very comfortable, i appreciate your laid back attitude not trying to push on unnecessary appointments, a nice as you need it approach! since it's been an issue very close to me for some time now, i thought it's about time i'd let some steam off. 4 have you suffered so much for nothing–if it really was for nothing? when you would sit alone, all by yourself, thats when your conscience will speak to you. once there is a mutual interest, you can meet up to see if there happens to be a actual connection. 