'your mother did invite me , did n't she ? ' im just one player and im not the captain of the team , so i can only speak for myself . like always he went through the back entrance . i picked up my jacket and my purse and said , i loved your idea , but it would be rude of us to cancel so late . we should n't be sitting in a filthy garage-which , by the way , i needed to rally the troops and get cleaned this weekend . is that how it normally is ? '' 