if you 'd have come on to me in those first five seconds , with my husband standing right there , i do n't think i could have pushed you away . she shrugged , knowing he 'd hit a nerve . dare he hope she still had feelings for him ? but in the waking world , i stayed where i was supposed to be , with my husband and son . 'i know , but just this once maybe ? ' 'then why did it upset you ? ' `` so you broke it off because he wanted kids . 