'it 's not like we can say we 're on our way to a fancy-dress party . ' `` how can we restrain the dog ? '' he cheated on my mum for years . my arms reached out in the darkness to find the wall . despite taking self-defense classes , karate , and boot camp , my instinct was n't to stay and fight . the shuttle i 'd missed shot past me and i jumped as an explosion rocked the ground . sure , we do it all the time . 