on the street , walking to his car , joe said , `` you could n't have been a little more ... ? '' she poured more water on my hands to get the grit off , then set them palm up on my lap to make a wet spot . `` before you tell her more than she already knows , '' he said , `` you need to think about what you 're doing . he makes love to her when she wants to feel his love . you stay here and dont move a muscle . 