but for me, it was a weapon that took quite a bit of work to get because i had most of the necessary crafts and i was determined to make one for myself instead of asking for help. between carrying the potato salad and the paper plates inside, you could easily forget your car windows were down. i knew who i was, that i was married, but most life details were a muddy soup. i mean, timing is everything in the technology world, but there seems to be a bit of a problem with that. 