make us want to be better people, nothing wrong with that surely?
‘being in love’, lewis continues, ‘is a good thing, but it is not the best thing. there are many things below it but there are also things above it. you cannot make it the basis of a whole life. it is a noble feeling, but it is still a feeling’.
i have to say i really think lewis has a point here. this can be hard to swallow, especially if you’re still in the raptures of the “honeymoon period” of a marriage. but as any honest married person will tell you, this does not last. it cannot last. lewis has 