meta
stringclasses 1
value | prefix
sequencelengths 2
242
| suffix
sequencelengths 2
242
| sft_index
int64 0
0
| reward
sequencelengths 2
242
| label
stringclasses 2
values |
---|---|---|---|---|---|
[
"How do you prevent a tucked in shirt from becoming untucked. My job requires me to stand up and sit down multiple times throughout the day as well as bending back and forth while seated which causes my shirt to become untucked.",
"How do you prevent a tucked in shirt from becoming untucked. My job requires me to stand up and sit down multiple times throughout the day as well as bending back and forth while seated which causes my shirt to become untucked.",
"How do you prevent a tucked in shirt from becoming untucked. My job requires me to stand up and sit down multiple times throughout the day as well as bending back and forth while seated which causes my shirt to become untucked."
] | [
"I don't remember where I saw it on reddit, but tucking your undershirt into your underwear helps. The friction of the undershirt and dress shirt helps keep it tucked.",
"They sell (oversimplified explanation) lengths of elastic with basically an alligator clip on each end. They're designed to hold your socks up (I think) but could also be used to help prevent this, depending on length of the shirt(s) in question.",
"Saw this after just discovering /r/malefashionadvice. So what i'm posting is just a quote from there.\n\nhttp://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/comments/ehrtv/shujins_comprehensive_fit_guide/\n\nStates \"Shirt length should be such that you can bend and make natural movements without it coming out of your pants.\"\n\nSo i would suggest that your shirt is just not the right size, someone may come up with a LPT for you, however, a well fitted shirt should not come out of your pants."
] | 0 | [
7,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to informally shake hands with strangers? I live in a poor, urban and gang-ridden area. These 3 factors lead to seemingly everybody having some fancy pants fist-bump/handshake.\n\nWhen I am introduced to a stranger and he throws a hand out, how do I prevent an awkward fumbling of fists?",
"How to informally shake hands with strangers? I live in a poor, urban and gang-ridden area. These 3 factors lead to seemingly everybody having some fancy pants fist-bump/handshake.\n\nWhen I am introduced to a stranger and he throws a hand out, how do I prevent an awkward fumbling of fists?",
"How to informally shake hands with strangers? I live in a poor, urban and gang-ridden area. These 3 factors lead to seemingly everybody having some fancy pants fist-bump/handshake.\n\nWhen I am introduced to a stranger and he throws a hand out, how do I prevent an awkward fumbling of fists?"
] | [
"In an informal setting I try to keep something in my right hand when meeting new people and when I have to shake hands I extend my left and twist it around to meet their right, that way I never get into a grip contest and they can't make quick judgements about my levels of confidence.",
"When you present your hand do it with very straight fingers and wrist, slightly pointing downward. Almost like you would imagine the military would have you do it. It presents little doubt as to the manner in which you wish to shake hands and even if it's awkward at first, at least you presented a solid, comfortable front",
"It depends on that persons comfortability with you. If they don't have a large personal bubble, just go for the shoulder bump. If that isn't a good option go for a regular handshake until you have a good grasp of their personality"
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Everyday Speech, finding the right words Even having regular conversations with my friends, I struggle to be able to find the right word quite often, do any of you have a trick or anything that helps with this problem?",
"Everyday Speech, finding the right words Even having regular conversations with my friends, I struggle to be able to find the right word quite often, do any of you have a trick or anything that helps with this problem?",
"Everyday Speech, finding the right words Even having regular conversations with my friends, I struggle to be able to find the right word quite often, do any of you have a trick or anything that helps with this problem?"
] | [
"How much do you read? I find that reading improves my grammar and vocabulary more than pretty much anything else.\n\n",
"Ditto on the reading tip. It expands your vocabulary and more importantly conversation topics. \n\nMy first suggestion would be books, doesn't matter if it's fiction or non fiction as long as it's interesting to you. Find a book according to your age or maybe a little older. Look for a challenge. Don't shy away or skip weird words, take the time to investigate their meaning. You'll often be surprised to find out they mean something you're familiar with. \n\nIf you don't have the time or disposition to read books, I would suggest perhaps cracked.com (my go to lunch break site). It has articles in a variety of topics and often speak in layman's terms. \n\nReddit is not a bad source either, you just have to dig a little deeper to find something more meaningful than your typical quick fix. \n\n",
"Writing some thoughts down - every day - is a great way to practice communication skills. Be motivated to write regularly (at least some thing each day) and it can be on any topic you want or as short or as long as you want. If you have a keen interest in some activity or topic, write about that, since you like it and are more likely to stick with it. Enjoy it and practice when it doesn't count:)"
] | 0 | [
7,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to find motivation to do homework? I usually have good grades, and I'm in advanced and AP classes. But this year (junior year) Ive been slacking. There are so many assignments I either half ass or just don't do. I just can't find the motivation to do it. That's not to say I'm some unmotivated apathetic slacker. I'm very motivated in a lot of aspects of my life (I've started working out, trying to get into parkour, airsoft, I love cooking, and I'm even trying to make a small \"business\") but when it comes to schoolwork I just don't care. How do I change that?",
"How to find motivation to do homework? I usually have good grades, and I'm in advanced and AP classes. But this year (junior year) Ive been slacking. There are so many assignments I either half ass or just don't do. I just can't find the motivation to do it. That's not to say I'm some unmotivated apathetic slacker. I'm very motivated in a lot of aspects of my life (I've started working out, trying to get into parkour, airsoft, I love cooking, and I'm even trying to make a small \"business\") but when it comes to schoolwork I just don't care. How do I change that?",
"How to find motivation to do homework? I usually have good grades, and I'm in advanced and AP classes. But this year (junior year) Ive been slacking. There are so many assignments I either half ass or just don't do. I just can't find the motivation to do it. That's not to say I'm some unmotivated apathetic slacker. I'm very motivated in a lot of aspects of my life (I've started working out, trying to get into parkour, airsoft, I love cooking, and I'm even trying to make a small \"business\") but when it comes to schoolwork I just don't care. How do I change that?",
"How to find motivation to do homework? I usually have good grades, and I'm in advanced and AP classes. But this year (junior year) Ive been slacking. There are so many assignments I either half ass or just don't do. I just can't find the motivation to do it. That's not to say I'm some unmotivated apathetic slacker. I'm very motivated in a lot of aspects of my life (I've started working out, trying to get into parkour, airsoft, I love cooking, and I'm even trying to make a small \"business\") but when it comes to schoolwork I just don't care. How do I change that?",
"How to find motivation to do homework? I usually have good grades, and I'm in advanced and AP classes. But this year (junior year) Ive been slacking. There are so many assignments I either half ass or just don't do. I just can't find the motivation to do it. That's not to say I'm some unmotivated apathetic slacker. I'm very motivated in a lot of aspects of my life (I've started working out, trying to get into parkour, airsoft, I love cooking, and I'm even trying to make a small \"business\") but when it comes to schoolwork I just don't care. How do I change that?",
"How to find motivation to do homework? I usually have good grades, and I'm in advanced and AP classes. But this year (junior year) Ive been slacking. There are so many assignments I either half ass or just don't do. I just can't find the motivation to do it. That's not to say I'm some unmotivated apathetic slacker. I'm very motivated in a lot of aspects of my life (I've started working out, trying to get into parkour, airsoft, I love cooking, and I'm even trying to make a small \"business\") but when it comes to schoolwork I just don't care. How do I change that?"
] | [
"You don't need motivation. Motivation is overrated.\n\nWhat you do need is discipline. Schedule a time for doing education related stuffs and stick to it.",
"Just picture your life as a 25 year old homeless person. Every day you wake up on a sidewalk and beg for change. One day you see your AP teacher. Instead of handing you a few cents worth of dingy old coins, s/he bends down and whispers in your ear, \"You should have done your homework.\"",
"Don't wait to get motivated. Just start as if you were motivated to do it and your brain will catch up. ",
"freshman year i was lazy af and got by with Bs and didnt turn in a single assignment. \n\nThen that summer, i worked at a restraunt and it was miserable, and i saw all the people who also worked there because they didnt do shit in school and that scared me into doing it now",
"Something I never understood about homework, especially math, was that it wasnt really about learning the particular lesson, but about making your brain level up in areas of critical thinking, long term memory formation, logic, interpretation of facts, and much more. It makes your whole life easier and of higher quality because the most important thing will work so much better. Being aware is its own reward.",
"Those things in your life that you do enjoy, like cooking or exercise or whatever, you can use as a reward for doing some homework. I'm 28 and in college and I still do that. Another way to get motivated is to be aware of everything that will stop or disappear if you stop doing homework. It's more anxiety based but it does get a fire going in ya"
] | 0 | [
7,
4,
3,
2,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"Best way to open a coconut and how to get the white chunks out easily. ^ Got a coconut and before I just smash it or something, what would be the best way to open it.(Don't have a drill or anything btw)\nAlso want to know a clever way to get the white off easily.",
"Best way to open a coconut and how to get the white chunks out easily. ^ Got a coconut and before I just smash it or something, what would be the best way to open it.(Don't have a drill or anything btw)\nAlso want to know a clever way to get the white off easily.",
"Best way to open a coconut and how to get the white chunks out easily. ^ Got a coconut and before I just smash it or something, what would be the best way to open it.(Don't have a drill or anything btw)\nAlso want to know a clever way to get the white off easily.",
"Best way to open a coconut and how to get the white chunks out easily. ^ Got a coconut and before I just smash it or something, what would be the best way to open it.(Don't have a drill or anything btw)\nAlso want to know a clever way to get the white off easily."
] | [
"I usually use a hammer and chisel (or repeatedly using a sturdy nail along a seam works). Use an ice cream scooper for getting the meat out.",
"Take a rod of 1 foot length or lesser, something you could hold. \nHold the coconut in a way such that the top points to your left or right.\n\nNow, hit it hard on the middle. Keep rotating it slowly as you hit, so that the impact is uniform.\n\nYou will be able to break it in 5 seconds in this approach.\n\nEg: Hold it this way - [Imgur](http://i.imgur.com/1DrcEUj.jpg) ",
"From experience in a raw restaurant. Use a large chef's knife and smash the inside corner of the knife (the part right next to your hand) down into the coconut near the top like you were going to chop the top inch off. This punctures the fruit. It also is very dangerous and fun. Second step is inserting the tip of the knife into the puncture and cutting the top off. Now use a flexible frosting spreader with a plastic sharp edge to scoop the meat out. The right size spreader you can get all the meat out with one motion. ",
"Crashing the cocunut itself on a flat yet hard surface (thats how the open it in india as well) so the hard parts spliter into as many fractions as possible. Afterwards i use two butterknifes as shims in turns to get the white flesh out"
] | 0 | [
5,
2,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now",
"How to overcome fear? \n(Tl;ngr-too long not gonna read) why make you scroll to the bottom... \n \nTl;ngr: Need to help someone who is gradually becoming more afraid of living overcome their fear.\n \nI've been with my fiancée for almost a decade now. We moved in together last year and got engaged shortly after. Since that point she has gotten progressively more and more fearful of just about everything. I don't understand it and it's to the point now that it's impacting lifestyle and daily function. I've mentioned at different intervals that she seems to be off and have offered to help but despite all my efforts, I've got nothing to show as progress. Not sure how to help someone who is irrationally afraid of living. Has anyone had a similar experience or know of a way to help someone in this type of situation?\n \nI should mention she was never like she is now and it has been worsening over the course of the last year or so. There have been no traumatic events to occur with the exception of the death of a grandmother this passed spring.\n \nEx) Won't stay at home alone, must have full illumination at night when sleeping, very hesitant driving, won't go to the supermarket alone, literally refuses to stand up for herself in situations that completely warrant it, jumps at every and any sudden movement or sound.\n\n**Thank you everyone. I appreciate the help here. Seems I know what I have to do now"
] | [
"You need to get her in front of a licensed psychiatrist. She is suffering from high grade anxiety. Medication and therapy will help her cope.",
"Repeat this till it goes away:\n\n \"I must not fear. \n Fear is the mind-killer. \n Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. \n I will face my fear. \n I will permit it to pass over me and through me. \n And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. \n Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.\" \n",
"This will sound out of place but laughter. Laughter eases the mind and fears and eventually rids the body of them. While is Special forces training with the united States military they taught us this. Is stressful or fearful situations find something funny and hold onto it. It will ease the fear and relax the mind and eventually it will no longer be an issue. Make her laugh and show her or create something funny regarding the situation and it will help.",
"Probably the best thing that you can do is show her that no matter what, she has you and she isn't alone. I think in most cases, whatever we are afraid of is never as bad as the feeling of dealing with/going through it alone. Show positive regard, and really re-assure her that you want the best for her. \n\nTalk to her and try and see if you can help her bring to light what she is fearful of. Re-assure her that no matter how silly she thinks it may seem, you don't think it is. Providing an example of something that frightened you, but on its face seemed silly could help her feel comfortable in sharing. That all being said, you need to understand as well that a chemical imbalance in the brain may be at fault which would require professional help. The best thing you can do for now, is assure her you want to help her. Be patient, and never judge. \n\nIf you can convince her, try starting small and maybe go for a walk around the block. Small things can help rebuild the idea that she doesn't need to be afraid. After going for a walk, maybe sit down and talk it out with her and try and get her to realize it wasn't as bad as she thought. You can build on this, gradually helping her face whatever she is afraid of. Most important of all is to stress two things:\n\n1) you are there for her.\n\n2) emphasize the positive aspects of not being afraid. Explain the freedom of being able to go out on your own. People are far less likely to deny a positive consequence than a negative one, so stress the positives.\n\nAnother exercise you can do is have her visualize and explain to you what a day waking up without fear would be like. This will not only help her visualize a goal to work towards, but show her that a future like that IS possible. Again, always frame it is as the positive aspects, not the negatives. \n\nKeeping all that in mind, remember that her problem may be a chemical one, not psychological. Although conquering your fears takes courage, there are situations where more is going on. \n\nThe hardest part is trying to maintain a good balance of compassion and re-assurance with a gentle push to help them move forward. Tough, but not impossible.\n\n",
"Mindfulness m",
"Sounds like [generalised anxiety disorder](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generalized_anxiety_disorder) (I could be wrong though). I think you should take her to a psychologist.",
"She may need professional help, suffering from anxiety, insomnia, and depression is no easy task to overcome. Many suffering from these illnesses have found that Cognitive Behavioural therapy and or along with certain prescribed drugs do assist in the treatment of this mental state. \n\nThis comes from a life long sufferer of anxiety, depression, and insomnia.\n\n1: seek a professional opinion on the matter. A Doctor/ several doctors for that matter as many are not trained to deal with mental illnesses.\n\n2: Seeking out a CBT clinic or Doctor. \n\n3: reading yourself these books and possibly recommending them to her - working through them together: The anxiety and Phobia workbook, Overcoming insomnia and other sleep problems. \n\nOther things which do have an impact are: exercise, relaxation training, journaling/ combating mistaken beliefs, techniques to overcome negative self talk (many people who suffer from these disorders have lower self esteem), nutrition. \n\nMarijuana and some other self prescribed drugs can actually increase the negative thoughts and feelings exacerbating the negative thoughts. \n\nThere is always hope!",
"Others have addressed the anxiety. \n\nA lot of people also react to stress differently, good and bad stress. \n\nTherapy will help her with this, but the death of a grandparent, moving in together, and getting married, causes off the charts stress. \n\nThere are a few online stress quizzes you could take, keeping her in mind, frankly, taking one will probably stress her out. But that may help you get a better understanding of all the things she should bring up to the therapist. \n\n",
"I've had similar issues for about the last 2 years. This is what helps me. Therapy. \"The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook\" and \"The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook\" Learning to m",
"I've been there...\n\nSounds like extreme anxiety. For me it got to the point that I was essentially afraid to get out of bed, afraid of being alone or without my boyfriend (now husband), too anxious to do errands or make decisions.\n\nWhat helped me was medication. I think therapy can work for people, but I was so deep I just needed something to even make me think rationally again. Medication in combination with therapy is ideal for a lot of people.\n\nBest of luck, good on you for sticking by her. It's hard for her and I know it's hard for you too.",
"Did something happen to her? Death in the family or did she get assaulted or raped? This smells of post traumatic. \n\nShe needs professional help.",
"This probably is very extreme and I'm sure I will get flamed but I have been suffering from severe depression and anxiety for 20 + years. I have tried everything from intensive therapy, medication and even in patient psychiatric ward. Nothing ever seemed to make it go away until I ate a small dose of magic mushrooms. My ego disappeared and I could see all of my problems in front of me without feeling overwhelmed or feeling bad about it. It seriously changed my life. Of course not everybody should do this but psychiatrists around the world are trying it for this very problem and it's working better than anything they have done before. It is guided though. ",
"I can offer some advice when it comes to diet:\n\n1) Eliminate all forms of caffeine. Coffee, tea, energy drinks, chocolate. Caffeine raises cortisol and sends the body into a fight or flight mode.\n\n2) Increase magnesium intake. It promotes better sleep, relaxes muscle tension, and decreases anxiety. [And plays a role when it comes to fear extinction.](http://www.jneurosci.org/content/31/42/14871.long) I recommend magnesium citrate.\n\n3) M",
"\"Let me tell you about scared. Your heart is beating so hard I can feel it through your hands. There’s so much blood and oxygen pumping through your brain it’s like rocket fuel. Right now you could run faster and you can fight harder. You can jump higher than ever in your life and you are so alert it’s like you can slow down time. What’s wrong with scared? Scared is a superpower! Your superpower! There is danger in this room. And guess what? It’s you. Do you feel it? Do you think he feels it? Do you think he’s scared? Nah. Loser!\" - Doctor Who\n\nThat answer is for the books, but your situation, like everyone has said, sounds like anxiety/depression.",
"Someone else you can't do anything about. They have to WANT to overcome their fears to do anything. Many people who fear and express a desire to 'get over it' actually just want it to miraculously evaporate without them having to do any work.\n",
"Find out if your insurance carrier provides in home therapy. What needs to be done is too much to explain in a post on Reddit, and requires the expertise of a psychotherapist. Plus, if YOU try to fix it, she'll blame you. The therapist will help her identify if SHE wants to fix it. Good luck.",
"Does nobody listen to Dr. Drew anymore?!?! \n\nNO ONE on Reddit is going to have an answer for you. There is only a single option for you... \n\nSeek. Professional. Help. \n\nStop reading any more comments and seek professional help. \n\nNot a single person should continue to *speculate* as to what, if anything, is wrong with a women we know nothing about. "
] | 0 | [
13,
5,
3,
3,
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
0,
0,
-1
] | safe |
|
[
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?",
"Quick way to defrost windshield? Currently sitting in my car with the defroster running full blast. This time the windshield fogged up on the inside. Sometimes it does both inside and outside, yay. Taking a towel and wiping it down causes streaks, and it will just come right back anyways. Is there a quicker way to do this?"
] | [
"Just chiming in here to say if the windows are fogging up on the inside, you have a moisture issue in the car. \n\nYou either got in the car soaking wet, or the car has a water leak somewhere that’s getting into the cabin.",
"To stop a window fogging up from the inside;\n\n- ensure you are not leaving half cups of coffee, or other liquids open in the car over night etc.\n\n- clean up spills\n\n- try to remove as much snow (if applicable) from inside the car during the winter. The snow melt from your boots etc on the floor mats evaporates when the car is warmer and condenses on cold windows as the car interior cools.\n\n- if its bad enough you have to scrape the inside of the windshield, throw the scrapings out of the car. Helps to intentionally scrape and remove the frost even though it eventually clears up if you run the heat long enough.\n\n- remove as much moisture and sources of moisture as possible, in general.\n\n- old clothing and boots etc can also hold enough moisture to cause fogging if left in a vehicle through the seasons. Same with carpets. I often vacuum the carpets very thoroughly before winter.",
"Think I saw a LPT a while back that recommended de-icer spray pre-mixed or can make your own (I'm sure someone here can give you exact ratios and ingredients to use) for the outside of window. There was a suggestion for some kind of kitty litter in a sock or sachet of some kind to help with humidity on the inside of the car. \n\nHope that helps.",
"Simply run an extension lead and leave a George Foreman grill in there overnight. In autumn, leaving on low is usually sufficient (at least here in the uk it is) but in late autumn / winter I recommend turning upto high",
"socks full of kitty litter under the seats can help with internal moisture, then products such as anti fog coatings can be applied internally (spit is my personal favorite but its expensive to use on window glass, i know rainx makes a product in a cleaner bottle size) external stuff i've seen people throw old blankets over the windshield to keep frost/ice/snow off them (the make special weighted ones for this purpose if your posh enough to live in an area they wont get stolen) the 5 dollar ones from thrift store for crappy blankets was more my speed before i had a garage",
"Turn the temp to 90 percent warm, turn on ac button, fan full blast directed at window, roll down all windows a crack. Turn off recirculate. \n\nThe ac removes moisture from the air so using the ac pump can be useful even in the winter. Same reason you keep the windows cracked. Let moisture out.\n\nCondensation/moisture on the outside of the window isn’t a problem cause you can just use the wipers once they’re free of ice.",
"Use the air conditionner. You can run it with the heat, and it'll remove the moisture inside the car that causes the fogging inside. \n\nI've been doing this for years, and it never fogs on the inside. \n\nNote that it can take awhile to remove all the moisture, so consider this a long term, permanent solution, not a quick fix. \n\nGood luck!",
"Our problem was wet hair. Kids take showers then need to be taken to school right away. \nDry hair completely.",
"If it is ice, use a plastic spatula to scrap it since it shouldn't scratch the glass. Cracking the window and reving the engine should warm the air coming out faster.",
"This sounds crazy, but I've done this for 20 years without damaging the glass. I pour room temperature/luke warm water on it. This defrosts the inside too, so I just wipe that if it's wet. One liter works down to -5C, more for colder weather. Run the wipers quickly after."
] | 0 | [
7,
3,
1,
1,
0,
0,
-1,
-1,
-1,
-4
] | safe |
|
[
"How to become the preferred apartment for group hangouts How do I get people to like coming to my house over other houses? What's the most important part?",
"How to become the preferred apartment for group hangouts How do I get people to like coming to my house over other houses? What's the most important part?",
"How to become the preferred apartment for group hangouts How do I get people to like coming to my house over other houses? What's the most important part?",
"How to become the preferred apartment for group hangouts How do I get people to like coming to my house over other houses? What's the most important part?",
"How to become the preferred apartment for group hangouts How do I get people to like coming to my house over other houses? What's the most important part?",
"How to become the preferred apartment for group hangouts How do I get people to like coming to my house over other houses? What's the most important part?",
"How to become the preferred apartment for group hangouts How do I get people to like coming to my house over other houses? What's the most important part?"
] | [
"Have enough comfortable seating for everyone togather around a table and/or the tv. Have the layout conducive to both group and subgroup conversation. Have a convenient, clean, dry, and warm place for smokers. Keep cheap snacks on hand. Set up a standing invite for a given night of the week for a group activity (gaming is always good, and I mean _good_ games, like Catan or Arkham Horror or Zombiecide, not crap like Monopoly or Life or Charades. Cards Against Humanity is perfect for low intensity group conviviality).\n\nAnd always remember that as host, it is your job to deal with any interpersonal conflicts - speak to the problem person in private and tell them to rope it in or leave.",
"On top of everything else mentioned here, have plenty of parking available. Nothing makes people not want to drop by more than having to circle the block twice and park 30 houses away from their destination. ",
"For the longest time I wanted to be the 'it' spot where everyone came to hang and party. I got a roommate and Ana awesome apartment in the heart of the city.eople started coming over for games, movies, tv, dinner, you name it!\n\nIt sucks. Your place is always a mess, dishes and cups all get used up, your food, your snack,s your furniture, your floors, cleaning up, etc etc. and my friends aren't jerks, they're just normal people. Eventually it's taken for granted that your place will be where everyone hangs out on the weekends when all I want to do Is go to bed early some nights.\n\nYea... Be careful what you wish for.\n\nTyped on a tablet, probably full of errors, I dnt give shit,",
"A good thing to do once you have your place set up (or mostly set up) is to invite your friends over often for get-togethers. Your friends will get used to coming to your house and feel comfortable there, so every chance you get, offer your place for hangouts, pre-gaming, post-gaming, and any activity. \n\nMy friend's set up isn't perfect, but we are there all the time simply because he loves hosting and invites everyone over several times per month. ",
"being comfortable with having hookah inside, ive always hated the smoke and the potential of burning my carpet or couch. ",
"Get a kegerator so you have draft beer on hand. Have your friends vote(and possibly fund) as a group on what the draft selection will be every time it empties out.\n\nHere are some instructions on how to build one if you want to save money:http://www.instructables.com/id/Build-your-own-Single-or-Dual-Tap-Kegerator-for-Ho/",
"A friend of mine is a great host but I hate going to her place because you can´t lock the bathroom door. So my number one advice is have a lockable bathroom door or at least a vacant/occupied sign to provide your guest with some privacy! \n\nOther plus points for the bathroom are a guest hand towel, a lined garbage bin (for female hygiene products, your lady friends will appreciate it) and a burning candle or a clearly visible room spray to deal with odor."
] | 0 | [
17,
7,
3,
2,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Light and screen hurt my eyes How can I back to my old health?I dont want to wear glasses and I have eye dryness.",
"Light and screen hurt my eyes How can I back to my old health?I dont want to wear glasses and I have eye dryness.",
"Light and screen hurt my eyes How can I back to my old health?I dont want to wear glasses and I have eye dryness.",
"Light and screen hurt my eyes How can I back to my old health?I dont want to wear glasses and I have eye dryness.",
"Light and screen hurt my eyes How can I back to my old health?I dont want to wear glasses and I have eye dryness."
] | [
"Check out flux, it does a great job of managing screen brightness automatically! You can also manually set the colour tones to your preference.\n\nhttps://justgetflux.com/",
"You may only need Reading/Computer glasses. They really do help with eye strain and tiredness. And they are inexpensive if you have a simple prescription. I was afraid of glasses too. I have 20/20 vision. But my eyes get tired from staring at the computer all day. Reading glasses changed my life for the better. \n\nLPT: Get your eyes examined, then get your prescription. Don't buy $100 glasses from the doctor. Walgreens and Walmart sell basic reading glasses for ~$5-10 per pair. Or you can order custom glasses online for $30-50.",
"Try using an app like \"twiglight\" or other blue light filters. It's usually the blue wavelengths that strains your eyes. \n\nI'm on my phone and don't feel like swiping out the full explanation, but it works for me. ",
"Start taking note of your blinking patterns when looking at screen. We tend to blink a lot less when looking at a screen, which can dry / stress them out. You can also have a look at getting eye drops to help out. If that doesn't work, you may need to look into glasses.\n\nDoes it only happen after hours of staring or very quickly? Also take a break from screen, look at something non-electronic for a few minutes.\nI'm a web dev and spend a huge amount of time looking at a screen but don't need glasses. I find increasing my blinking and occasionally using eye drops helps. I also turn the brightness down on my screen (laptop) when I feel my eyes getting sore, it helps. You may need to even adjust the contrast/brightness.",
"Check out 'bias lighting.' It is basically backlighting for your computer screen. You could just set up a bright light behind your monitor. "
] | 0 | [
6,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"I just bought a house with external walkway is tiled from the garage to house entrance,around 20 feet. It get slippery when rains or even worse when snows. Any LPT solution without big expenses? ",
"I just bought a house with external walkway is tiled from the garage to house entrance,around 20 feet. It get slippery when rains or even worse when snows. Any LPT solution without big expenses? ",
"I just bought a house with external walkway is tiled from the garage to house entrance,around 20 feet. It get slippery when rains or even worse when snows. Any LPT solution without big expenses? ",
"I just bought a house with external walkway is tiled from the garage to house entrance,around 20 feet. It get slippery when rains or even worse when snows. Any LPT solution without big expenses? ",
"I just bought a house with external walkway is tiled from the garage to house entrance,around 20 feet. It get slippery when rains or even worse when snows. Any LPT solution without big expenses? ",
"I just bought a house with external walkway is tiled from the garage to house entrance,around 20 feet. It get slippery when rains or even worse when snows. Any LPT solution without big expenses? "
] | [
"Coat it with a non-slip sealer. Usually this would include a clear coat of sealer with some silica mixed in for grip.",
"There are many types of non-slip or anti skid methods out there. \n\nIf you like the look of the tile you have and want to retain that look, you can find clear anti-skid sealant. Usually, these can be purchased through your local home supply store (examples are: Lowes, Ace Hardware, or Home Depot, in the U.S.). Prices vary but are in the $30-$50 per gallon price range. The tile must be cleaned and etched prior to application to achieve best results. \nRecommend using a web search engine to find the best product available in your area. Search keywords are: clear anti-skid sealant for tile.\n\nFor a walkway of only 20 feet, one gallon would be more than enough.",
"DIY concrete is not terribly expensive and YouTube is a great resource for learning about now that process works.",
"Can get an outdoor sealer if it’s an outdoor tile? And mix in a grit for adhesion. Thompson’s is a popular branded",
"look on aliexpress for antiskid tape. clean and dry the tile, put on the tape at intervals. They come in all colors: look for transparent.\n\nlike the antiskid you find on bathtub floors, it will stay put for a long time.",
"If you don't care about looks you could scratch up the tile, possibly with rough sandpaper.\n\n"
] | 0 | [
13,
3,
3,
3,
2,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me.",
"Get a song out of your head Having songs stuck in my head has been driving me crazy since childhood. I still can't sleep sometimes because of it. I've tried a lot of possible solutions, but nothing has ever worked for me."
] | [
"Sing the chorus to Elvis - Liva Las Vegas (only the chorus. the bit that goes \"Viva las Vegas. Viva, Viva, Las Vegas!\" big finish). It will replace what is stuck then stick itself, but it will go away faster. It's the Teflon-song. It sticks for a bit and then slides right off.",
"Look up the song and listen to it in full once. I've found that my mind will focus on a certain part of a song but if you listen to the complete song it will take your mind to a part other what it's focusing on and that helps me move on from the song as a whole for some reason soon after.",
"I sing the Canadian national anthem. It's like the anti-earworm; it never gets stuck in my head, but is long enough that it usually removes an existing earworm.",
"Have you ever tried chewing gum when this happens? \n\nI heard that on the radio before, tried it, and it works for me.",
"Have a go to replacement distraction song that your mind can play for 2-3 sec. Mine is: WE BUILT THIS CITY! Knocks out the first one without the second one sticking. ",
"They do go in time, but in an emergency I'll get a different song in my head. For this you need a go-to earworm, a catchy song that you actually like. Use it too often and it loses its efficacy though.",
"Scientifically the only way to remove a song from your head is to sing it through out loud. After that, listen to another song and hopefully that will remove the 'memory' part of the originally annoying song.",
"Many LPTs suggest that setting your favorite tune as an alarm will cause you to hate it...maybe this can aid in getting that song outta your head?",
"Listen that song (full version) for 3-4 times in a row, then you should be able to remove it from your mind",
"If you remember how the song ends sing the last lyrics then your brain will understand that the song is over.",
"I hear the same music at my work again and again every day. I hate it but it often comes home with me... Multiple songs. So I look in my head for older songs I like and they push out the bad ones. ",
"A friend of mine said that typing out the words of the song helped them. For me, listening to the song usually does the trick",
"Listen to your repiration. Your breath rythm will eventually replace the one from the song. It's a mediation tip."
] | 0 | [
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?",
"How to stop drinking soda/unhealthy drinks Hello,\n\nFor as long as I can remember soda has always kinda been a \"go to\" drink in my house, and it's having a pretty terrible effect on my health. Are there any good methods to quitting soda and other unhealthy drinks reliably?"
] | [
"Start by cutting it with water. Over some predetermined period, gradually increase the amount of water v soda until you're drinking straight H2O.",
"The best way is to stop buying it when you go to the grocery, self discipline is a lot easier when you’re deciding to pick up a 12 pack of cans in the store than it is when you’re deciding to have one of those cans at your house. Also, invest in a reusable water bottle and carry it with you everywhere. If you like cold water, get two bottles and have one in your fridge so it is cold.",
"I did this very thing. I hated water. I finally purchased a 36oz yeti. I fill it with ice and water. Ice lasts all day and it’s super cold. Changed my life with that one purchase. Good luck to you!",
"My dad read some horrible fact about soda and just. Stopped drinking it, cold-turkey. To this day he does not remember what the horrible fact actually *was*. So my advice would be to search up negative facts about soda until you find something like that, then stock up on sports drinks, juice, or another healthy and quick substitute.",
"Just get through one day without them. Tell yourself you can have as much as you want the following day if it helps. Once you realise how much the craving subsided after 24 hours it gets easier to quit for good. The chemicals in sodas are very addictive but have a very short tail and leave your system quickly.",
"Perhaps soda stream? You can make your own fizzy water. If you really need some flavour maybe one of those vitamin c orange-flavoured drink mixes.",
"When you live alone, get all your mental strength and motivation together when you go for groceries and don‘t buy it.\n\nWhen you live with others, tell them about your health effects and that you want to stop, but that it‘s hard when it‘s available in the house. Maybe they will help you going your way. If not, find a place in your soda habit cycle that you can interrupt. Also try to make soda as invisible, difficult to get, unattractive and unsatisfying as possible while doing the opposite for water. Maybe place your water bottle right in front of the soda cans, so even if you mindlessly go for one, forcing you to put the water away will activate your brain so you can make the right decision. Or place the soda higher/lower in the fridge than it‘s comfortable for you to see/reach. Or buy a super nice water bottle that you love to have around. Get creative.\n\nIn every case, if your tap water isn’t good find a water that you like/don‘t hate. Try as long as you find one. Also don‘t try to never drink a single soda again in your life, allow yourself to drink one when your at someones place, at special occasions etc. Maybe even buy one here and there if you really really really want it that day. But buy one can then and not a pack.\n\nLast tip, don‘t let guilt overwhelm you when you find yourself drinking soda despite your better intentions. Negative emotions like guilt probably just lead to craving more comfort consumables. It‘s okay to fail, just keep trying and think about other ways to make it even easier to follow through next time.",
"When I decided to replace milk and juice (I was never a fan of sodas) with water, I did so very reluctantly. I had to make it appealing somehow. I tried the flavored waters and they tasted fake. I tried a slice of lemon or lime in my water but worried about the acid and my teeth. I went through any number of water bottles so I could always have one at my side but water from them tasted flat.\n\nFinally, I got a water filter (Brita works in my current home but previously I had to have a filtration system installed to cope with hard well water) and that made the taste more appealing but not great. At home I began using clear glassware to drink out of. The water looked almost like it does in commercials—clear, almost sparkling, refreshing. As I bring the glass to my mouth I focus on how it feels to be thirsty and think about how wonderfully fresh and satisfying water is as I satisfy that thirst. (I don’t have to actually feel thirsty for it to work. We’ve all experienced times when we were maybe hot and very thirsty and a long drink was very satisfying. I draw on those memories.) It works amazingly well for me. For many years now, I’ve loved a cold glass of water and I drink water all day long.",
"Start by maybe adding a little juice to water for flavor. Or drink seltzer, flavored or not, if you crave the carbonation. I drink very little soda, but I make myself ice tea often with lemon or lime too.",
"Plain water sucks sometimes so I got hooked on the MIO train! They have a ton of different flavors at any supermarket.",
"I'd consider myself to have pretty poor impulse control and all I did was stop buying it. Was tired of feeling like shit when I would drink it all the time. Water is free and is always close by. I still get a 12 pack every once and awhile. Maybe try water flavor packets.",
"Don’t fridge your soda and drink it lukewarm. \n\nEverytime you feel like drinking a soda force yourself to drink a huge glass of icy cold water first.\n\nIt usually curbs the thirst and makes the soda less appealing. \n\nFigure out when you normally drink soda and try one by one to replace with just water. So perhaps focus on restaurants. Try to order water instead of soda.",
"Arizona green ice tea only has 70 calories. Plus it comes in a big can! I needed to cut my soda intake, and I switched to that and never went back!"
] | 0 | [
8,
5,
5,
3,
3,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to decline a job offer I recently got a job offer from a good company, but will be declining it because I like my current job. How can I say no but maintain the relationship with the people I met and interviewed with?",
"How to decline a job offer I recently got a job offer from a good company, but will be declining it because I like my current job. How can I say no but maintain the relationship with the people I met and interviewed with?",
"How to decline a job offer I recently got a job offer from a good company, but will be declining it because I like my current job. How can I say no but maintain the relationship with the people I met and interviewed with?"
] | [
"Tell them something along the lines of: \"thank you for the offer; however, I cannot accept as I would like to continue building my career at <location you work> for the time being. I am grateful for your time and have enjoyed meeting with you, I hope we can stay in contact in the future.\" ",
"Why were you interviewing with them in the first place if you like your current job? Just asking because it might be easier to give more targeted advice if I knew that",
"I would thank them and respectfully decline. I wouldn't worry too much about it since they have many people interviewing coming and going. As long as you are honest, sincere, and respectful, you will not burn any bridges. More than likely, they will have another person fill that role regardless. "
] | 0 | [
10,
3,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"How to keep meats and bread last longer? I've noticed i'll buy a loaf of bread, and have it get moldy / go bad before i've even finished it almost every time. Same goes for meats/cheeses. Especially lunch meats. I buy a single pack, and I can't eat it fast enough. I feel like i'm throwing out more than i'm actually consuming.\n\nCan someone give me tips on how to properly store these things to keep them from going bad longer? I usually just throw it in the fridge or freeze chicken/beef if I don't finish the pack. I've done my fair share of googling and some people say you can freeze lunch meat and some say you can't, so i'm really not sure.\n\nAny help guys?\n\n",
"How to keep meats and bread last longer? I've noticed i'll buy a loaf of bread, and have it get moldy / go bad before i've even finished it almost every time. Same goes for meats/cheeses. Especially lunch meats. I buy a single pack, and I can't eat it fast enough. I feel like i'm throwing out more than i'm actually consuming.\n\nCan someone give me tips on how to properly store these things to keep them from going bad longer? I usually just throw it in the fridge or freeze chicken/beef if I don't finish the pack. I've done my fair share of googling and some people say you can freeze lunch meat and some say you can't, so i'm really not sure.\n\nAny help guys?\n\n",
"How to keep meats and bread last longer? I've noticed i'll buy a loaf of bread, and have it get moldy / go bad before i've even finished it almost every time. Same goes for meats/cheeses. Especially lunch meats. I buy a single pack, and I can't eat it fast enough. I feel like i'm throwing out more than i'm actually consuming.\n\nCan someone give me tips on how to properly store these things to keep them from going bad longer? I usually just throw it in the fridge or freeze chicken/beef if I don't finish the pack. I've done my fair share of googling and some people say you can freeze lunch meat and some say you can't, so i'm really not sure.\n\nAny help guys?\n\n",
"How to keep meats and bread last longer? I've noticed i'll buy a loaf of bread, and have it get moldy / go bad before i've even finished it almost every time. Same goes for meats/cheeses. Especially lunch meats. I buy a single pack, and I can't eat it fast enough. I feel like i'm throwing out more than i'm actually consuming.\n\nCan someone give me tips on how to properly store these things to keep them from going bad longer? I usually just throw it in the fridge or freeze chicken/beef if I don't finish the pack. I've done my fair share of googling and some people say you can freeze lunch meat and some say you can't, so i'm really not sure.\n\nAny help guys?\n\n",
"How to keep meats and bread last longer? I've noticed i'll buy a loaf of bread, and have it get moldy / go bad before i've even finished it almost every time. Same goes for meats/cheeses. Especially lunch meats. I buy a single pack, and I can't eat it fast enough. I feel like i'm throwing out more than i'm actually consuming.\n\nCan someone give me tips on how to properly store these things to keep them from going bad longer? I usually just throw it in the fridge or freeze chicken/beef if I don't finish the pack. I've done my fair share of googling and some people say you can freeze lunch meat and some say you can't, so i'm really not sure.\n\nAny help guys?\n\n",
"How to keep meats and bread last longer? I've noticed i'll buy a loaf of bread, and have it get moldy / go bad before i've even finished it almost every time. Same goes for meats/cheeses. Especially lunch meats. I buy a single pack, and I can't eat it fast enough. I feel like i'm throwing out more than i'm actually consuming.\n\nCan someone give me tips on how to properly store these things to keep them from going bad longer? I usually just throw it in the fridge or freeze chicken/beef if I don't finish the pack. I've done my fair share of googling and some people say you can freeze lunch meat and some say you can't, so i'm really not sure.\n\nAny help guys?\n\n",
"How to keep meats and bread last longer? I've noticed i'll buy a loaf of bread, and have it get moldy / go bad before i've even finished it almost every time. Same goes for meats/cheeses. Especially lunch meats. I buy a single pack, and I can't eat it fast enough. I feel like i'm throwing out more than i'm actually consuming.\n\nCan someone give me tips on how to properly store these things to keep them from going bad longer? I usually just throw it in the fridge or freeze chicken/beef if I don't finish the pack. I've done my fair share of googling and some people say you can freeze lunch meat and some say you can't, so i'm really not sure.\n\nAny help guys?\n\n"
] | [
">Same goes for meats/cheeses. Especially lunch meats. I buy a single pack, and I can't eat it fast enough.\n\nDon't ever buy your meat and cheese in a package. Go to the deli at the grocery store and actually order the amount you need. First of all, it's much, much better and probably way less full of whatever weird preservatives would allow meat to sit refrigerated on a shelf for weeks at a time. Second, you can get exactly how much you need. As a bonus, you get it sliced to exactly your desired thickness. \n\nAs for fruits, just buy however much you need. You can get one banana or one apple or or one orange. Again, don't buy anything in a pre-sliced package or whatever. Just buy what you need. \n\nI honestly think that's the key to saving money and being healthy. Don't buy shit that comes in a package. Go to the deli and get your lunch meat and cheese. Go to the butcher counter and buy exactly how much chicken or beef you need. Go to the produce section and get exactly how much fruit and vegetables you need. That's it. The food will be healthier and fresher, and you won't waste nearly as much. ",
"Loaves of bread can go in the freezer. If you only use half a loaf, split it up when you first get it and put the rest in the freezer. Make sure the frozen part is wrapped up well to prevent freezer burn.",
"You can freeze bread, lunchmeat, cheese... just make sure you have plenty of freezer bags & squeeze all the air out before sealing. I recommend splitting it up into week portions & freezing right when you bring home to guarantee longest freshness after thawed.\nSome fruits can be frozen some cant, it depends how much of the fruit is water. Also some fruit stays good longer on the counter while other fruit needs to be refrigerated. So that is a case by case problem.",
"When I buy nice bread from a supermarket bakery I always pick up an extra plastic bag from the produce section too. When I get home I use a binder clip to close the regular bakery bag, and then tightly wrap that inside the produce bag. I keep it on the counter and it retains its texture for about seven or eight days. I store less-nice, pre-sliced bread in the freezer, and stuff like bagels in the fridge. ",
"For both bread and cheese, there is a tradeoff when it comes to humidity: too humid and it will go moldy pretty quick; not humid enough and it will go stale/dry out. It is in the middle where it will last the longest. \n\nFor hard cheeses, I find that keeping them in the dairy compartment of the fridge wrapped in cling wrap works best. Anything looser and it'll dry out, but put it in a sealed container and if will go moldy. If should last for a few weeks like that. \n\nAs for bread, it depends a lot on the type of bread, but a good rule of thumb is to keep it in the package it came in. Also, if you can get a bread box, they are specifically designed to stay at an appropriate level of humidity. They really do work, at least the good ones. ",
"Do you have a freezer? Put your bread in the freezer. Also put your meat in the freezer (this should be normal? do you keep meat in the fridge or something?)\n\nand yes you can freeze lunch meat. ",
"I keep my bread in the frig as soon as I buy it. As long as you close it back snugly (and suck all the excess air out of the bread bag), it'll keep for weeks.\n\nFor meats, cheeses, I'd invest in a FoodSaver, then store 1/2 the product in the freezer until you need it."
