jQuery find() - exclude $(this) element
<p>Basically I'm trying to do a find and then run an effect, but I want to exclude the owner element. This is what I have at the moment:</p>

<pre><code>$('li.main').click(function(){
    $(this).parents('.content').find('li.main').not(this).removeClass('active');
    $(this).parents('.content').find('li.subs').not(this).slideUp();

    $(this).parent().toggleClass('active');
    $(this).parent().next('li.subs').slideToggle();
});
</code></pre>

<p>Doesn't quite work. Anybody know how to do it?</p>
