who are those people?
when you appear to be telling people how something "is"... and they question you about that... the issue is not simply and automatically because they haven't asked enough clarifying questions of you.
i like that you used the word "appear". i do not recall telling people how some thing "is". could you please provide some examples of when i have supposedly done this? i am not saying that i have not. i just do not recall doing that. when, and if, you do, then we can look at if i have actually done that or it just "appears" that way. some times i write in a way that 