his family. he chose family. you all know how good my dad was at drumming. don't get me wrong, he was very successful, but he could have risen to the top, the top being what the majority of people are led to believe is the top. you know, having lots of money, being famous, traveling and performing all over the world. but he chose family time and time again. he chose being a good father, a good husband, a good friend, a good person. what's crazy about our society is you don't get written in the history books for being a good person. you get written about for making big 