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7	There are times when I do not want to be touched at all (when I am busy at a task or thinking about something) and there are times when being held is really what I want and/or need. I remember that...
1	I'm stressing out about moving. My husband is gone for the rest of the year and if my brother in law leaves too I'll be stuck in a state with no friends or family, and no drivers license. Or I can...
11	Mmmh, indeed. is now at about 165 pages. We have to keep it ''geeky'' to not scare INTP, they aren't that used to people.
2	Thank you for instantly assuming I was being irrational... Usually (lately), I'm the calm one. I think before I speak, I use logic that appeals to his Ti, I try to explain my point objectively and...
4	I agree with this, i love my work, but there are small parts of running my own business that i don't like, even when i have a business partner that does most of the business stuff. When i need to...
2	I have very dry humour apparently. I'm always using a concoction of irony and sarcasm, and I pull it off with a completely neutral expression, so most people can't tell whether I'm being dead...
11	Hahahahaha! Yeah man, I love it. We're the contradiction that almost didn't make sense. :exterminate:
6	Maybe ESTJ
2	I walked through the night looking for answers Following paths that the day did hide The shadows threatened to consume But why does the dark show more then the light Still I walk this path...
3	You get sick after finals.
7	Why do you need to get there with so many books on the first floor?
10	Glenn Beck? An ENFP? :frustrating: Say What?!
7	The test was rather basic and not very creative. I'm not sure who developed this particular quiz, but I would like to try a real Mensa test sometime just for kicks. After I got my result I went...
4	You know I'm game for this, even though I've been MIA, let me brush the dirt off my shoulders real quick... <wink>
6	lives (haha slave lives)
2	It's because we can't see your eyes, I could probably make a good guess though....based on nothing or course. I would like someone to do their best to type me also, no one has ever tried to figure...
10	So does that mean that you like but don't respect ENFPs then? :crying:
11	lol Sundae <> Cheyevo
6	Recently I am doubtful about Sunset Shimmer type. In the first movie she seemendan XNTJ,but in the others her personality is totally changed... what would you say?
6	Depends... There's the you're dead to me anger, this is why I have one friend. Then there's the crying anger b/c I can't actually harm the person, mostly with family and people I don't know...
7	not bad m8, not bad
1	Welcome to the forum.
3	I'm curious, do any NTs here find yoga or meditation useful for clearing your thoughts? I've tried plain ol meditation and found it more irritating than helpful. A quiet hike in the outdoors has...
7	I can't, even, like, right now. she says, and they recoil in horror. In a single utterance she has razed their culture, and brought terror. Their world is laid low now, not by murder, rape, or...
6	You're welcome. Sorry so long in responding, but I haven't been here in a few months. :smile:
10	Indeed. But I think that this kind of behaviour tends to lead toward ambiversion, not introversion.
2	Omg, no no no. That's not typical behavior. I think that's not a type thing at all and there's no wonder you're a little unsettled- it's kinda creepy! Take care of YOU on this one and just wash...
6	Ok-ok I didn't mean to offend. Gee, I didn't see that coming. Being forced to learn dancing in school with your class mates is very far from my good memories of learning them by my decision at 18...
11	Prove it. But first.
6	I don't play much computer games anymore, but I prefer classic RPG:s (i.e. Baldur's Gate) and strategy games, especially turn based strategy (like Heroes III or Civ IV).
1	Fe/Fi is not the primary interactive mechanism of MBTI, they're more so the place between opinion and action, like a middle man, if that makes any sense. For example, the way that Fi deals with...
3	Considering the fact that you met on a dating site, I'd say that dating was probably what he had in mind from the beginning. You mustn't feel guilty, you two simply had very different ideas as to...
6	Same here. Whenever I achieve something, I feel more relief than joy.
2	I NEVER notice new haircuts or if someone's losing/gaining weight, etc, unless it's extreme or i haven't seen them in ages. I've unintentionally hurt peoples feelings before because they wanted me to...
2	Don't really know, never been in a real relationship before. Guess I'm pretty affectionate and want to cuddle a lot and stuff (also sex ofc), but maybe that's just because I never really experienced...
2	I have checked on the Cafe Gold Check and noticed the transfer to savings or checking. Mine show it's in checking, but you have the option that says checking to savings with a box on the right that...