] | 0 | [
7,
4,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stop instantly forgetting the contents of a book. Like, whenever I'm reading a book, especially dense academic books, I keep forgetting what I just read just hours after reading. I've recently thought about adopting note-taking and highlighting, but I'm also open to some other ideas.",
"How to stop instantly forgetting the contents of a book. Like, whenever I'm reading a book, especially dense academic books, I keep forgetting what I just read just hours after reading. I've recently thought about adopting note-taking and highlighting, but I'm also open to some other ideas."
] | [
"When it comes to academic books I learned how to skim instead of reading every word. Not only does it save time, but it's a useful skill for getting through the abundance of information on the internet when doing research. It's definitely helped me avoid reading fatigue when I had multiple chapters to get done. \n\nAs far as the other books just make sure to clear away any distractions that will cause your mind to wonder. I can't tell you how many times I've been reading and realize I've read a page or more and don't remember a word because I was too distracted thinking about some random thought that popped up. It's better to read a bit slower once than reading it twice because you forgot every word. ",
"Just posted this on another request so repeating it here: I would try using SQ3R - this is a reading strategy that forces you to read just one paragraph at a time and summarize it to make sure you're really focused/understanding it before moving on. You also start by scanning the entire chapter for the key (bold) terms/section headers to get a feel for what's going to be covered in the chapter and the organization. After your initial scan, you come up with questions you think the chapter will address based on what you just saw, so it helps you think about the overall comprehension of what's in there before you try to start. Good luck, let me know if you have any questions!\n\nAlso, you can physically write down the one sentence summaries of the paragraphs, and then you have excellent and much shorter notes to review later summarizing all the main points!"
] | 0 | [
5,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?",
"How to avoid sweaty hands. With these warm months ahead of us, many of us have difficulty with this. It is uncomfortable and hard to avoid. Any tips on how to stop it?"
] | [
"Don't think there's just a permanent solution that doesn't involve removing the sweat glands in your palms.\n\nAt school, there's hand sanitizers everywhere so I use a bunch of it and it keeps my hands pretty dry.",
"I found that simply washing my hands solves this problem. It isn't permanent but it'll at least help you finish whatever you're doing. Not exactly a pro tip but it works.",
"The most effective but cheapest way is to build your own iontopheris machine. You put your hands in water for about 20 minutes with a small current in the water and it helps to reduce sweating. It takes 2-6 weeks to really start working, and you have to continue doing it or the effects wear off. If you show no signs of improvement after 2 weeks, I would suggest using more batteries, it is suggested to use anywhere from 12-24 volts(2-4 6 volt batteries). Here is a video - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_wdHKRWZI4\n\nThere are natural things like kava kava that will help reduce anxiety and could help reduce sweating. It could be helped with doctor prescribed anti anxiety medicine. \n\nYou can get botox shots in your hands, I hear they work pretty well. But kind of painful and kind of expensive(some insurance companies cover the cost).",
"I've always had really hot hands, but if i wash with cold water i buy myself a few hours of reason-ability and dryness ",
"When I was little I had problems with that. I used to soak them in salvia which is supposed to help. I am not sure if it did or if it was something else, but my palms don't sweat anymore. \n\nAlso for temporary help - buy those refreshing towels and have some with you. Wash them in cold water and don't dry them completely when you don't have to.",
"What about talc or some sort of baby powder type product? If you apply it lightly it may help, I just wonder how visible it would be. ",
"Rub some anti-perspirant on your hands. I've done this a few times. You can also rub it on your feet, especially in places where you have a tendency to get blisters. ",
"I was on a pill called Robinol. Though I did get headaches and dry mouth, my dripping wet hands stayed dry for hours. It was kinda trippy to not have hyperhidrosis for a while. My hands drip & my feet sweat through my shoes. Other than that I tried the machine which didn't help. ",
"I struggled with this for years and it was very frustrating. I started to eliminate stuff out if my diet to narrow down what or if it was something I was eating. Definitely a positive correlation between caffeine intake and sweaty hands / feet! Good luck! ",
"I am a pole dancer and a trapeze artist, and most of the people I know that have sweaty hands use a product called Dry Hands. I'm not sure what the active ingredient is that's in it, I've never had to use it. But it works. Also, a less invasive alternative to surgery would be botox, not permanent, but lasts a few months.",
"Before you leave the house in the morning, wipe down your palms with a cotton ball soaked in rubbing alcohol.",
"In this vein, how the fuck do I stop my damn forehead fop sweat? I feel like Tod from Scrubs, even in the middle of fucking winter.\n\nPlz help; am 2 embarrass",
"Fold an A4 sheet of paper and hold onto it in your pocket. This will increase your hand's exposed surface area and have same paper to soak any thing up."
] | 0 | [
11,
4,
3,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"Some of your “friends” are planning an outing without you and you want to go with them, do you stick to your pride and not ask to go if you weren’t invited, or do you just ask to go and accept their response? “friends” in quotation marks because although I do consider them my friends, I dont think they feel the same way towards me which might be telling me something.",
"Some of your “friends” are planning an outing without you and you want to go with them, do you stick to your pride and not ask to go if you weren’t invited, or do you just ask to go and accept their response? “friends” in quotation marks because although I do consider them my friends, I dont think they feel the same way towards me which might be telling me something.",
"Some of your “friends” are planning an outing without you and you want to go with them, do you stick to your pride and not ask to go if you weren’t invited, or do you just ask to go and accept their response? “friends” in quotation marks because although I do consider them my friends, I dont think they feel the same way towards me which might be telling me something.",
"Some of your “friends” are planning an outing without you and you want to go with them, do you stick to your pride and not ask to go if you weren’t invited, or do you just ask to go and accept their response? “friends” in quotation marks because although I do consider them my friends, I dont think they feel the same way towards me which might be telling me something.",
"Some of your “friends” are planning an outing without you and you want to go with them, do you stick to your pride and not ask to go if you weren’t invited, or do you just ask to go and accept their response? “friends” in quotation marks because although I do consider them my friends, I dont think they feel the same way towards me which might be telling me something.",
"Some of your “friends” are planning an outing without you and you want to go with them, do you stick to your pride and not ask to go if you weren’t invited, or do you just ask to go and accept their response? “friends” in quotation marks because although I do consider them my friends, I dont think they feel the same way towards me which might be telling me something.",
"Some of your “friends” are planning an outing without you and you want to go with them, do you stick to your pride and not ask to go if you weren’t invited, or do you just ask to go and accept their response? “friends” in quotation marks because although I do consider them my friends, I dont think they feel the same way towards me which might be telling me something."
] | [
"The quotation marks seal the deal for me. Take it as a big hint that it's time to find new people to spend your time with, those who actually want to spend time with you.",
"Id just mention it sounds like fun and ask if they'd mind if I tag along. I have been excluded from events just because I typically could not attend them, and similarly have forgotten or not thought to invite others to things.\n\nIf it was malicious I would be surprised that they talked about it around you.",
"Sticking with people who don't consider you as friend does no good to either of you.\n\nOf course, there is always context that might change the scenario.",
"you could bring the topic of the outing up without implying you'd like to go to the current plans and see if you are invited. Basically, let them know you'd be interested without injecting yourself into their plans.",
"Ask if you can go with them next time. And if they want you to go, they'll say \"why don't you come this time.\" That way you don't feel like you're imposing on this particular outing or making them feel obligated to include you by asking. Depending on their answer you'll get a better feel.",
"My personal take on this is that they really aren't your friends if they do stuff like this. Let me give you an example.\n\nWe had a fantasy football league at work. 12 teams, I played the last 4 years and won 2 out of the last 3 seasons. When time to play fantasy rolled out this year, I noticed I had not been invited back. I sent an email to the guy running the league like... \"fantasy football this year?\"\n\nThen came the awkward email. Hey guys we have 13 teams this year, attached is the draft order. I basically told them to remove me from the league.\n\nIf I wasn't wanted, I didn't want to be there. I wouldn't have had as much fun and if I won then it would have been great but a lot of awkwardness for 4+ months being the 13th team.\n\nHonestly, it felt great to send that email and a few of my actual friends thought it was hilarious that I was removed from the league, likely for winning it so often. \n\nMy circle got smaller but stronger.",
"I would ask and tell them that I understand if I'm not welcome, so they do not feel pressure to take me along."
] | 0 | [
18,
15,
6,
3,
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?",
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?",
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?",
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?",
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?",
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?",
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?",
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?",
"How to stop yourself from smiling. I occasionally find myself in situations where smiling or laughing is not the most appropriate thing to do, and I just can't seem to force myself to keep a straight face. If you don't want to smile, how do you counter the act?"
] | [
"Biting your cheeks apparently is what one of the national TV news guys does over here. If that doesn't work at least you'll look like an idiot and others will begin smiling as well.",
"I've found (through misbehaviour as young as Kindergarten) that biting my inner cheek gently helps\n\n",
"Rub a finger/hand hard against the bottom of your nose, pushing up against your nose, and outward. It's quick, and your hand covers your smile while doing it. It works for most people.",
"Think of some ex or person that rejected you. The pain of that thought will make you serious. It worked for my friend.",
"When I need to hold a laugh in, I always move my mouth muscles around alot for around 2-5 sec and it usually makes me capeable of holding it in.",
"Rub your finger just under your nose, it seems to work and even if it doesn't, at least you'll be able to hide the smile a little.",
"Just visualise that your face is paralyzed. Especially at the cheeks. Your smiling muscles anchor at around the cheeks so that area is the most important. ",
"If biting your cheek is too much of a tell, you can always push your tongue into one of your teeth. Same pain sort of response, but no cheek puckering.",
"Think about starving children in Africa. And if your still smiling, you will feel guilty and stop smiling either. Its a \"win-win\"!"
] | 0 | [
10,
8,
3,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
-8
] | safe |
|
[
"how to get just a drop of olive oil out when cooking? A lot of my cooking involves about a drop of olive oil, but I often wind up pouring way too much. ",
"how to get just a drop of olive oil out when cooking? A lot of my cooking involves about a drop of olive oil, but I often wind up pouring way too much. ",
"how to get just a drop of olive oil out when cooking? A lot of my cooking involves about a drop of olive oil, but I often wind up pouring way too much. "
] | [
"Pour out small bit of olive oil onto a clean fingertip. Make sure it doesn't overflow.\nsaid fingertip has a drop, now. gently touch it to surface for example the pan. the drop is now transferred to the pan.",
"Not sure what you're making that calls specifically for a drop of olive oil, but here goes:\n\nDraw the oil up with an eye dropper and then use that to just let out a drop.",
"Hold your thumb over the hole amd gradually loosen your grip over it until it comes out.\n\nObviously wash your hands first."
] | 0 | [
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"beating jet lag symptoms after the fact Yes, I know I should have taken prevention steps but it's too late now.\nI returned to the US from Asia 5 days ago and my sleep schedule is still a disaster. Some nights I'm only able to sleep for 2 hours even without a nap or sleeping in the day before. Most I sleep for an hour or so and then another 2 hours in the very early morning. It's causing a migraine and body aches which makes it even harder to sleep.\nWhat can I do to just beat it once and for all? I've tried melatonin and sleep teas, and all the evening relation tips like a shower and stretching. ",
"beating jet lag symptoms after the fact Yes, I know I should have taken prevention steps but it's too late now.\nI returned to the US from Asia 5 days ago and my sleep schedule is still a disaster. Some nights I'm only able to sleep for 2 hours even without a nap or sleeping in the day before. Most I sleep for an hour or so and then another 2 hours in the very early morning. It's causing a migraine and body aches which makes it even harder to sleep.\nWhat can I do to just beat it once and for all? I've tried melatonin and sleep teas, and all the evening relation tips like a shower and stretching. "
] | [
"One thing I do is use natural light to my advantage. When it's daytime, I spend as much time as I can outdoors or by a window - sometimes it's not possible because I've traveled to a locale where I'm teaching in a classroom in the bowels of a building, but if that's the case I spend every break outside, with the smoking crowd if I have to. At night I quit with the screens (all of them - no phone, no tablet, no laptop, no TV) at least an hour before bed and dim the lights. I also eat lightly - no heavy meals, preferring small portions and snacking healthily through the day. In addition I limit myself to a glass of wine per day, as alcohol can really screw with my sleep. If I'm out socializing with a bunch of drinkers I'll switch to sparkling water, seltzer, or club soda with lime wedges - no caffeine after 1 pm, period. I can't handle it.\n\nFrequently I have less than a day to get up to speed in a location and I'm there training for two weeks so it's crucial that I can work full days uninterrupted, and frequently my local counterparts want to go out in the evenings so there is usually little time to adjust.",
"You just need to force your sleep times. Go to bed at normal US time regardless of weather you are tired or not. Do not take naps during the day. \n\nIf you are really really struggling to re-adjust, skip a night of sleep entirely so the next time you try you're actually exhausted. I'm actually doing this right now."
] | 0 | [
2,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How do I prevent my nipples from showing through a dress shirt and prevent myself from sweating to death on a hot day? (currently I wear a white shirt under my dress shirt to work, but it's getting hot, there's no AC, and I would love to just wear one layer of clothing this summer) A little fucking around in my closet has revealed that **white** is my enemy. The white shirts are quite translucent, but colored shirts of the same material are not translucent ... usually not at all. \n\nSo, I've been buying all white shirts just to keep my life simple; I don't want to have to keep track of what shirt I wore on what day, or appear OCD by always wearing the same color on the same day of the week... but I've decided to wear the colored shirts only on the hot days and maybe switch to wearing blue all the time instead of wearing white all the time. Also, white made it easy to match my ties ... when I wore multiple colors I had to fuck around in the mirror to make sure my tie selection was not too wacky looking",
"How do I prevent my nipples from showing through a dress shirt and prevent myself from sweating to death on a hot day? (currently I wear a white shirt under my dress shirt to work, but it's getting hot, there's no AC, and I would love to just wear one layer of clothing this summer) A little fucking around in my closet has revealed that **white** is my enemy. The white shirts are quite translucent, but colored shirts of the same material are not translucent ... usually not at all. \n\nSo, I've been buying all white shirts just to keep my life simple; I don't want to have to keep track of what shirt I wore on what day, or appear OCD by always wearing the same color on the same day of the week... but I've decided to wear the colored shirts only on the hot days and maybe switch to wearing blue all the time instead of wearing white all the time. Also, white made it easy to match my ties ... when I wore multiple colors I had to fuck around in the mirror to make sure my tie selection was not too wacky looking",
"How do I prevent my nipples from showing through a dress shirt and prevent myself from sweating to death on a hot day? (currently I wear a white shirt under my dress shirt to work, but it's getting hot, there's no AC, and I would love to just wear one layer of clothing this summer) A little fucking around in my closet has revealed that **white** is my enemy. The white shirts are quite translucent, but colored shirts of the same material are not translucent ... usually not at all. \n\nSo, I've been buying all white shirts just to keep my life simple; I don't want to have to keep track of what shirt I wore on what day, or appear OCD by always wearing the same color on the same day of the week... but I've decided to wear the colored shirts only on the hot days and maybe switch to wearing blue all the time instead of wearing white all the time. Also, white made it easy to match my ties ... when I wore multiple colors I had to fuck around in the mirror to make sure my tie selection was not too wacky looking",
"How do I prevent my nipples from showing through a dress shirt and prevent myself from sweating to death on a hot day? (currently I wear a white shirt under my dress shirt to work, but it's getting hot, there's no AC, and I would love to just wear one layer of clothing this summer) A little fucking around in my closet has revealed that **white** is my enemy. The white shirts are quite translucent, but colored shirts of the same material are not translucent ... usually not at all. \n\nSo, I've been buying all white shirts just to keep my life simple; I don't want to have to keep track of what shirt I wore on what day, or appear OCD by always wearing the same color on the same day of the week... but I've decided to wear the colored shirts only on the hot days and maybe switch to wearing blue all the time instead of wearing white all the time. Also, white made it easy to match my ties ... when I wore multiple colors I had to fuck around in the mirror to make sure my tie selection was not too wacky looking"
] | [
"Have you considered wearing an [A-line tank top aka 'wife beater'](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleeveless_shirt#A-shirt) under your white dress shirts, instead of a white tee? Should be lighter and more comfortable.",
"The problem isn't your layers it's the quality of your dress shirts. If you spend a bit more on these shirts you'll find the material if of better quality and slightly thicker. You shouldn't be able to see through a good quality shirt. Good fabric will breathe better as well keeping you cooler in the heat.\n\nIf you invest in a few quality shirts, you'll save money on buying the extra layers to wear underneath, and you get the best of both worlds as you'll just be wearing one layer when it's hot. If it's suitable to do so, roll your sleeves up in warm weather or wear a short sleeve shirt. ",
"I've never noticed a man's nipples in a shirt before, not in the manner you're describing at least.\n\n\nAre you buying particularly cheap shirts? If so, have you considered investing in one of two shirts in a better material to whip out on hot days?",
"Don't think this actually fixes your question, but try to find a peach or skin-colored shirt or tank top to wear underneath. It doesn't show thru like the white does. It would also do a better job of hiding band aids, if you go that route. \nBut really- sounds like you need a higher thread count in your undershirts- this would take care of the transparency issue. "
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?",
"how not to feel tired all of the time Even if I get eight hours sleep, drink coffee, drink water, I still feel like I need to sleep before doing anything else. Some days, when I get into bed, it doesn't feel like I have done anything from the time I woke up to then. Any suggestions?"
] | [
"Nurse here. \n\nGet a sleep study. You might have obstructive sleep apnea, which is not limited to those with a large body habitus- a 2009 study of 28,500 patients who had sleep studies showed that 54% of those of normal weight had OSA.\n\nOSA puts you at a greater risk for metabolic disorders, arrhythmias, and stroke, and it's easily treatable by wearing a CPAP mask when you sleep.\n\nThose who get treated often report getting the best sleep of their lives after starting.\n\nBTW, I have it and I'm about to start treatment myself ;-)",
"Have you had a recent physical? A trip to the doctor with full bloodwork (CBC, thyroid panel, iron/ferritin levels, vit d & b12 levels) would be a good place to start. \n\nDo you exercise at all? Regular, moderate exercise improves energy levels over time in otherwise healthy individuals. What's your diet like? How much coffee do you consume a day?",
"If there's nothing medically wrong with you, my two cents is give up caffeine. I only drank 2-3 cups a day but was constantly tired. It took me about 6 months to 'equalize' but eventually the peaks and troughs of energy evened out and I felt much better.\nOh, and maybe ease off the carbs if you're big on rice and pasta and bread.",
"It could be a vitamin b deficiency. One of my friends in college was always tired, and he found out all he needed was more vitamin b.",
"Get a checkup. If you're 'fine on paper', then you're just run down. Get lots of protein, vitamins, lots of good micronutrients from multicolor fruits and veggies, maybe some probiotics, exercise. ",
"Cut added sugar out of your diet. That shit worked wonders on me. I have more energy and I've lost ~10 lbs of fat.",
"1st: Get your bloodwork done. The doctor can see what is going on and if anything is needing adjusting.\n\n2nd: Are you going to bed before 12:00 am? I believe you sleep better the earlier you go to bed. Such as 10pm.\n\n3rd: Vitamins. AFTER YOUR BLOODWORK. So it doesn't mess with your levels and you can see what is lagging. Plus, a doctors input on what to take would be good.",
"Holding off on all the physical worst case scenarios, it could be clinical depression. Read up on it.",
"First, 8 hours may not be enough for you. Some people just need 9. \n\nSecond, it's 8 hours every night. Sleep 6 one night and that deficit can stick with you until you make it up. \n\nFinally, there is a question of the quality of your 8 hours. You may not be sleeping deeply getting your full rem sleep. You could be scoring or have apnea that prevents that\n\n https://sleepfoundation.org/how-sleep-works/how-much-sleep-do-we-really-need",
"Definitely get a medical check-up as there are a few things that could be causing this, eg Vitamin D deficiency or thyroid problem. Good news if it is one of those as treatment is safe and easy. ",
"Could be vitamin D (not B) due to lack of sun exposure. where do you live? You can get that checked with a blood sample.\nStill about light, the way you wake up is important. I noticed I felt a lot better after in the morning I bought a dawn simulator (you can get one from phillips on amazon). Takes some time to set up to find the right level of light that will wake you up, in cae you dont wake up there is still an alarm. Totally worth it.\nDo you exercise? I bike to work and the impact is awesome.\n",
"Buy a glucometer and test your blood sugar. For 16 years I always thought I was just tired a lot and loved drinking water then peed a lot because of the water and had shitty eyesight. Nope, it was type 1 diabetes, somehow never caught and bloodsugar was 719 at the ER. But hey, most likely being paranoid",
"Are you pregnant? Had colleague actually get checked for cancer etc and was pregnant unexpectedly after many childless years of marriage....\nGo for a walk every day as it helps you sleep better, as does keeping hydrated. Don't eat or drink caffeine for several hours before bed. \n",
"Dude,\nThis is what you do. Imagine to yourself right now, imagine that you hav five times the energy of what you have right now. Five times the power. Five times the everything. What would you be doing? Believe it. Feel it. You now have five times the energy that you just had. I call this the George Castanza method.",
"You either have night terrors or need to change your diet.\n\nSource: I need to change my diet cuz I always feel like shit."
] | 0 | [
9,
8,
5,
4,
3,
3,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0,
-1
] | safe |
|
[
"Where to store multiple SD/Micro SD cards when travelling Im travelling to thailand in a week and would like to know if there is a way i can store my sd cards safely and securely?",
"Where to store multiple SD/Micro SD cards when travelling Im travelling to thailand in a week and would like to know if there is a way i can store my sd cards safely and securely?",
"Where to store multiple SD/Micro SD cards when travelling Im travelling to thailand in a week and would like to know if there is a way i can store my sd cards safely and securely?"
] | [
"I use a business card. If you tape it to the back of a business card and write SD on the front in big marker, can be missed.",
"1. They have hard cases for eye glasses at the dollar store. \n2. Small plastic cases, for storing food, also at dollar store. \n3. Medium or large prescription bottles. \n\n",
"I use one of these:\n\nhttp://www.amazon.de/DiMeCard-SD-SD-microSD-Speicherkartenhalter-Kr"
] | 0 | [
3,
3,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"how to get rid of laundry machine scum? The stuff that builds up inside the rubber ring on the front loading machine. ",
"how to get rid of laundry machine scum? The stuff that builds up inside the rubber ring on the front loading machine. "
] | [
"Run an empty hot wash with lots of white vinegar in the water, and a small amount of bleach. When the cycle is done, wipe the ring dry or give it a scrub with an old toothbrush, then wipe dry and leave the door open so the whole machine dries out. \nYou may need to be more vigilant about wiping down the rubber seals after every couple of washes.",
"every load, take something that you are putting in the wash and wipe the ring with it. Preferrably something you don't care about, just in case.\n\nI use a set of small washcloth sized rags around the house for other cleaning duties, and if one of those is going in, it gets the honors."
] | 0 | [
3,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"While starting new habits is generally easy for me, giving up old habits is much harder. What are some ways to give up old habits? ",
"While starting new habits is generally easy for me, giving up old habits is much harder. What are some ways to give up old habits? "
] | [
"Switch the habit with something else. Like some old tips I know is if you smoke pick up water instead of a cig",
"In addition to what others have said, try to find the root cause. If you know why you do it, you can plan how to stop better. For example, some people smoke because they need a calming technique. In order to stop, you need a new calming technique. People have used bubble wands or even just a pen to mimic the breathing. Now that you have another way to calm yourself, you've removed one reason to smoke. It becomes easier to quit."
] | 0 | [
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?",
"I want to wake up the first time my alarm sounds instead of giving me endless snoozes. I want to do this. I know if i wake up at 7:00 i'll be able to have good breakfast, take a shower, workout lightly, read my tech blogs or something and then go to work calmly and arrive early before 9:00.\n\nInstead, my alarm sounds at 7, i do wake up and don't even feel tired, but i choose consciously to stay in bed and snooze my way to 8:40 where i just put on some clothes and go to work, and arrive late, without breakfast or with shitty breakfast, etc..\n\nHow can i change this horrid behavior? Is there any psychological hack or something i can try to bring myself to discipline?"
] | [
"I'm no scientist, doctor, or psychologist but I am experienced. I have suffered from a very severe case of sleep-through-alarm syndrome (super official name) to the point where even my most desperate attempts were ineffective. I bought a screamingly loud alarm that I hid on the other side of the room and created all sorts of puzzles every night to make it difficult to shut off but soon enough I learned to sleepwalk, turn it off, get back in bed and remember nothing. The best way to fix this is gradual change. This process won't be easy for the first week but after that I promise it'll be smooth sailing.\n\nFirst of all set your alarm using a sleep cycle calculator like http://sleepyti.me/ and obey it! Seriously! It helped me more than I can explain.\nNow here's the training regime. You should start this process waking up at a comfortable time either on a weekend or a break. For your first few days, set your alarm for maybe 9 or 10 am--whatever is most comfortable & within the sleep schedule calculator (never oversleep). In the morning, stay in bed until the alarm goes off. Even if you wake up early (read a book or something). When you hear the alarm go off, immediately stand up out of bed, turn off the alarm, and make your bed. DO NOT get back in bed! Getting back in bed train your sleepy-self to ignore the alarm. Continue this at comfortable timing schedules for as long as you can until you have to set it for earlier. When waking up early, follow the same process of standing up and making your bed. Set your alarm for the exact same time the next morning and repeat. \nHere's the hardest part: do not sleep in on weekends. Nap in the afternoon if you have to but don't upset the progress you've made. \n\nWhy this works: Firstly, by jumping out of your covers when you hear the alarm you create an automatic response to the alarm sound. Previously you associated *alarm* with *think about getting out of bed*. From now on, alarm is going to mean to \"get out of bed\". Second, by making your bed after you get out of it you're telling your body that sleep-time is officially over. Third, by keeping a consistent wake-up time, your internal clock has a regular pattern. You'll feel refreshed because your body has a predictable time to release the right chemicals or whatever it does to wake you up naturally.\n\nAfter 1 week, the behavior will feel natural. After 2, you won't associate getting out of bed with unpleasent-ness and might even enjoy it.\n\nBonus: Give yourself a nice reward (maybe a chocolate) every time you jump out of bed. Yay positive reinforcement!\n\nWaking up used to interfere with my work and happiness and this is how I resolved it. I hope it works for you!",
"You might also search reddit for a recent posting where they suggested that you PRACTICE getting up right when your alarm rings. \n\nIIRC, you allocate 30 mins during the day on a weekend to do a few cycles of: set alarm for 5 min in the future, lie down, then GTFU when the alarm rings. Get yourself used to jumping out of bed, by practicing when u r not tired. \n\nI thought this was brilliant. ",
"Move your alarm to the other side of the room or in a difficult place to reach you will wake up before you hit the snooze button, I do it and it works great!",
"Set two alarms. The first should be about an hour before you actually want to get up. When that alarm goes off, wake up, turn it off, and go back to sleep. You will most likely reach REM sleep again, and when the second alarm goes off, you will feel refreshed and ready to get up. I started doing this back in high school and it has worked well in college too.",
"Maybe before that morning pee pull your blankets over your bed or fully make the bed so when you come back you're less likely to climb back into it. ",
"Simple: place your alarm clock on the other side of your room. Unless you can sleep through it, this will force you to jump out of bed instantly waking you enough to not lay back down",
"I have the same problem. I live in a dorm and this year my bed is lofted, so i have to climb down to turn off my alarm. I never feel like climbing back up into bed, so i spend those first five minutes of grogginess in a desk chair and never fall back asleep. You're obviously not in a dorm with a lofted bed, but I highly recommend it for college students! In your case, maybe if you set a secondary alarm outside of the room (that was still loud enough to hear) and you had to walk out of your room, you wouldn't go back to bed. For instance, if you had to get halfway to the kitchen or bathroom to turn it of, you're more likely to be like \"aw, fuck it\" and go to the bathroom or eat some tasty cereal instead of going to bed.\nAlso, I drink half of a water bottle FIRST THING when I wake up. It snaps me out of sleep mode and rehydrates me after 8 hours without water.",
"I have the same problem, or rather had, untill I started using this alarm instead: [I Can't Wake Up!](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kog.alarmclock&hl=en)\n\nYou have to do math puzzles, or word games, or find the matching card (you choose) to turn it off, and by the time you do, you're awake!\nIt's not something you can sleepwalk through either, as I cant do (7+6) x (13+9) without properly thinking about it.\n\nThe free version is the same as the paid version, just with little adds.\n\nOnly downside is you've got to have a smartphone to use it.",
"Find a lamp and put a bright bulb in it. \n\nThen plug the lamp into a timer set to turn on when you want to wake up. I coupled this with a regular screeching alarm. \n\nWhen that light first went off, it felt like my eyes were being burned out of my skull. \n\nNeedless to say, I woke up\n\n",
"You can \"reset your internal clock\" to help you wake easily at a certain time. When you wake up, sit in an extremely well lit room. The bright lights will help you wake up and, after a little time, it will help your body align to when you want to wake up.",
"Kind of along different lines than other posts here but heck you may find it useful. Saw it posted on here a while back along with a similar inquiry. If you have trouble feeling refreshed or alert in the morning, keep a full glass of water by your bedside. Chug as much as you can as soon as your first alarm goes off and you'll feel so much better! Basically you're super dehydrated after 8 hours of not drinking, and quenching your body's thirst is just what you need to add a little pep in your step in the AM. Give it a try, it really made a difference for me!",
"If you can wake up w the alarm, just have some SELF CONTROL and get up out of bed. Seriously, also set your alarm for the latest possible time to wake up. So if you set an alarm for 7 but snooze it till 745, just set the alarm for 745",
"I worked shift work almost all my working life and have found out the best way to get up is the minute your alarm goes off put your feet on the floor. Don't take a deep breath, don't roll over, don't hit the snooze button, don't do anything except sit up and put your feet on the floor and stand up."
] | 0 | [
25,
5,
4,
3,
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n",
"ways to make a long commute not a waste of time I'm moving soon to prepare for being married. We decided to split the difference so each of us have about a 45 minute commute to and from work. Driving the whole time. All I can think of is audiobooks, any other ideas?\n\n"
] | [
"Audiobooks, podcasts, specifically if the material teaches you something. Either for a hobby or your profession.",
"Just a perspective from a motorcycling dude from the Netherlands,... drivers who are doing something that is nót having a 100% attention to the road are among the most dangerous. \n\nI can't count the times I've almost been driven off the road by some ass working his phone/calling/listening to whatever in his car. \n\nPlease be responsible when driving a 1000+ kg murderweapon on wheels around. If you want to spend your time more useful, use public transit. ",
"I would recommend you take this time to stress down. You're gonna have a 45 minute drive to work and all you think about what to do so you won't waste it? See it as time for yourself, some time away from everyone so you can be with you. Not everyone has that oppurtunity.",
"During long drives I:\n* listen to the radio\n* call friends - gotta appreciate Seri\n* listen to podcasts\nBut lately I've been also using a voice recorder to record my thoughts and recent experiences. After viewing an old video of me I realised how quickly things change and while photographs may capture how I looked at a certain point in time, there's so much ubbling under the surface that can be lost. You could also record messages for people you care about, record a podcast, make comedy recordings etc. ",
"I just came across this website earlier. It recommends 51 different podcasts you can download to your phone for free. The topics range from \"career-boosting advice and news to comedy and pop culture\". I bookmarked a bunch myself. https://www.themuse.com/advice/51-smart-podcasts-that-will-make-your-commute-way-better",
"Audiobooks / audiocourses would be the popular answer. Besides that, if you are interested in literature, you could think about stories for entries in short stories contests. Thinking about something is the best way to make time goes by.",
"Podcast's are a great way of entertaining yourself and maybe learn something as well. I recommend the app \"Pocket Casts\".\nIt has a variety of podcasts on many different subjects. \n\nhttps://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=au.com.shiftyjelly.pocketcasts",
"My drive home is much needed time. Now, I do work 2nd shift, so this is often at ~11PM, but especially during the warmer months - that stretch on the highway at night, cruise control set at 72 or so (posted limit is 65) with the windows down and loud, aggressive music blasting, is the only way to drive home.\n",
"Might not suit everyone, but I use such 30-60 minute drives/commutes to catch up with distant friends and acquaintances via phone/skype or even chat.\n\nIt gets more earnest when you fully dedicate yourself to them even for an hour or so. Rather than give them a offbeat \"like\" on a picture once a month via facebook.",
"If you have a hands-free phone, and have a desk job, schedule meetings during that time. Especially useful are\n\n* calls to other timezones (Europe in the morning, APAC late)\n* prep calls before actual meetings that day\n* catch up meetings with people you don't normally make time for during the day, to find out what they're up to\n* open discussions with coworkers also trapped in their cars\n* networking calls with colleagues outside of work, to stay in touch, in case that next enticing job offer is closer than 45 minutes away",
"If you are driving yourself, yeah, audiobooks ought to do it. If you can take public transportation, you can do a whole lot.",
"Get Spotify and make a great playlist! I found that it made my commute very short, and I make the same distance commute for my SO as well. I live in Texas so that may be a factor to why it's easier - 45 minute commutes between cities is typically no big deal because everything is so spread out.\n\nI also loved to listen to stand-up comedy routines. It really opened my ears to a lot of people I had never taken the time to check out when I was sitting at home.",
"Check your local library for audiobooks- most have them in CD format that you can check out, but many are moving to online downloads that you can borrow from your home computer!",
"As many other people have stated, podcasts. The three I'm enjoying at the moment are This American Life, Radiolab and Cracked. I'm currently in a studio for 12 hours a day and happily listen to then for most of that time.",
"pocketcasts is a great app with great listening material. Tedtalks app is also great for learning something new. As long as you can hookup your phone to your car then you are set! ",
"Stick to things that don't distract your hands or your eyes. as /u/stanrc notes audiobooks and podcasts are awesome. I, personally, listen to NPR on my commute to and from work every day. Wonderful news and on friday mornings, StoryCorp will bring some tears to your eyes and warmth to your spirit. ",
"I haven't been bored walking since starting with podcasts, there are so many that release so frequently. Some that I listen to: \n\nJoe Rogan,\nAdam & Drew show, \nBill Burr,\nVarious Grantland podcasts \n\nThere's like 20 hours of a content a week with just those few \n"
] | 0 | [
16,
10,
4,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0,
0,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to efficiently write a good college essay? I have come to the conclusion that there’s a fault in my process of writing an essay. Even though I get good grades, i spend too much time especially doing prep and actually enjoy exams more because they need less revision. ANYWAY\n\nSO this is how i do it, \n\n- make a plan/basic structure of what i will discuss\n\n- cry\n- read relevant chapters in textbooks, make lots of notes\n\n- read journal articles recommended by professor\n\n- independent research and gather tons of articles that i will try to squeeze in for extra marks\n\n- copy paste all notes into one document\n\n- cry because the essay must be 3000 words and i have 10.000+ words of notes\n\n- arrange, paraphrase, ",
"How to efficiently write a good college essay? I have come to the conclusion that there’s a fault in my process of writing an essay. Even though I get good grades, i spend too much time especially doing prep and actually enjoy exams more because they need less revision. ANYWAY\n\nSO this is how i do it, \n\n- make a plan/basic structure of what i will discuss\n\n- cry\n- read relevant chapters in textbooks, make lots of notes\n\n- read journal articles recommended by professor\n\n- independent research and gather tons of articles that i will try to squeeze in for extra marks\n\n- copy paste all notes into one document\n\n- cry because the essay must be 3000 words and i have 10.000+ words of notes\n\n- arrange, paraphrase, ",
"How to efficiently write a good college essay? I have come to the conclusion that there’s a fault in my process of writing an essay. Even though I get good grades, i spend too much time especially doing prep and actually enjoy exams more because they need less revision. ANYWAY\n\nSO this is how i do it, \n\n- make a plan/basic structure of what i will discuss\n\n- cry\n- read relevant chapters in textbooks, make lots of notes\n\n- read journal articles recommended by professor\n\n- independent research and gather tons of articles that i will try to squeeze in for extra marks\n\n- copy paste all notes into one document\n\n- cry because the essay must be 3000 words and i have 10.000+ words of notes\n\n- arrange, paraphrase, ",
"How to efficiently write a good college essay? I have come to the conclusion that there’s a fault in my process of writing an essay. Even though I get good grades, i spend too much time especially doing prep and actually enjoy exams more because they need less revision. ANYWAY\n\nSO this is how i do it, \n\n- make a plan/basic structure of what i will discuss\n\n- cry\n- read relevant chapters in textbooks, make lots of notes\n\n- read journal articles recommended by professor\n\n- independent research and gather tons of articles that i will try to squeeze in for extra marks\n\n- copy paste all notes into one document\n\n- cry because the essay must be 3000 words and i have 10.000+ words of notes\n\n- arrange, paraphrase, ",
"How to efficiently write a good college essay? I have come to the conclusion that there’s a fault in my process of writing an essay. Even though I get good grades, i spend too much time especially doing prep and actually enjoy exams more because they need less revision. ANYWAY\n\nSO this is how i do it, \n\n- make a plan/basic structure of what i will discuss\n\n- cry\n- read relevant chapters in textbooks, make lots of notes\n\n- read journal articles recommended by professor\n\n- independent research and gather tons of articles that i will try to squeeze in for extra marks\n\n- copy paste all notes into one document\n\n- cry because the essay must be 3000 words and i have 10.000+ words of notes\n\n- arrange, paraphrase, "
] | [
"Write a basic bulletpoint structure in your word processor: major thesis, topic sentence of supporting paragraph 1, topic sentence of supporting paragraph 2, etc.\n\nFill in that skeletal structure with bulletpoints while you’re finding evidence and relevant info in your textbooks and journal articles.\n\nWhen satisfied you have everything all jotted down in one place, turn the bullets into sentences that flow coherently into full paragraphs. \n\nGo ahead and skip the extra “independent research” bit unless it’s genuinely getting you some needed bonus points. Use Wikipedia reference site links if you need to beef up with more sources. \n\n\nThis is how I did it in college and I once got an A+ on a paper for a class I was not even enrolled in at a school I didn’t go to. ",
"This is so funny, my wife and I were talking about this specifically the other day. I told her that I enjoy writing papers because it is easy and I love my process. I don't think this is the same for everyone, but the process I use involves beginning by just writing as much as you can (or reaching at least 50-65% of your word goal). This of course sounds much easier than it is, but think of your writing as a conversation. You just type what you would say as an individual that does not have all the facts(opinions usually) and state ideas to surround those, and do so as intelligently as you can. Now you find the points to which you need to flesh out and fact check, then basically utilize your college library to find peer reviewed information to either support your thoughts or (sometimes my favorite), why your thoughts are wrong. This is great because it can lead to a lot of really good writing about something new to you and allow you to point out why the opposing idea is incorrect(more writing). This works for me every time, but may not be for everyone. Good Luck",
"I would say it depends on what you're writing for, but in general for undergrad papers, I suggest this:\n\n1) Get your thesis statement written.\n2) Decide on a conclusion. (This one is flexible, if your conclusion changes in the course of research, you should stick with the new one.) If your thesis was a question, this should be the answer. Otherwise, it should just be a summary of your talking points and why they prove your thesis correct. (Or wrong, if you're feeling bold and know your professor won't dock you for it.)\n3) Write the outline. Know what points you want to hit in the essay, but be vague. 'History of x' is a good way to put it. Or 'Effect of x on industry y'. Depending on the length of your essay, each point should take 1-3 paragraphs to cover.\n4) Do the research with the outline in mind. If the paper or textbook section doesn't apply, skip it. (Unless specifically told otherwise by your professor. There may be something hidden in it that's extremely important. If it's not something they emphasize more than other sources, it should probably be safe to skip.) Take notes on only what applies to your paper.\n5) Without using your notes, write a rough draft of the paper. It's okay to be vague and non-specific. Focus on the order in which you want to present ideas, write them in a different order than the outline if it makes more sense. The outline is just to remind you of the talking points.\n6) Do your second draft, putting in all the specific references from your notes.\n7) If you feel the need, have someone else read over your second draft and do a third based on their responses.\n\nThis is pretty close to what my process was when I was an undergrad. I tended to do step 5 in place of 3, but I also didn't have to write them except for in gen ed classes where the bar was set pretty low.",
"Generally agree with other posters here. I had a similar problem to OP, I would always do well but papers would take so long to write up until my ~sophomore year. Sorry if format sucks, on mobile. These aren't necessarily in an order either, ramblin while poopin.\n\n1. Before anything else, do some quick general research on your topic. Use this to form an opinion/thesis/goal for the paper. Write that mother fucker down.\n\n2. Plan out how you want to prove/disprove your thesis. Start broadly and break it out into sections and subsections. Ex: Intro, Body (3 main points/arguments minimum), conclusion, etc. I always included counter arguments in papers that called for them.\n\n3. Fill that fucker out, start with \"buzz\" words or certain key elements you want to hit on and expand as you go. \n\n4. Be fuckin' clear and concise. (Depending on professor/length requirements) Some professors want you to make an argument, support it, and wrap it up as fast as possible. Others want you to bullshit for 10 pages. If that's the case, find as many supporting arguments and research them. Personally, I leaned towards shorter more concise papers and it worked out for me. \n\n5. Check if you accomplished your goals. If you wanted your 2nd paragraph to be about how red bananas stopped World War III, make damn sure you talk about how those bananas stopped the war and that the arguments are logically placed so a person who thinks different could see your point of view.\n\n6. Flow. You want your paper to flow like a conversation. Reading an essay that's all facts/statistics/from sources is booooooring and doesn't show creativity or intuition. Use your \"voice\" to keep a paper moving along and interesting. \n\nOk gotta get back to work GL",
"- Select a topic\n- Research Topic, even in wikipedia, check bottom for references that are useable.\n- Use your school's online library\n- Learn to use https://scholar.google.com/\n- Save articles and pages that are relevant to your article.\n- Write your thesis statement. This is one of the most important aspects of your paper, it must be spot on and pertain to your topic.\n- Outline your paper with this structure in mind: I'm telling you what the paper is about, I'm telling you what I am going to tell you, I tell you, I'm telling you what I told you. Opening paragraph, second paragraph lays out format, paragraphs with information, last paragraph summarizes thesis and paper.\n- Get a Grammerly account."
] | 0 | [
6,
4,
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?",
"How to motivate yourself to do homework. I suffer from depression which at times makes it insanely hard to gather any motivation to do homework. Do any of you know of any techniques to get motivated?"
