when does it become a stigma to not have children?
i’m about to turn 29 and i have no offspring. my mom already resents for it but i don’t care. so when does it become a thing for ordinary people? most jobs i apply at ask me why i’m not married or have kids. so maybe late 20s?
are jobs allowed to ask you that 😮 none of their business. wow.you're young. if it’s something you want you got time. if not there’s no obligation for you to have kids. 😊
there is no specific age when it an happen. it can even happen in infancy. see more... wow marlboro! yikes! ouch! even though i&#39;ve been working with queer issues for many years i am still struck by what you&#39;ve told us. it is a very sad reflection on our society, where same-sex marriage is legal, that parents can throw gay youth out of their homes. ignorance and prejudice run very deep.<br><br>what are your ages?<br> 33 is not old. have kids whenever you are ready. some of mine do and some don't. i quit trying to explain to ppl who have no idea what it's all about. some will never truly understand this illness anyhow. hugs. take care 🌺 don’t feel guilty. i think a lot of people feel this way at some point after having kids, but no one wants to be honest or talk about it. is it not having time that is making you depressed? or is it the loss of freedom? i am a stay at home mom to a 2 1/2 year old and went through a lot of the same things you’re describing. i can tell you that it gets easier to find time as baby’s sleep gets more predictable. past that, we wound up “splitting” most weekends. i sleep in on saturday morning, and my husband sleeps in on sunday. after i wake up on saturday, he usually goes to play golf, and i go to the movies or brunch or something on sunday. i wish i could give you a magic answer, but you just have to play around with your time and see what works best for you. the worst thing you can do is let yourself get into a rut. try to talk to your wife openly and honestly about what you’re feeling. part of becoming an adult and having a family of your own is learning how to manage relationships with other people... like your own parents. it can be devastating to have a parent with mental illness, i do understand, my dad lost his battle with mental illness several years ago. however, when you are responsible for a child of your own, you've got to be able to function no matter what else is happening around you. part of that is giving yourself time and space to grieve and to feel what you are feeling rather than trying to stuff it down. find someone to talk to that you can let those tears go with, a counselor... or friend... your husband... even calling a warmline if necessary. the baby will be fine. the first sign of early menopause is the alteration of the menstrual cycle and the absence of periods. also, if you are trying to get pregnant without success, the cause of infertility may be related to ovarian failure.

to confirm whether a woman really suffers from early menopause, it will be necessary to have a gynecological check-up and a hormonal examination. completely normal! some moms never have any morning sickness and don’t feel pregnant at all. and as for the flat stomach...no worries there either. some people just don’t show for a long time. with my first child i was 4 months pregnant before i was showing. i don't, they get the silent treatment until i need to talk to them. which is rare when you hit puberty you will begin to catch up with your friends and in fact you may become taller than them in the long-term.<br><br>be patient with yourself, trust your body to begin growing when its ready.