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It's strange how the INFP forum is probably the place where you get the most thanked on average.. Yet I post something VERY true to INFP life like this, and just the fact that it goes against the...
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Push-Pull goes perfectly with INFPs. The push is just necessary to show interest and get her thinking, the pull at the right moment makes an INFP trust you, because they realise you're going to be...
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Have you noticed this? I live in the UK, and the current generation of young adults, let's say 15-23 year olds, have had a HUGE shift in fitness behaviour. Of course, you still get a huge amount of...
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It's literally random. Depends on his headspace at the moment. We can be consistent and grounded when things are going well, but by the sound of it he's not exactly in a perfect space at the...
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That tends to be context a lot of the time though. We prefer the risk of saying something in the hope of getting a connection or positive impact, than to not say it in the hope of avoiding being...
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This is something I'm just starting (like literally, just starting the journey to at the age of 25) to understand about myself! I made a deal with myself that I would enjoy my youth during my early...
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I'm 25, and I think the most difficult thing for our generation is how little the previous generation can do to help. It's a very different field now to 20+ years ago- in the UK around 50% of people...
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I used to get massive burn-out at university like this. The thing is- we're not wrong.. The less we miss out on, the better our lives get and the happier I feel. It's just this damned human body...
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Well, I will concede first that we cannot fully understand ourselves. As Socrates once said, The only thing that I know is that I don't know. Personally, I just use the MBTI out of curiosity. And...
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Just a question. Do all ENFJs have this air of charisma? Cause I don't exactly have the most charisma lol. I've been called inspiring and deep. But I don't seem to have the energy to lead a large...
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Yeah I have. But the thing is, you can't really classify people into stereotypes, but you can get a general idea of what thought processes they prefer to engage in, and what is the most efficient...
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I hate you. I'm sorry, but you have to die. There is no other way. etc. All NFs are very similar in what they will choose to say.
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hmm. I wonder. Bro, I would fill out a questionnaire, and give a top 10 list of things that you value and why you value those things. I think you may be a ENTJ though. The Ni variant.
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Love is just as powerful as death. You should embrace love and not be scared of it. Being scared of love is like saying that you are afraid of interacting with people. However, I feel as if the...'
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Perhaps linked to micronations, but in any case weird and interesting and delightful, a personal favourite. It's kinda lacking in detail or length, but all the same, ace concept.
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Not a problem, glad to have helped a bit. The combination you have come up with is slightly more possible, but not quite, haha. Good try though. It is complicated. I guess INFJ would be closest to...
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Well I mean - I wouldn't rely too much on those visual functions layouts, they're pretty useful just for quick reference, but it's not entirely representative of the system. I think what it's...
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I try quite hard not to mess with other's things, my friends don't like it very much, but yes I think it is a bit of a habit. Whatever things are around me - wrappers get shredded, post-it's folded,...
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For other possibilities: maybe ENTP with a stretch of imagination, but I think for most accurate results you should look into all of the functions and types, Te/Fi or Ti/Fe, Se/Ni or Si/Ne etc....
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I think maybe ENTJ, I'm not too certain but I'd say from what you've written it might be the best fit.
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Visual Dimension Your data The average response Words on the label: Verbal thinking 1.49 1.74
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INTJ - I'm wavering a bit between Te/Ti to be honest but I think the Fi presence works that out. So that's my own best guess, as well as the main reason I wouldn't opt for ENTP. I have some...
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A pleasure - I can't claim to know enough about such things to contribute any more, sounds pretty interesting though, with more clarity of the relation to personality. I haven't heard very much about...
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I find it a strange idea that we'd want to apply the characteristics of a personality disorder to a real person that we do not actually know at all. I mean discuss it if you want, but I think this...
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Ah, excellent. Many thanks for the replies - I lean towards the INTP option after consideration, however I'm a bit wary of it because of my own obvious INTP-bias I have. The other largest doubts I...
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Very true, thanks! Yes, I'll continue to try, haha, after all it's all you can really do.
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Haha, that's sweet. One can dream. You think? Well I at least try to make it sound like I do, heh.
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'I would argue that Japan is more 2 rather than 6. Both emphasized on keeping harmony and peace, but I see Japan as less 'questioning the authority', and more 'dancing with the flow'. A lot like...
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It pisses me the fuck out when I ended up failing my own ideals. When I got tainted. It pisses me the fuck out when I found myself being helpless. Knowing I'm right but not knowing what to do....
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For me, Se is....well, the drive that pushes me to where I want to be. Sometimes it meant brute strength, to just DO DO DO DO DO-- sometimes it meant flexibility, anticipation, fluidity to deal...
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As a Fe aux, I can say that it is partly true. I'm still Ni dom-- I will become a hermit and ponder and ponder and think and think and think and FOR FUCK SAKE THINK. But there will be points...
