how about paint ball guns instead of cannons – more portable. i can see the picture if i click on the link. the formula is: i recognize where we had problems… this is what needs to change for things to be different… this is what i am doing to become a better partner… this is the kind of future i want for myself and for my partner (note: it is not necessary for you to include him or her in the “future”, instead describe the future in such a way that he or she can see him/herself in it — and want it). 