{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "ongoing depression", "situation": "My beautiful Daughter is married to a man that does not treat her well. Gas-lights her continiually. This has rubbed off on their 5 year old daughter.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello, My name is DJ, Thank you for your time. How are you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hi, I'm Vicky! I'm doing pretty well :) How can I help you through your issues today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. As far as the issue, I'm not sure how you can other than listening and encouraging.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "No problem! I would love to be a listening ear for you to talk about it and work through anything stuck in your mind.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah, she is visiting for a couple of days. It is great to see her and our Grand-baby.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He had to work so he's not here. He's a great guy to everyone else. But not to her. We can see how their relationship has decreased and the little one is copying his poor behavious", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "omgsh I'm so sorry to hear that. Is this your daughter's partner? I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship before and know how difficult it can be", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "It is good for her to be here with us. She can talk with her Mother and pray together.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes, this is her husband.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear you went through the emotional abuse.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It is rough. I've got to be careful not to react to him.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "From my personal experience, I can say that your support really means everything to her. She may not want to admit the truth to herself, but with your support, I believe she can find the strength to get out of the relatioship", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah, she does know what is going on between them and how it is impacting the little one.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And, I am thankful she trusts us with what is going on. They both need support and strength.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes I completely understand. It's a very delicate situation. I've read multiple times that it takes an average of 7 times to leave an abusive relationship (even though I think I tried even more times than that). She will hopefully one day gather the courage to realize she doesn't deserve to be treated badly", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "You are amazing for being her support!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah, she has a good support system with her Mon and a couple very close friends.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It;s one day at a time, listening and being available.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's seriously great to hear! I don't know what the exact situation is but I do know that she needs all the love she can get", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "That is for sure. She will talk things through with her Mother, they have always been close and I help when needed.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm thanksful she leans on on us. The little one loves coming for a visit.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "that's all you can do for now until the day that she will be able to take steps to leave the bad situation", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "I hope that this will be a productive visit from them. At the very least, they'll be able to see what real love looks like from you guys :)", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Yeah, Thank you. I've got some ideas chatting with you.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Vicky, Thank you. Have a Merry \"Safe and fun\" Christmas. Thanks for listening.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm so happy to hear that. I would love to help anyone I can to get out of an abusive relationship because it was the darkest period of my whole life. I wish you the best of luck and Merry Christmas!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I think you have to end the conversation on your end.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Talking, listening, praying and making good memories. Recipe for love.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "<3 agreed. Unconditional support is everything.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "This was very positive. Yet, to be with someone, or talking one the phone or Facetime would be a great benefit.", "seeker_question2": "No, this is a great idea. People need to be safe and anonymous.", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}