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[POSITION] "GHOST CHILD" [CHILD'S CHARACTERISTICS] Child may exploit mother's over-concern for his well-being, or he may rebel, and protest the feeling of being compared to an idealized memory. [FAMILY SITUATION] 
Child born after the death of the first child may have a "ghost" in front of him. Mother may becime over-protective.
Adlerian Overview of Birth Order Characteristics - Alfred Adler Institutes of San Francisco and Northwestern Washington
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