about an hour after we had assembled , i noticed various men walking up and down each line , checking our paper work and im assuming telling each individual man the various information we needed to know . `` i think you 're afraid of that other half of yourself , '' he continued . `` god saved your life , we just helped . '' only you can change it , and you ca n't do it over the phone . '' griffin touched his tie again as he waited at the front of the plane for the stair car to arrive . 