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Ah, I don't have as much energy as I used to. I come home from work. I'm drained, just dealing from dealing with that whole situation. And then getting the kids and homework and it's like, can be a nightmare. I mean, they have good grades, and they generally just get right into it. Sometimes it's a struggle. And frankly, I've been kind of down on myself lately because I just want to come home from work and get into bed. And I don't want to cook, and I don't want to do homework with them. And even when my husband wants to watch TV, or something, you know, a lot of times I'm asleep already. And kind of feel bad about that. Like, maybe I'm not as good of a mom as I used to be or as good of a wife.	0id
Do you think that this change in your mood is related to what you're talking about before with the problems at work and the relationship there. You feel like it's all tied together?	1irq
Probably. Yeah. I don't know.	0id
You know, which came first? Like what you're describing here with the not having much energy or the difficulty at work?	1irq
I didn't think about I think, well, I've been like this before. But yeah, it was after things started getting really bad at work. I just, I'm, like drained when I come home. You know, and I don't want to think about it. If I just go to sleep. I don't have to think about it. I don't have to deal.	0id
Who are the most important people in your life? And before you answer that, I'm going to guess that you're Husband your kids for occlusion so outside of them unless they're not but it sounds like oh yeah, but outside of them because we are talking about them. Who are the most important people in your life?	1irq
My sisters, my dad, my mom, my best friend although I haven't talked to her really long time.	0id
How long?	1irq
Well, she's texting me but we haven't like gotten together in like six months or something.	0id
So all the people you just listed when you have difficulties problems when things aren't going well do you feel like you can talk to these people?	5yq
Yeah	8op
Well, I believe in God, I pray Actually, I this is was kind of funny. I was praying the morning before I decided to call the agency because I was feeling like such a bad mom. You know, for playing in bed so much. You know, my husband and I talked. So, I believe in God, I think God takes care of me.	0id
Okay, Are you affiliated with any religious institution?	5yq
I was raised Roman Catholic. But I haven't been deterred in a couple of years.	8op
Can you describe to me how socio or social cultural influences like your values, beliefs and culture have affected your life?	1irq
Well, what I learned in Sunday school, you know, it helped me to be a better person to treat people well. My parents used to talk about giving back to the community growing up you know when I was in Carl scouts, giving back to the community, trying to pass that on to my kids,	0id
Do you identify with a particular ethnicity?	1irq
Italian American	0id
Italiam American ?	4crq
Yes,	6cd
that influenced your life anyway?	5yq
Well yeah, I guess I take pride in my culture. Maybe not so much growing up, but now but now. Yeah.	8op
Yeah, one year of graduate school	0id
one year of graduate school?	4crq
yeah	6cd
And when was the last time you attended a school?	1irq
16 years ago. I dropped out when we got engaged.	0id
in history?	0id
Anything else in terms of like special training or education you have?	5yq
No.	9on
Did you enjoy school?	5yq
Yes, very much	8op
You ever envision going back to school?	5yq
Yeah, I think when the kids are a little older. get sad about not finishing my degree.	8op
The graduate degree?	4crq
Yeah.	6cd
Okay. Do you have any military history?	5yq
No	9on
I do.	0id
What type of company you work for?	1irq
I work for a bank	0id
and what do you do for them?	1irq
I am teller	0id
Okay. How long you been there	1irq
10 years now.	0id
You enjoy the work?	5yq
It's not that challenging.	9on
Not not that difficult?	4crq
yeah	6cd
Are you in any danger of losing your job? Because what's going on with you now?	5yq
Now? No, I'm not in danger of losing my job, but I'm not happy. I'm not happy there.	9on
Yes.	8op
Okay. Who is your player prior to that?	1irq
I worked for another bank.	0id
How long were you there?	1irq
Six years.	0id
And what did you do for them?	1irq
Same thing.	0id
And why did you leave that bank?	1irq
we relocated	0id
was that also easy as you Described	5yq
oh yeah	0id
any work history prior to that?	5yq
I waitress at graduate school and in college	8op
a few different places?	5yq
Yeah, yeah. One place in college on in graduates school	8op
Okay. All the work you've done what type of work you enjoyed the best?	1irq
That's a good question. None of it really I liked it when I was in school best. I don't like work.	0id
See, you don't feel satisfied. I wanted to hear what you'd prefer or to your education or anything like that.	1irq
But just the thought of going out there and looking for another job or changing fields, I really don't know what I have to offer. It just seems I have to do the resume. I don't even know how to begin.	0id
So seems daunting.	4crq
Yeah. Like, right now i feel all I can do to get in there to work and get home and take care of the kids.	6cd
So you're tired with your time with your child right now. So you thought of going through all the effort of finding something new. It's intimidating. We touched on this area earlier. I'm going to shift gears again to legal involvement. You mentioned some legal history when we were going through the symptom checklist. And if I remember correctly, it sounded involvement marijuana and paid when you're in college.	3gc
Yeah.	7ack
Police were called what happened that night?	1irq
Well, my friends and I, I guess we were having a party in the common area of the dorm, and I guess we got too loud. There are some professors living in the dorm. They call Campus Security, Campus Security came and I was found with a bag on me and I ended up down at the police station my other friend to the two of us were down there but you know, it didn't really amount to too much. It's it's hard to remember the whole night because I was pretty wasted but it really sort of got brushed over me.	0id
You mean the offense like, you know, I have a criminal record.	5yq
No, no, no, it was expunged. That's not on my record. I don't have a record.	9on
Does it ever caused you problems?	5yq
No. No, it's embarrassing, but that's about it.	9on
I say, Well, I'd like to be able to get along better with other women. I just like to feel better overall, you know? I honestly don't know I thought it was them. And then I started thinking, well maybe it's me because it happened to the other place at work too kind of the same and like I said, with the women in the neighborhood I'd also like to be able to be a better mom. Like I said, I spend lot of time in bed lately. I'm not that great of a mom or wife. I'm pretty boring. I Just asleep a lot.	0id
Can you remember a time when you didn't feel this way?	5yq
Yeah. Like, even last year.	8op
even last year?	4crq
Yeah	6cd
okay	7ack
Yeah, I mean, it still wasn't great at work. But you know, it was uncomfortable. I'd say with my coworkers it's really escalated. But you know, that other part at home it wasn't. It wasn't as hard. I was gonna have more energy.	0id
Okay, tell me about your strengths. What do you do?	1irq
Umm Well, normally I am a good mom. I love my kids. I'm a very good parent in terms of disciplining them not being the way my mom was, you know, I want them to know they're loved as really important that they know they are loved. My kids know that they are loved. And my strikes I'm smart, creative when I have the energy, mysisters think I'm funny. My friends thinks I could cook.	0id
good cook, do you think you're funny?	5yq
Um, I never really thought I was but last year a lot of people were telling me I was not now.	9on
Things have changed markedly on that in that department?	5yq
Yeah	8op
Wow, that's a lot of strengths. So we're almost done with intake today. Right? We'll be starting the regular sessions later starting next week.	3gc
Okay, nice.	7ack
Well, it's not really like I'm picturing Am I gonna get a gun blow my brains out or anything like that. It's more like when I get home from work and I'm lying there I want to go down you know, play hearts with my kids or something like that and I just I can't do it. I just want to turn the lights out and I do and go to sleep. I think like if I just went to sleep right now didn't wake up tomorrow. You know, how bad would that be?	0id
So kind of a passive suicidal thinking process. You don't have any intent to harm yourself? Or any plan to harm youself.	5yq
No No	9on
Are you sure?	4crq
yeah.	6cd

