problem is that, you spend thousands of dollars on a design and you’re not sure if you’re looking at a $75,000 kitchen or a $150,000 kitchen. it’s a little bit tricky in terms of not knowing what you’re getting into.
[3 lights design] could have made us a design that was a $150,000 kitchen. but you knew that we needed to stay within our footprint, is would be very cheap, as much as possible.
and that allowed us [the husband and wife] to start communicating better in more of a grounded way, because we knew that each of us had the opportunity to say what we really wanted. and that took away 