{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I broke up with my partner last month and I'm in a funk", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello. How are you tonight?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm hanging in there. I'm in a funk.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear things aren't going to well. What's the problem in a nutshell?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I split with my girlfriend after 5 years together last month/", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Breakups can be hard, I can understand your frustration. Five years is a long time to have a relationship and then end.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "I caught her cheating on me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear that. That's hard to forgive and move on from that.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I'm trying to just move on but I feel so insulted. I'm mad then sad back and forth, over and over.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I find that when I have a very painful situation, I try to only thing about it for a certain amount of time. Then I make a list of things to do so I can be occupied to not think about it.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Yes, but my whole life was upended. My living situation, my friend circle is broken up over this. I don't know how to move on. Any suggestions?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Getting over a breakup will take time? Have you ever heard of DABDA? Denial (I can't believe this happened!) Anger (we all know that) Bargaining (If only I had done that, or if only - trying to make it FEEL better by imagining other scenarios - doesn't really work) Depression - sadness, then Acceptance -- we go in and out of these emotions and sometimes it can make us feel crazy, but all of them are normal in varying degrees and we don't know when they will happen.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "No, but those sound like the typical stages of grief. I guess I'm in anger. I have no interest in barbagining.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I would make a list of things you have always wanted to do and then just BRAINSTORM any idea, no idea is too out there -- learn to ice skate, learn to play the ukulele, sign up for dance lessons, join the gym, go to a singles group at church, visit the elderly, volunteer somewhere.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I think I need to focus on exercise. Just get my body and mind healthy and full of energy. What do you think?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I also find it helpful not only to limit how much I dwell on my pain, but make sure I reach out to help someone else. I will tell you, that is the secret to happiness. Maybe help a neighbor with groceries or hanging lights. Old people (me) love help, bake something or call your aunt or uncle.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "True, but it's hard not to dwell. It's not like I have a choice. It overcomes me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I agree, get healthy and try to help others. One thing about feelings is that if you change your mind, you can change your feelings, it might happen slowly, but if you put your mind off of it, it will help. Not saying NEVER feel the emotions, but feelings are the tail of the dog, not the dog itself, You do not have to be ruled by them. You don not have to FEEL like going for a walk to go for a walk.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "It's hard not to just drown myself in booze and cannabis.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "A healthy balance of self care, and other centered behavior and know this will take time. I just takes time.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Time heals all wounds for sure", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand, but those are choices that really, long term, are not for your benefit. Her cheating was a reflection on HER bad character, not yours. You have to love yourself and try to fight this.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Are you Ai or a human mturker?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm a human. I live in KY, retired counselor! hhahaha I prayed for someone to encourage.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "OH cool. Well your prayer came true. I'm, also a human....from Georgia", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm from the city, so there isn't much to do on a farm in the middle of cold weather. I have been through a lot of breakups, so I know what works, and yes, I was cheated on, devastating. But you can overcome this. Make that list and do NOT let your feelings rule your life. You can recover and find someone worthy of your love and care.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Thanks so much!!! I really appreciate it! :)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "The WORST breakup came a year before I met my husband. in retrospect, it was the best thing, listen,you could have married this girl, count your blessings. cheating is just terribly destructive. And you are welcome. Take care of yourself. Write the list of goals and fun things to do, choose one every day.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "You are very kind! All the best!! Take care!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Bye now! God bless!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "I loved it, great person to talk to", "seeker_question2": "no it works great", "supporter_question1": "I liked helping someone.", "supporter_question2": "The chat actually cuts off words in the middle. It's rather strange to read."}