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A friend of mine could not make it back to Unza after having failed the exams.
4
When I saw the film "Johnny got his gun" which deals with the consequences of the Vietnam war.
4
I was once called in court in Zemba Traditional court to answer a charge of impregnanting a young lady, I felt guilty for she had some letters which I used to write her as an exhibit in court.
5
One day while we were strolling along the road one of my friends suggested that we go and watch a blue film. I was curious so I went along but I felt quite guilty later.
5
When my first niece was born.
1
Overeating a traditional type of food - blood pudding.
0
My P.T. instructor also works as a masseur. He wanted to massage me, therefore I had to undress. For the first few times this was not easy for me; I got gradually used to it.
2
I played in a stage play. Suddenly, in front of 200 people, I could not remember the words I had to say.
2
Having to decide on a termination of a pregnancy, after discussing it with friends, family and the man involved.
4
A horse which I had liked very much was taken away.
4
I had a very short term romance during the summer vacations. When we first met I felt excited but I wanted to avoid him after we had met a few times and so I proposed that we stay apart, I felt very sad then.
4
When I was convinced that someonne had broken into my flat and I woke up and heard sounds that frightened me.
6
In the army, an acquaintance of mine tended to use his position to advance his own interests.
0
I talk too much, cannot keep things secret. I promised a friend not to tell something to anybody. Neverthless, I did, and she got informed about it. I felt very ashamed.
2
Got a present from my friend for my birthday.
1
My best friend had a relatively severe illness. I was sad because she was suffering.
4
Every time, in the last few days, when my girlfriend told me that she loves me.
1
I met my friend and he gave me a wonderful present as it was my birthday. I enjoyed having that present.
1
Promising someone to do their job and then not being able to do it due to transport troubles.
5
A drummer who had borrowed my drums destroyed both the drumskin and the sticks. He did not repair them nor did he tell me about it.
3
When my mother and father split up I was angry: I felt deprived and "different" from other children at school.
3
In a public swimming hall I saw a very aggressive man who practically attacked the children who got in his way when he was swimming.
0
[ I have felt shame but am unable to remember any particular incident.]
2
After the interview for admission to the university and before the admission list was disclosed. I was scared that I would not be admitted and my fear lasted for quite some time. My fear disappeared only after the list was disclosed.
6
When I hadn't studied for an exam, so I pretended to be sick so I wouldn't have to go to school. I lied to my mother - she realized I had been lying when she got home from work and found that I had been over to a friend's place.
2
Teenage neighbours smashed my letterbox for the fifth time in a couple of months. It was a deliberate action of kids who had stayed in my home, had meals there yet took a dislike to my daughter.
3
I was keeping a friend's Library book which went overdue. My friend was charged for the delay in returning the book to the Library. I felt guilty when I realised I was responsible.
5
Almost always when I go to fetch the results of an exam.
6
I went to a fair where a guy who was drunk kept bothering me and in the end I got really angry.
3
I stole 5c from my mother's purse for a choo-choo bar - I was 6.
5
At a party, I started talking to a guy I had seen in one of my classes. My boyfriend felt awkward and left to talk to a friend but kept on looking at me as I talked.
5
I was ashamed to tell my mother that I fell down with a bicycle.
2
When a colleague was rude with me because she didn't understand the subject about which I was discussing.
3
I felt fear when I fell down and broke my leg into pieces and I could not feel it at all.
6
Fear to come and live in Nijmegen.
6
I had a discussion with my mother concerning my sister's divorce, we disagreed strongly.
3
At what I was capable of of selfishly using others for sexual encounters, while I held a vision of having a deepening above-board (you know, "girl next door") devotion to a girl in my head. My drives and actions did not match this so consequently I felt disgusted at my failure.
0
Seeing maltreated, dead animals.
0
To force someone to do something that suits me.
5
I suffer form a disease of my muscles. However, I cannot talk about it and my feelings, the consequence with my parents. They try to repress it.
4
Had to tell people that my parents are divorced.
2
Telling friends about your nickname.
5
I was driving on to a busy freeway during rush hour and it was slightly raining. A diesel truck was coming very close behind me and I was close behind a pick-up. I changed lanes and barely hit the truck and ran a Honda of the road. I was scared to death to go back and see if I caused him to crash.
6
I felt it today when the bus driver shouted rather indecent words at a man without any reason whatsoever.
0
When I acted in a negative way at a certain moment by laziness to concede a moment of the time I thought to be my own.
5
When I was caught telling a white lie. At that time, I was not allowed to stay outdoors after 8 p.m. One day when I was late, I made up a story that our neighbour had invited me to his place, though I had actually forgotten about the time while playing with my pals.
2
When my mother asked me to do a job for her which does not require much effort on my part, yet I refused for selfish reasons and saw her have to do it.
2
When I met my mother after months of absence.
