Normally, we say "**she got married to him**" and "**she got divorced from him**" (notice: "**to**" vs "**from**")

I don't know why people don't say "**she got divorced to him**".

But when we say "**she got divorced from him**", one thing will appear in your mind that

**-Was he the one who wanted to divorce her?**

Or

**We just don't know who actually wanted that or both wanted that.**

Say, Mary and Tom were not happy with their marriage. However, Mary didn't want to get a divorce while Tom wanted. Tom filed for the divorce and Mary had to sign it reluctantly.

Do we say "**Mary got divorced from Tom**"?