the challenge was in finding out what buttons to press for the door of opportunity to open . well , look at the bright side . i felt his hand squeeze mine a little tighter . thankfully , her resistance was crumbling ; he knew it was . if he is from our same culture why wouldnt grandpa welcome him to his home ? sweet harmony , but he had missed her ! as though this was the best call he 'd received all day . `` your reaction is understandable , '' she said in a reasonable voice . 