he can if he wants to , but most do n't . he listened to me , and asked questions about what i thought , what i liked , and what i did n't . she considers it a good luck charm . i was not going to cry in the middle of his office . `` so what was your name before ? '' he turned his head and pressed a kiss to the center of my palm . she knows who you are , and more importantly , who your mother is . 