44. some years ago, people gathered to rejoice at your birth, and today we are here to celebrate another anniversary.happy birthday. you’re right about writing when i’m not really up for it. you had home help, people coming into the house and taking dad out for coffees, to the movies or the library for hours, really whatever he was capable of doing. i am all tense when i get here. this makes it incredibly easy to map out months ahead of time. but i have never noticed them before last night, because they are not 'my problem area'. 