missing someone who doesn’t miss you?
i miss someone so much that i wanted to call them. but when i see that he didn’t contacted me those 2 months i feel that he’s not missing me back. we had little argument in our last conversation, it so silly doesn’t need to be mentioned. but he didn’t bother to call me or text me. i usually do the texting and calling, but this time i waited for him to initiate it. now since it’s been 2 months, would i look stupid if i call him, i really miss his voice but i want to keep my pride 😭 should i call him, or not?
he could be thinking the same thing, "obviously you don't miss me if she hasn't contacted me." i say , try. if his response isn't what you wanted then at least you know you tried.
You know this question could be answered either way. "Yes, he might be", or "no he really cares". Let's assume he likes talking with you and seeing you at the visitation. He likes that you are showing him attention. There is a chance that this relationship can grow beyond where it would have if he was out. Maybe you get to know each other better and he becomes more into you. Life is too short, you have to let this play out.


I'm sure you have great instincts (your inner feeling already knows), you have to trust yourself enough to make the right decision. Give it some time, try not to be too hard on yourself. He might be a rascal and a dirty dog too, but I vote for giving it a try and see how it plays out. You are in control of this relationship and every inmate knows this fact. Since the inmate loses control of what goes on in the outside world and he will often try to keep that control over the phone or letters. Just trust yourself and what you see and feel. 你好
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hey~我最最可愛的朋友~~
不知道這封明信片寄到你那邊會花多久時間~~我們都等待吧哈哈
最近過得怎樣呢?
不好意思那麼晚寫明信片給你喔 
其實我到明年二月前都會很忙 因為我明年一月要考一個很重要的考試
好久沒跟你聊天了喔~~~其實有時候跟外國人聊天對我來說很累
因為呢...我英文很普通,所以理解的比較慢,回的也會比較慢
但跟你相處真的很開心喔,你真的是個很好又很貼心的人
很懷念以前跟你一起視訊的時候,我們還一起照相,扮鬼臉等等的...那時候我還是一頭長髮呢!
你是我認識的外國男生裡最與眾不同的!
希望你以後都會永遠保持著那樣好相處的個性和永遠是那麼真誠的微笑^^
會常常想念你的:)
hey to my most lovely friend~~~
wondering how long has this postcard been delivered to your palce? we 
were wating, were we? haha.
how is going recently? 
i am sorry that it took so long for me to write this to you.
in fact, i will be busy until the february of next year, because i am busy with
preparing an exam coming next january. it has been a while that i have not
talked to you, because my english is jsut fair, making it hard for me to talk
to a person who is not taiwanee. my english is just so so, that it does take
time for me to comprehend and respond.
it was good to be with you. you are a person who is kind and knows how
to think for others.

i miss that when we were talking through the cam, we took some pictures
and made some funny facial expression, at the time my hair was long.

you are the most unique person i met compared to other foreigners. 
i hope that you will always be like this with that same smile^^

i miss you so much. you can ask others or if you see them, just look at their facial expressions and other body language.  i avoided and ignored a jerk at the gym and the last time i saw him, he didn't even acknowledge me (fortunately).  so i know i either hurt his feelings or made him mad. sorry. i wish i could help but i find it weird that people “like” your post and not say anything. i posted yesterday and i was like ok… ummm do you want to look at my book? hah. all the best sir! i know what ur saying! true, you should feel comfortable with your stylist, but some of us just arent that damn social! if this is you, there are a couple options to try out. first, think of some back up conversations to have just in case you find that awkward silence. if you dont wanna do that, bring your ipod (depending on what youre having done). if you cant wear earbuds, start texting random people on your phone or bring a book. or if that seems rude to you, mention right away that either you are tired and apologize in advance for being kinda zombie-ish, or that you feel like crap today but forced yourself outta bed to get to the salon. plus, ya never know... maybe the stylist will be relieved that they dont have to make small talk either! or if they still insist on talking, keep redirecting the attention back to your hair. ask lots of ?. it gives you something to talk about at least!! good luck! maybe you should ask him. First, don't erase any of the voice mails or emails. Record and transcribe the voicemails and print out all of the emails.


Second, there is nothing procedurally improper with the defendant to contact the plaintiff directly. In this case it is annoying at least, and depending on what is being threatened, potentially criminal. There is nothing wrong with notifying her attorney of the conduct and asking him to get it stopped. 


If the conduct is threatening, you might want to report it to the police or seek a restraining order. A.  I am deeply moved by your situation and understand the devastation following a desertion. Trying to understand his motivation and lack of caring re-injures you emotionally. No matter how many times you try to understand this story of betrayal it will leave you empty. This is a time to reclaim yourself and reconnect with those who love you — and whose care can fill you up. Building a network of social support takes some doing. Asking for help, expressing gratitude toward those who have extended their kindness, and immersing in the best self-care practices you can will help you feel better.


Thoughts determine the direction of our feelings and behavior. If you dwell on him you are turning your thoughts toward more difficult and unsatisfying feelings. Focusing on what you need and the loving people in your life will be better way to go.



Wishing you patience and peace,  

*Dr. Dan*  

[*Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral*](http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/author/danielt/)


Struggling to Accept that He Doesn’t Care about Me hi kerrye - i'd recommend that you keep calling, from now until september. when cancellations occur, the system is updated pretty much immediately, so you never know when there will be an opening. good luck! have you considered couple counseling? this would help to work on the problems that made you separate to begin with...it sounds like you both still love each other... and perhaps the separation has done the relationship some good, in making you both appreciate each other more... if you really want to know if its for real ask her to go to counseling with you... if shes serious about working on the relationship and getting back together.... she will definitely go! you both need to be more open about your feelings, and take the emotional risk if you want it to work out...best wishes!!!!!!!!!