`` But when you go knocking on that door , what you hear are things like , ' I 'm incredibly saddened by this . `` XL Love '' book outlines how obesity is changing the love lives of Americans . Author Sarah Varney does n't see it as a fat-shaming or fat-advocacy book . She sees it as an exploration into what makes us feel good about ourselves and our bodies, and why we do things that make us happy in spite of them being unhealthy for us. End of story ''
`` XL Love '' book outlines how obesity is changing the love lives of Americans . Author Sarah Varney does n't see it as a fat-shaming or fat-advocacy book . She sees it as an exploration into what makes us feel good about ourselves and our bodies, and why we do things that make us happy in spite of them being unhealthy for us. End of story ''