think about your life ahead of you, think about the fact you will one day be married, and that girl who you will be married to in a few short years is somewhere out there right now. you don’t know her name, you wonder what she looks like, what her personality will be, but i promise she is the one who will bring true joy. don’t focus on the many girls around you can’t have now, focus on her. sure it’s hard to focus on someone you do not know, but just know she is just as alive as you are in some location of the world right now, and 