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Pulling feedback establishes you as a continual learner and puts the power in your hands.	بازخورد کششی، شما را به‌عنوانِ یک یادگیرنده مداوم تعیین می‌کند و قدرت را در دستان شما قرار می‌دهد.	en-fa
The most challenging situations are actually the ones that call for the most skillful feedback.	Las situaciones más desafiantes son las que exigen el feedback más hábil.	en-es
But it doesn't have to be hard.	اما لازم نیست سخت بگیرید.	en-fa
Now that you know this four-part formula, you can mix and match it to make it work for any difficult conversation.	在認識了這四個方法後，你可以任意搭配運用來應付任何棘手的對話。	en-zh-tw
When you think about money and your dreams and you're looking at your account, you're like, "My bank account does not align with my dreams."	Estás pensando en el dinero y tus metas, y miras la cuenta bancaria. Y te das cuenta de que no se ajusta a tus sueños.	en-es
[The Way We Work] Financial health for a typical American household can be stressful.	[ڕێگەی کارکردنمان] باری دارایی بۆ خێزانێکی ئەمریکی دەکرێ فشارهێنەر بێت.	en-ku
We know that 46 percent of all Americans would struggle coming up with 400 dollars in the event of an emergency.	pode ser estressante. Sabemos que para 46% dos norte-americanos seria difícil ter US$ 400 sobrando em caso de alguma emergência.	en-pt-br
And 60 percent of all Americans will face that emergency within 12 months or less.	E 60% dos norte-americanos se depararão com uma emergência em até um ano.	en-pt-br
When you ask the question, "What does money mean to you," most people will say things like, "I feel anxious."	Ante la pregunta: "¿Qué significa para ti el dinero? ", la mayoría dirá algo como: "Me pongo de los nervios".	en-es
And so the insecurities come. The shame comes.	و عدم امنیتی که به همراه می‌آورد.	en-fa
I think we have a fraught relationship with money, because it comes with judgment.	Je pense qu'on a une relation tendue avec l'argent parce qu'elle s'accompagne d'un jugement.	en-fr
When you're not able to pay your bills on time, you can personalize that.	월세를 제때 낼 수 없을 때 그걸 개인화시켜보세요.	en-ko
I don't want anyone to think that I'm not smart.	من نامەوێت ھیچ کەس وابیرب کاتەوە کە من زیرەک نیم.	en-ku
I don't want anyone to know that I am very insecure with money.	Não quero que saibam que sou insegura em relação ao dinheiro.	en-pt-br
I don't want anyone to know that I am super stressed out.	نمی‌خواهم کسی بداند که چقدر درباره آن تحت فشار عصبی‌ام.	en-fa
So now let's change the narrative.	Então, vamos mudar o discurso.	en-pt-br
[6 lessons on how to improve our relationship with money] [1: Talk about it.] You can't do it alone. And that's when your squad has to come in.	[Six façons d'améliorer notre relation avec l'argent ] [1 : Parlez-en.] Vous n'y arriverez pas seul. Vos amis doivent entrer en jeu.	en-fr
It's taboo.	ئەوە ڕێگە پێنەدراوە.	en-ku
We typically don't talk about our stresses when it comes to money.	وقتی پای پول در میان باشد معمولاً از استرس‌مان حرف نمی‌زنیم.	en-fa
We need to come together as a group of friends, no judgment, no shame.	Tenemos que apoyarnos como un grupo de amigos. Sin juicios, sin vergüenza.	en-es
Celebrate the fact that we've made a decision that we want to have a better relationship with money.	Y ensalzar el hecho de que hemos tomado la decisión de mejorar nuestra forma de ver el dinero,	en-es
That is worth applauding or snapping your fingers about.	y de que esto es algo que hay que celebrar.	en-es
Once you've done that, then you get real.	Luego es hora de afrontar la realidad.	en-es
Nothing should be off-limits.	No hay temas prohibidos.	en-es
Where does this relationship come from?	ئەو پەیوەندییە لە کوێوە ھاتووە؟	en-ku
