i swear , in that moment , i was sure id gone off the deep end . i lift my arms above me when his fingers slide behind the ends of my shirt and he pulls it off . `` come on , you promised ... . '' `` i know , i know . thats not very wise of you . the urge to come forward and take control was very great . thats why they got him under observation at the hospital . i ca n't get this out of the oven . '' 