Ah I think you need to go... Funny thing: my mom's people are from deep southwest Virginia. She went back there as a young adult, before she got married, and said that the men she met there, who were all uneducated backwoods rednecks (she was then a graduate student in philosophy) were so elementally attractive to her, she knew it was just in the blood. (She married her professor, my dad, and that didn't work out -- probably should've married one of the rednecks). Maybe if you go back, you'll find a husband LOL!