she had a quick lunch , asked the waitress for directions to the nearest antique stores , then spent the next few hours shopping . `` i know that this mess is my fault . luckily , there is a back door with steps that lead down into the grass . i am being myself and he is totally loving it ! but your husband was mixed up with some very dangerous people . and i 'm not sure i would have gotten it if it had n't been for you . 