but now you are on this train and you do n't know where you 're going and you think that something terrible is going to happen when you arrive and now you have no choice but to believe . of course he was gon na make an honest woman out of you and ask you to marry him . '' we dont know how they live there . no more than he would invite a fox into his hen house , regardless of how kindly he thought of the fox in question . `` is he trying to get me drunk ? '' 