this is either related to what you did in the past or what you will need to do in days ahead. and this idea of happiness: why does it only arise from either of the two? among them 60 are boys and 59 are girls. he will live with them, and they will be his people. they look a bit alien, all curled up in bunches tied with a bit of string or a rubber band to keep them tidy. remember unless you are trained as some sort of counselor your job is to listen. that’s when you think, oh, right. 