Pre - wedding is n't about not finding the right one or giving up , says Bonnie Powers . The ceremony is for people to feel the ` ` awesomeness '' inside ourselves . A ring is a tangible reminder of the promise you make to yourself at the altar . The ceremony does n't have to be public , Powers says , but it is .
Self-wedding is n't about not finding the right one or giving up , says Bonnie Powers . The goal is for people to recognize the `` awesomeness '' inside ourselves . A ring is a tangible reminder of the promises you make to yourself at the ceremony . The ceremony does n't have to be public , Powers says , but it helps .