don't want to cook, and I don't want to do homework with them. And even when my husband wants to watch TV, or something, you know, a lot of times I'm asleep already. And kind of feel bad about that. Like, maybe I'm not as good of a mom as I used to be or as good of a wife.
0id
Do you think that this change in your mood is related to what you're talking about before with the problems at work and the relationship there. You feel like it's all tied together?
1irq
Probably. Yeah. I don't know.
0id
You know, which came first? Like what you're describing here with the not having much energy or the difficulty at work?
1irq
I didn't think about I think, well, I've been like this before. But yeah, it was after things started getting really bad at work. I just, I'm, like drained when I come home. You know, and I don't want to think about it. If I just go to sleep. I don't have to think about it. I don't have to deal.
0id
Who are the most important people in your life? And before you answer that, I'm going to guess that you're Husband your kids for occlusion so outside of them unless they're not but it sounds like oh yeah, but outside of them because we are talking about them. Who are the most important people in your life?
1irq
My sisters, my dad, my mom, my best friend although I haven't talked to her really long time.
0id
How long?
1irq
Well, she's texting me but we haven't like gotten together in like six months or something.
0id
So all the people you just listed when you have difficulties problems when things aren't going well do you feel like you can talk to these people?
5yq
Yeah
8op
Well, I believe in God, I pray Actually, I this is was kind of funny. I was praying the morning before I decided to call the agency because I was feeling like such a bad mom. You know, for playing in bed so much. You know, my husband and I talked. So, I believe in God, I think God takes care of me.
0id
Okay, Are you affiliated with any religious institution?
5yq
I was raised Roman Catholic. But I haven't been deterred in a couple of years.
8op
Can you describe to me how socio or social cultural influences like your values, beliefs and culture have affected your life?
1irq
Well, what I learned in Sunday school, you know, it helped me to be a better person to treat people well. My parents used to talk about giving back to the community growing up you know when I was in Carl scouts, giving back to the community, trying to pass that on to my kids,
0id
Do you identify with a particular ethnicity?
1irq
Italian American
0id
Italiam American ?
4crq
Yes,
6cd
that influenced your life anyway?
5yq
Well yeah, I guess I take pride in my culture. Maybe not so much growing up, but now but now. Yeah.
8op
Yeah, one year of graduate school
0id
one year of graduate school?
4crq
yeah
6cd
And when was the last time you attended a school?
1irq
16 years ago. I dropped out when we got engaged.
0id
in history?
0id
Anything else in terms of like special training or education you have?
5yq
No.
9on
Did you enjoy school?
5yq
Yes, very much
8op
You ever envision going back to school?
5yq
Yeah, I think when the kids are a little older. get sad about not finishing my degree.
8op
The graduate degree?
4crq
Yeah.
6cd
Okay. Do you have any military history?
5yq
No
9on
I do.
0id
What type of company you work for?
1irq
I work for a bank
0id
and what do you do for them?
1irq
I am teller
0id
Okay. How long you been there
1irq
10 years now.
0id
You enjoy the work?
5yq
It's not that challenging.
9on
Not not that difficult?
4crq
yeah
6cd
Are you in any danger of losing your job? Because what's going on with you now?
5yq
Now? No, I'm not in danger of losing my job, but I'm not happy. I'm not happy there.
9on
Yes.
8op
Okay. Who is your player prior to that?
1irq
I worked for another bank.
0id
How long were you there?
1irq
Six years.
0id
And what did you do for them?
1irq
Same thing.
0id
And why did you leave that bank?
1irq
we relocated
0id
was that also easy as you Described
5yq
oh yeah
0id
any work history prior to that?
5yq
I waitress at graduate school and in college
8op
a few different places?
5yq
Yeah, yeah. One place in college on in graduates school
8op
Okay. All the work you've done what type of work you enjoyed the best?
1irq
That's a good question. None of it really I liked it when I was in school best. I don't like work.
0id
See, you don't feel satisfied. I wanted to hear what you'd prefer or to your education or anything like that.
1irq
But just the thought of going out there and looking for another job or changing fields, I really don't know what I have to offer. It just seems I have to do the resume. I don't even know how to begin.
0id
So seems daunting.
4crq
Yeah. Like, right now i feel all I can do to get in there to work and get home and take care of the kids.
6cd
So you're tired with your time with your child right now. So you thought of going through all the effort of finding something new. It's intimidating. We touched on this area earlier. I'm going to shift gears again to legal involvement. You mentioned some legal history when we were going through the symptom checklist. And if I remember correctly, it sounded involvement marijuana and paid when you're in college.
3gc