funny how someone could be so important in your life and then ... then you go a long period of time without them even entering your thoughts . asking was not quite the right word . could you give me some privacy , please ? '' but that was the worst part-i knew his intentions were good . she waved a hand vaguely at the doorway . do not harm the baby or anyone else ! like mike , as in mike hammer . `` but do n't make me look bad in front of my sister 's husband . '' 