A widower believes he is being haunted by his dead wife - a year and a half after she died . Ted Wiseman claims his wife of 46 years , Yvonne , is complaining about his bed time habits and the tidiness of the house they shared in Halesowen , West Midlands . The 79-year-old admits that the love-of-his-life , who died at 65 from a stroke in May 2014 , had always worn the trousers in their relationship . Ted Wiseman says his late wife has been contacting him from beyond the grave ever since she died last year . Mr Wiseman 's wife Yvonne died at 65 from a stroke in May 2014 . The couple are pictured on a night out over Christmas in 2012 . Mr Wiseman said his late wife gave him a stern telling off from beyond the grave because he was wearing her slippers ( file picture ) But in the last year , he says , his wife has been contacting him from beyond the grave - and telling him off for wearing her slippers and sniffing in bed . Mr Wiseman said : 'Yvonne was the gaffer so I 'm not surprised she 's still bossing me around now . 'Last month I left a tea towel on the side , and when I turned around it had been put back in its rightful place . 'Yvonne was so house-proud that she hated anything being out of place . I was drifting off to sleep the other night when she told me to `` Stop sniffing '' . 'She always used to complain about my habits in bed . 'Some people might be upset about being nagged by their wife , but it 's quite comforting to me . ' Throughout Mrs Wiseman 's life she not only controlled her adoring family , but everyone else who came near the house . Mr Wiseman ( left ) says his late wife Yvonne ( right ) is complaining about his bed time habits and the tidiness of the house they shared . Mr Wiseman is pictured holding a detergent ball that he says Yvonne put in the washing machine when he had left it out . Mr Wiseman said : 'One day a young lad knocked on our door saying he was being chased and could he come in . 'Yvonne was having none of it and just chased him back down the driveway . 'Although she was strong and forthright , Yvonne was never nasty . I 'd often suggest going places or doing something and she 'd just chuckle and say `` no '' . And that was the end of that . ' I never won those arguments . ' During their marriage , Mr Wiseman , a former lollipop man , and Yvonne , a care home worker , had two children and five grandchildren . Son David was with his father when Yvonne first made her presence known from the other side . Mr Wiseman says his late wife has been telling him off for wearing her slippers and sniffing in bed . The pair were sitting in an Indian restaurant when they watched a side dish slowly glide across the table to rest next to Ted . David , 45 , said : 'We were waiting for mains and there were dishes all over the table . 'It was perfectly flat , but all of a sudden this one dish moved from one side of the table over next to me . ' I just knew there and then mum was still with us . She was always trying to sort us out , even when we were out and about . ' After that meal , Mr Wiseman contacted a medium to help explain the ghostly goings on . During her visit , he said he received a stern telling off from his late wife through the clairvoyant demanding he take her slippers off . Mr Wiseman said he received a stern telling off from his late wife through a clairvoyant - demanding he take her slippers off . Since then , Mr Wiseman claims Yvonne has moved a dirty soap dispenser off the kitchen worktop and even helped with the laundry . He said : ' I had just put a load in the washing machine and had put some condition on the top . 'When I turned around to grab the powder and start the wash , the conditioner had gone . I checked the drawer and it was already in there . ' All of Yvonne 's visits have made Ted a believer in the afterlife . He said : ' I used to be a sceptic , but not anymore . I 'm seeing it almost every week at least . 'It 's definitely happening to me through Yvonne . '
Yvonne says he is being contacted by his wife of 46 years , Ted Wiseman . Claims she has been 'nagging ' him since she died at 65 in May last year . The 79-year-old says items left out in the kitchen are mysteriously tidied up . Received 'stern telling off ' from late wife when a clairvoyant came to visit .