clearly this was not the place or the time . i would so like my babys first days to be ones of comfort and security . it felt , for a moment , as if the city was entirely theirs . youre breaking my heart , she said , tearing up . `` as for my personal interest ... that runs along with the reason for my telling your husband-because i 'm telling you only as your husband is unavailable . '' they had nothing to string them on and no basket . it was up to the three of us now . 