have you ever had angry sex before?
last night my boyfriend and i had a huge argument, there was a lot of yelling going on. anyway, at one point he just threw me onto the bed and started forcibly making out and we ended up having angry sex. don't get me wrong, its not like he punched me or anything. but we got pretty rough. there was a lot of slapping, biting, scratching and name calling but to be honest i was dripping wet and i had 2 orgasms so yea...afterwards, it was like we had gotten all of our anger out of our systems and we just cuddled up like a happy couple and went to sleep but we are both covered in marks now haha. has anyone else had angry sex before?did it help you both get over your problem?
yes and yes. i often spank her for being so difficult.
A. I’m very glad that you are asking these questions before you get married. You’ve listed a number of issues that make it difficult for a couple to have a mutually satisfying and happy sex life. Your fiance has suffered a traumatic sexual assault. Religious teachings from an early age may have taught her that sex outside of marriage is morally wrong. On top of that, she is just plain tired.


It is a positive comment on your sensitivity and love that you are seeking answers instead of just being upset or blaming. That speaks well for your relationship. Since the two of you have such a difficult time talking about sex, I think you need some help. A counselor can provide a safe place and guidance so that you can work this through. Since you both have a Christian background, a Christian couples counselor might be a good choice.



I wish you well.  

Dr. Marie


How Can My Fiance and I Have a Mutually Satisfying Sex Life? well, to tell you the truth if she made me jealous that'd be between us. go on, what did she do? didn't i just get done telling you it's between us? clean the damn wax out of your ears! you can ask others or if you see them, just look at their facial expressions and other body language.  i avoided and ignored a jerk at the gym and the last time i saw him, he didn't even acknowledge me (fortunately).  so i know i either hurt his feelings or made him mad. ok..first of all: love is a word too big to be brought into this discussion. and second: although u found this question to be awkward, once u stay and think for a minute it isn't like that at all. whether u like it or not, sex is part of our life, and it keeps getting more and more important as time goes by. it is true, a few time ago it was kinda ta-bu subject, but now the "sex topic" is as common as...let's say...listening to music! so in an era that promotes and gives a great importance to sex questions like "do girls fantasize about having sex wen they see a hot guy?" are not out of order. on the other hand, it is obvious that he is more experienced in this subject than u are. as a prove we have your "cry for help" here. remember that: a guy will almost never give up an opportunity to have sex! but this doesn't mean your guy is only interested in having sex with you. in this case maybe he would have asked u out already. my advice is for you not to waste any more time by limiting yourself to only simple conversations with him. this could have 2 implications:
1. you fall for him because his "sweet talks" and maybe this is what he is waiting for.
2. this potential relationship evolves into a simple friendship relation, which would be not so good, since you clearly have feelings for him.
so ask him out, or at least make him ask u out! good luck! with a therapist or psychologist that you trust. such a person will help you sort out what is making you think you were abused and feelings associated with this idea and how this affects you life today. you can find a psychologist close to you here: locator.apa.org find someone who knows about sexual abuse and who you like and who feels safe. see more... many men wear ********* or use dildo / vibrator there to stimulate their prostate. 

male prostate orgasm is like female's g-spot, different from penile orgasm but still very satisfying. we chose to let our son cry it out when we noticed he had picked up similar bad habits. we had never let him sleep with us, but he got used to being rocked to sleep after i was in the hospital for a few days. it seemed that, every time he came into light sleep, he would realize that he wasn't being held, would start crying until someone rocked him; and after a few nights of that, i knew we had to teach him to go to sleep on his own (again) and sleep through the night (again). we let him cry it out, and it only took a day and a half before he was back to putting himself to sleep and sleeping 7/8 hours at night. he's only two months, and i think the longer you put it off, the more difficult it is going to be. good luck! yes, unemployment puts a strain on any individual and any relationship. <br><br>however, i don&#39;t see how i can recommend taking up paid sex as a solution for problems, though i can understand how you might find the idea tempting in more ways than one. what does your husband think of the idea ? he could hardly fail to be curious about where the new money was coming from. otherwise, how could you explain it to him ? <br><br>i agree with maria. <br> it is a very personal decision. but don't be fooled by the anti-circumcision activists. the reality is:

"-- circumcised men say they experience greater sexual pleasure after surgery, a finding that should help overcome unease about the operation."

"a total of 87.7 per cent said they found it easier to reach an orgasm after being circumcised, and 92.3 per cent said they experienced more sexual pleasure." fantasies are one thing, and reality another. no form of acting out such a fantasy would benefit anyone, and it would be highly likely to end up as hurtful and to severely damage your relationship. good advice all round, and poppie&#39;s ideas might be worth trying. if you had a fantasy involving high physical danger to him, or something like you leading him, naked, through the supermarket with a rope round his neck, would he be so eager to act it out for you, and accept the ridicule that would abound on him ? consider marriage counselling to work on what leads him, not to the fantasies, but to want to act out something so inevitably destructive to your marriage