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[Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 931 [Date & Time] 2005-12-30 09:09:52 [Post Text] 
This is my sexual philosophy in a nutshell: There are a few levels of sexual arrousal. The first and most basic is physical arrousal caused by any kind of contact, solo or otherwise. The next level is "vicarious" arrousal, or being arroused at the arrousal of your partner (or someone you are simply looking at if you're into porn or are a peeping tom). Above that is altruistic arousal, or being arroused because you are the one causing your partner's arrousal. The top is reciprocal arrousal in which both partners are simultaneously getting each other off, getting off on each other, and getting off on getting each other off. As a result of that, I've come to think that an orgasm is just an orgasm, and it doesn't matter if it's caused by another person or by your own hand. The only reason to have sex, then, is to get the OTHER person off, which will get you off on a higher level than just concerning yourself with the physical sensation alone. The only person I want to have sex with, then, is someone I care enough about to want to please sexually and who will want to do the same to me. That's a long-winded way of saying that emotional intimacy is important to men as well :D
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