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[Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 468 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 08:38:21 [Post Text] 
Hello Edward, Why dont you just ask her outright? "Are you cheating on me?" A question like that completely out of the blue when talking about something else can catch a person off guard. I have to say that actually checking the weight of the panties does sound like you are becoming overwhelmed by the thought of not knowing. Talking even if it does lead to an argument is often the best way to go if you are having serious thoughts, which by the sounds of things you are. You have been together for more than 18 years so it is not going to be the end of the world to her if you just simply ask. She may be offended that you have asked but given that she did cheat once, and you are genuinely thinking about the prospect of her cheating again, or having cheated again, then just ask. You dont have anything to loose by asking and your relationship may end up stronger as a result. You will be achieving a lot by asking too. She will get to learn how you feel, you will be sharing your thoughts and fears about this, plus she will have to look at her behaviour patterns afterwards once she calms down. I would definately consider this if I were you or you may end up with a self forfilling proficy on your hands. I sincerely hope that you find the answers you are looking for here. You will also need to communicate to her what you have said on this group page about not minding too much. Princess
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