maybe he simply meant that i may have been there for him , but i need to do a better job at being there for the others . then she went looking for something she 'd bought at a flea market last year-a little green knit collar that fastened with an antique pink button . how could he afford all of this ? `` i know you 're in there , and you can hear me . i said his name again , louder this time , causing everyone around him to notice . 