we do our best as a family to keep it light as well. we all know phoebe is an athlete, and will be as she grows up. i struggle as i write this because i do not want to label her, yet it is so very apparent that this is who she is. the coaches are drawn to her and they see it too. she won this last race by 4 seconds (which is like 4 minutes in regular time) and she is getting a bit of a big head about her. i want to tread lightly here, i want to find the best things to say to her to 