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[Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 419 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 16:48:10 [Post Text] 
Hello eager2learnwell and welcome to the group :) You raise some interesting points but from reading this thread, I feel that both of you have a communication problem not necessarily a sexual one. I am also wondering why you mention that your wife is of a differnt race to you? Sorry if that sounds a little harsh, but she is a beautiful woman and your wife, so why mention that part. I dont understand. My Partner is black but when I talk about him I dont initially say anything like that. Does your wife have a culture where oral sex and showing the vulva is deemed as dirty shameful or wrong? Have you tried masturbating by watching each other? Does your wife enjoy you looking between her legs? If the answer to the above last two questions is no, then you have some confidence building to do with her. Looking at her intimately with adoration in your heart will reflect in your eyes and you will become aroused. I am sure you do anyway when you look at her. But gently touching her whilst looking and making her aware that you love what you see may be a trigger for you to gently try kissing around the pubic area, inner thighs and buttocks. Try this first without going anywhere near her vulvar area or attempting oral sex. After a few tries at this if she is well relaxed and comfortably aroused, try letting your lips gently brush past her vulvar area when moving from one inner thigh to the other. Princess Brad's Note: Please use correct terminology here, the external genitals are called the vulva not the vagina.
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