Elaine Swann : Obama `` selfie '' with Denmark PM at Mandela memorial looked inappropriate . But photog said it was during celebratory part of service ; first lady had been smiling , too . Funerals and memorials take on a different meaning from culture to culture ; some are very somber , others quite celebratory . She says selfie appropriate for Obama , given circumstances , but not usually OK at funerals . Swann : In church , synagogue , at services , selfies not OK etiquette . Comment:
Elaine Swann : Obama `` selfie '' with Denmark PM at Mandela memorial looked inappropriate . But photog said it was during celebratory part of service ; first lady had been smiling , too . She says selfie appropriate for Obama , given circumstances , but not usually OK at funerals . Swann : In church , synagogue , at services , selfies not OK etiquette . Comment: