i don't care",why you ask "they are the ones who have to problem not me. 2. i don't have to make things my problem. if something goes wrong with someone i don't make it my problem, it's there problem but if they ask for help i will be more and happy to help them out. all my life i love to please people around me, help them, be there for them. but it's hard work, so for once in my life i needed to step back and get help from them. it's funny (now) to see how things change when you stop looking after a people around you,and start looking 