content: The love of Christ in my husband is what saved my marriage. My husband waited patiently for me to stop cheating, showed his love and devotion daily, and forgave before I asked for forgiveness. There was nothing tough about his unconditional love for me. We are more in love than ever before and cherish each other. He extended love to me I didn't deserve when I didn't deserve it...when I was deep in sin. Isn't that the picture of Christ's love for us? That very act of love on his part won my soul over to God.Understanding the Bible and God's nature is a good way to start on fixing your relationship and knowing boundaries.If you want a good book with good advice, read your Bible. If not, contact No Greater Joy Ministries and they have biblical books listing scripture after scripture. May God bless all you struggling in your marriage and give you unconditional love and strength to endure. The power of His love is amazing.