he stretched over and tugged the sweater out of my hand . how are you sure it was them ? `` i 'm going to get to the bottom of all this , '' he said quickly , seeing an opening at last , `` i 'm going to find out exactly what 's going on and i 'm going to make sure you 're safe during the process . '' apparently she decided to come clean . he tried to pull his hand back . what do we tell our neighbors about what ? 