it feels incredibly personal and the more you can shut out other people’s advice and what they think is best for you the better, because you want to find the way to do it just for yourself. when everything else fails, then music comes into play. most of us would like to make some small difference in the world. our travel mistakes turned lessons also turn out to be great stories. in this section, you will learn to use the "and" method. 9. get your hair off your face. that’s the goal of finish planing, and sometimes i am lucky enough to realize that goal. 