it would be good for you to know what their interests are, and even the act of asking—sends the right message. she was a jerk but pulled off a nice move, all at the same time. when you turn on the light switch in a room, the dark goes away. first step onto the round stone button on the left side, then push the prism next to it to the right once and then forward twice. it’s honest and it will help so many people. it is also a show piece when company comes over. 