the most important thing here is to acknowledge our hair loss, and our feelings, and take steps. maybe you need to go back to that and not have a roof over your head, money for food and medication. i actually build my work schedule around being able to go to that class. but when someone pays us a compliment we often react in the same way. enjoy your work — the second category is your desire for interesting and challenging work. often times people will ask us to stain just one side of the fence. love the flowers and the picket fence. 