`` you have to want to give it up for yourself , too , you know , '' she points out . the vision changed to mat , who was still in that city . member how shed always say , the pier goes on forever ! dont go if youre going to get destroyed again . instead i got nothing of the sort . he stopped to examine a bunch of grapes , and he plucked one from the cluster . we need to know if it can be stopped . youre not happy being back home with your mother ? 