Why am I spending all this money on things that don't align with my goals?	Pourquoi je dépense cet argent dans des choses ne correspondant pas à mes buts ?	en-fr
What are your fears? What are your hopes? What are your dreams?	여러분은 두려운가요? 꿈은 무엇인가요?	en-ko
But then we start to take action.	E então você começa a agir.	en-pt-br
What can we do this week? Or what can we do this month?	¿Qué mejoramos esta semana, este mes?	en-es
[2: Understand what money is] Money is not the end-all be-all.	[Segunda: entenda o que é o dinheiro.] O dinheiro não é o mais importante.	en-pt-br
It's the mechanism to accomplish whatever your goals are.	ئەوە ڕێگەکەیە بۆ بە دەست هێنانی خەونەکانت ھەرچۆنێک بن	en-ku
It does not define you.	돈으로 사람을 판단할 수도 없어요.	en-ko
It's just a mechanism to accomplish what matters to you most.	ئەوە ڕێگەکەیە بۆ بەدەست هێنانی هەر شتێک بۆ تۆ گرنگترینە.	en-ku
[3: Identify what matters to you ... ] Ask yourself one fundamental question: what are you saving for?	[3 : Identifiez ce qui compte à vos yeux] Posez-vous une question fondamentale : dans quel but économisez-vous ?	en-fr
If you're saving for a car, if you're saving to pay down your debt, if you're saving for that rainy day fund, it will include short-term goals and it will include long-term goals.	차를 사고 싶어서? 빛을 갚기 위해서? 혹시 모를 일에 대비해서? 단기적인 목표이면서 장기적인 목표라고 볼 수 있겠네요.	en-ko
[4: ... and then really picture it.] Visualize what you're really trying to accomplish.	[٤:...دواتر بیهێنە بەر چاو] بیھێنە بەرچاوت چ ھەوڵێک دەدەیت بۆ بەدەست هێنانی خەونەکان.	en-ku
A vision board is visual representation of what you're saving for.	تەختەی خەونەکان کۆکردنەوەی ئەوەیە کە چی پاشەکەوت دەکەیت؟	en-ku
So if we break it down, go get a poster board.	بۆیە ئەگەر ئەو لێی ورد بینەوە بڕۆ تەختەیەکی پۆستەر بێنە	en-ku
Get your markers, get your glitter.	Toma rotuladores, purpurina...	en-es
Take magazine pictures, cut it all out.	Découpez des photos de magazines.	en-fr
Have that picture of that great trip.	cole uma foto daquela viagem legal,	en-pt-br
Have the picture of you paying down your student debt.	Une image de vous remboursant votre crédit étudiant.	en-fr
The vision board sounds like, "Oh, how can that really help?"	تەختەی خەونەکان وەک "ئۆھ، بەڕاستی چۆن ئەوەیارمەتیدەر دەبێت؟"	en-ku
The point is your goals need to align with your behaviors, and the vision board is really a representation of where you wanna go and then how you live your life, and in the meantime are the steps to really get there.	A ideia é que suas metas se alinhem com o seu comportamento, e o quadro de metas é uma representação de aonde você quer chegar e de como viver sua vida, e, enquanto isso, representa os passos para realmente chegar lá.	en-pt-br
[5: It's not what you make, it's what you keep.] It's not about what you make, it's about what you keep.	(۵: پولی که درمیاورید مهم نیست، پس‌اندازتان مهم است.) پولی که درمیاورید مهم نیست. پس‌اندازتان مهم است.	en-fa
It's about understanding do I have the ability with what I'm making to take care of my basic needs?	دەربارەی تێگەیشتنە لەوەی توانام ھەیە بییان کەم لەگەڵ ئەوەی چی پاشەکەوت دەکەم بە لەبەر چاو گرتنی پێویستییە بنچینەییەکانم؟	en-ku
And if not, what adjustments do I need to make?	E não se tiver, quais ajustes são necessários?	en-pt-br
And then we start to break it down and talk about the tools.	이 얘기는 제쳐두고 통장 얘기를 해봅시다.	en-ko
We start to say, "Do we have our savings account, auto-save?"	se perguntando: "Minha conta de poupança está rendendo?"	en-pt-br
Set it and forget it, or every day, put a dollar a day.	Lo haces una vez y te olvidas, o quizás ahorras un dólar al día.	en-es
Whatever that rhythm is for you, the goal is the rhythm, not the amount.	Deposite o que conseguir; a meta é a frequência, não é a quantidade.	en-pt-br
