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When I had not understood anything after a lecture.
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Having an affair with my good friend's best friend. And every time I see my best friend I feel guilt because we can't tell him.
5
My best friend could not get into university.
4
When I realized that I had a hole in my trousers after having gone for a walk.
2
Some time ago we had a tournament in our tennis-club. For tactical reasons I was chosen to play against a much weaker player than I am. Although it would have been enough simply to win the game, I defeated him extremely. This would not have been necessary.
2
My mother always evokes feelings of guilt in me. For instance when I miss the last bus I know she will be concerned for me and stay awake till I arrive.
5
When I got to know about the reaction of a friend of mine in a certain situation. I had not expected him to react that way.
3
When I received a letter from a woman I thought had not ever cared for me. This was when I needed her and I was overjoyed to learn that it was me who was delaying things.
1
When my last year's second semester results came through - I was ecstatic.
1
Before the department meeting my friend ate a dish that I had prepared for this meeting.
3
Little contact with my father before he died.
5
A quarrel was followed by the decision of leaving a person close to me. Several days later my regret was great. I was beside myself. Quite unexpectedly he came and the conflict was calmly solved. I was glad at the possibility to be with him.
1
Ctiticized by teachers in public.
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A dirty person, smelling bad and unknown laying on me.
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Beaten up by a classmate in school.
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When they stole my dark blue tennis.
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Staying alone in a dark place.
6
In an important situation for me, my father behaved inadequately.
2
My cassmate laughed at me when I was being scolded by the teacher.
3
When I was very young and we moved as a family to Auckland from Wellington, this meant new school and friends (etc.).
6
[ When I was treated unfairly, regardless of my motives or deeds.]
3
When I was teaching a student started making silly remarks in class.
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That afternoon I received two messages informing me, one that my brother was in a coma in the U.T.H suffering (kidney disease) and two, that my uncle met with an accident on his way to the hospital to see my brother.
4
Losing my temper and allowing myself to act childishly by yelling and screaming at a person who I felt had done me wrong - in effect lowering myself to their level.
2
When I was about six years old, I mistook a cat for a leopard when it entered my room at night.
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When I got to know that my father had passed away.
4
When my half brother became seriously ill with cancer and died later.
4
I had promised my friend to take her to an important appontment but I was late. So she missed the opportunity to get a wellpayed holiday job.
5
One day I had sunned my favourite shirt and was putting it back in the wardrobe when my younger brother snatched it from me and wore it. He had not had a bath and was very dirty. I scolded him but he answered back and locked himself up in a room. I was very angry so I starteed kicking on the door and abusing him loudly and freely.
3
Once I went home totally drunk and roused all our neighbours from sleep.
2
When I was told by the doctor, after many months of coughing, that I had tuberculosis.
6
Travelling by coach on a rather narrow and wet road.
6
While walking through an old mining area, I unwittingly disturbed a wallaby which, in its resultant flight, accidentally fell down a deep mine shaft. On investigation it seemed uninjured, but it was impossible for the wallaby to get out, and also for me to get it out of the shaft. To prevent its suffering a slow death, I shot it.
4
When thieves broke into our house, I was disgusted by their behaviour. They did not find anything so they broke things like the windows, glasses etc.
0
Fighting with my father while drunk.
2
Sometimes I experience sadness for the Sports High School and for my unrealized dreams in the sport. Anyway there I spent six years of my life.
4
For the sheer pleasure of it, I quarelled with my boyfriend who was trying to be especially kind to me.
5
I was worried by a task related to my studies which had to be done in groups of two. I was talking about it to my friends when I said something negative, in too abrupt a manner, concerning my work partner. I did not quite mean what I said and I felt ashamed at having been mean enough to criticize him as he is also a friend of mine.
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Someone not responding to my criticism.
0
A friend's brother died.
4
A colleague's 17 year old daughter is seriously ill with cancer and has only a year to live. I heard about it 6 weeks ago.
4
Once as a school girl I was copying at a class work and my teacher spotted me.
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When I was 15 my mother discovered various items in my room which 15 year olds aren't usually expected to have - mainly alcohol, marijuana and contraceptives !
2
When I saw the list of books to read for an acccouting course, I thought " Oh God how will I ever manaage it!"
4
Being very close to having an auto accident, almost driving off the road.
6
My father had been drinking and I feared him when we went to bed at night.
6
Someone frightened me in the dark.
6
When my son was born.
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Before the declaration of the S.S.C results.
6
When I was house-hunting: Another person got a flat that I would have liked, too, because he heaped a floot of words on the letter.
3
I feel sad about an event I can not influence.
4
I was seven years old and swimming outside the flags at the Gold Coast. I was caught in a rip and taken out about 100 m. I couldn't swim too well, but an older friend (17) swam out and saved me.
