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So some context. I’m a 16yo male, and have been catching feelings for this girl that goes to my school. She’s my age, and we have a couple classes together. I’ve known her for a bit, just from going to school, but this stuff is more recent-like within the past monthish.
Ok, so we’ve talked on and off, mostly about classes and whatnot, but I’ve been able to get a few laughs outta her, and I’ve had a generally good time when we’re talking. We’ve also gotten some eye contact from across the room a couple times, maybe some minor flirting, and she complimented my hair today. I doubt she’s giving any signals, but I wanna ask her out to get to know her better, so I can figure out if this is something I wanna pursue. She’s really cute, cool to be around, and I like her style. Only things holding me back is that A. She hasn’t been the most reliable friend to a really good long time female friend of mine. Not like mean or anything, just cancelling on plans recently. B. This might be too soon. It’s the weekend now, so I have some time to think, but what do y’all think? | Crush |
just gonna tell you all about her. i just need to vent cuz bitch life isnt easy. lets start with something normal and as ill write things abt her will just come to my mind so lets go. i have crush on this girl i think. i dont even fucking know how i feel abt her. she ís one of my closest friends and we have this good chemistry. but rn she is dating guy nobody likes. so literally she just talks to me and her mother. maybe bf. idk. she lost all of her friends cuz someone would say she behaved like bitch. shes dating this guy 5th guy. noone has problem, that she is dating. really nobody cares. but everybody cares who shes dating. this fucking son a of bitch who already broke her heart. maybe shes blind bc of the "love". but i dont think so. its no love. theres only one possible explanation. he must have the biggest pp in the world. hes just piece of a shit. for the record i would never date her if i had the chance. her relationships never lasted longer 4 months. i dont want to ruin our friendship fot this. but lemme tell you about her something. she is prolly the most responsible person i know. and that is good and bad (she is just too focused at what shes doing and what consequences will her actions have, that she just cant enjoy moment) at the same time. she has no time. she is either studying, having piano classes or playing basketball. shes really nice and all but she is in so much stress. i quote:"i just feel like peepl dont want me in their company, that nobody cares about my opinion or what im saying. bc everytime i say something they either react with weird look or dont react at all. and i feel aleno and its absolutely terrible. and thats why im the way i am rn. i do not talk at all about my feelings. it isnt good but thats just how i deal with it. ( i firstly asked what was wrong bc i could see her being sad yk. that this conversation to which i told her that i cared about her opinion) and its weird." she also told me that she doesnt trust her (former) best friends. and all of that bc she has no one to talk to. isnt boyfriend here for this? as one of many reasons. to help you out? which obviously he isnt doing bc than shes crying in my dms. im not even wandering why she is like that. maybe she just doesnt understand that i dont want her bad and i want to help her. also, she is one of the hottest peepl i know. quite tall for girl 173 cm (5´8´´ for you americans). she has beautiful hair. so astonishing i cant describe it. for you pervs she got some nice **🍒** and **🍑** . not big, not small just to fit your hands. she is dressing nice. as i said earlier i dont what i even feel so this may sound quite different to what i said. one thing id change? her boyfriend. i would. okay another thing. yesterday i was listening to radio and this song was playing (count on me by bruno mars) and it reminded me of her and i cant relate more. thats basically how id describe our current relationship (not romantic). oh and there is one more thing. yk how there is this prolly highest state of friendship. when actually u even physically hurt each other, but would kill if enyone hurted them except you. like mens brotherhood. i can insult him and i can kick him in nuts. as he can kick me. so im not in that state of friendship with her. but soon well get there asi can see. thats all. any questions will be soon or later answered. good night | Crush |
So today was the final day of high school. During the last hour, we didn't get any lessons. We all talked in the classroom. I, and 2 others, was crying. I will miss all of these people so much. My crush noticed I was crying, and she decided to hug me, and comfort me. She made me feel so good in this otherwise very sad moment. For a moment, it felt like there was more than just a crush. I was too scared to talk about my feelings for her, but at least I got the most satisfying hug I've ever had. She said that I'm adorable (in a good way), and she enjoyed sitting next to me the past few months (we always had to sit next to eachother due to COVID rules). I REALLY hope I'll see her again after the graduation. It's now my goal to tell her how I feel next Friday, when the exams are over. But right now, I'm feeling like an emotional wreck. | Crush |
I feel like a clown. Hah. He is a friend of two cousins of mine.
I'm so embarrassed because, well... I am lame, and ugly and just... I feel stupid because I talk about him often and stuff and he probably forgot my name.
At least my aunt is cheering me on :') | Crush |
So, if you’d look at my posts you’d know the whole story but long story short, liked this guy for 3 years on and off again mixed signals, well I was drunk and tired of it the other night and was venting to a friend about how I wish he would just come out and say or post something. Well, he did! He didn’t confess, but he posted himself out on a date with a girl. I HAVE NEVER FELT MORE FREE. All that wondering what if is gone and I can now move forward. | Crush |
how do you know if your guy bestfriend likes you | Crush |
I like someone…. I don't know his name🥲 I haven't seen him for two days he hasn't gone to work… I'd like to know his name. | Crush |
Pls help me, I really want to ask her out | Crush |
he has a boyfriend right now but fucking hell you have no idea how much I wish it could just be me with him instead. I keep on imagining us just cuddling, laughing, kissing everything really and you have no idea how much I wish it could actually happen. I care about him so much, I've never felt this way before; not even with my ex. I just wish that I could tell him that I love him and I wish I could just hug him and care for him. I want to protect him, I want to be there for him, for forever. I just wish he felt the same way but he never will. its not even a case of oh well he might. it's just a definite no. he's never gonna love me back. | Crush |
I never liked anyone, he is my first crush i need advice because I’m not sure whether he likes me or not… he wishes me good morning and goodnight texts everyday and texts me a lot and spams me when i don’t answer by asking if I’m okay. He always makes sure I’m fine and he knows when I’m sad. We talk everyday for like 6 months in a row- we never not talked once in these 6 months. He always tells me his proud of me and cheers me up and compliments me- i would confess but I’m afraid of rejection and he sometimes calls me his “friend” but doesn’t like act like I’m a friend but more than that according to my friends- he also always stares at me. | Crush |
Reddit won’t let me delete this?!? Fucking trash can’t ass eater. Let me delete you fucking cunt. This nasty fucking post should be deleted ok? Let me delete my fucking post cock sucking fuck!!!!! Reddit can eat my clean white ass hole!!!!! | Crush |
He’s my co worker but everyone at work seem to think he likes me, he follows me everywhere, invites himself to my lunches, and touches me and my phone whenever he wants. He also made up some weird excuse as to why he needs my number, ever since he had my number he would ask me if he can call me because “typing hurts his fingers” he also ask me very sexual questions. He even called me yesterday out of the blue, I’m not sure if he’s gay or not (I’m bisexual) but I mentioned gay topics around him and he says he doesn’t care about sexualities he’s cool with it!! I don’t know it’s very confusing what do you guys think? | Crush |
I’m kinda curious if you guys have ever liked people of different races, skin color | Crush |
I didn’t really mess up, I pretty much just didn’t do anything. So me and my crush work together in a restaurant and tonight it was just us and two other supervisors. Tonight we were making the sauce, so we were just standing next to each other for some time. I never said anything the whole time because I was too scared, I thought she was gonna say something about my shaking hands.
So I helped her with the sauce and afterwards she thanked me but she said it like she actually meant it which was odd to me because usually she’s very reserved. Am I reading too much into this? Do you think I might have a chance with her? | Crush |
So there is this girl at my school who I've liked since about September of 2019. At the time, we were friends, but we started getting closer and that's what made my crush really grow. So I decided to tell her how I felt in late October of 2019. She said that she was "too busy" to date someone at the time but "not to give up." I took this as she wasn't interested and I was okay with that. It was kinda awkward for a month or so but after that, we were normal and still growing closer as friends.
