`` how the hell could you not know you were still married ? '' he added the white headdress with black accent rope . she was certain what her foot had just hit had not been there a second before when she had looked at the ground . but that familiar expression sent her skin tingling , despite her anger . fear would not control me tonight , though . the mans tone was polite but insistent . `` i 'm not very good at this , but your wife is here with us now and she is very , very sad . '' 