- as soon as you're back in change the e-mail once more, you can maintain it for the future (in case you messed something up in your account). she comments: “nowadays, i feel more like his mum than his wife as he needs help with most day-to-day things. i look back up at the librarian at her desk, leaning in to catch what it said on her name tag. record the time and after a week or so of training, do the drill again and time yourself. 