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Flash forward to the present. I still like her, probably even more than I did before. We are best friends now, which makes my feelings suck even harder, but I'm afraid to say anything about them because I don't want to jeopardize our friendship and make it awkward again. Over the year and a half-ish, she has made multiple comments in general about how she hasn't really ever had a crush on anybody, ect. And again, I am okay with just being friends because that's definitely better than nothing but us being so close just makes it really hard sometimes. And she's not really confident about herself and makes comments about how she's not good-looking or not smart and I really want to tell her she IS good-looking and she IS smart but I am afraid that would make it awkward. I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice on how to deal with this? | Crush |
I’ve liked this guy since last year and I don’t even know how it started, it was completely random and I haven’t stopped thinking about him since… we’re like mutual friends and don’t really talk to one another. I really want to start being friends BUT IM TOO MUCH OF A P WORD TO TEXT FIRST 😭 I sent a confession message to him through my spam but unsent that after 2 seconds bc I started to overthink everything… idk what to do I at least want to be friends but life is so hard when your both extreme introverts
No one has to reply lol I just wanted to get my thoughts out without telling my friends bc none of them know :/ | Crush |
I mean I think I've always kinda liked this guy but never really accepted it you know? he's like the one guy that I would date... he's so kind, funny and perfect in every way and it hurts so fucking much that I can't be with him (hes in a relationship atm). i don't think I'm ever really gonna tell him how I feel, if it was anybody else I probably would but its different with him, its one of those crushes that you just have to wait out and get over because you know its never going to work out and they're never gonna feel the same way.
I hate the fact that he's in a relationship, I wish I could be with him instead of his current partner.. I mean they make him happy so I guess its better off that way but I wish it could've just been me instead. I don't think I've ever felt this way about anybody, it hurts seeing how much he's in love with his current partner, like why couldn't it have just been me instead?
I hate seeing him struggle too, his family aren't the best and they always bring him down. I wish I could just take him away from it all, I miss seeing him genuinely happy, you can tell he fakes it when he's around people. I wish I could just be the person that always makes him feel happy and forget about shit that happened but I'm never gonna be that person, he already has that person and its not me.
I'm sorry for the vent <33 | Crush |
I have a crush on my friend, but we’re part of a friend group of 4. Im not going to confess to him rn bc I want to make sure my feelings are genuine and also I am scared to ruin the friend group. The other two friends in the friend group made a joke about us dating the other night and I got really embarrassed. Should I tell my 2 friends I have feelings for him? I’m scared that they’ll tell him even though I know they won’t. Also I’m kind of ashamed of my situation as it’s a bit embarrassing to have feelings for him. (This is a gay post pls don’t call me a girl) | Crush |
She's in most of my classes, I've actually known her for at least a year and bit now. I'm trying to be around her more than I usually do, so I can form some kind of base for a greater relationship. I just don't want to seem too spontaneous, I'm pretty worried I'm gonna scare them off, but I really have no idea. I don't know what I should do. It's almost the end of term 3, so in about 2 1/2 weeks I'll be on a 3 week break. Should I try and aim for something within this time frame? What would I even do? If I do ask them out, does it matter where they live? Because they don't live in the same town as me. Would we just go somewhere, walk around? or just hang out? I really need some help here | Crush |
i rlly rlly RLLY like him we don't talk but i wanna tell him how i feel about i him. is it a good idea? we send snaps to each other but we don't talk at school lol
help guys should i tell him | Crush |
I am not the person with a crush but I am trying to figure out if this certain classmate has a crush on me.
Well we never talk and if we do it's probably just low-key bullying (kinda as a joke, idk how to explain), so I find it hard to believe that he has a crush on me. Also what makes it harder is the fact that one of his friends told the whole class that he has a crush on another person when he was absent. Which happened long before I started suspecting (😂amogus) him. Another factor is my self hatred but this we not talk about.
Basically he is that six grader (13) who is just idk
Just stupid, does bad things, hated by the teachers and so on. So I don't like him either but I'm guessing he has a thing for nice girls or smth? Basically what makes me guess that he has a crush on me is that I can literally see him staring at me and when I look at him he just turns away at the speed of light and maybe starts talking to his friends of random things. Also when he is near me he tends to not do the stupid shit he usually does, but it is probably so around all girls so it doesn't really matter. Another thing is that he is on some sort of extremely high alert and whenever I fail something he is the first one to insult and comment on it. Besides that it always seems like when I start laughing at something that happened he does too, but it might just be because laughing spreads like yawning.
I don't know, maybe he does this all because he is desperate for a girl and to show off to his friends like all them damn six graders are here. I find it hard to believe that someone would fall for me, as I am not very attractive or girly, and he would have a much better option which is my closest friend.
I don't like him but I'm just getting such mixed signals from him and it constantly keeps me thinking. What do you think about this? | Crush |
I know some people find it rude and disrespectful but is it really that bad to dream about a crush but genuinely never take any action? Like, what if it's not a sexual dream just a dream where me and them are dating or even just closer than we actually are.. and then never talk to them about it or never confess because I either think I'll move on sometime soon or y'know, feel too nervous to or something.
I'm genuinely curious because I talked about this with a friend and they said that they find it rude to do that,, well they said "You may think like that but I find it rude" so now I'm just wondering if others think so too, but even if others don't I'll still try to change my way of thinking. | Crush |
After talking for a few days, I finally got her number. OMG I’m so happy right now :) | Crush |
Sry if it's too long. So on the 29th of May I got on a bus and I immediately crushed on the bus driver, and I was like watching him whenever he wasn't looking in the view rear mirror. Then for the next days I started looking for him all over the service area of the company. From bus to bus. Then I gave up, 'cause a friend told me that maybe if I don't look for him, I will find him. Little did I know, one day on a night bus, there he was, and the surprise was sooo good. This was 1 week ago. Ever since, I've been getting on the same night bus, with no luck whatsoever... I'm afraid it's starting to even mess with my health as well, because apart of the typical crush feeling (you know what I'm talking 'bout) which is getting worse and worse, I have IBS and also I'm not sleeping as much as I should, because as I said, I catch the same bus every night just hoping he will be there... :( But nope.. Even now, the bus is leaving in 5 minutes and its not the driver that I wanted.. You know what the funniest thing is? That honestly I don't even remember how he looks, but I would definitely recognize him, because... well.. damn he fine! He is so unique. I miss him soooo much :(( Y'all must think I'm crazy though :D Damn my own friends think I'm crazy🤣 whatevs, I just wanted to "vent", 'cause my friends had enough :DDD | Crush |
what is the pyschology behind seeing random person in ur dreams and then u cant stop thinking about them? | Crush |
let me start by saying, i know i’m wrong. and i’ve been wrong. this hasn’t been the first time i’ve been wrong. I love a man that I met on the East Coast and then he got stationed in Japan for 2 years. I think I wasn’t ready for all that a LDR required. i got distracted early on, and ended up sleeping with a guy who ended up sexually assaulting me the same night. sometimes i feel it’s deserved. a drunken mistake. I told LDR and he was reasonably upset, but we’re still together.
there’s been temptations with others since but i’d never follow through for lack of trust and the fact that sex with someone you truly have chemistry with and care for is way different than just to satisfy. but now i’m finding myself in a different predicament.
i know i’m wrong.
i’ve known this guy for a year. he’s my mentor with work. conventionally unattractive, but the most beautiful mind and soul. which is what trips me out. not that i was ever vain, but normally i would have swiped right. wicked smart. like, wicked. and remembers everything. thoughtful. emotionally aware. sweet. awesome taste in music. and normally we don’t work together but one night we did and we didn’t leave each other’s presence for nearly 22 hours. we talked and shared so much and we’ve been texting ever since. i’ve been actively thinking about him ever since.
i don’t understand why i feel this way. it’s not even an immediate lustful attraction like it was with anyone else. i’m sincerely falling for this dude and i shouldn’t be. i’d like to blame it on the fact I haven’t been touched properly in so long, even in the non sexual sense. maybe i’m just being distracted. but i’m not doing a good job of staying away.
i really love my guy in Japan and i can’t do him wrong again but how can i be so attracted to two people at the same time?
just wanted to get this off my chest rather than look for advice. i know i’m wrong for this. | Crush |
I first got feelings for him a year ago and I found his number and we started texting. It was pretty clear he didn't like me (never picking up calls, relatively short conversations, etc.) but I was naive so I confessed anyway. I got rejected, and it was pretty hard because my feelings for him were very intense. My feelings never died down. I'm going to see him at our school reuinion and I still really like him. Should I pursue him? | Crush |
I’m 15 [M] so basically I’ve had a crush on a girl in my school for about 4 years now. It started when I moved to my current school in grade 5, on the first day i already liked her so we became friends, we started to text and face time every day for a few hours and we were really close but I was too shy to tell her my feelings, even though she was on my mind 24/7. Anyway we move to grade 6 and eventually to grade 7 both of those grades we don’t have a single class together so we grew apart and didn’t talk as much. Fast forward to grade 8 and we have a few classes together and I try to start talking with her again and it seems like she doesn’t want to be friends, dry responses leaving me on read and not really starting or contributing to convos, so I stopped trying. Now we are both in grade 9 and I like her even more than I used to but we haven’t spoken since a year before and it doesn’t seem like she wants to. I really want to tell her hour I feel but idk what to say or how to go about it, or even how to start a conversation and become friends with her again. | Crush |
So just to recap or if you didn’t see my older posts, I have a crush on my girl best friend.
