because sometimes it 's hard to be happy or to even admit that you 're good enough to be happy , that you do deserve it , so you refuse to feel it , fight it . i like things in their place , too . she sits down and pats a place next to her . the boys reached the trees and melted into the brush . you asked me five years ago what i 'd want in my daughter 's life , i 'd pick a man like shy . 