5	I'm not an ESFJ but I do know three ESFJs- my mother,brother and former roommate. Kind of like what you described, they are distraught when people don't like them, always going out of their way to do...
2	So, I've been having a lot of experiences where I almost instantly can tell when a person likes someone. I once was watching of my friends interact with this one girl only for like 5 seconds and...
11	516346
2	Hahaha, pretty neat logic. And you were so close I'm INFJ. (We're closet dreamers. At least I am)
6	For me, I think it's having no other options. It's either roll over and die, or keep fighting. Sometimes that fighting is your own inner demons, the self-sabotage, but I think eventually, as much as...
6	i used to walk very slouchy, with my head down and daydreaming but since i started reading about self-confidence, body language i learned to keep my back straight, shoulders relaxed on the back and...
3	That was incredible
7	Manly = 007 007 = Sean Connery Sean Connery = Hairy Hairy = Me Me = Sexy, manly man Just flawless, airtight logic for ya.
3	phrases that slander an entire sex.:dry:
10	Not one bit!
10	I find this bit interesting. I have always thought I was able to read people in that way, too. It's often a lot easier to see it in others than it is in yourself...and therefore I do think that...
6	Lol. It makes a bit more sense now. Potatoes and the UK. As you may or may not know, the English are not known for their culinary prowess. Lunar.
7	Friendships? Men, any women I spent too much time with, I would develope a crush on, well not now, but my girlfriend is also my friend.
2	TEMPERAMENT: Compliant-Inquirer (NF- Idealist) ROLE: Collaborating TYPE: ENFP- The Champion Another thing that gave it away was the informative/directive difference that separates...
6	To answer the original post...I LOVE ENFJ guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3
10	Oh man, what a downer. I can only imagine :(
2	Um, if you know for a fact that that person has said a particular thing or has done a particular thing or believes in a particular thing, why on earth would it be absurd to call that stranger an...
7	I know a place...Xbox Live LOL! My GamerTag is StoopidMunky11. But I will tell you, you'll more than likely find me on Skyrim, I don't like to play Call of Duty all day long like some people *Shakes...
10	@PurpleKitti my answer will be super long, which is why I'm not quoting you. Don't apologize for anything, I'm very grateful and count myself lucky that you're actually taking the time to give...
6	Me: INFP Father: ESFJ Mother: ISTJ Maternal Grandmother: ExFJ Paternal Grandfather: ISTP Paternal Grandfather: ESTJ Paternal Grandmother: ISFJ Aunt: ENFJ Uncle: INTJ Male Cousin: INTP
6	Maybe this doesn't work for you, but I want to share it with you anyway. If you're a fan of NFL then you undoubtly heard of him. Ray Lewis. What time is it?
7	As a child have you felt approved by your parents ?
7	just look at bananas.....they way they are packaged and fit perfectly in your hand...had to be made by a creator. Every time you see a painting you know that there has to be a painter. Every time...
11	Hey guys, so I have been wondering this over a year. I have had a crush on this guy for some time now and I was wondering if you can help me type him. I have little to no idea what his mbti type is....
3	I adore foxes as well. Welcome to the forums!
6	If a situation is not equal I get either angry or feel like i'm being used. For instance my old girlfriend who is an INTJ or an INFJ (It's hard to say sometimes), wanted me to Skype her but I really...
14	Perhaps he acted on something which was a spur of the moment kind of thing(we routinely get carried away by impulsive emotions). Then he realized it would be wrong, since he has a girlfriend and...
8	Even the sound of this one feels 2-ish to me.
7	So would you believe that if a person was never taught to help some one in need they will still help? Idk I guess I just believe that someone has to be taught either by example or told to help for...
6	-my dogs -when Ne starts ripping at me- that creative energy flow- mmmmmm! -when the number on the scale is less -hugs from children -passionate love -bodies of water -the forest -beer - a...
5	Oh shoot. bah dum tish
10	Yay! You asked the question I have been wondering about, though I cannot give you the answer since I am an ENFP also. :tongue: I have an ISFJ guy friend and we have had some major ups and downs. I...
11	danisnotonfire has said that he's an extrovert. Why a J? I see him more as a P. Does Joey has a video about it? I'd like to see it! I really don't see her as INFJ either... But I mean, she...
6	Got to take a vacation last week. I have a job and can work. I'm also grateful for relaxing ASMR videos.
