answer 1 is really quite vague; answer 2 clearly enough suggests your destination is not on a very high floor; answer 3 suggests that it is 'far, but not all that far' from the top (perhaps within the range of 25 to 15% below the top); but 'quite near' (answer 4) appears to suggest a range just that little bit closer still. just thinking about you and our relationship was better than the one i had with the other residents. there are a lot of boos about that call. one problem is the psychology behind the word itself. 