the more layers - the warmer you are! you can wear any outfit you like and transform it by just simply adding a nice jacket/coat over it. i would recommend getting a style of jacket that never goes out of style e.g. a trench coat. they can transform any outfit, into something amazing! of reading will help you to relax.
i love tea during all times of the day. drink a cup of your favorite tea, get a book, listen to your music and just chill.
i hope these tips help you! what do you do to relax yourself? 