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[Topic ID] 61 [Post ID] 353 [Date & Time] 2005-07-20 07:46:18 [Post Text] 
Hello and welcome to our group :) Firstly, let me say that you are not alone and there are a couple of things you can do to empower yourself. Thrush can manifest itself at anytime. Basically it is a yeast inbalance within the vagina and vulva. Sometimes the slightest thing could set this inbalance off. From wearing nylon based material underwear, to eating startchy foods. It varies from woman to woman. Because our hormones are rapidly changing all the time, it is difficult to gage if a thrush based inbalanced has started to occur, unless one experiences the problems you detailed. Readily available from Chemists or Pharmacy's, you can buy a Canesten Once treatment cream. There is an applicator in the box which allows you to fill one end with cream, then deposit it deep within the vagina. Then you can apply some more cream to the outer lips and the vulva area too. It always helps if you apply some of the cream to the pubic hair region too and go down towards your inner thighs just incase if it is your own persperation setting this burning off. The only thing, you will need to buy 2 tubes of cream. One for you which is the Canesten Once cream with the applicator, and another Canesten cream tube for your husband to apply four times a day all around and under his forskin, pubic hair region, and in particular, around the head and rim of his penis. In the past, years ago, I was given this cream by my doctor and used it with success. BUT as soon as my Partner and I started making love again, the burning continued. Then somebody told me about men having to use this cream as well as the bacteria lives on their skin completely undetected with some men. But then rears its ugly head again when we have sex. I understand completely what you are going through and it is horrible. I felt alone when it was us and was convinced there was something wrong with me and that my Partner would look else where. He didnt and we sorted it out fairly quickly. He couldnt stand the thought of hurting me in that way or causing me any discomfort and so eventually became slightly impotent because of this experience. Another problem which disappeared with confidence and practice :) The other thing to try is not using any deoderising products to wash between your legs when you bath. Try Patchuli essential oil 4 drops in your bath water and do not use soap. Try a natural coconut oil based shower or body gel instead. You dont need to use anything to wash the vaginal lips or inside just your normal bath water with the Patchuli oil mixed in with it. Diet is important. Make sure you include some natural live greek yoghurt somewhere. Even if it is a couple of spoonfuls on some bran based cereal in the mornings. This will make all the difference. Also, cut down on caffine especially from coffee. I hope this helps and please let me know how you get on. When making love, the object does not need to include an orgasm. You mention that after you orgasm this happens where you get the burning sensation? Try heavy petting for a while without either of you climaxing. Give each other a massage and be gentle and loving together. Simply enjoy each other's bodies. This will not only keep you close, but will build up both of your confidences too with each other. I do understand how devistating this experience can be, but in the end you have all the time in the world. Just relax, enjoy each other and once you have let some time pass without penetration or orgasm, both of you will be ready again. Also one more point, when your husband stimulates you, especially with his mouth, try to not let him use his saliva on your vagina if he has been drinking alcahol. This sets me off with burning after I orgasm. If I think of anything else I have tried I will come back again All the best Princess :)
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