i thought you were trying to help her . the door closed , and i came forward , my elbows on my knees , my head in my hands . `` do ye mind being married , '' he said , staring at his cousin . `` stop treating me like a student whose behavior you need to correct . '' and everything we know about this guy tells us he wouldnt have gone without a fight . she looked at me and added the two papers i just gave her to a half dozen other papers and stuffed them into the shredder . 