beliefs around my business. i worked really hard to not allow comments like to break me. hell.. i had just come back from an interview the day before where the gentleman was clearly judging my life choices and i looked him in the eye and felt nothing. i was calmed by the fact that i knew this was my life’s purpose. but this comment threw me right over the edge. i wanted to know why, but the thing is i probably will never know exactly why some comments bother me more than others, and i do not really care to know, i just want to know how to get through 