British female author writes about how to be ` ` The One '' for someone . Do n't ask , ` ` How can I find that special someone ? '' but ` ` How can I be that special someone ? '' Of the four emotional core pillars , which is most important and why ? She suggests finding your emotional core : self - esteem , confidence , attitude and kindness .
British female author writes about how to be ` ` The One '' for someone . Do n't ask , ` ` How can I find that special someone ? '' but ` ` How can I be that special someone ? '' She suggests finding your emotional core : self - esteem , confidence , attitude and kindness .