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>Feel free to walk away. That child will be better off without you in her life for the foreseeable future.
This. I sincerely hope OP leaves this guy instead of hanging around trying to stop him from being a dad.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Loyalty,Care
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Confident
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You should pay him back. Slip a $50 back into his wallet without him knowing.
You could own up you your mistake, but there’s no need to damage your trust over something that has so little ramifications as long as you understand what you did was wrong.
Just my two cents. You should totally make up for it.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Proportionality,Equality
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Somewhat Confident
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For what it's worth, I think the idea is really interesting and I'd buy and read the book. Look at the criticism as a good thing. If you ever get published, the people calling you a racist will whip up a storm on social media and give you loads of free publicity!
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Confident
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No, it’s *not* ok. It’s rude, it’s demeaning, and it’s **fucking wrong**!!
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Confident
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You got this. Change your people for a little while. I got sober at 20 and there are tons of young people meetings/conventions etc all around the country and world.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Confident
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Ive never planned to and never will masturbate to friends or my gfs friends. Theres a line dude.
Its not normal.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Purity,Loyalty
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Confident
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I’m not sure you really want anonymous judgement on this really, it’s not going to help your guilt especially if you were feeling especially anxious enough to refuse him to take his own baby away from you at all. Please consider seeking support from your own healthcare system for your feelings. Best wishes and condolences.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Authority
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Confident
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Parents were sooo upset by it. I was happy as shit. Don't care if you smoke, just hate when people aren't considerate of it. Especially the people that throw their butts on the ground.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Authority
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Confident
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You’re definitely right. And not only about anal stuff. (31M here.)
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Purity
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Somewhat Confident
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LiMp_BizKit_feAt_mEthod_Man - N_2_geTher_nOw.mp3
*presses play*
"I did not have sexual relations....."
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Purity
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Somewhat Confident
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That 80s show wasn’t all that bad. The way people treated it as a spin-off of That ‘70s Show is why it failed.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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Wow, did not come here to be so personally accosted by my own feelings
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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If you haven't already, you might want to consider backing up these photos on the cloud through services like Dropbox or Google Drive. The pictures might have actually been gone forever if something had happened to your computer. The more places you save these photos the safer they are!
This is not to imply that any of this was your fault, but I know I would personally sleep much easier if I had these photos stored in multiple locations.
NTA.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Proportionality
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Not Confident
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I agree! She’s a horrible person and you deserve better!
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Proportionality,Equality
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Confident
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Is everyone telepathic where you live? You have no way of knowing whether she cared about her surroundings or not. Also, you can't be bothered to do more than say "excuse me" **one** time before you start shit-talking her to your friend? Plus you expect her to interpret a single "excuse me" as "get your ass out of the way because some of us have things to do and places to be?"
YTA. Learn to use your words and speak up clearly when you say "Excuse me, can I get by please?"
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Confident
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Well then there is nothing for you to worry about. Western life is different: individuality and personal freedom are very important values. To respect other cultures should be aswell. There is no reason why you shouldnt be able to tell them that they should respect your life and family. Wish you good luck!
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Confident
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It ain’t Halloween unless the mask elastic is held on by a staples.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Could you ask him if he’s willing to turn himself in? If he’s truly reformed, he should be willing.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Purity
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Somewhat Confident
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Oh that self balancing eagle! I forgot about that thing
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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“You teach others how to treat you by setting boundaries” needed to hear this tonight, thank you! A hard reminder sometimes, but well worth the effort.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Equality
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Confident
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Lol I know nothing can be done abt these posts cuz there’s no “”””evidence”””” they’re fake (other than critical thinking) but my eyes roll back in my head anytime I see a post abt some beautiful thin angel owning an obese caricature of a person who totally deserves it.
I’m also genuinely concerned abt the effect these posts have on ppls body image.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Proportionality
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Confident
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No it doesn’t.
[No tears means it is not supposed to sting your eyes](https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/08/167926/loreal-kids-shampoo-no-tears-meaning)
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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It was SirBigNipps. It was.
