Elaine May : Obama ` ` ' '' with Denmark , at Mandela memorial service inappropriate . But photog said it was during celebratory part of service ; first lady had been smiling , too . She thinks selfie appropriate for Obama , given circumstances , but not usually OK at all . ( It did n't help that the expression on Michelle Obama 's face appeared to be disapproving . ) May : In church , synagogue , at services , selfies not OK etiquette . Wait until afterward .
Elaine May : Obama ` ` ' '' with Denmark , at Mandela memorial service inappropriate . But photog said it was during celebratory part of service ; first lady had been smiling , too . She thinks selfie appropriate for Obama , given circumstances , but not usually OK at all . May : In church , synagogue , at services , selfies not OK etiquette . Wait until afterward .