he thought he had better test the waters before diving into a conversation and getting his head bitten off . besides , she probably would n't have believed me if i did tell her the truth . shed never even met her , yet she loved her . most importantly are the man 's eyes . amelia would rather drag it out , maybe out in public to seek sympathy , thus making my family pressure me further . what i did n't know was at that moment , in her kitchen , she was going to prove that thought absolutely correct . 