bad news: gap open up today, so there will be a tendency to fill the gap. nancy wolf is an expert in both grief and pain management. tip: use masking tape to map out the size and scale of the piece on the wall and floor. half the fun was watching them swipe at the fly, whether or not they were able to get their little mouths around it. 5. get to know your computer. if you could ask one of the museum's experts a question, what would you ask? i was there to help, but also to deliver some tough messages. 