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67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 85 [Date & Time] 2005-04-30 18:36:33 [Post Text] | Brad: Thank you so much for your input. I guess I was wrong about how risky was to have sex while she is in her cycle. The more I read opinions from people with real experience, the more I learn that it may be even an exciting experience. Thanks again Kikin & & & & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 107 [Date & Time] 2005-05-12 02:30:03 [Post Text] | We do it every month when I am menstruating.& My boyfriend is a nurse and knows that the blood is just a little extra red blood cells, its the color that freaks everyone out.& The thing that women and men dont realize is how sensitive and swollen you are down there, it can be quite pleasurable to have sex on your period.& Just have to communicate about how sensitive you are, too much poking around in there can sometimes give me really painful cramps. ;) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 152 [Date & Time] 2005-05-25 13:54:00 [Post Text] | Guys: & I want to thank you for your advice!!! & I had sex with my girl friend for the first time during her period and it was great, no fears, no problems, no nothing...... & The best companions where few towels and that was it.... she was very receptive and I think we grew up a lot as a couple. & Thanks& | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 153 [Date & Time] 2005-05-25 15:32:58 [Post Text] | Hi Kilkin I am so very pleased for you both and it is wonderful that we were able to help in some small way. Thank you also for your email it was kind of you to take the time Princess :-) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 165 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 21:01:26 [Post Text] | For my partner and I it was OK, but we were both virgins when we met AND we were using condoms. Blood doesn't flow all the time when you're on your period. My mother tells me the following: Golden rule for women; while on menstrual cycle it's ok to have sex as long as it's not one of those "heavy flow days" and I'm sorry if that grosses you out. THEN, you count 15 days... during which you HAVE to use a condom. Then, you should be OK. Then again, we ALWAYS use condoms; I don't ever want to get pregnant. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1094 [Date & Time] 2006-01-27 05:34:03 [Post Text] | Yes definitely,we do it with tampon in place ,i bring her to orgasm by sliding my penis over her clit. I orgasm myself by very shallow thrusting. I dont know why ,perhaps it is the for biddeness but it realy does it for both of us good luck only try this if you really know & trust your partner fully | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1098 [Date & Time] 2006-01-29 23:38:34 [Post Text] | New to this forum and was interested in sharing. We planned our wedding date with the significance being on the anniversary of our meeting. It clashed with her menstrual cycle - lol But that didn't stop us from celebrating on that night and the many to follow. We were also to learn that the best way to ease the cramps, which she used to have badly, was to have an orgasm. It was much more fun than medical pain relief! | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1103 [Date & Time] 2006-01-30 12:30:25 [Post Text] | HGi Frankie...congratulations, you are a very understanding man...the period is only a minor thing that we can go aorund and enjoy sex fully, there is nothing that "water and soap can't clean" right Frankie? Your wife is lucky to have you& kisses Luisa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1112 [Date & Time] 2006-01-30 20:09:19 [Post Text] | Thanks, Luisa. But back to Kikin's original question, I am reminded that, writing in her book,"The Female Eunuch" Germaine Greer was scathing about men being unwilling to go down on a woman when she was having her period. She clearly did not believe there was a health problem through oral, so what would be the problem with genital penetration? So Kikin, don't worry. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1119 [Date & Time] 2006-01-31 14:44:39 [Post Text] | Hi frankie...thanks for the message...From my point of view I don't see any problem for having sex during the period, maybe do not perform oral sex but penetration? what's the problem? if you don't want to be a little smeared use a comdon but there is part of your gf. Some of us get very sexual during the period so why don't enjoy it? We learn very early& to be very clean during the period we are almost& fastidiuos with the hygiene of our vulva and vagina.. Good luck Luisa & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1726 [Date & Time] 2006-06-19 14:10:16 [Post Text] | I LOVE it when we had sex with period, it do enchance our orgasmic triggers.& Imainge entering the hot and slippery vagina on my penis, it enrages my emotion into warrior mode meaning I have to really STAY in control.& & It deepen our emotions, increase our sensitivity and nearly destroyed our orgasmic system (lol).& My wife said that when she had sex during peroid cycle, it made her organs more sensitive and easily trigger the orgasm.& She came more often than without, (lucky girls grr) and I shot further than what I normally can shoot. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1736 [Date & Time] 2006-06-20 01:10:29 [Post Text] | I love it when I have sex when I'm menstruating.& My vagina just wants to be touched!& I enjoy it, and I don't really need that much prep-work in order for me to want him to get inside me.& Feels wonderful! :D | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2060 [Date & Time] 2006-07-25 00:27:42 [Post Text] | my last girlfriend and I had sex frequently on her period. It was great for both of us.& In fact I enjoyed it becaus it was the only time we could have sex without a condom.& I have two pieces of advice though: lay down a towel under you on the bed just in case, and its better if the guy is on top.& sometimes it got messy if she was on top.& she said it eased the cramps too.& | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2070 [Date & Time] 2006-07-25 14:43:45 [Post Text] | Just because a woman is menstruating, does not mean that it is always safe for you both to have sex without a condom.& There is a risk of becoming pregnant!& | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2074 [Date & Time] 2006-07-25 21:09:53 [Post Text] | Hi, True, but there is likely a greater risk of spreading STI's than conception during a woman's period, or soon after, if a woman has at least a 28 day cycle. That was my primary concern when I read his original post. A young woman told us in another thread that she just contracted herpes from her partner, as a result of unprotected sex. We may presume it was from unprotected intercourse but it is also very possible it happend during oral sex, cunnilingus. I only recently found out that it is extremely easy to spread herpes through oral contact even if there is no visible sores on the lips. :shock: The risk of pregnancy during her period without a condom is likely less than the risk midcycle with a condom. According to the Planned Parenthood Website 15 out of 100 women will become pregnant during a year when their partner uses only a condom. The following is from the PPFA website: "By the age of 24, one in three sexually active people will have contracted an STI (KFF, 1998b); moreover, at least one in four Americans — perhaps as many as one in two — will contract an STI at some point in their lives (AGI, 1993)." Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2085 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 06:42:00 [Post Text] | Man, thats bad. What would you advise for helping to prevent the contraction of herpes during oral sex? Is the only way to avoid it not doing oral at all? Sheesh, it could be so easy to get it if the other person didn't have any sores but carried the virus. Makes me wonder whether I ever want to even bother. