{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "ongoing depression", "situation": "I wanted to start having sex with other women from the Internet and my wife would not allow it.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "4"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello! Is there anything that you want to talk about today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I need someone to talk to, I am sad.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am really sorry to her that. I hope that I can help you a little. Would you tell me what the problem is?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I really love my wife, but I also like other women.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Ah - so I hear you saying you are tempted to be unfaithful to your marriage vows?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yes. I tried to see if she would let me sleep with other women from the Internet, and she is not allowing it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well I must say that as a woman I would not allow it either ;)", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Yes I would agree with that. I guess I wanted my cake and be able to eat it too.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It does sound like it. Are there any other problems in your marriage that might be making you unhappy or is it generally okay and you just want someone else too?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am trying to get my wife to spice up our love-making and she is unwilling to do so, and that makes me super sad.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you considered getting some sort of marriage guidance counselling? There are people out there who might be able to help you both", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Why would we need counseling to spice up a love life? That should come naturally, is it hard for women to make that change?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think it sounds as though you might be pushing her into things she is not ready for though. Have you considered that you might be the problem?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "That is what makes me sad, I know I am the problem. I am a piece of trash, she is way better than me. I hate myself.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "No, I do not think you should say that! At least you recognise that you are not behaving well, which is the first step on the road to making things better.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Maybe I have a sex addiction. I think I watch too much pornography and it gives me weird ideas for sex.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Perhaps you could consider individual counselling to overcome your own problems before you think of couples' therapy?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "Porn can be helpful for a relationship but it can also be damaging.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Just for me? I hope I get a male counselor because if it was a female one, I would probably want to sleep with her.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, perhaps it would be better for you to learn that you can't just do that even though you want to :)", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Yes, I can't control my impulses. I am picturing what you look like now and imagining what we would do together. I think I have a big problem.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am forty five, fat and married :). I do recommend talking to someone though.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I am forty one, fat and married. I actually prefer heavier ladies, but I get your point. :)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am glad you were able to confide a little in me and hope it is the first step on the road to a happier marriage. I do recommend not giving into your urges and remembering how much you love your wife. I wish you all the best for the future and have a lovely Christmas!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Thanks, you too.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "(you need to end the conversation from your end - I can't )", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}], "seeker_question1": "I liked her responses.", "seeker_question2": "No.", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}