{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "my boyfriend of three years has been cheating on me.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am doing okay,", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Of course! What is the problem?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So to make sure I understand, have you caught your partner cheating?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "I haven't actually caught him myself.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Has someone told you they suspect he is cheating?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It is a horrible feeling when that seed has been planted in your head.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Exactly and he denies it. I just don't know what to do or who to believe.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I know you mentioned you want to believe him when he denies it, I guess the important question is what is making you have that shadow of doubt? Has he been unfaithful in the past?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I know he cheated in the past on a previous girlfriend, but not on me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And know I am not saying I don't believe you, I think your feelings are valid, and I just want to get the full picture", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "at least no that I am aware of.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ok. So there has been a past history of this.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And what are your friends and family saying to you? Are their accusations valid?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I can see their point. They think he is using me for my car and money. He is constantly between jobs.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I know for me, sometimes friends and family will say things like this is they personally do not like the partner themselves without taking your feelings into consideration", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I don think they dislike him, I think they fell he is using me and I am blind to it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ok I see. And for yourself, do you see a future with him? Because in the end it matters how you feel. Do you feel taken advantage of?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "I do financially feel taken advantage of.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So possible cheating aside - there is definitely some others issues that needs solving. Have you calmly confronted him saying that he is affecting your personal financial goals?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yes, and he always promises to do better. I know deep down it should end.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thanks for listening", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think you may have answered your own question. I know it is hard, but if someone shows a pattern and they do not change their behaviour, most likely they will not anytime soon. Meanwhile, your mental health and finances will suffer. If you want my unprofessional opinion, I think your friends and family care for you, and they will be there to help you through this", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}], "seeker_question1": "", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "I felt like I could say more if I had the chance", "supporter_question2": "Nope"}