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2086 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 06:57:51 [Post Text] | [user=1]bradf30[/user] wrote: " The following is from the PPFA website: "By the age of 24, one in three sexually active people will have contracted an STI (KFF, 1998b); moreover, at least one in four Americans — perhaps as many as one in two — will contract an STI at some point in their lives (AGI, 1993)." " ^^^ and people wonder why I am not sexually active... | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2088 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 07:24:26 [Post Text] | You aren't? Apart from all of the issues with STDs, is there another reason? You know what mine is, lol.:D | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2090 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 09:26:41 [Post Text] | Hi, The following Q&A has links to information on herpes and the transmission through oral sex: www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/qa_3.htm#3 A couple young women I know have contracted the HPV virus. One I had told prior she needed to always use a condom. It makes you want to say, "I told you so." :( In college age women STIs are at an epidemic level but everyone acts like it wont happen to them. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2092 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 09:55:13 [Post Text] | [user=315]Canis Lupess[/user] wrote: "Man, thats bad. What would you advise for helping to prevent the contraction of herpes during oral sex? Is the only way to avoid it not doing oral at all? Sheesh, it could be so easy to get it if the other person didn't have any sores but carried the virus. Makes me wonder whether I ever want to even bother. " A dental dam can come in handy.& And if you don't have a dental dam, a regular condom can be cut down the side to make one.& All a dental dam is is a square of latex material, usually scented and tastes less latexy.& To use one properly, you must hold the edges, slightly stretch and place over the person genitals and please them through the dental dam/condom. I learned about that in a HIV awareness demo at school. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2098 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 10:42:46 [Post Text] | Blah, we learnt nothing like that at school. Apart from the mechanics of reproduction, our sex ed was crap. No wonder we have such a high teenage pregnancy rate and STDs in the UK. The government is totally clueless as to how to tackle it because they don't really understand why young people are wanting to go out and do it in the first place. We only saw female diagrams at school& that showed three holes, nothing about the clitoris, labia, any other structure found down there. Nothing about sexuality. We knew about condoms but nothing on how to use them properly& really. I found out about the clitoris by reading "More" magazine. The same magazine I found out about vaginismus from. Fancy having to read a fashion and beauty magazine to aducate yourself about your own anatomy. Back then, I had no access to the internet so couldn't find places like this. I had two girls, both sexually active, try to fob me off at school that there are only two holes and that you pee, menstruate and give birth through the same hole. I remembered there being 3 holes from the diagrams I saw so I knew they were either wrong or just trying to have me on. Still, there are lots of other girls actually believe this. They seem to think that denying young people this type of information, they'll stop them having sex and will encourage them to have sex if they teach them these things....wrong! It just means that they start having sex anyway& totally unprepared and find their information from unreliable sources such as mates and porn. & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2106 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 18:37:47 [Post Text] | [user=315]Canis Lupess[/user] wrote: "You aren't? Apart from all of the issues with STDs, is there another reason? You know what mine is, lol.:D " There are a lot of reasons.& Aside from STDs, my standards are probably unrealistically high, but I like what I like.& I tend to find the great majority of people I meet to be incredibly boring and vapid, and I mean that in a general sense, not just regarding women I find physically attractive.& I am also trying to establish a career or further my education (still haven't quite decided on that yet). I realized long ago that I can please myself physically just fine.& The thing that truly separates sex from masturbation is the way in which you can please another person. & That seems pretty obvious to the regular posters here, but your average joe doesn't really recognize this and tends to seek sex on a more instinctual level. As a result of that, my view of sex grew out of the typical selfish male position. When I balanced the risks of seeking sex for the sake of sex itself (STDs, pregnancy, and all the stupid stressful social conventions that people obsess over) I decided not to pursue casual sex. That's not saying I am sworn to celibacy or anything.& The best sex, in my eyes, is the selfless and reciprocal kind, and that's the only kind of sex I care about (like the Beatles said, the love you take is equal to the love you make).& You take pleasure in pleasing the other person, and you trust that person to take as much interest in you as you take in them.& But as I said, my standards are really stringent.& I can't stand any kind of drug use, and that includes drinking and smoking.& I'm also extremely repulsed by ignorance and the sheepishly religious (though intelligent and self-sought spirituality is a completely different story).& Sadly, in the US that really cuts out a massive portion of the people my age (or any age), particularly in the more agricultural region I live in.& If a person isn't fiercely intellgent and creative, I will get bored of them very quickly, and that applies especially to someone I might consider for a romantic relationship.& And naturally I have to be physically attracted to them as well, but I am not hung up on one ideal image of physical beauty.& As a result, I pretty much have no place to go socially, and so I don't even both pursuing sex or romance at this point in my life.& & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2107 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 18:41:04 [Post Text] | [user=315]Canis Lupess[/user] wrote: "Blah, we learnt nothing like that at school. Apart from the mechanics of reproduction, our sex ed was crap. No wonder we have such a high teenage pregnancy rate and STDs in the UK. The government is totally clueless as to how to tackle it because they don't really understand why young people are wanting to go out and do it in the first place. We only saw female diagrams at school& that showed three holes, nothing about the clitoris, labia, any other structure found down there. Nothing about sexuality. We knew about condoms but nothing on how to use them properly& really. I found out about the clitoris by reading "More" magazine. The same magazine I found out about vaginismus from. Fancy having to read a fashion and beauty magazine to aducate yourself about your own anatomy. Back then, I had no access to the internet so couldn't find places like this. I had two girls, both sexually active, try to fob me off at school that there are only two holes and that you pee, menstruate and give birth through the same hole. I remembered there being 3 holes from the diagrams I saw so I knew they were either wrong or just trying to have me on. Still, there are lots of other girls actually believe this. They seem to think that denying young people this type of information, they'll stop them having sex and will encourage them to have sex if they teach them these things....wrong! It just means that they start having sex anyway& totally unprepared and find their information from unreliable sources such as mates and porn. & " Yeah, public sex education here in the states is generally pretty lousy as well, especially in states like Texas that teach abstinence only. I had sex ed in 5th, 6th, 8th, and 9th grade, and it was all terribly generic and repetitive.& I was able to read between the lines, and I think a lot of it was somewhat intuitive for me as well.& It wasn't until my college level human sexuality class (non-required obviously) that I actually studied important and interesting aspects of human sexuality. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2135 [Date & Time] 2006-07-27 14:55:57 [Post Text] | I'm from Pennsylvania, and I could say that I learned a lot in my sex ed classes.& I learned about sex first in 5th grade, then 7th, 8th, 9th, 11th, and then in 12th.& We even watched that Miracle of Life video that shows a live birth, which absolutely grossed all of us youngsters out and wondering how a thing so big can come out of a hole so small. I think the highest amount of people I saw pregnant in my HS at one time was during my sophomore year and there were 3 pregnancies.& From my graduating class, only 1.& My school highly informed us of the outcome and also told us that the nurse gave condoms out if we need a form of protection. