they can hardly wait to get them for controlled display . `` i guess that 's so , '' he responded , in his quiet , deep voice . `` sleep , '' he whispers to me and kisses my hair . she didnt know how to love a man , because of what her family did to her . she handed the rope to bond and hoisted the tub on her hip , leading the way along a small path away from the village . but , she thought , those were her own values . 