What do the Torah, Talmud, Kabbalah say about people that "are gay" or have the desire to live that way? I'm not asking if it's a sin. I'm wondering how they "became gay" and how they can change?

(I'm referring to the view on "gay" people that says there is a strong desire for men to have sex with other men, and that these men have no desire to be with a woman. And that goes against Hashem plan for creation, and as any other "problem" why should we not heal that issue the same way that we try to heal the rest of creation).