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 4724 [Date & Time] 2007-08-16 10:03:22 [Post Text] | If you love a woman and have a good sex relantionship with her, there's no reason to avoid sexual intercourse during her period. In my case, I have never disliked to do it, but some of my girlfriends have rejected it, I think because they don't feel "clean" enough themselves. To be inside the woman you love it's really great, and you must enjoy it as many times as possible. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 86 [Date & Time] 2005-05-04 10:41:05 [Post Text] | & Please share your favorite methods of foreplay, female favorite, male favorite. & & & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 87 [Date & Time] 2005-05-04 14:02:31 [Post Text] | One of my favourites has to be talking. Winding each other up with suggestive speach is very much a turn on for me. Of course there are all the physical things but they are much more enjoyable after teasing with speech and looking at each other with 'those' eyes. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 92 [Date & Time] 2005-05-06 08:31:49 [Post Text] | Thank you Princess, I too enjoy the talking, a real turn on.& I also enjoy having my left shoulder kissed and his face snuggling it, very sensitive there.& My breasts are next, like a long time spent there. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 104 [Date & Time] 2005-05-10 12:49:08 [Post Text] | We like laying in bed reading erotica to each other... well, I read to her anyway! :shock: | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 116 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 13:38:19 [Post Text] | favorite foreplay methods, hmm......I would have to say we have taken foreplay to a whole new level.& I usually put something dirty on (movie wise) for us to watch or just have on in the backround, sometimes I like to put a little outfit on (either lingerie or little skirt no undies), my all time favorite way to get going would be laying on top of him w/ my rear in his face and my face in his genital area.& we pleasure eachother that way for a bit, then I will move on to just kissing and licking him all over, he does the same to me.& I love kissing on the lips, very sensual, then we have sex.:) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 310 [Date & Time] 2005-07-08 13:36:36 [Post Text] | Hmmm Foreplay so many different avenue's.... Talking is a really big thing for me too... Then touching, kissing, soft fondling.... I am shy so this makes me feel more comfortable.... Foreplay may also include oral sex after slow long drawn out undressing... What can also be fun is public teasing, really good foreplay.... I am sure I can think of more late.... will add if I do | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 311 [Date & Time] 2005-07-08 17:49:25 [Post Text] | I had no girlfriend for a long time till january and even now we can only share our weekends because we don't live together yet and our jobs at week are completely overlapping each others spare time. I really enjoy hugging and stroking each other, holding and kissing each other, simply feeling her body on mine while watching tv, listening to music or just the rain and wind outside while slowly taking off each others clothes. This takes long and we really enjoy it. Maybe you more experienced lough at it but that's our foreplay. Good Night, Andy P.S. You english people say that the german language sounds 'hard' and 'teutonic'. Read 'huggg' and 'strrroke' and then discover the nice and warm german word 'schmusen' ;) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 360 [Date & Time] 2005-07-24 02:26:45 [Post Text] | Our favorite foreplay is to both shower, lay in bed and start with your favorite cream.& Rubbing the cream on her legs and on myself is the greatest experience and feeling you will ever have.& The cream and all the rubbing makes her swell to the best level you can know.& This can last for an hour. She loves to look at my penis all shining and large.& Soon when the the time right she will hang on and allow me to take her to the top.& Sometime I do not enter her.& Those are the time when we both have felt the BIG one happen.& You all need to try this.& It is a mind blower.:shock: | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 93 [Date & Time] 2005-05-08 06:11:33 [Post Text] | Hello, I fall into the category of women who are very sexual, but yet never had an orgasm dring sex.& & I researched the web& learning how important a long time spent on foreplay is to a woman.& & Started doing the kegal& exercises and also found my old Callanetics exercise book that seems to jumpstart the pelvic exercises. & I can now have an orgasm easily, actually can have several during lovemaking or just ride the wave.& The exercises are the best thing that has ever happened to my sexlife. Sadie | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 219 [Date & Time] 2005-06-10 22:50:31 [Post Text] | Could you share them?, I'd like to know more about foreplay and how to improve orgasm and make it last more | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 221 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 04:07:48 [Post Text] | Hi Lucy, The foreplay can be found on many sites, the mens sites are also very good, search penis, clitoris, orgasm. The Kegal exercises can also be found with a search. The callanetic exercises you actually need the book for the pictures, I found one on amazon.com. Title is Callanetics by Callan Pinkney, subtitle 10 Years Younger in 10 Hours. I found all the exercises very good, the pelvic and stomach exercises make a huge difference in your sexlife. The book is out of print but seems to be available used on Amazon. If you can't find it, please give me your email and I will scan the pages and email them to you. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 222 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 05:46:15 [Post Text] | Hi, hope this link from Cosmopolitan works, gives some how to, fingers also work well. magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/print/0,14230,285757,00.html | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 223 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 06:01:00 [Post Text] | Hi Lucy, another site you may find interesting. Best advice I can give is to develope the pelvic floor muscles and it all just suddenly seems to happen. You get turned on and are stretching and undulating and even if not turned on can be by flexing your muscles with the kegal exercise. www.sexinhumanloving.com/tantric-sex.html | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 226 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 09:03:01 [Post Text] | Hi, I believe any activity that increases body awareness is helpful to women. Learning exercises that requires you to be aware of your pelvic region is beneficial. It appears, in general, women are frequently not& aware of their physical arousal nor its level, as indicated by studies in which they are shown erotic videos while their level of arousal was monitored.& I have to wonder if part of this is the result of dissociation from their genitals, learning to ignore them or having been prevented from exploring them; but the vast majority of today's women have engaged in masturbation. While the surveys on this website show women are aware of when they are aroused, indicated by physical changes in their body, their mind may not always make them aware of these changes. Their "perception of arousal" appears to& depend on& context, whether they believe they should be aroused and if it is appropriate given social and peer expectations. If you are not supposed to be motivated by purely sexual & motivates will you be? The survey on sexual desire indicated over 50% of women believe their level of desire is greater than that of their peers and one has to wonder if that influences their motives to engage in sex in a negative way. In most places in the world an openly sexual woman is not socially acceptable and can lead to social rejection. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 228 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 09:40:37 [Post Text] | I believe women are becoming more educated about sex and their body. I am considered an old woman, my husband considers me the sexiest woman on earth and loves it. We can lay for hours having sexual foreplay, I can ride the waves due to strong pelvic muscles and he loves it. He can lay his hand on me or fingers in me and feel the contractions. He has told me many times how much he appreciates me doing the exercise every day and how much it has added to our sex life. I have a strong conviction that almost all females are capable of orgasm with strong pelvic muscles and an educated lover. It is easy to receive a sex education online, steer your mate to the one you feel your body wants him to learn and enjoy. