dan : `` yeah , but he said to hold on and survive it , forget it , grow up and leave . there were several ladies warming up and chatting in the locker room . `` you 're going to make me fall , '' i said , pushing him away . there was a low wooden stool , a sleeping area and a bag of something a horse might nibble on , but no refreshments . she greeted me with a long kiss and by the time we pulled away , i had my arms around her . 