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[Topic ID] 15 [Post ID] 55 [Date & Time] 2005-04-20 15:07:30 [Post Text] 
Hi, I'm very sorry to hear of your problem. I'm sure it's not much fun and frustrating having sex and feeling like it's a big waste of time. One thing I suggest is stop using the vibrator. The numbing sensation you speak of will also reduce your chances of having orgasm any other way, and will lead to lack of sensation altogether. Abstain for a while and give it a rest. Make love later on when you feel ready again and this time take it slow, use lots of foreplay and oral, but no vibrations. Take your time and build up to it. Don't look for the sensations or orgasm; just let them come of their own accord. Love your partner and love yourself and try not to think of orgasm. The more you pay attention to it the more elusive it will be. Fantasy works in bed too... talk and have him talk and share some erotic fantasy together. No matter how strange or far fetch the idea may be. Good luck. Kemi
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