the time.
her conclusion is that moms (or dads, when they are the primary parent) are put in the tense position of being both manager and part-time worker (part time only if the partner does the other half of the work when asked). essentially, the primary parent has to manage the family along with getting the actual work done. the other parent might agree to wash, dry, and fold the laundry while you dig out the suitcases and pack them, but you still are in charge of figuring out and remembering what, how much, or what not to bring. and if, for some reason, you forget something, you have to deal 