then, because you are being a friend to yourself, all of life is seen as a friend, all of it feels that way to you - it's a reflection of you. some programs can take as long as four years. my kids absolutely loved the pool! this is an awesome product and a great value! the atmosphere is relaxed with no high pressure situations. jo, any plump dried dates will be same good, they even sweeter :d thanks for your sweet words as well. but there are other things missing for me–and for him. hopefully someone can help me out here! 