Rep. Chaffetz 's wife , Julie , is raising three children ; writes `` perspective is everything '' `` Planning is crucial . '' Julie used to go with the flow , but `` now , time is precious '' ` and she has a lot of things on her mind that are not always in sync with what I'm doing or thinking about. Says being flexible important as plans change or the need to travel comes up .
Rep. Chaffetz 's wife , Julie , is raising three children ; writes `` perspective is everything '' `` Planning is crucial . '' Julie used to go with the flow , but `` now , time is precious '' Julie Chaffetz says support from family and close friends keeps her going . Says being flexible important as plans change or the need to travel comes up .