] | [
"I suffered from depression in high school too and it got bad enough that I just stopped caring... But I wanted to care, you know? My counsellor gave me a really really good tip. \n\nSet your alarm for five minutes or ten minutes. Something achievable. Next pick a project you have assigned and work on it for your allotted time. And it doesn't have to be major working on it, like starting an essay. You could just do five minutes of research or make a plan or whatever. \n\nWhen your alarm goes off, you make a decision. If you feel like it, continue working on what you're doing. If you really can't do anymore work, then don't. You don't have to. You are not a bad person or lazy or anything. You have the choice to stop. You already did five minutes of work, which is better than not doing any work. \n\nChances are you will continue beyond your five or two minutes. Maybe if you can't continue on this project, set the alarm again and work on something else. ",
"There is no way to \"motivate yourself\". You have to actually start doing something. It's all about discipline, not motivation. \n\nJust do your work for 15 minutes, and maybe you might sink into the rhythm and complete it, maybe not, but do this often. If you find yourself outside the \"work-flow\", force yourself back in, or have a rest for 10 minutes. Don't watch TV, open up Reddit, Google something interesting or check your phone (turn that off). If you're bored of the subject, change to a different one with productive work/homework. \n\nDon't work on your bed or in front of the TV because of conditioning (can't explain this properly and I should because you might Google it and procrastinate even more). Go to [SimplyNoise](http://simplynoise.com) (and don't click around the website) to block out background noises (I find talking is best blocked by Brown noise). \n\nIt says the post's been submitted an hour ago, so get to work now.\n\n",
"The only way I've found when my apathy comes on strong is a frequent reward system. I love sweets so I do a piece of candy every completed problem or page read. Also in the long term getting treatment for the underlying cause will pay off.",
"Use the [(10+2)*5](http://www.43folders.com/2005/10/11/procrastination-hack-1025) technique. Combine this with some exercise like walking up and down the stairs a few times. The active part activates hormones that make you both happy and give you better concentration. \nBTW even tough it feels really hard to do make sure you have enough exercise for the reasons stated above. Just go for a little walk outside every day :)",
"Tell yourself you're going to do 15 minutes of homework, chances are you will get on a roll!\nIf you're reading, put gummie bears at the end of paragraphs or pages. \nFind outside related knowledge. Regardless if you have an assignment due on physics, english, or social studies, theres usually more interesting information out there on it. If you can use it then its a bonus, if not, you will have a broader understanding which is just as useful.",
"Start from here. It's the best guide I've seen yet.\n\nhttp://waitbutwhy.com/2013/10/why-procrastinators-procrastinate.html",
"For me, my problem is starting the homework in the first place, but once I'm on a role then I don't stop till it's done. So I just tell myself I'm going to do one small part of the homework (if it's an essay, maybe just the first paragraph) and the before I know it it's been 4 hours and everything is done",
"Practice makes perfect! Your work ethic starts now, not later when you get a job. Right now your job is to do the homework, and it's unpaid, but necessary to get to the next step of getting a real paid job that you enjoy. \n\nAlso, try your best to not paint yourself into a corner time-wise. Start all your projects as early as possible so you don't get frustrated by lack of time towards the deadline. Especially for larger projects that you have a few weeks to complete! It's way better to have the last four days to think about your final draft and make tiny changes than to be up all night to hand in what is essentially a first draft. \n\nGood luck!! Every day is a new day.",
"Hang in there! Finding motivation for homework can be tough, especially when dealing with depression. Here are a few techniques that might help:\n\n1. Break tasks down: Divide your homework into smaller, manageable tasks to make it less overwhelming.\n2. Set goals: Set clear and realistic goals for each study session. Track your progress and celebrate small wins.\n3. Establish a routine: Create a consistent study routine that works for you to provide structure and make it easier to get started.\n4. Find a suitable environment: Experiment with different study environments to find one that helps you focus and feel comfortable.\n5. Reward yourself: Treat yourself after completing tasks or reaching milestones to stay motivated.\n6. Seek support: Talk to friends, family, or a trusted teacher about your struggles. They can provide encouragement and accountability.\n7. Take care of yourself: Prioritize self-care by getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in activities you enjoy.\n\nRemember, be patient and kind to yourself. If needed, consider reaching out to a mental health professional for support. For additional resources, check out \\*\\*edusupport.pro\\*\\*—they offer strategies and tools to improve motivation and academic performance. You're capable of overcoming this challenge!",
"Fuck what everyone else is saying, do what I found out,do it or go to Juvie for Traunchy and fighting the system. Drop out or suffer mentatlly."
] | 0 | [
33,
10,
5,
4,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How/what to write when you have had the longest block? Writers block/not written anything in years because you'd find an excuse and simply wouldn't do it. ",
"How/what to write when you have had the longest block? Writers block/not written anything in years because you'd find an excuse and simply wouldn't do it. "
] | [
"One of my favourite bits of advice on writing (also applicable to other talents) was advice that Alexandre Dumas gave to a young Jules Verne.\n\n\"If you want to become a writer, then you must write, write, write every day at a given time. Don't sit around and wait for inspiration; take your pen in hand and write what comes to you then and there. If you have talent, this will result in inspiration coming to you.\"",
"So, the advice I was given (and it seems to work for me) is, bad writing is better than no writing.\n\nWrite anything. Write a clichéd, hacked, re-telling of an homage.\n\nTwo things to remember, the more you write the better your writing gets\n\nYou can always go back and "
] | 0 | [
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to get glass containers unstuck from eachother I have two glass containers without lids on them stuck together, a smaller one inside the larger one. Its happened before and I've managed to get them out just by force. This time, however, nothing will get them unstuck. We've tried heating the outer piece while putting ice in the inner one, soap, oil, leaving them out in the sun... any suggestions?\n\n**",
"How to get glass containers unstuck from eachother I have two glass containers without lids on them stuck together, a smaller one inside the larger one. Its happened before and I've managed to get them out just by force. This time, however, nothing will get them unstuck. We've tried heating the outer piece while putting ice in the inner one, soap, oil, leaving them out in the sun... any suggestions?\n\n**",
"How to get glass containers unstuck from eachother I have two glass containers without lids on them stuck together, a smaller one inside the larger one. Its happened before and I've managed to get them out just by force. This time, however, nothing will get them unstuck. We've tried heating the outer piece while putting ice in the inner one, soap, oil, leaving them out in the sun... any suggestions?\n\n**",
"How to get glass containers unstuck from eachother I have two glass containers without lids on them stuck together, a smaller one inside the larger one. Its happened before and I've managed to get them out just by force. This time, however, nothing will get them unstuck. We've tried heating the outer piece while putting ice in the inner one, soap, oil, leaving them out in the sun... any suggestions?\n\n**",
"How to get glass containers unstuck from eachother I have two glass containers without lids on them stuck together, a smaller one inside the larger one. Its happened before and I've managed to get them out just by force. This time, however, nothing will get them unstuck. We've tried heating the outer piece while putting ice in the inner one, soap, oil, leaving them out in the sun... any suggestions?\n\n**"
] | [
"what kind of containers are they? I work as a bartender and when two pint glasses are wet, then stacked, then dry, they get stuck together. If you roll them on the bar it helps to dislodge them usually so maybe that could help?",
"I sense the frustration. While I don't have an answer, could you please post some pictures to satisfy my curiosity? I can't quite grasp what you mean by 'stuck'. ",
"Have you tried squirting WD-40 into the seam between the two glass pieces, and let it set for about 2 minutes? That worked for me.",
"Depending on how much they're worth / how much work you're willing to put into it, I would take some of the aforementioned methods to more extreme measures.\n\nI would spray where the two meet with some WD-40, and then get some dry ice, bash it up a little and put it into the smaller container, and then hold the larger one in a pot of boiling water.\n\n",
"YES. I need this for future reference.\n\nI had this happen with two deep, ceramic bowls. I tried every single trick I could find online - same as those listed - NOTHING WORKED. It was extra infuriating because the inner bowl would *slightly* budge but never enough to dislodge. I ended up having to throw them away, after holding onto them for months and having guests try their luck at it, too.\n\nWe try not to let it happen again (it happened as we were soaking dishes, nested in one another), but I know it's inevitable."
] | 0 | [
2,
2,
2,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to better my college experience ? Alright so I'm a Junior in college now & I don't have many friends. I have a few female friends that I knew in high school (i'm a male) & I hang with them most of the time, but to be honest it's not the same as having male friends. Parties aren't as fun because I feel like I have to watch my own back & also play like a protector role for them. So I wanna make male friends. That's kinda hard because: \n\n1. I have social anxiety. \n - makes it very difficult for me to be social out of comfort zone \n2. Im Black & I go to a PWI.\n - I don't have a problem with having white friends at all it's just that, to be honest , 7/10 we're gonna have different interest , backgrounds etc.\n - Also I don't have many black classmates that I can talk to \n3. There aren't any clubs I find interesting or for my interest \n - For example: I'm a DJ & there are no DJ clubs or anything of that nature.\n4. I'm not into the whole Frat thing. \n - I don't think I'll do well with the whole hazing thing & I also see it as paying for friends ( don't mean to offend anyone) \n\n\n\nI feel like I'm running out or even out of time. It doesn't bother me that much though, like I'm not depressed or anything but I just feel like I'll have much more fun if I had more male friends here. \n\nWhat do you guys suggest I do given the aforementioned circumstances ? ",
"How to better my college experience ? Alright so I'm a Junior in college now & I don't have many friends. I have a few female friends that I knew in high school (i'm a male) & I hang with them most of the time, but to be honest it's not the same as having male friends. Parties aren't as fun because I feel like I have to watch my own back & also play like a protector role for them. So I wanna make male friends. That's kinda hard because: \n\n1. I have social anxiety. \n - makes it very difficult for me to be social out of comfort zone \n2. Im Black & I go to a PWI.\n - I don't have a problem with having white friends at all it's just that, to be honest , 7/10 we're gonna have different interest , backgrounds etc.\n - Also I don't have many black classmates that I can talk to \n3. There aren't any clubs I find interesting or for my interest \n - For example: I'm a DJ & there are no DJ clubs or anything of that nature.\n4. I'm not into the whole Frat thing. \n - I don't think I'll do well with the whole hazing thing & I also see it as paying for friends ( don't mean to offend anyone) \n\n\n\nI feel like I'm running out or even out of time. It doesn't bother me that much though, like I'm not depressed or anything but I just feel like I'll have much more fun if I had more male friends here. \n\nWhat do you guys suggest I do given the aforementioned circumstances ? "
] | [
"If you're a junior it might be a little too late to start making friends unless you're very out there and talk to mostly everyone in your class or go out often. I would say the best time would've been freshman/sophomore year where everyone was new and more inclined to meet people, especially in the dorms. Group projects could be an easy way to meet new people. You're not quite forced into having to introduce yourself like at a party. \nIf you don't want to join a frat, have you tried joining any clubs/organizations at school? Could be a club that's involved with your major or even any extra curricular club (like my school has an e-sports club). That would be a great place to meet new people who have a common interest.",
"It makes sense to make some loose friendships just based on single interests, and things you need to get better at. \n\nIf you deliberately seek a friend who wants to talk about a certain class, a friend who can fix your computer, and a friend who wants to get into the same company, that could be super useful for baseline conversation, and you can work your way from there. \n\nOften I find that once I describe what I want and why, I suddenly start seeing the people around me who can help me get there, and how I can benefit either them or their social group. "
] | 0 | [
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Removing Sticker Glue/Adhesive I have some glass salsa jars that have a really sticky label on them. I want to remove it and put my own labels on them to store spices/sauces.\n\nDoes anyone have any efficient methods to remove the stickers as a whole, or the glue residue remaining after you peel them off?\n\nNote: I want to avoid using chemicals because I will be using these jars for food.\n\nTHANKS!",
"Removing Sticker Glue/Adhesive I have some glass salsa jars that have a really sticky label on them. I want to remove it and put my own labels on them to store spices/sauces.\n\nDoes anyone have any efficient methods to remove the stickers as a whole, or the glue residue remaining after you peel them off?\n\nNote: I want to avoid using chemicals because I will be using these jars for food.\n\nTHANKS!",
"Removing Sticker Glue/Adhesive I have some glass salsa jars that have a really sticky label on them. I want to remove it and put my own labels on them to store spices/sauces.\n\nDoes anyone have any efficient methods to remove the stickers as a whole, or the glue residue remaining after you peel them off?\n\nNote: I want to avoid using chemicals because I will be using these jars for food.\n\nTHANKS!"
] | [
"Soak it in hot water for a few hours. failing that, some sort of spirit (eg vodka) may help get the sticky stuff off. ",
"Use GooGone. Unlike solvent(chemical)-based removers like Goof Off or turpentine, it's made of all-natural ingredients that will wash right off with soap and water. It's also great for stickers on plastic stuff, as it won't ruin the plastic like solvents.\n\nI always have a quart of it under the sink.",
"I have to remove labels from wine bottles because I make my own wine. I soak them in water with a little soap for a day or three. Some come right off in the water, others need a simple peeling and some need to be scraped with a razor blade. Good luck."
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Stop excessive sweating. It's summertime in Texas and I want to get out more but I'm afraid of sweating too much and that really dampers shit. So help?",
"Stop excessive sweating. It's summertime in Texas and I want to get out more but I'm afraid of sweating too much and that really dampers shit. So help?",
"Stop excessive sweating. It's summertime in Texas and I want to get out more but I'm afraid of sweating too much and that really dampers shit. So help?",
"Stop excessive sweating. It's summertime in Texas and I want to get out more but I'm afraid of sweating too much and that really dampers shit. So help?",
"Stop excessive sweating. It's summertime in Texas and I want to get out more but I'm afraid of sweating too much and that really dampers shit. So help?",
"Stop excessive sweating. It's summertime in Texas and I want to get out more but I'm afraid of sweating too much and that really dampers shit. So help?",
"Stop excessive sweating. It's summertime in Texas and I want to get out more but I'm afraid of sweating too much and that really dampers shit. So help?"
] | [
"Maxim antiperspirant at night. Google it.\nand finish your showers with cool/cold water. That has worked for me better than Anything else. Just the last 2 mins or so in as cold as water as you can stand. Soon, you will Love it!",
"I use to suffer from excessive sweating, very heavy neck and face only. Would stress about it which would then make my face sweat worse. Went to doctors, specialists. Didn't like the sound of surgery and botox options because of cost and possible side effects.\n\nWas told about a product call \"No Sweat\" an advanced version of antiperspirant. I couldn't find that actual product on Ebay but found \"Perspi Guard\" which seemed like the same thing. Basically changed my life this little product. You use it once a week before bed, I rub it on my hairline which seems to be where I sweat from and it just seems to reduce/stop sweating in that location. Because im not sweating, im also not stressing and not making myself worse, obviously helped with my confidence as I had forgot to worry about sweating.",
"If it really is affecting you a lot, go to the doctor and ask for a prescription for Drysol. It will literally stop you from sweating.",
"Accept your sweaty nature. Change your clothing so that when you go outside you are in the thinnest materials and fewest layers. I switched to a 50/50 poly/cotton blend on all of the shirts I buy. They fit me better an they are so incredibly breathable.\n\nThe cold shower happy ending is a good trick too. I also turn my ceiling fan on full blast when I step out of the shower and I aim a standing fan right on me while I get dressed.\n\nAlso baby powder baby powder baby powder.",
"i'm in the same boat, i've used maxim, certain dri, and any other kind of anti perspirant under the sun. i settled on odaban. you can get it off amazon, one spray per pit every couple days keeps me a lot drier.",
"Shave your armpits. While it does very little to decrease sweating, it reduces odor by reducing surface area. ",
"I had the same problem, especially in the armpits.\nI read arount the internet and got a pharmacy made me a 20% AlCl solution with alcohol.\nIt irritates the skin a bit at the beginning, but gets better with time.\nNow i can wear every kind of shirt, and move freely without having the fear of showing my armpits.\nThere were some situations, were i was sure i would have sweat stains, but nothing ...\nIt feels great..."
] | 0 | [
7,
5,
3,
2,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stay awake and enjoy free time. Everyday when i come home from school or work I'm always very tired/sleepy and go to bed really early, not giving myself time to do homework or hang out with friends. Any tips ?",
"How to stay awake and enjoy free time. Everyday when i come home from school or work I'm always very tired/sleepy and go to bed really early, not giving myself time to do homework or hang out with friends. Any tips ?",
"How to stay awake and enjoy free time. Everyday when i come home from school or work I'm always very tired/sleepy and go to bed really early, not giving myself time to do homework or hang out with friends. Any tips ?",
"How to stay awake and enjoy free time. Everyday when i come home from school or work I'm always very tired/sleepy and go to bed really early, not giving myself time to do homework or hang out with friends. Any tips ?",
"How to stay awake and enjoy free time. Everyday when i come home from school or work I'm always very tired/sleepy and go to bed really early, not giving myself time to do homework or hang out with friends. Any tips ?",
"How to stay awake and enjoy free time. Everyday when i come home from school or work I'm always very tired/sleepy and go to bed really early, not giving myself time to do homework or hang out with friends. Any tips ?"
] | [
"Make sure that you aren't sleeping too much or too little. Also, it might bot be a bad idea to talk to your doctor as well.\n\nId you snore, and are always tired it could hr sleep apnea. It's nothing major, but it's always a good idea to check. You could also have a few physical issues that you might want to gey checked out at the doctor's.",
"Firstly assess your life style and ask yourself, what is making me tired? You mention school and work so I guess your 25 and under, You should have mountains of energy. If you fail to find a sound reason, consult your gp. ",
"A couple of things...\n\n- Make sure you get 7-8 hours of interrupted sleep at night. Shift your schedule around to make it a possibility\n\n- Get in the habit of sleeping in one place only. If it's your bed, use it only for that and other bed stuff ;D. Don't take a nap on the couch when you come in, because now every time you lay on the couch, your body will want to go to bed.\n\n- If you are at home, I guess take a quick 5 min cold shower, heck even 1 minute under cold water, or at the very minimum splash some cold water on your face, that should work to wake you up.\n\n- Get in the habit of trying to fall asleep and wake up every day at a certain time, to the best of your ability, that way you can get your internal clock used to a certain sleep time. Use an alarm to remind when to go to sleep and when to wake up\n\n- Lastly food will have an impact. Eat veggies fruits and lighter foods. If you eat a lot of greasy heavy foods, you're probably gonna food comma.\n\nHope this helps",
"When you get home go straight on a half our cycle or walk. It might sound silly but I cycle too and from work now and I have so much more energy!! Your body mobilises fat and sugars while exercising and that energy that is released will carry through into the evening. \n\nAlso if you are tired all the time for example when you wake up think about how you are sleeping. You may be over sleeping that can make you feel more tired but also you may have a crappy mattress. Forking out a bit for a new mattress is well worth it if that is what is stopping you get a good nights sleep. ",
"Vitamin b12 can be good, and so is food (not sugar, you'll crash). Sleep in amounts divisible evenly by 90 minutes. Find a pattern of sleeping you want to have, and struggle to establish it into routine. ",
"I started taking the train and bus to work. I've lost weight, have about two extra hours per day to do hobby stuff on my laptop when riding the bus instead of spending one and half hours driving my car myself.\n\nThe best part is that when I get home, I feel really energetic as I have to walk about three kilometers during the day. I used to be sleepy and groggy whole day, just walking a little bit helps tremendously. \n\nCheck your water intake and quit soda and beer during weekdays."
] | 0 | [
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to get water out of your ear effectively and quickly I have water in my ear and it's been there all day and it's so annoying. I keep shaking my head to the side and usually that works but sometimes, like right now, it's a bit more stubborn. Is there a way to do this without straining my neck? ",
"How to get water out of your ear effectively and quickly I have water in my ear and it's been there all day and it's so annoying. I keep shaking my head to the side and usually that works but sometimes, like right now, it's a bit more stubborn. Is there a way to do this without straining my neck? ",
"How to get water out of your ear effectively and quickly I have water in my ear and it's been there all day and it's so annoying. I keep shaking my head to the side and usually that works but sometimes, like right now, it's a bit more stubborn. Is there a way to do this without straining my neck? ",
"How to get water out of your ear effectively and quickly I have water in my ear and it's been there all day and it's so annoying. I keep shaking my head to the side and usually that works but sometimes, like right now, it's a bit more stubborn. Is there a way to do this without straining my neck? ",
"How to get water out of your ear effectively and quickly I have water in my ear and it's been there all day and it's so annoying. I keep shaking my head to the side and usually that works but sometimes, like right now, it's a bit more stubborn. Is there a way to do this without straining my neck? ",
"How to get water out of your ear effectively and quickly I have water in my ear and it's been there all day and it's so annoying. I keep shaking my head to the side and usually that works but sometimes, like right now, it's a bit more stubborn. Is there a way to do this without straining my neck? ",
"How to get water out of your ear effectively and quickly I have water in my ear and it's been there all day and it's so annoying. I keep shaking my head to the side and usually that works but sometimes, like right now, it's a bit more stubborn. Is there a way to do this without straining my neck? "
] | [
"Pour a little isopropyl in the ear, keep your head tilted, swirl it around, the dump it out. Almost all swimmer's ear remedies are just iso and glycerin, which is a moisturizer.",
"Seen on a previous LPT, tested and works pretty well. Tilt your head to the side, so that the ear is facing the ground, and swing it toward the ground. 3-4 times should do the trick, the water will get out by gravity. The movement is based on the one you do when performing a side kick ( trust me, it works). When you understand the motion your head does, you can stop doing the side kick and just moving the head, as it is more practical...",
"Used to be a very competitive swimmer. Whenever I would get pesky water stuck in my ear I would hate the whiplash feeling of shaking my head around for 15 minutes. So I just kneeled in front of my bed and would gently bounce whichever side of my head off the mattress until it lose rd up. You'll look ridiculous but it will do the trick ",
"Tilting your head and gyrating it. Sometimes jumping up and down while doing it. Not even kidding about the jumping",
"Put some alcohol in it (not too much) and shake your head to the opposite side then shake to the another and bam.",
"Push your hand as flat and firmly as you can until a vaccum feeling appears, then pull away and qtip the rest",
"I use two Q-Tips at the same time, held side-by-side. The extra cotton absorbs a lot of water and the added size keeps it from going too far down into your ear. I do it after every shower and have for years."
] | 0 | [
6,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to teach children not to lie when something has gone wrong or an accident has occurred? I'm afraid my children will grow up to be like ~~Trump~~ a politician with their abillity to lie.",
"How to teach children not to lie when something has gone wrong or an accident has occurred? I'm afraid my children will grow up to be like ~~Trump~~ a politician with their abillity to lie.",
"How to teach children not to lie when something has gone wrong or an accident has occurred? I'm afraid my children will grow up to be like ~~Trump~~ a politician with their abillity to lie.",
"How to teach children not to lie when something has gone wrong or an accident has occurred? I'm afraid my children will grow up to be like ~~Trump~~ a politician with their abillity to lie.",
"How to teach children not to lie when something has gone wrong or an accident has occurred? I'm afraid my children will grow up to be like ~~Trump~~ a politician with their abillity to lie.",
"How to teach children not to lie when something has gone wrong or an accident has occurred? I'm afraid my children will grow up to be like ~~Trump~~ a politician with their abillity to lie.",
"How to teach children not to lie when something has gone wrong or an accident has occurred? I'm afraid my children will grow up to be like ~~Trump~~ a politician with their abillity to lie.",
"How to teach children not to lie when something has gone wrong or an accident has occurred? I'm afraid my children will grow up to be like ~~Trump~~ a politician with their abillity to lie."
] | [
"Don't be a dick to them when they make a mistake, be understandable to some extent. Also being too strict makes your kids lie to you. I'm talking from personal experience because I do lie to my parents sometimes because of their overreacting and attitude",
"Tell them the importance of being open with you, that you won't get mad when they tell you something they are already feeling bad about. Also be honest yourself, and teach them the importance of the truth by giving the right example. But most important, get them to feel safe with you, nkt by forcing them, but by helping them, and opening up to them about your life, showing them the real you, they will do the same\n\nAlso, don't worry about how they might become, they have probably a lot of years left to grow, and politics is probably the last thing you should worry about\n\nStay safe, and be happy!",
"My mom use to tell me that if I told her what and how it happened then we would be able to fix it together and that If it was an accident I would no be facing backlash or would not be punished (and she kept her word)",
"Tell them the lie about George Washington chopping down a cherry tree, that will teach them to be honest.",
"Walk them what to do in a few situations where they could lie. Don't react negatively, find something be proud of when they come forward to you.",
"My mother always told me that my eyes changed color when I lied. So she knew I was lying when I would avoid eye contact, but was telling the truth when I looked her in the eye. \n\nAlso, I tried like hell to prove that wrong so I would look in the mirror and \"lie\" to see if my eyes actually changed color. When I told my mother they didn't, she simply said \"you cannot lie to yourself\". Worked for many years.",
"Lying is an escapism technique to remove or lessen punishment. Its going to REALLY hard to teach someone not to lie without lying to them.",
"I’m sure someone will reply with a more in depth perspective than me. But as far as psychology goes, you need to show them that lying is bad by giving them some sort of punishment when they’re lying. Something simple like no technology for the day. The punishment must fit the crime. Same goes for good favourable behaviour, make sure to reward them when they’re honest and do the right thing. It’s arguably more important to reward than punish because they will associate good behaviour with reward."
] | 0 | [
16,
5,
3,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"how to clean an oven without using toxic chemical products? Our oven is nasty, but we're skeeved out by the thought of using oven cleaner. We read the warnings and decided we didn't want that stuff anywhere near where our food goes. It's a fairly new electric oven if that's relevant. Also, if anyone has tips on keeping it clean I'd love to hear them! We're thinking about putting tinfoil on the bottom rack (which we rarely use) to catch any bits of food that goes rogue... thoughts, anyone? ",
"how to clean an oven without using toxic chemical products? Our oven is nasty, but we're skeeved out by the thought of using oven cleaner. We read the warnings and decided we didn't want that stuff anywhere near where our food goes. It's a fairly new electric oven if that's relevant. Also, if anyone has tips on keeping it clean I'd love to hear them! We're thinking about putting tinfoil on the bottom rack (which we rarely use) to catch any bits of food that goes rogue... thoughts, anyone? ",
"how to clean an oven without using toxic chemical products? Our oven is nasty, but we're skeeved out by the thought of using oven cleaner. We read the warnings and decided we didn't want that stuff anywhere near where our food goes. It's a fairly new electric oven if that's relevant. Also, if anyone has tips on keeping it clean I'd love to hear them! We're thinking about putting tinfoil on the bottom rack (which we rarely use) to catch any bits of food that goes rogue... thoughts, anyone? ",
"how to clean an oven without using toxic chemical products? Our oven is nasty, but we're skeeved out by the thought of using oven cleaner. We read the warnings and decided we didn't want that stuff anywhere near where our food goes. It's a fairly new electric oven if that's relevant. Also, if anyone has tips on keeping it clean I'd love to hear them! We're thinking about putting tinfoil on the bottom rack (which we rarely use) to catch any bits of food that goes rogue... thoughts, anyone? ",
"how to clean an oven without using toxic chemical products? Our oven is nasty, but we're skeeved out by the thought of using oven cleaner. We read the warnings and decided we didn't want that stuff anywhere near where our food goes. It's a fairly new electric oven if that's relevant. Also, if anyone has tips on keeping it clean I'd love to hear them! We're thinking about putting tinfoil on the bottom rack (which we rarely use) to catch any bits of food that goes rogue... thoughts, anyone? ",
"how to clean an oven without using toxic chemical products? Our oven is nasty, but we're skeeved out by the thought of using oven cleaner. We read the warnings and decided we didn't want that stuff anywhere near where our food goes. It's a fairly new electric oven if that's relevant. Also, if anyone has tips on keeping it clean I'd love to hear them! We're thinking about putting tinfoil on the bottom rack (which we rarely use) to catch any bits of food that goes rogue... thoughts, anyone? "
] | [
"If its newer it may have a clean cycle. Remove the racks and run that cycle. Takes about 4 hours and it gets hot as all get out. When it's done and cool, wipe the ashes with a damp cloth. Zero chemicals.",
"[Safe oven cleaning](http://www.housecleaningcentral.com/en/cleaning-tips/kitchen/safe-oven-cleaning.html)",
"Place a pan with about 1 cup of undiluted ammonia in the oven and close the door for a few hours. Don't turn the heat on or anything. The burnt on food should come off very easily after that.",
"If your oven has a self clean mode, use that. That shit is crazy.\nIf you're talking about the outside top of it, I've got nothing.",
"I use lemon to clean most surfaces... nature always has better ways of doing things :o) Just cut a lemon in half and scrub away....",
"Bleach is a standby cleaner. Just Dilute it with 2 part water. If your oven doesn't have a top element, you'll be losing a lot of heat by covering that bottom rack and it will take much longer to cook your meals. Also if you're worried about bleach being a toxic chemical (it is), think about a swimming pool."
] | 0 | [
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to develop \"work stamina\"? What i mean is how do i develop the stamina to not only accomplish my assigned tasks but also have enough energy to go above and beyond? ie afterwork drinking sessions with the guys, tip toeing around the one co worker who gets offended by everything, getting along and looking good for the boss, taking the time to dress immaculately, being socially graceful at work, helping a co worker despite having a mountain of tasks because you are just killing it etc",
"How to develop \"work stamina\"? What i mean is how do i develop the stamina to not only accomplish my assigned tasks but also have enough energy to go above and beyond? ie afterwork drinking sessions with the guys, tip toeing around the one co worker who gets offended by everything, getting along and looking good for the boss, taking the time to dress immaculately, being socially graceful at work, helping a co worker despite having a mountain of tasks because you are just killing it etc",
"How to develop \"work stamina\"? What i mean is how do i develop the stamina to not only accomplish my assigned tasks but also have enough energy to go above and beyond? ie afterwork drinking sessions with the guys, tip toeing around the one co worker who gets offended by everything, getting along and looking good for the boss, taking the time to dress immaculately, being socially graceful at work, helping a co worker despite having a mountain of tasks because you are just killing it etc",
"How to develop \"work stamina\"? What i mean is how do i develop the stamina to not only accomplish my assigned tasks but also have enough energy to go above and beyond? ie afterwork drinking sessions with the guys, tip toeing around the one co worker who gets offended by everything, getting along and looking good for the boss, taking the time to dress immaculately, being socially graceful at work, helping a co worker despite having a mountain of tasks because you are just killing it etc",
"How to develop \"work stamina\"? What i mean is how do i develop the stamina to not only accomplish my assigned tasks but also have enough energy to go above and beyond? ie afterwork drinking sessions with the guys, tip toeing around the one co worker who gets offended by everything, getting along and looking good for the boss, taking the time to dress immaculately, being socially graceful at work, helping a co worker despite having a mountain of tasks because you are just killing it etc"
] | [
"Get plenty of sleep!!! 6 hours is not plenty! Is my tip number one. My life changed a lot after I said just fuck it and decided to actually get those 7-8 hours a day.\n\nSecond is, try to get in the rhythm of getting things done. It might be hard at first, but once you actually get a thing done in time/early, you might say 'hey, I got this' and go onto another. Pomodoro technique is good for starting that (I start with very short pomodoros, 5 minute bursts).\n\nAnd then notice what gives you energy. Are you an introvert or an extrovert? Do social interactions empower you or drain you? Make sure you know which one you are, and adjust your behaviour accordingly. I'm an introvert, so I always try to keep social interactions to minimum. I might come off as a jerk at work, who doesn't socialise too much, but at least I'm able to keep working and still have energy for other activities.",
"Enjoy your job, and have pride in your work. There will always be pros and cons to any job, hopefully the pros outweigh the cons. Focus on the positive aspects and realize it's a good job. Be good at it, but don't go too hard or you'll get burned out. Leisure time is important. Exercise, healthy eating, and moderate amounts of beer are more effective for good physical and mental health than any medication. ",
"Sleep is definitely key to a good day at work. Also, instead of drinking coffee right in the morning, drink a few cups of water right in the morning instead, and save the cups until around 10:30-11am, and drink it slowly throughout lunch. This way it helps ease you past the post-lunch fatigue and also prevents crashes because you're not drinking it so fast. ",
"I agree that getting plenty of sleep is key but also writing a list of each objective and spending a week or two actively working on each item will help considerably. Don't feel like you need to be great or attentive to everything all at once but rather focus on one thing at a time until you feel comfortable in handling it and moving onto another aspect of your job you struggle to find the emotional energy for. ",
"I agree with /u/Schwertritter, sleep is the most important thing and to get good **sleep**, get into a good rythm (go to bed every day at the same time), be physically tired and mentally relaxed. Tying in to that would be exercising in the morning. It doesn't have to be much but get up and go (runnung, cycling, gym, whatever) will boost you for the day and tire you so you get better sleep.\n\nNow to avoid getting mentally tired (which is what I think you are asking), I'd focus on the important stuff and let the rest slip. Hang out often with the friends you really enjoy, and communicate with your other friends less. Same with your leisure: pick a few activities you really like and focus on those, leave the other stuff to the back seat. Limit screen time (TV, computer, etc...) because it slowly drains you in an unproductive way.\n\nAlso routine doesn't go well with me, and I like to change that up too (like spend a weekend in the mountains, go kayaking...) but I know some people find that tiring so this one isn't a universal tip.\n\nAlso, **eat** well, mostly vegetables, grains and fruit. Anything fatty digests slow and will slow you down and make you feel sleepy (parasympathetic system). Sugar and coffee will give you spikes of energy, but crashes after, so I'd avoid them too. Rice and vegetables (like ratatouille), or curry lentils, or whatever floats your boat and makes you happy as long as it doesn't drag you down.\n\n(sorry if some of this was more opinion than tip, but following that I am a high energy person, and even if I have a heavy job, I go out some evenings and use my days off for many activities... except today. It's quite rainy!)"
] | 0 | [
3,
2,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to better understand children's dialect when they are speaking I frequently misinterpret what children are saying and have a difficult time understanding their pronunciation of words yet parents seem to always understand what they're saying. ",
"How to better understand children's dialect when they are speaking I frequently misinterpret what children are saying and have a difficult time understanding their pronunciation of words yet parents seem to always understand what they're saying. ",
"How to better understand children's dialect when they are speaking I frequently misinterpret what children are saying and have a difficult time understanding their pronunciation of words yet parents seem to always understand what they're saying. "
] | [
"Use context and pay attention to the syllables that they do manage. Even if a word sounds like gibberish, that it starts with a \"b\" sound or ends in \"ee\" can be a hint",
"There's not a specific dialect common to toddlers. Every one develops their speech differently. It's fine if you have to ask their parents what they're saying.\n",
"It's normally understood that adults that don't spend much time with a 3 year old should be able to understand around 50% of what they say (I work in childcare). Any younger and the percentage goes down. Don't beat yourself up if you can't understand little kids. Common solutions include saying things like:\n\n\"That sounds fun\"\n\n\"What is that?\"\n\n\"What do you think?\"\n\n\"I don't know.\"\n\nall said with painful enthusiasm of course!\n\nTry and read a kids expression. Normally they're talking using alot of eyebrow or hand gestures that will indicate whether what they're saying is positive or negative. And p.s. If the kid is young, say under 4, they probably won't even know what the heck they're talking about, so don't start panicking if your response to \"my bunny is in heaven\" is \"that sounds fun.\" They're kids!"
] | 0 | [
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"What are some do's and don'ts when asking for a raise? I've gotten two raises in the past year which was awesome! I moved up to better and more challenging departments at my job, working three total. When they offered me the third they said it will come with a raise once I finished training. As you guessed it I have finished my training two months ago with no raise in sight. Just wanted to get some tips on how to approach this or am I being to greedy?\n\nFirst time poster thanks!",
"What are some do's and don'ts when asking for a raise? I've gotten two raises in the past year which was awesome! I moved up to better and more challenging departments at my job, working three total. When they offered me the third they said it will come with a raise once I finished training. As you guessed it I have finished my training two months ago with no raise in sight. Just wanted to get some tips on how to approach this or am I being to greedy?\n\nFirst time poster thanks!",
"What are some do's and don'ts when asking for a raise? I've gotten two raises in the past year which was awesome! I moved up to better and more challenging departments at my job, working three total. When they offered me the third they said it will come with a raise once I finished training. As you guessed it I have finished my training two months ago with no raise in sight. Just wanted to get some tips on how to approach this or am I being to greedy?\n\nFirst time poster thanks!"
] | [
"Don't use the words \"I feel\" or \"I think\". these words can be contradicted and used to throw out your entire argument for a pay raise. Stay objective. Stay concise. ",
"Well if they have already said they are planning on giving you one once you finish your training, then simply raise it with them. You are not asking for more money, simply a fulfilment of a prior agreement. ",
"Honestly, it's hard to fake confidence.\n\nIn my experience, the BEST thing to do is have another offer lined up that is materially better; THEN you ask for a raise.\n\nYou already have an offer on the table so you're honestly negotiating...do I stay for an **increase of $X, or do I leave for and increase of $Y?\"\n\nYou'll note, you HAVE another offer lined up and as such your confidence is off the charts.\n"
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
-1
] | safe |
|
[
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?",
"Swallowing pills I can't make myself swallow pills, so when I need to take one either I chew it (which can reduce its effectiveness), grind it up (if it's a tablet), or skip it altogether. Did anyone else have this problem but find a way around it?"
] | [
"1. Pop pill into mouth, letting it rest under tongue\n2. Pour water into mouth\n3. Tilt head *forward* and let pill float above your tongue\n4. Swallow\n5. Choke\n6. Passout\n7. ???\n8. I'm doing it wrong.",
"Inside a chunk of banana or bread. Swallow. You can also take a glob of cheese, melted, let it cool a bit, wrap pill and swallow. ",
"1. Fill your mouth with beverage.\n2. Touch your left ear to your left shoulder.\n3. Insert the pill into your mouth (without spilling beverage)\n4. Swallow\n\nYou'll look stupid, but it does work, especially with the larger pills.",
"You will need: Pills (small or cut small), a big/wide drinking straw (like one would use for a milkshake. Jack in the Box straws work well) and a drink (",
"Personally, I stick out my tongue and place the pill towards the back. Then I take a swig of water quickly as if taking a shot, and I swallow without ever really feeling the pill.",
"I've been swallowing pills daily for 10+ years. I had problems with them for a long time. Here's my process:\n\nPlace pill on tongue.\nTake large swig (slurp?) of water. Juice if the pill tastes bad.\nLet the liquid move around in your mouth and wait for the pill to touch the roof of your mouth, near the back. That's the sweet spot where you know you can swallow without problem. Hope that helps!",
"you poor thing, I used to be kinda bad but not completely inable. \n\nmy best trick is to swallow a few drinks of water, as large as i can handle easily, and imagine myself opening my throat up, and also try to use as little tongue action as possible to swallow. Then, I throw in the pills and ooooopen throat and GULP! My biggest key is to not allow my tongue to touch the pills, so it cant have that instant reaction to stop it. Honestly, when perfectly executed, you cant even feel yourself swallow the pills.\n\nAfter a handful of success swallowing pills well, it gets considerably easier. Good Luck :)\n\nOh, practice with minature marshmallows! they are tasty, fluffy, and not really harmful. Did I mention tasty?",
"Not sure if medically recommendable, but I've found I can completely open my esophagus. Pop the pill in my mouth, open that sucker up, and it just drops pretty much all the way down. Handy for when I don't have water.",
"If it's a narrow pill, get a wide straw, put the straw in a drink and drop the pill in. Then, just drink normally from the straw. It's essentially using [this](http://www.brucemedical.com/mepiswsy.html) idea",
"I practiced with gummy bears and mnms when I was little so I can take about 7 or 8 at a time. Try a thicker drink like a smoothie. Water goes down much easier than solids so that is why they separate. A thicker beverage might stick to the pill better. ",
"I had a lot of trouble swallowing pills, and then one day I woke up and just could. So to that end, I don't have any suggestions as to how to force pills down your throat.\n\nI do, however, have suggestions for how to live life as a pill non-swallower. Talk to your pharmacist and tell the pharmacist that you have issues with swallowing pills. Pharmacists are nonjudgmental and you won't be the first to admit this peculiarity. Instead, they will compound (this is the official term that you want to hear) whatever the active medicine ingredient would have been from the brand name pill into a liquid, cream, chewable, or other fun method of drug delivery that preserves its effectiveness while also being something you can handle. This is one of the reasons that pharmacists exist and they really like it when they aren't just called upon to be pill counters.\n\nOnce you've done that ... wait, and hope that your body decides to up its pill swallowing game.",
"1.) Make the inside of your mouth as small as possible.\n\n2.) Use a straw to swallow with water.\n\n3.) Profit????????????",
"put it in a food you don't normally chew, like yogurt, or peanut butter, or just wash it down with a glass of water. That avoids triggering the gag reflex. \n\n",
"i feel sorry for people who have trouble with pills, i can literally FILL my mouth with pills and swallow them all with a little swig of water. Its really quite awesome. If i need to take a bunch of medication I just throw it all in there.\n\n",
"You can ask your local pharmacist to make your pill smooth if possible. They can also add flavors. No harm in asking :] ",
"Ya, as dko said, fill your mouth with water halfway, toss the pills in and swallow all together. You wont get the taste or the feeling. \n\nSource: I have Kidney disease and take like 10 pills twice a day. I started with the above method and now i can take 2-3 at a time with no water at all. Just gather spit, toss to back of mouth and swallow. ",
"When you put the pills in your mouth toss them into the back of your throat. also remember to have them pointed in the same direction as your throat. nothing hurts more than a pill getting wedged sideways in your esophagus.",
"When I worked in a hospital, there were lots of patients with swallowing difficulties who took medication orally. We asked them to hold water in their mouths, look down so that their chins rest on their necks and push the pill to the back of their tongue. Then swallow the water.",
"When I was younger I mixed it in pudding cups and closed my eyes and forced myself not to move the pudding around before I had swallowed it. I didn't know if the pill was in the spoonful I had, so I didn't know if I was swallowing one until it was past my scumbag brain's control to stop it.\n\nI will say this though, once you get your first couple of pills down, it becomes MUCH easier. That reflex you can't control that prevents that little pill from getting swallowed, but allowing everything else you put in your mouth at the same time to get swallowed, ends.\n\nYou may try drinking with a straw, that way it kind of forces everything to go down, just keep your tongue out of the way of the pill. If you're busy focusing on that part of it, you should be able to swallow it.",
"This is what i do, had to take quite a few pills for pain after disclocating my shoulder 3 times.\n\n1) Get a glass of water and get your pill ready.\n2) Take a few sips of water.\n3) Place the pill on the back of your tongue.\n4) Drink the water again.\n\nAlso don't try to breathe through this process, you'll get the hang of it after a while and the pills just go down easy.",
"The first time I tried to swallow a pill, there were some small caramels conveniently nearby. I squashed the pills into the caramels, and it made it much easier to swallow.",
"Put the pill in your mouth, take a big sip of something, tilt head down, swallow. The pill usually floats to the back of your throat when you tilt your head down.",
"Put the pill in your mouth then take a swig of water, but don't swallow yet.Try floating the pill in the water inside your mouth and when it's no longer touching your tongue/sides of mouth, swallow the water regularly.",
"Put pill in mouth.\n\nSuck water from a water bottle with one of those \"pop-up\" caps (the kind that you can pull up to open the bottle and drink from it, then push down to seal the bottle again) and swallow.\n\nThis is how I trained myself to swallow pills; the sucking on the bottle automatically made me swallow even with the pill in my mouth.",
"My Dad has the same problem,but he has found an effective way to cope.\n\n1. Insert Pill in mouth like normal\n\n2.Put water in your mouth like normal\n\n3.(Hardest Part) Swallow. FORCE yourself to.\n\n4.If gotten past step 3 without fail it *may be* stuck in your throught... Jump with head tilted upward.\n\nHope this helps!",
"If you can swallow air to make your self burp then you just need to try swallowing with water. I could never swallow pills before I learned how but I swear it helped",
"If it floats, take a sip of water and put the pill in your mouth, turn your head down, and swallow- the pill will float to the back of your throat and make it easier to take.\n",
"I was like that until my early twenties. The way I found to get around the uncomfortable gag reflex was to be quick and to use a straw. \n\nWhen I was starting out with this technique, I would get a glass of water w/ straw, sit up straight (so my head wasn't tilted/neck wasn't bent), pop the pills quickly into my mouth, and promptly take a deep drink or more from the straw. \n\nThanks to the way the palette \"lifts\" at the back when sucking from a straw, it seemed to help \"move out of the way\" and widen the throat to swallow. \n\nHope this helps!",
"I take about 8 pills every morning. This is the best way if you're taking something like penicillin that tastes like shit even through the capsule.\n\n1) Put the pill(s) between your lips and keep them in place so that they aren't sticking out of your mouth, but aren't touching your tongue\n2) Pick up a glass of some flavored beverage (I use OJ) and use the rim of the glass to push the pills into your mouth as you're taking a sip\n3) Once your mouth is fully closed, tilt your head forward and swallow normally. done.",
"I put a piece of chocolate or food on one side of my mouth and the pill on my tongue. I carefully chew the food (making sure not to chew the pill!!) and just swallow it all at once. I went the first 23 years of my life not being able to swallow any pills and this trick does wonders for me!",
"I posted about this a couple of weeks ago.\n\nAs an adult, I just had to overcome a fear of my gag reflex and of swallowing pills. The best solution I have found is to let your cold water tap run for a couple of seconds until it gets to icy cold temperature. Fill a cup or water battle with the icy cold water, and then take a few gulps. The water is going to numb the back of your palette, which is the part of you that senses a pill and then triggers the gag reflex.\n\nThen, you basically want to pop the pill in your mouth, cover it in a layer or two of saliva, then take another two or three gupls of icy cold water and let the pill slide down your throat past your numbed gag reflex. Tilting your head back sharply at the moment you decide to swallow also aids acceptance of the pill.\n\nTrust me as someone who was a huge wuss as a kid, and who now accepts that he is a big boy and has figured out how to take oral suppositories.",
"I learned by starting with Tic-Tacs. They're a little bit smaller, and they warm you up to digesting something you've probably had before.",
"I just throw it down and don't think about it. I could probably swallow my own finger this way, it's all in the head.",
"I just threw it in my mouth and swallowed the water. Push the pill back with your tongue while it's floating and drink the water.",
"I have a huge problem swallowing pills. The trick I use now is I either jog in place or do some pushups to get warm, and then I pop the pill and drink a tall glass of lukewarm water. Pain in the butt, and not really a LPT but that's how I have to do it. ",
"Hope I'm not too late but, if the pill floats, look forward or slightly down while taking it. If the pill sinks, look slightly up. Plus they make a lot of gummy pills for every day usage, but they may not make that for the kind you need. My Omega-3 and my muli-vitamines are gummies. I love them.",
"Hide it in peanut butter.\n\nIf that doesn't work, have someone shove it in your mouth, hold your mouth closed, and rub your throat.\n\nGood boy! Have a treat!",
"First I have a sip of something. It doesn't really matter if it's soda, juice, or water. Next I'll eat a saltine or something like that, then I make sure I have enough beverage to wash the pill down with.\n\nUsed to, I never had problems swallowing pills but then I got an anxiety disorder things changed. I've found that eating something, no matter what it is, gets the muscles in my throat working right. Otherwise I have trouble with them sort of sticking in my throat. Hope that helps you.",
"Also a little late… but I always fill my mouth with a bit of water, throw the pills in and swallow. There is no ackward time for the pills sitting on your tongue then :-)",
"biggest mouthful of water possible. It forces your throat open and everything goes down without even touching you.\n\nIt's what I do.",
"When my brother had to do this with big pills when we were younger, he had trouble swallowing them with water. I got him to try chewing up a cracker in his mouth, and then putting the pill in the chewed up mulch, then swallowing. It worked for him, and it led to him eventually being able to do it comfortable with only water. \n\nI would recommend trying it with a cracker; with other solid foods your natural reflex to keep the pill from going down your esophagus may be more inhibited.",
"I was the same as you where I could not swallow pills, even with all the techniques listed here. \nNow, I can take pills easily (still using this technique).\nTake the pill and put it in your math a bit towards the middle of your tongue, just not on the tip.\nGet a glass of water and when you take a drink place the rim of the cup over the tip of your tongue, kind of like a tongue depressor, and drink.\nI don't know if I explained this well, it's basically like using the cup as a tongue depressor. Good luck.",
"For tablets, tilt your head back and swallow a large swig of water.\n\nFor capsules, tilt your head down and they will float very near your throat, making them easier to swallow."
