`` i went to her a second time , and she rejected me again . '' the presence of these last two items caused us to automatically include you in our little adventure . money means i do n't have to worry about that , and neither do you , now that you 're my bride-to-be . '' `` i 'm the one who 's trying to be nice . still , he was obstinate , in the way that only truly miserable people can be obstinate . `` besides , i need it to go to work tomorrow-today . 