You can start slow.	آهسته شروع کنید.	en-fa
You can start small, but you have to start now.	با مقداری جزئی شروع کنید اما شروع کنید.	en-fa
And then let me give you a trick, we all have impulses.	و با فێڵێکت پێ بڵێم ھەموومان ھاندەرمان ھەیە	en-ku
Many times, because the phone is always with us, we start shopping.	Muchas veces, como tenemos siempre el móvil cerca, empezamos a comprar.	en-es
Go out to any site, shop up, put it in your cart.	사이트에 가서 맘에 들면 장바구니에 담죠.	en-ko
Just don't hit buy.	pero no lo compres todavía.	en-es
Wait 24 hours, go back and ask yourself, "Do I really need it?	Espera 24 hs. y pregúntate: "¿De veras lo necesito?"	en-es
What about these items map to my goal?"	آیا این‌ها سر راه هدف من قرار نمی‌گیرند؟»	en-fa
And if it's nothing, hit delete and you got your fix.	» Si non, supprimez-les et vous aurez eu votre dose.	en-fr
[6: Be good to yourself.] It's also important to know that your self-worth is not determined by your net worth.	그럼 성공한겁니다. [6: 자신을 잘 알기] 스스로가 가치 있는 사람인지를 자산으로 판단하지 마세요.	en-ko
This is something that we can do better about.	어려운 일이 아니에요.	en-ko
You celebrate your wins.	بُردهایتان را جشن می‌گیرید.	en-fa
And when you make that misstep, no judgment, no shame.	و موقع خطا، قضاوت و شرمی در کار نیست.	en-fa
Just get back at it.	Il suffit de s'y remettre.	en-fr
My name is Joel, and I'm a co-parent.	저는 조엘이라고 하며 공동양육 부모입니다.	en-ko
So, growing up, I never heard the term "co-parent."	在我的成长过程中，我从未听说过“共同抚养”这个词，	en-zh-cn
I heard a lot of other things, though, for starters, "absentee father," "sperm donor" -- that's a good one -- "deadbeat dad" and, my personal favorite, "baby daddy."	मी इतर अनेक शब्द ऐकले होते, सुरवातीला " अनुपस्थित बाबा" " शुक्राणूदाता" हे छान आहे ।। " मारणारा ? बाबा", आणि माझे स्वतःचे आवडते, " बाळाचे बाबा"	en-mr
"Baby daddy," for those not in the know, refers to an individual who helps to conceive a child but does little else.	给不知道的人科普一下， “宝爸”是指一个帮助怀孕，而却不对此负责的父亲。	en-zh-cn
Baby daddy is also someone who is not married by law to the mother of said child.	“宝爸”也是在法律上没有与孩子的母亲结婚的人。	en-zh-cn
Growing up, I thought "co-parent" was reserved primarily for white families that starred in Netflix prime-time dramas.	De niño pensaba que "copadre" estaba reservado para las familias blancas que protagonizan los dramas de Netflix.	en-es
(Laughter) It still kind of does.	(Gülüşmeler) Aslında hâlâ biraz öyle.	en-tr
But it wasn't used to explain the role of a parent. Right?	Ama bu bir ebeveynin rolünü açıklamıyor, değil mi?	en-tr
Either you had kids or you didn't, and no one in my social circles or at our dinner table was having complex conversations about the role fathers played in that conversation, right?	Você tinha filhos ou não, e ninguém no meu círculo social ou à nossa mesa de jantar tinha conversas complexas sobre o papel que um pai desempenhava naquela conversa.	en-pt-br
A more balanced, open, loving approach to parenting was not something we were discussing within our social circles.	Un enfoque sobre la paternidad más equilibrado, abierto y amoroso no era algo que se discutiera en nuestros círculos sociales.	en-es
A majority of the time, the fathers I knew of growing up were barely present or just completely nonexistent.	La mayoría del tiempo los padres que conocí de niño apenas estaban presentes o no existían para nada.	en-es
"Co-parent" wasn't a term I heard or saw where I grew up, where I came from.	सह-पालक हा शब्द मी जिथे वाढलो किंवा जिथून आलो तिथे कधीही ऐकला नाही।	en-mr
I come from the hood.	전 빈민가 출신입니다.	en-ko
That hood would be Creston Avenue, 188th in the Bronx.	거기 주소가 브롱크스 크레스톤 188번 애비뉴일 겁니다.	en-ko
And for -- one person, that's what's up.	对，就是这么回事儿。	en-zh-cn
(Laughter) Appreciate that.	(Gülüşmeler) Düşünün.	en-tr
