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So if i get drunk with my boyfriend and we have sex that means we are raping each other?	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Confident
He told you he did that to his ex aswell and you're still asking what you should do?!	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
They wouldn’t stick to my ears but that’s okay — I preferred sticking them to the outer corners of my eyes or making fake freckles.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
> We did it raw 4 times that day. So you tried to get your GF pregnant. That what this sentence means. > We're both still Seniors in High School and it's too early to have kids. Then I would strongly suggest you stop trying to have them. If you guys are worried about this, then get a test. It's the best way to be sure.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Confident
Get a kettle style popper, coconut oil and some flavacol and you’re set. I used to make the best popcorn of the whole amc theatre crew here so listen up.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Okay but we cannot forget Scooby Doo and the Witches Ghost	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Your brother should be able to use his room freely. But there are way bigger issues here. Why is your room the only comfortable one? Why do you share a room with your brother? How old is he?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality,Equality	Confident
If you don’t want your trust, donate it all to charity. All of it. Then you can unburden yourself from the fear of having to pay taxes on it. YTA	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
It's not your fault. And nostalgic hatred is still nostalgia!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
I question the 5% efficacy rate for AA. There are other studies that have found the success rate to be much higher. I agree that AA doesn't have a monopoly on getting sobriety, but to call 12 step programs nonsense is wrong. Millions around the world are sober through 12 step programs. They work.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity,Authority	Somewhat Confident
This movie freaked me the fuck out as a child	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
I recorded this MTV Black Sheep special in high school and have never see any other mention of it anywhere so I finally recently transferred it and put it on YouTube. Really great Farley improv stuff. Enjoy. https://youtu.be/eiot7ZNe560	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
I feel like this is really a TIFU post 😝	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
A joke doesn't intend to be malicious or hurtful, what she said wasn't a joke, it was a demeaning and rude comment lowering the perceived value of the OP. In a joke, both parties are in on the humor. This was at the expense of others, so let's call it what it is: a demeaning, rude, derogatory comment meant to devalue the subjects in question.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality,Care	Confident
Please remove yourself from this thread before we have to do it for you.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Confident
Whatever happened to that sub that was trying to bring him back	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
YTA for thinking that Sexuality is only about the sex. It’s so much more than who we want to fuck.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Confident
This picture makes me feel things but I absolutely cannot remember a thing of it.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
I am super, super envious to have this much spare room for such a large collection.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
My soon to be ex husband isn't great, but period blood never freaked him out. I'd freak out about it, though He'd wrap me in his sleeping bag after period sex so I'd bleed on his stuff and not mine.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Confident
How durable were these? I would be afraid of it bursting.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
As someone who was bullied, trust me, it will mean the world to him if you apologised and admitted it was you who was a dick. Often people who are bullied go on to blame themselves.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
Agreed he should get a paternity test done. Although I do know a man and woman who did name their daughter after the father’s ex girlfriend. I guess they both didn’t care and really liked the name. 😂	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
..Until they all died at the end of the series.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
They re ran this in the 90s and my grandma bought dozens of these and froze them gave them to me every time I was hungry at her house for what seemed like years	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Not Confident
This logic is dumb af. Just because something’s true obviously does not make it okay to say. To take an extreme example, if someone’s dying of cancer it’s not ‘okay’ to remind them they’re dying of cancer because ‘you’re telling the truth’. In a much less extreme (but still very relevant) example here, if someone is overweight/has gained weight you don’t remind them of this every day ‘because it’s true’. It’s obviously something that people feel sensitive about. Unless you’re a sociopath and completely lack any ability to empathise with your fellow human, there’s no excuse for degrading people.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Equality	Confident
"Whatcha doing, kiddo ?" "Load of laundry before I head out" ;_;	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
