everyone present would pledge their love and support to the child , become family to him , vow to raise him should anything happen to his parents . `` then , what are we supposed to do ? '' jeffs in danger of missing a goal ; thats money out of his pocket . unable to resist , i turned to find out . `` i really was n't paying that much attention to the old cow , trust me . '' and as you well know , you can live without your heart . 