6
I was taking a shower in a cubicle in France. Then I discovered that a few children were loking at me from the adjacent cubicle.
2
It was when I discovered that the girl who I had proposed was a friend's girlfriend.
5
When I got admission in M.Sc (I) Organic Chemistry, I was very happy.
1
When I went to my boyfriend's house for lunch and saw his parents, I felt that they were watching me all the time.
2
At a social event when none of the guests would help to serve food or clear tables. It was all beneath them.
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My girlfriend started singing (she cannot sing) and did not stop despite my asking her to do so.
3
I hit my cousin badly after she threw away my dresses in a pit-latrine that the little girl fainted.
5
A serious drug error while nursing that I knew I was responsible for (patient lived, no complications fortunately).
2
The funeral of a friend who was killed in a car accident. She was of my own age, there were many of my own friends present, as well as her family etc.
4
I was ashamed with my biology lecturer when he asked me a question and I could not answer it.
2
I forgot that the course instructor had directed us to go for special classes after the usual class hours. I missed this the first day and when he asked me about it the next day I said that I had forgotten.
2
Forgot to do some shopping that I had promised to do.
2
I was sitting in school, waiting for my sister to go home. Suddenly a boy put fire in a paper and threw it were I was sitting. The paper didn't get me, but I felt terribly disgusted at this cowardliness and irresponsibility that caused a great discussion. We went to the director and he, drunk as always, said that I was ... attention in school. I felt disgust of this situation, and of the persons implicated in it.
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At a night club watching little tarts trying to earn a living.
0
When someone whom I trusted, disappointed me terribly.
0
I was to be given an audition to get a role. I had a competitress and I wasn't well prepared because I was ill.
6
I was sexually assaulted one night by a stranger.
6
Not being able to help my friend to do homework.
5
When I was betrayed by a friend, and decided to stay apart form her.
4
While I was waiting for them to give me the marks of the most difficult subject this year.
6
When I was selected to start Form I at Malosa Secondary school.
1
When I realized that I had three more examinations to take.
5
Waiting for my marks in a difficult subject.
6
Doing something wrong at home, and then letting my (normally) more rampant brother take the blame.
5
Hear a very nice joke made by a friend.
1
When I have to leave the baby in the carriage and go shopping, I fear that something will happen to the baby.
6
A month ago when one of my fellow workers got a promotion over me. It was just a small promotion but recognition was involved.
3
During a recent meeting, Mr. A showed his excitement and overindulged in the notes delivered. Though his curiosity could not be blamed, his way of accquiring knowledge was an extreme behaviour e.g he always tried to know what I was reading and gained everything he could.
0
Finding out that the university will give first priority to qualified practioners and clinical years to go to your English lectures.
4
My parents put pressure on me to buy clothes, when I would not have liked to do so.
3
A certain colleague of mine sent me to buy a bag of flour for him, he gave me K20. Unfortunately I lost it.
5
When my dress and a few other things were stolen from my wardrobe.
3
When I was younger I often saw my father come home drunk (he had big problems at that time). Once he woke me up in the middle of the night and shouted at me.
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When I robbed a loop in supermarket.
5
When we received our academic result I learnt that my results were bad as I had not done my best. The results of my accquaintances were good and when they asked me about my results I really did not want to answer.
2
When I think now about the way my father behaved when filing a divorce.
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One night, when I got out from the University I saw two strange people near my car. When I got near, they moved away, and then came close again. I had a feeling that they were assaulters. After I left I discovered that the windshield was broken.
6
In the army, I had been in hospital for two weeks and as soon as I returned to the company, a sergeant ordered me to fetch a load on the tractor trailer.
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I felt sad when I was told to walk out of the classroom because I was within the row of students who were making noise.
4
When I finished a love affair where I was responsible of the sad end.
5
I borrowed a piece of music of someone and I always forgot to give it back. That person wrote me a letter asking me to give it back. I did so and I told him an idle story why I kept it for so long.
5
When a close friend of mine collapsed and passed away and the illness was not known.
4
When an earlier friend was spreading negative rumours about me.
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When my girlfriend became pregnant.
1
Eating biscuits and drinking Milo (Chocolate energy drink made with milk and usually drunk warm) with my friend at College. We get on really well, don't withold any feelings about each other's friends and are pretty good at cheering each other up when we are homesick.
1
I was walking one day and I met a man who wanted to ask me about my brother but I didn't stop to hear what he was saying. I was ashamed when I found him at home and he told my brother what had happened.
2
My family told me to leave if I was not willing to accept the conditions they imposed on me.
3
One day in the intimity with my girlfriend I had an ejaculation.
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