has it ever occurred to you that you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar ? you ca n't say it out loud and not feel your insides start to rot . '' on inspiration he added , 'an antique , perfectly preserved . i was n't going to let anyone take her from me . he ordered , grabbed his bag , his drink and ate in the car . he was four times the size of a normal dainty but he was , in fact , a dainty , or at least some variation of one . 