hard, on both you and her, but you need to reach out and get her help. don't let fear stop you because god has not given you a spirit of fear, but one of peace and a sound mind. in your reaching out, you are showing her that you love her no matter what her reaction is. just remember to always be there for her, let her know that you are there and that you care, that you are someone that wants to help her, and have an offered ear, as well as a shoulder to cry on when needed.
as for friend number two, you are right, she would think 