no woman wants to be thought of in that way . she just nods , and i decide to get a feel for the lay of the land . good , that wasnt too hard was it ? `` sir , we do n't have the proper clearance . '' `` you 're asking a lot of questions about his whereabouts . when we took the next turn , i spotted the front door . in the dream it was as if she was being cautious and keeping her distance afraid that he would kill her too if she moved any closer . 