i slept with this man , for goodness ' sake , yet i ca n't even have a normal conversation with him ! as she started to respond to me , i quickly added , `` just the human side of him . but moss did n't push the matter , just stepped back . but , hey , they all have to go . i ca n't say yes now when i still do n't know exactly how this is going to work . the policeman appeared not to notice him . 