after a big hug , i brought him back at arm 's length . `` you 're distracting me , '' he said . `` you 'd never have told us who you were if i had n't found out . '' `` you 're so not getting lucky later . '' i take a swift turn to face him . `` actually i was trying to find my sister . burning the candle at both ends , i see . i sit cross-legged , and try to figure out a way to eat while keeping the sheet tucked under my arms . 