you happy on your day! as soon as i gave myself permission, it was a much smoother planning process.
do include your kids. this was such an important part for us. your first instinct might be to go alone with your husband and really get some one-on-one time, but really think it though. will you miss anyone? will you want your entire family there? we opted for a family ceremony as our kids were just as important these past ten years as my hubby and i were for our family growth. it was more like a celebration of everything we have been though as a family during this first decade together, 