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Anyone else get worn out from thinking about so many things at one time? Or ever wish they didn't feel things so intensely? Or start to doubt that your intuition, that you were sure about in the...
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Yes. Much worse when I was in college and mid 20's. Not with malintent. I thought all people were as interested as helping each other as I was. My mother used to say I could talk the bees out of...
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'so after reading the feedback and type descriptions and some good reflection, i think you're all pretty straight on. i'd say he's ENTJ, the Executive, but with his E and I quite close. the funny...
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I agree. and when i mentioned emotionally available men, i wasn't just referring to ISTJs. i think people of all types, and both male and female, can be emotionally unavailable. it's just that the...
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hahahahaha! this is great!! congrats on your success! :laughing: i also can't have sex unless i'm with someone i love, know, trust, imagine a future with and really want to be with and have wanted...
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Not that it matters, because it's more of a technicality at this point, but we didn't have sex. Not that he didn't want to. I was the one who stopped it from happening. And there actually was quite a...
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I remember a few years ago, I found a really great online career assessment that took your natural functions and compared them to the functions required for the career you have (or any career you're...
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I think I experience a bit of the same thing, except I'm in it for a few days/weeks at a time and then I need a few days/weeks to decompress and swim about in my own head for awhile in order to feel...
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so i'm asking this question in relation to a specific situation that I was (unfortunately) involved in. A friend of a friend was in town for a week recently. He seemed interested in me from the...'
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Sex is never boring unless the couple drives it to boredom. My girl and I average 5 times a day. Yes 5 times a day and there is nothing that we rather do. Sex to us is an expression of how we feel...
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I am an ENTP with an ISFJ gf. We are both DTF and it doesn't matter anywhere or if there is people or not. Sometimes we do the romantic thing just to insure that we are normal. How can you...
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Just saw it this morning. Everything it says is spot on. :sad:
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For the first time in my life I saw a family, security, and pure love. The big picture had her engraved in it. Right now I am not thinking clearly. My heart is heavy and all I can think about now is...
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Don't mean to resurrect and old post, but can I can see a lot of great insight here. Please check out this post....I need help :sad:...
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I am head over heals over my girlfriend. We have been together for over a year and I have learned a lot about myself over the duration of our relationship. However, not everything is the color of...'
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'Says you. He's not cute - he's pure evil in miniature form. When he takes over the world, we will be forced to have Mexican hat day every 5th of the month. Those not wearing a mexican hat...'
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you could try to find an outlet for your feelings, I listen to music while writing angry/sad/frustrated letters to whoever got me unhappy, I have yet to send one but it works really well, and then I...
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Dont hesitate to ask for help it really is no bother, well I want to get this down before reading what anyone else said because if i dont i will forget so im sorry if five million people have already...
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Hello there! I am from the land of the ENfJ's and I have been trying to figure your brains out (haha it's not working so far) well my question is how do you react in an argument or when you get...
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sorry haha I ment to post in a different place
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enfj's naturally have a huge thing with putting themselves in other people's shoes, because of this sad movies have a huge effect on me I mean I can't watch pinnochio without crying like a baby Is...
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When I become depressed I turn into an INFJ, writing becomes my outlet and I tend to write some pretty creepy stuff the only way I have found to get out of it is to hang out with people that...
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I think its the fact that enfj's genuinely care about other people's problems so when someone looks into their eyes they see true compassion and that could be somthing there not used to
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just try not to step on anything that could potentially cause major damage
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I am reading a lot of things that basically say whatever you do never get an ENFJ angry. As an ENFJ will admit to being easily annoyed but that usually fades quickly before becoming true anger....
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Well, usually the ENTJ's with an 8 wing are uptight and most INTJ's are okay, but INTP's and ENTP's are almost always pretentious.
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I ate some hot dogs and French fries, now I'm drinking the Monster along with it.
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I: You dread parties and large groups of people, instead you'd rather be alone. S: You seem to use common examples in your reasoning instead of relying on knowledge. F: Your examples mostly...
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It's hard to tell just by your picture, but your eyes are fixed on something in the not too far distance with a bit of wonder. You have a polite smile on your face, a beard, and you don't iron your...
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Unless you want to walk around looking like a caveman, I suggest you at least take some care of your eyebrows. Unless your dating a feminist the unibrow look hasn't worked since BC.
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If you want to overcome your judgmentalism, then stop judging people. Don't use people as a measure of your ability to get along with them, just get along with them.
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Yes, because exercising and eating right releases chemicals that affect your well-being, making you faster because your not weighed down by the extra fat from empty calories and sugar. However, the...
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I always have numerous questions about a lot of things. I rarely accept something as a fact...I also have a vivid imagination and can write creative essays. This is described as intuition,...
