the time were important in my life. when i think back to my childhood, i remember one of my closest friends from childhood was someone i practically controlled. i remember in high school always feeling this great sense of power as well. i was the mighty trumpet player who was going to do what i wanted and you were going to deal with it, because that is the way it was back then. much of my life from then to the point of this story is fuzzy and hazy in my memory, yet, there are some key points that i remember. so anyway, around the same time in life, two 