Family : Father says he found funeral for mom , four children ` ` difficult '' 300 mourners attended service at Redlands Community College . Bodies found January 12 in hospital in El Reno , Oklahoma . Woman 's husband , Joshua James Durcho , admitted choking her , affidavit confirmed .
NEW : Preacher says he found funeral for mom , four kids `` difficult '' 300 mourners attended service at Redlands Community College . Bodies found January 12 in apartment in El Reno , Oklahoma . Woman 's boyfriend , Joshua Steven Durcho , admitted choking her , affidavit says .