it 's something we each wanted in the first place . '' i watched how she worked with them , how patient she was , being a good listener as she helped heal them . a woman , who according to the lines on her face , that life had used hard . i turned my head and looked at it . were taking you all in groups of twenty , now lets get this going , come on ! i was so tired , exhausted-and i had n't even done anything . 