later.
sometimes you just have to put yourself above others, it is fine to be selfish sometimes. do not become a "yes man/woman" and do something because you want to do it, not for someone else. after all, it is your life, so do not let others live it for you. it is a wonderful thing to take others into consideration, and caring for others is no doubt a virtue, but do not let it weigh you down. care for yourself first, if you cannot care for yourself, how can you care for others?
happy birthday! i think the reason why people celebrate getting a year older is precisely because they are 