but he supposed humans all led rather tragic lives . this time was obviously going to be different . `` nothing was going on , i promise you . the grass in the yard was overgrown and filled with weeds that seemed to be as high as sunflower plants . my family and i will be well taken care of -- a new name , perhaps a nice farm in the dakotas or wyoming . `` listen to your heart and find your happiness . '' and he said it with none of the acid that was in the words . 