i lost a tampon really deep inside me and did't know it. i haven't used one in a month, so it's been there for at least that long. am i ok? what can t
if you are sure a tampon is still there, you need to see an gynecologist immediately and have it removed! see more...
You are so kind to be this active due to the distress of a stranger. I'm touched by how much you care. I can also see why you are horrified!  
  
Maybe this woman is too far along with the prolapse, but I do know that there is something called a pessary that can generally be inserted to hold the organs in place. I'm surprised this wasn't done long ago for this woman. The nursing home maybe didn't have care of this woman until it was too late.   
  
You seem to be doing everything you can, and you're right in not wanting to get the nursing home in trouble since they aren't the problem. Contacting the urology department of your local hospital may yield some results. Perhaps there's a program for people who are in such dire situations. Please let us know what happens.   
Take care,  
Carol i normally keep it in until it is completely flacit and wants to fall out on its own. can't speak for anyone else. no problems with that. it's quite normal if the amount is very low. it is normal. dont worry i will try again and let you know if any issue grace, i would have it checked out if i were you. the least would be a physical examination and a chest x-ray. good luck. yup, i just farted off mute. mute is crucial. it can take up to a year for the injectable to be cleared from your system.<br><br>best wishes helo dear,firstly congratulations as you conceived . now you have to take care of yourself a lot and after one week you have to contact your gynecologist . because you have to start folic acid supplement calcium supplement and iron supplement as soon as possible in first trimester and if any hormonal medicine or injection is needed your gynecologist will prescribed you. 
 wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy A.  You are right to be concerned. It sounds like your daughter has been increasingly isolating herself. Although successful in that she goes to school, her friendship circle is very limited for someone her age. Although it’s not unusual for people to talk through problems or to review their day with themselves in the privacy of the bathroom or their own room, your report that she may be punishing herself by screaming and slapping isn’t typical or okay.


Sometimes our kids can’t tell us what is troubling them so they consciously or unconsciously leave hints around so that we’ll find them. Kids sometimes “accidentally” leave a diary open where we’ll find it or “accidentally” leave a distressing email open on the family computer, for example. It’s their way of sending out a distress signal without having to quite take responsibility for doing so.



I’m guessing your daughter’s lengthy time in the bathroom is something like that. On some level she knows that you will be concerned about a two-hour stay in there.


It’s past time for you to respond to the signal. Find a therapist who specializes in young adults. Ask your doctor for a referral or click on the “Find Help” tab on the PsychCentral homepage. There may also be a behavioral health clinic at her college. Brief the therapist on the phone and ask for some guidance about how to get your daughter to go in. (Sometimes it’s helpful if a parent goes to part of the first session.) 


Then, in a loving way, let your daughter know how concerned you are. Tell her that you know that she is upset and that you want to help. Reassure her that she doesn’t deserve to be punished by herself or by anyone else – no matter what. Insist that she see the counselor. Tell her you are willing to go with her. Don’t argue. Don’t get mad. Stay in that loving, concerned place.


[Parenting](https://psychcentral.com/lib/category/parenting/) doesn’t end because a child is at the age to start leaving home. We all have to figure out when to let go and when to still pull the “parent card.” In this situation, your daughter is telling you without words that she needs you to be a mom. Please follow through. She sounds like she really needs help.


I wish you well.  

Dr. Marie


Daughter Talks to Herself