would avoid stretching your ears right now. stretched ears don't always shrink back down to normal, especially if you're stretching up to 2g, seeing as for a few of my friends their 2g+ holes have stayed bigger than a normal piercing size even after having had their tunnels out for a few years now - a couple of them started stretching at around 13 too.
so he's told you that there is a possibility that you can stretch your ears if you get a's and b's and already you're saying, no, that's too hard, but let me do what i want to do anyway? that's not very fair and that's very 