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[Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 535 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 17:58:12 [Post Text] 
i have a deeper question this time... i have been married to my husband for a little over a year. he didnt tell me until after we were dating a while that he had lead a permiscuous life before he met me and that he aquired herpes in his early 20's. obviously i was hurt beyond belief since i didnt think he was that kind of person since(which was the major reason i married him) PLUS we had not been using condoms... I& asked him why he didnt tell me& when he met me-& he said it was because his doctor told him he could not pass it on unless he was having symptoms. he also stated he hadnt had a breakout for 2 years. I was so upset and refused to believe 'heresay' and couldnt understand why, if he had a sexually transmitted disease why he wouldnt keep up with information about it! so i researched it and i found otherwise. i told my husband it CAN be passes asymtomatically, whenever his body is shedding it even though he has no symptoms. which is why most peolple dont even know they have it let alone aware they are passing it on. unfortunately i think i may have already caught it from him. its hard to say since symptoms, if any- include anything from a mild itch to a burning rash with blisters, to only a severe unexplaine cervical pain. i aim to get it checked out. but instinct tells me i have it. i also want to get checked out to make sure thats ALL he is passing to me since he was only tested that once long ago...hes not a cheater so i know hes not with anyone else but me now. Question #1 is- can i also catch it from sharing a towel after showering together? considering the towel is damp? i know toilet seats are not likely because they are dry. Question #2- say i get tested and if i DO indeed have it now too, does it matter if we use condoms? it seems gross to me but, does it really matter if we are passing the same disease back and forth(does it& cause more breakouts that way) Question#3- this is for anyone (a personal pole) what is the adverage number of sexual partners a 27 year old has had? my husband had 12 before the age of 21 (he started at age 15---when i was still playing with my little ponies and strawberry shortcake dolls!) i was never kissed until i was 21, and have had only 2 partners before my husband, one of which i was with 3 and 1/2 yrs. (you can see why im a little distraut over finding my husband was with 18!............. PLEASE HELP....:?
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