one’s death. if your loved one is still mentally strong enough to make decisions, allow him or her to be part of the conversation. this way, you can abide by his or her wishes and avoid having an argument over which sibling is right or wrong.
when you see a sibling doing something differently from the way you do it, you may be tempted to speak out, but try to think twice before you do. is your sibling’s way of doing it causing harm to your loved one? is there a safety issue or is it an emergency? is your loved one complaining? if the answer to all of these questions 