fall and climb and fall and run and fall and swim and fall. but, even if i have to struggle for the rest of my life i know why. the knowing gives a reason. not an excuse, just a reason. having a reason makes taking that rocky road to recovery the only option. it makes sense. idea or in their thinking, make sure you don’t shut it down right away. often times it’s good to hear the other person out, even if they’re new. explain to them that your band culture really is about the decisions you make together rather than a solo decision. 