if i 'm going to do it , it has to be now , and now there 's more reason than ever . `` well , if you figure it out , let me know , because i 'm still in the dark about that myself . '' all good things come to those who wait , was just one of the many words of wisdom they thought to share . i wait until i 'm sure i can control my voice and my expression before i pull away enough to look into his face . 