are just easier to get along with. just as with any new relationship, pay close attention to your “gut feeling.” as you discuss your circumstances and listen to the lawyer’s reaction to your concerns, give some thought to the person on the other side of the desk. did he try to put you at ease? is he really listening to what you are telling him? does he seem to understand your situation? does the advice he gives you make sense? if he has difficulty answering a question, does he explain the reason? is this person someone you will be able to trust with your well-being during this painful and challenging 