study your child. some kids like to do it all themselves. they like golf or tennis, or track and field because they know that it falls on them. they do the work. they get the glory or they take the heat, but they like it that way.
other kids are better in a team setting where they don't have to stand out. they can simply concentrate on playing tough defense on a basketball team and leave the scoring to somebody else. they same for football or other team sports.
they whole idea is not to simply push whatever we liked or did well on them. that may be the way they go, 