can’t they go? they can’t go because they have to pay their bills, there’s no money for their trip. but really, there is money. they don’t have to pay their bills. they could use that money and go on that fancy trip tomorrow if they really wanted to. but they don’t want to do that because they want to stay in their home. they want to have running water and power in their house.
it’s important for us to realize and acknowledge that we always have choices. that we never have to do anything but we want to do it. we discount those want to’s so often like they’re a given. 