Issue title: disable hipe compilation
 Issue body: I'd like to explicitly disable hipe compilation.
i've added a rel/vm.args file with `--disable-hipe` but that didn't do anything…

see also: https://github.com/erlware/relx/issues/405

 Comments: 
 Comment 0: I'm closing this for now, since the issue is that you need to compile your application with `--disable-hipe`, rather than provide it to the release as an argument.
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