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still struggling with the Adderall?.	4crq
right, so, go ahead	3gc
well it's it's like it's always there to.	3gc
It's always available ?	4crq
it's always available, Yeah. Or so much at the time.	6cd
You're having some mixed feelings about it. So I'm sensing.	3gc
Yeah. Yeah. Like I know I want to stop	3gc
you think you think you want to stop?	5yq
Yeah. No, I do.	8op
You do ?	4crq
Oh my god see, I feel crazy, but I know it would be good if I didn't have it in my life.	6cd
But at the same time it is in your life ?	4crq
And I don't know how to get out of that. I mean, the one thing if I didn't live with my roommate, that would be one thing. Like, it wouldn't be in the apartment all the time.	6cd
So you find you have easier access to the Adderall when you're when you're in the house or apartment with your, with your roommate.	4crq
Yeah.	6cd
So if you physically weren't there, like with your roommate in that apartment?	4crq
So you're kind of it sounds like you're recognizing that, maybe you don't have the willpower to stop taking the drug when it's right there in front of you.	3gc
Well, it makes us so easy to get stuff done. I mean, I just take a couple and boom boom boom, I mean,	9on
so there's some advantages for you ?	5yq
Yeah, definitely. Definitely. And I'm so used to it. So it's just comfortable and	8op
Well, yeah. When I don't have it, the crash, it's like a really bad crash and I'm not productive. You know, it's it's, and it's gotten worse than it used to be.Like I need it.	8op
So it's painful ?	5yq
It's painful. Definitely. Definitely. It feels like a trap. I want out.	8op
And one of the ideas you're having was sound like potentially was moving out, moving out of the apartment, because then you wouldn't have access to the who would have access to the Adderall anymore? Or it would be hard to get ?	4crq
Oh my god, like sometimes it's really weird. Sometimes it feels like that's a good idea. And then sometimes I'm like, No, no, I don't want to be You know kind of cut off from it but I think I am come ready.	6cd
You think you're ready for that?	11orq
Yeah	10od
And that moving out you really see is what you would need to do. Because stopping while living there is too difficult.	4crq
Yeah, yep, I think you're right.	6cd
Remember before you've tried to stop living there a few times right or, or last few months and with your roommate having it with your roommate being the one that gives it to you. It just appears that temptation so great for you.	3gc
Well, are there any disadvantages to living with your parents?	1irq
living with my parents at my age, it just feels like a little bit humiliating a lot humiliating.	0id
Okay, so humiliation would be one.	3gc
Yeah, just this feeling of failure, embarrassment and then my mom just is in my business.	3gc
So some clear disadvantages to move into Paris any advantages other than the obvious who would separate you from the Adderall?	4crq
Am I would you buy laundry? fully stocked fridge?	6cd
Yeah.	3gc
Yeah, my dad will fill my gas tank up.	3gc
things that happened before ?	3gc
Uh huh.	3gc
So there's some disadvantages to this plan, but there's some advantages. And there's a key advantage of being think of narrow.	4crq
Yeah. And it wouldn't necessarily have to be the rest of my life either. Just for now, just to get me out of that apartment with the Drug. Right ?	6cd
That would separate you from the drug and you could potentially move out later on.	3gc
Oh my god, do I want to I mean, that that's just it. Like, it's like, it sounds really good until I like really think about it.	3gc
When you really think about it, what comes to mind?	1irq
Oh, like I start to shake like that feeling of, you know, when you really want something, you really want something and you can't get to it. And that desperation that I'm like, right now, I know that, you know, I'm living there, it could be my choice. I could take it, or I could not take it. You know, but at least when I want it, it's there. If I move out, I'm like making that decision for myself.	0id
That's right. It would be.	3gc
I don't know.	3gc
Is it tough?	5yq
Yeah	8op
No, you know, you're right, though. I want out, and it's not really a choice when I'm there. Like I say, I have the choice yes or no, but the choice is always Yes.	6cd
