it was like she wanted me to give her my eggs , my cheese , and my chives all in separate bowls . it was okay , it was what she wanted , too . well , it was worth trying though . she said , `` where are we going ? '' `` okay , '' he said , as if she 'd asked a question . `` i just ca n't do it and you would n't want me to be with you anyway . it was a beautiful place , and great food , and really good wine . 