to help you get set up for the big reveal, then ask them to step away so you can share a few minutes of privacy. exchange notes or gifts, have a quiet conversation, get a little giddy and then invite your photographer back (with some tissues!) to take portraits when you’re ready. worried about your wedding party or families sneaking around to catch a peek? make it clear that you’d rather see one another alone first. better yet, have your photographer arrange them elsewhere so they’re ready to get a first look at the happy couple together!
if you really want those first moments captured on camera, you can also have 