of explanation that will bring it home to you.
because the way i see it is this: if i am telling you things, and you understand what i am telling you but choose to ignore it and do things differently, and you get into trouble – that is your problem (and i might or might not be able to help).
if, however, i am telling you things, and you do not understand what i want from you, that means i have not explained it well for you, and that is not your problem at all, that is my problem, because it means i am not doing my job right, and i will 