today we are to be married . people sometimes say things about you that arent very nice . `` so you 're in your usual happy mood , coach . '' she watched bens face in the bathroom mirror as he registered what she had just said as he brushed his teeth . i nod in return and step forward . but he realizes that im not being aggressive . she was sitting across my lap . `` you should be able to marry me . '' how could he think she was stupid ? 