other difficulties, when we recently had to suddenly up and leave home when a close relative passed away and their whole routine was thrown, they both looked to me to see how to self-regulate. if i was calm, softly spoken and relaxed they responded to that. when they were unsure what was going on they picked up on the fact i was still stopping to eat even if it was at an airport and this helped them to see that sometimes life can suddenly be so different but there are some steadfast things that remain.
despite the fact i was taking them on a very long journey to somewhere none of 