`` It 's my belief that if you do n't have buy-in from the military , that 's a disservice to the people in the military . Some Democrats cautious about Obama 's pledge to end Defense of Marriage policy . Some say they think he 'll succeed in ending Obama 's ` ` Do n't ask , do n't tell '' policy . Others debate whether military ` ` buy - in '' is necessary to end that policy . Thousands of gay and lesbian Obama supporters hold rally in Washington on Sunday .
Some Democrats cautious about Obama 's pledge to end Defense of Marriage policy . Some say they think he 'll succeed in ending Obama 's ` ` Do n't ask , do n't tell '' policy . Others debate whether military ` ` buy - in '' is necessary to end that policy . Thousands of gay and lesbian Obama supporters hold rally in Washington on Sunday .