I've been playing my acoustic guitar for three years now and I have been told that I play good. I composed a few instrumentals and they have been quite appreciated. But its not good enough. I can play but not of the level where every note is clear and my fingers are not as responsive. I have seen (youtube obviously) many finger practice workouts (spider, chromatic scales...) etc but IMO they are useless.

I think if I learn arpeggios on a scale, I can learn control and music as well. Can someone point me to some beginner to intermediate (or whatever you'd call a 3 year old) arpeggios that I can learn? Specifically in G Lydian, for personal reasons, if possible?

**EDIT**
I play with a pick. My problem actually is, I have not much finger independence. After a tempo of 120-130, the little finger and the ring finger on the left hand "fly away" from the strings, if you know what I mean.

**Update**
you can see this video here, thats one of my own compositions: 

You can see that there are mistakes and my little/ring finger fly away from the fret. Please ignore the title though... it did not work out :P :D.