it would be hard for them to imagine they might need help or that there could be anything wrong with them. just give us a call and come right away. i was able to sit with my feelings and not be tempted to suppress them because they might make someone uncomfortable or because they want to cheer me up. so even as the big box "creates jobs," those independent business jobs are lost. we were all staring directly into the rising sun. the worst thing you can ever do is quit. 