{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I'm mad at my boyfriend for not taking responsibility.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Hi, how are you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Good thanks, so what's troubling you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'm so mad at my boyfriend for not taking any responsibility. I'm about to break up with him.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Responsibility in regards to what? Like in what area of life do you mean?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "We've been dating 4 years, meeting in high school. Now we're graduated and I've gone to college. He doesn't have a job yet after 1 year.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hmm, has he been looking for work, or just laying around playing video games and shit like that?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I've been away at college and just came home on break so I'm not sure. He tells me he is looking but I don't know how it's taking a year to get a job.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, I suppose it's possible that he's been earnestly looking and just not having any luck. Is he kind of a loser in general, or is he a stand-up guy?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "He got average grades in school but didn't really miss days from school.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ok, so it sounds like you're kind of fed up with him in general, and not having a job is maybe just a part of the bigger issue?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "That's probably correct. He hasn't been in contact with me as much since I left for school. I just expected more.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, it sounds like you're both in kind of a transitional period in life. It's pretty normal for relationships to not necessarily survive through things like this", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "That's so sad since we have so many years together, but I feel like I'm moving forward and he is staying in place.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yeah, I mean it's never easy going through a breakup, but people change as they get older and mature, and they aren't necessarily going to still be compatible the whole time. Also I think it's important to not think of a relationship that peters out as a failed one. Just because it didn't last until one of you died doesn't mean it wasn't a success. I think people put too much emphasis on permanence.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "That's true, it can maybe just be a stepping stone to build other relationships. Thanks for the wisdom.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well I've got a couple decades on you, so I've been through this a few times before. Actually I'm still friends with pretty much all of my exes. I mean just because I'm not romantically involved with them anymore doesn't mean that they aren't still terrific people. Hell, I hung out with two of them just today.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "That's great you have maintained positive relationships and were also able to move forward. Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You bet. So what do you think you'll do from here? I mean do you know you want to move on for sure, or do you think you'll see if you can work through this patch? I don't know that there's a wrong answer .", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "I'm going to spend some time thinking about it some more but won't regret if my choice is to move on.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "no", "seeker_question2": "no", "supporter_question1": "It was a pretty good conversation", "supporter_question2": "No, nothing that I noticed"}