you are not out to blame your roommate for everything that is going wrong. the same goes for sheep, pig and deer. it sounds like you’re really torn between your love for your husband and your desire to have everyone together. i wanted to say that i do my own research before i take the leap of faith. thing is this drive has been in there for a bit over a week just idling before i made the jump. thanksgiving service for the harvest takes place in october. 