I have two toddlers, 11 months apart. I would rather peel all my skin off with a rusty nail file than drive further than 45 minutes with them. When I'm by myself, I could drive forever and be fine.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Stadiums charge ridiculous prices because you have no option of getting things anywhere else, they ensure a monopoly over liquor (and food usually). It has nothing to do with expecting beer hawkers to be stealing the profits, and there’s no way this dude’s individual actions have had any effect on the prices that stadiums EVERYWHERE charge.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Confident
NTA, thank you for understanding that babies don’t belong at weddings and they should have asked before buying something like that.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
For some people it is. There’s a whole world out there filled with people who have different kinks.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Confident
This is funny, someone actually stole stickers from me in 2nd grade and for a second I thought you might be that person when I read the title. Anyways, Natalia, if you are reading this, fuck you for stealing my cool stickers.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Sounds like a pretty clear breath choke though if she wasn't able to talk or anything. Blood chokes are subtle, breath chokes are not and are a lot more dangerous.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
I don't think she ever did. I love the memories with the coat more than the coat itself. That's a weird statement lol. The last 7 years has been hell, but has made me one tough adult and a foster guardian because of my childhood.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
The daughter sounds like she might be depressed, getting bullied, self harming or something else. This is not normal	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
So with now the second confirmation in the thread. I am gonna say “incest” porn genre is big for a reason	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Confident
Unfortunately this is one of the fundamental building blocks of a relationship. You disagree, and you're incompatible. Yes it sucks because you love each other, but the solution is not to stay together and one of you build massive resentment towards the other Check out r/childfree or r/truechildfree Also if you don't want kids, it's on you as well. Get your tubes tied if you want them tied, don't rely on someone else, and don't risk getting baby trapped. There is a list of docs on r/childfree that might help depending on where in the world you are	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Loyalty	Somewhat Confident
Beyblades before Beyblades were Beyblades. When I first saw Beyblades, I kept telling people it was similar to these spin fighters, but nobody knew what I was talking about.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
For males the brain can take as long as the age of 28 to fully develop. The last part of the brain to develop is what allows you to truly understand consequences, mortality, etc. He can think critically for sure, but emotionally he may not grasp the extent of the consequences of what he is doing.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Not Confident
That sounds like dermatillomania. r/compulsiveskinpicking I also would focus on the bottom of my feet and had a constant huge open wound. I think I had to go over 6 months without putting full weight on one of my feet	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
This. He clearly has some sort of severe anxiety or ppd. He needs to get help. I don't see him as an ah, he's more just scared, and the need to get away is understandable. But the timing is horrible. Op needs to have a conversation with him where she acknowledges his fears and ask him to see someone about them if he really can't get past them. The trip is just a bandaid, but the issues will still be there when he gets back. Nta gently	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
That's weird and very creepy. I have a feeling that you probably have more to confess.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
NTA, holy shit he's an asshole, and maybe this experience will make him realise how much he panicked you when he risked your life	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
Fuck that pos. Does he have money? Blackmail him. You should feel no pity for such a selfish deviant. Seriously fuck that pervert. Tell him to give you 50k or you’ll tell. If not possible, tell him 1k a month. What a scumbag.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality,Care	Confident
It's late August. You have a fan in the window. The sky is a variety of pink and purple as the day comes to a close. The air is sweet with the smell of trees and distant cookouts. Somewhere very far away you can hear music playing. It's not really too hot anymore and the breeze is nothing short of comfortable. You're relaxed in your chair as you start up your game. For now, all's right with the world.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Yes. I would be okay with it. Because she would deserve it for trying to milk my disability for brownie points on FB. It’s invalidating, embarrassing, and flat out disrespectful to a child to do that to them.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality,Care	Confident
oh i got it number 3 doesn’t involve any talking	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Seriously? She's in pain because you got proposed to? Do you not hear yourself?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
I guess all I would like to remind you of is that this is an illness - this is not a moral issue or an issue of will power - you have a chemical imbalance and perhaps a spiritual longing - again, there is nothing moral about this. I’m sending hope and love that you will be gentle with yourself.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
That’s actually a really good idea and I think that would put a lot into perspective for both of us. Thank you!	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Those stupid seeds make me gag. I hate them so much.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Wow. Why not have your brother stay with her until after she buys the house. Build his credit back up	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