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This is a reference to an article on Wikipedia, questioning the existence of MBTI theory. Beginning in the 1960s, scientists performed studies to see if MBTI results were consistent with the...
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So, there I was hanging out on the porch of my friend's house. I'm just sitting there, minding my own business, all of a sudden my other friend dared my friend's sister to pull my pants down and give...
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'This sounds horrible! I don't understand why people have this need to be jerks for no reason. It's like people get off on this shit. Maybe they hear you being self-deprecating so they think it's ok...
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Good point.
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I like this analogy a lot. It certainly feels that way sometimes.
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I realize that. But again, I have not once written here that I thought taking anti-depressants was the way to go. In fact I have been on them before and they helped me very little. But what you are...
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I agree, but we have science to back it up. People can't really argue with science. You can see the effects in the brain. People that think depression = being sad or down need to go educate...
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Again. When did I say that I don't want to learn how to deal with this problem? Just because I find your solution to be a bad one for me that doesn't translate into me not wanting to look for...
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No it can't. Because it only turns the issue around and makes it look like it's MY FAULT for getting offended with what he said, instead of actually addressing the fact that he was uneducated,...
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Also, you seem to think depression is just about how you think and view life. This is not what depression is. It might be a PART of it. Not the whole. Please educate yourself on this. It's...
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Hahaha funny. It's not, however, that I see people as assholes. I grew up holding the belief that people are good and honorable like most infp's I believe. it was only after twenty something years on...
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Nonetheless, I don't think I am no entitled to that. I would use better words next time. You certainly didn't come off as sensitive.
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Huh? Since when saying you're giving someone the benefit of the doubt is hurtful? And I am entitled to give anyone the benefit of the doubt if I want to, sir.
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Ok, I was thinking either you meant that or you were making fun of me for being sensitive to his remarks. It's all good, I understand it now.
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I know no one is all good or bad but it just seems that there's a lot more bad in most people around me. And do they really need to be like that in order to live? No matter what I wouldn't bully...
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I hope you are not trying to be an asshole. I''ll give you the benefit of the doubt.
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I always feel like they are going to mock me or hurt me somehow I feel the same way. Most people seem to be assholes, so I think we sort of develop a self defense mechanism by closing...'
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First, don't lie to her about where it came from. You could not mention where it came from, but when she asks, tell her the truth. I would also explain that the ex really wants her to have it...
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Not all of us. I nearly went crazy because of those needs and the fact that I wasn't willing to be manipulative to get them met. Despite that, all the women I have been in sexual relationships with...
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Yes. I also have noticed that the eyes are key with an INFJ. I only know personally one other confirmed INFJ and our eye mannerisms have many things in common. The biggest thing they have in...
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Unfortunately, I don't have time to reply to all of this right now, but I want to point out that the only things I meant to imply by my question are that I believe highly intelligent sensors *do*...
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I think you may be on to something here. The notion that people seem smarter when they have above average proficiency in the use of non-dominant functions seems quite significant and probably...
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That's fairly close to what I wanted, thanks! If we were to assume that the description of Se would be typical for an average person who uses Se as their dominant function, how would one change that...
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I have read elsewhere that there are correlations between MBTI type and measurable intelligence. I have also read that there are not correltaions between MBTI type and intelligence. While I don't...
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Yeah. I never get used to it. I can even get used to being around people all the time to some degree. Noise? nope. My overall quality of life went up significantly as a result of discovering that...
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Wow. I was hesitant to mention it, but I have ADHD as well. The difference in my work between being on medication and being off medication is huge. On it, stuff gets done well enough, on time, and...
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That sounds like it might actually work!
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Let me recap. Firstly, you come to the ESFJ forum and ask ESFJs (people, whose dom function is Fe, which values common morals above all else) and ask them how to screw up another ESFJ (and ask...
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I don't know really. I have the impression that I'm way more critical about myself than about other people. Unless they really ride into one of my pet peeves (like sexism) or make my life...
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I have the syndrome described and I call it intellectual bulimia. I get hooked on a subject and I gorge on the data connected with it. I research it, I read about it and think about it for a day,...
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(a) yes (b) in having sex :mellow:
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I believe that understanding the reality behind it all is not (or at least not only) the matter of high intelligence, but the matter of what you want and are ready to see. I've seen highly...
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Novalis Good call! :laughing:
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Fist of Fire by Anderson, Bruford, Wakeman, Howe...basically former Yes members who didn't like the direction the band was heading and formed their own short lived band. It's still very 80's sounding...
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ISTP, and I'd hate working in retail and with children. In the past I have done both. Camp counselor sounds fun but it really isn't, unless you adore kids. I don't. And trying to control a bunch of...
