to figure out, because when she was younger, i’d say her top language was touch but now i think quality time means more to her. she was the only middle child for 9 years (and now is 1 of 2 middles) and, as a middle, your parent’s attention can seem hard to come by. taking her to coffee and truly seeing her and listening to her makes her day.
daughter #3: maybe it’s because she was the baby of the family so long or maybe she was just always wired that way but acts of service is the winner with this one. coming to her when she needs something, instead of 