`` she says i 'm a ne'er-do-well , and until i settle down and act like a real man she wants nothing to do with me . '' why do n't you catch some sleep in the next room ? '' and , just like you , the one he usually needs the most protection from is himself . and you 're not hurting me right now , baby . `` hey , you were n't supposed to have sex that night . he was blown away at such a young age that a man , someones dad , would say such a thing . 