are you honest about telling someone how you feel about them?
are you honest about telling some how you feel about them? all truth, no filter, all honesty, what you are really thinking, no cover up, no sugar coating, no hiding. i'm older and don't sugar coat shit anymore. i no longer have a filter. i'm no longer worried about hurting your feelings. all honesty and whats on my mind. i went on a date with a girl i knew from high school. i told her i did not want a second date because she is overweight now and didn't look as good as she did in high school. i told her i would date her again if she lost the weight and returned to her high school body.
well honestly there's honesty and then there's bluntness with lack of sensitivity to the point of being an ass. you are the latter. there's always a way to convey what you have to say and what you did was so wrong. you could have just said you weren't interested because you weren't attracted to her.
yeah. from my experience, a true friend is the hardest thing you’ll ever find. the older you’ll get, true friends will stick around, and the fake ones will leave. that friend zone is bs mate. the best relationships are many times with someone you are familiar to and really great friends with. my girlfriend now is my best friend and was before we started to date. at first she wasn't sure; so we took it slow. but now we are very much so in love. i wouldn't change anything about how we got together; i wouldn't want to be with anyone else. you two are great friends? all you can do is be there for her; and tell her your honest feelings. this may be awkward and hard to do; but if you really like her it is worth the risk. nobody ever got anywhere important without risking big things. if she doesn't reciprocate these feelings all hope isn't lost; if she is that important to you where you cant move on then don't give up. she may see you in a different light knowing you would not give up on her. meaning if she says no; don't just go for what you can get next. keep to it for a while; months; years even depending on your connection, i waited 5 months until she actually gave us a chance, i told her straightforward that i was the man for her and would prove it to her. all in all it will be worth it because you'd be staying true to yourself. friend zones don't exist; there's just compatible people and non compatible. a friend zone is something people put themselves in when they give up; or when they give up after being told they are like a brother to the girl. don't give up and you will be something different to her; if but a way closer friend than before because your feelings and how much you care for her will be monumentally greater than she realized before hand. here's your best answer- just tell him your true feelings. he will appreciate you being honest with him. A. It’s difficult to assess the seriousness of this on the basis of only a letter so let me just share a couple of thoughts.

People by nature tend to fall somewhere on a scale from introvert to extrovert. It may be that at least part of this is that you are on the introvert end of the scale. There is nothing wrong with that! But, the larger culture celebrates extroverts. In high school, the general idea is that everyone is supposed to be outgoing and popular. Of course, not everyone can be. Not everyone wants to be. So let’s at least assume that part of what goes on is that you have a more restrained approach to life. One thing that supports this is that you do have a couple of close friends and that seems to be enough for you.

As for being out with others: I wonder if you have developed the skills you need to be comfortable out in the social world. Introverts can and do learn how to manage social situations enough so that they can be successful in their careers and can find loving relationships. Notice that I said “skills”. Skills are behaviors you can learn (like how to make small talk, how to be an active listener, how to be a good communicator, etc.). As you get more practiced in these skills, you will be more comfortable being with people for longer periods of time. But you will still need your alone time to “recover” from a lot of social interaction.

The line in your letter that does worry me is your statement that you can spend hours holed up in your room and in bed. Yes, you may need time to recharge your social batteries but it would do a lot more for your self-esteem if you would use that time to pursue an interest or to do something to make the world a better place. Think about ways to support a cause or candidate or to educate yourself about something you are genuinely interested in. You will feel better about yourself than if you just hang out wondering if there is something wrong with you. An important bonus is that it will give you more to talk about when you are with people.

I hope this is helpful. I wish you well.  
 Dr. Marie

I Want or Need to Be Alone sometimes the worst punishment is the way people treat you. its terrible when someone accuses you of something and then you have to deal with a wave of hatred and back stabbing, and nobody believes the truth.
its sad that their are so many dishonest people that when a person is a genuine human being they are treated like scum because nobody believes that honesty exists. some of mine do and some don't. i quit trying to explain to ppl who have no idea what it's all about. some will never truly understand this illness anyhow. hugs. take care 🌺 1. one of your scars, how did you get it?


