Los Angeles , California ( CNN ) -- Former porn star Jenna Jameson said she wants to get back with Tito Ortiz four days after things got `` tragically out of hand '' and he was arrested on a domestic violence charge . But the couple 's reconciliation `` is irrelevant '' to the prosecution of Ortiz since it is the state of California , not Jameson , who filed the charge against the mixed martial artist , a police spokesman said . A restraining order prevents Ortiz and Jameson from reuniting immediately . Ortiz , 35 , was arrested at his Huntington Beach , California , home Monday morning when Jameson 's father called police as the couple argued . `` By calling the police , my father was trying to defuse a private issue between two people , '' Jameson said in a written statement Friday . Ortiz and his lawyer told reporters later Monday that he was upset because he thought Jameson had relapsed in her rehabilitation from a prescription drug addiction . Jameson , 36 , was captured by cameras alternately saying Ortiz was `` the sweetest , most amazing man '' and later saying that he had beaten her . `` Unfortunately , what actually happened has now been dramatically distorted and misinterpreted and remarks that both Tito and I made after the police arrived reflect the state of shock that we were both in , '' Jameson said Friday . Now , she says she wants him back in her life . `` He 's a fantastic father and I 'm confident we can work through this challenge , '' she said . While Ortiz and his lawyer did not immediately respond to calls for comment , the former Ultimate Fighting champ made it clear Monday night that he wanted her back . Tears rolled down his cheeks as Ortiz listened to his lawyer talk to reporters . `` They have two children together , '' attorney Chip Matthews said . `` They have planned on spending their lives together and they want nothing more than to work together . ''
She says things were ` ` tragically out of hand '' before Ortiz was charged with domestic violence . An order prevents Ortiz and Jameson from marrying immediately . Ortiz says problems arose because he thought Jameson had relapsed with drugs .