this example, a woman is walking down the path with her friend. the path is long and hard with many obstacles that her friend helps her avoid. but she still gets hurt. a lot. then the girl falls and breaks her leg. only then does she look back at the path she’s been walking with her friend. she realizes how hard and treacherous the path has been. then she looks at her friend and says, “this path has been hard, it must be so hard because you do not love me – if you loved me, you would have given me a different path, i do not want to walk 