she fingers my asshole, should i like that?
i need help in my sex life
you aren't obligated to like or dislike anything. i suggest you figure out whether or not you like it, and tell her how you feel. either way, there's nothing weird about it
as with anything, depends on the girl. some like it, some tolerate it, some hate Good for you for taking her keys, before something bad were to happen.   
  
Just let her cuss. Have a standard response and let it go! sorry i dont think she likes you. she is just using you to boost her confidence and make it seem like she has lots of guys under her wing. maybe she is trying to make another guy jealous. :-/ anywayz i could be wrong so gl. maybe, if she has a self-esteem problem. in the end what you'll get is lots of cuts and bruises, and a bad sexual experience that makes you feel embarrassed every time you think about it for the rest of your life. A. I’m very glad that you are asking these questions before you get married. You’ve listed a number of issues that make it difficult for a couple to have a mutually satisfying and happy sex life. Your fiance has suffered a traumatic sexual assault. Religious teachings from an early age may have taught her that sex outside of marriage is morally wrong. On top of that, she is just plain tired.


It is a positive comment on your sensitivity and love that you are seeking answers instead of just being upset or blaming. That speaks well for your relationship. Since the two of you have such a difficult time talking about sex, I think you need some help. A counselor can provide a safe place and guidance so that you can work this through. Since you both have a Christian background, a Christian couples counselor might be a good choice.



I wish you well.  

Dr. Marie


How Can My Fiance and I Have a Mutually Satisfying Sex Life? she looks kind of sleazy and slutty that's a bit of an ovary-action. you need to win the girl over with looks and personality first before you even get a sniff at knowing how much she loves sex. once you have a relationship it will blow you mind how much the average girl needs sex. most of the girls i know want it at least as much as the guys. she needs to be built up...why are people making her feel worse? this should be a place she can feel like she can vent and share her fears without judgment. who are we to make her feel worse....please think about this before you post. marijuana can heighten some of your senses, including your sense of touch (and it definitely affects your sense of taste!). with your ability to feel heightened, an orgasm can feel awesome. i had a girlfriend who hated marijuana, but i finally got her to like it getting her stoned and having sex with her so she could see how great it felt. she was always up for a toke after that :)