{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "disgust", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My friend is dating a man who is a drug addict and she doesn't understand why I won't hang out with the two of them.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "4", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "My friend thinks we should still be friends but her drug addict boyfriend has already borrowed money from myself and others too many times and has stolen from other people.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Let me see if I understand you correctly, you no longer want to be friends because her boyfriend is a drug addict and a thief?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes, I can still care about her but I cannot be a part of her life if this is what she wants.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "i can understand and i have had to do the same thing.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Am I wrong? Sometimes I'm confused by what I'm seeing. Other times, like now, I feel confident in my decision. I guess I never thought I would see her end up with this kind of situation.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hello?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think you have to do what keeps you safe and healthy. you can tell her you are here for her, but that you will not watch her destroy her life/", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I thought the same thing. I've had family members who were alcoholics and it was almost the same thing. I bailed them out till I saw it wasn't going to make a world of difference.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "so your plan is to keep your distance, your friend will eventually see him for who he is.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "How do I deal with the sadness of all this?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I would suggest joining a group like Al-Anon. It will be goof for you to talk to others in this situation.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Maybe so. I know I talk to family about it and they don't think it's that big of a deal.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It is difficult for others to understand unless they are in the situation.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Yes, I guess it is not easy for them to understand. But she's been my friend for so many years, I just don't get it. What was that group Al-Anon?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I mean Non-Anon -it is a 12 step program for loved ones of addicts.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I'll have to look into it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "okay", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "No, I think that's all I needed,maybe just talking about it put things into perspective.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Great, it was nice talking to you.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Nice talking to you too.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Bye", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Goodbye.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "Not that I can think of. I have talked on chats before but it was always about ordering something or my insurance questions. This was good.", "seeker_question2": "Keep chats open", "supporter_question1": "no i enjoy helping others", "supporter_question2": "no"}