of fuss because i remember just thinking, yes, i can see why, you know, what i mean, i just remember thinking, they’re in an impossible situation. i’m hooked up to all this stuff i can’t go anywhere else. so they only solution for me would have been for me to be able to bring her there and that was just not, not on the cards kind of thing. and i mean there was, i mean obviously being around other people in intensive care we were there with like loads of complex serious things, that’s what it’s about. we were also looking around thinking well, yes obviously, you’re not going to 