please describe what makes someone marriage material in your opinion?
m/f?
nothing set in stone. someone is marriage material if i have been in a relationship with them for a long time, don't foresee any chronic problems, and would be much more devastated by the prospect of ever losing them than i would by cutting off my options with other women.

things like kindness, humor, and beauty are definitely part of it, but that has more to do with getting my attention in the first place than it does convincing me to stay. it has more to do with comfort and trust - if i can't trust someone, or if we get angry with each other often, or if i feel tense rather than comfortable coming home to her, then i'm not going to stick around long enough to consider the option.

people who make lists of "dealbreakers," physical attributes, and other such things are usually just trying to advertise that they have standards, and haven't actually encountered someone who's marriage material before. marriage material is just an exceptional person with whom you're very, very compatible and attached.
weight is good dear. btw what is your fl (femur length)... please tell gender : i'd prefer a (xy) man sexual orientation: i'd prefer heterosexualphysical apperance: dark hair light skin, narrow eyes, angular jaw, slim, hairy, no makeup, no tattos, no hair dyes, veiny arms, taller than me (its not essential)personality: open minded, emotionally intelligent, respects and has similarities to my religious/philosophical and political beliefs, finds me attractive, makes me a priority, similar goals, some what stingy like me and accepts being stingy, accepts my introvertednesswork: as long as he can provide shelter warmth and some food i don't care hobbies: as long as its not something ridiculous like collecting naked statues of women lol seriously? you're asking for a lot of detail. you asked for it. here are my personal preferences. i'd start with 5'2". blond, bouncy, curly hair. large, innocent, bluish eyes. full lips but not overly big or puffy. soft facial features. small, perfectly shaped ears. flawless, pale skin - just pink and white all over with no discoloration. naturally glabrous. a flat stomach with just the right amount of padding. pointed, perky boobs in the neighborhood of 32d. pink, silver dollar size areolas and fairly prominent nipples. pretty pussy. waist maybe 24" and hips around 36" with a tight yet jiggly, heart-shaped butt that kind of sticks out and creases at the tops of her thighs. nicely sculpted legs with thighs that are just right, not thin or thicc. delicate hands and feet. perfect posture and walks like a runway model.she's confident, feminine, loves being a woman and being treated like a lady. she's bold yet demure, adventurous, smart, funny, witty, wise, open-minded, inquisitive, uninhibited, playful, kind, sweet, gentle, empathetic, nurturing, honest, ethical, loyal, hard working, and a great communicator. she loves to cook and is good at it. she knows what she wants and won't put up with being treated badly. she looks up to me and we adore each other. she likes to walk hand in hand or with her hand gripping my arm or with our arms around each other. she has her own hobbies and interests but we also share many tastes and interests and have common values.she energetic and as flexible as a ballerina. she is expert at performing foreplay on me and also is not shy about saying what she, herself, likes and wants. talking dirty comes easy to her. she is comfortable in her own skin and enjoys dressing provocatively, teasing and being a temptress. her entire body is sensitive and erogenous. she loves having her titties fondled. she gives expert blowjobs and loves cum. she eagerly sucks cock that is covered with her own juices. she loves to fuck and would rather do that than receive oral. she can fuck enthusiastically and energetically twice a day or for hours at a time, reach orgasm quickly and cum repeatedly. she fucks while being fucked. she is a mind reader when it comes to changing positions and positioning herself for maximum pleasure. she likes to be squeezed, grasped, fondled, positioned, pinned, drilled, pounded, swatted on the ass and have her hair pulled, but she can also take charge and ride cock like she's riding a bronco. lmao some people are genuinely nice. shr offered you because she thought you are capable of the job. it's a plus for me. i love it when a guy knows how to cook. all guys should be able to cook. that meal in the pic looks very appetizing 😍 2 sounds the most attractive to me, but she sounds like a stereotype of someone that's into kinky stuff in bed... like really kinky. Coloring really don’t have a type. Height is irrelevant to me. I like a muscular back as a feature. A sexy jawline. They could be quiet or outspoken, but I need someone active who likes to enjoy getting out with me. A. I’m very glad that you are asking these questions before you get married. You’ve listed a number of issues that make it difficult for a couple to have a mutually satisfying and happy sex life. Your fiance has suffered a traumatic sexual assault. Religious teachings from an early age may have taught her that sex outside of marriage is morally wrong. On top of that, she is just plain tired.


It is a positive comment on your sensitivity and love that you are seeking answers instead of just being upset or blaming. That speaks well for your relationship. Since the two of you have such a difficult time talking about sex, I think you need some help. A counselor can provide a safe place and guidance so that you can work this through. Since you both have a Christian background, a Christian couples counselor might be a good choice.



I wish you well.  

Dr. Marie


How Can My Fiance and I Have a Mutually Satisfying Sex Life? Here's a couple of interesting items  

  

In the1870 and 1880 Census, Joseph and his Brother, William are living with their mother, Rachel.  No father...wonder if he passed in the Civil War?    Also in 1880, Elizabeth Weston b. 1867 was living with them.   Relationship says "home" whatever that meant.  

  

I have also found and validated the marriage information you have.  I can do some more research for you if you have  specific things you are looking for... How new and fresh is the relationship? That shouldn't decide this answer but for me it does. I can't wait to see the woman again if its after a good 1st date. Towards the end of my five year marriage, she couldn't stay away long enough. Sad but true.