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[Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 730 [Date & Time] 2005-10-29 00:28:10 [Post Text] 
Oral sex, eh? What a grand topic. As a man I must say that I enjoy it a lot. A whole lot. And while I'm stilling stunned at the fact that I joined a forum which seems mainly geared to females, I'll go out on a limb here and say one thing: ladies - there is no substitute for the feeling of oral sex. & I love intercourse, sure. But that is, as far as I can tell, mainly a psychological euphoria. I do not get very much physical pleasure out of a vagina. Is that normal for a man? I don't know. It might be an interesting topic over in the men's issues forum, but I'll take it as a given for my argument here. & The girls who don't like giving oral sex are at a serious disadvantage. It's already been pointed out (in more words, mind you) that even a bad blowjob is pretty good. And it's true (unless of course you've got some rather precarious canines and narcolepsy!). I don't mean to insult (heck, I've been here for 20 minutes, what a way to introduce myself), but a man will always appreciate oral sex over vaginal intercourse. And you ladies are no different. A few of you have pointed out that while you dislike "giving", you're more than happy to "get". That's a pretty harsh double standard in a relationship, and believe me, no matter what your mate tells you, he resents it. & My advice is this - sacrifice your personal comfort for someone you love, even if it's only on special occasions. And here's the kicker - pretend you enjoy it. There's nothign worse than feeling "well, she's doing it, but she sure isn't liking it". You can tell him not to come in your mouth (he'll probably agree and do it anyway), and you can stipulate the "spit" rule, or even finish off with your hands. Girls, men enjoy being the centre of attention just as much as you do. & In sum, he wants to come. In the end, if you don't make a couple "comfort sacrifices" here and there, he's going to resent it in the end. Whether he admits it or not. & Six. & P.S. I've only met one man in my entire life (as short as twenty one years may be) who openly admits to not enjoying oral sex. I've met a lot of men. :P
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