they peered in , but at first saw nothing . i knew what i was doing , letting him have sex with me , sleep with me , move in with me . maybe it would even end up being good for her ... `` we do n't know how this will shake out , whether we go with plan a or plan b . if i could have convinced her , it would n't have happened , and i 'd still have her the way she was . '' `` it 's a question that 's said in order to make a point . 