Mark Bauerlein : In the old days , love was n't social , it was private between people . Bauerlein : Now , social media services require all human experiences to be social . If she posts your letter on Facebook , you think the same thing . Psychologists have found that social media does n't actually cause loneliness . He argues that genuine loneliness is anti - social .
Mark Bauerlein : In the old days , love was n't social , it was private between people . Bauerlein : Now , social media services require all human experiences to be social . Psychologists have found that social media does n't actually cause loneliness . He argues that genuine loneliness is anti - social .