it might be when the stack he was creating fell over, or even when he himself fell over. it might be when i was feeding him and i missed and the food was all over the place. anything that was frustrating for him to experience, nick would say, “oh well.” we would laugh and i would agree with him. “you are right, nick, oh well.” i would feel better. whether it was the laughter or saying “oh well,” i am not sure which one helped ease the situation.
this lesson has taken time for me to learn. i am not always perfect at it, but usually i can see the humor 