courage to have a conversation with my parents about it. that’s not what happened.
in december of my freshman year, i came out to my family in a fight. a fight about scarves. let me explain. my sister and i went to a christmas play together, and, there was a guy there who was wearing a scarf. i thought the scarf was cute. as we drove home from the show, my sister asked me if i knew what i wanted for christmas. i told her i wanted a scarf. she told me that scarves made you look gay. this, for obvious reasons, offended me. first, i tried to tell her that 