I asked her:”do you think I like you?” And she said no, this is the most obvious things, she’s just so beautiful.
And I’m not that type of guy that just looks at her ass and likes her, what about her personality, voice, eyes, face, intentions and also I’ve been called a simp, but I just treat girl the way they should be treated.
A girl immediately know that your intentions are good if you treat her good.
Well, .... (Crush), if you ever wanna sleep with me I’m keeping your spot and will keep it forever;)
I love you baby,
PS:next time I have a sleepover with you, try not to take out your phone and start talking to other your maybe boyfriend, It’s fucking annoying. | Crush |
hi, i need your help with my crush.
so theres a guy that i like, we hanged out many times (most time in a group), we cuddled, he gave me his hoodies, actually he gave me so many signs, we talked on voice chat for like 3 hours almost everyday chatting about everything, we played video games.. and then he told me that he was not ready for a relationship because he needs to work on his problems in life and theres nothing wrong with me, he also gave me many compliments (he is not a type of person who gives compliments) . we havent talked since then a lot we've made a little break, we have stopped talking... till now, when he invited me to his house and introduced me to his family, we hanged out and we really got on very quickly.
yesterday he invited me to his house again for a party, there were his friends, he stood behind me while i was sitting, he stood in my personal space a lot, we talked, too lots... and this may sound weird but he offered me his extra warm socks for sleep because my feet are always cold and the today he said i can take them home, i was suprised, he has never done that ... he also drove me home..
please i need help. what do you think of this, does he have feelings for me, is he attracted to me? I just cant read him its so hard and its annoying me so much. im confused. did he change his mind?
thanks for your help. | Crush |
Im 19(F) and about to go to first yr of uni. I met this guy ( sam ) back in elementry school during grade 1( yr 2008). I forgot how we became friends but I rmb playing with him during recess with 2 of my other girl friends, we would grab onto his jacket while he was running and pretend he was a horse(ik it sounds stupid but we were 6 yrs old lol). Sam was kinda shy but not really , like he would suddenly say smth to make the class laugh and I rmb he used to imitate MJ dance moves. He would give me his seaweed snack during lunch that his mom packed for him and I remember I used to stand next to him during our assembly line. I rmb one day I came to school with a bandage on my chin cus I fell off my bike and and hit my chin on the floor, while we were lining up to go to another classroom he asked me why I had a bandage on and he looked so worried. I don't remember when but I just started to have a crush on Sam .He was skinny and he had a different haircut from other guys in our class , he always wore a silver necklace and I would look at it closely while we were lining up since I was a bit taller than him so he stood infront of me during our assembly line. I remember the details of his neck and the way he smiled. He was the most good looking guy out of everyone in my class. We were in the same class from grade 1 to grade 2 but he got switched to another class in grade 3 and we grew apart and played with each other less. Suddenly on the first day of grade 4 I didn't see him come to school. One of my friends told me that he had changed schools and I was devestated, I couldn't believe it , he left without saying goodbye. I didn't see him at all after that and didn't even have his contact since ig and fb wasn't a thing for us kids bk in elementry school. He was on my mind all the time and I would look around while I was out shopping or doing wt ever to try to see if I was so lucky to bump into him again. Fast forward to nye of 2014, I was at my dads friend's nye party and believe it or not I saw him at the party( i found out his mom and my dad had mutual frds ) My heart was beating so fast and I couldn't believe my eyes , I didn't say hello since I was kinda shy and it would be awkward cus I havent seen him for so long. Around that time I opened a fb account and found his fb, I stalked it and saw which school he had changed to, I saw pictures of him and he looked the same as I had remembered. He had the most beautiful smile and I felt butterflies all over again. Actually during grade 4,5,6 I had developed crushes here and there but they were nth serious. All thruout highschool and middle school I only had one crush but it was nth serious, just a guy that my frds and I were fangirling over since he played basketball and was kinda good at it. Fyi I went to another country across the world during grade 9 by myself for school and I kinda lost hope that I would see him again cus I was so far away. I only thought I that I would have a chance of meeting Sam again once I returned back to my home country after uni. Fastforward to a few months ago I saw on his ig bio that he was going to the EXACT SAME UNI as me, in this other country that was not our home country ! LIKE WHAT ARE THE ODDS !? Cus of the pandemic he took a gap yr and SO DID I (got this info from his ig) I just feel like this world is so small and I just still can't believe it. All these years I have never really liked anyone else the way I liked him , he was so differnt and was the only guy that could give me butterflies just from thinking about him or hearing his name. All these years I would have dreams of him time to time, I told myself that I had to let this memory of him go ,I was so tired of dreaming of him all the time. But deep down I alwsys felt like we would meet again idk why. Rn I don't know what to do , should I go up to him next yr when i c him and say hi or just pretend that I forgot about him? (i followed his ig 3 yrs ago and he followed me bk , we didnt talk at all tho. He used to like my pics but last yr he stopped, he doesnt even view my stories, just once in a blue moon, i stopped viewing his stories too and stopped liking his pics too cus i didnt wanna seem like a stalker, i can tell from his ig that hes popular and has lot of female friends ) anyways please just give me some advice on wt to do and tysm for reading till the end, ik my english is pretty bad so sorry in advance! | Crush |
Well, ive decided that the only way i can express my fellings to her is just by not telling her, its just those little things that matter.
Jelousy isnt really i think that i have, although she keeps saying i am, i know she maybe has a boyfriend, she probably does.
but i dont understand how she thinks that i am jelous, IM FUCKING NOT, yesterday during a sleepover i slept near her, jesus her face is fucking beatiful.
Last time she saw this account, i only had 1 post and i think that that's all she saw.
Ive lost all hope that im ever gonna be her boyfriend, her bestfriend told me when i rejected her, hey i know you like her, get her while you can...
Guess she was right, ey atleast i got a hug before having her go away. | Crush |
My work crush keeps staring but won't come over and tell me how she feels, it's a mind fuck, been going on for nearly a year since she started working here, annoying me to fuck as I can't leave as I need the money to pay bills and she is related to the boss, any advice would be great thanks for reading. | Crush |
i've had a crush on this guy 1 year younger than me since 2018. he was my junior in my school's chinese orchestra. everytime i helped him, i felt warmth and that i had a purpose. I can't even believe that he looked up to me as a senior. he motivated me to survive my lessons in order to go for chinese orchestra practice. but thx to the fact that i graduated last year with covid, I couldn't say goodbye to him properly and i even cried for days. however i thought this would be a good way to get over him.
i told myself to distance myself away from my school's chinese orchestra to get over him, but i just can't help "stalking" my school's chinese orchestra instagram. now he has officially doesn't need to go for chinese orchestra practices in order to focus on his graduating exams, and i feel happy that he enjoyed the journey overall. however this means that he is really gone. this year i still keep having dreams about him almost every few days even though we don't talk anymore.