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I'm ISTP, and white, and I'm attracted to all ethnicities. Most of my relationships have been interracial, only one was the same race as me. One was Korean, one was mixed Hispanic, current is...
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Harmonica and melodica, and dabbling in trumpet and Irish tin whistle. More of a side hobby for fun and jamming with friends.
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No, I went to a tech college and they didn't have them...not like I would join one anyways. Not my thing.
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What exactly qualifies as an intellectual conversation? I mean, I can talk for a while about realistic things and topics that interest me...but by intellectual you mean deep than...
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ISTP Haven't touched my Pottermore account in years, but I was Slytherin. Every test I've taken Harry Potter related I've gotten Slytherin. I relate most to it, though I also relate to Gryffindor...
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Yeah, also into ELO, ELP, VdGG, Jethro Tull, Kansas, Gentle Giant, King Crimson, Styx, Rush, Moody Blues, Camel, Genesis (Peter Gabriel years though), Supertramp, The Nice, Curved Air...and also like...
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Most exotic I'll go is certain reptiles. I plan on owning a ball python and sumatran short tail python someday, and possibly a crested gecko and bearded dragon. But going to need a house to have room...
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Love prog rock, it's my favorite genre, and Yes is pretty much my favorite band. Have their band logo as a bumper sticker too. And You and I is my all-time favorite song.
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ISTP Atheist Why: No evidence, any evidence that gets out in front of me is confirmation bias and not anything that is scientifically testable. To me, it's not logical or rational. Science...
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I maintain that my favourite types are ENTP and INTJ. Because I am incredibly grateful for Ni, my ability to intimidate people while I'm actually terrified of them and many other qualities, but ENTPs...
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Interesting. I was curious about how the kind of hypersensitivity described in INTJs manifests itself in the ups and downs of emotions in well-adjusted INTJs vs the... very not well adjusted.
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I'll add that to some extent I am obviously influenced by appearance. I have only ever been attracted to femme-presenting women, so there's that. But no specific combination of features, or what's...
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Not an INFP but saw this and yes - this is the only thing that bothers me about ENTPs. Despite appearing too serious for ENTPs, I would easily drop that in a second to be with them. They relax me and...
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Er, no I know that those are stereotypes. My quote was about the Ne/Fe functions in ENTPs. I don't know where you're getting boring from. I can't see how not making many facial expressions has...
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I read something about ENTPs: it can be uncomfortable for them to be around very inexpressive people, because theyx92re not sure how to act or adapt without some kind of emotion to play off of. ...
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Despite the obvious fact that you can be attracted to anyone regardless of type - does anyone ever find that there are certain types they are most frequently drawn to? In the very rare times I do...
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My mother is an ESFJ: Very emotional yet emotionally distant (reacts with strong emotions, guilt trips, but never seems comfortable talking about emotions), intrusive, controlling My father: he...
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I get huge crushes on ENXPs. I really fucking love them.
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I suspected
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I don't know if I've met any other INTJ males that I'm aware of, but I certainly get avoided. I don't smell or present myself in a way that would repel people so much, but because they do avoid me, I...'
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'I apologize, I got carried away. I should listen to my own advice.
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This guy likes you, or he's a huge tease. Sent from my Galaxy Nexus using Tapatalk
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I realize not everyone sees it that way because they see the choices that are available to them as fair. Id easy to dismiss this idea if you happen to be privileged enough to have good choices...
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perfectcircle I have big issue with the sentiment that you owe it to your parents to live your life a certain way because they worked so hard and sacrificed so much to give you what you have. That...
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Here's something I wrote in blog a while ago that I think you might relate to (followed by my regurgitation of Camus' absurdist philosophy): standing strong against the onslaught of a world that...
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What planet are you on? Also did you read his post? That hand gesture is most certainly not a typical Satanic sign. Read up on the symbolism/history behind it.
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I'm telling you dude the cold shower thing is the secret to success. If you only try one new thing suggested in this thread, at least try a cold shower once. You don't have to give up the hot shower,...
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Like OP I also have an addiction to distraction. I've found meditation is the best way to deal with it. It doesn't have to be anything difficult or special, just try sitting in one spot doing nothing...
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I've always wanted to write a satirical self-help book titled What to do when doing what you did won't do There are books that aren't preachy bullshit that I've been able to find useful and...
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I originally thought I was an INTP for a lot of the same reasons you mentioned. I still think the archetype descriptions for INTP tend to fit me better than INFP. INFP descriptions paint INFPs as...
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I think we agree with each other. If not with our idea of truth, we at least diagnose the conventional world view with the same problem. The way I see it, there are 3 levels of experience: 1) The...
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this. Aristotle and Plato were important in their time, but they both missed the point entirely IMO. Aristotle is also a terrible writer. also Diogenes, Epictetus, Sartre, Camus, Rousseau,...