person who you can have an honest, open, loving relationship with. you start living in reality instead of the fantasy that felt so familiar because you thought you needed to be rescued. you finally see that you don't need anyone to come and rescue you; you hold the key to your own happiness.
you stop beating around the bush and you start coming right out and saying what it is you're looking for. first to yourself, and then to him. you begin to really get that it's only by communicating honestly with any potential new guy that you can both find out quicker if you're on the same page or wasting 