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67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 387 [Date & Time] 2005-08-06 16:24:07 [Post Text] | This is probably an unusual problem. I am in my early 30s, married to a woman of another race. In my culture, pre-marital sex is very rare, so my wife is my first and only. That doesnt mean that I havent fantasised. ;). For the longest time, I have fantasised about performing oral sex to a woman: and this is my greatest fantasy. I want to pleasure a woman through oral sex. Unfortunately my wife does not like to receive oral sex, and she wont talk about why. I am not sure if, the only time i tried, i was so bad that she doesnt want that to happen again. I have tried variety of ways to get her interested, but to no avail. I have often wondered if my lack of experience is off-putting. If so, what are my options? I know that there are books, etc, but how do& I get better if I do not have an opportunity to put theory into practice? The best bet would to be a willing practice-mate or some kind of school! :?& But is that even possible? How would you approach someone and say 'Hey, I can perform oral sex on you? Could you rate me? and maybe help me get better so that my wife will enjoy this more?' :D We have been married for over 3 years, and love each other a lot. This is causing a friction in the relationship (me wanting to perform oral sex on her, and she not letting me do it). I am at a loss as to what to do. Any advice? :shock: My ideal situation would be to perform oral sex AT LEAST once a day (I want it so much, it hurts). Your thoughts are appreciated. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 388 [Date & Time] 2005-08-06 17:37:53 [Post Text] | I assume the both of you aren't experienced with giving and receiving oral stimulation. Maybe she didn't like it when you tried it the first time, maybe that's why she won't let you try again. But this doesn't mean you made a mistake or you need to practise before you good enough to do it on her. From my (little) experience I'd say: As long as she doesn't like the idea she won't enjoy it, no matter how good you are. Move in small steps, tiny steps. Maybe she likes you kissing her (without tongue) down their. Then do this and nothing further for some time. Think "make her feel good" not "make her have an orgasm"... HTH | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 391 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 04:47:04 [Post Text] | [user=164]eager2learnwell[/user] wrote: "I want it so much, it hurts." Tell her that while looking sweetly in her eyes and stroking gently the inner sides of her thighs. May be it works. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 392 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 10:31:56 [Post Text] | Eager, & That's a tough situation especially because she will not talk to you about it. It certainly could be that you did not perform well. If it were unpleasant to her she may not want to hurt your feelings. The question I have is, does she give you oral sex? I know many women who will not give if they don't get and many women who don't want to receive because they don't want to give. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 394 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 11:08:33 [Post Text] | [user=8]Ant[/user] wrote: "Tell her that while looking sweetly in her eyes and stroking gently the inner sides of her thighs. May be it works." & I have already tried that, but that goes no where! | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 395 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 11:09:31 [Post Text] | [user=167]monkey0588[/user] wrote: "The question I have is, does she give you oral sex? I know many women who will not give if they don't get and many women who don't want to receive because they don't want to give. " & yes, she does if I ask her to. I dont ask often, because I feel guilty about not being able to reciprocate. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 419 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 16:48:10 [Post Text] | Hello eager2learnwell and welcome to the group :) You raise some interesting points but from reading this thread, I feel that both of you have a communication problem not necessarily a sexual one. I am also wondering why you mention that your wife is of a differnt race to you? Sorry if that sounds a little harsh, but she is a beautiful woman and your wife, so why mention that part. I dont understand. My Partner is black but when I talk about him I dont initially say anything like that. Does your wife have a culture where oral sex and showing the vulva is deemed as dirty shameful or wrong? Have you tried masturbating by watching each other? Does your wife enjoy you looking between her legs? If the answer to the above last two questions is no, then you have some confidence building to do with her. Looking at her intimately with adoration in your heart will reflect in your eyes and you will become aroused. I am sure you do anyway when you look at her. But gently touching her whilst looking and making her aware that you love what you see may be a trigger for you to gently try kissing around the pubic area, inner thighs and buttocks. Try this first without going anywhere near her vulvar area or attempting oral sex. After a few tries at this if she is well relaxed and comfortably aroused, try letting your lips gently brush past her vulvar area when moving from one inner thigh to the other. Princess Brad's Note: Please use correct terminology here, the external genitals are called the vulva not the vagina. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 425 [Date & Time] 2005-08-10 17:10:41 [Post Text] | [user=2]Princess[/user] wrote: "I am also wondering why you mention that your wife is of a differnt race to you? Sorry if that sounds a little harsh, but she is a beautiful woman and your wife, so why mention that part. I dont understand. My Partner is black but when I talk about him I dont initially say anything like that. " & Princess -- Good question. The reason I mentioned is was to give the viewer a sense of where my problems might be. I come from a very conservative culture, whereas she doesnt. Could I have just said that, instead of mentioning race? Probably, but I wanted whoever would attempt to help me to have all the facts. You might notice that I did not mention either of our races. Being from different races does have a small impact on how people approach things, I believe. Not necessarily right or wrong, but different. IMO. I did not intend that as a problem or an issue, but just as a benign fact.& :)& Another benign fact is that I am about 15 years younger than her. To answer your other questions, I have never seen her private parts. She is too shy to let me do that. Have we mastrubated with each other watching - she has seen me do it, and even helps me do it at times, but I havent seen her do it. In fact, I dont think she ever mastrubates. I am sure all this is as baffling to you as it is to you. Thanks for your help and advise | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 427 [Date & Time] 2005-08-12 21:53:56 [Post Text] | Have you asked your wife why she's not interested in oral sex? Maybe a good place to get started is to ask her what sexual activities she does enjoy, and from there move on to what things she might want improved. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 548 [Date & Time] 2005-09-17 16:01:22 [Post Text] | Dear eager...Wow!& It's hard to believe you've never seen your wife's vulva before.& Maybe she was raised that oral sex was dirty. I don't recommend forcing her.& It took me about 1 year before my boyfriend talked me into it.& & I could not even visualize it.& He finally convinced me, and that was the greatest pleasure I've known.& You are going to have to be patient.& The only thing about my situation, I used to let my boyfriend& touch me.& He liked looking at my vulva.& I used to let him rub my clit until I orgasmed.& I also used to masturbate for him.& The only& thing that was missing was the oral sex.& He used to get right& down by my vulva.& He would even explain how he was going to do it.& He had me open my legs& like I was a diagram.& He would say things like,& "instead of rubbing your clit with my finger, I'll be using my tongue.& I will lick here and kiss there, etc."& I do have to say he was very inventive to come up with that whole scenario. After about a year of explaining the diagram, I finally let him.& Good luck to you.& It seems like you have a long way to go. Brad's Note: Please use correct terminolgy when posting here, the external genitals are called the vulva, not the vagina. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 555 [Date & Time] 2005-09-18 13:30:23 [Post Text] | Brad& wrote: "Brad's Note: Please use correct terminolgy when posting here, the external genitals are called the vulva, not the vagina. " & Sorry Brad.& Did it ever occur to you that I meant the other "V" word?& Also, I suggest you write notes to all those you used the "P" word for a women's private part, and used "butt hole" instead of anus. Again, sorry for the misuse of a correct term for a woman's body part. Cheers. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 556 [Date & Time] 2005-09-18 17:22:17 [Post Text] | Hi, The vagina is inside and cannot be seen without the use of a specula, etc. If you can see it with your naked eye then it is the vulva. External is the vulva, internal is vagina. Sorry, this a pet peeve of mine. Slang terms are permitted. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 72 [Post ID] 390 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 02:09:52 [Post Text] | Are women aroused by the sight of a male penis/male sexual organs or do they find them gross? All women are different, obviously, but what about the women here? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 72 [Post ID] 396 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 13:08:00 [Post Text] | Hi good question..women get aroused different that men becasue we always treat sex as something more affective than physical, meaning that we create an afdfective bond before getting aroused; there is an old saying that says that "women look at the man's eyes and men look at the girls tits". Do not take bad it is the way that we are built...women are selective by nature in order to get the best partner to porcreate and we can not afford to get aroused like men...all the penis are beautiful and there no two the& same and also the size is second to other things. No penis is gross unless it shows a diseaase or dirty.....kisses Luisa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 72 [Post ID] 399 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 22:16:48 [Post Text] | I agree with Luisa on this one... no penis is gross unless it has a disease or dirty. I find it very arousing when I start kissing the guy and then he has an erection in his pants. I think just knowing I'm turning him on gets me going.& | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 72 [Post ID] 408 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 00:33:59 [Post Text] | For me the penis itself does not evoke any particular emotion. The way I feel about a penis depends on the way I feel about the man. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 72 [Post ID] 412 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 12:41:36 [Post Text] | I guess some women are, I personally find the penis whether errect or not and the testicles very arousing, shaved or hairy, and I also like looking at pictures of penises especially in porn! actually I love just playing around with it when it's still not erect but that never lasts long ;) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 72 [Post ID] 415 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 16:08:38 [Post Text] | [user=166]callmep[/user] wrote: "Are women aroused by the sight of a male penis/male sexual organs " yes :) Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 72 [Post ID] 524 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 13:53:23 [Post Text] | I don't hink a penis is gross, but I also wouldnt& call it beautiful, but yes, it arouses me. It fells like some instinct deep inside of me - I dont really like it, but I still cant stop looking. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 73 [Post ID] 397 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 21:58:50 [Post Text] | I once heard that too much masterbation (or starting too young, etc) can cause damaged g-spot nerve endings and make orgasms impossible. Is this true? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 73 [Post ID] 398 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 22:09:56 [Post Text] | I don't think so... I think it just causes your body to be more immuned to the touch which makes you work a little more to orgasm. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 73 [Post ID] 401 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 23:36:05 [Post Text] | Hi, If you learn to walk and run at a young age does that mean you will have trouble walking when you get older? If you spend hours practicing to play a musical instrument as a child does that make it harder to do so when you are older, make you deaf, cause your fingers to fall off or lose& sensation in your fingers? We need to stop seeing sex as inherently harmful, its not. Your body doesn't know the difference between masturbation and partnered sex, only your mind. Many of the women I receive letters from are having trouble because they didn't learn to masturbate at a young age. Brad & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 74 [Post ID] 400 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 22:37:51 [Post Text] | Hi everyone, I am having a relationship with my gf since more than a year. Everything seems fine but sex is lightyears away. (Just in case you wonder, we are both over the age of consent and there are no religious or moral laws against it.) I am getting worried (honestly -- not just horny) about the situation. I'm afraid this could be a dead end street and the longer we keep moving on the harder it will be to find a way out. Therefore, I don't think the right answer to my questions contains the words "wait" and "not ready" although it's probably what most people I know would answer first. Before describing my situation it wrote down some thoughts to picture my environment: I think we both grow up in world, where information about sexuality is readily available when you're brave enough to look for it; where talking openly (with close friends, family) is always possible and mostly avoided; where there is a magical age limit (varies between 14 and 20) dividing mankind in 2 groups -- those below the limit who should be taught as many abstract theoretical knowledge about sex because (s)he can't know yet anything from real life and those above who know already everything there is to know because they did it. (Thus, you'd better ask all the questions you'll ever have before you hit the magical age limit although you won't understand the answers then) Any girl (no exception) I talked to about sex before their "first" (OK, there aren't that many) thought intercourse hurts -- just a little bit if he is caring, like hell if you're not ready. I don't know who told them that. Another myth is that males need to have orgasm regularly (to survive). Therefore males will masturbate and males want sex. However most women don't orgasm regularly. Obviously they don't need to. It is perfectly accaptable for an adult woman to enjoy masturbation or intercourse while others may prefer shopping or watching TV. Therefore in a relationship, flirt, one-night-stand it's his part to be in favor of sex and her part to object it. The couple has to settle on a compromise, it's sometimes acceptable to trade sex (of which he benefits) for things she prefers. We usually spend a couple of nights together a week, sometimes every night. The weird thing is, from the very beginning till today, often not always it reminds me of sleepovers with friends. There's simply nothing sensational about it, she's in her pyjamas ("I never slept without them"), she insists on sleeping NOW ("Sorry. No time for cuddling. Too Late!"). It's not always that bad, we hug and kiss and sometimes take off her clothes (and my, but that's the simpler part), but she avoids anything that could get us aroused: Only few French kisses and none of them too long. Passionate caressing and cuddling but without touching each other intimately. Lying close to each other but no moving. Automatically I'm trying to touch her vulva (I know I should ask but often I won't as it seems to me to be the most natural thing to do). As long as I'm on her legs she likes it (and says so). When get to touch her pubic hair she's getting uncomfortable (says she it doesn't feel bad but strange). Normally she won't let me touch her asking me to touch her on some other spot. If I do get to touch her the very moment my finger makes contact with her body (before I even realize I touched her) she moves her body back as if hurt. Maybe her clitoris or skin is very sensitive. However I think, it is her mind. She never masturbates or otherwise touches herself. She sais she used to be curious about how shw looked but never used a mirror to actually see down their and then lost interest. I once fingered another girl through her panties which was pleasant for that girl but she won't let me, she sais, she wouldn't feel anything, so why waste energy on trying? I'd really love to orally perform on her but she doesn't believe that I would actually enjoy it. She thinks she's smelly down their which she isn't. She wouldn't even let me give her a single kiss anywhere on her body while not wearing panties. (I think she's too afraid of being asked to give fellatio.) I'm quite sure (though I'd wish I was wrong here) she doesn't talk to anyone about the topic nor read anything about it. Probably she never felt positive about arousal, maybe she never realized she was aroused. We do speak openly about things experienced in the past and she can imagine sleeping with me in the long-term future and enjoy it (after we discussed our family planning in all glory detail and realized it could be too late to start a family eventually). However talking about the present is hard. On the one hand she thinks she's very late and I'm not getting what I deserve but one the other hand it's always safe to wait a few more days/weeks/months... Hope you got an idea about how I feel and what think. I don't expect a solution, just thoughts and hints. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 74 [Post ID] 402 [Date & Time] 2005-08-07 23:45:20 [Post Text] | Hi, My short answer suggestion is to show her this website and allow her to become familiar with the sexual experiences of other women. She needs information not sexual experience. If she isn't ready, she isn't ready. You might suggest that she watch you masturbate during& her sleep overs. This way you aren't left frustrated and she isn't being pressured to be more sexual than she is willing or able to be. This might help her to be more willing to explore her own body. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 74 [Post ID] 406 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 00:28:33 [Post Text] | I'd agree with Brad. If she's not ready, don't push her. You may want to bring up this website to her, to see if she's interested in exploring her own sexuality, but the important thing is that she doesn't feel pressured by you. After all, it shouldn't feel like a chore that she's doing for somebody else. