by their ends.
when someone you love is going through trouble you do everything you can to help them out. depending on what you and them are like you can find yourself having long, involved conversations or you might just awkwardly skirt the issue. not everyone feels comfortable trying to provide help for their husband, wife or friend in need. there’s a reason that there are people who go to college for years to try and learn how to help people deal with their issues, it’s a complicated process.
try and raise the conversation naturally in conversation. this is a very touchy subject and many people are already embarrassed about asking for 