work may be one of our core values, but it has a purpose, which is to allow us to live good lives, provide for ourselves and our families and, yes, to earn some time off to enjoy the fruits of our labor. the investigation into the cause of the fire continues. i went to one when i was younger, and you only hear things from one perspective. do not pace your sets to accomplish that. instead, only ask whether the customer would consider writing one for you. 