{"experience_type": "Current Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My boyfriend just told me that he wants to break up because he doesn't see a future because he never wants to get married but I do.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4"}, "supporter": {}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello there, how are you today?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Hi, Thanks for talking to me today. I've been so upset about my boyfriend breaking up with me. It was so unexpected.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "He texted me yesterday! Can you believe that? We've been together a year and he broke up with me by texting me!!! He couldn't even do it face to face!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yes, I thought so too! He knew I'd be upset and he didn't want to deal with me I guess. He knew I wanted to get married some day from the very start. He knew it didn't have to be soon. I'm still in college. I just want to know that he wants marriage some day but he decided that marriage is an institution he doesn't believe in.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That is a shame. I can understand his perspective if marriage is not something he wanted but it seems hurtful to string you along in a relationship if your life goals were very different. Was your differing opinions on marriage the only reason he gave?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Yes, It was completely unexpected because things with us were going great. I was completely blindsided. We hadn't even talked about marriage lately. He just knew that it was something that I wanted in the future.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That sounds very difficult. How have you been coping with the break up?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I've just been crying and laying in bed. I called off work today. I don't want to see anyone right now.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think this is to be expected from a very fresh break-up. I know that when I broke up with my partner, I spent at least a few days crying and trying to figure out what my life would be now.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "How 'd you get over it?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I tried to focus on other areas of my life and to critically reflect on my relationship. Largely, I threw myself into my work and tried to better that aspect of my life, and hung out with people that I knew cared about me. Both of those are very good distractions which you might be able to use.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Maybe calling off work was a bad idea... all I'm going to do is think about this instead of doing something to take my mind off of it...", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think one day off to get the crying out of your system is a good emotional cleanse. We all need time to self care and look after our emotions. Maybe going for a walk or doing some yoga, to place your focus on something rather than being boxed into a room may help to shift your focus.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I think I'm going to get out of bed and do something to take my mind off of this . Thanks for chatting with me today!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I think I'm going to do that! There is a park by my house that I'm going to go for a walk in! Some fresh air might be good for me!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "You are more than welcome. I hope that you feel better by being outside.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Thanks! I hope so too!", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "My partner was helpful", "seeker_question2": "No", "supporter_question1": "It was fine", "supporter_question2": "Having a count of how many messages you have left to send"}