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[Topic ID] 166 [Post ID] 848 [Date & Time] 2005-11-28 09:47:26 [Post Text] 
It's a simple problem: my wife hates cunnilingus. Or does she? She will NOT let me go down on her. If I kiss her anywhere south of her breasts, he hands immediately go down between her legs in "cover-up" mode and she pulls me back up. I've tried to discuss it with her, either in or out of bed. I've told her how loving and trusting and pleasurable it is, how it turns me on intensely, and how it could add some spice to our rapidly waning sex life. I've even said that I've read PLENTY of endorsements from women -- especially on this Web site. But she's adamantly against it: "It's not natural" or "It's for whores," she says. Oh, but guess what: the dozen or so times we DID indulge in cunnilingus (this has not happened for many years, and about half of them occurred when she had had enough alcohol to loosen her inhibitions), she went absolutely WILD. She held my head in place, thrusted herself toward me, moaned wantonly, and had an incredibly full and pleasurable orgasm -- or two! Each time it gave me the hardest of erections, something I don't experience as much as I used to, and each time it led the way to some of the most intense and pleasurable and loving intercourse we've EVER experienced. We are both 59, have what I would call "a pretty good relationship in most ways," and have been married since 1971. We had regular intercourse until around age 50, when she started losing interest. Quite ironically, she complains often about our current sex life, which is now practically non-existent. I have told her how she could help things improve by loosening some of her inhibitions, by letting me give her some oral loving. In addition, I have tried to convince her how her vaginal dryness problem (which she has had for more than 25 years) would disappear -- not only from what I could contribute to it but also from the fact that she has always self-lubricated liberally during cunnilingus. I realize that everyone has his or her sexual limitations. If she had never enjoyed cunnilingus before, I could possibly understand her position. And by the way, I have never asked for "reciprocity" -- because her phobia about cunnilingus is NOTHING compared to how she feels about fellatio! I may be the only 59 year-old guy on the planet who's never been blown, if you'll pardon the colloquialism. Women, I would deeply value your suggestions and your opinions, either supportive or critical. Thank you!
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