( The Frisky ) -- We love men . In fact , we adore them . We like their bodies , their brains , and their strange way of doing things . So it 's always a tricky tightrope when you 're dealing with a guy to know when to be there for him -- and when to cut and run . Since we 're here to help the ladies , we 've created a handy guide that will help you know when your man is just being a dude -- or if you 've got a dud on your hands who needs to be dumped . The Frisky : 7 chubby celebrity men who slimmed down . 1 . `` I do n't feel like having sex . '' Sure , every man has an off day . But you know what ? Most guys want to have sex all the time . And if you 're not getting it on , on a regular basis , especially because your guy is claiming that he 's just `` not feeling it , '' you can bet that your problems are going to turn out to be bigger than a case of the sex blues . In this particular situation , you may want to get to the root of the problem before this supposed dry spell kills your love , too . The Frisky : 30 things every woman should quit doing by 30 . 2 . `` I ca n't stop crying . '' Sure , sure , the new man is a metrosexual who is really in touch with his inner-self , does yoga , and gets waxed more than you do . But there 's a limit to how much a woman can tolerate seemingly unmanly behaviors . Crying because there was a death in the family ? Feel free . Prone to weeping at romantic comedies ? Not so much . If your man ca n't control his emotions , and you find yourself feeling like you 're the one wearing the pants in the relationship , you should ask yourself if that 's what you want -- a guy who 'll cry over spilt milk . The Frisky : Boys are taking over pageant contests . 3 . `` I 'm thinking about quitting my job . '' There are two ways this one can go . He 's dissatisfied with his current work situation , he wants to try something else , and this statement is a prelude to telling you all about his big plans for his next career move . That 's fine . On the other hand , if you 're living together , and one day he declares he 's going to give two-weeks notice today , and so far as you can tell he does n't have any idea what he 'll be doing after that , or how he 'll be paying for his part of your shared bills , this is n't someone who has a work issue . This is someone who has an I-want-my-mommy-to-take-care-of-me issue . 4 . `` I need to tell you something . '' This one never , ever ends well . If he has to prepare you for what he 's going to say next , you best brace yourself for what 's coming because it is n't going to be anything good . The Frisky : 12 celebs who denied getting breast implants . 5 . `` I think we need to take a break . '' Hey , guess what ? This is n't school , and there will be no recess . Relationships are not like a Lego set : created to be dismantled and put back together again . `` Breaks '' are what guys who are too weak , scared , or lame suggest because they 're too much of a you-know-what to go ahead and break up with you . Make it easy for this guy . Give him a break from the relationship . A permanent one . The Frisky : Facebook 's new function ? Divorce ! 6 . `` My last girlfriend was crazy . '' True , your ex probably said the same thing to his new girlfriend , but you might want to keep an eye on the man whose history includes a long string of relationships with women who are totally temperamental , out of their gourds , or recently released from the state mental hospital . Guys who go out with lunatics think the crazy chick is the issue , but all too frequently he 's the one with the problems . Whether he craves drama , mistakes insanity for passion , or prefers to hook up with ladies who can never truly be intimate , you 're better off letting him move on to the next one -- the next crazy one , that is . TM & © 2010 TMV , Inc. | All Rights Reserved .
There 's a limit to how much a woman can tolerate seemingly unmanly behaviors . `` I need to tell you something , '' never , ever ends well . Relationships are not like a Lego set : created to be dismantled and put back together again .