Wtf how is that supposed to destroy the roof of your mouth to punish you for your hasty gluttony?	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality	Confident
This comment right here, I have dealt with both types of compulsive liars. If you are truly feeling remorse then there is some underlying issues such as abuse, self esteem, etc. Sociopaths and those with true personality disorders feel no remorse and often get a sort of high from lying. Definitely seek therapy to sort out your issues	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
>she basically abused It’s more like she literally abused him by depriving him of what constitutes a limb.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
Well when I become pregnant, my body starts doing super weird things . I don’t have the typical symptoms and such. My body felt so off and I decided to test. The second line was faint but over the week it was positive. I knew immediately I didn’t want a fourth one . I was done after the second lol but had the third.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
I find it disrespectful as well, and I am a dedicated childfree person. Maybe approach it around the idea of her treating your friends with respect?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
The nicest corner of the internet and absolutely instrumental in my recovery. OP, check this sub out - you can do this. It does get better.	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
How is maturbating punishment for when you don’t want to have sex?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Confident
No i think you’re confusing ‘dark humour’ with ‘saying bigoted things just to be edgy.’ They’re not the same :/	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Confident
[you act like none of us are still in that state](https://youtu.be/rfLcThvWDZo)	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
He’s a rabid creationist too, unless that’s what you were referring to.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
YTA you don't get to dictate how or even IF she grieves.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Somewhat Confident
NTA. You have a severe allergy and don't feel safe driving with the windows down; he should respect that. I'm also curious as to how he plans to "deal with" the bees/wasps.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Equality	Confident
“Girl code” is some high-school bullshit. You’re either a decent human being or you’re not. Going after your friend’s boyfriend is a shitty thing, regardless of what the “girl code” is. Cheating on your boyfriend and expecting people to lie for you is a shitty thing, “girl code” or not. If “girl code” is a way for bullies to peer pressure people into doing things they’re not comfortable with, then wtf are we doing as a society to encourage it?	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality,Care	Confident
The club is fantastic until you realize it takes mere moments to hacksaw through a steering wheel.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
What. The. Fuck. Is wrong with you. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard, and the fact you enjoy it could be a sign of some mental illness. Popping your pimple on an elevator window is very, very far from normal. Please seek help	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity,Care	Confident
\>We are getting divorce, I've decided not to be in a relationship ever again. Bruh, do some grief counseling or something. Swearing off love for life isn't healthy or sensible. Like why are you punishing yourself for someone else's mistakes? You can and will get through this. Just because she fucked up doesn't mean you should let her spoil relationships for you forever.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty,Care	Confident
Threatening a foster kid with being sent away makes you /r/iamatotalpieceofshit material	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Somewhat Confident
Wow really? I only know him as the host of Deal or No Deal.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
And involuntarily celibate does not mean "Just not having sex", and you know that. Stop minimizing this. I thought you wanted to address your issues and fix them? Instead you're deflecting and minimizing and avoiding	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Confident
I understand the wish to not be seen as an ass or a rude person, I do that a lot! But in the end you are losing time, effort and comfort for the sake of not hurting other people. If you have clearly stated that you don’t want this to continue, let them think that you are an ass... You can never control other people’s opinions of you, you could be the kindest person and someone will hate you anyway... it’s not worth giving up your peace and comfort for the sake of others’.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
That little shit deserved it. It’s pretty shitty to make fun of some one because they don’t have a lot of money	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality,Equality	Confident
Eh I've always seen gender and biological sex as different, so while trans women might not have the same chromosomes a lot of the difficulties that comes with being a woman are still there. &#x200B; Trans athletes are a difficult one though, not sure how sports will tackle it	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality,Proportionality	Somewhat Confident
What is this doing here? This is ugly! Who is this ISBN guy? Who will buy this book anyway? Over fifty pages of nonsense. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
This sounds like she is testing the waters to find out how much she can get away with. She knew you meant stop the first couple times you said it. Personally, I wouldn't take the risk If I were you. Stay safe! Take care of yourself!	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
