family at this time. he will be missed by many,i have known the family for many years and know they will get through this difficult time with the faith that they all have . rest in peace with your loved ones in heaven. and that your family comes first. so you need to be able to switch off in the evenings and not work too hard at all times. this is why working hours can help. but not only that, you need to set limits for yourself, so that you know when to switch off work mode, and get back to mummy mode again. 