because if we can't deliver it, we don't want to waste your time and if we can refer you to another organization or to another position, we are thrilled to do so. when my husband and i go to arkansas, there is a store we visit that takes me back in time. we have found that 3 cups water and 3/4 cups oatmeal serves 4. we make this every night and awake to a delicious hot breakfast. we do not want things to change around us but we are powerless to stop change. 