the words popped out before he could stop them . `` what did we learn from this ? '' and i saw pretty much all of him . '' she and her crew had done their homework . i 'd advise anyone who 's been in contact with him to keep an eye out . '' how tender and beautiful that line was , he thought . i was tempted to say no , just to show him he could n't order me around , but damn it , i wanted to sing with him . you called her the spider lady , correct ? 