"sitting up, walking down the hallway and especially going down the stairs happened as inside a nightmare, when you want to step down or do whatever other movement and the limbs are not responding to your intentions. during the long photographic sessions, they fell in love, marrying on december 8, just after they returned to new york city. after meeting the son, "h", she claimed she was pregnant. he found general support and encouragement. a brick lamp house, which was also called a lens house, was built at the base of the tower to house the lamp during the day. 