clean junk drawer, we just need to know its location and contents. in leading a safe small group, our students should know about our junk drawer, and, when given the chance, we should let them see inside of it. this can, and should, take place during the set small group time, but it also needs to take place outside of it.
the third key to a safe small group is making sure your students see you outside of that group time. live life with them, by showing up at their basketball games. invite a few of them over to play video games, or to have dinner and watch a movie with 