and she will surely appreciate it. if you are asking her to go out for a movie or some dinner, then it’s a clear sign that you prefer to let her lead.. if you wanted to go out for a dinner with her, just tell her few days before that you have booked this table and we are going out on this day. how she responds is none of your business, if she don’t have other plans for that day, she will definitely come with you.. if you keep this attitude, you will get a lot more positive response from her side.. 