how do i get more girls?
before you judge me im young, and i am honest with the women i meet. i tell them i dont want anything searious. i started weight lifting and works on my confidence
dont be nervous. act very confident (even iof your fat/skinny) always have a clean preppy outfit and clean look will get you laid everytime. 

bottom line : just look / act fresh!!!
At your age, it's tough because girls (and young people on a whole) are so fixated on things like physical appearance and social standing among peers. These are things that become less important as you get even just barely older, particularly the latter as no 22+ year old cares if you're "popular". That said, just work on your dating and conversation skills. Find some really fat, ugly girl and take her out on dates. The whole time, act like she's the most beautiful, most interesting girl you've ever met. Come up with things to talk about, jokes to say, and places to take her. All this refinement will come in handy when you hit your stride and the girls you take out find that you're just more interesting and fun than all the other guys that they've gone out with. It'll work, I promise. well start by changing the way you dress and do a full 180 on the way your currently living life and see if she catches on. be the responsible man that will attract her attention. own your own life and live it to the fullest and if you can do that anything can happen. i've been on this site for a while and reading a number of "virgin" questions and girls replies, my conclusion is: most girls don't mind or don't care if he's a virgin. in fact a number actually prefer virgins.if you like to know what you should do, my opinion is, learn to win a girl's heart, them lose it to her.yes, not just any girl, but a girl whom you love/like very much and is certain that she likes you too.girls are a lot more emotionally inclined when comes to sex. hence when she feels in love, she won't care about you being a virgin. instead she will be ready to give you a good first time.so work at it, win a heart, then lose it already. good luck. it's really a combination of factors. firstly, i have to be attracted to the girl. and there isn't just one thing that's enough to catch my interest. for instance, i am really attracted to light-skinned latinas with black hair, dark eyes, a nice butt, healthy and on the shorter side. so her looks will catch my eye but for me to pursue trying to talk to her, she has to have the right personality cues. if she seems slutty, stuck-up, rude, etc. i'll pass on her. in that instance, i prefer quieter girls who are kind of shy, have at least an above average level of intelligence, and act modest -- a demure girl i could say. i've flirted with it before. i didn't get much interest. just women that i'm, to be politically uncorrect, way out of their league, at least in terms of the logistics of dating. all the women that i was interested in and messaged, didn't respond. actually what i'd say was going on is this. firstly you need to be aware of the psychology of it, and how peoples' minds work. ie, if you have forlorn selfies, one or two of you pondering the nature of existence in your bedroom, you're not going to get many bites from women. women can get away with being aloof and beautiful like that. men typically have to portray a more social and outgoing image, least that's what i imagine. if you can project the image of social power, then you're going to attract more of it. and i'm sort of eluding to the tragedy of dating websites and dating in general, and their 'unnaturalness'. it's all very calculated, and hardly dreamy romantic if one is check-boxing all the time. there's a lot of tragic people on there, trying to find a means to desperately get away from their tragedy and find that validation or quick thrill they are seeking. like all things, it's a question of intent. what are you true motivations. if one goes there, with innocent eyes, wholeheartedly, and is not there to deceive any body, or escape from anything, then of course, it's just another medium to meet people. the whole hearted thing is important. actually uploading a decent set of photos, putting some thought into your profile, etc. what you put in, you get out, it's not just a case of being there. the same applies to going to social gatherings in general. go to the same event, and make the effort to talk to people and be open, and one will get dramatically different results. also, i think on the positive, it can expand the potentiality of the people you can meet manifold. there's lots of interesting people out there. i really think it's like social media in general. it just fans, positive or negative, what you are already doing. of course, one could make a deeper argument about conscious control in the first place. we think we have conscious control of the happenings around us, but really, conscious 'control' is the mind's means of deluding us into thinking that we're not working to the subconscious forces within us. the truth about my 'rejections' were, i wasn't really into it, i was just playing... sort of, if you're feeling me, to make this more 'down' and gag friendly. when you hit puberty you will begin to catch up with your friends and in fact you may become taller than them in the long-term.<br><br>be patient with yourself, trust your body to begin growing when its ready. they are small but they are still very sexy. i just don't care what size boobs the girl i want to date has , that is because to me and many other men find all boob sizes are all equally sexy, because boobs are boobs. i want to date a girl for her personality , not her body. i want to date a girl that has the following: big heart, mature, kind, polite, and has an amazing personality. all that matters is in the inside not the outside (i don’t judge a book by its cover). if a guy makes fun of you for them then he isn’t worth your time? all you can do is do your best and aim as high as you possibly can. everybody has limitations, not everybody can "win". there will always be somebody better than you in some way: taller, better looking, more money. it doesn't matter, because most people don't even strive for greatness.maybe you run that marathon and you come in like 20th or something. you didn't win. but you came 20th out of thousands of people. those thousands of people also trained, and are fitter than the average person. they guy/girl who came in 1000th, 2000th, 3000th, 10,000th place is fitter than the average person. the average person doesn't exercise at all. the average person could barely run a half a marathon, they couldn't even complete that.the same goes everywhere else. i like to lift weights. plenty of guys are bigger and stronger than me. but i'm much stronger than the average guy. 65% of guys are obese. of the remaining 35%, the majority are scrawny and out of shape. simply lifting weights regularly, eating right, and having the discipline to do that sets you apart from probably 80% of men in that area.that's all that's really required. how to recover? first stop degrading yourself. then stop associating yourself with negativity. then start associating yourself with positivity. then start building your confidence and accept the fact that the good women don't care about height and looks and disorders. realize that a good woman will love you for you, and go about being a positive member of society. if you keep your current state of mind, there is no hope. because you are actually good looking and really not even short. just regular like everyone else. good luck! well this happened to me (a bit younger at first and then a five year break before continuing) and it's made me distrusting of people, especially boys or people i date. it made me feel like they saw me as easy, and even now i feel like i am. i'm mostly normal (with some side effects from the memories) but i really have problems with people flirting and giving me compliments