{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My friends will not even call me half the time even though I am always calling them and trying to get together.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "How can I help you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "My friends won't even call me half the time even though I am always reaching out to them and trying to get together. \\", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Not only that, they don't seem to ever call me. I am the one doing all the efforts.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I haven't really tried to bring it up, but maybe I should.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "That makes sense.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes, that seems to be a good idea.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I see your point. Maybe I should be asking if my friend needs anything instead of expecting so much from them. I will have to talk to them to find out what is going on.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can see it being hard not knowing for sure.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "You make a good point.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sometimes people also grow and change so relationships evolve as well. Is there something you would hope to gain from the friendship that you think could change?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I just would like to get some answers if I am the one to blame. I feel guilty sometimes that I should have done something differently.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can see that being a challenge feeling guilty about whether you did something to affect the relationship. But, you sound like you are really trying to make things work and maintain the friendship.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I'm really trying but maybe again just having a hard conversation may help to improve things.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I had one of those hard conversations in college with a roommate who later revealed that she was in counseling and overwhelmed and struggling. She apologized for the strain in the relationship. I was so glad we talked about things because we went on to be better friends and not hold resentment toward one another.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I see what you mean. That looks like it helps to talk through things.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "No thanks. I am feeling more confident in handling the situation. Thanks!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are welcome.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "This has been very helpful.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "no", "seeker_question2": "no", "supporter_question1": "no", "supporter_question2": "no"}