little too real and i feel like sticking my fingers in my ears and loudly humming so i don’t have to think about it.
the thing is though, if we don’t make the decision now, if we don’t put it in black on white. our precious son becomes a ward of the state when we die, no matter how many people love him or want to take care of him, unless we step up and decide, the decision won’t be ours to make.
this happened to a dear friend of mine, when her parents died without a will she ended up a ward of the state, she had a family with the 