[Serious] What disturbing thing did you learn about someone only after their death?
I recently found out that my grandpa did not treat my grandma very kindly. He died about 18 years ago and my grandma died about 7 years ago. Recently I was talking to my dad (who knew about how his dad treated his mom) and found out that how he always put her down and insulted her and my aunt. I guess he wanted a son but was not too pleased when their first child was a daughter and their second child who was a boy was stillborn. I guess he blamed my grandma for that as well. He controlled their money and I guess was just mentally abusive. I remember him being grouchy most of the time but I also remember my grandma being a little grouchy too so I just assumed that’s how they were. I was about 13 when he died. My dad did tell me he was never physically abusive but the whole thing still bothers me. I am told that I take after my other grandpa who would bend over backwards to help people but he died before I was born.
yeah. from my experience, a true friend is the hardest thing you’ll ever find. the older you’ll get, true friends will stick around, and the fake ones will leave. <3
thank you for your support.

i needed to be disfellowshipped after deliberately leaving the organization. it was a sudden action after which i became gravely ill (psychological affect and immune system shutting down). it was 10 years b4 my conscience would let me approach god in prayer, even then begging to know it was okay to speak to him.
can you believe it?! no wonder i nearly died, i gave them my life.

hey, the sun shines here on the outside, whoa! 
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(hope your post lasts!) Yes, and I've done my share of wandering that makes Jack look like an dilettante, but as I discovered through a wife stricken with hemiplegia and a brutal fatal ailment, there are more important things in life than places. i had a teacher space out while teaching. she was like 80 years old (no exaggeration) and i was freaked out. i thought she was going to die or something. and i was 30 and in college; i really was freaked.

turns out she had a weird illness and had to go to the er that night and spent 3 days in icu! she told us about it the next time she came to class. twin!!!!!how do u feel they r different?and how do u break up with someone and then you meet the same image next day but with different emotions.i'm confused. a few years ago i had a 21 year old friends with benefits and she would drink my piss sometimes so, that happened in the boarding school. 1.5 years ago we played truth and dare. i always choose truth but there was one time i didn't. however, i had to write the last person i texted (expect a family member) that i have a crush on them. i did. and it was one of the worst things i've ever experienced. we were really good. she was my (internet) friend. the thing is that she had a crush on me and i didn't know it. i mean she was flirting a few times before but i didn't get it. seriously. i was so insecure and didn't want to write it. but i really expected that she will friendzone me lol and then i wanted to explain it. and nope, it was the contrary. we don't talk anymore. nah 

just shocking umpiring it could be your body language and demeanor that they dont like. there are things we do that are subconcious that others notice but we dont ourselves. if people judge that hard though, are they really worth being around and getting to know? ever heard of adoption?