immediately upon finishing a meal, or can you wait until the end of the day? how often will you take out the trash? where will you put recyclables before they go out to the curb? figuring out all of these things early on will make things easier in the long run.
have realistic expectations. part of living with a roommate is managing your own expectations. first, keep your discussion focused on shared spaces like the kitchen, living room, and bathroom. you can’t expect her bedroom to be as neat and tidy as you keep your own. if a few dirty socks on her floor bother you, simply look away or close 