there was no specific friend or event it is really about a ton of people in my life. none of us need me in the passenger seat at the start of this big step. another principal i know works out at that same gym and i mentioned it to him. “mine has gone too”, he said. best not to exchange all your money at once but from time to time. for every person who dies from diseases directly related to smoking, 20 others have a disease related to tobacco use. the title will be another movie. 