you 're stuck here for a few days , and it 's not that bad a place to spend some time . '' you have traveled far , and you have waited many years to tell us what happened to our son . the picture loaded on my blackberry . `` he made himself scarce last night . dont let him suffer because of me . `` sure , but i 'm trying to get at the root of how violent he was . '' i push my way downstairs and out of the club . 