there will be no place to put it all! it’s a fantasy to assume that just because there’s a family event, you automatically have to become a picture-perfect family to enjoy it. we go to places we have gone before. i was wearing my 80s faded jeans. this is not an on-going meeting. whenever possible, dry your clothes on an outside clothes line or rack. most people do not post enough and as social media moves so quickly, your new visitor might have missed your posts. and it's been the best career decision of my (short) life! 