it in. i have learned to see if i can have friends over and have them help me. i have learned to say yes, but if i have to put it off for a few weeks to be comfortable with that. i have learned to trust that my friends will still be there when i can get together with them . . .even if it’s months later than when they asked.
there is one other element in all this saying no when i don’t want to. nothing seems to wear me out faster than social events.
before i got sick, social events were parties, weddings, showers…you know…social events. now, social events are 