try to stick around a couple days and work with the ladies that you feel are potential wives and see where the relationship leads.
can i go and meet a few ladies and then try talking to them over the phone until my next visit?
this question would seem to be a logical one. however we have noticed that the ladies feel different in this manner. for example we have seen guys come down, meet several ladies, narrow it down to 2 or 3 and then return home. their plan was to talk to them on the phone and come back and spend time with each one to narrow it down to 