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[Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 803 [Date & Time] 2005-11-13 07:25:31 [Post Text] 
Hello again, I am getting the feeling that your problem is more psychological than physical in terms of being able to achieve sexual pleasure. Many women would say that penetration from a man is not all it is hyped up to be but then if you are without something, the need to try it out weights the masses I suppose. With powerful orgasms, the opening to the vagina and all around the vulva contracts with the muscles used from your pelvic floor. Essentially, that is the opposite of the definition of your condition. In your childhood, were you allowed to watch films or see adult material? I would suggest that you have seen something which frightened you terribly at an age when you were too young to remember it. Now you are a young woman with natural desire, your subsconscious is preventing you from moving on. Have you watched a movie called "Cybil" which came out in the late 1970's early 1980"s? It may help if you can get hold of a copy. I have not seen a copy of the film for some five years now but there must be one somewhere perhaps in a library. Then I would like to suggest further reading from an author Pat Califia. Brad often recommends her books to people. Essentially she is a transexual but her writings help put you in tune with your femininity and sexuality as well. Do not be put off by her being a transexual. Her insight into the female mind and sexuality is amazingly correct and appropriate in your case as well I think you will benefit from reading her books. With regards to an older man, by the time a man reaches say 45 to 55 years old, they have a lot of experience. Granted, they may not have experience with the physical aspects of your condition, but, they do have experience with partners and are very sensitive towards other aspects of sex aside from penetration. Different types of love making become relevant for some men of that age and they can and are exciting too. What about being with a woman? Have you thought about that? I would not rule that out either. There are so many options open to you to have a fulfilling sex life as you are young and I am confident with the right analysis you will overcome this and achieve a great many things. Princess
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