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 236 [Date & Time] 2005-06-13 18:52:46 [Post Text] | I checked Amazon Books to day, they have the used Callanetic books starting at 46 cents. My scanner is not giving good results, in fact unreadable results. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 28 [Post ID] 113 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 10:28:44 [Post Text] | Beginning June 6, 2005, Whole Lesbian Sex Book author Felice Newman will bring her brand of explicit, upbeat lesbian sex information to lesbian readers in a biweekly column to appear in newspapers, magazines and online publications. The column will be distributed by Q Syndicate. Witty, accessible, and enthusiastically nonjudgmental, "Whole Lesbian Sex," written by Felice Newman, is a column for all women who desire women - lesbian, bisexual, butch, femme, androgynous, transgendered, young and old, sexually experienced and new to sex with women. Like Felice's comprehensive, best-selling sex guide, The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us, the column offers readers "information, suggestions, tips and techniques, and support for discovering a sexuality that works for you." What a terrific way to inform and support lesbian, bisexual and queer women - with a sexy, savvy column by the woman who "has her latex-covered finger on the clit of Lesbian Nation" (San Francisco Bay Guardian), and whose work has been hailed as "infectious and empowering" (Bust). Library Journal has praised Felice for setting "the standard for which all popular sex writers should aim." As publisher of Cleis Press since 1980, Felice Newman has developed and edited books on sexuality and gender by many authors you're no doubt familiar with - Susie Bright, Joan Nestle, Tristan Taormino, Patrick Califia, Carol Queen, Annie Sprinkle, and many others. She has studied sexuality through San Francisco Sex Information and Body Electric, and somatics through the Strozzi Institute, and she now coaches individuals and couples in the San Francisco Bay area. "Whole Lesbian Sex" is a biweekly, 600-word column. The debut installment of "Whole Lesbian Sex" is the deliciously titled "What Do Butches Want?" The first installment will appear in LGBTQ publications beginning June 6th. Readers will be able to contact Felice at [url=] Diane Levinson, Marketing Director, Cleis Press (415) 575-4700 [url=www.cleispress.com] www.cleispress.com Felice Newman, Publisher, Cleis Press (415) 575-4700 [url=www.cleispress.com] www.cleispress.com Paula Martinac, Editor in Chief, Q Syndicate (412) 760-6809 [url=www.qsyndicate.com] www.qsyndicate.com The Whole Lesbian Sex Book A Passionate Guide for All of Us 2nd edition, revised and expanded by Felice Newman Cleis Press, December 2004 $24.95, ISBN 1573441996 Trade paper, 400pp, 7 x 10 Illustrations, bibliography, resource guide, index Cleis Press | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 118 [Date & Time] 2005-05-14 10:16:00 [Post Text] | About a month ago, I noticed a small bump forming on my cervix. Since then, I've begun taking Ortho Tri-Cyclin Lo and noticed the formation of several more bumps. I was wondering if possibly the excess hormones in the birth control could progress the growth of these "bumps." They possibly may be genital warts, although it has been over& seven months since my last sexual encounter, six when I first found the bump. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 119 [Date & Time] 2005-05-14 23:46:22 [Post Text] | Hi, I am not a doctor so all I can do is provide links to information on medical websites. Bumps On The Cervix - DrDonnica.com - The First Name in Women's Health [url=www.drdonnica.com/display.asp?article=6300] www.drdonnica.com/display.asp?article=6300 The following page mentions bumps on cervix as a possible indication of gonorrhea or Human Papilloma Virus. [url=www.umich.edu/~handbook/gynhealth/eight.html] www.umich.edu/~handbook/gynhealth/eight.html & Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 172 [Date & Time] 2005-05-31 21:41:40 [Post Text] | Hmmm, the doses of hormone in the pill are now very low, so I don't think that's likely. It sounds like you have Human Pappiloma Virus (the cause of warts), but then I'm not a doctor, yet. :P I'd definitely go see a doctor about it. Oh, and warts can take months to show, so that explains that bit. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 174 [Date & Time] 2005-06-03 23:30:46 [Post Text] | Thanks for the reply. Since I last posted, I have gotten tested for HIV, HPV, and several other sexually transmitted diseases. Though, all came back negative. The cause of the bumps are believed to be genetic, as another family member of mine received similar symptoms. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 180 [Date & Time] 2005-06-04 21:40:40 [Post Text] | Hi Dance, Thanks for the update. Happy to hear everything appears to be okay. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 122 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 07:00:50 [Post Text] | & I thoroughly enjoy the foreplay when it starts with the kissing, hugging, caressing to the point where I feel thoroughly loved and cherished.& I need to feel that to have sexual longing.& I have also read that men enjoy the sex more when they have that relationship.& I would like to hear from others if this is what makes their sex better. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 123 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 11:11:52 [Post Text] | I agree with you 100% Sadie.:P Sex is so empty without the feeling of love that can go with it. Foreplay is the best part of sex. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 128 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 14:00:13 [Post Text] | i feel that sex sint just about "doing it"& and i agree with Kemi that it feels so empty, like somthing is missing there, some boys think that i was wrong or somthing that i wnted to wait for the right girl rathert& than getting totally 'drunk as a skunk' and going for it, maybe it is bevuase you feel that you can only share your body with some-one you trust a bit more, and dosnt go telling everyone of you were "good or crap" lol! | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 773 [Date & Time] 2005-11-06 22:13:36 [Post Text] | My boyfriend said to me when we started going out that sex was important to him, but his most favourite part of it all was the foreplay - because he believes a lot more pleasure comes from it. He is very driven by his emotions - I'm confident that every girl he's been with he's felt quite strongly for them - so I believe he feels having the loving attachment is the best thing. I agree with that. I feel it's completely against my personality to go around just shagging people just for a laugh or something - I would feel terriable doing that myself, but people do it - I've& never understood completely why they do that though but I'm sure they have their reasons... everyone does. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 783 [Date & Time] 2005-11-07 20:50:18 [Post Text] | I'm actually just starting a relationship.& So far I'm quite happy with it.& Me and I boyfriend have agreed that we have plenty of time to experiment& sexually& during our relationship instead of all at once, and that we're both in no rush to do things.& I really enjoy kissing, hugging, and cuddling with him.& Eventually we'll do more things when we're both ready and feel it's time. First things first, I'm a virgin, but I don't plan on keeping my virginity until I get married.& But I want to at least lose it to someone I love and deserves it.& | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 785 [Date & Time] 2005-11-07 21:00:05 [Post Text] | Congratulations Ladybug...you are in the right track.. you found a jewel of boyfriend if he is willing to wait unitl oyu are ready...don't lose him... Keep your virginity unntil you think you are ready, it will be awsome, a fantastic feeling ;wish you the best in life Kisses Luisa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 786 [Date & Time] 2005-11-07 22:58:38 [Post Text] | I agree with Kemi. People seem to have wrong thoughts about men, that we only enjoy the intercourse. I find the foreplay to be the best part, and without it, the sex feels shallow and worthless. More pleasure comes from the foreplay anyway, but I guess that is personal opinion :) Oh well, my thoughts at least. