PR #12012: Update cuDNN frontend version.
PR #12012: Update cuDNN frontend version.

Imported from GitHub PR https://github.com/openxla/xla/pull/12012

Update cuDNN frontend version from 1.2.1 to 1.3. 
Copybara import of the project:

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ea12e3765a225fb360add9d424248ffa0954ce95 by Elfie Guo <elfieg@nvidia.com>:

Update cuDNN frontend version.

Merging this change closes #12012

FUTURE_COPYBARA_INTEGRATE_REVIEW=https://github.com/openxla/xla/pull/12012 from elfiegg:cudnn_fix ea12e3765a225fb360add9d424248ffa0954ce95
