of adding to the grief, of being the reminder that their loved one or friend is gone. we long for them to find joy again, to take away their pain, to have it all be good.
so often we say or do nothing and promise ourselves we will call tomorrow or send a card in a few days. those days become weeks and soon it has been months since we have made that promise.
we have all done it. put a big guilty stamp on my forehead.
and then i had an amazing lesson in what i know to be true.
many of you know i work at our local hospital in the mother 