but the choice was always hers.when she 'd spent enough time with him to make a decision , she would either accept him as a lover ... or tell him to go . it was just too much to resist , so moist did n't . are you absolutely certain you saw a vision of the car being blown up ? there was n't enough blood at the scene . besides , as i said , you bite your cheek when you lie . does she explain why she 's so much calmer ? '' 