i did n't need you to come looking for me . ' grabbing a knife from the utensil drawer he sliced one of the scallops in half and popped it into his mouth . `` it 's just so ... '' i ca n't even finish my sentence . the other guys chimed in , agreeing . `` what kind of schedule are you on ? '' `` she said it was because i rode her so hard about taking care of herself , because i was so controlling about her daily activities and schedule . 