guys, what is it that makes a guy go for a chick?
what exactly makes a girl awesome to a guy? what do you search for or admire about a girl and why? however you answer, i'd love to hear your reasons :)

the poll only was a few things that i thought to add but i welcome your creative and constructive answers :)

debates are fun too :) ;)
it's really a combination of factors. firstly, i have to be attracted to the girl. and there isn't just one thing that's enough to catch my interest. for instance, i am really attracted to light-skinned latinas with black hair, dark eyes, a nice butt, healthy and on the shorter side. so her looks will catch my eye but for me to pursue trying to talk to her, she has to have the right personality cues. if she seems slutty, stuck-up, rude, etc. i'll pass on her. in that instance, i prefer quieter girls who are kind of shy, have at least an above average level of intelligence, and act modest -- a demure girl i could say.
you need to win the girl over with looks and personality first before you even get a sniff at knowing how much she loves sex. once you have a relationship it will blow you mind how much the average girl needs sex. most of the girls i know want it at least as much as the guys. as with anything, depends on the girl. some like it, some tolerate it, some hate ok..first of all: love is a word too big to be brought into this discussion. and second: although u found this question to be awkward, once u stay and think for a minute it isn't like that at all. whether u like it or not, sex is part of our life, and it keeps getting more and more important as time goes by. it is true, a few time ago it was kinda ta-bu subject, but now the "sex topic" is as common as...let's say...listening to music! so in an era that promotes and gives a great importance to sex questions like "do girls fantasize about having sex wen they see a hot guy?" are not out of order. on the other hand, it is obvious that he is more experienced in this subject than u are. as a prove we have your "cry for help" here. remember that: a guy will almost never give up an opportunity to have sex! but this doesn't mean your guy is only interested in having sex with you. in this case maybe he would have asked u out already. my advice is for you not to waste any more time by limiting yourself to only simple conversations with him. this could have 2 implications:
1. you fall for him because his "sweet talks" and maybe this is what he is waiting for.
2. this potential relationship evolves into a simple friendship relation, which would be not so good, since you clearly have feelings for him.
so ask him out, or at least make him ask u out! good luck! brief answer: hi, what is the reason for getting the investigations? detailed answer: hi, thanks for posting the query, may i know which investigations were done to give the xxxxxxx score for your heart? do you have any previous illness like diabetes and hypertension? do you take any medicines?... 1. one of your scars, how did you get it?


2. what is on the walls in your room?


3. do you snore, grind your teeth, or talk in your sleep?


4. what kind of music do you listen to?


5. do you know what time you were born?


6. what do you want more than anything right now?


7. what do you miss?


8. what is your most prized possession(s)?


9. how tall are you?


10. do you get claustrophobic?


11. do you get scared in the dark?


12. the last thing to make you cry?

13. what's your worst fear?

14. what kind of hair/eye color do you like on the opposite sex?


15. where can you see yourself being proposed to at?

16. coffee or energy drink?


17. favorite pizza topping?

18. if you could eat anything right now, what would it be?

19. favorite color of all time?

20. have you ever eaten a goldfish?


21. what was the first meaningful gift you've ever received?


22. do you have a crush?

23. are you double jointed?


24. favorite clothing brand?


25. who is your fav female/male celebrity?


26. do you have a pet right now?


27. what kind is it?


28. would you fall in love knowing that the person is leaving?


30. say a number from one to a hundred:

31. blondes or brunettes?

32. favorite quote?


33. favorite place?


34. have you been out of the usa?

35. your weaknesses?

36. met anyone famous?

37. first job?


38. ever done a prank call?


39. do you think everyone out there has a soulmate?


40. what were you doing before you filled this out?


41. have you ever had surgery?


42. what do you get complimented about most?


43. have you ever had braces?


44. what do you want for your birthday?


45. how many kids do you want and their names?

46. were you named after anyone?


47. what is the biggest turn off of the opposite sex?

48. what is one thing you like about high school?


49. what kind of shampoo do you use?


50. do you like your handwriting?

51. what is your favorite lunch meat?

52. any bad habits?


53. are you a jealous person?


54. if you were another person, would you be friends with you?


55. do you agree with friends with benefits?


56. do looks matter?

57. how do you release anger?


60. what was your favorite toy as a child?


61. how many numbers are in your cell phone


62.were you a fan of barney as a little kid


64. mashed potatoes or macaroni and cheese?

65. what do you look for in a guy/girl?


66. what are your nicknames?


67. if you had a super power what would it be?

68. what's your favorite tv show?

69.what's the best way to deal with your enemies?


70. what's your favorite ice cream?


71. do you have all your fingers and toes?


72. do you have a computer in your room?


73. plans for tonight?


74. where do you want to live when you are older?


75. do you want everyone to answer these questions?


76. what are you listening to?


77. the last thing you drank?

78. last person you talked to on the phone?


79. the first thing you notice in the opposite sex?


80. what do you like to do in your spare time?


81. favorite thing to hate?


82. favorite season?


83. what's your favorite type of dessert?


84. have you ever really and truly had a best friend

85. what is your hair color?


86. eye color?


87. shoe size?


88. favorite fast food place?


89. favorite restaurant?


90. do you like sushi?


91. watch tv today?


92. favorite day of the year?


93. play any musical instruments?


95. kisses or hugs?

96. relationships or one night stands?


97. what was the last thing you bought?


98. would you ever be a housewife?


99. what book are you reading?


100. describe your love life? girl. i think he likes you. you definitely got a chance! many men wear ********* or use dildo / vibrator there to stimulate their prostate. 

male prostate orgasm is like female's g-spot, different from penile orgasm but still very satisfying. he might have a hand fetish...a sexual attraction to hands. but he might just be a very tactile person...someone who expresses emotions through touch. let's put it this way: i think that some men are physically attractive. someone like leonardo dicaprio for instance. but i have no kind of other attraction toward him (or any other guys, for that matter). but toward women, i am physically, sexually, emotionally, romantically attracted to them (and any other attraction you can think of). i call myself a lesbian because…i am one. don't you see how? i'd never be able to be with a man in the way i could be with a woman. i'm just not built that way. 
if sexual and romantic attraction are essential for you in a relationship, i don't see how you'd be able to be in anything other than a lesbian relationship. if sex is essential for you in a relationship, i don't see how you'd really be able to distinguish panromanticism from homoromanticism, at least where it counts. if you want to base a relationship on romantic attraction, then i suppose that would be an entirely different case. it's up to you, in the end. your question is useful for the link and for other purposes.