'Good girl ' writer Robin Rinaldi had been with Scott Mansfield since 1990s . Was content in marriage for years - but she wanted kids and he did n't . Rinaldi decided she needed to take lovers and negotiated 'open marriage ' Was with husband in San Francisco weekends , with lovers Monday-Friday . Had planned on going back after 12 months of sleeping with strangers . But then her friend told her about a man who was willing to marry her if she agreed not to have sex with other men or women until they were married. Has told story at length in upcoming book called The Wild Oats Project .
'Good girl ' writer Robin Rinaldi had been with Scott Mansfield since 1990s . Was content in marriage for years - but she wanted kids and he did n't . Rinaldi decided she needed to take lovers and negotiated 'open marriage ' Was with husband in San Francisco weekends , with lovers Monday-Friday . Had planned on going back after 12 months of sleeping with strangers . But she fell in love with one of the men and now lives with him instead . Has told story at length in upcoming book called The Wild Oats Project .