within a frame, and photos and notes must be within the rules.
if you wish to post a more personal photo, it's possible to post it in a ws of your main subject.
and for your seasons wishes, nothing prevents you from writing a few lines in the general forum with a link to your ws. friend. and to remind her that she has a load of people who do like her.
when it comes to mean kids, maybe they dont have the best home environment and it could be that they are jealous of your daughter for one reason or another. 