that was a serious mistake , and it cost me dearly . i had a son who wanted to follow my career . but the struggle was short-lived , and she finally let him hold her . `` yes , the first stop on our evening of romance-and a little more-is for us to get to know each other better through dancing . '' `` you 're different around certain people , '' she told me . `` phoebe and sage have n't been anywhere near wyoming , '' i said , allowing the others to smell the truth in my words . 