>Not to say get a divorce, but your husband seems like a miserable self-absorbed manbaby and you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders with an interesting personality and cool hobbies. I will say it. GET A DIVORCE.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Loyalty,Care,Equality	Confident
Nah it’s high school it doesn’t matter in hindsight , just don’t continue to do that shit lol	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Thank you so much for your kind words. They mean a lot	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
Even if I genuinely believed my sister to be perfectly fine, after something traumatic like this I’d still make myself as accessible as realistically possible just in case she were ... oh I don’t know HIDING IT/not ready to deal with like so many not fine people do/are. Sheesh they suck.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care	Confident
Probably, but they also made trainers with non-marking soles - I remember the vague threat of punishment if you were wearing the wrong kind!	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
I remember when I was a kid I used to search every game case that I was interested in just in case they tried to pull a sneaky on me and put the discs inside the case that one time. It never happened	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
I wouldn't be surprised if RA is going through a manic episode or something, that writing seemed really off.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Somewhat Confident
Tell him that you space to grow from a CHILD into a woman. Tell him that you want to be alone. Tell him that you think he's nice, but feel like you might miss out on life. Do not let him manipulate you into staying in the relationship. Even though you've been together a while he started this as a predator. There is no other way to view it. You are and were a child throughout this process. He took advantage of you. Your mom will understand.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Equality	Confident
There's more than one way to win this game, apparently	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Thats like saying is it racist to call someone the n word because its acknowledging their race. Also Paki is considered a slur	confession	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Confident
"Don't touch people without their consent" is not actually a difficult concept.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality	Confident
Wow hes an asshole and a MASSIVE hypocrite, i thought lust was considered a sin? Hes body shaming u and also making it seem like hes doing smth righteous by staying w u ('god didnt want me to be w u'). Dump the five year old, u dont need to put up w this abuse honestly.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity,Equality	Confident
No offense but she sounds like a young college student who’s used to having everything paid for her. She probably doesn’t know the value of money, which at 23 is kind of sad. Tell her that if she wants takeout so often that she has to start contributing as well, no relationship should be so one sided. I mean it’s cool that she occasionally cooks and all, but if you’re buying the groceries, takeout, and she’s constantly staying over, she’s gotta pull her weight somehow.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality,Loyalty	Confident
For us it was everyone puts their heads down except for 7 people. They would go around and tap people on the shoulder, and if you got tapped you had to raise your hand but keep your head down. After all 7 people picked someone, everyone said “heads up seven up,” and everyone would sit up and guess who tapped them. I think if you guessed correctly then you were able to switch spots and be one of the 7 standing up and tapping people.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
You can't just change the definition of nudity to mean "sexualized nudity only". Nudity is a factual descriptor, no subjectivity about sexualization involved.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Confident
She's not forgetting, she's stealing. You are not the asshole, and if you need to, involve an adult in getting your stuff back. NTA	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Authority	Confident
This was my first thought too. Can you imagine how great that place is gonna smell when the baby starts puking and shitting everywhere because of sickness?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
thanks so it's probably not just interest so maybe he's buying, er, "services", if you know what I mean	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Purity	Somewhat Confident
i think there should be something like ‘recent nostalgia’ for all the fads and little trends of our time	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Somewhat Confident
So my Gf broke up with me after 8 years and had a new one after like a week. There is nothing that can help you, you just need time and it will be okay.	relationship_advice	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Care,Loyalty	Confident
Was she saying your wife literally can't like a political party, or that it doesn't make any sense to like a political party that very very vocally hates immigrants?	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Equality,Authority	Confident
How old are you? How old am I? Is this old tech that I never noticed or is OP 14?	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Non-Moral	Confident
Lol this is the kind of universal nostalgia I love. There was always random crap in the ceilings.	nostalgia	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Thin Morality	Confident
That means nothing in a medical context. Edit: well, not nothing, but for the purposes of comparison they are not “essentially the same thing”.	AmItheAsshole	Everyday Morality	annotator05	Proportionality	Confident

