I want to Move some Mysql table to InnoDB but i don't know what is the best my.cnf conf This is my server specification 

my.cnf:

[mysqld]

innodb_file_per_table=1
max_allowed_packet=268435456
open_files_limit=50000
default-storage-engine=MyISAM
myisam_sort_buffer_size=256M
table_open_cache = 600
thread_cache_size = 4
query_cache_type = 1
query_cache_limit = 256K
query_cache_min_res_unit = 2k
query_cache_size = 80M


join_buffer_size = 256k
tmp_table_size = 20M
max_connections = 600

slow-query-log = 1
slow-query-log-file = /output/mysql-slow.log
long_query_time = 1
datadir=/disk3/mysql


Server Ram 

             total       used       free     shared    buffers     cached
Mem:           62G        61G       1.5G       1.8G       2.0G        53G
-/+ buffers/cache:       5.6G        57G
Swap:         1.9G       230M       1.7G


CPU

model name      : Intel(R) Xeon(R) CPU E5-2620 0 @ 2.00GHz × 2
cpu MHz         : 2000.022
cache size      : 15360 KB


I have a very big MyIsam Table , each user has status record in it, I select insert join to it. Here is the table :

CREATE TABLE `status_userid` (
             `id` int(10) NOT NULL AUTO_INCREMENT,
             `md5id` char(32) COLLATE utf8_swedish_ci NOT NULL DEFAULT '0',
             `ptype` char(1) COLLATE utf8_swedish_ci NOT NULL DEFAULT '0',
             `media_id` varchar(50) COLLATE utf8_swedish_ci NOT NULL DEFAULT '0',
             `media_url` varchar(100) COLLATE utf8_swedish_ci NOT NULL,
             `media_photo` varchar(255) COLLATE utf8_swedish_ci NOT NULL,
             `user_id` varchar(50) COLLATE utf8_swedish_ci NOT NULL DEFAULT '0',
             `user_name` varchar(100) COLLATE utf8_swedish_ci NOT NULL DEFAULT '0',
             `date` timestamp NOT NULL DEFAULT CURRENT_TIMESTAMP,
             `reason` text COLLATE utf8_swedish_ci,
             PRIMARY KEY (`id`),
             KEY `md5id_mediaid` (`md5id`,`media_id`),
             KEY `user_id_md5id` (`user_id`,`md5id`)
            ) ENGINE=MyISAM DEFAULT CHARSET=utf8 COLLATE=utf8_swedish_ci


from mysql.slow.log:

Count: 1165  Time=11.17s (13008s)  Lock=0.00s (0s)  Rows=548.3 (638790), myinstar_ranker[myinstar_ranker]@localhost
  SELECT
  s1.id as order_by,
  s1.media_id,
  s1.media_photo,
  s1.user_id,
  s1.user_name,
  s1.date
  FROM `status_427` s1
  LEFT JOIN
  (SELECT md5id, user_id, ptype FROM `status_427`  WHERE md5id = 'S') s2
  ON
  s1.user_id = s2.user_id AND s2.ptype = 'S'
  WHERE
  s1.md5id = 'S'
  AND s2.md5id IS NULL
  AND s1.date  &lt; NOW() - INTERVAL N DAY
  AND s1.ptype = 'S'




Count: 2247  Time=8.09s (18172s)  Lock=0.00s (1s)  Rows=1.0 (2247), myinstar_ranker[myinstar_ranker]@localhost
  SELECT
  count(N) as counter
  FROM `status_421` s1
  LEFT JOIN
  (SELECT md5id, user_id, ptype FROM `status_421`  WHERE md5id = 'S') s2
  ON
  s1.user_id = s2.user_id AND s2.ptype = 'S'
  WHERE
  s1.md5id = 'S'
  AND s2.md5id IS NULL
  AND s1.date  &lt; NOW() - INTERVAL N DAY
  AND s1.ptype = 'S'


I manage to create separate table for each user so I don't end with a huge table if it damaged I lost everything. but this table is very big one, 8M record and counting, that's is why I decided to split it.

Mysql directory on SSD drive.

I have a huge mysql using, and the server top is:

Tasks: 781 total,   5 running, 775 sleeping,   1 stopped,   0 zombie
Cpu(s): 41.1%us, 10.1%sy,  0.0%ni, 48.5%id,  0.0%wa,  0.0%hi,  0.2%si,  0.0%st
Mem:  65784692k total, 64190512k used,  1594180k free,  2141220k buffers
Swap:  1999868k total,   236436k used,  1763432k free, 56162120k cached

    PID USER      PR  NI  VIRT  RES  SHR S %CPU %MEM    TIME+  COMMAND
 459105 mysql     20   0 12.4g 286m 6588 S 564.2  0.4 137:35.08 mysqld


So, does innoDb may help to reduce mysql Load?
What is the best inndoDb my.cnf setting, I was told innoDb is very sensitive and can be damaged so fast, and even more it create a huge log file.

I am not Mysql expert, I know php and some of mysql, but not expert in tuning it.

What are the best setting I can use to reduce server load?
innodb_buffer_pool_size is the most important setting for InnoDB.  See http://mysql.rjweb.org/doc.php/memory
Tips on converting from MyISAM:  http://mysql.rjweb.org/doc.php/myisam2innodb
Don't use utf8 for ascii strings.  md5id?
Change user_id_md5id to INDEX(user_id, md5id, ptype) for the LEFT JOIN ( SELECT ... ).
INDEX(md5id, ptype, date), with date last, for the outer query.
Rethink having lots of tables named status_nnn; there may be better ways to design the schema.
max_connections = 600 and 5 running, 775 sleeping -- It may be better to throttle the number of clients, and not let so many get to MySQL.
How big is the table?  (rows or GB)