another time, my two girls were visiting their cousin, who was at the time about three-years-old, and they were all playing in the living room at my in-laws’ home. we have them in our living room, and i find it hard to balance what i put up. but i know, by wisdom, that we do not all see it all the same. you either trust husband's and your own ability to 'manage' others as fully capable adults, or you don't. most commuters in 18436 can expect to fall in that range. 