do one thing every day. i'd love to see some suggestions in the comments.
"be alone" - everyone talks about this and it can be really hard to do, but you must find time to be alone. even if you're like me and you sincerely enjoying spending as much time with your husband as you can, you must have alone time. if you're also like me, you don't want to hurt your husband's feelings by saying "i just want to be alone right now" but work up the nerve, honey. it's so important.
"have a hobby" - this sort of follows having alone time but the two may not necessarily go together. 