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0 | 1 | 0 | 1 | I am constantly doing stuff on the boat with 2 feet of old rope that someone else feels the need to pay big bucks for in some chandlery. So many things, in fact, that I thought of changing my boat... |
0 | 1 | 0 | 1 | Good God: I think Khys may just be me in female form |
0 | 1 | 0 | 1 | Hey Pinkrasputin, It was just a knee-jerk reaction to some flash talk that irritated me for some unknown reason. I usually walk away rather than respond, but what is done is done. |
0 | 1 | 0 | 1 | Seamaid, Upkeep of a boat all depends on the state of it to begin with, your skills (whether you need to hire outside help), and the size (above 12m and the costs of parts becomes all out of... |
0 | 1 | 0 | 1 | Thanks Chinotto; but my point was about 'conflicting' relationships and dealing with them rather than to brag about a cool life. For the record, my life, like everybody else's, comes with a heap of... |
0 | 1 | 0 | 1 | No you don't Problem is x97 you try to sell me anything (especially yourself) I'm goooooone |
0 | 1 | 0 | 1 | Indeed. Despite having all my passwords, I will not allow my wife to read over my shoulder x97 that is way too intrusive. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 'Yeah i'm an a-hole too depending on who you are and what you consider one to be. Nothing wrong with that... just be you. who cares what your supposed to be... who knows maybe your brother is the... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | Okay, my turn! No I would not ask you out... you are not my type. I prefer tall, lanky, dark characters... with penises. (although I wont say I haven't ever been interested in the lady folks, just... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | That makes complete sense. Before you admire us though please keep in mind that we INFJs think about what we are going to say a long time before we say it... at least I do. I think about the... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | I took the you will think i'm boring and i wouldn't want things to feel awkward as the rejection. I tried to make it more blunt today by just giving him my number and asking him to text/call me. ... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | I do not feel stupid at all. I do accept that I am not perfect, I make mistakes but I also learn from those mistakes. I have a great capacity for acquiring, processing, and sharing knowledge in... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | If it were me id just want the person to tell me and let me figure out why and how to fix it. Just be straight forward... whats the worst that can happen? Honestly is she really that fragile that... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | Now I just feel even more stupid for trying to please everybody -.- Oh well lesson in the process of being learned |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | If you had this revelation at all... When did you realize that what others think of you is unimportant? How did it change your life? |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | So, i don't have time to sift through this thread and find out if my question has already been asked. Do INTJs seek appreciation- is this important to you to hear when someone appreciates you? I... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | I visit the other type forums to look at the humorous threads. The INFJ threads are usually very serious lol |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | Trying to figure out how to do that, no word of a lie! Thank you brain your messages are appreciated lol |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | LiquidLight that certainly is an interesting perspective. I had not considered that my real life friend might potentially be my real life animus, more so I was curious if my mind might project the... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | Lady Nurture thank you so much for sharing your dream!! I am really looking forward to learning more about myself through my own- perhaps even with the help of intuitives such as yourself :) |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | What is this inappropriate you speak of? I have never encountered such a novel idea (hahahhaha) |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | flicker099 I do understand what you mean, i don't think I could ever give up caring about people as people, that goes against what I believe in completely and I would surely die or end up... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | Not an INFJ thing (unless i completely missed it but I don't think I did) So... I am on a mission to understand who exactly I am... Strange I know it seems like a fairly basic and simple premise...' |
0 | 0 | 0 | 1 | 'Add me to the empathetic club. I can also be very expressive at times. |
0 | 0 | 0 | 1 | Sadness. Yes, I feel sadness. Mostly the existential type or deep, deep resentment. |
0 | 0 | 0 | 1 | I know this can vary on the task and the type/size of the mess, but go ahead and answer however you see fit |
0 | 0 | 0 | 1 | Posted 4 sets of function test results in the type me forum... ... ran away when someone suggested I fill out a questionnaire. |
0 | 0 | 0 | 1 | This question makes me uncomfortable... lol |
0 | 0 | 0 | 1 | I just don't know what to do anymore. My mind is spiraling and I feel like I can't make any choices anymore. I'm questioning everything and it's as if every choice I've ever made, thinking it was... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | double post |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Emit guttural sound of surprise then deploy cloaking device. But seriously, although I have had many lovers, I can't remember a single instance when someone said a romantic I love you to me... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Might I ask why you care about sticking the relationship in a pigeon hole with a label on it? She is obviously skittish about being pinned down to some concept of a relationship but is obviously NOT... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | I have a broad range of interests and have had careers in science (chemist) and something more like philosophy (lawyer). Now my primary interest is in mindfulness, which is a kind of subjective... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Great question, OP. I am attracted to INFXs but I have not thought about why. They do tend to arouse a protective instinct in me. And they don't trigger my argumentative side because they really... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | I have a saying: tact is the companion virtue to honesty. Tact, and the ability to know when the stark truth is harmful, are bits of wisdom INTJs learn over time (or not) |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | If people are not moral enough to govern themselves, how can they govern each other? |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | You are facing a paradox. Your underlying assumption (which may be correct) is that people are either, on the one hand, too ignorant and incompetent, or on the other hand, too avaricious and... