family little pleasures they have grown used to.
"it's morbid". "we don't want to think about it."
that has been used as an excuse time and time again. but not thinking about it won't prevent it happening. the time has come to be positive. but taking a hard look now at your situation and doing something about it won't be tempting fate. but it will be a positive step towards making sure that no matter what life may have in store , good or bad, you can rest easy in the knowledge that you can cope on your own if necessary. and that's a feeling every woman in the country should get 