Testing in 2005 revealed the assailant was a woman . NEW : ` ` I just ca n't bear thinking about these moments , '' the victim 's husband tells the court . Former detective Stephanie Ilene Lazarus , 52 , could be eligible for parole in 22 years . She was convicted of killing her husband, who had been having an affair with another woman and then dumping his body on a rural road near their home in New York state. Rasmussen was the new wife of Lazarus ' ex-boyfriend .
NEW : ` ` I just ca n't bear thinking about these moments , '' the victim 's husband tells the court . Former detective Stephanie Ilene Lazarus , 52 , could be eligible for parole in 22 years . She was convicted of killing her husband, who had been having an affair with another woman and then dumping his body on a rural road near their home in New York state. Rasmussen was the new wife of Lazarus ' ex-boyfriend .