the first few days, weeks, or months you still feel you are on your honeymoon. life is great. you see only sunshine and flowers. life starts to get into some kind of routine. perhaps you both have a job and you go back to work. or maybe just one of you is working while the other stays home dealing with the work that is involved in making this house your home.
my husband and i in our first home.
either way, you begin to see that neither of you are perfect. we are all selfish human beings. sometimes even the most giving person has a selfish streak somewhere hidden. and if you 