NEW : `` There is always an answer , even if it 's ... you ca n't change anybody but yourself , '' she said . Abigail Van Buren was author of the Dear Pauline Phillips column for 2002 . Talk less ; say more . She used the pen name Pauline Phillips . In decades , she was diagnosed with Alzheimer 's Disease .
NEW : `` There is always an answer , even if it 's ... you ca n't change anybody but yourself , '' she said . Abigail Van Buren was author of the Dear Pauline Phillips column for 2002 . She used the pen name Pauline Phillips . In decades , she was diagnosed with Alzheimer 's Disease .