`` please tell him no thank you and i 'm not going to change my mind . '' about what lengths i have to go to to marry you . i had a sudden , painful respect for jenny in that moment . but he read her mind and murmured , `` it 's dark . the lights in the rear of the dining room turned off . we came here to end the fighting , not continue it . let me tell you brothers , prison has always been black . or can i carry on a normal conversation with you ? '' 