2	hug recived and reciprocated :3 December is the worst month for those that are alone. Sent from my MotoE2 using Tapatalk
2	Before you go into a relationship, you should be certain that you are okay and secured being on your own. This means that you have more or less found yourself to a healthy extent. If you feel that...
5	A couple times I accurately predicted outcomes, thoughts or actions of a friend.. and she was super shocked & surprised as well as a bit creeped out how I knew. Once it even caused a...
2	I'm twenty-one and I have a pretty limited social group. As far as I know, I've never met another INFJ in person. One of my online friends turned out to be one, though, and possibly another......
8	Pretty positive I'm an ESTP, and mainly hang out with ExFPs so I definitely think I know whats going on. First of all, you leaving was probably extremely difficult, and being an EP, that probably led...
11	Yes, at times. And it's even worse if I'm in an argumentative mood. Some people I just have to argue with. And sometimes the argument seems never-ending. My hackles get raised and I start to...
7	I agree. I'm never insensitive about it. I honestly can't see someone getting hurt because I say OCD however. I do think some medical conditions shouldn't be joked about. The ones in the picture...
6	I don't contribute to society.
8	Fuck Sims! Jk Ve99ie. Are you thinking of doing that?
2	Because so many INFJs online are mistyped ISFJs, who can't distinguish Si from Ni. Especially the christian ones; the communal aspect of religion is a very Si-thing (what's an INFJ's weakest...
6	I usually think I'm delusional in thinking this, but I'm in the same boat. At least among the guys on my campus I'd consider myself reasonably good looking, but I haven't even started developing my...
2	That's ok, there should be a polling for all types :blushed:
14	Lol, as long as you have some people who love you for who you are, the people who are indifferent/ hate you don't really matter. :) yes, im being a hypocrite right now... but...GAHHH. don't question...
3	Excatly the way i feel, i also dont get how some people dont understand all the instructions the teacher give or an answer to a simple problem, i never raise my hand to give out the answer so the...
2	I got to have an Ni-user chat today with Rachel (INTJ, ServiceR), J (ENTJ), and Ronald (ENFJ). Here it is...
2	If you are really interested in organizations combating human trafficking you should check this one out. International Justice Mission \| There's several opportunities to get involved and they do some...
3	INTJ and ENFP is a disaster waiting to happen. The INTJ is the mouse the ENFP cat will play with until it gets bored. Then its pick up the pieces time, and at some point someone while come along and...
10	I am quite curios, are there other people here on the forum who watched any of Kevin Smith's movies? For those who don't know, he directed a lot of indie movies, first being Clerks in 1994. I am a...
6	crashbandicoot: I think 3w4 sx 324137 324145 And I post this one because I wasn't aware that I was in the picture, so I think my look is less artificial 324153
6	Mmk :) thank you
7	My Dear Friend, My behavior was inexcusable. It is yet another time where I have let my fear of rejection drive my emotional state, and I am truly sorry. It has nothing to do with you. Call it...
4	Skiing, Hiking, Swimming, Running, Camping, Listening to Music, going to music festivals/concerts, Finding new music, fixing things, getting into trouble.
6	I think he wants me to be different. It's like he doesn't like me the way I am, he has always been the trouble maker and I was not. I think I embarrass him lol. But I am getting tired of him...
5	No, It's not my response to stress. These are actually things that happen when I'm in a mentally & physically healthy & relaxed position. I do these types of things when I'm me, or when I wanna...
5	Infp.
2	I kind of resonate with you. To be honest I don't really have a big connection with my relatives. I knew them when I was younger, but as I grow older, it's like I grew apart as well. But I don't...
7	What audio software do you plan to use? That's the main concern. . Also, it seems like Mac have better productivity (less virus and others things to worry about), but PC have better performances....
15	Yes I go to school. But the work is hardly intellectually stimulating and my problem is if the material doesn't make me think, I am totally uninterested in it.
2	I'm so glad this thread exists because yeah, it can be a bit overwhelming. I've had a few markedly live dreams about the people I care. I dreamt I met on campus this friend of mine who lives...
3	When it happens to me, it's fear that keeps me from talking to him. I'm either (a) afraid he'll reject me, or (b) afraid I'll find out that even though I'm his friend, he's not mine. (a) is...

