why are they trying to scare us with hpv?
isn't it an std that you can only get through sex? if my boyfriend and i are monogamous and both get tested prior to having sex why should i worry about hpv?

a friend of mine got it (she's very promiscuous) and she keeps trying to push me to get it. she's starting to really annoy me!
yes, if you marry this dude and no one ever cheats. but still, why not protect yourself? get the vaccine so you are totally safe. i hope your boyfriend is always faithful but you never know, things happen. this vaccination is supposed to be given before the age of 25 years, i think. i do not know of a test for hpv for men anyway at this time. it is very very contageous and running rampid. my step-daughter was not promiscuous and she found out she had hpv after she was married. who really knows where her husband got it? and it doesn't matter they have a good marriage. anyway, he has no symptoms but she has had to have surgery. i wish we would have known about this vaccine or it would have been available when she was younger. i would have made sure she got the vaccine when she was in my care as a teenager. then, she would not have ever had to suffer. she has a daughter and will make sure she is vaccinated. the vaccination is a blessing and only provides protection. be thankful it is available and get it.

ok valid answer - here is a copy of an article and if you are 26 you can still get it:
 
human papillomavirus, a disease that causes 70 percent of cervical cancer cases and 90 percent of genital warts cases, is most common for people in their late teens and early twenties, according to the centers for disease control and prevention web site.

"if i were a 26-year-old who had never had intercourse or had never been exposed to the virus, i'd get the vaccine," said dr. roger yandell in the department of obstetrics and gynecology at the texas tech health sciences center. "it definitely has more impact on younger girls, though. the cervix changes during menarche, a girl's first period. that's when it's most susceptible to the virus, so we try to start the vaccine just before that takes place." 

the advisory committee on immunization practices consists of 15 experts - selected by the secretary of the u.s. department of health and human services - who provide advice and guidance to the cdc. the committee recommends women through age 26 years old receive catch-up vaccinations, according to the cdc web site.

"you have to look at what we're trying to treat," yandell said. "cervical cancer is really what we're talking about here, and on a lesser scale, genital warts. this is the most common disease for causing either of those."
the hpv virus is very easily transmitted from person to person. fingers, mouths, sharing sex toys without washing in between are all thought to be ways of transmitting hpv. Hello-
Unprotected oral sex is common, but has risks. Several sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including HIV, herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, HPV, and viral hepatitis can be passed on through oral sex. "It's safer sex, but it's definitely not safe sex." here is the deal, if the guy is pressuring you in anything to have sex when you don't want to, you just stand up and leave. 3d date or 43d - doesn't matter. it is you body and your decision. and you deserve somebody who would treat you with respect and understanding. it is not about the number of dates you have. you might make love after the first date if you feel like doing so. you might wait. it's not an exact science. the only thing that is 100% sure is that you (or him, btw) souldn't be forced to do smth you are not ready or don't want to do. sex is only a small and less important factor in a marriage or between 2 people that care for each other.at age 16, i would anyway recommend you wait another 2 or 3 years before you even start thinking of sex. there are so many dangers associated with it, starting with std/sti, disappointments or the fact that a girl is misused by guys that just want to add yet another victim or body count to their long list.what is sex? a few muscular contractions and spasms and usually, it is over in about 3 to 4 minutes. it is not really worth wasting your virginity just to be like all the others. you are special because you still have it. keep it for the one that deserves it and not because you have the feeling that you need to lose it. don't be a sheep that follows the others and don't succumb to group/peer pressure. just relax for now. if you are getting any vaginal symtoms, then check out for any std. check home pregnancy test a week after you have a missed period. always use protection during sex. see more... two days is early; a negative result won't prove you weren't infected. if you were definitely exposed (i.e. your partner has gonorrhea for sure) you should be treated now; don't wait for a positive test. if it's just a suspicion (e.g. unprotected sex with a new partner) retesting makes sense. you also need to test for chlamydia, and blood tests for syphilis and hiv in a few weeks. good luck! see more... it all depends on the test. in general most stds are not diagnosed the same day. there is usually a way to meet or communicate lab results at another time. see more... i would think very lowly of her. if she resorts to violence because she is offended or dissagrees then she is not the type of person i need to be associated with. if she kept hitting me i would restrain her or try to evade her. if she started attacking me i would fight back. i don't give a damn what your gender is, if you are a threat to safety you should be dealt with. you don't get a free pass because of your genitalia. A. I’m very glad that you are asking these questions before you get married. You’ve listed a number of issues that make it difficult for a couple to have a mutually satisfying and happy sex life. Your fiance has suffered a traumatic sexual assault. Religious teachings from an early age may have taught her that sex outside of marriage is morally wrong. On top of that, she is just plain tired.


It is a positive comment on your sensitivity and love that you are seeking answers instead of just being upset or blaming. That speaks well for your relationship. Since the two of you have such a difficult time talking about sex, I think you need some help. A counselor can provide a safe place and guidance so that you can work this through. Since you both have a Christian background, a Christian couples counselor might be a good choice.



I wish you well.  

Dr. Marie


How Can My Fiance and I Have a Mutually Satisfying Sex Life? dear worried<br><br>i do not think there is reason to be worried, but best would be to talk to your gp.<br><br>regards, maritha<br><br>