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[Topic ID] 66 [Post ID] 492 [Date & Time] 2005-09-03 09:01:22 [Post Text] 
[user=207]coololver76[/user] wrote: "i think you should talk to your bf.I'm sure he will accept to make more movies if he loves you.Try to be serious about that and you'll get what you want." Hi, I would be very careful about using the "he should do it if he loves you" type of speech when speaking to any man. It sounds like blackmail. Again, being filmed on video is an extremely emotive thing for some people. He may not want to do it because in years to come, if anything should happen and the relationship ends, there will be a video of himself in that way. Even in a serious relationship and even marriage before, I would never allow anyone to film me during sex or even take a photograph. I have since then allowed this to happen but only because things have changed for me and I feel wholely secure now. It took years for me to feel ok with that though. Pushing someone into something they just simply do not want to do is a mistake. The more someone pushes, it could have a negative effect on the relationship. Talking about how you feel about making the video will help but the decision as to whether he wants to do one will be his and he should not be pushed into making this decision. It should happen naturally. Perhaps if you tried viewing porn together and pointing out why the ones you can obtain do nothing for you and what you would prefer may help. Princess
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