im afraid we will have to search the house . `` besides , you would n't have such a high blood pressure if you learn to control your temper . '' we were coming back from a school play and tony wanted one of those stupid candy ring pops for a tie at . and the wives sitting here doing nothing while it all happened . yet there was more he wasnt telling her . demanding to be listened to , demanding to be answered , demanding to be known . `` we never even met face-to-face until yesterday . '' 