bump cudnn frontend to v0.9
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CC @kaixih  Will do. Hi @pgpetrak Any update on this PR? Please. Thank you!
v0.9 of the cudnn frontend has been released (https://github.com/NVIDIA/cudnn-frontend/releases/tag/v0.9).
Followed a format similar to PR #59675 