start living your life in public and going places that interest you where there will be men. the same could be made with a $2 mouse squeaker. he would duck his head when people moved their hands suddenly. using a light can mean the difference between being seen or not by automobile drivers. i wonder how much it is worth. there is only so much weight a body can carry, only so much last-minute booking one can do until it is no longer spontaneous, and more importantly only so much airplane middle seat arm wrestling one can do. 