{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "depression", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Is there anything you'd like to chat about? What's on your mind?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "OK. This is a temporary feeling and it will pass. Please be kind to yourself.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "What led to you feeling this way?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fianc\u00e9 family not knowing all was but lies", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "OK. So you proposed to your girlfriend, but she was seeing another man?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And the man you thought was her uncle was her other boyfriend?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "That is a horrible situation. It's not nice when people lie to you - I've had it happen to me before.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "You must be feeling very betrayed at the moment.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That sounds horrible. I think anyone would be upset with that!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I wonder if it was best that this happened before you got married, though - it hurts, but it would have hurt more if she had become your wife. How does it feel if you think about it that way?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yh! am happy i knew sooner", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How does your family and friends feel about it? Have you spoken to them?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You must feel as though she has taken advantage of you and your generosity.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think it might be good to talk to people around you who knew you both.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I know that it must be difficult because you feel like your pride has been hurt as well as your heart.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "i provided everything i think a girl would need so she wont feel inferior but what did i get in returns", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It sounds like you are a very thoughtful and generous partner. I know that others will see that in you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "guessed i gave too much and it came back right at me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Perhaps you shopuld now focus on taking care of yourself. Did you neglect anything you need or enjoy to take care of her? Could you do that now?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "yes learnt my lessons, had to move on, but i can never respect any lady", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can see how that might make it difficult to trust people.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "However, not everybody is the same. You sound like a very caring person and there are lots of caring women out there looking for someone just like you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Could you spend some time getting to know more people until you feel like you can trust someone again? Do you have any hobbies you enjoy?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "guess that will do, yh i do have an hobby, loves reading", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Great! Have you tried joining a book club, where you can discuss books you enjoy with others? That will help take your mind off things and you can meet new people too.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Thanks, i really appreciate", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm glad. I hope you have a great day and please remember to be kind to yourself.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Thank you for your time its nice chatting with you", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "its absolutely great", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "It was quite hard to know how to respond because the Seeker didn't really go into detail.", "supporter_question2": "No - it all worked well."}