my wife had arranged for the babysitter to stay overnight as we didnt know what time wed be home. to her credit she still follows the 3+1 days a month off kitchen duties for periods. food and drinks were more than what we expected. it is the way i deal with it, and what works for me. but the time i realized my mistake, i had already sewn on the zippers. how it will taste in another 12 months remains the final question. often times we cause our own stress, constantly worrying about the future. 