it will be interesting to see if this is the first season in which the best person actually wins! get your child involved and they will love and enjoy making plans for the big day. we are blessed to have many great and useful ‘self-help’ books available to us, but ultimately the only person who has your best answers is you. (what has intent got to do with it?). how can you make some small but telling changes to your life? you can call up one day in advance and be expecting to have your current dumpster delivered to your home the very next day. 