we have no problem helping people we like; people who are just like us. maybe he or she prefers more of today's look compared to a country think in their bed room. we are watching a star being born! but i would much rather them eat all frozen produce than put the idea of eating vegetables in the "too hard basket" in view of the time factor. the supper was laid and perhaps i will never find out who cooked the feast – many loving hands and hearts, i suspect. 