So if i get drunk with my boyfriend and we have sex that means we are raping each other?

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He told you he did that to his ex aswell and you're still asking what you should do?!

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They wouldn’t stick to my ears but that’s okay — I preferred sticking them to the outer corners of my eyes or making fake freckles.

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> We did it raw 4 times that day. So you tried to get your GF pregnant. That what this sentence means. > We're both still Seniors in High School and it's too early to have kids. Then I would strongly suggest you stop trying to have them. If you guys are worried about this, then get a test. It's the best way to be sure.

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Get a kettle style popper, coconut oil and some flavacol and you’re set. I used to make the best popcorn of the whole amc theatre crew here so listen up.

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Okay but we cannot forget Scooby Doo and the Witches Ghost

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Your brother should be able to use his room freely. But there are way bigger issues here. Why is your room the only comfortable one? Why do you share a room with your brother? How old is he?

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If you don’t want your trust, donate it all to charity. All of it. Then you can unburden yourself from the fear of having to pay taxes on it. YTA

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It's not your fault. And nostalgic hatred is still nostalgia!

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I question the 5% efficacy rate for AA. There are other studies that have found the success rate to be much higher. I agree that AA doesn't have a monopoly on getting sobriety, but to call 12 step programs nonsense is wrong. Millions around the world are sober through 12 step programs. They work.

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This movie freaked me the fuck out as a child

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I recorded this MTV Black Sheep special in high school and have never see any other mention of it anywhere so I finally recently transferred it and put it on YouTube. Really great Farley improv stuff. Enjoy. https://youtu.be/eiot7ZNe560

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I feel like this is really a TIFU post 😝

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A joke doesn't intend to be malicious or hurtful, what she said wasn't a joke, it was a demeaning and rude comment lowering the perceived value of the OP. In a joke, both parties are in on the humor. This was at the expense of others, so let's call it what it is: a demeaning, rude, derogatory comment meant to devalue the subjects in question.

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Please remove yourself from this thread before we have to do it for you.

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Whatever happened to that sub that was trying to bring him back

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YTA for thinking that Sexuality is only about the sex. It’s so much more than who we want to fuck.

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This picture makes me feel things but I absolutely cannot remember a thing of it.

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I am super, super envious to have this much spare room for such a large collection.

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My soon to be ex husband isn't great, but period blood never freaked him out. I'd freak out about it, though He'd wrap me in his sleeping bag after period sex so I'd bleed on his stuff and not mine.

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How durable were these? I would be afraid of it bursting.

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As someone who was bullied, trust me, it will mean the world to him if you apologised and admitted it was you who was a dick. Often people who are bullied go on to blame themselves.

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Agreed he should get a paternity test done. Although I do know a man and woman who did name their daughter after the father’s ex girlfriend. I guess they both didn’t care and really liked the name. 😂

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..Until they all died at the end of the series.

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They re ran this in the 90s and my grandma bought dozens of these and froze them gave them to me every time I was hungry at her house for what seemed like years

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This logic is dumb af. Just because something’s true obviously does not make it okay to say. To take an extreme example, if someone’s dying of cancer it’s not ‘okay’ to remind them they’re dying of cancer because ‘you’re telling the truth’. In a much less extreme (but still very relevant) example here, if someone is overweight/has gained weight you don’t remind them of this every day ‘because it’s true’. It’s obviously something that people feel sensitive about. Unless you’re a sociopath and completely lack any ability to empathise with your fellow human, there’s no excuse for degrading people.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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"Whatcha doing, kiddo ?" "Load of laundry before I head out" ;_;

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Somewhat Confident

I have two toddlers, 11 months apart. I would rather peel all my skin off with a rusty nail file than drive further than 45 minutes with them. When I'm by myself, I could drive forever and be fine.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Stadiums charge ridiculous prices because you have no option of getting things anywhere else, they ensure a monopoly over liquor (and food usually). It has nothing to do with expecting beer hawkers to be stealing the profits, and there’s no way this dude’s individual actions have had any effect on the prices that stadiums EVERYWHERE charge.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Confident

NTA, thank you for understanding that babies don’t belong at weddings and they should have asked before buying something like that.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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For some people it is. There’s a whole world out there filled with people who have different kinks.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Purity

