How to do something like UPDATE DELAYED in MySQL I have an averages table that should keep track of an average value over time.  I don't want to have a row for each value, just a single row that continuously updates the average.  What I've come up with is this:

set @value=4;
set @name="myAverageValue";
UPDATE `timing` SET
  `max` = greatest(`max`,@value),
  `average` = `average` + ((@value - `average`) / (`count` + 1)),
  `count` = `count` + 1
WHERE `name` = @name


Many clients may be doing this at the same time, and I don't want there to be any locking issues.  I don't care what order the updates are run in, since in the end it will all end up the same.  I just want to have a query that sends the UPDATE to the database, and it will process it eventually, similar to an INSERT DELAYED.  Does UPDATE LOW_PRIORITY do this, or does that cause the client to wait until it is available?
While there is no such command as UPDATE DELAYED, you can create this mechanism in a rather strange way. Please follow my rather crazy train of thought...
SCENARIO : Let's say you have just a single DB Server called M1

You want to fire UPDATEs at a single table called mydb.timing
You don't want UPDATEs to log jam the table

SOLUTION : Serialize UPDATEs
MECHANISM : Would you believe MySQL Replication ?
That's right, I said MySQL Replication.
You are probably saying right now

How in the world would having a Slave create UPDATE DELAYED ?

Here is how you do it:
STEP 01 : Using another DB Server (call it M2), create a MySQL Instance with binary logging enabled.
STEP 02 : mysqldump all user databases with no data, just structures (called it MySQLSchema.sql)
STEP 03 : Edit MySQLSchema.sql, change all ENGINE=MyISAM into ENGINE=BLACKHOLE
STEP 04 : Edit MySQLSchema.sql, change all ENGINE=InnoDB into ENGINE=BLACKHOLE
STEP 05 : Run source MySQLSchema.sql on M2.
STEP 06 : Run RESET MASTER; on M2
STEP 07 : Add replicate-do-table=mydb.timing to /etc/my.cnf on M1
STEP 08 : service mysql restart on M1
STEP 09 : Setup replication from M2 to M1
STEP 10 : In your application, fire your code
set @value=4;
set @name=&quot;myAverageValue&quot;;
UPDATE `mydb.timing` SET
  `max` = greatest(`max`,@value),
  `average` = `average` + ((@value - `average`) / (`count` + 1)),
  `count` = `count` + 1
WHERE `name` = @name

only at M2
That's it. No locking can ever happen on M2 since mydb.timing on M2 uses the BLACKHOLE Storage Engine (a.k.a /dev/null Storage Engine). Having MySQL Replication from M2 to M1 forms a queue that serializes UPDATEs. The delay appears in the form of MySQL Replication's asynchronous operation. Replication lag (in this instance only) is totally acceptable since you are looking for UPDATE DELAYED.
Give it a Try !!!
CAVEAT
This turns MySQL Replication upside down because the production server becomes a Slave to a BlackHole Server. With this strange topology, you can also implement DELETE DELAYED.
Make sure you include this option
[mysqld]
expire-logs-days=1

on M2. Otherwise, lots of UPDATEs makes for lots of binlogs