we 'd certainly never discussed it before this . i took the lead once more , moving more slowly and cautiously than before . let me know if he gets out of hand . '' `` what if sam has the same problems i did living with my family ? '' `` where would the fun be in that ? `` good because that was my plan all along . '' she had just finished putting her dishes into the dishwasher when the doorbell rang . the words were a suggestion , the way he said them was not . 