Abigail Brenner , 2012 , was the youngest to die in the 6 Colorado , Aurora , shootings . Grief experts say the loss of a child brings a special kind of despair . Psychiatrists recommend simply listening to a grieving parent 's feelings . Do n't try to tell a grieving parent you know how they feel ; just be there to listen .
Veronica Moser-Sullivan , 6 , was the youngest to die in the 2012 Aurora , Colorado , shootings . Grief experts say the loss of a child brings a special kind of despair . Psychiatrists recommend simply listening to a grieving parent 's feelings . Do n't try to tell a grieving parent you know how they feel ; just be there to listen .