Nicholas Dematteis , 39 , flew into a rage while at restaurant Bocca East during brunch on more than an hour . He demanded free meal around 4pm because of slow service , police said . Witnesses said he spewed homophobic slur at a manager before grabbing him by the neck and slamming him into bar and hurling him into woman . He has been arrested and charged with assault following the incident .
Nicholas Dematteis , 39 , flew into a rage while at restaurant Bocca East during brunch on Saturday afternoon . He demanded free meal around 4pm because of slow service , police said . Witnesses said he spewed homophobic slur at a manager before grabbing him by the neck and slamming him into bar and hurling him into woman . He has been arrested and charged with assault following the incident .