this couple was more like his parents , but he called them grandma and grandpa , great love spoken in those terms . `` what did he use against you ? '' nobody she knew said such things . it made me wonder why he was n't telling me the truth about her . why would he keep something like this ? he took off his coat , hanging it on a hook . call up the relatives and say , hi . i waited for his response and watched his jaw jut side to side as he ground his teeth . 