apple recruiter said he will contact and ghosted me! 
i had an onsite at apple. i asked the recruiter for the decision after a week. he said there would be an update the week after and i haven’t heard from him. i have already sent one follow up with no response. i was wondering if i should email him aga...
they are interviewing other candidates most likely
you should have done it yourself. i wouldn't get your hopes up. if he doesn't text you within the next three days, it's because you're his option and he's got something else going on. if he texts you a couple of weeks from now, then what he "had" going on didn't work out. if he never texts, it's a missed opportunity on both your parts. best to avoid those in future and take advantage of them when you get them. Hi there!


It depends, from a few days up to 2-4 weeks or so. If longer, you can contact HR directly and ask.


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GB he could be thinking the same thing, "obviously you don't miss me if she hasn't contacted me." i say , try. if his response isn't what you wanted then at least you know you tried. well, i raised an issue with id support whom escalated it with engineering or something and it's now working. they did say they'd text me updates and haven't received anything from them so whether they did anything or whether it just started working.. who knows. 

but yeah, looks like the answer is calling / talking to support. First, don't erase any of the voice mails or emails. Record and transcribe the voicemails and print out all of the emails.


Second, there is nothing procedurally improper with the defendant to contact the plaintiff directly. In this case it is annoying at least, and depending on what is being threatened, potentially criminal. There is nothing wrong with notifying her attorney of the conduct and asking him to get it stopped. 


If the conduct is threatening, you might want to report it to the police or seek a restraining order. you have to initiate conversations with him too sometimes or he will think you don't like him as much as he likes you. basically he probably got tired of chasing you so if you want him you should send him a message and start a conversation right now. i once had an abhorrent admirer, and he eventually sexually assaulted me. i don't even know how many times i told him prior to that that i wasn't interested, but it was definitely more than about ten times. he came over one night and asked me to let him in my apartment just to talk and to say goodbye. i thought (stupidly) that he was genuine, since that's all i wanted, and he knew it -- the goodbye part. people are unpredictable and can be dangerous. my advice is to just ignore, ignore, ignore. block if you need to, and don't give in to anything, even if you're "just trying to be nice" or "you don't want to hurt the person". and those people who are being harassed shouldn't tell someone to leave them alone, only to call *them* the next day - even just to check up on them and see if they're okay. no. just ignore them. don't send mixed messages, and there is no need to lose control over it. just ignore, block, and document it if it persists - because you never know if you have to make it a police issue. eventually people tire of not being recognized as that's all these types of people want -- attention. if they don't get it from one person, they eventually move on to someone else to get what they need. hi kerrye - i'd recommend that you keep calling, from now until september. when cancellations occur, the system is updated pretty much immediately, so you never know when there will be an opening. good luck! hi there, can you pm me your uphold email address? i can look into your account and issue you a refund. :slight\_smile: i agree with your friends. you obviously like each other because he claimed to be willing to make the long drive to see you, he willingly met your parents to good effect, and he responds well when you call him. however, we cannot know what he is thinking until he makes some positive overtures in your favor without prodding. he probably has only the vaguest ideas what to do with himself regarding the relationship with you, so maybe you should give him time to clear his head. you must give him space for a few days to a week, maybe, before calling him again. he could be concerned about a long-distance affair, he could be overwhelmed by pressures of daily life, or just grappling with his shyness (since, you say, he's not been in a relationship before). if you get a weak or no response after about a week, call him and ask him directly how he feels about your mutual arrangement. once you allow him to make the moves himself it will all turn out well.