Judge Robbins : Everyone should watch the video of Jerry Rice with his then - fiance . Seeing it , you should n't say , as some have ( including the judge ) that she was culpable . She says domestic violence happens behind closed doors ; there Rice was terrible . Robbins : NFL dumped Rice . Victim abuse has to stop . Janay , you were the victim here .
Mel Robbins : Everyone should watch the video of Ray Rice punching his then-fiance . Seeing it , you ca n't say , as some have ( including the Ravens ) that she was culpable . She says domestic violence happens behind closed doors ; there Rice abuse terrible . Robbins : NFL dumped Rice . Victim blaming has to stop . Janay , you were the victim here .