them everything they want and they will one day break your heart. but if you love your child, you will raise them in the discipline and the instruction of the lord. you will monitor their time. you will monitor their activities. you will make them work. you will let them struggle. you will let them experience failure. you will let them experience disappointment and loss. you will never give them reward without responsibility because in real life, if you come in last, you don't get a trophy. you will let them feel the full force of failure. of rejection. of pain. you will let them see that they are not 