`` no guns ... `` ... out in the open where you can see it . by the time he had reached the edge of the village he had found it . but i had to tell her the matter was already settled between men . '' it was like a dance , in which the same dancers would form into groups , first in one way , then in another . i take a shower and style my hair with care . is it the experience they went through that pulls them towards each other ? 