i dont deny it , perhaps im not the best person to give you this lecture am i ? `` i think it 's healthy for you to talk about it and feel what you feel . '' i came home and found her standing on the porch , leaning against the door with her long legs crossed at the ankles , just exactly like she had so many times before . whats that got to do with ? `` no , no , triple a , do n't quit now . '' `` then stop talking like this , '' he said . 