{"experience_type": "Previous Experience", "emotion_type": "sadness", "problem_type": "breakup with partner", "situation": "My partner just walked out on me saying he cannot do this anymore", "survey_score": {"seeker": {"initial_emotion_intensity": "4", "empathy": "5", "relevance": "5", "final_emotion_intensity": "2"}, "supporter": {"relevance": "5"}}, "dialog": [{"text": "Hello, what can I help you?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I really sad as my partner walked out on me. Any thoughts what could cheer me up?", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Was there anything that leads to this?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Not really. I thought everything was ok between us. That is why it kind of struck me.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's terrible and unacceptable behavior.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "How long have you been together?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "I have to agree with you-it is unacceptable, considering that he didn't give me any reasons as to why he did it. We have been together for 5 years.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That sucks. I wouldn't be able to accept either.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Have you talked to your friends about this?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "It is still rather raw,I have mentioned to it to a few of my friends and they deeply symphatise with me but I feel there is nothing much they can do to help me.They are as shocked as me to be honest.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It is understandable to have that reaction. I agree with you, only us can hep ourselves.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Reflection of feelings"}, {"text": "Have you tried doing activities that help distract you from having negative thoughts?", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Question"}, {"text": "Kind of, most of it involves eating loads of ice cream LOL.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Haha I feel you, I tend to eat a lot when depressed too. Look, it's treat yourself method. You deserve the best", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "If you can go to the mountain or big lake, I would say try spending a few hours there. Maybe have a mini picnic by yourself and enjoy the nature.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "That is a brilliant idea,I do love walking and being outdoors. :)", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "It surely would help me to clear my mind", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Is there anything you have wanted to do but don't have the time? I always want to learn guitar and baking. This is the best time to start that", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Self-disclosure"}, {"text": "oh yeah, I suppose I have more time now to focus on things I have always wanted to do but never kind of had time for it. I bought a high end photo camera ages ago but never really had a chance to use it properly-I guess it is time to pursue my interest in photography, and spending more time outdoors would be ideal for that!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "And reading! The list of books I want to read is arm long!", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "That's the spirit! I know being treated like that feels horrible. However, I bet you have mourned enough, at the end of the day, a person treats you like that has no respect and you shouldn't waste time on them.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "It's time to invest in yourself, once you become your better version, a better partner will come to you", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "I really agree with you- I am worth more than that. It is time to move on, even when it is difficult. The sad side of it is that I probably will never know what I did wrong for things to end like that. Maybe I didn't do anything wrong. That is the question what will always stay with me and that actually is the hardest bit of it all. But... I am not going to delve into it.", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "I feel like hitting a jackpot actually hahahaha. I will be walking off those calories I get from ice cream I have been scoffing lately.So I am having the best of both worlds", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Who said you cannot have the cake and eat it all LOL", "speaker": "usr"}, {"text": "Yes!Actually don't think you did wrong. Reflecting after a relationship is good but don't put all the blame on yourself.", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Affirmation and Reassurance"}, {"text": "You have learned from this relationship too i believe, use that for your next one", "speaker": "sys", "strategy": "Others"}, {"text": "I do not intend to. I am usually the kind of person who does blame oneself but I have found it is not right.", "speaker": "usr"}], "seeker_question1": "I think it is a brilliant idea, often it is easier to share your mood and problems with a stranger", "seeker_question2": "I don't think so, the idea works well as it is.", "supporter_question1": "", "supporter_question2": ""}