{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "disgust", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My girl decided to break up with me by text, instead of in person.  It was a breakup that other friends also heard about and asked me about not much later in the breakup process.", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "3", "empathy": "4", "relevance": "4", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "4"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Not a great day.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "It is not a good day....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Restatement or Paraphrasing"}, {"text": "Maybe. It is tough to talk about right now.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I love my girl, but she decided to break up with me......by text message,", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I get no respect.....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "Yeah, it is.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I am disgusted that my girl did that to me......And by text message???! What the F---", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "My friends came up to me in the bar and said they had heard about the breakup....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Some friends to gossip....yeah, I am disgusted for sure,", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "We had been together over 2 years....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "Yeah, I bet many have. It is not a very Civil society.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Very uncivil method of breaking up....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "It just disgusts me how gauche my girl's method was. Maybe people should be more polite about how they communicate about something like breaking up.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "That is a great point. A rather gauche move on her part, dontcha think?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Have you ever had someone dump you??", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "Yeah, I hear you.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "I feel disgusted so much that I got played \"like an old fiddle.\" It sucks.....", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I haven't thought about getting therapy. What would help?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I am glad to be able to vent to you about my girl's actions. I hope she is not going to hook up with my \"wing man,' Rick. I would be filled with even more disgust.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That would be an absolutely terrible thing to do. Do you really think that your friend would do a t hing like that to you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I have seen Rick eyeballing my girl at times. I think he is an agressive guy when it comes to the ladies.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Rick thinks that he is a \"playah.\"", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Do you think that perhaps you should talk to him before anything happens? You do not want to ruin your friendship by having him do that", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I might just have to do that. I think that he has been eyeballing my firl a little too much over the last two or three months, actually.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well you do not want to let that situation escalate any further. I hope I have been able to be of some help to you and I urge you to look for professional therapy if you can. All the best to you for Christmas and the year 2021!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I will talk to Rick and see what he knows about my girl breaking up with me by text. I need to find out more.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes you really should. All the best and thanks for talking.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}], "seeker_question1": "I thought the task was good. It helped a lot.", "seeker_question2": "None", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}