That trip was 3 yrs ago. Was supposed to do it again this year but couldn't because of medical issues. Someday I hope I can "go" there again.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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That sounds like what Ricky would do to steal shit in TPB - he had someone move shit to the curb, wait a second, and then put it in his car because "its trash, and you cant get in trouble for stealing trash"
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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Sad to say its a common occurrence to see this mindset in people who should understand the mental struggle of weight related issues most personally. Your comment described it perfectly!
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Equality
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Confident
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Lol no it doesn’t, why would it? Doing something out of spite is wayyy different to doing something out of a moral conviction, it’s silly to compare the two. The spite part is what makes the people you’re talking about dumbasses, not the “lifestyle choices” part
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Proportionality
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Somewhat Confident
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Your responses are honestly infuriating. It’s always “I was wrong BUT ...” - stop blaming the circumstances or trying to justify yourself.
You did a terrible thing. No if’s or but’s. You knowingly cheated, expected the guy to leave his family and when he didn’t you left your daughter with them, naively ignoring that she was naturally going to be the target of resentment and abuse because of YOUR actions.
You fucked up. Period. Accept that and move on accordingly.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality,Purity,Loyalty
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Confident
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The entire thread is about teenagers masturbating to Xena. I feel like we might be splitting hairs here.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Purity
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Confident
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I mean, she's 6 months along. The baby is coming. She should look into adoption, yes, but not having the kid is off the table at this point.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Loyalty
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Somewhat Confident
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NTA. Insurance is the correct procedure and you have no obligation to “settle things” with anyone else.
That’s literally what insurance is for
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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More like one huge reminder of how aggressively McDonald's used to market its food toward children.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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But their child is the same person they knew. A person’s personality doesn’t depend on their body, name, pronouns etc. They didn’t lose their child.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Loyalty
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Somewhat Confident
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That ring isn't special because of it's price tag. It's special because of what it represents. If you can't appreciate that, you deserve to be single for a while.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Proportionality
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Confident
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It’s Artex’s freakin’ fault. He let the sadness get to him. He didn’t even try!!! (Yes, I’m still scarred)
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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You were a child. It's time to forgive yourself. Work with a professional - this is real trauma that cannot be resolved through a Reddit moment of catharsis. Every additional day spent carrying this shame will dramatically warp your life in more ways than you can imagine.
I so hope for your peace, OP. Writing here was an extremely brave step. Now it's time to schedule an appointment.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Confident
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Youre either gonna steal the wallet or give it back. Quit beating around the bush and trying to justify not calling them. The longer you wait, the more likely youre going to steal it.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Proportionality
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Somewhat Confident
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And if I recall correctly these 4 weren't actual investors in that they put up their own money, instead they were offered ownership shares in exchange for these type of endorsements and appearances.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Proportionality
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Somewhat Confident
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Texting him "your an asshole" then shutting off the phone is a petty childish move so I think ESH
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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It can and will. If he accumulated more than a certain amount, the benefits are lost PERMANENTLY.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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Omg the shaker is BRILLIANT. We had ours in very memorable old tupperware. It was shallow but long and pill shaped and fit the mix of sugar/cinnamon and a spoon to dust it with
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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I don’t believe this. Creative writing class assignment on persuading an audience.
The details to an event this long ago are too precise. Also, the implications of rape and the husband’s non-reaction to such an incredibly dangerous accusation don’t seem believable.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Somewhat Confident
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I'm so sorry she's continuing her behavior, this is no way to treat your own child. You on the other hand, are being very mature and dealing with this well. You went to all the right people, and did all the right things.
You sound exhausted, especially with losing a family member. Please allow this to be left with the adults now and give yourself the space to mourn and rest. You need your time too, take care.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality,Care
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Confident
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I break this out anytime El Niño comes out 😂
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Um there are a heap of countries that use the dollar symbol. It's not solely an American Dollar sign
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Authority
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Not Confident
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i wanna know why anyone is picturing their kids having sex. the thought process doesn’t make sense to me
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Purity
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Confident
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I love kind people like you, who stop to say things like this.