] | 0 | [
16,
8,
8,
5,
3,
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0,
0,
0,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to keep your phone warm when you have to leave it in the car for an extended period of time during the winter. I work at a job where I'm not allowed to bring my phone into work. Considering my car hasn't been exactly reliable lately, I can't drive it without having a phone on me to call for help if needed. So, that means I need to leave it in my car for 4-6 hours at a time. I'm sure that leaving it in the cold a few times wouldn't hurt it, but doing it 5 days a week is probably not good for the phone or the battery. I've tried wrapping it in a scarf and keeping it in an empty lunch cooler in my backseat, but it was still pretty chilly when I got back to it.\n\n I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions, or any methods that have worked for them.\n\nThanks in advance! ",
"How to keep your phone warm when you have to leave it in the car for an extended period of time during the winter. I work at a job where I'm not allowed to bring my phone into work. Considering my car hasn't been exactly reliable lately, I can't drive it without having a phone on me to call for help if needed. So, that means I need to leave it in my car for 4-6 hours at a time. I'm sure that leaving it in the cold a few times wouldn't hurt it, but doing it 5 days a week is probably not good for the phone or the battery. I've tried wrapping it in a scarf and keeping it in an empty lunch cooler in my backseat, but it was still pretty chilly when I got back to it.\n\n I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions, or any methods that have worked for them.\n\nThanks in advance! ",
"How to keep your phone warm when you have to leave it in the car for an extended period of time during the winter. I work at a job where I'm not allowed to bring my phone into work. Considering my car hasn't been exactly reliable lately, I can't drive it without having a phone on me to call for help if needed. So, that means I need to leave it in my car for 4-6 hours at a time. I'm sure that leaving it in the cold a few times wouldn't hurt it, but doing it 5 days a week is probably not good for the phone or the battery. I've tried wrapping it in a scarf and keeping it in an empty lunch cooler in my backseat, but it was still pretty chilly when I got back to it.\n\n I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions, or any methods that have worked for them.\n\nThanks in advance! ",
"How to keep your phone warm when you have to leave it in the car for an extended period of time during the winter. I work at a job where I'm not allowed to bring my phone into work. Considering my car hasn't been exactly reliable lately, I can't drive it without having a phone on me to call for help if needed. So, that means I need to leave it in my car for 4-6 hours at a time. I'm sure that leaving it in the cold a few times wouldn't hurt it, but doing it 5 days a week is probably not good for the phone or the battery. I've tried wrapping it in a scarf and keeping it in an empty lunch cooler in my backseat, but it was still pretty chilly when I got back to it.\n\n I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions, or any methods that have worked for them.\n\nThanks in advance! "
] | [
"I'd say buy a cheap pre-paid to keep in your car then leave the good phone at home. The cold won't trash a cheapie phone and you won't be screwed if the car dies. ",
"Make up a heating/cooling pad (like \"blue ice\" packs) by putting glycerine based dish soap in a ziplock bag (Joy or Dawn brands are examples) Heat pack and place in a sixpack cooler with the phone.\n\nPerhaps fill a bottle with hot water (a bottle with a tight cap), that should keep it warm for 6 hours.",
"I'd go with a styrofoam cooler, and a thermos of hot water. stick the cell into a plastic baggie, just in case, and stick it in the cooler with the thermos. That should be enough to keep the temps in the cooler somewhere in the comfortable range for the phone.",
"It shouldn't be an issue if it's a bit cold, but if your worried I had a trick I did in Germany to keep my electronics warm in the field, sometimes for weeks in the snow. Wrap your phone in a piece of cloth, one that can breath like cotton. An under-shirt will do fine. Place it inside a non-plastic bag that can be closed. with a small opening. Throw in a hand warming pad, one of the instant ones that you squeeze together to make the chemical reaction. Your electronics will be snug as a bug and not freeze. Just make sure there is enough material between the warmer and the phone. Kept my stuff from freezing for weeks like this. I used to buy the hand warmers for 4-5 bucks for a six pack, not sure how much they are where you are at. Hope this helps. "
] | 0 | [
3,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable.",
"how to turn someone down who isn't getting the hint? I'm a male, and I'm interested in females. This guy I know asked me out recently, and I turned him down, saying I appreciate it but I'm into women. Well, apparently he didn't get the hint, and is trying to make deals with me, offering sexual favors. I feel bad as from what I know of him he seem to be nice, so I try to be as nice as I can when saying no, but it just isn't working. I really don't want to be an ass since I go to college with them and have all the same classes, but this is getting really uncomfortable."
] | [
"\"You're a cool guy but I'm straight. Not even bi-curious. Just straight. And I don't want to be an ass, but I have to let you know this is getting uncomfortable for me. Okay?\"",
"I can tell you from years of experience (of being a woman) that dudes who won't take no for an answer are likely to do all sorts of scary shit. Be firmer with this person: \"What you're doing is inappropriate and rude; i told you no and you need to respect that\" ...and then watch your fucking back. Let your friends know the situation, so if you don't show up for something their first thought is \"let's check up on him\" and not \"he must have overslept.\"",
"\"Hey, I'm not attracted to you. Please stop.\"\n\nIf you like you can add \"this making me so uncomfortable I'm starting to want to avoid you entirely. Cut It Out.\" ",
"Continuing to pursue you after you've told him you're not into guys isn't \"not taking the hint\", it's \"not giving a fuck about the hint\". Follow the advice people have already given you, but don't forget that some people are beyond conventional handling.",
"Hey dude, if some guy was behaving like that with your sister or your mom would you tell her to be nice and not hurt the guys feelings. Think about it. Some dude ask your mom out and when she says no he says, \"come on. I'll eat your pussy really good.\" Would you tell her to still be nice? Sorry to be so graphic but we're all adults here and this is pretty much what's happening right? Who cares if you have a lot of the same classes. Tell him to get lost and not talk to you if he doesn't know how to act. ",
"As a male you should know (some) males don't take hints.\n\nTell him in no uncertain terms \"No. Fuck off. Or I'll call the cops.\"\n\nBest really loud in front of witnesses.",
"You might want to start to ignore him. I have had one guy be so persistent on hitting on me. Being a guy I told him nicely more then once that I'm straight and if he kept on I would report him to the police for harassment. Really weird night.",
"This comment has been overwritten by an open source script to protect this user's privacy. It was created to help protect users from doxing, stalking, harassment, and profiling for the purposes of censorship. \n\n If you would also like to protect yourself, add the Chrome extension [TamperMonkey](https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/tampermonkey/dhdgffkkebhmkfjojejmpbldmpobfkfo), or the Firefox extension [GreaseMonkey](https://addons.mozilla.org/en-us/firefox/addon/greasemonkey/) and add [this open source script](https://greasyfork.org/en/scripts/10380-reddit-overwrite). \n\n Then simply click on your username on Reddit, go to the comments tab, scroll down as far as possible (hint:use [RES](http://www.redditenhancementsuite.com/)), and hit the new OVERWRITE button at the top.",
"4 ways to do this, that i can think of. 3 are immoral\n\n1. Scream rape everytime he comes up to you\n\n2. Be a homophobe, but only around him.\n\n3. Just keep saying no, he will go hopefully go away\n\n4. Repeat what he says to you, except really loud. (I.e. you want to do WHAT with me on friday)",
"Go out with him. You don't want to be that guy on campus do you?. Suck it up for one night take the D, an all the girls will want you. Do the right thing."
] | 0 | [
12,
8,
6,
4,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
-5
] | safe |
|
[
"How do I stop junk food cravings. I'm on a diet and I work at a supermarket. At the end of my shifts, I always find myself purchasing chocolate bars and candy. Its bad for my teeth, my health and my wallet. \n",
"How do I stop junk food cravings. I'm on a diet and I work at a supermarket. At the end of my shifts, I always find myself purchasing chocolate bars and candy. Its bad for my teeth, my health and my wallet. \n",
"How do I stop junk food cravings. I'm on a diet and I work at a supermarket. At the end of my shifts, I always find myself purchasing chocolate bars and candy. Its bad for my teeth, my health and my wallet. \n",
"How do I stop junk food cravings. I'm on a diet and I work at a supermarket. At the end of my shifts, I always find myself purchasing chocolate bars and candy. Its bad for my teeth, my health and my wallet. \n",
"How do I stop junk food cravings. I'm on a diet and I work at a supermarket. At the end of my shifts, I always find myself purchasing chocolate bars and candy. Its bad for my teeth, my health and my wallet. \n"
] | [
"First of all, just develop some mental strength by saying no to cravings. \nAnd you can try eating high-protein foods/snacks around 30-45 minutes before your shift ends. Protein has no bad effect on diets (generally seen) and gives the most filled feeling. Eat 2 boiled eggs and have a shake. Not hungry; less cravings to buy, easier to resist temptation. And if you do want to buy something, but something healthy. ",
"create a mental block by associating it with something you dislike. \nsee that choco bar there? \nit is going to taste like 4 day old underwear worn and then discarded by a long haul trucker. \nor if thats your thing, picture your teeth rotting out from sugar like an Arkansas prom date after 6 years of meth. \n",
"Just gotta stop altogether. The first few days will seem impossibly hard with cravings, but they will diminish. Soon you will find candy bars entirely unappetizing ",
"Do a 7-day water fast. It will help change your whole perspective on food. It's how I beat my sugar addiction, and it can help you switch to healthy eating habits:\n\nhttps://fastingforhealth.org/2016/09/22/how-a-7-day-water-fast-helped-me-beat-my-sugar-addiction-hopefully/\n\nA large part of what you crave is due to your gut bacteria. Changing your gut bacteria is the best way to fix your cravings:\n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Good-Gut-Taking-Control-Long-term-ebook/dp/B00OZ0TOV2\n\nTake the time to fix this issue NOW. It will save you THOUSANDS of dollars down the road.",
"When you see a chocolate bar consider that it may well have been harvested by child slaves under threat of violence "
] | 0 | [
3,
2,
2,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How can I better manage the shorter intervals of idle or free time (15 or 20 minutes)? I often have larger blocks or chunks of time available that I can easily allocate to important tasks like cooking for the week, car maintenance, studying, etc...\n\nBut outside of the 1 hour or 2 hour segments of time, I find that there are lots of places where I don't need a break, but only have 15 or 20 minutes of time and I'm doing nothing. Sometimes, I simply don't know what to do during that time, and other times I may have an idea about doing something but talk myself out of it by saying that I can't get any real studying done in 15 minutes, or I haven't prepared for that task, there isn't enough time to do it properly, I don't have energy for THAT particular thing, or that it's okay to skip it because it's a small thing that can be done later etc...\n\nA) How can I effectively make use of this time B) How can I mentally be ready to switch over and actually do X or Y task in that time instead of coming up with an excuse.",
"How can I better manage the shorter intervals of idle or free time (15 or 20 minutes)? I often have larger blocks or chunks of time available that I can easily allocate to important tasks like cooking for the week, car maintenance, studying, etc...\n\nBut outside of the 1 hour or 2 hour segments of time, I find that there are lots of places where I don't need a break, but only have 15 or 20 minutes of time and I'm doing nothing. Sometimes, I simply don't know what to do during that time, and other times I may have an idea about doing something but talk myself out of it by saying that I can't get any real studying done in 15 minutes, or I haven't prepared for that task, there isn't enough time to do it properly, I don't have energy for THAT particular thing, or that it's okay to skip it because it's a small thing that can be done later etc...\n\nA) How can I effectively make use of this time B) How can I mentally be ready to switch over and actually do X or Y task in that time instead of coming up with an excuse.",
"How can I better manage the shorter intervals of idle or free time (15 or 20 minutes)? I often have larger blocks or chunks of time available that I can easily allocate to important tasks like cooking for the week, car maintenance, studying, etc...\n\nBut outside of the 1 hour or 2 hour segments of time, I find that there are lots of places where I don't need a break, but only have 15 or 20 minutes of time and I'm doing nothing. Sometimes, I simply don't know what to do during that time, and other times I may have an idea about doing something but talk myself out of it by saying that I can't get any real studying done in 15 minutes, or I haven't prepared for that task, there isn't enough time to do it properly, I don't have energy for THAT particular thing, or that it's okay to skip it because it's a small thing that can be done later etc...\n\nA) How can I effectively make use of this time B) How can I mentally be ready to switch over and actually do X or Y task in that time instead of coming up with an excuse.",
"How can I better manage the shorter intervals of idle or free time (15 or 20 minutes)? I often have larger blocks or chunks of time available that I can easily allocate to important tasks like cooking for the week, car maintenance, studying, etc...\n\nBut outside of the 1 hour or 2 hour segments of time, I find that there are lots of places where I don't need a break, but only have 15 or 20 minutes of time and I'm doing nothing. Sometimes, I simply don't know what to do during that time, and other times I may have an idea about doing something but talk myself out of it by saying that I can't get any real studying done in 15 minutes, or I haven't prepared for that task, there isn't enough time to do it properly, I don't have energy for THAT particular thing, or that it's okay to skip it because it's a small thing that can be done later etc...\n\nA) How can I effectively make use of this time B) How can I mentally be ready to switch over and actually do X or Y task in that time instead of coming up with an excuse.",
"How can I better manage the shorter intervals of idle or free time (15 or 20 minutes)? I often have larger blocks or chunks of time available that I can easily allocate to important tasks like cooking for the week, car maintenance, studying, etc...\n\nBut outside of the 1 hour or 2 hour segments of time, I find that there are lots of places where I don't need a break, but only have 15 or 20 minutes of time and I'm doing nothing. Sometimes, I simply don't know what to do during that time, and other times I may have an idea about doing something but talk myself out of it by saying that I can't get any real studying done in 15 minutes, or I haven't prepared for that task, there isn't enough time to do it properly, I don't have energy for THAT particular thing, or that it's okay to skip it because it's a small thing that can be done later etc...\n\nA) How can I effectively make use of this time B) How can I mentally be ready to switch over and actually do X or Y task in that time instead of coming up with an excuse.",
"How can I better manage the shorter intervals of idle or free time (15 or 20 minutes)? I often have larger blocks or chunks of time available that I can easily allocate to important tasks like cooking for the week, car maintenance, studying, etc...\n\nBut outside of the 1 hour or 2 hour segments of time, I find that there are lots of places where I don't need a break, but only have 15 or 20 minutes of time and I'm doing nothing. Sometimes, I simply don't know what to do during that time, and other times I may have an idea about doing something but talk myself out of it by saying that I can't get any real studying done in 15 minutes, or I haven't prepared for that task, there isn't enough time to do it properly, I don't have energy for THAT particular thing, or that it's okay to skip it because it's a small thing that can be done later etc...\n\nA) How can I effectively make use of this time B) How can I mentally be ready to switch over and actually do X or Y task in that time instead of coming up with an excuse."
] | [
"You could just do nothing during that time. You don't need to be productive 100% of the time. You could take time to recharge so as to not burn out.\n\nLook out the window. Watch a bird collect stuff for its nest. Watch the breeze go through the trees. Just exist in that moment.\n\nI find it helps me be able to give my full attention to whatever i have to get done next, lowers anxiety and improves my mood.",
"Start writing a weekly “to do” reference list. Many tasks only require 5-20 minutes of time. This could be a scheduled routine, m",
"Mindfulness m",
"Something like Duolingo comes to mind, but obviously that's a waste if you aren't looking to learn a language",
"Short exercise routine, practice new dance moves, write a to-do list, dust your bookshelves, make tea... idk man sometimes you can just relax too.",
"I build an hour or so into my day to really learn, but then use those free 10-20 minutes in my day to practice. It keeps me feeling productive :)"
] | 0 | [
7,
4,
3,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to get the waist band string to come out from the other hole on sweat pants. (pic in description) Sorry if title is not clear enough, I don't know the proper name for it.\n\nhttp://imgur.com/vK13uJC",
"How to get the waist band string to come out from the other hole on sweat pants. (pic in description) Sorry if title is not clear enough, I don't know the proper name for it.\n\nhttp://imgur.com/vK13uJC",
"How to get the waist band string to come out from the other hole on sweat pants. (pic in description) Sorry if title is not clear enough, I don't know the proper name for it.\n\nhttp://imgur.com/vK13uJC",
"How to get the waist band string to come out from the other hole on sweat pants. (pic in description) Sorry if title is not clear enough, I don't know the proper name for it.\n\nhttp://imgur.com/vK13uJC"
] | [
"Take the whole thing out. Get a long stick with a hook on the end, like a [crochet neelde](http://www.p-wholesale.com/upimg/24/137a2/crochet-needle-900.jpg) and feed it through the waistband. Tie the string on the hooked end and pull back through the pants. Tie great big huge knots on the ends of the string so it doesn't pull back through.",
"Take the sting out and attach a safety pin to one end, thread that end through, it's much easier and will slide through quite easily.",
"If you have a knot in the string ends you can find it in the band and then scrunch it forward. Pinch a bit behind the knot, then bunch up as much fabric in front of it as you can with your other hand. While still pushing back on the fabric, grab the knot and pull forward. It should move it forward as much as the size of the scrunched fabric. Repeat until done.",
"I usually get a small flathead screwdriver and push down and pull out on the one stuck inside the waistband."
] | 0 | [
8,
4,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Lessening Life-threatening Allergy Reactions Does anyone have any small tips for avoiding full-on shock when encountering life-threatening allergies? I have heard a few throughout the years: drinking a liquid to keep the throat from closing, and laying down while staying very calm, amongst others. While I recognize that sometimes an epipen and hospital are the only options, I find myself stressed out a lot even while minorly encountering allergens (I am not deathly smell-allergic to shrimp, but the smell certainly causes panic attacks.) Any advice would be helpful!",
"Lessening Life-threatening Allergy Reactions Does anyone have any small tips for avoiding full-on shock when encountering life-threatening allergies? I have heard a few throughout the years: drinking a liquid to keep the throat from closing, and laying down while staying very calm, amongst others. While I recognize that sometimes an epipen and hospital are the only options, I find myself stressed out a lot even while minorly encountering allergens (I am not deathly smell-allergic to shrimp, but the smell certainly causes panic attacks.) Any advice would be helpful!",
"Lessening Life-threatening Allergy Reactions Does anyone have any small tips for avoiding full-on shock when encountering life-threatening allergies? I have heard a few throughout the years: drinking a liquid to keep the throat from closing, and laying down while staying very calm, amongst others. While I recognize that sometimes an epipen and hospital are the only options, I find myself stressed out a lot even while minorly encountering allergens (I am not deathly smell-allergic to shrimp, but the smell certainly causes panic attacks.) Any advice would be helpful!",
"Lessening Life-threatening Allergy Reactions Does anyone have any small tips for avoiding full-on shock when encountering life-threatening allergies? I have heard a few throughout the years: drinking a liquid to keep the throat from closing, and laying down while staying very calm, amongst others. While I recognize that sometimes an epipen and hospital are the only options, I find myself stressed out a lot even while minorly encountering allergens (I am not deathly smell-allergic to shrimp, but the smell certainly causes panic attacks.) Any advice would be helpful!",
"Lessening Life-threatening Allergy Reactions Does anyone have any small tips for avoiding full-on shock when encountering life-threatening allergies? I have heard a few throughout the years: drinking a liquid to keep the throat from closing, and laying down while staying very calm, amongst others. While I recognize that sometimes an epipen and hospital are the only options, I find myself stressed out a lot even while minorly encountering allergens (I am not deathly smell-allergic to shrimp, but the smell certainly causes panic attacks.) Any advice would be helpful!",
"Lessening Life-threatening Allergy Reactions Does anyone have any small tips for avoiding full-on shock when encountering life-threatening allergies? I have heard a few throughout the years: drinking a liquid to keep the throat from closing, and laying down while staying very calm, amongst others. While I recognize that sometimes an epipen and hospital are the only options, I find myself stressed out a lot even while minorly encountering allergens (I am not deathly smell-allergic to shrimp, but the smell certainly causes panic attacks.) Any advice would be helpful!",
"Lessening Life-threatening Allergy Reactions Does anyone have any small tips for avoiding full-on shock when encountering life-threatening allergies? I have heard a few throughout the years: drinking a liquid to keep the throat from closing, and laying down while staying very calm, amongst others. While I recognize that sometimes an epipen and hospital are the only options, I find myself stressed out a lot even while minorly encountering allergens (I am not deathly smell-allergic to shrimp, but the smell certainly causes panic attacks.) Any advice would be helpful!",
"Lessening Life-threatening Allergy Reactions Does anyone have any small tips for avoiding full-on shock when encountering life-threatening allergies? I have heard a few throughout the years: drinking a liquid to keep the throat from closing, and laying down while staying very calm, amongst others. While I recognize that sometimes an epipen and hospital are the only options, I find myself stressed out a lot even while minorly encountering allergens (I am not deathly smell-allergic to shrimp, but the smell certainly causes panic attacks.) Any advice would be helpful!"
] | [
"I've read that keeping Benadryl with you can slow down the allergic reaction, because it's anti-histamines, but I don't have any evidence for that. But I don't know for sure. Just carry an Epi-pen around in your bag!",
"this isnt a tip, but an interesting tidbit. the Ige antibodies are responsible for triggering allergic reactions. Same set of antibodies deal with parasites. if you have a parasite, allergic reactions are lessened. NOW DONT GO SEEKING A TAPEWORM. but they have been looking at using crushed up destroyed parasite eggs to lessen reactions",
"There's some information floating around on the web that mentions an herb called Ma Huang, but I can't pinpoint any real studies.\n\nThis may be of some use to you, though: \n[Seacost.com](http://www.seacoast.com/topic.php?health=natural+sources+of+epinephrine)",
"The only allergy-reducing tip I know is to eat locally-made honey. I'm afraid that's not quite what you're looking for, though. Sorry.",
"Note that Benadryl is a sedating antihistamine, there are other antihistamines that are non-sedative, these are preferable if you have to drive or operate heavy machinery. ",
"If you have anaphylaxis, carry an epi pen. Paramedics administer epinephrine and benadryl in emergencies. I would recommend talking to your doctor for something like this. ",
"If this is really something that concearns you, you need to talk to your doctor.\n\nLife threatening allergies would require an EpiPen to be at the ready. If you simply have panic attacks because you think you might have a reaction - I think you need to speak to someone who can teach you exactly what your limits are. In my experience understanding and knowledge helps alleviate a lot of stress and anxiety.",
"I take my test to become an EMT next month, so I have a bit of credibility(not a lot, I know). If you have a history of anaphalaxis you should already have an Epi-pen, but anything short of that just pop a couple benadryl and wait it out. At the first sign of respiratory distress call 911 and we'll come get you :)"
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Getting the most out of a salaried position. Going into my second salaried position after I went into my first one completely blind. Any tips?",
"Getting the most out of a salaried position. Going into my second salaried position after I went into my first one completely blind. Any tips?",
"Getting the most out of a salaried position. Going into my second salaried position after I went into my first one completely blind. Any tips?",
"Getting the most out of a salaried position. Going into my second salaried position after I went into my first one completely blind. Any tips?"
] | [
"If it is a job that requires you be there (like security) do not go on salary. You will end up working for days straight with no breaks or overtime pay.",
"Normally when you are hired on, HR should review all benefits with you. if they don’t , Ask what PTO you will be receiving. Ask about 401k or Stock options (if publicly traded) and if bonuses are given and how they are given (performance or production based). As about medical benefits options. If you will be driving for your job, ask about mileage reimbursement. Clarify what your companies availability expectations are from you. If they say one thing, then do another, you can always point to your hiring dialogue to reaffirm expectations. If they want you anytime, all the time, you should expect to be “on” all the time. I had a job for a medical device company and I worked 24/7 because I specialized in trauma and I controlled the human tissue. Had I known, Id had asked for additional compensation. 🤪. Also! When you fill out that w2, withhold AS MUCH as possible. Then after your first paycheck, give it to your accountant to make sure you’re withholding correctly or if you need to tweak it. It’s easier to alter this at the start than a year down the road or after you “owe”. Good Luck!",
"Whatever the salary is offered, ask for more. They never, and I mean NEVER offer you the max of what they're allowed to or approved for. How much? That depends, but ask for more. And if they say no, be prepared to walk away (if you can). I used to accept that the salary was THE amount. It isn't. The company will almost always be lowballing you... And then telling you not to discuss with coworkers. Get online, research what the position pays and just ask for it: \"I'm very interested in this position and I think I'll be a great fit for XYZ Co. I'm currently looking for [whatever] for salary, is that something you would be able to offer? [Throw in a couple points recapping why you're a great fit]\". They likely won't match what you ask, but in my experience they come back with a higher salary or other non salary benefits (extra PTO, tuition funding, etc) \n\nAt very least, don't let yourself wonder what you left on the table just because you didn't ask.",
"Have an understanding of how much time you're actually expected to put in. I'm salary and put in some long hours but the expectation is to be about 45hrs a week. If I have some extra long days or work over the weekends, which happens frequently, then I have the option to \"flex\" some of that for time off during the week, so long as it's reasonable. \n\nIf you ask how they might compensate for excessive workloads and they don't have a good answer ready, that could be a red flag."
] | 0 | [
3,
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Dealing with Bed Bugs Looking for tips to better get rid of these nasty fuckers and help with the itching bites. \nThanks!",
"Dealing with Bed Bugs Looking for tips to better get rid of these nasty fuckers and help with the itching bites. \nThanks!",
"Dealing with Bed Bugs Looking for tips to better get rid of these nasty fuckers and help with the itching bites. \nThanks!"
] | [
"Man bed bugs are the worst.... I had them a few years ago and eventually moved because my building had such a problem. If you live in an urban area they are especially difficult as they are more immune to chemical exterminants and they can hide in different apartments in your building.\n\nFirst thing, clean your room, every corner. Vacum every square inch and leave no where for them to hide. Remember they like dark spaces and cracks.\n\nSecond take every item of clothing, pillows, or fabric in the infested room in double or triple air-tight garbage bags. Leave them in there for at least 3 days so they will suffocate all the bugs. Then wash and dry everything. The heat from the dryer should kill any eggs. \n\nNext, clean your rooms even more, leaving no where for the bugs to hide, closing up all the cracks. Check the corners of your furniture, clean or dispose of your suitcases.\n\nKeep your bed away from the wall. You will want to get a bed bug mattress cover too, to suffocate any that would be in your mattress.\n\nFinally contact your local exterminator about what options they provide as well. Every region's bedbugs are different and respond to different treatments. They could give you some very helpful advice and services.\n\n I think the egg cycle is about three weeks so you will have to maintain these conditions for at least that amount of time.\n\nThe bites affect everyone differently. I only had a few but they were more like welts and very painful. I treated them just like any other insect bite with cortisol or that pink stuff.\n\nI know this sounds kind of zealous but those fuckers can be hard to get rid of.\n\nBest of luck!!!! ",
"Like everyone else says, cleaning is very important. I would like to add that you can buy bed bug pesticides pretty easily. If you go to Lowes, you can buy a huge container of pesticide that's several gallons. Take that and spray all cracks, crevices, and especially the furniture nearby your bed. Definitely wash your sheets, and if you can afford to, throw out your blankets. \n\nThe mattress covers are a huge help too. If you have a simple mattress frame supporting your bed, surround the legs with fly paper. Combined with the mattress covers, the fly papered legs basically eliminate any avenue of the bed bugs getting to your body. \n\nYou may also want to look into using Diatomaceous earth. It's a powder that you can buy that is supposedly safe for pets and the like. I think you use it to set up perimeters that bed bugs won't cross. \n\nAny who, best of luck with dealing with those little bastards. I for one have lost a lot of sleep over them, but it is possible to eradicate them, and soon you will be sleeping well again.\n",
"Intense heat is the most efficient means to kill bed bugs.\n\nhttp://www.thermapure.com/pest-services/bed-bugs/"
] | 0 | [
9,
3,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it...",
"How to cope with extremely foul odors, if you're unable to mask the smell? I was recently sentenced to 150 hours of community service, cleaning pig pens and chicken coops at large factory farms (hundreds of animals). It's been explicitly made clear to me that I'm not allowed to bring a mask, rub \"vapo-rub\" or any other such substance under my nose, or use any other technique to try to eliminate the smell. I tried to get that requirement nullified in court but to no avail.\n\nI've heard the stench is unbearable and people feel nauseous in there, which I guess is the point of the punishment. How am I supposed to deal with the smell? I'm a city girl so I don't know how I can take it..."
] | [
"The strongest chloraseptic throat spray you can find. It will often travel up the back of the throat and also deaden the olfactory senses, too. It's not foolproof, but it's the best advice I have. Good luck.",
"No judgement here.\n\nBut here's my experience. I am extremely smell sensitive. I gag (or worse) every time I clean up my dog's poop or puke. I gag when the garbage can smells. I am a wimp. \n\nI ended up becoming a nurse. In school, I worked at a psychiatric hospital where we had a patient with wet gangrene up one leg. I swear you could see the stench through the building. As yet, I have never smelled anything worse (including hog and chicken farms, which really are rank.) Most of us threw up, but it was our job to help this dude. So I washed his dreadlocks with tears streaming, pausing to throw up, then back to his hair. And got through it because it was my job. \n\nSince then, as a peds nurse, everything that can come from a body has been on or around me, many times with unique and strangely scented viruses, bacteria, fungi or yeasts. The worst were smells that were both vile and nice (pseudomonas in a trach smells like grape soda mixed with underlying wet, foully infected phlegm - I sometimes have nightmares of that smell.) That's the main reason I think masking the smell makes it worse. Shit smells awful. Perfume and shit? Still awful and also disturbing.\n\nI am still just as smell sensitive but when I am at work, I muscle through. I don't do any tricks any more. Your sense of smell acclimates to your surroundings quickly. Just keep muscling through. If you gag, just wait for it to pass. If you vomit, spit and then keep moving.\n\nI ran into trouble with the law many years ago. I had a bad cop who was very rough. I had a bad lawyer who pissed off the judge, who was having a bad day already. I got an usually harsh sentence for what I did, which meant jail food and man, jail smells really bad too (even girl jail.) And bail offices. And probation offices (and officers.) They all suck from the recieving end at least, I don't recommend them. But you can absolutely get through them.\n\nChicken farm smells are sharp and like a chemical slap in the face and they sting your eyes. And you'll get a little used to it and muscle through. Pig farms are a hot, wet, awful smell that just envelops you. And you'll get a little bit used to it and muscle through. You can do it. You really can. \n\nSorry for the novel and for your situation.\n\n",
"you get nose blind eventually. im in construction and you get use to terrible smells. i always say its the smell of money. in your case its the smell of freedom",
"If you really want to make a case about wearing a mask here's an article about airborne pathogens from pig farms in north carolina. [Good Luck](http://www.jmb.or.kr/journal/viewJournal.html?doi=10.4014/jmb.1408.08005)",
"If you can't mask the smell you have to figure out why. What are the rules, guidelines and acceptions. I know that with asthma if you were woking in an environment like that there is no way they could tell you not to wear a protective mask. \n\nChicken and pig shit is by Far the worst smelling. Its like boiling poop and blue cheese and puke and dead stuff, it's so bad.\n\nYou'll get used to it. Your body will naturally get used to the smell so do take solace in that. The system might be against you but biology has your back! \n\nCommunity service is not a bad punishment, when you consider the bigger picture. Don't be worried just keep a good attitude and get on with it.\n\nThe more you worry and dwell on it the worse it's gonna be and the longer it will last.",
"Dude. I just replied by telling you to do exactly what the court says you're not allowed to do....I somehow missed all that. I don't evenon't know why they're punishing you this way but...damn.\n\nThey seriously can't know if you put some drops of peppermint oil right under your nostrils.",
"Just don't breathe through your nose. I grew up on a farm and have had to shovel literal tons of pig shit.",
"Best news I can give you is, you will get used to the smell. It's like jumping in the pool, feels so cold at first but then you get used to it.",
"I'd contact the ACLU if I were you. In the first place, community service is not supposed to provide free labor to private businesses.\nIn the second, that's cruel and unusual punishment.",
"I saw these things that you can stick up your nose to block bad smells. There is a tiny bit that sticks out that they might notice, maybe you could paint it silver and say it's a nose ring? \n\nNever tried them, but it might be worth a try.\n\n[caption](https://imgur.com/BsbLzPo.jpg)",
"Paint shop respirator? You can get vapour removing cartridge type, not cheap though.\n\nI dislike wearing mine though, it's sweaty and harder to breathe. Personally I'd probably just get used to mouth breathing!",
"Isn't not wearing a mask unhealthy? Is that even legal???\n\n1st thing I thought is that you can breathe through your mouth to avoid the smell, but thag would be very dangerous in that enviroment.",
"I worked in “waste treatment plants” (fancy talk for shit plants) for a few years working on the HVAC systems. You eventually get used to the smell. When I started doing it I was gagging everywhere. Fast forward a few weeks and I was eating lunch while working next to the conveyor belts in the dewatering buildings.",
"How are they actually going to stop you spraying anything before you go in? Highly doubt they'd police it.",
"Suck it up City Girl. You did the crime and now you must take a deep breathe and take your punishment. Life’s hard lessons.",
"Try thinking about how you don’t want to make same choices that got you there in the first place. That should help in the future !!"
] | 0 | [
20,
11,
8,
5,
5,
5,
3,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
-1,
-5
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stop the cellphone speaker buzz? that nasty noise from the speakers near a cellphone when you get a call, it would drive anyone crazy.\n\nI heard tin foil would help, but was hoping to learn another trick.",
"How to stop the cellphone speaker buzz? that nasty noise from the speakers near a cellphone when you get a call, it would drive anyone crazy.\n\nI heard tin foil would help, but was hoping to learn another trick."
] | [
"So back in the day when I had an Iphone 3 and shitty speakers that buzz would be so damn loud that it could wake me up while my phone was with me about 20 feet away from my speakers. So it all ended when I got new speakers (a nice pair of bose speakers). The only difference between my old speakers and my new speakers was a thicker cord. \n\nSo just thinking off the top of my head of how to fix it: if you want to get sciency with it, hook up an oscilloscope to your speaker output to see how high the voltage gets and then you could probably throw a diode in there with a breakdown voltage higher than that voltage, you'll need to buy a bunch of connectors to plug into, but they're not that expensive. \n \nAlternately, grounded tin foil should probably work since the buzz is caused by electromagnetic induction (electrons moving because of radio waves). A shorter cord would improve this also.\n\nSource: sleepy physics grad student procrastinating doing work",
"Are you connecting to a GSM network (on Rogers in Canada it would be called Edge)? I don't think this is supposed to happen on 3G or LTE."
] | 0 | [
4,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Duvet Covers!!! I dread sheets day just because I will have to waste twenty minutes wrestling the damn thing into the cover... Any life-pro techniques for this one?>",
"Duvet Covers!!! I dread sheets day just because I will have to waste twenty minutes wrestling the damn thing into the cover... Any life-pro techniques for this one?>"
] | [
"Turn it inside-out over your arms, stick your hands through the little holes at the \"top\" end and grab the corners of the duvet. Pull until you've drawn the duvet inside.\n\n\nI use a similar technique to get pillowcases onto the pillows, too!",
"I use duvet snaps/clips. They make assembly easier and help keep everything aligned in use. \n1) Lay the comforter on the bed.\n2) Lay the duvet, inside out, on the comforter with tops and bottoms aligned. \n3) Attach snaps or clips at each corner. You'll have to reach inside the duvet to get the top ones fastened. \n4) Fold the loose side of the duvet over the whole thing so the comforter is now inside. \n5) Fasten the duvet and hit the sack. "
] | 0 | [
5,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n",
"How to Combat Low Self-Esteem, General \"Unworthiness\" and Feeling Pathetic? I guess it comes with depression but what are some good tips that actually help boost your own self esteem so you don't regret leaving the house in certain clothes or feel uncomfortable no matter where you are..\n\nHow do you not hate yourself for every reason on this Earth? Especially when you have little to no time to actually look after yourself except on weekends which are usually spent relaxing and cleaning the house which you haven't had time to do all week. Especially with things like exercise and working out. \n"
] | [
"EXERCISE. Exercise is a great way to build self esteem and get healthy. Eat vegetables everyday. And get lots of sleep. But the true key to self esteem is all in your head. You have to be conscious of the times when you have negative thoughts about yourself and you need to replace them with positive thoughts. For example, say you wake up one day and get a good workout in, then later in the day you have a negative thought about yourself you can replace that thought with, \"well at least I worked out this morning, and that means I'm a little better today than I was yesterday\". Set obtainable goals for yourself. ",
"Understanding the cause of why you have low self esteem is a good way to change. When you can look at your past experiences and acknowledge the issues. Talk to someone that will listen and keep talking until it becomes easier to except. Understanding that you can't change your past only learn from it. The moment is all we have and any thoughts we have that may effect our self worth is all from the past. ",
"I totally agree with the exercise. I started with like 30-40mins of exercise 3-4 times a week. It made me feel better about myself when friends started noticing.\n\nCouple other things that help me alot was instead of focusing on myself:\n\n1. I started appreciating and noticing the things my friends and family did. I thank them and complemented them through emails, txt msgs and through conversation. Being around happier people made me happier. Being around a great supportive friends helped me alot.\n\n2. I started to put myself out there to help people I didn't know. Helping other helped me to understand myself better. Getting a thank you, sharing a laugh or even a smile made me feel better about myself.\n\n3. I took down and threw away mirrors around my home bc everytime I looked at myself, I started to think negative things about myself. One negative thoughts leads to another and I usually ended up in bed for the rest of the day.\n\n4. I stopped checking facebook and instagram bc it made me feel worse about myself than being happy for others. Yes, I felt happy that my friends were posting things that made them happy, but it made me jealous that I didn't have those things. \n\n5. I started laughing more. I would try to share a laugh with a friend, co-worker, family member at least once a day.\n\nRecently one of my friends challenged me to do that 100 days of happiness challenge. I am going to start the challenge on a good note on my birthday and challenge myself to do it for a year instead of 100 days.",
"I strongly second the exercise suggestion. Exercise makes you happier from a physiological standpoint so it's chemically harder to be depressed.\n\nLearn to identify when you're in a good mood and when you're in a bad mood, now promise yourself to not think about things that bum you out when you're in a bad mood because it's unproductive. This will help greatly.",
"Even if your not going out get ready as if you are. for example if you feel down go take a shower and put some nice clothes on. even if u dont go out it might help.",
"Something that has helped me is just simply getting into the sunlight! Sunlight increases serotonin levels which in turn may make you happier. If you feel like going on Reddit or reading a book, do it outside if the weather is nice. Otherwise just sit by a window with the blinds opened. You may feel a bit better.\n\nAnother thing that has helped me out is [MoodGYM](https://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome)! I found out about it on another thread in /r/GetMotivated I think. This program really helped me change my way of thinking. Its a series of little quizes and exercises that unveil the ways \"warpy thoughts\" effect your mood. It's a *very* helpful program. Great for depression and anxiety! It helped me a lot when I was feeling uneasy about a job interview I had coming up. I would highly recommend it to anybody!\n\n\n",
"Get into fitness. Join a gym, weight train, cardio, do things you enjoy in the gym, if you don't like an exercise don't do it. Browse the internet for fitness tips and suggestions, google questions, try new things in the gym. You'll start to feel better knowing your bettering yourself, and when you break personal bests its a great feeling.",
"wake up in the morning, gaze into your OWN eyes in the mirror for a few seconds, smile, and make 1 positive comment about yourself everyday. if you can't think of anything, force it out and then just be comfortable with what you see in the mirror. because that's you, nobody can change it. ",
"how about finding courage to start something? when you have something to fight for you are hard to stop",
"go on /r/Nootropics \n\nread everything\n\ntry to learn about what does what\n\nfind others who had symptoms similar to yours and try what they did\n\n**i did this and it absolutely changed my life for the better**\n\ngood luck amigo!",
"Okay I'm one in a billion but I really would like to help you a bit. You seem to be willing to change. It will help you a lot.\n\nFirst, a little mind game. You tend to find excuses, you said it. So a little exercise : Re-read all your answers in this thread (most of them start with an excuse or a reason NOT to do something), and try to come up with a different answer, aimed at \"How can I do this ?\". Really, do it ! Even if you don't wanna do it in the end, it doesn't matter, just find a way.\nIt's an important, very important mind game to switch from \"I can't do this because...\" to \"If I go for it like this and like that, I could make it work.\" Look for solutions, not problems. So when you realize that you're finding excuses in your life, be gentle about it, but switch from \"I can't\" to \"How can I ?\". It takes some getting used to, but it definitely is a life changing thought habit. Note that this can take months to become natural, but it eventually will be one day and you won't even have to think about it. In the meantime, natural or not won't matter, the effect will still be there.\n\nSecond, lower your expectations. You aim too high, progress takes time. You should, everyday, make a list of 3 (not more please !) little objectives that would make you a little bit more proud of yourself. Like \"Do 10 pushups\" or \"Do X crunches\" (X must be low enough for you to do it EASILY). What about you make a list and post it here ?\n\nThird, attitude ! Whenever you do something that's on your list, go check a box and think to yourself \"I did it.\" It helps to see our progress. And don't give up if you fail once. You WILL fail, don't blame yourself. It's part of the learning process.\n\nYou really look like a good person. I hope I have been useful to you in some way. Have a nice day OP ! I'd love it if you kept us updated about how things are going :)",
"I'm going to underscore the 'Exercise' posts by repeating them.\n\nDo it for 3 weeks, *with* a clean diet. By that point you'll have endurance that surprises you, and you'll be able to take pride in that.\n\nNote: DONT watch the scale -- It lies. You'll be gaining muscle AND losing fat, and the numbers will be all over the place. You gauge your progress by the holes in your belt, and compliments from others. and those things feel much better than a number on a scale.",
"Every morning in the mirror tell yourself the same positive thing, that you look good or you're going to have a good day. \n\nIf you hear it enough times you'll start believing it!",
"Audio books that have helped me in a powerful way include:\n-6 pillars of self esteem\n-Awaken the Giant within\n-the obstacle is the way\n\nI also enjoy r/GetMotivated",
"take up the gym, have goals, when you accomplish those goals you'll feel better. if you're a guy read The Game - Neil Strauss. Read The Power of Now by Ekhart Tolle. sometimes we get so caught up on life and stress that we dont take time to literally look at flowers, and see how beautiful life is. also if nothing seems to help, seek counseling, they can better assist you."
