`` The Normal Bar '' aims to get couples talking about their sex lives . Survey shows 86 % of all men and women are intrigued by having kinky sex . For instance , `` The Normal Bar '' authors found that 48 % of men want their female partners to be more romantic -- and that the No . 1 thing they want more of is communication , not sex . Comment: It 's hard not to wonder how we match up to other couples in bed .
`` The Normal Bar '' aims to get couples talking about their sex lives . Survey shows 86 % of all men and women are intrigued by having kinky sex . Comment: It 's hard not to wonder how we match up to other couples in bed .