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This is funny, someone actually stole stickers from me in 2nd grade and for a second I thought you might be that person when I read the title. Anyways, Natalia, if you are reading this, fuck you for stealing my cool stickers.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Sounds like a pretty clear breath choke though if she wasn't able to talk or anything. Blood chokes are subtle, breath chokes are not and are a lot more dangerous.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Confident

I don't think she ever did. I love the memories with the coat more than the coat itself. That's a weird statement lol. The last 7 years has been hell, but has made me one tough adult and a foster guardian because of my childhood.

confession

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The daughter sounds like she might be depressed, getting bullied, self harming or something else. This is not normal

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

So with now the second confirmation in the thread. I am gonna say “incest” porn genre is big for a reason

confession

Everyday Morality

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Purity

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Unfortunately this is one of the fundamental building blocks of a relationship. You disagree, and you're incompatible. Yes it sucks because you love each other, but the solution is not to stay together and one of you build massive resentment towards the other Check out r/childfree or r/truechildfree Also if you don't want kids, it's on you as well. Get your tubes tied if you want them tied, don't rely on someone else, and don't risk getting baby trapped. There is a list of docs on r/childfree that might help depending on where in the world you are

relationship_advice

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Care,Loyalty

Somewhat Confident

Beyblades before Beyblades were Beyblades. When I first saw Beyblades, I kept telling people it was similar to these spin fighters, but nobody knew what I was talking about.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

For males the brain can take as long as the age of 28 to fully develop. The last part of the brain to develop is what allows you to truly understand consequences, mortality, etc. He can think critically for sure, but emotionally he may not grasp the extent of the consequences of what he is doing.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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That sounds like dermatillomania. r/compulsiveskinpicking I also would focus on the bottom of my feet and had a constant huge open wound. I think I had to go over 6 months without putting full weight on one of my feet

confession

Everyday Morality

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Somewhat Confident

This. He clearly has some sort of severe anxiety or ppd. He needs to get help. I don't see him as an ah, he's more just scared, and the need to get away is understandable. But the timing is horrible. Op needs to have a conversation with him where she acknowledges his fears and ask him to see someone about them if he really can't get past them. The trip is just a bandaid, but the issues will still be there when he gets back. Nta gently

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Somewhat Confident

That's weird and very creepy. I have a feeling that you probably have more to confess.

confession

Everyday Morality

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NTA, holy shit he's an asshole, and maybe this experience will make him realise how much he panicked you when he risked your life

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Somewhat Confident

Fuck that pos. Does he have money? Blackmail him. You should feel no pity for such a selfish deviant. Seriously fuck that pervert. Tell him to give you 50k or you’ll tell. If not possible, tell him 1k a month. What a scumbag.

confession

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It's late August. You have a fan in the window. The sky is a variety of pink and purple as the day comes to a close. The air is sweet with the smell of trees and distant cookouts. Somewhere very far away you can hear music playing. It's not really too hot anymore and the breeze is nothing short of comfortable. You're relaxed in your chair as you start up your game. For now, all's right with the world.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Confident

Yes. I would be okay with it. Because she would deserve it for trying to milk my disability for brownie points on FB. It’s invalidating, embarrassing, and flat out disrespectful to a child to do that to them.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Equality,Care

Confident

oh i got it number 3 doesn’t involve any talking

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

Seriously? She's in pain because you got proposed to? Do you not hear yourself?

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Somewhat Confident

I guess all I would like to remind you of is that this is an illness - this is not a moral issue or an issue of will power - you have a chemical imbalance and perhaps a spiritual longing - again, there is nothing moral about this. I’m sending hope and love that you will be gentle with yourself.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

That’s actually a really good idea and I think that would put a lot into perspective for both of us. Thank you!

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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Those stupid seeds make me gag. I hate them so much.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

Wow. Why not have your brother stay with her until after she buys the house. Build his credit back up

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

Wtf how is that supposed to destroy the roof of your mouth to punish you for your hasty gluttony?

