message: ChatCreateOrReuse show only rooms both you and the other party still in
diff: @@ -52,7 +52,12 @@ export default class ChatCreateOrReuseDialog extends React.Component {
  const tiles = [];
  for (const roomId of dmRooms) {
  const room = client.getRoom(roomId);
  - if (room) {
  + if (room && room.getMyMembership() === "join") {
  + const member = room.getMember(this.props.userId);
  + if (!member || member.membership !== "join") {
  + continue;
  + }
  +
  const isInvite = room.getMyMembership() === "invite";
  const highlight = room.getUnreadNotificationCount('highlight') > 0 || isInvite;
  tiles.push(
  