{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anger", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "5", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi, how are you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Hello, not great. How are you?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am doing okay, thanks for asking but what's going on with you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh no and how did this make you feel?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I am disgust and very angry to my friend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We've been friend since high school", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I could imagine it did make you feel that way. This person doesn't seem like a friend as he knew that that was your wife.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am so angry now I want to smash his face", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes, most definitely. Your feelings are very valid in this situation. However, physical violence would not be the best solution because you could get in trouble.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "That's what my wife is also telling me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "But what can I do then? I want to smash things now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "First, I would suggest that you distanced yourself or even stopped being friends with this person. Second, for the anger that you feel, there are a lot of things you could do like going running, going for a walk, or even crying", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "It's important that you do not hold these feelings in.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you considered punching a bag in the gym? That can be a great way for you to release that anger.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "It would be great, unfortunately I don't go to gym", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Should I ring him and tell everything I feel about him?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "What do you thing", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You could definitely call him and express your feelings to him as that would be another great way to get how you're feeling off of your chest.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I will then definitely ring him. Also I feel so sad because we have a lot of friends in common", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I definitely understand how you feel, I've been in the same situation where I'm not friends with a particular person but we have the same friend group. It may be hard in the beginning but the tension and awkwardness should get easier as time goes on. I would suggest that you hang out with these friends without this other friend you're having issues with.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "That's for sure but then friends need to decide who to invite", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's okay. Sometimes it may be you or other times it may be him that gets invited but that's how things will be since the situation transpired.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}, {"text": "He did a such stupid thing, now he now only myself and he is affected but also our friends", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's very true. Don't bring the situation to your friends though because they had nothing to do with it. Only the friend who did the action should be affected.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "yeah true.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Thank you for you help I will ring him soon", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "No problem, I really hope that you can get a peace of mind from this situation. I wish you the best of luck!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "You too, have a great day.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "", "seeker_question2": "", "supporter_question1": "I liked the interaction between the participant and I. I felt like I helped him quite a bit.", "supporter_question2": "No, everything was understandable and easy."}