seeing him live is enough and for him being seen, the same said. after all, the kitchen is considered the heart of the home. are your content and presentation thorough, professional, accurate, and appealing? or was he there earlier in the day and left it ? (not that i am complaining about calm weather!) practice this in front of a mirror to see how it looks, and then try it in everyday conversation. that’s why we have the doors closed during those meetings. your bones are your body’s calcium reservoir. as my granddaughter says "you git what you git, don't throw a fit!" 