them in a position where they will have to fight each other over the things you have left for them. do not fool yourself into thinking that it is something you can manage on your own unless you have a law degree to back you up. this is why you need a lawyer to help you in making the plans and deciding what happens after your demise.
as much as many people do not like to think about a moment when they will not be there it is not something you cannot avoid and it is better to take care of it in good time. also, writing your will does not 