A Corporal 's wife who was 'starved of affection ' was spared jail yesterday after having sex with the 14-year-old son of a soldier . Caroline Salisbury , 27 , lured the boy into her bed after meeting him on a school bus . The mother-of-two , who had been 'looking for love ' , pleaded guilty to four charges of sexual activity with a child – after earlier telling a neighbour she had been raped by him . Speaking at a court in Colchester yesterday , Judge Advocate Emma Peters gave her a two-year suspended sentence and warned her to 'stay away from young boys ' . Salisbury , who was 25 at the time , began having sex sessions in her living room with the boy a week after his 14th birthday in 2013 , the Service Civilian Court was told . Spared : Caroline Salisbury ( pictured ) - who lured the boy into her bed after meeting him on a school bus - was given a two year suspended sentence . They met when she became a bus monitor escorting children of soldiers based in a British garrison in Germany to school . Colonel Nigel Jones , prosecuting , told the court : 'She invited him to her house and the relationship developed from just being friends into what became a sexual relationship . ' She would send him Facebook messages when her husband , David , a corporal in the Royal Engineers , was out , so he could visit her married quarters for drink and sex . In one message she told the boy : 'Come at four . He wo n't be in . I can not wait for you to f*** me again . ' Col Jones said : 'She had two accounts on Facebook to communicate with him . It was not just about meeting up . Declarations of love were made on both sides . ' He added : 'Because he was spending so much time with her his mother became suspicious . A friend of his mother visited her and showed her messages from Salisbury which suggested a sexual relationship between her and the boy . ' His parents alerted the Royal Military Police and when they knocked on her door , the boy fled over the garden fence . Despite twice being warned by the police not to meet him , Salisbury continued the affair . Then , when his parents were having a barbecue , the boy did not attend and was not answering his mobile phone . His brothers went to Salisbury 's home and began banging on the door because they knew he was inside . Neighbours called the police and the boy fled once more . Col Jones said : 'The boy later confessed to his father he had been in a sexual relationship with her and she was arrested . ' Sneaky : Salisbury would send the boy Facebook messages when her husband , David , a corporal in the Royal Engineers , was out ( file photo of British soldiers abroad ) Salisbury told a neighbour she had been raped by him . But in an interview with the Military Police she admitted twice having sex with him saying he had forced himself on her , but did not say rape . Col Jones added : 'He was very upset at the end of it . He was totally besotted with her . ' Defence barrister Peter Glenser told the court that Salisbury was 'starved of affection ' by her husband who has since left the Army and is working in Saudi Arabia . 'It was for this reason she sought the company of people younger than herself , ' he said . 'In the last week he has indicated that he is sorry for the way he has treated her and that he should have been more supportive of her . ' Mrs Salisbury , from Suffolk , wiped tears away as Mr Glenser told the court : 'This is a shaming occasion for her . She desperately regrets what has happened . ' Judge Peters told his wife : 'This was a boy who was a child of just 14 and to suggest he pressed himself upon you is revolting . 'That is utterly criminal . The police warned you off and you carried on . Young boys have to be kept safe and not be groomed and taken back to your house when your husband was away . 'You were looking for love . You are a damaged woman . I am going to take an exceptional course – you have come within a hair 's breadth of going to prison for a long time . ' I pass this suspended sentence with a heavy heart . You need to stay away from young boys . ' Salisbury was placed on the sex offenders ' register for ten years and banned from having any boy aged under 16 in her home without parental consent .
27-year-old Caroline Salisbury was given a their quarters suspended sentence . She began having 'sex sessions ' with the boy , Service Cilvilian Court heard . Would invite him over when her husband David was not in two year . Ignored two separate warnings to stop meeting the boy after being caught . An earlier version of this article wrongly stated that Mr Salisbury was present in court . We are happy to clarify he was not .