Ah, I don't have as much energy as I used to. I come home from work. I'm drained, just dealing from dealing with that whole situation. And then getting the kids and homework and it's like, can be a nightmare. I mean, they have good grades, and they generally just get right into it. Sometimes it's a struggle. And frankly, I've been kind of down on myself lately because I just want to come home from work and get into bed. And I don't want to cook, and I don't want to do homework with them. And even when my husband wants to watch TV, or something, you know, a lot of times I'm asleep already. And kind of feel bad about that. Like, maybe I'm not as good of a mom as I used to be or as good of a wife.

0id

Do you think that this change in your mood is related to what you're talking about before with the problems at work and the relationship there. You feel like it's all tied together?

1irq

Probably. Yeah. I don't know.

0id

You know, which came first? Like what you're describing here with the not having much energy or the difficulty at work?

1irq

I didn't think about I think, well, I've been like this before. But yeah, it was after things started getting really bad at work. I just, I'm, like drained when I come home. You know, and I don't want to think about it. If I just go to sleep. I don't have to think about it. I don't have to deal.

0id

Who are the most important people in your life? And before you answer that, I'm going to guess that you're Husband your kids for occlusion so outside of them unless they're not but it sounds like oh yeah, but outside of them because we are talking about them. Who are the most important people in your life?

1irq

My sisters, my dad, my mom, my best friend although I haven't talked to her really long time.

0id

How long?

1irq

Well, she's texting me but we haven't like gotten together in like six months or something.

0id

So all the people you just listed when you have difficulties problems when things aren't going well do you feel like you can talk to these people?

5yq

Yeah

8op

Well, I believe in God, I pray Actually, I this is was kind of funny. I was praying the morning before I decided to call the agency because I was feeling like such a bad mom. You know, for playing in bed so much. You know, my husband and I talked. So, I believe in God, I think God takes care of me.

0id

Okay, Are you affiliated with any religious institution?

5yq

I was raised Roman Catholic. But I haven't been deterred in a couple of years.

8op

Can you describe to me how socio or social cultural influences like your values, beliefs and culture have affected your life?

1irq

Well, what I learned in Sunday school, you know, it helped me to be a better person to treat people well. My parents used to talk about giving back to the community growing up you know when I was in Carl scouts, giving back to the community, trying to pass that on to my kids,

0id

Do you identify with a particular ethnicity?

1irq

Italian American

0id

Italiam American ?

4crq

Yes,

6cd

that influenced your life anyway?

5yq

Well yeah, I guess I take pride in my culture. Maybe not so much growing up, but now but now. Yeah.

