drop your phone off a boat on vacation , and it floats right back up to the surface ; blackberry falls out of your bag onto pavement , not a scratch . 'i stayed for three months , sweeping her house as is fitting for the pupil , and then i returned here , my way clear before me . ' perhaps she was ready for more ... . and what on earth could i say ? leaving him before had nearly ripped her apart , but there had n't been a choice . but it 's possible he was n't being objective . 