instead i asked my own question , `` if you tried , could you throw that car across the street ? '' `` you ca n't just walk into a federal prison and kill a man ! '' guess that answered the question of whether shed deliberately decorated the bedroom for me . thomas , dressed in a black suit and blue tie , kicked a soccer ball . alexis started arranging the food on the table . the general rule is that if someone puts a weapon on you in a busy area where you can yell for help , yell . 