the beginning follows. if you start a new job, then there has to be an ending to the old job and the beginning of the new job, so the end comes before the beginning. but the change of heart does not happen from ending to beginning, just like that. our heart cannot go directly from ending to beginning. there is an in-between stage that ends and begins and there is an in-between stage.
when we send away our loved ones, just because the funeral is done, you cannot enter into the beginning. the ending is not done yet, the ending lasts much longer. there has to be a period of sending 