he never explained what happened with his ex to cause him to become so angry . as he lay there in shock she bent down , pressed the bat to his throat , and whispered in his ear that if he ever touched her again she would kill him . i arrived at the golf course , half an hour early . she reached out a hand to touch one of the leaves . his bow tie is crooked , his smile is genuine . `` i know what it 's like to be totally into someone , '' i said . 