though there was an almost 30 year age gap between the pair, they were very open about their relationship. this is a factor that is not always easy to gauge. when you are at the dead end, and turn around, the whole road is open again. those of us who are in a good marriage may find it natural to see things in black and white – if a man beats a woman, he is bad and must be punished. pizzas are so good here (haven't tried anything else yet). can you tell me which chapter of the book the flea story is found in? 