it is used mostly in the context of giving up, as in when you lose. although it makes sense to imitate success in order to be successful, there are reasons to fight this urge. working hard is good but let me tell you something once you break down or something happens to you, you will be immediately replaced and life goes on. the higher the score, the safer the site is for visitors. my very first act of kindness towards my community was when i asked my mother if could volunteer at an animal shelter. 