she needs to eat healthy , he thinks , walking into the room . i '' d like to live a little before i dive into marriage and responsibility . '' `` we have to split up , make them divide their forces , '' i said . i lift the crystal ball to eye-level . `` just once i want someone to be afraid of losing me , '' phoebe said . i do n't want you to slip into my world and leave everything that 's good about you behind . '' 