{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "anxiety", "problem_type": "ongoing depression", "situation": "My mom is stuck in Mexico and I hate she keeps asking me for money.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "3", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "4"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I suppose my supporter is not here.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "hello how may I assist you today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I am just so upset", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It's like things never get better", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah...", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What have you tried in the past to turn things around?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Hm. I tried moving on. And it just appears she gets worst", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So you are missing your mom?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Not really...", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She just keeps asking me for mone", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I gave her like 10k for the house she bought and she hasn't done anything back.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh I see my mom has also done this in the past. Sometimes I wonder who raised who?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Yeah. I get that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She rented it to some guy and left before even getting some decent money", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "so now she is stranded in Mexico with some guy who can't even afford to get her back", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is the worst. I ended up having to cut my mom out of my life.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I wonder if I should do the same...", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My grand mother basically gave me a whole speech about how ashamed she is.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sometimes it is for the best to set clear boundries.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "But who knows. Apparently my mom said she'll put the house in my name for all these things I did for her.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Kind of annoying to be frank.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Is Grand mother ashamed of you or her daughter? I feel it should be her ashamed of her daughter.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "My grand mother is ashamed of her daughter", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am kind of left with a weird circumstance.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "At least that is a good thing to come out of a bad situation.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Only reason she has a house is because I helped. And if I leave it. Everyone in my family said I would be irresponsible to let my mom lose it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I do not think that would have a reflection on you. It should only reflect on your mom.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah, they said they already know my mother is irresponsible.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Instead they suggested I should provide extra financial security to myself or at least some future children.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Grandma already is giving a home and 2 apartments but... I guess I am the only kid. Christ.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My mom lost my om over 100k to be honest. It was crazy growing up to that", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It may be nice to have a bonus house for the future. But even that comes with headaches. In the end you have to do what is best for you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah. I guess boundaries are good.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I left her without much help to be honest but I guess just hearing it frustrates the crap out of me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Or sell it now and pocket the money to recoup what was lost.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I would but it isn't even my property", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And mom needs a place to stay... sometimes I wonder if she just wants to be homeless", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So she is just talking circles and not accomplishing what she says?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "More like she keeps talking about doing something crazy like have a police chase", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "and how she doesn't care for anything", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Some people do choose that life to be free of responsibility.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Have you had a talk with her about seeing a mental health professional, She may be having some issues that would benefit from care.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I tried to baker act her after she tried to call the cops on me randomly", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It ended up them asking dumb questions like if she knows what day it is", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "letting her free", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "somehow ending up with her getting herself hospitalized 2 weeks later for low hemoglobin.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Often police officers are not fully trained in helping mentally ill people, they only access if the person is a danger to themselves or others.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "yeah it sucks", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Tried to get her on disability but they just denied her", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She was brought up with bipolar depression before I was born. She said she just ran out the hospital..", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I don't know how she is just getting the consequences of that now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "A good first step is taking her to your local mental health provider. Or ask at a major emergency room where this is located as sometimes the places are hard to find.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "That was about 30 years ago", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Crazy they didn't stop her", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well I do feel better. Thinking about boundaries. It has been less stressful being so involved.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Without treatment she may just be getting worse.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "That is good to hear..", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I've heard she has a lawyer trying to straighten up the whole disability and tr eatment thing", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My girlfriend just won't let me stay out of it", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Saying my mom has no one and I would regret it if she just does something crazy", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That does make it difficult when a partner encourages you to engage in unhealthy behavior.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Yeah. If it was up to me I would probably just be dead silent", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I suggest talking to your girlfriend about how it makes you feel when she insists you continue a relationship that causes so much pain.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Yeah. That's a good point.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well I think the point about boundaries really stuck with me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I feel so much better now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It was nice talking to you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "You too.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "I think the person did a good job", "seeker_question2": "no. good site", "supporter_question1": "I like practicing helping people with problems.", "supporter_question2": "When the other person joins have the page ding."}