your kids. here’s the thing: it starts with you. if your kids see you as busy or as absent thats going to play into how they view their own schedule. decide what’s important to you and go all in on whatever that is. i travel a lot doing music all over the country and when i am gone it can be for days at a time. i counter that when i am home with being available. i will pick my kids up from school, we go on surprise dates, and i work hard to be at all their important life events. i am not perfect by any means. its a 