only this time she was talking to me , and somehow that made everything different . grandma nods and fingers the male . she just wants to scare me , thats all . `` can i have some time to think it over ? '' wait until you see the way they arranged it . i did n't give them more time obviously . `` i learned to mask it , but i always felt terribly awkward at social events . by the way ; im getting married in a couple of weeks . 