7

There are times when I do not want to be touched at all (when I am busy at a task or thinking about something) and there are times when being held is really what I want and/or need. I remember that...

1

I'm stressing out about moving. My husband is gone for the rest of the year and if my brother in law leaves too I'll be stuck in a state with no friends or family, and no drivers license. Or I can...

11

Mmmh, indeed. is now at about 165 pages. We have to keep it ''geeky'' to not scare INTP, they aren't that used to people.

2

Thank you for instantly assuming I was being irrational... Usually (lately), I'm the calm one. I think before I speak, I use logic that appeals to his Ti, I try to explain my point objectively and...

4

I agree with this, i love my work, but there are small parts of running my own business that i don't like, even when i have a business partner that does most of the business stuff. When i need to...

2

I have very dry humour apparently. I'm always using a concoction of irony and sarcasm, and I pull it off with a completely neutral expression, so most people can't tell whether I'm being dead...

11

Hahahahaha! Yeah man, I love it. We're the contradiction that almost didn't make sense. :exterminate:

6

Maybe ESTJ

2

I walked through the night looking for answers Following paths that the day did hide The shadows threatened to consume But why does the dark show more then the light Still I walk this path...

3

You get sick after finals.

7

Why do you need to get there with so many books on the first floor?

10

Glenn Beck? An ENFP? :frustrating: Say What?!

7

The test was rather basic and not very creative. I'm not sure who developed this particular quiz, but I would like to try a real Mensa test sometime just for kicks. After I got my result I went...

4

You know I'm game for this, even though I've been MIA, let me brush the dirt off my shoulders real quick... <wink>

6

lives (haha slave lives)

2

It's because we can't see your eyes, I could probably make a good guess though....based on nothing or course. I would like someone to do their best to type me also, no one has ever tried to figure...

10

So does that mean that you like but don't respect ENFPs then? :crying:

11

lol Sundae <> Cheyevo

6

Recently I am doubtful about Sunset Shimmer type. In the first movie she seemendan XNTJ,but in the others her personality is totally changed... what would you say?

6

Depends... There's the you're dead to me anger, this is why I have one friend. Then there's the crying anger b/c I can't actually harm the person, mostly with family and people I don't know...

7

not bad m8, not bad

1

Welcome to the forum.

3

I'm curious, do any NTs here find yoga or meditation useful for clearing your thoughts? I've tried plain ol meditation and found it more irritating than helpful. A quiet hike in the outdoors has...

7

I can't, even, like, right now. she says, and they recoil in horror. In a single utterance she has razed their culture, and brought terror. Their world is laid low now, not by murder, rape, or...

6

You're welcome. Sorry so long in responding, but I haven't been here in a few months. :smile:

10

Indeed. But I think that this kind of behaviour tends to lead toward ambiversion, not introversion.

2

Omg, no no no. That's not typical behavior. I think that's not a type thing at all and there's no wonder you're a little unsettled- it's kinda creepy! Take care of YOU on this one and just wash...

6

Ok-ok I didn't mean to offend. Gee, I didn't see that coming. Being forced to learn dancing in school with your class mates is very far from my good memories of learning them by my decision at 18...

11

Prove it. But first.

6

I don't play much computer games anymore, but I prefer classic RPG:s (i.e. Baldur's Gate) and strategy games, especially turn based strategy (like Heroes III or Civ IV).

1

Fe/Fi is not the primary interactive mechanism of MBTI, they're more so the place between opinion and action, like a middle man, if that makes any sense. For example, the way that Fi deals with...

3

Considering the fact that you met on a dating site, I'd say that dating was probably what he had in mind from the beginning. You mustn't feel guilty, you two simply had very different ideas as to...

6

Same here. Whenever I achieve something, I feel more relief than joy.

2

I NEVER notice new haircuts or if someone's losing/gaining weight, etc, unless it's extreme or i haven't seen them in ages. I've unintentionally hurt peoples feelings before because they wanted me to...

2

Don't really know, never been in a real relationship before. Guess I'm pretty affectionate and want to cuddle a lot and stuff (also sex ofc), but maybe that's just because I never really experienced...

2

I have checked on the Cafe Gold Check and noticed the transfer to savings or checking. Mine show it's in checking, but you have the option that says checking to savings with a box on the right that...