] | 0 | [
31,
7,
7,
5,
4,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. ",
"How to be less awkward around girls. I'm completely different around girls than I am around guys. I do have close friends that are girls but even then I'm still really awkward around them. I don't know the problem. "
] | [
"Stop thinking about them as girls and start thinking about them as people.\n\nSeriously, I had your same problem, then I stopped caring about getting laid. I would be just the same with guys and girls. Not everyone liked it... But the ones who did, became my best friends and even actual partner. Girls, just like any other person, like confident people who are social and casual.",
"they're just people- just talk to them like people. I'm sure you have girl cousins or coworkers or whatever that you don't have trouble with, because you're not trying to hook up with them. treat girls like you're not trying to sleep with them, and you'll lose all the awkwardness. ",
"I'll share a secret that helped me come out of my shell at work. I started in The restaurant that I now manage, as a dishwasher. Over the course of a year I found myself forced into being the front of house team leader, meaning I had to not only speak to customers, but also handle employee problems. For a guy with zero people skills that was difficult, so I devised the following plan. \n\nI wore a button up shirt and fedora to work everyday. My boss okayed this of course. It was so far from my usual dress that it felt like costume. By stepping Into this costume, I took on the role of a charismatic shift leader who gilded through social problems with ease. \n\nI'm sure there is a psychological explanation but essentially it gave me permission to be this person I wanted to become. And now several years later here I am confident and well spoken. \n\nSo my advice is to find something you wouldn't normally wear, a jacket or a hat. And use that as a mask to hide behind. Give yourself the permission to be confident around women, eventually you won't need the costume. ",
"Just treat them like people. They're just people. You'll start to notice that girls hang around a guy who treats them like a human being instead of something in need of being impressed and swept off it's feet. ",
"I just treat girls like I treat guys, and that seems to work. I mean, they're not that different from us. ",
"So, in addition to the \"just think of them as people\" advice (which I agree with), if it leaves you wondering \"how do I go about that?\"\n\nFocus less on making an impression of yourself, and more on being an attentive listener and questioner. Let them learn about *you* by the way they reciprocate, if they do. You can't control what other people do, but if you go in by being giving of your attention rather than demanding of theirs, you're doing the best you can.",
"Just accept that you're awkward around girls. Trying to proactively reduce your awkwardness around them will only make things worse. Once you accept your situation and stop trying to control it, things will get better. Pinky swear.",
"Listen to them and ask them questions. I find when I'm nervous meeting new people, I'll ask them a few questions (work, life, gaming, etc), and usually people will just start talking. Once they start talking, just ask follow up questions to topics that interest them (especially if you don't know anything about the subject). It shows you're interested and willing to listen, which makes people feel more comfortable around you. \n\nAlso, when you're talking to girls, don't stare at their breasts. We know when guys are doing it and it is annoying as hell.",
"I suffer from Gaybestfriend Syndrome, which means women tell me everything to infinite detail, and show me pictures of themselves naked, but I digress...\n\nWhat women want is somebody who is confident. They don't actually want a guy who is too romantic, or too nice in a saccharine sense. They like guys who are a charming, but not overly (nauseatingly) charming. A little edgy, but not an asshole. And somebody who actually listens and genuinely seems to care what they think and say. It's a balance.\n\nOh... And have nice shoes. I don't get that shit, but women have this shallow \"nice shoes\" requirement. It means you pay attention to detail, they say. I think they are actually scoping out how much money you spend on looking good. I just call them gold diggers and we laugh and laugh, but they are still checking out your shoes, guys. I'm a great wing-man, but there is no fixing your ass if you show up in Nikes at a nice restaurant/bar. I'm not a wizard.\n\nNot confident? Fake it till you are, by pretending it's your best bud who you haven't seen in 5 years and you are interested in everything they say - but don't come off as a player - huge mistake.\n\nBuy a pair of nice shoes for going out, never ever sneakers. Not good at dressing yourself? Walk up to the hottest girl working in a fashionable store, and ask her for help looking as good as possible for a date - what would she look for?\n\nDressing well will boost your confidence, and the rest will come",
"Hang out in large groups and be around girls more. Force yourself out of your comfort zone. Don't think of them as something that needs to be impressed, girls are people, treat them like it. Don't be focused on making sure they \"like\" you or whatever. Be yourself and just be normal don't overthink it. I was home schooled and super awkward around girls. Could hardly talk to them until I was like 16 or 17. At that point I stopped feeling like I should try to impress every girl and make them like me and just took them for what they are. People. It'll take some time but you'll eventually stop getting nervous and awkward around girls.\n\n\nThat was a horribly long rant but hopefully it helped =)\n",
"You have to practice practice practice. Try to make conservation and get shot down as often as possible. Eventually if won't matter as much and will feel more natural. After a while you'll get laid and will probably turn that into a relationship. After that it gets much easier. Honestly, one's first relationship usually isn't all that great so whatever you do, don't drag it out when it stops being fun.",
"Treat girls just like any other person, but also be yourself. Girls appreciate someone who is real and genuine over someone who is overly nice and fake.",
"To be honest confidence is something that can be hard to work up. The best advice I got that worked for me was \"go to the gym and make it so you have to buy new clothes.\" \n\nNoticed the change in my body and my self confidence shot up. But that might work for some and not for others. You've got to find something that you can be proud of and use it to boost your own feeling of self worth, whether that's going to the gym, making more money, having an interesting talent, anything. Just find something your proud of. ",
"Stop caring what other people think. Be yourself and who gives a crap if the chick in question likes it or not. ",
" Not gonna find an answer at LPT. This is one you gotta go out and find out on your own, it'll be an awkward process.",
"You're asking the wrong people. Reddit is full of introverts that are either single or dated 2 girls before marrying the next.",
"This is advice a girl recently gave me. It's hard for someone who wants a girlfriend to actually follow but: stop feeling as though you need a girl in your life. Girls want guys who don't NEED them.\n\nIt sounds weird. But basically it means make your life satisfying without them, and then you will get them.",
"Ladies are just people, just be nice and confidant and everything will be fine. When I was like 14 I used to ask myself \"what would James Bond do?\" For example if you find the urge to take a dick pick and send it to a lady, first ask yourself \"Would Bond do this?\" If the answer is anything but no, you're doing it wrong. ",
"If you're a decent person (You don't make a whole lot of off-color jokes or inappropriate remarks) then you should be just fine talking to them like you would to any male.",
"Girls are just people. They do the same horrible awkward embarrassing shit that you do. Treat them like you would treat any of your male pals. ",
"For me the thing that worked was to get a job surrounded by women, so you have to talk to them. Not in a pickup kind of way, just work stuff. \nWhen I was 14 I was shy around girls. Got a job at mcdonalds and after a year there found them easy to talk to. Once you are comfortable with normal conversation then asking them out is easier.\n",
"Assuming the problem is based on hetrosexual anxienty: \nYou need to realise that girls are people, who are interested in relationships and sex. Like you, they are interested in people who are at least as attractive as they are and very hesitant to make a move. Think about this fact every day - it will help you be the same person around women as you are around men.\n\nHowever, you are probably interested in more than being able to be yourself around women. You probably have a need to feel attractive to girls, even if you're not interested in them. Many of us do. And that's your problem: confidence and happiness are the two most attractive things in men. So you need to work on both. Work on your appearance and hygiene every day. I'm not saying this because I think you're ugly, but because this is a great source of confidence. Get your women friends to help you go shopping - that will probably boost your confidence as well. \n\nMy last tip would be to pick your ambitions, work for those and be content with all other matters in your life. Being content is a great way to be happy, as is having something to strive for. Like most people, you probably need to work at both.",
"Treat them as people, don't put them on a pedestal.\n\nBasically act like you do around your guy friends. They aren't special (in a general way) so there is nothing to be afraid of. They like jokes, fun and stupid shit just as much as other guys.",
"Spend more time around close friends who are girls and try to train your mind to think of them as people. \nTry to get to a zone where they feel alright to mention if you are acting awkward and such. Try to correct using their feedback.",
"Don't treat them the same unless you want to be a friendzoned virgin for the majority of your twenties. ",
"If you masturbate, stop masturbating. If you look at porn, stop looking at porn. Visit r/NoFap. Seems like a weird answer at first but if you do a little reading you will see what I mean.",
"Stop whacking off. At one point in my life, I decided to try it for three months as a challenge. I don't know how or why it works, but I felt more positive, more energetic, more friendly, more confident and had great interaction with people. I also got regular massages and counselling at the time and was taking (salsa) dance classes so I had plenty of people contact and I was eating healthy and exercising. I would have kept going with it, but I left the country to study and left all my resources behind.",
"No, stop thinking of them as people and start thinking of them as objects. Video games are hard, but you're not intimidated by them because they're just things that exist for your pleasure. Once you have the mind set with women (which all the hot ones want, don't let these ugly fat chick's tell you otherwise) it'll just get easier."
] | 0 | [
85,
27,
11,
10,
10,
8,
6,
4,
4,
4,
3,
3,
3,
3,
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
0,
-1,
-2,
-2
] | safe |
|
[
"Getting roommates to wash dishes after they use them Couldn't find any solid answers in this sub's history so I'm hoping someone has some updated tips. Pretty straightforward. I'm the only person who washes dishes in my apartment and I'm sick of it. Verbal reminders don't seem to do anything and I'm too nice to be aggressive about it. Need some clever system or device if anyone has any",
"Getting roommates to wash dishes after they use them Couldn't find any solid answers in this sub's history so I'm hoping someone has some updated tips. Pretty straightforward. I'm the only person who washes dishes in my apartment and I'm sick of it. Verbal reminders don't seem to do anything and I'm too nice to be aggressive about it. Need some clever system or device if anyone has any",
"Getting roommates to wash dishes after they use them Couldn't find any solid answers in this sub's history so I'm hoping someone has some updated tips. Pretty straightforward. I'm the only person who washes dishes in my apartment and I'm sick of it. Verbal reminders don't seem to do anything and I'm too nice to be aggressive about it. Need some clever system or device if anyone has any",
"Getting roommates to wash dishes after they use them Couldn't find any solid answers in this sub's history so I'm hoping someone has some updated tips. Pretty straightforward. I'm the only person who washes dishes in my apartment and I'm sick of it. Verbal reminders don't seem to do anything and I'm too nice to be aggressive about it. Need some clever system or device if anyone has any"
] | [
"You have a few choices.\n\n1) Buy your own dishes and wash only them, hiding/locking yours after washing.\n\n2) leave the dirty dishes they don't wash in spots that inconvenience them.\n\n3) whenever they jokingly raz with you, retort \"Says the guy who won't wash his dishes\"\n\n4) eat only things that require no dishes. (Bag of chips, wrapped sub from the deli aisle, beef jerky)\n\n5) wash the dishes but do a bad job so they get mad but if they complain say \"Then YOU wash them.\"\n\n6) ask for $10/hr for your labor.\n\n7) annoyingly sing only whenever you do dishes and do not stop.",
"Used to keep my dishes locked away, and never wash any other. “A cat who starves is a cat who will hunt” - Redditor",
"Buy dishes in different colors for each roommate = the asshole who leaves his dishes lying around will feel peer pressured to clean them",
"Stop washing dishes.\nThen start throwing away the dirty dishes.\nThe go buy a titty pink one and you use it exclusively."
] | 0 | [
10,
5,
3,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n",
"How do I stop over thinking? My girlfriend of 3 months has told me she is going to bag pack across Australia in the summer and I keep going over and over it in my head and I don't understand why I do this because im not in love with her and we've only been with eachother for a short space of time.\n\nThis is just one of many things in my life ive over thought about, but this has made me realise I have a problem and I need to make changes in my life.\n\nHow do I stop over thinking every situation and just \"go with the flow\"?\n\n"
] | [
"One way that has helped me is to think about the scope of control. Sometimes when we over-think things, our thoughts touch on matters of control over surroundings and situations and sometimes even people (how can we keep someone we care about safe, how can we ensure that our feelings don't get hurt, etc.). \n\nIf we extend those thoughts to the extreme, we would be basically thinking about how we can control the entire world or universe. If we could have that control, would we want it? If we could make sure that one person got to work without having a fender bender, would we do it if it meant that someone else's driving would have to change such that that other person ends up getting in a fatal accident farther down the road due to the new timing of things? \n\nI know I wouldn't want to be in control of everything and remembering that helps me remember that I don't want to be (and never could be) in control of the things I'm over-thinking. All I can do is do my best job to be responsible to do all the good I can and to help others as much as I can in the present and in the future no matter what happens to any of us. ",
"Try m",
"There's no answer for that it all has to be situational. there are going to be things that you overthink that someone else might not and vice versa. \n\nthat being said, what works well for me is that I take a step back and evaluate the situation UNBIASEDLY (which is the hardest part. if it helps actually write it down, change names or places to help make it more unbiased) then look at the pieces that you can have a direct outcome on. there is no point dwelling on things that are out of your control since the only outcome is for them to bother you. \n\nin this scenario: 1. she decided she's going to go backpacking for the summer. you can't change her mind. stop thinking about it\n2. you now have a decision to make. do you want to stay with her while she's gone or break up. that is in your control. \n\ngetting wrapped up in your head tends to happen when you overwhelm yourself with too many thoughts going at once. if you only focus on the ones where you can have an effect on the outcome you'll find it much easier to manage",
"Give yourself less time. Be more busy. Get more hobbies, join more clubs, work out, go out more, etc. Find activities that consume your brain and leave less time for idle thoughts.",
"Please watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sDVAmwxa-7Q\n\nThe whole series is pure GOLD. Most people I share this with don't read more than the cover... and they are still miserable. Please give it 3 min, then watch them all. \n",
"Mindful M",
"I think this book is worth a read. http://www.amazon.com/Mental-Traps-Stupid-Things-People-ebook/dp/B001E6I3JY",
"You have to accept that whatever you think, she will choose her actions and not you. \n\nYou win nothing with thinking things that don't even exist. ",
"See a therapist for some cognitive behavior training. You can get some great tools that will help you throughout you life. It is so worth it. Middle school and college counselor are great resources or you can look for services provided by public or private organizations.\n\nGreat book [Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy](http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Good-New-Mood-Therapy/dp/0380810336/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1451443428&sr=1-1&keywords=feeling+good&refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A2656022011)\n",
"I know this will sound like a platitude, but in all honesty, you have to actually make the choice of not over thinking. \n\nTry to be aware of the triggers that might cause this to happen, and find a focus point that will help you stay in the moment and think about the things you deal with, instead of all the other things your mind wants to potentially deal with as well but can't.\n\nClose your eyes, find that point, and live in it. It will help you stay in the moment and allow you to move more adeptly between how your now affects your later, and how your past can inform your now.",
"Find a healthy outlet for the tendency.For example Golf.Its a sport with many facets most of which is mental,and going back over your game after the fact is how you improve.So instead of trying to \"fix\"yourself,harness this gift and do something with it.Just letting things go isn't always the right play.",
"She'll probably cheat on you. I'm projecting my own insecurity here because it happened to me. It's so simple as, \"oh, hell never find out, no harm no foul!\" and the deed is done.",
"first things first, i would get rid of her. youre not going to stop overthinking when you have a girlfriend walking across the sexiest part of the world."
] | 0 | [
14,
5,
4,
3,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0,
-1
] | safe |
|
[
"Getting over the anxiety of even giving a friendly touch to a girl. Have been dealing with this for quite a while now. I can talk to someone of the opposite sex, I can be myself with my guy friends, but I get filled with this sudden fear even when I'm about to give a friendly pat while laughing. This has screwed me up pretty bad, as I know how important a touch can be important to a relationship. More or less it feels more like if the person may take it in a wrong way or I may intrude their privacy.\n\nTl;dr have fear of touching someone of the opposite sex, fearing I may somehow intrude their privacy",
"Getting over the anxiety of even giving a friendly touch to a girl. Have been dealing with this for quite a while now. I can talk to someone of the opposite sex, I can be myself with my guy friends, but I get filled with this sudden fear even when I'm about to give a friendly pat while laughing. This has screwed me up pretty bad, as I know how important a touch can be important to a relationship. More or less it feels more like if the person may take it in a wrong way or I may intrude their privacy.\n\nTl;dr have fear of touching someone of the opposite sex, fearing I may somehow intrude their privacy",
"Getting over the anxiety of even giving a friendly touch to a girl. Have been dealing with this for quite a while now. I can talk to someone of the opposite sex, I can be myself with my guy friends, but I get filled with this sudden fear even when I'm about to give a friendly pat while laughing. This has screwed me up pretty bad, as I know how important a touch can be important to a relationship. More or less it feels more like if the person may take it in a wrong way or I may intrude their privacy.\n\nTl;dr have fear of touching someone of the opposite sex, fearing I may somehow intrude their privacy",
"Getting over the anxiety of even giving a friendly touch to a girl. Have been dealing with this for quite a while now. I can talk to someone of the opposite sex, I can be myself with my guy friends, but I get filled with this sudden fear even when I'm about to give a friendly pat while laughing. This has screwed me up pretty bad, as I know how important a touch can be important to a relationship. More or less it feels more like if the person may take it in a wrong way or I may intrude their privacy.\n\nTl;dr have fear of touching someone of the opposite sex, fearing I may somehow intrude their privacy"
] | [
"Good advice I heard from a comm. professor was that guys and girls perceive physical touch differently. For guys, physical touch is a way to progress a relationship/get closer. For girls, physical touch shouldn't go past the point the relationship is at already.\n\nSo I agree with people who just don't worry about it. Then if a girl wants to hold hands or sit close etc. then reciprocate that. Just don't break the level of personal bubble a girl allows you back off a bunch when they do open up.\n\nTl;dr copy what the girl does.",
"Have you been in a relationship? If so, do you have the same anxiety in your relationship? \n\nThere aren't too many occasions where you really should be touching someone of the opposite sex outside of intimate relationships. Certain levels of touching are considered normal depending on the culture you're in; different cultures have different tolerances or expectations of physical contact in normal social settings between platonic friends. \n\nIt is perfectly OK to not touch or contact friends and acquaintances if you don't want to. Some people are just naturally more inclined to make contact during conversation, and that's just their personality. I myself don't really have any desire or want for physical contact in normal social settings, so I don't. Intimate relationships are different. \n\nIf this anxiety is intruding on your intimate relationships, however, that is something you should address. Depending on where you live, there may be counselors or people willing to help you overcome this anxiety by using a willing participate to allow you to rest a hand on their shoulder and engage in conversation, practicing what is called \"immersion therapy\". \n\n",
"Thanks, it has been a learning experience after reading this. Everyone on this thread has been very helpful :) ",
"LPT: if it's just a friend, there's no need to touch. Just a hug at the end / beginning of hanging out will suffice. \n\nWhich of course raises the question: are you afraid of end-of-hangout hugs? If so, know that it's 100% expected from her end, and you'll in no way be crossing boundaries (of course, this is as long as you're at the hugging point in your relationship with her, don't go hugging strangers!)\n\nAnyway, it's a whole different story if you're trying to be more than friends, but from your post that's not what you seem to be saying.\n\nBest of luck!"
] | 0 | [
3,
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stop being childish about little things? I'm 20 and I still find myself acting childish in situations like when I am being criticized or put under the microscope. How on earth can I better myself so that I can blow it off and not feel like I need to defend myself?",
"How to stop being childish about little things? I'm 20 and I still find myself acting childish in situations like when I am being criticized or put under the microscope. How on earth can I better myself so that I can blow it off and not feel like I need to defend myself?",
"How to stop being childish about little things? I'm 20 and I still find myself acting childish in situations like when I am being criticized or put under the microscope. How on earth can I better myself so that I can blow it off and not feel like I need to defend myself?",
"How to stop being childish about little things? I'm 20 and I still find myself acting childish in situations like when I am being criticized or put under the microscope. How on earth can I better myself so that I can blow it off and not feel like I need to defend myself?",
"How to stop being childish about little things? I'm 20 and I still find myself acting childish in situations like when I am being criticized or put under the microscope. How on earth can I better myself so that I can blow it off and not feel like I need to defend myself?",
"How to stop being childish about little things? I'm 20 and I still find myself acting childish in situations like when I am being criticized or put under the microscope. How on earth can I better myself so that I can blow it off and not feel like I need to defend myself?"
] | [
"Realize that no one is perfect. If you look at criticism as an opportunity to grow, then you can use it to improve yourself.\n\n",
"In a word: perspective.\n\nTry to understand the value of criticism in helping you grow/improve. Only fools throw away potentially useful information. An honest critique is worth more than a thousand empty compliments.\n\nSeparate yourself from your results (good and bad). If you take every failure personally, you will never have the strength to invent/create something great. If you get caught up in every success, you won't maintain the drive to find new ways to improve upon it.\n\nRemember that your value doesn't come from another person's opinion of you. Even if someone genuinely hates you instead of your work, that doesn't change your self-worth.",
"The best way I've found to approach these types of situations is to acknowledge that it's ok to have feelings. They are valid and outside of your control.\n\nHow you choose to react to those feelings, however, is wholly up to you.",
"One of my tricks is to not excuse, apologize for, or defend myself right away. When I start to feel myself getting that little tantrum inside me, I just reply, \"OK.\"\n\nNo eye-rolling or sarcasm, no attitude. You'd be surprised. People just want to be acknowledged, and if they know they've been heard, they usually move on, and it buys you time to calm down. Now, later on, if it's still something you need to address, you can approach it in a more mature way.",
"It sounds like you've got the hard part dealt with: you actually recognize and own that it's an issue. To get to where you don't feel the need to defend yourself is going to take recognizing that though our worth isn't contingent upon our being or not being criticized. I'm betting some of the greats of our lives wouldn't have been great without some constructive criticism. Also, know you don't need the compliments of others to feel validated. This takes a lot of practice (for me). And, I still suck at all of it some days. It's just a daily reprieve for me...some days I'm grown up as fuck and can take even ill intended criticism; other days, I just might pack all my shit to move because my SO asked if I did something different with laundry. \nBest of luck! <3 ",
"First ask yourself honestly if the criticism is warranted. If you agree, then resolve to improve in that area. If you disagree, then you will be able to respond without anger. "
] | 0 | [
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to politely turn down job offer after interning? I had taken up an internship with a small sales company.\n\nThey have recently extended a full time position for me. I'm a bit unsure since I want to continue exploring my options since I just graduated college.\n\nThey need an answer by Friday, however it is too early for me to make a commitment and would like to weigh out my option. How can I politely decline the job offer and explain to them that I would like to explore other options.\n\nShould I email them or give them a call?",
"How to politely turn down job offer after interning? I had taken up an internship with a small sales company.\n\nThey have recently extended a full time position for me. I'm a bit unsure since I want to continue exploring my options since I just graduated college.\n\nThey need an answer by Friday, however it is too early for me to make a commitment and would like to weigh out my option. How can I politely decline the job offer and explain to them that I would like to explore other options.\n\nShould I email them or give them a call?"
] | [
"Just like that, thank them for the opportunity in person and let them know you have different interest. It's a commercial/not personal relationship",
"They’re giving you an option by saying they need an answer by Friday. They can’t force you to do anything, thank them for the opportunity of course, but just say you want to do something else. Keep them as a reference and always be on good terms, it’ll help when you apply for another job. "
] | 0 | [
6,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"My workmate sneezes without covering his mouth and it stinks! Well, this is akward: I work in an small confined room with other 4 workmates. I'm the youngest one in my company by far. We are sitting on our computers for eight hours working... anyway... There's one of my workmates (50 something years old) that has this kind of allergy that makes him sneeze many times per day. I'd be fine with it if he didn't do it the way he does: Let me explain the situation: he would turn to one side completely, and, without removing the hands from the keyboard, inhale deeply, and with all his power, moving his head from up towards the floor, make this huge sneeze sound. Sometimes it even surprises me and I jump from my chair. I'd be fine with it if it wasn't for the aftermath: After some seconds, the air starts smelling particularly bad: This kind of moist, bad breath smell: You can feel it in your face, all around you: It's disgusting.\nNow, I'm a bit paranoid with hygiene myself but... WTF?!?!?!\nI don't have the heart to tell him since otherwise, he's a good workmate and I have a good relationship with him - only work hours, nothing personal.\nI have been dealing with this issue just getting out of the room whenever he does this. I also bought a fruit smell spray and sometimes, spray two or three times: He does not get either messages.\nI really don't know what to do anymore with this issue that is driving me mad and I don't have the courage to confront him directly since I have to work with him for 40 hours a week and this would degrade the relationship absolutely.\nHow can I approach this issue without hurting him or looking like a compulsive maniac?\n\nTL,DR: My workmate is quite impolite and unhygienic and I don't know how to deal with it without hurting him.\n\nP.S.: Sorry if the text has some grammar errors, not english native :)",
"My workmate sneezes without covering his mouth and it stinks! Well, this is akward: I work in an small confined room with other 4 workmates. I'm the youngest one in my company by far. We are sitting on our computers for eight hours working... anyway... There's one of my workmates (50 something years old) that has this kind of allergy that makes him sneeze many times per day. I'd be fine with it if he didn't do it the way he does: Let me explain the situation: he would turn to one side completely, and, without removing the hands from the keyboard, inhale deeply, and with all his power, moving his head from up towards the floor, make this huge sneeze sound. Sometimes it even surprises me and I jump from my chair. I'd be fine with it if it wasn't for the aftermath: After some seconds, the air starts smelling particularly bad: This kind of moist, bad breath smell: You can feel it in your face, all around you: It's disgusting.\nNow, I'm a bit paranoid with hygiene myself but... WTF?!?!?!\nI don't have the heart to tell him since otherwise, he's a good workmate and I have a good relationship with him - only work hours, nothing personal.\nI have been dealing with this issue just getting out of the room whenever he does this. I also bought a fruit smell spray and sometimes, spray two or three times: He does not get either messages.\nI really don't know what to do anymore with this issue that is driving me mad and I don't have the courage to confront him directly since I have to work with him for 40 hours a week and this would degrade the relationship absolutely.\nHow can I approach this issue without hurting him or looking like a compulsive maniac?\n\nTL,DR: My workmate is quite impolite and unhygienic and I don't know how to deal with it without hurting him.\n\nP.S.: Sorry if the text has some grammar errors, not english native :)",
"My workmate sneezes without covering his mouth and it stinks! Well, this is akward: I work in an small confined room with other 4 workmates. I'm the youngest one in my company by far. We are sitting on our computers for eight hours working... anyway... There's one of my workmates (50 something years old) that has this kind of allergy that makes him sneeze many times per day. I'd be fine with it if he didn't do it the way he does: Let me explain the situation: he would turn to one side completely, and, without removing the hands from the keyboard, inhale deeply, and with all his power, moving his head from up towards the floor, make this huge sneeze sound. Sometimes it even surprises me and I jump from my chair. I'd be fine with it if it wasn't for the aftermath: After some seconds, the air starts smelling particularly bad: This kind of moist, bad breath smell: You can feel it in your face, all around you: It's disgusting.\nNow, I'm a bit paranoid with hygiene myself but... WTF?!?!?!\nI don't have the heart to tell him since otherwise, he's a good workmate and I have a good relationship with him - only work hours, nothing personal.\nI have been dealing with this issue just getting out of the room whenever he does this. I also bought a fruit smell spray and sometimes, spray two or three times: He does not get either messages.\nI really don't know what to do anymore with this issue that is driving me mad and I don't have the courage to confront him directly since I have to work with him for 40 hours a week and this would degrade the relationship absolutely.\nHow can I approach this issue without hurting him or looking like a compulsive maniac?\n\nTL,DR: My workmate is quite impolite and unhygienic and I don't know how to deal with it without hurting him.\n\nP.S.: Sorry if the text has some grammar errors, not english native :)",
"My workmate sneezes without covering his mouth and it stinks! Well, this is akward: I work in an small confined room with other 4 workmates. I'm the youngest one in my company by far. We are sitting on our computers for eight hours working... anyway... There's one of my workmates (50 something years old) that has this kind of allergy that makes him sneeze many times per day. I'd be fine with it if he didn't do it the way he does: Let me explain the situation: he would turn to one side completely, and, without removing the hands from the keyboard, inhale deeply, and with all his power, moving his head from up towards the floor, make this huge sneeze sound. Sometimes it even surprises me and I jump from my chair. I'd be fine with it if it wasn't for the aftermath: After some seconds, the air starts smelling particularly bad: This kind of moist, bad breath smell: You can feel it in your face, all around you: It's disgusting.\nNow, I'm a bit paranoid with hygiene myself but... WTF?!?!?!\nI don't have the heart to tell him since otherwise, he's a good workmate and I have a good relationship with him - only work hours, nothing personal.\nI have been dealing with this issue just getting out of the room whenever he does this. I also bought a fruit smell spray and sometimes, spray two or three times: He does not get either messages.\nI really don't know what to do anymore with this issue that is driving me mad and I don't have the courage to confront him directly since I have to work with him for 40 hours a week and this would degrade the relationship absolutely.\nHow can I approach this issue without hurting him or looking like a compulsive maniac?\n\nTL,DR: My workmate is quite impolite and unhygienic and I don't know how to deal with it without hurting him.\n\nP.S.: Sorry if the text has some grammar errors, not english native :)"
] | [
"You really don't have much of an option other than to talk to him. If you do, do it in private so he doesn't get shamed in front of everyone. Don't mention that it smells, just ask him if he could please cover his face when he sneezes because you are concerned about the spread of germs since sneezes have such a wide range of travel when they are not covered. Otherwise you could be passive aggressive and offer him a tissue every single time he sneezes but I'm not really one for the passive aggressive route. ",
"Obviously I can't guarantee that this can be set up, or that he'll get the hint, but you can do the ol' \"accidentally noticed\" trick...\n\n1. Wear headphones but don't listen to anything, so you can hear him sneeze but can feign not having actually heard it\n2. Next time he sneezes, check your arm with disgust as though something has landed on you, but you don't know what.\n3. \"Oh, gross, what was that?!\"\n4. Look around, making sure to make eye contact with said workmate as you do\n5. \"Did somebody sneeze?\"\n6. THE IMPORTANT PART: Laugh it off, don't mention it again.\n\nWith any luck he will be embarrassed enough about having presumably sprayed snot (ew) on you that he'll cover his nose the next time, and you won't be the bad guy because you were just making a joke that happened to be correct.",
"If you can't say it without hurting his feelings, then his feelings get hurt. If you're not polite enough to think about other people who need to be around you for hours every day then...well, fuck 'em.",
"He should probably get it checked out, it is most likely some kind of sinus infection. This could also be the reason he sneezes so much.\n\nJust casually bring it up after he sneezes and recommend that he should go see a professional."
] | 0 | [
3,
3,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"difficulty formulating thoughts into words, whether it's an essay, an email or even a text. I have a friend who is very smart. Hosts a radio show leads teams of people but he seems to have a mental block in getting words down on paper/computer. He has worked through some confidence and 'feeling stupid' issues with his therapist (written thoughts are definite and up for critique) but he is still feeling stuck. \nHe has gone back to college (hes 38, married with kids) and is near failing due to his writing block. \nDoes anyone have any tips I could share with him? ",
"difficulty formulating thoughts into words, whether it's an essay, an email or even a text. I have a friend who is very smart. Hosts a radio show leads teams of people but he seems to have a mental block in getting words down on paper/computer. He has worked through some confidence and 'feeling stupid' issues with his therapist (written thoughts are definite and up for critique) but he is still feeling stuck. \nHe has gone back to college (hes 38, married with kids) and is near failing due to his writing block. \nDoes anyone have any tips I could share with him? ",
"difficulty formulating thoughts into words, whether it's an essay, an email or even a text. I have a friend who is very smart. Hosts a radio show leads teams of people but he seems to have a mental block in getting words down on paper/computer. He has worked through some confidence and 'feeling stupid' issues with his therapist (written thoughts are definite and up for critique) but he is still feeling stuck. \nHe has gone back to college (hes 38, married with kids) and is near failing due to his writing block. \nDoes anyone have any tips I could share with him? "
] | [
"Have your friend start writing as though they were talking. If you can see yourself saying it in your head its easier to put together and write out. \n\n",
"See if his college has a learning center that helps students learn. Also, get tested for learning disabilities. It seems obvious that he is struggling with a disability. Once he has a diagnosis, he can request accommodations, which the school is required to provide under federal law. The college could be required to substitute oral presentation for written work. The accommodations will make all the difference as they will allow him to use his strengths. ",
"Do one sentence at a time. Imagine you are talking to one person. Focus on that person and tell them everything you would like for them to know.\n\nGet the first sentence, then the next sentence and so on. It is important to go with the flow when it starts flowing. You can go back and change it later. Let the flow be your friend and lean into it.\n\nWhen done, go back and rewrite whatever is needed."
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"how to be less lazy? Like the tittle says, I find my self being so lazy all the time when it comes to doing simple tasks like cleaning or driving. How can I go the extra mile?\n",
"how to be less lazy? Like the tittle says, I find my self being so lazy all the time when it comes to doing simple tasks like cleaning or driving. How can I go the extra mile?\n",
"how to be less lazy? Like the tittle says, I find my self being so lazy all the time when it comes to doing simple tasks like cleaning or driving. How can I go the extra mile?\n",
"how to be less lazy? Like the tittle says, I find my self being so lazy all the time when it comes to doing simple tasks like cleaning or driving. How can I go the extra mile?\n"
] | [
"Self discipline is remembering what you want. It all begins with why. If you can change your mental monologue from \"I have to\" to \"I want to\", everything will get easier.\nAlso, any progress is better than no progress, so if you miss your goals for a few days, just pick it right back up... Don't talk yourself out of it.",
"This has helped me. \n\n\nGet a schedule book and write down what you intend to do on what days. Whether that is dusting your house, running a certain errand, etc. Write it down at least the day before. When you complete the tasks mark it out or put a check next to it. Whatever you don't do write it down again for the following day. \n\n\nThis should give you some accountablity with yourself. Also I tend to think about all the things I am going to do the following day in the evening and writing them down helps me remember. ",
"Try out http://pca.st/DaTq\n\nAce productivity by Timothy Moser. Heavily recommended. He covers everything that can be frustrating about the step between 'think' and 'do' most excellent and helped me loads.\n\nBest, it's bite sized, so no long blocks of time required.",
"Exercise! I promise you, I know its hard if your lazy to start exercising more but you need to just get in a routine and you will be way more active in life"
] | 0 | [
7,
5,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Shrink Rubber/Silcone Phone cases back down to size. Mine's all stretched out and it's pretty obnoxious. ",
"Shrink Rubber/Silcone Phone cases back down to size. Mine's all stretched out and it's pretty obnoxious. "
] | [
"This is temporary, but I had a rubber ipod case awhile back and what I did was dip it in water, froze it for 6 hours and then left it in the fridge overnight. It stayed a little more snug for a few days, but went back to being loose. At that point I said fuck it, and tossed the case out. ",
"I doubt you're going to find a cell case made out of rubber, it degrades too quickly... and you can't shrink silicone once it's formed."
] | 0 | [
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to get certain search results off of Google when your name is searched? Things like Youtube, Pinterest, etc. They aren't bad, necessarily, but I don't know if I want these accounts associated with me. (Some of them have old content, too.)",
"How to get certain search results off of Google when your name is searched? Things like Youtube, Pinterest, etc. They aren't bad, necessarily, but I don't know if I want these accounts associated with me. (Some of them have old content, too.)",
"How to get certain search results off of Google when your name is searched? Things like Youtube, Pinterest, etc. They aren't bad, necessarily, but I don't know if I want these accounts associated with me. (Some of them have old content, too.)"
] | [
"Generally, you would have to sign in and find in the settings the part about \"privacy settings\" (if they have them) and turn everything off.\n\nOr you will just have to contact the site and have them remove it that way.",
"It's tedious but you'll pretty much have to login to those sites and delete old stuff, maybe replace it with new, good stuff. I don't really know any way around that. It's also good to have a website of your own at the top of the results. ",
"There are companies rich folks hire to spam Google with all kinds of \"false positives\" to bury what's already there. So figure out how to do that, and you've not only solved your problem, but you've got the basis for a new entrepreneurial venture!"
] | 0 | [
3,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stay focused for hours. I work as a musician in a pit orchestra for a musical. Sometimes I find it really hard to stay intensely focused on the music and I'll zone out. It feels like when you're reading and you gloss over a whole page and have no idea what you just read. Having played the same part every night for months, I never mess up or play a wrong note unless I completely zone out, but it happens a couple times a week towards the end of the shows. Anybody have any tips to stay 100% in the moment through a 2.5 hour show that I've played ~75 times?? ",
"How to stay focused for hours. I work as a musician in a pit orchestra for a musical. Sometimes I find it really hard to stay intensely focused on the music and I'll zone out. It feels like when you're reading and you gloss over a whole page and have no idea what you just read. Having played the same part every night for months, I never mess up or play a wrong note unless I completely zone out, but it happens a couple times a week towards the end of the shows. Anybody have any tips to stay 100% in the moment through a 2.5 hour show that I've played ~75 times?? "
] | [
"Do you notice a difference (in thoughts, feelings, body etc.) shortly before you 'zone out'? If yes, find fast-act strategies to stay focused. \n\nM",
"I feel ya on that reading thing. When you're reading and you start thinking of something else and you just glossed over 3 pages and you have to go back and re-read it. Worst nightmare. \n\nI completely agree with /u/dogexists about the m"
] | 0 | [
3,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"What are ways to ask someone on a date without them confusing it to be just \"hanging out.\"? Assuming you have known this person for a bit and they know you too. (ex. Friends in a group)",
"What are ways to ask someone on a date without them confusing it to be just \"hanging out.\"? Assuming you have known this person for a bit and they know you too. (ex. Friends in a group)",
"What are ways to ask someone on a date without them confusing it to be just \"hanging out.\"? Assuming you have known this person for a bit and they know you too. (ex. Friends in a group)",
"What are ways to ask someone on a date without them confusing it to be just \"hanging out.\"? Assuming you have known this person for a bit and they know you too. (ex. Friends in a group)",
"What are ways to ask someone on a date without them confusing it to be just \"hanging out.\"? Assuming you have known this person for a bit and they know you too. (ex. Friends in a group)"
] | [
"use the word 'date'. ask if they'd like to go on a date. if you can't be blunt and honest then maybe that person isn't the one to ask out. ",
"Instead of saying something like \"Do you want to get dinner on X day\" say something like \"Can I take you to dinner on X day\"\n\nTaking ownership of the event (this includes financially--if you're asking someone on a date, be prepared to pay for it) is a pretty firm way to show someone that it's a date and not two friends hanging out. ",
"I found for me, life got a lot easier when I was upfront and said 'how would you feel about going out on a date sometime this week?' or something like that. \n\nMake it clear of your intentions and also, be specific with times. I find that not only with situations like this, but any time you ask someone to do something, if you're ambiguous about when it will happen, 70% of the time, it won't happen. \n\nSo to follow up, if s/he's like 'yeah, let's do it!' then be like, 'oh ok, how does X-day sound to you?' or, 'I work x, x, and x, how about you?'\n\nI'm not saying that if they don't follow up, they aren't interested, but people are always forgetful about little things that consciously we don't realize are important as well. Good luck! \n\nMy current girlfriend and I dated three years ago, and now we've been together for 2 years. Before we started dating, we hung out a bunch and finally one day, I was like 'hey, I got paid lots this week cause of how much I worked, let's go for dinner, I'll pay?' And she was like 'yeah i'd love to, etc.' The 'I'll pay' is a total giveaway too. ",
"\"LET'S TAKE IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL!!!1!!!!¡!!\"\n\nIf that's not your style, I suggest just \"hang\" with this person and see what it turns into. Enjoy it for what it is and you will find your answer. ",
"\"Hey do you want to get a drink some time? Or maybe go out for coffee?\"\n\nThat is clear enough that there isn't any confusion about whether or not you are asking them out on a date.\n\nIf you are worried about rejection or awkwardness you can always say:\n\n\"Hey, if you're not busy this Sunday afternoon I was wondering if you wanted to go out for coffee?\"\n\nor, something a bit more forward:\n\n\"Hey, my friend was telling me about this cool new bar in town <BAR NAME> have you heard of it?\" \"I was thinking if you're not busy next friday, we could check it out?\"\n\nThis gives the person the option to let you down softly by saying they are busy - and if they are genuinely busy and really want to go on a date, they will suggest another day they are free. You can even put the ball in their court and say, \"Ah bummer, well if you happen to have any free time in the coming week and felt like getting a coffee, let me know!\"\n\nAvoid asking to hang out. That's less likely to be rejected, and it is less likely to be awkward, but it is more likely for them to not see it as a date. A part of dating is putting yourself out there.\n\n...That or just go on tinder."
] | 0 | [
11,
3,
3,
1,
-1
] | safe |
|
[
"I found a website suggesting you put car wax on your stove top to help clean up spills later. Has anyone tried this? Did you find it useful? ",
"I found a website suggesting you put car wax on your stove top to help clean up spills later. Has anyone tried this? Did you find it useful? ",
"I found a website suggesting you put car wax on your stove top to help clean up spills later. Has anyone tried this? Did you find it useful? ",
"I found a website suggesting you put car wax on your stove top to help clean up spills later. Has anyone tried this? Did you find it useful? ",
"I found a website suggesting you put car wax on your stove top to help clean up spills later. Has anyone tried this? Did you find it useful? ",
"I found a website suggesting you put car wax on your stove top to help clean up spills later. Has anyone tried this? Did you find it useful? "
] | [
"It's not advisable, ... at least.. I wouldn't advise it. Heated car wax *reeks* to high heaven. \n\nI assume it'd work, but I wouldn't be caught dead putting car wax anywhere near anything eatable. ",
"Or, you could use a [kitchen wax](http://www.amazon.com/Old-Fashioned-Kitchen-Wax-Cleaner-16/dp/B005WW1JF6) that doesn't smell. And the wax really does make it easier to clean up messes. ",
"What happens if you accidentally place your kettle into the waxed surface, wouldn't the wax melt and turn toxic?",
"If you put washing up liquid on the outside of pots and pans then washing of burns and stains after is a lot easier",
"I once polished and then sealed my kitchen counters with Autoglym SRP and EGP. Made them easier to clean for a long time but wasn't really worth the effort so I did not do it again.",
"I have always found success with 'Greased Lighting Cleaner'. Car wax is annoying to apply to cars, its intended purpose, so I can imagine how annoyed I would be applying it to a stove that does not have a powerful light source shining on it allowing for me to tell if I am applying an even coat."
] | 0 | [
12,
3,
1,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?",
"How to stop being Tired in the morning I dont know what it is but I just always seem to be exhausted in the mornings. I think I have all the bases covered, I'm getting enough sleep (7 Hours), I eat healthy, I get some exercise (gym 4-3 times a week), and I drink water before I go to sleep and when I wake up. But still, it takes me forever to get out of bed in the mornings. I usually set my alarm for 7.15 and often don't drag myself out of bed until 8 or even later, I'm sometimes late for work. Usually once I'm up and about I'm ok, but for the first while I have this tiredness that almost feels like a headache.\n\nDoes anyone have the same and what can I do about it?"
