i think i would probably be more at home in the middle of a riot than trapped in a suburban dinner party if truth be told. what other advice can i give for family situations that differ from my own family? a rug too large can look more like wall to wall carpet and can actually make a room look and feel smaller. i wanted to know as much as i could about why this was happening to me. many candidates won't have confidence to get it. – include just the facts without the feelings or emotions. 