I'm just wondering weather it would be appropriate for me to date one of the coloured belts at my dojo. I don't instruct her personally, and I know her outside the club through school. I would like to get anyone's thoughts on this, is it disrespectful to her or our master or the art if we date, if not is there anything I should consider before I ask her out. I haven't asked anyone one at the club, but everyone outside who I've asked thinks it's okay, but I'd prefer someone who trains in martial arts and understands the need for respect at all times