On that note, I'm so sorry for your loss as well
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Confident
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Exactly! OP sounds much more level-headed. No wonder the parents selected her as executor.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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Yeah that was my first thought when I read OP I'm like if he doesn't like how you smell then you guys aren't compatible.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Loyalty
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Somewhat Confident
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Not really, most sugar daddies are older married men with a lot to lose. Kick the bitch out!
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Proportionality
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Somewhat Confident
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9/10 times the paper layer came off with it, required a careful lamination separation operation (with thumbnails)to salvage it.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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yes. But a lot of people have moved from anti-racist, to general assholedom clothed in anti-racism. And frankly, a lot of them look like Trump, just with the valence changed. It's quite possible to dislike both Trump and his mirror image, even though they both spout off about how right they are.
Does this describe this woman? I have no data obviously. But she does give off that vibe. Which doesn't mean I'm on her sister's side either. I just think there is more going on on both sides
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality,Authority
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Confident
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Teddy grahams and a can of cake frosting is a pretty close replication for those who want to re live these little packs on an adult scale.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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NTA. She essentially evicted herself because she was unwilling to compromise, and you’re likely better off not cohabitating with someone that selfish.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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>He was gonna delete them anyway
Was he? I certainly hope so.
But it the light of day and with the photos already gone, it sure is easy for him to act all huffy about how of course sober him would, even though drunk him refused.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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It sounds like you disrespected something important to her, and she's probably hurt both because of the way you phrased your message and because she feels this is a cause everyone should care about, regardless of location.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Confident
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NTA you don’t own them interaction. If you don’t feel like talking to them, You have all the right to ignore them. Dad was TA for not getting the hint.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Confident
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I peeled my taste buds off my tongue. Didn't taste anything for two weeks.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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I’m guessing this kind of person has no problem outright asking this question on the first date.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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Possibly not psychotic. I'd hate to offend any "psychotics". Depraved is a more appropriate description.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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Dude, you need to listen to a song 🎵 by pink floyd....Run like Hell. It is only going to get worse. Don't waste anymore of your time with someone who does not respect you. I know it is tough but trust me.....have some self respect for yourself.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality,Care
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Confident
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Um... your friends are AHs.
Get new friends. Fast.
I've had friends who take the piss out of me for stupid shit (hell, I STILL have friends who take the piss out of my for stupid shit) but it's all done on the premise that it's good fun, that I give as good as I get and that no one's being a douche about it.
Also I wasn't joking, change friends. One of the best things I ever did.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Loyalty
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Confident
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For real, if he was actually interested in this for making money that would be different. But he’s not he’s literally offering it for free for only women. Mans is a piece of shit
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Confident
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Dude, he's literally and intentionally harming women while you're watching him. He only seems harmless to you because you're not the target.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Confident
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this is not normal behavior at all try learning consent and boundaries
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Confident
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I didn't even know what SNL was until my twenties. Mad TV was my shit.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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Our lunchroom pizza was so consistently awful I wouldn't touch it. Plastic oily cheese and ketchup for sauce. Straight garbage homie.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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Yea I don’t trust it! Be careful! Good luck OP
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Somewhat Confident
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It’s usually the combination of both. Military attracts the jocks, the “C” students and the otherwise intellectually challenged people who get validation and authority there and become worshipped by the regular society for “sacrificing themselves”, which gets to their heads.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Authority
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Somewhat Confident
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Blinkin - I heard that coming a mile away.
Robin - Good job Blinkin, well done.
Blinkin - Pardon? Who's talking?
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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I mean Issac kept it real af by not bringing you down too, if anything you should be thanking him.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Loyalty
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Somewhat Confident
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Pretty sure zooted just means very fucking intoxicated, so you can say that all you want lol
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Purity
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Somewhat Confident
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YES YOU NEED HELP BEFORE IT ESCALATES TO SOMETHING YOU CANT CONTROL. Just cause you are not Harming others physically now doesn’t mean you wont hurt them later in the future by the way this going. Plus also the trauma they are enduring because of your psychopath tendencies. GET HELP!!!!!!
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Somewhat Confident
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Good for you. Breaking those vicious cycles is so hard, good for you.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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Putt putt saves the zoo!
