the securely attached child is like a barnacle, she says, clinging firmly to the underside of the boat. cars are expensive and car racing costs even more. plus, if we stop talking for a moment and start listening, we can hear them say the same things we don’t even realize come out of our own mouths during the daily hustle and bustle. what i think this whole experience has taught me is that you can make your own happiness. we will remove these from your room before you arrive. and anything we can make from scratch. 