You always end up using the Adderall ?	5yq
Yeah.	8op
So, so make sure I understand the situation overall. You live with your roommate, she has that role and she makes it available to, you use it?	4crq
Yeah	6cd
You've tried to stop that behavior, but that's just not working for you.	4crq
Yeah, yeah, that's so clear. And I don't want to be using it.	6cd
You don't want to be using it. But yet you are. Especially because the proximity, right, like cuz you're right there and she has it and it's just tougher to stop that behavior. There's another possible decision, which is moving back home, which has some disadvantages and advantages.	0id
Yeah, that's true. It would be nice having that fully stocked fridge.	3gc
so that there's an upside to it.	4crq
Yeah	6cd
That would be beyond just not using the drug which would which fit itself It'd be a big victory for you.	3gc
Yeah. And my mom would be there to talk to Yeah. Yeah.	3gc
So let's do this. It seems like that's the direction you're moving. Right?	4crq
Okay.	6cd
No pun intended with moving. But that's, you're you, you're thinking that might be a better way to go?	4crq
Yeah.	6cd
So, for the next session, let's plan out that and this wouldn't necessarily be doing anything. This would just be let's plan out the steps that you'd have to put in place to move out to move back home, talking to your parents, whatever financial arrangement, have the roommate, getting all your stuff out the logistics of moving, let's just go through the steps.	3gc
Okay.	3gc
And try to get a firm plan together. And of course, you can always re evaluate and change your mind.	3gc
Okay, right.	3gc
But all we're doing at this point, is just just planning and seeing how it would look.	3gc
This is kind of exciting.	3gc
Exciting ?	4crq
Yeah, it definitely is. I can do that.	6cd
So I will see you and next week ?	3gc
okay	3gc
and we'll pick up where we left off and we'll, we'll start with a planning and we'll see what happens with that.	3gc
Cool. All right.	3gc
Thanks.	3gc
Hi How you doing it today.	2gt
doing okay,	2gt
dude, okay. Yeah, I understand you're here to receive counseling services.	3gc
My boss sent me here, your boss sent you here.	3gc
What's going on with you and your boss?	1irq
Ah, that's not even between me and my bosses. I'm a good worker at my job. I get everything done on time, but they're calling me inflexible and perfectionist.	0id
So who's who's calling you in flux for perfectionist?	1irq
Well, my boss has called me that.	0id
I've had several coworkers. There was a recent incident where somebody wanted to change days with me, but I told them the schedules that I'm supposed to be here on Wednesday. You can't change it. That's the it's right there like a white. I work Wednesday, you can't change that.	1irq
Well, they wanted to change. And I really don't agree with that. If they needed a certain day off, they need to go through the order of command and ask for a day off.	0id
And they didn't do that. Instead, they asked us which day	4crq
and then they called me inflexible because I got upset about it.	6cd
In what ways you get upset?	1irq
Well, I told them, I said that irresponsible that they didn't think ahead that they wanted to change with me. I am there at a certain time. I'm there from eight in the morning till five in the afternoon. I take my lunch at 12 o'clock. That is my Wednesday. That's always been my Wednesday. I don't know why they want to upset that.	0id
Alright, so that upsets you. And that upset them that whole incident? Yes. Anything else that your boss may have as a reason for	1irq
they call me a perfectionist because I like the things done by the book, which I think makes me a great worker, because I get everything done. You know, on deadlines, not before, not after, right on the deadline. And everything is just exactly, you know, everything's filed. Everything's organized. And some people like to, you know, take a file online, you this to fill out a report and it's there. It's in the file. You can't touch it, you can't move it. That's where it needs to be.	0id
So you need to self fairly well organized as employee.	4crq
Oh, absolutely. Yeah, absolutely. Like,	6cd
you mentioned you there from eight to five. and take your lunch from 12 to 1230.	5yq
Yes.	7ack

