they also remind us that anything is possible, no matter who we are. remove from heat and allow to cool until “finger warm”. but if i had just made that appointment, my cancer could have been caught so much earlier. be careful for as the saying goes, the other side is capable of doing what it promises. and, what is within our here and now?” “what are our options, given x, y and z?” there is always something you can do, even if its changing your attitude to those factors outside your control. 