or whatever it may be. part of the answer is this: you need to be receptive and open to actually receive it.
back in the 1980′s i played a little college baseball and i can tell you that you can’t catch a ball if your glove is closed! it bounces right off! maybe this has already given you an “aha! i never thought of that” moment–but even so, read on for tips on how to open up so you can “catch” that “ball” you are seeking. 