`` let 's go to my place and we can have a , you know . '' but did n't you have something else to tell me ? '' in fact , his response took lee by surprise , so much so that lee skipped all his intended chat and got to his point . dear lord , the man had barely touched her . her head bowed , but she did not speak a word . `` but if you were testing him every week , how surprised could he have been ? '' 