to pay, and even if they can pay they are often skeptical about whether or not the money would be worth it. that’s where you can come in and help, saying that “my dad needs support i’m willing to pay.” you can also offer to come with them to their appointment so that they don’t have to face a stranger all by themselves. this also can help you convince them since you’re not necessarily saying that they are the only ones who need help since you have your own feelings and emotions you’d like to process in a safe space.
remind them that they don’t have to settle for their first 