LZ Granderson : Is grocery shopping , getting my son off to school the ` ` gay lifestyle '' ? But more important , I 'm just a father trying to keep my son away from drugs , get him into college and have a little money left over for retirement . Smith : Nonexistent gay lifestyle puts up an ` ` us against them '' ' . Gay rights activists drum up the fear of a link between gay ##s and violence , he says . He writes : Being judged by the strength of one 's character is a constitutional right .
LZ Granderson : Is grocery shopping , getting my son off to school the ` ` gay lifestyle '' ? Smith : Nonexistent gay lifestyle puts up an ` ` us against them '' ' . Gay rights activists drum up the fear of a link between gay ##s and violence , he says . He writes : Being judged by the strength of one 's character is a constitutional right .