{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anxiety", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "Everyone breaks up with me. They all think I'm weird, and I always screw myself.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "2", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "4"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi, I'm Anna", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hi there, how is life treating you right now?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am Jo, it is nice to meet you! Is there anything you'd like to talk about today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Going through a break-up. My 3rd one this year....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Nice to meet you too", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It suckssssss", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Gosh you've been busy :). I am sorry to hear that though - I know how much it hurts when you split with someone, especially if it was not consensual.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "It's a lousy time of year for it too, isn't it?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I feel like a piece of crap, and childish at that. I can't maintain any of my relationships. I think I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is a defeatist way to talk! Just because a couple of relationships fail does not mean that you will never be able to find happiness.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Well, if past experience has any powers of prediction. I get super clingy, and do this push and pull thingy, where I break up and call them names, and then become so embarrassed it's hard to even bring it up. my last boyfriend said he thought i had borderline disorder", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have been in that position too. I hate it when I realise that I am not being rational but I can't seem to stop myself sometimes and this has sometimes let to problems with my inter personal relationships", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Yea, that definitely seems to be part of my problem. I really thought he was different, too. And when he broke up with me, I tried to get him to spend the night with me in a hotel, and I felt so pathetic because I was practically begging for sex", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think I am an addict.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I hear you on that one too! It's horrible to feel that you are losing your self respect but I suspect that we've all done it at some point. Have you considered getting some counselling?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Sigh.. yes. I have seen several. I also take meds from a psychiatrist.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I hear you saying that they are not really effective, is that true?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Well... one told me that I should be put down like a dog to my face.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "so, yea", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Okay .. I hope you reported him!!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I didn't. I was younger then. who knows. not gonna lie. maybe they're right. Sometimes I think I'm a psycho. My last therapist was always doing deep breathing exercises. It didn't help.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I also have a lot of anxiety. A LOT!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I even got an emotiona support dog", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand that as well .. I am on medication for it. A dog is a wonderful thing to have! Do you feel that it has helped you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yea, he's my best friend. At least I have one boy who has to stick around. He's on a tight leash", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Dogs are very very loyal. They never cheat on you or walk out on you!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "So trueee :) I just wish I wasn't such a freak.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think you are probably not anywhere near as bad as you think you are you know :). Anyway I wish you all the very best for the New Year and hope that things pick up for you soon!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Alright, bud. Thanks. You, too", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "take care!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "(you need to quit first and take the survey .. I can't :))", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}], "seeker_question1": "15 minutes isn't really long enough to get into any insightful, complex conversation.", "seeker_question2": "Incentivize for longer talks.", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}