Self-wedding is n't about not finding the right one or giving up , says Bonnie Powers . Powers : What we created is reflective of what we went through , asking ourselves , `` What are the things that you want to do ? It's more of a way to find someone who will love you for you. A ring is a tangible reminder of the promises you make to yourself at the ceremony . The ceremony does n't have to be public , Powers says , but it helps .
Self-wedding is n't about not finding the right one or giving up , says Bonnie Powers . It's more of a way to find someone who will love you for you. A ring is a tangible reminder of the promises you make to yourself at the ceremony . The ceremony does n't have to be public , Powers says , but it helps .