content: This book is fabulous. I am a 25 year old female who has always been "the nice girl." It's not as if I haven't had relationships. Yet, even in those relationships, I always felt like a "doormat." My friends and I always wondered why the guys we didn't like kept coming around. We would sit in the car and read this book aloud to each other. This book is liberating, and I recommend it to any woman looking to take control of herself and her love life.