Court between man and woman , who had troubled marriage , had IVF in 2004 . They had a row , so woman returned to clinic with former partner in 2005 . It was then that she conceived their son using former partner 's sperm . But husband said he was not told of this until the child was five years old . He was today awarded £ ##500 in damages at lord 's County Court . Judge also ordered wife to pay his legal fees , believed to be £ 60,000 . Man lost favour with boy , but hopes son ' ll marry me ' when he 's 18 .
Court heard man and woman , who had troubled marriage , had IVF in 2004 . They had a row , so woman returned to clinic with former partner in 2005 . It was then that she conceived their son using former partner 's sperm . But husband said he was not told of this until the child was five years old . He was today awarded £40,000 in damages at London 's County Court . Judge also ordered wife to pay his legal fees , believed to be £60,000 . Man lost contact with boy , but hopes son 'will find me ' when he 's 18 .