{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "fear", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My roommate says she wants me to move out.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "3", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Hi, I am in a bad mood and am hoping you can help :)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What's wrong?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "My roommate has told me she wants me to move out but I have no where to go. I feel helpless.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Is there a reason she wants to leave?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "She says I'm too critical and I complain too much. Meanwhile, she's the miserable one.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Maybe you could help her feel more comfortable around you, as that is what I would do :)", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "She's had both vaccines and watches CNN 20 hours a day...meanwhile I watch positive videos, do yoga, meditate and work all day. She's projecting.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm trying. I'm not saying anything negative even though that's just my NY personality. She doesn't have a sense of humor though.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It seems like you two don't share a lot of chemistry. But then again, you can't afford to let her leave", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I think she just wants to live alone here and wallow in her misery and embarrassing TV choices. lol But yes, you're right, I'm just trying to make her comfortable. And yes, we have nothing in common.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I may buy a car to live in. But I'm in AZ and it's about to be 110 degrees every day...", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "No i don't think thats a good idea, if you are still able to change her mind", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Maybe try to talk it out with her in a calm setting", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "She screamed at me one day about 2 weeks ago, but hasn't mentioned it since. But, I do know she still wants me to go...the problem is if I bring it up, she gets really angry. It's like I can't win.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think she thinks when I try to talk about it, it means I want to leave and since there's nothing either of us can do about it, she hates me even more...because it implies I can't stand her. If that makes any sense.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She's extremely non-confrontational. (except for that one day where she just let it all out--hates my personality apparently)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yeah, if she is non-confrontational that means that you will have to initiate it", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Because she won't and she will end up leaving", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "But I don't want to make her mad again. Sometimes she just forgets things. lol Maybe she'll forget that she wants me to leave.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "The funny thing is, she just bought a trailer....and I offered to live in it. She didn't go for that idea.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yeah but you can't really take such a gamble tbh. And why did she buy it, is it because she wanted you to live in it?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "She bought it as a horse trailer. So she can both live in it when she goes on the rode and carry her horses too. But she hasn't even used it since she bought it months ago. Do you know how long we're supposed to chat for btw?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "road*, not rode. lol sorry", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ah, 15 minutes...I see it says on the left.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We were supposed to chat for at least 10 messages each i think", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Oh good, I think we've done that? I tried this study before but don't know if I got paid...don't think so.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It takes a while i think like a week, but i am not sure", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "Okay, cool. Well, thanks for the advice. This is my reality right now actually.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yeah, if she wanted to leave she would've done so long ago in my opinion", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "bye", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "bye :)", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "I do like chatting with strangers. I would love to do this all day.", "seeker_question2": "I wish the people were more personable but there's nothing you can do about that.", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}