I've also recently heard that someone else likes my crush and i feel completely crushed. it's not even my place to care about this. i kept blaming myself that i should have confessed to him but I'm scared of what he'd think of me. I don't know how to get over him at this rate. why do i care so much about him still even tho i don't see him anymore? | Crush |
I turned 19 a few months ago and he’s turning 26 this month. We’re just friends but, I have huge feelings for him. Should I ignore my feelings for him because of our age gap?
Update: I just found out today that it’s actually a six years age gap not 7. I went to lunch with a group of friends from my church and we had a little lunch celebration for his 25 birthday. | Crush |
I've had a crush on a girl in my school that's lasted for four years. I see her in my dreams occasionally. It's like every dream I see her in, it always takes place in the cafeteria. | Crush |
\*\*I have crush on somebody I know it's completely wrong.\*\*
1st: he has a gf.
2nd: He's in another country ( I'm gonna move there in a few years but that's not the point)
3rd: I'm not sure if I really like him or I like the attention he gives.
4th: He's also good to everyone else,, and I know that he's closer to some of our friends than me.
I wish we could at least be friends. Or I could forget but I don't know HOW TO FORGET HIM? | Crush |
So I like this girl that I work with and I found her on Instagram but she didn’t accept my follow request. Maybe she didn’t recognize me, or she probably just doesn’t want anything to do with me, I still fantasize about her. I’m just confused as to where I should go from here. | Crush |
Hi! So i hung out with my crush last Saturday. We don't text much but sometimes we do. This particular night i slid up on her story and answered a little game. Basically i picked a color and it was something i wanted to do or thought ab her. So i pick one and we joke and laugh and I'm just like " what's my color? Plsplspls " and she picks one that basically says I'll take you out to eat. So i was like " yo I'll seriously do that " and she jumped at the opportunity and asked if i could pick her up Saturday night. I pick her up and it goes so well. We talk, laugh, and just vibe. There were times we just rode and listened to music. Long story short we drove around looking for a specific restaurant but they were all closed. So we went to waffle house and ate and talked. I picked her up at 9 pm and dropped her off at 1:30 am. As i drop her off i open the car door to let her out and she hugs me ( to my surprise) and says she wants to do it again soon and she had so much fun. She's text me a little here and there but as i said we dont really text much. At times she seems flirty and i give that energy back and she always matches it. But there are times she seems more formal. Idk it just confuses me. I don't wanna be weird if she sees me as just a friend. What do you guys think? I don't want to lose her as a friend or run her off if anything. | Crush |
Well I’m bi sexual and it’s frowned upon in my country so dating here is kinda difficult. I started a new job and we immediately hit it off and got along he asked me for my number and he started texting me randomly he would find any excuse by reacting to my dumb statuses we even went on a phone because he said he’d rather call his fingers were tired. He would follow me so much at work our boss had to put us on separate shifts he said “I was a distraction for him” he even asked to tag along with me on my lunch break he’s also very paranoid around me asking me what I think of him , I’m a lot older than him it would never work and I’m not sure he even likes me our co workers teases about it but they are also serious. What do you guys think? | Crush |
So little a year ago me [16M] and my friend Ben [15M] sat down at a random lunch table with 3 other kids there. These kids names are Carter [17M], Chloe[16F], and Lilly[16NB].
The 5 of us started talking and we all realized that we were all mega nerds. We mainly talked about Pokemon.
Anyway so during lunchtime oftentimes Ben, Carter and Lilly would be leaving Chloe and I out a bit. Not intentionally but just talking about stuff we were interested in. Me and Chloe pretty much just showed memes to the other. We really started to bond. I started to develop feelings for her.
Then COVID hit. Just my luck that before hand Chloe was the only person I was not able to get the phone Number of. So a year went by. A few months ago I was talking to Lilly. I mentioned Chloe to her. She said she could give me Chloe's discord. I took her up on that offer in a heartbeat.
So me and Chloe started talking again through discord. It seemed as if she and her family were doing pretty good.
About a month ago Ben invited us all to go see Godzilla vs Kong. Me, Chloe, Ben and Carter all showed up. Lilly couldn't make it. When I walked in Chloe was the only one there. I greeted her with a high five. During the movie we were both going crazy. After the movie was over Chloe hugged me before we left the theater room. I was caught of gaurd but hugged back. When we got outside Chloe's mom agreed to take a photo of the 4 of us. I felt Chloe put her arm around me. I put my arm around her but didn't want anyone to know that I liked her so I put my other arm around Ben.
Before Chloe left she hugged me one more time. I hugged back. She gives the best hugs I have ever felt. No she did not hug anyone else.
The 2 of us have now been talking on the phone practically everyday since the movie.
I want to ask her out but I am far too afraid to loose my best friend if she rejects me and things then become awkward. I know its only awkward if we make it awkward but we are literally 2 of the most awkward people in school.
I plan on asking her out eventually but i feel like if I do I will loose our friendship which is the most important thing to me.
I need help. What should I do?
TL;DR: I have a crush on one of my best friends in the world and am afraid to loose our friendship. | Crush |
Yesterday at school this girl came into our classroom for awhile for some reason, I can't remember why, but I couldn't take my eyes off her. She was exactly my type. She even had some features that I didn't know I found attractive until I saw her rocking them. What's crazy is I wasn't even thinking about sex. I just wanted to hug her, and watch a movie with her, and hold her hand. I didn't wanna talk to her cause she was doing school work and I didn't want to distract her. I saw her again in another class today, and same thing. I just don't wanna get in the way of her school work. I want to talk to this girl and learn who she is and be friends and maybe take it further. I know I might sound shallow for wanting a relationship based purely on looks, but I don't really have anything else to go off of. I don't even know her name. And I really want to get to know her, but I just don't know how. I go to an alternative school, so I'm only there for like 3 hours a day, and we don't really switch classes all that often. The school year is almost over, so I don't have much time. Anybody know what I should do? Should I risk distracting her and possibly getting in trouble? Should I just drop it and find another girl? Any and all help welcome! Thanks!! | Crush |
Therapy: expensive
Venting to strangers on Reddit: free
With that being said, I genuinely feel like I have lost my mind. A little backstory, I have had a crush on my friend for almost 2 years, but I never got the chance to tell him because I'm terribly shy and he would always be in a relationship. About 4 or 5 months into lockdown(almost a year ago) I realized I still had feelings for him. I texted him, asking if he wanted to hang out but he told me he had to quarantine for a while, at least until covid was over, because he is very high-risk. I was bummed out but I was ok with waiting to see him until then. Most people would just go on with their lives without a care. Not me.
Since then, I ***have*** hung out with friends and have been out of the house several times, but afterwards I feel the most horrible guilt in the pit of my stomach. Every time I come home from a hangout I immediately shower and quarantine myself, but I feel like it's no use because I'm past the point of avoiding the virus. I feel irresponsible because I have never gotten tested for covid once, and I haven't gotten any of the vaccines either because I have medical exemptions due to bad reactions in the past. Also I honestly could've just waited for covid to end as well, but I just ***HAD*** to see my friends. I feel very careless, even though the largest group I've been with since covid started was maybe 10 people. I usually tell my parents about my problems but I have to lie with this one and say I'm just paranoid about covid because the actual reason is way too embarrassing. I don't know why I keep telling myself that I'll see my friend again and we'll catch up and maybe fall in love, especially since I've spread my potential covid all over town. /sarcasm
And the worst part about this whole situation is that we barely even talk lol(partly because I'm very socially anxious). The last actual conversation we had was maybe 6 months ago. I have literally no idea what he's up to, or if he has since left the house. It makes me feel delusional. I don't even know if he still remembers or cares about me. Every time I go out I feel like I have cheated on my him, and we aren't even in a relationship lmaoo. I feel like it's so unfair that I've been able to live my life and he hasn't. This whole situation is eating me up inside and I hate it. I'm so tired of holding onto someone I barely talk to, having false hope that I will see him again and being anxious every single time I leave my house. I wish I didn't care about being a superspreader like every other college kid in my state /sarcasm.
