do you have this fetish?
"cuckolding has become fetishized into a powerful sexual fantasy for some men, who get aroused by the idea of their romantic partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else. women also share this fantasy, but less so than men[...] 58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding."
being married for 20 years i find the idea exciting and a major turn on. in fact i find it so hot. a number of years ago my wife went away for a girls weekend twice to a local beach-ie island getaway. we're very open and she told me how she was a bad girl in the party/bar pool. a hot guy was digging her and bought all her drinks. they got really touchy feely in the pool and she enjoyed being grouped and rubbed and grouping rubbing him. she even snuck her hands in his swim shorts and played with him. this action went on for hours. stroking, rubbing, grabbing, making out.when she got home i threw her in bed, made her tell me her all the dirty details, then we had the hottest sex. the next year she went back for the same girls weekend. i basically gave her open permission to do what she wants. i even highly encouraged her to be even more dirty. but she doesn't really have an interest in doing more, so her dirtiness didn't get any more than the first time she was there. nevertheless she came home and we banged hard as she told me the bad things she did do. that is about as wild as things have gotten, mostly because she doesn't have an interest to do more with other guys. however, i would be open to having a very kinky arrangements if she was game.
he might have a hand fetish...a sexual attraction to hands. but he might just be a very tactile person...someone who expresses emotions through touch. ok..first of all: love is a word too big to be brought into this discussion. and second: although u found this question to be awkward, once u stay and think for a minute it isn't like that at all. whether u like it or not, sex is part of our life, and it keeps getting more and more important as time goes by. it is true, a few time ago it was kinda ta-bu subject, but now the "sex topic" is as common as...let's say...listening to music! so in an era that promotes and gives a great importance to sex questions like "do girls fantasize about having sex wen they see a hot guy?" are not out of order. on the other hand, it is obvious that he is more experienced in this subject than u are. as a prove we have your "cry for help" here. remember that: a guy will almost never give up an opportunity to have sex! but this doesn't mean your guy is only interested in having sex with you. in this case maybe he would have asked u out already. my advice is for you not to waste any more time by limiting yourself to only simple conversations with him. this could have 2 implications:
1. you fall for him because his "sweet talks" and maybe this is what he is waiting for.
2. this potential relationship evolves into a simple friendship relation, which would be not so good, since you clearly have feelings for him.
so ask him out, or at least make him ask u out! good luck! many men wear ********* or use dildo / vibrator there to stimulate their prostate. 

male prostate orgasm is like female's g-spot, different from penile orgasm but still very satisfying. fantasies are one thing, and reality another. no form of acting out such a fantasy would benefit anyone, and it would be highly likely to end up as hurtful and to severely damage your relationship. good advice all round, and poppie&#39;s ideas might be worth trying. if you had a fantasy involving high physical danger to him, or something like you leading him, naked, through the supermarket with a rope round his neck, would he be so eager to act it out for you, and accept the ridicule that would abound on him ? consider marriage counselling to work on what leads him, not to the fantasies, but to want to act out something so inevitably destructive to your marriage it is a very personal decision. but don't be fooled by the anti-circumcision activists. the reality is:

"-- circumcised men say they experience greater sexual pleasure after surgery, a finding that should help overcome unease about the operation."

"a total of 87.7 per cent said they found it easier to reach an orgasm after being circumcised, and 92.3 per cent said they experienced more sexual pleasure." normal men, women, boys, and girls masturbate (it's universal). it is not harmful, as the body goes through similar effects during regular sex with a partner (but too much of anything may become a problem). masturbation does not stunt height, cause acne or hair loss, make you weak, create heart problems, lower testosterone, affect virginity, lower fertility, change your weight, or damage vision. see more... marijuana can heighten some of your senses, including your sense of touch (and it definitely affects your sense of taste!). with your ability to feel heightened, an orgasm can feel awesome. i had a girlfriend who hated marijuana, but i finally got her to like it getting her stoned and having sex with her so she could see how great it felt. she was always up for a toke after that :) have sex tonight.<br><br>best wishes you need to win the girl over with looks and personality first before you even get a sniff at knowing how much she loves sex. once you have a relationship it will blow you mind how much the average girl needs sex. most of the girls i know want it at least as much as the guys. let's put it this way: i think that some men are physically attractive. someone like leonardo dicaprio for instance. but i have no kind of other attraction toward him (or any other guys, for that matter). but toward women, i am physically, sexually, emotionally, romantically attracted to them (and any other attraction you can think of). i call myself a lesbian because…i am one. don't you see how? i'd never be able to be with a man in the way i could be with a woman. i'm just not built that way. 
if sexual and romantic attraction are essential for you in a relationship, i don't see how you'd be able to be in anything other than a lesbian relationship. if sex is essential for you in a relationship, i don't see how you'd really be able to distinguish panromanticism from homoromanticism, at least where it counts. if you want to base a relationship on romantic attraction, then i suppose that would be an entirely different case. it's up to you, in the end.