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>Feel free to walk away. That child will be better off without you in her life for the foreseeable future. This. I sincerely hope OP leaves this guy instead of hanging around trying to stop him from being a dad.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Loyalty,Care
Confident
You should pay him back. Slip a $50 back into his wallet without him knowing. You could own up you your mistake, but there’s no need to damage your trust over something that has so little ramifications as long as you understand what you did was wrong. Just my two cents. You should totally make up for it.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Proportionality,Equality
Somewhat Confident
For what it's worth, I think the idea is really interesting and I'd buy and read the book. Look at the criticism as a good thing. If you ever get published, the people calling you a racist will whip up a storm on social media and give you loads of free publicity!
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator05
Equality
Confident
No, it’s *not* ok. It’s rude, it’s demeaning, and it’s **fucking wrong**!!
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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You got this. Change your people for a little while. I got sober at 20 and there are tons of young people meetings/conventions etc all around the country and world.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Confident
Ive never planned to and never will masturbate to friends or my gfs friends. Theres a line dude. Its not normal.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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I’m not sure you really want anonymous judgement on this really, it’s not going to help your guilt especially if you were feeling especially anxious enough to refuse him to take his own baby away from you at all. Please consider seeking support from your own healthcare system for your feelings. Best wishes and condolences.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Care,Authority
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Parents were sooo upset by it. I was happy as shit. Don't care if you smoke, just hate when people aren't considerate of it. Especially the people that throw their butts on the ground.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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You’re definitely right. And not only about anal stuff. (31M here.)
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
LiMp_BizKit_feAt_mEthod_Man - N_2_geTher_nOw.mp3 *presses play* "I did not have sexual relations....."
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Purity
Somewhat Confident
That 80s show wasn’t all that bad. The way people treated it as a spin-off of That ‘70s Show is why it failed.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
Wow, did not come here to be so personally accosted by my own feelings
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
If you haven't already, you might want to consider backing up these photos on the cloud through services like Dropbox or Google Drive. The pictures might have actually been gone forever if something had happened to your computer. The more places you save these photos the safer they are! This is not to imply that any of this was your fault, but I know I would personally sleep much easier if I had these photos stored in multiple locations. NTA.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator05
Proportionality
Not Confident
I agree! She’s a horrible person and you deserve better!
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator05
Proportionality,Equality
Confident
Is everyone telepathic where you live? You have no way of knowing whether she cared about her surroundings or not. Also, you can't be bothered to do more than say "excuse me" **one** time before you start shit-talking her to your friend? Plus you expect her to interpret a single "excuse me" as "get your ass out of the way because some of us have things to do and places to be?" YTA. Learn to use your words and speak up clearly when you say "Excuse me, can I get by please?"
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Care
Confident
Well then there is nothing for you to worry about. Western life is different: individuality and personal freedom are very important values. To respect other cultures should be aswell. There is no reason why you shouldnt be able to tell them that they should respect your life and family. Wish you good luck!
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Equality
Confident
It ain’t Halloween unless the mask elastic is held on by a staples.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Confident
Could you ask him if he’s willing to turn himself in? If he’s truly reformed, he should be willing.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Purity
Somewhat Confident
Oh that self balancing eagle! I forgot about that thing
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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“You teach others how to treat you by setting boundaries” needed to hear this tonight, thank you! A hard reminder sometimes, but well worth the effort.
relationship_advice
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Lol I know nothing can be done abt these posts cuz there’s no “”””evidence”””” they’re fake (other than critical thinking) but my eyes roll back in my head anytime I see a post abt some beautiful thin angel owning an obese caricature of a person who totally deserves it. I’m also genuinely concerned abt the effect these posts have on ppls body image.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Care,Proportionality
Confident
No it doesn’t. [No tears means it is not supposed to sting your eyes](https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/08/167926/loreal-kids-shampoo-no-tears-meaning)
nostalgia
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It was SirBigNipps. It was. That trip was 3 yrs ago. Was supposed to do it again this year but couldn't because of medical issues. Someday I hope I can "go" there again.
