of his life was his two twin girls and to watch him talk about his beautiful girls, he would light up like a christmas tree. i go oh, so what is it that you do? i build guard rails, it’s a dead end job. i asked how are you serving people? through a series of questions, i got to the point of helping him realize that we was saving lives. to watch him shift into that new thought process of how he sees himself. i said, so not only do you save lives so other parents can go home be with their families, what else does it allow you to 