How to UPDATE MAX and MIN of a GROUP BY? I have a SELECT query of a table with GROUP BY

id     col1     category
1      some     1
2      x        1
3      another  1
4      x        2       // should be removed
5      some     2
6      x        2       // should be removed
7      some     3
8      some     3
9      x        4       // should be removed
10     some     4
11     x        4
12     some     4


I want to SELECT or UPDATE to remove a row if the first or last (with id order) is x (a given value). In other words, I want to skip the first and last row of a category IF col1='x'.

I cannot use JOIN as it is a TEMPORARY table.
SELECT * FROM test WHERE id IN
(SELECT MIN(id) FROM test GROUP BY category HAVING col='x' 
UNION SELECT MAX(id) FROM test GROUP BY category HAVING col='x')


Fiddle