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 787 [Date & Time] 2005-11-08 14:28:47 [Post Text] | :) yes, the same could be said about women too though. That we prefer the long drawn out foreplay first then penetration. Sometimes a quick one with just penetration is excellent! and if spontanious, does wonders once in a while too :) Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 791 [Date & Time] 2005-11-09 21:29:21 [Post Text] | [user=19]luisa1[/user] wrote: "Congratulations Ladybug...you are in the right track.. you found a jewel of boyfriend if he is willing to wait unitl oyu are ready...don't lose him... Keep your virginity unntil you think you are ready, it will be awsome, a fantastic feeling ;wish you the best in life Kisses Luisa " Thanks Luisa. :)& My older sister tells me to keep it as long as possible.& I think that keeping it for 19 years is pretty good.& Not many are virgins my age.& I see nothing wrong with people losing it at a little bit of a younger age, I guess it was just their time.& I feel if my relationship does continue to go really well, that he'll be the one to take it.& | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 821 [Date & Time] 2005-11-16 06:50:53 [Post Text] | [user=116]Ladybug[/user] wrote: "I'm actually just starting a relationship.& So far I'm quite happy with it.& Me and I boyfriend have agreed that we have plenty of time to experiment& sexually& during our relationship instead of all at once, and that we're both in no rush to do things.& I really enjoy kissing, hugging, and cuddling with him.& Eventually we'll do more things when we're both ready and feel it's time. First things first, I'm a virgin, but I don't plan on keeping my virginity until I get married.& But I want to at least lose it to someone I love and deserves it.& " I hear you - I'm a virgin too and no amount of pressure is going to make me give it up. My boyfriend is aware of this and I think that's why he told me of his strong feelings for sex - he isn't a virgin anymore of course. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 931 [Date & Time] 2005-12-30 09:09:52 [Post Text] | This is my sexual philosophy in a nutshell: There are a few levels of sexual arrousal. The first and most basic is physical arrousal caused by any kind of contact, solo or otherwise. The next level is "vicarious" arrousal, or being arroused at the arrousal of your partner (or someone you are simply looking at if you're into porn or are a peeping tom). Above that is altruistic arousal, or being arroused because you are the one causing your partner's arrousal. The top is reciprocal arrousal in which both partners are simultaneously getting each other off, getting off on each other, and getting off on getting each other off. As a result of that, I've come to think that an orgasm is just an orgasm, and it doesn't matter if it's caused by another person or by your own hand. The only reason to have sex, then, is to get the OTHER person off, which will get you off on a higher level than just concerning yourself with the physical sensation alone. The only person I want to have sex with, then, is someone I care enough about to want to please sexually and who will want to do the same to me. That's a long-winded way of saying that emotional intimacy is important to men as well :D | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 124 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 11:22:09 [Post Text] | I had my first experience with receiving a b.j. when I was a teenager. I loved it but it took a long time to reach orgasm. As I had more experience I found that most of the women I met didn't really enjoy doing it. They would run and spit and gag right after my orgasm. Some would swallow but still I felt that they didn't enjoy what they felt they had to do for me... and I never asked for it. As time passed I avoided getting a b.j. I felt guilty letting a woman do that for me. As a result, I cannot orgasm during oral sex anymore. I know this stems from the fear that my partner isn't enjoying doing this. Any comments would be helpful. Kemi :? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 125 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 12:39:05 [Post Text] | I thoroughly enjoy giving my mate oral sex, I love the feeling of closeness, the joy it brings to him, I feel I am making love in the most intimate way possible, I do swallow,& I don't deepthroat, perhaps someday.& I also love receiving oral sex, he gives me the feeling that I have the most beautiful vulva in the world and that he loves it.& I try to make love to him in a way that will give him the same feeling and from his reaction, I believe I do. I would suggest having your& friend read about oral sex on the internet, there are numerous sites with a& lot of information.& Also you could discuss with her what you are looking for in a woman that you would like a woman& who loves to give oral sex. & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 133 [Date & Time] 2005-05-18 02:17:57 [Post Text] | I almost feel the exact same way as sadie.& I always had a oral fixation.& But w/ my ex's I never wanted to swallow, grossed me out.& But when I met my fiance, something was different about him and the way he smelt and the way it tasted.& I would get so turned on by making him turned on.& The harder he got the more I got into it and its still like that 3 years later.& we both seem to get off on getting the other one off.& sometimes its almost comical how we are both trying so hard to make the other one cum that we forget about ourselves.& But its a very giving and intimate thing, and I do take pride in making him cum through oral sex.& I think for someone to truly give a great b.j. they have to be a giving person, completely concentrate on their needs for the moment.& I even will put on a porno in the backround just as a little "sweet" incentive to keep the mood right.& 2 kids, we dont always have the privacy we need.& lol | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 159 [Date & Time] 2005-05-26 15:55:12 [Post Text] | Hey guys! I'm a lesbian and I really love to give blow jobs to my girlfriend. I like the smell, the taste, the feeling, her reactions. I also like to receive it, it's a very special form of orgasm.. Have a nice lick ;-) SariS | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 169 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 21:18:02 [Post Text] | Wow, I realize there's a whole lot of people having oral sex, but for me, giving it to my partner and the idea that I have to swallow all that sperm is gross. I don't know why. I do NOT oppose other people doing it. Not at ALL. It's just... I don't know. I feel guilty because I've always wanted one done on me, for my partner to "eat me" BUT I feel like I should do the same to him. No, I'm not religious if you're wondering. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 171 [Date & Time] 2005-05-31 21:36:10 [Post Text] | Well, remember that having oral sex doesn't mean he has to ejaculate in your mouth. You could always give it a try for a little while, and see how it goes? And you shouldn't feel guilty; maybe he'll enjoy going down on you? As for me, I do enjoy giving my partner head. I mean, I'm neutral on the actual act itself but I love getting reactions out of him,and watching him have fun. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 188 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 14:52:13 [Post Text] | I enjoy giving blow jobs. There's just something so dirty about it but not in a bad way. Knowing I'm pleasuring my man gives me a lot of satisfaction. I haven't mastered the art of swallowing unfortunately and usually end up choking so I prefer to stop before things get that far. & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 193 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 17:03:10 [Post Text] | I really enjoy oral sex, particularly because men are so grateful when you do a good "job". As Jack Nicholson used to say: "A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets a blowjob, no matter how bad it is." & & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 251 [Date & Time] 2005-06-29 19:49:02 [Post Text] | I love oral sex, blow jobs with women, but I've been very turned off about given them to men except the guy I'm with now, and I can hardly wait to get my lips around him for some reason. I'm new here but this topic is one I'm interested in because I love to give other women blow jobs which is a poor name for something that beautiful, and the only man I can even stand to think about giving one to is the guy I'm seeing now. Before, I was totally uninterested. Weird, huh? