{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "depression", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "When one partner feels that the other isn't fulfilling a requirement, Wadley says, it's important to communicate that. If that person's partner isn't willing to try harder to fulfill that need, it's probably time to move on, she says\nTell your BF or GF that you want to talk about something important.\nStart by mentioning something you like or value about the other person. ...\nSay what's not working (your reason for the break-up). ...\nSay you want to break up", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "2"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi, What's on your mind today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "HII", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How are you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "fine", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i had a lot of reasons to give up on you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "but i still chose to stay", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "hello", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "how are you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am glad you stayed.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "What are some of the reasons you wanted to give up on me?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "hmm", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "she don't miss him, you miss the person he used to be.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Missing people can feel devastating, Is that what I am hearing you say?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "what about you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "ofcourse", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "never go back to an old love, it's like reading a book over and over again when you already know how it ends.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You sound like you have a lot of wisdom", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "How are you trying to move on?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "yup", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "pain is the only thing that's telling me i\"am still alive", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It is better to be alone. Than being with someone who makes you feel alone.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do you have a support group, Family, friends?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Faith isn't about everything turnig out okay.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "little level, because faith is aobut being okay no matter how things turn out.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have recently separated from my spouse. I know it is a tough journey to walk.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "ohh that was great idea", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you choice a better way", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are so correct about the outcome of Faith", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "but why you separated from your spouse.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Moving on from a toxic relationship is important.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "why .. ??", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "great", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My spouse is Narcissistic and I woke up to the understanding of the abuse.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "how to feel after breakup??", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "ohh okay", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Most of the time, I feel confident about the breakup but there are times I become insecure.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "It is during those times, I look to resources to help remind me that I made the correct choice.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "your correct.trusting you again is my decision, proving me wrong is your choice", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I have been developing a support group to help me through. Have you been working on a support group of your own.?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "this way of life was never chosen by me, it was my bad luck that it choose me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yes ofcourse", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's wonderful!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "trust and let go whoever is meant to be there, will still be there", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "thank you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "are you working on a support group of your own?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you are welcome, Is anything else on your mind that you'd like to talk about today? I have been online with others who are healing from Narcissistic abuse.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "here there are many people to ready to shopping in online", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "it is most helpful to others", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Are you saying that shopping is a form of therapy?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}], "seeker_question1": "nothing", "seeker_question2": "nothing , everything is good", "supporter_question1": "I struggled with the inconsitent topics and following their train of thought", "supporter_question2": "no"}