tell you different things?
‘sam’: i don’t think it’s fair that they say different things. i wish my mum would chill out and be like my dad.
therapist: what happens when they disagree?
‘sam’: mum gets mad with dad and they start shouting at each other.
therapist: and how do you feel when that happens?
therapist: take a guess. is it fun seeing them shouting?
therapist: why do you hate it, sam?
‘sam’: i don’t know. i just hate the shouting.
therapist: and so what do you do?
‘sam’: i don’t know. i suppose i just try to block my ears and think about something else.
therapist: okay. cut. you can go back to being yourself now, ben. how did 