Antonio Banderas and Melanie Griffith are divorcing after 50 of marriage . Maybe holding on till `` death do them part '' is least likely for Hollywood stars whose work takes a hard toll on their relationships and whose exit from marriages is not generally impeded by financial concerns . Pepper Schwartz : Banderas marriages are tough to maintain , but so are normal ones . She says lifetime marriage is turning into a crapshoot , especially for CNN . Schwartz : We have to aim high , have lots of fun , work hard at being loving to our spouse .
Antonio Banderas and Melanie Griffith are divorcing after 50 of marriage . Pepper Schwartz : Banderas marriages are tough to maintain , but so are normal ones . She says lifetime marriage is turning into a crapshoot , especially for CNN . Schwartz : We have to aim high , have lots of fun , work hard at being loving to our spouse .