– whether he is okay in there – what will happen when he is born and we bring him home and he is actually ours! what happens when i’m not a perfect parent and i mess up – make mistakes – will it affect him greatly. what happens when he is at a friend’s house and has a piece of hard candy and i’m not there to make sure he sits down while he is eating it! (i hate seeing kiddos with hard candy – it makes me a nervous wreck) when he goes to school that first day and i’m not there! his first sleepover – his first time 