2. what is on the walls in your room?


3. do you snore, grind your teeth, or talk in your sleep?


4. what kind of music do you listen to?


5. do you know what time you were born?


6. what do you want more than anything right now?


7. what do you miss?


8. what is your most prized possession(s)?


9. how tall are you?


10. do you get claustrophobic?


11. do you get scared in the dark?


12. the last thing to make you cry?

13. what's your worst fear?

14. what kind of hair/eye color do you like on the opposite sex?


15. where can you see yourself being proposed to at?

16. coffee or energy drink?


17. favorite pizza topping?

18. if you could eat anything right now, what would it be?

19. favorite color of all time?

20. have you ever eaten a goldfish?


21. what was the first meaningful gift you've ever received?


22. do you have a crush?

23. are you double jointed?


24. favorite clothing brand?


25. who is your fav female/male celebrity?


26. do you have a pet right now?


27. what kind is it?


28. would you fall in love knowing that the person is leaving?


30. say a number from one to a hundred:

31. blondes or brunettes?

32. favorite quote?


33. favorite place?


34. have you been out of the usa?

35. your weaknesses?

36. met anyone famous?

37. first job?


38. ever done a prank call?


39. do you think everyone out there has a soulmate?


40. what were you doing before you filled this out?


41. have you ever had surgery?


42. what do you get complimented about most?


43. have you ever had braces?


44. what do you want for your birthday?


45. how many kids do you want and their names?

46. were you named after anyone?


47. what is the biggest turn off of the opposite sex?

48. what is one thing you like about high school?


49. what kind of shampoo do you use?


50. do you like your handwriting?

51. what is your favorite lunch meat?

52. any bad habits?


53. are you a jealous person?


54. if you were another person, would you be friends with you?


55. do you agree with friends with benefits?


56. do looks matter?

57. how do you release anger?


60. what was your favorite toy as a child?


61. how many numbers are in your cell phone


62.were you a fan of barney as a little kid


64. mashed potatoes or macaroni and cheese?

65. what do you look for in a guy/girl?


66. what are your nicknames?


67. if you had a super power what would it be?

68. what's your favorite tv show?

69.what's the best way to deal with your enemies?


70. what's your favorite ice cream?


71. do you have all your fingers and toes?


72. do you have a computer in your room?


73. plans for tonight?


74. where do you want to live when you are older?


75. do you want everyone to answer these questions?


76. what are you listening to?


77. the last thing you drank?

78. last person you talked to on the phone?


79. the first thing you notice in the opposite sex?


80. what do you like to do in your spare time?


81. favorite thing to hate?


82. favorite season?


83. what's your favorite type of dessert?


84. have you ever really and truly had a best friend

85. what is your hair color?


86. eye color?


87. shoe size?


88. favorite fast food place?


89. favorite restaurant?


90. do you like sushi?


91. watch tv today?


92. favorite day of the year?


93. play any musical instruments?


95. kisses or hugs?

96. relationships or one night stands?


97. what was the last thing you bought?


98. would you ever be a housewife?


99. what book are you reading?


100. describe your love life? my best friend . 

he is honest , sincere , deep , open minded , caring , trustworthy , knowledgeable , intelligent , funny and most of all , wise . i would describe him as the most wonderful person i've ever known in my life. i would trust him with my life and he knows this . wow marlboro! yikes! ouch! even though i&#39;ve been working with queer issues for many years i am still struck by what you&#39;ve told us. it is a very sad reflection on our society, where same-sex marriage is legal, that parents can throw gay youth out of their homes. ignorance and prejudice run very deep.<br><br>what are your ages?<br> twin!!!!!how do u feel they r different?and how do u break up with someone and then you meet the same image next day but with different emotions.i'm confused.