she had to remember how bad he was for her . in my experience its always someone trying to contact me when that happens . rusty reached into the bag and handed him a can , popping another one open for himself . hell , she did it to him , and he was n't even her child . `` if we 'd only know ... . '' `` a nasty way to learn , '' someone behind them said . from that point on , eric decided he wanted to be an explorer just like his father . 