considered and it should be something everyone can afford. my daughter was maid of honor for a close friend’s wedding. the bride wanted a weekend trip to their college town. due to the expense, my daughter had to tell her that it was not affordable for most of the girls. she then planned more reasonable local party. the bride can suggest, but it’s up to the one planning the party where it will be and how much it will cost. the bride cannot plan an expensive trip away and expect everyone else to foot the bill. if she’s planning the party, then she needs to pay.
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