For a lot of us in that hood, there was only one person you could already turn to for food, shelter, warmth, love, discipline: our mothers.	在那个街区里，对许多人来说，我们只能指望一个人，去寻求食物、住处、温暖、爱和训导：我们的母亲。	en-zh-cn
My mother, who I playfully call "Linda T," was my first example of real love and what showing up as a healthy co-parent looked like.	Minha mãe, que chamo carinhosamente de "Linda T", foi meu primeiro exemplo de amor verdadeiro e do que é ser um coparental saudável.	en-pt-br
She was a strong, determined single mother, a woman who would have benefited greatly from having a secure and stable partner as a co-parent.	她是一个强大、坚定的单亲母亲。作为共同扶养人，她本该拥有一个可靠稳重的伴侣，以减轻她的负担。	en-zh-cn
So I vowed whenever I got married, my boo and I would be together forever.	त्यामुळेच मी जेव्हा लग्न केले, तेव्हा माझ्या बायकोला कायम साथ देण्याची शपथ घेतली।	en-mr
You know? (Laughs) We'd share the same bed and home, we'd sleep under the same covers, we'd argue at IKEA -- normal stuff.	माहिती आहे? आमचे घर आणि पलंग सामायिक असतील। आम्ही एकाच पांघरुणात झोपू, IKEA बद्दल वाद घालू .नेहमीप्रमाणेच	en-mr
(Laughter) My partner would feel seen and loved, and our children would grow up in a two-parent household.	(Risas) Mi compañera se sentiría vista y amada, y nuestros hijos crecerían en un hogar con padre y madre.	en-es
However, things rarely ever end up how we plan them.	Ama çoğu zaman bir şeyler planladığımız gibi gitmez.	en-tr
Our daughter Lilah has never known a household with both of her parents living together under one roof.	我们的女儿莱拉从来都不知道，和父母住在一起的家庭生活是什么样子。	en-zh-cn
Her mother and I were never married.	因为我和她的母亲从未结过婚。	en-zh-cn
We dated on and off for several months before we found out she was pregnant.	임신 사실을 알기 전까지 몇 달간 만났다 헤어지길 반복했죠.	en-ko
Up until then, my mother didn't even know she existed.	अगदी तेव्हापर्यंत माझ्या आईला तिचं अस्तित्वच माहित नव्हतं.	en-mr
I was ashamed, I was embarrassed, and, at times, I was suicidal.	मला शरम वाटत होती, मी गोंधळून गेलो होतो। आणि कधी कधी मला जीव द्यावासा वाटत होता.	en-mr
I was asking myself, what was I doing? Where was I going wrong?	Me preguntaba qué era lo que estaba haciendo mal.	en-es
I never wanted the stigma or label of what some identified as the stereotypical "black father."	Nunca había querido el estigma o la etiqueta de lo que algunos identificaban como el estereotipo del "padre negro":	en-es
So: absentee, confrontational, combative, not present.	Dahası, tartışmacı baba, kavgacı baba, saldırgan baba, olmayan baba.	en-tr
It took a lot of work, time, energy and effort for us to finally realize that maybe co-parenting for us didn't need to mean a shared household and wedding bells, that maybe, just maybe, the way we showed up as co-parents lay not only in the layered nuances of our partnership but the capacity within our hearts to tend to a human that we helped create together.	Foi preciso muito trabalho, tempo, energia e esforço para finalmente percebermos que coparentalidade para nós não precisava significar uma casa compartilhada e troca de alianças, e que talvez, simplesmente talvez, nos apresentarmos como coparentais está não apenas nas nuances das camadas da nossa parceria, mas na capacidade dentro de nosso coração de cuidar de um ser humano que ajudamos a criar juntos.	en-pt-br
(Applause) It would involve love in a nurturing and safe environment that would feed Lilah long after we both left this earth.	(Alkış) Ortak ebeveynlik, biz bu dünyayı terk ettikten çok sonra Lilah’ı destekleyecek besleyici ve güvenli ortama sevgiyi dâhil ediyor.	en-tr
Fast-forward four years, and Lilah is now in pre-K.	Dört yıl çabuk geçti, Lilah şimdi anaokulunda.	en-tr
She loves gummies, and she says things like, "My heart is filled with love."	她非常喜欢软糖，而且她会说类似 “我内心充满了爱”这样的话。	en-zh-cn

