i know that he understands what is being asked of him and will give me exactly what i am asking for.
here he has had enough of working on crossing the bridge/teeter totter. it’s hard work for him. not physically but mentally. i am asking for a lot. he needs a break. i realize i have been pushing hard for quite a while and decide to call it quits there. i gave him permission to say no. he came back and said he was ready to try again but it was a good time to quit.
so, am i the boss? yes. in the end i do get the final say. am 