we are so happy with what my son has been taught so far. she suggested that we call the family member and suggest that he get a security pass to allow him to meet her at the gate. you have the white/pink/brown noise button that you can use to navigate through the different sounds. if it had been faced sooner, we would not be scrambling for a last-ditch sticking plaster. according to the book, "out in the army", soldiers threatened to beat the author of the book when he was a fellow soldier because he was gay. 