`` no clown car jokes , '' i told murphy . i never even considered that it might be something bad . `` she is your grandmother , '' grace said , since someone had to be the voice of reason . i walked up to my mother-in-law , but could n't stop giggling . in fact , your first instinct was to let me , but then you stood up for yourself and said it was your turn . '' i will always , always be your number one fan . lucky and i will have fun tonight . '' 