why most men try to pull their penis out too soon , before a girl starts thinking good about that guy, who is on purpose ruining fun for both?
i normally keep it in until it is completely flacit and wants to fall out on its own. can't speak for anyone else.
maybe they can’t find a guy who stole from them so they’re going to go after his girlfriend probably. some people get f****** offended so god d*** easy. fantasies are one thing, and reality another. no form of acting out such a fantasy would benefit anyone, and it would be highly likely to end up as hurtful and to severely damage your relationship. good advice all round, and poppie&#39;s ideas might be worth trying. if you had a fantasy involving high physical danger to him, or something like you leading him, naked, through the supermarket with a rope round his neck, would he be so eager to act it out for you, and accept the ridicule that would abound on him ? consider marriage counselling to work on what leads him, not to the fantasies, but to want to act out something so inevitably destructive to your marriage ok..first of all: love is a word too big to be brought into this discussion. and second: although u found this question to be awkward, once u stay and think for a minute it isn't like that at all. whether u like it or not, sex is part of our life, and it keeps getting more and more important as time goes by. it is true, a few time ago it was kinda ta-bu subject, but now the "sex topic" is as common as...let's say...listening to music! so in an era that promotes and gives a great importance to sex questions like "do girls fantasize about having sex wen they see a hot guy?" are not out of order. on the other hand, it is obvious that he is more experienced in this subject than u are. as a prove we have your "cry for help" here. remember that: a guy will almost never give up an opportunity to have sex! but this doesn't mean your guy is only interested in having sex with you. in this case maybe he would have asked u out already. my advice is for you not to waste any more time by limiting yourself to only simple conversations with him. this could have 2 implications:
1. you fall for him because his "sweet talks" and maybe this is what he is waiting for.
2. this potential relationship evolves into a simple friendship relation, which would be not so good, since you clearly have feelings for him.
so ask him out, or at least make him ask u out! good luck! maybe, if she has a self-esteem problem. in the end what you'll get is lots of cuts and bruises, and a bad sexual experience that makes you feel embarrassed every time you think about it for the rest of your life. you need to win the girl over with looks and personality first before you even get a sniff at knowing how much she loves sex. once you have a relationship it will blow you mind how much the average girl needs sex. most of the girls i know want it at least as much as the guys. sorry i dont think she likes you. she is just using you to boost her confidence and make it seem like she has lots of guys under her wing. maybe she is trying to make another guy jealous. :-/ anywayz i could be wrong so gl. normal men, women, boys, and girls masturbate (it's universal). it is not harmful, as the body goes through similar effects during regular sex with a partner (but too much of anything may become a problem). masturbation does not stunt height, cause acne or hair loss, make you weak, create heart problems, lower testosterone, affect virginity, lower fertility, change your weight, or damage vision. see more... when u do well but not well enough.or when they hate the other team. the song you are talking about is "before he cheats" by carrie underwood here are the lyrics and a link to the song on youtube :d

lyrics:

right now he's probably slow dancing with a bleach blond tramp,
and she's probably getting frisky...
right now, he's probably buying her some fruity little drink cause she can't shoot whiskey...

right now, he's probably up behind her with a pool-stick, showing her how to shoot a combo...

and he don't know...

that i dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
i took a louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

right now, she's probably up singing some
white-trash version of shania karaoke..
right now, she's probably saying "i'm drunk"
and he's a thinking that he's gonna get lucky,
right now, he's probably dabbing on 3 dollars worth of that bathroom polo...
and he don't know...

that i dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats,
i took a louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

i might've saved a little trouble for the next girl,
cause the next time that he cheats...

oh, you know it won't be on me!

no...not on me
'cause i dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
i took a louisville slugger to both headlights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

oh.. maybe next time he'll think before he cheats...

ohh... before he cheats... 


link to music video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wasy8yy-mr8
link to video with lyrics
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cnlfuwfxdvo

hope i helped :d