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 74 [Post ID] 411 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 12:31:49 [Post Text] | You asked for thoughts and here's mine: You're sharing the same bed regularly and she never asked if you are unhappy with all of this? Didnt she ever ask/wonder whether u're satisfied or not? I just find it abit wierd. It's hard to live in this world nowadays and not notice that bad sex or no sex can seriously strain a relationship if not break it, so what are her thoughts on that? Note Im not saying she should do it to save ur relationship but you seem so attentive to her needs, I was just wondering how does she feel about urs? Anyway.. they're both right, u have to get her interested in exploring her sexuality, not having sex because the later will very likely follow my suggestion: Buy a sex-ed book and read it to her. That way she can not hide behind the excuse that she doesnt have to talk about something that makes her uncomfortable but she will have to listen and you get to watch her reaction. Personal choice: Sex for One by Betty Dodson (first sex book I ever bought!) and great for people with bad sex ed | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 74 [Post ID] 424 [Date & Time] 2005-08-10 15:26:04 [Post Text] | Thank you for your taking your time to answer my question. Brad's and oceanwind's reply is about what I expected, Kay's is obviously different. You are all right. In my initial posting I tried to stress what my worries are, so the view is a bit biased and too pessimistic. She does care about what I feel about the situation and she did express her worries about leaving me frustated before. We even had a good sex talk once all night long. In the morning we did what Brad suggested above. I can ask her to touch me intimately but her motivation to do it is 10% couriosity and 90% because I asked her. The curiousity part may be increasing but this is only about MY sexuality, it's not about her. I only know the sex ed book my mum read to me as child, which I hated. I decided never to force anyone to listen to a sex ed book. They tend be written by 40-year-olds about the situation of 18-year-olds written in with a child's vocabulary. ;-( I don't think my girl lacks information. At least, I don't think the lack of information is the core problem. The problem is the lack of connection between the information about other women and herself. Everyone is individual, of course, and she thinks that regarding sexuality she is somewhat different from the others. Thus, information about and from others does not neccessarily apply to her. She wants to find out herself by exploring, but not now, maybe tomorrow, maybe later... | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 75 [Post ID] 403 [Date & Time] 2005-08-08 04:25:29 [Post Text] | Hi everybody, i`m from germany and I dont really know how to ask this in english but I`ll give it a try. When I have sex with my boyfriend I`m almost every time not wet enough. So its always a bit difficult for him to get inside me. It doesnt hurt me but its a littlebit painful for him. Its not that I`m not horny, its just that i`m not wet enough. I had this problem ever since i started to have sex. I asked my doctor years ago about this topic but she just said I`m too tight. But I think the problem is not about tightness.It`s about body fluids. The only way, my boyfriend gets me wet enough is whith oral stimulation. Otherwise everything is just too dry. I don`t want to use cremes or something like that. Does anyone know this problem? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 75 [Post ID] 407 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 00:31:30 [Post Text] | Have you tried oral stimulation before intercourse? A lot of people use oral stimulation as foreplay before penetration. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 75 [Post ID] 418 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 16:35:26 [Post Text] | Hello Janie and welcome to the group :) In answer to your question does anyone else know of this problem - yes is the answer. First of all, I appreciate you dont want to try creams etc. But, it may help if you massaged your vaginal area with sweet almond oil daily. This helps with the elasticity of the inner and outer lips and your vaginal canal wont feel uncomfortable for your partner. Next, the wetness - have you asked the doctor to check your hormone levels? Are you on the pill? Lack of progesterone can cause vaginal dryness as can the contraceptive pill. Also, during sex, it is perfectly natural to use saliva as a lubricant to start you off during penetration. Oral sex is great for getting the outer lips nicely moist and ready for penetration. I would also try getting aroused by teasing etc while you are fully clothed before anything sexual takes place. Teasing by talking or breathing together and gently touching whilst you have your clothes on can often be a great way to kick start your brain into sending down the right signals for your vaginal and vulva area. You may even begin to feel yourself pulsing slightly in those areas before you have even touched eachother's skin if you fantacise enough and be playful beforehand. One more thing - nylon underwear is no good if you suffer from dryness. Neither is wearing jeans. Princess :) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 75 [Post ID] 421 [Date & Time] 2005-08-10 01:51:43 [Post Text] | [user=2]Princess[/user] wrote: "One more thing - nylon underwear is no good if you suffer from dryness. Neither is wearing jeans." ... ??? why? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 75 [Post ID] 423 [Date & Time] 2005-08-10 14:26:31 [Post Text] | Nylon is a syntetic fiber that doesn't absorb humidity and consequently the warm, wet enviroment develops bacteria and fungus and they find their way inside the vagina. It is recomended to wear loose cotton panties and stay some periods of time wearing no panties at all. The jeans are a very thick knit fabric that even being cotton takes more tiem to soak and evaporate all humidity..Good luck you all kisses Luisa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 75 [Post ID] 434 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 11:50:36 [Post Text] | Hi, More information on care of the vulva is addressed on the page about hygiene linked to below: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hygiene.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hygiene.htm Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 75 [Post ID] 435 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 11:56:49 [Post Text] | Hi, In a survey on the website 56% of the participants have reported they have experienced dryness during vaginal intercourse. There are those who advocate the use of& additional lubricant during all sexual activities, alone and with a partner. It is incorrect to presume a woman's body should produce sufficient lubrication in any situation let alone all situations. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 405 [Date & Time] 2005-08-08 08:24:49 [Post Text] | Hi everybody, We often hear about horny thirties (increase of sex desire / drive after 30 years of age). I was wondering, does it happen to most of women or is it somewhat of a myth ? Did it happen to you ? I would really like some feedback. Also, if it does happen, does it happen equally to women who had children and women who didn't ? (Or could it be a& phenomenon nature put there in order to assure that women has more chance of getting preagnent if she didn't already have child& younger?) Thanks, Thorgak | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 410 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 09:58:41 [Post Text] | Hi, Below is a link to a survey on the website that asks that question: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/poll_desire.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/poll_desire.htm Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 416 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 16:17:07 [Post Text] | Hi thorgak I am 35 and can honestly say yes, it did happen to me. But I am not sure if turning 30 was as much to do with it as my living circumstances and finding my own voice by then. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 420 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 19:51:02 [Post Text] | Princess i agree with you I don't think it has to do nothing with biological changes, is more personality wise.. I changed a lot because I felt more sure of myself and more in control and consequently gave me a different look a sexuality which I enjoy much more now...Luisa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 422 [Date & Time] 2005-08-10 08:47:29 [Post Text] | Thanks for your answers, Those self-confidence changes...& Were they the result of specific events or are they the result of a gradual personality maturation with time and experience? Thorgak | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 426 [Date & Time] 2005-08-11 19:26:16 [Post Text] | [user=171]thorgak[/user] wrote: " Those self-confidence changes... Were they the result of specific events or are they the result of a gradual personality maturation with time and experience? Thorgak " For me I would say it's been a gradual process. I'm much more comfortable with my body & sexuality now than I was in my twenties. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 480 [Date & Time] 2005-09-01 21:56:41 [Post Text] | Well i am 30. I recently had a baby and while i was pregnant i was so horny that i could not get enough, but i didn't want to much to do with my husband i really preferred& the shower head, although, i would have sex with him just so he would leave me alone.& I know that sounds bad but he just didn't know how to stimulate me. My daughter is now 4 months old and i am still horny as ever. I guess it does have something to do with the thirties. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 78 [Post ID] 409 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 02:51:40 [Post Text] | I can when i masterbate, and sometimes have cum when im being fingered, but during sex or getting oral. Also while it feels nice boob play does nothing for me. i dont taek any medicine that would affect me in that way, and actually the few times ive actually taken a drug (pot in my teen years) sex was better. Am i a lost cause? please i could really use the help even if its links. Thank you J. