take a while, but it would happen eventually.
we thought about the joy papa brought us, looked through photos and talked about the kind of person he was. making a photo album can be a helpful part of the process too.
ultimately this is a hard time for everyone and we will all take it differently. as always knowing your kids will help them, and you, through.
so sorry for your loss. thank you for sharing this advice i do think i need to start talking about death more around the kids. it is a very difficult but important subject they need to come to terms with. 