`SystemError 15` thrown in `Dataset.__del__` when using `Dataset.map()` with `num_proc>1`
## Describe the bug
I use `datasets.map` to preprocess some data in my application. The error `SystemError 15` is thrown at the end of the execution of `Dataset.map()` (only with `num_proc>1`. Traceback included bellow. 
 
The exception is raised only when the code runs within a specific context. Despite ~10h spent investigating this issue, I have failed to isolate the bug, so let me describe my setup. 

In my project, `Dataset` is wrapped into a `LightningDataModule` and the data is preprocessed when calling `LightningDataModule.setup()`. Calling `.setup()` in an isolated script works fine (even when wrapped with `hydra.main()`). However, when calling `.setup()` within the experiment script (depends on `pytorch_lightning`), the script crashes and `SystemError 15`.

I could avoid throwing this error by modifying ` Dataset.__del__()` (see bellow), but I believe this only moves the problem somewhere else. I am completely stuck with this issue, any hint would be welcome. 

```python
class Dataset()
    ...
    def __del__(self):
        if hasattr(self, "_data"):
            _ = self._data # <- ugly trick that allows avoiding the issue.
            del self._data
        if hasattr(self, "_indices"):
            del self._indices
```

## Steps to reproduce the bug
```python
# Unfortunately I couldn't isolate the bug.
```

## Expected results
Calling `Dataset.map()` without throwing an exception. Or at least raising a more detailed exception/traceback.

## Actual results
```
Exception ignored in: <function Dataset.__del__ at 0x7f7cec179160>███████████████████████████████████████████████████| 5/5 [00:05<00:00,  1.17ba/s]
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File ".../python3.8/site-packages/datasets/arrow_dataset.py", line 906, in __del__
    del self._data
  File ".../python3.8/site-packages/ray/worker.py", line 1033, in sigterm_handler
    sys.exit(signum)
SystemExit: 15

```

## Environment info

Tested on 2 environments:

**Environment 1.**
- `datasets` version: 1.14.0
- Platform: macOS-10.16-x86_64-i386-64bit
- Python version: 3.8.8
- PyArrow version: 6.0.0

**Environment 2.**
- `datasets` version: 1.14.0
- Platform: Linux-4.18.0-305.19.1.el8_4.x86_64-x86_64-with-glibc2.28
- Python version: 3.9.7
- PyArrow version: 6.0.0
