{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "anxiety", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "How are you doing?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Hi im good", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How r u", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm well. How can I help you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It sounds like you are struggling with deciding on your relationship with partners.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It's good you are asking yourself questions. What do you want out of the relationships?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It sounds like the relationships give you a lot of drama. What do you crave in a relationship?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand where you are coming from. I've seen a lot of men in relationships not be so committed for real, but just like the physical part.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "yep. like my aunt said why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. i've done that for years and im getting tired of it. not to mention my libido is slowing down so i see things clearer", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Just from chatting with you, I see that you feel like you want more from the relationship and would like commitment on more than one level.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "yes when it comes down to it. and i don't know if i will ever find it- especially these days. and i don't want to settle", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I had to look for someone who was committed in all areas and only figured this out after making mistakes. I can see you have really shown maturity in learning from your experiences.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "it's easy to settle when you're attracted to the guy. I have learned a lot from my past.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm afraid the two might find out about each other. Not sure if it's a good thing or not", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "From what I've seen having confidence in yourself and what you feel in your heart won't lie.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "do you think it's good if they find out about each other? sometimes guys try harder when they know there is competition. sometimes it makes them run the other way", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do you think one may have jealousy and get aggressive if he finds out? It's a personal decision that takes some thought.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "honestly im not sure. there is always that risk when doing that with guys. i better think long and hard before doing that!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It sounds like you put a lot of thought into things which can be helpful in decision making.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "i think so. keeps me out of some potential messes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Can I help you with anything else?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "not at the moment. thanks for your input! nity nite", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have a good day.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "they helped me see the situation objectively", "seeker_question2": "no", "supporter_question1": "no", "supporter_question2": "no"}