is el paso a high crime town?
and it seems to have more places to work than people are giving it credit for am i right or do i need to look more closely?
yes there is a high rate of crime there. as far as work; it depends on your ethnicity,and, or your finances. if you are white, you wouldn't work for the wages offered there. they can get mexican labor cheaper. if you are white and rich, then you could go into business and hire mexican labor cheaper then a white man would work for. i know, i lived and worked there for several months and was even told this by the residents.
i am far more concerned with people soft on crime yet want to make criminals out of legal gun owners. i am more concerned about people who think any loser should be allowed in america. if anyone has hid out for so many years they should be allowed to stayand if they breed a litter of kids on our tax dollars they should stay. is glasgow safe to live in? yes. though the crime statistics here are a little higher than some other cities in the uk, **it's generally a safe place to live**… glasgow is the scottish city with the most crime (source), but considering that it's the biggest city in scotland, it's no great surprise. you guys really need to state which major city you're based in when putting this shit out there. i make $75k in a tier 3 low col city, and to have the same standard of living, i'd have to make $136k in sf, per the cost of living calculators. your $140k in a nyc/sf/la isn't that much better than his $70k in a low tier2 / tier 3 city. not hating on it, it's good money don't get me wrong, but you're comparing shit on absolute terms instead of relative terms.
edit: also need to add the amount of hours you work. if he's working 40 hours and you're working 55-60, its apples to oranges. i have never lived in atlanta and can't speak to what the experience there would be like, but i have lived in las vegas and in my opinion it is an extremely underrated place to live.

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