I remember you would get food from a truck named Chuck Wagon. That's all I remember
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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>Some people said I was too harsh but others said I did the right thing.
I recommend you to cut out the people who said you were too harsh.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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u/Throwrashessettling we will need another update after you tell Nancy, please!
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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Man. This could be a literary phenomenon. Write a book. Have someone write a book. I’ll write your book. We’ll call it fiction and beef it up. You’re golden.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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but....? wild animals aren’t supposed to be in tight little enclosures. don’t understand why people are so surprised when an animal goes ape shit.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Confident
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I’m so sorry for your ongoing struggles with your health.
Your boyfriend needs to grow up, if all he sees in you is sex, then you deserve better.
Regardless of your health, you’re human and you have value. I really hope he sees your value and can understand that you’re not an object.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality,Care,Loyalty,Purity
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Confident
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From reading your responses, you haven’t changed, have you? You really hurt someone and caused them life long distress and major trauma. Grow up and apologize to help THEM. Get over yourself op, it’s not about you and your feelings anymore. I understand this is confession but this is one of those times you need to hear our judgment.
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Equality
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Confident
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Thank you, & I actually did reply & tell this guy I feel sorry for him because he's a misogynistic, racist, miserable person. Who trolls this subreddit & sends such hateful messages other than people who are absolutely miserable in life?
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Confident
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Love requires respect. They don’t respect you.
I’m not talking about the “respect my authority!” Type of respect I’m talking about guy/girl code type respect.
They aren’t your friends. You are their doormat. I hope you can bring yourself to love and respect you. Because they don’t.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality,Care
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Confident
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Yeah I remember this, felt like the future back in ‘83
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Confident
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lmfaooo imagine the look on ur face when u caught whoever was licking ur insoles😂😂
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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YTA
He let you use his account and the first thing you do is insult his music taste.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality
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Somewhat Confident
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Saw it, twice! Back to the Future was showing at the same theater. Had to choose.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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If there's anything that would make the Scottish snap and go back to a nation of Braveheart style warriors, taking away fried apple pies would be it.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Loyalty
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Somewhat Confident
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NTA- that's discrimination if she's only enforcing the rules for one sex.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality,Purity
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Confident
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Yeah. It was less a war on drugs and more just trying to make certain minority groups look bad BG associating them with the drugs
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Equality,Loyalty
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Somewhat Confident
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But you can send a "cease and desist" letter or something like that? Or sue for harassement?
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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Holy shit yes, I completely forgot about these, I was obsessed! They were even better stale!
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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“It’s my party and I kill if I want to! You would kill too, if it happened to you” 🎶
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Non-Moral
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Somewhat Confident
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Now that’s a memory I haven’t thought of in 25+ years. My friends and I used to intentionally mark up a school stairway with our soles. That was SO hilarious at age 13. Simpler times.
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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Haha ok I’m glad I wasn’t the only kid that hated this. And always felt like an asshole not caring about world news at 10
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nostalgia
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care
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Confident
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Man you’re still young. Just get amicably divorced. Don’t want to risk having kids that aren’t yours.
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Loyalty
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Confident
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Other solid advice: keep it classy. When she goes low, you go high. That helped me a lot!
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relationship_advice
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Somewhat Confident
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You are absolutely NTA. I'm so sorry. This sounds so much like how my parents were when I was a kid. There is no shame in crying, or expressing emotion. You are not a brat. Your parents are bullies. I wish I could make it better for you.
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AmItheAsshole
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Care,Equality,Loyalty
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Confident
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You’re peeping on a teenager. A fucking TEENAGER! Legal or not, that’s disgusting on principle alone. Get help dude, ya fuckin nasty ass
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Purity,Equality
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Confident
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See, this is what’s wrong with our work culture. Obviously, your job does not need you to work a full 8 hour day, yet they require you to pretend you do. Imagine how far we as a society could advance if he went home after finishing our work and still made the same salary
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Authority
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Confident
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Born in NYC, raised in Jersey, live in Philly.. what bad thing is he confessing to?
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confession
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Everyday Morality
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annotator05
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Thin Morality
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Confident
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