it 's a four-point harness with all the straps connecting to one central buckle . can i tell you something that stays between the two of us ? `` you should n't have your first time on the couch , and if we keep playing , i 'm not going to be able to walk . '' hed never seen so much money . i do , but she doesnt want any part of this and it is putting not just her life but our lives too , in danger . 