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[Topic ID] 122 [Post ID] 647 [Date & Time] 2005-10-06 10:44:50 [Post Text] 
You said you tried some positions.& Position is very important.& The following is of course just my personal experience but maybe it would help.& Though I really like it right now, the missionary position is probably the worst, because niether of you can really see what is going where.& We gave it up after the first few tries.& Now woman on top is an improvement bec the man can hold his penis while the woman lowers herself on it at her convenience, still it was too painful for me to go on with it (I needed him to do the pushing).& Try this one if you did not already.& & It was what finally worked for us.& Let her& sit on the edge of the bed and lay her back down or& rest on cushions. You, kneeling infront of her, can try to enter.& This way she's comfortable, no weight to support but hers, and you can see completely what's going on :) And you mentioned she is really upset the whole thing, I understand, I was completely upset and cried about it a few times.& I just want to tell you that it is very hard for a girl with limited sexual experience to sit naked, legs apart while a man is between her legs streching her vagina.& I was convinced at first that my bf hated the whole thing, inspite of his assurances.& He really spent alot of time telling me I looked beautiful and he loved looking at me and touching me, he repeated that what must've been a thousand times until finally he would show me his full erection as proof he liked it. Try to see if you can get her interested in her own genitals, like looking at them in the mirror or just touching them, finding out where her clitoris is, with no suggestion of masturbation at first. I hope some of this help :)
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