that it takes two to tango, and our relative does not care about us enough to even try. we spend most of our lives trying to change things precisely because we do love our relative and want so much to have a nice relationship. it is very painful to walk away from someone we love, but there are times we have no choice.
loving someone does not mean you have to have a relationship with them. as we go through life, most of us at one time or another will have the experience of just not being able to be with someone we love, because we’re not good together, not good 