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[Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 969 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 00:21:41 [Post Text] 
[user=353]joanne75[/user] wrote: "what do i do if my husband won't give me oral sex. I really want it, but he says he doesn't like it!!! Do some men dislike it? Of Course he loves me giving it to him!!!! any advice especially from the men joanne75 " A) Figure out what he doesn't like about it. The two most common things I hear from guys who won't go down on their women is that they think it's emasculating or that they don't like the smell/taste. If he thinks it's emasculating, then try to talk to him to figure out why he thinks that way. If he thinks real men don't do that stuff, try to convince him that you think a real man is more interested in getting his woman off than himself. Sexual roles like these tend to be pretty deeply ingrained, though, so if this is his problem you might be out of luck. If it's a taste/smell issue, has he even tried to go down on you? If not, then point out to him that he doesn't know how it is if he hasn't tried. If he does try and it turns out that there IS a taste/smell problem, then the complaint is valid just as if it was you going down on him. I don't know to what extent, if any, a woman's diet affects her taste and smell, but I know that it affect's the taste/smell of a man so I imagine there is a similar correlation. For a man, it's suggested that before the act he eat a lot of fruit and drink a lot of water while avoiding salty, sour, or heavy foods. I would try that for yourself as well. If that doesn't work, then there are flavored lubes and perfumes that are safe for human consumption that you can use as well. B) If you can't get him to do it, don't make an issue of it. In my opinion, sex shouldn't be about doing something you dislike to get the other person to do what you do like. I'm sure there are things he'd love you to do that you would refuse; everyone has something that's off limits. If the things he does do for you please you and he does them with the intent to please you, then you don't really have it that bad.
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