`` that 's the problem with fieldwork , sam . if i would not-then i 'd wish i 'd never been born , he said . '' i punched him in the face before he could do whatever hes thinking . what a way to start the morning . `` i know you have never liked your mother but it 'd be a good idea if you told her what 's going on , when it comes down to it your going to need all the help you can get including hers . '' 