CREATE TABLE table_203_182 (id DECIMAL, "no. in\ series" DECIMAL, "no. in\ season" DECIMAL, "title" TEXT, "directed by" TEXT, "written by" TEXT, "original air date" TEXT, "production\ code" DECIMAL)

not i barbecue was written by matt tarses and who ?
SELECT "written by" FROM table_203_182 WHERE "title" = '"not i barbecue"' AND "written by" <> 'matt tarses'
SELECT "written by" FROM "table_203_182" WHERE "title" = '"not i barbecue"' AND "written by" <> 'matt tarses'