do you ever have those meals which you discover and then can't stop eating? if that changes i will update it, but i asked shortly before i left the white house and i was informed the families want privacy. it took me a few min to figure how to manipulate the upper control arms to get the ball joint to fit into the spindle. if you have an outdoor place to swim, that's wonderful, but otherwise simply climb in the bathtub, in the shower. but let’s hope that she will learn about these issues more and then be more confident to make her own decisions. 