TLDR: I'm scared that my crush, who's immunocompromised, will never want to see me again because I left the house and saw people during covid without getting tested or vaccinated and I feel like a terrible person because of it. | Crush |
She makes eye contact with me a lots. I sometimes caught her eyes staring at me and when I stare back , she look down , blush and smile . She copy my action and words . She laugh at my jokes , finding excuse to touch my hairs , my hands . She always start the conversation first and seems happy when she see me . Is she into me? I’m 5’8 and Asian , she’s Latino and 5’4. I need help guys , can you guys give me some advice? | Crush |
Just asked my crush if she likes me and she said no. She used to like me but overtime we grew apart and no now she don’t like me. I’m obviously still in love with her but idk what to do. Plz help | Crush |
So he's been my crush for years. We have a friend group and we all play band. Me and one of our friends play bassline and we was joking to the director about giving us melody. The director gave us melody on My Heart Will Go On and gave everyone melody at some point cause titanic is our obsession at the moment. We all know french horn has melody all the way through and baseline has to hold notes out for a long time. I go to the bathroom during a class and my crush is in the class next to the one I'm in. As soon as I leave the bathroom he calls for me and my dumbass was happy he noticed me. I turn around and as soon as I do this he's on my ass asking why I asked for melody. I say we'll bass clarinet and melody kinda go together ya know. I was joking anyways. And he goes well now that you and *friend* have melody it sounds like shit. And you have me over there trying not to tell him to fuck himself going Yeah it usually does. He says "Tuba has a fucking solo". I was happy cause that means I also have a solo but I give a disgusted look and go "That'll sound bad" and he just says "yeah it will so tell director to get it fixed" and he walks into his class. I want to tell this guy to go fuck himself in a trash can that pissed me the fuck off on a new level. So I was also happy cause he was single I don't know if I am anymore.
So.... I don't know what to think about that bitch at the moment anyone have thoughts on him?
Ok so he just said stuff that brought me on the verge of tears.... fuck him | Crush |
…around our crush…? | Crush |
So. I (Trans Female) Have a crush (Female). She’s really kind and we get along well. But i really think I’ve buggered up… a few weeks ago, i kept asking her out as “jokes” and now I’ve lost all courage to ask her out and finally admit it… I’m also not sure weather she’s actually interested in women… what should i do? | Crush |
Hi, I (F) have a crush on a boy. We went to a school dance together but I broke up with him for mental health reasons. Now, I want to get back together with him. I texted him and he confirmed a few weeks ago that he still has a crush on me, and I said that I really liked him. I asked him to be my boyfriend and he said nah. He isn't seeing anyone else (i confirmed). I asked him why he rejected me if he still liked me, and he said that I'm too shy. How do I ask him out again/go out on a date? | Crush |
Now I have remote work going on and I have this crush for one of my colleagues. She and I have exchanged memes and chat on instagram/ WhatsApp quite often (not daily). Now whenever we have a call, it goes on for about an hour or more. She surprisingly also remembers about most small details about me and asks lot of things about my life however in the chat when we talk, her replies are not very engaging. She says she is an introvert and usually doesn't talk to a lot of people and that I am one of the very few that she can open up to. Am I misreading something here? | Crush |
I m f(15 im almost 16) hes m(17) I m a freshman in high school and for a pretty long time I kinda stopped liking people and kinda stopped looking for something, I didnt really have crushes and i mainly focused on school and sports. But sometime in november I developed this little hallway crush on this guy, C. So I want to talk to him but I m incredibly nervouse whenever I go anywhere near him, I want to tell him at least how I feel so it doeant bother me but i dont want to get rejected- hebagtchar idk i just dint know what to even say but I did talk to him at a track meet because were both in track so yay me! Very little progress that doesnt do really anything :') | Crush |
I really, really have fallen for this girl that I’ve become friends with. I don’t usually care for relationships as I’m in high school and have always been a little bit traditional, looking for a long term relationship.
We have been talking on Snapchat 18 days, with at least one conversation everyday, with late night convos, to walking together in the halls twice even. She added me on snap, I’ve caught her looking at me and so on. Anyways I am not exactly grasping at straws.
On the other side I asked if it would be weird if I went to her competition, and she said up to you. When I was there she kinda acted like she didn’t know me and partially avoided me, until her friend got us talking but she didn’t stay for long. This really stung as I did drive an hour and put myself out there, and felt kinda discarded.
I really like her and don’t really know what to do, it’s been an emotional roller coaster lol.
I’ve completely changed my habits and can’t express how much I like her, but I also would be really hurt, as I felt like an idiot today. | Crush |
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This all started because in a drinking game I was asked who I found attractive in the room and I pointed at my guy friend whom Im not as close with unlike the rest. Anyways fast forward a week later my friends are now teasing me saying that he is my crush (which he is not - I only find him attractive with no romantic feelings) and my presumed crush would play along with my friends and he would say that we are together as a joke. When we were hanging out with another friend he would still play along and would say to take pictures together, fake propose and openly flirts with me knowing I cant flirt back. And when we were hanging out at my friend's house, he noticed that I wanted to watch the same thing the rest of the friend group was watching on tiktok on someones phone and suggested to sit beside him to watch on his phone. He also jokes around saying I kissed him on the cheeks, which could be possible if I was drunk. Ive also noticed he was quite touchy and we would hug more than usual (greetings and goodbye).
This whole teasing is really getting into my head.
What do you guys think? | Crush |
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I met this girl she I first got to my new school a free months ago. I was paired with her for are pe square dancing unit. AT first I didnt like her but then she just seemed nicer. I didnt ttalk to her much vit the few times I tried to it was really award because she did t have much to say back. She is In 8th grade and a grade above me. I was t to tell her but not sure if bi should. I know I have to before she leaves though. Any advice | Crush |
Hi im male 18 and have a crush on my best female friend 17. I have a crush on her since years but im sure she just saw me as a friend. Recently she has shown me some sings that she might have a crush on me to but im not sure of it so i wanna hear ur opinion. But first a bit of backstory. 3 years ago i confessed my feelings to her and she friendzoned me. Later i found out she was suicidal during that time because of imense bulling and after we gratuaded from school. I found it out because she tried to take her own life. After she came out of the therapy i helped her to get better and she is happy with her life since last summer. Since she had gotten better she had send some signals that she wants more like giving present even without any reason. And that means alot because when an other friend gave her a present on cristmas she said "thanks but why it isnt like we are dating". And not only that she gave my parents also without any reason a present. Another example is when we made something in a group of three and we were geting in the trains heading home. A friend of her huggeg her for goodbye she was clearly uncomfotable and even said she hated it and no it wasnt because they werent close they were close. Literally 2 minutes later when my train arived whe hugged me for goodbye. So im not sure if it was flirting or not but i dont wanna destroy our friendship and afraid to say to her i still got feelings. I wanna now what ur opinion is on her sings if they are some.
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There's a lot of signs and I don't know what else to say I'm really happy. I check his FB almost every night hoping he is single and YES MOTHERFUCKERS HE IS!!!!!!!!!!! | Crush |
My crush works across the street from my work place and he comes out often to smoke.
On the first days of me working at my workplace I noticed him 'cause he looked younger than the other people working there. It's possible that he noticed me staring 'cause he started staring as well. One time he stared for a solid minute and ran inside. I thaught to myself wouldn't it be funny if he came out with a pen and paper? And he actually did. I couldn't read it so he shouted up my window that that's his Instagram account. He also asked weather I'm new 'cause he never saw me there.
We started texting and he even called me pretty. He asked why I was looking at him. I said I had not a lot of work to do yet since I was new and looked a lot out of the window (to play it down, cause I didn't want to seem like a stalker). He said he thaught I was looking at him.
In the evening he suddenly stopped texting and there was no new message in the morning either. He didn't even open the message. I thaught to myself well that'll be awkward at work. And it did, we kind of ignored each other.
His Instagram account looked weired, like he got hacked or something. But after a while it got back to his account. But still nothing from him.
After a while his account got deleted.
It went on for a couple of months and during that time he started staring at me again like he wanted to say something or he wanted me to say something.
A couple of weeks ago I really got tired of this whole thing and I wrote him a note something along the lines "Sorry this comes a bit late, but I never had the guts to talk to you. You stopped texting so suddenly. What happened? If you like you can text me (with my number on it) and put that note on his car.
I freaked out and was so scared, that I spent the rest of the day away from my desk and the window. But looking back I should've stayed there just to see how he reacted 'cause he still hasn't texted me and still looks at me the whole time.
