the houses when telling people what we want, which ends up not really telling them anything! for example instead of saying “perhaps next time you can consider what other information you might include” be clear and say “next time i’d like you to include x, y and z” that way it is absolutely clear what you want and they will respect you more.
remember manners matter, always ask politely. people are much more likely to respond in a positive way if you ask rather than demand. put yourself in their shoes, which would you prefer… “can you please get back to me tomorrow with that” or “i want it tomorrow, final”… 