likes the attention but has no intention of following through.
i agree that i think she likes the attention. when she was talking to that other guy, she wanted to get a rise out of you. she wanted you to get jealous. however, i don’t know why she would turn you down if she’s trying to make you jealous. i don’t think she knows what she wants. try talking to her about how she feels and if she turns you down again maybe it’s time to move on.
it sounds like she’s either playing a game with you or you have waited too long to make a move on her and she 