you may be thinking, ‘did i really do that? do i still do that?’ and all this time you thought that you were a pretty good cook and that everyone loved your food. now you feel that your good food is far out-weighed by the mess you supposedly make.
or say someone in school always teased you about your freckles. it’s not like you could have done anything about them then, but you got teased just the same. for all you know, the person who said that might have been thinking how cute you were, but it was easier (and safer) to make fun of you.
the truth is that words have 