they either pity us and walk on eggshells or they do n't know how to deal with it at all , so they do n't . '' if we use every day stuff , it can go in the dishwasher and maybe we can all go on a ride after dinner . thats the way im going to file the criminal complaint , he said . the others in the lobby watched me , probably wondering what id done or said to make the pretty little runner cry . a second war would be one that we could not win . 