we have something for everyone; all you need to do is to choose from the many ideas we suggest. the most important questions before you dive in is that you need to think about is what is your strategy? in safe list genie we have a feature called credit level. travels and short research stays may be included in the activities. it would aid you much more if you think of your ex(s) as a “teacher.” one way or the other they taught you what you don’t want and you now also have a better clue about what you do want. 