`` you 're all okay with what they do . if anyone is interested in joining with me , we can go as a group . men who go out and take chances to keep others safe . just like an old married couple , who finish each other 's sentences . `` they said no one would ever find me . uncle dennis gets drunk all the time , but he never hits anyone , especially not his kids . it was so delicious i had second helpings of everything . `` possibly not , but i hope you will now . '' 