{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi! How are you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "i don't want to lie. am not good for sure.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "my boyfriend broke up with me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "how could he do this to me?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear this. When did your boyfriend break up with you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Breakups always hurt. They can be very painful, how long were you together?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "almost for 2 years. this is sad right?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It's very sad and your emotions will take a toll, but you have to set some goals so you don't fall into a funk. Do you have a good support system?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Did he give a reason for the breakup?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Are you telling me he just said \"I am breaking up with you\" then never said why and left?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think he doesn't know what he wants and thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. It is disrespectful to you. And hurtful. You say you have no support, don't you have friends? Family?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "i don't have a family. i am living alone in a city where am working. i have not met anyone because of the pandemic.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think you might want to join an online support group then. Do you have any goals or aspirations that you are working on apart from your relationship? Because it will be painful to move forward, but if you have some goals, that can help you from falling into a slump.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "i think i should set some goals and engage in daily activities like meditation and yoga. i am thinking about contacting a medical assistance too. i can't overcome it by myself.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i am really grateful for your support and kind words.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i feel somewhat positive. i was in need of someone like this.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are welcome. I am happily married now, but I had my fair share of breakups. They hurt my self esteem. I had to work hard to not let that happen. And do my best to grieve, but not get stuck there.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "If a man did not want to be with me, I took it hard as rejection, but in the long run, if he does not want to be with me, I don't want to be with him, but that takes time, and you need friends to encourage you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "you really are a strong person.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yes. if i follow him, i will be the one to get hurt. its time for me to accept the reality.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you. I'm older, been through a LOT of hard knocks. You will be stronger too, right now you are hurting, in time you will see more clearly.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "hoping the same. i should be strong and take this as an experience to learn.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He hasn't told you why, so the problem lies in him, not you. So do your best not to be hard on yourself. It is a shock to you now, but he never even communicated this with you over time, and he should have. that's what you want in a partner.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "If a relationship has problems, you want someone to talk about he problems and work on them and grow as two people. He chose to walk away, that's immature and not what you want in a relationship. That is actually abusive.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "yes. its better to be alone than with a partner who didn't understand us. really you are awesome mam ! there is a lot to learn from you !", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i feel like you can clearly see through my mind.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you! You are so very kind! And you are very sweet too, willing to hear the truth! That is an admirable quality! You deserve a partner willing to work on problems, not a quitter.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Do take care of yourself! Find some friends, work hard at that, call old friends too. Just to say hi, call an old aunt or uncle and check in. Find community. That will help you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "i should take a break from this relationship issues and try to enjoy myself and heal from this.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you are kind too mam !. your partner is really lucky to have you.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "sure mam. i will really try hard.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes! Don't hop into another relationship for a long time, months, even a year. Find out who you are. Be the woman you want to be. I prayed for my husband for a long time. God is good! :D I had a lot of bad ones before him!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "we all learn from our experiences. yes. i want to be emotionally independent. i should take a break and travel after this pandemic. hope you will be happy as well.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you so much!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "i should be one thanking you mam!. take care.good night and have a deep sleep.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "none", "seeker_question2": "none", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}