you should come by for a visit , and of course you 're always welcome to stay if you do n't already have accommodations . that road , it is not one i want to go down again . i remember his mother had died a long time before and his father raised him . but what i meant was , if a wizard mates , does he ... love her ? '' this is a special day , and i am so grateful to be a part of it . '' `` will you promise not to hide things from me ? '' 