Question of personal nature...apologies...Can a Mormon be devote & pious, yet wear initmate apparel/lingerie?



Apologies for the personal, private nature of the question, but I am in a current discussion with a colleague and I was curious about the common sentiment regarding this from fellow Mormons...

Understood completely if you do not care to respond. (I don't think I would if I came across this one myself, Kerry...
We girls--another sister and I--had a conversation about this. You mean, in regards to a lady removing sacred clothing in order dress in a provocative manner for her husband, for an intimate encounter?   

  

The other sister told me "absolutely!" She told me it was no different than being completely undressed for intimacy (which usually follows, anyway.) As long as it is only for the duration of that encounter. I had no feeling on the subject yet because I was not married at the time and therefore had no occasion to worry about this. But I pretty much agree. I have several sets of nice lingerie myself--only my hubby gets to see it though   

  

Sorry if this info is a little--acute.
i liked the clutch the sheets part. do you bite pillows too?maybe you should have voluntarily and gently but firmly pushed him up off of you and suggestively merely rolled onto your stomach and knees and give him a cheeky neck turn smile. maybe next time though in missionary or back to missionary... maybe you're legs weren't doing enough or maybe just dump the guy if he doesn't think much of you. i mean how insulting. you deserve better lady ,🙏 gender : i'd prefer a (xy) man sexual orientation: i'd prefer heterosexualphysical apperance: dark hair light skin, narrow eyes, angular jaw, slim, hairy, no makeup, no tattos, no hair dyes, veiny arms, taller than me (its not essential)personality: open minded, emotionally intelligent, respects and has similarities to my religious/philosophical and political beliefs, finds me attractive, makes me a priority, similar goals, some what stingy like me and accepts being stingy, accepts my introvertednesswork: as long as he can provide shelter warmth and some food i don't care hobbies: as long as its not something ridiculous like collecting naked statues of women lol I'm seriously looking at covenanting for life to look after and be looked after a faith-based international communal fellowship of Bible-believing people. They live like this to follow the original Way that the first believers in the Son of God lived instead of what became of this Way as it was replaced by elements of other religions and cultures. They only consider marrying the other people in the group who have also covenanted never to leave nor forsake each other the way the Son of God implemented when He told His Disciples He would never leave nor forsake them and to Love each other as He had Loved them. You can check them out here, if you want to:  
  
twelvetribes dot org i wouldn't just straight up break up but it would certainly lower her attraction.if the pussy is below average, that i can tolerate but if it's ugly then... 🙄😕😖😓when it comes to the boobs, anything below average is bad.so yeah, i could break up with her but only after careful consideration of my adaptability & her body. i'm nice and polite like i am with anyone, but with her i'm a tad flirty to see how she responds, gradually getting more and more flirty to see what she finds acceptable. for example the other day i asked her if she was a goddess, what she would be the goddess of. when she said she hadn't thought of it i spontaneously said, or rather had thought it would be a clever thing to say two days in advanced, that she would probably be the goddess of wisdom and beauty. when i get more confident in myself, i'll send her one of these forms. I think when he said he was a playboy he might not have been lying. He might just not be mature even though he's 40 and while he might be good with monogamous he might not be into having a serious relationship. I tend to attract younger men too. It hasn't been really anything I openly pursued I just look younger on a good day. I haven't gone out with any younger because the men who seemed interested fell just below the 40 year mark or I think they were younger than 40. It's hard to tell sometimes i have a sex doll and a porn addiction which i dont mind mentioning here but its not the first thing i tell people in the real world so i guess that would count usually he does, but every once in awhile i to just get in there and start taking his clothing off just to be like "hurry up dude, i want your dick badly!" which is fun lol. although there is nothing sexier then a man taking his belt off, all men should wear belts even if they don't need them tbh the nudity/exposed skin isn't on its own the reason why such women aren't taken as seriously. rather, it's their inability to recognize and adapt to their situation/environment and to observe the expectations of that particular situation.example: no one judges women who are showing tons of skin on a beach, because that's an appropriate place to show tons of skin. but if you have an office job and you go to work dressed like a call girl, then you will be dressed inappropriately for the situation, and people won't take you seriously. it's no different than if you were to go meet with an investment banker about managing your money, and when you show up to his office, he's wearing shorts and a hoodie - while that *technically* doesn't mean he's not good at his job, such clothes are inappropriate for that context, and a lot of potential customers are going to walk away.people who aren't able to determine that they are dressed inappropriately for their situation are having their judgement called into question more than the clothes themselves. if your judgement is questionable (or outright wrong), then people aren't going to take you seriously in other areas either. some of mine do and some don't. i quit trying to explain to ppl who have no idea what it's all about. some will never truly understand this illness anyhow. hugs. take care 🌺