"happy" instead of yourself? does that ring true as a way to live? can we ever make another person happy? can we create in their reality, or only in our own? can anyone make someone else's life be a certain way - can we take happiness and put it inside of them? or is it their responsibility to create it from the inside? check it out, as this issue is still present in your life and being reflected back to you, time and time again - so that tells you that you are still carrying a program about it.
you can also state and intend that you easily release and understand 