whatever you have learned will be different from what they have learned so the sharing can begin. "because of the way i grew up," she writes, "because time and time again i had to walk into a classroom where everyone else knew one another, i had to find a way to make enough connections to make my life work. there was a couple standing behind me, and the girl was really drunk. carefully, using tongs, working in batches, lower one quarter of the tortilla strips into the oil. 