her job. god had a plan and i had to go with it..although i was cautious about this meeting of course we would be there. then came the day, cold, damp and gloomy. i met the family who was going to change our life forever. i met heather with a hug, the warmest hug i can remember and yes that baby bump. talking with heather was easy, natural and calming. heather asked me if i was excited, with tears running down my cheeks i shook my head yes. i was unable to speak for a few seconds. when i finally could speak i told her how excited i was for 