well , the thing is- my friends and fellow actors tell me that i have very unique personality . her lips still looked swollen , her eyes a bit red and heavy from lack of sleep . i did n't see maria , but i could hear her screaming down there in the dark . cant this just be a friendly visit ? and i know that you do n't like it , and you still think of him as your baby , but he is growing up ; he will be seventeen soon . '' 