{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "I married a divorcee. She was not honest with me. I felt sympathy about her previous marriage. She was not honest about her real problems. She treated me horribly. I had to leave.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4"}, "supporter": {}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Are you there, and do wish to chat?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "i am here thank you", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How can I be of support to you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "i am presently in a bad mood when i take into account the amount of money i gave my ex and her totally refusing to compensate me for my loss.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "The virus is keeping me isolated. Looking to chat. I will like to chat", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I can relate to that", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "go right ahead and chat i am receptive", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My x is taking me to court for past due even though there is a virus. How long have you been divorced", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "It sucks.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "the divorce took place three years ago. i let her handle the whole thing to save money on attorneys. i was willing to do anything to end the relationship, especially forfeit the money I gave her to improve her home $30000 so she could get it refinanced because of an impending balloon loan coming due. i thought she would be grateful but she kept after my bank account while destroying my soul. i had to escape her, whatever the cost. i paid with my emotions.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "So your x is wanting more, mine is doing so to control me", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "the sad part is that i was a young widower with a small child and when i remarried i considered myself a hero for caring for my dying wife and my son. all i ended up being was a sucker. she smelled a sucker and she went after my good side.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I can understand the emotion part as mine had lawyer who that encouraged her to seek more.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "I am not wanting to be with anyone because my x is jealous and wants me alone. I desire romance but feel that supporting two wives is too much.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "lawyers are unprincipled rats who bend the truth as long as they can get away with it. wouldn't trust one as far i could push him. i only got through the worst of it at the time because i knew how to meditate and because i took extremely long walks. what a price to pay!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Now my friends say, don't ever get married again. Where were they when I was closing in on this fiend?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Long walks alone sucks. I want to so much hold a hand walking, but I know she will try to stop any involvement", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "forget her. ignore her. time is valuable but waiting for the air to clear helps. i tried dating again but the pool of available ladies is really a swamp. gotta get really lucky or stay clear.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I realize the desire to be alone, but find a female friend that wants to spend time together to keep you from feeling like you are going it alone.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "looks like i am being the supporter here but give it time. alone is much better than being sucked down into the muck.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Make a friendd 1st then the romance may come. There are a lot of lonely women who desire friendship as well.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I am going on 5 years. I want a friend I can chat with over coffee. take it slow but find a friend.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Just be yourself and let her be herself.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}], "seeker_question1": "the supporter became dependent", "seeker_question2": "nothing", "supporter_question1": "It was really good to chat", "supporter_question2": "No but we did not have 10 conversations."}