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 260 [Date & Time] 2005-07-02 18:24:50 [Post Text] | I've had a small experience of giving head. My ex-bf said he was enjoying it, it's just that he was extra sensitive, so I stopped. Maybe he was afraid of letting go? hmm.. I wouldn't also mind trying women. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 301 [Date & Time] 2005-07-06 13:41:01 [Post Text] | Hey gobsmacked, that was Barbara Bush that said that, Not Jack Nicholson..... | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 317 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 17:19:02 [Post Text] | Okay... I feel weird posting this but... I am sort of dating this guy, things are pretty new and I am shy about the whole BJ thing... I want to so bad but I get there and back off, I go back and back off, he's paitent and dosen't mind the teasing and I told him im shy about it and he seems to understand, I have done this before but has always been like this.... How do I get over it and just go for it.... I want to so bad make him feel good in that way.... he has me...... Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 319 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 17:53:01 [Post Text] | Hi it is going to get confusing around here if you sign your posts as Princess. Please can you put something else after the Princess as I dont want people confusing us. I realise you may find this request a little cheeky but I am one of the two moderators here and have been part of the group for a long time already. So if you wouldnt mind. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 320 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 19:29:08 [Post Text] | the same thing happens to me... im also very shy, about my body and about everything... and i can´t do it... and now i feel like i owe him something... and he understands... i don´t know what to do either... :? & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 323 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 21:09:22 [Post Text] | I have been able to do it before just takes me alot of time to get up the courage..... Someone help how do we get past this.... Why is it such a fear it's not like it's a huge deal.... Anyone who's got past this and have suggestions.... The Canadian Princess.... P.S. Princess sorry if I made that confussing I thought of that after I signed it.... OPPS... I'll sign them different form now on.... Your not from canada so this should do it.... | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 324 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 23:56:11 [Post Text] | I had the same fear as most women do.& If you gag easily you need to let your mate know that.& Also, if you aren't comfortable with him cumming in your mouth, ask him if he wants to come on your chest or maybe lower part of your face.& That is a huge turn on for my fiance as well as me swallowing.& I haven't always been able to do this.& I was actually one of those girls that let a guy cum in my mouth and then ran to the bathroom to quickly spit it out.& he was a boyfriend at the time and told me it was a huge turn off that I did that.& my fiance is the first man i have ever wanted to swallow with.& He knows that he can't shove it down my throat when he is about to cum otherwise the chance of me puking increases, mood killer!& lol. aahhh, the things we do for the ones we love.& a little wine (or a lot of wine) always helped me relax to do those crazy things i thought i would never try, and now look at me.& w/ the exception of another person in the bedroom, we have tried just about everything.& I never knew before my present guy that my bedroom could feel like such an amusement park every night. good luck!;) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 332 [Date & Time] 2005-07-12 03:02:08 [Post Text] | thanks, He knows that he can't cum in my mouth becuase I explained to him it makes me gag.... Which yes mood killer big time... but im still very shy... I guess I just have to take a deep breath and go for it but he keeps telling me to take my time.... The Canadian Princess & & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 336 [Date & Time] 2005-07-13 18:29:57 [Post Text] | For the ladies that don't like or want to give a bj, try a handjob! With lot's of lube and VERY slow strokes, it will produce the same effect....your man will melt. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 337 [Date & Time] 2005-07-13 19:56:39 [Post Text] | [user=123]princess241981[/user] wrote: "IThe Canadian Princess.... P.S. Princess sorry if I made that confussing I thought of that after I signed it.... OPPS... I'll sign them different form now on.... Your not from canada so this should do it.... " yes, that will work thanks :) Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 356 [Date & Time] 2005-07-22 06:03:45 [Post Text] | Well, as a bloke whos had a fair bit of head in my life, ill share that i have never ejaculated during oral sex.& Just one of those things, i love it, feels great and the domination thing is there, but only& for a bit, then i just get over it i suppose.& Prefer to be giving head, fingering or fucking my girl and watching her.& Sex is& pretty much& about what i can do& for my partner& to me& I& guess. of course this is more true when i really like the girl;) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 481 [Date & Time] 2005-09-01 22:07:22 [Post Text] | I think giving a b.j. is "nasty". I mean i did it before only to please the guy but, i am& really turned off by sucking a guys penis.& My husband understands "thank god".& However i really think that he wishes i did like it. I know it may sound hipocritical but i like for someone to "eat me" or whatever. It feels so amazing. My husband doesn't mind pleasing me, i just please him a different way. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 616 [Date & Time] 2005-10-02 09:06:15 [Post Text] | Do women find it arousing in any way when a man ejaculates on their face? It looks quite demeaning to me... | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 664 [Date & Time] 2005-10-09 21:55:47 [Post Text] | I LOVE giving my& partner oral sex. I am female, he is male and we live together. I haven't always loved doing it, with previous boyfriends I just kind of went through it, didn't really know how to do it but I guess they still enjoyed it. But once I taught myself how to deep throat it got really exciting. Now it really turns me on and sometimes I have to beg my partner to let me do it to him, he's usually begging to give me oral sex as& well! But I prefer to concerntrate on him and do it properly than to do 69 because a)I'm short, he's tall and we don't fit properly. And& b) I get too side tracked to do& it any good& when he's giving me head as well. And c) when we do it 69 it's the wrong angle to be able to deep throat so I just end up licking and kissing the head. I DON'T swallow, I had a pretty awful experience& when I was quite young and still exploring my& own sexuality,& so I haven't really ever done it again. But it doesn't mean that you can't enjoy it. I usually get my partner to such a point that he wants to orgasm and then let my hands take over, or I just use oral as a warm up and then jump on and go for a ride and let my cunny take his orgasm, which he loves. It doesn't seem to bother him that I don't swallow, I think he's just happy to be having a fulfilling sex life. Just enjoy it, cumming in someone's mouth isn't the entirety of your sexuality, it's just one aspect. