when i find myself wondering if my days have value, how to have joy, there is only one source i can trust. some days i play music other days i don’t. the key is to know what questions to ask in advance so that you don't end the evening knowing your date's favorite drink, but nothing about who that person really is. you are the first one to clearly explain this. sometimes i eat just potatoes for dinner. for you shut the kingdom of heaven in people's faces. if you are looking to relax but not be bored. 