i wanted to get up and follow her , but i found i could not move . i turned and wrapped myself around marge and pushed both of us directly in front of laura as the flames hit . `` and when i was done being uncomfortable ? '' theres a few things id like you to iron out too . `` try to think of marriage as a dance . she tries to move her head side to side in my hands and i wo n't let her so she closes her eyes . `` we all know who the real hero is . 