in shock , he offered sincere condolences , and i asked him not to air the footage that concerned my dad 's death . and please , please do n't say , 'oh , like the twilight girl . ' `` we need the men , '' he says . she can barely see and ca n't walk . `` now , you and i are going to come to an understanding . '' come with us , maybe your father is over here . he looked up at the ceiling of the vehicle . 