i was aware the tumor presents only 500 times a year in the u.s. , and how very unfortunate that made my daughter for having one . it felt great to have it again , too-it was a small , happy gift , like finding ten dollars in the pocket of my jeans . do you think i do n't realize you 're avoiding me ? it was n't as if secrets could be kept when two of the couples could read each others minds . he leaned in , whispered , `` yeah , but they will be able to hear . '' 