we can put thoughts in their heads , make them feel things , but they ultimately decide what to do . `` i did n't notice anyone there , but i did n't look . because if i 'm not dead-at least not yet-there may be a way to stop it . `` you want to talk about that back there ? '' he nodded , and we fell back into an awkward silence . `` so , i am to be an experience for you . '' but you guys have to go first . you can not treat a soldier so ! 