`` if you do n't want me , you 'd better tell me to stop now . '' i closed the door , turned on a lamp and followed him . `` if we can get to the cathedral , we can lose ourselves in the crowd until the parades start , '' he told them . by the time she finished , his c**k was weeping for her attention . i know from experience that while somewhat uncomfortable to some , a spreader/separator combination like that wo n't be much of a bother to him . 