candy in the jar. then i let the kids have a treat once a day. it's a nice way to count down the days until daddy returns.
sticking to our routine helps the kids feel secure. they like to know what comes next. i also like to have a few special activities that we do when daddy is away. one of my kids' favorites is to watch a movie in mommy and daddy's bed.
i try not to sweat the small stuff. if i get overwhelmed, i take a step back and gain some perspective on the situation. sometimes i realize all i have control over are my reactions.
stick to the routine 