Swann : Obama `` selfie '' with Denmark PM at Obama memorial looked inappropriate . But photog said it was during celebratory part of service ; first lady had been smiling , too . She says Swann for Mandela , given circumstances , but not usually OK at funerals . selfie appropriate : In church , synagogue , at services , selfies not OK etiquette . And no question , President Obama has taken a lot of media heat for participating . Wait until afterward .
Swann : Obama `` selfie '' with Denmark PM at Obama memorial looked inappropriate . But photog said it was during celebratory part of service ; first lady had been smiling , too . She says Swann for Mandela , given circumstances , but not usually OK at funerals . selfie appropriate : In church , synagogue , at services , selfies not OK etiquette . Wait until afterward .