does anyone else think that a "perfect", eternal life would be boring?
apparently all your bad memories get erased...i don't know about you guys, but my bad memories keep me motivated to continue on. then, there is no marital union in heaven--a life without my life partner? no thanks. thirdly, about ninety years or so is quite enough for me--who in the world is selfish enough to need "forever"?

and, honestly, unless heaven is like something out of a james bond movie (with extra action and excitement), then i'd hardly call it perfect. just boresville.
boredom would itself represent an imprefection so your question is essentially inapplicable. i do not adhere to the idea of an afterlife but i was brought up a catholic and understand the doctrine and associated beliefs. the concept of perfection in this context excludes any potential for unhappiness or dissatisfaction.
i am wondering if my ex will come back into my life. apparently there is common belief that boys are fine at the start and only usually begin to miss you and potentially regret their decision a few weeks or months after making it, and attempt to reconnect. whereas for the girls, they are heartbroken the first few days- and slowly reestablish themselves and get better over time. have you got any personal experience with an ex coming back into your life? i know the saying "they're an ex for a reason" and everyone tells me to move on.. but it has only been a few days and well, he is the love of my life. for men it's not so bad as long as you can deal with the pressure of everyone demanding sexual behavior that often runs contrary to what you may actually want to do. but the steady supply of young butt-horny dicksuckers probably makes up for it.for women, it takes a certian state of mind to not be subsumed by the attention. while it is easy money up front, if a girl starts to entertain the thought that this is what she could do with her life, that's where the problems start. porn isn't a backup plan - it is necissarily a temp job for women, which they simply don't get offers for after the age of 30 or so (unless they have a history with a producer or something). How new and fresh is the relationship? That shouldn't decide this answer but for me it does. I can't wait to see the woman again if its after a good 1st date. Towards the end of my five year marriage, she couldn't stay away long enough. Sad but true. my family has taken disney trips that have lasted anywhere from six to nineteen days, tara. with those experiences under my belt, i can confidently tell you that i believe ten days is the ideal trip length. anything less will seem hurried and anything more can get tiresome. if you plan your itinerary wisely, a ten day trip will allow you a number of days in the theme parks, a couple days in the water parks, and maybe a day or two to relax by the pool or take in some shopping at downtown disney. i need to clarify, though, that you won't be able to see everything in ten days; i've been on many (many, many, many) disney trips and still i haven't seen and experienced everything. ten days, though, will allow you to see and take part in a variety of disney's best and brightest offerings and go home feeling as though you had a most magical trip. enjoy your vacation! sounds like my friend rushing to build a family a keep telling him to relax it takes a life time to build a family rushing in does not help and you end up with a bad relationship but he still does not learn i just had a real heart to heart explaining this to him a hope i got across. with your situation you will find that more with older guys who are already at the point of settling down you will see that more with older people who are in a stable job have a home and are basically preparing to start a family or have already had a family you see this with guys that have kids and or never grew up in a complete family themselves so are rushing to create one for themselves as it's what they missed out on as a child some do probably. others are just more conservative and don't think that women sleeping around is a good thing. although some of those are probably hypocrites who watch a lot of porn and would love to have sex with a lot of women if they could, not all of them though. you're also off on the idea that everything is entirely up to women, and that the power dynamic will flip when you're older. neither of these things are true at all. it's not entirely up to women or else women would never get hurt, and the whole power dynamic flipping at 30+ thing is a cope for guys who can't get laid in their 20s. i'm 17 and i'm horny all of the time too. but i've never masturbated or had sex. virgin to everything. my boyfriend and i make out all the time. he dry humps me and stimulates my clit over my clothes. it drives me wild and it's all i think about sometimes. since that feels so amazing i wonder what actual sex would be like. the problems is i'm big on saving myself for marriage, so i have to deal with my horniness and its awful sometimes. HM ok, another day, another try, but I gotta say: The seemingly endless lessons about numbers and numbers on top of numbers and more numbers are really disencouraging me a lot. It's been a lot of fun up to this point, but I really don't see the point in filling out so much about numbers for the sake of numbers o\_o Could you, like, do a little less of that? I'm seriously looking at covenanting for life to look after and be looked after a faith-based international communal fellowship of Bible-believing people. They live like this to follow the original Way that the first believers in the Son of God lived instead of what became of this Way as it was replaced by elements of other religions and cultures. They only consider marrying the other people in the group who have also covenanted never to leave nor forsake each other the way the Son of God implemented when He told His Disciples He would never leave nor forsake them and to Love each other as He had Loved them. 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twelvetribes dot org sex is only a small and less important factor in a marriage or between 2 people that care for each other.at age 16, i would anyway recommend you wait another 2 or 3 years before you even start thinking of sex. there are so many dangers associated with it, starting with std/sti, disappointments or the fact that a girl is misused by guys that just want to add yet another victim or body count to their long list.what is sex? a few muscular contractions and spasms and usually, it is over in about 3 to 4 minutes. it is not really worth wasting your virginity just to be like all the others. you are special because you still have it. keep it for the one that deserves it and not because you have the feeling that you need to lose it. don't be a sheep that follows the others and don't succumb to group/peer pressure.