she stops when we get close to it . one woman , however , was here because her daughter was getting married and she would be decorating their cake . this is so different from what i 'm used to . all i could think about was taking away the pain and trying to heal you . turn the front burner on to medium-high . that 's when the sadness hit me . `` i should probably be getting back to work anyway . '' `` the pain of an hour rather than that of every hour , as we say here . 