he's made a conscious decision to distance himself from you and not let you get too close, and it's time for you to really realize what he's doing. this makes country clubs exclusive to certain people and not everyone. · the town inspected the site and found no oil spill. pull on that thread until you have pulled it all the way out, and you have a long strip where the thread once was. they are often first noticed when snow melts in the spring and “trails” are seen in the grass where they fed during the winter. 