she still did n't know what this evening was about or what it was meant to be . he 'd returned her purse after it was stolen . she waves her hand in front of me and blows out an exasperated breath . do you mind if i just ask you one quick question ? she looked up and flashed a brilliant smile . get in , she said , turning toward the jeep . being a father is better than burnt bread . '' i happen to know he has earned the right to it . 