My friend and I are trying to play ARK Survival Evolved together and I have a bunch of progress on my single player world and I don't want to run a dedicated server because my PC can't handle it. But the problem is that he is on steam and Im on epic. I did some research and it said to run the command
-crossplay while hosting the session, but he can't even see my session at all. He searched for the name of my session but it just didn't pop up. I've even tried to join a non-dedicated session and then immediately leaving and going back to hosting the session. But even then he said it wouldn't pop up on his session list. He isn't subscribed to any mods at all so that's not an issue. Any help would be appreciated.