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Hello, good people of Personality Cafe, and ESFJs in general; Fe salute *runs* I'm in a journey of learning more about you guys, and I have a peculiar questions to ask; please feel free to be...
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...my mother is an ENFP. My father is an ESTJ. They divorced, somewhat. :| It's..tragic if you ask me. :| (I hope you'll never see this happening) My father's main point is that she always plays...
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Hmm. *hugs* I hope it'll get better. :) it must have been bad for you. Her interest aside, what are you planning to do about this matter? What do you think you can do to her, at least for the...
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A lot of things; for example, my old iPod. Or my old PC. I still kept my old iPod and still using my old PC, for nostalgia's sake.
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Just be yourself. AFAIK, they don't really like to play games....and changing yourself because of someone else won't do any good to you. And consider the circumstances, too. ENTJ -is- that kind of a...
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Sometimes. The politics in my country are MESSY and...pretty much headbanging-inducing. I learned to (somehow) close my senses and move on, but it still hurts. It's generally a sense of WTF are...
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I am an INFJ and I am a human who's simply trying to be better.
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Yeah; but more like, they all tried to force their own worldviews to me. And it's not done properly. Thus I backed out. I think it's a problem related to expectations. And for me, the key is...
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I sometimes pondered whether I might be better off alone than with the wrong person. but of course one have to try to find the person themselves before ever finding the right one? Sooo..yeah....
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I.... I don't know. I CAN talk about bodily functions, some rudest sexual behaviours in a quite detail just like describing the weather, but I don't think it's innocent. AT ALL. Innocently rude?...
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A saint. Unwavering in their faith, with all the support one can give... And a wise man. or the protective hero. But a saint is more ideal to me.
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It all lies into the attitude. You can be the humblest person and still not be liked (or liked for all the wrong ways), or becoming that admirable, charismatic, passionate and likeable leader, or...
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Yeah. I think it's a very humane and understandable reaction, given the context of 'something that's illogical to us'. It's just some express it in a way better than others, in different ways. I...
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It's kindof funny seeing life made in terms of programming, but it do, and it works. The steps given are pretty ordinary, but: This statement is pretty new. I'm getting used to hear you can't...
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Dad : ESTJ (yes, I concur. Very hard to please, sticks to the 'usual' / 'the one that works') Mom : ENFJ'
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As an INTP, I would assume INTJs would win. Lets be realistic, INTJs have Te and Se. Over all, the majority of INTJs probably have had more exercise (therefore more muscle strength) than the majority...
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Now why would I want to do that?
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I haven't seen my friend in weeks... 2 months? Something like that. I just have isolated myself and it's gotten worse too. I've had a lot on my mind. I have so much I HAVE to do, yeah... sure I have...
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Maid service my second job, I had to get a job in order to live at my friend's parents house at the time, it was closer to the college I was going to. Right behind Pizza maker my first job. I was...
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Huntress is pretty badass. :wink:
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I don't. :dry: I eat soup with a fork.
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Before I know it, I'm subconsciously trying to end it. If I'm in a conversation and I'm talking about something I like, I try to end it after 15 min because I have a feeling like it's been going on...
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Instincts are a means for survival. Logic can help us survive as well. I want to lean towards logic, but logic doesn't always help and neither does instincts. Instincts can be a pain because as...'
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'Haha, you have no idea how many times I have made this face, especially at work. Hmm, lets say for a moment that population data on personality types is completely correct. INFJs would make...
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I have even noticed types(notice that is plural) of faces for each personality. Your cognitive functions most certainly plays into your expression and facial features. Of course there are other...
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Many times. Due to our primary Si, we can be incredibly insightful as we are constantly taking in information passively. People do not realize how much we have absorbed until a situation presents...
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I have know a lot of people who have struggled with this issue, especially an INFP. It doesn't really have anything to do with type, but how we perceive ourselves and where our value is at. I have...
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This is understood, as they are both perceiving functions. What I was expressing here was the difference between Si and Fe, which you amalgamate. Yes, they work together, but to define Si by its Fe...
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^ That one sentence is an example of Si, perfectly. Introverted Sensing is an abstract function that creates an impression from sensory information. To say that things are soft and pretty make you...
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It might be my post here that you thanked a while back. Though, I must say I find Friend B's internal monolog quite daft. Yes, allergens can be treated with small, consistent exposure, but they...
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Because of our inferior Ne, it is difficult to externalize the difference and instill the necessary framework for understanding. Any off the cuff attempt usually goes poorly, and can make the...
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Long have I said that the Need to be Needed was a misconception. Though there are those who put their self-value in being of use to others, this is not healthy nor the norm, but a reflection of...
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You have once before seen me approach someone in a manner you think is similar. With that individual, I was in philosophical opposition. Because of that bad situation, you assumed my tone with this...
