`` that 's a pretty vague answer you just gave me , '' she says . look , you know i love you and i want you to be happy and as long as you 're okay with the consequences you can sleep with whoever you want and i will never judge you . half-forgotten times and places , when we were much happier perhaps . he fiddles with the small black and red gauge in his left ear . everything in me responded to him . he drank and reflected on the flavor . 