why can’t i just make the gift? if i tell you the truth, you'd vie for a lie. that is the right of every human being on this planet. you prove that value by listening to the audience, and showing the results of it in your work. selling a family house is not an easy decision. maybe it's something you previously denied. i could be in, not really decided yet but got time off work. ), and a few of the stretch goals. suppose you are interrupted by an urgent fix request while you are in the middle of a large change. 