How long does it take for you miss the person you are dating?



 How long or what does it take for you to start missing the one you are with?
How new and fresh is the relationship? That shouldn't decide this answer but for me it does. I can't wait to see the woman again if its after a good 1st date. Towards the end of my five year marriage, she couldn't stay away long enough. Sad but true.
twin!!!!!how do u feel they r different?and how do u break up with someone and then you meet the same image next day but with different emotions.i'm confused. have you considered couple counseling? this would help to work on the problems that made you separate to begin with...it sounds like you both still love each other... and perhaps the separation has done the relationship some good, in making you both appreciate each other more... if you really want to know if its for real ask her to go to counseling with you... if shes serious about working on the relationship and getting back together.... she will definitely go! you both need to be more open about your feelings, and take the emotional risk if you want it to work out...best wishes!!!!!!!!! Hi there!


It depends, from a few days up to 2-4 weeks or so. If longer, you can contact HR directly and ask.


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hey~我最最可愛的朋友~~
不知道這封明信片寄到你那邊會花多久時間~~我們都等待吧哈哈
最近過得怎樣呢?
不好意思那麼晚寫明信片給你喔 
其實我到明年二月前都會很忙 因為我明年一月要考一個很重要的考試
好久沒跟你聊天了喔~~~其實有時候跟外國人聊天對我來說很累
因為呢...我英文很普通,所以理解的比較慢,回的也會比較慢
但跟你相處真的很開心喔,你真的是個很好又很貼心的人
很懷念以前跟你一起視訊的時候,我們還一起照相,扮鬼臉等等的...那時候我還是一頭長髮呢!
你是我認識的外國男生裡最與眾不同的!
希望你以後都會永遠保持著那樣好相處的個性和永遠是那麼真誠的微笑^^
會常常想念你的:)
hey to my most lovely friend~~~
wondering how long has this postcard been delivered to your palce? we 
were wating, were we? haha.
how is going recently? 
i am sorry that it took so long for me to write this to you.
in fact, i will be busy until the february of next year, because i am busy with
preparing an exam coming next january. it has been a while that i have not
talked to you, because my english is jsut fair, making it hard for me to talk
to a person who is not taiwanee. my english is just so so, that it does take
time for me to comprehend and respond.
it was good to be with you. you are a person who is kind and knows how
to think for others.

i miss that when we were talking through the cam, we took some pictures
and made some funny facial expression, at the time my hair was long.

you are the most unique person i met compared to other foreigners. 
i hope that you will always be like this with that same smile^^

i miss you so much. A.  I am deeply moved by your situation and understand the devastation following a desertion. Trying to understand his motivation and lack of caring re-injures you emotionally. No matter how many times you try to understand this story of betrayal it will leave you empty. This is a time to reclaim yourself and reconnect with those who love you — and whose care can fill you up. Building a network of social support takes some doing. Asking for help, expressing gratitude toward those who have extended their kindness, and immersing in the best self-care practices you can will help you feel better.


Thoughts determine the direction of our feelings and behavior. If you dwell on him you are turning your thoughts toward more difficult and unsatisfying feelings. Focusing on what you need and the loving people in your life will be better way to go.



Wishing you patience and peace,  

*Dr. Dan*  

[*Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral*](http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/author/danielt/)


Struggling to Accept that He Doesn’t Care about Me what? you have a new girlfriend but wish to marry your ex? i think you need to be alone for a bit and sort your head out. A. It’s difficult to assess the seriousness of this on the basis of only a letter so let me just share a couple of thoughts.

People by nature tend to fall somewhere on a scale from introvert to extrovert. It may be that at least part of this is that you are on the introvert end of the scale. There is nothing wrong with that! But, the larger culture celebrates extroverts. In high school, the general idea is that everyone is supposed to be outgoing and popular. Of course, not everyone can be. Not everyone wants to be. So let’s at least assume that part of what goes on is that you have a more restrained approach to life. One thing that supports this is that you do have a couple of close friends and that seems to be enough for you.

As for being out with others: I wonder if you have developed the skills you need to be comfortable out in the social world. Introverts can and do learn how to manage social situations enough so that they can be successful in their careers and can find loving relationships. Notice that I said “skills”. Skills are behaviors you can learn (like how to make small talk, how to be an active listener, how to be a good communicator, etc.). As you get more practiced in these skills, you will be more comfortable being with people for longer periods of time. But you will still need your alone time to “recover” from a lot of social interaction.

The line in your letter that does worry me is your statement that you can spend hours holed up in your room and in bed. Yes, you may need time to recharge your social batteries but it would do a lot more for your self-esteem if you would use that time to pursue an interest or to do something to make the world a better place. Think about ways to support a cause or candidate or to educate yourself about something you are genuinely interested in. You will feel better about yourself than if you just hang out wondering if there is something wrong with you. An important bonus is that it will give you more to talk about when you are with people.

I hope this is helpful. I wish you well.  
 Dr. Marie

I Want or Need to Be Alone don’t feel guilty. i think a lot of people feel this way at some point after having kids, but no one wants to be honest or talk about it. is it not having time that is making you depressed? or is it the loss of freedom? i am a stay at home mom to a 2 1/2 year old and went through a lot of the same things you’re describing. i can tell you that it gets easier to find time as baby’s sleep gets more predictable. past that, we wound up “splitting” most weekends. i sleep in on saturday morning, and my husband sleeps in on sunday. after i wake up on saturday, he usually goes to play golf, and i go to the movies or brunch or something on sunday. i wish i could give you a magic answer, but you just have to play around with your time and see what works best for you. the worst thing you can do is let yourself get into a rut. try to talk to your wife openly and honestly about what you’re feeling. Katy.  Please try double-tapping it (that will enable it without you having to continue to hold it) and see if you're getting the same response with erasing.  The more information I can share with the team, the easier it is for them to look into it.  Sue. you need to win the girl over with looks and personality first before you even get a sniff at knowing how much she loves sex. once you have a relationship it will blow you mind how much the average girl needs sex. most of the girls i know want it at least as much as the guys.