{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "Girlfriend dumped me for someone else!", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi, how are you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hi there! I'm great, what about you? How can I help today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "My girlfriend dumped me for someone else! I've been really shook up.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm so sorry to hear that :( Do you have any idea why?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I think she just lost interest in me? It happened a couple of months ago. I wish I could get over it. I can't get her off my mind. She's dating this total loser.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's tough... so you're saying that you grew apart a little? Or do you think it was more one-sided?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "It probably was more me than her. Maybe I should have done more to show her that I cared for her. Am I not romantic enough? Some guys just aren't that way.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I completely understand, and I don't think you should beat yourself up over it!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "That's a fair point. I shouldn't be too hard on myself. I didn't really grow up in a romantic family. I don't know how to do that stuff, but maybe I could learn.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Exactly, and remember everyone is different, perhaps you just weren't her right one, and that can go both ways.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Do you want to improve for her? or for yourself do you think?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "That's true. I really got hung up on her. I thought she was perfect and that we were perfect together. She didn't see it that way. I can't really change who I am, and she couldn't change who she is.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I don't know if I can change myself for her. Maybe there is something basic that she wants that I just don't have? I should probably change for future relationships.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's a great line of thought, its good that you're able to identify that yourself", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "What do you think I could do to improve myself?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I suggest that you stay exactly the way that you are. I feel like you'd be happier that way and also more likely to find someone who shares the same values as you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "If you change who you are, it sort of means that your ex still has a hold on you, you know?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Will the same problems show up in the next relationship though? It could be a long search before I find someone that matches with me?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's true. But I feel like I should take away something from this experience.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I guess that depends on you, would you rather compromise for a relationship or find one who'll really last and not have to change?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I think all relationships require compromise and change. No two people are perfectly compatible.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I worry that I have blind spots that I should fix. My ex-GF didn't really specify what the problem was.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's true, building on that, you could also say that what your ex found to be the problem is not the be-all end-all. What your ex disliked could be what 10000 other girls love in a guy", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "That's true. I might end up trying to solve a problem that really isn't there. It's not a bug, it's a feature! :-)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Wow, you put that really nicely!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Thanks! You\u2019ve been really helpful today. I can\u2019t thank you enough for your encouragement and insight.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It was no problem! Thank you for sharing and talking it out!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I feel a lot better now. Have a great day! Bye!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have a great day :) bye!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "bye!", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "This was a good interaction.", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": "Having to wait 15 minutes, when the conversation can realistically be ended sooner. In my experience, 10 minutes is a good minimum time."}