open the valve in you than you are also filling your self with love and when that happens you are no longer concerned about being loved by someone having someone around you because you desire that company not because you need their love now there is so much more to this some day you will notice that the love that flows through you has a flavor and you will attract those that like that flavor as it flows through you it’s like you ad a flavor to it because of who you are it’s like water adding a small amount of color to it and this is what makes exchanging 