by settling the money issue before the date. if you are a man that would not like the lady to pay the bill, make clear that you would like to invite her for dinner. the one who invites, is expected to pay the bill.
if you are a woman who would like to pay for her own part or settle the entire bill, state this clearly when you are first discussing where to go on your date. you can say; "i would love to go out with you, but only if you let me pay (or pay half the bill)".(note: say this in a nice way, the tone is important). this 