do guys really expect sex on the 3rd date?
because i never been on a date and my biggest fear is a guy expecting or pressuring me to have sex.
here is the deal, if the guy is pressuring you in anything to have sex when you don't want to, you just stand up and leave. 3d date or 43d - doesn't matter. it is you body and your decision. and you deserve somebody who would treat you with respect and understanding. it is not about the number of dates you have. you might make love after the first date if you feel like doing so. you might wait. it's not an exact science. the only thing that is 100% sure is that you (or him, btw) souldn't be forced to do smth you are not ready or don't want to do.
ok..first of all: love is a word too big to be brought into this discussion. and second: although u found this question to be awkward, once u stay and think for a minute it isn't like that at all. whether u like it or not, sex is part of our life, and it keeps getting more and more important as time goes by. it is true, a few time ago it was kinda ta-bu subject, but now the "sex topic" is as common as...let's say...listening to music! so in an era that promotes and gives a great importance to sex questions like "do girls fantasize about having sex wen they see a hot guy?" are not out of order. on the other hand, it is obvious that he is more experienced in this subject than u are. as a prove we have your "cry for help" here. remember that: a guy will almost never give up an opportunity to have sex! but this doesn't mean your guy is only interested in having sex with you. in this case maybe he would have asked u out already. my advice is for you not to waste any more time by limiting yourself to only simple conversations with him. this could have 2 implications:
1. you fall for him because his "sweet talks" and maybe this is what he is waiting for.
2. this potential relationship evolves into a simple friendship relation, which would be not so good, since you clearly have feelings for him.
so ask him out, or at least make him ask u out! good luck! you need to win the girl over with looks and personality first before you even get a sniff at knowing how much she loves sex. once you have a relationship it will blow you mind how much the average girl needs sex. most of the girls i know want it at least as much as the guys. yes, unemployment puts a strain on any individual and any relationship. <br><br>however, i don&#39;t see how i can recommend taking up paid sex as a solution for problems, though i can understand how you might find the idea tempting in more ways than one. what does your husband think of the idea ? he could hardly fail to be curious about where the new money was coming from. otherwise, how could you explain it to him ? <br><br>i agree with maria. <br> have sex tonight.<br><br>best wishes fantasies are one thing, and reality another. no form of acting out such a fantasy would benefit anyone, and it would be highly likely to end up as hurtful and to severely damage your relationship. good advice all round, and poppie&#39;s ideas might be worth trying. if you had a fantasy involving high physical danger to him, or something like you leading him, naked, through the supermarket with a rope round his neck, would he be so eager to act it out for you, and accept the ridicule that would abound on him ? consider marriage counselling to work on what leads him, not to the fantasies, but to want to act out something so inevitably destructive to your marriage you can ask others or if you see them, just look at their facial expressions and other body language.  i avoided and ignored a jerk at the gym and the last time i saw him, he didn't even acknowledge me (fortunately).  so i know i either hurt his feelings or made him mad. bonnie, it is very common to revise the due date based on ultrasound evidence, because it is much more accurate than the first day of your last period. why they didn't mention it earlier, i can't say, but remember that guessing a due date is an inexact science. only 5% of babies are actually born on their due date. hope this helps! see more... it all depends on the test. in general most stds are not diagnosed the same day. there is usually a way to meet or communicate lab results at another time. see more... Hello Miilla,



  

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Hope this helps ... date whoever you like.  and as for sex , if it works for them , then that is their business.