my husband and i go back and forth, and mostly try to ignore the subject as we know decision-making time is approaching, but we are hesitant to go for it as much as we are hesitant to make the decision to close the subject and stay as a family of four. i do have an opinion on what has happened and i disagree with much of it. it's quite the process so i'm sorry if i missed a step or anything. be creative with your meals and snacks. i am sending out my fabric selection 101 newsletter soon. 