he never spilled any on himself or me or his instrument . guys like him ... '' she trailed off , and i turned fully in my seat to look at her . you should try to get hold of her as soon as you can . you have to take care of you so you can take care of them . `` we 're going to tell you a lot of things , actually . '' i was unattached to the results of the meeting . well trust me and believe me when i tell you this . 