] | [
"You can get apps for your phone that track your sleep cycle and set off your alarm at the most optimal time to wake you up. \nYou can also get alarm clocks that force you to get up to shut them off. My brother had one that would shoot off a propellor and he would have to find it and put it back in the clock to shut it off. \nTry and get lots of natural light in your bedroom too. That will get your brain ready to wake up and go to sleep at normal times.",
"I work pretty early in the mornings, and have no for 5 years. It wasn't even my choice, but now I'm a morning person. I don't want to be, but I am. \n\nThe number one thing you can do for yourself to correct your mornings is to get up. When your alarm goes off, you get up and stay up. **NO SNOOZES.**\n\nDo not set your alarm early enough to give yourself time to sleep more. Set it for when you need to get up, and then you have no choice but to get up. \n\nGet an alarm that doesn't even have a snooze option. If you don't have the option, you don't use it. \n\nOnce you get in a pattern of waking up when you need to wake up every day, you adjust. Hell, despite my best efforts, I can't even sleep in on the weekends anymore. ",
"Sometimes your body doesn't sleep correctly, not enough to wake you up, but enough to not get the sleep you need. \n\nMy suggestion: talk to your doctor about a sleep study, have it done, and then talk again to the doctor about the results. \nI know. I have sleep apnea and am currently getting a device to help me sleep at night.",
"Get a blood test. You might be lacking key nutrients. And make sure you get 4-5 sleep cycles each night. Each cycle lasts 90 mins, so it is easier to wake up after 6 hours, 7.5 hours and 9 hours of sleep than it is to wake up after 8 hours or 7 hours. Try www.sleepyti.me for this. And, dont eat a heavy carb-filled meal in the evening. I swear that saps my energy like nothing else. ",
"you should get up immediately after you wake up; also, do you sleep entire 7 h or with wakes up? and what about your eating habbits? Have they changed recently?\n",
"it doesn't work for everybody but it works for me. Carbo load. eat a bunch of carbohydrates before bed the night before. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carbohydrate_loading\nobviously not to the extreme but the same principle helps with me. maybe might possibly work for you. It used to take me 45 mins to drag my ass out of bed and then a mad rush to get to work. now if I have a couple slices of toast and peanut butter before bed, I'm good in the morning ",
"Try the neti pot if you are snoring or at all stuffed up. It has made a huge difference with my breathing and sleeping.\n",
"Sleep with your blinds/curtains/drapes open. When i sleep with them open it's so much easier to wake up in a bright room. When i wake up in a pitch black/dark room it's so much harder to get my shit together. ",
"Drink more water... This should help you feel more refreshed in the morning and sleep better. Have more throughout the day and a big pint of the good stuff before bed...",
"Don't smoke weed after 9 pm. Make you and your babe some dinner around 7, clean up, then smoke around 8, do some work on your hobbies, sleep, work and repeat. ;) life is good"
] | 0 | [
7,
4,
3,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?",
"How to make sure your alarm will go off, and how to not sleep through it. Every once in awhile, I sleep through my alarm or it won't even go off. How can I prevent this before it happens on a day of a big event (exam, class, etc)?"
] | [
"I have a clock radio that allows me to adjust the volume of the alarm. I used to have trouble getting up so I would turn it to it's loudest volume, set it to alarm, and move it away from the bed so that I had to actually move to get to it. Eventually I got better. I still set multiple alarms, one on phone and one on clock, but I get up when needed. \n\n\n**TLDR**- multiple alarms, out of reach, with variable volume control will help.\n\n",
"I do multiple alarms; make sure to stagger then vs have them start at the same time. That way even if you're tempted to hit the snooze button on one, you'll know that there's another alarm coming in a few minutes.\n\nSomething else I discovered is that waking up to a shrill buzz or repetitive ringtone was so unpleasant that it made me even more desperate to crawl back into bed. Setting my alarm to NPR though made a difference - my first instinct isn't to tune it out but to listen and process what I'm hearing, which helps me wake up mentally. ",
"Anyone have try [this][1]? It says that to delegate all this get-up stuff to subconscious mind.\n\n [1]: http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/04/how-to-get-up-right-away-when-your-alarm-goes-off/",
"If you have a smart phone, certain apps wake you up in your lightest sleep cycle, therefore you easily wake up AND you wake up feeling refreshed. ",
"Best tip is to put it way out of reach. My shrill, demon-powered alarm clock is in my bathroom, so when it begins its unholy keening, I rush to it and just sort of fall into the shower as afterthought. Hasn't failed once in many many moons.",
"http://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=moving+alarm+clock&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&um=1&ie=UTF-8&tbm=shop&cid=13238187593915661610&sa=X&ei=YUDST6G-B4rO2AWhy8SzDw&ved=0CLcBEPMCMAE",
"This is easy.\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Sonic-SBB500ss-Vibrating-Alarm-Clock/dp/B000OOWZUK/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1339173978&sr=8-1\nI had the same problem. I've never slept through it.",
"If you use a smartphone as your alarm, stick it in an empty glass, it amplifies the sound a lot. (if this is a volume issue).",
"I use my phone alarm, which allows me to set a repeating alarm so I don't have to remember to set it every day. My boyfriend has several alarms that he sets on his phone to go off at all about the same time (6:55, 6:57, 7:00) so that he can't accidently disable it. If you are worried about a big event thing, then set more than one alarm using more than one device (phone, plus regular alarm clock).\n\nI can't personally say too much about the sleeping through the alarm thing, since I can wake up to just my phone vibrating across the room, but I know I've heard some people put their phone, speaker side up, inside of a large cup which amplifies the sound I guess.",
"I saw somr apps requiring you to solve some arithmetic problems to turn off the alarm. Not for me, really, but it can work for those who really have a hard time.",
"I have an alarm in [OnlineVideoClock](http://www.onlinevideoclock.com/) set 2 minutes before my phone alarm. I usually switch around the song every night and put it in an acceptable volume. I then lock my screen so every morning I have to get up, go to the computer, type my password and turn off the alarm. Very effective. ",
"I have an alarm clock that when set off, it starts silent then gradually the beeps get louder. I eventually woke up to just the sound of the speakers clicking on(very quiet) and wake up easily every morning",
"Drink a glass or two of water the night before. In the morning, you will wake up and jump out of bed with the urge to pee. ",
"Change the alarm sound from radio to beep or vice versa. A new sound will be more difficult for your subconcious to dismiss. ",
"Use [AlarmDroid](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.splunchy.android.alarmclock&feature=nav_result#?t=W251bGwsMSwxLDMsImNvbS5zcGx1bmNoeS5hbmRyb2lkLmFsYXJtY2xvY2siXQ..). You can set it to where you have to solve a simple math problem before you disable the alarm."
] | 0 | [
9,
8,
5,
3,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How not to go out of breath when public speaking? For some reason, I always lose my breath when I try to speak for a crowd. At points when I practice talking, I will realize I need to exhale and I will end up letting out a huge breath as though I were holding it(?). I'm not consciously doing it and trying to maintain consciousness of it while also focusing on my speech is a huge challenge. Does anyone have any tips to combat this? ",
"How not to go out of breath when public speaking? For some reason, I always lose my breath when I try to speak for a crowd. At points when I practice talking, I will realize I need to exhale and I will end up letting out a huge breath as though I were holding it(?). I'm not consciously doing it and trying to maintain consciousness of it while also focusing on my speech is a huge challenge. Does anyone have any tips to combat this? ",
"How not to go out of breath when public speaking? For some reason, I always lose my breath when I try to speak for a crowd. At points when I practice talking, I will realize I need to exhale and I will end up letting out a huge breath as though I were holding it(?). I'm not consciously doing it and trying to maintain consciousness of it while also focusing on my speech is a huge challenge. Does anyone have any tips to combat this? ",
"How not to go out of breath when public speaking? For some reason, I always lose my breath when I try to speak for a crowd. At points when I practice talking, I will realize I need to exhale and I will end up letting out a huge breath as though I were holding it(?). I'm not consciously doing it and trying to maintain consciousness of it while also focusing on my speech is a huge challenge. Does anyone have any tips to combat this? ",
"How not to go out of breath when public speaking? For some reason, I always lose my breath when I try to speak for a crowd. At points when I practice talking, I will realize I need to exhale and I will end up letting out a huge breath as though I were holding it(?). I'm not consciously doing it and trying to maintain consciousness of it while also focusing on my speech is a huge challenge. Does anyone have any tips to combat this? ",
"How not to go out of breath when public speaking? For some reason, I always lose my breath when I try to speak for a crowd. At points when I practice talking, I will realize I need to exhale and I will end up letting out a huge breath as though I were holding it(?). I'm not consciously doing it and trying to maintain consciousness of it while also focusing on my speech is a huge challenge. Does anyone have any tips to combat this? ",
"How not to go out of breath when public speaking? For some reason, I always lose my breath when I try to speak for a crowd. At points when I practice talking, I will realize I need to exhale and I will end up letting out a huge breath as though I were holding it(?). I'm not consciously doing it and trying to maintain consciousness of it while also focusing on my speech is a huge challenge. Does anyone have any tips to combat this? "
] | [
"Take your time with effective pausing and also have a glass/bottle of water to sip on while you take a good breath too. Consider doing the 'Any questions so far?' thing too now and then",
"Pauses are effective to pace breathing,.\nThey also help drive home points that are central to the conversation.",
"You are likely neither breathing nor speaking correctly. You should be breathing and speaking with the diaphragm. It's a skill. It'd probably be best to search Youtube for public speaking tutorials, breathing tutorials, and projecting tutorials.",
"When you practice, time the amount of time it takes to get through a sentence, starting it when you stop and stopping it when you start to feel winded. Next chop the sentence up that makes you loose your breath into two parts. Play with the cadence of your speech and where the pause should be, but if you break a speech down like this you'll start to develop a better flow that's easier to focus on and will sound better. ",
"When reading or writing, a comma = a breath. Not only does this remind you when to use a comma, but it also tells the reader when they need to pause and take a breath... Now, insert commas while you are speaking. It's easy, because they are a part of the English language. \n\nAnytime you pause during a speech, it's a great time to make eye contact with everyone. Practice; pause, breath, eye contact.",
"Try recording yourself when you speak. Do you see yourself saying run on sentences? Whenever I have this problem, it usually stems from me not pausing in between sentences, preventing me from taking a breath. If this is an issue for you, try saying the words \"and\", \"or\", \"so\", etc. less often in between sentences!",
"Try breathing through your diaphragm instead of your chest. It's helped me take shorter pauses when I talk than taking those long deep breaths from expanding my chest "
] | 0 | [
4,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Stretches for lower back pain. Hi there! I was trying out a new bench yesterday and it didn't really fit me properly. I tried to do some incline abs on it and I immediately felt a sharp pain in my lower back. I have no other symptoms except for dull pain and tightness in my lower back and I'm young and fairly healthy.\n\nI'm currently in Physiotherapy, but it isn't free and I'd rather not spend money on this if I don't need to and it's not serious.\n\nIs there any lower back stretches in your experience that helps with tweaked lower backs? Thank you.",
"Stretches for lower back pain. Hi there! I was trying out a new bench yesterday and it didn't really fit me properly. I tried to do some incline abs on it and I immediately felt a sharp pain in my lower back. I have no other symptoms except for dull pain and tightness in my lower back and I'm young and fairly healthy.\n\nI'm currently in Physiotherapy, but it isn't free and I'd rather not spend money on this if I don't need to and it's not serious.\n\nIs there any lower back stretches in your experience that helps with tweaked lower backs? Thank you.",
"Stretches for lower back pain. Hi there! I was trying out a new bench yesterday and it didn't really fit me properly. I tried to do some incline abs on it and I immediately felt a sharp pain in my lower back. I have no other symptoms except for dull pain and tightness in my lower back and I'm young and fairly healthy.\n\nI'm currently in Physiotherapy, but it isn't free and I'd rather not spend money on this if I don't need to and it's not serious.\n\nIs there any lower back stretches in your experience that helps with tweaked lower backs? Thank you.",
"Stretches for lower back pain. Hi there! I was trying out a new bench yesterday and it didn't really fit me properly. I tried to do some incline abs on it and I immediately felt a sharp pain in my lower back. I have no other symptoms except for dull pain and tightness in my lower back and I'm young and fairly healthy.\n\nI'm currently in Physiotherapy, but it isn't free and I'd rather not spend money on this if I don't need to and it's not serious.\n\nIs there any lower back stretches in your experience that helps with tweaked lower backs? Thank you.",
"Stretches for lower back pain. Hi there! I was trying out a new bench yesterday and it didn't really fit me properly. I tried to do some incline abs on it and I immediately felt a sharp pain in my lower back. I have no other symptoms except for dull pain and tightness in my lower back and I'm young and fairly healthy.\n\nI'm currently in Physiotherapy, but it isn't free and I'd rather not spend money on this if I don't need to and it's not serious.\n\nIs there any lower back stretches in your experience that helps with tweaked lower backs? Thank you.",
"Stretches for lower back pain. Hi there! I was trying out a new bench yesterday and it didn't really fit me properly. I tried to do some incline abs on it and I immediately felt a sharp pain in my lower back. I have no other symptoms except for dull pain and tightness in my lower back and I'm young and fairly healthy.\n\nI'm currently in Physiotherapy, but it isn't free and I'd rather not spend money on this if I don't need to and it's not serious.\n\nIs there any lower back stretches in your experience that helps with tweaked lower backs? Thank you."
] | [
"Go on YouTube and find lower back and hip yoga. It works wonders and has all the moves you're looking for",
"A lot of time lower back pain comes from muscles in the legs being used unevenly. I usually get back pain near my sacrum on my left side, so I stretch out my right side (which is over compensating). I like pigeon pose, knot pose, and any piriformis stretches! Those have helped me a ton. Once I did those I started doing more weight lifting which evened out my muscles!",
"Best I have found is laying on your back, knees bent, swivel ( kneees together, back flat) knees to ward the floor, left, right, repeat.",
"Try stretching your hamstrings and and calves. Often times if your legs are super tight they will pull on your lower back. I’ve also found that doing planks helps greatly. Adding strength in your core and lower back will help to eliminate pain",
"If you’re currently seeing a physio ask then for which specific stretches/exercises you need. Pay for that appointment, do the stretches/exercises, and don’t go back unless you need to.",
"Forward folds and bridging. When bridging, squeeze your butt before starting the movement to ensure engagement. Keep tight..\n\nLook up red delta project- bridging for a quick and informative tutorial \n\nGenerally speaking, most untrained people are weak in the butt, back of the legs and lower back. Be mindful to strengthen these common problem areas"
] | 0 | [
4,
4,
3,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction.",
"Help me quit smoking, please! Thanks to everyone for the tips. I live in Chicago and hate the price of cigarettes, but mostly the effects to my health. I take your posts to heart and will use your suggestions to help me quit. \n\nEveryone who replied and has quit smoking is my hero. It is extremely difficult and I respect your ability to stop.\n\nI have known people who have smoked, but never been addicted. Those who are addicted (myself) it is so extremely difficult to quit that they will never know.\n\nI've been a pack a day smoker since 18...26 now...I hate it so much, but it's like that friend who's always there now. \n\nIf you've never smoked, or never been a regular smoker then you are lucky and I envy you.\n\nI fucking hate cigarettes, but I continue to smoke. That is addiction."
] | [
"The way I quit smoking was I stopped cold turkey. I didn't go to the places I associated with social smoking for several months (bars, certain restaurants, etc.) I bought gum, toothpicks and suckers so I had a replacement behavior for \"hand to mouth\" action. After about 2 weeks I stopped craving nicotine. After about a month I didn't really miss the physical action of smoking anymore. It's been 15 years and I still I find myself thinking I should pick up a pack when at the gas station, but it's like a rote behavior and I quickly let that pass. Good luk.",
"You want to quit smoking the way you quit doing any other drug. \n\nFigure out how many cigarettes you smoke every day. Be honest with yourself, and count how many cigarettes you smoke in a day if you need to. Then, reduce the number of cigarettes you smoke by 1 every day until you're at ~10 cigarettes a day. At that point, reduce the number of cigarettes you smoke each day by 1 every 2 or 3 days. When you're at 5, reduce the number by 1 every 5 days, until you aren't smoking anymore. \n\nThis is called weaning. It is how you get off of drugs with much more severe withdrawal symptoms, but it works with any drug. \n\nOther tips: Craving, or experiencing withdrawal symptoms? It's probably your blood sugar. So make something sugary and sweet. When I quit smoking, I spent a few nights making crepes with jam, and it genuinely helped me when I was going from 2 cigarettes a day to 1, and especially from 1 to zero. ",
"Allen Carr's easy way to stop smoking. Even if it doesn't work, it is a very interesting look at the psychology of smoking. You will recognise a lot of things you do without realising it. It smashes all the myths - like that it is enjoyable, or something to do with your hands, or it is social. \n\nUsing that book I snapped the remaining cigarettes I had in half and never smoked again. I didn't even try and avoid it or change anything else - I went out the next day and saw a band, I still went to pubs and did the same things. Avoiding them would just mean more chance of a relapse when I returned. You have to break the cycle of addiction, having a cigarette does nothing except making you want another one a while later. Give it a few days of what is actually a very mild nagging addiction and you are done. It is out of your system. ",
"Tobacco is extremely hard to get rid of. I use to go through a can of Cope a day before I decided to quit. Here is some things I did to keep me off it.\n\n\n\n\n1. Get support from friends and family. Talk to them and ask them for help.\n\n\n\n\n2. Be vocal about it. Post that you are quitting on every social media site you have. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc... If you are anything like me, You will feel shitty anouncing something publicly and not following through with it.\n\n\n\n\n\n3. Keep your hands, or mouth busy when you start to get a craving. I would keep a squash ball in my car or at my desk and always had a pack of gum in my pocket. It helped keep my mind off of the cravings.\n\n\n\n\n4. If anything, go talk to your doctor and see what they can do to help you.\n\n\n\n\nGood luck on quitting man.",
"I ended up using wellbutrin off label because I just wanted to quit. For me, it was extremely effective. Been smoke-free since 2005 or so. ",
"Vape-ing works. The liquid comes in different degrees of nicotine.\nSlowly lower the Mgs and eventually you wont need it at all. I rarely even look at mine these days. I smoked 30 years",
"The only way I was able to quit was by using a vapor pen. I started out with full strength nicotine juice in RY4 flavor and now I'm down to 0 mg nicotine. I can breathe again, no coughing, no wheezing. Tried to quit for 20 years off and on. Smoke free since October 2014.",
"Quitting smoking is one of the hardest things you'll ever do...at first. You literally have to reprogram your brain for every scenario where you would normally smoke.\n\nThe first couple months are the hardest, but then over time it gets easier and easier. I've been off cigarettes for 550 days now, and most days smoking doesn't even cross my mind. It's amazing! \n\nIn the end these are the things that were key to me quitting:\n\n* Motivation: I had this awful daydream of my sons growing up without me, of my wife explaining to them that I smoked until I had cancer. I imagined them bringing home made cards to my bedside as I died of cancer. When those thoughts crossed my mind I quit cold turkey.\n\n* Some sort of support system. I downloaded an app to keep track of how long I had quit, how much money I had saved, and some other motivational info. The horror of possibly having to reset it to zero was surprisingly powerful and got me through many cravings.\n\n* Raw determination: your brain will play tricks on you. You will find yourself wanting to reward your not smoking with a cigarette. What the fuck kind of sense does that make? You have to put your foot down and fight those addicted thoughts and habits.\n\nDiscipline: you have to realize that one you quit there is no going back. You can't have just one as a reward. You can't just take a drag to help you through it. You can't ever smoke again.\n\nQuitting was one of the best decisions I have ever made. It was hard at first, but has gotten downright easy over time.\n\nYou can do it, and you can do it now! Hit me up with a PM if you want. I'll be you wingman, or whatever you need.\n\nAlso check out r/stopsmokimg",
"It took some sinus infections where I was able to cold turkey it and never look back. Smoking sucks, it fucks up your teeth and gums. I have seen people pass out and go to the hospital due to their oxygen levels being so low. Think about your family and how this habit will not only affect your future but theirs. It is tough and sometimes you will get urges for \"just one more.\" It will not be just one more, it will turn you into a nicotine fiend again. You put a substance that will kill you in your body and now you have a chance to stop before it is too late. The earlier you stop the longer you live and easier it will be to quit. I haven't smoked for a year and a half and will never do it again. Getting over those first few months is the hardest part. If you can do that then you will be golden. If you have friends who smoke stay away from them if you can. If not let them know you are trying to quit and not have them pressure you into doing it.\n\nSmoking is fucking lame and the best substitute for the short term is coffee. That actually helped me out a lot.",
"I used chantix. It turned my body against me. What I mean by that is that as much as I wanted to smoke, my body didnt get anything from it and was kind of turned off by smoking. It's been about 10 months. Ive even tried to have a cigarette again just to test it and I could only have 1 or 2 puffs before putting it out. Fuck all that noise about chantix being dangerous and causing mental problems/bad dreams. I dream about zombies and love it!",
"I smoked for 10 years and I was a pack a day smoker and was addicted from age 15 to 25 back when you could get smokes from a vending machine at the local gas station. I found that when I got sick, the taste and smell changed and this was my window to undo physical addiction (5 days or so) to then fight the psychological addiction for 14 to 30 days (Residual vulnerability up to 3 years) . I was sick for a good two weeks and it gave me the edge to stop, then I used pens, straws, and rubber bands to keep my hands busy. I also kept in mind the fact they do nothing healthy for me, and my Grandmother died of emphysema. If you've ever seen this, you'll think twice. I also went to a morgue on a school outing and saw a black lung from the effects of smoking. The cost for me at the time was the last and final straw that put me over the edge. But the biggest kick was this: I would wake up and hack for 3-5 mins every day. My moms new husband smoked and he would hack for 10-15 minutes every morning. I did not want to progress to his level.",
"I met a guy while camping who had decided to go backpacking in the new Mexican wilderness until he stopped being addicted to smoking. Something like that might help make you stop cold turkey.",
"Have you tried ecigs? I went from a two pack a day thirty year habit to ecigs in one day. It wasnt my intention to quit. ",
"Get a vape - really - 30 year (ex) smoker - stopped within a week of buying a good vape - haven't had a cigarette for 2 years now, quit pain free / symptoms free, no problem at all - hit up /r/electronic_cigarette for help choosing and a thousand other success stories like mine",
"Congratulations on your decision to reclaim your life.\n\nI smoked (at times up to 3 packs a day) for 20 years, quit 20 years ago. Quitting was the hardest thing I ever did. When I finally did it, cold turkey, it felt utterly freeing and amazing.\n\nFirst, don't give up on giving up. You may backslide, and start smoking again. You're not perfect. Just keep trying! You *can* do it.\n\nSecond, this was the key for me: think about who wins when start smoking again. The fucking evil tobacco companies, who enrich themselves with your death. But, also think about the toxic people in your life whose actions and words set you off and make you want to smoke. Do this for *yourself*, so those people don't win.\n\nThat is all. Good luck!",
"Chantix, I smoked for twenty years and quit in one week. You take it for seven days while smoking and by the eighth day, you just won't feel the need even though you may smoke one or two just out of sheer habit. It was so easy.\n\nYou still need to take it to help you stay not smoking for at least a month or two, but by the end of the second week you are usually smoke free with no desire to smoke.",
"Are you male or female? Research shows women successfully quit better using multiple methods in combination. "
] | 0 | [
4,
3,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to get a bunch of quarters when you are not near your bank I am in desperate need to do laundry but my bank is an hour and a half away!",
"How to get a bunch of quarters when you are not near your bank I am in desperate need to do laundry but my bank is an hour and a half away!",
"How to get a bunch of quarters when you are not near your bank I am in desperate need to do laundry but my bank is an hour and a half away!",
"How to get a bunch of quarters when you are not near your bank I am in desperate need to do laundry but my bank is an hour and a half away!",
"How to get a bunch of quarters when you are not near your bank I am in desperate need to do laundry but my bank is an hour and a half away!"
] | [
"Any retail store, supermarket, business should have rolls of quarters stashed in the back for their own use. Ask really nicely at the register and you should be able to exchange your $10 bill for a roll.",
"I have stopped at those do-it-yourself carwashes and fed them a 10 spot for lots of quarters. Check that they don't give out tokens tho. DOH",
"Ditto the car wash, a couple ten spots has me parking for a month...I work in a college town and the meters take quarters.....and only quarters. I also will wash off the van while I am there so I don't feel guilty about taking the owners quarters out of the system. ",
"I had to deal with this same situation in my last apartment building. I would just take a few bucks down to the subway restaurant across the street and just ask them for quarters and there was never a problem. I could get up to $5 at a time and could always come back later for more if needed. Just don't wait to do every scrap of laundry you own in the same day and it won't be a problem. You can also go to a bank that isn't yours and get change, chances are there's one closer than 90 minutes away and perhaps even walking distance if you're in a city. ",
"Find a decent retail establishment, make smallest reasonable purchase you can, ask if cashier can do you this small favor--all while being super polite."
] | 0 | [
6,
4,
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How should you answer common, but tough questions when at a job interview? Questions such as \" Where do you see yourself in 5 years?\" Or \" What can you offer this company?\" \n\nThese types of questions I never really know how to answer when at a job interview.",
"How should you answer common, but tough questions when at a job interview? Questions such as \" Where do you see yourself in 5 years?\" Or \" What can you offer this company?\" \n\nThese types of questions I never really know how to answer when at a job interview.",
"How should you answer common, but tough questions when at a job interview? Questions such as \" Where do you see yourself in 5 years?\" Or \" What can you offer this company?\" \n\nThese types of questions I never really know how to answer when at a job interview."
] | [
"Most of the advice here is pretty weak. Go find the blog Ask A Manager (askamanager.org) and look in the archives for interviewing. Alison Green has a great blog and she gives great advice on work related issues.",
"Best is honest second Best is something Company relates so where do you See yourself in 5 years say the Position you are getting Interview for just 1-2levels higer lets say you are getting Interviewed for a Job as Software dev i d say in 5 years id See myself as project Manager in the Same Company or Senior dev whatever.",
"Where do you see yourself in 5 years?\n\nAny response that shows your not going to leave or sit on your ass all day. They don’t want to waste time training you for six weeks just to leave after that.\n\n“I’d like to see myself still working at the company but maybe at a different role as five years is a long time to stay in the same role. So I’ll be looking to gain experience, learn the insides of this role and company here first and then take any oppourtunities to move upwards.”\n\nWhat can you offer? - difficult without knowing the role applied for. Could go for showing transferable skills. But a generic response could be:\n\nI have done x y z for a b c. I feel that I can use this knowledge to help improve x y z here.\n\n\n\nHow ever you answer questions. Always be honest. Don’t be afraid to say you’ll need to ask colleages for help if you don’t know what to do. Better than a maveric do what they think is right and mess up big time.\n\n"
] | 0 | [
2,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"What to do if someone with a gun is trying to hijack your car or trying to get you to go with them. Basically, I am a young girl living a medium size college town with above average crime. I come home a lot after dark (and work in the morning before sunrise), and I'm often worried about being approached by someone with a gun. If someone is trying to get you to go with them, what is the best thing to do? Avoid going with them at ALL costs, even if they have a gun to your head? Or go with them? Leave your car and let them take it? Or try to speed off, if you can? I just want to try to be prepared in these situations!",
"What to do if someone with a gun is trying to hijack your car or trying to get you to go with them. Basically, I am a young girl living a medium size college town with above average crime. I come home a lot after dark (and work in the morning before sunrise), and I'm often worried about being approached by someone with a gun. If someone is trying to get you to go with them, what is the best thing to do? Avoid going with them at ALL costs, even if they have a gun to your head? Or go with them? Leave your car and let them take it? Or try to speed off, if you can? I just want to try to be prepared in these situations!",
"What to do if someone with a gun is trying to hijack your car or trying to get you to go with them. Basically, I am a young girl living a medium size college town with above average crime. I come home a lot after dark (and work in the morning before sunrise), and I'm often worried about being approached by someone with a gun. If someone is trying to get you to go with them, what is the best thing to do? Avoid going with them at ALL costs, even if they have a gun to your head? Or go with them? Leave your car and let them take it? Or try to speed off, if you can? I just want to try to be prepared in these situations!",
"What to do if someone with a gun is trying to hijack your car or trying to get you to go with them. Basically, I am a young girl living a medium size college town with above average crime. I come home a lot after dark (and work in the morning before sunrise), and I'm often worried about being approached by someone with a gun. If someone is trying to get you to go with them, what is the best thing to do? Avoid going with them at ALL costs, even if they have a gun to your head? Or go with them? Leave your car and let them take it? Or try to speed off, if you can? I just want to try to be prepared in these situations!",
"What to do if someone with a gun is trying to hijack your car or trying to get you to go with them. Basically, I am a young girl living a medium size college town with above average crime. I come home a lot after dark (and work in the morning before sunrise), and I'm often worried about being approached by someone with a gun. If someone is trying to get you to go with them, what is the best thing to do? Avoid going with them at ALL costs, even if they have a gun to your head? Or go with them? Leave your car and let them take it? Or try to speed off, if you can? I just want to try to be prepared in these situations!"
] | [
"If they just want the car I would give it to them. Not worth your life. I can't back this up with data but if they are trying to get you to go with them I would have to assume an assault of some sort is on their mind and act accordingly. Do you know someone that might be willing to escort you to your car?",
"Let them have your car. You can always get another car. In my opinion, you should never go with someone. Whatever they have planned they don't want to do it where you are. Going with them will put you in more danger.",
"One of the best ways to avoid sexual assault is to find ways to delay the attacker. Kicking, screaming, some kind of loud horn-like device can do wonders to slow down your attacker and draw lots of attention to yourself.",
"If you haven't already, you should read The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. It's all about recognizing potentially dangerous situations. ",
"Keep your car key in your pocket (that coin one) and off of the keyring. Keep the rest of your keys on the ring and hold these between your fingers while you are walking. Bring either pepper spray or a knife (like [this one](http://www.crkt.com/M16-10KSF-Special-Forces-Tanto-Black), light, quick and reliable; worth the bills if you don't want/can't have a conceal and carry) or get both, *That is, if you have been trained in the use of a knife in self defense. Seriously, read the woman traveling [safety tips](http://www.womentraveltips.com/tips5.shtml) and follow them as best you can, especially living in a high-crime area. "
] | 0 | [
7,
4,
3,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"How to become more talkative How does one become more talkative and basically just talk a lot? It seems to come naturally for some, but I am wondering if there any techniques to doing this.",
"How to become more talkative How does one become more talkative and basically just talk a lot? It seems to come naturally for some, but I am wondering if there any techniques to doing this.",
"How to become more talkative How does one become more talkative and basically just talk a lot? It seems to come naturally for some, but I am wondering if there any techniques to doing this.",
"How to become more talkative How does one become more talkative and basically just talk a lot? It seems to come naturally for some, but I am wondering if there any techniques to doing this."
] | [
"Ok, just had to make this joke: Considering your screen name, I'd say listen less and talk more :D\n\nBut seriously, I notice I talk more about things I'm passionate about, so I'll try to steer the conversation to one of those subjects, or somehow toss in a little tidbit that is somewhat relevant to the discussion and go from there. ",
"If you want conversation to flow more easily, you can ask whomever you're talking to open-ended questions. Questions they can't answer with a simple yes or no. Examples are \"What movies have you seen lately?\" or \"What kinds of foods do you like to eat?\" This way you don't have to talk more, you can let the person you're with talk more. ",
"I'm a pretty social person. I'd say that it is important to actually want to get to know someone else. No matter the person, there's usually something interesting about them I'd like to learn more about. And then...you know, be friendly. Answer in sentences. Smile. Look people in the eye. You don't have to be the most talkative person...you just need to be friendly.",
"This is how you practice......talk out loud to yourself. Yes, it sounds crazy but when I was a teenager who wasnt great at talking I practiced when I was by myself. This helped me master my speaking skills to where nowadays I never have a problem having a conversation with someone."
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"Dad is horrible at giving advice but wants to be involved in my life decisions. Any tips to make him a better communicator? ",
"Dad is horrible at giving advice but wants to be involved in my life decisions. Any tips to make him a better communicator? "
] | [
"Your father is the male version of my mother-in-law whom I have been dealing with for 18 years. She is still able to manipulate my wife using the same tactics and my wife inexplicably continues to participate. I'm not a licensed psychologist so this is probably something you want to discuss with a professional as you need to alter your behavior around your father so his defeating habits will stop. You need to be open an honest with what behaviors are acceptable and which are not. It's hard when our parents fall short, but there is still time to fix it and have a healthy relationship, but talking with someone professionally is a great start.",
"if you ask him for advice, tell him to \"wait untill i get it all out before saying anything.\".......if he does start, cut him off with \"wait, i'm not finished.\"\n\nthe idea is to not let him get the chance to respond quickly"
] | 0 | [
3,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to remove the lint from a lint tray without getting a cloud of lint all over the place? Normally I would just take the lint tray over to the trashcan, hold it over and wipe the lint off into the can. Most of the lint goes into the can, but it makes a cloud of lint dust that goes into the air and all over the place. There has to be a better way?",
"How to remove the lint from a lint tray without getting a cloud of lint all over the place? Normally I would just take the lint tray over to the trashcan, hold it over and wipe the lint off into the can. Most of the lint goes into the can, but it makes a cloud of lint dust that goes into the air and all over the place. There has to be a better way?",
"How to remove the lint from a lint tray without getting a cloud of lint all over the place? Normally I would just take the lint tray over to the trashcan, hold it over and wipe the lint off into the can. Most of the lint goes into the can, but it makes a cloud of lint dust that goes into the air and all over the place. There has to be a better way?"
] | [
"I use the dryer sheet from the last load to grab the lint off. It helps it form into a ball and there is less dust.",
"Start the load and let the moisture dampen the lint, after a few minutes pull the trap and remove the lint. No cloud since it's a bit wet.\n",
"Baby wipe - lint sticks to damp surface, no lint cloud. Don't keep the pack of wipes on the dryer though or they will dry out :) "
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. ",
"How to get the pulp off an orange? When you buy mandarin oranges in the can, or get them in a kids meal at restaurants, they never have any of that white pulp on them. Is there a way to cut or peel that off at home? Whenever I try I end up just mashing the orange slice by accident. "
] | [
"I'm guessing you mean the pith, the white stringy stuff. If you roll the orange on a hard surface before peeling, it comes away with the skin. \n\nhttp://www.howcast.com/videos/391418-How-to-Peel-an-Orange",
"Segmenting an orange is pretty easy once you get the hang of it.\n\nhttp://www.finecooking.com/videos/segment-citrus-fruits-salads-salsas.aspx",
"Use a veggie brush with moderately stiff bristles, under warm running water. Works especially well on mandarins and tangerines. Navels take a bit more work, but it can be done. Alternately, use a nice, *sharp* paring knife to segment the orange, then squeeze the central portion to extract the remaining juice.",
"To remove the peel and the pith use a knife to cut off both ends of the orange, then follow along the rounded side under the white part.\nThen carefully slice each orange wedge in between the white dividers.\nhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wH0DE-1W0eM",
"To remove all of the pith, this is how you go about it - http://www.cookingissues.com/2010/03/23/enzymatic-peeling-hell-yes/\n\nYou can purchase small bottles of Pectinex Ultra SP-L at [modernist pantry](http://www.modernistpantry.com/pectinex-ultra-spl.html)",
"If you're mashing the fruit by cutting either you're using a very poor angle or a dull knife.\n\nDull knives help nobody, and are actually more likely to injure you than sharp ones. Get yours sharpened if necessary.",
"I thought everyone knew this...to peel and to remove most or nearly all of the pulp, use a tea-spoon or tablespoon upside down depending on the size of the citrus. ",
"[I don't think you mean pulp](http://lemonflower.com/recipes/images/Pith.jpg). Pulp is the good part of a orange.",
"Use a knife to peel. Pinch it between your thumb and the knife. I crack open the split part and all the pulp pops out.",
"The answer is in this video. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sCD7Em5dYRM .. Watch it. seriously . First its easy they boil the mandarins in hot water for a minute to make them easier to peel . Then women separate each segment. But around 6 minutes in they put it in **\"AN ACID BATH\"**, that they refuse to show on camera. "
] | 0 | [
8,
5,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
-4
] | safe |
|
[
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s).",
"How to live the best 20s of your life. Just wanted to ask if somebody has some LPTs on how to live the best 20s of your life cause I will be 20 in a few months.\nAny LPTs are appreciated (especially those of some older people who already lived their 20s)."
