don’t hate the too, she remains distant with us for sometimes up to 2 years. constantly plays on all her kids for sympathy, not enough money when she lives in a million dollar home, and has reminded me several times that my husband is supposed to be the one to take care of her when she gets old….not the daughter or the other 3 sons, but my husband! she will lie to gain power and love and attention, but does it in a very slick way that makes them feel sorry for her. she tells them 100 times during one conversation how much she loves them. will make no friends 