will not see her and will never get her back. she is aware this is the case and knows i will do whatever it takes for he to have a relationship with her child but there is a chance she would get her back with me. she needs to destroy that chance. i am sad for both of them but it is her choice. i am grateful she will be leaving on good terms with us, she is laughing and smiling instead of ignoring me so that is a step in the right direction. 