British relationship author writes about how to be `` The One '' for someone . That 's a bit like asking `` Which muscle in your leg is the most important ? Do n't ask , `` How can I find that special someone ? '' Comment: Author suggests improving your emotional core : self-esteem , happiness , attitude and kindness .
British relationship author writes about how to be `` The One '' for someone . Do n't ask , `` How can I find that special someone ? '' Comment: Author suggests improving your emotional core : self-esteem , happiness , attitude and kindness .