confession
Everyday Morality
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That sounds like what Ricky would do to steal shit in TPB - he had someone move shit to the curb, wait a second, and then put it in his car because "its trash, and you cant get in trouble for stealing trash"
confession
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
Sad to say its a common occurrence to see this mindset in people who should understand the mental struggle of weight related issues most personally. Your comment described it perfectly!
confession
Everyday Morality
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Lol no it doesn’t, why would it? Doing something out of spite is wayyy different to doing something out of a moral conviction, it’s silly to compare the two. The spite part is what makes the people you’re talking about dumbasses, not the “lifestyle choices” part
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Proportionality
Somewhat Confident
Your responses are honestly infuriating. It’s always “I was wrong BUT ...” - stop blaming the circumstances or trying to justify yourself. You did a terrible thing. No if’s or but’s. You knowingly cheated, expected the guy to leave his family and when he didn’t you left your daughter with them, naively ignoring that she was naturally going to be the target of resentment and abuse because of YOUR actions. You fucked up. Period. Accept that and move on accordingly.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Equality,Purity,Loyalty
Confident
The entire thread is about teenagers masturbating to Xena. I feel like we might be splitting hairs here.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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I mean, she's 6 months along. The baby is coming. She should look into adoption, yes, but not having the kid is off the table at this point.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Care,Loyalty
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NTA. Insurance is the correct procedure and you have no obligation to “settle things” with anyone else. That’s literally what insurance is for
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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More like one huge reminder of how aggressively McDonald's used to market its food toward children.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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But their child is the same person they knew. A person’s personality doesn’t depend on their body, name, pronouns etc. They didn’t lose their child.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Loyalty
Somewhat Confident
That ring isn't special because of it's price tag. It's special because of what it represents. If you can't appreciate that, you deserve to be single for a while.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Proportionality
Confident
It’s Artex’s freakin’ fault. He let the sadness get to him. He didn’t even try!!! (Yes, I’m still scarred)
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Confident
You were a child. It's time to forgive yourself. Work with a professional - this is real trauma that cannot be resolved through a Reddit moment of catharsis. Every additional day spent carrying this shame will dramatically warp your life in more ways than you can imagine. I so hope for your peace, OP. Writing here was an extremely brave step. Now it's time to schedule an appointment.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Care
Confident
Youre either gonna steal the wallet or give it back. Quit beating around the bush and trying to justify not calling them. The longer you wait, the more likely youre going to steal it.
confession
Everyday Morality
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And if I recall correctly these 4 weren't actual investors in that they put up their own money, instead they were offered ownership shares in exchange for these type of endorsements and appearances.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Texting him "your an asshole" then shutting off the phone is a petty childish move so I think ESH
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
It can and will. If he accumulated more than a certain amount, the benefits are lost PERMANENTLY.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Non-Moral
Somewhat Confident
Omg the shaker is BRILLIANT. We had ours in very memorable old tupperware. It was shallow but long and pill shaped and fit the mix of sugar/cinnamon and a spoon to dust it with
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
I don’t believe this. Creative writing class assignment on persuading an audience. The details to an event this long ago are too precise. Also, the implications of rape and the husband’s non-reaction to such an incredibly dangerous accusation don’t seem believable.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
annotator05
Equality
Somewhat Confident
I'm so sorry she's continuing her behavior, this is no way to treat your own child. You on the other hand, are being very mature and dealing with this well. You went to all the right people, and did all the right things. You sound exhausted, especially with losing a family member. Please allow this to be left with the adults now and give yourself the space to mourn and rest. You need your time too, take care.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Equality,Care
Confident
I break this out anytime El Niño comes out 😂
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Confident
Um there are a heap of countries that use the dollar symbol. It's not solely an American Dollar sign
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Authority
Not Confident
i wanna know why anyone is picturing their kids having sex. the thought process doesn’t make sense to me
confession
Everyday Morality
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Confident
I love kind people like you, who stop to say things like this. On that note, I'm so sorry for your loss as well
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Care
Confident
Exactly! OP sounds much more level-headed. No wonder the parents selected her as executor.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Yeah that was my first thought when I read OP I'm like if he doesn't like how you smell then you guys aren't compatible.