5

I'm not an ESFJ but I do know three ESFJs- my mother,brother and former roommate. Kind of like what you described, they are distraught when people don't like them, always going out of their way to do...

2

So, I've been having a lot of experiences where I almost instantly can tell when a person likes someone. I once was watching of my friends interact with this one girl only for like 5 seconds and...

11

516346

2

Hahaha, pretty neat logic. And you were so close I'm INFJ. (We're closet dreamers. At least I am)

6

For me, I think it's having no other options. It's either roll over and die, or keep fighting. Sometimes that fighting is your own inner demons, the self-sabotage, but I think eventually, as much as...

6

i used to walk very slouchy, with my head down and daydreaming but since i started reading about self-confidence, body language i learned to keep my back straight, shoulders relaxed on the back and...

3

That was incredible

7

Manly = 007 007 = Sean Connery Sean Connery = Hairy Hairy = Me Me = Sexy, manly man Just flawless, airtight logic for ya.

3

phrases that slander an entire sex.:dry:

10

Not one bit!

10

I find this bit interesting. I have always thought I was able to read people in that way, too. It's often a lot easier to see it in others than it is in yourself...and therefore I do think that...

6

Lol. It makes a bit more sense now. Potatoes and the UK. As you may or may not know, the English are not known for their culinary prowess. Lunar.

7

Friendships? Men, any women I spent too much time with, I would develope a crush on, well not now, but my girlfriend is also my friend.

2

TEMPERAMENT: Compliant-Inquirer (NF- Idealist) ROLE: Collaborating TYPE: ENFP- The Champion Another thing that gave it away was the informative/directive difference that separates...

6

To answer the original post...I LOVE ENFJ guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3

10

Oh man, what a downer. I can only imagine :(

2

Um, if you know for a fact that that person has said a particular thing or has done a particular thing or believes in a particular thing, why on earth would it be absurd to call that stranger an...

7

I know a place...Xbox Live LOL! My GamerTag is StoopidMunky11. But I will tell you, you'll more than likely find me on Skyrim, I don't like to play Call of Duty all day long like some people *Shakes...

10

@PurpleKitti my answer will be super long, which is why I'm not quoting you. Don't apologize for anything, I'm very grateful and count myself lucky that you're actually taking the time to give...

6

Me: INFP Father: ESFJ Mother: ISTJ Maternal Grandmother: ExFJ Paternal Grandfather: ISTP Paternal Grandfather: ESTJ Paternal Grandmother: ISFJ Aunt: ENFJ Uncle: INTJ Male Cousin: INTP

6

Maybe this doesn't work for you, but I want to share it with you anyway. If you're a fan of NFL then you undoubtly heard of him. Ray Lewis. What time is it?

7

As a child have you felt approved by your parents ?

7

just look at bananas.....they way they are packaged and fit perfectly in your hand...had to be made by a creator. Every time you see a painting you know that there has to be a painter. Every time...

11

Hey guys, so I have been wondering this over a year. I have had a crush on this guy for some time now and I was wondering if you can help me type him. I have little to no idea what his mbti type is....

3

I adore foxes as well. Welcome to the forums!

6

If a situation is not equal I get either angry or feel like i'm being used. For instance my old girlfriend who is an INTJ or an INFJ (It's hard to say sometimes), wanted me to Skype her but I really...

14

Perhaps he acted on something which was a spur of the moment kind of thing(we routinely get carried away by impulsive emotions). Then he realized it would be wrong, since he has a girlfriend and...

8

Even the sound of this one feels 2-ish to me.

7

So would you believe that if a person was never taught to help some one in need they will still help? Idk I guess I just believe that someone has to be taught either by example or told to help for...

6

-my dogs -when Ne starts ripping at me- that creative energy flow- mmmmmm! -when the number on the scale is less -hugs from children -passionate love -bodies of water -the forest -beer - a...

5

Oh shoot. *bah dum tish*

10

Yay! You asked the question I have been wondering about, though I cannot give you the answer since I am an ENFP also. :tongue: I have an ISFJ guy friend and we have had some major ups and downs. I...

11

danisnotonfire has said that he's an extrovert. Why a J? I see him more as a P. Does Joey has a video about it? I'd like to see it! I really don't see her as INFJ either... But I mean, she...

6

Got to take a vacation last week. I have a job and can work. I'm also grateful for relaxing ASMR videos.

