On item hover wait 3 seconds then fadeTo 0.2 all of items exept this
<p>I am new to jQuery and I need to make this happen: </p>

<p>On item hover wait 3 seconds then <code>fadeTo(0.2</code>) all items except <code>this</code> (the hovered one)
and 
on mouse leave <code>fadeTo(1)</code> all items.</p>

<p>I placed my the code here: <a href="http://jsfiddle.net/f7DJa/" rel="nofollow">http://jsfiddle.net/f7DJa/</a>
but it's without the 3 second waiting and also not really working smoothly.</p>
