i thought if i found them ... do n't finish that thought . she laughed and said , `` you need to follow people on the train to figure that out ? '' he grunted and continued to move faster and harder . son or daughter , he did n't care . `` tell me when you were born and where . '' some of us are a little surprised that they actually made their way to you , but we were happy to see them nonetheless . '' it had the exact same effect on me . 