that we chose to see them in that one way.
this perspective changes everything. we stop assuming that we know, that we hold an absolute truth, and instead are open to accepting the fact that we, humans, have the right to our own view of the world. we learn to agree to disagree on certain things and to accept others the way they are, which is unique and, therefore, different from us.
3. however, most of the times, when we judge it is not about assuming things, nor about the desire (the need, maybe?) to label them, but about an emotional reaction to the message received from another person. we become emotional, 