{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Who do you see online?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "What did he drop on you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He dropped our relationship.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Can you block notifications for him?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "How long ago did he stop it?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, \"What if he comes to his senses and wants to contact me?\"", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "A couple months ago, but I haven't gotten over him.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "You really think playing hard to get will work?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Thanks for saying that, but I still have the problem of wanting to be in a relationship.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "With him, or a relationship with someone?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "With him... he was perfect (or at least I thought), but also, I'm lonely, and it's hard to process not being in a relationship during the pandemic.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you tried making other connections online? A lot of people are home during this pandemic, you may meet someone much better.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "True. What can I do to get over him in the meantime?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Keep busy! Get mad instead of sad!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I would not contact him if he was not contacting me. You deserve better than that!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Lol. I think I can do that!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes, we women function better when we get pissed!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "You're right. What do I do if he contacts me again? Do I let the conversation play out and see what happens?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Play it cool and be ready to make up a whole bunch of fun things you have been doing.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "That's a good idea. I can do that.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Of course you can!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "You may find your feelings have changed. Sometimes we just want what we don't have, lol.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "That's also true.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thanks, I will try that!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are welcome. Stay strong, you are stronger than you think.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "The advice was very good. However, my partner thought I was a woman because I was talking about a love interest that's a man.", "seeker_question2": "It was pretty straight forward.", "supporter_question1": "n/a", "supporter_question2": "n/a"}