`` i had no idea he stole from me before he left . '' i was always taught the importance of knowing what was going on around you and being sure to always leave yourself an out in case something broke loose ahead . `` you were wearing your clothes when you left . the fifth grade classroom was on the second floor of the elementary school overlooking the playground . he was the most charming , considerate man she had ever met and the longer she was around him the deeper her feelings had grown . 