s: they are very friendly and they want to, all of my friends, like, everyone wanted to talk to me but they are very shy. he just believes he’s that guy. as a result, her connections – both close emotional connections to her family members and links to her wider community – are broken. i received word that our stake president is now one of our home teachers. 2. using anchoring to our advantage. just a way to build it in my head - first. 