Is there a way to use Postgres Full Text Search and have it not fully ignore stop words but rank it lower. like maybe I can generate a ts\_vector of only the stop words and add it to ranking with a lower rank. 
For example I would like to be able to have something like "This is how you lose.." and be able to search "this is how" and have a match come up.

my initial thought was to make a dictionary that didn't ignore stop words and in the rank have that be weighted less is this really stupid