{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "depression", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "A breakup that happened many years ago but I still think about it", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello how are you \\", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am well than you, and yourself?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am good, I was wondering if you could help me with advice from a breakup that I went through many years ago", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You went throught a breakup a few years ago?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes, but I still think about it all the time", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It still bothers me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Has something similar happened to you before", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How long ago was the breakup?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Many years ago this was not recent at all", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I had a bad breakup that I thought about for about 6 months. Then I realized that life moves on. If it did not work out, it was for a reason.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "But none of my partners have lived up to her", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How did you come to that realization", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Was it just time or was there something that you actually did", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I thought about the good times and bad. I went over why it didn't work. I realized that it never would have. Then I carried that new knowledge to my next relationship", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Oh that is good advice", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "did it work for you or would you suggest that I do something like this", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "or something slightly different", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It was time and meeting new people/partners. I knew after the breakup more about myself and what I needed in a long term/life long partner", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Have you been dating other people?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes since that time I have dated other people , and many of them have been great people", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "They have been great people? You need to learn/remember what you liked most about the partner that you are talking about, what you didn't like most, and find both a new partner.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "It still keeps lingering in the back of my head about my ex even though I have had other great partners", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes this is good advice thank you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I know you will find the rigt person.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Thank you this is very kind and helpful advice, and it is helpful to know that it comes from experience", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It took my 2 years after my last breakup to find my now wife! Just be patient and keep looking", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Please tell me if there are any other things that I should try that you have not mentioned as well?>", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, you could read a few books about relationships? Do some research", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Are there any particular books or authors that you would recommend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Not really, I would just look online, and type in relationship books and look at reviews.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "That is good, I have a friend that only reads these types of books, I could ask him for some suggestions, I don't want to seem like I am being a burdun to him though", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He is a counselor and I am sure that he is frequently asked to help people when he just wants to be a normal friend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You think you will burden him? You are not a burden", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "We all have different gifts that my benefit our friends. That is part of being a good friend.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I just don't want to ever feel like I am being a burden to people,", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are not. Be confident in yourself", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "That is very true that different people have different gifts that they want to share I never thought of it like that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Glad I could help", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Have a great day and thank you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You as well", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "oh wait", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "have we reached the appropripriate amount of time", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "what?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "Good partner, great helpful comments", "seeker_question2": "No", "supporter_question1": "finished naturally", "supporter_question2": "no"}