no one will surprise you at the contest you do not decide to send a funeral thank card. thanks for the extra time, i was having computer troubles. although it takes a lot of time to make it, it will be worth it in the end, i promise. of course, later that day and throughout the week, both our parents have been driving us crazy with the guest list(!!!!!). and that was pretty much it. the tools that i present below are just a small selection the necessary research and work associated to each of these points. 