all those computer games i have played for years work out finally . `` then none of these fights are serious ? '' on the one hand i look at tanks that come , on the other hand , i watch anxious parrots who take their heads out of trees . the book was already growing heavy on my lap . `` and you say you love her ? '' i 'm disturbed that i allowed this column to run in the first place . i 'd hate to see them taken down . what if she needs our help at a later time ? 