how long will it take for a guy to text me after giving out my number?
so i saw this cute guy at the beach today. he was walking somewhat in my direction when i first saw him. it appeared as though he was looking my way but i also couldn’t tell for sure. after that, i saw him get in his car and drive away as my friends and i walked towards another part of the lake. then my friends and i get ready to leave when i see this guy driving back and then walking past my direction again. i couldn’t help but feel like he was looking in my direction. i then told my friends i thought he was cute. they said i should go talk to him but i was a chicken and my friend volunteered to get his number. she ended up going over there and the guy ended up saying he thought i was really cute and took my number down. i’m just wondering if and when he’d reach out. i also noticed he kept looking back in my direction as we were about to leave too.
you should have done it yourself. i wouldn't get your hopes up. if he doesn't text you within the next three days, it's because you're his option and he's got something else going on. if he texts you a couple of weeks from now, then what he "had" going on didn't work out. if he never texts, it's a missed opportunity on both your parts. best to avoid those in future and take advantage of them when you get them.
ok..first of all: love is a word too big to be brought into this discussion. and second: although u found this question to be awkward, once u stay and think for a minute it isn't like that at all. whether u like it or not, sex is part of our life, and it keeps getting more and more important as time goes by. it is true, a few time ago it was kinda ta-bu subject, but now the "sex topic" is as common as...let's say...listening to music! so in an era that promotes and gives a great importance to sex questions like "do girls fantasize about having sex wen they see a hot guy?" are not out of order. on the other hand, it is obvious that he is more experienced in this subject than u are. as a prove we have your "cry for help" here. remember that: a guy will almost never give up an opportunity to have sex! but this doesn't mean your guy is only interested in having sex with you. in this case maybe he would have asked u out already. my advice is for you not to waste any more time by limiting yourself to only simple conversations with him. this could have 2 implications:
1. you fall for him because his "sweet talks" and maybe this is what he is waiting for.
2. this potential relationship evolves into a simple friendship relation, which would be not so good, since you clearly have feelings for him.
so ask him out, or at least make him ask u out! good luck! 你好
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hey~我最最可愛的朋友~~
不知道這封明信片寄到你那邊會花多久時間~~我們都等待吧哈哈
最近過得怎樣呢?
不好意思那麼晚寫明信片給你喔 
其實我到明年二月前都會很忙 因為我明年一月要考一個很重要的考試
好久沒跟你聊天了喔~~~其實有時候跟外國人聊天對我來說很累
因為呢...我英文很普通,所以理解的比較慢,回的也會比較慢
但跟你相處真的很開心喔,你真的是個很好又很貼心的人
很懷念以前跟你一起視訊的時候,我們還一起照相,扮鬼臉等等的...那時候我還是一頭長髮呢!
你是我認識的外國男生裡最與眾不同的!
希望你以後都會永遠保持著那樣好相處的個性和永遠是那麼真誠的微笑^^
會常常想念你的:)
hey to my most lovely friend~~~
wondering how long has this postcard been delivered to your palce? we 
were wating, were we? haha.
how is going recently? 
i am sorry that it took so long for me to write this to you.
in fact, i will be busy until the february of next year, because i am busy with
preparing an exam coming next january. it has been a while that i have not
talked to you, because my english is jsut fair, making it hard for me to talk
to a person who is not taiwanee. my english is just so so, that it does take
time for me to comprehend and respond.
it was good to be with you. you are a person who is kind and knows how
to think for others.

i miss that when we were talking through the cam, we took some pictures
and made some funny facial expression, at the time my hair was long.

you are the most unique person i met compared to other foreigners. 
i hope that you will always be like this with that same smile^^

i miss you so much. girl. i think he likes you. you definitely got a chance! You know this question could be answered either way. "Yes, he might be", or "no he really cares". Let's assume he likes talking with you and seeing you at the visitation. He likes that you are showing him attention. There is a chance that this relationship can grow beyond where it would have if he was out. Maybe you get to know each other better and he becomes more into you. Life is too short, you have to let this play out.


I'm sure you have great instincts (your inner feeling already knows), you have to trust yourself enough to make the right decision. Give it some time, try not to be too hard on yourself. He might be a rascal and a dirty dog too, but I vote for giving it a try and see how it plays out. You are in control of this relationship and every inmate knows this fact. Since the inmate loses control of what goes on in the outside world and he will often try to keep that control over the phone or letters. Just trust yourself and what you see and feel. looks like he’s using a texting app which uses data not texts sorry. i wish i could help but i find it weird that people “like” your post and not say anything. i posted yesterday and i was like ok… ummm do you want to look at my book? hah. all the best sir! Good for you for taking her keys, before something bad were to happen.   
  
Just let her cuss. Have a standard response and let it go! 有隻流浪狗已經餓了好幾天了，牠每天就只在公園附近晃晃、挖挖垃圾桶。有一天，一位獸醫經過看到了牠。
「多美麗的動物阿！你在這裡幹甚麼？你真使我訝異。我家裡有很多高級的狗食，讓我帶你回去吃一些！」獸醫這麼說。
狗狗似乎聽得懂他說的話，就跟著他回家了。
當他們到了獸醫的家，獸醫倒了一些凱薩狗食在盤子裡並對狗狗說：「來吧！把這些都吃完吧！」狗狗不斷地嗅著狗食，似乎很猶豫。「吃阿！是免費的！」
狗狗不再猶豫，在吃完了狗食以後，牠打了一個飽嗝。獸醫笑了，「我想你應該高興的飛上天了吧！是嗎？」
突然，電話響了，獸醫接起電話，在講完了以後，他對狗狗說：「嘿！是我辦公室打來的，他們需要我，我比較想跟你待在這，而不是去那個臭得要死的地方，這真是一個很糟的工作，不過我得走了。」他把狗狗放到屋外，然後跟牠道別。牠靜靜的跟在獸醫後頭，然後在獸醫院外面等。正當狗狗想要躺下休息時，獸醫出來抽根煙的時候看見了牠，「又是你？你在跟蹤我阿？或許我該讓你吃顆藥讓你睡覺。」
出人意外地，狗狗似乎知道他在說些什麼而嗚嗚叫了起來。
獸醫笑著說：「噢！不用擔心，我只是開玩笑的，讓我帶你進去找個和我一樣愛你的主人吧。」

 2010-07-25 00:44:30 補充：
改一下倒數第5行 

正當狗狗想要躺下休息時，獸醫出來抽根煙看見了牠，「又是你？你在跟蹤我阿？或許我該讓你吃顆藥讓你睡覺。」 you can ask others or if you see them, just look at their facial expressions and other body language.  i avoided and ignored a jerk at the gym and the last time i saw him, he didn't even acknowledge me (fortunately).  so i know i either hurt his feelings or made him mad. i think i got it.

thanks for your help richard.