i ca n't remember the name of it . '' he pulls away to catch his breath and speak . he said this last directly to his wife . i like it up here in the sky . `` something like that , '' he said over his shoulder . even more warming was the thought that she 'd made the choice to call him . why do n't you have the cook make me some kind of vegetable dish that he or she likes . she was full of sage advice . 