my friends daughter is thinking of moving to france to protect her unborn baby from a enforced care order?
the relationship between the mother and daughter are very close would it be legally possible to give the baby over to the mother so that the baby is protected while the daughter continues her relationship with the fatherr
it sounds like you are asking about a woman giving custody of her unborn baby to the grandmother. i am guessing the biological father did something that would cause the courts to determine that he is a danger to the unborn child. the mother is then ordered to cease contact with the baby's father or face criminal child endangerment charges or some such thing, am i correct?

you want to know if the baby can be in the grandmother's custody, and the mom can see both her baby and boyfriend and stay in the same country. is this correct?

what did the father do? it must be something significant and i would worry about your friend's daughter's safety as well as her unborn grandchild. 

please give more information to help me better understand the situation.
it is natural for a mother and father to bond with their infant unless there is a condition of the mother or infant that interferes such as post partum pain, post partum depression, or a sick newborn. if you have concerns, make them known to your ob or pediatrician. see more... it is possible, but your rights as intended parents are protected through the surrogacy contract, hence the important of signing one that contemplates every aspect associated with the process, including potential complications. 

the rights of surrogates depend also on the law governing surrogacy in the state where the arrangement is done. we recommend that you discuss this issue with your attorney who specializes in reproductive law in your state. as part of a child custody arrangement for unmarried or divorcing parents, a court may order the non-custodial parent to pay a set monthly sum of money to the custodial parent to cover expenses relating to the care of a minor child or incapacitated adult child.

the “custodial parent” is the parent who has custody of the child. the child lives with that parent and the parent assumes responsibility for the child. a child support attorney usually drafts and files the agreement for court approval. there is surely no reason at all why a friend of your mom&#39;s, who is not a friend of yours, should visit you or take any particular interest in your baby. simply talk calmly to your mom, and explain that while you tolerated this woman at the shower and wedding, you don&#39;t like the woman and do not want her to visit you. your mother ought to udnerstand this. r3emind her that this is your house, your home and your baby, and your privacy must be respected rather than the idle curiosity of this other woman. that sort of person pushes up the social tree exactly because they are insensitive and never take hints I feel not. Let her go in peace forcing food is not peace. This is your Mothers Journey not yours. She's 87 years old . What life really lies ahead for her other than more suffering. Does she not have a living will. I would never want to be force fed nor my Daddy (who himself was a Doctor) or My Husband also a Doctor. This is just my opinion. If you must then give her Ensure. Mix the Ensure with ice cream . Without it nobody would drink its. its awful. My Mummy takes it but we Doctor it up and she thinks its a milk shake just for her. Now that she's in a group home , we still make it for her there and she loves it. But she would not drink it just plain right from the can. Good Luck on whatever your path shall be. But remember 87 is a nice Life . Why let her suffer , when need not be. If you are an adult, you need to file for and Adult Abuse Order of Protection at the courthouse in the county where you reside. If you are a minor, a parent will have to file (on your behalf) for a Child Order of Protection. I'm sure he wasn't "illegally" taken by the state, since the state is the one that makes the rules. You may not agree with their decision, but that doesn't make it illegal. 


You'll have to review the custody order to see who has the final decision regarding school placement. My guess is that if the father has custody, then he probably has the final decision, but it could be different. You may want to consult with an attorney to review the order. Your question is unclear. I would expect your attorney to be empathetic to you. Comforting words and understanding would likely be appropriate, but is not necessary. You must petition the probate court for guardianship. A court appointed person may conduct an examination or interview, etc and would certainly listen to any objections from others. Consider engaging a local attorney to help navigate the process, file the appropriate forms, and conduct an evaluation of your specific circumstances and their likelihood of court approval. You should consult an attorney experienced with guardianships, if there is already a guardianship in place.


If not, then the money is yours and it is yours to do with as you like. Without knowing a lot more about your situation, there isn't much that an attorney can advise to help you protect your assets.