`` and dragging your daughter in there to witness something she wo n't remember is going to help her how ? '' `` i think it 's 'folded like a cheap suit . ' i could work the wheel and get the machine to steer , slide , and turn the exact way i needed it to . me and papa are in the house just finishing lunch . you can dig where thats coming from ? it doesnt matter that my husband has abandoned me . they said : you must walk a desert ... `` where is this place ? '' 