8op

Yeah, one year of graduate school

0id

one year of graduate school?

4crq

yeah

6cd

And when was the last time you attended a school?

1irq

16 years ago. I dropped out when we got engaged.

0id

in history?

0id

Anything else in terms of like special training or education you have?

5yq

No.

9on

Did you enjoy school?

5yq

Yes, very much

8op

You ever envision going back to school?

5yq

Yeah, I think when the kids are a little older. get sad about not finishing my degree.

8op

The graduate degree?

4crq

Yeah.

6cd

Okay. Do you have any military history?

5yq

No

9on

I do.

0id

What type of company you work for?

1irq

I work for a bank

0id

and what do you do for them?

1irq

I am teller

0id

Okay. How long you been there

1irq

10 years now.

0id

You enjoy the work?

5yq

It's not that challenging.

9on

Not not that difficult?

4crq

yeah

6cd

Are you in any danger of losing your job? Because what's going on with you now?

5yq

Now? No, I'm not in danger of losing my job, but I'm not happy. I'm not happy there.

9on

Yes.

8op

Okay. Who is your player prior to that?

1irq

I worked for another bank.

0id

How long were you there?

1irq

Six years.

0id

And what did you do for them?

1irq

Same thing.

0id

And why did you leave that bank?

1irq

we relocated

0id

was that also easy as you Described

5yq

oh yeah

0id

any work history prior to that?

5yq

I waitress at graduate school and in college

8op

a few different places?

5yq

Yeah, yeah. One place in college on in graduates school

8op

Okay. All the work you've done what type of work you enjoyed the best?

1irq

That's a good question. None of it really I liked it when I was in school best. I don't like work.

0id

See, you don't feel satisfied. I wanted to hear what you'd prefer or to your education or anything like that.

1irq

But just the thought of going out there and looking for another job or changing fields, I really don't know what I have to offer. It just seems I have to do the resume. I don't even know how to begin.

0id

So seems daunting.

4crq

Yeah. Like, right now i feel all I can do to get in there to work and get home and take care of the kids.

6cd

So you're tired with your time with your child right now. So you thought of going through all the effort of finding something new. It's intimidating. We touched on this area earlier. I'm going to shift gears again to legal involvement. You mentioned some legal history when we were going through the symptom checklist. And if I remember correctly, it sounded involvement marijuana and paid when you're in college.

3gc

Yeah.

7ack

Police were called what happened that night?

1irq

Well, my friends and I, I guess we were having a party in the common area of the dorm, and I guess we got too loud. There are some professors living in the dorm. They call Campus Security, Campus Security came and I was found with a bag on me and I ended up down at the police station my other friend to the two of us were down there but you know, it didn't really amount to too much. It's it's hard to remember the whole night because I was pretty wasted but it really sort of got brushed over me.

0id

You mean the offense like, you know, I have a criminal record.

5yq

No, no, no, it was expunged. That's not on my record. I don't have a record.

9on

Does it ever caused you problems?

5yq

No. No, it's embarrassing, but that's about it.

9on

I say, Well, I'd like to be able to get along better with other women. I just like to feel better overall, you know? I honestly don't know I thought it was them. And then I started thinking, well maybe it's me because it happened to the other place at work too kind of the same and like I said, with the women in the neighborhood I'd also like to be able to be a better mom. Like I said, I spend lot of time in bed lately. I'm not that great of a mom or wife. I'm pretty boring. I Just asleep a lot.

0id

Can you remember a time when you didn't feel this way?

5yq

Yeah. Like, even last year.

8op

even last year?

4crq

Yeah

6cd

okay

7ack

Yeah, I mean, it still wasn't great at work. But you know, it was uncomfortable. I'd say with my coworkers it's really escalated. But you know, that other part at home it wasn't. It wasn't as hard. I was gonna have more energy.

0id

Okay, tell me about your strengths. What do you do?

1irq

Umm Well, normally I am a good mom. I love my kids. I'm a very good parent in terms of disciplining them not being the way my mom was, you know, I want them to know they're loved as really important that they know they are loved. My kids know that they are loved. And my strikes I'm smart, creative when I have the energy, mysisters think I'm funny. My friends thinks I could cook.

0id

good cook, do you think you're funny?

5yq

Um, I never really thought I was but last year a lot of people were telling me I was not now.

9on

Things have changed markedly on that in that department?

5yq

Yeah

8op

Wow, that's a lot of strengths. So we're almost done with intake today. Right? We'll be starting the regular sessions later starting next week.

3gc

Okay, nice.

7ack

Well, it's not really like I'm picturing Am I gonna get a gun blow my brains out or anything like that. It's more like when I get home from work and I'm lying there I want to go down you know, play hearts with my kids or something like that and I just I can't do it. I just want to turn the lights out and I do and go to sleep. I think like if I just went to sleep right now didn't wake up tomorrow. You know, how bad would that be?

0id

So kind of a passive suicidal thinking process. You don't have any intent to harm yourself? Or any plan to harm youself.

5yq

No No

9on

Are you sure?

4crq

yeah.

6cd