time to take the next step?
so this girl and i have been talking and texting for a while. we went out once, it was good and we're planning to go out a second time next week. during the first time we were out, she seemed to make up reasons to touch me and poke me and find reasons to make me touch her, which i did plenty of. as i wasn't too sure if she wanted me to kiss her, i ended the date with a kiss on the cheek. now, before the second date, she wants me to cook her a meal and massage her. girls, this question is for you. while i'm massaging her, should i slowly and passionately start kissing her neck and shoulders softly? what do you think of this situation and what advice could you spare?
hmm, before kissing her, i'd suggest you to start lightly and very gently stroke the side or the back of her neck and ears. check her reaction. if she likes it, you can proceed kissing her slowly on the areas you mentioned. good luck.
you need to win the girl over with looks and personality first before you even get a sniff at knowing how much she loves sex. once you have a relationship it will blow you mind how much the average girl needs sex. most of the girls i know want it at least as much as the guys. are you sure that hey are not either ofthe following:

small blisters or heat rash? (i had this once and yes they itch)
-the blisters were so tiny that i could hardly even tell thatt hey were blisters, my doctor had to actually point it out, that they were blisters and not just "bumps".

an allergic reaction to your tanning lotion?
-sometimes when you continually use the same lotion your body begins to "reject it" same reason why woman who start wearing make up very early tend to not be able to wear it later in life, because they become llergic to it.

have you changed your tannign lotion recently?
-also could be an allergic reaction... or sometimes the "hot action" lotions can cause red bumps and a tingly/itchy sesnation for up to 6 hours after you tan, or until you shower to remove it.

try covering just your tummy with a towel while you tan, and don't apply any tanning lotion or accelorator to the area, for a couple times and see what happens... *i know that you don't want a tan line* but the stomach is usually the first area to tan, gets the darkest and also absorbs the most heat in the bed. if it still happens, it could have something to do with the heat and not the bed or the lotion itself.

you could also see if an aloe based "after tanning lotion" helps.

if none of this works, i would recommend stopping tanning, and seeing your doctor about it before starting again.

**my aunt and uncle owned a tanning salon for 5 years, i both worked and tanned there for a long time, so i've seen alot of crazy stff... probably more than i wanted to... lol**

we also own a tanning bed and have for a really long time... i've been tanning since i was in about 8th - 9th grade.

btw to keep from getting wrinkles from tanning... exfoliate, exfoliate, exfoliate... lol cause unfortunately it is true... you do get wrinkles from tanning... =) A. It is not uncommon for people to have had a few intimate relationships by their late 20s. My guess is that you being a virgin and her having had experience in relationships is at the root of your concern. It is hard to imagine something we have not experienced.

That having been said it is important to note that at this stage of life it is unlikely that you will meet anyone that has not had a past romantic relationship. I would focus on the here and now you have with her. Here is what you have said:

1. She has stopped contact with others. This is a very good sign of her intention and commitment.
2. She has described her relationships in a way that makes sense – meaning that she was not in love and maintained them because she wanted options.
3. Her relationship with you has changed her thoughts and feelings about herself and what she wants.

Taken together this would seem to be a good indication of her commitment and willingness to be a partner with you. Your relationship is new, and this will mean that as you grow together these concerns are likely to take a back seat. Meditation may be an excellent way for you to modulate your feelings and angst about the situation. Over time her commitment to you will dispel these concerns.

Wishing you patience and peace,  
 *Dr. Dan*  
 [*Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral*](https://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/author/danielt/)

Issue with Girlfriend’s Past Good for you for taking her keys, before something bad were to happen.   
  
Just let her cuss. Have a standard response and let it go! have you considered couple counseling? this would help to work on the problems that made you separate to begin with...it sounds like you both still love each other... and perhaps the separation has done the relationship some good, in making you both appreciate each other more... if you really want to know if its for real ask her to go to counseling with you... if shes serious about working on the relationship and getting back together.... she will definitely go! you both need to be more open about your feelings, and take the emotional risk if you want it to work out...best wishes!!!!!!!!! that friend zone is bs mate. the best relationships are many times with someone you are familiar to and really great friends with. my girlfriend now is my best friend and was before we started to date. at first she wasn't sure; so we took it slow. but now we are very much so in love. i wouldn't change anything about how we got together; i wouldn't want to be with anyone else. you two are great friends? all you can do is be there for her; and tell her your honest feelings. this may be awkward and hard to do; but if you really like her it is worth the risk. nobody ever got anywhere important without risking big things. if she doesn't reciprocate these feelings all hope isn't lost; if she is that important to you where you cant move on then don't give up. she may see you in a different light knowing you would not give up on her. meaning if she says no; don't just go for what you can get next. keep to it for a while; months; years even depending on your connection, i waited 5 months until she actually gave us a chance, i told her straightforward that i was the man for her and would prove it to her. all in all it will be worth it because you'd be staying true to yourself. friend zones don't exist; there's just compatible people and non compatible. a friend zone is something people put themselves in when they give up; or when they give up after being told they are like a brother to the girl. don't give up and you will be something different to her; if but a way closer friend than before because your feelings and how much you care for her will be monumentally greater than she realized before hand. your girlfriend needs to fix things in her head. if she cannot express herself as an adult assertively then move on with your life. ahoy, andrea! i'm so happy to hear you're considering a disney cruise with your daughters. they are at great ages to enjoy a disney cruise line vacation to the fullest! dining on a disney ship is usually a great experience for children and parents alike. with rotational dining, you'll dine in a different restaurant each night, and your servers rotate with you. your dining room team will learn your favorites, know your names, and are happy to fill special requests when they can! my daughters have grown attached to our servers on each cruise, getting photos with them and talking about them for weeks post-cruise. your fidgety diner is sure to be entertained by the servers as well as the interactive, fun atmosphere in the dining rooms. if you're worried she can't sit still for the whole meal, you can always request her food be served early. our youngest is always in a hurry to get to the oceaneer club after dinner, so we have them bring her food first. she's usually finished by the time we're finishing our entrees, and i walk her to the kids' club before they serve dessert. it's a win-win - she gets to go play and we get to relax and have dessert at the end of our meal! for families with second dinner seating, children can take part in dine and play. let your server know when you arrive that your child will be participating - their meal will be served early, and youth counselors will come to the dining room and escort them to the kids' club while parents enjoy their meal at a more leisurely pace. please come back and visit the moms panel if you have any more questions - we're happy to help! have a magical day! - diane w. yeah, break up with her, so then she can find a guy better than you. dude, are you kidding me? that's how relationships are, theres going to be arguments and sometimes theres going to be insecurities, and if you're not smart enough to realize she just actually really cares, then you should break up with her so she has a chance with a guy that will. Hello Jackal, thank you for asking at HealthReplies.com.



  

Injury in sports or self-defense training is quite often experienced because in these activities quite a lot of things are at high risk of causing injury to certain body parts especially if not done in the right way and there is no good security during the activities carried out.



  

Even though there are no visible signs of injury in the area you are complaining about (such as bruising, swelling, or redness), it is still advisable to check the complaint further to the doctor to determine whether there is a serious injury that occurred to you due to the complaint indeed it can be caused by a broken rib / crack or an injury to the chest muscles.



  

After ascertaining what condition you are experiencing, then you can also determine what therapy should be given based on these conditions.



  

Meanwhile, if the complaint is felt to be very disturbing, you can try taking pain relievers such as paracetamol according to the dosage on the package or applying topical pain reliever to the painful area, until there is further advice from the doctor. It is not advisable to massage the painful area until there are other suggestions from the doctor who examined you.



  

I hope this helps.