1
Sitting in the dorm when the guys were verbally reading letters in Penthouse.
0
I had lunch with my ex-boyfriend and did not mention it to my fiancee. I felt guilty despite the fact that I felt nothing for my ex-boyfriend.
5
When my relatives troubled me so that I would help them financially.
0
At my summer job, I was responsible for making various orders. It was not me who had ordered some seasonal merchandise, but when much of it was left over and had to be thrown away in the Autumn, I felt partly responsible for the much too large order.
5
When an acquaintance of mine beat up another person for no just reason, and thus showed off his power.
3
A fall during a climb, with almost with no previous experience.
6
When my sister died in a fire accident at home.
4
Speaking in front of a large group of people.
6
When my parents-in-law scolded me, without any reason, in front of the other members of my family for the first time. They had called me from my room where I had been studying for my exams.
0
When I was in the fifth class the rating was done in our mark-books. I hadn't been examined yet but I had heard from my classmates about the scolding they had got at home. My first mark was in geography - good 4. I judged I had known for more than that and I put down "very good" for fear of being scolded. Naturally my parents guessed all about it. They rebuked me for what I had done.
5
When I learnt that I could do further studies at the Chinese university.
1
When my B.A results had not come.
6
Whenever I think of enrolling in Organic Chemistry.
6
When someone does not listen to me after having asked me to repeat what I said. This happened more than one time with the same person.
3
When my boyfriend wouldn't dance with me on my graduation night because he thought I could dance with my friends who were friendly.
3
Saw the film about Eight Nations Army conquering Beijing.
2
A young man was insulting and humiliating a drunken man.
0
When someone pointed out that I was proud, yet I didn't dress up properly. This was when I and my friend went for a dnce one Saturday.
2
Won a prize for effort.
1
When I heard about the way a parent of a friend had mistreated him, and caused a great instability.
0
Quarrelled with my younger brother.
3
A boy I look after for the probation service deliberately offended to provoke a reaction from the police.
4
When I inadvertantly entered the ladies room and met some girls on my way out.
2
When a mistake occurred at work which I was not responsible for. This was disclosed later.
5
The day I got married was the happiest day of my life. Both of us felt that we were right for each other in every way and we had no doubts about our compatibility right from the day we got engaged.
1
I encouraged my brother to play football and he was hurt while playing the game.
5
When I boxed my child's ears.
2
When my brother was born, everything went all right. It had been very likely that he would have a deficiency (my sister suffers from Down's Syndrome) and that my mother would be in danger.
1
When a "friend" woke me up in the middle of a blessful sleep by knocking on the door. Then he started calling me names and saying that he had heard that I had been talking behind his back, this was a lie and the guy was drunk to the core.
0
When I recently got a very positive answer from a clinic telling me that they would willingly assist and collect data for me for a clinical pilot study.
1
One day, when riding on a bicycle path, a car coming from the opposite direction forced me to get off my bike although I had the priority.
3
A colleague asked me for some advice and as he did not have enough confidence in me he asked a third person.
3
A certain boy came into my room and started telling me that I was not pretty, that I had no manners and that I should learn some. I had just come to campus and he was in fourth year.
3
Saw some girls dressed up like Americans
0
I am left-handed. When I attended the first form, we learned to write with pens. I smeared everything I had written. All my friends had written well and wanted to know why the teacher was looking at my note-book. I was ashamed.
2
When a classmate wanted to sit down, I pulled his chair away, so that he was slightly injured.
5
When I lost my grandmother. She had been my guardian after the death of my father.
4
When I saw a man who hadn't the lower .... in a car exhibition. He was passing a handkerchief from inside to outside of his mouth.
0
When I discovered that the girl I was courting was a relative of mine.
5
When I as a child of 9 or 10 I was playing doctor with the neighbours boys their mother caught us.
2
I was cold to my sister without meaning it, just because I was upset and frustated.
5
I had to go to the dentist's. When he touched my tooth with his drill, I was terribly aftaid of the pain I would feel any moment.
6
When I was caught with my girlfriend in the house at night.
5
A much older man took advantage of me during my childhood (four to eight years of age).
2
When I was ill and had to stay at the hospital for a period of time.
4
Anger I felt when my boyfriend told me he didn't mind breaking it off with me, i.e. each of us to take his own road. Because until that moment, he deliberately restricted our dates. The motives were brought to my knowledge later.
3
When I succeed in writing something I felt and doing it I felt well and very happy for being able to express to myself something that was suffocating me.
1
Returning to school and rejoining my girlfriend after 3 months of separation from summer.
1
I felt guilty when I learnt that some of friends found the finished at the Cafeteria because I took food which was more than my share.
5
Doing anatomy alone for the first time.
1
I felt guilty when I thought that I was still not standing on my own feet.
5
During a discussion I said something rather stupid and unnecessary.
2