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[Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 862 [Date & Time] 2005-12-03 11:43:12 [Post Text] 
Maybe she just said that because she thought he had not inserted it yet and maybe he was just putting the tip in or something and checking if she was ok with that& before he proceeded. I don't think she would have said that to hurt his feelings. I can sort of understand why she asked him that though. She probably expected to feel more herself maybe and was suprised that she felt very little even though the fingers were in. After all, lots of girls grow up believing that first insertions might or will hurt or are brought up to expect it to feel intensely good and should feel it. As for positions and all that. Well, I'm not much of an experienced person myself being as I tend to avoid any situation that might lead to ic because of my condition. I've had to learn a lot about myself and sexuality in order to help me conquer my vaginismus which is where most of the info I can give comes from. One thing you can do is just experiment. Ask your girlfriend if she has any ideas and try to think of some yourself and just try them out with each knowing it is just a trial run and that it might not be as perfect as theory suggested. You can still have fun doing it. Try laying on your sides facing each other so that neither has to hold themself up. You could even try laying with each other facing the others feet so that she can have her face near your bits and you have yours near hers and just sort of hold the leg not being laid on up and out of the way, sort of bent at the knee if you get me. Still, if a person is seeing stars because of the stimulation they are receiving and building up to orgasm, it might throw off their concentration and make them unable to keep up the stimulation in return so simultaneous stimulation might not happen so harmoniously as you might like to imagine but it is still worth indulging in, just don't be too disappointed if something like this was to happen.
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