{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My husband and I are having a very difficult tine both working remotely during the corona virus and having two kids with us all day who are learning online. We are being interrupted daily and they tend to come to my office more-so than my husbands. He seems to think I can deal with this better and more efficiently but my work is just as important as his. We both make about the same income.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm sad today Rob.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear that, when did you start feeling this way?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Probably about 3 months ago.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Did something happen to trigger this for you? Or did it just kind of start without an explanation?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "My kids started online learning in their respective rooms during the day. One day they both came running to me after about 3 days of school asking me for various things that kids do. They were only coming to me and my husband sort of participated in the beginning but now he is falling back the last few months and it has taken a toll on our relationship.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Correct me if I'm wron g, your children are now online learning, and you are feeling defeated because your husband is pulling away and not providing you the support you need?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Thi s very correct!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That would be very hard, especially with the way the world is right now. I want you to know your feelings are valid, and I'm sure you are trying your best.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Have you tried talking to your husband about your feelings, and how it is affecting your day today life?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I am but our relationship is in jeopardy and we are arguing more than ever.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes, but he seemingly will not compromise.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He tried to suggest a half and half deal or this time im here for them and this time he is. He is not holding up to his promises.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That makes it hard when you have already tried to take the steps to help you improve the situation. If I may offer a suggestion, perhaps you should approach him, and advise him you are not interested in arguing since that won't improve the situation, but be up-front and honest about how this is making you feel, and how his lack of support will ultimately harm the whole family. And also maybe ask him if there is anything going on with him to find out why his support to you, and the children has changed.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "This is good advice. I am also not helping because I am arguing back at him. Something may well have changed within him I do not know about.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I will definitely do this!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You have been very helpful and thank you!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sometimes when someone is stressed, their behaviour can change suddenly, if he is able to vent to you if there are any issues it could help!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Great! Very useful and thanks again!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I really hope the situation improves for you, and just remember it is ok to feel sad some days, and don't be too hard on yourself. I wish you all the best!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Your great at this:)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you so much! I appreciate the feedback!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "No it was actually very useful and detailed.", "seeker_question2": "nope", "supporter_question1": "It felt good to help", "supporter_question2": "Nope!"}