i could n't believe they were talking about vines and pets in the middle of a conversation like this . i could n't say that i thought maybe she led with her vagina when it came to guys , and established that she was for fun , nothing more . `` my goodness , '' she said , smiling , `` you 're an ambitious man . '' `` in the middle of the night , in fifty degree water ? '' he put an end to her art . he laughs and looking at it that way , he does have a point . 