and uh right right now our daughter our well she's our second oldest she has she's the only that other one that has children she has two boys and she works full time and i have mixed feelings about that she's able to do that and i don't know if she'd be happy to stay at home but yet on the other hand i i've got the mixed feelings that i think you should be at home with your children i'm kind of old fashioned i guess that way but they seem to they seem to give uh quality time