i usually dont advise traveling at night , thats when theyre moving around , but you cant stay here . but that cleared right up ... only after dad dragged me kicking and screaming to the dermatologist . `` you do realize how impossible that is , right ? '' now i understand why the messages didnt say where the attempt would take place . this absolute need to belong was painful . `` well , now i love it even more , '' he said . he does n't say anything for a minute . 