might be kind of hard to explain why someone from the i.s . what could i have learned from a liar and a thief ? does this one have particular value ? '' but take this anyway ; you might change your mind later . '' he had taught her to speak out in staff meetings and talk about an idea when she thought of it . `` i wanted so much for her to escape and to be able to live life , to dance like this whenever possible and to find a man who loved her above all else . 