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 78 [Post ID] 417 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 16:27:49 [Post Text] | Hello and welcome to the group J. You dont mention how old you are or whether you are in a long term relationship or have children or not so my answer will perhaps be slightly vague for you. Firstly, you are not alone. Many women, myself included, go through a phase where nothing works in the orgasm department. Stimulation gets dull and you get to a point where you want to so badly that you just cant orgasm. Have you tried using a vibrator? In the past, this method was the only way that I could orgasm. There is nothing wrong with trying it out to see how you get on. I shared my experience with my partner and he was really happy because the self assigned pressure to please me in that way was lifted and things changed. The female orgasm starts in the mind. Do you fantacise? Daydream? Talking about what turns you on also can be a good way to overcome the mental block that occurs and stops us from orgasming. Smoking pot when you were younger would not have an effect on you now given that you are capable of having an orgasm through masturbation. So I wouldnt worry about that side of things. I cant orgasm through penetration alone. Many women cant. Explore you body. Slowly. Dont let having an orgasm be your goal each time you masturbate. Try touching your skin more in other areas, inner arms / legs, thighs, breasts and any place else that feels good. Use gentle strokes on yourself and ask your partner to massage you as well. With out touching your vaginal or vulva areas at all until you cant stand not being touched there any more. See how you go with trying that. You can do this alone or with a partner. Build up the sensations. Try stroking yourself with different textured objects like a feather or an ice cube. Hope this helped a little There is nothing wrong with you and you are certainly not alone. Our cycles change and hormones do too. Each woman is different. But not putting so much emphasis on haivng an orgasm certainly did help me. And then when it finally happened it was all the more mind blowing and special for me. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 79 [Post ID] 428 [Date & Time] 2005-08-16 22:37:03 [Post Text] | I'm a male in my twenties and have found viagra to be one hell of an experience. I dont have ED, but it just makes it better. I've heard of women also being prescribed to it, have any of you women had any experience with it? Was it good or bad? I'm thinking about giving some to my g/f to try, but I want to know what to expect before hand. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 79 [Post ID] 429 [Date & Time] 2005-08-17 08:07:45 [Post Text] | Hi and welcome to the group :) I have tried it. Twice ! The first time I took half the blue tablet. It was ok but did not really make a difference to me. No side effects at all. The second time my partner got two tablets so I took one and he took one. Now that was an experience :) My head felt quite giddy like I was really happy. We were making jokes and laughing for a long time until his tablet really took effect! Sex was brilliant on it. But I can only speak for myself. I dont think women are technically supposed to take it without getting checked out from their GP first. I took a risk which could have turned out to be a silly one. But I was going on the principle that my partner was going to take it and he was scared. I would never expect anybody to do something that I was not prepared to do myself so simply swallowed the tablet before him as I really really wanted him to try it as he had suffered from impotence for a while and was sad about it to say the least. Having an erection changed him and he has not needed viagra since those two initial experience. He had a mental block nothing more serious so once he had seen himself in all his glory as it were, that was enough to "unblock' him :) Good luck with what ever you decide. Like I said, it did have an effect on me which was good with no side effects at all but we got our tablets from a reputable source that we could trust to be ok not diluted or hand made with anything dangerous. You have to be so careful nowadays Princess :) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 79 [Post ID] 436 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 12:04:52 [Post Text] | Hi, Viagra will have the same affect on female sexual response as male sexual response. It retards the hormone that normally suppresses an erection, blood engorgement. It does not produce or cause the erection or blood engorgement, it allows them to be more intense and last longer, potentially. I believe a study into the use of Viagra to treat female sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction was suspended because they found it was not a reliable treatment option. Female sexuality is very complex and there is no single or easy solution, i.e. a pill. Some report success if used for specific situations rather than as a general fix. Being used as a sexual enhancer I don't believe has been studied, as it is a medication prescribe for the treatment of something. I don't know if any one has studied its affects on women without impaired sexual response. The potential side affects would likely be the same. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 430 [Date & Time] 2005-08-17 15:48:08 [Post Text] | Hello all , I have to say I was amazed to find the site as it is ... very useful and informative. For years I carried guilt with me because of what was termed child abuse as a young girl , it started for me when I was 5 , my cousin used to play these games with me , byt the time I was 8 or 9 I looked forward to these games and sought him out if he was not ready when I was , I hated myself for this because Iwas told it was wrong... never the less by the time Iwas 12 Iwas kind of like Lolita.... and with all the psychologists and doctors telling me it was bad and I should not want it and it was wrong etc.. I felt like a Freak... when Iwas 16 I tried to commit suicide as a result. & Years have passed and I am now comfortable with who Iam and my sexuality , I would like to know if there are other women out there who dont necessarily view thier "innitiation" as abuse and what you all think of the issues surrounding this. & Email me on Niqui | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 431 [Date & Time] 2005-08-17 16:36:12 [Post Text] | Hi..very interesting letter...I have seen many caases of "sexual abuse" but it is my opinion that sexual abuse is when it is forced on us(when little) by an adult; this is a product of many fantasies. We are and has been proved that we are sexual since birth and to prove it there are studies of children masturbation, some more frequent than others and this has to be taken as normal developemnt and explained to the children as normal in their words. History has shown that we like to explore sex when& little and in your case ( and mine and others) the sexual abuse idea was imprinted in your mind & by adults;when you were with your cousin, & were you injured in any way? were you forced to have sexual penetration with an adult penis?, I don't think so it was the case & at your age and mine age level. I'm no a PHD or like but if ever see two kids naked mimicking sex I won't scold them on the contrary help them to understand that it is normal but perhaps the place or the time is not. Do not feel guilty, you were exercising your right as a human being and somebody "twisted it". Love& Luisa ;) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 432 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 07:36:29 [Post Text] | Hello niqui and welcome to our group :) We have another forum for this subject specifically. Please go to : sexabuseandincest.mywowbb.com/ also you may like to read the article on the main www.the-clitoris.com web site abuse pages - www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_abuse.htm there are many women who feel exactly the same as you and you certainly are not alone in your thought processes On our other forum site which covers this subject I was able to include the full history of our Yahoo Group Middle Ground right up until it was deleted, which Brad had started up for abuse and incest survivors. There are quite a few articles to search through which cover this material as well where we discussed many angles. I think you may find them useful. Been a bit quiet on there since we started it up in April so some new members would be helpful to promote more useful discussions in the future. I really hope it turns into the sucess that Middle Ground was and still is in many ways. Princess :) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 433 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 11:48:40 [Post Text] | Hi, Another article relevant to this discussion may be the new page that addresses childhood sexuality. [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/child_sex.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/child_sex.htm Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 437 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 13:18:41 [Post Text] | Hello All, & Thank You all for your replies , and Luisa , to answer your question on my cousin , no it was never forced , it was merely a game when it started , I have to say I was so afraid when it did due to all the taboos surrounding sex etc.... I still feel serious confusion though , what made me as a young girl go out ans for want of a better term "solicit" older adult males for this game of mine when I was 12 or so.. I watched Lolita the other night and I could so Identify with what her MO was etc... It was scary to watch. Yet at this stage of my life Iam not afraid of sex nor do I find any of the sexual acts that take place between consenting people abhorent , admittedly there are some that I would not try however when does it become and how is it defined as abuse ... If a young girl entices an adult male ( and I know this is possible because I was that child ) is that child in thier right mind and what has led them to that? I looked back in history to the Middle Ages , Girls at the age of 12 were being married and having children by the age of thirteen , yes that is extreme but that was life at that time , where did society go to? In this day and age Porn is prominent and thre is so much missinformation around , that children are basically taught SEX = GUILT and SIN, I dont agree with this teaching having three daughters however and the youngest of them is very very sexually aware and has ADHD ... Its this that started my "quest" to try and understand the WHY'S and wherefores of this kind of situation , at school they aer being taught sex education but some of the things that they are being taught are just plain WRONG and based on the hellfire and brimstone theory.... THat left me feeling bad about my life and my youth. & This place was a miracle find , I have read the articles and I find them brilliant. THey answered a lot of questions for me already. & Thanks again & Love Niqui | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 438 [Date & Time] 2005-08-21 19:21:14 [Post Text] | Hi, Well when I perform oral on my guy, I try to go down on him as long as I can, but after a while it makes me gag. Not from being disgusting, I mean I enjoy it, I just cant handle him being in my mouth for a long time. I try to take all of him in my mouth for a bit, then when it gets to much I take it out some and play with the head and switch like that, but even doing that it still makes me gag after so long. Anything that could help me with this? