Zoey Mendoza 's five - year - old daughter sue and three - year - old son Jordan were shot dead by her husband in Birth in New Jersey in 2010 . Before the deaths , they talked about sue and Birth had tried to take his life - but she never realized she needed to protect her children from him . In her first visit since the tragedy , she revealed her terror at finding out her children were missing and her pain at learning about their deaths . Three weeks later , the children came to her in a vision and they continue to visit her , she said . Mendoza has now remarried and has three step - children .
Zoey Mendoza 's five-year-old daughter Jada and three-year-old son Jordan were shot dead by her husband Kurtis Birth in New Jersey in 2010 . Before the deaths , they spoke about separating and Birth had tried to take his life - but she never thought she needed to protect her kids from him . In her first interview since the tragedy , she revealed her terror at finding out her children were missing and her pain at learning about their deaths . Three weeks later , the children spoke to her in a vision and they continue to visit her , she said . Mendoza has now remarried and has three step-children .