be selective with who we have by our side. it is not about the number of people we have next to us, but those who truly can be depended on. even if that means there is only a select few who are good enough for that role, that is better than those that you have to question their role. sometimes you have to remember that you have to do things for your own well being before you can do something for someone else. and always keep in mind, sometimes you have to distance yourself to save yourself. 