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 439 [Date & Time] 2005-08-21 19:56:46 [Post Text] | I don't really have any problems with gagging during extended oral sex sessions, but my jaw does ache after a while. Generally if it starts to get too painful we just switch to a different activity. If you're keen to gain some control over your gag reflex, I've heard that practising on a dildo can help. Other than that I'm not really sure, maybe others will have some suggestions. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 440 [Date & Time] 2005-08-21 20:25:16 [Post Text] | Hello, have you tried putting something with a nice flavour you like on his penis first? This can be great fun for you both. :) Some suggestions - honey, chocolate moose, cream, fruit syrup - the list could go on and on. You are only limited by your imagination. If you enjoy giving him oral sex then I would certainly give a flavour a go. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 441 [Date & Time] 2005-08-21 23:10:55 [Post Text] | Hi, There is usually no benefit too taking his whole penis in your mouth. The most sensitive areas are usual the frenum, the area on the underside where the glans and shaft meet, and the glans. Use you hand and lube to stimulate the shaft. Lick and suck on his glans and the underside of the shaft. Use the stroke of your hand in conjunction with your mouth. Deep throating may be visually impressive and arousing, for one or both, but may not be all it is cracked up to in regards to pleasure. Giving and receiving oral pleasure should be fun and enjoyable for both. If you are aching or gaging then you should stop. You can then both masturbate to orgasm. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 456 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 00:16:32 [Post Text] | It might be the fact that you are getting tired and switching positions that is prolonging ejaculation (which then makes you more tired and having to switch positions again).& There have been times when I was only 4 or 5 seconds from ejaculation when my girlfriend stopped to change positions and it is like starting from zero (or close to it).& Then it took time to get back to where I was, sometimes a minute, sometimes more, occasionally& never.& Even a one second delay in stimulation, especially so close to the end, is enough to derail that train or else cause significant delays. Even if stimulation continues, any change in position so close to the point-of-no-return might mean you never get to return to that point. If he is comfortable enough with you, I suggest having him masturbate while you are in the room, so that you can watch for 1. SPEED 2. FORCE 3. CHANGES IN SPEED OR FORCEFULLNESS (especially near the end).& Then try to duplicate what you observed next time you do it.& & I am leaning towards believing you are either going too slow, or not far enough up and down, or both, but there is also a chance he has a problem he hasn't told you about. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 458 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 02:49:12 [Post Text] | I have a similar problem. It's not the taste that is the problem, but after a while I find I get stuffed up, have a hard time breathing through my nose, and so I choke. By then it has definitely stopped being enjoyable for me. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 466 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 08:15:09 [Post Text] | Hello, try a different position and as Brad mentioned, it is the glands around the top which are the most sensitive anyway so you dont need to take all that much in your mouth. Just stick to licking and kissing the top whilst holding the shaft to give pleasure to your partner. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 503 [Date & Time] 2005-09-07 23:08:03 [Post Text] | [user=192]Edward4111[/user] wrote: "It might be the fact that you are getting tired and switching positions that is prolonging ejaculation (which then makes you more tired and having to switch positions again). There have been times when I was only 4 or 5 seconds from ejaculation when my girlfriend stopped to change positions and it is like starting from zero (or close to it). Then it took time to get back to where I was, sometimes a minute, sometimes more, occasionally never. Even a one second delay in stimulation, especially so close to the end, is enough to derail that train or else cause significant delays. Even if stimulation continues, any change in position so close to the point-of-no-return might mean you never get to return to that point. If he is comfortable enough with you, I suggest having him masturbate while you are in the room, so that you can watch for 1. SPEED 2. FORCE 3. CHANGES IN SPEED OR FORCEFULLNESS (especially near the end). Then try to duplicate what you observed next time you do it. I am leaning towards believing you are either going too slow, or not far enough up and down, or both, but there is also a chance he has a problem he hasn't told you about." Hey Edward! Thanks for your response you just helped me without knowing. I wish I had read this before I put up my post. But I think this is one of my problems, my hand gets tired or my mouth gets tired and I switch positions. I wish there was a way around that though. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 536 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 19:22:18 [Post Text] | i found that making sure i brush my tongue way far back when brushing my teeth helps me get over the gag reflex. i have a terrible gag reflex but now i can touch my tonsils with my finger and dont gag! :Dmaybe this will help. afterall, gaging when going down is embarassing and annoying, but who wants to switch positions if u are enjoying it. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 543 [Date & Time] 2005-09-16 20:31:45 [Post Text] | [user=224]rosadog[/user] wrote: "i found that making sure i brush my tongue way far back when brushing my teeth helps me get over the gag reflex. i have a terrible gag reflex but now i can touch my tonsils with my finger and dont gag! :Dmaybe this will help. afterall, gaging when going down is embarassing and annoying, but who wants to switch positions if u are enjoying it. " I've tried doing this...and I think I need to practice more. & I definitely know what you're talkinga bout it being embarrassing.& My last encounter I had, I started to gag when the guy was cumming.& And when he came it didn't help much because I just wanted to throw up.& I was all in all embarrassed.. stupid gag reflexes! | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 82 [Post ID] 442 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 18:20:55 [Post Text] | Hi i'm 13 and I have a question to ask all of you. The other day I was exploring the inside of my vagina and I found a big bump way up inside with a hole in the middle of it. I was wondering what this is.& Could it be my cervis and can it hurt you to touch it? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 82 [Post ID] 443 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 18:26:47 [Post Text] | It does sound like your cervix. As for hurting yourself if you touch it, I don't think you can cause any damage by touching it, it's not uncommon for the cervix to get bumped during sex and most women suffer no ill effects (except from momentary discomfort/pain). While it can be uncomfortable it's never caused me any problems. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 82 [Post ID] 444 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 18:33:41 [Post Text] | thank you for replying:D | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 82 [Post ID] 445 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 19:19:38 [Post Text] | Hello and Welcome Konnichiwa yes it sounds very much like your cervix. you cant damage it by touching it with your hand or fingers. take a look at www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_anatomy.htm and click on some of the links which have some really good illustrations of a woman's anatomy. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 446 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 22:38:46 [Post Text] | Does anyone rub against a pillow, like mons area,& to have an orgasm? It is& a preferred way for me. I am not sure if it is normal for the pillow to get all wet and sticky from rubbing... Melissa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 449 [Date & Time] 2005-08-23 18:03:16 [Post Text] | Hello Melissa no, I have not tried this method at all. But it is normal for you to produce an amount of discharge which would appear wet and sticky on the pillow during and afterwards. Hope this helps Princess :) [user=130]melissa malena[/user] wrote: "Does anyone rub against a pillow, like mons area, to have an orgasm? It is a preferred way for me. I am not sure if it is normal for the pillow to get all wet and sticky from rubbing... Melissa " | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 450 [Date & Time] 2005-08-23 19:57:04 [Post Text] | Hi Melissa& & The question you ask is quite normal becaause many women and young girls stradle a teddy bear, a pillow, a rolled towel, etc to masturbate and it becomes sticky& with the fluids generated by the sexual arousal; do not worry unless it has foul odor and in& that case you better go to the gynecologist If you want to see how many of us use an object in between the legs to stimulate the clitoris go to& [url=www.the-clitoris.com] www.the-clitoris.com& & and go to masturbation. Love and good luck Luisa & & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 451 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 10:51:51 [Post Text] | It's definitely normal to get wet and sticky anytime you have an orgasm.