`` i told you when last we spoke that i intended to marry , and so i have . `` and you realized to get that , you had to start to feel again . '' she led me to a room on the third floor . at my worst , i would not harm a woman or child . i 'm here , standing in front of you , asking you to give us a shot , asking you to tell me everything and trust in me . if the foundation moved , why not build somewhere solid ? 