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | So she lied about why she changed parties. Okay. Hard to sort the lies sometimes. |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Sorry, but you are going to have to define your terms. What do you mean by passionate? As I understand the concept, I am not passionate about anything. There are many subjects in which I am... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | This is natural. For most of us the only time in our whole lives that we are perfectly still is when we are going to sleep. So our bodies are conditioned to start going to sleep when we sit still. ...' |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 'You clearly don't want to move there. Don't. |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Russian female acquaintance Alyona: My ex-husband won't pay me child support! He is abusive and never does anything to help me! Me: Uh-huh. Alyona: He just drinks and parties all the time! How am I... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Aye. I don't attach, you don't attach, we're cool. Get clingy and we're done. Seems valid enough. Touch is so overwhelmingly mine, I don't even notice the others much. The combination... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Yes. Mostly in terms of over-/underindulgence, difficulty finding physical balance. Haven't ever cared about social status or groups, have found my way through life without them. For example to avoid... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Interesting. I can't draw, but I have done well as a photographer in amateur contests. I literally can't draw - my mind has no visuals to work with, and my hand has no clue what to do. Somehow... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | FWIW, the ENFPs I have met have come across as performance artists. They put on a show. It can be entertaining to watch, but they've been far too flighty to bother with beyond watching the... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Unhealthy INFJs tend to go numb (Ti over Fe). Unhealthy INTJs tend to get emotional (Fi over Te). Mostly though, not enough information. |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | An island in Indonesia. |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Perfectly normal. I can go months without having anything to share. I am very up front about it and will tell new acquaintances that I am strongly introverted and often disappear for weeks/months... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Not an INFJ, but 37 years and counting - haven't said it yet. |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Some people just won't STFU. Lost my temper yesterday and told an extroverted now ex-friend to hightail it out of my life. I get it that she's sad after her latest breakup, but there's only so much... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | I was more philosophical, cynical, and serious than most of my peers. I was unimpressed with social conventions, disgusted with cliched teenage love (and general youthful stupidity), and discontent... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | On occasion, I have. Usually it's when the topic or business at hand is particularly serious (in the context of work, or a school project). In a casual setting, I am generally the one making my... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | I've got to know, which came first: the INTJ confusion or the username? The reason you're confused probably has to do with the fact that you're trying to analyze an INTJ's mood. We're very... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Since the existence or absence of God is improvable, we are each fundamentally making assumptions on the same issue. These assumptions both consciously and subconsciously modify how we live our... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | From this alone, I'd suggest you pursue a PhD, as I'm applying to doctoral programs next year for the same reasons. Yes, there are disadvantages and downsides, as there will be for any choice you... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | As a kid I was really neurotic, and afraid of almost everything. Now I'm a lot more healthy, and only have a few true fears. Namely, I fear failure, or rather not being good enough to achieve my... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | This is where you lost me. There is no personality type I typically get on with worse than the ESFJ. Granted, there is individual variance. There are amazing ESFJs, and I would get along with some... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | As a teen I used to ask my father to donate to the [hungry/thirsty/needy] teenager fund when I needed some cash for something. I still feel it's a worthy cause. But seriously, I'm a big... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | I'm glad my advice was helpful! Kudos to you for being willing to compromise and seek a middle ground for you and your husband. That says a lot about your devotion and care for him. It sounds to... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | I'm sorry to hear your marriage has been a battle. It sounds like a very difficult and draining position. Kudos to you, though, for seeking advice. I hope as an INTJ (with INTJ relatives as well) I... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | Closest friends: INFJ, ENFJ, INFP, and EXTP(?). I need an ENFP, too. Needless to say, I have a thing for NF types. NTs are great, but usually I go to friends for emotional support rather than... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1. Do you have girlfriends? Yes. 2. Many or few? Only a select few. 1. Are these friends mostly INTJs...or do you have a best friend who is a non-thinker All my friends but one or two are NFs.... |
