ever since then , no man has ever ventured out on a second date with me . '' you really need to go now . '' `` was he aboard the plane that hit us ? '' `` maybe a special picnic or a gift or something , but i do n't want to come on too strong . god , i did n't even know how to respond to that . thats how they do it in those stories you read , right ? in fact , i could do without it full-stop . 