i felt mad that no one had noticed . then he 's gone , walking away from me . i guess they talked for a little while , and now we ca n't locate either one of them . but i 'd never really thought of myself as girly . i 'm not one of 'em , obviously , '' he said , bitter , `` but you two are . '' i was n't sure if she just had n't had sex in a while or what . can you picture him around a child ? '' 