{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My friends don't understand my choices to get married quickly and buy a house", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello, i've been so sad lately.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My friends are mostly single and don't understand.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "are they close friends or just friends", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "My best friends, I also left the major city that we all lived in. With COVID, i havent had a chance to meet other friends.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's a good approach. I should try it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are absolutely correct with Covid everything is not normal and I am afraid we have to accept this time as the new normal until this all clears up. Also, it wont do any good to be sad even though you have a right to it is just better to try to be positive. Believe me easier said than not.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I can't wait until things are nromal again so i can take my frineds out for dinner again", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do you guys talk on face time or face book or anything social media related?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Amen everyone will be so much happier. May I say something with no disrespect since we just met", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Facetime mostyl!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You can say anything!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "God is on the throne and in Control . I am not just saying this because it happens to be Sunday. I haven't been to church since March due to Covid. I used to go weekly but that doesn't make me any better or worst than those who don't . I am just saying prayers help and most people say nothing left but to pray when it should be our first defense", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "The other thing that comes to mind is since most of us are home more and we have internet maybe you could think of something to buy under 20 or less but would convey to your friend that you are thinking of them / value your friendship and even though you are with love of your life they can be too!! IF they can't accept this after Covid and you talk face to face I am afraid you can make better friends", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "That's a good idea! Maybe even something fun we can do together as an activity! I will browse amazon.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sounds great ! I wish you the best and hope I could bridge the gap. Good luck and Keep safe", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Thank you so much for all your help", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "No", "seeker_question2": "No", "supporter_question1": "no", "supporter_question2": "no"}