`` i thought those things were useful , '' i said , pointing to the collar . it 's how we deal with bad situations . `` look , i was in too deep , okay ? it 's just all screwed up , you know ? '' if i was here being unhappy , sam should be here , too . i didnt want a cat fight on our hands just before we were about to play . but he 'd rather start with holding her , building trust , making her comfortable and happy . coach robbins pointed to the exit . 