it feels nice to receive some help but i oftentimes fear that my therapy won’t be complete without my wife involved in it. we all knew it was coming, and we were waiting for it. ...and of course, social media went to town on this statement. if you want to own your own "dream pool" chances are you are thinking that you will want to custom design your own pool. it’s a project where the end product serves little purpose, except maybe holding down papers, but where the process can be a good learning experience. go put on something more appropriate. 