arrive, we started here, thinking that having the big stuff already in place would help in the event of short notice. tyler and i were in agreement that it would be cruel to completely set up the nursery now only to be constantly reminded of the void in our hearts, but i felt safe and free to dream given the long lead time on the furniture.
and so we walked in.
i was anxious from my last experience at a baby store and tried my best to be on guard for whatever questions i might have to face. thankfully we were approached by barb, the sweetest sales associate and were simply told 