Gary Hensley , 37 , was at home with Cassandra Lynn 's two children when he learned that she had died in Los Angeles in January 2014 . Cassandra , a Playmate of the Month in 2006 , was found unconscious in a hot tub by her lover after a night of sex , cocaine and drinking . Hensley said he was angry because he did not know how he would take care of her children - who were both under age 3 years old at the time. In an interview with the Washington Post , he said he is haunted by questions of whether or not she loved him . The children 's biological father never wanted custody of the kids and now they call Hensley 'Dad ' , which 'always makes me smile ' , he said .
Gary Hensley , 37 , was at home with Cassandra Lynn 's two children when he learned that she had died in Los Angeles in January 2014 . Cassandra , a Playmate of the Month in 2006 , was found unconscious in a hot tub by her lover after a night of sex , cocaine and drinking . Hensley said he was angry because he did not know how he would take care of her children - then six and 12 - from a previous relationship . In an interview with the Washington Post , he said he is haunted by questions of whether or not she loved him . The children 's biological father never wanted custody of the kids and now they call Hensley 'Dad ' , which 'always makes me smile ' , he said .