message: new install location allows headers to be found but not libs.. unless we load a header from the conda include dir first.. idk. instead we can use the full libmfem path so that there is only 1 line
diff: "source": [
  "## Load the MFEM library\n",
  "\n",
  - "Any non-default libraries must be loaded before you can `#include` files that use them. We also need to tell cling where to find our mfem libraries (this is needed for Binder only, may be skipped locally)."
  + "Any non-default libraries must be loaded before you can `#include` files that use them. For more info see the [xeus-cling help](https://xeus-cling.readthedocs.io/en/latest/build_options.html)."
  ]
  },
  {
  "metadata": {},
  "outputs": [],
  "source": [
  - "#pragma cling add_include_path(\"/home/jovyan/local/include\")\n",
  - "#pragma cling add_library_path(\"/home/jovyan/local/lib\")\n",
  - "#pragma cling load(\"libmfem\")"
  + "#pragma cling load(\"/srv/conda/envs/notebook/lib/libmfem.so\")"
  ]
  },
  {
  