i cant force you or anyone else to accept me or believe me or trust me . `` that 's like having sex in a church . '' they cried for a warm bed and a proper meal . you ca n't spend more than the bare minimum of time on any one individual . as was expected she didnt answer the first time round . you need to step away and give people the benefit of the doubt . it caught my attention because the numbers were so different . i stand up and feel my way over to the door . 