So I am new to linux and I managed to pair them successfuly, however when I try to connect to it - it says the following: ''connection failed - use the audio menu to connect to this device''. 

When I go into PulseAudio(audio menu), it doesn't show me my headphones as a viable output option. Under Port is says: ''Speakers'' or ''Headphones (unplugged)'' but when I choose Headphones, the sound just goes away completely. 

(So I guess that would be the option for when I use my headphones with a cable.)

But I can't seem to connect to my headphones and I have already tried reinstalling bluez.

Other questions talk about how the headphones aren't detected or not being able to pair, but my problem is a bit different. I hope you can help or point me in the right direction. 

Much love, Pseu - a real one. 

EDIT: bro I have no idea what you mean by allowing ''pactl list short | grep blue''..... so ok I allow it bruv?