this year i made more of an effort to get to know my new home better. try to limit the number of different types of sessions you offer. afterward you will be directed to the jail to have your fingerprints taken. i am slowly adopting a more practical and less emotional attitude..i know the beginning of recovery is bumpy but it sounds like you feel somewhat normal at 4 weeks. to some extent, every home, regardless of age or location, needs to breathe. i have been so stress-free since the gardener. 