`` did you- '' she could n't believe she was actually going to say this . wait until she found out that he had been planning to use the money to run away from her ! i leaned in to him , holding his eyes , repeating soft but firm , `` when we get to that time , baby , i want you to build the one you wan na build . '' `` you want to hear about real romance ? '' not that she could use one if it 'd been here . 