well. what can i do i really need the help please!!!!
for money, go to the upper right hand corner of this page. in the dark green area, there is a white search box and just type in the words: "money". lots will show up.
i have no idea what you are talking about when you say: "...the other person to suffer". what other person?
wishing you the best with this case.
and i pray for your child's well-being. 