Ibrahim Abdul-Matin looked for advice when he was becoming a dad ; now he offers his own . But like countless others , we had to make a difficult call that day . The father of three is an engineer who has worked in the oil industry since he left school at 16. He lays out five principles for raising his son , including building faith , setting example . Writer : A father must work , must teach respect for women and teach that all are equal .
Ibrahim Abdul-Matin looked for advice when he was becoming a dad ; now he offers his own . The father of three is an engineer who has worked in the oil industry since he left school at 16. He lays out five principles for raising his son , including building faith , setting example . Writer : A father must work , must teach respect for women and teach that all are equal .