Bob Greene : Ethan , 4 , died on custody visit to mother and her boyfriend . Judge Smith said that Ethan 's parents had worked out a settlement , including shared custody , and that the finalization of their divorce last month was `` cut and dried . '' Father said Ethan did not want to go ; father did not want to send him , Greene writes . Comment:
Bob Greene : Ethan , 4 , died on custody visit to mother and her boyfriend . Father said Ethan did not want to go ; father did not want to send him , Greene writes . Comment: