of yourself, i don't mean that you run out and call him, or look to someone else to take care of it for you. i mean that you find a way to take care of yourself, as a good, kind mother would take care of an upset child. if you had a child, and he or she came to you angry or upset about such and such, what would you say? what would you do? how would you help this child cope and grow in inner strength and understanding? this is what you are needing to develop within yourself and be able to give to yourself.
your guy can't spend his 