Kayla , talk and tenacity -- tips experts say can keep couples together longer . `` You just do n't realize how much time you give up when you have kids , '' says Kayla DeLano , married two years . Couples can have `` money dates '' to talk about finances before they encounter a crisis . You let go of a lot of things , so you 're very focused on what 's at hand . '' Kayla DeLano helped her husband lose 70 pounds over 24 years .
Kayla , talk and tenacity -- tips experts say can keep couples together longer . `` You just do n't realize how much time you give up when you have kids , '' says Kayla DeLano , married two years . Couples can have `` money dates '' to talk about finances before they encounter a crisis . Kayla DeLano helped her husband lose 70 pounds over 24 years .