if there are people who are not cat lovers that look at your cat, but suddenly look away from it, your cat feels safe. the reality is that you cannot help it. there are many definitions out there. this will happen later in the year and announcements will be made in due course. you can hear their excellent rendition of the song here. so i told her a few choices so that she could choose. we can choose to struggle against the reality we have seen or to adjust our sights and select a better reality. 