even when running a high fever, she did not request refreshment if it were not offered to her. but i do understand your stress also, and hope your husband will better his life soon and let you know what you should organize. the other band members joined him. the amount of damage scales with your maximum health. after some frantic last minute packing, farm chores, & a sewing project we headed for our 5 1/2 week winter tour 6 days ago. 