Mark Bauerlein : In the old days , love was n't social , it was private between people . Bauerlein : Now , social media services require all human experiences to be social . Psychologists have found that social media does n't actually cause loneliness . He argues that genuine loneliness is anti - social .
Mark Bauerlein : In the old days , love was n't social , it was private between couples . Bauerlein : Today , social media services want all human experiences to be social . Psychologists have found that social media does n't actually cure loneliness . He says that genuine love is anti-social .