forget to discuss the smaller details.
4. do you respect their family and do you see yourself being a part of it?
as much as you may love your partner, you must also think about the family you are marrying into. every family will have their drama, that is a given. can you live with it? if your dream is to be best friends with a sister-in-law, can you live with being disliked? if your dream is to feel like the man of your house, can you live with a father-in-law that sees you as less than that? if you are already facing conflict with your in-laws, can you live with the 