should i get circumcision?
i'm 16 and am wondering wether i should get circumcision. all my friends tease me about it and i have herd a lot of girls say that that is what they prefer.
it is a very personal decision. but don't be fooled by the anti-circumcision activists. the reality is:

"-- circumcised men say they experience greater sexual pleasure after surgery, a finding that should help overcome unease about the operation."

"a total of 87.7 per cent said they found it easier to reach an orgasm after being circumcised, and 92.3 per cent said they experienced more sexual pleasure."
sex is only a small and less important factor in a marriage or between 2 people that care for each other.at age 16, i would anyway recommend you wait another 2 or 3 years before you even start thinking of sex. there are so many dangers associated with it, starting with std/sti, disappointments or the fact that a girl is misused by guys that just want to add yet another victim or body count to their long list.what is sex? a few muscular contractions and spasms and usually, it is over in about 3 to 4 minutes. it is not really worth wasting your virginity just to be like all the others. you are special because you still have it. keep it for the one that deserves it and not because you have the feeling that you need to lose it. don't be a sheep that follows the others and don't succumb to group/peer pressure. hello thanks for your query

this is moreover a personal query so you have to tell your parents whats your passion is and try to convince them or who knows they might ask you to do what your interested tell the advantages of clat to your parents.

thank you not necessarily. many men prefer bald others do not care others prefer trimmed and again others like the bush. i have no preference - if the choice is bald-shaved vs bald-waxed neglecting longer hair styles you would have to rely on the votes of the bald specialist faction... First, it's not true that the guy will automatically pursue.  
  
Second, it's okay for girls to ask, but the vast majority won't.  
  
If you want to ask him, that's fine. But you don't have to.  
  
It seems to me that when a girl says she wants a guy, what she really means is that she wants him to ask her out. If he doesn't, there's no way the fact that she wants him will make her do the asking. She'd rather sit there unasked, getting more and more frustrated until eventually she convinces herself that he doesn't like her, and she should move on. i would think very lowly of her. if she resorts to violence because she is offended or dissagrees then she is not the type of person i need to be associated with. if she kept hitting me i would restrain her or try to evade her. if she started attacking me i would fight back. i don't give a damn what your gender is, if you are a threat to safety you should be dealt with. you don't get a free pass because of your genitalia. no they are not right. if you are happy with the choices that you choose to make then who are they to try to judge you for that? you're trying your best at least from what i'm hearing and seeing to live a godly lifestyle, and they want to tell you how you're making a mistake? how about all the mistakes that they more likely made? are they married with children? or are they hopping from one girl to another girl regardless if it's a relationship casual or not and they just want to see you and them just like them? ignore the naysayers, and stay away from people that are not benefiting your life. they just want to see you screwed up because they don't like the fact that you're doing what you got to do, and they're not really focusing on what they need to do. they don't need to accept the fact that you are living the life the way you know you need to live it. if they don't like it because it makes them feel like they're not doing something? well then that's their business.personally they just sound messed up, and i just want you to be miserable like they are. you already said that you are happy, at least i believe you're content with that. it's not perfect but you're still content right? that's all that matters. i'm a virgin i never dated, i've never been with anybody at all either. and i have no regrets. i have no regrets because after going through what i went through growing up, seeing how everybody else's relationships are, and you hear what you hear on this site even more, it really makes you wonder what is the best decision for you. the bible says that people will have troubles in this life. especially when they are married, or these days having sexual relationships. this is what people want, this is what they desire, so they get what they desire. it may not be what they claim they want, but they're forgetting that every thing is a choice, and every choice has its consequences. in the end people just want the benefits and not having to deal with what they got to go through. but i'm pretty sure you're mature enough to understand this already. so regardless to what you can't allow them to try to dictate what you choose to do in your life, and if you know they're going to be bad influences anyway then you're not doing yourself a big favor by listening to them. don't be discouraged by them. whenever it is that you decide to do regardless of what people say, especially when it comes down to dating or whatever, that's a choice that you personally have to make. nobody else can make that choice for you except you and god himself. okay? understand that. i believe you're going on the right path regarding to doing what is right. and i believe that god will cover and protect you. Sometimes yes. But let your doctor know. some do probably. others are just more conservative and don't think that women sleeping around is a good thing. although some of those are probably hypocrites who watch a lot of porn and would love to have sex with a lot of women if they could, not all of them though. you're also off on the idea that everything is entirely up to women, and that the power dynamic will flip when you're older. neither of these things are true at all. it's not entirely up to women or else women would never get hurt, and the whole power dynamic flipping at 30+ thing is a cope for guys who can't get laid in their 20s. hi lg, <br>it&#39;ll be interesting to see ( after the weekend, when most readers will be back ) what other people think of the situation you describe. it sounds as if your parents probably are a bit too strict, but with all they hear and see of the dangers of the world today, one can understand their fears  and its even worse when parents don&#39;t care at all. sometimes they may seem to be hypocritical, when they&#39;re actually trying to get you to avoid mistakes they made. your sister sounds immature and spiteful. what would they think if you said you wanted to see a shrink or counsellor to work on the problems they have identified in your behaviour ? ( that way, it makes it harder for them to object  and indeed these diferent perceptions of what is a "problem") ought to be part of what you&#39;d discuss with a counsellor. be cautious about your overdose idea  apart from the obvious dangers to yourself, it&#39;d surely also give them much sronger grounds for being even stricter, which is the exact opposite of what you want to achieve. tell him to go for it. he needs to learn how to deal with rejection while he's young or he'll just avoid it all his life.