`` you were responsible for the death of one of our own . she could n't help the defensive note in her voice . in other words , regardless of the fact i knew some of them ; i did n't know others so i was more than a little bit nervous thus me going overboard on dessert . yet , somehow that does n't matter , and now it 's okay for you to shack up with him and wage war . '' 'i hope to make up for it later , ' he continued . 