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[Topic ID] 74 [Post ID] 424 [Date & Time] 2005-08-10 15:26:04 [Post Text] 
Thank you for your taking your time to answer my question. Brad's and oceanwind's reply is about what I expected, Kay's is obviously different. You are all right. In my initial posting I tried to stress what my worries are, so the view is a bit biased and too pessimistic. She does care about what I feel about the situation and she did express her worries about leaving me frustated before. We even had a good sex talk once all night long. In the morning we did what Brad suggested above. I can ask her to touch me intimately but her motivation to do it is 10% couriosity and 90% because I asked her. The curiousity part may be increasing but this is only about MY sexuality, it's not about her. I only know the sex ed book my mum read to me as child, which I hated. I decided never to force anyone to listen to a sex ed book. They tend be written by 40-year-olds about the situation of 18-year-olds written in with a child's vocabulary. ;-( I don't think my girl lacks information. At least, I don't think the lack of information is the core problem. The problem is the lack of connection between the information about other women and herself. Everyone is individual, of course, and she thinks that regarding sexuality she is somewhat different from the others. Thus, information about and from others does not neccessarily apply to her. She wants to find out herself by exploring, but not now, maybe tomorrow, maybe later...
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