still struggling with the Adderall?.

4crq

right, so, go ahead

3gc

well it's it's like it's always there to.

3gc

It's always available ?

4crq

it's always available, Yeah. Or so much at the time.

6cd

You're having some mixed feelings about it. So I'm sensing.

3gc

Yeah. Yeah. Like I know I want to stop

3gc

you think you think you want to stop?

5yq

Yeah. No, I do.

8op

You do ?

4crq

Oh my god see, I feel crazy, but I know it would be good if I didn't have it in my life.

6cd

But at the same time it is in your life ?

4crq

And I don't know how to get out of that. I mean, the one thing if I didn't live with my roommate, that would be one thing. Like, it wouldn't be in the apartment all the time.

6cd

So you find you have easier access to the Adderall when you're when you're in the house or apartment with your, with your roommate.

4crq

Yeah.

6cd

So if you physically weren't there, like with your roommate in that apartment?

4crq

So you're kind of it sounds like you're recognizing that, maybe you don't have the willpower to stop taking the drug when it's right there in front of you.

3gc

Well, it makes us so easy to get stuff done. I mean, I just take a couple and boom boom boom, I mean,

9on

so there's some advantages for you ?

5yq

Yeah, definitely. Definitely. And I'm so used to it. So it's just comfortable and

8op

Well, yeah. When I don't have it, the crash, it's like a really bad crash and I'm not productive. You know, it's it's, and it's gotten worse than it used to be.Like I need it.

8op

So it's painful ?

5yq

It's painful. Definitely. Definitely. It feels like a trap. I want out.

8op

And one of the ideas you're having was sound like potentially was moving out, moving out of the apartment, because then you wouldn't have access to the who would have access to the Adderall anymore? Or it would be hard to get ?

4crq

Oh my god, like sometimes it's really weird. Sometimes it feels like that's a good idea. And then sometimes I'm like, No, no, I don't want to be You know kind of cut off from it but I think I am come ready.

6cd

You think you're ready for that?

11orq

Yeah

10od

And that moving out you really see is what you would need to do. Because stopping while living there is too difficult.

4crq

Yeah, yep, I think you're right.

6cd

Remember before you've tried to stop living there a few times right or, or last few months and with your roommate having it with your roommate being the one that gives it to you. It just appears that temptation so great for you.

3gc

Well, are there any disadvantages to living with your parents?

1irq

living with my parents at my age, it just feels like a little bit humiliating a lot humiliating.

0id

Okay, so humiliation would be one.

3gc

Yeah, just this feeling of failure, embarrassment and then my mom just is in my business.

3gc

So some clear disadvantages to move into Paris any advantages other than the obvious who would separate you from the Adderall?

4crq

Am I would you buy laundry? fully stocked fridge?

6cd

Yeah.

3gc

Yeah, my dad will fill my gas tank up.

3gc

things that happened before ?

3gc

Uh huh.

3gc

So there's some disadvantages to this plan, but there's some advantages. And there's a key advantage of being think of narrow.

4crq

Yeah. And it wouldn't necessarily have to be the rest of my life either. Just for now, just to get me out of that apartment with the Drug. Right ?

6cd

That would separate you from the drug and you could potentially move out later on.

3gc

Oh my god, do I want to I mean, that that's just it. Like, it's like, it sounds really good until I like really think about it.

3gc

When you really think about it, what comes to mind?

1irq

Oh, like I start to shake like that feeling of, you know, when you really want something, you really want something and you can't get to it. And that desperation that I'm like, right now, I know that, you know, I'm living there, it could be my choice. I could take it, or I could not take it. You know, but at least when I want it, it's there. If I move out, I'm like making that decision for myself.

0id

That's right. It would be.

3gc

I don't know.

3gc

Is it tough?

5yq

Yeah

8op

No, you know, you're right, though. I want out, and it's not really a choice when I'm there. Like I say, I have the choice yes or no, but the choice is always Yes.

