come on ; give me an example ? `` i 'm trying to show you who i am ! '' i was sure she had hung up . the knowledge he loved me gave me the strength to brave the unknown future . but at least she was home now . misty fell silent , not knowing how to respond . what he did was necessary , but not always effective in the long term . i had n't even met the man yet , but i had to wonder at his style . 