] | [
"Find a good and respectable group of people. Those people will help shape you, be there for you and will stick with you for years to come. If they’re good people, you’ll have them for life and that’s truly something special.",
"I’m 30 so fresh out of the 20’s and these are my suggestions from trial & lots of error.\nDrink in moderation if you drink\nAvoid hard drugs\nGet into the best physical shape you can\nSave (or better yet, invest) enough to where you’ll be comfortable spending money on trips/events/whatever you may want or need\nDon’t rush into relationships. Keep things casual with unless you’re sure you could see yourself with them long term. (I wasted several years in dead end relationships)\nIf any of your friends are traveling, try to join them\nOr if not, plan some trips yourself.\nTraveling & new experiences are much better than clubs/bottle service",
"Don't go 100 percent on living it up and making mistakes. Always assume that you'll still be around to face the consequences. In that way, you can have fun in a smart way so your 30 year old self won't hate you for it later.",
"Enjoy it and don't waste it. Work hard, but don't work all your time away. Make some memories, but don't rush. I turned 30 last month and looking back I kind of wasted my 20's, and it makes me sad.",
"Save a little bit of money. Drink more water. Take care of your teeth. Travel. Be open to new things and people.",
"Don’t be afraid to take big risks, or make big mistakes or wrong choices. You have plenty of time to make a comeback if you need to.",
"Get fit now. Park at the end of the parking lot. Run to class in the morning. Take the stairs. \n\nDo all the things, visit places even if you have to do it on a budget. Take photos of your friends and family. Don’t pass up an opportunity for something new and exciting. \n\nStart saving now, even just $20 a month. It’s worth it.",
"Focus on mental health and make it an intention to break unhealthy thinking patterns. This takes a lot of time and practice and you'll be glad you started now.\n\nDon't stress about your relationship status. Feel like being single? Be single. Meet someone you want to be with? Be with them. Don't constantly seek a relationship simply for the sake of being in a relationship and because you want a partner someday. Being single now can help you build a lot of emotional independence and help you learn more about yourself. That said, if someone you're very drawn to comes along, don't push them away because you wanted more single time. \n\nSave what you can, no matter how little it may be. \n\nExplore different living situations: on your own, with roommates, in the country, in the city. \n\nFollow your heart and don't do anything to please others. For example, if you want to deliver food as a day job while you pursue a music career, do it. Don't take the stable office job with benefits because your parents, significant other, etc want you to (unless that is what you want to do). You can always make more money later if plan a or b doesn't work out, but living the rest of your life wondering what if can be miserable.\n\nAppreciate the important people in your life and spend time with them. Call your sister, take your grandma to lunch, get to know your parents as people, for example. You just never know what can happen. \n\nDon't stress too much about wasting, making the most of, or missing out on your 20s. Spoiler: the 30s are even better. :)",
"Take care of your body. It's the only one you have and bionics are nowhere near mainstream. Choose happy. Take the high road. Pick your battles. Choose a partner who is your best friend.",
"Learn different skill sets. \n\nIn olden days, an individual would take multiple roles through out his life. For example, first 10 years he would be a student, where he would learn about life from gurus or mentors. Next 10 years he prepares himself to become a warrior, so that he is be able to go fight for his king. He comes back marries, becomes a husband a father. The individual would then quit fighting and pick up trade and become a business man. In later stages of life, he would would have been to so many places, met so many people, seen so much on life, that he would probably end up joining Kings council. \n\n\nMoral of the story : we are not meant to be specialized in only one domain. He are the smartest species and we learn till out last breath. \n\n\nGiven the internet age we live in today, it totally possible to learn new skillset every year. A person's value in 30s would be evaluated by the skillsets they have. A person's value in 40s would be evaluated on the basis of how well have they been able to apply and exhibit their skillset. \n\n\nOn to skillset. One might ask, which one to pick, which one to avoid. Pick one that makes you think you will have a good time learning. A catch is to have a overlap of skillsets that are unique. \n\nFor example: \n\nthere are tons of musicians. But how many musicians are out there who know music and software development? \n\nThere are tons of doctors, but how many doctors are there who have their knowledge of medicine but also know yoga? \n\n\nLong story short: spend time learning new things. You can learn from a CEO how to run a successful business. You can learn from your car mechanic how they know what's wrong with the car as soon as it rolls in the shop. \nyou can learn from old people, how they overcame difficulties in life. \n\nSpend time with people know atleast 1 thing more than you. Learn it from them. Don't rush for money. Don't worry about losing friends. You will have to let go of few friends in order to move to the next level. 100% of Facebook and Instagram is fake. Everything in life takes its own sweet time. So don't follow influencers, they are on these platform for a reason: to make money off you. Lastly treat yourself well. Buy gift for yourself on your birthday. Enjoy the sunrise. Smile a lot. \n\nWishing your 20s get spent well.",
"If you go to college after you graduate don't listen to the \"any jobs a job\" crowd and instead focus on the long term career you want. If you get into the habit of taking any job just to work you'll have a resume with a bunch of random crap, living paycheck to paycheck, and have severe depression by time your 30.\n\nI am NOT saying only take a dream job. There are also careers where minimum wage jobs can be an amazing and under-utilized jumping off point. First one for most of us isn't going to be 6 figures working from home with a boss and coworkers we feel are like family though. Instead whatever career you you want make sure your resume, experience, and knowledge reflect that. \n\nFrom college or even high school have a plan and do your best to stick to it, otherwise life will throw you around wherever it wants and you'll be stuck dealing with it.",
"Your life does not end at 30. All these LPT are great, and logical. But just don’t worry about becoming 30 or 40, you can still have a great fun and an enjoyable life then.",
"Try to learn a trade that isn’t your main source of income. Or learn a valuable skill like a second language or an instrument, really anything. It will last longer than most friends you’re going to meet and provide you with great opportunities in your late 20’s",
"Don’t give a shit what other people think unless you really care about them *and* they care about you. Otherwise your life may become dependent on others lives",
"Recognize toxic relationships and cut them lose. Travel as often as possible. Don’t settle in relationships. Get out of your comfort zone and stay ambitious with everything. House hack.",
"Invest in your future by largely investing in the market as a whole instead of individual stocks. SPY gains over time will beat most individual stocks or mutual funds. Be patient and invest as much as you can into your future. Take a risk every now and again by buying a few shares in companies you think will change the world. \n\nAlso, pick up a hobby that will last you a lifetime.",
"- Get in shape, stay in shape - it only gets downhill from here...\n- Learn to enjoy the taste of plain water (seriously)\n- Drink in moderation and follow the 1:1 rule (1 drink, 1 glass of water)\n- If you can, try to spend some time abroad. If you like kids, look up some au pair programs. If your university offers the opportunity to go abroad (preferably with expenses paid), go for it! \n- Related to the above: learn a second language! (and if English is your second language, keep studying!)\n- Pay yourself first. After paying necessities (rent, utilities, staple food...), set aside some money to build your nest egg\n- Be nice to yourself. It is ok if you haven't decided your career path. It is ok if you haven't found the love of your life. It is ok to not have everything figured out yet.",
"Don't be in a rush to get married or have children. Learn yourself - what I mean by that is try to identify ways in which you can cope with stressful or uncomfortable situations. Similarly, identify the types of experiences that bring you joy -- not in a fleeting or temporary way, but as enduring and consistent. Learn to communicate healthily with those around you, especially those with whom you care about. Be vulnerable. Be open. Try new things. In your twenties you have space to figure it all out. x",
"I'm about to turn 27, so I haven't fully finished my 20s, but I'd just like to add I sure as hell don't regret my 20s despite the fact I have not:\n\n-drunk alochol a crapton (I do drink in moderation tho)\n\n-had sex (I suspect I'm demisexual or asexual so being casual would not benefit me. Remember that what works for one person sexually won't necessarily work for you.) \n\n-saved 20% or even just 10% of my income (but if I was able to I sure would have done it! This is excellent advice, just not feasible if you don't make much.) \n\n-had several dates/flings (I have gone out on a sum total of these dates, two of which were first dates)\n\n-traveled (ah ha ha with what money? 😭)\n\n-regularly working out (although I hope to fix this soon with ballet and/or horseback riding lessons)\n\n.\n\nBut I have:\n\n-gotten a bachelor's degree\n\n-gotten a law degree (school was my priority in most of my 20s and I do not regret it)\n\n-moved across the country with my best friend to pursue affordable housing and better wages (now is the time to do stuff like that, when you're both not starting families. It's also easier to adapt to drastically different places.)\n\n-started going to therapy (best thing I did)\n\n-started taking birth control full time (bye bye period)\n\n-cut off my toxic mother because she failed to respect boundaries\n\n-set boundaries with my father, who obliged\n\n-stopped trying to \"parent\" my younger siblings and feel responsible for their mistakes\n\n-started wearing sunscreen daily\n\n-started using retinol every night\n\n-switched to wearing contacts full-time\n\n-started buying quality products (clothing made from wool, leather, or cashmere, decent electronics, good makeup, etc.) \n\n-learned how to make espresso drinks (flavored lattes are my favorite) and bought a espresso machine that'll last forever\n\n-am learning how to make home improvements (I have learned how to sand and stain wood, how to rip up carpet and underlayment, and now am learning how to lay down underlayment and engineered hardwood)\n\n-learned how to make cocktails\n\n-am learning how to make food from other cultures (boba tea, Thai tea, thai curries, borscht, egg flower soup, and doro wat so far, I want to learn Jamaican dishes next)\n\n-learned I need to invest in the stock market, noted cyclical stocks and have successfully practiced using it. \n\n.\n\nMy 20s have been me repeatedly investing in myself and I've seen quite a bit of payoff within my 20s for doing this. \n\n\"Your best 20s\" are going to vary from person to person. \n\nSomeone else is going to look at my list and be like, \"oh gross, they wasted their 20s and had no fun\" while I may look at them and be like \"oh gross, they spent 10 years with no growth\". The reality is we both spent our years well if it lines up with our personal desires. \n\nEveryone has a different thing they're trying to get out of life.",
"Your 20s is a time for a lot of firsts so go out make friends, travel and try things. Make memories. Also, save when you can or start investing early.",
"Save, save, save money! I turned 21 yesterday and I have debt from two cars and two cr",
"Everything in moderation, including moderation. Have fun! Go party. But put the work in. \n\nMake mistakes, but learn. I was always told by my father, \"a mistake is only a 'mistake' if you do it twice\"...doesn't really apply to EVERY situation, but it's a good general rule. \n\nThere will always be a rotation of people/friends that wanna go celebrate something, or party or go out. Sometimes that rotation means you're going out every night. Learn to say \"no\". Whether that's saying no to another drink, or no to even going out. Learn to say no. It can be an insidious spiral.\n\nBe curious. Not everyone is going to be a leading expert in their field, but that doesn't mean you can't strive. In general, people who are lauded for being the top dog in their field don't set out to be the best. They have curiosity. Even if its something super niche. Be curious about church hymns from the 15th century. You may find a love for music, linguistics, anthropology, sociology, history, or anything else that may come from that. Be curious.\n\nAbove all else. Be kind. Everyone, just like you, is also trying to find out how to be \"themselves\" 7billion people on this planet, and there are 7billion different journeys. Start walking.",
"I'm 28, been smoking weed for 7 years and last 3-4 years my development was halted if not thrown back. Don't do drugs. You might think you can manage it, but you won't. You'll turn around realising you are already 50, single, in a shitty labour job, smoking weed, probably selling it yourself and just waiting till your life ends. I just had a very bad emotional breakdown yesterday realising that my wife and children will leave me as soon as a year or two if I don't stop right now. \n\nDon't do drugs.",
" Travel! Trips are great, leaving your home country if possible for an extended amount of time is even better. It will lend perspective and experiences you can't have at home. If not, than at least move within your country. You can always go home, but leaving it for a while is really important. Find out who you are outside of your hometown and/or parents house. You don't need a ton of money to travel now either. You'll never be young enough to comfortably sleep on a shitty couch or a bad futon, or want to share a room at a hostel again. Enjoy your body while it heals quickly from both injuries and hangovers.",
"Try to save money, but DO NOT BE STINGY WHEN IT COMES TO YOURSELF.\n\nEat well, live well. Treat yourself to nice things (without overspending). Your mental health will thank you for it.\n\nAnd as for people, they come and go. The good ones will stay.",
"Travel, experience good food. Have lots of safe consensual sex. Go to Amsterdam at least once....and do all the cool stuff there. See as many live concerts as you can. Do stupid shit, not enough to really hurt yourself. Push those limits.\n\nIt's different when you get older. I have so many responsibilities. It's hard to get away. When i can, it's a blast.",
"Remember to have fun!\n\n\nThe 20s are both the time where you prepare for your adult life and the time where you can do fun/stupid/wierd/crazy things with fewer restrictions and consequences than later in life.\n\n\nPersonly I spend my 20s on getting my first education, concerts, festivals, parties, wierd part time jobs, travelling, meeting new people and sex - yes, remember sex, sex is fun ;)",
"Not sure how to answer that because I was in\nmy 20’s during the 1980’s, and I don’t think any other decade tops that. We had all the cool music, the space shuttle, great movies, MTV. I guess in a more practical sense, the best advice is to make smart choices. There is an awful lot about life you won’t know until you’re much older. So just be kind and try to do right by others as well as yourself. And hey, enjoy wearing cool clothes, youthful energy and the attention you get from cute girls, (or boys as the case may be). These are things you will miss later in life.",
"I feel I lived it well so I will comment but understand that what worked for me might not be you.\n\nAt the time there was a guy doing amazing ground breaking vfx on the matrix film and I thought to myself I would love to do that kind of thing for a living. I emailed and asked him for advise on where I should study and what software to learn. We kept this pen pal mentorship going while I was in school and in my senior year I took an internship on a film. From then on I just took jobs bouncing around the world on a freelance project basis. I remember the first few job interviews being hard but once I had some experience the jobs offers just came to my email. I did a year at Weta in Wellington, 7 months at Squaresoft in Hawaii, MPC London, ILM Singapore, and plenty of jobs in Canada and the continental States. Most of these companies who rely on migrant workers will either give you housing or have someone help you find it. I kept this vagabond lifestyle going for 13 years leveraging work and travel together but it's a young man's game. Eventually I had the wife baby mortgage thing going and needed to be in one place. I used my experience to get a full time staff job. These days I want to be home with my kids, but I look back fondly at my past years. I feel like it allowed me to build both career and life experiences simultaneously.",
"Especially If your in construction ... good socks and good insoles for your boots. And change those bastards out atleastvtwice a year....never stop improving yourself thru self education.\nFocus on whose in your circle and make sure your paths are good with good goals n line. Partty when its time not everyfriday is tthe time.\n\n\nWhat do you to do with your miracle called life?\n\nHow would you have wanted to recieve this gift and what can you do to make it better to give your future generations.",
"Don't do drugs. It's as simple as that.\n\nIf you choose to do drugs eventually it's not as simple as a choice anymore.",
"Travel with friends, date around and have fun. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes and if you haven’t finished university, finish it. And don’t sweat the small stuff, enjoy life, you only have one shot at it.",
"Travel a bit. You will never regret the adventure.\nI’ve been to Europe twice and Peru as well. Best times of my life.\n\n",
"Save up enough to travel the world. Worry about savings/ health/ marriage/ mortgage/ kids in your 30s.",
"Put money into 401k or stonks 20% of your income. This will give you stability, and make spending money 5 year's from now way less stressful. \n\nUnless it's going to hurt someone, don't say no. Many of my best adventurous were because I just said yes in the spur of the moment. \n\nDrink but try not to black out. Once drunk, have a glass of water every 2 drink's you can thank me later. \n\nLove like really put your self out there, yes you will have some heartache, but it will help you find out who you are and what you want in a partner.\n\nRemember women are just like you, be considerate and polite (huge wins later). Avoid the bad boy ego it's just not worth it. If still single in your 30 this will get you any woman worth anything. \n\nSex lots of it (consensual) but as much as they want. Make sure your partner orgasms before you. (You will never regret this)\n\nWork for today, plan for who you want to be tomorrow.",
"Just wing it!! Mistakes are lessons learned. Live your life not someone else's. Most important listen to your parents advice, and remember it's just that...advice",
"Just go for what seems right. Mistakes will happen.\n\nAlso you only have one time to be 20 so funny worry if they were perfect... It's a fallacy many fall into depression for. There is no one way to live your life.",
"God bless you for asking this. I feel I missed out on a few things when I was younger, good for you being proactive. Enjoy your 20s!",
"Do your best to stay away from hard drugs if you can help. Try to not even be around it lest you be tempted.",
"Also - sounds silly but the amount of people my age that already having issues with their teeth and need implants it’s insane:) floss like you mean it :)",
"Allll of the drink less, move more recommendations. Save more and spend less. A lot of friends I know that bought houses when we were younger and rented a room out for trade of utilities, etc. have put themselves in significantly better financial positions than they would have otherwise. They didn't buy homes they couldn't afford alone, but that was a bonus. They had a reason to help them save by investing their money in their home for small renos or saving money to invest in the home for large ones. If you're in to dogs, it can help with staying active and spending less nights out so that you can be home with your pup and explore new trails to walk, etc.",
"idk, I tested some drugs, enjoyed my freedom but quickly realized I am more fulfilled when I'll live the best 30s instead. I am now 26.8 but probably will be like \"nah, lets work hard til 40\" haha because what else is there to do really",
"Your mind wont be moulded until you're 25 if you're a guy but if you're a girl it won't be moulded until you've gone through the stress of child birth",
"Party hard, travel, but also - look that you invest as much as you can now for your retirement. I just turned 37 yesterday and im shocked that i have friends back home in germany my age that doesn’t have anything private for retirement saved ….. start early, enjoy the 30ths to the fullest - that the time when the cash flows lol",
"Make some goals that are difficult to achieve. From what I have seen in others, the 20s is a certain age which many people get lost in life's emptiness, saying :\"I have no clue what I am doing with my life!\". Save up for a really nice car, work on a personal project you are really passionate about. Those are just a few examples. Good luck!",
"Learn financial literacy early, it will help you. Learn to budget, save, and how to build your cr",
"I’m 26, so I might not be as “wise” as most people, but just do whatever makes you content or happy in life.",
"Don’t get married. Don’t have children. The second one is more important. Live. Be spontaneous, and don’t take anything too seriously because almost nothing about your life at this point will be remotely the same when you hit 30. Just take this time to travel if you can, even if it’s just to new cities. If you think you’d like to live in a different place DO IT, find roomies, finding jobs has literally never been easier in my lifetime (I’m 31) so make it work, live in your car if you have to. #vanlife is so popular now not even the cops will fuck with you for it. \n\nSeriously, though. Just take advantage of the freedoms you can’t even comprehend that you have right now. If you have a passion pursue it like crazy, if not then just try and remember that life is a playground for you, and you can literally go anywhere do anything so long as you have the drive and common sense. When you hit your 30’s especially if you have children, you‘re gonna be wishing you did as much radical stuff as you could, because after that it’s trap city. Just a grind until kids are grown / possible retirement. \n\nJust be free, and live.",
"Do the crazy shit now. Travel, and start becoming disciplined with money. Start learning to live within your means. In your mid 20s hopefully you're sticking to a financial plan, very basic. I had a rough childhood Soni was on my own at 18 but wish I had learned these things sooner. And understand the value in family that's actually there for you. Social resources. In my case friends came and went but the family I was close to was always there especially during my toughest times like being homeless.",
"Be easy on yourself and don’t expect your life to progress linearly or how you had originally planned it to.",
"First: build good habits for your thirties and beyond. So practice good sleep hygiene, eat (and know how to budget/ shop for, cook, etc.) relatively healthy food, hydrate, use sunscreen, exercise regularly (and cheaply, don't be dependent on expensive classes), read good books occasionally, save money/ start your retirement accounts early/ learn basic personal finance, etc . If you spend your twenties with just a small amount of attention paid to those things, you'll have a lot of knowledge about how to do them efficiently and already be in the habit of doing them when you really need them. Your body and mind will thank you when you're approaching 35+. It sounds silly, but the difference between someone who ran a couple miles a day and went the the gym 3x per week in their 20s and someone just trying to start to exercise for the first time in their 30s or 40s (with aches and pains) is noticeable.\n\nSecond: Learn healthier relationship skills. It sounds silly, because why would you do that when you already have relationships, but it'll make a huge difference. If you're in college, take advantage of the fact that you likely have access to some psychology classes and/or some on campus stuff promoting and teaching about safer sex practices. If you plan to have kids add in things like human development, if you plan to have sex take human sexuality, if your school as a conflict resolution class, take it. Yes, you may have learned a lot of this in highschool, but there is a value in repetition. Even if you aren't in college you can easily find what books to read, podcasts to listen to, etc. online. If you have access to therapy use it (nothing needs to be wrong for you to go). If you think volunteering will look good for you later on, volunteer for things that teach you how to work with others as part of the volunteering (crisis lines, for example). Learn to be trauma-informed. Know how to spot problematic behavior in relationships, how to set boundaries, how to have difficult conversations, how to read a room and be a good friend to others. The tools for knowing how to do all of that are out there and it is much easier to learn these things the first go around rather than after a couple unhealthy relationships or interactions. Even if you live a charmed life, you're going to have friends who experience rough things in life. Teaching yourself how to respond when someone in your life is struggling will serve you well throughout life and help you make and keep friends.\n\nThird: Don't ever keep to one single friend group, even if you have a strong one. Make an effort to branch out and meet other people. Volunteer somewhere, take a class, find a hobby that is distinct from your friends, join an adult sports team, travel, etc. It gets harder and harder to make friends and be social as you get older, if you are too dependent on one group you won't learn the skills to be friends with a variety of people, nor will you have many other people to rely on if something goes wrong in that group, people move away, you move somewhere new, people grow apart, etc.\n\nFourth: Do things. Including things that scare you a little. Skydive, travel, etc. You'll be really glad you had adventures.\n\nFifth: Building off the other social advice, make sure you have other ways to socialize aside from drinking, drugs, or food. It's okay to partake, but learn your limits quickly and don't get stuck being the person who really only knows how to hang out in a group by all drinking together or all going out to eat. Your social life will get more limited if the only thing you do to socialize is go to bars when other people decide they no longer can or want to spend their life going to bars.\n\nSixth: Live in at least two places in your life. Once you become more settled in your career, it'll be a lot harder to just pick up and move or to even decide if you should do that. You should know how to move somewhere you don't know that many people and learn your way around and you should have a sense of what kind of place you want to live your life in (city, country, suburb, warm climate, cold climate, rainy climate, etc.). Then when, for example, an amazing job opportunity comes up when you're 30 and it means leaving a long term partner and moving to a new area, you know if you can actually do that well or not or when you are unhappy in the place you live but in a good job, you'll have a better sense of whether a move will actually help you be less unhappy.\n\nSeventh: Until you're really permanently settled, make sure the things you own are easy to move. I don't regret the tattoos or piercings I have, the drugs I did, the people I slept with, etc. half as much as I regret that I bought big heavy furniture for my first apartment out of the college dorms. I have moved some of that stuff many times, I've hired movers to move some of that stuff many times, I've struggled to fit it into a variety of apartments, houses, etc. and agonized over whether I should get rid of good quality stuff because of the hassle, only to finally outgrow it right when it was time to buy my first or second home. If you can get it so that most of what you own can be moved by 1-2 people and can fit in a vehicle easily, you'll be a lot happier.\n\nEighth: Speaking of buying things, for the small stuff, go good quality and timeless when you can afford it. I'm in my 30s and am still wearing clothes I wore at 19 because I bought less and less trendy things than my peers, but better quality. I had a friend who used to make fun of me in college for never having the \"it\" item and for mostly wearing \"basic\" things (before \"basic\" was such an insult). Ironically, she had to borrow my basic clothes when she went to court for a DUI. The thing about those \"basic\" things is that they are still appropriate now and I can afford to spend my money on a nicer hotel room and a spa visit when attending a wedding because I don't have to buy a whole new outfit. It sounds like a petty thing, but it does make a difference and if you can afford to get one good winter coat that lasts you 5-10 years you'll be way happier long-term than buying a different on brand coat each year just to have it.\n\nNinth: Avoid any inappropriate behavior on social media and don't run most of your life based on social media. The things that seem oh so funny to document now will make you cringe in a decade. Things that seem to be just toeing the line right now will likely be considered incredibly bad taste in a few years. Find ways to stay in touch with your friends that aren't completely reliant on social media. That way if you do want to delete it at any point (for career reasons, a job search, your own mental health, etc.) you aren't losing your entire social life.\n\nTenth: Write a good resume and update it frequently. Stay in touch with people who can serve as references or may be able to help you later in your career. Do nice things for people without expecting anything in return. Learn the janitors name and be kind to them. You never know when that person you were nice to at 22 will be in a position to help you. Basically don't be an ass. Your college classmate who seems like a loser may well end up being in a small grad school cohort with you. If people remember you as a kind person, you'll go a lot farther in life.\n\nFinally: Be careful not to judge people until you've experienced some of the things they have or to make assumptions about them. Also, if you have good family or even okay/ non-abusive family, make the effort to stay in touch. You don't know how much time you'll have with them and you'll regret skipping Grandpa's 80th birthday party far more than you'll regret one slightly promising tinder date on that same night when Grandpa and Grandma die suddenly and that tinder date who refused to reschedule turns out to be similarly rigid in all aspects of dating."
] | 0 | [
104,
63,
62,
54,
37,
35,
29,
16,
14,
11,
11,
10,
9,
9,
8,
8,
8,
7,
6,
5,
5,
5,
4,
4,
3,
3,
3,
3,
3,
3,
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"My faucet is too close to the back of the sink to easily wash dishes. Is there some sort of faucet attachment that can make the water come out closer to the middle of the sink? Or have you found other ways of fixing this problem?\n\nI live in a dorm so I can't replace the faucet or anything like that.",
"My faucet is too close to the back of the sink to easily wash dishes. Is there some sort of faucet attachment that can make the water come out closer to the middle of the sink? Or have you found other ways of fixing this problem?\n\nI live in a dorm so I can't replace the faucet or anything like that.",
"My faucet is too close to the back of the sink to easily wash dishes. Is there some sort of faucet attachment that can make the water come out closer to the middle of the sink? Or have you found other ways of fixing this problem?\n\nI live in a dorm so I can't replace the faucet or anything like that."
] | [
"There are attachments you can get, which alternate between a regular stream and a spray. These swivel, so that you can spray all around the sink. It's for sinks like yours, with no separate veggie sprayer.\n\nHere are a few that are available:\nhttp://www.buyacehardware.com/faucet-adapters.html\n\n(Go to page 2 on that site)",
"Fill the sink with water and wash the dishes in the sink rather than under running water from the tap.",
"a hose with an adapter may work. then you could use some clothes hangars to secure this into one spot for easy use."
] | 0 | [
4,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful",
"How to deal with foot pain during and after standing for 8 hours a day I just started a job in a warehouse in which I have to stand for 8 hours and have a half hour break in the middle. Today was my second day and I have several blisters and my feet felt like they were being pricked by pins for the last 6 hours of the shift. \n\nThis is not the first time this has happened, every job I've had with a lot of standing has caused the same pain to being almost unbearable. Any tips would be great. I'll be getting different shoes soon but if there is any way to help in the meantime I'd be grateful"
] | [
"Good shoes are essential to stand up workers. I did a stint in retail for awhile and the day I bought a nice pair of Merrill's it was a revelation.",
"You could try soaking them in hot water and Epsom salt. I stand and walk around all day as well, normally 10 hour shifts, never really had this problem though.",
"Are you me? I recently just started a job in a stockroom where I'm standing for 8 hours a day. My best advice so far is this, get a decent set of gel insoles for your shoes(get decent shoes and DO NOT cheap out on them). Chances are your heel is going to start cracking and maybe bleeding so get some decent foot cream, I recommend Flexitol. Also, after a long day I find my feet are most painful when I stop and sit down at night. To help with the pain I soak them in ice water. It's....uncomfortable at first but it helps, trust me. \n\nFor the love of god, look after your feet. Keep them clean, get decent shoes, decent sock and cut those toenails! Also, bring an extra pair of socks and change them during your lunch break. These are things I do and while I still get foot pain these all help.",
"Fidget a lot - bounce on the ball of your feet, rock back and forth, wobble your knees, etc. Unchanging pressure points are part of the pain. The rest is poor circulation due to non-movement. There are wraps and support socks/hose for this issue. Put your feet up on breaks. Band-aid your blisters. Ask your coworkers in similar positions for advice. ",
"You may also need to have your shoe size checked. I was having atrocious foot pain, and it turns out that I was wearing the wrong size shoe. ",
"Get wool socks! Especially Marino wool, they're a little expensive but will significantly reduce your problems with blisters. Also they don't hold onto stink like synthetic materials.\n\nFor now see if you can find moleskin at a pharmacy/drugstore. If you cut a ring of the spongey stuff and stick it around your blisters, it can take the pressure off.\n\nBut mostly wool socks. You can get thin ones if you need to be cool. Your feet are gonna sweat anyway and wool will keep you blister free when wet, cotton becomes a cheese grater.\n\nWOOL!",
"Find something cylindrical, put it under your foot and roll it while putting as much pressure you can on it without pain. This helps me after an extra long day of working retail.",
"Buy nice shoes. Not just new shoes, but shoes that are at least $90. I know that's a lot but it makes a HUGE difference and the shoes will last a lot longer. Like Brooks, Saucony, Mizuno, and Scotts would be a good choice (some top tier brands off the top of my head).",
"Range of motion exercises are helpful too. Here are [good ones for the ankle](http://orthonc.com/uploads/pdf/Ankle_Foot_AROM.pdf) ",
"My doctor recommended medical grade compression socks, they are more expensive than regular ones but it is a world of difference. Breaks are pretend where I work and shifts run from 7-13 hours depending on the day, it changed my life. Also, do the flamingo if you have been standing for a few hours, lift one leg behind you and hold it as long as you can, then switch to the other one. It feels amazing. ",
"I started a warehouse job around 6 months ago after having 2 years off of work. The foot pain was agony for around a month maybe two. But honestly, after all the foot soaking and massages I've had I'll have to say nothing will really work for the long run, you just adjust and get used to it. \n\nPs I also do 10hr shifts with an hour break in between. ",
"Happened to me when I started working on my feet. My legs and feet ached every day, and usually i'd atart the next day sore. Grit my teeth, bore it for a few weeks, and now after working on my feet all day I can go home feeling fine. As other suggestions have said, get some nice shoes, but other than that your body will get used to being on your feet all day. Give it 2-3 weeks and you'll be surprised",
"Had same problem the first month of working in the warehouse but then I got better security shoes, got used to the conditions and didn't have the foot pain month after.\n\n\nThe first thing you should do is to get better workshoes and try them out.",
"Either hot or cold water or even as I saw a ballerina do once, both. (though not at the same time). Also if you're going for the cold icy water route, eat whilst doing it to take your mind off of the cold.",
"As a flat-footed person who deals with foot pain every day, I find cold relieves my pain better. In a pinch or for mid-shift relief roll your foot on a cold can or bottle of soda. Take Ibuprofen proactively before the pain. Orthotics saved me in my 20's. I had to crawl around my house at night until I got them. Best of luck!",
"A bit random but...Can you buy steel toe work shoes as opposed to boots? Too many socks will soak your feet with sweat by day's end. Don't skimp on quality shoes & make sure to buy good gel pad/memory foam in soles , maybe with arch support. \n Also foot powder with menthol will keep your feet feeling cool, which does little for the soreness but a welcome distraction. Untie your shoes during break and prop up as high as possible. Break yourself open a Kit Kat bar."
] | 0 | [
8,
7,
6,
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Online T-Shirt Shopping I am a rather large man (6' 6\") and shopping for any clothes is hard, let alone online. What is the easiest way to ensure that an article would fit before ordering it? Specifically websites that are reliable with their measurements would help. Thanks!",
"Online T-Shirt Shopping I am a rather large man (6' 6\") and shopping for any clothes is hard, let alone online. What is the easiest way to ensure that an article would fit before ordering it? Specifically websites that are reliable with their measurements would help. Thanks!"
] | [
"I'm 6'5\" and 245 lbs. Only buy tall sizes. Never buy XXL just to keep the thing tucked in or over your waist.\n\nNordstrom has good online sizes for tall men. Pricey but good quality. \n\nTJ Max (the physical store) often has good deals on quality XLT T-shirts for under $20. It's hit or miss for what's in stock. I've never tried ordering online from them.\n",
"Grab a shirt that fits you perfectly and measure it. Keep the measurements at hand and use them to compare to size guides! Most sites have size guides. IDK what men's size guides require but It's probably chest and waist width and shirt length. "
] | 0 | [
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"LPTs required for students entering freshman year from highschool Since this is the time of college admissions",
"LPTs required for students entering freshman year from highschool Since this is the time of college admissions",
"LPTs required for students entering freshman year from highschool Since this is the time of college admissions",
"LPTs required for students entering freshman year from highschool Since this is the time of college admissions",
"LPTs required for students entering freshman year from highschool Since this is the time of college admissions",
"LPTs required for students entering freshman year from highschool Since this is the time of college admissions"
] | [
"In college, you won't have parents to watch over you. You are free to succeed or fail; everything (good and bad) is possible.\nA good rule is everything in moderation. All the booze, drugs, games, puss/cock (whichever you prefer) and learning are at your fingertips. Don't over do any of it. Don't get indoctrinated by your professors, a frat or your stoner friend. Fall back on your core values, know (or learn) your self, your limits and your passions.\n\nWork hard, your future depends on it. Party hard, your sanity depends on it.\nDon't over do either.",
"LEARN HOW TO MAKE YOUR OWN FOOD!\n\nLEARN HOW TO WASH YOUR DAMN CLOTHES!\n\nIF YOU DON’T WANT TO CLEAN DISHES, BUY DISPOSABLE STUFF!",
"Use the resources your college offers: it's part of what you are paying for. Most have a reading/writing center when you can get help writing papers, for example. Don't ever miss class and sit in the front so your instructor sees you. Engage! Ask a question! Go to office hours even if you don't think you need to. \n\nYour college has a career center. Go there starting your first year. They'll probably have all kinds of programming on things like how to interview, write a resume, etc. Do it. They will help you get an internship in your field. Maybe even an international one. Double win!\n\nThere is money to be had; pay attention. Maybe not huge amounts but there will be miscellaneous awards and grants for various things. It can't hurt to try for them and many are not very competitive. \n\nIt just about goes without saying but I'm saying it. Get to know your professors. Most are there because they love teaching and your success is important to them. They want you to succeed and can open many doors for you. This is true at all schools, even the very large ones. \n\nDon't be in too big of a hurry to choose a major or change your mind. \n\nGet all the academic advising you can. \n\nHave fun, too. Check out a few student groups but only stick with a couple. You don't have time for more. \n\nParty, yes but not too hard. Getting seriously drunk is a bad idea in college and ever after! Nothing good every comes of it. \n\nGood luck!\n\n",
"It is the best time to let go of any judgements you have for anyone or anything. You will find out what you honestly like and what you truly want to pursue by releasing the ego you've had indoctrinated in you by your family and adolescent peers. ",
"Go to the library to study. I'm a senior and just started going this semester and I went from a failed first test to 100% on the second. You might not see as dramatic an improvement but it makes it easier to avoid distraction and get work done. ",
"Have you ever done last minute cramming for a test?\n\nDo that EVERY night possible for at least 15 minutes right before you go to bed. Memories are imprinted and reinforced during sleep and this repetitive action at that time will be your most efficient form of studying."
] | 0 | [
18,
13,
5,
5,
5,
4
] | safe |
|
[
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?",
"How does one get the funk out of their man region? Usually I try shampoo on the general area when showering, but that seems to be rather short lived as a solution. What should a man do when trying to make the family jewels not smell weird?"
] | [
"Don't be a punk. Get some antifungal gunk to smear on the funk that stunk up yur junk. Then relax, get crunk, and feel like a hunk. ",
"Baby powder man. When I lived in Arizona my balls got sweaty and stinky as fuck, so every morning after I showered I would just powder up my balls and BAM! They both felt great and smelled great. ",
"Trim it wayyy back.\n\nI am not pro-shaving, due to the horrors of razor-burn, razor-bumps, awkard angles, and sharp objects near my business, but at the end of the day all pubes really do is trap perspiration and generally cause you to funk up. \n\nGet a trimmer and go to work, clean everything up and make sure that anything you choose to leave for aesthetics is still pretty short. If that still doesn't help, consider baby powder, an occasional tactical baby wipe, and maybe some looser fitting underwear. \n\nIf that STILL doesn't work, you might want to try cleaning up your diet. I have no sources to back this up, but I feel like diet probably affects the stank of your sweat.",
"Erm, I'm a woman so no personal experience to share, but I have a few ideas no one else has mentioned. What kind of briefs do you wear? Maybe try cotton boxers because they don't trap moisture. I guess you're changing your briefs everyday, if not then do that for sure. And what about your pants - are they fresh every day or do you try to make them last a bit longer? Someone else suggested diet - I know that if I eat lots of onions and garlic it makes my skin smell, so that's worth checking. And from all the ladies out there I'd like to say a great big thank you!!",
"Baby powder. \nAlso realize there is gonna be some level of funk no matter what and there's a good chance women will like it. \n",
"Vinegar. Get a bottle. Squirt some on a cloth when showering. Rub said cloth around man areas. Rinse and clean with soap. Winning.",
"I use a roll on antiperspirant/deodorant and it works like gangbusters. I've tried baby powder and all, but deodorant is the best solution IMO. ",
"Do not use shampoo on that part of you body, it's made for your scalp. Use a body soap and one of those plastic scrubbing things, like you do for the rest of your body. It removes oil and residual dirt while also exfoliating, removing dead skin cells. After you get out of the shower, dry off and move out of the humid bathroom to properly dry. After you dry, apply some moisturizer. Washing your skin with soap removes sebum, natural moisturizer, so you need to replace it so your body doesn't go into overdrive creating oil. The same thing is true of your face. \n\nTo deal with smells, you need to ensure that sweat is managed. One way to do this is with airflow. Shorts with boxers allows for plenty of airflow and can help to cause moisture in that area to evaporate. If airflow isn't an option, something like baby powder or even antiperspirant can help you manage moisture. Good quality underwear pulls moisture away from your body, like a good pair of socks, so that would undoubtedly be helpful in your situation. ",
"* shave\n* sleep naked (at least from the waist down)\n* don't wear briefs\n\nif that doesn't help enough, you can always wash up at the sink daily",
"[This](http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-l6eXZPAU9wA/TfPBJjTqdPI/AAAAAAAAAas/22-jTi7zgqI/s1600/Gold+Bond+Golf+Crotch+Foot+CaddyDigest.jpg)",
"Wash down there 2-3 times with some gentle/neutral soap or shower gel.\n\nDry off well(especially under your polo neck if you have one).",
"Regular baby shampoo and a tiny bit of powder. Not kidding. Wash every day.\n\nAnti-perspirant deodorant is a good option. If you shave, it will also help prevent razor burn and ingrown hair.\n\nAll boys do is sweat down there all day. Use some powder to keep it nice and dry-- not to mention smelling decent. ",
"Baby shampoo once daily, and the will to accept that sometimes people smell a little in the vicinity of their genitalia.",
"[Sounds like you need the Dick Dousche penile cleansing rag.](http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ll1hdle3vs1qeiazgo1_500.png)"
] | 0 | [
25,
19,
15,
9,
7,
6,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
-1
] | safe |
|
[
"How can I make my own weight plate substitutes for a home gym? I have a home gym and I want alternatives to adding more weight to the bar instead of purchasing more weight plates at a store, likely something that won’t snap or break off my barbell while in use because it’s container isn’t strong enough. Any ideas or hints are helpful!",
"How can I make my own weight plate substitutes for a home gym? I have a home gym and I want alternatives to adding more weight to the bar instead of purchasing more weight plates at a store, likely something that won’t snap or break off my barbell while in use because it’s container isn’t strong enough. Any ideas or hints are helpful!",
"How can I make my own weight plate substitutes for a home gym? I have a home gym and I want alternatives to adding more weight to the bar instead of purchasing more weight plates at a store, likely something that won’t snap or break off my barbell while in use because it’s container isn’t strong enough. Any ideas or hints are helpful!"
] | [
"You can make concrete plates if you really want to. Use a pvc pipe as the center cuff to make it smoother on and off the bar.\n\nI'm all for the waterbags. But at home I only use a trx so good luck and big gains.",
"You could try adding resistance bands by securing them on the floor under the bar, and pulling them up along with your weights. They are cheap and come in weight equivalents (mine are anywhere from 2lb to 30lb). I have not tried this, but technically if you wanted to say, add 20 pounds you could tie a 10lb band to each side, maybe between your existing weight plates.",
"Scrapyards often sell anything they have for about twice the buying rate (think 16 cents/pound). Many have a pile of plates somewhere for just this reason, they're ridiculously expensive in stores. \n\nFailing that, a couple big chunks of iron would work."
] | 0 | [
3,
2,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?",
"How to keep wasps away and how to get rid of them when they get too close? Warm days are coming and so are those dangerous little fuckers.\n\nI'm heavily allergic to wasp venom so needless to say, trying to swat them can be very dangerous to me. Is there a way to just keep them away and if they get too close - make them go away?\n\nAlso, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?"
] | [
"I just freak out and run like a scared child if I can't see where it went. Fuck wasps. \nIf it goes in your house, get the murder stick. Wait for it to land somewhere then hit it with a fly swatter as fast as you can. If you miss, run for a room with a door. That's where you live now, the wasp owns the rest of your house. ",
"Soapy water in a pressurized sprayer kills them dead. The water clogs the pores in the exoskeleton causing them to drown. ",
"Wasps are pretty cooperative over here. When they make their way into my room and can't find the way out I try to navigate them calmly. Don't stress them and try not to push them too hard because that will make them agressive.\n\nA pretty safe method is to take a glass and put it over them, close the open side (which is on the surface of where the wasp is sitting) with a sheet of paper or something and \"throwing\" it out of the window. It won't turn on you because it's way too scared. Have done this a lot.",
"Dish soap + mint extract + water = napalm for Wasps.\nA supersoaker water gun is a great delivery method for this. \n\nMy weapon of choice:\nhttp://www.amazon.com/SUPERSOAKER-28495-Super-Soaker-Thunderstorm/dp/B00416QW88\n\nMy personal recipe includes baby soap (J&J) and cheap fabric softener in addition to the above. Kills wasps dead and smells great! Gets expensive buying the wasp killers from the store (chemical ones that smell like gas, enviro/pet safe is just mint for $5/can) so I read a few internet articles and came up with this cost effective and very fun alternative. \n\nhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8T6_bpLwTrc\nhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k26hmRbDQFw\nhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdVUncJzCm0\n",
"I deal with them all summer at work, they are the spawn of the devil. Go out early in the morning, they don't fly around when it's cold still. This is what I use, sometimes a case a week to get them all.\nhttp://www.grainger.com/product/ZEP-PROFESSIONAL-Wasp-and-Hornet-Spray-3HVA4\nAfter they are dead (a matter of seconds with this stuff) knock down the nest and soak it with the spray or just some soapy water. They usually take a few days to return if you leave the nest, longer if you get rid of the nests. After the initial kill, keep up on knocking down new nests when they are very small. If I have an area they seem to like I kill them all then hang a couple of the yellow traps in the area, it helps keep them manageable.\n\nIf they get in the house, u/THLycanthrope is right, panic and run out, sell the place and move on with your life, they are pure evil and will hunt you down.",
"Try hanging imitation hives outside. You can probably buy them somewhere or knit them. Just a note, I read that this elsewhere on reddit so ymmv. Here's the link: https://www.reddit.com/r/knitting/comments/33r2b3/spring_is_here_so_i_made_a_decoy_wasp_nest",
">Also, what do if they enter my room through a window but won't leave?\n\nHere's something that has worked well for me, for pretty much any kind of big, annoying flying insect (bees, wasps, flies, those green loud stinky fat bastards the name of I don't know in English, etc.): Make sure they have an exit that's as big as possible and then attack them with a towel/blanket/etc.\n\nIf it's a weak insect like a fly you can easily stun it and kill it this way. For armoured ones like wasps I'd suggest not trying to kill them this way (unless they land somewhere solid where you can wail of them with all your might) but merely using the cloth to force them towards the exit.\n\nYou could also try using it as a net to ground them and then stomp all over them until your knees hurt.\n\nOf course the effectiveness of this depends on what kind of cloth you use and the room layout (eg. fragile objects, places you can't reach, etc.).\n\n---\nYou might also want to look into \"mosquito screens\" for your windows if you don't have them. Mine are actually quite shit against mosquitoes (a few of them will get in anyway through the gaps) but it's essentially impenetrable to things as big as wasps.",
"More of a longer term approach, but I've seen [these](http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Wasp-Trap) just full of dead wasps. ",
"I hired an exterminator and he applied some powdering substance all around the gutters on my house and on the edges of the window trim. It was explained to me that it somehow confuses their ability to navigate back to the same spot over and over which makes them unable to build a nest. Not sure if it was a line of BS or not but I didn't have any nests on my house last summer!!!\n\nI'm intrigued by the decoy. Might have to try that too as some added insurance.",
"Get a knife or something and lay the bait in front of you. Make very slow to no movement, be ready for the kill. When he goes in, you respond. It might take a few times at first and the wasp may win a few rounds but don't give up!\n\nOnce you are successful in your attempt concentrate on beheading them, wasps are terrified of that because of certain bees. (they overheat them and their head pops off!) \n\nTake a toothpick and impale the head, leave the body strewn carelessly in front of it. Other wasps will come and flee, maybe one or two will try their luck but you should be pretty much in the clear by now.",
"Serious answer here. I live in Northern Cali, so I have been dealing with wasps for most of my life. As for me, I like to kill them with some good ole' wasp killer you can buy at your local store. Make sure you hit the nests in the evening when they are not active. IF and when they get to close, the most important thing is to not panic, shout, scream, and move around. Hold your breath, and silently walk away. They can sense the CO2 in your breath, your body heat, and your body's heavy movement. So when you are around one, just hold your breath, and calmly walk away. HOWEVER, if you are bitten by a wasp or hornet, RUN!!!! When they attack, they release a hormone to other wasps that says 'hey, kill this thing over here, it is a threat'. When at that time, you just run away as fast and farthest as possible.",
"WASPS generally don't like hearing about Scientology or converting to Mormonism; their strong Protestant beliefs tend to clash with such ideology. Go with that.",
"Sometimes I spray water to get flies wings wet so they fall. Perhaps the same would work for wasps? Though it may be cumbersome carrying a spray bottle around. ",
"I usually just take care of them with a water hose and a jet attatchment. they don't come flying at you after being sprayed, they don't really know what's going on and try to get away from the water. ",
"A while ago, I noticed there was a Wasp's nest the size of a baseball hanging on my apartment's awning with a bunch of Wasps buzzing around it. The nest was like 5 feet away from my door.\n\nMy first reaction was to try and get rid of the nest somehow but I'm a little lazy so I put these kinds of things off until later. \n\nBut in the next few weeks, I noticed that if I didn't bother the Wasps, they didn't bother me so I just left the Wasps alone. \n\nAfter summer was over, all the baby Wasps eggs hatched and then all the Wasps left. \n\nWhat I should have done was remove the nest when all the Wasps went away but I'm lazy so I didn't. The Wasps ended up coming back to that nest for the next season and I had Wasps by my apartment door for another summer.\n\nAfter the Wasps went away that next summer, I went and knocked the nest down with a broom stick and threw it in the trash.\n\nSo my advice is if you could not get freaked out by the Wasps, then wait until summer is over and they'll leave and it's much easier and cleaner to knock down an empty nest than a full nest.",
"You are right about that, and i googled the species that we have over here. Its called \"Ropalidia marginata\" stings of these little buggers hurt.",
"Wipe any wood trim with white vinegar. As far as keeping them away when they get too close. Just ignore them; they won't attack you unless provoked. ",
"When I did painting work I commonly had to deal with Wasp Nests and the occasional wanderer. The best thing to do is get a very strong scented liquid that is toxic (I use bleach, but have used soap) and simply throw it on them. It messes with their senses, there is no \"revenge smell\" on their body (wasps release a pheromone to other wasps once they die to enrage them, idk im no expert) and they fizzle out. If you want to be super fancy you can use a spray bottle, but i always just used a small cup. ",
"Wasps are phototaxic.\nGoogle what that means, then you'll know what to do next time one gets in the house.\nBtw, so are bees, actually most of the bugs we encounter regularly. It's a super useful fact I exploit anytime they get in... unless its night, in which case, burn the house and move, the wasps own it now.",
"Texas has tons of wasps. I've never been stung because I never freak out. Had them land on my arm and fly off cause they didn't need to sting/defend themselves. ",
"Spray under your eves and around your windows with malathion. Also anywhere else that will not be washed away with the rain.\n\nMalathion is highly toxic to wasps but not very toxic to humans. The wasps will not build where you spray the malathion.\n\n",
"Soak some rags in pinesol and hang them up around you when you're outside. Clean your windowsill & frame with pinesol often or leave a cup or two of it outside the window. Wasps and bees hate the scent of if and will stay away. If they buzz around you i'd go with the soap & water spritz bottle idea somebody else mentioned earlier.",
"React calmly, wasps and bees are (as far as I know) attracted to heat and when you exert yourself they see the rising temperature as a threat. If you have to do something I find blowing cool air to be helpful. I haven't tried it, but using a spray bottle with cool water may help to ward them off to some degree, I also noticed the soapy water suggestion (which is a decent idea).",
"Piezo buzzer. Most insects detest the frequencies they create. Not actually 100% sure of the science behind them, but I do know they work on flies, moths, etc. Probably on wasps and bees too. They use these devices in those clip-on electric machines that keep mosquitos away.",
"OP you might want to take a look at /r/savagegarden there's always some plants that attract wasps and feed off them",
"My dad keeps bees,they will attack hair.Stick your head under someting,branch of a tree works great.If you smoke,blow smoke at them,Dont flail your hands around.Also you can take a plastic bottle,make some holes in it,put in a mix of beer/sugar/water/honey and hang it up.They will get in thro the holes and get stuck....Works on bees,wasps,hornets.",
"My Grandpa used to tell us that if you held your breath, the pores of your skin would close and wasps/bees couldn't sting you. I now know that is BS, but as kids we NEVER got stung unless we didn't see them coming. I've heard it explained that they can \"sense\" the carbon dioxide we exhale better, or maybe we stay more calm, maybe it just magic but it works. I am 39 and I still do it, and still don't get stung. ",
"Lot of good ideas in this thread but with your allergy you don't need to confront them. Get a neighbor to be your 'wasp buddy' and call them to come over and swat them or spray with hotshot spray or whatever, whenever one gets inside. \n\nAnd get a professional exterminator to treat your place on a monthly basis, so they keep their distance. \n",
"Just ignore them. They don't just sting for no reason. They're like dogs. They just wanna get a sniff, and if you don't have food, they'll carry on. I haven't been stung by anything in twenty years, because I don't swat at things like a retard",
"Ignore them. Same for bees. Be completely still and they'll go away. Even if they land on you don't move. ",
"If you're hanging out by our porch, hang a plastic bag full of water with a few pennies in it. For some reason, they hate that and will never build a next near there. Never tried it to keep them away, but you could give it a shot.",
"If a wasp gets stuck in a window, kick out your vacuum cleaner, take off the nozzle and suck it in. You don't even have to hit it right on the money to suck it in. The vortex in the hose should kill it instantly. \n\nAlso works well when you want reduce the number of fruit flies or other bugs.",
"I was in turkey a few years ago where they had big wasp issues. One thing I saw quite often was people burning ground coffee. It worked like a charm. Smells nice to us but the wasps hate it. Swarms would dissipate in a few minutes and not comeback for ages.",
"I know this isn't the answer you're looking for, but if you find a nest, use WD40 on it. They'll leave and won't come back. ",
"I keep a spray bottle filled with rubbing alcohol in my apartment. They come in thru the fireplace occasionally so I flick a lighter, get close and flash cook em before they can fly off. If you do it right, the first flame ought to burn their wings off so they can't retaliate even if they wanted to. Beats the hell out of swatting and missing and the alcohol evaporated before it burns anything.",
"I had wasps build a nest near my front door in an opening on my house. At night when the sun went down and they were less active I covered the entrance to their nest with several layers of duct tape. I thought I was clever and went to bed only to come out and find that those fuckers chew through all the tape.",
"I had a wasp nest on my front porch several years ago and I tried all the different things I read about online. That just pissed them off. The only thing that worked for me was [THIS](http://www.walmart.com/ip/19412027?wmlspartner=wlpa&selectedSellerId=0&adid=22222222227017872781&wl0=&wl1=g&wl2=c&wl3=40940315912&wl4=&wl5=pla&wl6=78876755792&veh=sem). Just a light mist and they physically cannot fly through it. They drop to the ground and you can step on them. After weeks of dealing with that nest I took it down in 2 minutes.\n ",
"I doubt that my situation is unique, but none of the scenarios in your article address my problem.\nI have composite decking on my front porch, installed following manufacturers instruction, with spacing between individual panels. I see wasps entering and leaving their homes in several locations. The only way I can see to eliminate them is to remove boards, or drill holes, for a garden sprayer wand. Those ideas are simply undesirable. Any suggestions? http://easyinhome.blogspot.com/2015/10/how-to-get-rid-of-wasps.html",
"Get this, it drops them instantly, and I enjoy watching\nhttps://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&ei=U-pEVdeGJILCggSlqoDICg&url=http://www.spectracide.com/Products-and-Solutions/Stinging-Insect-Killers/SpectracidePRO-Wasp-and-Hornet-Killer.aspx&ved=0CEEQFjAA&usg=AFQjCNHnNKTGJKbCNirMkpo5DRjM3m25zA&sig2=_eL6qHMlIPM5ujFuBpkWuA",
"Funny story. I was on my way to class but noticed I had to stop and get gas. So I pull into the station, walk in to prepay, and walk out to begin pumping. As soon as I opened my gas door (not sure of the correct term) a wasp falls out and lands on my shoe! I freak out and kick the air real hard to make him fly off. The little fucker holds tight and doesn't budge. So I did something I've never done before. I swatted the wasp with my hand and sent it flying on the ground 5 feet away. I know I fucked up. So as its trying to get off its back like a turtle I run over to it smoosh it real good then walk away feeling like a champ. I don't fuck around with wasps.",
"Engine starting fluid (ether) will knock them out. You can spray a nest, and they will all have sleepy time. This gives you time to burn them alive in the fire. \nYou can buy it at most places with an auto parts section. ",
"Eat garlic. Keep your epi handy. Never anger the wasp. You're in a mutually assured destruction scenario. Stay calm and don't let them sense your fear. And the perhemone concern is real for some vespid species. If you crush one on you, then get away cause the rest of the clan is coming for vengance. I've been tracked a 1/4 mile in the woods after getting stung. If you have to go the kill em first route go load up on the death in a can. A 12' stream of foaming neurotoxin works quick and knocks therm out of the sky. However, I'm not sure how that impacts the animals that feast on dead wasps.",
"Couple weeks back I read about someone using WD-40. According to him it killed the ones that were there and they never came back. Even after several years.",
"Brake Clean works wonders as a wasp killer. I buy it by the case in the summer time for that reason alone. Keep a can of it close by when outside, kills them instantly when hit with spray. \n\nAlso wasp traps like [these](http://www.lowes.com/pd_122522-2226-1YJTR-C_0__?productId=4441847) are pretty effective at depleting wasp population. I have 5 or so of them set up around the house outside.\nSource: Wasps love Montana",
"As a deterrent. Just take a brown paper bag and fill it with air like you are hyperventilating. Then tie a string around the top to close it and just simply hang it in places where a wasp nest could potentially be (some air current where the bag is going to move in the wind slightly. \n\nThe wasps will think this is another nest and say \"fuck that bro I don't want to mess with that army over there, that nest is HUGE!\" \n\nWasps are super territorial and respect each others buffer zones. Its not going to SOLVE the problem but there definitely will be a noticeable decrease in our yellow jacketed enemies. ",
"Apply some zen. They're not going to sting you unless provoked. If you have nothing they're interested in then they'll go away. If you do, then cover it up and they'll go away.",
"Apply a thin coating of honey to the surface of the skin, it is a well known fact that bees are drawn to honey and not wasps.",
"* **when in doubt, hold your breath**. -while out and about- many insects can/do track you through the CO2 in your breath every time you exhale (wasps, bees and mosquitoes particularly). so if one is getting too close for comfort, take a deep breath, wait a moment for whatever CO2 around you to dissipate a bit and then slowly move away from it. you want to wait a moment so you don't just drag the cloud of CO2 around with you in your draft and they still track you. this tactic has seen me through more than a few sticky situations while camping.\n\n* **distract them with plants they like**. -for the home- i have a couple flowering bushes in my backyard that bees and wasps just go apeshit for (admittedly much more so for the honey's and bumbles than wasps, but still some). they love them so much that in the summer they are almost constantly covered in dozens of bees, one of them is right at the edge of the deck. but they never pay any attention to anything but the flowers. you can (and i have) stick your face right in the bush and they are so pollen drunk that they don't really register that you are there. find a plant that works for your location and plant it near (but not too close) to your bedroom window so they will be so preoccupied with it that they wont be concerned with wandering about to see what's around (your bedroom).\n\n* **DON'T PANIC**. -for general ease of mind- you need to teach yourself to not have such an excitable reaction to bees/wasps flying in your space. movement is always an attractant, the more you move the closer they will get to just figure out what the hell is going on. but by the time they figure out that there is nothing of interest for them you've already excited the situation into a concern for them. they get defensive which makes you more excited which pushes them into attacking. and worse, because of how excited you are your heart pumps the venom faster and results in a more violent reaction from your body. now, i've been stung more times than i can count so the stings themselves mean less to me which significantly helps me stay calm in these situations, i understand that you have much more of a reason to panic. but that reason is also the greatest argument for you staying calm. and that's not going to just happen, you have to will yourself to stay present in the situation and say to yourself, *it's not hunting to sting me, it's just going for a stroll, let it stroll*. get screens for your windows and check them periodically to make sure there are no gaps or rips. be aware of where they are if they are in the area. but most of all, when you come face to face treat it with cautious respect, like you would a camp fire - it serves a purpose, its nature is not always a cause for concern and in fact can even be quite enjoyable, but you wouldn't try to give it a kiss. ",
"When wasps are stuck inside, their behavior is to fly toward the lightest part of a room, then crawl up when they hit something. Repeat. When they land, trap them with a clear container (so you can see them). Slide a piece of cardboard under, then throw the whole contraption outside. You can pick up the container after the wasp flies away. The most common, paper wasps, are usually very calm. My dog keeps trying to catch them in the yard, and they never sting her. If they fly to you, stay calm, don't swat, just let them fly by or move away. I find gentle movement rather than swatting makes them fly another direction.\n\nRead the paragraph describing wasps in A Passage to India. It will make you like them, then you won't panic, and you'll be less likely to get stung.",
"WD-40. This was on Reddit some time ago as a solution. I tried it yesterday with a wasp that kept hanging out on my porch. I zapped the wasp and then sprayed the area that he kept visiting. I don't know if it killed him as he left pronto, but no wasps have been back.\n"
] | 0 | [
420,
143,
48,
40,
12,
11,
10,
5,
4,
4,
3,
2,
2,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1,
0,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"Howdo I highlight/mark files in Windows 10? Hi, \nI have about 2500 files (word documents, pdfs, etc) that need reviewing. Since there's so many I want to \n1) Open file \n2) Read \n3) Close file \n4) Highlight it as \"read\" or in a colour, or make it disappear or move to the bottom of the list. \nIs there a software or tweak for #4? Check boxes reset when another file is opened. \nThanks. \n",
"Howdo I highlight/mark files in Windows 10? Hi, \nI have about 2500 files (word documents, pdfs, etc) that need reviewing. Since there's so many I want to \n1) Open file \n2) Read \n3) Close file \n4) Highlight it as \"read\" or in a colour, or make it disappear or move to the bottom of the list. \nIs there a software or tweak for #4? Check boxes reset when another file is opened. \nThanks. \n"
] | [
"You could try modifying the Windows column to show last accessed time. Sort the files by this in descending order. The files you've opened should go to the bottom. \n\nYou could also try local Explorer for chrome. Open the folder in chrome, now each file should be a link. Opened links should display in a different color. \nhttps://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/local-explorer-file-manag/eokekhgpaakbkfkmjjcbffibkencdfkl?hl=en\n\nI haven't tried either of these so not 100% sure if they will work. ",
"I do what you do with a lot of photos. I've built a program to manage the files but honestly the File explorer does the same thing. Once you have all the files in view (you can use the search to get them from subfolders too) Right-click on the background of the File explorer, pick sort by -> more -> Pick something applicable like 'Date accessed' or 'Date last saved' -> OK out of the dialog and re-right-click -> Sort by -> Your modified options will now be there."