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 689 [Date & Time] 2005-10-18 05:51:29 [Post Text] | i havent been in any sexual relationships so far though but the thought o givin a girl a blow job really gets me high i really wanna do it but then none o da girls i know would like me to do it wit them n its kinda weird to ask also without bein in a relationship | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 730 [Date & Time] 2005-10-29 00:28:10 [Post Text] | Oral sex, eh? What a grand topic. As a man I must say that I enjoy it a lot. A whole lot. And while I'm stilling stunned at the fact that I joined a forum which seems mainly geared to females, I'll go out on a limb here and say one thing: ladies - there is no substitute for the feeling of oral sex. & I love intercourse, sure. But that is, as far as I can tell, mainly a psychological euphoria. I do not get very much physical pleasure out of a vagina. Is that normal for a man? I don't know. It might be an interesting topic over in the men's issues forum, but I'll take it as a given for my argument here. & The girls who don't like giving oral sex are at a serious disadvantage. It's already been pointed out (in more words, mind you) that even a bad blowjob is pretty good. And it's true (unless of course you've got some rather precarious canines and narcolepsy!). I don't mean to insult (heck, I've been here for 20 minutes, what a way to introduce myself), but a man will always appreciate oral sex over vaginal intercourse. And you ladies are no different. A few of you have pointed out that while you dislike "giving", you're more than happy to "get". That's a pretty harsh double standard in a relationship, and believe me, no matter what your mate tells you, he resents it. & My advice is this - sacrifice your personal comfort for someone you love, even if it's only on special occasions. And here's the kicker - pretend you enjoy it. There's nothign worse than feeling "well, she's doing it, but she sure isn't liking it". You can tell him not to come in your mouth (he'll probably agree and do it anyway), and you can stipulate the "spit" rule, or even finish off with your hands. Girls, men enjoy being the centre of attention just as much as you do. & In sum, he wants to come. In the end, if you don't make a couple "comfort sacrifices" here and there, he's going to resent it in the end. Whether he admits it or not. & Six. & P.S. I've only met one man in my entire life (as short as twenty one years may be) who openly admits to not enjoying oral sex. I've met a lot of men. :P | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 747 [Date & Time] 2005-10-31 20:35:54 [Post Text] | Afternoon all, It maybe somewhat arrogant to assume that all men rate oral sex over vaginal sex Six, being a male myself. Anyway's, I believe the enjoyment of sex as a whole& is& completely dependent on a whole range of issues. Issues& that can make the giving of pleasure out weigh& mental barriers& to sucking your boyfriend's cock& or giving head to your girlfriend. I mean if it's a one night stand and you don't "like" having a penis in your mouth then I& don't think& one should feel& obliged. For me alot of my pleasure and satisfaction with sex is derived from the other persons enjoyment of it. I can& assure that if you love the person you're with then that feeling is just about the best one can get and it will (guaranteed) make you think differently about a lot of things.& I think this goes back to being a selfless lover, if you know your partner goes weak at the knees or& their eyes roll back in their& head or they start speaking in tongues when you do something to them& then to stop doing that is denying them that pleasure. And vice versa if your partner is& performing something you know they don't enjoy then& it would be difficult to& enjoy it, for me at least ("normally" ;), I hear the cracking of whips by leather clad mistresses in the background). Personally, as far as actual blow job's go I love it when I'm soft and I get hard while my girlfriend is sucking me especially if I don't expect it.& I love the& sensation and the visuals of oral& but I don't cum easily from it and realise that& my girlfriend's jaw is& going to get sore. I don't think it's& all about how deep it can go, the end bits& pretty sensitive, in fact the whole body is if you know what your doing. And to clarify from personal experience, orgasm when somebody& is sucking is one of the most intense, stand alone& sensations a man will feel....EVER. The again, to be fair to six, I think guys have lifted their game in this department. Maybe we could have a global competition on which sex& gives better oral. The judges would have an interesting life don't you think? Cas P.S. Love this website. Entralled by the feminine. P.P.S. I wonder if there are any& gay men& who don't like performing fellatio? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 751 [Date & Time] 2005-11-04 05:47:36 [Post Text] | [user=134]froggi3[/user] wrote: "For the ladies that don't like or want to give a bj, try a handjob! With lot's of lube and VERY slow strokes, it will produce the same effect....your man will melt." I must say, I do enjoy giving my man a b.j. but I really don't enjoy him coming in my mouth (it's awfully salty to take or something - I've swallowed everytime, but I really don't enjoy it)... so most of the time, I give him some oral and then finish off with a handjob... he seems to love it either way thankfully& :3 I get very happy when I know I'm making him happy that's for sure! | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 752 [Date & Time] 2005-11-04 15:56:31 [Post Text] | Hi lost..I agree sometimes is awful salty and thick but you may try a trick that worked for me; feed your mate with vainilla ice cream for 4 or 5 days and then try , is an old trick maybe it works for you, worked for me lol If it works plese let me know my email is in my profile& good luck kisses Luisa | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 757 [Date & Time] 2005-11-05 19:57:35 [Post Text] | Hi the saltiness does tend to come from diet and hormones. Water and lots of it is the answer. I have suggested several times over the years that my partner drink at least eight pints of water a day. I often will just offer him a pint glass full of cold water when he is watching a film or something at night before we are due to go to bed. It does make all the difference. Eight pints sounds a bit ambitious but take into account that drinking water instead of lots of cups of coffee or tea during the day is more healthy anyway, you may be able to make subtle changes and build up to it slowly. It has worked for us. No more shockingly salty taste. :) Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 770 [Date & Time] 2005-11-06 21:43:02 [Post Text] | Dunno how I've done it - but I've double posted >_>; | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 771 [Date & Time] 2005-11-06 21:43:03 [Post Text] | Thanks for the comments& you two& ^^ I know diet can be an issue with it's taste (was enlightened about that after a friend asked me for suggestions to how her boyfriend could change his diet but I explained I had no idea - that was way before I'd done my first b.j. myself so I never looked further into it), I was thinking about& posting a thread about it out of curiousity& - but I'll try your suggestions (if he's willing that is :P - if not, that's his choice eh? - I mean, he seems to enjoy whatever I do... so it's up to him). Thankyou. Just a side note: Someone sent me a PM about him not enjoying oral& mentally also (has anyone else had this PM?) - and it being worse to do it badly than not at all. The only reply I have to them is - I have the complete confidence in him that he would tell me if I was doing it wrong STRAIGHT AWAY. I've had a lot of praise from him about it (despite me& being very very new to it all& considering& he is& my first& lol)& so why would he do that if he wasn't enjoying it? So, if it's okay, I choose to openly decline your offer. :) I'm not sure where you got the impression I needed help in that area anyway oO; because that's not what I posted about in this thread... | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 775 [Date & Time] 2005-11-07 07:16:18 [Post Text] | Hello if you are having a problem with PM's ( Private Messages ) then by all means forward them on to either myself or Brad. We run a pretty tight ship here and will not tolerate an abuse of site's features. I realise that you havent said it was a bad PM but an alarm bell struck when you asked if anyone else had had one. Brad and I are here if you need us. Princess | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 820 [Date & Time] 2005-11-16 06:47:13 [Post Text] | [user=2]Princess[/user] wrote: "Hello if you are having a problem with PM's ( Private Messages ) then by all means forward them on to either myself or Brad. We run a pretty tight ship here and will not tolerate an abuse of site's features. I realise that you havent said it was a bad PM but an alarm bell struck when you asked if anyone else had had one. Brad and I are here if you need us. Princess" Okay, don't worry if I get any like that I'll definately pass it on to you or Brad. Thankyou for your concern. :) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 851 [Date & Time] 2005-11-28 10:15:47 [Post Text] | I would NEVER come in a woman's face, even if she asked me to. I think it definitely IS demeaning. Even in porno, the women almost always squint or grimace or gasp or otherwise react very negatively. Besides -- what's so great about coming in her face when you can come inside her vagina where it feels a hundred times better? | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 877 [Date & Time] 2005-12-08 18:54:32 [Post Text] | what do i do if my husband won't give me oral sex. I really want it, but he says he doesn't like it!!! Do some men dislike it? Of Course he loves me giving it to him!!!! any advice especially from the men joanne75 | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 880 [Date & Time] 2005-12-09 11:15:58 [Post Text] | Hi, What exactly doesn't he like about it? Your taste or scent? Is he being lazy? Sometimes, guys simply get away with what their partner allows them to. Perhaps he needs to know it is important to you, even if you cannot experience orgasm. Brad | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 960 [Date & Time] 2006-01-05 20:16:21 [Post Text] | I'm a guy and like the original poster-i find it difficult to orgasm while my g/f is giving me a "bj", when she started giving me one by surprise i brought her head up and told her she didnt have to do it because most guys expect it, but she says she doesnt mind the taste and loves the way i enjoy it, i still feel guilty sometimes, but as long as she isnt doing it because she's expected to then everythings good,. