`` you were in our wedding , you know . `` this is quite a library , '' he said , reading off titles as he passed them . `` and my father taught me the best way to handle someone who is stubborn is to let them be stubborn and live with their decisions . do you think you could make it over ? she re-loaded and pulled the catch back . bobo was running his fingers through his floppy fair hair by way of grooming . he could roll it down his arms and hold it . 