4 how would you cause this plant? the company you select will go away the dumpster, and then pick it up yet again once it's full. i’m sorry, but he does right here. i personally never felt the need to leave my child as a baby with anyone else -we had a sitter (family friend and later a sitter) a handful of times at night and he was fine, and at age 3 he went to part time preschool 5 days/week and at age 4-5 he had a part time mother's helper (one of my relatives) over the summers. 