`` what i was trying to say before is , we think maybe you should take a little time off . as much as the thing has , i suppose . i had the same fiery red hair , but the clothes and jewelry led me to see myself differently . he was probably safe here , here inside these walls and with the prayer towers all around , but you could n't be too careful . he looked at me and said , how come you didnt tell me you were gon na do this ? 