{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "depression", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My boyfriend broke up with me in a facebook story. He won't tell me why. He won't return my calls or answer my messages. I think it is because I posted something (innocent) that made him jealous. But he is being so cruel. He posts many sad songs to make it seem like he is so hurt by me, but he won't even speak with me. I can't eat or sleep. I'm losing my mind.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "3"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Is anyone there??", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hey there, how are you doing/", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Ok. Are you able to read the description of my problem or should I paste it again?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Sure", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "my boyfriend broke up with me but won't tell me why", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think I posted something on fb that made him jealous. But if that is so he is being irrational.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "oh, i am so sorry.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "he won't answer my calls or messages. He keeps posting things that make it seem like I hurt him so much.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thanks! :)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I've send him so many messages. He reads them but won't respond. I did ask his best friend to help me but my ex pretended like nothing was wrong when his friend asked him.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yes, I guess that is all I can do for now. Since he won't answer and it's putting pressure on us both. However, the anxiety of this is killing me.I can't eat or sleep. I don't know how to handle it for myself. But yes you are right, the one thing I need to do is leave him be for a bit.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Thank you I have been trying to do that. Though I don't want to bother my friends too much. I've been keeping myself busy though. Most important is to stay away from my phone. haha.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "and social media can cause anxiety too, so staying from your phone also helps :)", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Well it is not helping much. But I guess it will get better over time. I suppose the second I start to feel better, he'll call. haha. It always works that way, right?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yeah. given enough time and when things cool off, people do dwell on their behaviour and often times feel stupid for the way they act. i hope its the same case with your boyfriend as well. I have a feeling he is going to give you a call soon", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Thank you very much. I really hope so! :)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "you bet :)", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Thanks again! You did make me feel better and i think we are allowed to proceed now :)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Nice. i am glad, i could be of some help.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}], "seeker_question1": "slow to send/receive responses", "seeker_question2": "make the chat faster", "supporter_question1": "none", "supporter_question2": "the chat responsiveness can be improved. it felt a bit lagged after hitting the 'enter' button"}