less space in our lives. i sometimes hear people say that they need more space in their relationship. they need time away from their partners. i have had this feeling occasionally in my relationship, although i feel lucky that this feeling comes up very seldom. for me this is a signal to look deeply, of course i can honor that feeling and take the opportunity to go for a walk by myself. but i need to ask myself, why do i not experience enough space in being together at the moment? i cannot just say that i need space and that's normal , and take my space. perhaps our way 