the one thing neither of us knew was that that would be the last time we 'd ever see each other . you can address it to them ? `` you know we 're good friends , right ? '' according to my father , my grandfather took me down one day and did it . not a bad man , but very careful about his interests . '' henry was always extra careful to shovel the front walk at his grandmas so she did not fall when she went out to get the mail . 