to be honest with you i felt like i was wasting her time and my time that i was she was just really really really depressed and the only thing that gave her any joy at all was her, her daughter and i at some point i just kind of throughout all of my training and i just said hey you know what i want to try something a little different. let’s just i’m going ask you to close your eyes and i want you to sort of imagine something with me. i want you to imagine your great great granddaughter and i want you to get to know her 