{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "disgust", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I have come to realize I do not love my boyfriend any more and when I told him we needed to break up he said I would never find anyone who would love me because only he had the patience for my bullshit and now I cannot even believe I ever loved him.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello! What is on your mind today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Hello. I am so broken up and also disgusted from my break-up with my only long-term partner.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I was so surprised by the hurtful things he said when we broke up I just don't know how to even manage my feelings about all the time we spent together.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am so sorry to hear that. I know how that feels.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "That is horrible he said hurtful things, but perhaps he didn't know how to manage what he was feeling.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Was it a mutual breakup or did something happen?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Well, I suppose for him it came out of nowhere. But for me I just had slowly come to the realization that he was not the person for me. I fell out of love with him slowly and grew more annoyed by a lot of his behaviors.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "To me we were fighting a lot, and about dumb stuff like whether or not a salad is a meal.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And I realized that we were fighting so much because I wanted him to eat healthier and be healthier and he was not going to change and it wasn't even right for me to change him if he didn't want help.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So, I am sure he felt attacked and unattractive and so he lashed out at me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Realizing someone isn't the same you fell in love with seems valid. Fighting over a salad is definately not something most couples argue over.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "He probably did feel attacked, but I am sure he noticed the continual fighting as well", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "It sounds like you did what was best for you. We all deserve to be happy, and it sounds like you really were not anymore.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Are you having any regrets on the breakup?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I think I did the right thing, not just for me but for him. It isn't fair to keep dating someone just because being single is hard. I just still get weird lingering feelings wondering if he was right and maybe I am too much for a lot of people. I don't think he is right, and my friends disagree but it still hurts and I can still hear him tell me no one would ever love me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "No, I don't think I have any regrets.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think I have said the same thing in a breakup so I wouldn't take that personal.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Yeah? I suppose people just say things when they are hurt.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "People say things they dont mean, or just say mean things to hurt because they are hurting", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "lol exactly", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I bet there is someone out there for you, you jut need to find someone whos ideas of the future line up with yours", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Thank you. Hopefully someone who doesn't fight over whether salad is valid dinner choice!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Perhaps if you set up a dating profile have that be an intro question: is a salad a meal? you can weed people out that way!!!!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "haha yeah!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It sounds like you are going to be okay, and I am sure you will find someone when the time is right!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah. I think things will work out eventually.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you, you are a really supportive listener.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I agree, and I wish you the bet of luck!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "You are welcome!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "No, this chat went a little smoother than the last one, I got a good partner this time.", "seeker_question2": "Nothing that I can think of right at the moment.", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}