& But if it bothers you, or is& a hassle to clean,& you could try putting a couple of layers of clothing between you and the pillow. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 2635 [Date & Time] 2006-09-13 11:11:20 [Post Text] | That's how I learned to masturbate was laying on my stomach& because my mound protrudes& quite a bit and is easily stimulated. I later learned about stuffed animals and pillows. I used those to keep my hands free to look at my step-dad's playboy's and be able to turn the pages! I still like to use a pillow but I have my favorite pillow that has extra heavy duty cases. The memory foam pillows are awesome and I can even wedge a dildo into one to be able to get penetration and grind my pubis& into the pillow. Towels can fold into a big roll and then I can hump it. Or even putting a dildo underneath the first layer of the pillow case and grinding on it. Also, my nipples are getting caressed as I rock back and forth humping my pillow my nipples dangle onto the pillow too. I'll even use one of those really soft velvety blankets and lay it out. What a turn on! I love to see guys do the same thing...lay on their stomachs and grind their penises! It's just so raw! Hmmm....Well, I just remembered something I gotta go do....*wink* | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 453 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 21:15:30 [Post Text] | My job requires me to be at home all day, so I get stuck doing the laundry while my girlfriend goes to work.& Years ago she had an affair with a guy at work and I caught her because I found wet semen in her underwear while doing the laundry.& She finally admitted to the affair and for the past 5 years she says she has never cheated again.& Ever since, I have paid close attention to her underwear when I do laundry.& Sometimes they are a little damp or a little crusty and some days they are clean with nothing more than a little scent.& I haven't noticed any pattern related to the time of the month as to whether the stains are thicker or whether they happen more often.& There are reasons to suspect she may be cheating; disappearing for hours to buy groceries,& returning from clothes shopping with no clothes because they were out of her size, going to work extra extra early and returning a couple of hours late sometimes because there was a problem just as she was about to leave work, going to work on vacation days to catch up on work, taking a shower when she gets home, keeping a seperate checking account so she can keep her shopping-money seperate from our bill-money, and also low interest in sex, and sometimes emotionally distant. So without proof beyond a reasonable doubt, I can't tell if she is just a hard working mother or whether she is very good at cheating without getting caught.& So the stains in her panties are an important factor in determining how far to persue catching her or whether to just forget about it.& & I need to know what constitutes a normal stain as opposed to putting her panties back on after sex with some other guy. As an experiment,& I masturbated into a pair of her clean panties into the same spot where I find& her stains, then let it dry.& When I compared it to a pair of her own stained panties to the semen stained panties& it was very similar in the amount, seemed to weigh about the same and had the same crusty texture.& So I asked her if she ever masturbates in her underwear and she denied it. I wouldn't expect her to lie about& having an orgasm in her underwear because she admits other times and places that she& does masturbate.& So what do you think, is she just randomly leaking fluid, or is she lying about masturbating in her underwear or cheating or both?& :shock: | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 454 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 22:25:07 [Post Text] | Now& that it has been found that a female prostate exists and produces same chemical constituents as is in semen, semen per se on a woman's panties is not& sufficient in rape claims. So, I would guess it's not sufficient for finding out if someone has been cheating...I've been reading about this (female prostatic secretions) lately. Someone named Dr. Zaviacic has published a book on it. Certainly there are women who ejaculate great quantities at orgasm....Maybe your girlfriend is one of them? Perhaps you may wish to ask her about female ejaculation. & It may be tough during intercourse& to find out, but have her masturbate for you or& have her& to find her G spot for you. Melissa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 455 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 23:49:08 [Post Text] | Just so I understand this are you saying that if a guy finds stains& that are as much as a guy would leave behind then it is uncommon for a girl to have created the stain by herself unless she& had an orgasm and even if she did then it would be "excessive" to have created such a stain.& & Either way that would mean she is lying, either about cheating, or about masturbating with her panties on.& I've watched her masturbate and never seen an ejaculation that would have created these stains, so my only remaining doubt about her panties is whether is is a& normal, slow, oozing process throughout the day or an all-at-once "excessive" release.& I'm hoping she is just having orgasms on the drive to work. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 459 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 13:55:19 [Post Text] | Hi, My guess is that vaginal and cervical fluids could like semen, cervical fluids can be very sticky. See the photos on the following web page. [url=www.nfpsoftware.com/mucus.html] www.nfpsoftware.com/mucus.html Your concern about your girlfriend cheating on you has become an obsession, which is unhealthy. If you don't feel you can trust her you shouldn't be in a relationship with her. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 460 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 14:20:00 [Post Text] | I'm 100% witht Brad you must know that women can produce mucus and secretions according to the hormonal state at the time and Ithtink it is an obsesion to smell hehr panties to try to control her. furthermore I think you're pulling "a fast one on us" Luisa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 462 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 15:15:09 [Post Text] | Thanks for the link to the mucous photos.& :P & I admit my post makes me sound a little bit obsessed and maybe I& am dwelling on the subject too much.& But& we have been together almost& 18 years and this isn't something that is going to make me leave the relationship.& The way I see it, if she has been cheating for the past 18 years and managed to hide it and not caught anything or gotten pregnant with someone elses child and that's what& she likes, then that's O.K., and if she really only had that one 2-year affair then that's O.K. too. But if she isn't cheating now, then I would need to explore what other reasons could be causing our relationship to be just& fair, when it could be great. So, if am obsessed about anything, it would be improving our relationship. Thanks for the& insight so far. I hope more people respond, because I am not the kind of guy who would go overboard with this and waste money on chemical test kits for semen or on private investigators or on computer spyware. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 463 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 21:11:24 [Post Text] | It would be impossible for me to tell over the internet what the fluid is. My suggestion to you is to communicate with your girlfriend that you feel your relationship is not as close as you would like. Let her know that it would make you happy if she spent more time with you, and also ask her if there is anything you can do to make her happier in the relationship. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 468 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 08:38:21 [Post Text] | Hello Edward, Why dont you just ask her outright? "Are you cheating on me?" A question like that completely out of the blue when talking about something else can catch a person off guard. I have to say that actually checking the weight of the panties does sound like you are becoming overwhelmed by the thought of not knowing. Talking even if it does lead to an argument is often the best way to go if you are having serious thoughts, which by the sounds of things you are. You have been together for more than 18 years so it is not going to be the end of the world to her if you just simply ask. She may be offended that you have asked but given that she did cheat once, and you are genuinely thinking about the prospect of her cheating again, or having cheated again, then just ask. You dont have anything to loose by asking and your relationship may end up stronger as a result. You will be achieving a lot by asking too. She will get to learn how you feel, you will be sharing your thoughts and fears about this, plus she will have to look at her behaviour patterns afterwards once she calms down. I would definately consider this if I were you or you may end up with a self forfilling proficy on your hands. I sincerely hope that you find the answers you are looking for here. You will also need to communicate to her what you have said on this group page about not minding too much. