{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "anxiety", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "constant fighting", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "hello", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hello. How are you today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "not very good.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "he found out though.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i dont know whats gonna happen", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "i do very much", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "what should i do?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you thought about if you can trust him after that?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "im just so lost", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can understand where you are coming from. I have been in that situation myself and it is not an easy place to be. For me, it took some time to accept that I deserved better than someone who didn't just want me. Is that how you feel?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "kind of", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Understandably so. I believe that this is just temporary and you will be amazed at how strong you are.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "you think so?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "If you are leaning toward not accepting not being enough for him, then I would suggest an exit plan. Call a family member, or friend, to see if you can stay there awhile. Have a cooling off period from your husband and reassess the situation", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "ok. ill consider that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "thank you so much", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "this has been going on for half a year", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I absolutely do. We normally find out that we are actually much stronger than we give ourselves credit for.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "thank you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is wonderful news! See you are starting to make a plan for a better life for you and your children. You so got this!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "thank you so much. stay safe", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "bye bye", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "youre welcome. I am here if you need me", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "i have a feeling that everything will be okay.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is great! Did you have a chance to think of anything else that might help you through this?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "yes. Thanks to you i can broaden my search", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "thank you. good bye", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "It was difficult to try to make sure I was addressing all of her concerns as fast as she was typing them at time.", "supporter_question2": "No, I think everything was great!"}