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[Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 858 [Date & Time] 2005-12-02 19:14:43 [Post Text] 
There aren't as many nerve endings inside the vagina so it is possible she might not be able to feel it very well if you only use one or two fingers. I'd feel it but I have vaginismus but it is only near the entrance that I could feel it, further back, it's like the vaginal wall is totally devoid of nerve endings, I don't really get any sensation at all there. Still, it all varies between women anyway. Some naturally have more sensation in there than others. I can feel it a little if I was to bend my fingers whilst inserted or maybe ask her to try and clench her pc muscles around your fingers whilst they are inserted and she may feel them inside then. I do these to help& my muscles relax& and it also helps with control and these muscle exercises are benefical for all women, just just those with my condition. She can find these muscles when she goes to the loo for a pee by just stopping the urine mid-flow and these are the muscles she needs to clench. She should only do that to find these muscles though because stopping uring mid-flow isn't really good for you but once or twice won't hurt. Clenching these muscles and then relaxing them whenever she remembers will help keep them exercised and toned and will help increase sensation for you both during ic in future and she can do these exercises anywhere because nobody else can see you doing them, lol. Also, because her vagina is not used to having anything inside and the brain not used to processing info from that area caused by penetration, it might take a little time to start feeling some sensation, for the brain to learn to start processing it so that the person may feel it or she just might remain as a woman who doesn't feel that much inside her vag. I doubt she is lying about her past sexual experiences. I genuinely think she just doesn't really feel much unless you move the fingers around a lot. Also, a woman who was used to having something inserted would know if it was. As she doesn't, it seems probable to me that she hasn't had fingers inserted before and so doesn't really know what it feels like hence her question about whether they were in. Good luck with the foreplay though. It is good you just stick to this at first before trying ic. It might also be a good idea to ask her if she does do DIY sex. If not, she should try it, lol. I do it and it's great.
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