 Automatically the huge scenes of the vast creation of Allah and His universal power arouse a fear of Allah, and make me stand in Awe of Him and makes the whole experience such a refreshing one that I feel dissociation from the world and feel the Mighty Presence of Allah's knowledge and power over His creation."
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My beloved sister Munch, in this post in the comment I made, you have two links to learn deeper about salat, when you can take a look, I am sure you will enjoy to read them and will bring Peace to your Heart, insha´Allah.
Wasalam,
María
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Assalamu alaykum Sister Munch,
Subhaan Allah,
See the result of your thinking what to do, how quickly Alhamdulillaah you have a way to go :)?
May Allah help you with what you have decided and make your married life happy.
Concentrate on salaat and reading of the Qur'an.
And yes sister, stay calm, keep sabr, don't be too complaining, Insha Allah when your husband enjoys your company more, Insha Allah, slowly he may give you all the time and respect you deserve.
There is no harm in making peace and saving the marriage, as Allah says " Peace is better".
Salaam,
Your brother.
sister munch, that is not a good excuse to EVER to divorce your husband, perhaps you are just an annoying wife who makes his hair go grey.
dont think about divorce sister.
I ASK ALLAAH TO GIVE ME SUCH A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SISTERS/BROTHER WHEN I GROW UP to the point that their spouses would feel jealous.ameen.
Umm Az Zubayr,
What a strange desire you have.
SisterZ
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Ditto
i was just saying that some people get jealous for some pathetic reasons.
a brother talking/enjoying his relationship with his siter?.
women nowadays really need to get a grip and controll their feelings like the mothers of believers.
i hear things like so called muslim women nowadays ask their husbands to do things like swear he will not go near the beautifull huur al 'ayn injannah our of jealousy.
one woman even asked her husband to put his hand on the qur'aan to make him promise he will only be with her alone in jannah, WHICH IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.
Salam Umm-Az-Zubayr,
I agree with you whole wholeheartedly that a woman should not be jealous of her husbands sister, however...this is not what this sister is saying. Her husband would rather laugh, spend time with and enjoy the company of his sister over his wife. I don't know of a single woman that would find that behavior acceptable at all. This man is not giving his wife the respect she is due nor treating her as a husband should...with love and respect period.
Inshallah this man wakes up before he loses all that Allah has given him. A wife is to be treasured by her husband. A wife is to be treated with respect and love. She is to be given the time of day and not talked down to as if she is nothing in his life. Yet, this man runs off to his sisters and gives her the respect he can not afford his own wife! Yallah teef!
Salam
thanks again Najah. Wallah you sound like an amazing women Mash'Allah
Umm-Az-Zubayr...trust me my brother its not jealousy. I wish I was the jealous type sometimes. He puts his sister before me. I told him more than once if you want your sister go to her and leave me alone...I just want to live a happy life with my girls. He says "I wont divorce you just because of the girls" he told me if I give him the girls, than yes he will divorce me.!! okay so don't tell me I'm jealous
Salam brotherrMuniib...thank you SO much my brother. Salam María M thank you habibiti I Insh'Allah want to get closer to Allah
Salam Umm-Az-Zubayr,
First of all you don't know me to call me annoying. Second of all my husband stays away from me, w/o me doing anything wrong. He's aloud to make me stay home when he wants, I'm supposed to dress how he wants me to, not buy expensive gifts ( which I am not like that) I'm supposed to respect his family when he talks bad about my family, curse at me when he wants to, sits with me once month,etc...and YOU TELL ME I PUT GRAYS IN HIS HAIR??? please don't reply a comment like that again. When a man puts his mother ahead of his wife I see No wrong in it but when a man puts his sister before his wife's needs yeah then a wife thinks of a divorce. Salam your sister
I am a sort of Christian Woman I am a Mormon but i too have this problem with my husband and his older sister who never married and has a child out of wedlock. It has increased since the death of his mother. I understand the feeling as soon after he gets off the phone with her he starts a fight with me. I don't even have to ask who he is talking to I can tell. I have been married for 19 years We have 4 children together In the old testament there is a verus I hope there is something like that for you. I post it on the front door or the bathroom mirror to remind him of his duty to me and our children that we are the family he choose to create ( Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.) It works for me he will be good but as most women know that sometimes you have to remind the man who is his wife why he chose you and do not pick on his sister or point out her faults it makes things worst trust me. Try to think of the good your husband is try to reconnect with him.
To the editor I was hurt today by his sister so I googled and this web site came up it is so nice to see that the problems are the same no matter what the religion I hope you don't mind. I hope I did not offend and I wouldn't be offended if you don't post this.
Carol, I appreciate you sharing your experience and thoughts, thank you.
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Assalamalaikum munch,
I hope that you get to read my message. I am also married with a beautiful daughter. I'm going through the exact same thing where my husband spends far too much time on the phone to his sister. He always calls her after we've had an argument. He tells her every little detail about our lives and he does not appreciate me one bit. He has said unbelievably hurtful things to me regarding my previous failed marriage. I look after my daughter, I work full time, I saved up for a house and put a deposit down. I am the bread winner of the family, he is from abroad and had everything on a plate and I've literally had to teach him everything and still doing so. When we had our daughter his behaviour towards me changed. I'm sure when he gets his passport it'll change even more. I just think women out there who have husbands that appreciate them are the luckiest women in the world. My husband thinks of his mum and siblings first and me and my daughter come last. When we were getting a house his one and only concern was where we would put the dining table to feed guests. Not how we're going to enjoy settling in, how we'll need to budget etc etc. Anyway I think I'm just letting out everything but yeh. Marriage certainly ain't easy but you gota keep trying to make it work. InshaAllah I will. Especially since I have been divorced before, people will say I'm at fault if it happens a 2nd time.
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