`` you do n't want to let her go because you 're in love with her . and to believe in your own self-worth . i do n't think she is right about jake wanting me , but all she has done is remind me of my own growing feelings for him . finally , she set the candle back down on the table . this one even has a sense of humor-and that 's while lying in a net after nearly getting drawn into a terminal void . '' she did n't want to go into this . 