the only way to destroy a bad seed in a bucket of good ones is to allow it to sprout . i wiped my mouth with the napkin then tossed it back onto the table . it is sort of like saying i told you so ! that means we protect one another . '' that was n't a normal comment , mona had thought , but surely that was the trick of seeking your mate 's bed after a death , and people had talked about mat cure for grief being very good . 