read the given extract and then do all activities that follow: if you do not get lowered in your own eyes while you raise yourself in those of others if you do not give into gossips and lies - reading skill
read the given extract and then do all activities that follow: if you do not get lowered in your own eyeswhile you raise yourself in those of othersif you do not give into gossips and liesrather heed them not,- saying, ‘who bothers?’you may be the person i am looking for.if you crave not for praise when you winand look not for sympathy while you loseif cheers let not your head toss or spinand after a set-back you offer no excuse.you may be the person i am looking for.if you accept counsel without getting soreand reassess yourself in the light thereofif you pledge not to be obstinate any moreand meet others without any frown or scoff.you may be the person i am looking for. a1. enlist (2) enlist any four things that inspire you to live inspire of failures:(i) \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_(ii) \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_(iii) \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_(iv) \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ a2. poetic device? (2) figure of speech :pick out an example of refrain from the extract and write down its criteria to identify it. a3. personal response (2) express your views in about 50 words, the need to look for an ideal person. a4. poetic creativity? (2) if you do not get lowered in your own eyes.while you raise yourself in those of others.if you do not give in to gossips and liesyou may be the person i am looking for.compose a line of your own to rhyme with the second line in the given stanza.
a1. (i) we can only fail if we give up or stop trying.(ii) we need to accept our faults and take it as a learning because no one is perfect.(iii) failures are the experiences that we get to ensure that they are not repeated ahead.(iv) only when you participate and give a try you come to know the positives and negatives about it.(v) it's not about how many times you have failed but after that how many times you stood up is what really matters. a2. the example of refrain (repetition) from the extract is-you may be the person i am looking for.refrain is identified easily as these lines are repeated in the poem & usually towards the end. a3. ideal persons are the ones who are always demanded by people. majority of people have their role model in life whom they follow or want to become like them. though we know that no one is perfect in this world but ideal person has a best quality in them that is positive approach towards life. a4. and consider everyone like their brothers.
Your time hasn't come yet. No need to be discouraged. Use this time to grow and learn about yourself. Read to uplift and encourage yourself. Dont compare your life to others because you aren't meant to be like the next person become selfish, but not too much. when you walk in your bathroom and look at yourself in the mirror, grin because you look good and you like what you see. only care about your own opinion, once you develop an attitude of loving how you yourself look, everyone else will take notice. that is of course if you look good and have self image issues. and what about guessing? are you good at guessing? try to guess if i am or not, if you guess right you choose your reward ;p A. It’s difficult to assess the seriousness of this on the basis of only a letter so let me just share a couple of thoughts.

People by nature tend to fall somewhere on a scale from introvert to extrovert. It may be that at least part of this is that you are on the introvert end of the scale. There is nothing wrong with that! But, the larger culture celebrates extroverts. In high school, the general idea is that everyone is supposed to be outgoing and popular. Of course, not everyone can be. Not everyone wants to be. So let’s at least assume that part of what goes on is that you have a more restrained approach to life. One thing that supports this is that you do have a couple of close friends and that seems to be enough for you.

As for being out with others: I wonder if you have developed the skills you need to be comfortable out in the social world. Introverts can and do learn how to manage social situations enough so that they can be successful in their careers and can find loving relationships. Notice that I said “skills”. Skills are behaviors you can learn (like how to make small talk, how to be an active listener, how to be a good communicator, etc.). As you get more practiced in these skills, you will be more comfortable being with people for longer periods of time. But you will still need your alone time to “recover” from a lot of social interaction.

The line in your letter that does worry me is your statement that you can spend hours holed up in your room and in bed. Yes, you may need time to recharge your social batteries but it would do a lot more for your self-esteem if you would use that time to pursue an interest or to do something to make the world a better place. Think about ways to support a cause or candidate or to educate yourself about something you are genuinely interested in. You will feel better about yourself than if you just hang out wondering if there is something wrong with you. An important bonus is that it will give you more to talk about when you are with people.

I hope this is helpful. I wish you well.  
 Dr. Marie

I Want or Need to Be Alone he could be thinking the same thing, "obviously you don't miss me if she hasn't contacted me." i say , try. if his response isn't what you wanted then at least you know you tried. how to recover? first stop degrading yourself. then stop associating yourself with negativity. then start associating yourself with positivity. then start building your confidence and accept the fact that the good women don't care about height and looks and disorders. realize that a good woman will love you for you, and go about being a positive member of society. if you keep your current state of mind, there is no hope. because you are actually good looking and really not even short. just regular like everyone else. good luck! Well, I can sit here and tell you the things that I'm pretty sure you are well aware of like; hang out with friends, join new things, exercise and etc. And yes, all of these things are a great way to get your mind off of someone, but forgetting them is something hard and I personally think, you can never do. Let's be honest, the relationship failed and it hurts because right now you miss them. And let may say, that is perfectly normal, it tells me that you cared but also you aren't numbing yourself to pain (Via drinking is an example of numbing). That you are a passionate person who still believes in love and who deserved happiness. The last thing I want you to do is to forget that person and pretend it doesn't hurt, even though you may seem fine, when you're alone, truly who are you fooling? The number one tip I have for you, is to ALLOW yourself to feel pain, allow yourself to cry and allow and yourself to grow. This is a great opportunity to rebuild yourself, to do it for only yourself and for you to reflect. So when those tears are gone, stand up on your own two feet and start doing the things you love, not to distract and forget, but rather reflect and build. The best way to "forget" someone is to realize that yes this pain hurts, that yes this pain is temporary and yes I will get through and improve whether spiritually, physically or emotionally. It's going to hurt like hell, but if you can see this pain with a clear mind, eventually you'll realize a life without them. Don't forget, smile and realize that there will be someone out there willing to show you love once more. Another thing that really helped me was that I started looking at it objectively, and I had this realization that I was more disappointed that he wasn't the one, rather than just flat out missing him. Wishing you the best of luck, never forget, smile because you've learned something and will continue to learn. some people have not been equipped with the coping or social skills to create and maintain healthy relationships. yet, one can develop social skills by accepting that although a group of people are related by blood, they are not automatically healthy or beneficial for all. 
one can create new, healthy relationships by reshaping their outlook, possibly with the help of therapy, and taking up new hobbies for adults....joining co-ed groups to meet both males and females and not only will this be fun, but this will provide the healthy socialization adults benefit from. some people are introverts, which psychology has adjusted to mean where u get ur energy from. like, an extrovert get energy and life from interacting with lots of people and feels uplifted and empowered by this, whereas introverts can actually be social as well, but prefer limitied amounts as too much interaction makes them feel drained. it does not mean the socially awkard kid who people have only say one word, two years ago, sitting in the basement with no friends. probably. however, achieving more success would probably attract more fake people in your life than you might actually think. if you fall rock bottom at some point, those people will disappear and you’ll be all by yourself again. so if i were to become more successful and increase my financial status. i’d stay solo.

the rest of the people who somehow fly to me like bees on a honeycomb can pretty much fück off.

if you weren’t with or didn’t like me from before. don’t come near me now. well start by changing the way you dress and do a full 180 on the way your currently living life and see if she catches on. be the responsible man that will attract her attention. own your own life and live it to the fullest and if you can do that anything can happen.