mad at me because i’m not out looking for a full time job, when i don’t have transportation to look, or to get to it if i do find one. he reads my message history on the computer, listens in on my phone calls and gets mad at me if i talk to my friends about how things are going here. i don’t feel i have anyone i can talk to about any of it. we have discussed going to marriage counseling, after he called my parents and told them that the marriage was over. the problem with that is, we have no insurance and are trying to make ends 