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[Topic ID] 52 [Post ID] 497 [Date & Time] 2005-09-04 17:14:17 [Post Text] 
Hi coololver76, Princess and EuropeanGuy, thank you very much for answering. I nearly forgot about this forum when i saw in my email that someone answered to this thread. I am sorry to say that but after i got no reply i also posted in a known german forum where the thread with my story is now 118 postings long. So the story ist really too long to retell it all in english. Our sexlife totally turned around. My girlfriend was caught mastrubating when she was 12. Her father slapped her for doing it and forbid her to do it again. She continued doing it very fast and without reaching orgasm. Always scared that her parents find out. She had only one guy in her life before me (they lived together for 5 years) and he only 'used' her for his own sexual satisfaction (only intercourse on side from the back wich was the only position where he 'came'). We can see us only at weekend at the moment because of our workshifts and the distance. After i 'licked' her for the second time we had normal intercourse with no pain as she said. The next weekend i did it again but she refused to do intercourse. In the end of this chaotic week she told me the whole story about her ex and her childhood and that she don't want to have intercourse anymore because she has bad memories about it. At that time i understood the whole situation. She gives me handjobs now and i do cunnilingus on her. One evening we were out and flirted the whole time. Back at her home we had quite unusual sex. No showering and long stroking before. I 'licked' very long an intensive and she reached her first 'real' orgasm (all others before were faked but she said she enjoyed sex very much since we don't have intercourse anymore) wich scared her much. I was scared at first too because of her body reactions. And i also couldn't believe that she never came to that point through mastrubating. In our two weeks holiday we nearly had sex every day but she only had two more orgasms. Both in unusual situations. One time in a tent in the mountains. The other standing up in the hotel room. But i we don't want to force it. I also don't push her to have intercourse again. I let her time. We are still at the beginning of our relationship. We try to see us more often the week when our workshifts allow it. We love each other very much. But to be true. These weeks before our holidays were very chaotic. To be true i also had only one girlfriend before. That was 11 years ago when i was 18 and we both were virgins at that time. And it was horrible. So i am very thankful for this website for all the information and both forums users who answered on my questions. @princess It think it was exactly as you have written. She was scared about that painlike feeling. Maybe this was the reason that she always stopped mastrubating before reaching orgasm. What i don't know yet is if she reaches orgasm by mastrubating now too. And i am unsure if i should really ask her about that. @EuropeanGuy I was really afraid in the beginnig how it would taste. What i can say now is that i love her - and her natural taste :-) I hope that wasn't too long and my englisch was good enough to understand. Reading is so easy. Writing harder, especially on subjects like this one where i always have to find the right 'special' words that you don't need when reading english manuals. Listening is more harder. And my english speaking is horrible ;-) Andy
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