dream meaning. ?
hi all. i had a dream, 
i was singing what a wonderful world and walking and dancing past houses. in each house was someone that i do not speak to anymore. drifted apart fallen out whatever just no longer apart of my life. but i was happy and they were just living there lives. there was a few rooms with these people. and i just hopped along singing my song happy as can be. not a care in the world. until i reached the end. in the last room in fact it wasn't even in a room it was behind a building a very close friend of mine ( shes more than a friend) was stood with someone. the someone was a pure shadow so i have no idea who it was or could be. at this point everything went grey and i woke up. since this dream 2 nights ago. it will not leave my head. and i cant work out the meaning. thanks in advance if anybody can make any sense of this.
you dance down the street happy to be alive, passing house after house of ppl who  you have allowed to move on without you.  you are aware of this and it is fine with you.  when you get to the end of the rooms, you see one woman outside the house and she was with a dark spirit of a person, a mere shadow of a person.  you noticed this and became concerned and then woke up.  to me, that shadow person represents you and your relationship with her.  she is different from the rest of the crowd, as she is not locked inside a room, but feels freer behind a building. perhaps she is waiting there for you. she is certainly different from the other women in your dream.
every individuals have diff way of coping , some people can't be happy without someone on their side or sometimes they are sad and wants to be around people. Some people are not strong enough emo and mentally to be alone so they want something to be busy about rather than thinking about the break up but some people just dont feel pain or just ignore the pain. Well, I can sit here and tell you the things that I'm pretty sure you are well aware of like; hang out with friends, join new things, exercise and etc. And yes, all of these things are a great way to get your mind off of someone, but forgetting them is something hard and I personally think, you can never do. Let's be honest, the relationship failed and it hurts because right now you miss them. And let may say, that is perfectly normal, it tells me that you cared but also you aren't numbing yourself to pain (Via drinking is an example of numbing). That you are a passionate person who still believes in love and who deserved happiness. The last thing I want you to do is to forget that person and pretend it doesn't hurt, even though you may seem fine, when you're alone, truly who are you fooling? The number one tip I have for you, is to ALLOW yourself to feel pain, allow yourself to cry and allow and yourself to grow. This is a great opportunity to rebuild yourself, to do it for only yourself and for you to reflect. So when those tears are gone, stand up on your own two feet and start doing the things you love, not to distract and forget, but rather reflect and build. The best way to "forget" someone is to realize that yes this pain hurts, that yes this pain is temporary and yes I will get through and improve whether spiritually, physically or emotionally. It's going to hurt like hell, but if you can see this pain with a clear mind, eventually you'll realize a life without them. Don't forget, smile and realize that there will be someone out there willing to show you love once more. Another thing that really helped me was that I started looking at it objectively, and I had this realization that I was more disappointed that he wasn't the one, rather than just flat out missing him. Wishing you the best of luck, never forget, smile because you've learned something and will continue to learn. i don't see it as about forgetting. you've moved on when you can remember such a moment and no longer miss the person or feel bad in any way. i hear you and feel so sorry for you that it's not working out as you want... i hear you actually you're like a dear friend of mine...but i can't help but point out a few points. seriously, listen up i'm not trying to judge you or anything.. belive me. but you know it's so uncool of you to say that you've been used, since you both agreed to have sex, come on.. we're grown ups not underage girls.. how the heck the 'being used' part come from?(actually that kind of attitude might have freaked him out i think..) and also i don't really see what he has done wrong so far if it was clear you two were just friends with benefits. i mean seriously, he's not your boyfriend, and you're acting like as if he is.. but you know.. i completely understand that you're having hard time with your ex. you liked him so sweet and listened to you.. trying to understand what you're going throw.. your bf's hurting you, it's because i see girls who suffer from bad relationship and honestly? if he's no good for you and he's hurting you and if another guy help you get out of that deep hell, go for it(im selfish i know, sorry). but you aren't happy, because you found a wrong guy(not that he's wrong, it's just he is not a guy who can give you what you need and want) that made it clear that it was just sex, and you two are kinda friends(well you claim) which is fine. but you want him to be there for you, and be only with you no other girls. don't you see? why he's leaving you?how to change his mind.. honestly? after all these? that you freaked him out and you broke the rule of friends with benefits which is called 'feelings' with it's best friend 'jealousy', you were cheating on your boyfriend, and you said all your relationship with other guy? i don't see any possibilities(girls! don't you think it's a little bit unfair that to say i wanna be who i am , asking guys to be some kind of knights? ... )i hope you find another new sencere sweet boyfriend, i really do. but right now.. i really hate to say it but you and him? i don't think it's gonna happen. i'm so sorry... i think i haven't been any helpful but all mean words.. but i have dear friend who is going throw what you're going through...(at least it seems like to me..). and i really really hope you the best... really... a big hug.. find a guy who can give you want you want.. who can love you.. really..you be the dreamy girl... not despressed lonely girl... then right guy will come out..! the year was drawing to a close. it was a cold winter night. after a tedious and exciting day, the kids were tucked into bed, now all sound asleep. we were awaiting the arrival of a new one into the family. soon all the adults in the house also retired to bed after wrapping up the chores. in the middle of the night, michael heard a thudding sound. someone was running down the steps. michael switched on the lights. soon many hurried footsteps could be heard. mia was in pain! amidst all the worry and rush, everyone’s heart was also beating with elation. michael seated mia in the car and we all followed. the whole family had been waiting for this moment for nine months! in the hospital, we had to wait impatiently for quite a few hours. poor mia’s screams were getting higher. but no one forgot the night when mia’s final scream got replaced by a newborn’s. everyone’s eyes were watering with boundless joy. we had got a beautiful baby girl for the family. I know how you feel mate. The fact that it was online doesn't make it totally unreal like lots of people would say. There's another person at the other end who is probably equally affected. If you want to move on then try to take all the good things you got from the experience and hold on to them. well this happened to me (a bit younger at first and then a five year break before continuing) and it's made me distrusting of people, especially boys or people i date. it made me feel like they saw me as easy, and even now i feel like i am. i'm mostly normal (with some side effects from the memories) but i really have problems with people flirting and giving me compliments Getting over someone takes time. It can either range from a day to several years depending on the person. Of course I can’t say that it’ll be easy, but the first step is to let go and accept that she isn’t a part of your life anymore and she was just the practice relationship to your next one which will last a last time if you must. Know that you will both care for each other, but that doesn’t mean that you have to be hung up on her. Remember the five stages of grief and be aware of which stage you are in - this sadness won’t last forever, it’ll just lead to a happier future this my “jam of the week” to use a dated term from my era lmao. 🎶the ones that hate me the most look just like me, you tell me what that means🎶where was this song for me when i was in high school? that pretty much describes the experience😂 some of mine do and some don't. i quit trying to explain to ppl who have no idea what it's all about. some will never truly understand this illness anyhow. hugs. take care 🌺