My husband works all day, and I stay home and clean and such.

This day, I had made his tea later than I should have because I had to clean a ton of dishes first, so his tea was warmer than usual. I put double the amount of ice that I usually do to try to combat it, but all the ice melted after a half hour anyway.

My husband asked about why he had no ice, I explained, and asked him if he would like more ice. He said no, but later said that it wasn't normal for me to ask if he wanted ice because I already thought he wanted it... Even though before he has told me not to get things he talks or asks about unless he specifically asks for it.
This example is WRONG.