{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My best friend has been very demanding, and I'm very upset.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello there.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Good evening . How can I help you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm having a problem with one of my friends.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So you are having issues with your friend? That is upsetting . What is the issue?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "She has been having a problem with a different friend for years. I have been listening to these problems for all of that time. And even though it's so frustrating, because it's the same problem over and over again, I keep listening because she's my friend. But lately I have been going through a lot, and I haven't had as much time to sit and listen to these same problems, and she gets so angry telling me I don't care about her. The problems I've been going through are very serious, and I just don't have time to sit on the phone listening to the same stuff I've been dealing with for years.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can understand how angry unappreciated and burnt out you must be feeling. I would feel that way too", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "It's been really rough. I've tried so hard to be there for her, and I feel like she just doesn't even appreciate it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I don't think she is a place to be able to see anyone but herself. She is self centereed self asbored and self pity party and doesn't care about anyone but herself right now . Is that accurate?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes, that's exactly accurate. And she is 50 years old, and the issues have all been high school type problems that I've been listening to. Stuff about how she didn't post on social media about her birthday, and little petty things like that. Not something an adult should be concerned with. And I still sat and listened to her all that time.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I completely understand how unappreciated and stressed this would make you or any person. Especially when our plate is full and its the same old same old and nothing is changing. Its like thinking doing same thing over and over you will get a different result when 2+2 equals 4", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yes, exactly.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are an extremely good and loyal friend and I am so proud of you. Most people would have left her.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Thank you. That's really important to me. She was starting to convince me that I wasn't a good friend because I wasn't there for her right now when I had problems of my own. Real problems - like my daughter's engagement breaking up.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "However, it is time to take the hard road. YOu are going to have to say with LOVE because its not always what you say but how you say it. Give me a minute to please type it", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Okay, thank you.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are going to have to sit her down and say I need to be honest with you. I have always been there for you but you are not willing to take my advice or others advice and quite frankly I just can't do it anymore. IF you want to remain friends I need you to grow up and realize the world doesn't revolve around you or even me. Right now I could really use a good friend. I am going thru A LOT OF Sh** and I don't need this in my life. So", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I think that's a good idea. I'll try that.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "if you aren't able to do that than I am afraid until you can be a true friend and not just a user than I need to end this friendship . I don't want to but I need to for my mental health and for myself and even for you. I say this because I love you and I do care but this has become toxic", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Yeah, I like that. I think it's a good idea to say those things to her.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "she really needs to hear it and it sounds toxic to me . I know I wouldn't want a friend to accuse me of not being there and from the chat look like its all about her and she s acting like a spoiled brat", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I agree. She can't see past her own issues to see the whole situation.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "If you think its a more serious problem maybe ask her to seek professional help.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "I might try that if this doesn't work. Thank you for your help.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "youre welcome and above all continue to pray for her or start praying for her. You really are a great loyal intelligent person. Keep safe", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "You too, thank you.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Good luck . Merry Christmas", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "no", "supporter_question2": "no"}