6cd

You always end up using the Adderall ?

5yq

Yeah.

8op

So, so make sure I understand the situation overall. You live with your roommate, she has that role and she makes it available to, you use it?

4crq

Yeah

6cd

You've tried to stop that behavior, but that's just not working for you.

4crq

Yeah, yeah, that's so clear. And I don't want to be using it.

6cd

You don't want to be using it. But yet you are. Especially because the proximity, right, like cuz you're right there and she has it and it's just tougher to stop that behavior. There's another possible decision, which is moving back home, which has some disadvantages and advantages.

0id

Yeah, that's true. It would be nice having that fully stocked fridge.

3gc

so that there's an upside to it.

4crq

Yeah

6cd

That would be beyond just not using the drug which would which fit itself It'd be a big victory for you.

3gc

Yeah. And my mom would be there to talk to Yeah. Yeah.

3gc

So let's do this. It seems like that's the direction you're moving. Right?

4crq

Okay.

6cd

No pun intended with moving. But that's, you're you, you're thinking that might be a better way to go?

4crq

Yeah.

6cd

So, for the next session, let's plan out that and this wouldn't necessarily be doing anything. This would just be let's plan out the steps that you'd have to put in place to move out to move back home, talking to your parents, whatever financial arrangement, have the roommate, getting all your stuff out the logistics of moving, let's just go through the steps.

3gc

Okay.

3gc

And try to get a firm plan together. And of course, you can always re evaluate and change your mind.

3gc

Okay, right.

3gc

But all we're doing at this point, is just just planning and seeing how it would look.

3gc

This is kind of exciting.

3gc

Exciting ?

4crq

Yeah, it definitely is. I can do that.

6cd

So I will see you and next week ?

3gc

okay

3gc

and we'll pick up where we left off and we'll, we'll start with a planning and we'll see what happens with that.

3gc

Cool. All right.

3gc

Thanks.

3gc

Hi How you doing it today.

2gt

doing okay,

2gt

dude, okay. Yeah, I understand you're here to receive counseling services.

3gc

My boss sent me here, your boss sent you here.

3gc

What's going on with you and your boss?

1irq

Ah, that's not even between me and my bosses. I'm a good worker at my job. I get everything done on time, but they're calling me inflexible and perfectionist.

0id

So who's who's calling you in flux for perfectionist?

1irq

Well, my boss has called me that.

0id

I've had several coworkers. There was a recent incident where somebody wanted to change days with me, but I told them the schedules that I'm supposed to be here on Wednesday. You can't change it. That's the it's right there like a white. I work Wednesday, you can't change that.

1irq

Well, they wanted to change. And I really don't agree with that. If they needed a certain day off, they need to go through the order of command and ask for a day off.

0id

And they didn't do that. Instead, they asked us which day

4crq

and then they called me inflexible because I got upset about it.

6cd

In what ways you get upset?

1irq

Well, I told them, I said that irresponsible that they didn't think ahead that they wanted to change with me. I am there at a certain time. I'm there from eight in the morning till five in the afternoon. I take my lunch at 12 o'clock. That is my Wednesday. That's always been my Wednesday. I don't know why they want to upset that.

0id

Alright, so that upsets you. And that upset them that whole incident? Yes. Anything else that your boss may have as a reason for

1irq

they call me a perfectionist because I like the things done by the book, which I think makes me a great worker, because I get everything done. You know, on deadlines, not before, not after, right on the deadline. And everything is just exactly, you know, everything's filed. Everything's organized. And some people like to, you know, take a file online, you this to fill out a report and it's there. It's in the file. You can't touch it, you can't move it. That's where it needs to be.

0id

So you need to self fairly well organized as employee.

4crq

Oh, absolutely. Yeah, absolutely. Like,

6cd

you mentioned you there from eight to five. and take your lunch from 12 to 1230.

5yq

Yes.

7ack