not just lessons experienced, but lessons learned (and shared). the questions above are ones that are obvious and frequent from our experience. but how was a shy, farmer type supposed to meet a sophisticated city girl? it's so special the way you seem to write from your heart. these days, furniture stores carry products that are sold in sets. just since it is lightweight doesnt indicate it is bad for cooler weather condition. kindly let me know if you still have it. now, i’m not necessarily good at all these things, but they bring me peace, calm, and joy. 