and learn from. sigh.
you don’t. or, at least, i don’t know how. that’s when you just have to realize that the pain you feel stems from your love for them. it’s a good thing to care, even though it hurts really badly sometimes. that said, even when you hurt, it’s in times like this that you “fake it ‘til you make it”. being there, and being strong for someone who needs you, is one of the best things that you can do for another human being. even if you can’t actually fix the situation, they’re going to know, now or down the road, that, “hey… this person really cares about 