dinner function when i am wearing a sleeveless dress, but wearing a stole gets in the way with all the hand shaking. here’s a tip. take a long scarf, fold it in half so the scarf is now half its length. then leave a distance of about 15-18 inches from the fold to the end and put a few stitches in, just on one edge, to hold the two sides together. then put your head through the space/gap you have just created, and the scarf flows over your shoulders. position it so that it works for you. you could work out where to stitch it by using a pin or 