the only changes are that i am busier, for sure, and i have to be nicer to people in the hope that they buy my books. i'm willing to bet, unless you are greeting someone (and even then you might not) you don't use their name a single time. the talk is free and open to the public. the light is gorgeous, and we are trying to savor all the joy and satisfaction of being able to camp during winter break. now when in a relationship, then hopefully both enjoy what each other calls one another, totally different. 