] | 0 | [
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to deal with those who micro-manage? I work in an environment which requires many skills. Quite often we have managers who have been trained in several methods and want things to go their way, opposed to my way. \n\nMany times I have heard the phrase \"We do it this way because we've always done it this way.\" I understand that this promotes stagnation and a poor working environment for newer recruits - however the career is incredibly rewarding. \n\nHow can I win over those people who want to meddle with things and let me run a project my way?",
"How to deal with those who micro-manage? I work in an environment which requires many skills. Quite often we have managers who have been trained in several methods and want things to go their way, opposed to my way. \n\nMany times I have heard the phrase \"We do it this way because we've always done it this way.\" I understand that this promotes stagnation and a poor working environment for newer recruits - however the career is incredibly rewarding. \n\nHow can I win over those people who want to meddle with things and let me run a project my way?",
"How to deal with those who micro-manage? I work in an environment which requires many skills. Quite often we have managers who have been trained in several methods and want things to go their way, opposed to my way. \n\nMany times I have heard the phrase \"We do it this way because we've always done it this way.\" I understand that this promotes stagnation and a poor working environment for newer recruits - however the career is incredibly rewarding. \n\nHow can I win over those people who want to meddle with things and let me run a project my way?"
] | [
"1. Be a manager. \n\n2. Don't not be a manager. \n\n3. ????\n\n4. Tell underlings how to do their job your way, not theirs. ",
"Do it your way, save results. Do it their way for presentation, if acceptable, good. If not, then you have the project that shows how your way could work, giving Upper management their choice. ",
"Although my lack of experience in this field is... Significant, I would claim that in most situations the argument \"we do this because we've always done it that way\" is a rather odd one.\n\nAlmost regardless of the nature of the task, I'm sure there must be some way to convince the person saying this that there's nothing wrong with trying something else. That is, if they are not blinded by the fact that they get to do it their way which is to them a good thing. But I mean c'mon, the very argument \"we've done it this way every time\" is an arguement in itself for trying it in another way."
] | 0 | [
3,
2,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"What is the safest technique in the placement of a take-out tray full of coffees in my vehicle so they stop falling over ",
"What is the safest technique in the placement of a take-out tray full of coffees in my vehicle so they stop falling over ",
"What is the safest technique in the placement of a take-out tray full of coffees in my vehicle so they stop falling over ",
"What is the safest technique in the placement of a take-out tray full of coffees in my vehicle so they stop falling over "
] | [
"You basically need to make sure they don't tip over while turning. One way to do that is to put the tray on the passenger seat floor with one side against the door and a kind of heavy item, like a purse or a shoe on the other. Even in they do fall over the coffee goes to the floormats instead of ruining the seats",
"brew coffee on site. You can get the gourmet shit if you like. The you office monkeys can drink to your hearts content.",
"I always put them on the floor in front of the passenger seat. It's usually pretty flat and level, and, unless you're drifting or rally driving, they stay pretty well upright.",
"A take out tray hold 4 drinks right? Put 2 in cup holders in the front of the car and 2 in the cup holders in the back of the car."
] | 0 | [
2,
1,
1,
0
] | safe |
|
[
"Prevent my sunglasses from fogging up while driving. It only happens while I'm driving, most of the time the left lens gets really foggy so I have to take my sunglasses off and air them out a bit till the fog clears up, what am I doing wrong?",
"Prevent my sunglasses from fogging up while driving. It only happens while I'm driving, most of the time the left lens gets really foggy so I have to take my sunglasses off and air them out a bit till the fog clears up, what am I doing wrong?"
] | [
"Stop by an auto supply shop and buy some anti fogging spray. Basically spray it on and wipe it off.\n\nThey also have a pink wax in boat supply shops used on the windows of boats, it does the same thing and has to be reapplied occasionally. Personally I would use the spray, the wax will build up on the frames eventually.\n",
"I use this with my regular glasses, but I'm sure it'll work on sunglasses too - coat with a thin layer of toothpaste and wash off with cold water. Voila, no more fogging! "
] | 0 | [
3,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"How to wake up in the morning ? This has been a constant struggle for me for the last couple of years. It's feels as my body is too tired when I hear my alarm and I just turn it off. I use an android app connected with bluetooth to my watch to monitor my sleep and wake me up at the best time, but so far I've had no results what so ever. I'm ready to try anything that can help. Thanks guys !",
"How to wake up in the morning ? This has been a constant struggle for me for the last couple of years. It's feels as my body is too tired when I hear my alarm and I just turn it off. I use an android app connected with bluetooth to my watch to monitor my sleep and wake me up at the best time, but so far I've had no results what so ever. I'm ready to try anything that can help. Thanks guys !",
"How to wake up in the morning ? This has been a constant struggle for me for the last couple of years. It's feels as my body is too tired when I hear my alarm and I just turn it off. I use an android app connected with bluetooth to my watch to monitor my sleep and wake me up at the best time, but so far I've had no results what so ever. I'm ready to try anything that can help. Thanks guys !",
"How to wake up in the morning ? This has been a constant struggle for me for the last couple of years. It's feels as my body is too tired when I hear my alarm and I just turn it off. I use an android app connected with bluetooth to my watch to monitor my sleep and wake me up at the best time, but so far I've had no results what so ever. I'm ready to try anything that can help. Thanks guys !",
"How to wake up in the morning ? This has been a constant struggle for me for the last couple of years. It's feels as my body is too tired when I hear my alarm and I just turn it off. I use an android app connected with bluetooth to my watch to monitor my sleep and wake me up at the best time, but so far I've had no results what so ever. I'm ready to try anything that can help. Thanks guys !",
"How to wake up in the morning ? This has been a constant struggle for me for the last couple of years. It's feels as my body is too tired when I hear my alarm and I just turn it off. I use an android app connected with bluetooth to my watch to monitor my sleep and wake me up at the best time, but so far I've had no results what so ever. I'm ready to try anything that can help. Thanks guys !",
"How to wake up in the morning ? This has been a constant struggle for me for the last couple of years. It's feels as my body is too tired when I hear my alarm and I just turn it off. I use an android app connected with bluetooth to my watch to monitor my sleep and wake me up at the best time, but so far I've had no results what so ever. I'm ready to try anything that can help. Thanks guys !",
"How to wake up in the morning ? This has been a constant struggle for me for the last couple of years. It's feels as my body is too tired when I hear my alarm and I just turn it off. I use an android app connected with bluetooth to my watch to monitor my sleep and wake me up at the best time, but so far I've had no results what so ever. I'm ready to try anything that can help. Thanks guys !"
] | [
"This might be difficult depending on where you live and when you wake up but, try to open your blinds a little so you are waking up with natural light, it helps your body regulate the time and waking. Also use something like Sleepyti.me online to figure out when you should be waking up and going to sleep, so that you are waking between sleep cycles and not in the middle of them!",
"If this has been going on for years, you may want to go to the doctor and ask for a complete blood panel. I struggled with fatigue for close to a decade as a generally healthy person before we discovered my iron and vitamin D levels were that of an animated corpse. Two weeks into prescribed supplements and I was shocked at what it felt like to just “get up” out of bed. Good luck.",
"There are alarm clock apps that make you solve varying difficulties of math problems or require you to scan a barcode. I used to set it to the barcode on my toothpaste to force me to get up and go to the bathroom.",
"What i have found works consistently for me is putting any electronics up at 820 and being ready for bed, then reading till 9 to make my eyes tired and then i fall asleep way faster and I'm able to wake up at 6 easily as opposed to struggling to open my eyes at 730. Early morning are also way better for being productive than late nights because you wont feel tired and you can get all of your morning stuff out of the way and be free. Don't stay up late doing stuff when you can be well rested and wake up early enough to do it in the morning.",
"LPT: Put your phone/alarm on the other side of the room, forcing you to get out of bed to turn it off. Standing up out of bed is the hardest part, then once you've gotten up you just need the willpower not to get back in bed - still hard, but not nearly as hard as it is when you are still warm under the covers and just slap the snooze button next to you",
"Have a small, warm light next to your bed and the alarm/smartphone somewhere where you have to get up to.\n\nDon't use any mobile devices 30 to 60 minutes before bedtime.",
"Dehydration makes groggy. Try drinking two glasses of water before going to sleep. If you wake up during night to go to the bathroom, drink one glass of water. Also, go early to bed, 10PMish and watch yt/nf in the morning.",
"Amazon: Screaming Meanie 220 Alarm Clock. Keep it in the next room over so you'll have to get up to turn it off."
] | 0 | [
6,
6,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to have a conversation with a friend, about a topic both are interested in, without sounding too pretentious or like a besserwisser? I have a friend and we both have a interest in a specific topic. But the thing is that when we talk about it he becomes very pretentious, and I don't want to be the guy that doesn't have knowledge, so then I too get pretentious. So we get this circle where we always try to learn thing before the other. I don't like when he thinks he knows more than me, and he thinks probably the same about me. So i am starting to get tired of this and I want to insted have a normal and interesting conversation but I don't want to sound like I suddenly have zero knowledge.",
"How to have a conversation with a friend, about a topic both are interested in, without sounding too pretentious or like a besserwisser? I have a friend and we both have a interest in a specific topic. But the thing is that when we talk about it he becomes very pretentious, and I don't want to be the guy that doesn't have knowledge, so then I too get pretentious. So we get this circle where we always try to learn thing before the other. I don't like when he thinks he knows more than me, and he thinks probably the same about me. So i am starting to get tired of this and I want to insted have a normal and interesting conversation but I don't want to sound like I suddenly have zero knowledge.",
"How to have a conversation with a friend, about a topic both are interested in, without sounding too pretentious or like a besserwisser? I have a friend and we both have a interest in a specific topic. But the thing is that when we talk about it he becomes very pretentious, and I don't want to be the guy that doesn't have knowledge, so then I too get pretentious. So we get this circle where we always try to learn thing before the other. I don't like when he thinks he knows more than me, and he thinks probably the same about me. So i am starting to get tired of this and I want to insted have a normal and interesting conversation but I don't want to sound like I suddenly have zero knowledge.",
"How to have a conversation with a friend, about a topic both are interested in, without sounding too pretentious or like a besserwisser? I have a friend and we both have a interest in a specific topic. But the thing is that when we talk about it he becomes very pretentious, and I don't want to be the guy that doesn't have knowledge, so then I too get pretentious. So we get this circle where we always try to learn thing before the other. I don't like when he thinks he knows more than me, and he thinks probably the same about me. So i am starting to get tired of this and I want to insted have a normal and interesting conversation but I don't want to sound like I suddenly have zero knowledge."
] | [
"> I don't like when he thinks he knows more than me\n\nThere's your problem. \n\nThe way you describe it makes it sound like the two of you have massive egos. Why is appearing smart(er) so important to you? Are you insecure about something? Try being humble. Conversation between friends shouldn't be competition about who is smarter. ",
">I don't want to be the guy that doesn't have knowledge\n\nThe smartest people I've met are the ones who admit they don't know everything. If it's something you're interested in, study it and gain the knowledge. And the more you learn about something, the more you'll realize how much you still don't know.",
"Next time you talk, tell your friend something like this:\n\nIve got to tell you something. The last few times we talk about (subject), I leave the conversation feeling like a jerk. I'm gonna try to work on this. I think we can talk about interesting things without sounding like snobs to each other. Is that cool with you?;\n\n\nI don't know. I have a friend who I'm currently going through this with. And when he rambles things off that he knows I don't know about, I just stop and ask him. What is x? Or okay, is that when you y and z happen? \n\nThis way he can explain a little better to someone who doesn't quite know, and also I know he's not pulling stuff out of his ass. \n\nGood mate! ",
"Maybe come at it from a different place. Like be excited when you learned something new. Use enthusiasm to get him excited about the topic and then rather than you each telling each other what you know, it'll change to a joint excitement to know more. "
] | 0 | [
8,
3,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to stop clothes from twisting in the dryer? How to get out the wrinkles if they do? Often when I dry my work pants and dress shirts in the dryer, they get twisted up and wrinkled all to hell. I haven't really found a surefire way of preventing this, although sometimes I find putting less in the dryer helps.\n\nAlso looking for a LPT for when this does happen and I need to get the wrinkles out. (I should say I can't fucking stand ironing.) I tried the old \"fluff the pillow\" trick and threw some tennis shoes in with the clothes, and that helped a little bit, but not as much as I'd hoped.",
"How to stop clothes from twisting in the dryer? How to get out the wrinkles if they do? Often when I dry my work pants and dress shirts in the dryer, they get twisted up and wrinkled all to hell. I haven't really found a surefire way of preventing this, although sometimes I find putting less in the dryer helps.\n\nAlso looking for a LPT for when this does happen and I need to get the wrinkles out. (I should say I can't fucking stand ironing.) I tried the old \"fluff the pillow\" trick and threw some tennis shoes in with the clothes, and that helped a little bit, but not as much as I'd hoped.",
"How to stop clothes from twisting in the dryer? How to get out the wrinkles if they do? Often when I dry my work pants and dress shirts in the dryer, they get twisted up and wrinkled all to hell. I haven't really found a surefire way of preventing this, although sometimes I find putting less in the dryer helps.\n\nAlso looking for a LPT for when this does happen and I need to get the wrinkles out. (I should say I can't fucking stand ironing.) I tried the old \"fluff the pillow\" trick and threw some tennis shoes in with the clothes, and that helped a little bit, but not as much as I'd hoped.",
"How to stop clothes from twisting in the dryer? How to get out the wrinkles if they do? Often when I dry my work pants and dress shirts in the dryer, they get twisted up and wrinkled all to hell. I haven't really found a surefire way of preventing this, although sometimes I find putting less in the dryer helps.\n\nAlso looking for a LPT for when this does happen and I need to get the wrinkles out. (I should say I can't fucking stand ironing.) I tried the old \"fluff the pillow\" trick and threw some tennis shoes in with the clothes, and that helped a little bit, but not as much as I'd hoped.",
"How to stop clothes from twisting in the dryer? How to get out the wrinkles if they do? Often when I dry my work pants and dress shirts in the dryer, they get twisted up and wrinkled all to hell. I haven't really found a surefire way of preventing this, although sometimes I find putting less in the dryer helps.\n\nAlso looking for a LPT for when this does happen and I need to get the wrinkles out. (I should say I can't fucking stand ironing.) I tried the old \"fluff the pillow\" trick and threw some tennis shoes in with the clothes, and that helped a little bit, but not as much as I'd hoped."
] | [
"The only way I've found not to twist clothes is to not over load. Small loads never ever twist in my machine, and packed loads generally do.\n\nI keep a spray bottle of water with a small amount of liquid fabric softener dissolved in. It's like homemade wrinkle release, seems to relax the fibers better than plain water. I spray down creases and smooth them out, and allow to air dry on a hanger\n\nI've also sprayed down creases and retumbled when I didn't have time to let air dry.",
"Wet a washcloth, ring it out but leave it damp. Fire it into the dryer with the wrinkled clothes and run them for ~10 minutes. This works for me. It isn't as good as ironing but it gets the job done for the most part.\n\nDon't overload your dryer, and make sure you give everything a good shake when you take it out of the washer. Usually if things are shaken out they won't stick together in the dryer as much (Fabric Softener sheets help with this too)\n\nTo ensure completely wrinkle free clothes I just grab my clothes out of the dryer as soon as it stops and I'm usually OK. My clothes don't ball up like you describe, but I think that may be because of the shaking and not overloading the dryer.",
"If the clothes aren't extremely wrinkled, I use hanger to set mine up on the towel rack while I take a shower. The steam from the hot shower relaxes the clothes making them wrinkle free. Thus performing some expert time management by killing two birds with one stone.",
"The quicker you take them out of the washing machine after it's done, the less severe and persistent the wrinkles will be. ",
"Wash and dry everything inside out, as soon as you take it out, flip it, and what was wrinkled in and all twisty is now all wrinkled out. Doesn't quite fix the problem but it looks ten times better and takes NO time."
] | 0 | [
6,
5,
3,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"How to legally and reliably get access to research resources normally only available to private educational institutions? I am doing research for a book I'm writing, but in order to really understand the subject material, I need to read some very expensive textbooks that are free to a number of private colleges/universities in my area. Is there any way that I can pay a reduced fee to these institutions and get research privileges? There is no way in hell I am going to be able to pay nearly $150 each for the dozen or so books I need to continue my research.\n\nAnyone have a good tip to get this done at a discount rate/free? I would particularly enjoy remote/electronic access.",
"How to legally and reliably get access to research resources normally only available to private educational institutions? I am doing research for a book I'm writing, but in order to really understand the subject material, I need to read some very expensive textbooks that are free to a number of private colleges/universities in my area. Is there any way that I can pay a reduced fee to these institutions and get research privileges? There is no way in hell I am going to be able to pay nearly $150 each for the dozen or so books I need to continue my research.\n\nAnyone have a good tip to get this done at a discount rate/free? I would particularly enjoy remote/electronic access.",
"How to legally and reliably get access to research resources normally only available to private educational institutions? I am doing research for a book I'm writing, but in order to really understand the subject material, I need to read some very expensive textbooks that are free to a number of private colleges/universities in my area. Is there any way that I can pay a reduced fee to these institutions and get research privileges? There is no way in hell I am going to be able to pay nearly $150 each for the dozen or so books I need to continue my research.\n\nAnyone have a good tip to get this done at a discount rate/free? I would particularly enjoy remote/electronic access.",
"How to legally and reliably get access to research resources normally only available to private educational institutions? I am doing research for a book I'm writing, but in order to really understand the subject material, I need to read some very expensive textbooks that are free to a number of private colleges/universities in my area. Is there any way that I can pay a reduced fee to these institutions and get research privileges? There is no way in hell I am going to be able to pay nearly $150 each for the dozen or so books I need to continue my research.\n\nAnyone have a good tip to get this done at a discount rate/free? I would particularly enjoy remote/electronic access.",
"How to legally and reliably get access to research resources normally only available to private educational institutions? I am doing research for a book I'm writing, but in order to really understand the subject material, I need to read some very expensive textbooks that are free to a number of private colleges/universities in my area. Is there any way that I can pay a reduced fee to these institutions and get research privileges? There is no way in hell I am going to be able to pay nearly $150 each for the dozen or so books I need to continue my research.\n\nAnyone have a good tip to get this done at a discount rate/free? I would particularly enjoy remote/electronic access."
] | [
"[TRIP database](http://www.tripdatabase.com) is free and has scholarly and peer-reviewed articles (medical and psychology). One of my grad school professors told me about it and I love it!",
"What do you need to research that can't be already researched online?\n\nMaybe try Google Scholar / Google Books and see what you can find for free online. Or look for good sources in Wikipedia articles?\n\nWorst case go to your local public library and see if they have the textbooks (or something comparable) or can get copies through ILL or something.",
"Don't you know anyone who's currently in college? They can probably get the books for you through their school's library. \n",
"Check with your local public library. Quite possibly they can do inter-library loans. I'm in Colorado, and I've had material sent to me from libraries in Florida.",
"Check to see if your local universities have a community membership program. Basically you pay a reasonable fee for the year and you have the same access to books and their online subscriptions as a typical university student would. The only drawback is that it doesn't usually come with remote access to online subscriptions if that matters to you. If your local universities don't offer that, possibly put up an ad on Craig's list or a local subreddit explaining your situation and if a current student would be willing to help you."
] | 0 | [
2,
2,
2,
2,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"how to avoid the spray when using a urinal? when using a urinal, it is very common for your stream to hit the porcelain and spray right back onto your pants. we've all accepted it as a normal occurrence, but does anyone have any fixes?",
"how to avoid the spray when using a urinal? when using a urinal, it is very common for your stream to hit the porcelain and spray right back onto your pants. we've all accepted it as a normal occurrence, but does anyone have any fixes?",
"how to avoid the spray when using a urinal? when using a urinal, it is very common for your stream to hit the porcelain and spray right back onto your pants. we've all accepted it as a normal occurrence, but does anyone have any fixes?",
"how to avoid the spray when using a urinal? when using a urinal, it is very common for your stream to hit the porcelain and spray right back onto your pants. we've all accepted it as a normal occurrence, but does anyone have any fixes?"
] | [
"Sorta twist the top of your dick by about 5/10 degrees, kinda like adjusting a garden hose: this will focus the stream. Then aim for the side of the urinal to provide the smoothest route.",
"Its all about the angle. Don't piss directly into it. Point your dong down or to the side so the urine hits the urinal wall at as severe an angle as possible...without pissing all over the place. ",
"Don't piss so hard.\n\nMaybe stand back a little bit and aim lower? I don't know, I haven't encountered this situation in a non-drunk state.",
"I tend to keep the piss inside the watery part of the bowl. The foam seems to keep this from happening."
] | 0 | [
4,
3,
3,
2
] | safe |
|
[
"Recycling Computers I have a lot of old optiplex computers (just the hard drives themselves). What should I do with them to make the most money? Is it wise financially to recycle them? And where would be the best place to do that?",
"Recycling Computers I have a lot of old optiplex computers (just the hard drives themselves). What should I do with them to make the most money? Is it wise financially to recycle them? And where would be the best place to do that?",
"Recycling Computers I have a lot of old optiplex computers (just the hard drives themselves). What should I do with them to make the most money? Is it wise financially to recycle them? And where would be the best place to do that?",
"Recycling Computers I have a lot of old optiplex computers (just the hard drives themselves). What should I do with them to make the most money? Is it wise financially to recycle them? And where would be the best place to do that?",
"Recycling Computers I have a lot of old optiplex computers (just the hard drives themselves). What should I do with them to make the most money? Is it wise financially to recycle them? And where would be the best place to do that?",
"Recycling Computers I have a lot of old optiplex computers (just the hard drives themselves). What should I do with them to make the most money? Is it wise financially to recycle them? And where would be the best place to do that?",
"Recycling Computers I have a lot of old optiplex computers (just the hard drives themselves). What should I do with them to make the most money? Is it wise financially to recycle them? And where would be the best place to do that?",
"Recycling Computers I have a lot of old optiplex computers (just the hard drives themselves). What should I do with them to make the most money? Is it wise financially to recycle them? And where would be the best place to do that?"
] | [
"Personally my hard drives will come in contact with some magnets and hammers before I give mine away. I used to buy cheap computers from our local tip/landfill to see what data people used to leave behind.",
"Formatting does not actually \"KILL\" the data, it allocates the space as \"Free\" and overwrites the old data as you save new data to the drive.",
"This is a common thing people say, but \"Hard Drive\" \n\nis this: http://i.imgur.com/QZiikMO.jpg\n\nWhat I think you have is the entire computer:\n\nhttp://i.imgur.com/Wy8UDTM.jpg\n\nOf which, the Hard Drive is inside, and one component of many inside the machine.\n\n\n\n",
"Have you googled \"electronicrecycling +your city\"? Last I checked, old computers were worth about $5, although metal prices have dropped since then. The value is marginally higher if you tear it apart, and have enough motherboards, hard drives, power transformers, etc. for the recycler to spend time weighing.\n\nI'm an advocate of metal recycling, the carbon footprint of mining copper and other metals used in a computer is significant. I keep a bin of electronics and electrical items in my basement, plus I save anything with a few ounces of aluminum or a few pounds of iron. But I give the stuff to friends who work construction, it takes about an hour to wait in line at the scrapyard, have your stuff graded and weighed, and collect payment. Not worth it unless you have a lot of metal, or a lot of time.",
"If they work, check ebay or craigslist if you can sell them. eBay charges small fee for selling, craigslist you have to meetup with people but no fee.",
"I was a SME on this at a prior job, and as far as NY state is concerned, there's essentially no marketplace for anything more than a year/1.5 old, even $5 isn't likely. Your best bet is to take it to a local recycling place that accepts electronics, as you can no longer throw away electronics in NY state as a business or as an individual. \n\nHere are some links as to what to recycle and where to do it in your area in NY [only]:\n\n[DEC Main Site on E-Waste](http://www.dec.ny.gov/chemical/65583.html)\n\n[Registered places to recycle your electronics in NY State](http://www.dec.ny.gov/chemical/73670.html)",
"Firstly I would setup a screen keyboard and mouse, and plug in and power up each one, and run a hard disk wiping tool on it. \rThen you can tell if they are all functional when you sell them. \r",
"Depending on how old they are, they could be repurposed as cheap pfSense machines, linux torrent boxes, htpc's etc. Usually Dell's have decent hardware i.e. Intel nic's and chipsets."
] | 0 | [
3,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n",
"A beginners guide to eating meat I was brought up vegetarian and after 28 years I started eating meat (reasons irrelevant). Its been a year and a half of just kinda eating whatever. Ive finally realised that I really don't know anything about selecting meat, cooking, seasoning (ok Im alright at this, tips helpful though), preserving (leftovers) etc...\n\nAny help out there?\n\n"
] | [
"There are certainly people here who can give you useful advice. I'm not one of them. I do have a question though. Do you feel physically different being a meat eater vs. being vegetarian? Do you feel stronger/weaker? Healthier/less healthy? More energetic or less? Do you notice a difference in your sense of well being? thanks",
"First is food safety. Anything that touches raw meat must either be cooked or washed thoroughly, including your hands. It is generally most convenient to prepare veggies first, then meat.",
"With meat, there's basically two major styles of cooking in you want an ELI5 version. You've got meat that's tender enough to taste good when you sear it on high heat, and there's tougher meat you want to cook for longer, under less heat, but slower. \n\nFor steaks, pork chops, chicken breasts, lamb chops, cutlets etc, you can almost always cook it decently by turning the heat up in a pan, putting down some oil, seasoning the meat with sea-salt and cracked pepper, put a sear on both sides, and then let it cook internally to the point desired. \n\nOne idiot-proof steak is a ribeye because it has delicious fat inside the meat which will flavor your meat. Get the high nice and high, season the steak, press it down, and leave it. Flip it, and spoon the melted fat back on the steak, and leave it. This method can generally make pretty good, if simple, meat. \n\nIf you're doing a meat that needs to be cooked a little more, like say pork, then you do the above method with less heat, say medium high. That way by the time you've achieved the desired level of seared gold-brown on the side, you've gotten the middle to the right done-ness. This is an art, but you'll pick it up pretty quickly. \n\nFor tougher stringy and boney cuts (pork shoulder, brisket, beef shank, chuck roast, etc) you have tough cartilage and stringey fibers in the meat, but you have a ton of flavor too. These meats require more time to cook, and they must be kept moist too as they taste bad when dried out. You will generally want to combine these meats with other ingredients that bring out flavor when cooked, like aromatics (garlic, onion, for example). \n\nDifferent cuisines have different takes on this, but there's some commonalities from a rich indian curry with lamb meat falling of the bone to a french pot roast flavored by wine and butter. The indian curry will use a base of aromatics (ginger, garlic, onion, chili) and let the stringy, boney meat stew in the aromatic curry, lending a meatiness to the whole curry. The French pot roast is similar - you've got the sweetness of roasted onions and garlic, of cooked wine. Both are thickened by the gelatin and fat from the meat melting into the liquid. Pho and similar meat-based soups do the same thing. \n\nSomething like carnitas is a pork shoulder that's been cooked slowly in pork fat, often with citrus and spices adding flavor, and then crisped up at the end. It's still the same function - taking a tougher, fattier meat that's not the best when you slice it up and sear it and eat it... and then slow-cooking it while keeping it moist. \n\nNow, of course there are thousands of styles of preparing thousands of cuts of meat. This is an area for infinite learning. But if you want to start, I'd start by learning a few recipe for high-heat meats like steaks, chops, and so on, and a few recipes for low-heat meats like chuck roast, pork shoulder, and my personal favorite, beef shanks. \n\n",
"This is a huge topic. I suggest finding a local butcher who can help. Meanwhile, [here is a butcher's AMA.](https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/1u9g68/iama_butcher_ama/)",
"I'd check out r/paleo and r/keto for recipe ideas, as both of those diets focus on high protein, nutrient rich diets which involve eating a lot of meats, fats and whole foods.\n\nWhen selecting meat at the store, fresher meat tends to look physically more attractive, for example beef should be bright red, chicken should be bright white to pink (not grey). If you can afford it, choose grass-fed beef/pork when possible, and arsenic-free chicken. Conventionally raised beef (Grain-Fed Diet, factory-farm conditions) is loaded up with harmful Antibiotics and rBGH, which is a growth hormone. All chicken is hormone and anti-biotic free due to FDA laws, but a lot of common brands add arsenic to give it a bright pink color even though it's a known carcinogen. Avoid frozen or chicken which is brined, as it has added salt and preservatives and frankly doesn't taste nearly as good as normal chicken.\n\n For fish, try to avoid farmed fish whenever possible as it's typically much higher in Mercury and is loaded with antibiotics, with less Omega3's and healthy nutrients. Overall though, looking for grass-fed meats and wild caught fish is more important from a health standard as opposed to looking for just Organic meat products, though you'll find a lot of organics already are.\n\nCooking meat itself is somewhat of an art, but with some practice you can become quite good at it. It's important when cooking chicken that it's not undercooked (165F), but with pork and beef anything over 145F is safe depending on how rare you prefer it. Fish varies with some fresher varieties that can be safely consumed raw, but if you're not into Sushi or Tartare it should be cooked fully until it flakes with a fork.\n\nFor leftover meat, usually it's best to consume within a few days. You can honestly safely go over a week or more, however I find that most of the flavor dissipates after a few days and it starts to taste \"stale\".",
"Look into sous vide cooking. You can get a good sous vide machine for about $150. It makes cooking meat much easier since it takes away a lot of the guesswork. Make sure you use the right temperatures for the right amount of time to be safe, and you'll get tender, awesome meat each time. I get cheap sirloin when it's on sale, sprinkle with salt and pepper, cook for an hour or so, and it's ready. ",
"Here is the health angle. Apologies to fans but beef, pork and processed meats (pastrami, hot dogs, etc) aren't good for your health. It is fine to have some now and then but mainly as part of a stir fry or stew and not a big chunk of steak. Serving size is 3-4 oz which is about the size of your palm. Chicken and fish have less fat. Cook fish within 2 days of buying it or you will be sorry! Leaner cuts of beef are tougher and require different cooking methods or marinating. For lean meats, like flank steak, cut across the grain. You will see stripes in the meat from the muscle. Cut across the stripes to slice it. This cuts some of the toughness. I suggest you get a cookbook from the library and read the meat section. Joy of Cooking, at least the old one, goes over many topics in the buying and cooking of meat. Have fun experimenting. Remember to always refrigerate meat within 2 hrs of cooking it. Leftovers often keep 3-5 days.",
"For seasoning: simplicity works very well. You can get away with only seasoning in salt and pepper if you get the right cut of steak. A good choice for this is skirt and flank.",
"Good Eats is a wonderful show that explains how to use all sorts of ingredients, including meat. It's available online, on netflix, and prolly elsewhere. \n\nit's best to start slow. Stew is a good, easy recipe. Also buying prepared cuts like frozen chicken breasts or tenderloins. Bone-in meats are more difficult to cook than boneless. However, the easiest meal in the world is buying a rotisserie chicken, eating half for dinner, and then using the leftovers for chicken salad or sandwiches. Meatloaf and meatballs are p easy, too. Ground meat, in genearl, is a good way to add meat to recipes. \n\nIf you have the means and the space, barbequing is easy, too. The only difficult thing is temperature control and being sure to cook meat thoroughly. \n\nFor beginners, you're more likely to undercook meat than overcook it. Usually, beginners burn the outside and leave the inside raw. Cook it low and slow -- if you hear the outside spitting and crackling, it's too high. Most meats cook best around 350-400 F. Also, there's the cut -- a serving of beef is the size of a deck of cards. \n\nOf course, most meat shrinks but 1/3 to 1/2 when you cook it, but chicken and beef cooks best if it starts at less than 1 1/2\" thick at its thickest. Get a good knife and learn to butterfly chicken breasts.\n\nIt's much easier to cook small pieces of meat than large. Try cutting chicken into cubes and making a stir-fy. It'll take you a while to learn how to time all your ingredients so everyhting is finished and hot at the same time, so don't feel bad if you're microwaving vegetables because the meat took too long. Just take it out of the pan before it burns and put it in a bowl, cover it with a plate, and make a mental note to add that ingredient last next time. Generally: potatos and meat first, then veg, then aromatics and cheese. ",
"A beginners guide...hmmm.\n\nBring beef to room temperature before grilling or pan frying.\n\nSear grilled or pan fried beef, it seals in the juices.\n\nDon't overcook. Tender and juicy is the goal.\n\nChicken in an oven is always best cooked fast, hot, and covered.\n\nFish cooks fast, is delicate, and ruins fast."
] | 0 | [
13,
10,
4,
4,
4,
3,
2,
2,
1,
1
] | safe |
|
[
"Switching US mobile Carier I've been a long time customer of ATT wireless. I want to switch to T-Mobile and am curious about peoples experience with their Device-Buy-Back program and Early-Termination-Fee-Return program. \n \nIt seems like they'll only pay for your early termination fee if you also trade in your current device with them. \n \nWhy is this in LPT? Because my wife has a, still very recent, iPhone 5S. T-mobile estimates that she would receive $350 for the trade in. But I'd rather keep the device. So, i'm thinking: could we just obtain a cheap used phone and trade that phone in instead of her 5S? \n \nThat way we can sell the phone ourselves for more money or keep it as a great back-up device. ",
"Switching US mobile Carier I've been a long time customer of ATT wireless. I want to switch to T-Mobile and am curious about peoples experience with their Device-Buy-Back program and Early-Termination-Fee-Return program. \n \nIt seems like they'll only pay for your early termination fee if you also trade in your current device with them. \n \nWhy is this in LPT? Because my wife has a, still very recent, iPhone 5S. T-mobile estimates that she would receive $350 for the trade in. But I'd rather keep the device. So, i'm thinking: could we just obtain a cheap used phone and trade that phone in instead of her 5S? \n \nThat way we can sell the phone ourselves for more money or keep it as a great back-up device. "
] | [
"If you're a long-time AT&T customer, they *should* unlock the phone for you. If they won't unlock it, it really won't do you any good on any provider. You're lucky you're coming from AT&T, at least you have a *chance* of using your phone with your new provider. \n\nHere's a couple of tips: first, get AT&T to unlock your phone, and then see about everything else. If you can use it with T-Mobile at all, then yeah, consider giving them a cheapo phone. \n\nSecond, consider transferring your phone number(s) to a Google Voice number. You can then link your number to whatever device (or devices!) you ever end up getting, with whatever provider, without bothering to port the number. ",
"Head over to /r/Tmobile they'll be a lot of help and there are several employees who are active on the sub"
] | 0 | [
3,
2
] | safe |
Subsets and Splits
No community queries yet
The top public SQL queries from the community will appear here once available.