LZ has found Brown 's ` ` You Are Not Special '' advice to grads uplifting . Granderson : Parents do their kids a favor by sugarcoating their problems . He believes if kids do n't know how to deal with failure , they will not grow and mature . And then we both laughed until we had tears in our eyes . Granderson : Best way to raise a winner is to expose your kid to how things really are .
LZ has found Brown 's ` ` You Are Not Special '' advice to grads uplifting . Granderson : Parents do their kids a favor by sugarcoating their problems . He believes if kids do n't know how to deal with failure , they will not grow and mature . Granderson : Best way to raise a winner is to expose your kid to how things really are .