she wants to carry her share so she packs the first aid kit, her soups and special treats – and six more fleece layers. something that too often we forget to consider. allowing someone else to love and take care of me. we never needed to talk by phone, but that was something we felt would happen if we had asked for a call from him. he was a strong man and i will miss him dearly. does this have any side effects? i wish there was a way to direct them to this site. 