{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "disgust", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "4", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "3"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "hi what\u2019s up?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Hello", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Good day", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "how ar you doing?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I ma okay, and you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i'm doing ok. is there anything you wanted to talk about today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "slept with my close friend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i'm so sorry. when did you find out?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "a little bit over months now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "how are you feeling about it?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Disgusted", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "with your boyfriend or your friend? what's troubling you the most about the situation?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you've had some time to sit with this, i understand completely that you are disgusted, but how have your felings changed since you found out?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Changed in what aspect?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I still detest both of them", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "are you spending time with them like you did before, have you talked to them>", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "No im not", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I cant stand either of them", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "even though it doesn't feel like it, affairs have little to nothing to do with the people who get hurt the most", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "it's not about you even though you got hurt the most", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "Okay", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "the anger and betrayal are natural feelings", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "So you think i should have a conversation with them?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "if you want to maintain relationships, then you woudl have further converstations, but if you are ready to move on, nothing they can say will change what you need to do - move on", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I am not interesting in either relationship anymore", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "it sounds like you have moved on if you aren't talking to them, is that right?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "and i also havent spoken to no one about it", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "so i'd spend my energy working on myself.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "i guess", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "what are somethings you can do to take care of you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "work, meet new people, movies and do fun things", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "are there friends you can talk to about this? your parents? siblings?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "seek out a support group, people you know who can and will take care of you when youare feeling low", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Siblings yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Nut i didnt go into full details", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yesss", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "thank you so much for listening and advicing", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "people who care about you often don't need the details, just that you need them", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Right", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I just told them it didnt work out", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and i am not giving details about reasons neither am i talki ng about my friend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and that's enough. until you are ready, you don't need to elaborate", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "yes you are right", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "it's really nobody ele's business", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "yeaa you know people sometimes wana mind your own business", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "it's easier to see where others are going than it is ourselves sometimes", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "because there's not the emotion clouding the way", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you have been of tremendous help in helping me move around my thoughts", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "once you get the raw emotion out of a situation, it's easier to see things like they really are", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "i guess so", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i'm glad. plesae stay safe", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "thank you so much", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you be safe also", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "No", "seeker_question2": "No", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}