my dad looks awkwardly at me and i decide to break the silence . he clutched her hands and dropped to his knees . `` if cooking shows had been invented thirty years ago , she would have been a star . '' they do n't recognize me for what i am . the queen was almost moved , please was not a regular part of lars vocabulary . but he was not another person . just leave it alone dear , you know that kind of talk just encourages him to fight more and more , so just leave it , okay ? 