Background: I was raised in an intellectual Catholic household where religion quietly infused everything we did. At the time it seemed totally normal but as I have grown up, I realized that my siblings and I had a a very good childhood. I'm thinking about getting married now and I'm starting to worry and appreciate how difficult maintaining that quiet cohesion must have been. My fiance was raised baptist but is now an atheist. I suspect he doesn't care more than he doesn't believe. 

As I'm thinking more about getting married and having children, I'm realizing how formative religion was for me. My mom was an atheist but converted after meeting my dad, which certainly made things easier, but I can't count on that with my fiance.

**I wanted to know if there are others here who raised religious children with a non religious spouse. If so, how did the parents negotiate it? Did the kids turn out religious or agnostic?**

If my fiance and I didn't want children, this would not be a problem. I wish it wasn't a problem.