how in public or talk any how in public and think you are sending a good message about yourself to the world,you lie bad.so in order to make sure that you have self-respect be courteous and decent in the house or anywhere you find yourself. and remember that respect is earned but not bought. you can mess around with people in your inner circle and the outside world and think you can find yourself out to command respect?,it will not work. it is simple like the saying ‘garbage in garbage out”.
secondly, after you have shown your self some respect,you have to respect others too.give respect to anyone you come across 