My wife and I have a new child and we're meeting with an attorney this week to draft a will. After doing some initial research, there are a few issues that make our situation a bit complicated:

* We don't have any family members that we can trust to manage our estate
* We want to be able to control, to some extent, how the assets are used

So, my questions are:

1. Can we **hire** a professional to be the executor of our will? Perhaps our attorney?
2. Can we **hire** someone to manage the estate while our child is still a minor?
3. If we leave our entire estate to our 10-month old daughter, how can we control how the funds are distributed to her over time (e.g., $X must be used for college, $Y can be access in the event of a medical emergency, etc.)?