relationship with, and almost predict what kind of love it would be. but is that really so? is there anything to choose or is it all decided for us? it might even be contrary to our own will. i think we have less to say in these matters than we like to believe. it can be a torment to love someone you can’t be with. sometimes you’re in need of a fresh start but your heart is still caught up in the previous chapter. very little you can do about it. in the media, love is often reduced to the notion that there’s someone for everybody. that’s not the kind 