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 537 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 19:37:39 [Post Text] | first off i dont think u are obsessive at all. a marraige is a serious othe. if she has cheated before and lied then she obviously cannot ever be 100% trusted.& you are already more whole-hearted than i would be, if my husband cheated i would divorce him since i'd never be able to look at him the same again without feeling hurt and betrayed. i think you& should swing by her work, the grociery store where she shops etc. & just to make sure her times click. if there is something u need at the store and its her day off but she says shes at work, take a swing by and & take notice if her vehicle is there...etc. save cash and be your own private eye.& sniffing undies wont tell u a thing, every woman secretes fluids on a pretty regular basis and you cant always go on that. u need to catch her lying. (if she is) my husband had an ex that she said she couldnt come over because she was sick so he drove to her house and she was sleeping with her ex. why not come out and ask to talk about wether she's happy, because if u arent there's no need to feel stuck and be taken for a fool cuz your married. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 538 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 21:49:52 [Post Text] | If you guys have been together for 18 years and if she is cheating, your not going to leave her for it , so you say... then why obsess over it. I think that you are just a little bit too involved in her underwear and not enough involved in her. Man, no wonder she works so much. Maybe she is just trying to get away from you...have you lately told her that you love her, and that there isn't anything you wouldnt do for her. Maybe she doesn't want to have sex with you& , cause she is losing interest ever thought of that. I think you should try to spice up your sex life. Bring her flowers, make her dinner. I bet sooner or later, she's going to come around again. Stop worrying if the semen in her drawls is hers or another mans. Ask her once if she is out prowling if the answer is no... then drop it. Cause if you can't trust her, i don't think the two of you are going to work very much longer. Sorry if this is a bit harsh... its just how i feel.& & Good luck. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 457 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 02:42:37 [Post Text] | Hi there. I'm a 26 year old woman in a committed relationship of 6 years and I'm not sure I've ever had an orgasm. Both sex and masturbation lead me to a growing...growing...nothing. I fake orgasms for the benefit of my boyfriend. I know, I know, not a very good practice, but I've always done it. It's almost like by pretending I have them, it might make it happen? Needless to say, I don't have much of a sex drive. I really do want to experience orgasm and get the fullest enjoyment of intimacy with my partner, but I don't know how. Please help. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 461 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 14:32:37 [Post Text] | God do I know what you're talking about! I had my first orgasm at 24, that's less than 6 or 7 months ago. I had decided a few months earlier that it was about time to have my first one and so loaded up on lots of info from books and websites but just didn't get there. I finally brought my self (with a little pushing from my bf:)) to try a vibrator. My advice is order a Hitachi Magic wand (amazing!!), and check this website for more info about it www.bettydodson.com/newhom2.htm I honestly love this woman, it was because of her website and the women there, not to mention her book Sex for One. I had my first orgasm within 2 or 3 times trying. After around two months with the vibrator, I decided I want to learn to orgasm using my hand but was abit anxious seeing a lot of people said it's hard after using a vibrator. The first time I tried it worked! I think it did because I wasn't expecting it. Because at that point I knew what an orgasm felt like, I tried to go as far as I can and then try again later, no stress, however turned out I went all the way. I understand your frustration of trying to masturbate... my biggest problem was never knowing where I am going with it and then once the hand is tired enough, you quit. With the vibrator it is easier to go on and very hard to miss the spot as with the hand. As to all the hype about getting addicted to it, I have serious doubts to that. And in the end, an orgrasm, no matter how achieved, is way way way better than none. PS. Come clean with your bf. If you want to have orgasmic sex later on, very likely you'll need help from your hand or vibrator. How will you explain your sudden need to do that? I personally use my hand and I love it, my bf loves it and no more discomfort and frustration at the end. And don't limit yourself to the idea that you should come from penetration only. Just a suggestion, to avoid trouble with your bf, you can tell him you suspect you're not really orgasming and confused about it. If he questions you why now after all this time, maybe something like "I finally read a scientific description of what it is like" would do. And do read one! I found the one in the book Woman's Orgasm by G. Kline-Graber and B. Graber very helpful. If you want I can give you a summary! I hope this helps *HUG* | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 467 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 08:26:39 [Post Text] | Hi Cyan Kay is absolutely right in her advice to you. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about orgasms and that you suspect that you may not be experiencing them properly. There is nothing wrong with using a vibrator to achieve an orgasm. I do both alone and with my partner. Once I 'learnt" how to experience an orgasm with my vibrator, I am now fortunate enough to be able to reach climax more readily with stimulation from my partner's hand, fingers or mouth. We have been together eight years now and it is only very recently that he made me orgasm with his hands only using nothing else. I was so surprised I started giggling afterwards. Did not mean to but it just felt like such a wonderfully surprising present! We both fell about laughing in the end and he felt so good inside knowing he and I were able to work together to achieve this after all these years. With regards to your low sex drive, are you on the pill or any other medication? Have you had any hormone problems in the past? Given birth within the last three years? Usually but not always, there is a minor hormone problem. I would recommend you start taking chinese gingsing tablets that are readily availble from health food shops. Also, garlic capsuels and vitamin C can all help. If you are breaking out in spots in places like on your upper outer thighs or around your jaw, ask your doctor to check both your testosterone and progesterone levels. I have suffered for at least five years through lack of progesterone but did not know it until about seven weeks ago. I feel like a new woman now that I know and can do something about it. I also feel like I have a brand new vagina and clitoris too. They certainly have never felt this sensitive before I started using Pro-Gest cream :) Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 472 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 21:39:57 [Post Text] | This is an interesting topic. I have the same experience as Cyan. I enjoy sexual activity, but when it seems to near a peak, the sensation suddenly stops. I can experience some of the 'signs' of orgasm, like involuntary shuddering movements, but not the sensation. Maybe mechanical assistance would help. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 523 [Date & Time] 2005-09-12 15:14:20 [Post Text] | [user=24]oceanwinds[/user] wrote: "I can experience some of the 'signs' of orgasm, like involuntary shuddering movements, but not the sensation. Maybe mechanical assistance would help. " I read in the Woman's Orgasm book that the definite sign of a female orgasm are the contractions in the vagina and not the preceeding sensations. Before learning to orgasm, I used to experience shuddering and tingling in my finger tips and toe during oral sex. I was then confused whether that was it. Yet now the sensation is completely different. Try a vibrator and I know this has been said a million times already, the trick is to enjoy what you're feeling at this moment, not wonder if this is it, or when is it gonna happen. This is something till now I sometimes find tricky! | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 88 [Post ID] 471 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 18:24:50 [Post Text] | hi. im new here. i am going to tell you a little story& of me and my girlfriend. i dont live in the same country as my girlfriends so we see each other about 3 months per year, (we will get married soon though) and well, you could imagine how much we miss sex with eachother and miss being together. when we are together we do all the things a couple could do, starting with a 69 to almost all sexual positions. i remember when i first had sex with her i lasted ages, (before eyaculating) i would say more than 30 mins after penetration& but then i remember how a coulple of months later and after having sex sometimes 3 times a day i started lasting shorter and now im really sensitive when having sex and sometimes i even eyaculate after 10mins of penetration. why is this happening? is it..... to much sex? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 90 [Post ID] 485 [Date & Time] 2005-09-03 04:04:58 [Post Text] | Just to share with men whose wanted to make their wife's clit bigger. My wife clit has become bigger now because i have sucked her clit for the past 3 years. Previously her clit was the size of red bean & now is the size of groundnut :). It's easier for me to suck her & she always has orgasm from my sucking & licking now .....:P& Initially it was difficult to suck& her clit because she& was& having a small clit & but i have tried& very hard to make it bigger & the final result was fantastic! & She is very happy & our relationship is getting very close. