the guy she 's sitting with nods in my direction when he sees me staring at them . `` i do n't think i can do this , josie , '' she said that night as she prepared for the actual date . get to know her and find out what made her the woman she was . `` except he was buying apology flowers for a woman he pissed off . '' then he laughed despite himself and grabbed his drink . well , i explain , right now , its october , 2015 , for our lesson . 