`` your daddy used to say to me , 'mother , if that girl do n't spread her wings , one day she 's plumb gon na forget how to fly . ' he come around back , then we real close . where do they go now to pee ? i guess two in front and three in the back . he drank and drank until he thought he might turn into liquid himself . they worked hard at creating the illusion that they had always had money . 