put it on my arm and i said i would like to have a go at that, do it to me. but there was a contact and a connection, you know, one body with another body, one human being with another human being and there was a communication going on and i’m saying, well i want to feel what that feels like and you show me, sort of thing. and um, oh i tell him that he has beautiful brown eyes and i tell him that i love his smile. so um, do that at the same time that he’s doing that (rubbing hands) and he’s looking right into my 