but i have my days when i still need the reminder.
it’s not that i don’t want him to learn from mistakes and rush in to fix things, (that was something i did when he was a baby, but stopped doing a long time ago), but i see he is doing something like asserting himself and making a mistake or trying to push my buttons over something small and i feel this nagging in my gut. i am not in control. yes, hello, comes the voice back. no one is. no one person can control another person, thing or event. even a parent cannot control what her child does. she can 