Pulling feedback establishes you as a continual learner and puts the power in your hands.

بازخورد کششی، شما را به‌عنوانِ یک یادگیرنده مداوم تعیین می‌کند و قدرت را در دستان شما قرار می‌دهد.

en-fa

The most challenging situations are actually the ones that call for the most skillful feedback.

Las situaciones más desafiantes son las que exigen el feedback más hábil.

en-es

But it doesn't have to be hard.

اما لازم نیست سخت بگیرید.

en-fa

Now that you know this four-part formula, you can mix and match it to make it work for any difficult conversation.

在認識了這四個方法後，你可以任意搭配運用來應付任何棘手的對話。

en-zh-tw

When you think about money and your dreams and you're looking at your account, you're like, "My bank account does not align with my dreams."

Estás pensando en el dinero y tus metas, y miras la cuenta bancaria. Y te das cuenta de que no se ajusta a tus sueños.

en-es

[The Way We Work] Financial health for a typical American household can be stressful.

[ڕێگەی کارکردنمان] باری دارایی بۆ خێزانێکی ئەمریکی دەکرێ فشارهێنەر بێت.

en-ku

We know that 46 percent of all Americans would struggle coming up with 400 dollars in the event of an emergency.

pode ser estressante. Sabemos que para 46% dos norte-americanos seria difícil ter US$ 400 sobrando em caso de alguma emergência.

en-pt-br

And 60 percent of all Americans will face that emergency within 12 months or less.

E 60% dos norte-americanos se depararão com uma emergência em até um ano.

en-pt-br

When you ask the question, "What does money mean to you," most people will say things like, "I feel anxious."

Ante la pregunta: "¿Qué significa para ti el dinero? ", la mayoría dirá algo como: "Me pongo de los nervios".

en-es

And so the insecurities come. The shame comes.

و عدم امنیتی که به همراه می‌آورد.

en-fa

I think we have a fraught relationship with money, because it comes with judgment.

Je pense qu'on a une relation tendue avec l'argent parce qu'elle s'accompagne d'un jugement.

en-fr

When you're not able to pay your bills on time, you can personalize that.

월세를 제때 낼 수 없을 때 그걸 개인화시켜보세요.

en-ko

I don't want anyone to think that I'm not smart.

من نامەوێت ھیچ کەس وابیرب کاتەوە کە من زیرەک نیم.

en-ku

I don't want anyone to know that I am very insecure with money.

Não quero que saibam que sou insegura em relação ao dinheiro.

en-pt-br

I don't want anyone to know that I am super stressed out.

نمی‌خواهم کسی بداند که چقدر درباره آن تحت فشار عصبی‌ام.

en-fa

So now let's change the narrative.

Então, vamos mudar o discurso.

en-pt-br

[6 lessons on how to improve our relationship with money] [1: Talk about it.] You can't do it alone. And that's when your squad has to come in.

[Six façons d'améliorer notre relation avec l'argent ] [1 : Parlez-en.] Vous n'y arriverez pas seul. Vos amis doivent entrer en jeu.

en-fr

It's taboo.

ئەوە ڕێگە پێنەدراوە.

en-ku

We typically don't talk about our stresses when it comes to money.

وقتی پای پول در میان باشد معمولاً از استرس‌مان حرف نمی‌زنیم.

en-fa

We need to come together as a group of friends, no judgment, no shame.

Tenemos que apoyarnos como un grupo de amigos. Sin juicios, sin vergüenza.

en-es

Celebrate the fact that we've made a decision that we want to have a better relationship with money.

Y ensalzar el hecho de que hemos tomado la decisión de mejorar nuestra forma de ver el dinero,

en-es

That is worth applauding or snapping your fingers about.

y de que esto es algo que hay que celebrar.

en-es

Once you've done that, then you get real.

Luego es hora de afrontar la realidad.

en-es

Nothing should be off-limits.

No hay temas prohibidos.

en-es

Where does this relationship come from?

ئەو پەیوەندییە لە کوێوە ھاتووە؟

en-ku

Why am I spending all this money on things that don't align with my goals?

Pourquoi je dépense cet argent dans des choses ne correspondant pas à mes buts ?

en-fr

What are your fears? What are your hopes? What are your dreams?

여러분은 두려운가요? 꿈은 무엇인가요?

en-ko

But then we start to take action.