I really don't know what I did wrong.
Maybe I was too young for him (I'm 18, he's 23) or maybe he was disappointed 'cause I told him maybe I'll move away soon. Or maybe I seemed like I had no interest, but I put that stupid note on his car, which implies I still want to have contact with him.
In my opinion he at least owes me an explanation.
I feel so powerless and am out of ideas what to do.
Ps.: I actually wanted to put a sketch of him with my number on his car, 'cause when we were texting we talked about me doing art and him wanting me to draw him and he said he would pay with friendship. But I'm SOO glad I haven't done it. This would've been even more awkward. | Crush |
So I recently introduced my crush to my best friend who happens to be classmates in college. I used to chat and talk a lot with my crush,used talk to her for about 2-3 hours daily and it going on quite well. But once I introduced them to each other my crush started ignoring me. To be honest my best friend is in relationship with another girl… and I donno what’s going on… I just wanted to share this because I was sad🙂🙃thinking abt this… even tho I have done nothing wrong | Crush |
I have a crush on a guy which is rare for me. We met at a party and then went to the same after party and he was asking me all these questions and talking to me a lot. We found out we have a class together and said we were going to sit by each other. I don’t know this might sound stupid because i’m in college but I really like him. | Crush |
My crush posted in a Google Forms Facebook group where people usually sends Forms to fill for university etc. She shared one with the group and also mentioned she will fill up any form in return. What if I create a Forms page with questions? (I dont know what to ask just seems a creative way to create contact because she dont know me yet.) Also what to ask on the Forms Page? | Crush |
crush text me about the new duster album and then said we should wait and listen together (: he is coming over after work to listen and do his homework I love that he makes time to see me even when he has long days and I’m super exited to listen to this album with him feels v sweet. | Crush |
A couple of months ago I was hanging out with a friend of my when he told me about two girls he came befriended with. I wanted to became friends with them too. So, we made a group chat with all of them and we had a lot of fun talk with each other. But I noticed something about myself. I started to like one of the girls and started private texting her. We had a lot of fun talking about our hobby's and what music we liked. We had a lot of similarities in what we liked. Drawing, making music and more. It was the first time I fell in love with a girl I really liked. In my early years on living on earth I haven't been very lucky with love and getting the girls. I have been denied multiple times because they didn't like my style or literally made fun of me because I have always been fatter than the other kids in school. I got bullied a lot because of that. Or they weren't interested in relationships. All the shit you could get confronted with. But now that I'm in love for the first time. I'm asking everybody in this reddit server to give me some advice. In a couple of weeks we are going to meet each other irl and I'm hoping she is going to like me. And of course, it's my first time, I'm nervous I would screw up or something. So I'm only asking for some tips that could help me out. I would be appreciated. Feel free to dm me and we can talk about it. | Crush |
Okay for some background, I’m a guy and she’s a girl and we’re both in high school. She friend-zoned me In January when I told her my feelings but not right away, it’s a long story. But I constantly thought about her and talked sweet with her. And last night the worst but greatest dream happened. We’re sitting on a bench somewhere at night idk why and I’m 100% healthy (I’m sick as shit rn) but I’m sitting like touching her close when normally she doesn’t sit close to me so I moved away, she came closer to me again, I moved back again confused, she came closer directly touching me again, I forgot what I was saying but I said something, then she climbs on my lap and kisses me, I swear that was probably the best feeling I’ve ever felt, then I wake up and go to school (still in the dream) every period is mixed up and I have the class with her second period instead of towards the end of the day. And all that happens when I see her is she says “Remember Last night? That wasn’t a dream” and smiles. Then I wake up sweating and crying inside. I am being destroyed inside by this girl idk anymore. | Crush |
I’m a junior in HS and there is a cute guy in my art class who I haven’t talked to all year,I’m just to nervous I think. I am a gay trans kid (ftm) so naturally I don’t flirt with a lot of people simply because there’s probably like 10 options for me at my school to begin with. ANYWAY I don’t know anything about this guy besides that he is cute and quiet. I don’t know if he likes guys or even if he did-trans guys. So if anyone has advice or something that would be appreciated :) | Crush |
i have a crush on this girl for a while… she’s a junior in high school and i’m a freshman in high school. she lives in a city a whole half hour away. i feel like she has a crush on me bc she’s always staring at me whenever we see each other at a youth group event at our church. we hold eye contact for like 10 seconds then she kinda laughs it off a little bit. she’s also recently told me about her addiction and how she’s trying to give up drugs for the past couple years and how she’s been suicidal and stuff. just because she opened up to me and stuff, does that mean she has a crush on me back or am i just being stupid? she’s always teasing me about being a freshman but i really have a crush on her it’s just hard to see if she feels the same way. would a junior girl ever date a freshman guy? | Crush |
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So I (16m) have this friend of mine(16f). We’ve known each other for 10 years. But we started talking after 4 years. We were kinda close and we’d text each other commonly. But we were just kids. I liked her back then but it wasn’t crush cuz I was a kid and didn’t know how to date and stuff. So we talked, and talked for few years. Then we fell out of touch, bc I switched schools. Years went on and on. And about a year later I saw her at school when I was picking my sister up. And it reminded me of her and I couldn’t stop thinking about her. I just couldn’t. She was the first thing I thought of when I waked up and the last thing I thought of ‘fore I went to sleep. Some another year went by and I met her at my bus station. And our first encounter after years went great. I said something and she started laughing and laid her head on my shoulder. And I just absolutely fell for that. Good thing my legs didn’t tumble down like jenga. Then I checked our old texts and it seemed like she liked me. I found pictures of myself with my name in heart and stuff. But I didn’t know if she liked me or nah. Cuz as I said we were kids so wtf was she doing with all those hearts. Snap back to reality. She kept on sending me hearts at the end of her messages and I was like. Please, don’t send hearts until we are dating. Of course one heart once in a while is okay. But not at the end of every message. And even tho I like her, what If that move I did made her feel like I rejected her. Just common misunderstanding. And I do like her but what If she’s given up based on that message. Cuz I was pretty mean and I shouldn’t be and I realised it later and i regret it. I was just too harsh. In the meantime. I once met her with her little brother. And she introduced me to him (not vice versa I already knew him from our talks with her). Then she mentioned that I left her. She said left as in leave someone romantically (same phrase) but meant I switched schools. Or did she? What If it was hint. And as if she liked me. That was like 3 months ago. Now we’re regularly talking. And I think even tho she is kind I keep on being harsh to her sometimes cuz I don’t wanna risk confessing and then perhaps losing our friendship. So I’m just being careful not to hurt myself. But If she is being kind in a way she likes me, I’m gonna regret this very very very much. And I just don’t know what should I do. Or maybe, give me please some tips so I can give her some signs. Perhaps she’ll react on mine if I’m unknowingly/unwillingly not catching hers. That is all Reddit. So please. Give some tips on hints that won’t ruin our friendship in case she doesn’t like me back and I’m just overthinking. Thank you all who read until this part. Really appreciate it. I’ll keep you updated on this subreddit. Love, peace.
P.S. In case you want to discuss our personalities and appearance just react with comment I’ll reply. And also. If I was unclear in some of my thought don’t bother asking. I’m happy to answer. | Crush |
Im pretty sure it’s my looks but why is it that almost every guy likes to talk to me but never has a crush on me.I know I’m not the prettiest but all my friends have had guys on their knees for them except me | Crush |
So to start off I’ve known him since 5th grade since we’d take the way home together almost everyday.It wasn’t until now almost 4 years later that I’m starting to like him but he still seems to see me as a „Homie“.He smiles at me in class and teases me like a guy would do w his crush.Only Problem he has lots of female friends who ALWAYS wear his beanie wich pisses me off.And whenever I text him he answers super late and super short.Or leaves me on read.But sometimes he talks to me for an hour after school.This is so confusing.Why would he leave me ok read but then talk to me irl all day?is there ANY possibility he likes me or is it just how he is? He has lots of female friends after all | Crush |
Texting her thru Snapchat
I got covid and said I don’t wanna suffer alone
She replied with want a covid buddy? | Crush |
hellloooo
let's take this as slow as possible
i want a bestfriend 4eva | Crush |
I've liked this girls for 3 years now only to discover she liked me also for those years, we began talking getting flirty thej we made plans to watch movies at my place ( I'm 15 btw ), does this mean she may be interested in me? | Crush |
So, i met this last semester (around 3/4 months back) and we have become good friends since then. Lately I have started developing feelings for her(was in denial for a while, but just accepted it now). Now heres the case, as i'm not sure whether she has mutual feelings:(. So, are in same college, but didn't meet everyday last sem, but we talk on phone for atleast 1 hour daily(and she called most of the time), during winter break we texted everyday, and she texted first mostly. Whenever we meet, we always get into talking for hours and goof around, like we met to do hw and ended up finishing it in 5 hours we could stop talking and goofing around.
