grab, then i am more likely to actually change them. but by putting them in my room, where it's out of the way because i nowadays basically only go into my room to sleep (and "sleep" >_> <_<), it's less likely i will actually go to change because that's just not how my brain works. thus, less effort for me.
and it should be less effort for her because it's less distance. like. the bin's right there, and the bathroom's right next to the laundry room. my room is further down the hallway, and my closet is even further down my room. she also has to open my door (which is 