can a guy really be confused about how they feel?
if a guy says “i don't know how i feel” and “everything will work out how it’s supposed to” what does that mean
because a lot of guys don't know how they feel and a lot of guys are cautious about opening up and letting a girl know how they feel i leave i'm a little older than most of you guys on here and i've been to a hell of a lot but there was a saying that john wayne had said that's stuck with both of the guys i grew up with and hung with and i'm not sure if you guys will understand the meaning behind the saying but it was something we all lived with and it was " never say your sorry because it is a sign of weakness" in other words guys don't discuss their feelings you keep it in and to yourself. but things have changed and i believe for the better but it is tough for guys like me to change but were working on it and it's just that some of us are slow. lol
here's your best answer- just tell him your true feelings. he will appreciate you being honest with him. maybe he doesn't know how to graciously receive a gift? some people have no clue.

i wouldn't take the gift back. i'd just move forward. some of mine do and some don't. i quit trying to explain to ppl who have no idea what it's all about. some will never truly understand this illness anyhow. hugs. take care 🌺 ahhhhhhhhh 



**** baby i really dont know how to say this to you 
i know i should of came to you a lot sooner 
but its killing me inside 
knowing that i aint ready for this 
but i love you 

girl i, i gotta tell the truth 
got somethin to confess to you 
why it took me so long for me to come and talk to you 
(baby) would never do nothin to ever hurt you girl 
girl you know 
that i gon always love you 

coz i reall wanna prove to you 
that i can be that ??? lovin do 
i aint ready yet girl x2 
and even tho u hurtin now 
i wanna see a smile 
and you wear a frown 
girl i aint ready yet girl x2 
but ima still be here for you 

i gota fallback 
before im hurtin you girl you no at the end 
you no im, 
im gona regret dat 
ima fall back aint no otha girl lovin me like u do 
im feelin you 
believe that 
i gota fall back 
before i mess up what i hav with you 
girl you dont understand 
i gotta fall back 
girl 

because i got to you 

girl you deserve betta than me 
im hopin that u dont understand 
coz we 
well b togeda again ill *** back a betta man 
one day youll understand what im goin thru 
and look back to say thankyou 
dont you think 
that i dont care about you 

coz i reall wanna prove to you 
that i can be that ???? lovin do 
i aint ready yet girl x2 
and even tho u hurtin now 
i wanna see a smile 
and you wear a frown 
girl i aint ready yet girl x2 
but ima still be here for you 

i gota fallback 
before im hurtin you girl you no at the end 
you no im, 
im gona regret dat 
ima fall back aint no otha girl lovin me like u do 
im feelin you 
believe that 
i gota fall back 
before i mess up what i hav with you 
girl you dont understand 
i gotta fall back 
girl 

yeahhh 
because i got to 

this is hard for me i dont wanna leav you girl 
and i 
i hope you believe you were meant for me 
girl 
if you give me sometime 
ima change your mind 
girl 
i dont wanna go away 
but ill hurt you if i stay 

i gota fallback 
before im hurtin you girl you no at the end 
you no im, 
im gona regret dat 
ima fall back aint no otha girl lovin me like u do 
im feelin you 
believe that 
i gota fall back 
before i mess up what i have with you 
girl you dont understand 
i gotta fall back 
girl twin!!!!!how do u feel they r different?and how do u break up with someone and then you meet the same image next day but with different emotions.i'm confused. You know this question could be answered either way. "Yes, he might be", or "no he really cares". Let's assume he likes talking with you and seeing you at the visitation. He likes that you are showing him attention. There is a chance that this relationship can grow beyond where it would have if he was out. Maybe you get to know each other better and he becomes more into you. Life is too short, you have to let this play out.


I'm sure you have great instincts (your inner feeling already knows), you have to trust yourself enough to make the right decision. Give it some time, try not to be too hard on yourself. He might be a rascal and a dirty dog too, but I vote for giving it a try and see how it plays out. You are in control of this relationship and every inmate knows this fact. Since the inmate loses control of what goes on in the outside world and he will often try to keep that control over the phone or letters. Just trust yourself and what you see and feel. Your question is unclear. I would expect your attorney to be empathetic to you. Comforting words and understanding would likely be appropriate, but is not necessary. A.  I am deeply moved by your situation and understand the devastation following a desertion. Trying to understand his motivation and lack of caring re-injures you emotionally. No matter how many times you try to understand this story of betrayal it will leave you empty. This is a time to reclaim yourself and reconnect with those who love you — and whose care can fill you up. Building a network of social support takes some doing. Asking for help, expressing gratitude toward those who have extended their kindness, and immersing in the best self-care practices you can will help you feel better.


Thoughts determine the direction of our feelings and behavior. If you dwell on him you are turning your thoughts toward more difficult and unsatisfying feelings. Focusing on what you need and the loving people in your life will be better way to go.



Wishing you patience and peace,  

*Dr. Dan*  

[*Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral*](http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/author/danielt/)


Struggling to Accept that He Doesn’t Care about Me i didn't really know how to take it or what it meant but i certainly didn't assume what you've suggested! the reason they're different tenses is because each example has a different amount of certainty.

1. "biden said he would" this refers to an event in the future and the author is not sure if it will really happen or not.

2. "biden said he will" this refers to an event in the future the author thinks will happen

3. "fauci said it was safe" this shows no uncertainty. now, we don't know if fauci will say it's safe, but if he does say it's safe, then there will be no doubts about what he said.