It 's not enough to eat good food , sit by the beach and sleep in for a week . Sometimes you need to make the most of downtime by stripping away anything that could potentially cause stress , including children . Whether you need a recovery trip on the heels of spring break or a haven from other people 's cranky toddlers , some hotels and resorts remove that unpredictable variable of youth and allow for a special kind of exclusivity : adults-only properties . The model is most widely available at beach destinations , where hoteliers are focused on traveling couples intent on a more romantic atmosphere . An adults-only situation allows the resort to tailor its amenities to fit the needs of guests of a certain age , which could mean massages for two on the beach instead of chicken nuggets on the menu . But it 's not just tucked-away resorts that are adopting this grown-up business model . The Out NYC , billed as New York 's first `` gay urban resort , '' is eschewing anyone under 21 from booking a stay . `` I created the Out NYC to be a sanctuary steps from Times Square , '' says Ian Reisner , the hotel 's founder . `` Creating an adult-only resort in the city offers a welcoming environment for like-minded travelers away from the frenetic pace of the city . '' No matter the location , adults-only accommodations come with the guarantee that you wo n't be interrupted by crying babies or rambunctious children . But be warned , this type of added luxury does n't come cheap . `` When you 're choosing your vacation destination , you 're paying for the experience , and adults-only resorts can have a higher price point because they offer the ultimate experience , '' says travel agent Jason Hedrick . Check out these retreats if you 're in need of a little family-free R & R : . Glenmere Mansion , New York 's Hudson Valley . This country retreat 50 miles from New York City is strictly for the over 18 crowd , including both of its fine dining restaurants , which are open to nonhotel guests . Originally built in 1911 , the Italianate mansion houses 18 guestrooms , which range from standard to sprawling suites , all individually designed and overlooking either the estate 's gardens or Glenmere Lake . Rub elbows with the other guests in the elegant public spaces , from the fireplaced library to the outdoor heated pool or the championship croquet court . Twin Farms , Barnard , Vermont . This luxury Relais & Chateaux hideaway set on 300 acres in Vermont affords guests one-of-a-kind privacy . Most of the 20 guestrooms ( you can choose from suites or cottages ) are spread out , so it 's entirely possible to avoid other guests altogether . Instead you can hobnob with boldface names from the art world ; expect to see works by modern masters such as Roy Lichtenstein and Jasper Johns hanging on walls . Come winter , ski enthusiasts will also appreciate Twin Farms ' six private skiing trails . It 's almost like having an entire mountain to yourself . Be warned , however , that the property does open itself up to families with children a few times a year -- allowing even the youngest travelers to revel in its splendor . El Dorado Casitas Royale , Riviera Maya , Mexico . Adjacent to Karisma Hotels ' El Dorado Royale -- an adults-only beachside complex -- is an uber-luxury sister resort called El Dorado Casitas Royale , where private casitas sit right on the beach . Guests who opt to book one of these exclusive retreats for two have their own Jacuzzis , private beach beds , butler service and pools and restaurants to choose from , plus access to the amenities next door . The Out NYC , New York . The year-old Out NYC is a rare urban refuge : While the rest of this list features properties in the countryside or by water , the Out NYC is one of the few city hotels that target a specific age bracket . The `` straight friendly '' resort does n't accept reservations from anyone under 21 . So those looking to check out its 104 rooms , the 5,000-square-foot wellness facilities , the popular Mediterranean-inspired KTCHN Restaurant and the XL Nightclub , Cabaret & Lounge -- the first nightly gay party venue to open in the city in 15 years -- have to prove they are old enough to drink alcohol in the United States . Ponta dos Ganchos , Santa Catarina , Brazil . This exclusive resort in southern Brazil is so out of the way , it 's not uncommon for guests ( ages 18 and up ) to arrive via private helicopters , landing on the on-site helipad . Situated on a peninsula , Ponta dos Ganchos has 25 villas , which feature private verandas and comfortable hammocks for enjoying panoramic water views . The pricier units really up the luxury quotient with plunge pools , saunas and Jacuzzis . Yellow Lagos Meia Praia Hotel , Lagos , Portugal . Lagos is one of Portugal 's most beautiful coastal destinations known for idyllic spots for swim and surf . A reputation like this does n't go unnoticed by sun-hungry Europeans of all ages . Find refuge at Yellow , where unobstructed views of Meia Praia beach are reserved for the over 17 crowd . If a break from the water is what you 're after , the hotel is near a golf course and within walking distance of Lagos ' historic city center , where you can settle in on one of its many restaurant patios for fresh fish .
Some resorts cater to a mostly 18-plus crowd with deluxe amenities . Ponta dos Ganchos in Brazil is tucked away on a private peninsula . The resort has been open for only two years but already it has attracted more than 1 million visitors and its popularity is growing.