everyone was singing on the way home on the bus . `` if you start that there is no way you 're going to make dinner and your party with everyone tonight . '' i could tell that he liked hearing about my mother , and since i knew his mother had died unexpectedly , i felt it was n't the right moment to ask him about it . my first thought was to my crew . `` so getting spanked later , '' he whispers to me as we join the others to eat . guess i better represent the family appropriately . '' 