`` i used to be married years ago , but my husband and i had started to grow apart after amy was born . that means you 're good people in my book . their positions at opposite ends of the bus kept them out of view from one another . we looked at some of the mission exhibits that have to do with the way people did things in those days , but it was the story of the big earthquake that had destroyed the church which fascinated toby the most . would he be glad about it ? 