life that we live never really seems to be one of blessing and favor, yet we can’t see it. why? it is because few people can discern which is the blessing and favor and the trials that are required in your life to get to that point. no, i am not saying that you have to suffer to be blessed, but sometimes we feel that way because we thought we had the best. the best house or car or something that is accepted by the world as a blessing, yet when we lose it or it is taken from us we feel that we are being put through all sorts 