sure , it was possible that he had gone back to look through brendas purse ; there was no way i could say definitely whether the contents had already been scattered or not . `` you do n't even know her so how could you know anything about her or whether or not she 's good enough for me ? '' i waved my arms a few times in their direction . she got back up on the table , and asked a blessing . `` he 's very charming and very smart . 