' Good girl ' writer Robin Rinaldi had been with Scott Mansfield since childhood . Was content in marriage for kids - but she wanted him and he did n't . she decided she needed to take lovers and an ' open lesbian ' Was with husband in San Francisco weekends , with lovers Monday - Friday . Had planned on coming back after 12 months of sleeping with strangers . But she fell in love with one of the men and now lives with him instead . Has told stories at length in upcoming book called The Wild Oats Project .
'Good girl ' writer Robin Rinaldi had been with Scott Mansfield since 1990s . Was content in marriage for years - but she wanted kids and he did n't . Rinaldi decided she needed to take lovers and negotiated 'open marriage ' Was with husband in San Francisco weekends , with lovers Monday-Friday . Had planned on going back after 12 months of sleeping with strangers . But she fell in love with one of the men and now lives with him instead . Has told story at length in upcoming book called The Wild Oats Project .