he has always been so sensitive : carrying on and crying all the time as he always does . so we dropped her at st. vincent 's , because it 's on the way back here . '' i have been under a lot of pressure . when she was five years old , her father received a phone call at the office . every time she closed her eyes , she saw flashes of light , they came and went with the waves of fierce pain that hit her when she moved her aching head . 