then why in the world would they wan na join them ? we dragged him to shore and built a fire , but it was too late already . `` you asked- '' i stopped and tried to figure out what she was getting at . `` you 're the one making me lose , '' she said and shoved him . honestly , you 'd think they 'd never seen a man before , let alone married one . you will have to do it quickly . he should have said the words out loud . 