`` you 're giving him too much power . ted knew the truth , but he was too gallant to destroy your friendship and faith in me by telling you what i was really like as a wife . he slipped in with me and sat between my legs , leaning back against me . this would be steves first official meeting with crew members as the captain . i was so not only because i do believe that this lady is not one of them , but also that she had the power to rearrange it . 