E então você começa a agir.

en-pt-br

What can we do this week? Or what can we do this month?

¿Qué mejoramos esta semana, este mes?

en-es

[2: Understand what money is] Money is not the end-all be-all.

[Segunda: entenda o que é o dinheiro.] O dinheiro não é o mais importante.

en-pt-br

It's the mechanism to accomplish whatever your goals are.

ئەوە ڕێگەکەیە بۆ بە دەست هێنانی خەونەکانت ھەرچۆنێک بن

en-ku

It does not define you.

돈으로 사람을 판단할 수도 없어요.

en-ko

It's just a mechanism to accomplish what matters to you most.

ئەوە ڕێگەکەیە بۆ بەدەست هێنانی هەر شتێک بۆ تۆ گرنگترینە.

en-ku

[3: Identify what matters to you ... ] Ask yourself one fundamental question: what are you saving for?

[3 : Identifiez ce qui compte à vos yeux] Posez-vous une question fondamentale : dans quel but économisez-vous ?

en-fr

If you're saving for a car, if you're saving to pay down your debt, if you're saving for that rainy day fund, it will include short-term goals and it will include long-term goals.

차를 사고 싶어서? 빛을 갚기 위해서? 혹시 모를 일에 대비해서? 단기적인 목표이면서 장기적인 목표라고 볼 수 있겠네요.

en-ko

[4: ... and then really picture it.] Visualize what you're really trying to accomplish.

[٤:...دواتر بیهێنە بەر چاو] بیھێنە بەرچاوت چ ھەوڵێک دەدەیت بۆ بەدەست هێنانی خەونەکان.

en-ku

A vision board is visual representation of what you're saving for.

تەختەی خەونەکان کۆکردنەوەی ئەوەیە کە چی پاشەکەوت دەکەیت؟

en-ku

So if we break it down, go get a poster board.

بۆیە ئەگەر ئەو لێی ورد بینەوە بڕۆ تەختەیەکی پۆستەر بێنە

en-ku

Get your markers, get your glitter.

Toma rotuladores, purpurina...

en-es

Take magazine pictures, cut it all out.

Découpez des photos de magazines.

en-fr

Have that picture of that great trip.

cole uma foto daquela viagem legal,

en-pt-br

Have the picture of you paying down your student debt.

Une image de vous remboursant votre crédit étudiant.

en-fr

The vision board sounds like, "Oh, how can that really help?"

تەختەی خەونەکان وەک "ئۆھ، بەڕاستی چۆن ئەوەیارمەتیدەر دەبێت؟"

en-ku

The point is your goals need to align with your behaviors, and the vision board is really a representation of where you wanna go and then how you live your life, and in the meantime are the steps to really get there.

A ideia é que suas metas se alinhem com o seu comportamento, e o quadro de metas é uma representação de aonde você quer chegar e de como viver sua vida, e, enquanto isso, representa os passos para realmente chegar lá.

en-pt-br

[5: It's not what you make, it's what you keep.] It's not about what you make, it's about what you keep.

(۵: پولی که درمیاورید مهم نیست، پس‌اندازتان مهم است.) پولی که درمیاورید مهم نیست. پس‌اندازتان مهم است.

en-fa

It's about understanding do I have the ability with what I'm making to take care of my basic needs?

دەربارەی تێگەیشتنە لەوەی توانام ھەیە بییان کەم لەگەڵ ئەوەی چی پاشەکەوت دەکەم بە لەبەر چاو گرتنی پێویستییە بنچینەییەکانم؟

en-ku

And if not, what adjustments do I need to make?

E não se tiver, quais ajustes são necessários?

en-pt-br

And then we start to break it down and talk about the tools.

이 얘기는 제쳐두고 통장 얘기를 해봅시다.

en-ko

We start to say, "Do we have our savings account, auto-save?"

se perguntando: "Minha conta de poupança está rendendo?"

en-pt-br

Set it and forget it, or every day, put a dollar a day.

Lo haces una vez y te olvidas, o quizás ahorras un dólar al día.

en-es

Whatever that rhythm is for you, the goal is the rhythm, not the amount.

Deposite o que conseguir; a meta é a frequência, não é a quantidade.

en-pt-br

You can start slow.

آهسته شروع کنید.

en-fa

You can start small, but you have to start now.

با مقداری جزئی شروع کنید اما شروع کنید.

en-fa

And then let me give you a trick, we all have impulses.