0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1: 20 2: Female 3: On weekdays I get 6 hours on average (maybe less if my insomnia's bad). On weekends it's more like 9-10 hours. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | 'I've heard all my life that you either get Algebra or Geometry. I can't say why that is. Apologies, I was good with Calculus. It was Trig and Geometry, gaaaah! Beat them with sticks! |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Hmm, for me, my best were always Biology and English. Pretty good at Algebra too, but Geometry/Calculus? Kill it with fire! History and Humanities courses comprised a lot of my later education :) Did... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | IamOrangeToday is right. If you need to, step back from the situation. She's obviously going through some incredibly unhealthy (and illegal) things right now. Talk to an adult, whether it be your... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Awesome article! It sounds like the Danver's hospital I'd mentioned before :) At the start, at least. Danvers eventually got extremely overcrowded, their farm went to ruin and the focus moved to just... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | There are some Indian dishes that are really good that could probably be made without meat. I'm thinking Biryani rice. Then again, I don't tolerate a whole ton of spice so I'm not sure if it would... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | It depends. I've seen some wonderfully written books that I'll read cover to cover with a lukewarm story. Then again, there are some very poorly written stories that I've read cover to cover that... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | I really don't think it's possible to be too nice :) Especially online or on a forum like this. It's always good to see people who are very supportive and genuinely helpful. You don't see too much of... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Gonna go out on a limb and say you're with AT&T? Have you contacted them about any upgrade services that you might have? They could probably point you toward free or low cost options. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Are there any particular styles you were going for? I live rather near the US border with Mexico, so I think what I'm thinking of is probably a lot more traditional than what you're looking for. I'm... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | If you're completely new to writing outside of an academic setting, I'd highly suggest starting a personal journal. I'm also in agreement with Inle. If you really want to write, you pretty much just... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | I was intrigued, so I went to go see. It looks like most of the time stamps are pretty old in there, so I'd guess there either aren't many or they're swarming other forums. As for your post, I'd... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | I've kind of come to peace with my socially awkward. I'm pretty quiet until engaged if I'm in a completely new situation, even if I'm with someone I know. We went to a convention with one of my... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | I see what you're saying, and then I see Calvin and Hobbes making faces at me. I can't help but ask myself, what would Spaceman Spiff do? |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | I agree with BrownJaquan. At the same time, if you are dead set on meeting (or any offline first-time meeting for that matter), be SURE you meet in a public place. And I'm not talking about a mall at... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | I dated an ENFP for awhile. It was a lot of fun. There was something there that just clicked. Unfortunately he wanted way more than I did and way too fast and I think we both realized it. I kind of... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Thanks ;D There's a little troubleshooting in me yet! |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | With all of the physical symptoms, definitely visit your psychiatrist. See if s/he or someone you trust can recommend a good counselor. Sometimes it helps just to talk it out with a neutral party,...' |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | That is true, it also happens a bit in real life we have all eight functions, we just don't use them all a lot, this is to say there are rare occasions were I seem to act more like Fi than Fe. It is... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | ESFJ. TMLT be an overly cautious driver and get into accidents before of such. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Plane. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Brats. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | I think you're mistaking Fe with Ne. Fe/Fi is not the primary interactive mechanism of MBTI, they're more so the place between opinion and action, like a middle man, if that makes any sense. For... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Grape. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Reading usually makes me quite drowsy, so picking up a book an hour or so before your designated time could help. Getting that mental energy out is what you need to do. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | Moody. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | It sounds like writing is really up your alleyway. Not just fiction or stories, but perhaps political or philosophic views. Of course, it's not a very stable job that you can just pack up and decide... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | By my own standards, I am a good person. By others, I might not be. Words like 'good' and 'bad' are very subjective and I avoid using them, but I'd think that most people I meet consider me to be a... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 'Thanks JayDubs Miss Bingley LittleDreamer Your advices are important! :D . And how you deal with a familiar that wants to force you to go to uni? I just can't stand my grandma's cold looks and... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | Thanks :) Nice nickname ;) |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | Thanks Aridela :) That thing of having goals sounds much easier to deal with. I will try. |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | I think I haven't. What are that area's job? I found one of secretary (administration worker), is like it? |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | My friend is at biology in Porto and he has math and chemistry, I don't like those two :P I hate chemistry, so I don't like it that much anymore. I still love nature and animals and everything... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | To be honest I got traumatized with math. I had 15 in the 10 and 11th year, but in year 12 I got below 6 (I had problems, missed classes, and then I couldn't get it, I studied hard and I still... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | Yes, I started all again. I'm in year 10 again xD. I agree about that, but the best languages college is there (I can even study the languages at my degree and study other languages and include those... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | I was in science too but I failed at math (only math) and now I am making humanities from year 10. I'd like to stay away from Lisbon, it is just too much confusion from my anxious head. In Castelo... |
0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | I keep a diary with information about people I meet. Full name, birth date, where and when I saw them, accounts names, conversations, personal data, psychological profile, their love story, where... |
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