out of sight; out of mind.
no one talks about the car crash when they get to the grocery store. by then, you are more worried whether you are going to get the right brand of snack cake. once your home, it might only be an interesting side note to tell anyone home then it's forgotten.
meanwhile, someone is still suffering. someone is possibly mourning. everyone wants to tell their story, but no one wants to listen to recovery. recovery is boring. recovery is only interesting if something flashy happens. we want a good story. who can put the church's problem in a click-bait title, where the problem is solved in exactly 