pretty surprised, i was a little bit shocked, and i was very happy. i also realized from that point forward my life was going to be completely different.
in that i have to always have somebody else in my mind. i always have to think about the future of someone else—a young person, not just my wife and myself. now i have to consider the development, the growth, and the path of somebody else’s life, and how to guide them in the best way that i can.
what kinds of conversations did you and your wife have before you had your son in terms of how you would raise him?
we had a 