How do you request final judgment when the ex will not sign any agreements in a defaulted divorce?



My husband is a lifer with CDCR and the judge has approved my Request to entered default. I am ready for my judgement I want nothing at all from my husband but we have children and he won’t sign the agreement I wrote so what happens now.
You do I default prove up is what happens now. He doesn’t have to do anything, you do.
A. If you are going to marry your fiancé, you will have to tolerate his children and ex-wife. It is unfair and unrealistic to ask him to cut ties with his children no matter how dysfunctional they or his ex-wife may be. He is their father and will likely have some involvement with them for the rest of his life.

You have a decision to make. If you decide to marry him, then accept that his family will be part of your life. If you don’t wish to be involved with his family, then strongly reconsider your decision to get married.

Every decision has consequences. Objectivity and clarity are of paramount importance when making major life decisions. It might be helpful to discuss this decision with a therapist. A therapist could assist you in thinking through what your life would be like with or without him and by extension with or without his family. Please take care.

Dr. Kristina Randle

Fiancé Kid Issues When He Doesn’t See Kids sounds to me like your husband already chose you over them (which is why the two of you are still together and have a family), so why would he not do the same thing now? if he is considering going, then i would definitely remind him of the agreement that the two of you made. i know that it seems harsh, but a deal is a deal. how would he feel if the situations were reversed? my guess is that he'd have the same response as you are having now.

if his daughter wanted to see him, then she could have done it before now; since she hasn't, it seems to me like this is a convenient way to get some money out of him (while driving a further wedge between the two of you). also, it is not up to him to contribute to the wedding - in my mind, if a couple wants to get married, then it should be done on their own dime (and to hell with tradition). this is a common type of question, in esence, and there is no mystery about how to be helpful  be ubnderstanding, supportive, ask if there is something you can do to help, and above all listen to whatever he may want to discuss about his problems, if and when he wants to talk about it. sounds like you have already been very helpful about arrnaging for him to see a relevant doc, and support groups, etc. maybe he needs to take a bit more initiative about all this, himself ? presumably counselling would help him come to terms better with the divorce and the issues surrounding the children you might request anything you would want. there is no assurance what you requested would be provided you. there might not be a legal reason where you would be supplied the information or documents you request.

if your father's estate was administered through a living trust or some other type of trust, the trust would outline the responsibilities of the executor.

 if your father's estate was required to be probated based on the state probate laws of your state, a probate judge would decide if all the debts and other liabilities were properly and legally handled.

normally if there is a probate, a probate attorney would be selected by the executor and would represent your father's estate to insure that all legal matters are handled properly.

from your statement is appears as if your father appointed your uncle as the executor of his will or trust.normally. if the court has appointed the trust it would appear as if you or your sister would have been appointed by the probate judge.

why are you having trust issues with your uncle who was appointed by your father to handle his affairs once he is deceased.

no mater what you are not legally able to change or alter anything done by the executor of the trust or will. you have no authority.. the same might be said of the documents and information you would want, you might not have the authority to have this information or documents.

if you think there are discrepancies in the executor handling of your father's estate, you would be required to sue the executor.\, handling your father's estate.

of course, your father's estate would be charged with the financial defense of the executor. alsl the probate would not close until all legal matters are complete.

 i hope this has been of some benefit to you, good luck.

"fight on" This is the great conundrum. Should I stay or should I go. Ultimately only your heart can answer this. But I would consider balancing on a two sided scale the weight of a casual fuck and a baby 👶 and then the weight of your family broken up divorce and spending the rest of your time seeing your kids half the time or less and likely being raised by another step dad. I'm not suggesting you choose one or the other. I'm merely suggesting you weigh in the reality of both sides and what they mean in the long run. I feel for you because I've been there and know it's very very hard. You will know what you must do but take a little time to think before making rash decisions.   
I wish you the best. And hope whatever happens you will be happier for those decisions you make. 😔 as part of a child custody arrangement for unmarried or divorcing parents, a court may order the non-custodial parent to pay a set monthly sum of money to the custodial parent to cover expenses relating to the care of a minor child or incapacitated adult child.

the “custodial parent” is the parent who has custody of the child. the child lives with that parent and the parent assumes responsibility for the child. a child support attorney usually drafts and files the agreement for court approval. are jobs allowed to ask you that 😮 none of their business. wow.you're young. if it’s something you want you got time. if not there’s no obligation for you to have kids. 😊 you can ask others or if you see them, just look at their facial expressions and other body language.  i avoided and ignored a jerk at the gym and the last time i saw him, he didn't even acknowledge me (fortunately).  so i know i either hurt his feelings or made him mad. Explain it just like you explained in your post.

 Tell your advisor that you are very interested in attending a particular conference and that you even applied. You realized it was an oversight that you applied without talking to him first, and then you got sidetracked.

 Make it clear that you want to go, that you got accepted, that you made a mistake, and you'd appreciate his feedback on all of it. If your advisor tells you to withdraw, then I would probably listen.

 It is not common to do such a thing without discussing it with your advisor, often because they are a co-author and footing the bill. Not normally. You can call the facility and speak to a counselor or case manager and ask nicely if they will relay a message. The rules are usually against this, but if you ask nicely, they might pass along your urgent message.