Then they rated their perceived genital arousal ( how they felt physically ) , as well as their `` state '' desire ( whether they wanted to have sex ) . Women tend to fantasize about being the object of desire while in bed . Comment: Fantasizing can spur both sexual desire and arousal , research shows . Sharing fantasies with your partner means you feel confident in your relationship .
Women tend to fantasize about being the object of desire while in bed . Comment: Fantasizing can spur both sexual desire and arousal , research shows . Sharing fantasies with your partner means you feel confident in your relationship .