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In what route do you refer? I calmly and rationally explained my disagreement with the person's post in regard to the subject of the thread and did not believe they were being purposefully spiteful...
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I need not another comparison as I am quite aware of the differences in our respective types. My desire was to show you are misguided in your observations, in other words, to express that you are...
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The issue with your observation is that it is surface level(the perceived, not the defined), from your perspective(mental framework), without understanding of the subject(your cousin). What is the...
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Its easy to forget things we have posted, and to misinterpt what someone else said. What else would you call this, though? Personal information used in a condecending way inorder to win an argument;...
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'The ENTP in my life is the most comfortable standing when he gets into a deep conversation (maybe it allows for more space for large arm gestures haha). And I've noticed if he's on the phone, he's...
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YES!!!! The ENTPs in my life bring sunshine and happiness and chase all the clouds away!! :D No other type can do it like they do.
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Must be why Ne usually avoids or ends any long distance relationships. (I'm having even more of an ahamoment about this now- getting confirmation from other ENTPs really really helps. Thank you. )
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So I have a hypothetical for any ENTP who isn't already ignoring this post due to the subject. Suppose you're in a relationship, but it's long distance, and you and your significant other both are in...
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No worries, I figured either you did not think about it when creating the poll or had your own reasons for wording it that way. It just sounds biased in the wording. I was not offended at all, just...
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I've never taken a job working at a restaurant because I know the vibes of the people around me influence me too much... I feel really bad for her, I think most INFJs would have trouble working a job...
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And it has a really un-organized feel to it too compared to other sites... or at least I thought so.
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Wouldn't a group of ENTPs turn into a competition... like a king of the hill type thing? And why has nobody planned a meetup for all the intuitives in an area? Why are all these meetups based...
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Charts and comparisons and it's all so orderly and logical!!! You INTJs are so freakin' cute!!! :D
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Although a lot of INFPs I know are super into photography too... Well, a lot of INFPs/INFJs are mistyped as each other anyway though so I guess either way it's something to be watching for.
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I concur. I pick up on people's vibes a lot, and being open and friendly will go a long way when trying to approach an INFJ. As far as WHERE to look... that's more difficult. As people have said,...
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After reading the INFJ Life Purpose post, I happened to glance at the first blog post on the same website and read the latest one for INFJs... Finding Closure and Moving On (INFJ Relationships –...
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I searched for this topic and couldn't find a recent discussion about spotting ENTPs but feel free to point me in the right direction if you guys feel this has already been talked about excessively...
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This discussion is amazing! I'm finding so many great new songs! Thought I'd try to contribute since I don't see some things mentioned yet... An INFP got me into what I call my epic music: ...
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Not for me- I'm an INFJ who grew up in a family of sensors. It's difficult for me to find balance between my own desires for life and keeping the sensors around me happy that I'm doing something...'
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I can't think of any current examples, but as a kid I was very manipulative of my parents! If I didn't get my way they would get a guess you don't love me cry & cave in.
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As much as I love music, I never got a grasp on any instruments. I'm involved with fine arts for a living. I'm great with any subtractive mediums (photography, or covering a page with charcoal &...
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I gave up on planning where I would be in a month/year/etc because you just don't know what life's going to throw your way: it's usually better than what I had in mind, anyway! As long as you stick...
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Yep same here!
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Yes this is much more like me! I'm not averse to tattoos in general; but I don't know that I'll ever get one.
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I struggle with maintaining social activities because I've moved around so much in the past 10 years. In bigger cities I was very much enjoying book clubs (through meetup): however I'm in a pickle...
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Yes: I tend to surround myself with very smart, well-read/spoken individuals, so it's easy to feel like I'm not keeping up (plus I work in an academic environment but I haven't taken classes in...
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La Dispute & Pop Evil... I used to live in the city they're both from, funny to see them pop up here!!
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Gotta love early Bright Eyes. I've been on a Cassadaga kick the past couple weeks, though!
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I can relate to being dutiful (in public) & an open book (you know, if someone else starts the convo... lol).
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I think this is more an issue of us both liking to take our time with things (Mom had no issue with us re-painting the foyer)... not to mention we just bought a house so we don't have any extra money...
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And this!! Except I hate texting. I'm old-fashioned and like to talk on the phone :laughing:
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'I love museums. I love to creatively express myself through my clothing and my home. I draw (not well). I write poems. I make collages. I take photos. The food I make and it's presentation is art. My...
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My enfj friend just sent me a unicorn stuffed animal for my birthday, after having a conversation about being disillusioned, and saying we really wish the world was rainbows and unicorns. :)
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I am an enfj and a type 4. You have questions? fire away!
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this is brilliant and dead-on! (for me at least) :)
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I hate to admit that I would, or have done any of these things but I think when I was much younger I might have done one or more of these things. Quite unconsciously I'm sure. We always have the best...