و با فێڵێکت پێ بڵێم ھەموومان ھاندەرمان ھەیە

en-ku

Many times, because the phone is always with us, we start shopping.

Muchas veces, como tenemos siempre el móvil cerca, empezamos a comprar.

en-es

Go out to any site, shop up, put it in your cart.

사이트에 가서 맘에 들면 장바구니에 담죠.

en-ko

Just don't hit buy.

pero no lo compres todavía.

en-es

Wait 24 hours, go back and ask yourself, "Do I really need it?

Espera 24 hs. y pregúntate: "¿De veras lo necesito?"

en-es

What about these items map to my goal?"

آیا این‌ها سر راه هدف من قرار نمی‌گیرند؟»

en-fa

And if it's nothing, hit delete and you got your fix.

» Si non, supprimez-les et vous aurez eu votre dose.

en-fr

[6: Be good to yourself.] It's also important to know that your self-worth is not determined by your net worth.

그럼 성공한겁니다. [6: 자신을 잘 알기] 스스로가 가치 있는 사람인지를 자산으로 판단하지 마세요.

en-ko

This is something that we can do better about.

어려운 일이 아니에요.

en-ko

You celebrate your wins.

بُردهایتان را جشن می‌گیرید.

en-fa

And when you make that misstep, no judgment, no shame.

و موقع خطا، قضاوت و شرمی در کار نیست.

en-fa

Just get back at it.

Il suffit de s'y remettre.

en-fr

My name is Joel, and I'm a co-parent.

저는 조엘이라고 하며 공동양육 부모입니다.

en-ko

So, growing up, I never heard the term "co-parent."

在我的成长过程中，我从未听说过“共同抚养”这个词，

en-zh-cn

I heard a lot of other things, though, for starters, "absentee father," "sperm donor" -- that's a good one -- "deadbeat dad" and, my personal favorite, "baby daddy."

मी इतर अनेक शब्द ऐकले होते, सुरवातीला " अनुपस्थित बाबा" " शुक्राणूदाता" हे छान आहे ।। " मारणारा ? बाबा", आणि माझे स्वतःचे आवडते, " बाळाचे बाबा"

en-mr

"Baby daddy," for those not in the know, refers to an individual who helps to conceive a child but does little else.

给不知道的人科普一下， “宝爸”是指一个帮助怀孕，而却不对此负责的父亲。

en-zh-cn

Baby daddy is also someone who is not married by law to the mother of said child.

“宝爸”也是在法律上没有与孩子的母亲结婚的人。

en-zh-cn

Growing up, I thought "co-parent" was reserved primarily for white families that starred in Netflix prime-time dramas.

De niño pensaba que "copadre" estaba reservado para las familias blancas que protagonizan los dramas de Netflix.

en-es

(Laughter) It still kind of does.

(Gülüşmeler) Aslında hâlâ biraz öyle.

en-tr

But it wasn't used to explain the role of a parent. Right?

Ama bu bir ebeveynin rolünü açıklamıyor, değil mi?

en-tr

Either you had kids or you didn't, and no one in my social circles or at our dinner table was having complex conversations about the role fathers played in that conversation, right?

Você tinha filhos ou não, e ninguém no meu círculo social ou à nossa mesa de jantar tinha conversas complexas sobre o papel que um pai desempenhava naquela conversa.

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A more balanced, open, loving approach to parenting was not something we were discussing within our social circles.

Un enfoque sobre la paternidad más equilibrado, abierto y amoroso no era algo que se discutiera en nuestros círculos sociales.

en-es

A majority of the time, the fathers I knew of growing up were barely present or just completely nonexistent.

La mayoría del tiempo los padres que conocí de niño apenas estaban presentes o no existían para nada.

en-es

"Co-parent" wasn't a term I heard or saw where I grew up, where I came from.

सह-पालक हा शब्द मी जिथे वाढलो किंवा जिथून आलो तिथे कधीही ऐकला नाही।

en-mr

I come from the hood.

전 빈민가 출신입니다.

en-ko

That hood would be Creston Avenue, 188th in the Bronx.

거기 주소가 브롱크스 크레스톤 188번 애비뉴일 겁니다.

en-ko

And for -- one person, that's what's up.

对，就是这么回事儿。

en-zh-cn

(Laughter) Appreciate that.