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 90 [Post ID] 489 [Date & Time] 2005-09-03 08:40:45 [Post Text] | Hi, A partner of mine seems to have a larger clitoris than when I met her, and I believe it is the amount of attention it receives now compared to before. It also seems to be more prominent. It isn't like large or anything but perhaps a 25% increase in size over a couple of years, still only average in size. The increase in size is likely the result both stimulation during masturbation and partnered sex. I mention this possibility on the page about clitoral and labial size on the website. Seems I recall some medical article stating the size of the clitoris increases slightly with age too. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 502 [Date & Time] 2005-09-07 22:58:57 [Post Text] | Ok so I have always enjoyed giving my partner a blow job. Although it normally takes me some time before I'm comfortable with them enough to get there. Anyway, I've been married for a year but my husband and I have been together for 3. In the past 8 months I've given him head more and more. One reason is cause I enjoy it. However, I don't think I do it very well. I'm one of those women who like the taste, like the feeling and the power it brings....however I can rarely if ever get him to an orgasm. At first I didn't want him to orgasm cause I always wanted to end with us actually having sex. But lately I want to bring him all the way. When I ask him what he wants me to do or if I should do anything different he doesn't really say anything. I am very open about my sexuality, I enjoy talking about things I don't know or understand and I enjoy trying new things. I know my husband is absolutely nothing like that. Although one reason he likes our sex life is because I'm a "down for whatever" girl. So if he doesn't come I'm always worried that I'm doing something wrong but since he isn't the talkative person in or out of bed I can't really get a straight answer. For the very first time EVER we had sex and he wanted to stop before coming. That really hurt my feelings. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 505 [Date & Time] 2005-09-08 07:42:20 [Post Text] | Hello mzt121 and welcome to the group :) Have you actually asked him to cum in your mouth? It could be that he is feeling under pressure to please you and may not feel comfortable with the idea or he may feel unable to communicate to you how he actually feels about you wanting to do this. Sounds strange but as you are so open about what you want, what you like doing etc, it may be intimidating for him. You said that it hurt your feelings when he did not want to continue to orgasm. This is actually a good thing. Making love and sex should never be focused on achieving an orgasm from either of you. It should something that is shared and nurtured not forced or rather, expected to happen. Your husband, from the little you have said, appears to be a very caring person towards you. I think he may be perhaps feeling awkward about your full on approach and does not know how to express this to you because it may hurt your feelings. Men love the chase and initiating. Sexist comment, I apologise. We all do like the thrill of gaining something and initiating things ourselves. It is a little turn off to me when my Partner asks me what I want him to do. Sometimes I just want to be taken. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 506 [Date & Time] 2005-09-08 19:48:50 [Post Text] | thanks princess :D I'm glad i found this site. It's funny you should mention the last part. Because I tell myself that all the time. Sometimes I make it a point not to be too aggressive because my biggest fantasy (which I've told him) is to be taken and controlled. I know there is a lot we are still learning about each other. And I can honestly say that my libdo has been a lot higher in the past 7 months than ever. But i think its because we aren't currently living together (i relocated to open my own business and he is waiting for a transfer to go through with his company). I miss the intimacy and quality time we spent together so now I think my sex drive is going crazy because of it. About being hurt with him not orgasming. It wasn't really expecting that to happen except (its never not happened so that was a huge shock in itself) but the fact that I noticed he wasn't as into it as I was. And because we don't spend that much time together I crave whatever moments we can get. We usually see each other maybe once a week but its been over 2 weeks since the last time we saw each other... | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 507 [Date & Time] 2005-09-08 20:37:43 [Post Text] | Hi, I honestly have been on both sides of the coin here. When living with someone, it is an immense turn off if my lover was talking about the things they liked or wanted me to do or worse still, how they needed me to do those things. This is because after a while things just were not allowed to just happen naturally. They felt forced and I, whilst enjoyed sex with that person up to a point, found there was something missing for me. Whilst not living with someone, again, to me, it is a huge turn off if the other person is talking about or giving the impression that they are excited about the sexual side of the relationship. Putting too much emphasis on it. I love all the flirting, the teasing from afar, but as soon as that person starts talking about how much they need for me to do this or that, or they ask me what I want them to do to me, I get turned off. My mind then switches off and whilst I still want to be with that person, sex becomes a run of the mill thing where I simply go through the motions and am not bothered either way. I dont quite know why this is really. I think it is because I like the passion and spontinaity of the unplanned experience. Making love and pleasing my lover should be a pleasure not a chore. It should never be about feeling obligated or obliged to do things just because the other person is saying that is what they want. Discussion about what we like, what we might like to try together and experience together are different and can happen over dinner casually. But as soon as I feel that the other person wants or needs this more than I do, it turns me off. You mention that one of your fantasies is to be completely controlled. That is interesting. I used to think that was a brilliant idea. I tried it and loved it. However, I quickly came to realise that it was the being caught up in the passion and lust with my partner was so much more fun and that was what was missing in the first place. Sometimes, fantasies should remain just that, a fantasy. Glad you are pleased with the group and thanks for posting :) Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 509 [Date & Time] 2005-09-09 00:39:33 [Post Text] | There have been times in the beginning of our relationship that he would come so quick when I would give him a blow job.& Everything was new and exciting, and as much as I hate it sometimes, men are visually stimulated, new stimulation is a big help.& He thinks its the greatest thing if I tell him to sit at his computer and look at porn while I put a pillow on the floor and give him a blowjob.& Its the thought that he is caught doing something naughty and just tell him to watch the screen and enjoy the blow job.& It doesn't mean he isn't just as attracted to you, but sometimes after time we all need a boost to get that dirty part of our mind to come out.& especially w/ all of the daily stress we all have in life.& Then once he realizes that he can just be himself and relax and its not about pleasuring you in that moment, he will in time be able to cum that way.& Try stroking his penis w/ your right hand while you are sucking on it, and tickling his balls and taint w/ your fingers while all of this, the orgasm will be amazing for him, and he will look at you like you are the coolest girl in the world.& I do agree that men seem to feel pressure sometimes to please and perform great that sometimes they forget to relax and just enjoy it, especially if they love you.& its almost silly but me and my fiance spend more time trying to please eachother sometimes that we will end up having this really lengthy f%&* session trying to make the other person completely orgasmic. & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 511 [Date & Time] 2005-09-09 22:01:14 [Post Text] | I just love to masterbate. I could do it all day , every day. It just feels so good. The way my whole body tingles when i am about to cum. I only can get this feeling by myself, no one can help me. I can not have an orgasm with anyone so i please myself and i love it. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 515 [Date & Time] 2005-09-10 07:04:32 [Post Text] | Hi Sally How old are you? You dont have to answer, I just wondered. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 516 [Date & Time] 2005-09-10 10:35:09 [Post Text] | I'm 30. Why you ask? & & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 517 [Date & Time] 2005-09-10 11:14:27 [Post Text] | I just wondered for no particular reason Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 544 [Date & Time] 2005-09-16 20:47:36 [Post Text] | I do too. It's great, I've been doing it since middle school. I am now in college. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 545 [Date & Time] 2005-09-16 20:57:02 [Post Text] | Hi Sally, you, I and many others do it sometimes more than once a day, it is so relaxing and so personal and intimate, I've been masturbating since I wa a little girl and didn't know what it was but it felt good, later I was told what it was and I loved it more lol.& & Hugs kisses Luisa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 546 [Date & Time] 2005-09-16 21:29:21 [Post Text] | I know, me too. People here may think i'm crazy but it just feels so good. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
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