blaming is easy and sweet. taking responsibility requires a bit more effort. but blaming puts the power over your life and happiness to another person, or something, or an event. is that really what you want?
what does this poster mean?
i can see you breathing heavily, heart pumping, and feeling so sure that it has not been your fault -- it is most definitely his or her fault. therefore, that person must take the consequence. i respect that and i have no intention of changing that.
does blaming make you happy? you may say, "yes." but for how long would that make you happy? would it be a "happy" happy? or a 