to keep her healthy and safe by being positive and talking about good things she does remember. i have to watch my words and be careful about how i say things. keep things where they are and where she remembers them being 50 years ago. we have to keep our questions short and answers simple. we need to write things down and have her take notes. no reason to get in a hurry or get upset, just go with the flow and her reality.
over time things will only get worse, and as i am here and you are far away, i want you to be prepared to live in her 