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[Topic ID] 71 [Post ID] 387 [Date & Time] 2005-08-06 16:24:07 [Post Text] 
This is probably an unusual problem. I am in my early 30s, married to a woman of another race. In my culture, pre-marital sex is very rare, so my wife is my first and only. That doesnt mean that I havent fantasised. ;). For the longest time, I have fantasised about performing oral sex to a woman: and this is my greatest fantasy. I want to pleasure a woman through oral sex. Unfortunately my wife does not like to receive oral sex, and she wont talk about why. I am not sure if, the only time i tried, i was so bad that she doesnt want that to happen again. I have tried variety of ways to get her interested, but to no avail. I have often wondered if my lack of experience is off-putting. If so, what are my options? I know that there are books, etc, but how do& I get better if I do not have an opportunity to put theory into practice? The best bet would to be a willing practice-mate or some kind of school! :?& But is that even possible? How would you approach someone and say 'Hey, I can perform oral sex on you? Could you rate me? and maybe help me get better so that my wife will enjoy this more?' :D We have been married for over 3 years, and love each other a lot. This is causing a friction in the relationship (me wanting to perform oral sex on her, and she not letting me do it). I am at a loss as to what to do. Any advice? :shock: My ideal situation would be to perform oral sex AT LEAST once a day (I want it so much, it hurts). Your thoughts are appreciated.
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