relationship_advice
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Somewhat Confident
Not really, most sugar daddies are older married men with a lot to lose. Kick the bitch out!
relationship_advice
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Somewhat Confident
9/10 times the paper layer came off with it, required a careful lamination separation operation (with thumbnails)to salvage it.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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yes. But a lot of people have moved from anti-racist, to general assholedom clothed in anti-racism. And frankly, a lot of them look like Trump, just with the valence changed. It's quite possible to dislike both Trump and his mirror image, even though they both spout off about how right they are. Does this describe this woman? I have no data obviously. But she does give off that vibe. Which doesn't mean I'm on her sister's side either. I just think there is more going on on both sides
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Equality,Authority
Confident
Teddy grahams and a can of cake frosting is a pretty close replication for those who want to re live these little packs on an adult scale.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Non-Moral
Confident
NTA. She essentially evicted herself because she was unwilling to compromise, and you’re likely better off not cohabitating with someone that selfish.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
>He was gonna delete them anyway Was he? I certainly hope so. But it the light of day and with the photos already gone, it sure is easy for him to act all huffy about how of course sober him would, even though drunk him refused.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator05
Thin Morality
Confident
It sounds like you disrespected something important to her, and she's probably hurt both because of the way you phrased your message and because she feels this is a cause everyone should care about, regardless of location.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Care
Confident
NTA you don’t own them interaction. If you don’t feel like talking to them, You have all the right to ignore them. Dad was TA for not getting the hint.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
annotator05
Equality
Confident
I peeled my taste buds off my tongue. Didn't taste anything for two weeks.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Confident
I’m guessing this kind of person has no problem outright asking this question on the first date.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Non-Moral
Confident
Possibly not psychotic. I'd hate to offend any "psychotics". Depraved is a more appropriate description.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
Dude, you need to listen to a song 🎵 by pink floyd....Run like Hell. It is only going to get worse. Don't waste anymore of your time with someone who does not respect you. I know it is tough but trust me.....have some self respect for yourself.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Equality,Care
Confident
Um... your friends are AHs. Get new friends. Fast. I've had friends who take the piss out of me for stupid shit (hell, I STILL have friends who take the piss out of my for stupid shit) but it's all done on the premise that it's good fun, that I give as good as I get and that no one's being a douche about it. Also I wasn't joking, change friends. One of the best things I ever did.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Care,Loyalty
Confident
For real, if he was actually interested in this for making money that would be different. But he’s not he’s literally offering it for free for only women. Mans is a piece of shit
confession
Everyday Morality
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Equality
Confident
Dude, he's literally and intentionally harming women while you're watching him. He only seems harmless to you because you're not the target.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Care
Confident
this is not normal behavior at all try learning consent and boundaries
confession
Everyday Morality
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I didn't even know what SNL was until my twenties. Mad TV was my shit.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
Our lunchroom pizza was so consistently awful I wouldn't touch it. Plastic oily cheese and ketchup for sauce. Straight garbage homie.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Confident
Yea I don’t trust it! Be careful! Good luck OP
relationship_advice
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Somewhat Confident
It’s usually the combination of both. Military attracts the jocks, the “C” students and the otherwise intellectually challenged people who get validation and authority there and become worshipped by the regular society for “sacrificing themselves”, which gets to their heads.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Blinkin - I heard that coming a mile away. Robin - Good job Blinkin, well done. Blinkin - Pardon? Who's talking?
nostalgia
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Somewhat Confident
I mean Issac kept it real af by not bringing you down too, if anything you should be thanking him.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
Pretty sure zooted just means very fucking intoxicated, so you can say that all you want lol
confession
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
YES YOU NEED HELP BEFORE IT ESCALATES TO SOMETHING YOU CANT CONTROL. Just cause you are not Harming others physically now doesn’t mean you wont hurt them later in the future by the way this going. Plus also the trauma they are enduring because of your psychopath tendencies. GET HELP!!!!!!
confession
Everyday Morality
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Care
Somewhat Confident
Good for you. Breaking those vicious cycles is so hard, good for you.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Confident
Putt putt saves the zoo! I remember you would get food from a truck named Chuck Wagon. That's all I remember
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Confident
>Some people said I was too harsh but others said I did the right thing. I recommend you to cut out the people who said you were too harsh.
relationship_advice
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Somewhat Confident
u/Throwrashessettling we will need another update after you tell Nancy, please!
