married to one, is the ability to be flexible.
i am completely organized, on top of things- always, and prefer to stick tight to a schedule. real tight.
and i married a farmer. that often will call for a “quick” ride that turns into two hours later. a “quick” parts run that takes all day. and, “can you come run the tractor for a little bit…” that turns into a 16 hour day.
needless to say, in the last 5 years flexibility and i have learned to live in the same house…not always happily, but we live.
it’s also important to remember that if you have animals they always, always come first. and that 