i said softly so my throat would n't hurt , wondering if i could trust him . im just going to talk to grant for a moment , right over there , but i can still see you alright . i want to get my father situated and safe first . '' `` let 's forget about my reasons for wanting to marry you for now . then the government closed its borders , declared it off limits , and finally built the wall and for the most part washed it hands of the city and its people . 