so they can talk about music without someone yelling 'hey come check out my band' at them every 5 minutes. roll the marked ballot paper (in the manner the po gave to you). at times it is simply the indication of a feasible possibility that leads to a problem's solution. and be sure to check out my book on the subject, think & date like a man for tons of tips on how to bridge this gender gap...or in some cases, make it work for you! 