again , only the man with glasses and the woman came to visit me , and then only the woman talked to me . jake and dale didnt notice the cabinet door under the sink while it slowly creaked open . i fall in love ( or so i tell myself ) with someone who is n't at that time in love with me or even considering me as a lover . `` that 's a given ... same goes for you too , you know . '' she was twelve years younger than i . 