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[Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 801 [Date & Time] 2005-11-12 06:08:40 [Post Text] 
Hello thanks for replying. I have to confess, I did not answer your original enquiry because I had to research a bit more on the subject for my reference etc as I did not want to give you false info on the problem you are having. You may already know this but there is a Yahoo group which covers this subject in full run by other sufferers of primary vaginismus. Give them a try if you are not already a member. health.groups.yahoo.com/group/primaryvaginismus/ This paper challenges the efficacy of a cognitive-behavioral treatment model for women with primary vaginismus and proposes a conceptual shift from a focus on behavior to a focus on differentiation. Given that there are psychological as well as physical symptoms to this condition, what treatment are you or have you received for the psychological side effects? Also, with the orgasms, you mention that you enjoy reading the-clitoris.com and have found it useful. Have you read the definition of an 'orgasm' set out on the site? I am having a bit of trouble understanding how you claim to be having up to 15 or more orgasms in one session with yourself, when you have primary vaginismus which effects both the pelvic floor muscles and the mind as well. Lots of young women talk of having more than the average orgasms through masturbation during one session by themselves. But then when their sexuality grows and they gain a few more years experience, they realise that they were not experiencing the orgasms fully at all and where they originally counted say 15 during one session, now know it to be only three multiples, one after the other. You are functioning on one level in that you are able to achieve sexual pleasure through stimulation of your clitoris. It is just penetration you are having pain with - is that part right? How do you feel about older men / partners? It may be that you need someone clued up on primary vaginismus and who will actually take the time to learn and be gentle with you. I am fairly confident that you will overcome this condition with the right partner and yourself. The pain part sounds dreadful. I was sorry to hear that you have to go through this and sorry that I could not have been more help. Princess
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