albeit screaming their point across to the other, trying to grab center-stage and win over the other. fight fairly. that means give the other person a chance to get his or her point across, to speak his or her mind. don’t sit there and think of all the things you plan to say when he’s done. really listen. you’d like it if he listened to you, yes?
put yourself in her shoes: people are different. they want different things and they respond differently in different situation. no matter how much of the time you’re on the same page, you and your partner will approach things differently. and oftentimes, they will seem 