`` he would never send a - a ... '' she shook her head violently . some of the relatives had arrived , and others were on the way . `` we might as well be friends . we could start with cross-town red rover fridays ? they cleared enough room for them to enter the house and tackle the fire at its worst area . if youre not ready , we can delay . i once saw a list in her purse . '' `` just some guy who was all romance and picnics . '' 