no matter how far they were from each other, if you wanted to communicate anything you should be in front of that person to express what you needed. that sounds so so so good! help is here with mary fern's "go to sleep books". earned the riding steady (level 22) badge! you're saying those two can come out and talk, but he can't. i agree it is better to wait and see, even a shout out of "play through it!" she thinks issues such as lack of challenge at work and lack of focus are her main issues, but they are not. 