he still has bad days especially because of his past but now instead of trying to numb the pain & destroy himself he picks up the phone and calls me or jumps on a train and distracts himself or talks his problems through and bit by bit he has turned his life round completely. the company is registered as a personal data controller with a certificate no. so it is no longer a concern as we now control the rights for the use of the term. don't know many people here... but might show up anyway! 