is it? why do you do these. because you love your own creation.
try to understand that the one who have made this entire universe, definitely will love his creation including you and me. simple thing to understand, whatever is happening in your life , is his loving gift to you. even when a mother feeds bitter medicine to her child, is it to torture the child? or to cure the child? understand at that moment that god is giving you something which is good for you. joyfully take it with the attitude – it is for the best.for those who dont believe in god, nature has given us everything. what 