of hating them. they apologized and i believed them that nothing but the kiss happened. now 8 years later they have went through a whole emotional and sexual relationship. to the point that they both were going to leave there wives (me) and husband. when hearing this my feeling is, is he just settling with me now that they broke up? or does he truly love me? he says he truly loves me and that is why he never left me and that him and the other one would fight about that all the time. when i was out with her and was on the phone with him he would 