a security officer appeared in the open doorway . you can pick up her tab if you want . he gulped down a swallow of scotch . i did n't know any other way to try and get your attention . '' dancers like that were always making friends with rich men who wanted to share their wealth . `` you know the phrase 'hung like a bull ' ? '' he watched me for a long moment before he spoke . i agreed and we were off and running . you focus on what a ghastly color you think it is . 