long as you qualify—might as well make good use of it.
your friend is lucky to have people who want to love them well at a crushing time. a lot of times when the concept of death enters into a relationship, some people vanish. it’s loaded. if your friend’s loved one died, that means that your loved ones can die, too and you’re not at a place where you can deal with that. or, you know, there can be a thousand other reasons that you don’t even understand to explain your instinct to run. that’s okay. the most important thing that i can tell you above all else is to remember 