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Non-Moral
Somewhat Confident
Man. This could be a literary phenomenon. Write a book. Have someone write a book. I’ll write your book. We’ll call it fiction and beef it up. You’re golden.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Thin Morality
Somewhat Confident
but....? wild animals aren’t supposed to be in tight little enclosures. don’t understand why people are so surprised when an animal goes ape shit.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Equality
Confident
I’m so sorry for your ongoing struggles with your health. Your boyfriend needs to grow up, if all he sees in you is sex, then you deserve better. Regardless of your health, you’re human and you have value. I really hope he sees your value and can understand that you’re not an object.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Equality,Care,Loyalty,Purity
Confident
From reading your responses, you haven’t changed, have you? You really hurt someone and caused them life long distress and major trauma. Grow up and apologize to help THEM. Get over yourself op, it’s not about you and your feelings anymore. I understand this is confession but this is one of those times you need to hear our judgment.
confession
Everyday Morality
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Care,Equality
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Thank you, & I actually did reply & tell this guy I feel sorry for him because he's a misogynistic, racist, miserable person. Who trolls this subreddit & sends such hateful messages other than people who are absolutely miserable in life?
relationship_advice
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Love requires respect. They don’t respect you. I’m not talking about the “respect my authority!” Type of respect I’m talking about guy/girl code type respect. They aren’t your friends. You are their doormat. I hope you can bring yourself to love and respect you. Because they don’t.
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Equality,Care
Confident
Yeah I remember this, felt like the future back in ‘83
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Confident
lmfaooo imagine the look on ur face when u caught whoever was licking ur insoles😂😂
confession
Everyday Morality
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YTA He let you use his account and the first thing you do is insult his music taste.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Equality
Somewhat Confident
Saw it, twice! Back to the Future was showing at the same theater. Had to choose.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
If there's anything that would make the Scottish snap and go back to a nation of Braveheart style warriors, taking away fried apple pies would be it.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
NTA- that's discrimination if she's only enforcing the rules for one sex.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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Equality,Purity
Confident
Yeah. It was less a war on drugs and more just trying to make certain minority groups look bad BG associating them with the drugs
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Equality,Loyalty
Somewhat Confident
But you can send a "cease and desist" letter or something like that? Or sue for harassement?
relationship_advice
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
Holy shit yes, I completely forgot about these, I was obsessed! They were even better stale!
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
“It’s my party and I kill if I want to! You would kill too, if it happened to you” 🎶
confession
Everyday Morality
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Somewhat Confident
Now that’s a memory I haven’t thought of in 25+ years. My friends and I used to intentionally mark up a school stairway with our soles. That was SO hilarious at age 13. Simpler times.
nostalgia
Everyday Morality
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Haha ok I’m glad I wasn’t the only kid that hated this. And always felt like an asshole not caring about world news at 10
nostalgia
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Care
Confident
Man you’re still young. Just get amicably divorced. Don’t want to risk having kids that aren’t yours.
relationship_advice
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Other solid advice: keep it classy. When she goes low, you go high. That helped me a lot!
relationship_advice
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You are absolutely NTA. I'm so sorry. This sounds so much like how my parents were when I was a kid. There is no shame in crying, or expressing emotion. You are not a brat. Your parents are bullies. I wish I could make it better for you.
AmItheAsshole
Everyday Morality
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You’re peeping on a teenager. A fucking TEENAGER! Legal or not, that’s disgusting on principle alone. Get help dude, ya fuckin nasty ass
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See, this is what’s wrong with our work culture. Obviously, your job does not need you to work a full 8 hour day, yet they require you to pretend you do. Imagine how far we as a society could advance if he went home after finishing our work and still made the same salary
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Born in NYC, raised in Jersey, live in Philly.. what bad thing is he confessing to?
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