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[Topic ID] 122 [Post ID] 638 [Date & Time] 2005-10-04 13:00:17 [Post Text] 
I dont think the hymen is the problem, it's the muscles. The hymen is a thin layer that will just stretch with the penis if it's really that strong. maybe sharing my personal experience would help, my bf had to 'stretch' my vagina for 3 weeks daily before we succeeded at penetration. He started with his little finger and even that hurted me alot at the beginning but I really wanted to have sex so I just withstood the pain. he would spend a decent 30 minutes or so daily carefully sliding it in there and then turing ever so gently in each direction and pressing. It worked when we got to three fingers. Even now, if I go for few days (say 10 days or 2 weeks) without any penetration it hurts again slightly at first. I sort of close up :? Now since you've been at it for months, and she's feeling that bad about it, maybe seeing a doctor would help, at least to rule out any physical problems.
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