it was a great two-day event with perfect weather and lots of happy, smiling people! it's possible your invitation was misplaced since you are invited to three showers. as it turns out, the result is magnificent. ask if the person helping you can make a call for you to your mother. if unclear what will work best for you, call our experienced and always friendly customer service team toll free at 1-800-4-clip-strip (800-425-4778) and we will be glad to help you chose. their names should pretty much speak for their specific uses. 