one of the glasses will contain your name and the other with the name of your husband. for a while; i decided to save that for my next book club meeting. was jesus a really good guy that lived a long time ago? i no longer have a contingency plan in case of your death. because it implies they are being "bad" and i dont want my little one to think that so i have been saying stuff like "please be a good listener for mommy" which is something she actually wants to be. 