that player must tell you - or, in some cases show you - the matching cards in their hand. it takes longer to clear out the taste if you don’t do this prior to first use. i think not, even if men seize upon it for their own ends. she enjoys traveling to the trials and running score cards back to the secretary. protect it like you would any sensitive piece of equipment. (note: imagine hearing that for three days in a row!) sometimes in life we get so busy just trying to be a grown up that we forget what really makes us happy. 