`` well , i am terribly concerned for your health . he had wondered if it were like that everywhere . but i was thinking that was pure luck and it only had to happen because i 'd left my head in the sand too long with a husband who was no good for me from the start and i knew it , i just did n't do a thing about it . footsteps sounded on the steps behind him before he could draw her close . i noticed from the tapes that she didnt always , instantly , predict our moves . 