{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "fear", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My girlfriend dumped me. I'm lonely. I want a girlfriend, but I feel afraid that I'll never find another one like my last girlfriend. I don't want to go through the turmoil again.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "2", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi there!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "hello! what is on your mind today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "My girlfriend dumped me recently. I'm so lonely. I want another girlfriend, but I'm afraid that I'll never find another one like my last . I don't want to go through the turmoil again.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "breakups can be really hard!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "can i ask why she dumped you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Yes. And this one has been so hard on me. I've lost my appetite. I have trouble sleeping.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "She said that \"we are just not compatible\" which sounds like BS. I think she was cheating on me, too.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "sounds like you are pretty depressed. that is understandable though", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "if she was cheating she wanst that good of a girl friend. if she said you were not compatible then it sounds to me like she has someone else", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yeah, but I really liked her a lot. I think that maybe we just needed more time. She didn't know me well enough.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "as hard and lonely as it is right now, it was a good thing. yiu seem really great, and you deserve way better than that!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Thanks! I keep telling myself that, but I'm worried that the same thing will happen with the next girlfriend.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "it can be hard letting people in so they can get to know you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "fear and worry is natural, expecially after being hurt. can you think of anything you could do differnt in a new relationship if you entered one?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I wonder that too. Did I shut her out? Was she needing more from me?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Maybe I could be more open? I'm not sure. After this experience, I really don't trust women.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "personally, i think dating right now is hard with all the covid crap. its hard to go on dates and do things other than sit in front of a tv. it makes things difficult", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "do you trust your mom?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Maybe it is better to wait a bit. But I feel like I need to DO something to get better, not just wait around.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "In matters of the heart? No, I don't trust my mom. In matters of the kitchen, yes.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "lol i was adopted. i don't trust my mom. either of them... lol that was a horrible example", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "what i was getting at awas maybe changing your sentance to i dont trust many women", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "OH! Ok. I see what you are saying. I should be careful about generalization. That's a good point. One bad experience shouldn't color my view.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "if you try to get into a new relationship with the mentality that woment cant be trusted.... what re the chances you open up and let the next girl get to know you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "True. But how do I learn to trust women without getting badly hurt again?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "it does suck with things rae not pre-covid normal and you go from having someone there to being like what do i do now? i just binge watched national geographic out of boredom. i think i am going crazy", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Hm. So, Dr. Freud, tell me about your love life.... LOL. Just kidding. I feel ya. I want to learn trust, but I don't know when the right conditions will return.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you are hurt because she broke up with you... that will make you stronger and be more attentive next time. and if everyone was born and met thier solemate it would be odd. life is about ups and downs. by the time you find mrs right, all these idiots that were not good for you will help turn you into the perfect person for the one that wont break your heart", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "True. You make a lot of great points. I needed to get some perspective on this issue.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thanks for chatting with me today!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "lol i have had my fair share of horrible relationships and breakups trust me", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "it was nice talking to you!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Thanks again!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "have a great night!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "You too! Best of luck with your next \"client.\" :-)", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "i enjoyed this match up", "supporter_question2": ""}