Gay man testifies partnerships , unions only give part of what everyone else gets . Paul Katami : ` Californians `` are entitled to make this critical decision for themselves , '' he said , pointing to voter support of the proposition . ` You want the whole thing . ... All I want is to be married . '' Lawyer for ban : Gay marriage has `` very real social harm ; it 's not just a matter of gay people being able to get married.
Gay man testifies partnerships , unions only give part of what everyone else gets . Paul Katami : ` ` You want the whole thing . ... All I want is to be married . '' Lawyer for ban : Gay marriage has `` very real social harm ; it 's not just a matter of gay people being able to get married.