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Confident

This comment right here, I have dealt with both types of compulsive liars. If you are truly feeling remorse then there is some underlying issues such as abuse, self esteem, etc. Sociopaths and those with true personality disorders feel no remorse and often get a sort of high from lying. Definitely seek therapy to sort out your issues

confession

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

>she basically abused It’s more like she literally abused him by depriving him of what constitutes a *limb*.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Confident

Well when I become pregnant, my body starts doing super weird things . I don’t have the typical symptoms and such. My body felt so off and I decided to test. The second line was faint but over the week it was positive. I knew immediately I didn’t want a fourth one . I was done after the second lol but had the third.

confession

Everyday Morality

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I find it disrespectful as well, and I am a dedicated childfree person. Maybe approach it around the idea of her treating your friends with respect?

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Confident

The nicest corner of the internet and absolutely instrumental in my recovery. OP, check this sub out - you can do this. It does get better.

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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How is maturbating punishment for when you don’t want to have sex?

relationship_advice

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Purity

Confident

No i think you’re confusing ‘dark humour’ with ‘saying bigoted things just to be edgy.’ They’re not the same :/

confession

Everyday Morality

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Equality

Confident

[you act like none of us are still in that state](https://youtu.be/rfLcThvWDZo)

confession

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Non-Moral

Confident

He’s a rabid creationist too, unless that’s what you were referring to.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Somewhat Confident

YTA you don't get to dictate how or even IF she grieves.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Equality

Somewhat Confident

NTA. You have a severe allergy and don't feel safe driving with the windows down; he should respect that. I'm also curious as to how he plans to "deal with" the bees/wasps.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Care,Equality

Confident

“Girl code” is some high-school bullshit. You’re either a decent human being or you’re not. Going after your friend’s boyfriend is a shitty thing, regardless of what the “girl code” is. Cheating on your boyfriend and expecting people to lie for you is a shitty thing, “girl code” or not. If “girl code” is a way for bullies to peer pressure people into doing things they’re not comfortable with, then wtf are we doing as a society to encourage it?

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Equality,Care

Confident

The club is fantastic until you realize it takes mere moments to hacksaw through a steering wheel.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Confident

What. The. Fuck. Is wrong with you. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard, and the fact you enjoy it could be a sign of some mental illness. Popping your pimple on an elevator window is very, very far from normal. Please seek help

confession

Everyday Morality

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Purity,Care

Confident

\>We are getting divorce, I've decided not to be in a relationship ever again. Bruh, do some grief counseling or something. Swearing off love for life isn't healthy or sensible. Like why are you punishing yourself for someone else's mistakes? You can and will get through this. Just because she fucked up doesn't mean you should let her spoil relationships for you forever.

relationship_advice

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Loyalty,Care

Confident

Threatening a foster kid with being sent away makes you /r/iamatotalpieceofshit material

confession

Everyday Morality

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Care

Somewhat Confident

Wow really? I only know him as the host of Deal or No Deal.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

And involuntarily celibate does not mean "Just not having sex", and you know that. Stop minimizing this. I thought you wanted to address your issues and fix them? Instead you're deflecting and minimizing and avoiding

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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I understand the wish to not be seen as an ass or a rude person, I do that a lot! But in the end you are losing time, effort and comfort for the sake of not hurting other people. If you have clearly stated that you don’t want this to continue, let them think that you are an ass... You can never control other people’s opinions of you, you could be the kindest person and someone will hate you anyway... it’s not worth giving up your peace and comfort for the sake of others’.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care,Proportionality

Somewhat Confident

That little shit deserved it. It’s pretty shitty to make fun of some one because they don’t have a lot of money

confession

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Equality

Confident

Eh I've always seen gender and biological sex as different, so while trans women might not have the same chromosomes a lot of the difficulties that comes with being a woman are still there. &#x200B; Trans athletes are a difficult one though, not sure how sports will tackle it

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Equality,Proportionality

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What is this doing here? This is ugly! Who is this ISBN guy? Who will buy this book anyway? Over fifty pages of nonsense. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

This sounds like she is testing the waters to find out how much she can get away with. She knew you meant stop the first couple times you said it. Personally, I wouldn't take the risk If I were you. Stay safe! Take care of yourself!

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Confident

>Not to say get a divorce, but your husband seems like a miserable self-absorbed manbaby and you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders with an interesting personality and cool hobbies. I will say it. GET A DIVORCE.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Confident

Nah it’s high school it doesn’t matter in hindsight , just don’t continue to do that shit lol

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

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Thank you so much for your kind words. They mean a lot

confession

Everyday Morality

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Even if I genuinely believed my sister to be perfectly fine, after something traumatic like this I’d still make myself as accessible as realistically possible just in case she were ... oh I don’t know HIDING IT/not ready to deal with like so many *not fine* people do/are. Sheesh they suck.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care

Confident

Probably, but they also made trainers with non-marking soles - I remember the vague threat of punishment if you were wearing the wrong kind!

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

I remember when I was a kid I used to search every game case that I was interested in just in case they tried to pull a sneaky on me and put the discs inside the case that one time. It never happened

confession

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Somewhat Confident

I wouldn't be surprised if RA is going through a manic episode or something, that writing seemed really off.

relationship_advice

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Thin Morality

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Tell him that you space to grow from a CHILD into a woman. Tell him that you want to be alone. Tell him that you think he's nice, but feel like you might miss out on life. Do not let him manipulate you into staying in the relationship. Even though you've been together a while he started this as a predator. There is no other way to view it. You are and were a child throughout this process. He took advantage of you. Your mom will understand.

relationship_advice

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Confident

There's more than one way to win this game, apparently

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Confident

Thats like saying is it racist to call someone the n word because its acknowledging their race. Also Paki is considered a slur

confession

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"Don't touch people without their consent" is not actually a difficult concept.

relationship_advice

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Wow hes an asshole and a MASSIVE hypocrite, i thought lust was considered a sin? Hes body shaming u and also making it seem like hes doing smth righteous by staying w u ('god didnt want me to be w u'). Dump the five year old, u dont need to put up w this abuse honestly.

relationship_advice

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No offense but she sounds like a young college student who’s used to having everything paid for her. She probably doesn’t know the value of money, which at 23 is kind of sad. Tell her that if she wants takeout so often that she has to start contributing as well, no relationship should be so one sided. I mean it’s cool that she occasionally cooks and all, but if you’re buying the groceries, takeout, and she’s constantly staying over, she’s gotta pull her weight somehow.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality,Loyalty

Confident

For us it was everyone puts their heads down except for 7 people. They would go around and tap people on the shoulder, and if you got tapped you had to raise your hand but keep your head down. After all 7 people picked someone, everyone said “heads up seven up,” and everyone would sit up and guess who tapped them. I think if you guessed correctly then you were able to switch spots and be one of the 7 standing up and tapping people.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Somewhat Confident

You can't just change the definition of nudity to mean "sexualized nudity only". Nudity is a factual descriptor, no subjectivity about sexualization involved.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Purity

Confident

She's not forgetting, she's stealing. You are not the asshole, and if you need to, involve an adult in getting your stuff back. NTA

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Authority

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This was my first thought too. Can you imagine how great that place is gonna smell when the baby starts puking and shitting everywhere because of sickness?

AmItheAsshole

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Thin Morality

Confident

thanks so it's probably not just interest so maybe he's buying, er, "services", if you know what I mean

relationship_advice

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Purity

Somewhat Confident

i think there should be something like ‘recent nostalgia’ for all the fads and little trends of our time

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Somewhat Confident

So my Gf broke up with me after 8 years and had a new one after like a week. There is nothing that can help you, you just need time and it will be okay.

relationship_advice

Everyday Morality

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Care,Loyalty

Confident

Was she saying your wife literally can't like a political party, or that it doesn't make any sense to like a political party that very very vocally hates immigrants?

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Equality,Authority

Confident

How old are you? How old am I? Is this old tech that I never noticed or is OP 14?

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Non-Moral

Confident

Lol this is the kind of universal nostalgia I love. There was always random crap in the ceilings.

nostalgia

Everyday Morality

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Thin Morality

Confident

That means nothing in a medical context. Edit: well, not *nothing*, but for the purposes of comparison they are not “essentially the same thing”.

AmItheAsshole

Everyday Morality

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Proportionality

Confident