Remove some header files from compiler/xla/stream_executor:stream_executor target, and have dependencies use more granular ones.
Remove some header files from compiler/xla/stream_executor:stream_executor target, and have dependencies use more granular ones.

Reverts changelist 641225077

FUTURE_COPYBARA_INTEGRATE_REVIEW=https://github.com/openxla/xla/pull/13062 from philipphack:u_fp8_windowed_einsum_xla 3ea415d65e47087bb077fa2b13e34c82a4dae87b
