and the only way i can think to get that across is to ask you to think about how you 'd feel if i did the same to you . that gave him a little more time in case he needed it for later . and , if she liked the taste of the food , she would insist making him eat it by joining her lips to his lips and move half of her munched morsel in his mouth . get that through your head once and for all . i went mad , i suppose , and never fully recovered . 