do i have a chance with this guy? is he interested? ( i need a lot of answers?
ok so i like this guy.. we met like 4 months ago, and we went to a concert with our friends, then he asked a friend of mine my email.. we talked a little, then i had this party and i went with him, he told me i looked beautiful and he was like always "hugging me" and then my friend were like picture! and he hugged me, then the music started and there was a song and he started to sing to me in the ear , this " where your heart fits" and then we danced a lot, and when we got like lost from each other when we found again, he would hug me again and put a huge smile on his face...

he is/was so nice & sweet
he asked how was the food, he pulled the chair for me, he even told me if he change his desert for mine, even though he didn't like chocolate.. (his was vanilla and mine was chocolate) oh and he asked me my cell #!!
-he isn't shy at all... 
-he is just the kind of guy that love girls
-and he said to my friend that he couldn't have a nice girl..
girl. i think he likes you. you definitely got a chance!
just say hello, how are you? i think you are cute. here is my number call me.orhello handsome! i am going to get a drink. would you like to join? or if that doesn't help since you are shy. then try this, just look at the guy and when he stares back give him a smile i agree with your friends. you obviously like each other because he claimed to be willing to make the long drive to see you, he willingly met your parents to good effect, and he responds well when you call him. however, we cannot know what he is thinking until he makes some positive overtures in your favor without prodding. he probably has only the vaguest ideas what to do with himself regarding the relationship with you, so maybe you should give him time to clear his head. you must give him space for a few days to a week, maybe, before calling him again. he could be concerned about a long-distance affair, he could be overwhelmed by pressures of daily life, or just grappling with his shyness (since, you say, he's not been in a relationship before). if you get a weak or no response after about a week, call him and ask him directly how he feels about your mutual arrangement. once you allow him to make the moves himself it will all turn out well. oof!it means he really likes you and he wants to be your boyfriend pretty quickly or either he’s just horny af!im unsure if this helps, but i hope it does Liking doesn't always equal commitment.   
  
You don't really have to analyze it but if you did it could be because  
  
He doesn't want to commit to just one woman. He wants to experience a lot of different women.  
  
He just wants sex.  
  
He as at a point in his life his focus is on what is important to his own personal development.  
  
He has emotional bonding issues and doesn't really know how to commit.  
  
None of these reasons matter so either you see him without the commitment or you just hang out with him as friends but date other guys. No point in thinking he's going to change any time soon. well depends on the context of how he said it if he meant he lived that your friend was cool than there's not really much to worry but if he meant he loves your friend out of actraction and romance than you might have an issue if a guy invites you over it’s obvious he’s trying to hook up with you. maybe the break up is on his mind or he’s trying to find ways to deal with it. either way if he missed you he would of had a genuine conversation with you rather than just invite you over. it's really a combination of factors. firstly, i have to be attracted to the girl. and there isn't just one thing that's enough to catch my interest. for instance, i am really attracted to light-skinned latinas with black hair, dark eyes, a nice butt, healthy and on the shorter side. so her looks will catch my eye but for me to pursue trying to talk to her, she has to have the right personality cues. if she seems slutty, stuck-up, rude, etc. i'll pass on her. in that instance, i prefer quieter girls who are kind of shy, have at least an above average level of intelligence, and act modest -- a demure girl i could say. i'm nice and polite like i am with anyone, but with her i'm a tad flirty to see how she responds, gradually getting more and more flirty to see what she finds acceptable. for example the other day i asked her if she was a goddess, what she would be the goddess of. when she said she hadn't thought of it i spontaneously said, or rather had thought it would be a clever thing to say two days in advanced, that she would probably be the goddess of wisdom and beauty. when i get more confident in myself, i'll send her one of these forms. a guy that found me online wanted pics of my tits once. i said no, i don't like to send nude pics, if people wanna see that they gotta see it in person. he persisted. i asked, "can't you just go look at tits on pornhub or something?" his answer was "yeah, but they wouldn't be your tits." i guess there's something different about it being someone you're actively involved with than a total stranger who you will never interact with. first thing that came to mind was when i was 19 and dating an older man. i loved him, was enamoured with him.he invited me to his place for dinner after work. of course he knew how to cook, eat healthy. he was a real man, not a boy.i approached him in the kitchen. he was cutting up carrots with a large chef knife. i wrapped my arms around him from behind, giving him a big hug. and then he said something to me which i have always, for some reason, remembered... he put down the knife and carrots, turned around, and reciprocated with a big, warm, heartfelt bear hug. "if you're going to hug me, do it right" he said. "this is the way i do it."i think it was a preference specific to him. it's not that this applies to other men. i guess i liked it because it showed me how aware he was of connection; that he was in it, with me, fully present, not pulling away from the moment.it's one of the reasons i fell in love with him.