but somehow i managed to get lost in the music . we stared at each other , and this time i was determined to stare him down . the truck was long out of sight . the only thing she had n't indicated was which clothes she wanted to be buried in and that was decided by her two daughters-in-law . she was used to being dropped off with strangers . let me say that it is not without risk that we discuss these things . that shopping trolley aint gon na last much longer . 