{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "ongoing depression", "situation": "I am angry because I think my husband is controlling but he says I dont understand what controlling is", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Good evening", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hey there! How are you feeling?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am very angry and not sure if I should feel that way", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "my husband tells me what to do where to go and when to go but he says", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "hold on please got go for a min", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Correct me if i'm wrong, but it sounds like your husband may be controlling you a little and you're expressing reasonable emotions because of it. and Okay!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "he said if he were controlling i would be givign him attention read between the lines", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "than he will say don't touch this like a cheesecake and than tell me week later make it", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Why do you think he talks to you this way?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am going to write stuff to move it up on screen . he might come read this", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "so if isuddently leave i a m very sorry", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My friends say because i allow him to control me and", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Okay that is perfectly okay. You are fine. If you need me to assist you in any way just send a question mark.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "dont stand up for myself and lalow him to treat me that way", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am angry too because I cant be free and express how I really feel", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "he has a disrespect i think for women in general and call them cunts", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "? question", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "it wont let me just send aquestion mark", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I've been in a similar situation. I was with someone who was controlling in a lot of aspects so i can feel your pain and struggle. I can feel your anger too, and I imagine that it is alot. It is not your fault, and you aren't allowing this to happen to you. It is out of your control. Don't ever blame yourself.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "How can I assist you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "That makes me feel better. How long were you in relationship", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I was in it for two years before I broke away from it. It was so hard but liberating to leave!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "ok I am glad for you..", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I could suggest you see a private doctor to talk about this with, if that is something you are able to do. Or see one with your husband. Maybe he needs a third party to help mediate the problems you guys are having.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "he will not go to therapy nor am i allowed", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am lucky to have family friends whom I can talk to", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's very hard to deal with. And I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Do you feel safe?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "but he thinks he is always right and blah blah blah", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yes", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My real concern is for the boys . they see him treating me this way and will think its ok", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "they even said something disrespectful to me and hubby was like you don't talk to your mom that way", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "or ill knock your teeth out", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "he wouldnt but he doesnt see how its his fault", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can tell this situation stresses you out and probably consumes a lot of your day to day energy. I sympathize with you and your children. What happens when you try talking with him about this?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "he says i m making a mountain out of a mole hill", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and i have no idea what controlling is", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I commend you for speaking up for yourself despite his responses. I hope you hold on to that strength for as long as you can. It will empower you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "well boys need to get ready for bed . thanks for listening. You can know I will be safe.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Okay I will be praying for you and I hope the best outcome for you possible. Please know there are domestic hotlines you can call if need be. I hope you enjoy your night.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "you too keep safe", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "Was worried for this person in particular. Was hard to stick to script", "supporter_question2": "n/a"}