is, you first need to find out. many people “think” with their mouths. that is they ramble and beat around the bush until they finally get to the point. by the time they get to the point, their audience has long ago lost interest, is thinking about something else, has stopped listening or has fallen asleep with their eyes open.
if you don’t know what your point is, then practice your “speech” by rambling and beating around the bush in your head, quietly, to yourself until you get to the point. once you have the point, then you’re ready to put your mouth into gear.
armies know how to train their soldiers 