the wrinkled face appeared anxious in the recorded video message , thin lips pressing into a flatter line as the old man cleared his throat . however , one day something happened that shattered it like glass . he still seemed a little shaken by something . she ca n't remember the last time a man kissed her with such tenderness . perhaps it would be best to bring in the police , as well . you only missed them by a few minutes . `` i do n't even know if i want to be with him . '' 