would you be disappointed if your partner didn’t want to receive oral but only give it?
i said yes. i really love going down on my partner and i would definitely miss it if she didn’t want it. as for receiving, i would probably feel differently if she never gave me head, but it’s kind of ho-hum. her enthusiasm for it turns me on way more than the actual feeling. at the end of the day, you need to make peace with your partner’s needs and your partner’s hard no’s, otherwise you won’t be happy.
maybe he doesn't know how to graciously receive a gift? some people have no clue.

i wouldn't take the gift back. i'd just move forward. i don't, they get the silent treatment until i need to talk to them. which is rare Your girl sees you like a partner, and a little like a big brother under that umbrella. Now imagine telling that to your 5 year old little sister. Wouldn't she do the same thing? It's not particularly that she is just sad, is that she sees that you don't want to be her partner. Instead, what you want to do is to push the fun for later and respect that engagement. Hello-
Unprotected oral sex is common, but has risks. Several sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), including HIV, herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, HPV, and viral hepatitis can be passed on through oral sex. "It's safer sex, but it's definitely not safe sex." it would be a good idea but i doubt yahoo will bother. they wouldn't have been welcomed for a start. A. I’m very glad that you are asking these questions before you get married. You’ve listed a number of issues that make it difficult for a couple to have a mutually satisfying and happy sex life. Your fiance has suffered a traumatic sexual assault. Religious teachings from an early age may have taught her that sex outside of marriage is morally wrong. On top of that, she is just plain tired.


It is a positive comment on your sensitivity and love that you are seeking answers instead of just being upset or blaming. That speaks well for your relationship. Since the two of you have such a difficult time talking about sex, I think you need some help. A counselor can provide a safe place and guidance so that you can work this through. Since you both have a Christian background, a Christian couples counselor might be a good choice.



I wish you well.  

Dr. Marie


How Can My Fiance and I Have a Mutually Satisfying Sex Life? you do nothing. 

but you could advise your bf to tell his aunt that he is uncomfortable with the information she is telling him and that he would appriciate it if she stoped.

your bf has to do something about it, not you. Agree. It's rich in flavor and poor in nutrition. Your question is unclear. I would expect your attorney to be empathetic to you. Comforting words and understanding would likely be appropriate, but is not necessary.