amateur with a camera, i try to use my lens and words to lift joey up.
like any woman, my wife is self-conscious about what cancer has done to her. who she sees in the mirror these days looks like someone else… not the woman that she feels like she is inside. and it hurts her deeply.
i know that. so, i carefully choose what i share. it would break my heart to have the thousands of ‘before’ photos out there of her looking beautiful and healthy all these years… be replaced in people’s minds and hearts by a single ‘after’ photo of what cancer has done.
she wants to be remembered as 