2

*hug recived and reciprocated * :3 December is the worst month for those that are alone. Sent from my MotoE2 using Tapatalk

2

Before you go into a relationship, you should be certain that you are okay and secured being on your own. This means that you have more or less found yourself to a healthy extent. If you feel that...

5

A couple times I accurately predicted outcomes, thoughts or actions of a friend.. and she was super shocked & surprised as well as a bit creeped out how I knew. Once it even caused a...

2

I'm twenty-one and I have a pretty limited social group. As far as I know, I've never met another INFJ in person. One of my online friends turned out to be one, though, and possibly another......

8

Pretty positive I'm an ESTP, and mainly hang out with ExFPs so I definitely think I know whats going on. First of all, you leaving was probably extremely difficult, and being an EP, that probably led...

11

Yes, at times. And it's even worse if I'm in an argumentative mood. Some people I just have to argue with. And sometimes the argument seems never-ending. My hackles get raised and I start to...

7

I agree. I'm never insensitive about it. I honestly can't see someone getting hurt because I say OCD however. I do think some medical conditions shouldn't be joked about. The ones in the picture...

6

I don't contribute to society.

8

Fuck Sims! Jk Ve99ie. Are you thinking of doing that?

2

Because so many INFJs online are mistyped ISFJs, who can't distinguish Si from Ni. Especially the christian ones; the communal aspect of religion is a very Si-thing (what's an INFJ's weakest...

6

I usually think I'm delusional in thinking this, but I'm in the same boat. At least among the guys on my campus I'd consider myself reasonably good looking, but I haven't even started developing my...

2

That's ok, there should be a polling for all types :blushed:

14

Lol, as long as you have some people who love you for who you are, the people who are indifferent/ hate you don't really matter. :) yes, im being a hypocrite right now... but...GAHHH. don't question...

3

Excatly the way i feel, i also dont get how some people dont understand all the instructions the teacher give or an answer to a simple problem, i never raise my hand to give out the answer so the...

2

I got to have an Ni-user chat today with Rachel (INTJ, ServiceR), J (ENTJ), and Ronald (ENFJ). Here it is...

2

If you are really interested in organizations combating human trafficking you should check this one out. International Justice Mission | There's several opportunities to get involved and they do some...

3

INTJ and ENFP is a disaster waiting to happen. The INTJ is the mouse the ENFP cat will play with until it gets bored. Then its pick up the pieces time, and at some point someone while come along and...

10

I am quite curios, are there other people here on the forum who watched any of Kevin Smith's movies? For those who don't know, he directed a lot of indie movies, first being Clerks in 1994. I am a...

6

crashbandicoot: I think 3w4 sx 324137 324145 And I post this one because I wasn't aware that I was in the picture, so I think my look is less artificial 324153

6

Mmk :) thank you

7

My Dear Friend, My behavior was inexcusable. It is yet another time where I have let my fear of rejection drive my emotional state, and I am truly sorry. It has nothing to do with you. Call it...

4

Skiing, Hiking, Swimming, Running, Camping, Listening to Music, going to music festivals/concerts, Finding new music, fixing things, getting into trouble.

6

I think he wants me to be different. It's like he doesn't like me the way I am, he has always been the trouble maker and I was not. I think I embarrass him lol. But I am getting tired of him...

5

No, It's not my response to stress. These are actually things that happen when I'm in a mentally & physically healthy & relaxed position. I do these types of things when I'm me, or when I wanna...

5

Infp.

2

I kind of resonate with you. To be honest I don't really have a big connection with my relatives. I knew them when I was younger, but as I grow older, it's like I grew apart as well. But I don't...

7

What audio software do you plan to use? That's the main concern. . Also, it seems like Mac have better productivity (less virus and others things to worry about), but PC have better performances....

15

Yes I go to school. But the work is hardly intellectually stimulating and my problem is if the material doesn't make me think, I am totally uninterested in it.

2

I'm so glad this thread exists because yeah, it can be a bit overwhelming. I've had a few markedly live dreams about the people I care. I dreamt I met on campus this friend of mine who lives...

3

When it happens to me, it's fear that keeps me from talking to him. I'm either (a) afraid he'll reject me, or (b) afraid I'll find out that even though I'm his friend, he's not mine. (a) is...