when girls ask for favors?
a friend and coworker of mine- she's so awkward around me. most times she won't answer messages or calls to do things together. whenever i see her at work, she acts really weird. it seems she feels guilty and comes up with lame excuses for not responding to me. i never ask her why. i play it cool and treat her as my friend (i do really like her). the other day she asked me to give her a ride to the airport at midnight so she can make her flight. she said she felt uncomfortable going with anyone else or using a shuttle or cab. we've known each other for years. i know she's single. i also know she has tons of "friends", both guys and girls. why not ask them? but whatever. i stayed up late and took her to the airport. she talked the entire time and was happy. what's the line between asking for favors and being used?
you are being used if youa are putting her needs before your own.
Your girl sees you like a partner, and a little like a big brother under that umbrella. Now imagine telling that to your 5 year old little sister. Wouldn't she do the same thing? It's not particularly that she is just sad, is that she sees that you don't want to be her partner. Instead, what you want to do is to push the fun for later and respect that engagement. hi patty! it is not usually the case that you will be assigned a preferred guest room without having reserved one. however, as always with disney, it does not hurt to ask! i would recommend that you make the request and i will send some pixie dust your way! have a magical vacation! sorry i dont think she likes you. she is just using you to boost her confidence and make it seem like she has lots of guys under her wing. maybe she is trying to make another guy jealous. :-/ anywayz i could be wrong so gl. there is surely no reason at all why a friend of your mom&#39;s, who is not a friend of yours, should visit you or take any particular interest in your baby. simply talk calmly to your mom, and explain that while you tolerated this woman at the shower and wedding, you don&#39;t like the woman and do not want her to visit you. your mother ought to udnerstand this. r3emind her that this is your house, your home and your baby, and your privacy must be respected rather than the idle curiosity of this other woman. that sort of person pushes up the social tree exactly because they are insensitive and never take hints sorry. i wish i could help but i find it weird that people “like” your post and not say anything. i posted yesterday and i was like ok… ummm do you want to look at my book? hah. all the best sir! A. It’s difficult to assess the seriousness of this on the basis of only a letter so let me just share a couple of thoughts.

People by nature tend to fall somewhere on a scale from introvert to extrovert. It may be that at least part of this is that you are on the introvert end of the scale. There is nothing wrong with that! But, the larger culture celebrates extroverts. In high school, the general idea is that everyone is supposed to be outgoing and popular. Of course, not everyone can be. Not everyone wants to be. So let’s at least assume that part of what goes on is that you have a more restrained approach to life. One thing that supports this is that you do have a couple of close friends and that seems to be enough for you.

As for being out with others: I wonder if you have developed the skills you need to be comfortable out in the social world. Introverts can and do learn how to manage social situations enough so that they can be successful in their careers and can find loving relationships. Notice that I said “skills”. Skills are behaviors you can learn (like how to make small talk, how to be an active listener, how to be a good communicator, etc.). As you get more practiced in these skills, you will be more comfortable being with people for longer periods of time. But you will still need your alone time to “recover” from a lot of social interaction.

The line in your letter that does worry me is your statement that you can spend hours holed up in your room and in bed. Yes, you may need time to recharge your social batteries but it would do a lot more for your self-esteem if you would use that time to pursue an interest or to do something to make the world a better place. Think about ways to support a cause or candidate or to educate yourself about something you are genuinely interested in. You will feel better about yourself than if you just hang out wondering if there is something wrong with you. An important bonus is that it will give you more to talk about when you are with people.

I hope this is helpful. I wish you well.  
 Dr. Marie

I Want or Need to Be Alone randall, very sneaky of you (i like it!). my brother does that to my nieces every time! first make sure you have a plausible reason for where you are going. can't get on a plane, or hop in the car, on a whim, right? next, decide where you want her to find out. is it as you are leaving home, or literally not until she is getting onto the disney property? if it as you are leaving your house, you could surprise her with four park maps so that on the travel to florida she could start dreaming about what she would want to do. let her start listing out her must do! attractions! if it is as you are getting there, a lot has to do with whether you are flying, or driving. if you give me a quick follow-up question with more info on how you are going down there, i can get you some more detailed suggestions! just go to my bio page to ask. have a magical vacation! that friend zone is bs mate. the best relationships are many times with someone you are familiar to and really great friends with. my girlfriend now is my best friend and was before we started to date. at first she wasn't sure; so we took it slow. but now we are very much so in love. i wouldn't change anything about how we got together; i wouldn't want to be with anyone else. you two are great friends? all you can do is be there for her; and tell her your honest feelings. this may be awkward and hard to do; but if you really like her it is worth the risk. nobody ever got anywhere important without risking big things. if she doesn't reciprocate these feelings all hope isn't lost; if she is that important to you where you cant move on then don't give up. she may see you in a different light knowing you would not give up on her. meaning if she says no; don't just go for what you can get next. keep to it for a while; months; years even depending on your connection, i waited 5 months until she actually gave us a chance, i told her straightforward that i was the man for her and would prove it to her. all in all it will be worth it because you'd be staying true to yourself. friend zones don't exist; there's just compatible people and non compatible. a friend zone is something people put themselves in when they give up; or when they give up after being told they are like a brother to the girl. don't give up and you will be something different to her; if but a way closer friend than before because your feelings and how much you care for her will be monumentally greater than she realized before hand. as with anything, depends on the girl. some like it, some tolerate it, some hate c’est une manière d’écrire ou de prononcer ‘-가지고’ entre amis. ça nous donne l’impression de parler plus doucement ou aimablement  des filles font souvent comme ça.
‘-가지고’ veut dire “et alors” entre deux phrase comme je l’ai utilisé tout à heure.