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[Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2106 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 18:37:47 [Post Text] 
[user=315]Canis Lupess[/user] wrote: "You aren't? Apart from all of the issues with STDs, is there another reason? You know what mine is, lol.:D " There are a lot of reasons.& Aside from STDs, my standards are probably unrealistically high, but I like what I like.& I tend to find the great majority of people I meet to be incredibly boring and vapid, and I mean that in a general sense, not just regarding women I find physically attractive.& I am also trying to establish a career or further my education (still haven't quite decided on that yet). I realized long ago that I can please myself physically just fine.& The thing that truly separates sex from masturbation is the way in which you can please another person. & That seems pretty obvious to the regular posters here, but your average joe doesn't really recognize this and tends to seek sex on a more instinctual level. As a result of that, my view of sex grew out of the typical selfish male position. When I balanced the risks of seeking sex for the sake of sex itself (STDs, pregnancy, and all the stupid stressful social conventions that people obsess over) I decided not to pursue casual sex. That's not saying I am sworn to celibacy or anything.& The best sex, in my eyes, is the selfless and reciprocal kind, and that's the only kind of sex I care about (like the Beatles said, the love you take is equal to the love you make).& You take pleasure in pleasing the other person, and you trust that person to take as much interest in you as you take in them.& But as I said, my standards are really stringent.& I can't stand any kind of drug use, and that includes drinking and smoking.& I'm also extremely repulsed by ignorance and the sheepishly religious (though intelligent and self-sought spirituality is a completely different story).& Sadly, in the US that really cuts out a massive portion of the people my age (or any age), particularly in the more agricultural region I live in.& If a person isn't fiercely intellgent and creative, I will get bored of them very quickly, and that applies especially to someone I might consider for a romantic relationship.& And naturally I have to be physically attracted to them as well, but I am not hung up on one ideal image of physical beauty.& As a result, I pretty much have no place to go socially, and so I don't even both pursuing sex or romance at this point in my life.& &
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