(Gülüşmeler) Düşünün.

en-tr

For a lot of us in that hood, there was only one person you could already turn to for food, shelter, warmth, love, discipline: our mothers.

在那个街区里，对许多人来说，我们只能指望一个人，去寻求食物、住处、温暖、爱和训导：我们的母亲。

en-zh-cn

My mother, who I playfully call "Linda T," was my first example of real love and what showing up as a healthy co-parent looked like.

Minha mãe, que chamo carinhosamente de "Linda T", foi meu primeiro exemplo de amor verdadeiro e do que é ser um coparental saudável.

en-pt-br

She was a strong, determined single mother, a woman who would have benefited greatly from having a secure and stable partner as a co-parent.

她是一个强大、坚定的单亲母亲。作为共同扶养人，她本该拥有一个可靠稳重的伴侣，以减轻她的负担。

en-zh-cn

So I vowed whenever I got married, my boo and I would be together forever.

त्यामुळेच मी जेव्हा लग्न केले, तेव्हा माझ्या बायकोला कायम साथ देण्याची शपथ घेतली।

en-mr

You know? (Laughs) We'd share the same bed and home, we'd sleep under the same covers, we'd argue at IKEA -- normal stuff.

माहिती आहे? आमचे घर आणि पलंग सामायिक असतील। आम्ही एकाच पांघरुणात झोपू, IKEA बद्दल वाद घालू .नेहमीप्रमाणेच

en-mr

(Laughter) My partner would feel seen and loved, and our children would grow up in a two-parent household.

(Risas) Mi compañera se sentiría vista y amada, y nuestros hijos crecerían en un hogar con padre y madre.

en-es

However, things rarely ever end up how we plan them.

Ama çoğu zaman bir şeyler planladığımız gibi gitmez.

en-tr

Our daughter Lilah has never known a household with both of her parents living together under one roof.

我们的女儿莱拉从来都不知道，和父母住在一起的家庭生活是什么样子。

en-zh-cn

Her mother and I were never married.

因为我和她的母亲从未结过婚。

en-zh-cn

We dated on and off for several months before we found out she was pregnant.

임신 사실을 알기 전까지 몇 달간 만났다 헤어지길 반복했죠.

en-ko

Up until then, my mother didn't even know she existed.

अगदी तेव्हापर्यंत माझ्या आईला तिचं अस्तित्वच माहित नव्हतं.

en-mr

I was ashamed, I was embarrassed, and, at times, I was suicidal.

मला शरम वाटत होती, मी गोंधळून गेलो होतो। आणि कधी कधी मला जीव द्यावासा वाटत होता.

en-mr

I was asking myself, what was I doing? Where was I going wrong?

Me preguntaba qué era lo que estaba haciendo mal.

en-es

I never wanted the stigma or label of what some identified as the stereotypical "black father."

Nunca había querido el estigma o la etiqueta de lo que algunos identificaban como el estereotipo del "padre negro":

en-es

So: absentee, confrontational, combative, not present.

Dahası, tartışmacı baba, kavgacı baba, saldırgan baba, olmayan baba.

en-tr

It took a lot of work, time, energy and effort for us to finally realize that maybe co-parenting for us didn't need to mean a shared household and wedding bells, that maybe, just maybe, the way we showed up as co-parents lay not only in the layered nuances of our partnership but the capacity within our hearts to tend to a human that we helped create together.

Foi preciso muito trabalho, tempo, energia e esforço para finalmente percebermos que coparentalidade para nós não precisava significar uma casa compartilhada e troca de alianças, e que talvez, simplesmente talvez, nos apresentarmos como coparentais está não apenas nas nuances das camadas da nossa parceria, mas na capacidade dentro de nosso coração de cuidar de um ser humano que ajudamos a criar juntos.

en-pt-br

(Applause) It would involve love in a nurturing and safe environment that would feed Lilah long after we both left this earth.

(Alkış) Ortak ebeveynlik, biz bu dünyayı terk ettikten çok sonra Lilah’ı destekleyecek besleyici ve güvenli ortama sevgiyi dâhil ediyor.

en-tr

Fast-forward four years, and Lilah is now in pre-K.

Dört yıl çabuk geçti, Lilah şimdi anaokulunda.

en-tr

She loves gummies, and she says things like, "My heart is filled with love."

她非常喜欢软糖，而且她会说类似 “我内心充满了爱”这样的话。

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