{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anxiety", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My girl has decided that Brad from accounting is someone that she has secretly wanted for a long time. And now that he is divorced, she is breaking up with me to get with him.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "3", "empathy": "3", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {}}, "dialog": [{"text": "I cannot believe my Girl is breaking up with me....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am very anxious about how to cope with my emotions.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Can you IMAGINE?? Breaking up with ME?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "just stay calm", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I am trying.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "don't think too much, make yourself busy with other things", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "My girl of 5 years decided that \"Brad from Accounting\" is her guy. :(", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I need to stop the racing thoughts....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She just told me that she has had feelings for Brad for a long time....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "how old is the guy", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Now that Brad is divorced, she just jumped to the opportunity. Ridiculous.....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Brad?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "He is 40.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yes", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah......", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can't believe it was Brad.....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My girlfriend is a real gold digger....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "\"Big Bucks Brad.\" What a fool I have been.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you just need to stop thinking about her", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "make a fresh start again", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "It is hard. I was looking at engagement rings.....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She has only worked at the Firm for 3 years....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i would not consider someone who ditched me", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Just because I am not a rich guy like Brad....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand your feelings but try to overcome them", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I guess not buying that engagement ring was the right thing to do.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you ever been dumped before by a partner?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "yes, once", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "How hard was it for you? How did you cope? I have a lot of anxiety right now.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I was a student that time so focused on my studies. That's how I overcame that trauma", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Oh, ok. I am not a student. I work in retail.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That was a big shock, I was in relationship for 3 years", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Oh, wow.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How did you handle anxiety? I am having some right now.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i would suggest to play games or try to connect with new people", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Should I confront Brad at my ex-GF's workplace or start looking online for another partner?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You think connecting with other people would work? Like a support group?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "start looking for a new one because if she wanted to stay with you she would have never ditched you for Brad", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "yeah", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yeah, it was a long relationship. I should have lived together with her instead of being in different apartments.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, she constantly told me that she loved me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I never thought it would be Brad.....he is a geeky dude. I met him at my GF's last Christmas party, hosted uptown.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Work Christmas Party, too.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "its ok, things happen, if she was actually in love with you, she would not leave you just for being in a different apartment", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Well, we lived in separate domiciles.....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She said she wanted to get married about six months ago. I am not sure what happened. She just went on holiday with Brad, from what I heard through social media.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am a bit jittery right now. I am going to taker some deep breaths.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, your input has been helpful. It was good talking to you.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "None", "seeker_question2": "None", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}