my oldest son is already about to eat us out of house and home. he is always hungry. when i am making a meal he is in the kitchen with me waiting for me to place the food on a plate before placing it on the table. he wants to grab the first plate i serve and start eating it. but almost every time i hand him that first plate i say ,“luke, we always serve others first. hand this plate to your brother.” the first few times we did this, he cried. he was so hungry and wanted the plate of food. but even in his time of need 