there were days when she convinced herself that they were alright . you ... you look familiar , he said to me . just because you teach your daughter everything she knows , that doesnt mean you have taught her everything you know . and as i do , i accidentally gulp in a huge mouthful of water . he just sat there and looked at me like i 'm a stranger ? sit down , you look pail and thin . `` and i know just how to pass the time . '' 