They spend about $ 500 for dress , travel , food and other expenses , website says . According to etiquette expert , ` ` You should never be forced into debt for a friend 's wedding '' WeddingChannel advice : Do the bridal shower and bachelorette party on the same day .
Bridesmaids spend about $ 1,695 for dress , travel , gifts and other expenses , website says . According to etiquette expert , `` You should never be going into debt for a friend 's wedding '' WeddingChannel advice : Hold the bridal shower and bachelorette party on the same weekend .