{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My boyfriend was disrespectful. he went ahead to cheat on me with the particular girl i warned him about seeing. he lied about it even after being caught and tried to emotionally blackmail me with it still.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "3", "relevance": "3", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi! How are you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Hello i am okay", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm well. What's going on?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I just wanted to talk about my recent heartbreak", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What happened?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "What happened?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "My boyfriend cheat on me with my close friend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i wouldnt say close tho", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "but because i know her i had warned him about her]", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "OMGoodness! That's awful. I've been through the same.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "but typical men, they would still disrespect you with anyone in skirts", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i dont know why a grown ass man cannot be decisive", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Unfortunately men have earned a reputation as jerks for that reason.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Are you still together or have you left?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Its crazy", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and just when you think you found one with his brain intact, he finds a way to embarrass you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i called it quits", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Im not even sure who should take the higher percentage of my anger, the stupid girl or the stupid boy", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Good for you! I know that it must've been painful, but I don't think anyone deserves to go through it on repeat...", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "really though.. was a stressful time", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, they probably deserve an equal percentage of that anger...", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "after being caught slipping, he tried to lie his way out of it", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "that's the funny thing. they ain't even together. The said girl has her own boyfriend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "However, YOU deserve to have the freedom of choosing to forgive and forget them both. The resentment that's building inside you is just like a poiso\\ n that YOU'RE drinking in hopes that THEY get sick from it.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Im moving on. I have refused to let that define me or my moods", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i also havent spoken to anyone about it", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i dont think its necessary", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Revenge is a dish best served to the trash! There's no relief in bitterness. Might as well let it go, move on an move up from there!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "right on that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "never even thought of revenge. that would mean i didnt have a life of my own", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think you're handling the whole thing well. You're very intelligent and emotionally mature. It's his own dumb loss and hers too!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "right about that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ha! well said about revenge \\", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "yes yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Certainly he's just a punk and probably has some underlying issues that he needs to deal with. Her too, really! Punk and all lol, But you? You're strong, resilient and capable! You have a great grip on this whole adulting thing here, and its admirable how well you've handles the ordeal", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "i couldnt agree more", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "no", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}