anchor.diff:  <h4 class="center teal-text text-lighten-3 headline"><%= @user.first_name %>'s Dashboard</h4>
   
   <% if flash[:friending] %>
  -  <p class="center-align orange-text"><%= flash[:confirm] %></p>
  +  <p class="center-align orange-text"><%= flash[:friending] %></p>
   <% end %>
   
   <div class="dashboard-link center">
  
positive.code:     <% end %>
      <% if !@user.pending_direct_add.empty? %>
      <ul class="collection with-header">
        <li class="collection-header white-text teal lighten-3 headline"><h6>Pending Connections</h6></li>
        <% @user.pending_direct_add.each do |friend| %>
          <li class="collection-item">
            <%= link_to(user_path(friend), class: "recent-connect") do %>
  
negative.code:   <div class="pending-playdates">
      <% if !@pending.empty? %>
      <ul class="collection with-header">
        <li class="collection-header white-text teal lighten-3 "><h6>Pending Playdates</h6></li>
          <% @pending.each do |pending| %>
            <li class="collection-item" >
              <%= link_to(user_playdate_path(current_user.id, pending.id), class: "collection-item playdate-item") do %>
  