it has been a pretty big pill for me too . the lack of an apology was beginning to incense me . i already knew the answer but asked the question anyways . what do you suppose those are here for ? i offered to go out with him a few times so that he was n't going by himself but he flat out refused . she looked the other way when her son rolled home smelling like beer at all hours of the day or night and only spoke up when he did n't come home at all . 