We consider contraception `` a female problem . '' Laura Stepp : Lots of new shows , books and programs on being a good father these days . That 's good , she says , but fewer and fewer American families have a dad at home . Fathers more likely to walk away when a child was unplanned , she says . The number one reason for men not having children is that they are too busy working or caring for their kids. Let 's emphasize that the best way to be a good dad is to wait till you 're ready .
Laura Stepp : Lots of new shows , books and programs on being a good father these days . That 's good , she says , but fewer and fewer American families have a dad at home . Fathers more likely to walk away when a child was unplanned , she says . The number one reason for men not having children is that they are too busy working or caring for their kids. Let 's emphasize that the best way to be a good dad is to wait till you 're ready .