to cook better for him. i try to keep up with my chores for him. clean clothes, clean dishes, a tidy home, groceries bought, meals cooked. yes. it is old-fashioned. but, i have the time, talent, knowledge, and the heart’s desire to do it. i do it for me as well. but, i do it differently because of him. i can’t quite explain how it is different than if it was just for me. but it is. simply because i love him with all my heart. i want him to have a long, happy, healthy life. i will continue to do whatever i can to contribute to that life. 