What do you think of men that have hit a woman?



 Would it change your opinion of a guy that you know if you found out he had hit a woman in the past? Would you have a negative opinion on a guy because of this and would you ever change your opinion if you got to know the guy and he turned out to be a really nice person? When I say hit, I mean either he beat a girl up bad but only the once, or a guy that hit the same girl over a number of years but never beat her bad.
It depends on the situation of how and why he hit her, because I know there's also crazy women out there too, who attack guys and then when they defend themselves they get the blame for it.  
  
Or just women in general that can hit people too but not many people ever talk about that, it's always guys being the violent ones mainly.  
  
Generally no, a man shouldn't hit a woman out of respect, but it just depends on a lot of factors. It would be wrong to say a person like that never changes too, because people do change and can have the possibility of changing.   
  
On the other hand if I knew a man had hit a woman and I was getting to know him more, I would be cautious of him and his actions but I would not judge him for it. It's best to get to know a person for real on your own personal judgements, but also to take in cautious factors about what you do know about them, incase you need to avoid it in future.
maybe, if she has a self-esteem problem. in the end what you'll get is lots of cuts and bruises, and a bad sexual experience that makes you feel embarrassed every time you think about it for the rest of your life. as with anything, depends on the girl. some like it, some tolerate it, some hate do you have concerns ( which previous generations more commonly had ) about whether a dad ought to be rough and toughen the lad up versus being nurturing and pleasant ? <br><br>not that long back the latter was the norm - it didn&#39;t do growing boys any good, and often left them confused, and experiencing difficulties in demonstrating the gentleness that is so much a part of manliness, which doesn&#39;t solely consist of being rough and tough. <br><br>how did your own father relate to you ? often, in ways we don&#39;t altogether realize, the model of how to be fatherly is one we absorb from what we see and experience. sometimes the worst punishment is the way people treat you. its terrible when someone accuses you of something and then you have to deal with a wave of hatred and back stabbing, and nobody believes the truth.
its sad that their are so many dishonest people that when a person is a genuine human being they are treated like scum because nobody believes that honesty exists. What do you think of bullying?   

- Bullying awful and horrible. It's really hard to get over the bullying and try to move on. Bullying causes so many problems and a lot of people develop mental health problems like depression, stress, anxiety and they lead to self harm, have suicidal thoughts and even take their own lives. Bullying is horrible and nobody deserves to be bullied.   

  

Were you bullied, or were you the bully?   

- Yes, I was bullied for 5 years and I suffered from physical and emotional bullying. They spat at me, called me names, punched me in the stomach and beat me up. It was the worst point in my life and it led me to suffer from depression   

  

Why do you think people bully?   

- They are evil. They're jealous and are pathetic   

  

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