but appropriately enough, their actual words as in opposition to their thoughts, as they discuss how much they don’t want that to happen. so i think we should make some allowance for confusion. after all, your smile says a lot about you. the important thing, they say, is to have a plan, preferably in writing, that spells out the new relationship. as one can see in the photo, this is located around the base of the bed touching the floor where the frame meets the bed. three figures were seated in that numb darkness. 