{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "anxiety", "problem_type": "problems with friends", "situation": "not communicative all of a sudden, not wanting to speak over phone too", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "1"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "4"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hi, how's life?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "good, feels better now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "about my experience with a friend who stopped communicating", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "usually we discuss issues or good news, anything day to day, suddenly i felt i am kept in the dark, while other friends in the group were aware of the problems faced by the friend", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "not blocking me out,but i felt that I am not considered close enough to discuss problems or personal issues", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I was trusted before, but not now", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "i understand that. but i feel lonely when friend says i am having issues, i dont want to discuss with anyone, but other friends get to know of the issue and tell me about it in a casual conversation. i feel when some other had got to know of it, why it could not have been discussed with me", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I do understand how it feels to be gossiped about - that has happened to me more than once and it is really painful.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "i feel sorry for the friend that the trusted ones have not been able to keep up and at the same time, i was not considered trusted one, where i would have kept it to myself", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Perhaps you should consider getting some new friends? Are there any societies or anything that you could join?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "i like your suggestion. i have started to do prayers and study more texts of my interest and this had surely given me a boost and I have now accepted the friend as it is.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "not really thinking too much of it, just accepting it as it is and moving on with my routine", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That sounds like a really positive outlook. Make a resolution not to let toxicity into your life in this coming year?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Providing Suggestions"}, {"text": "I hope I have been able to help you a little and set your mind at rest. I wish you a very happy New Year!", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "yes, thank you and happy new year to you as well", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "goodbye and thanks for talking", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "good bye and thanks for listening", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "(you need to end from your end as I can't from mine :))", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Information"}], "seeker_question1": "i was listened to", "seeker_question2": "nothing particular at this time", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}