i saw him relax and maybe even enjoy telling me about something that weighed heavily on him . well of all the she stared at him for a moment . or taken care of it themselves better than they had . with effort , i relaxed against him and it did n't take long before one of his arms slid away , the other one loosened , his hand resting lightly at my waist , and i knew he was asleep . throwing my arm out , i let the source go . `` that 's when we met - had coffee . 