consider sentences like: "i will take a look at that," "thank you for letting me know," or "it makes sense that you feel that way." we have a living relationship with those early mothers and fathers. do you like to understand different ways to handle conflict effectively? normally when it's summertime, the ice creams we buy are dripping down our fingers just minutes after we get our change. we can read a book about horrible monsters lurking in the darkness and laugh at the absurd notion that there are werewolves hiding in the bushes outside our houses. i want to see that steel rider's arms. 