{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "depression", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "3", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Good afternoon", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Good afternoon", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How are you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How can I be of service to you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am well despite the virus", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "a boyfriend/fiance", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sorry about that. How long ago", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Just 2 weeks ago", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Was the other person someone you knew", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Any idea how long he was dating this other girl", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He definitely did not give you any clues", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Were you living together", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It always hurts both partners when it happens.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Yes it does", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Let me ask if you are involved with a church", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "It is possible", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is good you are involved with a church.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yes i will definitely try that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you for your advice", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What bright spots do you see in all this", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Thank you , I will definitely try that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand about the pains of divorce", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Don't let yourself become the victim.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "True", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well i appreciate your time and help", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He may have found what he thought was better but then again you will be the better. He may come back but the seed has been planted", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I will not let him come back. I deserve better", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You can find better because he will want you for you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I agree! It will just take me some time", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And you will find better because he will want both of you. Remember you have child that will help you as well", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}], "seeker_question1": "no", "seeker_question2": "no", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}