Melanie Griffith and Antonio Banderas are divorcing after 18 years of marriage . Pepper Schwartz : Hollywood marriages are tough to maintain , but so are normal marriages . She says Hollywood marriage is turning into a crapshoot , especially for Baby ##face . Schwartz : We have to aim high , have lots of fun , work hard at being loving to our spouse .
Melanie Griffith and Antonio Banderas are divorcing after 18 years of marriage . Pepper Schwartz : Hollywood marriages are tough to maintain , but so are normal ones . She says lifetime marriage is turning into a crapshoot , especially for Baby Boomers . Schwartz : We have to aim high , have lots of fun , work hard at being loving to our spouse .