if he wanted to win this argument , he had to move from the defensive to the offensive . `` do not ever speak to me like that again , or i will take her from you and you can decide yourself how to live with the consequences . the return dial now read 38 degrees 57 minutes 0 seconds north , 77 degree 37 minute 35 seconds west , exactly as it should have been from the start . after i said that she cried a little bit and i felt bad for saying that to her , poor thing . 