she wanted me to be this perfect guy and i just could n't handle it . the stalls were too small for me to crawl in with her so i settled for standing on the toilet in the stall next to hers , looking over the separator . `` then only three minutes to prove the point . '' he leaned over and covered her hands with his . it almost destroyed our race as well . `` i did n't think today would be so hard . he 'd come once , and that usually meant the second round would take him longer . 