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 961 [Date & Time] 2006-01-05 20:17:42 [Post Text] | joanne dont give him oral if he wont give it back! sex is all about giving! if both give then both recieve! if only one gives then only one recieves! to have great sex you need a partner that wants nothing more than to please you, and you to please him, that way you both get great orgasms, and i feel it builds intimacy and love | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 966 [Date & Time] 2006-01-05 23:29:45 [Post Text] | [user=339]JonasFlagstaff[/user] wrote: "I would NEVER come in a woman's face, even if she asked me to. I think it definitely IS demeaning. Even in porno, the women almost always squint or grimace or gasp or otherwise react very negatively. Besides -- what's so great about coming in her face when you can come inside her vagina where it feels a hundred times better?" the squinting is simply a reflex action when something comes flying at your face. I think the facial is only demeaning if the woman doesn't enjoy it, though. the point of the facial, I think, is the submissive nature of it. submission is a big turn on that a lot of women have but don't really talk about. a woman I knew a few years ago said that, in the right relationship, she would orgasm when her man came in her mouth or on her chest during a BJ. I know that's not technically the same as a facial, but the principle is the same. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 969 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 00:21:41 [Post Text] | [user=353]joanne75[/user] wrote: "what do i do if my husband won't give me oral sex. I really want it, but he says he doesn't like it!!! Do some men dislike it? Of Course he loves me giving it to him!!!! any advice especially from the men joanne75 " A) Figure out what he doesn't like about it. The two most common things I hear from guys who won't go down on their women is that they think it's emasculating or that they don't like the smell/taste. If he thinks it's emasculating, then try to talk to him to figure out why he thinks that way. If he thinks real men don't do that stuff, try to convince him that you think a real man is more interested in getting his woman off than himself. Sexual roles like these tend to be pretty deeply ingrained, though, so if this is his problem you might be out of luck. If it's a taste/smell issue, has he even tried to go down on you? If not, then point out to him that he doesn't know how it is if he hasn't tried. If he does try and it turns out that there IS a taste/smell problem, then the complaint is valid just as if it was you going down on him. I don't know to what extent, if any, a woman's diet affects her taste and smell, but I know that it affect's the taste/smell of a man so I imagine there is a similar correlation. For a man, it's suggested that before the act he eat a lot of fruit and drink a lot of water while avoiding salty, sour, or heavy foods. I would try that for yourself as well. If that doesn't work, then there are flavored lubes and perfumes that are safe for human consumption that you can use as well. B) If you can't get him to do it, don't make an issue of it. In my opinion, sex shouldn't be about doing something you dislike to get the other person to do what you do like. I'm sure there are things he'd love you to do that you would refuse; everyone has something that's off limits. If the things he does do for you please you and he does them with the intent to please you, then you don't really have it that bad. | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 970 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 00:47:33 [Post Text] | [user=301]six[/user] wrote: " My advice is this - sacrifice your personal comfort for someone you love, even if it's only on special occasions. And here's the kicker - pretend you enjoy it. There's nothign worse than feeling "well, she's doing it, but she sure isn't liking it". You can tell him not to come in your mouth (he'll probably agree and do it anyway), and you can stipulate the "spit" rule, or even finish off with your hands. Girls, men enjoy being the centre of attention just as much as you do. " My advice is exactly the opposite. When you find out your partner is faking it, it's a HUGE let down. Even if you don't get off on what you're doing, you should still enjoy getting your partner off. If it's so bad that you have to fake enjoyment, then don't do it. EDIT: I wanted to expand on this a bit. Faking it depends entirely upon the situation. If you are into casual sex, then it may be better for the immediate mood if you fake it a bit, or play up the situation to avoid awkwardness. If you love the person you are with, then by all means do NOT fake sex. Dishonesty is the biggest killer in a romantic relationship. In a loving relationship, the best intimacy is achieved through communication, honesty, and open giving. There is a huge difference between openly giving and grudingly giving. Even though some particular sex act may not be your favorite thing in the world, if you openly give it out of love, then it can be a pleasurable thing, especially if you find arrousal in the act of pleasing your partner. If you grudgingly give, it will show in the act and make your partner feel guilty for what amounts to deriving pleasure from your misery, and that is a total mood killer. If there are little particular aspects about an act that you don't like, there is almost always a work-around, and if you both love each other and are secure with one another, you should be able to communicate these little things and your partner ought to be able to work through that. One of the biggest complaints about oral sex is taste (and honestly, I think it's less a complaint than it is an unfounded fear). If you have good general hygiene, which everyone should have anyway, oral sex should not have an unpleasant taste or smell. Obvious exceptions might include urinary tract infections, yeast infections, or menstruation, but those are all temporary issues. Oral sex is also very sanitary (the mouth has far more germs than healthy genitals) | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
67c5ab35_Female_Sexuality___2005_Topics__Post_Text | [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 974 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 08:13:20 [Post Text] | [user=243]Workit[/user] wrote: "Do women find it arousing in any way when a man ejaculates on their face? It looks quite demeaning to me..." & Arousing isn't the word. I enjoy the core act itself and definitely the fringe benefits of his ejaculating on my face or in my mouth.& :P I find this to be the BIGGEST turn on for me as a female.& I find that with a little practice and willingness you will not gag!& Learn to enjoy your mate!& & The act is only demeaning if you are not comfortable in your own mind.& I never feel demeaned because I am pleased with what I am doing and he is pleased.& :D I see it like this I am there ( in the bed) & for his pleasure and he is there for mine!!!!!! So, we are both winners. & | [] | The-Clitoris.com - Old Discussion Forum From 2005 to 2009: Female Sexuality - 2005 Topics | Post Text | http://www.the-clitoris.com/oldforum/old_discussion_forum_2005.html | 49/1438042988962.66_20150728002308-00048-ip-10-236-191-2_742405584_0.json |
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