book, or eating. but, other times, she needs and wants my attention. and the little that i give her is probably not enough. so, i'm contemplating, like i have for about 6 months now, sending her to a babysitter. i love being with her, and i love having her with me. but i also need to work. the question is if i can rearrange my day to be able to give her my attention at certain times, and work at other times. sometimes, for example, i get work in the evenings that i do when the kids are asleep already. if that happens, i can choose to work less hours 