she laughed , took him by the arm , and pulled him toward the kitchen . instead i hear you want me to take you to church . instead , he 'd said things like , `` thank god we did n't listen to all that advice about not starting this relationship , '' then lead them into a conversation about their future together . `` ah , babe , do n't you get it ? well take her to the boss so he can decide what he wants to do with her . that was n't an option to his sister . 