Now i'm not sure whether i am only a really good friend to her or more. I asked her to go ice skating with me before we met for hw, and she agreed but she asked her roomie to tag along as well. We didn't go cause ice rink was closed so imma gonna ask her again later once free.
But you guys opinion whats the case here? Cause the thing is i don't wanna get ahead too much and like get my heart broken or loose her as a friend | Crush |
Did you ever try to reach out to someone you lost contact with and if, how did it go? | Crush |
I(19f) had a terrible relationship when I was a *freshman* in high school. Although I was very young, the breakup just broke my heart. Since then I have been engaging in crushing on random guys. It is almost self-destructive behaviour. But just after I joined college I met this classmate whom I actually started liking. I knew I was in trouble. I thought that the feelings would pass just like they usually do but 6 months in I know I am not getting over him.
I know he likes this other girl. She has this very sultry voice and she is a very nice girl. I know I will not change myself for him to like me. But I feel hurt every time I notice him trying so hard to get that girl. It's almost ironic that the day he told me about his crush he told me he'd help me get any guy if I helped him date that girl. I know I'll help him even though I really like him.
I think what attracts me the most about him are our similarities. Although he has never explicitly opened up in front of me, I know exactly how his mind works. His mind works just like mine. It has come to the point It's almost eerie how similar our brains, our outlook towards life and our interests are. His music taste is just like mine, his taste in content is just like mine I know he'll do great stuff once he graduates from college. I really like him. But he likes her. And I will help him get her if I can because he doesn't like me. I know that. I feel like I'll never get into a relationship again. My heart is fundamentally broken. What should I do? | Crush |
I’m 16M and I really like a girl that’s a grade above me, but the issue is that she is leaving my school in about 3 months, I don’t talk to her or anything. My friends say reply to her story, she recently posted one but if I reply to that it might seem creepy. I asked two of my friends, one says do it and other says don’t.
SOMEONE HELP | Crush |
Hello! :D
I (16F) am desperately falling for a guy (18M) who I work with. I constantly find him looking at me, and it gives me the best feeling ever, but honestly I don't know if he finds me attractive at all. We text often, and when he does, sometimes it feels like he's flirting, but once again I don't know if he actually is. When I asked him what his intentions with me were, he brushed over the question and I'm way too nervous to ask again. I really like him so any advice that can be given is greatly appreciated.
Thank youuu <3 | Crush |
Is it just a crush?
Okay so there’s this guy I think I like from my gym class. I really don’t know if I like him or if it’s just a simple crush because he’s hot. Idk. I always fall for a guy too easily and it never ends well but idk there’s something about him. He’s such a chill and outgoing person but I think he has no interest in me he’s just being nice. That’s his personality, he’s just nice to everyone and I think I’m mistaking that niceness for something else. Like the other day we were just sitting together and hanging out and my friend started teasing us about being girlfriend and boyfriend and even though he didn’t say anything he looked a little annoyed. But other times he yk. Like today we were hanging out after school and he took me to this sushi place after I told him I didn’t like seafood. We were talking and it was fun. At one point we were talking about physical attraction and I told he he was really handsome. I think he was weirded out ahhhhhhh idk. Sometimes I feel like I’m never pretty enough for anyone and that I’m never good enough. Like he’s hot asf so there’s no way he’d take interest in me but I can’t help but wonder. I think he’s just being nice to me. Sometimes it feels like more but maybe I’m imaging it. Did I mention I overthink a lot. Anyway what do you think. Is it just a simple crush that will pass? | Crush |
So I have a crush on a girl at school and I just want to ask how do I get her to be on my side and to be with me i need help can someone help me | Crush |
So I met this guy long story short I asked him for his number and we started talking it went really well and when we met in person we honestly had a lot of fun we where laughing and stuff like that and he texted me back during the day to finish our conversation. The next day he text me he isn’t able to see me and that he’s sorry for that. I’m like it’s okay like we can meet again the next day no big deal but then he couldn’t see me again because he was late again not a big deal I text him that it’s okay and that I can call him instead he doesn’t respond 💀. also for reference we’ve been talking in person for like 2 days but we’ve known each other for like 2 weeks but y’all I swear I can’t tell if this man likes me or if he’s just really nice cause when I see him in person where always smiling and happy and over text he’s like I’m nice for caring about certain things and that he hopes I stay safe when I go out with my friend but then he like doesn’t text me for like day but like when he does text me he says sorry so it’s not like he’s not aware and then I kinda feel bad cause I suck at texting to like it takes me like a day not to respond. and since Valentines day is coming up I really want him to make a big move or at least talk about it I know it is kinda early to talk about Valentine’s Day and I’m gonna make him something like a dessert or something I always make my friends and family something for Valentine’s Day so this isn’t just for him or anything but it kinda is I’m not looking for anything big but if he wants to ask me out I’m totally down but I ain’t asking him out I feel like I’ve made to many big moves | Crush |
I know I'm going to sound desperate, but I want to get back with my EX. I haven't stopped thinking about her, and I don't know what to do. My mind tells me to move on because it'll never work, but my heart tells me to go for it, and see what happens. The worst thing is that she is still my best friend and I don't know if it's worth risking my friendship If I do something wrong. If anyone has any advice I'll take it, I just want to know what to do if anything. | Crush |
I was talking to this girl I liked and I confessed to her. She said it’s fine and offered to go out with me as a test. And two days later she texts me that she doesn’t want to do it anymore and that I’m not the right person. I am not a very attractive guy but she literally wanted to go out only as a test and then just pushed me off. Can someone explain what she’s trying to say? | Crush |
I’ve been talking to this girl I met on Tiktok (lots of people meet online these days. The community is not as toxic as the media says. Don’t judge.). I really like her, but I know it most likely it will never work out because she’s said time and again, she’s not ready for a relationship. Plus it’s online, and long distance usually doesn’t work out. I’m so head over heels in love with her though. I talk with her every day, and every day I get more lovesick over her. How do I get over my lovesickness? | Crush |
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Okay so there's this guy (19 M) I've (20 F) have been talking to for the past month. We have talked almost everyday now and started Facetiming each other. He mentioned how we should go bowling and I asked, "like as friends or a date? He then replied with as a date and I was super happy and flattered. Recently I haven't been doing well mentally with anxiety due to isolating at home and want to focus on myself. I got out of a toxic relationship this past summer and since then I've only been on a few dates prior to meeting him. I told him I want to focus on making friends on campus this year but that I do like him a lot. I want to make sure I'm ready to commit to a relationship as my last one was toxic and controlling. Basically we both really like each other but I'm not ready yet to date him. He was really sad after I told him this, but respected my decision. I was super anxious to send him the text but even after we still compliment each other. I'm planning to meet him in a week in-person (we go to the same school but didn't know each other then). He's what I'm looking for personality wise, he's caring, understanding, super funny, and overall just an amazing guy. Thoughts let me know! | Crush |
