can you describe yourself as a hot mess even if you’re not hot?
like you have broccoli in your teeth and accidentally had anal sex with your yoga instructor last night, and every time you take a selfie you have some sort of squint thing going on. like breakfast is a chunk of cocaine and there’s a piece of toilet paper permanently stuck to the bottom of your boot.we’ve all been there right? but is she a hot mess?
i've always thought "hot" in "hot mess" was more like an intensifier, not a positive thing.like, being a "mess" is something's like a garbage dump - terrible, things are bad, etc.and a "hot mess" is that same garbage dump after stewing in mid-summer heat for a month. it's just that much worse.
maybe, if she has a self-esteem problem. in the end what you'll get is lots of cuts and bruises, and a bad sexual experience that makes you feel embarrassed every time you think about it for the rest of your life. A. It’s difficult to assess the seriousness of this on the basis of only a letter so let me just share a couple of thoughts.

People by nature tend to fall somewhere on a scale from introvert to extrovert. It may be that at least part of this is that you are on the introvert end of the scale. There is nothing wrong with that! But, the larger culture celebrates extroverts. In high school, the general idea is that everyone is supposed to be outgoing and popular. Of course, not everyone can be. Not everyone wants to be. So let’s at least assume that part of what goes on is that you have a more restrained approach to life. One thing that supports this is that you do have a couple of close friends and that seems to be enough for you.

As for being out with others: I wonder if you have developed the skills you need to be comfortable out in the social world. Introverts can and do learn how to manage social situations enough so that they can be successful in their careers and can find loving relationships. Notice that I said “skills”. Skills are behaviors you can learn (like how to make small talk, how to be an active listener, how to be a good communicator, etc.). As you get more practiced in these skills, you will be more comfortable being with people for longer periods of time. But you will still need your alone time to “recover” from a lot of social interaction.

The line in your letter that does worry me is your statement that you can spend hours holed up in your room and in bed. Yes, you may need time to recharge your social batteries but it would do a lot more for your self-esteem if you would use that time to pursue an interest or to do something to make the world a better place. Think about ways to support a cause or candidate or to educate yourself about something you are genuinely interested in. You will feel better about yourself than if you just hang out wondering if there is something wrong with you. An important bonus is that it will give you more to talk about when you are with people.

I hope this is helpful. I wish you well.  
 Dr. Marie

I Want or Need to Be Alone hot flashes can exist for a number of reasons. a true hot flash usually is very specific and results from a loss of hormones. however, women who have fluctuations of hormones like exists in pregnancy can have similar symptoms. see more... are you sure that hey are not either ofthe following:

small blisters or heat rash? (i had this once and yes they itch)
-the blisters were so tiny that i could hardly even tell thatt hey were blisters, my doctor had to actually point it out, that they were blisters and not just "bumps".

an allergic reaction to your tanning lotion?
-sometimes when you continually use the same lotion your body begins to "reject it" same reason why woman who start wearing make up very early tend to not be able to wear it later in life, because they become llergic to it.

have you changed your tannign lotion recently?
-also could be an allergic reaction... or sometimes the "hot action" lotions can cause red bumps and a tingly/itchy sesnation for up to 6 hours after you tan, or until you shower to remove it.

try covering just your tummy with a towel while you tan, and don't apply any tanning lotion or accelorator to the area, for a couple times and see what happens... *i know that you don't want a tan line* but the stomach is usually the first area to tan, gets the darkest and also absorbs the most heat in the bed. if it still happens, it could have something to do with the heat and not the bed or the lotion itself.

you could also see if an aloe based "after tanning lotion" helps.

if none of this works, i would recommend stopping tanning, and seeing your doctor about it before starting again.

**my aunt and uncle owned a tanning salon for 5 years, i both worked and tanned there for a long time, so i've seen alot of crazy stff... probably more than i wanted to... lol**

we also own a tanning bed and have for a really long time... i've been tanning since i was in about 8th - 9th grade.

