{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "depression", "problem_type": "Appearance Anxiety", "situation": "Ive gained some weight after having my kids. I havent been able to lose or go below 150. so nothing fits, or nothing looks good on me anymore. and i feel thats why my boyfriend doesnt compliment me ever or make me feel wanted at all.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "4", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "I don't know what to do anymore. i feel completely lost.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Can you talk more about your feelings now?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Well i just feel ugly all the time. ive changed my eating habits and i just cant seem to lose any weight", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and i know or i feel as if hes just not physically attracted to me anymore and that breaks my heart", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can completely understand your feelings. I can feel how stressed out you are about your weight.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Did you try doing more exercises and control your diet?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "ive tried talking to him about it but he doesnt seem to even listen to me at all.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i have changed my diet, and take walks with my kids but dont really have a gym membership. and anyone to watch my kids 5 and 3.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "but for some reason i cant get below 150.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have experienced similar situation. I talked to a consultant and he gave me some good advice on diet. Did you talk to a professional?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "mind u i was 125 and fit for the 10 years we were together before we had kids", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "like a doctor?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "because my other siblings who are very much in our lives are health freaks and fanatics", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I talked to a nutritionist and it really helped. They are professionals who can look into your diet and give suggestions.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "but they dont have kids", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i did get a sensitivity food test that showed me what could possibly be triggering my body", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Can you hire a nanny and free your time?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "that did help me in what i should eliminate", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "cant really afford a nanny for 2 kids at the moment", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Were you able to eliminate those foods?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Some gym provides free day care and you can drop to their day care before you start exercises.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "not all completely but i have been taking a little bit out at a time.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yeah not around here especially because of the pandemic", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "in california things are really expensive here", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Did you consider moving to cheaper locations?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "not really i have family here which i want my kids to be as close as possible i would have to move to another state. but that would take a lot of consideration on both of our parts", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i just dont understand why my bf wont take me serious and actually listen to me when im telling him how i feel", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yes, I can completely understand your situation. Just from chatting with you, I can see how many things are on your plates.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Did you guys seek professional help on relationship?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}], "seeker_question1": "n/a", "seeker_question2": "n/a", "supporter_question1": "NA", "supporter_question2": "NA"}