the moment you were born”, god bless that gorgeous man! he was right. i realized then that she just loves me and wants to play a big role in helping make my day everything i (we) dreamed and that i am so grateful to have such an amazing mum. so i started a note on my phone and popped in ideas and jobs of how to include my mum in the process and also jobs to include my mother in law, whom i love dearly. it was a great learning curve for me early on, that there is so much love and support around a wedding and it’s important to 