this is simply because; his eyes are yet to see what will cause his heart to convince him that you are the one. they will enter a competition in a few weeks. these are only a few examples out of thousands of possibilities that you can create yourself. how could a theory of the mind explain so many things, when every separate question seems too hard to answer by itself? i no longer advise 8l, but 2-4l if you're quite active is probably reasonable. we actually felt like $75 was something of a bargain, given the quality of food you enjoy there. 