others. the real trick is to develop questions to draw them out, especially if they are young like my son was only five years old. he’d never had to develop that kind of vocabulary before. we all learned together.
together we all developed a vocabulary for how to gauge difficult situations and see if it was just an off day, or truly threatening situation that required action.
many schools offer great training for kids, parents, and teachers. get involved and see what their stance is. is there something you can participate in with your child to see how they react? are there outside classes in your community at the boys and girls 