{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "breaking up cause husband cheating", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "hello", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hi there. How are you doing?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "ok. not great", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "how r u.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am sorry to hear that. What is going on that makes you not feel great? I am well, thanks for asking.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Going through a break up is never easy, especially when it is with someone you thought you would spend you life with. I understand completely. It is natural to feel sad for a while", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I have been divorced myself so I know it is not easy. But I can promise it gets much better", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "yeah. it sucks. wish it was not this way. do not want to move on but without trust there is nothing", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Of course and it is normal to have mixed feelings", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I just cannot get out of this funk. why me? what did i do to make him want someone else?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you looked into any divorce support groups in your area or online? It can help to discover that you are not alone in how you feel", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yeah, but the only one in my area in person is cancelled. online seems impersonal. I dont mind being on my own, but like companionship. But will not trust again. I am in a no win situation. At least the kids are grown.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "talking does help some, just no way to fix this really. It is internalized with me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand. I went though a lot of feelings myself when I divorced. Blaming myself, blaming him, missing him. It took some time to work through but thankfully today it is all a distant memory. Sometimes time is the best healer. Be kind to yourself and take time for you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "yep. i guess it is too soon. 2020 is the suckiest year ever. On so many levels.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I hear you on that. It has been a very unusual year in general. I think that with everything going on in the world it is more important than ever that we take me time.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "got plenty of me time. lol", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "this is just the worst year to meet people. most of my friends were mutual marriage friends, and their pity is uncomfortable, and a few have chosen sides.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I know how hurtful that can be when people chose sides. It happened in my own divorce. The best thing you can do I think is to remember not to let anyone else's misinformed opinions affect how you ultimately view yourself. None of those people were there and none of them experienced what you did.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "yeah, i am ok with losing certain friends. some have surprised me some not so much. no way to meet new people or get away.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand, it is a difficult time to meet new people. Even in normal times a divorce is difficult but even more so with the restrictions we have at the moment. I think everything you are feeling is normal. Have you connected with a therapist to help you process all of your feelings. I know that helped me. Many are doing virtual sessions at the moment", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}], "seeker_question1": "none", "seeker_question2": "none", "supporter_question1": "no", "supporter_question2": "not that I can think of"}