and people to blame in their lives.
blame the person who chooses to be cruel to you. but you are also to blame if you choose to be abused repeatedly by spending time with this person. it’s a bit like sticking your hand in a fire repeatedly, hoping it will one day stop being hot.
almost, i say, because a person can change. however, how often do they? be realistic here, or you are fighting reality as surely as when you put your hand into a fire.
a person can wait for his “ship to come in,” or can face the fact that people create most of the “luck” they have in life. 