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[Topic ID] 15 [Post ID] 52 [Date & Time] 2005-04-20 09:33:20 [Post Text] 
Hi, Hooded clitorises usually are not a problem, but sometimes surgery is necessary to remove the excess tissue. The hood covering the glans can be removed partially or totally, I recommend partial removal so the glans is still normally concealed. It seems that plastic surgeons do this surgery more than gynecologists. One study found about 30% of who where not able to experience orgasm could after having this surgery, but 60% could not. This subject is addressed some on the page about clitoral adhesions in the Health section of the main website. You can stretch the hood a little by pulling on it on a regular basis. Be firm but gentle, as you want to stretch no tear the tissue. You can also insert a lubricated cotton swab, Q-Tip, under the hood and move it around in a circular motion to stretch the hood outward. This added lubricant may also help with stimulation, as it allows things to slide easier. You, all women, should probably use additional lubrication during manual stimulation of your vulva. Your posts likely indicate there are also emotional issues at play, that is conflict in the relationship and personal anxiety. Your sexual frustration is adding to this. If by chance you are taking an antidepressant,& they can impair or prevent orgasm. Vibrators are not created equal, but if the one you are using has some strength to it, it should provide sufficient stimulation for orgasm to occur. The fact that is doesn't likely indicates having your hood trimmed would not make having an orgasm easier for you. A lot of your problems with orgasms may result from anxiety over not having an orgasm. The more you try, and the more you fail, the harder or more impossible it becomes. Especially during partner sex explore pleasure and intimacy, not orgasm. Have sex for the fun and pleasure of it. Don't demand that your partner bring or attempt to bring you to orgasm every time. Take turns giving pleasure, on different days. If sex isn't fun without& orgasms, orgasms probably aren't going to make it any better. As far as cunnilingus, go for quality not quantity. Spend 15 minutes teaching him one skill rather than going for marathon sessions, at least until he develops some skill. You might demonstrate with your own tongue and hand what you want him to do. Keep in mind if you are having trouble masturbating to orgasm, things aren't likely to be different during cunnilingus. Brad
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