`` you are too far away , '' he whispered , and then his arms were around her , and there was no space between them , and he was drawing her down off the chair , and they were kneeling together on the floor , their arms around each other . he even put on his parka and winter boots and wandered outside , around the perimeter of his cabin . be the first man to sink into her and take a part of her no other would ever have ? dont be so quick to volunteer . 