or surprising but still frustrating since it has brought this process to a bit of a halt.
so what now? do we compromise and give up on the things we really wanted? i mean it's not like we put in a swimming pool in the basement or anything. these were must haves like toilets and appliances. or do we put this whole project on hold until we can do it the way we want? perhaps there is some happy medium that we can figure out that gives us what we want while still being able to send our kids to college?
which brings us back to the whole problem of my patience 