btw to keep from getting wrinkles from tanning... exfoliate, exfoliate, exfoliate... lol cause unfortunately it is true... you do get wrinkles from tanning... =) oh that guy is hott
idk make them 
growing a beard in the 10th grade is kinda weird wait till you're in collage
after i saw his picture i went all over the internet and found him
yeah his so hot

about youre head bands get some fabric and just put it on youre head 

i would just ripp some old t shirts of mine to make it more me
 

dont wear them everyday just somedays and if youre teachers suck like mine they will tell you all this crap about how you cant wear it 
but then again it is a headband not a hat 
and my teachers just hate me 

dpnt grow a beard yet 
well idk maybe you have the look you should post a pic of your self

i love city and color my favorite song is girl evrytime it goes to the fast pce one i start dancing 
once i broke my shower curtain and fell in my bathtube all wraped in the shower curtain it was soo funny i wish it was recorded just be careful afterwards when eating, you don't want to pop out the clot and get dry socket. i had that and wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy. you do you. if you like it, eat it. i personally like to mix catalina salad dressing into my cottage cheese and have it on buttered toast. may be gross to everyone else, but i'll be dmned if i care what anyone thinks, nor will i ever stop eating it. no. people who have been in a persistent vegetative state rarely just open their eyes and start asking questions- like "how long have i been out?"- like on tv. they very gradually begin to be aware of their surroundings, and no- they don't bound out of the bed either. they are weakened and have lost muscle tone, and generally have a catheter in place! 
i always laugh when i see a scene like you described! Hello-
Unprotected oral sex is common, but has risks. Several sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including HIV, herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, HPV, and viral hepatitis can be passed on through oral sex. "It's safer sex, but it's definitely not safe sex." 1. one of your scars, how did you get it?


2. what is on the walls in your room?


3. do you snore, grind your teeth, or talk in your sleep?


4. what kind of music do you listen to?


5. do you know what time you were born?


6. what do you want more than anything right now?


7. what do you miss?


8. what is your most prized possession(s)?


9. how tall are you?


10. do you get claustrophobic?


11. do you get scared in the dark?


12. the last thing to make you cry?

13. what's your worst fear?

14. what kind of hair/eye color do you like on the opposite sex?


15. where can you see yourself being proposed to at?

16. coffee or energy drink?


17. favorite pizza topping?

18. if you could eat anything right now, what would it be?

19. favorite color of all time?

20. have you ever eaten a goldfish?


21. what was the first meaningful gift you've ever received?


22. do you have a crush?

23. are you double jointed?


24. favorite clothing brand?


25. who is your fav female/male celebrity?


26. do you have a pet right now?


27. what kind is it?


28. would you fall in love knowing that the person is leaving?


30. say a number from one to a hundred:

31. blondes or brunettes?

32. favorite quote?


33. favorite place?


34. have you been out of the usa?

35. your weaknesses?

36. met anyone famous?

37. first job?


38. ever done a prank call?


39. do you think everyone out there has a soulmate?


40. what were you doing before you filled this out?


41. have you ever had surgery?


42. what do you get complimented about most?


43. have you ever had braces?


44. what do you want for your birthday?


45. how many kids do you want and their names?

46. were you named after anyone?


47. what is the biggest turn off of the opposite sex?

48. what is one thing you like about high school?


49. what kind of shampoo do you use?


50. do you like your handwriting?

51. what is your favorite lunch meat?

52. any bad habits?


53. are you a jealous person?


54. if you were another person, would you be friends with you?


55. do you agree with friends with benefits?


56. do looks matter?

57. how do you release anger?


60. what was your favorite toy as a child?


61. how many numbers are in your cell phone


62.were you a fan of barney as a little kid


64. mashed potatoes or macaroni and cheese?

65. what do you look for in a guy/girl?


66. what are your nicknames?


67. if you had a super power what would it be?

68. what's your favorite tv show?

69.what's the best way to deal with your enemies?


70. what's your favorite ice cream?


71. do you have all your fingers and toes?


72. do you have a computer in your room?


73. plans for tonight?


74. where do you want to live when you are older?


75. do you want everyone to answer these questions?


76. what are you listening to?


77. the last thing you drank?

78. last person you talked to on the phone?


79. the first thing you notice in the opposite sex?


80. what do you like to do in your spare time?


81. favorite thing to hate?


82. favorite season?


83. what's your favorite type of dessert?


84. have you ever really and truly had a best friend

85. what is your hair color?


86. eye color?


87. shoe size?


88. favorite fast food place?


89. favorite restaurant?


90. do you like sushi?


91. watch tv today?


92. favorite day of the year?


93. play any musical instruments?


95. kisses or hugs?

96. relationships or one night stands?


97. what was the last thing you bought?


98. would you ever be a housewife?


99. what book are you reading?


100. describe your love life?