For context, I am a female and he’s a male, we’re both in our early 20’s and we live in two different countries. I live in the US and he lives in a Hispanic country. I’m Hispanic in background as well and we met on a language exchange server. I wasn’t looking for love because I just wanted to practice a language but unfortunately I got bitten by the love bug. We’ve been talking for months now, we have a lot of common interests, and we text pretty much every day. Or send each other some videos/memes if busy. We really get along. Now, I’m terrible at flirting and idk how to read the signs, but I’ve noticed that some things that are a bit out of the ordinary, but I can’t say 100% sure it’s flirting because it’s also just cultural for him to be really friendly and lovely. But here’s some signs anyways: sometimes texts me good night with hearts (probably not a sign though), has expressed in the past that we would do things together in the future (travel the world, live together, etc.), one time I sent him a video of some people cuddling and he said basically “Us when you come visit me.” Has given me compliments (again probably not a sign), would do things for me (sing to me, dance with me, carry me around…), always helps me whenever I have a problem, enjoys having phone calls with me, and one time we had a really emotional moment together and he said “he’d never felt this way before”. Those are just some things I can think of that have happened at the top of my head. However, he has many friends who are girls and he doesn’t seem awkward around me because he is confident and nice. And he’s traveled with some before because he’s just friends with everyone. Recently though, we got into the topic of marriage/relationships/kids because we talk about a lot of things. Anyways, I feel like I put him off somehow in our conversation we had because he hasn’t been really flirty with me lately and he talked to me about this girl who seemed interested in him lately because she asked him for contact info after I told him a kind of “funny” story of someone that asked me for my info before. (The person was a teen and I’m an adult, but it was really an awkward interaction), but anyways he told me about the girl after. But he hasn’t gone into talking about other people before until recently. Also, I know this is so silly, but we had talked about getting married and I said something like “I’d like to get married in this place because it’s beautiful…” when we we’re talking about marriage and stuff before and he said “I hope you invite me.” I guess I was put off by it because before he had said things like “We would live together and travel together and do everything together etc.” And now I feel like he’s put off. We haven’t been a relationship before and I’ve never been in a relationship nor has he. I’m not experienced, but lately this has been driving me crazy. I’m too scared to confess because I don’t want to ruin our friendship but some of my friends have told me to just confess because they can’t gage either if he is being nice or showing signs since they’ve never met him. They also think it might be cultural since we are all culturally similar. I get long distance relationships are always iffy but I really like him and he is so wonderful and I don’t want a good chance to escape me. And we do have plans to meet up eventually (probably next year when my school does a trip and then I would stay with him after) but we have to save up because we’re broke 20 year olds hahaha. Anyways I’m so desperate for advice. What should I do? I don’t want to come off as pushy because I already feel I’ve been awkward lately, but I want to somehow express myself to him in a non weird way, or idk? He is very sentimental and takes to heart caring gestures. I appreciate anything. <3 | Crush |
Ok so I like this girl at school but there is a small problem I don't know if she is part of the lgbtq+ community. And you probably think this is a weird question because she looks at me sometimes and stares at me too but most of her friends are lgbtq+ and she is quite close them but I don't how close and my pea sized brain can't tell so I am not sure what to assume. Ps don't take this the wrong way I am just very confused because I want to ask her out I just don't want to be publicly shamed especially considering I am not the most popular person. . . | Crush |
[16m] We’re in the same grade and I am around her a lot as I go around with her friend group of approx 13 (girls and guys) even though i’m not really friends with any of them but 1.
So i’m always near her but never really talk to her as i’m awkward af I sometimes will say something but just a comment or a laugh usually.
What small subtle things can I do to make myself for attractive and make her want to try and talk to me? | Crush |
So I got to know a girl I had seen on the internet, best friends with a great friend of mine, like a year ago. I was with this friend we have in common in a caffè and she came hang out with us. I felt a great connection with her, like if I was talking to a friend I know since forever, we were comfortable and interested in the topics of the conversation, no flirting though.
At the time she wasn't in a relationship and neither was I, but I was too shy to talk to her so we just followed each other on Instagram.
This girl moved at the end of the academic year to another city in our country, so I would have no chance to see her again.
Flash forward to a month and a half ago she came to visit our friend in common and we went out clubbing at night, although neither her nor me were in the mood for partying really. This was the reason why we started talking all night, sharing our thoughts and secrets and pretty much understanding one another, but at some moment that night I found out she had a boyfriend so I became a bit sad about it. We kept on talking and talking anyways, again no flirting from neither side as I knew she had a boyfriend, and I would say we had fun with one another and we felt pretty comfortable.
The morning after she dms me on Instagram telling me that she had felt so comfortable with me and that she would love to hang out sometime whenever I visited the city she's living in, which I told her is something I had been planning for a while because I love that city, and I told her that I felt the same way that night and that whenever I went there we would hang out.
Our friend in common doesn't know I have developed feelings towards her, but yesterday he told me she had broken up with her boyfriend, so I think it's my opportunity to try and take a step.
I don't really know how to start this though, I don't even know if she feels anything at all for me, but I can't stop thinking about her. We haven't talked since that night and she is not active on socials so I don't know how to start a conversation.
What would you guys do? | Crush |
So I like this girl, let’s call her Emily, who’s just a year younger than me. I have only talked to her for a little bit and have only known her for a little bit but I really like her, and she seems like she might like me. I told her I wanted to talk to her more but she said that she doesn’t talk to people through messaging people much. She also said we’d talk next time we saw each other but because I don’t know when that “next time” will be, I don’t know how to talk to her more if not through text. What should I do? | Crush |
I’m tired of texting on this Reddit thing but it’s easier to talk to y’all then anyone else atm.
Look, idk how she came up in my mind but she’s there and she won’t leave. There’s this really beautiful girl on Instagram, she follows me and I follow her. Nothing special but(!) she goes in the same class as my brother soooo that’s kind of a sticky situation hehe. She’s the same age as which is perfect imo.
The problem is tho that I don’t know if I should add her snap?? I don’t want to be a creep, she can see if I added her by quick add or by search and I don’t wanna make it weird between her and my brother when they see each other in the same class. What if I miserably fail with her and he has to shame cus of me. I don’t go to the same school as them. Should I just leave it be and wait till I see her irl or add her snap???? Answer y’all please! | Crush |
I've been sending snaps back and forward for about a half a year now with a guy i met this summer and because we dont live close i havent seen him much irl, and ive never even been alone with him. I really dont know if he likes me back and im to scared to ask. Please help | Crush |
just tell me if ure into me. dont simply say u care about me, but then left me alone, thinking to myself. im not the one and only girl in your life. i dont wanna risk myself falling in love with u without knowing if you already have a girl. please. im sick of these thoughts :( | Crush |
So there's this girl I like, she's very nice, pretty, she has an amazing voice, she's funny, and we're best friends I really wish I could tell her how I feel about her, but there's two problems, 1: there's another guy that told her he likes her, she's talked to me about it and tells me she doesn't like him, so I feel like if I tell her that I like her immediately after someone already told her they do, she might be overwhelmed by two people telling her they like her at the same time. 2: it's just so difficult to put into words how I really feel, so when would be the right time to tell her? | Crush |
So I went to a school thing last night and ran into this girl that I used to kind of like and I think I still like her.
idk. I'm happy | Crush |
So my crush and I don’t speak a lot but it’s nice when we do. Recently, he’s been staring at me, talking to me, trying to wrestle me (as a joke)
I don’t know what’s going on with him but when he starts to volunteer in class and has to write this other girls name on the board, he goes bright red.
He acts differently when he speaks to her and stares at both of us in one of our classes as me and the girl sit next to each other
He’s so confusing idk what to do tbh
Help??😭 | Crush |
My crush told me he liked me last month, I didn’t really reply the way he wanted to as I wasent sure what I wanted at the time. However we still kept in constant communication after that situation.
Two days ago I called my crush on the phone to basically pour my feelings out to him and basically explain to him that I really like him. On the phone he said he needs to ‘process’ this and didn’t have much to say.
It’s been a day since I’ve told him and he hasent messaged me since.
I truly feel sick that I finally have become vulnerable to a man and there has been no form of acknowledgment or normal response …
What do you guys think | Crush |
I don't know its because im student, but i fall in love to easily. it's really problem to me.
cause i saw a guy who is kind, than i just fall in love with him.
and if he say that he like me, than i just became hate him immidiately.
im so sick of this pattern. i once like a boy like 3 mounth ago, but i don't like him now
cause its boring to like one people. im so counfused.
im also think that i couldn't make long term relationship. its too sad. | Crush |
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