25 and virgin, what would you do?
ladies, would you have sex with a guy who is still virgin at 25? i know a lot of girls to whom it would be a total turn off
i've been on this site for a while and reading a number of "virgin" questions and girls replies, my conclusion is: most girls don't mind or don't care if he's a virgin. in fact a number actually prefer virgins.if you like to know what you should do, my opinion is, learn to win a girl's heart, them lose it to her.yes, not just any girl, but a girl whom you love/like very much and is certain that she likes you too.girls are a lot more emotionally inclined when comes to sex. hence when she feels in love, she won't care about you being a virgin. instead she will be ready to give you a good first time.so work at it, win a heart, then lose it already. good luck.
ok..first of all: love is a word too big to be brought into this discussion. and second: although u found this question to be awkward, once u stay and think for a minute it isn't like that at all. whether u like it or not, sex is part of our life, and it keeps getting more and more important as time goes by. it is true, a few time ago it was kinda ta-bu subject, but now the "sex topic" is as common as...let's say...listening to music! so in an era that promotes and gives a great importance to sex questions like "do girls fantasize about having sex wen they see a hot guy?" are not out of order. on the other hand, it is obvious that he is more experienced in this subject than u are. as a prove we have your "cry for help" here. remember that: a guy will almost never give up an opportunity to have sex! but this doesn't mean your guy is only interested in having sex with you. in this case maybe he would have asked u out already. my advice is for you not to waste any more time by limiting yourself to only simple conversations with him. this could have 2 implications:
1. you fall for him because his "sweet talks" and maybe this is what he is waiting for.
2. this potential relationship evolves into a simple friendship relation, which would be not so good, since you clearly have feelings for him.
so ask him out, or at least make him ask u out! good luck! you need to win the girl over with looks and personality first before you even get a sniff at knowing how much she loves sex. once you have a relationship it will blow you mind how much the average girl needs sex. most of the girls i know want it at least as much as the guys. A. It is not uncommon for people to have had a few intimate relationships by their late 20s. My guess is that you being a virgin and her having had experience in relationships is at the root of your concern. It is hard to imagine something we have not experienced.

That having been said it is important to note that at this stage of life it is unlikely that you will meet anyone that has not had a past romantic relationship. I would focus on the here and now you have with her. Here is what you have said:

1. She has stopped contact with others. This is a very good sign of her intention and commitment.
2. She has described her relationships in a way that makes sense – meaning that she was not in love and maintained them because she wanted options.
3. Her relationship with you has changed her thoughts and feelings about herself and what she wants.

Taken together this would seem to be a good indication of her commitment and willingness to be a partner with you. Your relationship is new, and this will mean that as you grow together these concerns are likely to take a back seat. Meditation may be an excellent way for you to modulate your feelings and angst about the situation. Over time her commitment to you will dispel these concerns.

Wishing you patience and peace,  
 *Dr. Dan*  
 [*Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral*](https://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/author/danielt/)

Issue with Girlfriend’s Past date whoever you like.  and as for sex , if it works for them , then that is their business. yes, if you marry this dude and no one ever cheats. but still, why not protect yourself? get the vaccine so you are totally safe. i hope your boyfriend is always faithful but you never know, things happen. this vaccination is supposed to be given before the age of 25 years, i think. i do not know of a test for hpv for men anyway at this time. it is very very contageous and running rampid. my step-daughter was not promiscuous and she found out she had hpv after she was married. who really knows where her husband got it? and it doesn't matter they have a good marriage. anyway, he has no symptoms but she has had to have surgery. i wish we would have known about this vaccine or it would have been available when she was younger. i would have made sure she got the vaccine when she was in my care as a teenager. then, she would not have ever had to suffer. she has a daughter and will make sure she is vaccinated. the vaccination is a blessing and only provides protection. be thankful it is available and get it.

ok valid answer - here is a copy of an article and if you are 26 you can still get it:
 
human papillomavirus, a disease that causes 70 percent of cervical cancer cases and 90 percent of genital warts cases, is most common for people in their late teens and early twenties, according to the centers for disease control and prevention web site.

"if i were a 26-year-old who had never had intercourse or had never been exposed to the virus, i'd get the vaccine," said dr. roger yandell in the department of obstetrics and gynecology at the texas tech health sciences center. "it definitely has more impact on younger girls, though. the cervix changes during menarche, a girl's first period. that's when it's most susceptible to the virus, so we try to start the vaccine just before that takes place." 

the advisory committee on immunization practices consists of 15 experts - selected by the secretary of the u.s. department of health and human services - who provide advice and guidance to the cdc. the committee recommends women through age 26 years old receive catch-up vaccinations, according to the cdc web site.

"you have to look at what we're trying to treat," yandell said. "cervical cancer is really what we're talking about here, and on a lesser scale, genital warts. this is the most common disease for causing either of those." maybe, if she has a self-esteem problem. in the end what you'll get is lots of cuts and bruises, and a bad sexual experience that makes you feel embarrassed every time you think about it for the rest of your life. normal men, women, boys, and girls masturbate (it's universal). it is not harmful, as the body goes through similar effects during regular sex with a partner (but too much of anything may become a problem). masturbation does not stunt height, cause acne or hair loss, make you weak, create heart problems, lower testosterone, affect virginity, lower fertility, change your weight, or damage vision. see more... wow marlboro! yikes! ouch! even though i&#39;ve been working with queer issues for many years i am still struck by what you&#39;ve told us. it is a very sad reflection on our society, where same-sex marriage is legal, that parents can throw gay youth out of their homes. ignorance and prejudice run very deep.<br><br>what are your ages?<br> We girls--another sister and I--had a conversation about this. You mean, in regards to a lady removing sacred clothing in order dress in a provocative manner for her husband, for an intimate encounter?   

  

The other sister told me "absolutely!" She told me it was no different than being completely undressed for intimacy (which usually follows, anyway.) As long as it is only for the duration of that encounter. I had no feeling on the subject yet because I was not married at the time and therefore had no occasion to worry about this. But I pretty much agree. I have several sets of nice lingerie myself--only my hubby gets to see it though   

  

Sorry if this info is a little--acute. as with anything, depends on the girl. some like it, some tolerate it, some hate