happy or something is going on, and that's the time for you and the teacher to problem solve together. it's a good idea to use words like we, or how can we solve this problem, or what can we do. it's a whole lot easier for teacher to answer a question than it is for them to deal with a statement that you might have made. so there are different ways to get information from a teacher and there are different ways to get information as a parent. 