it may seem relatively simple to you, but to me at least, it was not just confusing, but incredibly frustrating. they will be “stuck up” or sophisticated. not at all,” mike barber said. without a bond, there’s nothing here to break. that’s the chief virtue of the open-book approach. why not say hello and introduce yourself? you are paying good money for a professional band. anything with bold color and a sense of personality that is outside of the norm! so, pour yourself a good glass of wine and enjoy! bad form – bad form for sure. 