NEW : Judge says babysitting aunt is ` ` a capable caregiver '' NEW : Judge tells Usher 's ex - wife that her caregiving and ` ` are rather high '' Judge : ` ` That 's chaos , that is chaos , that 's chaos , '' ex - wife sobs about near drowning . NEW : ` ` I know how to take care of myself , '' Judge 's wife tells her .
NEW : Judge says babysitting aunt is `` a capable caregiver '' NEW : Judge tells Usher 's ex-wife that her caregiving standards `` are rather high '' NEW : `` That 's chaos , that is chaos , that 's chaos , '' ex-wife sobs about near drowning . NEW : `` I know how to take care of children , '' Usher 's aunt tells court .