got cheating.....?
there's a question on here that goes: "how difficult is snooker compared to pool as in billiards"....the person who got best answer had 3 bad votes...but 2 votes @67%...there was a person who had 4 good votes with 1 bad...he didn't win it....so what i'm asking is, how the hell does something like that happen??...i think someone's cheating on here or something...no, i'm not taking this thing too serious...just think it's funny how sh*t like this happens.......=p....dreo


**oh, and i also think it's funny how when you're posting your question, it tells you.. "please do not use all caps. it's rude."..this is the frickin' computer!..who the hell gets offended by someone using caps??!! sh*t's getting dumber and dumber.........lmmfao
the voting & ratings system is very different.

you get ratings usually from the other answerers on that question, & votes come from people who go to the vote section to vote on multiple questions for some extra points.

there are also answerers who vote for themselves, & yes, some of them do cheat & use email to tell their friends which answers to vote on. i've seen it done many times.
If it helps, really super attractive people get cheated on just as often as grumpy ones. Your looks aren’t a big part of it. Odds are someone cheated on her and she has weird trust issues or she had issues with communication and got lonely because of bottling shit up. Either way, it doesn’t comment on your quality as a partner. i hear you and feel so sorry for you that it's not working out as you want... i hear you actually you're like a dear friend of mine...but i can't help but point out a few points. seriously, listen up i'm not trying to judge you or anything.. belive me. but you know it's so uncool of you to say that you've been used, since you both agreed to have sex, come on.. we're grown ups not underage girls.. how the heck the 'being used' part come from?(actually that kind of attitude might have freaked him out i think..) and also i don't really see what he has done wrong so far if it was clear you two were just friends with benefits. i mean seriously, he's not your boyfriend, and you're acting like as if he is.. but you know.. i completely understand that you're having hard time with your ex. you liked him so sweet and listened to you.. trying to understand what you're going throw.. your bf's hurting you, it's because i see girls who suffer from bad relationship and honestly? if he's no good for you and he's hurting you and if another guy help you get out of that deep hell, go for it(im selfish i know, sorry). but you aren't happy, because you found a wrong guy(not that he's wrong, it's just he is not a guy who can give you what you need and want) that made it clear that it was just sex, and you two are kinda friends(well you claim) which is fine. but you want him to be there for you, and be only with you no other girls. don't you see? why he's leaving you?how to change his mind.. honestly? after all these? that you freaked him out and you broke the rule of friends with benefits which is called 'feelings' with it's best friend 'jealousy', you were cheating on your boyfriend, and you said all your relationship with other guy? i don't see any possibilities(girls! don't you think it's a little bit unfair that to say i wanna be who i am , asking guys to be some kind of knights? ... )i hope you find another new sencere sweet boyfriend, i really do. but right now.. i really hate to say it but you and him? i don't think it's gonna happen. i'm so sorry... i think i haven't been any helpful but all mean words.. but i have dear friend who is going throw what you're going through...(at least it seems like to me..). and i really really hope you the best... really... a big hug.. find a guy who can give you want you want.. who can love you.. really..you be the dreamy girl... not despressed lonely girl... then right guy will come out..! You know, it happens tp the most of us.  
  
it's like , the more you do one thing, the lesser and lesser you get interested in it.  
  
When he loved you, he thought that he could keep it up forever (Assuming that he ever did love you for you and not anything else).  
  
But that's what usually happens these days to couples that ends up divorcing each other.  
Either they cheat on each other or they get dissatisfaction from each other.  
  
People dont tend to stay together and work it out anymore. They just give up so easily.  
  
He may have loved you. But i dont think he does anymore. And if you plan to move forward with him, i dont think it'll be a good idea. Coz i think that when "not feeling it" moment comes into the lifes of a couple, thats when they go out and ends up CHEATING on each other. tough one here. can't answer for sure if this is assault or not. you allowed for a certain level of play. you did however say "no" to follow on play. but... did you say no again? what were his thoughts? when he went further, it seems that you clearly stated you didn't want to do more. you allude to him stopping. it is true that "no means no." but you welcomed a second advance. so it is tough to say for sure that you were assaulted based on what you've provided.what i can say is this. both his and your behavior welcomed potential issues. glad it didn't go any further and he seemed to understand that. my advice is that you always protect yourself and be careful not to welcome advances you don't want. please believe me when i say that i'm not condoning his behavior. what i am saying is i wouldn't want to see something bad happen to you. a girl has gotta keep her guard up, unfortunately. so please take care of yourself always and be safe. and what about guessing? are you good at guessing? try to guess if i am or not, if you guess right you choose your reward ;p reasons why men can cheat.relationship problems:insecurity (afraid you will cheat on him, yhe doesn't believe you)he isn't interested in you anymorehe isn't satisfied sexually anymorethere is no intimacy anymore (intimacy is more than only having sex)there is no connection anymorehe doesn't feel safe with, emotionallyyou don't understand him, you don't listen to himyou are fighting a lot with him you are not excited anymorehe lost interest in youyou don't want to spend time with him revengewhy he likes to cheat:more female attentionconfidence boostfeeling desired and appreciated by womenexcitement / thrillpleasure having funsex without attachments (no relationship), one night standsfreedom meeting new women when u do well but not well enough.or when they hate the other team. people do vote, regardless if they cast a ballot. silence can be thought of as a vote. the reason i say this is that i chose not to vote out of no confidence for the ballot. i would either have voted for something in which i did not believe, or i couldn't "thrown away" with a 3rd party vote, in which i still didn't believe.there is no write in option for "no confidence," and interestingly, if enough people voted this way, the way american voting works, would require either the candidates to all be thrown out, and a new set of candidates, or the government would make their own choice, at which point democracy would be dead. if we look at voting in this manner, it most certainly is compulsory. however, america has an odd obsession of thinking that the common man's vote for president actually matters. local votes will influence politics for a person far more than a presidential vote ever will. this is why many localities have gerrymandering, in order to control the constituency and votes.i personally do not believe my vote will ever make a difference, as it never has in any political election. besides, perpetuating the idea that the common man isn't controlled by our plutocratic corporatist "democracy" is silly, but people will keep on voting and believing that they matter, or are heard. perhaps my view is cynical and pessimistic. i see no reason to change it.c'est la vie. it could be a random drop or a glitch. if you've got the item and nothing else is wrong with the game, enjoy! i seem to be extremely low in person. actually, some people seem to think something is wrong with me since i'm so chill and laid back. that said, i do misbehave more on here but i'm not trying to win any friends on this site.