but the very next moment, his loving heart reminded him of the condition of his mother, brother and others of the family, and made him give up the desire to tread that path. the biggest challenge for me was just finding the courage to use my voice. since i’m approaching 40, without any career and no life in place, i’m basically facing a situation where it is too late to fix anything. with today's technology you can have your whole shower experience run by a computer program, including being air dried if you want. but it can also be so very scary, complicated, and complex! 