a sudden if you’re hanging out with a lot of fat people, right? and if you start working out and going to the gym and going on a diet, you’re gonna make them uncomfortable. because they don’t wanna be fat, nobody wants to be fat. but they just don’t take action. and eventually either they’re gonna be inspired by you and start doing what you’re doing and raise their standards. or, you’re gonna lower your standards and give up and just join them. or, you’re gonna lose them as friends. and that’s just the way it happens.
so the same thing with if you hand out with a bunch of people 